and Lala's Gusbands Logan & Leo

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Speaker 1: What's up, Baby mama's and baby daddies. It is Lala Kent.

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Speaker 2: With the Randall.

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Speaker 3: First of all, it's give them Laala with Randall.

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Speaker 1: So saniel, Hi, guys, it's Lala Kent.

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Speaker 3: Okay, it's gonna like this. Hi, baby mama's and baby daddies and baby boo boos. It's Randall and his friend Lalla. That's the new name of our title, Rushall. I just renamed it.

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Speaker 1: Okay, I think that's cute.

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Speaker 3: How many listeners do you think we'll get.

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Speaker 1: I think we're still gonna get a lot because my name's in the title and everything I touch turns to gold.

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Speaker 3: Oh God, somebody's performing for somebody today.

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Speaker 1: No, I told you so, Randon. I went to Matsuhison.

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Speaker 3: I was like plug nose so.

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Speaker 1: Excited about the podcast today. He was like really. I was like, yeah, I'm just on one. I am on one. I said it before we even started.

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Speaker 3: You did you said to me at lunch today that you have a lot of pimples because of your pregnancy?

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Speaker 1: I posted not on my Instagram today.

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Speaker 3: Oh I didn't know that.

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Speaker 1: Full face, full face, no editing, not even the app, no apps, no nothing. I just took a picture of myself with my hormonal acne posted that shit on the ground.

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Speaker 3: I don't know that's really like each other? Can I say something?

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Speaker 1: What so?

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Speaker 3: I was gonna ask you when you were doing your research about pregnancy pimples, do you think that on your pregnancy pimples that they rub off on your spouse Because I had my first pimple in like twenty years and it's right up here. It looks like a dart hit me. I'm just wondering, is it contagious your pimples?

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Speaker 1: I don't think so.

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Speaker 3: Tweet you check for me.

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Speaker 1: I'm pretty sure when I was in high school there were a lot of people that were like really broken out and my skin was like flawless.

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Speaker 3: Got it. Didn't answer my question, but moving on.

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Speaker 1: And that's me saying I feel like if it was contagious, I would have gotten it from my former classmates.

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Speaker 3: I read an article today. I don't know if it's authentic because I don't really know what's going on in the dramatic world of you and vander Pump, But there is an article that says you unfollowed Sena and Sheena unfollowed you. Is this bullshit or is this true? I'm just curious. No, I don't know. I'm asking. I saw it today. My producer brought it into me and said, look at this, and I said, this is usually not my newsfeed, But why are you smiling? Break it down for us?

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Speaker 1: There's nothing to break follow.

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Speaker 3: That's a question.

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Speaker 1: She unfollowed me, and then I unfollowed her, which was awesome. Because I'm a weirdo, I like to keep my numbers low. Once I hit two million, I'll be able to follow two hundred people. Right now, I have one point five, so I'm only allowing myself to follow one hundred and five people. So when people, you know, make their exit on my following list, it just leaves me more room for other people.

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Speaker 3: Wait a second, you said you would follow two hundred people at two million, but at one point five million, you follow one hundred and five. Where is that.

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Speaker 1: There's no about it. There's literally zero mathematics.

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Speaker 3: Oh, it's just the Lala way.

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Speaker 1: It's just about my my OCD, my overthinking.

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Speaker 3: Can I ask you a question?

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Speaker 1: How weird?

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Speaker 3: Is that not weird at all? Can I your question?

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Speaker 2: It's so weird?

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Speaker 3: Let's go back to the.

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Speaker 1: Conversation, like when I watch. When I watch TV, I can only have the volume. It has to be like volume twenty twenty five, thirty thirty five.

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Speaker 3: Oh, you don't break your in five.

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Speaker 1: I can't break the fives.

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Speaker 3: Right, But you know what that is, right clinically, that's OCD at a high level.

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Speaker 1: No, I know that.

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Speaker 3: Okay, Just checking back to Shina. So you followed you, you unfollow her? Will you two ever follow each other again? I'm just asking you, babe, I'm curious.

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Speaker 1: You know, this whole thing proves to me how much my priorities have shit. Because if I was still in this like old school world that I used to live in, not making you like, just being right like, I would have told you that a text message was exchanged between the person you're talking about on myself and I. I'm not divulging what went into that text message. It was not even a back and forth. I said my piece, and at the end of it, I let her know I will not speak ill of herky and I would like her to show the same respect by not talking about me. So rand I would like to not talk about her anymore.

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Speaker 3: That's okay, Yes, I can't tell me right now, it's just.

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Speaker 1: Mean moving on with my life.

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Speaker 3: I understand. I'm just looking at an article in front of me.

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Speaker 4: That's what I guess.

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Speaker 1: And it's a podcast that's ours and we like to you know.

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Speaker 3: Well, you are on and we're on a show called Vanner Pump Rules. So I just brought it up because I thought it was relevant.

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Speaker 2: But no, it is relevant. It is relevant.

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Speaker 1: I get that. But I'm over it. The horse is dad, May it rest in peace.

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Speaker 3: Okay, I'm moving on. Okay, I've got something else to talk about. Okay, I would like to know if you would like to talk about the name of our baby this podcast?

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Speaker 1: Are you out of your fucking mind?

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Speaker 3: I keep trying.

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Speaker 1: I have to understand what's going through your mind right now.

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Speaker 2: Nothing you bring up Homegirl.

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Speaker 1: Now you're like Wilson's. We can't talk about that, Like, why don't we discuss the name of our baby?

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Speaker 2: No?

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Speaker 1: How about not?

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Speaker 3: Can I tell you what's going on? Can you listen and.

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Speaker 1: Tell me explain what's happening to you right now?

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Speaker 3: Event you saw my day today it is I am getting torpedoes thrown on me every five minutes. I'm working around the clock. I'm trying to provide for our family, and I come in here, okay, and I want people to understand what this room looks like. Laala's got a crystal chandelier hanging over our podcast table, and then she's got of course three four five, She's got about nine pictures of herself on the wall. So I am in the La La room and it's fun and it's light, and I feel like just talking about fun shit. So I thought you'd want to tell everybody the name of our baby, but I guess I was wrong.

