The One About The One That Got Away

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Speaker 1: Hello, gorgeous. It is yours truly, La La ken To welcome back to the Give Them La La Podcast. I have my left and right hand with me easton Birmingham.

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Speaker 2: Good afternoon or whenever you're listening to this.

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Speaker 3: And Jessica Walter Hello.

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Speaker 1: Oh my gosh. I feel like it's so strange when we have a guest, because I feel like it is all about the guest, and I love that part. But then I feel like my podcast notes that I make in our little shared note file they all go like unattended. And then I feel like we haven't done the podcast in so long because I'm used to just bumping gums with you guys. Yeah right, because we had Brinn, then we had a regular episode, and then we had Tyler Cameron. Yeah.

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Speaker 4: I don't mean to start this podcast off too strong, but I'm seeing a lot of comments about you and Tyler Cameron and like the chemist he is there, La La, What do you think about that?

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Speaker 1: Really? Yeah?

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Speaker 2: Do we have a date coming?

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Speaker 1: Oh? No, we don't have a date coming. I don't live in Jupiter.

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Speaker 5: Can you tell us what you thought about him?

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Speaker 2: Though?

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Speaker 4: Like you saw him, you didn't know a lot about him, right, Like I knew nothing about him, and then you saw him. I've just seen so many podcasters.

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Speaker 1: You guys just freaking kill it with episodes like Bethany Frankel and our friend Howie Mandel, and they kill it knowing nothing about the guests. So that's what I do now. I'm just like, there's a guest. I'm going to make this so epic by knowing nothing about them.

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Speaker 5: So what were your first what were your impressions?

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Speaker 1: Well, first of all, I couldn't believe that he was thirty.

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Speaker 5: I know he's so much.

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Speaker 2: That's well, if anyone, yeah, I'm older than him.

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Speaker 1: Are you thirty?

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Speaker 2: Yeah, I take thirty one. I turned thirty one in February on Valentine.

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Speaker 1: Yeah, but it's so crazy because I couldn't believe that he was the same age as my brother.

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Speaker 2: No. It took a hit on me too. I was like, oh boy, what was it up? Well, I don't know he was a man and I look up and then look at me. You know, I was like, fuck, I thought he was like forty.

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Speaker 5: Welcome to my life, thirty.

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Speaker 2: Years and got a shit together and I'm over here, yes, no, welcome.

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Speaker 5: I'm walking next to Lala and people like people are child, child, don't find your mom.

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Speaker 2: Lala's like she's the child.

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Speaker 1: No, I'm definitely a child. The driver did say, is that your mom?

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Speaker 2: Yeah?

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Speaker 1: No, he was confused because he didn't say, is that your mom? I said bye mom, thank you, and he goes, that's your mom, like he didn't know. I was joking.

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Speaker 4: Oh, I didn't post that for the anyone wondering. Lala's driver came and picked her up and I said, you have precious cargo, take good care of her, and then Lala said bye mom. And then he was like all I heard was is that your mom? And I was like, damn.

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Speaker 1: So we did the gallery shoot for vander Pump and gallery is basically like the photos that they'll show whenever we do watch What Happens Live any sort of promo. They ensured me that the editing would be different this year than no one was going to lose an eyebrow. I was like, thank god, please just like clean my skin up a bit up last year. Actually I felt okay about mine. I definitely looked old, but I do I look old when you cake makeup on me, and then if you like over edit, then I can look real old It's weird because there's no one between I don't wear makeup and people think I'm a teen mom, or you put makeup on me and people think I'm forty five, you know, but I've been injected. It's kind of like Kylie Jenner. Kylie Jenner looks like she's fifty seven.

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Speaker 2: A really hot fifty shit, no.

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Speaker 1: Hot, take by the way, stunning as it gets, like, she's gorgeous, but she does not look twenty five. Right, She's grown, but she's gonna be one of those people. It's kind of like our dad. My dad always looked like very old, but then he just never but then he was old and like looked.

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Speaker 2: The same, Yeah, forty looking sixty, and then he was just or forty look at fifty and then fifty to sixty.

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Speaker 1: He was just he's just like never, like that will be Kylie Jenner. That was not a slam on Kylie Jenner. Oh my god, but I'm just saying, like, when you've been injected, sometimes when you overdo the makeup, you can look very old. So they ensured me that that would not happen this year. What was the point of this? Oh? The driver, the driver we call him and Jessica hangs up and she's like, your driver sounds hot. I was like, he sounds so freaking hot, and if he's not, I'm gonna be so upset about this. We walk out. He gets out of the car the moment Jessica shuts the door and sends me on my way, I go, so, you got a girlfriend?

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Speaker 5: No, you did it.

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Speaker 1: You didn't tell me the first question right off the bat, you got a girlfriend? What did he say? He said no, And then I was praying, of course, the first thing that I say. When I arrive at the space, I'm like, y'all.

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Speaker 2: My driver frighten.

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Speaker 1: And then Katie got him on the way. She goes, hey, I have your driver. What do you want me to do? I was like, give you by dubble. So she does gets his. He sends me a message and I have yet to respond. In fact, I need to write myself a note respond to driver.

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Speaker 5: Hot driver, tell me anything?

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Speaker 2: A hot driver name or is it just hot?

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Speaker 1: Don't tell y'all his name, not even a first Andrew Yeah, and.

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Speaker 2: Maybe he plays with toys in his room.

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Speaker 4: Was like, what do you mean he's fucking weird speaking of hot men. So all in all, what do you think about Tyler? Would you ever date him? Tyler was so hot okay?

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Speaker 1: And I kind of am like Brit, I like flirt with dudes who I see nothing happening with, and then dudes that I kind of like, I retreat and I'm like you were feeling with Tyler. I felt like I was kind of flirting with Tyler. I was talking about having his babies. Oh no, you guys were Jupiter.

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Speaker 5: Was chemistry was there? Yeah?

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Speaker 1: I did not get that.

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Speaker 4: I think you and Tyler, and I think Brennan Tyler. I would route for either of you guys.

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Speaker 1: I'm shipping Brennan Tyler over Lala and Tyler.

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Speaker 4: Do you know who I'm shipping because it's twenty twenty three? Bryn, Laala and Tyler?

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Speaker 1: Fuck you?

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Speaker 2: Yeah? Right?

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Speaker 1: Could you imagine Tyler couldn't handle that? Tyler could have a whole lot of woman with me and Brinn. So a lot has gone down since last week, things that we haven't been able to talk about because we had our guest. I took Ocean to the Rise Festival so.

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Speaker 2: Great And how was it I get to go? Well, I could have gone, I didn't.

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Speaker 1: Go right exactly. Your ticket went unused. I chose not to go. You chose not to go. You're always most welcome. But it was absolutely incredible. If you have not been to the Rise Festival, I don't know where exactly they do them, or if it's just in Vegas. I'm pretty sure they have them other places in the United States. Basically, what it is is you go to kind of the middle of nowhere and it's just dirt. You feel like you're walking on the moon, and you take a lantern, you write on it whatever you want it to say, and then there's these like tiki torches that you and your group get together and there's very spiritual music playing. You get the thing lit, and then when they say ready go you everyone lets them go at the same time. It is absolutely incredible. It was my first time, so my first land and almost took someone out and lit their head on fire. I was chasing after it. It's actually a technique. You have to really be careful.

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Speaker 2: So how do you do it?

