It's 5:20 Somewhere - Can You Date Someone Who Isn't Financially Stable? 👀

It is fire twenty somewhere.
I am your girl, Barbie, And of course I got
the beautiful sister twins.
Sister wives, and I'm I got the beautiful trap. And
Kiki here with me tonight, Trap, tonight today?
Whatever?
Trap?
How you doing?
I barely made it here, y'all. We was outside. I
didn't get home till like six thirty in the morning.
I didn't get home till like eight o'clock in the morning.
How about you, Well, I dropped her off. She got
home at like six fifteen.
How you feeling, Kiky?
Y'all?
Got what's it called? Electro lights?
Girl? Oh honey, both listen?
But wait, why is it in Spanish?
What kind of stuff is that?
Brine is in Spanish? Because I get mine from the
Mexican store.
Okay, so that's red. Yeah, because the artificial dies.
They just they got the They got the flavors too.
They have grapefruit and flavors.
Yeah. I just like going to the Mexican store.
Food and stuff is fresh.
Yeah, it's fresh. It feels like a real grocery store.
Like is it explosive? Uh, it's a little I feel
like it's higher than Walmart to me.
Yeah, y'all know what else is surprisingly high? Safeway?
I think surprising Safelay has always been high, which is
crazy because they put those in like the hood Yeah,
and then tax it.
You think that's because they know they got food. Yeah,
but it's just crazy though.
But I feel.
I don't know, like supermarkets when when? But I don't
know because Croger is really the only place that I
look at that has like the best price for groceries
is my Mark.
And I'm not a one more girly. I'm a Kroger girl. Croger.
Croker is cool like but still I could go in
Kroger and just get a few things and next thing,
I know, I don to spend sixty dollars.
I don't like Walmart's produce saying I'm all these girl too.
I'm definitely yes hopeful.
Audience for the cookers also it yeah sure because it
okay you be cooking? Oh has some gross ass stuff,
like some of the stuff like disgusting. That chunky soup
they got an Audie version, right, You never drink any all.
These juice okay?
Also the ice gross, they're disgusting. And y'all know I
love sardines, like it's just some stuff you cannot get.
Their produces really really fresh though.
I feel like on that they're healthier items like the
spinish artichunk dips and things like that really good.
They got a MEXICALI dip that is so good. Gosh. Yes,
what's that one stuff that hummus? I love?
Yes, we need to do a little We said we
were going to do a little scruter a dip party.
Yeah.
Also they they ice coffee is pretty good. You have
to mix it with creamer the playing time.
Oh creamer is nasty too. Yeah, don't get their creamer.
But there they're ice coffee.
Shout out to all these no foot We love y'all.
Yeah, that's.
Why I do most of my grocery shop and you
get the most bang for your buck. I'm going to
introduce our drink for the day. I took it upon
myself to say that we're drinking refreshers, and then when
I see them come in with their electrolytes, I'm like
one band.
One literally all on the same.
But any drink that I make, you can make it
either a mocktail or a cocktail.
So this is a refresher.
I made it with strawberry juice, leachy leachy syrup, freshly
squeezed lemon.
Juice, and.
A tonic water. So it's a refresher.
I added in some like freeze dried strawberries, a limit sliccense, actually.
Some blueberries in there as well as a leachy.
And this is just so refreshing and so good. So
this is for the day after super super good. Malk,
I had a question for you. I got a question
for you before you ask Malcolm, Why the fuck what
is that on your glasses? Oh, I'm starting a new trend,
trying to be a fucking drin setter rock spot.
No, my glasses.
So yesterday was chaotic, so tried to be cute put
in some contexts. And I had put my glasses in
like a little box, and I had the necklace in there,
and it's stuck. I can't get it off, and I
don't want to.
Break my necklace.
I need to figure it out.
Just imagine I was drunk this morning, like I tried
to have my dad do it like it was just crazy.
So I'm going to figure it out for from now.
It's a little stylish thing, call me a little uzzybird.
Oh my gosh, Hey, we was lit to them white
people's songs.
Last night.
They was looking at us like we was crazy. We
had we had fun.
The Fever got another wus in the chaps in the chat.
We're the Fever good luck charm.
So at this good luck charm, not groupies, Jeffrey, Oh my.
God, No, for real. They can't lose a game. When
the five two goes.
Their next home game, we won't be here, will be
in can Kun. But good luck to our girly pops.
And y'all need to get off.
They did calling uh calling.
Motherfucker's coons and ship.
First of all, somebody commented on our real when we
went to the Fever game or whatever.
Are one of them, and they were.
Like, what they invite black people to Fever games, Like,
don't do that, y'all.
Yeah, that's not.
Indiana has a stigma, but.
I mean mostly everywhere in the United States is races,
and I feel like the Fever for the majority of
places it is the whole world is however we want
to spend it. But the Fever are very welcome into
their to their employees and their teammates. It's a lot
of black women and black men that are involved and
they try to be very inclusive with even like Pride
and and Black, so I feel like they're definitely trying.
It's when people, I think the thing is, it's people
that are online like fans and stuff that make very
nasty comments and even other podcasters that really pushed that,
and it's just like it's unfortunate that the players and
the team have to get that smut on them from
people sitting at home on the computer just talking.
And even the fans like I saw like on X
like they were saying, if you're a Fever fan, then
you just a mega like whatever can we say that?
On here they were just saying, if you if you
black and you a Fever fan, then you're a coon like.
Insane or you were you were just born and raised
in Indianapolis?
Are you exactly being a Fever fan?
Since like Tamika Catchings and there are a lot of
new fans to the space, but come on now, y'all
can't do all Fever fans like that, and y'all can't
do And that's what Girly's on.
