Celebrity Psychic Chris Medina
Vanderpump Rules is back after a two-year pandemic-forced break, and Lala’s spilling the tea! She’s dishing about her on-screen moments with Scheana Shay, Raquel Lewis, and Ariana Madix, and what it was like to film without her usual crew. Plus, the Howard Stern of psychics, Chris Medina, reads for Lala, Randall, and Ocean (after setting a few ground rules), and reveals the origin of his psychic ability, the difference between a medium and a psychic, and the only time someone’s ever been able to read him.
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00:00:08 Speaker 1: What's up, Gorgeous? It is Laalacat with Rand. Big Big Wednesday, Huge Wednesday, I. 00:00:16 Speaker 2: Would say, the biggest Wednesday of two years that we've been doing this podcast. 00:00:20 Speaker 1: I am back on TV with my crew. 00:00:23 Speaker 2: Wow. I know what makes this Wednesday special is that you have been on a show for a long time. The show went into hiatus yep because of the pandemic. Yes, and you had the season premiere last night. 00:00:38 Speaker 1: Go along, Yes, give him a good clap. Rand loves a good clap. 00:00:42 Speaker 2: All right, tell us let's jump right into it. Nobody wants to hear any bullshit today. They want to hear you spill the fucking teeth. 00:00:50 Speaker 1: All right, So let's do a pre rec real quick. Keep in mind, like the season is completed, a lot of us went toes, A lot of us get along, a lot of us don't. A lot of us are cool now. But let's talk about last night's episode, Randa, what did you think of it? 00:01:08 Speaker 2: First of all, I honestly had so much fun watching it. I mean, there are parts that you know, like that I probably didn't love as much, the buttle enough with it. 00:01:20 Speaker 1: I thought it played out really nicely, like I thought it was going to be a much bigger deal, and it was actually just like a clip. 00:01:26 Speaker 2: Here's the thing, there's a different time in your life. And we've discussed this, but here at the end of the day, I want to talk about the show, the parts that I do love. I think that your cast, and I've said this for a long time, the fact you've been together now for nine years and you guys still go at it. I mean, I'm in shock. It is off the chain. When your group gets together. 00:01:48 Speaker 1: There's just like whoa rewatching it. It was like, I remember it so vividly, you know, because I came into the season as kind of an outsider, right. 00:01:57 Speaker 2: Because you can that's right, because you hadn't even seen the show. 00:02:00 Speaker 1: Well, my my crew that you know I am down with, they're no longer on the show anymore. So I came in I had Katie and that's pretty much where my alliances ended. 00:02:14 Speaker 2: You know, you have Katie and that's it. 00:02:16 Speaker 1: Yeah. So I just felt like that day was amazing. It was the first day that we had filmed. I was promoting my book, I had a new baby. 00:02:25 Speaker 2: Yeah, and you're you're you're you're feeling yourself. 00:02:28 Speaker 1: I was feeling myself. And you know, the whole thing was Sheena after I watched the episode and she had texted me and she was like, what did you think? And I said, well, our scene made me sob and it continues to make me sob and she was like, oh my god, I did the same thing. I just cried. 00:02:46 Speaker 2: It's crazy because I watched you watch the episode and you had tears in your eyes. 00:02:51 Speaker 1: I can't stop crying every time I watch it because it was like for me, and I even think for her, it was that was the end of our friendship. 00:02:59 Speaker 2: Yeah. 00:03:00 Speaker 1: I was like, there's no coming back from this. No one's getting an apology from me. And you know that's the fucked up thing about perception is we all have our own right, you know. So I was thinking in that moment that she that she had miscarried, that I was there all the way. 00:03:20 Speaker 2: Well, I mean I again, I wasn't in the calls and the text, but I do know throughout the day you were saying do you want me to come see you? You asked her, and she at that point was going through it and you know, dealing with the brock, right, the brock of it like all that. 00:03:34 Speaker 1: And if you but if you watched the scene where she's talking to Brock where she's like, I'm having no, I'm having a panic attack. Now, it's like, well, hold up. You can't expect everyone to drop everything when you're finally ready. 00:03:46 Speaker 2: Right. So, but from what I understand, and tell me if I'm wrong. That day, because I was around you, she called you a bunch of times. You offered to go see her that day, but then she said, no, she just wants to be alone away for Brock. 00:03:57 Speaker 1: Yep, she wanted to go to sleep with Brock with her man. 00:04:00 Speaker 2: Yeah. 00:04:00 Speaker 1: And then she called me and said, you know, I just found out that Brack is golfing. I checked his location. He hasn't answered me in a few hours. And you know, by that time, I had offered a bunch of times like to come see her. And you know they keep saying she chose celebrity. No, no, no, I didn't. If anyone who knows me knows, I don't give a fuck who you are, what you do, none of it. You and I had gone on a couple's trip, and you know shea was also in Palm Springs. I offered over and over again, even when she said, can you come now, And I was on my way to dinner. I said, I can come after. Are you hungry? 00:04:35 Speaker 2: Yeah? You were going to bry her food? 00:04:36 Speaker 1: Right, I told her, like, I can for sure, I'm on my way to dinner. I will one hundred percent come after. She said, by then, i'll be asleep. And I said, I'm going to text you when I finished dinner if you are great, if you're not, I will come to you. 00:04:50 Speaker 2: So well, this is what I don't understand about that whole thing. What I didn't understand is I remember throughout the day you offered to go see her, and she was obviously in a lot of pain and you wanted to be by herself. Remember that you told me that, And then on our way to dinner, she had called you and you said, I'll come right after, which the restaurant was actually much closer to our house. It was easy, and at that point she was like, you know, I'm going to sleep or whatever you had told me. But I just what I'm shocked about is I thought you guys were communicating well all day, so when all this stuff blew up, I was shocked at the perception. You know, both sides totally, but you know, listen. She was going through a catastrophic, horrible moment. Yeah, and I thought you were trying to be there for her as a friend, and at that time she didn't want you there. 00:05:33 Speaker 1: Yeah. Yeah. 00:05:34 Speaker 2: And then when she called you, I think she made it more about about you who you were going to dinner with, which had it was irrelevant? 00:05:41 Speaker 1: Well for me it was irrelevant, right, But I mean it doesn't matter. 00:05:44 Speaker 2: Like we had by the way, we had dinner with a bunch of people and you were ready to bail out of that dinner and had like eat for like thirty minutes, you said, and then go to our house, and at that point she didn't she didn't want you there. 