Chan-Tell Us Anything: BBW & LAMH Recap

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Speaker 1: Reality with the King is hosted by me, Carlos King. I'm an executive producer who have produced some of your favorite shows from the Real Housewives in Atlanta, New Jersey and my own creation, The Love and Marriage Franchise and Bell Collective. Every episode we recap reality television from the Real Housewives Franchise to The Bachelor or Selling Sunset, in addition to celebrity guests, whether in the unscripted space or scripted as well. I want to start off by saying this, it is a privilege to be in this seat to where I have created a safe space for In the beginning, it was just reality stars, but courtesy of the.

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Speaker 2: Platform being huge, thanks to each and every one.

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Speaker 1: Of you who are on this live all the rain drops for leaving and sharing it. And so a woman who works for me, her hairdresser this morning, was talking about the Chantell Christy interview. So I don't take any of this for granted. It is a privilege to be in this position, and it's such a privilege, more so when you have reality stars and celebrities reached out to you to say I would like to give you thank you, I would like to give you my interview I want to give it to you, and I want to give it to you because you're able to have a conversation without attacking somebody, and that means the world to me. Right, And I thank all of you guys for supporting Reality but the King, for supporting my channel, and for supporting the interview, the interview. Excuse me by even watching it, whether or not you walked away from the interview disliking chantell More or understanding her more, What Maden is to me is that you guys spent.

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Speaker 2: Time to check it out.

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Speaker 1: And what maddens to me is the fact that you guys had time to leave a comment. We have ten thousand comments in an interview that dropped four days ago. We have close to three hundred thousand views in four days, which is like Nini leaks, Lisa Ray McCoy level numbers that has happened in that magnitude. So I thank all of you for checking it out, for checking it out because you did not have to.

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Speaker 2: What I would like to address is this.

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Speaker 1: A lot of you guys have had a lot of comments saying, well, Carlos, we don't feel like you held Chantel Christy accountable. I hear you I see you, and I want to start the live talking about this.

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Speaker 2: Let's bring on Claudia in Toxtin.

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Speaker 3: So Carlos. Then people wanted to hear them. People wanted to hear Shantel Christie say I should not have touched my mother, I should not have talked to my mama like that and I was wrong, and they did not hear her say that, and that's where the disconnect was. Now, I'm not gonna say she's supposed to say that. I'm not gonna say she was not supposed to say that. I just think that's where the disconnect was for a lot of people. But I think it's something really likable about her personality. And I really hate that a lot of our introduction to her was her cussing her mama out and physically, you know, pushing on her mama. I hate that that's how we met her, but that's what happened. But shout out to her for being brave enough she took this. She was a good sport, I think, and she's taking it he will. And I thought she gave a great interview, So it was good to see that. But that's about it for me.

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Speaker 2: Yeah, what was so.

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Speaker 1: I'm going to get to you, to say, Claudia, but Dustin the best part to me was this, and this is the reason why I love what we do.

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Speaker 2: Honestly.

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Speaker 1: I love the fact that Chantelle reached out to me after watching Me and Dustin recap that episode. Yeah, like it did not steer her in a direction of they don't fucking me. It was the fact that she watched me and Dustin. Me and Dustin had two different views on the actual moment, and it was nice that she still said I.

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Speaker 2: Saw you when you watched it. She gave us a shot off through time. She said. I know Dustin said I disrespect the black Hold, but to me, it's this.

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Speaker 1: I want to bring that up to say that what I love about this platform is the fact that all three of us can be.

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Speaker 2: Honest with our feelings.

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Speaker 1: And it may not be the most popular take, but it's more so about the people that I can say, although I disagree with him, I appreciate and understand his take. So I want to give Dustin props too, because Chantelle, if you watch an interview, Dustin gave his out of to god Troup and even Chantelle said, I actually see Dustin's point of view.

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Speaker 2: And that's all we can do.

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Speaker 3: Yeah, I wasn't trying to disrespect her. You know what I'm saying. That's a very sensitive, very personal matter between a mama and a daughter, you know what I'm saying. So even as a person offering commentary, there's a line there, you know what I'm saying that you just don't cross. I wasn't trying to disrespect her. I was just offering commentary on what we saw, you know what I'm saying on the screen. So I'm glad she was able to receive it well, and it feel good to see her have her say I think you are a perfect sounding board for her. So fuck with them. People had to say, Carlos, No, I'm good, I have.

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Speaker 4: A new mike.

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Speaker 5: I don't know if people said someone said my side saying I'm gonna tend can let me know if this mic is better or worse, and I will one day get it right after twenty years in the business.

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Speaker 4: Okay. So I did see a lot of people.

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Speaker 5: Saying, you know, holds her. I know I've given Jenckie. Carlos didn't hold her accountable. They wanted more accountability more. I did take notes as a journalists Okay, I did take notes.

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Speaker 4: I didn't see what she did say.

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Speaker 5: I think in her way she gave her accountability, but it's not what the masses want. And I think a lot of times with reality television, and you know it was commentary, it's almost like the movie Gladiators, like we want to see blood, we want to see them gravel, we want to see them crying, snotty nose.

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Speaker 4: I'm so sorry, and everyone's not wired like that.

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Speaker 5: For some people, it's like they struggled with saying I was wrong, and I didn't see in her notes that she did say that she was wrong, and she said, I don't want to blame it on my post part of I was nine months out.

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Speaker 4: It's still no excuse for my behavior.

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Speaker 5: I feel like because she didn't spend the majority of the interview, like people want to see blood.

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Speaker 4: When we're mad at someone, we don't just like giving them a.

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Speaker 5: Pass, Like we don't just like, well, she said sorry, we'd be like no if that. We want to see her breakdown. We want to see her apologize the way we want to see her apologize.

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Speaker 4: Oh, we want to see her taking now could she have taken more? Of course?

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Speaker 5: Could she have taken less, of course, and could Carlos have been hard on her, of course, but definitely want to have a safe space for other guests to come forward. Yes, And it's a very tricky game and a dance we have to play in these types of shows when we are intubate people and we want more people to come to our platforms.

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Speaker 4: It's not like the days of Howard.

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Speaker 5: Stern when you went in there knowing you go into the lions, then they about to writ me a new one that's not even.

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Speaker 4: Carlo says vibe.

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Speaker 5: Carlos is not that type of interview or he is the one that lots of people What do they mostly say about Carlos King's interviews. I didn't like this person, but I came away from this interview liking the person more. You'll never get those kind of interviews. If he just goes to the drug that there's other people that can do that. And if that's too want, then that's not calls this platform. You should go somewhere else. I think you need a faith where you know his job is to be objective, and he does give his opinion several times, but like I just feel like people want blood. Sometimes I get and I'm not. That does not mean she's right. But his job is to provide a place to be interviewed to us, for us to view into what she's thinking, not for us to put on her what we think.

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Speaker 2: Hello, you know, so that's yeah, I'm sorry, go Claudia.

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Speaker 5: Oh I'm saying that's just what an interview was. And I don't know, I just feel like I get what you're doing.

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Speaker 4: I get it.

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Speaker 6: Well.

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Speaker 1: Well, the beauty of you, Claudia is you're the I figure the only person I interview twice on my podcast, and everything you said is true because of your experience stepping into my college, after your experience on TGIF, and I was the first person to interview you. Claudia has other people. She's gonna talk it to us well, I mean spocking to us well. But I also think this it's one of those things.

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Speaker 2: Where it's the beauty of journalism.

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Speaker 1: And I know a lot of people have been grown up in the days like we all have where you had either have Oprah, you have Warbara Walters, or you had Dying Sawyer and these were three very different style of interviews. And that's the reason why I sat at the top. I appreciate anybody who says yes and listen, no shade. There are people who say no to me. There are people who's like, Okay, I did not think I was gonna bring this up.

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Speaker 2: I'm gonna bring it up, but whatever, I'll keep it cute. What y'all don't know.

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Speaker 1: Is somebody I was supposed to interview.

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Speaker 2: Who said yes, said no after what after.

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Speaker 1: Much thought and consideration, no, no, no no no no no no no. The feedback was this, when you do a Carlos King interview, you're you're naked meeting.

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Speaker 2: I have to I have to answer you.

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Speaker 1: Like they said, you have a way of getting the truth out of people. And although I'm ready to do that, I'm not ready to be naked right now.

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Speaker 2: I'm not ready for it.

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Speaker 7: So that's honest.

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Speaker 1: So what the world doesn't know is this that happened. This is a true story that happened the day before Chantelle reached out to me.

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Speaker 4: Are you at somebody?

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Speaker 5: Yes?

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Speaker 4: Who was it?

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Speaker 2: Anyways?

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Speaker 4: So, as a former journalist's supposed to.

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Speaker 2: My point is this.

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Speaker 1: When I got the DGM from Chantelle, y'all know I'm spiritual.

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Speaker 2: So Claudia, wake up.

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Speaker 8: When I got the dream from Chantel, I said to myself, here's somebody who doesn't know me, star being enough to have its tense conversation. It still said I only want to.

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Speaker 2: Talk to you. So I sell that to say, it's what you. Claudia does it and I do.

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Speaker 1: All we can do is be ourselves and and hope that people walk away even understanding us. More So, Listen, I appreciate the fact that she reached out, and I appreciate that for everybody who does say yes, because listen, this is a tough business. There's a lot of podcasts, there's a lot of people who do interviews, so I'm never I don't take for granted where someone says yes, because it's not always guaranteed.

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Speaker 5: I keep saying the seeing the accountability thing in the comments, like they I would like to know, Like what more did did did you?

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Speaker 2: Did you think? I think I get it?

