Puppy Culture Potluck: Ep24 - Puppy Play Groups: Benefits and Realities
This week’s conversation is the result of an interview that I did with Jean Donaldson a few weeks ago. In it, Jean mentioned that it’s now a “thing” not to offer puppy play groups for puppies. The thought is that allowing puppies to play will make them less likely to pay attention to their owners.
This raised a big discussion in the Puppy Culture Discussion Group, with many pet owners, breeders, and trainers coming down hard on the side of not taking puppies to puppy play groups. What I found through this exchange is that the theoretical truth and the practical truth do not always align…
In this episode, I discuss:
- The benefits and parameters for puppy play groups.
- Why there is a perception that puppy play will diminish attention to the owner and/or create hyper focus on other dogs.
- The practical limitations and realities of puppy play groups and thoughts for the future
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1 00:00:00,200 --> 00:00:07,480 I'm Jane Messineo Lindquist, and this is a Puppy Culture 2 00:00:07,600 --> 00:00:15,360 potluck podcast. 3 00:00:15,360 --> 00:00:20,520 You bring the topics, we bring the conversation. 4 00:00:20,840 --> 00:00:23,160 This week's conversation 5 00:00:24,320 --> 00:00:27,680 is the result of a post that I made 6 00:00:28,440 --> 00:00:32,240 in response to something that was said 7 00:00:32,480 --> 00:00:36,160 by Jean Donaldson when I interviewed her a few weeks ago. 8 00:00:36,720 --> 00:00:40,160 So let me play this little clip from that interview 9 00:00:40,360 --> 00:00:43,960 first. 10 00:00:43,960 --> 00:00:47,440 The other thing I would just add, what if they're hunting for puppy classes 11 00:00:47,640 --> 00:00:50,440 to find puppy classes that allow free play? 12 00:00:51,440 --> 00:00:53,720 That's a mystery. Perfectly important. 13 00:00:53,880 --> 00:00:57,520 There was a trend a couple of years ago where just somebody in a, 14 00:00:57,760 --> 00:01:01,320 you know, kind of clickbait fashion were trying to say, you know 15 00:01:01,320 --> 00:01:04,520 what, in puppy classes we should be teaching puppies to calm 16 00:01:04,520 --> 00:01:08,200 and do down stays and lie down and be calm and control, you know? 17 00:01:08,360 --> 00:01:09,520 Yeah. Yeah. 18 00:01:09,520 --> 00:01:12,960 Rather than engaging in species, normal interact actions 19 00:01:12,960 --> 00:01:15,120 and learning to become social. 20 00:01:15,960 --> 00:01:18,960 And I think that luckily that fad has passed and it flies 21 00:01:18,960 --> 00:01:23,400 in the face of everything we know about sensitive periods and socialization. 22 00:01:23,400 --> 00:01:27,560 So I would I would caution people away from puppy classes that the free play 23 00:01:27,720 --> 00:01:28,920 is somehow dangerous. 24 00:01:28,920 --> 00:01:33,040 Who teaches dogs to be excited or teachers don't sleep over, socialize, etc. 25 00:01:33,200 --> 00:01:34,520 There's just no such thing. 26 00:01:34,520 --> 00:01:37,480 I mean that that is dangerous malpractice. 27 00:01:38,120 --> 00:01:38,920 Interesting. 28 00:01:38,920 --> 00:01:42,360 I have not seen that, but that's a good point. 29 00:01:43,320 --> 00:01:45,360 So as a result of that 30 00:01:46,200 --> 00:01:50,640 interview I wrote into the Puppy Culture Discussion 31 00:01:50,640 --> 00:01:53,720 group on Facebook, and this is what I said. 32 00:01:54,840 --> 00:01:59,520 I just interviewed Jean Donaldson for a podcast and it came up that 33 00:01:59,520 --> 00:02:04,080 it's a thing now for some puppy classes not to allow puppy playtime. 34 00:02:04,840 --> 00:02:08,680 I guess the thought is that puppies should be paying attention and learning 35 00:02:08,680 --> 00:02:13,240 to be controlled, not learning that other dogs are fun and good. 36 00:02:14,320 --> 00:02:18,240 I do not agree with this and would not recommend a class 37 00:02:18,240 --> 00:02:22,080 for young puppies that does not include playtime. 38 00:02:22,920 --> 00:02:25,640 But some points. 39 00:02:25,640 --> 00:02:28,040 Number one, as I mentioned in the 40 00:02:28,080 --> 00:02:33,720 Be Your Puppies Advocate booklet, group play should be only for puppies 41 00:02:33,720 --> 00:02:38,320 under 12 weeks old, possibly a bit older for neotenous breeds. 42 00:02:39,040 --> 00:02:42,040 Puppies older than that should play only in pairs 43 00:02:42,440 --> 00:02:45,760 and the pairs should be selected for compatibility. 44 00:02:46,960 --> 00:02:47,640 There's little 45 00:02:47,640 --> 00:02:51,480 risk of real aggression with puppies under 12 weeks old, 46 00:02:51,480 --> 00:02:56,520 but that changes rapidly as the puppies exit the critical socialization period. 