00:05:55 Speaker 1: So luckily, you know, last night we squashed it. We have a beautiful moment together, Like I remember that, and you have to know, like when we're having conversations like that, like that conversation was very long. Obviously they used all of the key moments that were important, like anytime you're watching the show, every moment you see was the most important of the conversation, you know. So then we move on where I go outside and Raquel comes to check on me. What I think she's doing is coming to check on me. But then she like sits down and asks me, are we good? And I was like, I was a little confused when she did that, though, rand because I was like, well, yeah, we're good. I mean, I've lashed out you before, but we're in twenty twenty one, we haven't filmed this show in a couple years, and if my calculations are correct, that's the last time I lashed out. Are we not over that? You've been on my podcast since then. We've texted since then. So I was a little thrown, you know, And so I tried, I really, I mean. 00:07:03 Speaker 2: And again, it's a way in there. I mean, we've spent time with Braquel and Pan, so I mean I I was shocked to see that on the show. 00:07:11 Speaker 1: Well I was shocked too, And can I tell you in that moment, I felt so awkward because she was like, I just want to make sure we're good, and I'm like, well, I like you and I really dig you. And then she comes at me with the well I don't need your approval. I'm like, okay, then why are you sitting here asking me if we're good? 00:07:28 Speaker 2: You know? 00:07:28 Speaker 1: Like I was so lost and my face I remember through that whole conversation that I was so confused and I literally jokingly by the way, rand I was like, oh my god, I said out loud. I was like, this is the moment that I relapse, Like I'm going to pick a drink up and she goes, oh no, don't do that. I go, I'm joking this. Clearly, this is not gonna if I decide to drink it again the moment. This isn't going to be the tipping coin. Trust me, I've been through some shit. This ain't. This ain't the moment. And like, I was just so lost by that whole thing, and I remember it being such an awkward scene that it actually played out really cute when I was like, do you need to be babied? And I thought she was so cute and she was like just a little bit and I'm like, okay, now we're good, and bamn, here comes Ariana. I felt that night like I was in the Twilight zone. I was like, I can't catch a break. I'm tired. I just had a moment with Sena. It's Shina's birthday, then Ariana, which by the way, was shwasty baby. I couldn't get a word in, like again, we got all the key moments out of that that scene. 00:08:33 Speaker 2: Did it go on water because I wasn't there though. 00:08:35 Speaker 1: It was NonStop. She wouldn't let me talk and I was like, I could not get a word in. And that's when I decided. I was like, I can't. I like, I'm out. 00:08:44 Speaker 2: But here's the thing, shock. 00:08:46 Speaker 1: I don't like conversations that are not productive for me. 00:08:49 Speaker 2: I understand. Yeah. What I don't understand though, is that after watching that, I've been around Ariana, I've been around all your friends, and you guys get along for the most part, and then something happens in these moments generally like with alcohol or all of you. You know, maybe it's all of you in the same place, like all of you, because I've seen you like you and Ariana or you and Shena. But I don't think i've seen the whole group together in a long time. 00:09:17 Speaker 1: Well, you know, it's one of those things where you put a group together who have very i'll call them passionate people. We're very passionate about what we think, how we feel. We think that everyone needs to know every single thing that's going on in our mind, which is great because for the most part, our rugs are clean. Ain't nothing under there, you know for the most part, which I admire because there's no stronger bounce back than this group. Like we are resilient as it gets, yeah, you know, And that's why I said at the beginning, and like we're just we're talking about this episode. A lot of us are in different places now. You know, we filmed a whole season where there's a lot of resolve, But in this episode, this is where my head was at. You know, I'm watching Marianna. I was like, what do I do. Do I muzzle her with her faux fur? Do I throw her in the pool? Do I give her shock therapy? I don't know. I think the easiest thing to do. 00:10:13 Speaker 2: But people could see my face right now. 00:10:15 Speaker 1: I know he's looking at me like please shut up. 00:10:17 Speaker 2: But what I think at the end of the day is I think you guys are passionate people. I think you're all creative people, and I think that when you all get together, it's like the fourth of July. So I was shocked to see a lot of the stuff I saw on the first episode, but hey, fuck, it was intense, it was it was exciting. 00:10:35 Speaker 1: I thought it was really fantastic. 00:10:37 Speaker 2: It was fun to watch it. 00:10:38 Speaker 1: It was fun to watch a couple of moments. I wasn't cringing at myself, but a few people. I was like, I need to crawl in my own hole because I'm embarrassed for you right now. Wow, Yeah, this is intense. 00:10:54 Speaker 2: I think I just got to say this. I feel like the fact that vander Pump's back for you and for your cast is going to be so fun for audiences. They, I mean, they must be so excited because it's been been a couple of years. 00:11:07 Speaker 1: That's so weird to me, I know, because I feel like we picked up where we left off. 00:11:11 Speaker 2: Yeah, you guys have a special ability. 00:11:13 Speaker 1: And not only did we pick up where we left off, there was a whole slew of just emotions that had happened over the course of two years that it was just like every time someone talked about something, it was just building up. And you know, we couldn't be around each other because we were in quarantine for so long and the pandemic hit, so it was like there was no way for us to douke it out anyway. You know, It's like we picked up filming when you could start seeing people. 00:11:39 Speaker 2: Well, the other thing that I think is very different is that you know, a lot of you are I mean a few of you are mothers now and so that adds a whole nother layer and a whole other dynamic. So I think I listen at the end of the day, I'm very, very excited because I saw the first episode and that was that was I was at the edge of my seat. I had no idea that this shit show was happening. 00:12:03 Speaker 1: I thought the first episode was great. I hope that everyone gives it a chance. I know that it looks different. I know that we've been away for a long time, but like, give it a chance because everyone knows. I don't need to go into it. Everyone knows how I felt about season eight. This season, we're back to the roots. We are like, it's like these friendships and this history that really it's beautiful. It's intense, and I hope you all enjoy it. 00:12:26 Speaker 2: Wow. I want to add one thing to that. I know watching the season did remind me, because I've watched it from the beginning. It did remind me of the early days where you know, it just was super raw, and I think, you guys, it's just I think it's be a lot of fun for audiences to see. But I agree. The first episode was a lot of fun. 00:12:47 Speaker 1: Yeah, it was amazing. And now we are going to take a break. But before we head into the break, we have such an epic guest coming on. His name is Chris Medina. He is a celebrity psychic. Everyone knows I'm obsessed with psychics. I can't wait for him to be on the show. 00:13:05 Speaker 2: They call him the Howard Stern of psychics. I mean, come on, that's as cool as a freaking out. 00:13:12 Speaker 1: I'm shaking in my night. 00:13:13 Speaker 2: Let's tell you one last thing about him. He started giving readings at the age of three. Bring this man and I need to know. 00:13:21 Speaker 1: Oh honey, we're bringing him in. Trust me, all right. When we come back, we're back with Chris Medina. We are back, and we have a pretty epic guest, Chris Medina. They refer to you as the Howard Stern of psychics. 00:13:39 Speaker 3: Yeah, the Howard Stern of psychic. 00:13:43 Speaker 2: Yeah. 00:13:43 Speaker 3: I pride myself on that. But I said, if I'm gonna do this, I'm gonna do this the right way, and I'm gonna come out swinging. None of this love and light stuff. Yes, honesty is key, Yeah, for sure, for sure. 00:13:54 Speaker 1: So we saw here that you you started doing this at three. Yeah, I mean well what was that Like is a three year old to have that ability? 00:14:03 Speaker 2: And by the way, and what is that ability at three that you know you have this special thing? Like, how does it even. 00:14:08 Speaker 3: Need the psychic ability? My dad on my dad's side of the family, it's all Native American. It's all a patching India. And my dad back in the day was a gangster and he's a total biker now long Harley Davidson type hair, mustache, beard, everything Native still pumps iron. Would get stone with his friends, okay, and would invite me in there and give his friends readings. 