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Speaker 1: Okay, No, I've literally spent the last three weeks on this podcast sobbing saying I'm very protective of my unborn child. Really, no, we're declining it.

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Speaker 3: It was my mom.

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Speaker 1: Well, oh, she wants to be on the podcast again. I bet she knows we're in here.

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Speaker 5: Are you?

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Speaker 3: Oh my god?

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Speaker 1: You know how protective I am of this baby. I'm so protective that I put my Instagram account on private so that only one point five million people can see what I'm doing.

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Speaker 3: I want to I want to say something that that's gonna last. I give you three days before you go back to public, and you will definitely not get another follower more being on private. So that's silly. That's you're trying to get two million to say?

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Speaker 1: What are you talking about? It has nothing to do with what.

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Speaker 3: Are you gonna do? Accept every request?

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Speaker 1: No, you don't accept any of them, so you're not going to That defeats the purpose of going on private person.

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Speaker 3: You have a million of followers.

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Speaker 2: I ever heard of that once.

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Speaker 3: That one so dumb. It's the dumbest thing I've ever heard. To be honest, is.

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Speaker 1: This just like, let's drag a fucking Lalla through the mud today, Let's put her on the spot. I feel like I'm being interviewed by reality blurb right now.

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Speaker 2: For real?

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Speaker 3: That was funny. Give me a high five.

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Speaker 1: Gosh, is Lindsay Kronnin taking over my body?

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Speaker 3: You know what I want, Lindsay?

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Speaker 1: You know what I want Lindsay kran to forever stay at whatever little z Liss blog she writes for, because without her I lose all relevance. She writes about everything I do. It's usually incorrect. That's why she's always gonna write for Reality Tea because everything's incorrect.

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Speaker 3: Should we have Lindsey Cronnin on the show?

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Speaker 6: No?

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Speaker 1: Why? I wouldn't even know how to contact her? Randall I'm sure you will figure it out.

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Speaker 3: Baby. First of all, it is not bash Lalla Day. It is love Lalla Day, because Laala is my lover. Now, I wanted to say something, I love you. I thought I was asking a good question with sheen. I'm shocked that you didn't like that question. Just I was curious it was in the in the tabloid or in the paper.

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Speaker 1: That is really fucking sad. No, it's because I wrote this freaking whatever and I just like, must have not told you about it?

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Speaker 2: Well, clearly shows the.

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Speaker 1: Level of importance it had in my life.

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Speaker 3: Oh would that be a dig? Do they call that a dig?

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Speaker 7: No?

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Speaker 1: I think that's just me saying my priorities have changed dramatically.

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Speaker 3: Do you know what this water is, babe, that I'm holding with two fingers, with three fingers up? You know what that is? What me spilling the tea.

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Speaker 1: Spilling the piping hot English breakfast today? Are we?

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Speaker 3: Well? Listen? I hope you guys work it out, because you know, and vander Poba, I've always been burss.

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Speaker 2: No, I'm straight, I'm good, Nope, straight good?

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Speaker 1: Moving on? Okay, so switching gears.

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Speaker 3: I do have a guest. Oh you know our a guest of the week. We have not had our guests of the week.

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Speaker 1: Oh my god, Randy, can I just tell you? This is what he does? This is his new emma. It's like throw a mic in front of him with a cord to his phone. Who knows what?

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Speaker 3: Okay, So this is our guest of the week, Our surprise guests of the week. They had a lot of exciting things this guest in their life happened. And let's welcome our surprise guest of this week. Can you guess who I'm calling? No, that's part of that's part of the surprise that you can't guess.

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Speaker 2: Hello, mister Randall, you are.

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Speaker 3: The surprise guest my podcast.

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Speaker 2: Yeah, are you serious.

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Speaker 3: Lisa, you are live on the air. You know why I called you a picture as my special surprise guest this week because you have had major transition in the last twenty four hours, moving into a new house selling your old house. We wanted to check in and see how you're doing. And I am sending your beautiful, perfect daughter to Utah tomorrow to help you unpack and unload. Go ahead, tell us your experience about moving.

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Speaker 7: It was a nightmare, Randall. I'd been in my house for thirty years. I had thirty years full of you know what.

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Speaker 1: That's true.

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Speaker 2: She's right.

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Speaker 1: I literally came home to that house when I was born, and yeah, thirty years of being in that house, and you know, I couldn't talk about it. I didn't want to go back to Utah. I was like, that's like the only piece of home. I'm really weird like that.

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Speaker 2: Where Okay, it's your family home, right.

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Speaker 1: Like I equate you grew up there in that house to like, that's a piece of my family, my dad. I think it would be very different if my mom and my dad were moving to a new house.

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Speaker 2: But it's not, you know what, And that is so true.

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Speaker 7: And on the flip side, and behold, it's been a good transition for Easton because.

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Speaker 2: And I'll get emotional as I talk about it too much, but he found your dad, so I think it's time for new beginnings.

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Speaker 3: I just want to tell you both laalas and tears now sor are you This is probably not what I was expecting, but I want to tell you it's good. It's like maybe it's cleansing, but can I tell you something. We've had a lot of talks about this law over the last two days, and and Lisa, I've I've had tears with your daughter over the last two or three is I do want to say that it is something beautiful about having a home where the beautiful memories were made with Kent and your family, and now Kent is watching over us in a more beautiful place and going to a new home. I think, like you said, especially for your son, uh, you know, is a new beginning. It doesn't mean that house. I hope remember it remains that place that Laala always brags me about this childhood and I hope it always stays in your hearts for that well.

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Speaker 7: My absolutely absolutely, And you know what, and we've released it because it needs another family in there. It needs a new family to make new memories. And we're going to carry our memories into our new little bungalow that we got.

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Speaker 3: So yeah, so my mom.

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Speaker 2: My, Mama, I have to keep going. Mama.