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Speaker 1: Light it? Brock showed me. You light the underneath right and then you hold it so when they say three minutes, that's when you should really start lighting it because you have to get it super super hot in order.

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Speaker 2: To fire, because it's like a hot air bloe, right.

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Speaker 1: Hot air balloon exactly so, And people are gonna judge me for this. By the way, if you're listening to this, just remember that on Fridays, the video of the podcast drops on YouTube, So make sure you go and subscribe and follow and watch it. That drops at nine am Pacific time. So and I know y'all are gonna judge me, but you better not.

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Speaker 2: It's so great.

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Speaker 1: When Ocean started talking, I knew that I had to be extremely careful with cussing. Okay. I am very aware of where my child is in the room when I'm getting heated. Okay. It doesn't matter though, because even if she is upstairs playing with her toys, if she is on the couch watching The Grinch and you see her laser focused, she's still listening to what you're saying.

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Speaker 2: Okay. And here's how I know multitasker.

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Speaker 1: So my mom writes beautiful things on her lantern. She writes easan's name, my dad's name, sweet, quotes things that she wants in her life in the world for her family, and she sends it up. And I have Ocean on my head and I see my mom getting emotional, so I walk over and she starts sobbing. My mom, she's so upset, not upset, she thought it was beautiful, this whole experience. And she's telling me that, and my daughter says to her.

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Speaker 3: Shut the fuck up, not once, but five times, repeatedly, shut the fuck up.

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Speaker 1: I was laughing, mortified, a little ashamed.

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Speaker 5: With Lisa laughing.

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Speaker 1: Oh, Lisa was dying. And I don't want to correct it, because obviously with children, if you make a big deal about it, they like that, they want to say it even more. So I just pretended that we did not hear her, and I just looked at my mom and we.

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Speaker 2: She just keeps repeating it, and we.

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Speaker 1: Just ignored her. We just ignored her. She has not said it since it's been about a week and a half.

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Speaker 5: That's the funniest shit I've ever heard in my life.

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Speaker 1: I mean, yes, it's funny, but like.

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Speaker 4: Shut the fuck ups, getting all emotional, Like what a beautiful.

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Speaker 2: Moment, in the most precious the reason why you go to the festival, in that moment, and your grandchild says, shut the fuck up.

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Speaker 1: You're two and a half. Droll.

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Speaker 5: That's the best that is the best. It was.

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Speaker 1: It was really amazing. It was great that happened. She had the best time with Summer Moon. I definitely will go back next year. I want it to be and I would like you to go east, and I'd like you a pile to go as well.

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Speaker 5: I would love to.

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Speaker 4: It looked stunning. I didn't realize how beautiful it was. I didn't realize what it was. It was like from tang Yes, we're entangled, you know. Yeah, it was pretty Yeah.

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Speaker 1: People keep saying it's like Entangled, and I'm like, yes, exactly what's entangled?

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Speaker 5: Have you guys ever seen Tangled?

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Speaker 1: Not Entangled like an entanglement will Smith Anda, not like that Tangled Tangled the Disney movie. Okay, don't even get me started on that before we jump into that. By the way, I feel like.

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Speaker 2: The movie and then kind of came out at the same time, right fell apart. They came out Tangled, Entangled.

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Speaker 5: Men look at that Entanglements to talk about that.

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Speaker 1: So we do this new thing, you guys, We do game Night, but instead of like the regular Rommy Cube or Monopoly, we've started we're addicted to the switch, right, and Lisa addicted to the switch. Now, Lisa is horrible. It sucks, all right.

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Speaker 2: We gave her a handicap and Lauren will never again.

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Speaker 1: Let's talk about it because I'm pissed. Okay, I'm freaking pissed. We play Mario Party, the new one, all right. We've played every board with Lisa. Now she's the worst player, the worst. She's horrific, okay, And the whole point of the game is to get stars. Sure, Easton's fantastic, but I'm always a close second, right.

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Speaker 2: And I know I will say usually I'm you always get first. I'm gifted.

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Speaker 1: Start, Okay, let's talk about it. I always get first right in the game. Cut to You're at the end of the game, all right, and we decide to give out bonus stars to the point that I come in last every single time, and I am livid. No, we played and when I tell you, I could have cried. I was so freaking over it. This is the sixth time, the sixth time that I have come in last when I'm in when I'm in first place. What you said it was the fourth time. No, I'm saying, I come in fourth, Okay, when I win the game because of these fucking bonus stars.

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Speaker 4: I told them no more. Can you give us a quick background? What is a bonus star? I've never heard the.

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Speaker 1: One who tried the harness, the one who really stuck in there.

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Speaker 5: It's a participation trophy.

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Speaker 2: It's a participation and Lisa usually gets them all. So Lisa goes from fourth to first. Did you win two of them?

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Speaker 1: She won two of them?

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Speaker 2: And which is she's never played again?

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Speaker 1: She sucks and can I tell you? She rubs it in and she'll be like, well, you lost, so just get over it. And I'm like, but I didn't. That's like watching a football game and the team wins, but then they're like, but hold on because there's bonus points. And then they're like, so the tim that lost actually wins. No, So I took it off. I took it off. I said, we're done. We're done.

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Speaker 2: We haven't played I haven't played yet with oh, but we played without bonus stars. But we gave Lisa handicap.

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Speaker 5: Is Lisa okay?

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Speaker 1: And I still came and fourth because you you guys, decided to give her a star from the beginning, so then she still beat me again.

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Speaker 4: Lisa sounds kind of good at this game.

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Speaker 1: I don't understand this bullshit.

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Speaker 2: It kind of knows who's the player helped him out, you know, it kind of understands.

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Speaker 4: Good for her for winning as someone who's probably bad at that game as well. I'm down with the bonus stars, but obviously Jessica participation trophy.

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Speaker 5: Shut the where's.

00:14:37
Speaker 2: I know where she got it from?

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Speaker 5: Shut the fuck up?

00:14:40
Speaker 1: Yeah? All right, so let's move on.

00:14:42
Speaker 2: Let's move on from the switch playing tonight.

00:14:48
Speaker 1: We could play tonight, you guys. Tonight is the last show.

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Speaker 4: Tonight's the last live show, the last live show, and it went amazing.

00:14:57
Speaker 1: We'll see, we'll see how so we have. We had Stassy last night when this airs, Stossy was our guest, and I'm not going to tell anyone who the guests are for tonight because it's tonight and you guys are gonna be hearing this this morning. Let's move on to Will Smith and Jada Pinkett Smith. Can we wrap our minds around this? Up? Someone? Please? I mean, this guy literally bitch slapped someone, and y'all have actually really been not together since twenty sixteen? Was that during the what's his name? August Alcina?

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Speaker 2: When did that happen?

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Speaker 1: The entanglement.

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Speaker 2: I'm probably like twenty sixteen.

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Speaker 4: I have no idea, we can google that, but it's this is classic case.

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Speaker 5: To me, this is classic case.

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Speaker 4: Wait why because it's the man? What I think it's they haven't been together. I don't know if Will's been trying to prove himself or not necessarily in her back. I don't know what, but like, I think Will seems like the type of man who's like, no matter what, no matter if we're not together, I got you, like you're my whatever, soulmate, you're my girl, doesn't matter if he is their girlfriend's like, you're it, Jada, And I think this is the classic, like, look, we're not even together and I'm still stomping up and smacking someone for you.

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Speaker 5: I think it's classic. I've seen it.