00:14:30 Speaker 1: Wow. 00:14:31 Speaker 3: And I remember going up to this one guy and during during their smoke slash and telling him. My dad was like, tell him what he needs to hear. And I was telling the guy that he was sad. I remember a little little bits and pieces of it that he was sad and that he was worried about something. And the guy started crying, and I thought I was going to get in trouble. 00:14:47 Speaker 2: Wow. I was like, oh shit. 00:14:48 Speaker 3: And then my Dad's like, no, don't worry about it. You just told him what he needed to hear. And then my dad would every now and then when we you know, we'd be on the bike or in the car, he'd say, tell me what you think about that person, and like play on that. And because my dad is, my dad's a more of a medium. He's got the psychic ability, but he's able to see ghosts, so his ability is a little bit different in the stuff with the ghost for me came a little bit later. 00:15:09 Speaker 1: So for those people that don't understand the difference, what is the difference between a psychic and a medium. 00:15:16 Speaker 3: A psychic, to me, and this is just my opinion, is somebody that's able to predict the future, past, present, future some people. Somebody's able to get hits off at somebody. Just looking at somebody, I'm able to pick up, you know, what they were like as a kid, things that they're suffering from, things that are holding them back in the present time. And I'd like to dip back into the past life because sometimes the past life bleeds and yeah. 00:15:39 Speaker 1: But then hold on, I want to the medium is they connect to the other side. 00:15:43 Speaker 3: The medium side's a little trippy, and I'm different when it comes to the medium side. I see a lot of people on television going out there screaming at ghosts, you know, trying to contact you know, somebody that's passed over. And the ghosts have actually schooled me and have told me why would I come and see you if I don't know you? 00:15:59 Speaker 2: Right? 00:15:59 Speaker 3: You know what I mean, saying like like I have no connection to you. So when that, when the ghost comes in, it's usually attached to somebody that I'm reading directly, because. 00:16:07 Speaker 2: I can't just call in some it has to be with somebody. 00:16:10 Speaker 3: Yeah, and if I can't and to cut all the red tape, if I can't pick up on them like medium wise, give me a picture of them and I'm able to tap in that way what their life was like, what was what it was like prior to their death, all that good stuff. 00:16:21 Speaker 2: Let me let me ask you a question. When you see a ghost, what does it look like? Is it the person? Kind of an image? Is it a light? I mean, I'm just curious how that comes across or is it different every time? 00:16:32 Speaker 3: It's different every time. For me with my dad, he's able to see it in real time, able to communicate with it face to face. I'm able to pick up on it and hear it, not necessarily see it all the time. I don't have that ability that my dad's that my dad has where you could see it all the time. Mine I can hear it. So if I was giving Laala a reading and somebody was going to come through, I'd sit there and give it. It works like this. I'm giving her the reading. I'm telling her what's going on. This person's coming through and telling me, oh, make sure you tell you tell her X, Y and Z. Make sure you say this, because she's going to know who it is. So I'm trying to at the same time, I'm trying to weed out that person because when you open that side up, everybody wants to come through. Oh really, So I'm trying to make sure that it's something specific for her. 00:17:10 Speaker 2: Got it right? 00:17:11 Speaker 1: Yeah, that's amazing that it is amazing. Yeah, I just think that that would be so overwhelming to experience that at three? Was it? Did you kind of wanted to shut off? 00:17:21 Speaker 3: The medium stuff didn't start coming in till I was a little bit old, around six or seven. But the psychic stuff, no, everyone asks, can you turn that off? 00:17:27 Speaker 1: No? 00:17:28 Speaker 3: It never shuts off. 00:17:29 Speaker 1: I mean, did you want it to because it seems like you probably already have a lot of your own emotions to deal with, and then you're you're around people and you're like, oh my gosh, yeah. 00:17:39 Speaker 3: For sure, for sure. 00:17:40 Speaker 2: I didn't. 00:17:41 Speaker 3: I didn't want it to dull. I wanted the medium side to go away a little bit. 00:17:44 Speaker 2: Yeah, it says that in your thirties is when you got really focused on that. Is that correct, Like that's when it really became like it just became your full lie thing. 00:17:53 Speaker 3: I almost died when I was a kid. I had severe asthma and I'm old. So back back in the day, they would put you in a plastic bubble remember those. Yeah, I would have to sit in there for like a couple for a couple of days to get all the oxygen. So I remember sitting in there and my GUIDs were telling me. I was telling them, look, I'm not afraid anymore. I can die, just let me go. I'm not scared, and they were like, no, you're here for a different reason. You need to concentrate on getting better. We will let you know. So fast forward all these years, from the age of like five until twenty fourteen, my guides came in and said, remember what we told you back then at the age of five. Now it's time. Wow, a normal life. I have two kids. My daughter is twenty three, my son is twenty two. 00:18:29 Speaker 1: That is so crazy because I'm looking at you and you have such a baby like you don't look grown. 00:18:34 Speaker 3: I feel like I'm one hundred and twenty years later. 00:18:36 Speaker 1: Well, I can imagine when you have got people talking to you and sure, I mean, it's enough to just deal with my own set of issues, let alone take on other people. 00:18:44 Speaker 2: Exactly that thanks till of us. 00:18:46 Speaker 3: Yeah, so yeah, I just it's so fast forward to twenty fourteen. They came in and said it's time and I was like, well, wait a minute, how is this going to work. I'm making at that time, I was making two hundred thousand dollars a year. I was very comfortable. I had these two kids to raise, a house in a car. And I said, this is not how it works in the material world. I can't just you know, I. 00:19:05 Speaker 2: Mortgage on a psychic mission. That's tough. 00:19:08 Speaker 3: So Jay was living with me at the time. He actually helped me run the company that we were working at before. And I told Jay, I said, it's time and he was like, well, what do you mean And I said, they want me to start doing this as a profession. Now He's like, how are we going to do this? I said, I don't know. Reach out to every celebrity, every radio station, every televisiation, anywhere that wants a psychic reading. And then the first thing he booked was Comic Con. 00:19:26 Speaker 1: Come on, yeah, so I saw that in your bio that you gave a read to a little girl. 00:19:32 Speaker 3: Yeah, this one was. This is the first. So when people ask me who are your guides? Who are they? And I've only labeled them guides because that's what the public labels them. And I used to just say they don't I've never said I never used those metaphysical hochey words, you know, and so so, for lack of a better word, that I would say guides. So I'm sitting there and this woman comes in. She wants a reading, and she said, you know, I've heard great things about you like a reading and I said, yeah, perfect, I said, but I want to read your daughter first. And the girls like eight or nine years old. And the woman goes, well, what for And I said, because she's a medium, And she said what And I was like, yeah, I said, she talks to dead people. Come on, yeah, come on, yes for sure. And the girl was like, So I told the mom, I said, just have her sit down and say you can leave the door open. And I said, you can hear what I'm telling her, that you don't have to close the door. And I asked the little girl, I said, you know you're different. I said, tell me about the people that you talk to that that nobody else can see. And she said, oh, you mean the little bald girl that comes and plays with me? And my yes, I can't. This is sixth sense and shot on movie right here, and this is a little girl whose mother I was supposed to read, not her. 00:20:36 Speaker 2: And you read her and he said, because she speaks to she speaks to dead people, right. And then she says to you, oh, the little girl that comes in plays And then she tells me about her dad fall out of the chair. 