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Speaker 1: Listen, Claudia, the reason why I was happy with the way you eloquently spoke about it is I think people want to blood.

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Speaker 2: Let's have a real conversation. Guess what, I get it.

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Speaker 1: We have never we have never in the history of reality TV seeing a black mother and daughter have a physical altercation. We've never seen it. We were all triggered by it. We were all upset. We all were upset about it, and I am we watch my recap of Dustin, I said to Dustin, I said us.

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Speaker 2: When I watched it, I got emotional.

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Speaker 1: And I text Jackie because I know her, and I said, I'm praying for y'all like this. I could not imagine being a producer watching that on the phone.

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Speaker 7: I just couldn't.

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Speaker 2: A mother and a daughter.

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Speaker 1: I understand, Claudia, that people are angry. I understand that people want to blood. I understand that people.

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Speaker 2: Claudia, you hit it.

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Speaker 1: I think people wanted her to constantly say it and say it and say it. And I appreciate those who watched the full two hours.

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Speaker 2: Thank you.

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Speaker 1: For those Hey, Dustin, No, a lot of people were leaving negative comments after thirty.

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Speaker 2: Minutes, so listen. I appreciate those. I love y'all.

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Speaker 1: Like and Dustin hit it. Dustin said, she said it. She said, I'm sorry, she said. I'm not making no excuses. I did what I did, I said what I said.

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Speaker 2: But here is.

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Speaker 1: What was my experience leading up to it. And I also want to say this, and and this is not what no Ona's talking about. That I can because I'm producer, and that Qualitia can because she is a reality star, and that dust can stand because Dustin is a historian of unscripted television. When you have somebody that has been on TV, that's okay. When you have somebody that's been on TV for more than ten seasons, we all know that there's certain people that got their faith. Their fans love them, and they can do nothing wrong.

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Speaker 2: There is this fan base. And this is what somebody said to me over the weekend.

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Speaker 1: They said, baby Jackie got fans, And I said, yes, I think what you and I talk about. And Clauda, you said this about Juice Dora. There's certain fans that like the Vets or the Ogs. A new bee coming in. Clauda experienced this. When a newbie comes in, you kind of side more with the Ogs. And I think when it comes to this interview, I think at the end of the day, we're all triggered by seeing what we saw.

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Speaker 2: We've never seen it before, and we didn't grow up that way.

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Speaker 1: We grew up with don't talk back to your parents, and I grew up that way too. I think that's one side. I think the other side of the look, Jackie is a legend. She's look, she's one of the greatest reality he starts of all time. Justin eloquently saying our recap, he said, yeah, this is the first time about Jackie's side, and he's a fan of the show, so I think a lot of that went into it too. Well, look, it's okay, nobody my thing is this the people of the comments. None of y'all are wrong. It's y'all opinion, just like Claudia, myself and Dustin aren't wrong when we recap shows.

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Speaker 3: No, but schan Tail was wrong for cussing her mama out and for pushing there. I think people just wanted to hear her say that more plainly than she said it in the interview. The only takeaway, and we didn't talk enough about this shit right on. The only takeaway I have for the interview that I wish she would have answered differently is when you asked her about the connect or she started speaking about, because I don't really even think it was a question. But when she started talking about her relationship with Denee and Brittany and she started offering I guess what she thought was going to substantiate their relationship. Well, we all got kids the same as she used to date. This basketball it was just the thinnest you know what I'm saying thread to connect them at all, and it did not help her case. That is one area where I was like, Okay, come on, Chantale, Damn, come on, Banna.

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Speaker 7: Ain't there with Jackie.

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Speaker 2: Come on, Dustin, please say daughter.

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Speaker 3: Let me say my daughter. Okay, my daughter, me and my daughter. Remember when they rolled up Andrea and Orlando that time. You want to talk about my daughter?

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Speaker 7: D O T T E R. That's Jackie. Now my daughter. I'm gonna talk what about your daughter? They said she's a beauty. Remember what she thought?

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Speaker 4: It was gonna be hard?

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Speaker 5: Like being objective here because I have not been watching basketball wives, I'm going to start.

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Speaker 4: Actually, when you have a relationship the daughter family, it's so complex.

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Speaker 5: It's not as limited to what we have seen in a season or two or five or even ten like. There's usually deep seated issues that are from ten years ago, twenty years ago, thirty years ago.

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Speaker 4: That are just unresolved things.

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Speaker 5: And a lot of times you go on reality to me without squashing those things, and they're gonna come out eventually, So we could be mad and be like, oh my god, I can't believe she disrespected her mom or whatever, But then we don't know what other things she's still harping on from years ago, not to say right, And this is this hypothetical y'all before y'all say I'm taking her side over Jackie, I'll let me some Jackie, okay, and vice versa. Jackie may have some unresolved things with her daughter, and a lot of times, unfortunately, reality brings out the worst parts of it. You know, if it's not squashed before you go on, it's gonna come out on necklace for a romantic relationships, friendships, you think you can go on there and outs out produce yourselves, you won't. It's gonna come out. And you know, I'm sure there's like many, many, many incidents both of them can name where they were hurt by each other, and it's gonna come out. And when we'd be like, heyn, why did go left like that? Well, that wasn't just about that day or that week or that month or that year. That was a lifetime of saints.

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Speaker 4: Yeah, you know, And then Jackie is also very good.

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Speaker 5: At reality, she knows what to do, which that would It's very difficult when you're in a scene with someone that knows what they're doing and you're not. You're gonna look crazy no matter what. But at the end of the day, also, fighting your mother on camera is the net and your mom's y'all swinging, Like swinging on your mom on camera or real life is nuts.

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Speaker 3: I wanted Precious to fight her mama though. That's one instance where I wanted to to fight them. I want to po Mary Ass in that movie so bad as Precious.

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Speaker 7: I want to get her man. That's what.

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Speaker 1: Popeye's chicken at all. But all all just the side. Thank y'all for watching it.

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Speaker 2: I love you guys. I love the comments, all ten thousand of them.

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Speaker 6: Child.

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Speaker 2: And if you haven't watched.

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Speaker 1: A Chantel Christy interview, it is still up on my YouTube channel, so make sure you watch it. Leave a comment. I want to see what you got to say about it. But all all jokes aside, thank y'all. And look, I'm still praying for the healing of the Christies, like it's I hope they can find some sort of resolve. This is reality with the King, and I'm Carlos King, Let's get back into the show.

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Speaker 2: It looks like there would not be a resolve when it comes to Ken, Trisia, and Marquez.

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Speaker 1: So let's get into the most recent episode of Love and Marriage Huntsville. So, as you all know, we are back celebrating season ten of Love and Marriage Huntsville, where we are three episodes in and it's already started off a little easy because of the dynamic between Ken, Tricia, and Marquez. So, for those who don't know, Ken and Tricia are the newest cast members to Love in Mats Huntsville. They're in a relationship. They live together. They're not married because technically Tricia is still married to her high school sweetheart Marquez.

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Speaker 2: Until this let me be careful so not give things away.

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Speaker 1: At the time of the episodes airing, they're still married. Okay, they have two kids. Ken and Tricia live together with her kids. Marquess is in and out of Marquess lives in Atlanta. By the way, I saw Marquess over the weekend.

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Speaker 7: M what y'all talk about?

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Speaker 4: Where'd just them?

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Speaker 1: I saw him out and about in Atlanta.

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Speaker 2: No, you know what, you know what dust it, I'll have Marquess tell y'all. Marquess will tell y'all what we talked about. But what I will say is I was happy to see him.

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Speaker 1: And what I will say is this it's a very complicated situation. What we saw in the premiere episode was Marquess dropping off his daughter. He got into a verbal altercation or spat rather with Tricia's friend Sharon.

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Speaker 3: Yeah, go ahead, I mean, I just I didn't mean it interject, but it just came in my head because that was crazy. First of all, and I'm by no means taking sides before anybody starts with that ship.

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Speaker 7: I'm just talking about what we saw in the television. Right. That lady was completely out of line.

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Speaker 3: Okay, you only been friends with Tricia for four years, that means you a new friend.

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Speaker 7: Okay.

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Speaker 3: Second of all, you don't have nothing to do with none of this. So all that questioning and what does she say when he walked in? She said something. She started off by.

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Speaker 4: Saying he came in with and it's like, well, did.

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Speaker 7: You hear some Caudi or something like that? She said, I'm like, you.

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Speaker 3: Ain't even in this, you know what I'm saying, Like, she needs to shut up. That's what she needs to do, and she needs to stay out of it because it don't have nothing to do with her. And she really lit a flame, you know, pour gasoline on a flame.

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Speaker 7: You know what I'm saying.

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Speaker 3: In that situation that's already tense, already completely fucked up, needs so much work, needs so much help. And here she come with a Cassie haircut talking about some uh she was sure hair was shaved on the side, talking about some uh uh, just having an opinion, you know what I'm saying, on some shit that she didn't have no place speaking on.

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Speaker 7: I did not like that.

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Speaker 3: And Marquiz is a troll, Okay, a straight up troll, and that triggered him in that way. And did hear come the mess they could have gotten somewhere without her ass And I just didn't understand why she was inserting herself in that conversation.

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Speaker 5: It's yes, because of the TV show and because people trying to make their marks early on, because I feel like in real life.

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Speaker 4: No one would ever really do that.

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Speaker 5: In real life, I think people have batteries in that back, especially New reality folks, but people do definitely want to show off liver. But like you, feel like you have to make something happen instead of just letting the scene letting might happen.

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Speaker 4: I feel like she was like, well, let me just be a little messy for the scene. That's one thing.

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Speaker 5: Like she could just chills and let him pop off first and then jump in. And I didn't think if you've been friends zone before years, I mean, that's not like you just became friends, that's enough time.