The team w NBA.
The women in the w NBA have been going really
really hard and I'm so glad that now that I'm
a little more tapped into it and.
It feels good, I'm like, yeah.
Stay out there ball, and they out there playing very hard,
them reffs. Another another day, I give my basketball terminology up, refs.
I'm coming for y'all because y'all worse than them. Y'alls
on it, yea, Like what heck is?
She didn't even touch her.
The refs are wold and they do not like us.
I saw y'all be acting like, oh, we just get
so many calls. No we don't man, Yeah, we be
there alive in five k and that it just do
not be going our way for real. Also, I do,
let me just say this too, I feel like it
wouldn't be such a huge thing.
Y'all wouldn't be spewing all this.
Autist hate and autist friction if they wasn't popping their
ship like they're really they're really like popping their ship
right now. They really got a chance to like win
the ship and every wind the ship and everything. So
it's like, also, I feel like that's part of the
reason why y'all doing all that.
Amen.
Amen, But that just made me kind of think so
super random how my brain works but do you know why.
People with tourette say the craziest stuff ever?
I be thinking that's like I think I think some
of it, some of it, especially the ones that capitalized
on social media because of it, like ain't no way
you just walking through life saying this, Yeah the people.
And people have those disabilities they and they do. But
I just want to know what. I guess they said
something in their brain function takes the filter off.
But they say some crazy stuff.
Yeah, like why you ain't? Why you ain't? Like what's
that ship called? When they be doing their little outbursts
and ship?
But why them? Yeah? Why you don't just be like
praise Jesus?
Like you never hear them say ain't good?
Are you saying? Like racist and feel shy.
GT on g t A going into our words from
the block young mouk What the heck does own g
t A mean?
And where did it come from?
G t A basically like a fake thing like I'll
be like, yeah, I'm about to hurt this person my
own g t A.
Oh okay, so to keep it keep it clean so
you don't.
Get so like allegedly yeah basically mmmm so like GT
we can sit and we can say some crazy ship
on the couch and be like on g t A
and then you don't gotta like cut it so like.
Props.
Yeah, and no in real life you say on g
t A. But they don't know that though.
Oh oh, so we still get flagged. So we can't
say on g t A. Okay, well cutting that out.
Thank you. We can't say that.
No, you can't even say do you be bleeping our stuff?
Well?
Can you write that down that you gotta beleep that
I said that at the time. You good, you got it.
Okay, it's gonna be We're gonna log on.
It's gonna stops because.
The gods I kept saying bull job just like, stop
saying it stops.
Can you say BJ what's what's what's y'all's word for bj?
Nick sounds disgusting with things that you do with your mouth.
I had a random question if you could do.
Y'all remember y'all first kids? Yep, okay, describe it in
one word.
I don't know. I was nervous. I was nervous.
White what what white?
White? A white boy? What was really? Oh wait, because
you told us about this, weren't you really young?
Yeah?
I was in elementary school.
Okay, my first kiss was in preschool, but it was
for the Christmas play though, but it wasn't a real
kiss though.
It was like a kiss on the cheeks, so that
don't count. Yeah, I don't care. Yeah, my first kiss
was I don't know it was it was. I would
say it was like dry that nigga didn't know how
to kiss.
Dry.
I thought you got to start saying the N words
so much that man.
Yeah that boy.
Yeah, No, I was nervous. I was in seventh grade.
My first kiss was that one.
I'm even talking about count but my parents always had
me in.
Like it don't count. When was your first real kiss? Mmmm?
It was with another white boy in like fifth grade?
Girl I was in.
I was in like these predominantly white schools when I
was youngest. So it's just like when y'all first started kissing, Like,
did y'all use feel like tongue kiss and French kiss?
No?
That was later on in last do y'all like kissing?
So I saw this, I saw this real, and the
lady was like, you know who tongue who French kisses?
After however many years of marriage, I want to say,
she said like twenty years of marriage.
And I don't know.
I think that like getting sloped down and getting I
don't like people trying to put their tongue in in
my mouth.
It going crazy.
Yeah, we gotta be like the movie type of breaking
close off and it gotta be that type of vibe.
Like but bro, if we just if we're just sitting
here and we're not about to do mister Nasty time, like,
don't I don't know. It's like like at this point
in the game, it's like a form of four play, Like, yeah,
it'll get you, it'll help get you there and get
you going.
But outside of that, I'm not really trying to.
If you're just saying goodbye, I do not want a
French kid or tongue kiss.
Like then who wants to kiss? No, Black people say
to kiss, and white people say French kiss. What do
y'all say? Tongue kiss? That sounds pretty ignorant, but also.
So but no, also I say, like we we tongue kissed,
are French kissed a lot when we were younger, because
that's like some ship you do when you can't when
you're not Yeah, because you can't have sex yet or
even what you do on the beginning of the relationship,
like they were saying, because you're trying to stick to
your ninety day rule or some ship.
It's not like.
But you just never had a minute. I just want
to kiss on all the time.
Yes, not heck, I don't have or like a wet peck,
you know, like but I don't see I don't want
your I don't want your tongue in my mouth.
And it's like a double triple peck. It's cool, that's like,
that's like and my tongue is like a sister. I
don't want to stick that in somebody's mouth. Do you
know how many bacteria you swap?
Millions of bacteria when you tongue kiss somebody.
It's actually kind of gross.
It is gross when you think about it.
But these niggas be drinking. I mean, these men be
drinking and smoking and.
Gold like people to spit in your mouth? Okay again not.
Like if you kissing me goodbye, I don't want you
to to in my mouth.
Is like crazy.
Did y'all have like I remember when I was like
young and wild and in the club I used to
be in the clubs kissing all the girls.