00:20:46 Speaker 3: Her dad died of an overdose, and so she's like, my daddy comes and apologize for me. He cries all the time. Yeah, and then she stops midsentense. So this is going to freak you out. And I'm already getting goosebum I know. 00:20:57 Speaker 1: I know. 00:20:58 Speaker 3: She's like. She stops and she goes and I'm like, what's the matter and she goes, She's just like looking right behind me, and behind me was a wall. There was nothing there. And I was like, what are you looking at? And she goes, I know how you know how to tell people what to, how to, how to? I know how you tell people what to say or what what? What what you're telling people? I know how you get it? And I was like how? And she goes the two ladies that are talking inside your ear and the big guy behind them telling them what to say. And I was like, you can see them right now? And she goes, yeah. She goes, she goes, can't you hear them? And I was like no, and she goes, that's what. That's how you know what to tell people. They tell you. And I was like, you can see them and she goes, oh, my only medium that I've ever had to read me was. 00:21:43 Speaker 2: A nine year old with her No, Oh my god, that's amazing. Okay, you have to jump into us. 00:21:50 Speaker 1: Speacause, hold on, do you have any idea who she may have been talking about when she said the big guy behind you? 00:21:55 Speaker 2: None of them would I would lose my I lose my shit. 00:21:59 Speaker 3: If yeah, they don't come and talk to me like I'm sitting here talking to you. They don't say, oh, tell la, la, x Y and Z. You just it just it's just pictures and it's it's just in my head. I just it just comes on. And before I would have to sit there and look at a picture for a little bit and say, okay, let me let me dissect what I'm going to tell her, And now my GUIDs are like, no, you're going to get the information as soon as she picks up with the bone or as soon as you sit down in front of them. 00:22:18 Speaker 1: Oh my gosh, I like you, so honored to have you on the podcast much thank you. Amazing and like, what an incredible experience that nine year old. 00:22:27 Speaker 2: Yeah, let's let's jump right in because I need to hear something. This is too too you know me. I love this stuff. 00:22:33 Speaker 1: Do you care if we get to read from you? 00:22:35 Speaker 3: Nope, let's do it. 00:22:36 Speaker 1: Let's do it. Okay, Randal's first, I'm going to. 00:22:38 Speaker 2: Give you up first. 00:22:39 Speaker 3: Yeah, I'm going to give you my spiel first, just to let you know before you answer this question, I do not discuss death and I do not discuss anything that's going to scare the shit out of you. 00:22:47 Speaker 1: Okay, So keeping said, is. 00:22:49 Speaker 3: There anything that you want me to stay away from? 00:22:51 Speaker 1: No, perfect, not at all. 00:22:53 Speaker 3: The second thing is, for the first couple of minutes, I'm going to go in and give you what my guides are giving me to give you directly, and then I'll open the reading up to any questions that you have in regard to what I said, or if you want to know about something that we didn't get a chance to touch on, we could do it at that time. Does that work? 00:23:04 Speaker 1: That works great? 00:23:05 Speaker 3: Perfect? And then the final final thing, and your time is very important and expensive to me. I want you to feel free to jump into call bullshit at any time, Do not hold back, do not worry about trying to be polite. And I want to hurt my feelings, none of that. 00:23:15 Speaker 2: Okay. 00:23:15 Speaker 3: If it doesn't resonate or if it sounds off, let me know. When I do had stuff, simply confirm yes, but do not give me any additional detailskat Okay, he's. 00:23:22 Speaker 1: The real freaking deal. Nice a welcome. 00:23:24 Speaker 3: I don't know, don't be go ahead, So I'm not going to tell you anything that you don't already know, so when it comes to we touch on it briefly. I just wanted to make sure that I can hit on these things while we're on the show. So with you, even though you and Lala come as a package deal, you guys still have your separate roads of life that you're going down. And with you, I would I said I said redemption earlier, but I don't feel it's that hardcore. I feel like with you, what you're doing is you're kind of like revisiting where you are right now in this time and space, and I feel like there's adjustments that need to be made as far as like when it comes to your way of thinking, things that used to work for you before aren't working for you right now, as far as like the way that you're going about doing things, the way in the way that you feel inside. I feel like you keep it going that you're they give you a very service level to other people, but incredibly intuitive and also an overthinker when nobody else is around correct And I feel like with you that you can This is not a shot at you, but I feel like you need to work on how you can take it rather than you dish it because you love to dish it, but can't take it back necessarily, and so your guides is So I feel like with you that the hardest part right now for you is understanding that and realizing that it's it's not about being vulnerable or weakness or you know, lowering your power in any way, shape or form here. But I feel like with you that again, like I said, there's this thought process to where I want to evolve, but I don't know how that's going to look. I don't I don't know. I don't know whether or not it's going to be accepted. Does that make sense? Yeah, That's where I feel like you're at right now. 00:24:46 Speaker 2: I think it's beyond on point because I'm going through a whole rebrand in life and just a new way of thinking, and I'm trying you know what I mean. I'm just really like low and I just talked about it literally thirty minutes before you came about just you know, I want I'm trying to I'm changing careers and all this stuff is happening, and it's like overload overload. So what I am in my thoughts alone? Yeah? I am. You thought You've. 00:25:11 Speaker 3: Gone through a lot in the short time that you've been here, mentally, you've seen a lot, You've witnessed a lot, and so with you, I feel like your memory is the one thing that you need to put into check because I feel like sometimes as much as you want, you want to be about the future, you can really bring your past, from your problems from the past into your future and stop yourself. And I feel like I feel like again your intuition for whatever reason, And again, I know you come as a package deal, but there's something different about your progression right now. So make sure that you take time with it and that you that you allow yourself the opportunity to make the mistakes or learn what you need to learn at this point in time. Because I feel like with you again to say redemption that's a hardcore word, but I also feel like you don't you don't have with all not that not that death is coming here, but you don't have a lot of time to be fucking around. I feel like with you, there's that the next two years are going to be very fast paced for you. 00:25:57 Speaker 2: Yeah, I would say the next two years are probably the most important year both personally because I have a newborn you know, child, and you know relationship wise and then career wise. I think it's all that I put a lot of pressure on myself a lot about time lately. I never did that before, but now that I'm fifty, I think about it a lot, like every day means something today versus like I think when I was in my thirties, I never even thought about. 