47 00:02:57,480 --> 00:02:58,200 As Dr. 48 00:02:58,200 --> 00:03:02,080 Brite talks about in Puppy Culture, one of the big benefits 49 00:03:02,080 --> 00:03:06,720 of a puppy play and learn class is that the puppy learns transitions. 50 00:03:07,120 --> 00:03:09,760 Now we do this, now we do that. 51 00:03:10,080 --> 00:03:11,840 We ramp up and play. 52 00:03:11,840 --> 00:03:14,040 We ramp down and relax. 53 00:03:14,040 --> 00:03:17,160 Dr. Brite talks about how it's these transitions 54 00:03:17,160 --> 00:03:21,400 that can get adult dogs into trouble and how important it is 55 00:03:21,400 --> 00:03:24,920 to shape the ability to transition between different modes 56 00:03:25,200 --> 00:03:28,360 while the puppies are still very young and malleable. 57 00:03:29,760 --> 00:03:33,840 Number three, no one ever returned a dog to a breeder 58 00:03:33,840 --> 00:03:37,480 or shelter because the dog liked other dogs too much. 59 00:03:38,040 --> 00:03:40,640 But dogs get returned or relinquished 60 00:03:40,640 --> 00:03:42,880 all the time because of dog aggression. 61 00:03:43,800 --> 00:03:47,840 So absolutely find a puppy class that includes puppy 62 00:03:47,840 --> 00:03:51,000 playtime for puppies under 12 weeks old. 63 00:03:51,720 --> 00:03:56,240 Play in pairs for older puppies. 64 00:03:57,600 --> 00:03:58,440 So. Wow. 65 00:03:58,440 --> 00:04:03,360 Did I get some amazing feedback from this? 66 00:04:03,600 --> 00:04:07,840 And a lot of people really took me down pretty hard about saying 67 00:04:07,840 --> 00:04:12,000 that I wouldn't recommend a puppy class that didn't have puppy play. 68 00:04:12,520 --> 00:04:14,960 I'm just going to cut to the chase here and say 69 00:04:15,520 --> 00:04:21,280 I do think everything I said is right. 70 00:04:21,280 --> 00:04:24,200 And every person that told me 71 00:04:24,360 --> 00:04:28,360 why they didn't think puppy play classes were good. 72 00:04:28,880 --> 00:04:32,240 I'm going to go through them and tell you why I think they're wrong. 73 00:04:33,880 --> 00:04:36,360 But the reality is, 74 00:04:36,360 --> 00:04:39,600 what this opened my eyes to is that 75 00:04:41,200 --> 00:04:42,640 it's almost impossible 76 00:04:42,640 --> 00:04:45,800 to find a good puppy play and learn. 77 00:04:46,520 --> 00:04:49,360 So my focus 78 00:04:49,360 --> 00:04:53,040 maybe is going to switch from encouraging people 79 00:04:53,040 --> 00:04:56,160 to find a good puppy play and learn to 80 00:04:56,160 --> 00:04:59,960 educating people on how to set up their own good play sessions. 81 00:05:00,960 --> 00:05:01,880 So that's the 82 00:05:01,880 --> 00:05:04,800 ‘too long didn't read’ version of this podcast. 83 00:05:05,080 --> 00:05:09,640 Now let's go through these amazing comments that everybody made. 84 00:05:11,120 --> 00:05:14,280 I'm not going to read 85 00:05:14,840 --> 00:05:18,680 verbatim this comment because some version of it 86 00:05:18,680 --> 00:05:23,200 was made several times and it was show breeders that said 87 00:05:23,960 --> 00:05:27,040 they do not want to take their puppies to puppy class 88 00:05:27,040 --> 00:05:32,040 and teach them to play with other puppies because they need them to focus on them. 89 00:05:32,800 --> 00:05:36,000 And they felt that taking puppies 90 00:05:36,000 --> 00:05:38,800 to puppy class teaches them to be hyper 91 00:05:39,000 --> 00:05:42,120 interested in other dogs and not ignore them. 92 00:05:43,160 --> 00:05:46,520 And this is the easiest comment for me to address, 93 00:05:46,520 --> 00:05:51,200 because this is the one that I'm going to say I don't agree with you on this. 94 00:05:53,040 --> 00:05:54,600 For my breed, 95 00:05:54,600 --> 00:05:57,360 that can be a bit mistrustful 96 00:05:57,520 --> 00:06:02,440 of novel breeds, it's super important for them to have experiences 97 00:06:02,440 --> 00:06:06,960 and good experiences with a variety of different breeds. 98 00:06:07,280 --> 00:06:11,960 They're really not a breed that's just going to ignore. 99 00:06:12,200 --> 00:06:14,040 They're not neutral on this either. 100 00:06:14,040 --> 00:06:17,400 They're going to it's going to be in their book as okay or not okay. 101 00:06:18,360 --> 00:06:20,960 And as I mention 102 00:06:21,200 --> 00:06:23,560 in all my educational materials, 103 00:06:24,240 --> 00:06:28,400 space, space, they need space and the freedom 104 00:06:28,400 --> 00:06:31,840 to control the temperature of their interactions. 105 00:06:32,400 --> 00:06:36,160 So my dogs really do learn a lot 106 00:06:36,560 --> 00:06:39,440 by going to good play groups. 107 00:06:40,000 --> 00:06:42,480 There, there is no comparison. 108 00:06:43,240 --> 00:06:46,240 The puppies that I have not been able to take to play groups 109 00:06:46,240 --> 00:06:48,840 and the puppies that I have been able to take to play groups. 110 00:06:49,880 --> 00:06:52,720 Much better result when I can take them to play groups. 