348 | When Families Stop Coming: Understanding Attrition in CCPT
Play Therapy Podcast: A Master-Class in Child-Centered Play Therapy
In this episode, I respond to Sally's question about attendance and attrition in Child-Centered Play Therapy. Many therapists are noticing families stop coming around the fifth or sixth session, and I explain why this usually reflects a breakdown in articulation. When parents don't fully understand what's happening in CCPT, they lose confidence, make excuses, or believe they've seen enough progress and can stop. Our job is to communicate clearly, build trust, and ensure parents are genuinely bought into the process.
I also clarify other key practice points: parent consultations should never replace a child's session. Playrooms should be reset for every child with toys visible, accessible, and inviting. Rather than expecting parents to commit to 30–40 sessions upfront, it's better to structure treatment in rounds of five sessions with re-evaluation at each parent consultation. Finally, I address misconceptions about progress timelines and emphasize that strong parent relationships are just as vital as our therapeutic relationships with children.
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Common References: Cochran, N., Nordling, W., & Cochran, J. (2010). Child-Centered Play Therapy (1st ed.). Wiley. VanFleet, R., Sywulak, A. E., & Sniscak, C. C. (2010). Child-centered play therapy. Guilford Press. Landreth, G.L. (2023). Play Therapy: The Art of the Relationship (4th ed.). Routledge. Landreth, G.L., & Bratton, S.C. (2019). Child-Parent Relationship Therapy (CPRT): An Evidence-Based 10-Session Filial Therapy Model (2nd ed.). Routledge. https://doi.org/10.4324/9781315537948 Benedict, Helen. Themes in Play Therapy. Used with permission to Heartland Play Therapy Institute.
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0 00:00:00,469 --> 00:00:04,309 You're listening to the Play Therapy Podcast with Dr. Brenna Hicks, 1 00:00:04,469 --> 00:00:08,220 your source for centered and focused play therapy coaching. 2 00:00:08,550 --> 00:00:08,689 Hi, 3 00:00:08,750 --> 00:00:09,789 I'm Dr. Brenna Hicks, 4 00:00:09,800 --> 00:00:10,510 The Kid Counselor. 5 00:00:10,590 --> 00:00:12,590 This is the Play Therapy Podcast where you get 6 00:00:12,590 --> 00:00:14,859 a master class in child-centered play therapy 7 00:00:15,189 --> 00:00:17,270 and practical support and application for your 8 00:00:17,270 --> 00:00:18,780 work with children and their families. 9 00:00:19,110 --> 00:00:19,829 In today's episode, 10 00:00:19,909 --> 00:00:23,530 I'm answering a question from Sally and hers is about 11 00:00:24,110 --> 00:00:26,840 attendance and therefore attrition. 12 00:00:28,030 --> 00:00:30,569 This is a really important topic. 13 00:00:30,860 --> 00:00:32,970 I'm actually getting a lot of 14 00:00:33,779 --> 00:00:36,330 conversations recently about attrition rates 15 00:00:36,659 --> 00:00:40,689 and parents pulling their kids and not naturally terminating with kids. 16 00:00:41,259 --> 00:00:42,970 That has been a pretty hot topic 17 00:00:43,259 --> 00:00:44,650 in recent weeks or so. 18 00:00:44,799 --> 00:00:45,340 So Sally, 19 00:00:45,380 --> 00:00:46,529 thank you so much for the question. 20 00:00:46,619 --> 00:00:48,849 I'm actually really looking forward to discussing this. 21 00:00:49,099 --> 00:00:51,970 So let me read parts of the question and then we'll 22 00:00:52,259 --> 00:00:52,979 process together. 