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Speaker 2: Twenty fifteen for August Elsina.

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Speaker 1: Okay, so probably this could have.

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Speaker 2: Triggered You're the sixteenth, but I think that, uh, she just is still in love with Tupac.

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Speaker 1: Oh, that would make sense.

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Speaker 2: I just yeah, I feel like she never got over Tupac in my opinion, and like Will Smith is trying to like be that, be that for her, but like I think she in Tupac but that is devastating because I'm pretty sure they were dating at the time.

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Speaker 1: Oh they were.

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Speaker 2: I could be very wrong, but I'm pretty sure exactly.

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Speaker 5: At the time he passed.

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Speaker 1: By the way, Jada's catching a lot of freaking heat right now. She's on the cover of People. She put this in her book, which obviously like I'm not mad about it, because you gotta sell copies and this is one way to sell copies. She said that Chris Rock asked her out and that triggered Will to kind of like lose his mind. But a lot of people are like, girls, shut up, make this woman go away.

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Speaker 2: I don't when they were talking, Jada and Tupac.

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Speaker 1: Okay, well I think he died in the nineties. I think I was like two or three when he passed away, right, yeah, okay, well that could be still talking.

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Speaker 2: You know.

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Speaker 1: I totally get that there's always the one love that you feel like. That's why I asked Tyler about it. I'm like, do you cause I right off the bat, if you asked me, like, do you think of one person where it's like the one that got away? Like if timing could have been different and I could think of mine just like that where like I would drop the world in two seconds to like make that happen again. Really, I'm not going to tell you who.

00:18:04
Speaker 2: But do I know who?

00:18:06
Speaker 1: Probably?

00:18:07
Speaker 2: I know there's two that I would be thinking of.

00:18:10
Speaker 1: Do you have someone like that?

00:18:12
Speaker 5: Yeah you do? I don't.

00:18:15
Speaker 1: Well he's with them still, Like you got lucky.

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Speaker 4: You got lucky, okay, even like my first book, like I have so much respect for my first real boyfriend, but like.

00:18:24
Speaker 5: Oh god, oh that was mean.

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Speaker 1: He's great, but oh you found yours and the timing was perfect and everything was great. You know, you got really lucky.

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Speaker 4: Do you either of you think because you say, well you found yours, that one day you would find yours and then the feeling you have for these people would go away and you'd be like, oh, that actually wasn't You're just feeling that way towards these people now because maybe they're the best relationship you've ever had.

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Speaker 1: But it wasn't great. The relationship wasn't great.

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Speaker 4: It was just the it's the person, Yeah, it was just the person, okay.

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Speaker 1: And it was like timing, like I knew you weren't like a bad dude, was like the timing was so off. So maybe Jada did feel that way. Maybe it was like the she has like the one that got away, and she tried to have someone fill that void in her life and she ended up having beautiful kids with him, but she is catching mad heat.

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Speaker 5: Yeah, it's interesting.

00:19:18
Speaker 1: I seems like clickbait is what people are saying.

00:19:21
Speaker 5: Oh yeah, see.

00:19:23
Speaker 1: And I don't want to comment on it because I don't know, because I know how I was looked at, you know, and I'm like, these people know nothing, they know nothing here I am being vulnerable and sharing my story and y'all want to say that like it's clickbait. So I don't know enough about it to like really give a shit. But I also know that this is kind of old news. How do we feel about Travis and his girlfriend, Travis Kelsey and Taylor Swift, Travisan.

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Speaker 5: Travis and his girlfriend? You mean Taylor and her boyfriend?

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Speaker 1: She's now labeled Wait, huh? Is he from Ohio?

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Speaker 2: That's a good I have no idea.

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Speaker 1: Because I saw that he took over Lebron James's spot of the most googled loved. Where's he from? He's from Ohio? So he has now taken Lebron james spot he was like the most loved athlete came out of Ohio, and since dating Taylor Swift, he's taken that place.

00:20:25
Speaker 2: So what Lebron has done for Akron and Cleveland and Ohio.

00:20:30
Speaker 1: In a hole, by the way, this is just what people post.

00:20:33
Speaker 2: And giving back to a community. And then this motherfucker dates somebody and the suddenly tiptop.

00:20:39
Speaker 1: Now we don't know if he hasn't what he's done for his community. He could do a lot and we don't know about it. But it's just crazy.

00:20:49
Speaker 2: Kelsey jerseys to her fucking concert now, and no, it's a lot.

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Speaker 1: It's a lot. There were seventeen name It's hard, is it? Yeah? But you wouldn't think no by Kelsey, like the first you're gonna google, Like, wouldn't you google it?

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Speaker 2: If you're gonna do it? Like, Hey, I'm gonna put Kelsey on the back, I'm gonna the name wrong, showing that like people have made that, like jerseys and t shirts like eighty seven and spelling the last name wrong.

00:21:18
Speaker 5: Oh, that's just that's just stupid.

00:21:20
Speaker 1: Well, level of the level of fandom that comes with Taylor Swift is crazy.

00:21:27
Speaker 4: I love the relationship. Do you guys think it's Kelsey looking for like a true come up.

00:21:33
Speaker 1: Yes, I know people personally who have like messed around with him and he's just Easton told me that back in the day, years ago, he said his dream girl was Taylor Swift.

00:21:44
Speaker 2: But it's sending a couple of times that's.

00:21:46
Speaker 1: Not his type. But maybe he doesn't have a type.

00:21:50
Speaker 4: He's like, if I'm Taylor Swift, he's hot, he's stylish, he's tall, he's fit, he.

00:21:56
Speaker 1: Plays, he's very hot, he's got mad like it's.

00:21:59
Speaker 5: Like win win for her. I don't know.

00:22:01
Speaker 2: Somebody said it's either going to be a really great love story or a really fucking great album.

00:22:07
Speaker 5: Yeah, yeah, we go, here, we fucking go.

00:22:11
Speaker 1: Let me tell you something. I was not a Taylor Swift fan until I heard Vigilante shit, and after that I was like, yes.

00:22:18
Speaker 5: Bitch, yes, bitch. Draw those cat eyes sharp enough.

00:22:21
Speaker 1: To kill a man. She makes twenty five times more than Travis makes.

00:22:28
Speaker 2: Well, that's a lot of money. And because he makes a lot of money, there's.

00:22:33
Speaker 1: A lot of money happening between the two of them.

00:22:35
Speaker 5: It's a lot of wealth, a lot of wealth, a lot of good looks. I like it. I'm rooting for them.

00:22:41
Speaker 2: I think he's better looking than Taylor Swift.

00:22:44
Speaker 1: No, I'm not gonna comment because apparently the Taylor Swift fans for someone who's very positive. These are not my words, but Travis Kelsey's ex said that Taylor Swift fans are sending her death threats following cheating allegations. She said aggressive, and she told an outlet very negative, very hypocritical. It's really crazy to me that someone that I think is positive and really nice has such a negative and a fan base.

00:23:14
Speaker 5: Oh my gosh.

00:23:15
Speaker 1: You know what.

00:23:16
Speaker 5: Obviously we don't stand for that.

00:23:18
Speaker 4: On the flip side, though, I do have to say, since you mentioned Taylor that one time a few episodes ago, we've gotten a ton of dms to the podcast of very kind, nice, helpful fans who are like, here's like a one sheet to help Laala get into like the Taylor fandom. So there's some I think there's a problems, some bad eggs, but also some. There's one girl I got a I'll shout, I don't have the name in front of me, I'm sorry, but she did a whole blog and she was like, show this to Lala, and I was like oh my god, I haven't read it yet, but.

