Exclusive: Dotun & Charity, Happily Ever After — Part 2

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Speaker 1: What's up everyone, Welcome back to the second half Thatcher Happy Hour.

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Speaker 2: We are here again with our lovely.

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Speaker 1: Couple, lovely engaged couple, Charity and Dotton.

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Speaker 2: So let's get go with all right, how geat?

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Speaker 1: Because I want to be like how you guys feeling, but I know how you guys are feeling, So you want to kick this thing out?

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Speaker 3: Yeah off?

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Speaker 1: Just for our listeners, if you do like me, I'm sure you could find me somewhere else.

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Speaker 2: I'm this is my last podcast. I'm probably gonna get fired.

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Speaker 1: So I apologize, but yeah, you guys can find me, you know, Joe Instagram.

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Speaker 4: That's it for you. That's it for you. You're kind off.

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Speaker 2: Thank you.

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Speaker 4: Okay.

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Speaker 5: So we ended off last episode recapping the meet the family and the next time we saw in the episode that we have to get into is your guys last night together and the adorable treasure hunt that Dalton put together for Charity.

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Speaker 6: Let's talk about.

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Speaker 2: It, so sweet, Dotten, such a sweet.

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Speaker 3: You can basically I guess talk about like how you like came up with that, and then I just will talk about how thank that necklace.

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Speaker 7: But we'll start, Yeah, you know, I think going into that, I wanted to do something that kind of reminded her of the journey that we've had and this fairy tale that we we've just been able to live through up until that point. And what better way to do that than like just kind of track the journey that we took from night one until that night. And you know, actually actually had to kind of like fight a bit with some of the producers to get that that idea through. They wanted something else that was a little bit more like minimal, like it's usually simple, but I'm like, this loves is simple, Like you got to you gotta do some ride this girl and she's special. And so I put a lot of thought into that over the next couple of days, and I was I just had like a moment, you know, initially, I'm wondering to do it outside, like taking on the beach and like go like just try.

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Speaker 2: I could just see I could just see two producers. He thinks it's a fairy.

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Speaker 8: Tale, but the treasure's got to stay in the room.

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Speaker 7: So yeah, that was kind of the compromise, was like, Okay, we can do something that's probably a better idea anyways. And so yeah, like the idea came like last last day. I was like, I think that's what it is. And then everybody was so gracious and getting that putting that together I should say, and yeah, it was just perfect. It was perfect in every way. It's it's it's very me. It's very like how I would want to have approached it. And so that was just the idea and the motivation behind it was to just kind of show her and then give her something that to me is just kind of like a foundation of our relationship, which is like just two kids who just like have always had so much love.

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Speaker 3: To at that necklace because I was like, oh, it's just a necklace, and then like of course you open it and it's like the pictures that we both give each other and I'm like stop and.

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Speaker 9: I feel like that you keep called back to your date at the drive, and yeah, it definitely was, because it's like that's where we like kind of recapped our childhood and just like all this.

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Speaker 3: Those moments and then I was just like now I have like this like peace forever, but also like well at that point, but yes, I have you for ever.

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Speaker 4: So it's super sweet.

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Speaker 6: Yeah, I'm glad you liked it.

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Speaker 2: I love it, and that was that. Joey's was before that, correct, Yes, so that was it, and then yeah, Don was the night.

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Speaker 3: It's crazy because Don was literally the night before proposal.

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Speaker 6: Insane.

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Speaker 10: It's so much stress, so charity you obviously it's very difficult.

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Speaker 1: Yeah, it's it's almost impossible not to have feelings for two people when you get this far.

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Speaker 4: I think you say that one more time.

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Speaker 3: It is because people don't get that, but like this ship is so for real.

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Speaker 6: Yeah, no, I'm assuming it is.

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Speaker 2: After you left that treasure hunt day, what were you feeling?

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Speaker 6: Did you know?

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Speaker 2: Did you have any clarity.

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Speaker 6: After that date? H Yeah, I told you.

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Speaker 7: Yeah, that's funny because and you guys, I don't know if this was shown, but like she I after that, I remember after doing that, even me, I felt so confident because I'm watching it back to them, like this is soaked up, like it's got to be me too.

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Speaker 6: I'm like hoping it's me.

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Speaker 7: I don't know what's going on elsewhere, but I'm like, it's gotta eat me. And then she said something. She was like, I just don't know. She said something one of those yes, and then I was like, holy shit, and.

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Speaker 5: We see you say this is the first time there's ever been any open acknowledgment that there's someone else here, and that really has me in my head a little bit.