Did you have a kissing in the club era era.
I think I've definitely done that.
I used to be in the club kissing.
Oh my gosh.
One time I did that and the bitch posted it
on her story.
Y'all, man was my top on my time.
I didn't even know who the girl was. He's like,
I know her. I had a writer and tell her
to take it down and every look. Man, One time
I was in the bathroom like and we're like in
the mirror and it's just like you're like.
Oh, you're a bad bitch. No, you're a bad bitch.
And then like we're in the mirror and she's like
recording and stuff, and then like she sticks her tongue out.
You know back when we used to stick our tongues
out and pictures and stuff. So we're just like sticking
our tongues out, and next thing, you know, they touch
and then we just go and we just like start
tongue wrestling and then like I'm coming. So she posted
on her story. I followed her. I reposted it. My
best friend was like, I hate that bitch. I'm like what,
I'm like, I didn't even I didn't know and didn't know,
but I'm just like, Bro, she was cool with me. Shit, Yeah,
I'm telling some fifty girls in the club to the
next day be like.
Oh my god, I just sucked every nigga dick in
the party.
Oh my god, Like that is so disgusting.
What I'm beat? I'm beat, like Taco, No, literally, y'all.
I was while getting dressed.
I had to call trop to literally, like we had
to talk each other through that get ready session because
I was throw up. But once I vomited, y'all. I
threw up like three times. And once I did that, yep, I.
Threw up that white castle we had likes.
I'm like, oh my gosh, but I'm glad that we
did that because like put something on your stomach to
absorb out all that liquor.
Bro.
I was fine after that, A okay, man. We was
just drinking for a long time. And then when you
go to the games, like you get just free drinks,
free everything.
Yeah, so we were just and we were we were
able to stay out so long ago because we had
food on our stomach.
So we were drinking, but we were still functional. So
then it was like once we crashed, it was like, y'all, I've.
Been everybody's been on my top about me partying so much,
and which I feel like I parted a lot this
week because we went to two games and then you know,
I host r and be being go on Thursday.
But everybody's like, yeah, you're just a party girl.
On that post, they the dude was like, Barbie, I
would I would, I would say forget all my standards
for you or something like that.
I'm like, that's not a compliment.
Like he was like, I'm just saying you be out
and about I'm like not really, like I really and
if I had a man, I wouldn't be exactly exactly.
But they don't put me up as exactly. But they
want you to be sitting at home just waiting. I'm
gonna meet you if I'm at home, literally say that
I'm gonna meet you in the club, but listen.
And I just like, I'm not even my best friend.
She was like, you are? You are always outside, and
I'm like, I'm really not.
It looks I was out three times this week because
of the we are delusional.
We always say we're not outside. What we do, yes,
I mean, but we be working in networking is.
Thanks from from a girl standpoint, where did y'all go
to fun a good nigga as from a church church?
No, I've.
Let's go to all the good guys are already taken.
Actually they are, but I would say they are.
They really are? There are. No. I'm sorry.
If you're my age and you're not married yet, it's
something wrong with you.
I'm talking about the man.
I'm talking about the man because us, for us, we
probably invested.
This is what I did.
Anyways, I invested in the wrong man at a young age.
That's why I'm single now.
So what if he did the same thing?
Bro? What No men be the villains. It don't be
us majority of the time.
Like, bro, like say, all right, you gotta bake mama,
right if not you, But if a man gotta bake mama,
why do you have a baby mama?
What did you do for her to leave you? You did something?
Nah?
He did something that that girl?
That's that's hurt. No, that is a hot take.
I bro, because what woman? We're all we're single moms. Unfortunately, bro,
do it it looked like I.
Want to be a single mom.
No, Like I tried, like I tried so hard to
make it work with this man, and I took so
much before I finally left, and a lot of women
do that, Like, Bro, do you think I want to
wake up and be the sole provider.
For two kids?
No?
I would have. No, I would have stayed with my
baby daddy if I could have, But I couldn't. We
leave because we literally have to.
We put our mental health at steak by staying with
these men, like and.
Then get knocked for it like they be oh, you're
a single mom, like I'm the fucking problem.
Like no, Literally, when a guy tells me that he's
a bad I'm just looking at him, like, bro, what
did you do to that girl? Because don't nobody want
to leave a man while she got a baby on
her head?
Bro, I would rather have a man splitting the parenthood
with me.
I love Miss Ninja because that's valid.
Like that's how they're looking at us stuff like what
did you do to him that he doesn't want to
be with you?
And that's just the same.
I like, for the most part, are going to try
to fight for the relationship and try to stay in it.
It, bro, dumb? Would that be messing it up? Not
not one hundred percent of the time, but ninety nine
percent of the time.
Majority of the time, like even if we want to
be nice, we could say like seventy even if we
want to be nice. But it's just like, bro, nobody
wants to sign No woman wants to sign up for
being the head of the household.
Oh now, I got it.
Bro, nobody wants to sign up for taking care of
their kids by theyself.
The shit's hard.
And the worst part is you have to bump your
head to literally like learn that.
Lesson, Now I'm already already got the kid. Now, yeah,
I'm already.
People change, and I don't like that.
They say, oh, y'all knew y'all was having a baby
by this is that because if you ask somebody, can
people change and be mean and spiteful if you met
him you thought they was a good person, they can
be like, yeah, people change all the time. But then
when it comes to a baby day.
They like, nah, you knew, you knew. But see.
But also there are different levels as well, Like some
man's issue is not the next man issue. Maybe the
issue is money, and maybe you got money and you
can afford to support y'all. You know, y'all little world
until he gets on his feet. There's nothing that can
prep you or tell you like, oh, this man's gonna
be a broke nigga for life, Like how do you
know that? Or this man's abusive, or this man is
obsessed with lust and he has a fidelity issues and they're.