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Speaker 2: To happen to you.

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Speaker 4: But nobody asked her.

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Speaker 5: Like you made it where your friend now has to decide and she wants to have her homegirls back or her exes back, and it's on camera, so everything's times ten. Now he hows cameras they're let me match energy, so I can't go out, and I like, no punk right, So you got this and that's what happens because people want to show off for the cameras.

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Speaker 4: That's what I kind of feel. I feel like it was elevated because people will watch it.

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Speaker 1: I think you think it was elevated from marquas perspective or Sharon's perspective or both.

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Speaker 5: Sharon first and then Mark has responding to her both like you know, I am about to look like she's punking me walking into the housepital my you know my kids are?

00:24:23
Speaker 4: I feel like she started it?

00:24:24
Speaker 2: She did.

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Speaker 5: It wasn't major, but it was enough to like an already tense situation, or don't take that much of gasoline to make that flame go of higher?

00:24:32
Speaker 7: True, she started it?

00:24:35
Speaker 6: I did.

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Speaker 2: So then?

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Speaker 1: Could you know what was so interesting about it is? Prior to that scene, you did see Ken and Marquaz meet up one on one too.

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Speaker 2: Oh, go ahead, Dustin, that was crazy.

00:24:51
Speaker 7: Stop trying.

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Speaker 3: You got to stop trying with motherfuckers sometimes. You know what I'm saying. This has been going on for years. This is what we what do we call it in our line of work at multi year pregnant shit right that this has been going on between Tricia and Marcus. You know what I'm saying, Like, you know how he is, Ken, You know how he is too. Stop trying to build a bridge and make an inroads where there isn't one. Focus everything on them kids. They have beautiful children together, by the way. Focus everything on them children, you know what I'm saying, And just eliminate any unnecessary communication. You can't make him change and be a different person. He's exactly who he is and they know that by now, so Ken banging his head against the wall trying to figure out how to put a what do they take a square peg? And whatever the fucking saying is stop just stop. That was crazy to me that he went and met up. I understand that it gave us something interesting to look at. But again, this is the difference between a television showing what would likely happen in real life. Because I wish I be Damn you think I would have set up there talking if I was Ken talking to my kids about what you know what I'm saying, No, we don't have nothing to talk about but this.

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Speaker 2: But this was so interesting, Dustin, so in real life. So obviously after.

00:26:05
Speaker 1: We take the reunion, we have like a couple of months of hiatus before we.

00:26:10
Speaker 2: Resume with this with with the with the next season.

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Speaker 1: So after that reunion, Dustin, what's interesting is they I think Ken, if I got this mistake in Ken, let me know, I believe Ken made the effort after the reunion where they did get into it too, offered an olive branch too to Marquez. And what was so interesting is when we got back in production, he was like, me and Marquez are working on being better because I think, and that's the beauty of TV. You see your behavior or you see your actions and you're like, you know what I could have done better?

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Speaker 2: And I think that's the reason why Ken felt so upset.

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Speaker 1: When Sharon my sharing when Tricia told him how Marquez did walk up in the house.

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Speaker 2: And just just so y'all know, Marquez was.

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Speaker 6: Not my.

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Speaker 2: Production we had. He was not miked.

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Speaker 4: Boom and the boom sound real good.

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Speaker 1: Yes he was we had so so for the audience too. That wasn't a fake scene production. We had no idea that Marquess was about to walk in. That scene was strictly supposed to be about Tricia and Sharon discussing their situation when they saw when they saw Marquess pull up and with his daughter, they of course followed my rule, which is you.

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Speaker 2: Follow the reality.

00:27:37
Speaker 1: And he walked a been there and that's why you saw Tricia like, I know, this did not just walking in my house.

00:27:45
Speaker 2: So it wasn't it wasn't fake. He wasn't Mike. He was not Mike.

00:27:49
Speaker 3: And that's why that day.

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Speaker 5: Just like like I would have reacted, I'd be like more like stunning and someone came up in my house than when I was filming.

00:28:05
Speaker 3: Like like, baby, I would have been on my feet so fast with my finger pointed, get the fuck out of here. Outd have been so fast going off immediately walking in my house.

00:28:15
Speaker 4: I think it'd be a lot less issues. And again I'm new to this show. If they gotta get that divorce and too many weird stool attachments, like that's just so weird, Like get that divorce done. You know you got a new man there raising he says it, those are my kids, he goes, but this is my family now.

00:28:32
Speaker 5: And I was like, oh, I can see why marks will be you know, triggered by that, Like that's gotta be a gut punch like ough, Like I'm not the house with the kids, but that dig that and that's not your fel that's my family. So you got some boundaries like divorce, get that, get that squared away.

00:28:48
Speaker 4: I don't know who's holds who's holding up the divorce? What's what's the hold up?

00:28:52
Speaker 2: Dustin? Would you like to answer that?

00:28:54
Speaker 7: So here's what I heard.

00:28:57
Speaker 3: So, according to Marquez, Tricia and Ken inappropriately or issues some paperwork that did not list one of their children. Because I think one of the children is a minor, right, and the other one is above eighteen. And the paperwork, according to Ken, according to Marquez, did not have that on there. But as we've seen this week, when they was putting that paper in his face like this, that paper had the child's name on it, and Ken was about to push his finger through that paper.

00:29:29
Speaker 7: He was so goddamn mad when he was it's right there, it's right there. You don't see it. That's when he was doing that.

00:29:35
Speaker 4: He was there.

00:29:37
Speaker 3: Because Marquez is a troll, and I don't know see me personally, I'd have been like, so what are you saying? Because I don't want to be married to you anymore, Marquez, So please don't misunderstand.

00:29:48
Speaker 7: Any of this.

00:29:50
Speaker 3: I'm not omitting names in an attempt to stay married to you. I don't want to be married to you. That's what needs to be said. But Tricia has this thing where she just gets in and she goes into a back and forth and just plays off of whatever the last thing the person that she's arguing with says. So, like, Claudia, if you and Tricia have a back and forth verbally and you tell her, well, I didn't like what you did.

00:30:12
Speaker 7: She'll say, well, I didn't like what you did, you know what I mean? She does that.

00:30:15
Speaker 3: Instead of getting to the root of the issue, and she's talking about shit. So that's what happened. So the last time we checked, that's why they were still married.

00:30:25
Speaker 4: Marquez is a little bit of a high head, A little bit what you say.

00:30:29
Speaker 3: I think Marquez has a he's a troll. He don't mind stirring the pot if he knows it's going to get on your fucking nerves, and he has an issue with you.

00:30:37
Speaker 7: So I think that's the kind of person he is.

00:30:38
Speaker 3: I wouldn't say a hot head, because Ken was hot in that scene. Carlos, why didn't we see the damn fight too? That's what I'm tired of. Show the damn fight. You can't drink. You can't drink us that damn close. You know what I'm saying to it? We want to see it. Can we please get a bonus cut, a director's cut or something. Stop blacking the screen out, Carlos, Damn, we walked, I get I get blamed.

00:31:02
Speaker 4: This just putting the tip in and I'll give us the whole shafting.

00:31:08
Speaker 7: That's what I'm saying, man, we're trying to welcome.

00:31:10
Speaker 2: To my twenties. That's what my twenties was like. So look, what I will say is this.

00:31:23
Speaker 1: Every look, it's not my decision.

00:31:27
Speaker 2: It's not I'll just leave that that.

00:31:30
Speaker 7: It's not my decision. It's not my good.

00:31:32
Speaker 1: But but but but but but I do want to ask all something about this based on what you two have seen in that scene. These are the questions that were position on social media over the weekend. Do y'all think that Tricia and Marquaz are still in love with each other and that's evident based on what you guys seen, and that can should move away from this relationship.

00:32:04
Speaker 7: Claudia, what you think?

00:32:06
Speaker 5: I don't know if I know enough say she they're in love, but there's definitely still some feelings there, but there should be had two kids with this person.

00:32:13
Speaker 4: I don't know if there's still love.

00:32:15
Speaker 5: I think Mark Kuz is showing that he's still a little bit like he don't feel like he's replaced Mebuh.

00:32:22
Speaker 4: That can't feel good.

00:32:23
Speaker 5: Listen, you out the chicken coop and a new roal cities in the chicken coop with your eggs. Old Lady laying your eggs showing his cop You know what I'm saying.

00:32:37
Speaker 4: You know what I'm saying. That can't worm.

00:32:41
Speaker 7: No, Patricia said it was a hot dog.

00:32:44
Speaker 3: Remember in the in the in the episode, she said, he came out here this out.

00:32:48
Speaker 9: Remember the way something box people in the nothing Are we going to listen?

00:33:00
Speaker 1: That'ster's on tour if you're in Atlanta August sixteenth. He has a second show that's been added because the first one sold out.

00:33:06
Speaker 2: Yes, are you going to like this impersonation?

00:33:10
Speaker 3: You know I'm an old school I am inspired by the old school grades of comedy. I come from the school of death comedy, jam and comic View and Eddie Murphy Ross so hell yeah, and lots of impressions, lots of physical comedy, lots of ship talking.

00:33:24
Speaker 7: Yes, there will be impressions.

00:33:27
Speaker 3: Absolutely, Claudia know she's Claudia has seen it yet.

00:33:32
Speaker 5: The Negro's next. That's no left and right. Oh myth They need to make a movie about him. Twenty Ways, Bubble of Bag, mar Marquis Marquette, whatever, Homeboy and old Girl.

00:33:46
Speaker 4: When guys, when you break up with your hand right appreciates are so bad?