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Speaker 7: Yeah, okay, so yeah, but that's that's that was really eye opening for me again because I hadn't really focused on anything else outside of that, and neither had she. So that was the first time that like, oh shit, this is very real. I could get my heart broken tomorrow. So it was a really interesting like high high in an instant high low and reality gut check in that moment, which is probably good, you know, probably better like.

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Speaker 6: For me, And and again it made me want it so much more in the next day. And then you know, that's why I couldn't.

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Speaker 7: Get two words out the entire day, just thinking about not leaving Beugi with her. But yeah, really really powerful night overall.

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Speaker 3: And I think like leading up to that moment at the end of the night with him, obviously I had like my last chance with Joey and then and his meet the.

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Speaker 4: Parents, and the last chance was the next or day after.

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Speaker 3: So after leaving his day, I want to say, like I knew, but I still had to like kind of sit on it a little bit. But obviously I had reached my I guess like I knew in my heart, so I was like, yeah, this is like this is it. But it's also again like it comes with that other half of like fuck, I made that choice, and it's now like dealing with these emotions of how do I get to the point of now I just spent a day with this other person, and it's like now I have to like bring myself to like come to terms with saying goodbye, which is like the really difficult part of all this, and for me, something that I struggled with, Like I struggled with it throughout this whole season thing, even like Row Ceremony three, I'm like, why am I crying?

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Speaker 4: Like but it's like I just don't.

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Speaker 3: I don't like saying goodbye to people, and I don't like being like a contributor to other people's pain, and I don't obviously at that in that moment, I don't know how Joey's going to take it, but I can imagine at that point for anyone, it's like if your feelings are in this and if you're invested in this, it's like, yeah, you definitely think that there's a big chance that I could be the one, but also there's this chance that I could not be in and so I did, like ultimately like decide that night that Dwton was like it just it made sense. I was like, this is my person and I'm not going to fight this, like I'm not gonna try and sit and figure out like I think obviously, again just reference back to the fairy tale, like the too Good to be True. I was like, I think everything that was going on, I was trying to like his there something I'm missing. I was trying to like make like such logical like decisions with every single thing and look at every single like dissecting it all. But like I was like, no, like this is just this is why it makes sense because it's it's been this way, like there's nothing I need to look for to go wrong. So obviously, yeah, I had to kind of kind of terms with all of that, and then obviously we see proposal to it.

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Speaker 4: It's just so very difficult exactly.

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Speaker 7: Going back to that too Good to be True and like that moment, because like obviously that's where my I was like, this is great, like this very toll has with us, But then how you say that.

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Speaker 6: I was like she's still thinking about it. I'm like, what are you doing? Did he take her to space? Like I'm so confused. I'm sorry, That's just how I felt. I was like, what is this dude?

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Speaker 2: Like what is going on?

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Speaker 4: Like he's like.

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Speaker 1: Doing I'm like, you must be crushing it like Charity was there was there any was there any part of you that that through that in there like keeping him on his toes like just so you know dot like in your head you're like it's probably you, but no, like the.

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Speaker 3: Way like I don't have time to sit there and be like let me like try and get his head. Like I was literally going for so much sh it in my own I'm like I'm not trying.

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Speaker 4: To figure out like if you think you're ahead or not, like sorry, but like I'm not giving you that much.

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Speaker 3: But it's like no, like yes, Joey, like obviously we know and like I have so much respect for Joey, so like yes, like my feelings for Joey were very much real, But it's just like it boilt down to like let me look outside of this like environment and let me look outside of like this world that we've been living in. It's like who was like where my soul is truly like just immersed with at this point, and it's like Don was the one like at that point. So no, I didn't throw out the lingo like I don't know, like just to be like let me, let me fuck with me. I was not doing that, but I mean obviously it came out because like that genuinely was like where I was at. It's like I don't know, but like I knew, but I also was like I'm not going to tell him like yeah, like he's the one and see you tomorrow, like that's just so fun doing that, So that I don't know was definitely real.

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Speaker 5: Like so then just to clarify because I do think our listeners will be curious about that. So that moment where you did open up about kind of how you were feeling and the fact you know, hey there's someone else here I have a big decision to make tomorrow really came from then just a moment of like transparency of where you.

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Speaker 2: Were at in that moment. Correct.

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Speaker 7: Yeah, And for the further rector, like I the whole time you know you're watching the backup seat, there's gonna be people who are like, yeah, like you're always in the.

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Speaker 6: Front, but I never believe that.

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Speaker 7: I think I've told you right, Like I could try to rationalize it, but I purposely like did not want to think about it that way and like a race and just build on the love. So it wasn't until that last day where everything counted, where I was like, Okay, let me, let me see where we're at. What are the chances because the next day is gonna be the big day. So it was only only until that last day. But I didn't go through that season. They're like, oh yeah, like never that like that was never the case.