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Speaker 1: I was just going to say that you would call me and say people went through the house and they didn't call back, and I'm like, they don't deserve that house.

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Speaker 2: Then in that house, But you.

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Speaker 7: Know what I want to give people that are thinking about moving a bit of advice. You collect a lot of stuff in thirty years and you need to release before, you know, before the movers come, not the day out like I was doing. I have a ten x twenty storage unit. I have a garage full, and I also have a climatized storage with a piano in it that you guys are taking.

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Speaker 3: So hello and the way, Yes, you know what they call that, Lisa hoarder.

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Speaker 1: You know what they call that, Lisa.

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Speaker 2: They called that ballin So they.

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Speaker 3: Call that.

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Speaker 7: No, because guess what, I never had a storage unit before. I had everything in my home and I had a thanks for everything, and now I don't well to downside.

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Speaker 1: Well, I'm coming to help you tomorrow.

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Speaker 3: I want to say that I'm congratulating you today. I'm your new beautiful home. I'm sending you lots of blessings and hopefully very soon I'll be coming up to Utah to see your new house. So we're lots of love, and your daughter, your.

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Speaker 1: Helper, is coming on illay you mama.

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Speaker 2: I love you guys, and thanks for sharing a randall. I appreciate it.

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Speaker 3: All right, We love you, Lisa, my mom.

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Speaker 2: Love you too. Bye bye.

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Speaker 1: Okay, So last week we are a couple of weeks ago, I guess we did a giveaway a thousand dollars to try and get Randall the five hundred k. He did not reach that goal, but the deal was not if he hits five hundred k, you get a thousand. The goal was just we want to hit it. By the way, we're going to give a thousand dollars. So there were people and I said that this is a podcast giveaway. To find out if you're the winner, you have to listen to the podcast. I'm not posting it on my Instagram. There were so many people citing in my dms who won. It's like, glad I didn't pick you because clearly ain't listening to my podcast.

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Speaker 3: Bitch wow, you know, aggressive, very aggressive.

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Speaker 1: The winner that we did choose, though, yeah, is a faithful Give them All with Randall listener, and she wrote me the nicest DM. She's so excited about the money that she has won, and I'm just hype for her, you know.

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Speaker 3: I am too. I really wanted to put her on the podcast for a second. I'm going to try her one time, and she doesn't answer.

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Speaker 1: Randall loves to call people during.

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Speaker 3: The podcast of the podcast.

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Speaker 1: How do you know? Do they tell you that I see.

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Speaker 3: A lot of comments. They feel like.

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Speaker 1: We're very comments. He saw all of five comments.

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Speaker 3: No what, I'm an innovator. I'm an innovator.

00:15:11
Speaker 2: Hello is this Kate?

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Speaker 8: Yes?

00:15:16
Speaker 2: O MG, Katy got you on the phone. I'm like, I cannot.

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Speaker 1: Believe I'm talking to you. You are so sweet and your direct message to me was one of the sweetest messages I've ever gotten, and I was like, oh my gosh, I love her, like, I'm so excited that she was chosen for the giveaway.

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Speaker 8: I love both of you, and I like, honestly, when Randall DMed me, I'm like, this can't be real.

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Speaker 2: This is I love that.

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Speaker 3: I'm so happy for you. We are so excited. We're going to send your money out today and we just want to tell you congratulations. Lala was excited, so is I to reach out to you. And I'm so glad you called in. This is fantastic.

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Speaker 2: Thank you, Kate. You're welcome.

00:16:02
Speaker 8: I will continue to listen to you all of the days, like I just you give me such like a you know, it's just such a real and like awesome podcast.

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Speaker 2: I look forward to it every week.

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Speaker 8: And I barely drive anymore because I'm quarantining at home with my family.

00:16:21
Speaker 1: Oh my gosh, when I'm when I'm out in the car, this is the podcast I listen to first and foremost. You're the best. Well you're you're gonna be on this week's episode, so make sure you listen.

00:16:36
Speaker 9: Oh my gosh, where are you from?

00:16:39
Speaker 3: And what do you do for a living? Just so we know and our listeners.

00:16:44
Speaker 1: Now, I am from Minneapolis and I work in marketing.

00:16:49
Speaker 3: I love it awesome, very nice. I've never had a Minneapolis friend. So there we go, There we go.

00:16:54
Speaker 1: We got one.

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Speaker 2: Now you do well, Kate.

00:16:58
Speaker 1: Thank you for calling us back, and we hope that you have the rest of an amazing evening.

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Speaker 8: You too.

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Speaker 1: I love you, guys, We love you. Bye, my love. I'm so excited today, you guys, because the guests that we have on today are the two most important men in my life besides my dad and my little brother and Randall. Of course, they are my husbands, Logan and Leo, the future gungkles of my child that are on the podcast today. So we will be right back with Logan and Leo. Randall, you like that we are back and if you guys yet there we go give it soam Ramdsell. Do you guys know anything about the Queen Erica Jane Mikey Mindon has always said every diva should surround herself with gay men. Well I took that to heart, and I I have taken that to hart ever since that was said, and since I was like a little kid. So here are my gusbands, Leo and Logan. I'm so excited you guys. No one makes me laugh like you guys. I just want to watch you just banter and banter and banter all day.

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Speaker 10: We do our best try to make it.

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Speaker 1: The other day Leo said, I did really well entertaining Wala the other day and you were of no help. And I was like, is that what you guys think of me? It's just like someone who needs entertainment.

00:18:33
Speaker 10: We are your dancing monkeys.

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Speaker 7: Okay.

00:18:35
Speaker 10: Oh thought is fucked up and the best way possible.

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Speaker 3: We love it. We love putting on a show entertaining.

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Speaker 1: They rescue me and my depressed hormonal stupors.