00:26:21 Speaker 3: That's why I'm saying, there's something, there's something with your mentality that's changing here. But I don't want you to stop the progression of that because you're overthinking it, or you're or you don't or you don't see it as clearly as you used to be able to see it before, because now now you're going to be working on not necessarily your intuition here, but a different phase, a different chapter of life. I feel like that what you've gone through before was again a lot of lessons, so now now you have the opportunity to correct what you've learned and kind of move at a different in a in a different direction, somewhat the same, but a different feeling that goes along with that. 00:26:50 Speaker 2: I one hundred percent, and I think I'm trying to enjoy life more so than worrying about the destination. Every five minutes, because for thirty years of my career was get it done and personally, don't worry about anything else, just get there and and today I want to enjoy the things that are more important, which is my family and a new birth of my career. 00:27:13 Speaker 3: How's your physical health been lately? The reason, the only reason why I ask, is because you got to take it easy, especially when it comes to your stress and it comes to I don't know if you're an emotional eater, but you, but you you he talked, He knows what needs to be done, but getting him to do it is a different story sometimes. So take it easy because I don't like the way. I'm not saying. I'm not a doctor to take this with a brain of salt if you need to, and I'm not. I would never talk about being overweight because I am as well too. But there's a lot of I feel like with you sometimes I question whether or not people know how stressed you are or what's going on on the inside of you. She may know because she know, yeah, But I feel like with you, that that that I. 00:27:50 Speaker 2: Share with you, I try to be. I think I think I've built myself over the decades into a way if somebody like She'll always say, I can't believe your hand the stress that you handle the way you do. I think I've packaged myself into a way where it's just kind of how I operate. At the same time, definitely, I have to be concerned with my heart, and. 00:28:13 Speaker 3: I definitely have I'm glad you said that. 00:28:15 Speaker 2: Yeah, I have issue. I definitely have some you know, issues that I have to take some preventative medication to prevent. And I also have to change my diet completely. And this all happened what like two weeks ago. Yeah, now I have a food delivery thing because I'm trying to eat really clean. 00:28:31 Speaker 3: But remember something, This is what I talk about when people talk about manifestation or the power of good intention. Make sure that the intention is there. You've read all the books. You know what I'm saying. You already know what you need to be doing. Start feeling that. Because again, it's one thing to say what you're going to do, it's different for you. I'm talking to as you as an individual to actually to actually put the not the effort to work in, but allow yourself to take yourself there. 00:28:52 Speaker 2: Right instead of right, instead of just knowing it actually feel do it right right? And I think for the first time, I really freak myself out with my health and and la la, I was like, you need to no more fucking around, Like this is your wake up call. And so now I'm really I've changed the food thing. I've made a commitment to really start there and then hopefully continue down the road. But you're, yeah, you're on point with all that, because that's all happening right now. 00:29:19 Speaker 3: Do you have any questions in regards to that before I jump off to lala. 00:29:22 Speaker 2: Am I going to die early? 00:29:23 Speaker 1: No, don't ask that. I won't ask. 00:29:26 Speaker 3: That's why I'm telling you to make sure that you're taking it easy. 00:29:29 Speaker 2: I'm not saying a fucking hint. 00:29:32 Speaker 3: But again, your way of thinking and tell me if this is wrong, called bullshit if you need to. I feel like again, like I said that, you're that you're very sensitive. But I but I question whether or not you're seeing everything that's going on here because you've been told either don't overthink or whatever the casey B So you bottle a good majority of I. 00:29:49 Speaker 2: Think I do, and I think I'm really working I have to work on that. I think that's something that I want to, you know, be able to communicate better. And I think that's something that I have to like work on because you know, you, you know, something thinks so well, like whether it's your career or you've been successful in life or whatever it may be, and then you kind of wake up and you realize, Okay, I've got to pivot, you know, I've got to be open minded, I've got to be more vulnerable. And I think that's something that I'm definitely committed to working on, you know, as being way more vulnerable than I've been over the decades. 00:30:20 Speaker 3: Yeah, because I feel like, like I said, whatever whatever's gone on in the past with you, you're making again to say redemptions. That's just a strong word, but you're making up for the shit that's gone on. And I feel like with you that, like I said, I don't have anything negative to say when it comes to how you earn your money or your career, I don't see that. I feel like right now is a very personal time for you. The next two years are very personal as far as your own personal progression. But then after those two years, I kind of feel like you're going to reach a point and no one's ever completely blissfully happy or peaceful. But you're going to reach out point to where I kind of like the way that I look. I put the time and effort in here, things are kind of I just I feel like you're going in a different direction I am. 00:30:53 Speaker 2: And it's probably the biggest change in my life right I mean, I'm really really going through a lot of change right now and rebranding, you know, business, and I'm going into a different path and also personally with that a lot of change. You know, I have a brand new daughter six months old that I want to be perfect for, and I think I've put a lot of pressure on myself to be the best version of myself so that when she's old enough to you. 00:31:19 Speaker 3: Know, there's going to be some lessons to be learning with the baby as well too. She's a beautiful baby, but she's I mean, when she starts to get older, you're going to start to see some of the things. And I'm not I'm not putting a hex or saying anything negative there, but you're going to see some of the things that you think about. She's gonna she's gonna say out loud, and I'm not saying that she doesn't have her mother in her, but you're going to see that sensitive side to her to where you're going to be like, Okay, well wait a minute, we need to switch us up in some way. I feel like I'm not saying she's going to be overly emotional, but the way that she chooses about her boundaries or how she cooperates with other people, you're going to see very much yourself in her. I see a huge lesson there with her in you, and. 00:31:54 Speaker 2: I want to be when she's old enough to really have conversations. I really want to be dialed in and in the vulnerability, and you know, because I'm sensitive, like beyond like she knows. I mean, you know, I mean I can. 00:32:06 Speaker 1: I think he's more sensitive than I am. 00:32:08 Speaker 3: Oh I think so, I'm gonna say that, but I feel like with her, I feel like. 00:32:14 Speaker 2: That's not true. We're both pretty session. 00:32:15 Speaker 3: I want to hear that, but she's she's super It's not that you're afraid to talk shit or or to call people out. She's a little bit more direct. But I feel like with her sometimes that ends up happening is that she doesn't go as hardcore as she needs to sometimes, and she can hold herself back and then end up presenting it because she can be like, well, I wish I would have said this or god, you know, blah blah blah, this or whatever. It's difficult for sometimes because she wants to speak up. But at the same time, I feel like that you don't get everything out because that makes sense. 