00:33:51
Speaker 5: It's most likely the man's gonna find other woman before the woman finds another man.

00:33:55
Speaker 4: Especially when you have kids.

00:33:56
Speaker 10: A lot of times, guys like you ain't never gonna find another one with another and you got two kids, fools that I'll watch you guys be liked when that girl move on with some and someone else comes in and let alone, another man comes in and wants to take care of those kids too, or want to be there for that's gotta be like that, does't you know that's got to be pissed them off?

00:34:14
Speaker 3: Well, didn't do your job and be more present and so that he can be her man and you can be their father. To me, I don't know, y'all know how I have very rigid views when it comes to like the way men show up in relationships.

00:34:27
Speaker 7: I just you know what I'm shout out to Mika Smith. I love y'all too. I love it. D I'm gonna come. We just I'm coming. But anyway, he needs to step up.

00:34:36
Speaker 3: See what you do is if you're a person who's affected by things in that way, you eliminate the risk. And the way that he could eliminate the risk is by showing up and being present, paying for everything for his damn children. Stop offering other people's food and drinks to guests. You know what I'm saying, Stop doing that coming up in their house talking about do you want something to drink to this lady? Where'd you gonna get it from? That's Kin's refrigerator. You know what I'm saying, Like you can't. Markis got it. That's why I say he trolls because I know he's aware when he does those things. But if he's a man that's affected by that and made to feel inadequate, which I think is a lot of what we see, I think he feels inadequate, and it's a literal physical comparison, you know what I'm saying. Ken is bigger and stronger than him, and he's showing up handling your responsibilities.

00:35:23
Speaker 7: I think Markuiz feels minimized in that way.

00:35:28
Speaker 2: So yeah, yeah, and also think this too. I think a lot of it goes to show that.

00:35:34
Speaker 1: Look, when you have an a tense situation based on the former well I can't even say former because they're still married technically, right, And then you have Ken, who obviously is in love with Trish, He's in love with the kids, he's taking care of his mainly responsibilities.

00:35:53
Speaker 2: Why do you guys think though?

00:35:55
Speaker 1: Before we move on to Marceau and Maurice, why do you guys feel though that?

00:36:00
Speaker 2: But the audience is strictly blaming Tricia.

00:36:03
Speaker 1: They felt like this is Tricia's fault and a lot of them want Can to leave her and they don't feel like can.

00:36:12
Speaker 2: I'm sorry, they don't feel like Tricia's good enough for Can.

00:36:15
Speaker 4: They always be blaming the black the black woman.

00:36:18
Speaker 5: It's always her. It's our fault for every single thing. When it's men acting up, Oh what did you do to make him do that? When you get raped? What was you wearing when you get beat up?

00:36:26
Speaker 1: Oh?

00:36:26
Speaker 5: What did you say that pissed him off? It's annoying as hell, and I'm sick of it. I mean, I haven't seen anything. Again, I'm new to the show. I haven't seen the blatant anything, blatantly wrong that she did. But I think that's just like kind of what.

00:36:38
Speaker 4: Our society does. And it's not just other men, it's other women too. And I don't know, I don't know.

00:36:44
Speaker 3: I think there's two factors too here that do come into play. We were introduced to Tricia. She was surrounded by a lot of questions. Remember we were met When we met her, she lied about knowing Martel, and so a lot of people feel like Tricia is a liar. They don't believe anything that she says, and so that kind of places her in their scope when it comes to playing the blame game, right. And another thing, Tricia do look like she always sneaking, you know what I'm saying, Like when she be in these scenes, tell her, you know, she always looks sneaking, like she's sneaking doing something. And I think that's what makes people feel like that, you know what I'm saying when it comes to her.

00:37:21
Speaker 4: So, so does she look sneaky or do you think she is sneaky?

00:37:25
Speaker 7: I think she looks sneaky, but so.

00:37:28
Speaker 4: You could look sneaky even not be sneaky, right, I think.

00:37:30
Speaker 3: She looks sneaky and I think she lied about how she knows Martell when she came onto the show, And I think that's a toxic combination when it comes to people believe in what you have to say.

00:37:41
Speaker 5: And then on reality TV there is no forgiveness. Like we talked about her beginning, you mess up the one one time, that's it. You know you are always going to be looked through through that lens.

00:37:50
Speaker 7: But Lot, that's why King friends want him to leave her Kiv's friends.

00:37:54
Speaker 3: He was like, you zoom out and look at the whole puzzle, Like you got to look at the whole puzzle, Like why are you doing this? Basically that's what he was asking Ken, like why are you staying in this damn relationship?

00:38:05
Speaker 7: Yeah, And Chris Flincher sat up there not when he was saying it. Chris Flincher was.

00:38:10
Speaker 2: Like, yeah, so I do want to I do want to talk to you guys about this. Listen. The beauty of Monday.

00:38:18
Speaker 1: Night Live is the fact that this is live, this is not take and you never know who's gonna pop in. So Dustin and Claudia, look, look, there's a lot that happened on this episode of Love and Matche hunts Bill. So it would be remiss of me not to bring on somebody to have a real conversation. Ladies jumped to men, gaze and bathe and all the rain drops around the world. Give it up for the man, the myth, the chocolate in the bottle.

00:38:50
Speaker 2: Marcel, Marcel, what's having this? Marceau all horizontally.

00:39:05
Speaker 5: Okay, work and you are too far, like if you can bring in a little closely there you go.

00:39:13
Speaker 11: Like I'm sitting all the way now see you look when Carlos says jump, I jump.

00:39:18
Speaker 6: I'm just getting off the plane.

00:39:20
Speaker 11: I'm at the the lounge and I'm like, yes, you know so this Carlos when we say asked me to do someone, I say, yes.

00:39:31
Speaker 2: I appreciate you. Marcel. Marcell was just so so first of all, Marcel me Claudia Jordan.

00:39:40
Speaker 4: I think he did my show.

00:39:41
Speaker 5: He did, Yeah, you did my show before out Loud and I came to the lounge one time.

00:39:47
Speaker 6: And himself, Oh you can't.

00:39:49
Speaker 4: You went to black Yep with Fundy Neva. Right, it was years ago, Okay, now it was.

00:39:57
Speaker 6: It wasn't need but it was with some other people. It was, oh god, what was that one? It was out for play.

00:40:04
Speaker 4: Yeah, I thought he was there. He was there. Oh, I'm old.

00:40:07
Speaker 5: My memory is trash. I'm I've been crying all day with my cat, so I don't know what's happening.

00:40:10
Speaker 6: Sorry, oh you got a cat cry.

00:40:16
Speaker 4: I had to take it. Dans had to put her down. Today.

00:40:18
Speaker 5: She live, but it's it's I'm going it anyway, I'm sorry's out the whole nother time.

00:40:24
Speaker 4: It's about you right now. But anyways, hello, welcome.

00:40:27
Speaker 2: To the show.

00:40:29
Speaker 6: Hey not how are you? Hey?

00:40:30
Speaker 2: Guys, and you and you know I'm Dustin already, So what's Marshall?

00:40:36
Speaker 7: I know I know that Dustin, You're good, chilling brother, chilling.

00:40:41
Speaker 1: So Marceau, thank you for stepping into the lounge and onto the show. So while I have you, and before we get into you and your brother having an argument over the Golden Child, I do want.

00:40:53
Speaker 2: To ask you this question.

00:40:54
Speaker 1: First though, you saw what happened between Ken, Trisha and Marquez last season. We saw you talk to Marquez about how you felt his behavior was and and you know, not being there at the.

00:41:10
Speaker 2: Time he should have been all those things.

00:41:12
Speaker 1: When you watch the altercation that happened between Ken and Marquez in front of Trician Sharon, what are your thoughts and all of that that went down.

00:41:26
Speaker 6: My thoughts are is that you know, when you get people together, like you get one.

00:41:32
Speaker 11: Side, you can get the truth, but you're always getting different perspectives. And so what I understand about relationships is that you know, when I'm talking to Trish, she's telling me everything from.

00:41:45
Speaker 6: Her perspective and what Marquez did.

00:41:48
Speaker 11: And when I'm talking to Marquis, he's telling me everything what Tris did, but no one's taking accountability for it. And so I know we're missing a lot of the story as far as what the did, what they felt, what's really going on in the situation.

00:42:00
Speaker 6: And so that's why to me, it's a little hard to understand when.

00:42:05
Speaker 12: You know, then this unfinished business there is For me, I can see through the line of this unfinished business when it jumps to Marquez and Trish, and I think that's what we're getting the residue of.

00:42:20
Speaker 2: Do you think that Ken and.

00:42:24
Speaker 1: Do you think Ken and Tricia will last while this divorce is still not finalized, or do you think they're going to work through it?

00:42:39
Speaker 11: So I personally think that they have their biggest issue right now is now they have a crowd watching, and so now they have they have they got a little bit more at stake right now. It's easy to walk a line, but when you put it ten thousand feet in the air and change the dynamics of it, and so now I think that it's hard to do this when you're being called stupid, it's hard to do this when you've got a lot of opinions, when you got a lot more dms, when you got a lot more people coming to you saying, hey, you know the you know.

00:43:14
Speaker 6: The you should leave thems?

00:43:15
Speaker 11: You know the you should leave them are present, They're gonna be here, And I think it's hard to walk that line right there and then it's hard to do this sometimes feeling stupid but then being called stupid over and over and over. I think powerful Ken, I think it's hard for uh, you know, that's a hard dynamic, especially in love.

00:43:34
Speaker 4: Does it also make you fight harder sometimes, like to prove than they say is wrong? Does that also help you sometimes in these shows?