111 00:06:54,160 --> 00:06:59,160 Now, obviously I show my dogs, so at the same time 112 00:06:59,160 --> 00:07:01,800 that I'm taking them to puppy class, 113 00:07:02,320 --> 00:07:05,080 I'm taking them to show handling class. 114 00:07:05,840 --> 00:07:08,080 And not only do I think 115 00:07:08,240 --> 00:07:11,360 handling class is great for my puppies, 116 00:07:12,160 --> 00:07:15,120 I think anybody would do well to start 117 00:07:15,120 --> 00:07:17,320 with handling class with their puppy, 118 00:07:18,120 --> 00:07:22,800 especially anyone that wants to do any kind of dog sport or performance. 119 00:07:23,760 --> 00:07:25,320 Teaching the dog 120 00:07:25,320 --> 00:07:30,120 just to stand at a lineup of other dogs and ignore other dogs. 121 00:07:30,480 --> 00:07:32,320 Priceless. 122 00:07:32,320 --> 00:07:35,800 But the two things being in a playgroup 123 00:07:36,000 --> 00:07:40,560 and learning to ignore other dogs are not mutually exclusive. 124 00:07:41,080 --> 00:07:43,840 To me, saying that 125 00:07:44,360 --> 00:07:47,800 you're not going to let your puppy play with other puppies 126 00:07:48,320 --> 00:07:53,080 because you're afraid that your puppy will have too much interest 127 00:07:53,080 --> 00:07:56,360 in the other puppies and not pay attention in the show ring 128 00:07:57,160 --> 00:08:01,440 is the equivalent of saying, I'm not going to teach my show dog to sit 129 00:08:01,440 --> 00:08:04,320 because then he won't stack in the show ring. 130 00:08:05,120 --> 00:08:06,600 It's just not true. 131 00:08:06,600 --> 00:08:09,840 And in fact, if anything, the opposite is true, 132 00:08:09,840 --> 00:08:12,360 at least in my experience. 133 00:08:13,200 --> 00:08:15,680 The benefits that my puppies pick up 134 00:08:15,800 --> 00:08:20,920 from having play experiences with a variety of breeds 135 00:08:21,200 --> 00:08:26,960 is priceless and translates into them being more comfortable in the dog 136 00:08:26,960 --> 00:08:27,960 show ring 137 00:08:27,960 --> 00:08:32,840 and having less of that sort of forbidden fruit thing about the other dogs. 138 00:08:32,840 --> 00:08:35,640 It's like, Yeah, I know these dogs. I've played with them. 139 00:08:35,640 --> 00:08:39,640 They've assimilated already what other dogs are through 140 00:08:39,640 --> 00:08:43,560 good play groups and they get the context 141 00:08:43,760 --> 00:08:47,320 that this is where we just stand here and pay attention. 142 00:08:48,640 --> 00:08:50,880 If my puppies don't get that 143 00:08:50,880 --> 00:08:54,480 early experience and I, I definitely have had puppies 144 00:08:54,480 --> 00:08:57,800 that have not had that early experience either because I bought them 145 00:08:57,800 --> 00:09:00,840 from someone else or it was during pandemic. 146 00:09:01,640 --> 00:09:06,280 And it's just such a long slog up, a steep hill 147 00:09:06,520 --> 00:09:09,360 to get them to pay attention because they're there's 148 00:09:09,360 --> 00:09:12,960 so much emotional overload from just this “Woah, what are all these 149 00:09:12,960 --> 00:09:16,800 other dogs?” So I just I just don't agree. 150 00:09:16,800 --> 00:09:20,360 I think that it makes better show dogs when they understand 151 00:09:20,600 --> 00:09:23,160 other dogs and they've played with them. 152 00:09:23,160 --> 00:09:26,880 Now, all that having been said, for sure, 153 00:09:27,640 --> 00:09:30,200 there's got to be some training involved here. 154 00:09:30,240 --> 00:09:33,560 And it goes down to that same question of some people say, well, 155 00:09:33,560 --> 00:09:36,880 you should never teacher show dog to sit because then they'll sit in the ring. 156 00:09:37,680 --> 00:09:41,720 And sure, that's true if you're really not going to train them to stand. 157 00:09:42,960 --> 00:09:44,200 Okay, well, here's another 158 00:09:44,200 --> 00:09:46,880 woman that has an interesting comment. 159 00:09:48,240 --> 00:09:50,240 This is always an interesting discussion. 160 00:09:50,280 --> 00:09:55,280 I do puppy play groups professionally, but for my own dogs I do not. 161 00:09:55,720 --> 00:10:00,600 They are a dog aggression prone breed, but I do not have any trouble 162 00:10:00,600 --> 00:10:04,240 with them at all in the many sports venues that we compete in. 163 00:10:04,680 --> 00:10:09,000 In fact, because of their being prone to dog aggression as well as reactivity, 164 00:10:09,320 --> 00:10:13,840 and because they are sport and show dogs, I teach them from puppy hood 165 00:10:14,000 --> 00:10:16,840 that dogs must be tolerated and ignored, 166 00:10:17,080 --> 00:10:19,200 not interacted with in general. 