00:23:53
Speaker 1: A whole blog.

00:23:54
Speaker 5: And she was like, she a whole word. I don't know if it's called a blog, but.

00:23:58
Speaker 1: She could have chat gbt'ed it GPT. What is it? Com what chat GPT GBT? I thought, No, I'm googling. Are you sure?

00:24:10
Speaker 2: Shook his head? Which one is it?

00:24:12
Speaker 5: GPT?

00:24:13
Speaker 1: It is? You're it's not bidding? No, you're right, you're right.

00:24:18
Speaker 2: What is it?

00:24:19
Speaker 1: It's chat GPT. I've been calling it chat GBT.

00:24:26
Speaker 2: The good thing is they both have the sound in it. So well.

00:24:29
Speaker 1: All I know is I don't use it. Is that how you've been doing your work? You've been bringing in deals through chat GBT GPT.

00:24:43
Speaker 5: I wish everyone tells me you better.

00:24:45
Speaker 4: I I have refused to use it for anything, writing anything, and everyone's.

00:24:49
Speaker 5: Always you'll be left behind.

00:24:51
Speaker 4: And I'm like, eh, let me just let me just do my own ship now, and when I have to use it, I will like TikTok.

00:24:57
Speaker 5: I didn't get it until I had to.

00:25:00
Speaker 1: Yeah, we haven't been on the TikTok in a while, and we should get No, I don't even scroll it, but I'm saying I should probably like post on it. Yeah, yeah, we got to get a TikTok. We gotta get it together. All right, let's move on. Did we watch our favorite shows? Oh my gosh, I'm so excited. So a few episodes. Let's start with OC. A few episodes have passed since we've been able to cover, and I like doing it in real time. But like the reunion has now come and gone, here's the points I want to hit. When they are in? Where'd they go on their trip? Was it Mexico? When they are in, I think they went on a trip to Mexico. You know when Jen called Ryan and she was like, if you are hooking up with chicks, this is what the women are saying. I could hear in his voice that the moment that she hung up, he was calling every bitching like you gotta shut the fuck up. He was on that line and making sure that everyone had been silenced. Right. Yes, the reunion has come and gone, there's still very much together. The parasailing a baggy story. Do you remember she's telling the group don't go parasailing. She said, there was a woman who was parasailing near where I have a place, and a storm picked up and it broke the line between the ParaSail and the boat broke, and she was taken to a building. Is this woman just living on top of a building?

00:26:36
Speaker 2: Now? So I am.

00:26:39
Speaker 1: Immediately I was like, oh my gosh, it's like the Hangover where Doug, right, isn't it Doug? Not Doug. The one who's getting married is just like I think it's baking up there, you know what I'm talking about, getting sun burnt like that woman, like someone do a wellness still there. Heather feels picked on. She said she was gonna go home. Heather was picked on all season. I don't get it because I feel I love her, Like if she didn't have as much money as she has, no one would look at her the way they're looking at her. It's the combination of the two. And I'm sorry, it's really hard to, like, I would assume if you've got that kind of money, it's hard to like not wear that yeah, and relate, you know, like I'm sorry, I just told my house were fifty five million dollars. I don't relate to you, yeah at all.

00:27:38
Speaker 4: Yes, And I know we're not on the reunion yet, but a reunion ended, and I was like a lover lover.

00:27:44
Speaker 5: She just I love her. She brought it.

00:27:46
Speaker 1: She looked hurt. Yes, she looked very hurt the entire time, like I felt for her and Tamra that's my bitch though. She she's a fighting dog. I mean, she's Reality.

00:28:00
Speaker 2: TV goal right.

00:28:02
Speaker 4: Camera's fantastic with Heather too. I give her credit. That's how I know she's a good person. This is my personal opinion. If I had a fifty five million, say whatever you want to me, my feelings aren't gonna get hurt.

00:28:15
Speaker 5: Like I don't care about you anymore.

00:28:17
Speaker 1: You know, think you think that?

00:28:19
Speaker 5: Really?

00:28:20
Speaker 1: Yes, I always said back in the day, because I would get my feelings hurt about everything. Every little thing affected me. And I remember my dad saying, Lauren, you're getting your feelings hurt about what people are saying. But you want to be in entertainment where people can write about you when everybody reads it. And I was like, well, when I make it, I'm not going to give a shit because it's like, look at where I am and look at where you are and now here we are, and I have to avoid it at all costs because it doesn't matter where I get in life, you're still a human being and your fifty five million dollars is not going to give you a warm hug at night. Yes, like you don't have stress that some people have of like keeping food on the table and paying your bills.

00:29:05
Speaker 5: But you still want to be liked true, you know yeah?

00:29:08
Speaker 2: Yeah, like point not just for your money as well, because that starts to happen. Yeah, by the way, start treating.

00:29:14
Speaker 1: You different, more money, more problems, right, People become leeches. Yeah, Okay, I've seen it, and I don't have fifty five million dollars, but I've seen as I slowly climb this little ladder that people think they can fucking come for me. And you got to get the lawyers on deck, because you can really come for whatever you want. Whether you win or not doesn't matter. It's still the headache. You still got to put money in to win it. But you could literally be like, you know what, you just kind of pissed me off today and.

00:29:42
Speaker 5: Hopefully we'll settle right.

00:29:45
Speaker 1: Get off my dick, Get off her dick, Get off my dick. Do you guys believe the heather called Gina and Emily Losers?

00:29:56
Speaker 5: I mean, I could I love either.

00:29:58
Speaker 4: I could see her maybe saying that, but not in like a passionate way or just like like more of a fiery.

00:30:05
Speaker 5: Way way, like an offended like.

00:30:07
Speaker 4: When you're trying to hurt someone else.

00:30:11
Speaker 2: Yeah, okay, like in that like if if something was said about her, I could see her saying it like, well, I don't care why they think they're losers.

00:30:18
Speaker 1: Heather claims that she was talking about Noela, who was on I believe last season. Now Noela was the stack of Vagina's sweet baby James or whatever. You know what I'm talking about, the lawyer. Yes, they were getting divorced. And by the way, do you know what the game was that Heather called porn? No that Noela. I don't know if you watched last season, but Noela gave Heather's daughter a game and it was She kept calling it like porn, like you gave my daughter porn? And Noela was so offended She's like, I did not know that I gave her porn.

00:30:57
Speaker 2: It was.

00:31:00
Speaker 1: Fire, which is freaking awesome.

00:31:03
Speaker 4: I'm like, okay, because it says like things about like tits and like like whatever you.

00:31:09
Speaker 1: Put your own extremely offensive and inappropriate, and I love it because in this day and age, I need a little bit of an area where I can be.

00:31:18
Speaker 5: Like, fuck it, yeah, cars against Humanity? What do you mean? So fun?

00:31:25
Speaker 1: So much fun? By the way they sent us like the giant pack cards against Humanity?

00:31:30
Speaker 2: Did we have to play that again?

00:31:34
Speaker 1: Yes, let's talk about the reunion really quickly.

00:31:40
Speaker 5: Let's do it.

00:31:41
Speaker 1: I feel like it ended on a great note. Gina screaming my kids, my or my children, my children at what's her name? Shannon? Yes, I had chills.