00:43:43
Speaker 11: Yeah, when you're running while you're tired, you get that burst of energy that lasts about less than one hundred meters and then you're back to being dog ass tired. And so I think that while you're doing it, you want to say, hey, babe, back against the wall, me and you versus the world. And he takes a couple more episodes, come more being called stupids, a couple more bullshit than you're like, hey man, what am I really doing here?

00:44:10
Speaker 7: You've seen a lot of people calling Ken stupid myself.

00:44:15
Speaker 6: Oh yeah, broyh yeah yeah yeah yeah.

00:44:18
Speaker 11: And because it's not because Ken's stupid, it's because Ken is so short of himself with the answers. You know what I'm saying, Oh no, no, no, no no. Remember a hanging over with Oh Boy. It was like, oh, oh, my wife doesn't do that. She doesn't like semen. And he's like, okay, buddy, don't be that guy.

00:44:40
Speaker 4: What do you think about him? What do you think about Ken? What do you think about Ken?

00:44:46
Speaker 11: I think Ken's a I think Ken's a good guy. I think Ken, Ken is a good guy. Ken has this Ken is going to meet he uh, that's my guy. But he goes through the same stuff that that handsome men go through later on in life, and medium attractive guys go through earlier life.

00:45:07
Speaker 6: You know, like I learned this lesson?

00:45:13
Speaker 2: What do you mean that?

00:45:15
Speaker 6: What is that?

00:45:15
Speaker 2: Break that down?

00:45:16
Speaker 6: Please? Okay? And I'm not saying this about that situation.

00:45:24
Speaker 11: All right, I'm not saying this, but sometimes you can be a great guy and just not her first choice or she's not into you, or whatever.

00:45:34
Speaker 6: Situation may be. You might have all of this stuff stacked up right here, but it just doesn't.

00:45:38
Speaker 11: Line up, and you don't understand why, because you thought that the relationships were on you. You thought that if I just be a good guy, then it'll all fall in place. And you learn later on in life that sometimes it's just you know, bad timing. Bro, You don't think that right now. I think it's a tough situation because you two people that like each other, but the idea of that next step is tough.

00:46:06
Speaker 4: Do you think she's settling for him? Like, like you kind of give that analogy, Like you know later she's not. He's not her first choice. Like you know, when we get older, we're like, all right, we might as well. I might as well get with him. He's a nice guy. Is it kind of like that?

00:46:25
Speaker 11: You know, I'm not gonna I'm not gonna fully agree with trick Daddy, but I will say that settling ain't a bad thing. You might want to make your decisions while you're in your prime, and after you get into your prime, you might want to start thinking about settling.

00:46:40
Speaker 6: Mm. Well, of it. It's not a bad thing. It's not a bad thing. Because no, I don't think she's settling. I think that she's just not in the place right now where.

00:47:00
Speaker 11: I think she wants to have fun and the idea of getting off this long marriage and this crazy roller coaster and then jumping right onto another one is dang, can you let me get a drink first, Let me take a break first, let.

00:47:16
Speaker 6: Me wind down. So I'm like, that's what that might be some of that, But again.

00:47:25
Speaker 2: Marcel, I don't know. I think that no, no, no, no, I think the beauty listen Marcel. Always.

00:47:33
Speaker 1: One of the meaning reasons I love Marcel is because Marcel has a lot of wisdom and insight when it comes to things, because he's able to see things obviously from his perspective. And I think it's I think it's an interesting dialogue because there is a big topic of conversation about settling and when you do reach a certain age, are you just happy to be with somebody that checks the boxes of what works for you in the during the life that you're living right now versus what you said, like walking.

00:48:08
Speaker 2: Or running while you're tired?

00:48:10
Speaker 1: Am I am I going to risk losing something that seems right on paper to go after something that forces me to just continue to be on this roller coaster ride.

00:48:26
Speaker 7: Do y'all think Ken is settling too, and.

00:48:30
Speaker 6: And turloughs real talk like there's not a lot of guys out there like Ken. There's not. There's not a lot of guys out there like Ken.

00:48:39
Speaker 11: So Ken's value is going Oh, I'm not saying Trici's value is going down, but Ken is going up.

00:48:45
Speaker 6: Ships drink.

00:48:49
Speaker 2: Well, listen. I just discovered Ken on TikTok.

00:48:52
Speaker 1: My algorithm found Ken and does to Claudia and marcel I spent. I was traveling today and I'm reading all of the comments of Kn's TikTok posts, and what I will say is unfortunately, because Ken's in a relationship, and I figure ladies are Jezebels for doing this, but our names. There's a lot of women, Claudia in the comments telling Ken to lead, Tricia telling Ken you're too good of a woman, telling Ken dip this chocolate in my strawberry shake. There's a lot of there's a lot of women who is encouraging Can to leave his situation. And what I do want to talk to and I want to move on to you and Marion while I have you, mar So, but I do want to raise this question. We hear lots of times about how marriages on reality television oftentimes in a divorce.

00:49:48
Speaker 7: Right.

00:49:48
Speaker 2: So we're not gonna talk about that right now.

00:49:50
Speaker 1: But what we don't spend a lot of time talking about is that reality TV glow. Right, What happens when you the world knows you're in a relationship and you happen to be a handsome individual and there's a lot of women who want you based on them thinking the woman you have does not deserve you. Did that happen to you, Marcel once the show started popping and your medium ugly status grew into being a handsome fellow like your brother Maurice.

00:50:28
Speaker 11: Well, Carlos, I will say this that I'm not I mean, I'm gonna get beat up for this, but I'll pledged Q the HBCU, all right, I've been popping. So this this this this new world walk of fame, and righteously I'm so happy that in college I was on that same level.

00:50:48
Speaker 6: So this doesn't this ain't new. But yeah, you get that, you get a lot of d ms, and I wouldn't. I wouldn't. I wouldn't.

00:50:57
Speaker 11: I wouldn't like bro simmer down now because all of that stuff that you think that you wouldn't do.

00:51:04
Speaker 6: First of all, you know they would do. And and it's not even it's not cuse worth it. But them d ms do be dumping.

00:51:16
Speaker 4: Really okay, I'm looking at some of my DM are trash.

00:51:26
Speaker 2: They are.

00:51:27
Speaker 4: They do not reflect I feel like my success level. I'm a little bit offended on my dms.

00:51:31
Speaker 5: I feel like Instagram is mess with my algorithm and they put me in a weird space.

00:51:34
Speaker 4: You should see my DM. I would share them.

00:51:36
Speaker 5: It is very like, I don't know, it's messing my self esteem. I'm like, I deserve better DM than this.

00:51:44
Speaker 4: I a lot of mentally ill on my dms.

00:51:46
Speaker 6: And of ill Claudia, Claudia not going back to trick daddy. But but what I'm saying, I'm it's just it's.

00:52:01
Speaker 4: You're saying I hit the walls. M h, you got a back connection.

00:52:10
Speaker 6: I think upgrade that.

00:52:16
Speaker 4: I think Black needs to upgrade their WiFi. I can't hate you right now.

00:52:21
Speaker 6: This ain't Black, this is this is a Centurion lounge.

00:52:23
Speaker 4: You talk to them, Oh them too.

00:52:28
Speaker 6: No, but no, I'm not saying that you hit your wall. Absolutely not. I'm saying that.

00:52:35
Speaker 11: And the the more rare you get and the more. Everybody ain't shopping for Ferraris. So if you are a nice Ferrari or a bit ley or being.

00:52:44
Speaker 6: You're gonna sit on the shlf a little longer.

00:52:47
Speaker 5: Okay, I'm seeing a lot of comments from the rain drops saying that on Ken's TikTok, he's liking a lot of a comment.

00:53:00
Speaker 4: We're they're saying he's single.

00:53:05
Speaker 7: That's a Carlos question.

00:53:06
Speaker 4: What do tail Carlos?

00:53:10
Speaker 1: All I would say is we are currently shooting Love and matrig Huntsville, and one thing that we do is follow the reality. But but, but I do want to ask you one more question, Marcel before we move on to Maurice and you, what advice would you give Claudia. Claudia is a beautiful woman, she is educated. Because Claudia Cadia has well call you tell your own story child to Marcel. Marceau has a lot of wisdom. Marcell has been married fifteen years? Is it Marceau fifteen going on fifteen?

00:53:47
Speaker 2: I'm sorry start this month.

00:53:51
Speaker 1: So Marcel is going on nineteen years of marriage and Marceau has a lot of wisdom. So I would love for you, as a heterosexual black man and to give the beautiful Claudia Jordan.

00:54:02
Speaker 2: Any advice you think she may need. Uh, Claudia is single, Claudia, I am single.

00:54:10
Speaker 4: Choice.

00:54:11
Speaker 5: I see my friends going through it on social media and all y'all in the reality shows.

00:54:15
Speaker 4: I have a lot of peace in my house. No one is leaving the cap off.

00:54:19
Speaker 5: The toothpaste, and the toilet seat is down, and my house is spotless.

00:54:23
Speaker 2: I'm good, it is, Carlos.

00:54:28
Speaker 6: Okay, So no, I want to know.

00:54:31
Speaker 2: Oh, go ahead, I'm sorry, I'm gonna let I'm gonna let Marce Claudia talk.

00:54:35
Speaker 5: I do say that they do say you have a lot of wisdom to comments, and they say you have very strong views on women and all that, let's hear it.

00:54:43
Speaker 11: But I would say this, I would say, and I just know from the outside looking in, and so it has to be a general perspective. But of course I think that there are so many different attributes that you know, a woman like yourself would have. I would say, don't be afraid to open yourself up to the guy that you wouldn't normally talk to, right, because he's kid it real, all right, Men of a certain status, they're gonna put up with a certain stuff. You know, and if you want to, if you want to talk to a guy that's a boss, a guy that's the leader, a guy that's over his own thing and has achieved a certain amount of success.