Never he's never gonna fix that.
Like, I feel like red flags do be there when
it comes to abusive men or when it comes to
certain certain characteristics.
I feel like the red flags do be there.
And honestly, even with the bro guys, they probably were
broke when you met him. But if I can, if
I know that I can get up and I can
get some money, I'm gonna believe that you can do
the same.
Yeah, we project, that's what we do.
But and then that goes to say they say women
don't love don't like men that don't have money, and
I just think.
That that is that is.
I think that I don't know about y'all. I don't
mean me and Tripe have definitely, like have broke men before.
I've dated a broke man. I've dated broken years before.
And honestly, I'm traumatized. And this is the thing too,
because we were talking about it last week or whatever,
it's not even.
It's not even that you've never dated broke man. Congress
to you, Queen. I love that for you.
But also it's a it's a mentality thing too. That's
why I don't want a man that can't get no money.
It's not even just all financial. Yeah, and the men
be so in a comment so triggered, Like bro, Bro,
we're saying broke men.
We're not saying like normal men.
Because somebody clipped up me saying nine to five ers,
and they took it as if I was saying men
were broke or people who got a job is broke.
And I'm like, Bro, I was including me and Kiki
and that conversation and you even though you don't have
a job right now. But Bro, I was including all
of us as no shade. I was just a disclaimer.
So I'm including all of us in the nine to
five or umbrella? What made you say because he I
thought we were gonna be together forever? Like that was
I ain't Oh god, I can't even be descriptive because
I don't want to be like mean, but to be honest,
I thought that he was gonna get on his feet.
And then also I feel like broke men they like
are a little manipulative as well. They'll tell you like, oh,
I'm gonna get it, or oh I'm gonna get to it,
or I'm gonna get right whatever. I don't know what
is in the water that broke niggas be drinking. Why
y'all can't just get y'all some money, I don't understand.
And then I just sat there and I just believed
in him for years and then to the point where
I'm just like, all right, I gotta go, because.
Clearly you were staying with for years. How broke was he?
He couldn't have been that.
I mean, I was literally funding our whole, our whole
talking about my own situation, I was, I was funding
our whole life, ass like bills.
And what was he doing he was he wasn't going
to work or nothing.
I mean, he was being a good father and stuff
and which, yeah, but but it's obviously if you're working,
if you're a working mom and your kids are.
Small, then somebody. But I don't want that for myself.
I want to I want a guy that's got a
good job and we're gonna pay this day care. I
don't need a motherfucker that day job is staying at home,
not at this same.
At home that at home.
I honestly I would be okay with that.
I would love to come home to a nice home.
I say that all the time. I would love I
don't mind working. I enjoy working. I actually enjoy working.
It's having to work, be a mom, cook clean, try
to have.
A life, try to stay cute. That's just I can't
do it all. Y'all literally put too much on our plate.
Like I feel like we we share, y'all, we get
too much of a load. Like my life when I'm single,
it's so looks so totally different than my life when
I have a man, like.
Because they was like, why would you? I don't get
it when y'all say men are work.
They because it's like, so we're we're sitting at home
when we're single. We do what we want to do.
We eat what we want to eat. You know, we
clean up when we feel like it. We don't got
to make full course meals. And y'all know, y'all steak
and lobster tail and want me and the kid's gonna
butt down some hamburger helper.
You're so picky.
And then I mean, what what else do niggas gotta
do that aside from y'all, what do y'all do?
Take out the trash? That's about it? Like what extra
do you gotta do? When much I gotta wash your clothes.
Now you go digger and now you want this and this,
this is that and not to that's and they stay
up late and they want you to stay up with them.
Like, bro, I gotta work in the morning.
You got you gotta hand out cool to you gotta
hit a nigga like hand out that I'm always going
oh and which also brings me back. Like that's why
I said, if you come over here, you have to
contribute something as much work as I have to put
in to make a nigga happy. Yeah, it's just like
bring something or else. It's not worth my time. It's
not worth my life, honestly, like entertaining somebody is.
It's amazing.
Like sometimes like do they not ever be like dang,
I'm sure they think this too, Like damn, I just
want this bitch to get out my face. We want
you to get out of our face too. Well, seemed
like I be in love in love love love everyone
in and you'll go too hard, right, you'll go super duper.
I've just been single for so long, Like I really
don't even know how to answer some of these questions.
But with the broke thing, though, like that's it's it's
more has always been more of a mentality for me
because I know that I want to work so hard.
I know the goals that I have for myself. We
want a line. We can't even have conversation.
I don't know how any man could want to lay
around and not bring no money home when I'm not.
Making The thing is, they don't even be laying around.
They just don't know how to get no money.
And I don't get that.
When I'm not when my money's not right, I'm sick. Yeah,
I can't think straight, I can't eat, I can't even
when I was something to believe I was getting paid
from my job.
But still I'm just like sitting at home for months
and I'm just like, I don't have anything to do
but learn how to fout taxes and everything I was tax.
And that's the thing.
Women are hustlers and not, like you said, we have
made some mistakes. Not all men are like this. I
understand that, but it's just like women get to it.
We don't. We can't make excuses. There are bitches to
do it, but you can't make excuses. We have no choice.
Literally, we know what we want.
We know what we want for our kids, know what
we want for farm, so we're gonna get to it.
But yeah, that broke. Then I've never I've never, I've
never done that. I had sex with somebody that was
broke before his dick was this big.
And I'm saying, but the broke man bro it's like
they be working on their craft so well, they be
so good in the bedroom because that's all they got
to know.