00:31:55
Speaker 4: She brought it. She was a star, she was a bad bitch. She was like, she reminded me of you. I'm gonna get dragged for this because people like, oh my god, but she reminded me. She like collected, but she knew exactly what she was gonna say.

00:32:11
Speaker 1: I have chills just talking about her. So I have not been a huge I've always liked her, but you know people, when you see them, you're just drawn to them for some reason. I'm like, I enjoy her. I don't want her to go anywhere, but I'm not drawn after this reunion, I'm like, I'm obsessed with you. She's funny, she's got the New York grid, and watching her talk like that, I'm so happy that Shannon, from what I've read, is getting the help that she needs. She's not drinking right now. I've heard that the Trace Amigas and their show in solidarity of Shannon and what she's going through or not drinking. But I think that's a good call because I've noticed with Shannon she's not remembering a lot of things that she says, and it's destructive. And to bring in CPS and Gina's kids and have those two in the same conversation is so beyond reckless. And then Shannon not remembering. There are times where I watched this show and they there are some people who go for the jugular, Like that's what I do like about vander pump Roles is, yes, Tom Sandoval has said some dirty things about my child, right, not about my child, but said stupid things about me conceiving her. But there are some shows where I'm like, like I would see red and climb across the room and like, pull your eyes out right. It was crazy to me that she would even think that that was okay and not just apologize exactly.

00:33:49
Speaker 5: And I love when she said, what are my kids' names? What are my kids saying?

00:33:52
Speaker 4: Like great, and she's like well she named one, and then she's like, I'm the rest are slipping in my mind.

00:33:58
Speaker 5: That's a great point.

00:34:00
Speaker 4: You're sitting there talking about CPS something, so that is so serious. That that is so serious you don't just throw that around like children being involved. And I don't get what Shannon was saying. But Shannon came back and saying like.

00:34:16
Speaker 5: Though, that's not what I meant.

00:34:17
Speaker 1: Oh please, how long did it take her to come up with that?

00:34:20
Speaker 5: I knows you, Like, this is what.

00:34:22
Speaker 1: I that if blah blah blah. It was like just stop, yeah, yeah, stop trying to take every avenue to get out of this and just apologize so we can all move on. Hurt saying that though, Jess, yeah, what are my kids' names? And then just pounced. Yep. It was amazing. It was good, but I feel like there was resolution, and I really really hope next season they bring Tamra back again, and I really need Vicky back. But who knows because the episode before the reunion, Vicky was sobbing. It was iconic about the way the women were treating each other. Yeah, like it's just so toxic, and I'm like, maybe she's outgrown it. Maybe she she just wants to be the front. Yeah, and she doesn't want to get down and dirty. But I think it's in her blood because if you remember the time that we talked about where she was like, your partner's not right for you. They're like, are you talking about Ryan? Who's Ryan her partner? So she's still got the messiness in her right to.

00:35:17
Speaker 4: Be honest, Tamra and Vicki back on this season made it what it is.

00:35:21
Speaker 5: I mean, there's no I just feel that way.

00:35:24
Speaker 1: I do love the Trace amigos. I really want to go to one of their shows.

00:35:28
Speaker 5: Oh my god.

00:35:29
Speaker 1: Yeah, yeah, so fun. Let's jump into New York. I'm really not a fan of Si and Aaron right.

00:35:39
Speaker 4: Now, say is has been and I wasn't expecting this at the beginning of the season. Very hard for me to connect with. Yeah, like I'm not feeling connected to you.

00:35:52
Speaker 5: I'm not. I don't want to say I'm like not feeling you, but I'm just not.

00:35:57
Speaker 1: I don't know which it was the opposite at first, It's like super into Si and Aaron and Jessel was the one. I was like, I'm just not I don't get it. But I mean Cy and Aaron watching the two of them and their scenes together is like very hard to watch. Yeah, which one then, like the last two episodes of them talking about Jessel's relationship and her marriage and just the way that they go about it. It's not two people that are concerned to caddy bitches where it's like what what what is this? It's very uncomfortable to watch.

00:36:34
Speaker 4: The one thing I say, Sy over, I didn't include Aaron because that's the one savior saving grace as she did the parrot thing, and I was like, okay, okay, I'm gonna take her off my like eh list, but SI's still up there, like you know, the parrot where she dresses the parrot. I'm like, okay, there's a tiny ounce of sense of humor because the way she at the store and she was like she called me a fucking parrot.

00:36:58
Speaker 1: Yeah, I'm on the same page as you. I was like, a parrot thing, Like she's so upset about it when you've literally been questioning like her husband and him being faithful.

00:37:07
Speaker 4: To her, But was about a fucking parrot comment, right, which, by the way, I love Jessel and her husband. Or at the beginning when she was feeling so not confident and they were. She was saying, we haven't had sex.

00:37:18
Speaker 1: I was like, do you believe that they had sex?

00:37:21
Speaker 4: I think I always think there's something when like a couple hasn't had sex and there's an energy or a way maybe the woman or the man talk about them their partner like or feel about themselves, and then they have sex and you can tell like, oh, you guys are back into it.

00:37:36
Speaker 5: I think they're back into it.

00:37:37
Speaker 1: I think they're back into it too.

00:37:39
Speaker 2: Really, because I could care less. I don't like them. You don't like that like Jesse, I don't I like cy better. Yeah, I don't like the mattiness. But no, I don't like Jess so like the way she praise herself. I don't know, like like lower your voice when you speak to me. It's like, come on, now, you you started things. I don't like Jess So I don't like even the husband with her, like and she was like I'm cold, and she was like, oh yeah, well, like you could give me your jacket. Oh well then I'll be cold. It's like I just don't like. I hate them together. There's just something I I don't like them.

00:38:10
Speaker 5: Yeah, okay, no, I like I love this scene.

00:38:13
Speaker 2: I don't know if I'm gonna if other people are going to agree with me. But there's just something about her like that. She just thinks she's just a bit better than everybody for whatever reason. And it's like you.

00:38:23
Speaker 1: Have to and I so do not get that anymore.

00:38:26
Speaker 2: I still do. I like that, Okay, No, and I get and I just I see him in like, I don't know this trip that he's going to Asia? Of course, not only that, but ticket it is an open ticket. But it's like, are you meeting somebody there and you're waiting for some their trip to be fun with yours? Or why are you waiting if you were going? Because he did say I like to go for four days to get out, right, So why haven't you gone? Are you waiting to meet somebody? I don't know. Seems a little weird to me if you love to get away for four days and fly to Asia.

00:38:58
Speaker 1: Well, he said that the ticket was not like open yet.

00:39:01
Speaker 2: How was it taken? Not open yet?

00:39:03
Speaker 1: I don't know. I'm not traveling to Vietnam on the regular.

00:39:05
Speaker 5: This is a run, right or whatever?

00:39:07
Speaker 1: It's the run.

00:39:09
Speaker 5: It's a run, I thought.

00:39:10
Speaker 2: Right, a run?

00:39:11
Speaker 1: What are you talking about?

00:39:12
Speaker 5: I thought, it was like a Vietnam like race.

00:39:15
Speaker 1: No, I thought she was doing it for mileage race.

00:39:19
Speaker 5: What the fuck are you talking about that mileage? And I think I was just like out of it last night and I was thinking, like mileage running.

00:39:27
Speaker 4: He must be doing like some sort of like marathon in Vietnam.