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Speaker 6: Was just to build and at the end you kind of like take it.

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Speaker 4: But if you did, that's okay.

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Speaker 5: Like if you were like, I feel like it's me and him, yeah, like I feel like, I mean, Paradise is definitely different. But I was like, I'm the person for Joe and like he'll figure that out or he'll be wrong.

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Speaker 11: Like I felt really strong and like I'm the right person for you, and it's okay.

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Speaker 4: Like if you didn't feel that, it's okay.

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Speaker 5: If you did, though, if you were like, I feel like I'm the person for Charity and she's the person for me, but I don't know where I'm at and like the standings of all the men.

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Speaker 3: Did you think that, like, did you have those thought processes where you're like obviously like down to you and Joey and it's like not like to like shit on him or anything, but like did you ever be like, oh, like I definitely feel like I'm a better Like.

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Speaker 4: Yeah, of course, And.

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Speaker 6: That's what I'm saying.

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Speaker 7: That didn't start happening until Fiji and then especially the last couple of days. Like I said, I really like turned that part of my brain off that was comparing like entirely. It was until last couple of weeks and then I started to definitely be like, okay, as I compare everything to what I know obviously without knowing what you guys are doing when you guys have your time, I'm like, what does this look like?

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Speaker 6: And I'm like, there's no way, Like.

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Speaker 7: I couldn't imagine you not picking me, and in my heart I'm strat I felt like would have been a mistake not too but obviously I'm not not going to love his love, you know what I'm saying, Like that it is crazy and that don't make sense. Like maybe if that was the case of like that type of love that she wants, but like love that I'm looking for, to love that she had expressed. You know some people you know, maybe not the best and so but for what I wanted, what you would expressed that you wanted? I said, this made too much sense, So yes, I did believe that. But again, like and you also like don't want to get your hopes up and get destroyed. You know what I'm saying, Like that would have been really painful. So I'm sure there's a self defense mechanism too a little bit.

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Speaker 1: Yeah, yeah, at the end of this show, there's always a pretty solid case for the second the second person to become the next bachelor.

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Speaker 6: Did your head ever go there? Never?

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Speaker 7: That's the one thing that actually never even came close. Like, first of all, I didn't.

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Speaker 3: I'm not like Journey, I think, you know, because I don't reason why I don't.

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Speaker 4: What are you trying to do.

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Speaker 3: To this happy couple right now that's not doing it?

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Speaker 11: Was like charity, he was there for the reason.

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Speaker 4: I have no weapons to prove it, but I'm proud there.

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Speaker 3: But no, I think it helped because I think just because of like hearing Don's backstory, like donten. We talked about this so much too after like proposal to but like just knowing like how he got here, like he's not a reality TV person, he.

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Speaker 4: Does not watch this type of ship. And then like the fact that like he got here, like.

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Speaker 3: It just was all like it was truly all fate, like two weeks before like that y'all.

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Speaker 4: Know how long casting is.

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Speaker 3: And then like the fact that he didn't even know. I didn't even know like this was an engagement. At the end, It's like I don't even think he understand like the format of like, oh, like certain placements get like to this, you know, like he doesn't know like the worst No, you really didn't know, which was amazing exactly.

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Speaker 4: I was like I love this, Like there was like a level of like innocent.

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Speaker 1: And I kind of figured that knowing that you didn't know there was an engagement when you signed up for the show.

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Speaker 6: I mean, I need going back to like going on the show.

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Speaker 7: So the full story about like what made me decide to go on it was, yeah, two weeks before is when everything started, and then two days before I got approved and so I was still probably a no. And then I was watching the woman tell all, and I had no idea they chose people. I thought it was everybody was random. I thought every Bachelor bacherette was a random person. That was so I didn't even know so that when I was looking at her, I was like, Oh, it'd be dope if she was the bachelorette, not knowing that couldn't.

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Speaker 5: Be literally like that, and then she was chosen.

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Speaker 10: I was like, oh, this might be rare, like literally because.

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Speaker 7: I always thought that, so like to give you reference, like my brain wasn't even there, but like, oh, Bachelor, but that would have not I'm sorry, Like Bachelor, it's hard enough.

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Speaker 6: Green time is hard enough.

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Speaker 7: I don't I can imagine being the lead and having me on like that is like it's like so yeah, So that thought didn't even come into like probably way after everything ended, and I was like, oh my god, like I guess there's a chance that you could have been Bachelor if you weren't chosen, But.

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Speaker 6: Yeah, don't.

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Speaker 2: Let's let's jump to let's jump to engagement. Should we go there?

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Speaker 5: I have so I don't know what this is from, but you know the line with great power comes great responsibility?