00:55:29
Speaker 6: I continue this right now. He's normally used to saying something and people replying yes, sir.

00:55:36
Speaker 11: Right on top of that, rose okay. He's normally used to his words achieving things. He's not a stupid guy. He's not a guy that lacks ambition. But he's a guy that gets what he wants because he goes after it, because he's willing to make the sacrifice, because he's gonna He's generally intelligent.

00:55:53
Speaker 6: So that's the kind of guy you want. Well, that means that you being of a you know, a great and strung I.

00:56:01
Speaker 11: Mean you have to fall in line with that, you know, he that guy is not used to struggling with things that he wants that he's you know, to.

00:56:10
Speaker 6: Be successful poor. Does that make sense? No, it doesn't.

00:56:19
Speaker 4: Saying if a man got something going on, shut the fuck up, don't talk back. He is he said, not nobody pushing back, and you be quiet.

00:56:26
Speaker 5: You know your role, you know your place, and you us if you want a man of a certain status kind of right in that shell.

00:56:32
Speaker 11: I'm saying a portion of that is, but I say, exercise your femininity and that is the uh that that that's what breaks down masculinity, the femininity, not paid up masculinity from a woman. So one a woman that's alpha with what they think is an awful woman that just really's mouth that right there.

00:56:58
Speaker 6: That's just like a guy, a guy of major status talking to.

00:57:03
Speaker 11: A weaker man versus the femininity is what actually breaks that doubt in the guy. So that's what the guy's looking for to a guy of that of the god that you're looking for once.

00:57:15
Speaker 5: The woman needs Oh, I totally understand that. I definitely live in my femininity in the household. I will say I will speak for a lot of women with this. Most women, when they actually come in contact with actual masculinity and not just loud mouth Boston, it's just because they have a penis, would love to fall in place or fall into the femininity and love to let a man lead. I think a lot of times when women don't is when they're not really respecting that man because he may have shown some weakness or some bitch assness or some lack of leadership and then they're like, I don't trust you, you know, and I think you have to like, you know, when that master man sees is in his masculinity, a woman is gonna she's going to be a support, a nurture.

00:58:02
Speaker 4: When she doesn't have respective and see it, she's gonna pop off.

00:58:05
Speaker 5: Or that woman could also have some issues herself. Well, I'm not going to say all women are sitting here being perfect, because they're not. You know, there's plenty of people that that you know, we'll see a good thing coming.

00:58:15
Speaker 4: And mess it up.

00:58:22
Speaker 3: In line, Claudia, do you how do from a woman's perspective, right, how do you all wh if you see a guy that is or if you start talking to a man right and he has views on let's say gender roles right that are really traditional and he's basically beating his chest in an effort to say, you know, like my house, my rules type shit.

00:58:48
Speaker 7: What do women like you think about men like that?

00:58:51
Speaker 3: Do you view that as them posturing or positioning themselves to mask some insecurity or like what how does that land on a woman like you who's successful right in your own right?

00:59:03
Speaker 7: You have all the boxes checked, you know, you have your own home, you have options. You know what I mean?

00:59:09
Speaker 3: How do you view men that show up that way in relationship and immediately try to establish like a hierarchy?

00:59:18
Speaker 7: You know what I'm saying? How does that make you feel?

00:59:21
Speaker 4: I always thought that men that actually have it, like, like, really, whose house phone is that? It's easy? My house bowing? We got a help phones.

00:59:31
Speaker 2: I love it.

00:59:31
Speaker 4: I'm not alone. You've got housephones?

00:59:34
Speaker 7: No, that's my intercom?

00:59:36
Speaker 2: Okay, oh you got Oh somebody have company?

00:59:40
Speaker 4: Well let me make this that oh we lost them. I will say this.

00:59:43
Speaker 5: I think men that really actually have those qualities that are that are actual leaders don't have to tell you.

00:59:49
Speaker 4: I think real power is quiet.

00:59:50
Speaker 5: You don't have to tell me because guess what, I'm peeping you, I'm looking at you, and I will recognize, oh, he got to go on.

00:59:57
Speaker 4: This is a man, This is a man. I think the men that are like I'm the man, I'm the man, really not just like you.

01:00:04
Speaker 5: Know people that are out here saying I'll make moves in silence. You're not making moves in silence. You're announcing it. Like I feel like, you know, we're all smart enough and perceptive enough to notice it. I love a strong, silent man where I can just pick it up myself and see it. You have me in check without having to tell me you're about to put me there or you go all listen at me. I'm gonna want you because I admire you, i admire strength, i admire masculinity. I'm attracted to that. I'm gonna be like, yo, you gotta going on. I don't have to question him.

01:00:35
Speaker 4: A lot of times we pop off like we don't like, we're seeing you be irresponsible, not doing what you have that you said you're gonna do, not being a man of integrity and all that, So then we lose respect for you, and then we pop off. And then these men be like, she don't want to listen to us, she doesn't choose not with her feminine. You're masculine, because.

01:00:55
Speaker 5: Someone's got to be the man, and if it's not you, fortunately we have to step up. We would prefer to not have to be the man. No masculine woman got there because she wanted to be. It was from a lack of.

01:01:11
Speaker 4: You coming there on your man.

01:01:12
Speaker 5: Shit, you're gonna get a feminine woman, She's gonna fall back unless she's mentally ill and they're awesome out there.

01:01:17
Speaker 4: Listen, all the women.

01:01:18
Speaker 5: Ain't perfect, but for the most part, I mean, I'll fall back when I see you you handle things, you know, you fix things about me telling you I don't have to, Like, I don't know one wants the nag that ain't cute.

01:01:28
Speaker 3: I just think the notion of like people feeling like a woman has to fall back quote unquote, and that that's just crazy to me, because I mean, what are we like, what are we saying here? Like when you find a partner that works, In order for a relationship between a man and a woman to sustain, the woman has to shrink herself in some way and allow him to be you know, I just don't don't.

01:01:51
Speaker 7: I don't know. But I'm a gag nigga, So what do I know? You know what my story a lot?

01:01:58
Speaker 4: I think you know a lot.

01:01:59
Speaker 5: And I think that that is a problem, like that caveman shoot is for the birds, But that was a system that was kind of set up like keep you uneducated, just pregnant, just being there to be a thing of pleasure for men and not really have a say. And some men may confuse a woman having an opinion with not being feminine, like you should just not push back at all or not have an opinion. And I think that's crazy. I do think that people need to check how they speak to each other. Man to women and women to man is not a one way street. You know, if you love someone, you care about someone, you should care about their opinions and want them to contribute to this.

01:02:35
Speaker 3: Yeah, I don't know what. So Marcel's Internet service was messing up? Yeah, so lifted Marcel.

01:02:43
Speaker 4: To masculine Marcel. Not so fast, a woman, shut your mouth. He is back.

01:02:57
Speaker 2: So Martha, I don't like to are you going myself? You can hear us.

01:03:04
Speaker 6: I hope we're better now, Yeah.

01:03:06
Speaker 2: Much better, much better, just in times.

01:03:08
Speaker 6: So let's sten my burning I heard I felt claudy and customed me out.

01:03:12
Speaker 4: No, not at all.

01:03:14
Speaker 2: I don't.

01:03:15
Speaker 4: I don't think you're a problematic man.

01:03:17
Speaker 7: I really know.

01:03:17
Speaker 5: You've always been cool to me, and we've I've interviewed you before. You you're cool to me. I like these kind of conversations. I think like we should have one of these conversations to each other, not just you and your homeboys and me and my homegorls.

01:03:30
Speaker 6: Wrong, you think I'm a big on gender roles.

01:03:37
Speaker 4: Let's ask the chat chat. Is he what do you think about Marise and gender roles? Is he a chauveness? He listening right now?

01:03:44
Speaker 6: Y'all think I'm not choven this. I'm not choven this at all. I don't. I don't. I believe in gender roles, but I don't believe in I don't believe one roll is above the other.

01:03:57
Speaker 11: Perfect you know, I believe in both are necessary and two of the same roles. And you know, would you rather have a car within two steering wheels and no hingine? No anything has a role.

01:04:08
Speaker 8: And if she plays part exactly erectly, well, let's talk about the part you played in your brother's relationship with his step son Jalen.

01:04:18
Speaker 1: That caused a big stir of social media. Marcel, for the record, I.

01:04:23
Speaker 2: Did do it.

01:04:23
Speaker 6: Call over the weekend, let me do something, Let me change my wife podcast. Y'all are breaking up on the side.

01:04:32
Speaker 4: I see you that drink back up?

01:04:34
Speaker 2: I see okay?

01:04:35
Speaker 4: Are he ready for people in the like? Can we move on? Claudia is not the topic tonight, Hey.

01:04:45
Speaker 2: Claudia, she's on the topic. She's Claudia is the only female. Hey, pro Now.

01:04:54
Speaker 7: She's always the damn topic.

01:04:56
Speaker 2: Oh my god, it was a topic. She's a topic.

01:05:00
Speaker 4: I've had a rough day today. Okay, no, but no.

01:05:03
Speaker 2: A lot of people were asked you they could see Shelley.

01:05:05
Speaker 1: So you dig a lot of people who would like to see Shelley before we move on, because definitely has compand I want to make sure he has enough time to.

01:05:20
Speaker 2: By the way, justin, I enjoyed your interview with Michael Marquaz.

01:05:23
Speaker 3: Good job, thank you, thank you very much. I love Michael a lot. It's one of my dear friends.