167 00:10:19,960 --> 00:10:23,160 I find the incessant need to have puppies and dogs in general 168 00:10:23,160 --> 00:10:26,520 involved in playgroups and dog parks so interesting 169 00:10:27,040 --> 00:10:31,160 and often very counterproductive due to the fact that dogs raised like this 170 00:10:31,160 --> 00:10:34,720 and constantly brought around other dogs to play often 171 00:10:34,720 --> 00:10:38,520 have very little interest in their humans and are way too dog focused 172 00:10:39,040 --> 00:10:42,360 and often develop reactivity due to frustration at not 173 00:10:42,360 --> 00:10:45,720 being able to run and play with every single dog they meet. 174 00:10:46,840 --> 00:10:48,480 However, obviously you are 175 00:10:48,480 --> 00:10:51,200 talking about well-structured playgroups 176 00:10:51,480 --> 00:10:56,440 and using them to teach impulse control and how to switch on and off, etc. 177 00:10:57,000 --> 00:10:59,840 This is great and how I run my groups as well. 178 00:11:00,120 --> 00:11:03,400 And I am definitely not saying puppy play groups are wrong 179 00:11:03,680 --> 00:11:06,720 and that you shouldn't let your dog play with other dogs in general. 180 00:11:07,080 --> 00:11:10,840 But I don't find puppy play groups necessary 181 00:11:11,040 --> 00:11:13,880 and I definitely think when handled badly, 182 00:11:13,880 --> 00:11:16,320 playgroups can do more harm than good. 183 00:11:17,280 --> 00:11:18,200 Okay, 184 00:11:18,960 --> 00:11:20,280 fair enough. 185 00:11:20,640 --> 00:11:23,560 But we have to differentiate 186 00:11:24,120 --> 00:11:29,160 between a playgroup for puppies under 12 weeks old where they're learning 187 00:11:29,360 --> 00:11:34,720 appropriate, conspecific play with a variety of breeds 188 00:11:35,560 --> 00:11:40,440 and the incessant need for stimulation 189 00:11:40,800 --> 00:11:45,240 that some dogs develop because of the dog park nation? 190 00:11:45,680 --> 00:11:49,920 Meaning to say owners feeling that constant 191 00:11:49,920 --> 00:11:54,600 stimulation, daycare, out all the time, playing with as many dogs as possible 192 00:11:54,600 --> 00:11:59,400 and we're talking about adult dogs that somehow that's beneficial 193 00:12:00,680 --> 00:12:02,040 and in 194 00:12:02,040 --> 00:12:06,600 99.9% of those situations, those are also people 195 00:12:07,040 --> 00:12:12,840 who are not going to attend a class where they shape a tension, teach 196 00:12:13,160 --> 00:12:16,520 modulation, ramping up, ramping down. 197 00:12:17,240 --> 00:12:18,640 The people aren't interested in that. 198 00:12:18,640 --> 00:12:21,480 They just want to see their dogs play. 199 00:12:21,480 --> 00:12:25,520 But, you know, the fact that some people use 200 00:12:26,160 --> 00:12:29,920 play between dogs and stimulation 201 00:12:30,720 --> 00:12:35,600 to a fault and inappropriately - inappropriate 202 00:12:35,600 --> 00:12:39,200 playgroups, inappropriate amounts of play, inappropriate 203 00:12:39,200 --> 00:12:42,120 lack of training, 204 00:12:42,480 --> 00:12:45,960 in no way diminishes the immense 205 00:12:45,960 --> 00:12:50,880 value of puppy play groups for puppies between eight and 12 weeks old. 206 00:12:51,000 --> 00:12:53,400 I mean, the two just it's apples and oranges. 207 00:12:53,400 --> 00:12:58,680 They have nothing to do with each other. 208 00:12:58,680 --> 00:12:59,720 Okay. 209 00:13:00,040 --> 00:13:04,040 Apropos of the need to teach ramping up 210 00:13:04,040 --> 00:13:07,560 and ramping down and transitions, here's another one. 211 00:13:07,560 --> 00:13:10,680 Here's another comment. 212 00:13:10,680 --> 00:13:13,480 So I have mixed feelings with my experience. 213 00:13:13,880 --> 00:13:17,280 The puppy playtime was solely for the purpose of interrupting, 214 00:13:17,280 --> 00:13:21,160 then returning to play in order to teach the puppies to be tolerant 215 00:13:21,160 --> 00:13:25,360 with interruption, and that it did not mean the end of fun. 216 00:13:26,280 --> 00:13:28,720 It was not for the purpose of interacting, 217 00:13:29,480 --> 00:13:33,320 behaviors between playing puppies were observed and discussed. 218 00:13:34,640 --> 00:13:36,800 This is me interjecting here. 219 00:13:37,400 --> 00:13:39,560 Sounds like a great class, right? Perfect. 220 00:13:39,560 --> 00:13:41,280 But what could go wrong? 221 00:13:41,280 --> 00:13:44,000 Well, let's read on. 222 00:13:44,000 --> 00:13:46,320 It was simply too short of time. 223 00:13:46,800 --> 00:13:51,640 It was also late in the evening, so the session overall was brief 224 00:13:51,640 --> 00:13:54,520 because of over tiring and overstimulation. 225 00:13:55,600 --> 00:13:59,000 However, my dog struggled in those moments 226 00:13:59,000 --> 00:14:03,000 when she did get confident and was having fun, the other puppy 227 00:14:03,000 --> 00:14:06,360 owner was slow to grab hold on their dog, 228 00:14:06,720 --> 00:14:09,600 like just not taking initiative. 