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Speaker 4: What is that from?

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Speaker 11: It's like a fairy tale.

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Speaker 5: Yes, great, yeah, I know, we just saw the new one.

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Speaker 6: His grandpa, his grandpa, yeah, his grandfather.

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Speaker 3: Job.

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Speaker 5: That is the line that comes to mind on this episode of The Bouchlorm Boucherrat when I look at the lead and I'm like, with great power, great responsibility, because you're entering into like the best and worst day of your life.

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Speaker 3: A little bit, it quite literally is like the best and worst and like I can't again cannot explain like them extremes, like it is so extreme and obviously like it's.

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Speaker 4: Just an emotional it's an emotional goodbye.

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Speaker 3: And I didn't think I don't want to say, I didn't think that I was going to be overcome with that many emotions or like feel that like intensity about it.

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Speaker 4: But it's like you almost.

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Speaker 3: Can't help it because again, like I said, I do struggle with like saying goodbye if people are just like having to like you know, feel like to a certain degree, I'm like contributing to someone else's pain. So like like I truly couldn't confront him, and I was like, this is just gonna be awful, but like obviously like yeah, he got to and it's like I was like in order to get to like the next step and the happy ending, I have.

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Speaker 2: To face this.

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Speaker 4: It's like this is like the biggest and the last partle I have to do.

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Speaker 3: But luckily, like Joey is just like very understanding and like he I think obviously like it's emotional for him too, but like he was also very much like looking out for my emotions too, and I think he didn't want to like give off too much like to where he was like, I'm gonna make her feel so much more worse in this situations now when where you're like I can't I can speak, but no, yeah, I mean I got through that, but it was not easy in any sense, like absolute worse.

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Speaker 4: And if anyone ever is in this position, you would understand. But for those who at home who don't understand, it's not easy.

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Speaker 5: I don't know how anyone can sit at home and be like that was easy, and there's people that probably do it, but like I can't even image being in that position of like obviously, you know, you know, I've made this decision to pick the person that I love and I'm going to spend my life with. But to have to hurt anyone for whatever reason is painful.

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Speaker 4: Extremely. I thought you did a really good job.

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Speaker 5: I liked when you stopped and you were like, I need to get it together because I want to.

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Speaker 11: Give you, you.

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Speaker 5: Know, disclosure and these words. And yeah, it was really heartbreaking to watch all around. But you know, we could take this time to give Joey a little show.

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Speaker 2: It's fine, We're done with.

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Speaker 6: The next Bachelor.

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Speaker 2: I can't wait to watch, but Joey, you know what we've had.

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Speaker 6: Can't talk about Charity and joe no.

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Speaker 2: Longer exists, no more thing.

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Speaker 6: If you like them, you don't like them anymore.

00:18:47
Speaker 2: But we can't wait to watch Joey's journey as the next We can't.

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Speaker 3: Wait for his journey, and we will send Jerry Oliver well, Jerlie. This is so much respect for him, and I told him always will have in my heart for him, so I know he's gonna crush it.

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Speaker 5: Yes, and this was just one step on his journey.

00:19:08
Speaker 4: Listen, I was in that's last yeah, last season. So here we are, Here, we are.

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Speaker 1: Were you did when you walked out for the engagement? Did you know it was you?

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Speaker 6: No? Yeah, I could see I see that.

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Speaker 1: I would see that watching it, I was like, he doesn't he doesn't know, you don't understand.

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Speaker 3: I was like doing everything in my power to be like it's you without saying it's you.

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Speaker 4: Was like, obviously that takes away from the magic.

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Speaker 3: But I was like, hey, I was like, how are you feeling?

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Speaker 6: You see the smile in your face.

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Speaker 2: Your smile was so you like lit up the screen.

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Speaker 1: But when you did start talking, I was like, oh, she's playing them a little playing games.

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Speaker 3: Correct, But obviously, like when he first walked out, I like I could see he was not smiling. That was like the first time I've ever seen he's looking smiling at me so serious. For a moment, I thought, I was like, this man is about to say he doesn't want to get engage me.

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Speaker 4: And I got to be brotally fun.

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Speaker 3: I'm like I just said, and now this one I'm proposed to be. So I was freaking out. I'm like, please, just like smile, like do something. And I was like, trust me, like it's okay. Like was like, trust me. I kept saying trust me, and he was just like.

00:20:22
Speaker 4: I don't trust you.

00:20:23
Speaker 8: I don't but until this rings on your finger, I don't trust you.

00:20:27
Speaker 2: You're also probably extremely nervous.

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Speaker 7: Yeah, yeah, yeah, yeah, there's nervousness from obviously, and again like you know, don't want to get too much into it, but the time from I just had my last chance to date the day before.