01:05:28
Speaker 7: So thank you. Yes, yes we will, won't we?

01:05:34
Speaker 13: Yeah?

01:05:37
Speaker 7: Hey, Shelley, what's up, Shelley?

01:05:39
Speaker 2: Hi, Shelley.

01:05:41
Speaker 4: Shelly's not doing well today.

01:05:43
Speaker 5: As I took it to the bed, I thought I had to put it asleep. She's only four point six pounds. She her teeth are messed up. I think she has a kidney problem. She's limping, and I have to give her a steroid. I had to give her antibiotics and I have to give her this something to make her appetite come back.

01:06:01
Speaker 4: I'm in the vet and that like basically.

01:06:03
Speaker 5: Saying, what are you gonna do? And I'm like crying. I had to call my ex to come down and like help me with this decision, and I'm like, well, I just feel like I owed it to her to just try whatever little remedies I had that were available, and if she's not better.

01:06:17
Speaker 4: By the end of the week, I'll probably have to put it asleep.

01:06:19
Speaker 2: Out of one. I'm sorry, Claudia.

01:06:21
Speaker 7: I love you.

01:06:22
Speaker 2: She's love. Yes, we love you, and we're gonna pray for you.

01:06:28
Speaker 7: Yeah.

01:06:28
Speaker 5: People on housewives, and I tell you, ever since this cat was on TV, I found she started feeling herself like a little bit, like a little bit er.

01:06:37
Speaker 4: She's back.

01:06:38
Speaker 5: She's had a great life in Shelley. I will keep you guys updated. But thank you for everyone that's asked. I know this is not the Claudia Jordan show tonight, but I just sorry.

01:06:46
Speaker 4: My energy's a little down.

01:06:47
Speaker 6: I've been.

01:06:47
Speaker 4: I was in tears all day today because you know, she's like my kid. I've had her.

01:06:51
Speaker 6: She's better.

01:06:52
Speaker 4: Yeah five, So yeah, no.

01:06:55
Speaker 2: We love you, baby, keep us updated for real. Well, okay, that's okay.

01:07:00
Speaker 1: I think Marcel is back. So I do wanna if Marcel is back, like, okay, you good Marceau and the.

01:07:05
Speaker 6: Wi Fi sounds so much better now.

01:07:07
Speaker 7: So there we go.

01:07:08
Speaker 6: There we go.

01:07:10
Speaker 2: No perfect timing because.

01:07:14
Speaker 1: The biggest topic of this episode had a lot to do with the conversation between Maurice and Jalen, Jalen saying that although Maurice is his stepdad, that you, Marceau, were more of a father figure to him.

01:07:32
Speaker 2: When you heard that, did it make you feel good? But did it also make you feel bad for your brother?

01:07:38
Speaker 6: Yeah? It did.

01:07:40
Speaker 11: I mean that's a it's great for you know, someone like Jalen, who I love my nephew.

01:07:47
Speaker 6: To think of me like that.

01:07:49
Speaker 11: But of course I'm thinking about Maurice in that moment too, and it's like, dang, you know, because I know Reese.

01:07:56
Speaker 6: You know that that's that know that that's that's tough blow. That's a tough blow when you come in and your your goal is to come in and be the best father you can be.

01:08:12
Speaker 5: You know.

01:08:13
Speaker 6: I think that people don't quite understand the step dad role. And you know it's you know, my son m J. I get stuff wrong with him all the time. Man, It's like, but.

01:08:30
Speaker 4: He gets he gets his WiFi wrong.

01:08:32
Speaker 2: To I think his phone's ringing.

01:08:37
Speaker 7: Restaurant called black and so is the screen.

01:08:42
Speaker 2: That the what what do you think about that you've been watching themself since season one? Were you surprised by that too?

01:08:50
Speaker 6: People they want to call you now and call you years.

01:08:54
Speaker 14: But but.

01:08:57
Speaker 6: It's tough being to dad. You know this, this is my first crack at it.

01:09:01
Speaker 11: And so thinking about Maurice coming in a situation where you had to step up and he's gotta you know, be a dan to a twelve year old who doesn't know him, and he's figuring out his way to enter in and figuring out discipline. And you know, that's a self situation. I don't know if too many people that walk in there and get that right.

01:09:20
Speaker 5: Jalen feels that way with you because like you're not the disciplinarian, so it's you know, you're not really in the house like that.

01:09:25
Speaker 4: So it's like it's easy, like it's easy to like feel like a closer relationship with you. Like you know, I've been not a step mom, but the girlfriend.

01:09:33
Speaker 5: Right if someone has kids and then the daughter may I may find the daughter like telling me that she hasn't told her mom, right, because it's like, you know, it was a little bit not as close to the situations easier to talk to in bond with like a cool like the cool adult that I don't have to worry about getting in trouble with you.

01:09:51
Speaker 4: Perhaps you know.

01:09:53
Speaker 6: It's it's it's much easier.

01:09:56
Speaker 11: It's easier to buy ice cream with you, and you gotta buy milk, you know, and you can you can come in to be the one that's always there for the relief. You're not the one talking about filmwork every night, and and and so. But also we have you know, that's one part. But then recent I have different approaches like my oldest son, but oldest son, my only son, MJ. He's he reminds me a lot of Jalen and and you know, and we have more of the same personality, meaning that it's easier to I'm a guy that is rationalize with people.

01:10:33
Speaker 6: I'm gonna talk to you. I'm not gonna say get up and do it now. I'm gonna let you know.

01:10:38
Speaker 11: And even though you're gonna look at me and it seem like you're ignoring me, You're gonna get up and do it, you know, And I don't. I don't need to assert my authority on you right then and there, you know, Hey, man, that's what it is. And you know, so it's I think I think it's a combination of two things. One is that I'm an uncle, and two is I have a different approach.

01:11:00
Speaker 3: It seemed like Maurice was really offended by the conversation when you guys were sitting at the table, you and Letitia and Keimmy and Maurice were discussing it, and Maurice initially like got defensive, like right off rip when you guys started talking about it, so much so that it became like a back and forth between the two of you.

01:11:18
Speaker 7: Where you think that energy came from.

01:11:20
Speaker 3: Do you think it's just because it's such a sensitive topic, like and you know, like you expressed earlier, he wants to be a good father and a great father to Jalen. Where you think that defensive nature came from? Because it seemed like that kind of made it hard to get to the root of the matter.

01:11:36
Speaker 11: You know, I saw a couple of comments about this Dustin and people were like, oh my god, now they're talking about sibling rivalry and they gonna turn the family against each other.

01:11:46
Speaker 6: Let me tell you something. There's not a human alive that ever argued fuss and fought with more than Maurice Scott. Right, let's just make that clear. There's not a human alive.

01:11:55
Speaker 5: And so.

01:11:57
Speaker 13: That's not that argument comes from Marie ree world like, like, you know, Maurice, I'm okay with it.

01:12:08
Speaker 6: But here's the thing.

01:12:10
Speaker 11: He doesn't do stuff that he doesn't think is right. It is not going to intentionally do something he thinks is wrong. And so when you come to him telling them that it's wrong, he automatically disagrees with you because he thought it was right. He wouldn't have done it if he wasn't trying to get it right. So when you come in and tell him that I think that in his voice, you can see that the whole sarcast sy.

01:12:32
Speaker 6: Well, he seems just a dad.

01:12:33
Speaker 4: He seems just a.

01:12:33
Speaker 6: Dad, you know, and that that that's hurt.

01:12:37
Speaker 7: Yeah, I thought so too.

01:12:39
Speaker 6: That's just hurt. And don't I don't want to be like that.

01:12:43
Speaker 11: But the challenge is it's like when you have to tell them, hey, his hurt is Valley and you played a part in that hurt, and he doesn't think he played a part in that hurt.

01:12:55
Speaker 3: I text Carlos after I watched the episode and I told him. I wish Maurice would have told Jalen in that scene, like, man, I love you and I'm glad you my son. Sometimes you just got to say it playing and Maurice was trying to offer examples and going kind of around the world with it. He should have hugged Jalen in that scene and just told him how much he loved him, because that's what it seemed like Jalen needs to hear at the time. But like you said, because of Marie's intentions, right, and he thought that he was trying to do the best he could do. That's probably what caused him to be kind of taking a back in that moment and started defending himself instead.

01:13:29
Speaker 6: That's the one thing Reese is learning now.

01:13:33
Speaker 11: I'm saying now, I'm saying probably in his last six seven months, right, he was a quarterback in college and he thinks that if he throws the ball right, it should be a completion. And I keep telling them that communication takes place in the mind of the receiver and it don't matter what you say. If they don't hear it, then it's not a complete pass. And that goes on your that if they don't hear it. If they don't get what you're trying to say, it don't matter, you know what I'm saying. And his argument may be I've said it word, you know, Brook, it don't matter. He was a perfect English when they speak Spanish and see where they get you right?

01:14:17
Speaker 2: How did you feel when when I'm sorry, Goku?

01:14:21
Speaker 5: I saw comments about people saying, you know, some people want to just be right and not really like be listening.

01:14:28
Speaker 4: You know what I'm saying, Like, you know, do you want to be right? You want to be happy?

01:14:31
Speaker 5: And it seemed like he it is like he was in a coming from a bad place, but does seem like he wanted to be right, and you know, his his point of view be heard, you know what I mean, and like in his mind, like you said, if you wouldn't do it, if he didn't think he was doing the right thing already.

01:14:47
Speaker 6: You know, I think Reese has lost in intentions versus.

01:14:55
Speaker 11: I get I sometimes get lost there too, but get lost in intentions versus is a results And the thought that my heart was in a good place.