00:39:31
Speaker 5: I'm so CONFI No, he.

00:39:34
Speaker 1: Wants to get the points. And I get that that's something Mom would do. For Mom would be like three for one, three for the price of one. And look at all that mileage.

00:39:45
Speaker 2: So is he waiting for a good time for all the miles.

00:39:47
Speaker 1: And by the way, maybe flying first class? Right?

00:39:51
Speaker 2: Well, I don't care. All I'm saying is he wanted to go for the four days to get away, and now he's now it's I know what I want. I don't know.

00:39:59
Speaker 5: I don't know what I guess. We will never know.

00:40:02
Speaker 2: We'll never know.

00:40:02
Speaker 1: And I'm not saying it's longer they're on the show, the more people come out and talk for real. Yeah, I also, how did you feel about I love sized husband. I may not mess with her, but like she's actually okay in my book because I love her husband so much. And when he apologized to Uba, loved.

00:40:25
Speaker 5: That you didn't like it.

00:40:27
Speaker 1: I loved Okay. He was like, I was trying to give you a compliment, and like, that's not the way to do it, is ask I always. We've talked about this on the podcast. I hate when people are like, why are you single? You're such a great girl, and it's like, that's why I'm single because I'm so fucking great. Yeah, that none of these men can can take.

00:40:47
Speaker 5: My greatness, right, you know.

00:40:50
Speaker 4: I loved that moment of him beautiful and I loved when he was talking to Jessel and he said all I've heard her ever say about you is she wants to connect with you.

00:41:01
Speaker 5: SI talking and it helped Jess will be like, Okay.

00:41:04
Speaker 4: He just is very collected and I think he's very mature, and I think he doesn't feed into the drama.

00:41:11
Speaker 1: No, he probably keeps her like grounding, grounding. Yeah.

00:41:15
Speaker 5: Yeah.

00:41:15
Speaker 1: The last thing I want to talk about on this topic before we jump in very quickly to Salt Lake. I died when Side because Uba tells her like I'm seeing someone in Connecticut.

00:41:29
Speaker 2: We talk about her Uba sleeping with somebody in Central Park. She's a freak. Oh yes, When I heard that, I was like, I would not expect.

00:41:38
Speaker 1: That she's so sexy.

00:41:41
Speaker 4: She's stunning that look with the breaks, oh my god, confessional time, the confessional look, she's so freaking hot. No, that's my And then her on the in the little snow bumper car thing with that puffer jacket and the dope pants and the hair slick.

00:41:59
Speaker 1: Back with the the gold Oh my god. I'm obsessed with her, And I think if it were anyone else, I'd be like, this bitch signed up for reality show. She can't be mad that they were talking about it. We're all gonna see this at some point. But because it's Uba, I'm like, cy, why did you go tell UBA's secret? And I loved it when in the size confessional, she's like, should The difference between telling Aaron and telling Brynn is When I told Aaron, I was like immediately regretting it. I should not have said that. When I told Brynn, it was like I shouldn't have told her, but like she promised she wouldn't tell anybody, And I thought of Horton, here's a who what part? Horton rolls up to like his little friends and he's like, you can't tell anybody, and the friends are like, we're not gonna tell anybody, and if we do, we'll tell them not to tell anybody far back. It's so true. It's like if I'm telling you a secret, someone else's secret, and I tell you not to tell, then it's on your head, right because I told you.

00:43:02
Speaker 2: Not to tell anybody, but you shouldn't have told in the first place.

00:43:05
Speaker 1: That's the logical way of thinking, true, right, Yeah. Well, it's like I need to confide in somebody about this.

00:43:12
Speaker 2: Well, that's why I feel like when Brynn said it, I was messed up. It was messed up. But I feel like Brent, like even heard, She's like, fuck it, I'm the one who just said it, so I has to live with Fuck I'm the one who knew and then said it. Yeah, you know, She's like I'm out of here. Brind's like, where's the other shots? You know, who gets a fuck like fuck.

00:43:29
Speaker 1: You brance birthday, fuck you Briance.

00:43:32
Speaker 5: Okay.

00:43:34
Speaker 2: Friend's like I don't have to deal with it. The repercussions are on you.

00:43:40
Speaker 1: Friend's like this is child's place, right, Like the shit I've been through left at two years old without a diaper change, for weeks on end. I'm not really fucking worried about it about your boyfriend and perspective because she also found a beautiful tree for her grandmother that had ducks. Oh yeah at the bench under it bench, you know, She's like, you know what, you cannot screw up my vibe. You're having sex with someone in Connecticut.

00:44:04
Speaker 4: Yeah, shake it off, baby, Shake it off, honey, because UBA's Uba hot.

00:44:08
Speaker 1: So I'm like, I need to order some of that stuff. Yeah, okay, s Elsie, we'll run through this very quickly. I never thought that I would say this, but I am feeling for ANGI K Meredith is really why does she's like on a roll dude? Every season so far it's been like I've heard room it's about her husband. Like, first of all, like, what's the Whitney said? She was like, it's like copy paste. It's like take this one out, copy of paste someone else's name. I'm like, we gotta stop talking about the husband about let's talk about the husband. I'm like, Okay, we need a new storyline for you. It can't always be about someone's husband. So fucked up. By the way, Andy was very offended by it as well. Cohen because I watched a tad of like when he did watch Robins Live with Angie. He's like, so inappropriate for anyone to be talking about this. I love that Angie's husband was like, it's less of like a gay straight thing for me. For me, it's like about the infidelity, Like I wouldn't cheat on my wife. I don't think he has, but only time will tell, right, Because there are people I always say, where there's smoke, there's fire, but there are a lot of people who are very scary and they'll just say whatever, like they're lunatics.

00:45:34
Speaker 2: But Utah also is like, it's Utah, and I know that's going on over there.

00:45:38
Speaker 1: What cheating?

00:45:40
Speaker 2: Yeah, Like there's swingers like that. I mean, I can't even remember the girl's name, but they got like something Paul or Paul's yeah, something Paul. But they went huge for a scandal because they were swingers.

00:45:50
Speaker 1: Oh.

00:45:51
Speaker 2: And like when you go shopping in Salt Lake or in Utah and you have an upside down pineapple, that was the indication that you were a swinging family or couple.

00:46:00
Speaker 1: So where would you have an upside down pineapple grocery store?

00:46:04
Speaker 2: So when you're grocery shopping. If you have one and like another swinging couple sees you, they'll have one, and then you can be like, okay, we'll mix and match game.

00:46:11
Speaker 4: They did it with doormats too, like you have a doormat with a pineapple, but it's faced.

00:46:15
Speaker 1: Okay, under a rock.

00:46:18
Speaker 2: But so Utah, I mean, that's the thing with Utah. And like if I heard like there's boys about like bragging about hooking up with Angie's.

00:46:27
Speaker 1: Husband, Oh, you've heard this, well that's what was.

00:46:29
Speaker 2: On the shelves. And for me, it's small Lake City, Okay, so this ship, if it is true, there's somebody that I would know. I feel like that would have already said something. So you don't feel like I don't think it's true.

00:46:44
Speaker 1: I don't think it's true either.

00:46:46
Speaker 2: It's small Lake City. And in my opinion, it would have been true, right, it would have come out.

00:46:50
Speaker 1: And I think back in the day it was like like Angie said, oh he's a hairstylist, he's gay.

00:46:56
Speaker 2: Not where it's like facts at all.