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Speaker 6: I had just learned about like the proposal when I went to write it the day.

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Speaker 7: But so it's like trying to figure out, Okay, how make sure my proposal is what I want it to be right, So there's that fear going in your head make sure it comes off right. But also the biggest thing is, yeah, like you might get rejected. And again, like I there was no doubt that I wanted to leave with her, and that it harder to accept the fact that I might not.

00:21:02
Speaker 6: And so and again I talked about a.

00:21:04
Speaker 7: Little bit in one of our one on one dates where like there is this fear of failure that I have and so I don't think about it. I'm like, here I go, I might fall flat on my face. I want this thing really bad, and you know, maybe she might not want me. And she did give me all the validation from start to finish throughout that I could have that anyone could have ever asked for any contestant on this show. But at that point it's not a show and never really was for me, especially then, and so it was very serious and knowing that you're either going to be completely heartbroken and devastated or you're going to be engaged. Those are two extremes either way life changing. And so that's where the seriousness was came from. And I'm still I don't know, like I think about today, I'm like, do I I struggle whether I'm happy with being that serious or.

00:21:49
Speaker 4: I loved it.

00:21:50
Speaker 3: Obviously it was hard for me, but I was like, you, you're fine, Like I knew I essentially.

00:21:55
Speaker 4: Technically at the power, but not even.

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Speaker 3: Because like again I was thinking like he might just not even was because he might freak himself up.

00:22:01
Speaker 4: I don't know.

00:22:02
Speaker 6: I was straight. I was straight.

00:22:04
Speaker 7: It was just in case, like you said, you just don't know. In my heart, I felt like it was me Like that would have been more hurtful if I was like, Gid, you know.

00:22:17
Speaker 5: And you're standing there like there's a zero percent chance that I get broken up with today.

00:22:23
Speaker 4: You're a little.

00:22:24
Speaker 5: Delulo, like you have you have to like you have to be aware that there's like a slight possibly you don't know till you know exactly.

00:22:32
Speaker 6: And It's a huge moment.

00:22:33
Speaker 7: It's life changing, you know, and I just want to just It's something I could not not take seriously, you know.

00:22:38
Speaker 6: So you know that's how I'm struggling, Like should I've been more like happy?

00:22:42
Speaker 3: But I mean I do wish she's not I know, But I will say when Joe and I got engaged, I spoke first and he was so nervous to propose me that he couldn't look at me.

00:22:56
Speaker 5: And I almost stopped mid speech to say, allow, what is going on?

00:23:02
Speaker 11: Can you look me in the eyeballs?

00:23:04
Speaker 4: And if you're gonna break up with me, do it right now?

00:23:06
Speaker 11: Because I was getting in my head.

00:23:08
Speaker 4: I'm like, why won't this man look at me?

00:23:10
Speaker 5: Like I'm confessing my heart and feelings and you're staring at the ocean.

00:23:15
Speaker 4: I was getting so mad.

00:23:16
Speaker 1: I was also going through I had a lot of things thrown at me in that moment.

00:23:21
Speaker 2: He had a big day.

00:23:22
Speaker 6: It was super hot. I was really sweating.

00:23:25
Speaker 2: I was nervous. I wring in my backpacket I don't know she was gonna say yes.

00:23:29
Speaker 11: I was like, oh my god, yes, I sympathize.

00:23:35
Speaker 5: I sympathize a lot with how you acted. Now, but I can't relate to you being like.

00:23:39
Speaker 4: Are you being so serious? Just like I don't know, give me a smile, you know something. Yeah, well you got better than a smirk.

00:23:48
Speaker 2: You got a ring. There goes.

00:23:55
Speaker 3: I think you should tell them how you picked it out. We didn't even talk about rings at all this whole time while we were like, in any conversation, nothing about rings came up.

00:24:07
Speaker 4: But obviously like the previous I was like, I just want oval, like oval.

00:24:11
Speaker 3: I don't care how it looks, but oval. But I guess you can cut because I was like I always asked him. I was like, what did the other ones look like?

00:24:16
Speaker 2: I don't know.

00:24:17
Speaker 7: I just but yeah, that was an interesting day again, like kind of unknowing that that's how it went. So I learned about the day before. I was like, I guess I'm picking out rings. Never really had like a lot of I don't know, like rings. I'm always like I don't know, you know, yeah, I don't know about us. I'm like whatever, like rings.

00:24:36
Speaker 2: When I saw the rings, I was like, which one's the most expensive?

00:24:38
Speaker 6: Yeah? Literally that's where I was at. I was. I was like, that's what it's gonna have to be because like I knowledge but like knowing me.