00:32:40 Speaker 1: Yeah, that makes sense. 00:32:41 Speaker 3: And then so when I when I was doing your session earlier than thinking about, Okay, what am I gonna tell her? I know who she is. I I've seen you before. Don't be afraid to burn these bridges, especially when you know there's nothing there. And I feel like with you that that I feel like you're cut from a different cloth. Again, it doesn't matter what I think. Start capitalizing on that because I feel like with you that you're going to go into a direction, especially when it comes to business that I'm just going to say this that I feel like is going to be very much admired. 00:33:11 Speaker 2: Wow. 00:33:11 Speaker 1: Wow, that's I mean, that's a huge. 00:33:15 Speaker 3: Yeah. There's two types of people. There's the ones that capitalize on their success and able to you know, turn it into more than than what they had anticipated it was going to be. And I feel like you're on that you're on that part too, But what ends up happening to you is that you get sucked into playing the game. How do you feel about that? 00:33:32 Speaker 1: I am yes to everything you're saying, but you remember. 00:33:37 Speaker 3: What I said about you being on two different paths here. He's already, in some way, shape or form, has seen some of that power he's come into. He's he's witnessed how how the game works. Because he's older than you, he's he's and I'm not saying he's reached every little bit, every bit of success in his career. But you're getting ready to You're you're getting ready to make some decisions here that are going to be I feel like you're going to carry you over the next six years as far as like what you do for business here, So don't be afraid to branch. I don't be afraid to do something completely different than what's being done here because I feel like with you again, like I said, you have all these you have all these thoughts her, you can envision it. You you you know the practical and logical side of things, but getting you getting yourself to do it and not overthink it or or it makes it seem like you're a follower, but that's not where I'm going with it. I feel like sometimes you can kind of like wait, wait a little bit till it's too late. Yeah. 00:34:23 Speaker 2: Yes, she's an overthinker, and she'll procrastinate for for two days straight and before she pulls the trigger sometimes. 00:34:31 Speaker 3: But it's not but see. But here's the thing with her, though, is that she she knows that I would never ever call you dumb. I would never say that she's a dumber. So I feel like she's very that she could be very calculated and know what it is that she wants. But I feel like I'm gonna steal from what you said. I feel like she does overthink. I feel like she does not want to do anything that's going to paint her in a bad in a bad light, even though some of the you know, some of the ship that she's already done has kind of put her in that position. But I feel like with her, with her again, it's kind of like, you know what needs to be done, don't hold yourself back, and don't wait for somebody else to tell you what to do again, not you being a follower here or kind of guide you in that direction, I feel like you end up kicking yourself on the ass when you don't do what you originally said you were going to do. 00:35:12 Speaker 1: Yeah, it's that's so crazy that you got them. Because I think I'm a pretty you know, I don't. I wouldn't say I'm book smart, but I think I'm a pretty smart cookie when it comes to the real world. But again, the logical side of me is always like, but why would we do that? Because here is where it's safe, and this is where we know that we're gonna, you know, be okay. And I constantly it's so funny because I said to my mom yesterday, I was like, I just need someone to tell me what to do. You know, I'm so sorry. 00:35:48 Speaker 3: It's okay. It like I said, that's why I want to stay away from this, from this emotional stuff here, because again, like I said, I feel like you, I feel like your guide's angels, messages, whatever it is that you're going to, whatever it is that you choose to call them here, have already implemed minute this thought process in your head. The hardest part is for you to let go and you not to overthink it. But at the end of the day, how many times has she been has she been wrong when it came to what is that she wants to do and. 00:36:09 Speaker 2: I'm mutching and here's the thing. She overthinks things and then we talk about it multiple days and I'm like a doer on the opposite and I say to her, just just go out. Stop thinking about it, like you know that your reads are always right law like every time, Like when she wanted to start the beauty company, she just did it. And when she does it and it works out for I feel like when she sits in her head too long, that's the stress. That's the questioning herself, questioning herself, and she's waiting for somebody to say to her, this is the path. The path is her. She needs that. She's so good at what she does that when she makes a decision, it works out. 00:36:47 Speaker 3: It always works you already you have to look at yourself again. Like I said, I'm not disrespecting the other cast members here, but you have to look at yourself in a different light. Look what you brought into fruition on your own right and keep doing that because I feel like with you again, like A said, you have the thought process here to say that you're practical, logical. Yeah, Well, I'll give you that too, But I also feel like when I talked about being calculated and manipulative, people would look at those words as being negative here. But I feel like with you that you're able to read between the lines and see things that most people don't see or would never call out here the difference. What you need to do is start going for it and not hold yourself back, because I feel like that the other shoe is getting ready to drop here when it comes to you, And I'm not worried even if you guys were I'm not saying anything negative about the marriage. But let's say that you guys were to break up, You're going to be okay. You do realize that, right you haven't even you you she's a baller. 00:37:34 Speaker 2: But but let me let me just say this about her. If she jumped in more headfirst, into the into the pool, head first, without overthinking everything every step, I think her business would be a thirty multiple by now because she's so focused and driven and smart, and sometimes she just holds herself back saying I don't have the answer, but she doesn't need the answer because she could figure it out. She can figured it out. 00:37:59 Speaker 3: I feel like you need to trust yourself more and not hold yourself back. I mean you you again, when I talked about him talk you know, he likes to dish it, but he can't take it here. You are the same way too. You talk a lot of when not shit talking, but you see things or you're able to read between the lines. Here, start calling that shit out, Start taking yourself where you need to go here. Stop holding yourself back, because that's what I feel like your guys are trying to show you. Here is enough with overthinking and again, but. 00:38:23 Speaker 2: I want to say one thing to that. When I met her and even today, she just is a one of the smartest people I know, and people don't realize, like people in the public don't realize that she's built an empire, not from any like we're a team. We're a team because we're a couple with a baby and we do some things together like podcasts and stuff. But she's her own CEO. She built her own business, she put her own money in it, she makes her own decisions. Every deal she does is driven by her. I have nothing to do with it. So when people like come up to me and say, you know whatever, I say, she's a boss like she's a real