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Speaker 3: No, they protect me, yeah, I protection. So what they do so everybody knows is that when Lalla goes into a spiral, we call it or aka anger, whatever you may call it. Just having a tough day. I text Logan and Leo and say please, I beg of you both to get in the car or send a text, take her to lunch, do something. Oh don't worry, we got you. Seven minutes later, I get a happy text the while Oh my god, I'm going to Da da da for lunch. I've been the best day ever. Ah. And then I have four hours apiece. That's basically how we work together as a.

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Speaker 1: No, they're my heart and soul. Everyone knows that.

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Speaker 3: I agree, and they're always you. Guys are like a ray of light, always happy, always smiling. That is very hard to do in this world. I am very similar in trying to always have a good outlook on life. And I love your outlook. And I'm gonna tell I'm gonna share a story. I want to get into some other things, but I first want to share a story that I got to witness this weekend at the Lakino Hotel.

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Speaker 1: Oh my god, I can't wait.

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Speaker 3: We're gonna post the video again in case those of you didn't get to actually see it on our instagrams. So we went down to Lakinito Tone resort. It just reopened. It's a place that we've been going for so many years. We're all at dinner, having the time of our life, and Leo other half of Logan, had a lot of margarita's. I would probably say it was four to five in solid doubles followed by some shots. Correct or in correct?

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Speaker 4: Leo, Yeah, I would say about two doubles. They're big ovals, Yeah, regulars.

00:20:15
Speaker 1: As a sober person that watched you, you are probably five deep and a few shots.

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Speaker 2: And the tables.

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Speaker 1: That you were bouncing around to were also giving you shots.

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Speaker 3: Yeah, okay, so that sets the stage. We're at this outdoor restaurant. We're having fun, everything's great, Leo is, Leo is lit, and we are leaving Logan, Leo, myself and Laala were exiting the property and as we exit there is a band on the outer skirts of the restaurant. They are playing what song.

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Speaker 4: Leo Hotel California, which is a classic.

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Speaker 1: It'll never be the same again.

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Speaker 3: Lala, you could have said it better. And I just want to set the stage. I'm gonna let Lalla take over fan them. I want to hear Logan weigh in. But Leo had his shirt unbuttoned by about seven buses.

00:21:02
Speaker 1: There's maybe one that wasn't even for the dance though, that he had that before he even started drinking.

00:21:08
Speaker 3: Right, of course, of course I would never order October.

00:21:11
Speaker 1: But it's okay, baby, button that shit. You better never change that, sexy man.

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Speaker 3: Okay. Started, we're walking down the steps. We get to the dance floor. There is nobody there. It's a one woman, one woman, and there are about twelve tables around watching an empty dance floor. Leo out of a movie, and I swear to you it couldn't have been any more perfect. Owns this dance floor, La la, you could say it better and Logan just give us a little tell people visually what we watched.

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Speaker 10: We came in and took over the whole restaurant. It was as we.

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Speaker 1: Do as we do. Right. Leo crosses over this bridge. Okay, you walk down from the restaurant and then you walk over a bridge to where the band is.

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Speaker 2: Right.

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Speaker 1: It is his little butterfly ass flitters flutters over the bridge. Is when they go doom doo, doom doom doo. Oh my god, he just killed it, you guys, I don't even know like words don't do it justice, because if I could relive that moment every day for my whole life. People the cooks were coming out of the kitchen to watch him do this this.

00:22:29
Speaker 10: He somehow found a tambourine, right.

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Speaker 5: I saw, I saw props, I saw instruments, and I thought, you know what, this could be a moment, you know. So I just kind of looked at the lady of the tambourine and I said in you know, visually, I said, you know, I'm taking this from you. And the rest was just shake, shake, shake.

00:22:48
Speaker 3: Oh.

00:22:48
Speaker 10: And then it was just to every table and I'm gonna entertain you.

00:22:51
Speaker 1: But not one person had their phone put away. They all came out record. You made everyone's mind.

00:22:57
Speaker 3: I made some money.

00:22:58
Speaker 4: I made some money.

00:23:00
Speaker 1: Bucks.

00:23:01
Speaker 3: No, no, no, but the husband of the girl that you were rocking out with gave you the money, lamb iron. But you went you went through two women's legs.

00:23:11
Speaker 4: You that's called the leap frog.

00:23:14
Speaker 1: The leap frog.

00:23:15
Speaker 10: Yeah, the leap frog.

00:23:16
Speaker 3: Okay, what is the move where you take the chair and you do push ups? Hey?

00:23:21
Speaker 5: Well that that was from a strip workout class that I once took in Miami. And so to Beyonce's Dance for you. If you guys don't know it, then download that right now.

00:23:33
Speaker 4: And there's a moment.

00:23:34
Speaker 5: Where she goes to none I'm gonna and then right then at the course, you go on your arms and you do a push up, and then you whip your leg around and you kind of eye contact.

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Speaker 3: It's it's a whole thing, and I want to I want to tell people this. Yes, I am taking the personal responsibility at this moment in time of representing Logan and Leo with you La of course, and anybody out there that's listening that has any power and television reality you were to call us immediately because.

00:24:04
Speaker 1: Evolution to them already.

00:24:07
Speaker 10: I have a lot of offers. Logan, your phone.

00:24:11
Speaker 9: Never stops ring that bitter for a reality show, Yes, Primetime Network you.

00:24:20
Speaker 1: It's like the two of you together is the most fabulous thing I've ever fucking seen in my life. It is awesome. And the fact that my daughter is going to grow up with you as gunkles, she's going to be fabulous. She won't be bored, she will be set for life just in feeling fabulous.

00:24:40
Speaker 2: I agree, you know, I.

00:24:42
Speaker 3: Agree at the highest level. I want to pivot as lolesa as I like to say.

00:24:46
Speaker 1: Hold on, I'm gonna explain how we met real quick.

00:24:49
Speaker 3: Okay.