00:46:58
Speaker 1: Not facts at all. We live in a day and age where like there are football players who are openly gay, right like hairdressers who are straight like you. I don't. It's such a weird way of thinking. And to even say something like that. Number one, like what if that? What if that were true?

00:47:15
Speaker 5: That's my point.

00:47:16
Speaker 4: It's the saying, yes, what if that were true? That's so dicey. You don't do that to something you don't.

00:47:22
Speaker 1: Number one, you're fucking with this guy's family. Number two, let's say that that's true. That is, you don't get to choose when this person comes out exactly not you're right, shut the fuck up, as my daughter would say, shut the fuck up.

00:47:38
Speaker 2: Where it's coming from?

00:47:39
Speaker 1: Easton? I want to know this very quickly.

00:47:41
Speaker 2: Okay.

00:47:41
Speaker 1: By the way, I'm dead over Monica going to the old Folks home with her grandmother and her mom, and the Grandma's like, you don't use that language, Monica, not here.

00:47:51
Speaker 2: Not the not the sick language.

00:47:58
Speaker 1: She's like, sorry, Nana, I was.

00:48:00
Speaker 2: Repeating what mom said.

00:48:03
Speaker 1: They need their own show. I was obsessed with that entire scene.

00:48:06
Speaker 2: I'm obsessed with her. I have a new reason to watch Saul ag.

00:48:09
Speaker 1: She's fantastic and she's beautiful. How do you feel, Easton growing up in Utah? How do you feel about Heather being so concerned with Lisa Barlow's son choosing to go on a mission.

00:48:21
Speaker 2: I mean, I have like six I have a roommate who was Mormon, went on a mission, and he is no longer. I have five people who I know who went on missions who are no longer Mormon, right, And I just feel like seeing what maybe she's seen. I don't know much about it, but from what I've seen, it's very I don't know, it's almost a manipulation in my opinion, to go on a mission, to go on a mission, I mean, and to hear him talk about it, he was saying, he hasn't even read the Book of Mormon.

00:48:51
Speaker 1: It is very strange.

00:48:52
Speaker 2: All my almies had read it multiple times before going on their mission, right, and they read it the like right before their mission, to just like script up on it learn And for him, it's almost like, are you going to like make your parents proud? For I don't think they don't care.

00:49:09
Speaker 1: Do you think do you think that it's a way because he doesn't really know what he wants to do. When his mom was hounding him about going to school, you need to go to school, pick a college. What do you want to be when you get older. This is where you can have two years of going And although I like the purpose of it, like doing God's work the Book of Mormon, when you insert that just kind of rubs me the wrong way. I have yet to have someone tell me that they've had a positive experience in the church. There's a lot of pressure. Doesn't make much sense. I don't know that because you and I are kind of outsiders to it. It's never really been shoved down our throats and by our family.

00:49:52
Speaker 2: Yeah, so it's like, when do you that's my thing, That's what I've been taught.

00:49:56
Speaker 1: But do you think Heather maybe feels protective of other people, like she doesn't want them to.

00:50:00
Speaker 2: Experience what she did?

00:50:02
Speaker 1: Yeah?

00:50:02
Speaker 2: I think so. And I mean the only thing that you can do is make you know throughout your opinion about it, but let them do what they do. And hey, if he has to go down that road and learn what you learned without listening to you, then you got to learn it that way. But I think I don't think he'll number one. He has he gone yet? Has he?

00:50:21
Speaker 1: I don't know if he's gone yet.

00:50:22
Speaker 2: Has he even got a fucking mission call? No?

00:50:24
Speaker 1: But I think he's about to I think he at this.

00:50:27
Speaker 2: Point in this season, like that's what I want to know, Like, there is a lot of things that I want to know, like because on a mission, you can choose in state.

00:50:35
Speaker 1: You can't.

00:50:35
Speaker 2: Yes, are you sure? Yeah? You used to be able to. This was when I was eighteen, when everybody.

00:50:42
Speaker 1: On like, really you have a choice.

00:50:45
Speaker 2: No, you you have one choice, and it's in state, or you can go abroad. Okay, and so you I mean, I had a buddy go he wanted to stay in state, and he went to Ohio, of all, and then Danny Bowen wanted to stay in state. Shout out him. He went to Washington. Okay, So you can choose that, but if you don't care, then they'll usually put you where God says you should be.

00:51:06
Speaker 1: Well, he said, I'm giving my farewell talk this Sunday at twelve. That was on July twelfth, So he absolutely knows where he's going.

00:51:15
Speaker 5: Who does God tell?

00:51:17
Speaker 4: Like, I don't know, like where, Oh God tells you.

00:51:20
Speaker 1: No, God doesn't tell you. You have no choice.

00:51:23
Speaker 2: That's what I'm saying.

00:51:24
Speaker 1: Church, the church decides. God tells the church.

00:51:28
Speaker 2: God, God decides where.

00:51:29
Speaker 5: You got it?

00:51:31
Speaker 2: And then it just spoken through your whomever is leading your church.

00:51:35
Speaker 1: By the way, he could have it. He could have a fantastic experience.

00:51:38
Speaker 2: He could.

00:51:39
Speaker 1: I hope he has a great experience and stay in the church and have like the best life in the world.

00:51:45
Speaker 2: Just you know, going garments, the g's. It's like, yeah, I gotta wear the g's.

00:51:50
Speaker 1: I'm like, oh no, that in itself is enough for me to say sweating all over myself.

00:51:57
Speaker 2: But I mean, for me, if I have a child, I will never put like that religion in front of his face.

00:52:04
Speaker 1: What if he decides, like, you know what, I've looked into religion and this one seems to resonate with me.

00:52:10
Speaker 2: All right, give it a shot, kid, all Right.

00:52:11
Speaker 5: I love that.

00:52:12
Speaker 1: I love that answer.

00:52:14
Speaker 2: I really I don't care. I'm just not like I'll put religion in front of his face. But I'm not going to be like this one's right, yeah, but I'm not going to like just dismiss it at all, like it's not here you can pick. But I'm just gonna back of the pile.

00:52:28
Speaker 1: Right.

00:52:33
Speaker 4: We were so we were going to leave on such a good note too.

00:52:38
Speaker 1: Well, we had an experience with my dad's side of the family, and it's like, oh, this is.

00:52:43
Speaker 2: Not this is what the Mormon religion is.

00:52:45
Speaker 1: Oh okay, well, it's just like the way that we were kind of treated. It was just like if this is the God that you believe in, like that is not mine at all. Right. I don't treat people the way, especially like my family family. So let's come off that. Let's move to the ache and relief of the week. I will kick us off. Lincoln County District Judge. So this is in Oklahoma. Tracy Sowderstrom could be removed from office for sending more than five hundred texts during a murder trial of a two year old. I was in shock.

00:53:18
Speaker 5: Texts from the bench or text about the trial.

00:53:21
Speaker 1: She was literally sending text messages during the trial. This two year old was beaten to death, and she was the mother was talking and she was sending messages to over five hundred, some of which were two people in the room saying that the mom was a liar. And I immediately thought to myself, this shouldn't this shouldn't even be a question of she could, was she did she do this? Let's investigate. No, I watched you on your phone with the cameras in the courtroom, on your cell phone. Five hundred texts were exchanged during a murder trial. You are no longer in a position of power.

00:54:04
Speaker 5: Get the fuck out, no question. That's horrific.