01:15:06
Speaker 6: I wasn't trying to do that. I was trying to make a man out of him. I was trying to do this right here. I was trying.

01:15:11
Speaker 11: I was doing the own RECEA. Ain't got no other thirteen year old boys, you know at the time.

01:15:16
Speaker 6: So it's like he is he does he doesn't know. This is a guy that's taking a.

01:15:21
Speaker 11: By the time a kid that grows up with you is thirteen, you've been with him for thirteen years, and so you know what you do on day thirteen.

01:15:31
Speaker 6: You're given a thirteen. You're given the test.

01:15:34
Speaker 11: There were level thirteen, right, You're giving that test right then and there it says how you do and everything you just is gonna be just on that. So it's like, you know, it's like hats off to the guy that can get there right.

01:15:46
Speaker 4: Hey, where I'm sorry? Where's Dalen's father, his real father, his biological father? Is he not in the picture?

01:15:54
Speaker 11: I think he's in the picture, but like they're kind of striking up some I don't know, like he's in the picture but not in the the job.

01:16:02
Speaker 6: I've never met him, but he Jaalen.

01:16:04
Speaker 11: Talked to him and they've had some somewhat of a relationship. I think that, you know, as he gets older, he's you know, her as some stuff you got stay tuned.

01:16:15
Speaker 4: For he likes you the best though either what he likes you the most, I.

01:16:23
Speaker 6: Think we're more.

01:16:25
Speaker 11: I think if we lived under the same roof, I think he I think that that might change a little bit.

01:16:32
Speaker 2: Well, one thing that that Tsha Tsiha did say this on My.

01:16:37
Speaker 1: Reality with the King Show and own that you know, despite what people may think about you on television, mars So they said, when it comes to the kids, you are everyone's favorite when it comes to like.

01:16:48
Speaker 2: The cousins, the nephews and all of those things.

01:16:52
Speaker 1: Why do you think that it was hard for Maurice to hear your point of view, to even hear Kimmy's point of view, because I do think what people's missing is Kimmy is his wife.

01:17:04
Speaker 2: Kimmy is the mother of Jayalen. Kimmy is saying the same thing, and.

01:17:09
Speaker 1: The audience does feel like Maurice isn't listening to be to to hear them, He's listening to respond. Growing that's your brother and you two are the closest out of your siblings, so growing up, obviously, Maurice has always been smart. Do you think that what is disconnecting that the audience or you or Kimmy may see for Maurice, is that is Maurice just too smart for his own good and he listens to respond like a lawyer does.

01:17:42
Speaker 11: Reese, Yeah, yeah, I think that you have to the he had. He can't see it, and he can't see it, so he.

01:17:54
Speaker 6: Doesn't he doesn't believe it exists.

01:17:57
Speaker 11: I think Maurice, like I said, for the first last six months of totally, I said, this is a new Maurice. And I've known him for forty five years, so this is not a thing, right. He has the inability to see different He had the inability to see different perspectives or even know that different perspectives could exist.

01:18:14
Speaker 6: He said stuff like I wouldn't do that because that's stupid.

01:18:20
Speaker 11: But yeah, the inability to be stupid, you know what I'm saying, Like I wouldn't say that because.

01:18:25
Speaker 6: That doesn't make sense, you know. So I think that, you know. Again, the challenge is like I call it a Reese.

01:18:32
Speaker 11: World at a lot of times, and Kimmy finally saw it and other people are five he seeing it and Reese righteously now is that it's funny that he's just he's just now in the area that he's even I've seen some changes, but it's like I can notice change from the tone of his voice when he says something, even allowing someone else to have a different perspective. But again, this is going back town kind of the the Counacs and I have with Claudia, and to me, it just reminds me of just like in order to be successful as a black man in this world, you have to be steadfast, You have to be stubborn, you have.

01:19:09
Speaker 6: To be you know, you hear knows so much and you have to prove so many people wrong that that becomes a way of life.

01:19:18
Speaker 11: And then all of a sudden, when it's time to listen, when you practice not listening, when you practice tuning people out, and now it's time to listen and take advice, it's like, you know, that becomes more of a chure.

01:19:36
Speaker 2: Okay, well, there you have it. But my last question, my last question for you is this. The episode ends with Marie's calling you a liar and that's what you do. Did that hurt your feelings hearing that.

01:19:56
Speaker 11: Carlos, Yeah, it did it did. Because here here's the thing. The one reason why I don't lie is because it makes me feel like a coward, like who are you that I have to lie to?

01:20:11
Speaker 7: Right?

01:20:11
Speaker 6: And so I said this in the comments and different things. I said, Okay, do me a favor point out the lie. If I've lie, I'm a liar and I'm always liing.

01:20:25
Speaker 11: This name one lie that you've ever heard, Like Watissa said, to give me no, I've never caught him in a lie.

01:20:32
Speaker 6: And she's like, what, you've never got to your husband in a lie in twenty years? Never ever? And people and they say, well, and some people aren't liars. That's just not my thing, all right, because it makes me feel like it makes me feel like a like a whimp, like like we to have.

01:20:51
Speaker 11: To sit here and tell you something that it's not true. It makes me feel like I'm not good enough. So yeah, I don't I don't like that.

01:21:00
Speaker 6: And he said, you lie about everything. We stopped.

01:21:02
Speaker 11: You know, I don't lie right like Stopy and you get but but now, of course when re sais you lie about everything. Now everyone's in the in the world is like, okay, reason's bothers filled the things.

01:21:20
Speaker 1: You come up with this ship, bro, all right, Mark, So if I'll let you go, there's one question that we get from our super chants This one is directed towards you, and I'm a life for you to answer it. This is from DJ Lesia, who said the huspital streets are saying that black is the headquarters for the cheating husbands.

01:21:42
Speaker 2: But I love Marcel, he's a dub guy.

01:21:45
Speaker 1: It's black the headquarters for husbands who are cheating, otherwise to go to and have fun.

01:21:52
Speaker 6: Carlos, I don't, I don't know.

01:21:54
Speaker 4: I don't know.

01:21:54
Speaker 11: I think that blackness a great place to come in here and smoke cigars and fellowship and hang around.

01:21:59
Speaker 6: I mean, I don't, I don't know those the headquarters for cheating husbands. That that's.

01:22:06
Speaker 4: Husbands hang out day like that.

01:22:11
Speaker 15: You know, ship cheated, the husbands unite, They're gonna form boat tron over here.

01:22:19
Speaker 6: They're gonna buy crying or something like like what do they do damn head quarters from cheaping husband.

01:22:25
Speaker 4: I mean, that's most of the guard bars of that.

01:22:28
Speaker 2: But ladies, if your husbands say he's going to the d R, that's fine. But if your husband's saying that a boys are black, watch out now.

01:22:38
Speaker 11: Watch out, watch out now, Carlos. I appreciate you having me on man, We just I do want to do the same as plugging about me being a terrible You know, I've been a terrible dad for since season one, right.

01:22:53
Speaker 2: I know, I know, rolland Martin even called you out season one.

01:22:59
Speaker 6: He's a terrible day. It's because you know, my son had allergies. But now we me and him. I just taking him for a trip to uh to see the Kensler Lamar in Rome.

01:23:09
Speaker 7: So dope. That's dope as hell, Mark.

01:23:12
Speaker 6: So yeah, we got a chance to go there.

01:23:15
Speaker 11: He of course he wanted to see the Pantheon, and we've got a chance to go up to Paderba to see the original boundary of talking to the bottle.

01:23:24
Speaker 6: We talked and everything. So it's been a really, really, really good trip.

01:23:28
Speaker 5: Man.

01:23:29
Speaker 6: We went to Greece too, No no, no, no, Pantheon, not the Parthenon.

01:23:34
Speaker 4: Okay, gotcha.

01:23:36
Speaker 15: I had to google at it too, because I was like, I thought we were going to the Parthonon and I was like, bro, it's it's it's seventeen hours away, and it's like, okay, now it's the Pantheon, but it's it's it's just amazing.

01:23:48
Speaker 6: It was a dope trip, man, So I feel real good about that. Coming back in and so.

01:23:54
Speaker 7: You go see where they make the wine. You go see what they make the wine.

01:23:59
Speaker 6: I I think I know where they make that.

01:24:03
Speaker 14: Okay, you are really a story and he really is. I'd be like, oh gosh, that's the Qualitia. That's Martel holds wine that.

01:24:22
Speaker 2: Oh gotcha, that's what that was. That's what that was.

01:24:24
Speaker 1: But no, but Marcel, listen, thanks for taking time out. Marcel just got back from Italy. He took his son on a father son trip. As he just said, so listen, you are a great man. You are a great father, and you are a great reality star. And listen, your great husband too. So I appreciate you, Marcel, and I will see you soon. Thanks for coming, Marshall, taking Marcel.

01:24:51
Speaker 4: He clicked off. Fancy make sure we and the Wi Fi the glass was more full.

01:25:04
Speaker 6: See that.

01:25:07
Speaker 4: I'm not mad at I need something for today's shoot.

01:25:10
Speaker 7: Yo.

01:25:11
Speaker 1: No, but listen, thanks for calling. You'll know you're going through a lot this week. Thanks for even showing up.

01:25:15
Speaker 2: Thanks to do this. Now listen, I hope we were able to distract you at least for.

01:25:22
Speaker 1: Ninety minutes and put us smile on your face and keep us updating all things Shelley.

01:25:28
Speaker 4: Yes, I will thank you a pleasure.

01:25:31
Speaker 1: As always, Reality with the King is executive produced by me Carlos King, produced by Lizzie Nimitz, and a partnership with the Lack Effect Network. You can also find us on my YouTube channel at the Carlos King Underscore