00:24:49
Speaker 1: So what's crazy is that I never in my whole life thought that it could get any better than Logan, and then you add Leo to the mix, and it's like, what just hit me? Directly in my face and the best way possible. So Logan and I met How long ago was it? Five years ago? Five six years ago? I met you through James. You guys were BFFs. We became a little a little squad, a little trio. We'll leave it at that. And then you know, things happen, Things go down south to Mexico. Sometimes that's okay, Logan and I, Logan and I stayed having fun. I was a little bummed out of him. He was a little bit of a buzzkill because during my drinking days, Logan doesn't drink during the day, which is not an alcoholics most favorite friend to have around.

00:25:45
Speaker 10: All Right, you don't want to see me drinking the day, Leo has.

00:25:50
Speaker 4: I'm a good drinker. You don't get me a drop.

00:25:53
Speaker 1: Okay.

00:25:53
Speaker 11: Well, he was a good influence, okay, But then all of a sudden Logan starts bringing Leo around, and we officially had a new trio well.

00:26:04
Speaker 1: Squad, and it's been.

00:26:06
Speaker 9: Better than fantastic. They say the sequel isn't always better. At sequel was better.

00:26:11
Speaker 1: The sequel was better, right, yeap?

00:26:15
Speaker 4: New beginnings so true, amazing new beginnings.

00:26:18
Speaker 1: New beginnings. The sequel has Leo in.

00:26:22
Speaker 4: It, exactly, And where would the dance and be without me?

00:26:25
Speaker 3: Exactly?

00:26:26
Speaker 1: There we go, just light in the mood, baby, Welcome to the crew. Do you like add the lightheartedness to the virgonis much need?

00:26:35
Speaker 4: I'm aquarius. Virgos are a lot. Yes, I balance you a lot.

00:26:40
Speaker 3: That's an understatement. I just want to say that I appreciate your lighthededness because it brings Lalla, makes her realize that not everything needs to be super intense. But having said that, I want to ask us a couple of quids. So I grew up in Miami. I grew up in a fouring arts high school. I grew up in the arts where a lot of my friends in junior high and high school were dealing with their sexuality and coming out of the closet at a very young age, some of them with a lot of love and support, and some of them with the opposite of that and very very tough upbringings. Wasn't until they got to college that some of them could really be open and some of them were. Like I said, it was a very easy transition. So everybody has, you know, I know, a different story, and some much harder than others. With you, guys, if you would be open to sharing, I've never asked you this. When did you first decide to, you know, embrace that you were gay, and did you have supports as you know, at whatever age you decided to come out and and openly you know, well, this is awkward.

00:27:40
Speaker 10: We're straight, pal, just because of the way I dance. Because we're straight.

00:27:57
Speaker 3: I knew my girl was in jeopardy when you guys were going out and yeah, right, all right, one of.

00:28:03
Speaker 10: You try Lea arrigematic. He was kicked out of the house.

00:28:08
Speaker 3: Wow.

00:28:09
Speaker 4: Now, wow's just to put words in my mouth on a daily basis.

00:28:14
Speaker 1: Okay, Leo, you want to go first?

00:28:15
Speaker 3: Sure?

00:28:15
Speaker 5: Yeah, I mean I don't think I ever had like the Hallmark you know, moment like oh, let's sit the family down and oh we're geah and this is how we're doing that no.

00:28:25
Speaker 10: I mean, yeah, I grew up in what age?

00:28:28
Speaker 3: What age? What did this all start to?

00:28:29
Speaker 4: Did I fully like embrace everything?

00:28:31
Speaker 5: And I was like, Okay, this is who I am, probably like twenty one, not until later.

00:28:34
Speaker 3: Wow.

00:28:35
Speaker 7: Yeah.

00:28:35
Speaker 10: And I was twenty two.

00:28:36
Speaker 4: Yeah, I was my god.

00:28:37
Speaker 8: Wow.

00:28:38
Speaker 5: I was living in because I had transferred colleges at that point down from New England, which is like not a lot of diversity, as you know, down to Miami Beach. I was going to school Mammy, and I was like, hello, there's some life here and let's kick it up a notch, you know. So I didn't feel like I did in New England. I felt more like, Okay, there's other walks of life out there, and it wasn't such like a huge big deal to be then. And I think obviously my family's known since I mean since I probably came up the womb. I mean my family like literally my older brother is also gay, my sister is straight, and then we have three cousins, two guys and a girl, all gay, and I'm the youngest of all six. So I think by the time it came to me, it was like it would be a shock if it wasn't it's like, all right, it's in our family. Clearly, it's in the blood, right right, So you know, so that's kind of how it happened with me. But yeah, ever since then, haven't looked back.

00:29:27
Speaker 3: And how is a relationship today? I mean, I'm just curious.

00:29:29
Speaker 4: Oh fabulous. Yeah, my family is like my best friends. Yeah, everything.

00:29:33
Speaker 3: I love it because three of my best friends came out in high schoo two in high school, one in college. One was embraced love by you know, very easily. It was a very easy transition. The other one it was the opposite. You know, the parents didn't want to accept that. It was very, very tough, but by the time he got to college then it was obviously much easier for them. And now they have a great relationship. So I've seen all sides of it. And what about you.

00:29:57
Speaker 10: Logan, mine is kind of saying.

00:29:59
Speaker 9: I mean, for I didn't really start going to gay bars and stuff while I was twenty two, but it was not a big shock. I was obsessed with my little pony as a kid, you know.

00:30:10
Speaker 4: I fully had a barbie.

00:30:11
Speaker 9: Yeah, yeah, Hilary Duff posters all over my wall. Like It's not like I was playing football for you know, quarterback. Okay, but yeah, did I come out of the club. I mean I didn't even really come out of the closet. It was okay, well, now I'm going to gay bars and and there's who I'm hooking up with so.

00:30:29
Speaker 1: And it was just never even a conversation.

00:30:31
Speaker 10: Exactly, and it never was an issue either.