00:54:07
Speaker 1: So I like, yeah, I'd like to take this time to express that that is my ache of the week. These are people in positions of power in our court system. Make it fucking end. Let's like do a cleansing and again. Her name is Tracy Sowderstrom out of Oklahoma, Lincoln County District Judge. Shame, shame, shame, shame. I actually have two reliefs of the week.

00:54:38
Speaker 2: My reliefs might be the same as yours.

00:54:39
Speaker 1: I love too reliefs. So I don't know if you guys saw this yesterday on my story it happened. I think it happened Friday night that our Governor Gavin Newsom signed off on Peaky's Law, which will make it so that judges and people in the family court system have to go through training to spot if a child is in danger. If a parent comes in and says there is violence in the home, I don't want my child in the home, and the parent who is making this situation happen can't come in and be like, that's not happening. This person's lying a judge, and people in the court system will be able to have the knowledge where they can spot it. They can be someone who says this kid will be traumatized. And it's also going to draw the line of we can't have reunification camps because that will traumatize a child. They just have to be more educated. So Gavin Newsom finally signed off on that huge, huge win in the state of California. Woohoo. Sorry, every time I talk about that, I get so fumbly.

00:55:53
Speaker 5: No, you don't, that's amazing.

00:55:55
Speaker 1: I don't that that makes sense. I know. I'm very, very very proud of of our governor. Also, my other relief of the week is I am turning five this weekend. Ye are sober. I'm gonna go to Palm Springs with Easton and my mom an ocean, my older brother, my sister in law, my niece and nephew. I haven't seen them in a year and a half. Like in person, we just FaceTime. So that's what I'm going to do to celebrate.

00:56:22
Speaker 5: So proud of you as so proud. That's amazing.

00:56:24
Speaker 1: And then I'm celebrating with all my friends that night. Chilies. Yes, we're the chili. Let me wear I have extra chili, secar. I've got you all right. You still want your ag and relief, babe.

00:56:50
Speaker 2: My relief is going to Palm Springs and and doing that, and also the shows that we've done and then will do. So I love that. I knew it was very, very fun, and I'm excited for tonight. And then my ache is just pretty much humanity right now in a hole. I feel like we all need to look in the mirror and do one thing better. I think I agree things going south and on a lot of different directions and all over the world. So I don't know. I don't want to choose one. Just humanity. Take a look in the mirror, do something good for you, for somebody else, and smile while you do it. Oh that's my ache.

00:57:25
Speaker 1: Good, that's a great ache. That's a good ache.

00:57:28
Speaker 4: My relief, okay is So I'm going to preface this by saying really quick, I wasn't going to talk about jiu jitsu again because I get it, because your video it could be annoying.

00:57:40
Speaker 5: I get it.

00:57:41
Speaker 4: And when people used to talk about CrossFit, I'd be like, get off it. But then the old DM started blowing up ever since I talked about it a couple of weeks ago, with listeners being like asking me questions or being like, I just put my kids in it. So I was like, fuck it, that's I'm going to talk about it. I finished my first official week of class jiu jitsu classes at Tenth Planet Burbank, which I was holding off on forever because I was so scared.

00:58:07
Speaker 5: So scared.

00:58:08
Speaker 4: Coach Josh kept being like, you're ready, I promise you just go into class, and I was like, no, No, one more week with you, one more week.

00:58:15
Speaker 5: I'm still doing private sessions with him. I always will. He teaches the classes. I was scared. It's all men. I'm like, I'm gonna be humiliated.

00:58:23
Speaker 4: I'm gonna be partnered with people who are like, oh, I have to work with her because it's like black belts and everything.

00:58:29
Speaker 5: Everyone was so nice, so encouraging.

00:58:32
Speaker 4: It was all men, which you're such a badass, which they were.

00:58:36
Speaker 5: Just nobody was like annoyed with me.

00:58:39
Speaker 4: As a matter of fact, they like would help me through the drills because you're partnered with someone and you go off and do a drill, and I would be like, oh my god, I don't know what to do, and they would just walk me through and then encourage me. As coach Josh walked around and he was like, good job and would adjust things.

00:58:55
Speaker 5: I had so much fun Monday, Wednesday, Fridays.

00:58:59
Speaker 1: That makes me so happy for you. And you blasted on your story yes night or something. It was you look, I was practicing bad. I think.

00:59:06
Speaker 2: I loved how he was like, I was trying to have a peaceful son. He did Saturday himself.

00:59:10
Speaker 5: It was Saturday.

00:59:11
Speaker 4: It's like I just he said, I like rolled in once and I went I was like again and he was like, I'm.

00:59:17
Speaker 5: Just trying to have a relaxing Saturday.

00:59:19
Speaker 1: By the way, when you do that, it makes me super horny. The position, the positions that you get into while you whoop these guys ass. I'm like, I'm a little turned on. It's not weird.

00:59:28
Speaker 5: I love this.

00:59:30
Speaker 2: Are you going to take it off?

00:59:32
Speaker 1: I did think the position, well.

00:59:33
Speaker 4: Yeah, I mean like, well you said that the other day when I was calling.

00:59:37
Speaker 5: I showed you the moves with Sean.

00:59:39
Speaker 2: Most guys are doing it with guys, but I mean even if I was doing it with seat belt and I wasn't doing that. I got a seat belt or.

00:59:46
Speaker 4: Duct tape, something you could put a cup onto block your boner.

00:59:50
Speaker 2: I think, I don't think.

00:59:53
Speaker 4: But that being said, women I encourage them to go because I've gotten a lot of d MS from women being like, but I'm so scared. I can only speak for tenth Planet Burbank. They are so respectful, so they make you feel so comfortable. I've had just nothing but a positive experience. My ache of the week is has to do with that. Is I have a little bit of a cold, so I probably I didn't go to class this morning, and I probably won't go Wednesday.

01:00:20
Speaker 1: Everyone's getting that quo.

01:00:21
Speaker 2: Yeah.

01:00:22
Speaker 1: I was knocked out all weekend.

01:00:23
Speaker 4: Yeah, and I had because you can't roll with people you're like face to face.

01:00:27
Speaker 2: Oh see, I would. I'm kind of like Oprah with cars, but with sickness. You know, like you get some sickness, you get some sickness, and then by the time I get home, I don't got any sickness to give out.

01:00:36
Speaker 5: You gave it to everyone else.

01:00:38
Speaker 2: Yeah, that's how I think about it.

01:00:39
Speaker 1: We didn't leave the house all weekend.

01:00:41
Speaker 2: Oh, I was walking ross CBS. I was handing it out.

01:00:44
Speaker 1: That's spreading the love.

01:00:45
Speaker 5: I mean I got it. Maybe I got it from you, but.

01:00:47
Speaker 1: Can I tell you Ocean had it, and she had like green for one day and literally kicked it the next like the next day. She was great after. If you can get one night good sleep, you'll rest it off. Like today, I feel live, start out good.

01:01:01
Speaker 4: Well today technically Wednesday, I'm healed.

01:01:05
Speaker 5: I'm better.

01:01:05
Speaker 1: I'm manifested. Manifested girl because we got a live show tonight. You guys, I had the best time on this podcast. I hope that you enjoyed. Happy hump Day. I love you all and I will catch you next week or I'll see you tonight at the Give Them La Lah live show. It's perfect. Thank you, guys. I love you so much.

01:01:23
Speaker 2: Bye.