I'm like, oh, I'm about to fuck the ship out
of this bitch. I got to Oh my god, it's
all I got going for me. Was probably attached to
a broken.
He broke he broke my sure, yeah, broke my TV
and didn't replace it like arm gedding on their way
out like whoa.
And that's another thing to like it.
Also, and they destroy your property because they don't pay
for anything. Like I'm the type, like you know, we
can joke about being crazy and toxic all day long,
but I do not. I don't vandalize or mess up.
No man I'm not messing up your shit, bro, because I.
Pay for all my life.
Yeah, so I know how that is and I know
how it, bro, and I'm just not doing it. But
it's niggas want money who do the same thing, but
at least they can like replace it.
And that's where do you want to cry in the
Honda or mayback. That's that's where that came from.
And also being with being with a broke man is
stressful as hell because one thing about a guy with money,
at least you know y'all always gonna be straight, and
y'a always gonna be stable. It's not You're not gonna
really run into no issues real And that's why I
would like.
That's when I love when people find real, genuine love
and they find a teammate where.
You lacking somebody like that's.
All I am, and I'm willing to hold out until
I can find and if somebody loves you, then they
gonna step it up and kick it in gear.
Even if they ain't.
I've got no money before they gonna make the sacrifice
and take the ass the worker do something. But these
niggas them, not all of them, but they just be freeloaders,
and they know that we gotta get it and that
we're going to get it, and they just will like
bro mooch off of that, Like what am.
Okay? I ain't got no money though, but all he
got is man, it's never that deep.
He got the locks from his face my birthday.
That's how they be sounded.
I don't know, this is hilarious. Juice Ski is like goaded.
That's pretty funny. He'd be really clocking tee uh.
That just made me hot.
While that's literally all they have.
Just made me want to go because why is it
like that.
Brou I had When I my most traumatizing relationship, it
was with financially challenged man and Bruh, his only responsibility
was the cable bill, y'all. Why after we broke up,
I found out and realized that he had been paying
the cable bill with my credit card. Said the broken
the poorest ship it ever did? You should have said,
I suppressed those memories. Honestly I could. I could probably
write a whole book on but yeah, and and I am.
My ship was like by that time, it had been
just climbing up and climbing up, and girl, I was
over my limit because of cable bills.
That's insane.
He needs to go to jail.
That was don't even be that. He was in jail
at the time, but cable bills don't even be that high.
Literally because what yeah so, but did he have good dick? Yeah, but.
I didn't care back then. That wasn't like a priority
to me. I didn't care about it. You do prioritize, yeah, well, okay,
but it's never that serious like that, not like that.
You can get the fuck like. I don't even play
like that. I don't prioritize dick at all. I don't
feel like I really don't like.
I don't feel like I should.
Men are the ones who's supposed to be slaves to sex.
Pussy is powered that is our.
But I don't. I don't. I don't value it like that.
It's just like you, if I know you got some
good dick, even if I know our shouldn't.
Be fucking with you that little hooky okay, it's it's
never the dick for me.
I am I literally, even when I dated a broke nigga,
it was I'm just a lover girl. I was in
love and trying to stay down and it was so
he did have good dick though, But you said that
men should be a slave to sex. Do y'all use
y'all lemon drops as a former punishment relationship?
Oh that's a good one. No, I don't.
And it's the thing. That type of ship will get
you cheated on. They don't cheat anyway, I mean, but
that don't get you cheated on. Actually yeah, But I
feel like even like I used to do stuff like this, like, oh,
we might get into an argument and I'm like, that's cool.
I'll leave a house at like midnight and go sit
in the target parking lot for three hours, like trying
to make his mind wander. And it's like I look
back at that ship and it's like, bitch, you are
so stupid. That was so dumb, like and I'm looking
at it like I'm not doing shit right And he
knows I'm not doing ship, but know the fuck he
don't and he be abule to go cheat what you
think about? I can't wait till the next day, wait
till you bring the car back so I can drop it.
But I know girls who do stuff like that, or
like they'll go out and or like turn a phone
off or be ignoring a man's text messages or phone
calls while they outside, and it's like, stop doing that, bitch, it's.
Gonna get you cheating on. Yeah, you're poking the bear him.
He's thinking you're cheating because he's projecting what he if
he's not answering you, it's because he's cheating. So he's
projecting onto you the fact. Oh you're not answering all
that bitch cheating she getting she's sucking dick right now.
That's cool?
So what what is a healthy way though?
That you should put a man on punishment?
Put him on punishment.
But like if you're upset, like, okay, so what you
did wasn't wasn't a healthy way outside of communicating, do
y'all feel like you should take like.
Like do y'all go to bed mad?
Do y'all do you let your partner leave to get
some steam off? Like not cheap, but like separate y'allselves,
Like how do y'all do healthy?
I am a ghoster. I will shut the fuck up.
I won't talk to you, I won't answer the phone,
oh shoulder, even sometimes I go to her house and
stay the night off of there for real, Like I
don't know what.
Do you think? What's a as a man? What?
What do you what do you think would be like
approp inappropriate way for us to act once where upset
or you did something wrong or whatever.
I feel like, I mean at the end of the day,
like say you mad and y'all got a little argument.
At the end of the day, there's still your partner. Yeah,
so like either right or wrong. He's so much sure
you should be like, hey, yeah, like we just got
an argument. I'm about to go at my sister house.
So the he's not thinking, oh, you're going somewhere. The
reassurance is we mad at each other. I'm gonna see
her tomorrow, instead of you being like, oh, I'm about
to leave.
I think one of my dawn falls though.
Okay, I'm an over communicator and some people need that space.