00:30:34
Speaker 3: So obviously, Yeah, I think today I will say this because I'm much older than you guys, and I grew up in before in arts high school, where you know a lot of people sort of speak, were dealing with their sexual identity very very young. I think it was a time that was much harder. I'm not gonna I don't want to discredit anybody, because that's not my point. But I think what I'm saying is like today, with social media, with the reach that people have today, connect with people for support systems in a much easier way. I think back then you had to get on a phone and call from your landline, you know, somebody else would be like, I'm going through this thing, whatever it may be, Can you can you talk to me? Can we meet somewhere? Today you could text somebody you can identify. There are groups that you can you know, relate to very easily and link up with. So I just think in anything you might be dealing with in life, I just think there's more resources today than there were twenty years ago, when you know, when when my generation was coming out. So I'm very happy. And by the way that even goes, I was bullied as a child, very badly. I know Lala was, and there wasn't like bullying. There wasn't anti bullying campaigns, there weren't groups. Today you could just get on the internet and see, wow, I'm not alone in this. There are a lot of people dealing with this. So you know, I'm very grateful for the technology that exists today. I know that was very politically correct, Lalla will say, but it's fact.

00:31:55
Speaker 1: I mean, I've been there where I haven't been so PC and it's not that fun. So I encourage you to continue speaking the way you speak.

00:32:03
Speaker 3: All Right, we're gonna we're gonna have to take a break or I'll just keep babbling and talking over everybody. So we're gonna take a break, so I shut up, regroup, and then they'll drink some water and let you talk more.

00:32:11
Speaker 1: I just want to hear my gusband's talk all day.

00:32:13
Speaker 3: That's all I want to do.

00:32:19
Speaker 1: We are back with my usbands, and I have to say, like when I talk to them, when I talk to you, guys, like you wondered what their you know, quote unquote coming out of the closet story was you guys come from clearly pretty open backgrounds of like do whatever you want if you're happy. I had friends from Mormon backgrounds that I knew that my friend was gay since the time we were in like elementary school. Okay, he wasn't hanging out with all the girls because he was a womanizer, all right. We were doing ballet together and you know they one in particular, I won't mention names, but he came out like four years ago. His mom was shook by it. And he told me, my mom shook by it, and I don't understand how she shook by it. His mom's good friends with my mom, and she would always refer she would talk about all of her kids, and then when she got to this kid, she'd be like, this is my son. He's gay, and my mom's like, why do you kid do you refer to Like this is Nicole, that's not really her name. This is Nicole she's straight, she has a husband, Like, it's so strange. And this woman was like, oh my gosh, you're right. The Mormon Church has put such like this heavy burden on the fact that you cannot marry someone that's your same sex that it's like I feel like I have to explain myself. I'm like, but she don't have to explain anything. Your son is fabulous and makes a lot of people really freaking happy, and that's all that matters. So I appreciate you both having awesome coming out so that your parents were like, hey, cool, pizza for dinner.

00:34:05
Speaker 3: You got to give them.

00:34:07
Speaker 9: You know, it's ever even really a talk with me, Like they listened to this podcast this is coming.

00:34:15
Speaker 1: They're like, look, and we thought you just went to the abbey because you had a friend that really liked it.

00:34:19
Speaker 10: We thought you had a lot of boys that you were friends.

00:34:22
Speaker 3: I have a question for the three of you, okay, which I think is enjoy.

00:34:26
Speaker 1: All right, what is it? No, we've never hooked up, Randall, the three of us have never hooked up.

00:34:32
Speaker 3: Well, that was the end of the question. My question is simple, what is the greatest night the three of you had that you can recan. Each of you has to give your own.

00:34:44
Speaker 1: That's so hard to say because I only make it to like eight pm.

00:34:48
Speaker 2: So maybe the best today.

00:34:49
Speaker 3: Would be what's what's the most fun thing you can remember that you did together that was really like just awesome, Like just one of those moments besides Leo dancing around Laking's that was pretty up.

00:35:01
Speaker 1: I want to ask them this question because every day, like what they do with me and what they do for me is like and when I say what they do for me, I mean mentally, like they pull me out of my my craziness. Like I just have the best day ever with them all the time. So it's always felt like I don't get it popping, you know, like I'm engaged with two kids and I'm sober, so like, Okay, what's one.

00:35:25
Speaker 3: Of the most fun nights or days that you've had with uh? With Queen Lawla.

00:35:30
Speaker 9: I mean there's a million, but I think when we went to Disneyland was pretty fun. Disneyland was the best with Eastern Yeah, yep, that was fun. Is Leo's first time, right, that was my first time.

00:35:39
Speaker 5: Day Disneyland World in Florida. But yeah, we've been at this one in California.

00:35:43
Speaker 3: It was amazing. I know, would I get you a greeter for that?

00:35:46
Speaker 10: No, we had no greed. I had to do it all.

00:35:50
Speaker 1: And right now we're all mean mugging you because now we did not have.

00:35:53
Speaker 3: A great Wow, you guys really were committed.

00:35:57
Speaker 10: We roughed it, we.

00:36:00
Speaker 2: Freaking roffed it.

00:36:01
Speaker 1: We didn't You didn't even get us a helicopter that day to dry.

00:36:06
Speaker 3: Okay, that's enough of this cover. Well I owe you guys are greater that a greater thought.

00:36:12
Speaker 1: Yeah, we would like that, me and me and my husband's We don't like to rough it too much, you know. We like the private jets to the springs in Cabo.

00:36:24
Speaker 5: That was going to be answered for one of our best times. I was going to say, last year your birthday in Cabo with with the whole gang.

00:36:29
Speaker 4: That was so fun.

00:36:30
Speaker 5: That was so yeah, just like Randall made me jump off the top and I was petrified because I don't like heights, and I was like, all right, I gotta do it, so I had to jump.

00:36:38
Speaker 1: Off, right.

00:36:39
Speaker 2: We did have a time ever, so much fun.

00:36:42
Speaker 5: But we have most of our fun, the three of us, like just like running around La during the day, like just doing talking about literally like we went to Rouse last week and got like an orchid for your living room, and.

00:36:54
Speaker 4: Yeah, that was like the day for us. That was a day we made a day.

00:36:57
Speaker 10: Then we got lunch and that's that's we do.