00:24:46
Speaker 7: And like how like I like can be such a meaningful person, Like Neil Lane was perfect because when we got there, there was a reason and rhyme for every ring. And so he goes through each one and explains each one, and then he pulls out the first two when they're like really flashyther we're all like similar in size, but some are more flashing others and the other two have like all the cuts on the outside and they look great, but I'm like, I don't know, it's not speaking to me. And he pulls out the opal one and he's like, this one's great because like the diamonds are in the center, right, like that's where the it's beautiful on the outside, but the inside is where a lot of the weight and like the beauty is. And then the way he was describing and I was like, yo, this like.

00:25:22
Speaker 6: Did they give him like a she for like who cher he is?

00:25:24
Speaker 7: Because that's exactly how it described her. And before you finished the other ones, I just knew that was the one. I was like, that's gonna be the one, Like there's no way it gets better than that.

00:25:32
Speaker 6: He went through the other one and I was like, Yeah, you don't need to you don't need to play this. It's that done.

00:25:38
Speaker 11: It's just a never ending.

00:25:42
Speaker 1: When I hear that, I think that's how That's how me On Lane built his whole companies.

00:25:46
Speaker 2: Salesman he played.

00:25:53
Speaker 6: That's all.

00:26:00
Speaker 2: So what so we are going to play a game?

00:26:04
Speaker 6: But what before we do that? Like, before we do that.

00:26:09
Speaker 1: It's not rapid fire, don't worry, no, But I want to get into a little bit because I'm very curious what is the deal with like your living situation now, Like what are the plans?

00:26:19
Speaker 4: Yeah, so.

00:26:22
Speaker 3: Yeah, obviously like we're into so I'm currently in Charlotte.

00:26:25
Speaker 4: He's in Brooklyn, so.

00:26:26
Speaker 2: It's not gonna work.

00:26:27
Speaker 4: Yeah, yeah, so.

00:26:29
Speaker 3: We're actually like gone, but we have obviously talked about it, like throughout this whole process of just like being in hiding and what's going to be the best case scenario for us. So yeah, we are looking to move in together soon. We don't really have like a set like date right now, but it's like in the work. So I actually he will not be coming to Charlotte. I'm be departing Charlotte, so I will.

00:26:58
Speaker 4: Be coming to him.

00:26:59
Speaker 11: Oh my god, new York are, So I'm very happy to hear that.

00:27:06
Speaker 4: I'll talk about that because, yeah, let me not give your location.

00:27:11
Speaker 5: Do not give your address past.

00:27:16
Speaker 2: Nice her whom.

00:27:28
Speaker 6: Okay, we'll try not to make that mistake.

00:27:31
Speaker 7: Yeah, So ideally it would be in Brooklyn, Like I would have left to stay in Brooklyn, one maybe two stops away from the city.

00:27:38
Speaker 6: That's just like the sweet spot get a bit of culture.

00:27:40
Speaker 7: I feel like that's just the vibe that we're looking for, and it's just a fun place, right Like I feel like anytime my friends want to do something, whether we go to my hand, we always end up in Brooklyn because that's just where that's where you know, people get down. So that's the idea hopefully, But we're also open to moving into Manhattan.

00:27:56
Speaker 6: But it's pretty open ended. We're just going to see where where the wind goes.

00:28:01
Speaker 2: Manhattan. We decided we were going to move to New York.

00:28:09
Speaker 6: We were planning on moving.

00:28:12
Speaker 5: We were really set on Williamsburg, and we ended up finding the place that we really liked in Chelsea, which I recommend checking it out if you're thinking about Manhattan.

00:28:28
Speaker 1: I truly truly think it's like it's the best fun and we'll all go to Loulia.

00:28:36
Speaker 6: Full circle. I have a question for y'all. Did y'all know what what was your thoughts?

00:28:44
Speaker 11: Interviewing Joe was like, finally someone asked me a question.

00:28:55
Speaker 6: I was.

00:28:58
Speaker 7: You're very special, Joe, No, what was your thoughts? Obviously you talked to Joe, you talked to me, and you talked to Cherry.

00:29:05
Speaker 3: Oh you're asking them like, yeah, I was going to pick yeah, yeah, So.

00:29:14
Speaker 2: So I truly at the beginning, so I would say.

00:29:21
Speaker 1: Majority of the season, I truly thought it was going to be you the whole time. At the end, I was like, actually, could potentially go either way, but I.

00:29:33
Speaker 6: Still I always thought it was yielding. I really did what I can need to.

00:29:41
Speaker 4: I think you picked Dott picked from the beginning.

00:29:45
Speaker 5: So Joe and I picked like our final four after watching episode one.