229 00:14:09,600 --> 00:14:14,120 Even the instructors having to be the ones to grab, things happened 230 00:14:14,120 --> 00:14:18,400 like other dogs jumping on her head because I had control, but they didn't. 231 00:14:18,880 --> 00:14:21,040 That's a dangerous scenario. 232 00:14:21,040 --> 00:14:23,240 It would shut her down significantly. 233 00:14:23,600 --> 00:14:27,240 She would be proactive and go up and nip the chins of other dogs 234 00:14:27,560 --> 00:14:29,640 even when they weren't coming close to her. 235 00:14:30,040 --> 00:14:33,840 As she got older, I discovered that she needed a lot of time to acclimate 236 00:14:33,880 --> 00:14:38,120 to another dog, though when she's tired, she communicates, 237 00:14:38,120 --> 00:14:40,880 and if she's lying down, she'll still go up to the other dog 238 00:14:40,880 --> 00:14:44,160 if they're within a large bubble and nip the chin to get them away. 239 00:14:44,880 --> 00:14:45,200 Okay. 240 00:14:45,200 --> 00:14:49,960 Me again, it's such an important lesson. 241 00:14:49,960 --> 00:14:55,800 It's such an important lesson to engage, disengage, pay attention 242 00:14:56,280 --> 00:15:00,520 to the owner, play, come back, call off. 243 00:15:00,520 --> 00:15:05,320 But in execution, unfortunately, it's really hard to get it right. 244 00:15:06,160 --> 00:15:06,800 I get it. 245 00:15:06,800 --> 00:15:11,240 I get it that it can go really bad in real life. 246 00:15:12,520 --> 00:15:17,200 Okay, so a lot of people wrote in 247 00:15:18,240 --> 00:15:21,840 responding to my comment that no dog ever got relinquished 248 00:15:21,840 --> 00:15:26,760 for being too friendly and said, indeed, they do. 249 00:15:26,760 --> 00:15:28,160 Here's one. 250 00:15:28,160 --> 00:15:30,640 I like your points, but my dog loves 251 00:15:30,640 --> 00:15:34,600 people and other dogs so much that it's taking a lot of work. 252 00:15:34,800 --> 00:15:36,880 He's excessively friendly. 253 00:15:37,560 --> 00:15:41,720 Another commenter says, We have had dogs relinquished 254 00:15:41,720 --> 00:15:45,960 because they like other dogs too much, unfortunately. 255 00:15:45,960 --> 00:15:50,000 Over friendly Labradors dragging owners to greet other dogs, 256 00:15:50,280 --> 00:15:53,280 refusing to recall jumping on people, 257 00:15:53,280 --> 00:15:57,160 injuring people either, knocking them over or pulling them off their feet. 258 00:15:57,560 --> 00:16:01,440 Frustration, barking because they can't greet the other dogs across the road. 259 00:16:02,080 --> 00:16:04,600 I do agree with everything else you've said. 260 00:16:04,800 --> 00:16:08,200 I just think it's important to allow those relinquished 261 00:16:08,200 --> 00:16:10,680 friendly dogs to be recognized. 262 00:16:11,240 --> 00:16:14,320 And then someone responded, I agree. 263 00:16:14,640 --> 00:16:17,680 I think dogs that are encouraged 264 00:16:17,680 --> 00:16:22,920 to be hyper external can get frustrated when they can't visit who they want, 265 00:16:22,920 --> 00:16:27,520 when they want, and in some cases that turns into reactivity. 266 00:16:28,240 --> 00:16:31,080 Dogs get surrendered for various forms 267 00:16:31,080 --> 00:16:33,400 of reactivity, often sadly. 268 00:16:34,160 --> 00:16:36,640 Someone else responded. Agreed. 269 00:16:36,640 --> 00:16:41,360 We have a lot of Labs and Goldie's that are reactive because of frustration. 270 00:16:41,800 --> 00:16:46,360 Once the frustration element is removed, they are often absolutely fine 271 00:16:46,360 --> 00:16:49,560 with other dogs and people, but the frustration element 272 00:16:49,560 --> 00:16:52,760 is significant. 273 00:16:52,760 --> 00:16:56,680 Well, look, I think there's a few different things going on 274 00:16:57,920 --> 00:17:00,760 with the various dogs in these comments. 275 00:17:00,760 --> 00:17:04,480 I mean, some is just the dogs are not trained. 276 00:17:05,800 --> 00:17:08,400 I would bet a lot of money 277 00:17:08,400 --> 00:17:12,920 on two things with in these cases with this kind of dog, number one, 278 00:17:12,920 --> 00:17:15,840 whatever they're doing, this is not an issue 279 00:17:16,800 --> 00:17:20,520 where they were taken to four weeks of puppy 280 00:17:20,520 --> 00:17:24,320 class between eight and 12 weeks old and allowed to play with puppies. 281 00:17:25,040 --> 00:17:29,160 If it is a hyper arousal situation, it's 282 00:17:29,160 --> 00:17:34,040 because they've been flooded for their entire lives. 283 00:17:34,040 --> 00:17:35,120 Every time they went out, 284 00:17:35,120 --> 00:17:39,960 it was to play, stimulation, that the owners never trained them 285 00:17:39,960 --> 00:17:43,840 otherwise, that the owners never worked on attention is the mother work. 286 00:17:44,200 --> 00:17:47,400 The owners didn't go to any kind of other training class 287 00:17:47,400 --> 00:17:51,480 and try and teach the dog how to walk on leash. 