23 00:00:53,939 --> 00:00:57,659 I've noticed that after 5 sessions with the child and then the 6th with parents, 24 00:00:57,819 --> 00:01:00,080 there's a change in how kids attend sessions. 25 00:01:00,340 --> 00:01:04,138 They often drop off completely or their attendance becomes spotty and irregular. 26 00:01:04,580 --> 00:01:06,750 Parents are initially very happy with the progress, 27 00:01:06,819 --> 00:01:08,129 minimal as it might be, 28 00:01:08,540 --> 00:01:11,129 and they have some helpful strategies to implement at home. 29 00:01:11,500 --> 00:01:15,129 I have some families who try to go 3 months in between sessions. 30 00:01:15,379 --> 00:01:18,370 I ended up discharging families who do not regularly attend, 31 00:01:18,620 --> 00:01:21,940 and I also have families who abruptly stop CCPT midway. 32 00:01:22,220 --> 00:01:23,809 Then attempt to start up again 33 00:01:24,050 --> 00:01:26,199 with no information about why they stopped. 34 00:01:26,610 --> 00:01:30,300 If a child or family stops coming to therapy and or does not regularly attend, 35 00:01:30,410 --> 00:01:33,760 I discharge them and will not take the child back onto my case load 36 00:01:34,050 --> 00:01:37,919 as I feel it is detrimental to the process of building trust and predictability. 37 00:01:38,410 --> 00:01:40,760 Many of the kids I work with have separation anxiety, 38 00:01:40,769 --> 00:01:42,319 and I don't feel this is helpful. 39 00:01:42,610 --> 00:01:44,879 Some of my colleagues feel I'm too strict. 40 00:01:45,150 --> 00:01:45,639 Am I? 41 00:01:45,769 --> 00:01:47,489 How do you handle these situations? 42 00:01:47,529 --> 00:01:50,250 I send out a protocol reminder and what will happen. 43 00:01:50,650 --> 00:01:54,459 I also go over the attendance expectations thoroughly in the intake. 44 00:01:54,910 --> 00:01:56,069 I would appreciate your guidance. 45 00:01:56,150 --> 00:01:59,110 We now have a registered play therapist on staff who has questioned 46 00:01:59,110 --> 00:02:02,269 whether my approach is CCPT with how I keep the playroom. 47 00:02:02,769 --> 00:02:05,639 I reset it after every child and she stated that I 48 00:02:05,639 --> 00:02:09,508 should keep everything in buckets for time management and effectiveness. 49 00:02:09,800 --> 00:02:11,880 You and Landreth say that the toys should be visible. 50 00:02:12,039 --> 00:02:15,320 She also stated that she used to be child-centered, 51 00:02:15,600 --> 00:02:17,630 and there are no schedules for treatment. 52 00:02:17,919 --> 00:02:20,160 I usually tell parents between 20 to 30 session, 53 00:02:20,199 --> 00:02:21,419 but depends on the child. 54 00:02:21,679 --> 00:02:23,270 If the families cannot commit to this, 55 00:02:23,300 --> 00:02:24,330 I don't take them on. 56 00:02:24,520 --> 00:02:28,830 She also stated no change happens until around sessions 11 through 15. 57 00:02:29,699 --> 00:02:29,720 All right. 58 00:02:31,389 --> 00:02:32,289 So 59 00:02:32,600 --> 00:02:33,639 first and foremost, 60 00:02:33,800 --> 00:02:36,509 when you mentioned that you see the child for 5 sessions 61 00:02:36,759 --> 00:02:38,880 and then you have the 6th with parents, 62 00:02:39,360 --> 00:02:41,399 I just want to provide some clarity there. 63 00:02:41,479 --> 00:02:43,199 I don't know that this is how you meant it, 64 00:02:43,360 --> 00:02:44,750 but this is how I read it, 65 00:02:44,800 --> 00:02:46,550 so I might have misinterpreted, 66 00:02:46,770 --> 00:02:48,229 but I want to be real clear, 67 00:02:48,559 --> 00:02:52,539 we do not sacrifice a child session for a parent consultation. 