boss. And I think she's in that same place what you're saying, because we talked about it a lot lately. She's struggling a lot lately because she says, I'm ready to go to the next level of her business, and I think she just got to jump ahead first. She's so good at it. 00:39:11 Speaker 3: Yeah, And also, do you have to trust in the people that are around you to do you honestly think that he would let you do something that was going to make you look you know. 00:39:17 Speaker 2: Yeah, And she's got partners. She's got partners in New York. She's got partners all over the country and they have her back. And I know, it's funny. This is what I what I what I'm most about my girl that she doesn't realize. She's got these partners in New York that are super successful, right, you have a brand with them, and they've hit a wall. They don't know what to do, and they look to her. They look to her. These are older people who've made a lot of money in business and they look at her and they say, La, how we get into the next level. And La is the one who's put it all on herself to go to the next level in her brand, and she's the leader. She is the leader of all of them. She just needs to do it. And that has to be. 00:39:56 Speaker 3: Difficult for you too, because again, you are an overthinking You can be too much INSI your own head and looking for that. When I say validation, people look at that as it's being a negative type of thing. But you just want to make sure that you're doing a good job. I feel like you've you kind of came in here. And maybe Mom could speak on this too, I would say you kind of came in here pretty fast as far as like growing up and being independent, kind of like you know, does she learn how to talk and walk really fast at a young age? 00:40:19 Speaker 2: Yeah? 00:40:19 Speaker 3: I feel I feel like that that's that if we were going to dip into past lives, I feel like you kind of had it a little bit too good in the past life where things were a little bit easier for you, and you kind of got that here. But now, but now the next step is we're in a different time page, we're a different phase of life here. Uh go go get those opportunities. I feel like you're not the bottom line, I feel like you're not challenging, You're challenging yourself. 00:40:38 Speaker 1: Enough, I feel like you'll agree with you. 00:40:40 Speaker 3: I feel like you're bored, and I feel like I feel like with you that again, that if if you don't do it, or you don't allow yourself the opportunity to go strike all the irons hot or do something that's completely different than what's going on here, you I don't mean to put my finger, but you will end up resenting that decision. And the one thing, the one color that looks horrible on you is resentment enough. Because you you, she she will think about it and then and then and be like, well, I wish I would have capitalized, or wish I would have done that. 00:41:05 Speaker 1: And when she's so crazy that you you talk about resentment because in the program I'm in for being an alcoholic, they gave me a black chip that is the resentment chip. And they probably gave this to me. I mean it was before I conceived my daughter, so oh it was a long time. And the rule with it is once you get rid of your resentments, you pass the chip to someone who needs it more. I'm still holding onto it. I'm not ready to let it go. So I definitely agree it doesn't it doesn't fit well on me. 00:41:37 Speaker 2: But I think he's I think, but I think in your business, he doesn't want you to wake up five years from now and not have gone after it without not thinking, like. 00:41:46 Speaker 1: Well, I think he's talking about in life. 00:41:48 Speaker 3: Yeah, in all aspects, because I feel like with her, like I said, with her overthinking or or however she gets down, I feel like she it can cause like a level of anxiety no wonder. I mean, I'm not saying that, no wonder you were an alcoholic, but she's she's too amped up sometimes and I feel like what ends up happening to her is that that anxiety or that demon and not not saying that you're possessed, but that little thing that likes to fuck with you. It's it's sometimes it's hard to turn off. And I feel like with her that you know, she's a very beautiful woman, and I feel like sometimes she thinks that, you know that people look at her in a different type of life. They don't, they don't see that the human side to her. And I feel like she struggles with that humans, with that human side of herself as far as like you know, again, what's going on on the inside here, Yeah, more than just a beautiful facer. But you guys don't know what it's like to be me. 00:42:32 Speaker 1: Yeah, yes, I'm like infatuated. I love everything that you're saying. We're going to take a quick break. We will be right back. We are back with Chris Medina, the most epic psychic I've ever been around, ever, and I'm big on psychics. I would like you to talk about my daughter, if that's okay, Ocean and your feels. 00:42:56 Speaker 3: My feels with her is I feel like she's going to be okay. Like I said at the very beginning of the reading here that I feel like she and dad are going to have some very similar issues as far as the way that their thought processes as a kid. And now that I know, and I'm going to incorporate just a little bit of astrology here. You know, you're the polar opposite of your daughter, right, Yes, so you're Virgo and she's Pisces. The one thing with that there is that since it's the polar opposite, the lessons that could be learned between the two of you guys, as far as like you having her think a little bit more practically and logically with those boundaries between her and other people and also she can teach you how to be a little bit more emotional, okay, and not and not be so black and white sometimes. And I feel like with the black and white as that you can cause that even though you are black and white, it's still there's still that again. You your your frequency is a little bit high strung, A little bit, A little. 00:43:48 Speaker 2: Bit, A little bit, yeah, a little bit. 00:43:50 Speaker 1: It's very high strung. In fact, I just did this interview and they said in one of the questions was what's one thing you would change about yourself. I said, I don't want to be so high strung. 00:44:00 Speaker 3: That's what your daughter is going to teach you is that is that compassion, that being able, that patience there. But I feel like the only I feel like the thing that you're going to get irritated with her is that she's going to move too slow. 00:44:10 Speaker 1: Oh yes, slow people really anger me out. 00:44:13 Speaker 3: And but she but but she also I looked at the picture online and I was looking at her face. I also feel it for a sensitive that she's going to be. It's she's going to be. She's going to be a little bit feisty as well too. 00:44:25 Speaker 1: She's I could definitely see that she's now, she's going to have that that that sensitive side. 00:44:32 Speaker 3: But I feel like when she when she's mad, or when she's or when she's overly emotional there, then you're going to start to hear the words come out. And I feel like that's where she's going to get her mother's her mother's words or the way she the way that she says certain things. Here, it's going to be very quick and cut. 00:44:46 Speaker 1: Like you, it's like her mom, Wow, we're all in for a really big treat. 00:44:51 Speaker 2: Wa wait till the teenage years. 