00:36:59
Speaker 3: The just together. Because I can tell when you guys are together, it's like it's almost even hard for me to fit in because you guys are so connected to each other, the three of you. I have fun with you guys. We've gone out a million times and had our nights and we've gone out of his group because Lala be like, okay, you Logan and Leo can go out and have fun. But but I do notice there's a connection that's far beyond just like a friendship and it's very very neat.

00:37:22
Speaker 1: Nowhere bonded for life. It is easy and no effort. Logan and Leo know my routine. They're like, Okay, I can tell Lala's getting tired. Now we're going to make our exit. Like it's not awkward where it's like I really want you to leave.

00:37:39
Speaker 10: The room the room.

00:37:41
Speaker 3: What I think is great about this is that for Logan Leo knowing they have a busy, busy night life agenda, What I noticed is great for you is that since you're sober and you get tired of eight, you're like the day shift for them. Yes, then they go home, get ready.

00:37:57
Speaker 4: Like a nap, glam.

00:37:58
Speaker 3: Up, lamb up, and they go.

00:38:01
Speaker 1: It's so awesome.

00:38:02
Speaker 4: I loves it. She wants to hear off the seat.

00:38:05
Speaker 8: I do.

00:38:05
Speaker 1: The second I'm like, so, what did you do last night? Did you hook up with him? What do you look like? I don't like his look. I like him when he has facial hairds. Yep, he's hot. Like just it's I vicariously live through them. But my next life I want to come back is logan.

00:38:18
Speaker 3: And by the way, they are as fun as it gets. I don't think people realize if you spend one day with them, you're basically laughing to the cows, to the to whatever the.

00:38:28
Speaker 1: All right, I'm going to ask you one last question. How do you guys feel about becoming gun goles to my little girl? Is it going to be weird that we're going to be like cruising around LA with a freaking car seat in the back seat.

00:38:39
Speaker 9: It's going to be the best time ever and we're going to be the best gun cales ever.

00:38:43
Speaker 2: Yeah, I'm so excited. Good answer.

00:38:46
Speaker 10: It'll be different. It'll definitely be weird because I ride in the back.

00:38:49
Speaker 4: Of the g wag. Logan's in the front. Lovees driver. I'll have the seat next to me.

00:38:54
Speaker 1: I'll have the baby, but instead of grabbing my purse, he'll be grabbing the car seats.

00:39:00
Speaker 10: We'll make the adjustments though I already have.

00:39:02
Speaker 4: I have a niece and a nephew, as I did. I love kids.

00:39:05
Speaker 5: I always love kids. So we'll have the most best time ever, Oh my god.

00:39:09
Speaker 10: And we'll take her to Disneyland.

00:39:12
Speaker 3: Okay, question.

00:39:16
Speaker 10: Lack time.

00:39:17
Speaker 3: Okay for our listeners. And I know it's not the dating game. Are you both single?

00:39:22
Speaker 9: I mean yes technically yeah, well there's I mean, there's plenty of people in my life.

00:39:27
Speaker 3: No, nobody said that you didn't have access knows Leo.

00:39:31
Speaker 10: Yeah, always absolutely, that's the way too beaten.

00:39:34
Speaker 3: Okay, So I want to give a plug to my friends out there. Their instagrams are.

00:39:38
Speaker 9: At Logan now l O g A N n H and at Leo D Marsh d E M A R s H. By the way, then you can send pictures to start off with.

00:39:48
Speaker 3: Okay, Oh my god, god, Okay, I didn't want to go there.

00:39:53
Speaker 2: I didn't want to go there every time.

00:39:55
Speaker 4: Shallow of you?

00:39:56
Speaker 2: Really?

00:39:57
Speaker 3: Wow? All I want to say is this guy. What guys are out there that are single and looking and in la. These two guys are as fun as they get. They are so in the know. They are even.

00:40:08
Speaker 9: If you're not single, hit us up, You're okay, you know what it's getting.

00:40:16
Speaker 1: He's so brutally honest, it's so awesome.

00:40:19
Speaker 4: On the podcast. You gotta keep.

00:40:22
Speaker 3: But let's keep it g let's keep it G or PG. No. But these guys are our friends and Lala's best friends, and they are great guys and.

00:40:30
Speaker 1: Honestly, but if you're sliding in their d ms to gain them as your husbands, you better back off home.

00:40:36
Speaker 10: We're all booked up, booked for real.

00:40:38
Speaker 1: When I see them with girls on their instagrams, I'm like, what did they say to you? Do they ask you to hang out tomorrow? I get so jealous.

00:40:46
Speaker 4: You mean the girls who work on the pool table?

00:40:47
Speaker 1: Yeah, exactly who I'm talking about.

00:40:51
Speaker 10: To talk to boys. You know, that's just a prop for us.

00:40:53
Speaker 4: It opens the conduct.

00:40:54
Speaker 1: Okay, that's fine, that's fine.

00:40:56
Speaker 10: We don't even know their names.

00:40:58
Speaker 1: Good. I love you guys so much. Thank you thanks for being on the podcast.

00:41:05
Speaker 3: I think this is one of the most fun episodes we've had in a while.

00:41:08
Speaker 1: Okay, so the we have. I've been getting voicemails messages. Last week's podcast, I believe we spoke about an epidural for when I give birth to my girl, and I didn't even think about this as a sober person, how an epidural would affect me. So here is a voicemail that I received that kind of got me thinking.

00:41:34
Speaker 6: Hi, Lala and Randall. My name is Jen and I'm actually calling from Toronto, Canada. I listen to your podcast every week and I just love it because it's just so honest and real. I'm also a huge fan of vander Pump and Washington Season one. My question is actually for La La. I know that you are pregnant and you're talking about, you know, your sobriety, and you know, congratulations again on how far you've come. I just was wondering, are you concerned at all with potentially using the epidural. I know that you guys talked on your last podcast about how that was something you wanted to do, but you know, are you concerned about the way it's going to make you feel. Is there anything with sobriety in terms of you know, pain management and you know things of that nature. Anyways, love you guys, Thank you so much for bringing us your weekly podcast. Congratulations on the baby, and look forward to a new season of vander Pump. Have a great day.