68 00:02:52,949 --> 00:02:57,149 So if you see the child for 5 sessions and then the 6th week. 69 00:02:57,529 --> 00:03:00,940 The child does not get a session because you're meeting with parents. 70 00:03:01,309 --> 00:03:03,429 That is not the way we handle parent consults. 71 00:03:03,490 --> 00:03:05,740 Parent consults are a completely separate 72 00:03:06,190 --> 00:03:07,210 time and day 73 00:03:07,509 --> 00:03:10,139 from the child's regularly scheduled session. 74 00:03:10,350 --> 00:03:12,979 And so if Tuesdays at 4 or when you see the child, 75 00:03:13,229 --> 00:03:14,539 even on the 6th week, 76 00:03:14,630 --> 00:03:16,669 you will see that child Tuesdays at 4 and then 77 00:03:16,669 --> 00:03:20,139 you schedule a consult with parents maybe on a Friday 78 00:03:20,429 --> 00:03:21,580 at a completely different time. 79 00:03:21,669 --> 00:03:23,509 So I don't know if I misinterpreted that, 80 00:03:23,580 --> 00:03:23,910 Sally, 81 00:03:23,949 --> 00:03:26,309 but I just want to make that known for everyone's sake. 82 00:03:27,100 --> 00:03:27,360 OK, 83 00:03:27,440 --> 00:03:28,919 so the fact that you're seeing 84 00:03:29,240 --> 00:03:29,949 that 85 00:03:30,660 --> 00:03:31,279 the 86 00:03:31,820 --> 00:03:33,949 attendance shifts after 87 00:03:34,320 --> 00:03:36,039 this first parent consult. 88 00:03:36,520 --> 00:03:38,460 It either becomes spotty and irregular, 89 00:03:39,279 --> 00:03:40,910 they go 3 months in between, 90 00:03:41,240 --> 00:03:41,630 they 91 00:03:41,770 --> 00:03:43,300 not regularly attend. 92 00:03:43,479 --> 00:03:43,960 OK, 93 00:03:44,320 --> 00:03:45,850 that communicates to me 94 00:03:46,240 --> 00:03:46,750 that 95 00:03:47,039 --> 00:03:48,690 they're not bought into the process. 96 00:03:49,419 --> 00:03:51,639 I don't think it has anything to do with 97 00:03:51,970 --> 00:03:52,889 after 5 sessions, 98 00:03:52,929 --> 00:03:54,429 all of a sudden this happens. 99 00:03:54,570 --> 00:03:56,779 After 5 sessions they've finally 100 00:03:57,089 --> 00:03:59,339 been in it long enough and they've had a meeting with you 101 00:03:59,809 --> 00:04:01,839 and if they don't understand what's happening, 102 00:04:02,050 --> 00:04:04,279 if they don't feel that progress is being made, 103 00:04:04,449 --> 00:04:06,559 if they're not bought into CCPT, 104 00:04:06,770 --> 00:04:09,199 if they're not trusting you and trusting the process, 105 00:04:09,850 --> 00:04:10,759 they gave it a shot, 106 00:04:10,850 --> 00:04:11,770 they went 5 weeks, 107 00:04:11,809 --> 00:04:12,679 they met with you, 108 00:04:12,970 --> 00:04:14,660 and if they don't feel satisfied, 109 00:04:14,809 --> 00:04:15,809 they're going to bail. 110 00:04:16,858 --> 00:04:20,709 So I think that actually what this comes down to is articulation 111 00:04:21,040 --> 00:04:22,040 and communication. 112 00:04:22,809 --> 00:04:24,549 And setting expectations, 113 00:04:25,119 --> 00:04:28,820 making sure that they really are understanding and bought in 114 00:04:29,160 --> 00:04:32,190 and all of that comes back to your framework 115 00:04:32,480 --> 00:04:35,839 and how you structure that initial parent consultation as 116 00:04:35,839 --> 00:04:38,589 well as your subsequent 5 week parent consultations. 117 00:04:38,839 --> 00:04:41,959 This is one of the most crucial components of CCPT 118 00:04:41,959 --> 00:04:43,959 and it has nothing to do with clinical knowledge. 