00:44:53 Speaker 3: But I don't I don't feel like I don't feel like anything negative. I I kind of feel like she's going to be a little bit unique as far as I her learning process too, so kind of have patience with her. How is she now? I know that she's only six months old? How is like her building blocks and things like that? 00:45:07 Speaker 1: You know, she's actually I'm her mom, So of course I look at her and I'm like, she's a fucking genius. She's like Albert Einstein. But I mean, as what I've seen is she is very curious. She is hyper, Like if you and I are having a conversation, I'm holding her, she will be staring at you the entire time you talk, yeah, and scowling at things that you say. I've been around a lot of I've been around a lot of babies since all my friends have had babies, and you know, their babies are babies. They're looking around, They're like playing with the zippers on their mom shirt. My baby is like watching you speak every word, and if someone else starts talking, she's her attention is on them. 00:45:51 Speaker 3: She the way that she visualizes, the way that she's going to learn, is just going to be a little bit different. It's not going to be slow or or you have something for you to worry about. She's very much I'm gonna say she is an observer, but she's also somebody. She's also a child that's only gonna I feel like it's going to look at a thing, look at it a couple of times, and get the hang of it really really quickly. 00:46:09 Speaker 1: Okay, I love that. 00:46:10 Speaker 3: That's what I get. 00:46:11 Speaker 2: I'll tell you she's she's very observant. I mean that's what she watches everything. She watches everybody, you know, and I think I think a lot of kids are all over the place, like when they're young. She doesn't do that. She stares right at you. She watches everything. 00:46:27 Speaker 1: And when I the other day, I was telling her one minute and she put her hand up and she was trying to do you know, And when she did, I was like, you're so genius. You should go to Harvard. 00:46:37 Speaker 3: She wanted to talk. Now she is she she. 00:46:40 Speaker 1: Begging to talk. I mean, she is trying to communicate in any way she possibly can. 00:46:45 Speaker 2: Yeah, she's over like not having a say in the conversation. 00:46:48 Speaker 1: Yeah, she's ready to you know, if she's an old soul or a new. 00:46:51 Speaker 3: Soul, I feel like she's a little bit of a newer type of soul. If we were going to dip into the past life with her. And it's so hard to say this because she is a baby. I kind of feel like this is to where she's born at a different time in this lifetime as far as having a little bit easier for her, not not because of who her parents are, but because I feel like she kind of struggled in the past life before and in this lifetime here she has just a little bit easier for her this time around. But my one, my one concern with her is that she's going to want to do everything. So watch out for that because those newer type of souls, and I've seen this recently too, with all the changes that are going on in the world here, those newer type of souls are more curious, They're more wanting to get their hands and everything else. It's not just a vibe for them, it's the experience, okay. And also and also making those memories. 00:47:36 Speaker 1: Yeah, I love it. Oh my gosh, this was so amazing. Well, now that I've sobbed and you've given me a lot to think about, don't in all the best ways and all I'm not going to I'm gonna start making decisions. 00:47:52 Speaker 3: And if you need help, you can always hit me up. 00:47:55 Speaker 1: You don't want to say that to me, because I'm I know. 00:47:58 Speaker 3: If there's one thing I know, it's Virgo. Really, guys, are you guys? Are you go self sabotaging at times? But know a little bit about a lot of different things here. You guys are always the boot. If you want a quick, fast answer, go to a virgo. 00:48:10 Speaker 2: Oh my god, yeah, she knows. It's amazing. I get in bed, she's got some show on. I'm like, what's the ship? Oh, you don't know? So this was a murder in nineteen eighty seven in Miami and this guy, and I'm like, who knows this? And then the next day you go in it's like and it's the story. I mean, it's so all over. She knows a little bit about everything. 00:48:31 Speaker 1: Who knows if any of it is? Like it's worth something? 00:48:33 Speaker 3: What's her moon ender? 00:48:34 Speaker 1: Oh my gosh. I always forget what my rising. I know that I have aries and scorpio, and I forget my what my moon is, and I forget which one is my rising. 00:48:44 Speaker 3: I have to look into that. Yeah, shoot me your stuff later. 00:48:46 Speaker 1: I would love to is that Okay, it's perfectly put you. I'll put you on the pirole. 00:48:51 Speaker 3: So what sign are you? 00:48:52 Speaker 2: Aries? Okay? All right, but I mean you come home to our house and she has something new to share with you about something that she has found wound, looked at red or watch? Yeah, no, she's and then schedule but schedule. 00:49:06 Speaker 3: The one again, the one. The hardest thing for virgo real fast is allowing yourself the opportunity to be present and not not think three four steps ahead before taking steps one through two, one, two and three. Be present and allow yourself the opportunity to be here. 00:49:20 Speaker 1: I love that you say that I've because I have to actively tell myself, no, this is the moment we're going to stay in. 00:49:26 Speaker 3: Because she'll start thinking, she'll start planning for stuff, and it's like it's going to cause her anxiety. 00:49:30 Speaker 1: What for, Oh, the anxieties through the roof. I have nothing to buffer it. I used to have a cocktail. 00:49:35 Speaker 2: I don't know. Since the cocktails have gone away, there's not a real there's. 00:49:38 Speaker 1: No buffer either. No, I'm completely so worry. 00:49:41 Speaker 3: Would probably she'd be like, oh, you should weave Chris. 00:49:45 Speaker 1: I would think people were in my apartment there to murder me. I'd be by myself by the way, and I'd be looking in the shoe because I'd be like, they're hiding in the shoe. I know they're home. It was not good. 00:49:56 Speaker 3: Well, if you need someone to calm you down, you could always hit me up. But I don't have anything negative to tell you, like I said, and I didn't tell you anything. You guys can already know. This is the first time that we've met. 00:50:05 Speaker 2: So I love that. I love that you knew about me, that I'm going through this like major shift personally and business wise. I'm really trying to. It's like nobody knows. Only she knows. I mean the conversations I've had, so that's that's neat, and then also all the stuff about her. That's her biggest thing. I mean right now in your life. I mean, let's be honest, the biggest thing for you right now in business is that you're trying to move to the next level. 00:50:30 Speaker 1: Personal business wise. 00:50:33 Speaker 3: I mean, if anybody's going to do what, it's going to be her. I mean she I mean, like I said to say that, to be manipulative and calculated, not in a negative way, start capitalizing on that because you know what needs to be done. And then she ends up saying I wish I would have done that. 00:50:44 Speaker 1: I know more of. 00:50:46 Speaker 3: That I already knows. 00:50:47 Speaker 2: It's like it's is. When I'm going to say it one last time, I repeat myself, she calls it the hampsteruroll when I review myself. If she just gets on the diving board and she jumps off, even if she doesn't know how deep, how far, he figures it out. She's one of the rare people I've ever met that figures out a blueprint without anybody telling her. 00:51:05 Speaker 3: Because she hates surprises. She hates to be caught off The surprises she likes is diamonds in a shoebox or money in a shoebox. But to be caught off guard, forget about it. 00:51:14 Speaker 1: You are you have to fly on my wall. Oh my gosh, what a pleasure to have you. Thank you American. Where can people find you? 00:51:26 Speaker 3: They could find me on my website Chris Medina dot guye. Sign up for a session half hour hour long session. I love to look me up, see what I'm doing. I don't post a lot of pictures on myself, but feel free to visit my social media at Psychic Chris M. 00:51:38 Speaker 2: And we're also gonna we're obviously we're gonna post you and they can go to our Instagram. Yeah and look at at Psychic Chris M. It has been the most fun morning. This has been fantastic. We're really grateful to have you. 00:51:50 Speaker 1: Thank you so much, and thank you guys for listening to another episode of Give Them Laala with Randall. We will catch you next week.