00:42:28
Speaker 3: By the way, that was a very good question. I'm interested to hear.

00:42:31
Speaker 1: I know, well, I hadn't thought about it, and I don't want to say that I'm a stupid sober person, but I know that my poison was alcohol. I've never done a drug in my life. I smoked weed, but I was never dependent on it. I could take it or leave it. Alcohol was like that is my jam. So I never thought about like an epidural or even like going to the doctor if they put me on pain medication. I don't really think about how that was affect my sobriety, even though I need to be thinking about those things. I have a sponsor that I talk to all the time. What do you think about the epidural?

00:43:09
Speaker 3: I mean, I never thought about it this way, because you know now I'm thinking about it. I think it's something that we have to talk to the doctor. And I think you have to talk to your sponsor, right, I think you have to talk to your sponsor. I think there's a decision that sorry, a decision that you have to make because it's not I think it's not appropriate for me to make this decision, and I think that you should. You know, you're going to talk to your sponsor like you always do and kind of work through this because I never thought about this, you know, I thought epidural is not the equivalent to taking coding, let's say it, right, But you're injecting, you know, so I get the question is actually going to really be a topic of conversation now, I think for you. But then you'll you'll work through it and you'll let me know what the decision is. I'm curious to see. I support it. Let me say this, I support whatever decision you make. It's your body and you're the one who has deliver a baby, not me. I just have to cheer you on and hold your hand and tell you I love you, and you probably curse at me the entire time. Yeah, And I think this is a really good question. I'm glad it was brought up because these are the questions. By the way, this is why I love this podcast. We don't always have the answer no, and I think this is part of having a podcast is to be asked questions where we have to figure things out. And I think next weak I challenge.

00:44:25
Speaker 1: Your way of thinking, because, like I said, I never thought about that. And you know, those weeks that I was kind of in a depressed state just because of hormones and that happens sometimes, and I kind of fell off going to my meetings. I just kind of like disengaged from the world, and I started going again last week. I had another meeting last night, and I just feel very in tune with my sobriety and I'm of course, I again will never be a stupid sober person. I know, oh that this is something that I will never be cured of. I will always be an alcoholic, right, So I'll work every day to make sure that I don't pick up a drink. I'll do everything in my power to make sure that things that I'm putting in my body I'm okay to be taking right. The thing that I spoke to my sponsor about the other day and she said something that really fucking like triggered me in the best way possible. She was like, how does it feel to know that that your baby is never going to see you in an altered state? And I was like, I didn't even think about that, Like, and no, tomorrow is my sobriety is not promised tomorrow. That weighs on my shoulders and the work that I'm going to put into it. But I just was like, oh, my god. Like the fact that my daughter is going to grow up in a home where like she doesn't see me ever, in like a state where a substance is making me not who I am was really really amazing.

00:46:07
Speaker 3: I love you too, very proud of you.

00:46:09
Speaker 1: So I will ask about the epidural Well.

00:46:12
Speaker 3: I think I think that question is has so much weight and gravity to it now, you know, especially where you're at, You're approaching two years sobriety, and I never even thought about it because I just you know, you don't think that way, and now I have to think that way, and I have to support whatever choice you make. And I think you're going to talk to your sponsor and you're going to figure things out, and then you probably talk to the doctor and then you'll talk to me. It should be sponsored doctor me. But whatever you decide, I.

00:46:39
Speaker 1: Will say though, no one's knocking me off of my sobriety. Oh I know that I'm on a freaking high on my sobriety.

00:46:47
Speaker 3: I went to a meeting with you once. I went to a meeting with you once to support you. You had asked me, and I went, and I'll never forget that meeting. There was somebody in the room that said that they earn this chair and that nobody's going to take that share away from them, And that resonated to me about you, because you are so adamant about never being shook. It doesn't matter what's going on in your life. You could have a million things happening, good or bad, but the sobriety is always your priority. Always let me know that that nobody's going to take that from you. So whatever decision you make, I know it will be the right decision for you because it's you've been in control.

00:47:27
Speaker 2: Thank you, baby.

00:47:28
Speaker 1: I always say sobriety and God come before every person in my entire life, because without those two things, I am useless to the people around me. So I feel really grateful for my sobriety and I it's crazy because I'm like, sometimes I feel like people feel like I'm preaching or it's like, oh my gosh, this fucking sober talk. But I get a lot of people that are like, I love when you talk about it, so you're welcome.

00:47:57
Speaker 3: I just want to say I'm very proud of you. You know, and bulshit around and be funny and you know, talk shit with each other. But at the end of the day, I don't think people all realize what you've gone through. Well, a lot of people who have been through sobriety and deal with addiction understand what I'm saying. A lot of people who have not probably don't realize the sacrifices and work that you've put into this to be able to be sitting here two years later and say that you're sober. So I'm very proud of you and I love you very much.

00:48:23
Speaker 1: Thanks, babe, I love you. I'm so excited to have your baby. On that note, I want to thank you guys for being the best fans and supporters of Give Them Laala with Randall ever, we love you and we will talk to you next Wednesday. Hey, Lala and Randall, this is Kayla from Kentucky and I just wanted to congratulate you on having a girl I'm a girl mom.

00:48:51
Speaker 6: I have two little girls, a two year old and a brand new two months old, and I think you're going to be a great girl mom.

00:48:58
Speaker 2: It is quite the bond, one bond.

00:49:00
Speaker 6: That you can never replace.

00:49:02
Speaker 2: Well, we love you all and my two year old.

00:49:04
Speaker 1: Loves to hear you guys, you void, Thank you, my loves to everyone who has already left us epic messages and keep.

00:49:11
Speaker 3: Them coming because we love hearing from you. Guys.

00:49:13
Speaker 1: Call us anytime at eight sixty six lallapod. That's eight six six Lalla pod.

00:49:19
Speaker 3: Yes, thank you for listening.