288 00:17:51,480 --> 00:17:58,680 And to be fair, I'm not sure that those posters are saying otherwise. 289 00:17:58,680 --> 00:18:02,040 In other words, there was some negligence in the home 290 00:18:02,560 --> 00:18:05,880 that these puppies came from that created this behavior 291 00:18:05,880 --> 00:18:10,920 and it wasn't going to a puppy class and having playtime. 292 00:18:10,920 --> 00:18:12,240 But their point is 293 00:18:12,240 --> 00:18:16,360 that there is such a thing as a dog that is quote unquote too friendly. 294 00:18:17,080 --> 00:18:20,240 But I don't think that reflects in any way 295 00:18:20,480 --> 00:18:25,640 on the advisability of a puppy playgroup for puppies under 12 weeks old, because 296 00:18:26,800 --> 00:18:28,360 there is no way 297 00:18:28,360 --> 00:18:31,720 that whatever behavior they're seeing here was created 298 00:18:32,080 --> 00:18:35,880 because these dogs went to a playgroup under 12 weeks old. 299 00:18:37,280 --> 00:18:41,120 It's similar to what I said about the show dogs like it's not that 300 00:18:41,760 --> 00:18:45,120 you absolutely don't want to ever let the dog 301 00:18:45,160 --> 00:18:47,840 see other dogs and learn that other dogs are good, 302 00:18:48,520 --> 00:18:51,720 and that's somehow going to keep them from pulling people around. 303 00:18:51,720 --> 00:18:54,800 I mean, I think whether those dogs played with other dogs or not, 304 00:18:55,280 --> 00:18:58,320 they probably would 305 00:18:58,320 --> 00:18:59,360 still be that way. 306 00:18:59,360 --> 00:19:01,920 It's a training it's a training issue. 307 00:19:01,920 --> 00:19:05,920 It's not it's not really a problem with the dog being too friendly. 308 00:19:05,920 --> 00:19:09,880 It's a problem with the dog just not being trained. 309 00:19:09,880 --> 00:19:13,800 And I also have to say that I have definitely bred dogs 310 00:19:14,400 --> 00:19:21,240 that were hyper focused on other dogs, but in every case where that was, 311 00:19:21,240 --> 00:19:26,040 so it was a dog that I placed in an only dog home. 312 00:19:27,000 --> 00:19:28,800 So go figure. 313 00:19:28,800 --> 00:19:32,760 When dogs really don't get a lot of chance to interact with other dogs, 314 00:19:33,160 --> 00:19:37,320 they sometimes can be hyper focused on other dogs and agreed 315 00:19:37,480 --> 00:19:41,080 they can get frustrated and sometimes it can look like reactivity 316 00:19:41,080 --> 00:19:45,640 when really the dog is just starved for conspecific interaction. 317 00:19:46,880 --> 00:19:51,200 I don't pretend to have all the answers to those problems 318 00:19:51,200 --> 00:19:54,360 for the shelter dogs, for the people that wrote in. 319 00:19:55,240 --> 00:19:59,600 But I think it would be a really interesting experiment 320 00:20:00,120 --> 00:20:05,080 to try giving those dogs a companion to play with on a more regular basis 321 00:20:05,440 --> 00:20:08,840 and see if that didn't improve the situation with the dog being 322 00:20:08,840 --> 00:20:14,040 hyper focused on other dogs. 323 00:20:14,040 --> 00:20:16,360 I'm going to kind of summarize 324 00:20:16,360 --> 00:20:19,240 the other comments because there was a lot of them 325 00:20:19,680 --> 00:20:24,320 and they all kind of fell in certain categories. 326 00:20:24,320 --> 00:20:28,440 There was maybe 25% of the people that wrote in thanking me 327 00:20:28,440 --> 00:20:32,040 for saying this because they still do puppy play classes 328 00:20:32,760 --> 00:20:36,160 and they were thanking me for getting out how important it 329 00:20:36,160 --> 00:20:40,080 is for puppies to play. But 330 00:20:41,320 --> 00:20:42,240 another, let's say, 331 00:20:42,240 --> 00:20:47,400 50% of the people that wrote in had just horror stories 332 00:20:47,400 --> 00:20:53,000 of having been to a puppy class that was poorly managed, understaffed. 333 00:20:53,240 --> 00:20:58,440 A lot of instructors wrote in that they have trouble with puppy playtime, 334 00:20:58,440 --> 00:21:03,280 putting them together because so many vets are still recommending that puppies 335 00:21:03,280 --> 00:21:08,920 not be allowed to go to play class at all until they've had all their vaccines. 336 00:21:08,920 --> 00:21:11,080 Absolutely not true. 337 00:21:11,080 --> 00:21:12,920 UC Davis study. 338 00:21:12,920 --> 00:21:16,560 If they have one vaccine once they're over eight weeks 339 00:21:16,560 --> 00:21:20,640 old, statistically they are protected. 340 00:21:20,680 --> 00:21:24,320 They can go to puppy class in a safe environment of a puppy class. 341 00:21:24,320 --> 00:21:26,920 I wouldn't take them to a dog park or rest area 342 00:21:27,960 --> 00:21:31,800 refresher recollection with the socialization versus vaccination 343 00:21:31,800 --> 00:21:33,880 and puppy culture. 