00:29:51
Speaker 4: That's so crazy because there was no conversation.

00:29:56
Speaker 1: He was extremely smooth out of the your very you just you just you just I could just tell you were able to really be yourself, and it came across and I just I was like, he's a sleeper.

00:30:09
Speaker 6: So it was you.

00:30:10
Speaker 2: My top four was you, Joey, Xavier, and Tanner.

00:30:16
Speaker 1: I threw in there you were.

00:30:22
Speaker 4: I could have been Tanner.

00:30:23
Speaker 6: Maybe you should have.

00:30:30
Speaker 11: I don't remember.

00:30:32
Speaker 5: You were not in my top four strictly because you did not have a conversation.

00:30:36
Speaker 11: I was like dot dont and heard an't even talk? What do you mean I had?

00:30:41
Speaker 4: I had Aaron B.

00:30:42
Speaker 5: I had Joey, I had John B John B, and then I had uh.

00:30:49
Speaker 11: I think there was another Joey you had had.

00:30:51
Speaker 9: Like Joshua is like a wild card, like Josh Josh Gosh.

00:31:00
Speaker 11: Yes, so I didn't do terrible either, but you actually did.

00:31:03
Speaker 5: Truly Okay, Yeah, that was a wild card.

00:31:11
Speaker 11: I take someone like.

00:31:14
Speaker 2: Came back definitely.

00:31:16
Speaker 11: She was top four and.

00:31:17
Speaker 2: Then again top three, top four.

00:31:21
Speaker 11: Yes, I will say I don't know what week it was.

00:31:32
Speaker 5: It was the week you guys at the pool party, and then the week after the pool party, you guys had a really nice, like private chat.

00:31:39
Speaker 4: I think he grouped. That was that was so that chat.

00:31:44
Speaker 9: Yes, when you brought him to your bedroom, so that I was already like, oh, he's in the bedroom, right, this is a good sign.

00:31:51
Speaker 5: And then past your conversation, I was literally like, oh my god, they're in love with each other.

00:31:58
Speaker 11: They are so made like I just felt it, like beyond.

00:32:01
Speaker 3: It's crazy because you guys like only saw obviously like a segment of that.

00:32:05
Speaker 4: I would if y'all had saw the whole thing. Yeah, stop the show today.

00:32:08
Speaker 3: Yeah, like that conversation change, Like.

00:32:13
Speaker 5: It was an amazing conversation, Like you could feel it from that like one and a half two minute clip with you guys like Joe and I were looking at each other like wow, they have a crazy connection. And from that point forward.

00:32:27
Speaker 11: Yeah, we were like, so where's Charity and Dotten?

00:32:30
Speaker 5: Like their endgame, we were all upset. If you listen to any of the podcast, we're like, okay, yeah, this person has been ok yeah.

00:32:36
Speaker 4: Anyway, moving on.

00:32:37
Speaker 5: Thanks, And then you definitely threw us for a loop in the end a little bit with the double I love you, But.

00:32:47
Speaker 11: That's okay, Okay, you know what.

00:32:49
Speaker 5: It's a crazy experience and you are allowed to feel whatever you're gonna feel. But we were still team Dotten all the way for you, and we are.

00:32:56
Speaker 4: So happy to see guys sitting here. Thank you.

00:32:58
Speaker 5: Guys so past moving to Brooklyn and or Manhattan and or next door to us in Chelsea.

00:33:06
Speaker 4: Yeah, what are the plans?

00:33:08
Speaker 5: Why do we have trips, book, Do we have exciting activities that we're ready to go do.

00:33:13
Speaker 4: Yeah, we're actually eloping. I'm kidding. I'm totally kidding. We're not We're already married.

00:33:20
Speaker 3: We are actually just gonna like kind of have like a little refresher, I guess, just like obviously it's like our first time like being out in public, and like we just want to like just take a trip. So we're actually just taking a little refresher to Vegas and it's just gonna be us. We have some friends that are like will already be there, so we might meet up with them.

00:33:40
Speaker 4: But just yeah, just loving and just having fun.

00:33:45
Speaker 1: That's exactly what you should do right now, honestly, just have just have fun.

00:33:48
Speaker 4: Yeah, should we jump in it?

00:33:51
Speaker 6: You're ready? Yeah, let's do it.

00:33:52
Speaker 1: We're gonna play a game and then we're gonna let you guys go and live your lives without us.

00:33:57
Speaker 2: You want to do, you do it all right.

00:34:00
Speaker 6: So this is a.

00:34:02
Speaker 2: Little newly engaged game. This is very simple.

00:34:05
Speaker 1: We're going to throw a question at you both and you have to answer it at the same time. It's either charity or dotting. Oh, this is gonna be a fun.