They don't want to talk about it right then and there,
but I'm gonna keep pushing, like no, address it. Yeah,
like let's address it, let's get it over. But some
people need that. So it comes to knowing your partner.
Yeah, that's true.
I guess that speaking of over communicating, have y'all ever
had it?
Because you were talking about projecting.
Have y'all ever had a guy that just like constantly
accused you of cheating or talking off?
Sure?
Have I'm not a cheater, so I don't think that.
I can't think of a time that a man.
Ever I'm not either. But the thing is these men
be projected.
The last guy that I had constantly like accusing me
of doing stuff like he would accuse me of I'm like,
where the hell is he getting these ideas from? Like
he was like, you're pregnant, you want to you want
to keep uh? Or like you're pregnant, you want to baby?
You want to you want.
A baby with?
Like the guy had that I had talked to before
or whatever I had just stopped talking to before me
and this guy spent the block on each other.
He's like, you're pregnant, ain't you? You're pregnant by that nigga,
And I'm just like, no, I'm not.
And then bro come and find out the nigga had
a baby on the way.
I'm like, you were projecting.
And then like he would say stuff like you got
niggas coming up to your job, or you like got
people bringing you lunch and shit, I'm like, where the
fuck like he would stay like very specific stuff like oh,
you're trying to go work out with a nigga, And
I'm just like, what the fuck? They definitely and then
like I went through his phone like a couple of
months later, and he was doing it like that, like
going up to jobs or having bitches come to his job.
I was just like, Wow, he was really accusing me
of everything he was doing. And I learned like, Bro,
when a nigga just constantly blaming it or like, uh,
accusing you of shit, it's like, Bro, you has he's
probably on that.
That's probably what you're doing.
Wait, speaking of cheating, I had seen on social media
a ninety nine year old man left his seventy seven
year marriage after he found out his wife was cheating.
Back in nineteen forty. He found the letters that her
in the what is.
The statue of delimitation on cheating?
Because he said obviously never nine years he divorced her,
and I think she was like seventy years.
Oh, she was younger.
I don't know exactly what it was. She was younger
than him, though she was definitely younger than him. I
don't know if she was seventy, but yeah.
No, it's more two weeks cancel that hole.
He found he found the letters, and enough he didn't
give a hell.
Nah, he's because I'm about to die tomorrow, but I
ain't dying next.
To you, bitch.
Yeah, they said in the comments, they said he about
the tear up the the what's it called the nursing home,
and they say they probably added about eight more years
to his life because he got a point to prove.
But yeah, you kept those that's she's not seventy.
She kept the letters for over six In the years
she's tweeting, Yeah, like what, I ain't keeping no evidence, honey.
You filthy, raggedy old burger bitch.
At the fireplace, they said, how y'all just got to
realize how good that man's did have to be for
her to keep them letters, and the letters he's probably reading.
He's reading the stuff this man is saying to her.
So it's like, wow, you was you was really feeling
this guy, wasn't you?
So y'all be deleting the pictures of y'all old niggas
out your phones?
Yep, I don't like a nice little hitting album, have
y'all ever?
Though?
Got caught like got y'all text messages read I got
one that was so bro bad, Like what I was
telling the guy, like how much I like to give
him flatio?
And he's seen that. I was like, and he said,
who another guy?
Yeah, he's seen it and was just like you, you're
so dumb.
Were talking about giving him flatio and your screen broke.
He can't even buy you another fall. He said, he
got an iPhone, this is a low eight and over here,
get ahead.
I'm like, why see?
And this is the thing, like they don't want us
to transactionalize relationships and and sex, but then.
They say sh they say stuff like that, like over.
The men say, y'all don't y'all don't have Chanel bags.
So that what I thought we were not. I thought
we're not supposed to transactional.
I don't know what they won't ladies don't they don't.
They stay trying to use that against you when we.
All we all want to say, that's why the Ginger
Wars need to really end, because we've all burd brings.
And that's the cap shit are we talking about?
We say dumb ship. Y'all say dumb ship. Y'all have
crazy standards. We have crazy standards. We just need to
just coexist.
I ain't gonna lie.
It was just like it's like a year or two
ago a girl send me like a test shoe. Was
like some some something none of your business. Will never
be hitting on what I'm hitting on. So I sent
through a picture on yourself. I ain't telling myself because
I ain't. I ain't gotten a live about her. Tongue
was on my and I sent the picture and I
was like, ooh, it's my bad my phone tweaking male that.
Now, that wasn't That was just some spieful what's your signal?
Makes sense? Y'all? Crazy? That was fired though.
What they say, call your dude in the middle of
the night, moan and put your phone, cut your phone off,
your door, be kicked in house.
I can't.
I'm not playing with nobody like that. That's how you
get I ain't about.
To do it.
M m mmmm.
Oh.
Last call confessions.
We have been slacking on our last call confession, but
this one, since we're on the topic of men, I
think this is great. He went too personal in it,
so I'm gonna kind of like summar phrase.
Yeah.
So basically he said he's a guy that likes female company.
He likes to hang out with. He likes to hang
with a bad bitch, is what he said. I like
to hang with a bad bitch. So when I'm going
out to eat or I'm going out of town, I.
Want females to come with me.
It doesn't mean that it has to be a sexual transaction.
I just like hanging with a bad bitch. He took
a girl out out of town and she kind.
Of like pressured him to have sex, and he felt
like he had to because a he didn't want to
look gay, and also he didn't want her to feel like.
Something was wrong with her.
He said, it was just afterwards he felt really really
bad about it. It's just he just didn't want to
do it, and it was nothing wrong with her. He
just didn't want to do it.
He said.
Now I see what females go through, and he was
just like, it's kind of weird.
He hasn't talked back to the girl.