344 00:21:34,640 --> 00:21:35,880 All that being said, 345 00:21:35,880 --> 00:21:39,520 unfortunately, there still is in the veterinary community 346 00:21:39,880 --> 00:21:44,800 a subset of vets that are just way behind the times and still recommend that 347 00:21:44,800 --> 00:21:49,600 puppies not be socialized until they have their entire series of vaccinations. 348 00:21:49,880 --> 00:21:53,520 That creates problems both because now you've got older puppies 349 00:21:53,520 --> 00:21:57,480 trying to be socialized once the window is really closed 350 00:21:58,040 --> 00:22:01,280 and because it makes it hard to put classes together 351 00:22:01,280 --> 00:22:03,360 because you just you don't have the puppies to put in them. 352 00:22:03,920 --> 00:22:06,360 A lot of people also 353 00:22:06,360 --> 00:22:10,200 we're talking about situations where inappropriate puppies 354 00:22:10,200 --> 00:22:15,520 were put together, puppies that were over 12 weeks old, which I definitely limit 355 00:22:15,840 --> 00:22:21,200 my recommendation for puppy play groups to puppies under 12 weeks old. 356 00:22:21,200 --> 00:22:25,400 So, you know, if you wrote in and you said you took your puppy to class 357 00:22:25,400 --> 00:22:28,440 and there was a six month old puppy that jumped on it or you took your year 358 00:22:28,440 --> 00:22:32,880 old puppy to a class and it got in some bad situation, 359 00:22:32,880 --> 00:22:37,800 I mean, that wasn't the right thing for you to be doing to start out with. 360 00:22:37,800 --> 00:22:41,040 Puppy play groups are for very young puppies. 361 00:22:42,600 --> 00:22:43,880 But, you know, 362 00:22:43,880 --> 00:22:47,240 as I was reading all of these responses 363 00:22:47,760 --> 00:22:51,440 and in my mind saying, well, no, that's not well, that's not right, 364 00:22:51,440 --> 00:22:54,880 well of course not, if that, well, no and na, 365 00:22:54,920 --> 00:23:00,000 ah, I started having the realization 366 00:23:00,440 --> 00:23:04,040 that there's a bigger problem going on here. 367 00:23:05,480 --> 00:23:07,800 And I think this response 368 00:23:07,800 --> 00:23:10,360 encapsulates the whole thing; 369 00:23:11,760 --> 00:23:16,440 I think that it is nearly impossible for most trainers 370 00:23:16,520 --> 00:23:19,880 to create the experience you are proposing here. 371 00:23:21,000 --> 00:23:23,440 We are still, still 372 00:23:23,560 --> 00:23:26,400 running up against vets recommending that puppies 373 00:23:26,400 --> 00:23:30,720 do not start socializing until they have more vaccinations on board. 374 00:23:31,400 --> 00:23:33,840 There are also plenty of puppy owners 375 00:23:33,840 --> 00:23:37,360 who don't even get their puppies until around 10 to 12 weeks old. 376 00:23:38,160 --> 00:23:40,760 There's also still a veterinarian shortage, 377 00:23:40,760 --> 00:23:43,840 and many puppy owners have to wait 1 to 2 weeks 378 00:23:43,840 --> 00:23:47,400 to get their puppy in for their first appointment. 379 00:23:47,400 --> 00:23:50,280 I personally will not take a puppy for training 380 00:23:50,280 --> 00:23:53,360 if they have not been seen by ‘their’ vet. 381 00:23:54,080 --> 00:23:56,360 A vet the owner has a relationship 382 00:23:56,360 --> 00:24:00,240 with not the breeder or shelter or rescues vet. 383 00:24:01,040 --> 00:24:06,320 So we're already drastically narrowing down the pool with those factors. 384 00:24:06,320 --> 00:24:11,160 Now you need to have, number one, a safe space to hold the puppy classes. 385 00:24:11,640 --> 00:24:15,120 There are plenty of suitable locations for adult dog classes 386 00:24:15,120 --> 00:24:18,240 that are not suitable for puppies. 387 00:24:18,600 --> 00:24:22,080 Two, a trainer available to hold the class who's skilled in off 388 00:24:22,080 --> 00:24:25,640 leash play behavior and new puppy owner coaching. 389 00:24:26,120 --> 00:24:31,040 Three trainer availability that overlaps with client availability. 390 00:24:31,520 --> 00:24:36,960 Four a large enough client base of people geographically close to this trainer 391 00:24:36,960 --> 00:24:42,120 and this class location with healthy puppies between 8 to 12 weeks of age. 392 00:24:42,560 --> 00:24:46,280 Five, a registration system that allows for puppies 393 00:24:46,280 --> 00:24:50,240 in this tiny four week age bracket to come for only 394 00:24:50,240 --> 00:24:54,440 however many weeks they are in the critical socialization period. 395 00:24:54,640 --> 00:24:57,120 Whether that is one, two, three or four. 396 00:24:57,720 --> 00:25:01,200 Six, if you've managed all of the above, 397 00:25:01,480 --> 00:25:04,160 you still need to have puppies that are compatible. 398 00:25:04,560 --> 00:25:07,560 The 12 week old Great Dane is too large to safely 399 00:25:07,560 --> 00:25:10,960 play with the eight week old Chihuahua ages be darned. 