00:34:13
Speaker 2: Okay, okay. Who is more romantic? Who has the cleaner car?

00:34:29
Speaker 4: Charity he doesn't? Charity?

00:34:33
Speaker 2: Who is more organized? Charity?

00:34:36
Speaker 6: Who is more stubborn?

00:34:41
Speaker 2: Who is the pick your eater?

00:34:48
Speaker 10: I'm a picky eater in progress, like I because I work in the health Like now I can like on my basis, but like I should be really unhealthy, and so I should you like cereal and like me, Like.

00:35:06
Speaker 6: So I hated veggies.

00:35:07
Speaker 7: I know it's funny, what was I doing? And so I've worked through that and so I'm slowly just adding things. But yeah, like I'm just super picky, like a lot of greens.

00:35:20
Speaker 6: I don't eat. It's super It's a weird thing and it's on my head.

00:35:23
Speaker 2: But I have.

00:35:24
Speaker 3: Like I feel like I'm a very broad Like I'm not the healthiest eater, but like I have very broad palette. So I'm always like willing to try like anything. So slowly introducing him the thing I'm.

00:35:33
Speaker 6: Telling her, please please help me, help me get you guys are any have you?

00:35:37
Speaker 2: Guys have some incredible choices in Brooklyn?

00:35:41
Speaker 1: Who takes longer to get ready?

00:35:44
Speaker 2: Who's the better dancer?

00:35:45
Speaker 7: Oh, we haven't seen each other?

00:35:51
Speaker 2: Credit like that?

00:35:52
Speaker 6: Yeah, yeah, who.

00:35:55
Speaker 2: Is the better driver? Dot?

00:35:58
Speaker 6: Oh wow?

00:36:04
Speaker 4: Way after keep again like you have I drive ja.

00:36:08
Speaker 3: But listen, I was in a G and you were in the little so you were like your car is a cruiser like I was in the G.

00:36:14
Speaker 6: I'm talking about the you screaming at people a little bit. It's not like bad, it's not bad intentions. It's just like I.

00:36:25
Speaker 3: Just got to come to New York because I drive like the people in New York. I moved with purpose, like I have a left lane driver, like get out the way.

00:36:33
Speaker 4: I don't know New York. It's just it's I'm on as places to be exactly.

00:36:41
Speaker 2: Who is the funny one? Dang?

00:36:43
Speaker 4: We both are, like that's insane. We both are so funny.

00:36:46
Speaker 10: I'm going to say charity out of respect, of respect because he's hilarious to.

00:37:00
Speaker 6: We are both so I am.

00:37:03
Speaker 4: From Joe.

00:37:07
Speaker 6: That is true.

00:37:09
Speaker 2: I also think I'm very funny you are.

00:37:12
Speaker 6: Who's the better cook?

00:37:16
Speaker 4: Because he's picking.

00:37:19
Speaker 2: Star who spends more time on social media? Charity? Who is going to take the lead on wedding plans?

00:37:30
Speaker 4: Charity?

00:37:33
Speaker 6: Well, that's uh, that's that's the game.

00:37:37
Speaker 2: That was fun. That was fun.

00:37:38
Speaker 6: Did you believe all those answers.

00:37:39
Speaker 4: I believe it. I don't think anyone was lying.

00:37:42
Speaker 3: Someone was lying always.

00:37:48
Speaker 4: Do you believe wrong?

00:37:56
Speaker 6: Did you expect? You think she made the right choice?

00:38:00
Speaker 11: I and I approve all those answers.

00:38:04
Speaker 4: Thank you, sar.

00:38:05
Speaker 1: So I got to ask one last question before we let you guys go any have you started any wedding planning.

00:38:13
Speaker 4: We actually haven't started wedding planning.

00:38:16
Speaker 3: We've talked about like time framing of like when we would like to like get married, which is like twenty twenty five from twenty six, so that gives us like a year year and a half, so that's perfect. Yeah, we're not trying to extend this like seventeen years old, like Lea, I'm.

00:38:34
Speaker 7: Both ready, but we're both smart and I just want to like and we have, you know, still still young ish, you know, I am at least or she's young, but yeah, I know, right, like wedding client that comes with a lot, and you know, we are just enjoying each other's company and what we built and just want to build more before that special day.

00:38:54
Speaker 1: So yeah, nice, All right, well you guys, honestly, congratulations, all happy for the both of you and to our lovely listeners.

00:39:03
Speaker 2: Thank you guys so much for tuning in. We appreciate you so much, and.

00:39:07
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00:39:19
Speaker 2: Yes, and thank you guys again, and we will see you next time.

00:39:22
Speaker 11: Bye bye, bye, guys,