So he wanted to get our opinions on like and
other male opinions, and make this known that men go
through the same thing.
Like my opinion is where are you at? I'll go
with you.
You want to hang with some bad bites. We want
to go to Miami.
Yo cut in. Yeah, yeah, that's my type. But we
just found a new five too.
Oh yeah, I get that.
Get out the way, but I know I think that, Yeah,
women definitely go through that, like not you know, everything
doesn't have to be sexual, like let's vibe.
It's to the point though, like I'm not saying yes
to a trip or getting flud out unless I know
I want to do that with you or you.
Know, And maybe that's what she thought or did it
or whatever.
You know, but.
Yeah, maybe she thought that, like she had to like
type thing because it is that stigma if I fly
you out, you know. He said he never pressed up,
like nothing like that, but she she kind of she
just pressured him to do it.
He was uncomfortable. He didn't want to.
I'm like, dang, that's that's pretty deep. But I guess
because of the stigma, because of the Internet. If you
get fluid out, you got it, you got this is
that she wanted to keep it going.
She wanted maybe she wanted to lock it in.
That is just so amazing. She hit the lottery. I
love that. Have y'all ever had had.
A guy that like wasn't good at initiating. Nope, I
have and we never we never ended up doing it.
I'm like, this is great. Wow, yeah, oh, like some
men are literally like that, you're gonna you're especially for
the first time, you're gonna have to push up on
them mm hmm.
And that's not even.
So I'm gonna call it thirsty.
But like nothing a little hand on the thigh.
No, yeah, like yeah, do little cute stuff like that.
But I love to sit on the coochies. So it's like,
that's cool for me because I ain't gonna push up
on you neither. Born again, that's great, that's superle just
gonna lay here dead ass.
Skinned the skin now, skin of skin is crazy what
you have on you.
No, no, no, we didn't. We didn't do skinning skin
for I was just I love skin. Skin.
That's crazy.
So sli the stuff as a man, do you think
that's How do you feel about that? The whole man
flying the girl out and feeling like uncomfortable when it
came time to.
Do it.
If she want to, if you want to me personally,
I'm gonna do it.
You're not gonna feel taken advantage of it?
Said, why not I ain't on that.
But what if you're just not on it? Like sometimes
people just don't we You're still young. You ain't never
gonna be not in the mood, are you?
No? I ain't gonna I'll be on that. Some really
just feel like I'll be holding like no, that's how
bad feeling could.
Be going reverse psychology.
They probably be like not trying me and make them more.
I seen on also on social media it was party,
he had a real He was like getting ready to
take a good girl on the first date so we
can crack afterwards, Like you know, all good girls have
that standard that you have to take me out on
a date one date?
Like what's that?
It was in the comments going crazy, but I don't
know do y'all have a standard with dates or like
is it a VID thing?
It's about.
So, but also it's it's like I done got to
the point to where it's not like a ninety day
rule thing just for the principle, you know, but it's
more like you got to like give it time to
feel these men out and really like see what they
what they about for real, cause they be capping about
their lives like time will tell.
Yeah, and that shit is scary.
I remember when I was like freshly single, that shit
was giving me anxiety.
I'm like, damn, I gotta date again. I gotta get
to know somebody again. And it was giving me anxiety
because I'm like, these niggas are fucked up. They be
hide and shit and all kind of stuff.
No, and the conversation we had in the car right
before we got here talking about he was like, so
you pay rent.
My sister need her rent, her mortgage paid or whatever,
and he's like yeah. I was like I was. I
was like I thought he was broke.
She was like no, I'm pretty sure he got some money.
And I'm like, shit, well, I ain't trying to. I
was like, I don't want to be around him because
he's like the type to press like push up on you.
And I'm like, I'm sorry, I don't got time to
be cracking out later that you can't even afford.
Yeah, that's a reflect too, but some sometimes it might
just be just because they horny or whatever. They're used
to getting that easily or whatever. But sometimes you might
just be trying to hurry up and get the cool
stoked before a bitch.
See what's really going on over there, and I'm not
trying to like get tripped out the kuchie.
I want to know. I hate man who just press
press pressed like that.
As if you're messing with bad bitches, maybe like she might.
I just feel like first date or two, we're just bothering,
like if you a bad bitch?
What I'm hungry?
No, I am the bitch.
My stomach over here, like, oh my gosh, remember yesterday
last night, I was working on y'all and I just
like stopped abruptly, and I'm like, hold on, let me
stop for our part.
You stayed in front of everybody, bitch because.
I ain't want want to let loose, bro, And then
don't get on me because y'all bitches.
What was that that first game we went to when.
Y'all kept parting, Bitch, they kept on walking off, Bro,
I'm like, no, that was you and her.
I was not game. No, I was not.
No, they'd bitch standing in the corner by herself.
She's going politely. That's what they got out of her business.
Bro.
I'm like, oh my god, you bitches are killing me.
It was both of y'all.
You does it fart?
She was firing that night and she was in. It
was one no, it was one time. One of y'all
had walked off.
And then the other one came over here, like where
we're such and such, And then I was like, she's
over there far, and then the other one walked up
and said, I got.
A fart too. It was you know what I'm talking about.
Anyway, Sorry, And I wanted to close with hotty tities,
but I don't want to do hot takes with y'all.
Y'all gonna be being sensitive.
Oh lord, what I'm not.
We'll put it back up.
What are real?
Put our real back up? I've never coming back.
Just do your hot take. Word, let's let's.
Talk about it. My I had multiple hot takes because
I say, you know.
What, I'm excited. What are they?
First thing? First, I'll start with the easy one.
Hot.