400 00:25:11,480 --> 00:25:16,440 The ten week old Sheltie that's hiding under its chair is absolutely useless 401 00:25:16,440 --> 00:25:20,360 to the nine week old Labrador puppy who wants to learn about dogs. 402 00:25:21,600 --> 00:25:24,080 If you can't offer all of the above, 403 00:25:24,360 --> 00:25:28,840 how do you market a puppy class that does or does not include play? 404 00:25:29,200 --> 00:25:32,760 If you have only two students and the puppies are incompatible, 405 00:25:32,920 --> 00:25:35,880 you're going to have disappointed or angry clients. 406 00:25:36,200 --> 00:25:40,320 Heck, you can be in that situation with four or five students. 407 00:25:40,960 --> 00:25:43,760 This is why I pivoted my business model 408 00:25:43,760 --> 00:25:48,440 to a combination of daycare plus training, which allows me to do 409 00:25:48,440 --> 00:25:53,200 small groups, pairs and or matching with compatible adult dogs. 410 00:25:53,720 --> 00:25:58,320 My pool of dogs is large enough that I can consistently make this work, 411 00:25:58,920 --> 00:26:04,560 but I do not fault trainers at all for running puppy classes with no off 412 00:26:04,560 --> 00:26:07,680 leash play component because in many areas 413 00:26:07,680 --> 00:26:09,880 it's like trying to thread a needle. 414 00:26:10,680 --> 00:26:14,360 Lack of off leash puppy play is disappointing. 415 00:26:14,360 --> 00:26:17,760 Bad off leash puppy play can be 416 00:26:17,760 --> 00:26:22,560 permanently damaging. 417 00:26:22,560 --> 00:26:26,440 Okay, I'm just going to say if you have not 418 00:26:26,760 --> 00:26:29,240 listened to the three part 419 00:26:30,160 --> 00:26:33,280 series that we started all of our podcasts 420 00:26:33,280 --> 00:26:38,800 with called The Wrong Series, now would be a good time 421 00:26:39,120 --> 00:26:44,280 for you to listen to this because this is an epic example of 422 00:26:45,320 --> 00:26:48,880 a situation where I got new information 423 00:26:48,880 --> 00:26:53,720 that really fundamentally changed the way that I look at things. 424 00:26:54,120 --> 00:26:58,200 As an educator, what I realized through this 425 00:26:58,680 --> 00:27:03,000 is that my focus going forward is going to be teaching 426 00:27:03,240 --> 00:27:06,920 puppy owners how to set up their own socialization sessions, 427 00:27:07,240 --> 00:27:09,360 because in reality 428 00:27:10,440 --> 00:27:13,040 it's very rare that you're going to find 429 00:27:13,040 --> 00:27:16,360 a really good puppy playgroup for your puppy. 430 00:27:16,920 --> 00:27:21,600 If you can find that puppy class, and usually those puppy classes 431 00:27:21,600 --> 00:27:25,960 are going to be in more urban areas where they just have a supply of puppies. 432 00:27:26,320 --> 00:27:27,640 When we went to see Dr. 433 00:27:27,640 --> 00:27:33,000 Bright's class, that's right, in Boston, she has tremendous access 434 00:27:33,000 --> 00:27:35,840 to a number of puppies and it's through a shelter 435 00:27:36,160 --> 00:27:38,840 where there's a steady supply of puppies coming through. 436 00:27:39,400 --> 00:27:41,680 They have independent funding. 437 00:27:41,680 --> 00:27:45,840 They're not necessarily trying to make a business out of this. 438 00:27:46,480 --> 00:27:48,960 So they have a support network 439 00:27:48,960 --> 00:27:54,120 that most private trainers just don't have. 440 00:27:54,120 --> 00:27:56,680 I still disagree 441 00:27:57,600 --> 00:28:01,240 with the concept that allowing your puppies to play with 442 00:28:01,240 --> 00:28:06,560 other puppies is going to somehow diminish their focus and attention on you. 443 00:28:07,600 --> 00:28:11,040 I still am very much for setting up play sessions 444 00:28:11,040 --> 00:28:14,200 with appropriate other dogs, but 445 00:28:15,360 --> 00:28:20,640 I do realize my eyes are opened to the fact that it's really the exception 446 00:28:20,760 --> 00:28:24,520 more than the rule to find a good puppy, play and learn. 447 00:28:25,160 --> 00:28:29,320 And puppy owners really do need more resources 448 00:28:29,640 --> 00:28:33,960 for setting up their own play sessions. 449 00:28:33,960 --> 00:28:38,640 If you liked this podcast, you'll love our Puppy owner course 450 00:28:39,080 --> 00:28:42,600 available at www.madcapuniversity.com. 451 00:28:42,600 --> 00:28:45,720 If you're a breeder, check out our breeder course 452 00:28:46,120 --> 00:28:50,400 also available at www.madcapuniversity.com breeders. 453 00:28:50,400 --> 00:28:53,720 If you want to get your puppy owners started the right way, 454 00:28:54,000 --> 00:28:57,480 check out our bulk discounts for multiple copies 455 00:28:57,480 --> 00:29:00,760 of our puppy course at www.puppyculture.com. 456 00:29:01,760 --> 00:29:03,480 Well that's it for this time. 457 00:29:03,480 --> 00:29:04,880 Thanks for listening. 458 00:29:04,880 --> 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