If I was a man, I would date a younger
woman mm hmm, not underage, a younger woman. You know
how with me being an older woman, I'd be looking
at me in a day old younger women like, what
the why, what's the connection? Why do you want a
younger girl? If I was an older man, I would
date a younger girl. Their life's not as serious. They're
gonna still be fun. They not gonna be tired. They
gonna give me they don't care. They're gonna give me
that little edge that I need. They young and turn
like they young, These young girls is fly.
Yeah, a lot of men like older women, and then
the older man like younger women.
That's what I'm saying. If I was an older I
get it.
At first, I was just like, I don't get why
a man, why wouldn't you want someone your age and
why wouldn't you just is not And then they trying
to get them young before they get all these bodies,
because men care so much about bodies, but.
They come in catching bodies they beginning in. But no.
But also I think that the older niggas once they
get older and they're like, they don't got that same
like they used to and now they y'all like a
little washed up and stuff. They can't get a woman
who is their age and knows them for real, like
we know we went to school with you, We was
your age with you, we was outside with you.
We know you not shit. So you gotta go get
a girl who.
Doesn't know, who doesn't know your background or your history,
and also it is mouldible and you can like mind.
Fuck exactly, your stomach is non existent.
But yeah, I think it's a lot easier for them
to approach a younger girl versus the older woman. You
can lie so easily to a young girl versus an
older woman who knows that you know.
Yeah, and I mean I understand the characteristics that you explained,
but I don't know me personally.
I wouldn't want to date like no law as boy, Mmm,
like I can go younger, I don't know somebody like
how young are you thinking? Like, well, okay, so I
know somebody.
I know somebody who literally who's literally dating like a
twenty two year old and he's pushing forty, and so
in my brain, I'll just.
Be thinking like the exactly.
But again, I think it's oh, you can't get a
girl your age. You can't get a woman your age
or even like thirty. You can't because you just you don't.
You're not shit niggas. So the only person who's going
to go for that is a kid.
I want a young un give me my spark back.
I want no old dusty ku.
It's not enough sparkling world, Like I feel like older
women can.
I don't know. I don't know. I'm not about to
be the older women advocate as you should I am.
I don't know.
I say it, but I'm just telling the truth. And
that's back to those standard situation. We say shit and
we do shit, but we would you know, would do
the other things.
I don't care how old he is at this point.
Just send me your older women just don't, in my opinion, don't.
Require you don't think oh wow, young girls require more.
What do you mean though, like attention.
Older woman like r A. Y'all got kids? I know
you got a kid. It's it's the Lewis ship, like
all being considered of your kid. Don't you gotta clean up? Cook?
It's like you take some of that offer. Oh I
seem and another the gold.
Say yeah, because we got ship that we gotta do.
And I'm not texting nobody all day.
Yeah, that be together all the time.
Y'all remember them days though, wanting to be up under
a nigga all day? Yes you never had that?
Yeah?
What you work alike? Though? Girls? Yeah, I don't. I
don't like this.
You don't like clean girls just want to be a lege.
The only time we separate is when I go to work.
So he worked a lot.
That's cool, so you don't in his free time. He
needs to be inside of my vagina.
If I was in paper chasing, probably much. It's like
I want to live in my nigga balls. You do here,
I bro, it's a it's amazing, I know, but I do.
I would I still if I was in I promise you,
if I was in a relationship this, this would not
this situation would not go as smoothly. What what I oh? Yeah,
she man, it's going to be there when one show
a week. It would be hard for it would be hard,
hard because she got to spend the whole day every
day and all her free time with her.
Man.
If as a nigga, you shouldn't even want.
Niggas be wanting. They be wanting. A tentative bitch though,
even if even if they do like to spend a
lot of time with you. I like niggas like that
take me everywhere.
I don't not at least, and I want you to
drop me off with your friends to do.
I love to live. I love to do stuff. I
don't want to sit at the home and sit at
the house and be bored, but I like to do stuff.
Drop me off. I got.
You gotta be able to miss each other.
But can we just spend our day separate and then
we'll go we'll sleep together at night, and then we'll
go do our.
Own thing again. Like I don't. I don't want to
spend my whole day with the motherfucker.
As soon as you spend a whole day with him
in then you gotta spend the night too, Bro, that's
too much time. I don't want to do a twelve
hour shift, like, even if I like him, like I
like my kids too. I like my home too, like
I like my girls too, I like doing other stuff.
I'm definitely evolving, though, because I'll i'll her like, all right,
we don't got to spend two three days in a
row together. That's crazy, everybody, we need her on the show,
So don't don't even try to talk to it.
Don't even look at her, please.
We're shutting her damn down.
We're gonna be contracting every time. Watch out.
I'm gonna be boxing niggas out in the club, and
bitches get away from her.
Are gay?
I was I was watching when we went out. I
was like let me just make sure cool. She's like milk,
make sure I'm cool. And nobody talked to me.
Oh yeah, we oh, we didn't even talk about it.
I was a fucking field fifth wheel, y'all. Oh yeah,
Oh it was fun though. I had a good time.
But you and the kids. Yeah, for the girl, Yes,
they were being nice. They were so sweet. Uh, his
little booty, she's so cool.
We knew that she was cool.
She was. She was triking on me and everything. We
were having a grand all time.
Because you're the nice twin, cute girl, cool girls.
Girl, last heart takes on this couch anytime.
No, she cannot spot.
You gonna take this. My ass was wet. That was
not cool.
That was not I think it's so funny. And now
apparently Fred need something on the couch. Yeah, actually, girl,
I don't like.
Don't cut it either.
He looked like he want why
why Fred can't come get on the couch with.
This Fred filthy? He probably was all up on this couch.
He already said he's a little.
Why are you going that the couch is white?
Go go have sex on your little basketball couch.
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