119 00:04:45,320 --> 00:04:47,989 We cannot continue to do our clinical work 120 00:04:48,480 --> 00:04:50,119 if parents aren't bought in and they're not 121 00:04:50,119 --> 00:04:51,950 on board and they don't keep bringing their kids 122 00:04:52,470 --> 00:04:55,750 and we spend so much time on the clinical as we should. 123 00:04:55,839 --> 00:04:59,070 I'm not downplaying that we need to have mastery over the model, 124 00:04:59,480 --> 00:05:04,850 but all of our time and energy and focus goes toward the model and the clinical pieces 125 00:05:05,239 --> 00:05:09,220 where the bulk of what we're doing in this profession is outside of the playroom 126 00:05:09,559 --> 00:05:11,959 and consults are a prime example of that. 127 00:05:12,910 --> 00:05:14,399 So it sounds as though 128 00:05:14,739 --> 00:05:16,299 they're happy with progress. 129 00:05:16,339 --> 00:05:18,260 I think that's usually honeymoon phase, 130 00:05:18,769 --> 00:05:19,290 and they're like, 131 00:05:19,429 --> 00:05:19,660 OK, 132 00:05:19,779 --> 00:05:20,260 we finally, 133 00:05:20,380 --> 00:05:22,450 we finally did something we finally took a step. 134 00:05:22,660 --> 00:05:23,450 Maybe this is it. 135 00:05:23,579 --> 00:05:23,700 I, 136 00:05:23,739 --> 00:05:24,839 I have a little bit of hope here. 137 00:05:24,980 --> 00:05:27,130 Maybe this is going to solve the problems that we're having. 138 00:05:27,619 --> 00:05:28,489 It's a honeymoon. 139 00:05:28,779 --> 00:05:29,489 And then 140 00:05:29,790 --> 00:05:31,010 things don't really get better. 141 00:05:31,220 --> 00:05:31,859 5 weeks in, 142 00:05:31,940 --> 00:05:33,299 we don't really expect them to. 143 00:05:33,850 --> 00:05:35,309 And then they meet with you 144 00:05:35,519 --> 00:05:37,730 and they don't feel like they really understand what's going on. 145 00:05:37,799 --> 00:05:40,839 They don't feel like it's been worth 5 weeks' worth of sessions. 146 00:05:40,959 --> 00:05:42,790 They don't feel like they're seeing enough change, 147 00:05:43,079 --> 00:05:45,869 so they're going to make excuses for why they can't come anymore. 148 00:05:46,119 --> 00:05:47,359 This is very consistent. 149 00:05:48,619 --> 00:05:53,630 So when you say that you have families who abruptly stop and then start up again, 150 00:05:54,000 --> 00:05:55,269 also very common. 151 00:05:55,690 --> 00:05:56,730 Typically it's the, 152 00:05:56,739 --> 00:05:58,600 the grass is greener on the other side mentality. 153 00:05:58,720 --> 00:06:00,630 So often they will stop and say, 154 00:06:01,390 --> 00:06:01,570 Well, 155 00:06:01,649 --> 00:06:05,809 maybe things will be OK and we don't need therapy and then things are not OK, 156 00:06:06,209 --> 00:06:08,130 so they revisit or they say, 157 00:06:08,170 --> 00:06:08,489 you know what, 158 00:06:08,570 --> 00:06:10,920 I'm gonna go down the road and see about this CBT 159 00:06:11,290 --> 00:06:12,309 children's therapist, 160 00:06:12,850 --> 00:06:14,739 thinking that that might be the solution, 161 00:06:14,850 --> 00:06:16,929 grass is greener on the other side and then they realize, 162 00:06:17,049 --> 00:06:17,109 well, 163 00:06:17,130 --> 00:06:18,000 that didn't work either, 164 00:06:18,130 --> 00:06:19,000 and they come back. 165 00:06:19,829 --> 00:06:24,619 Very common process if parents do not understand what to expect 166 00:06:24,790 --> 00:06:26,630 if they're not bought into the process and 167 00:06:26,630 --> 00:06:29,109 they're not trusting you and trusting CCPT. 168 00:06:30,329 --> 00:06:31,399 So when you said 169 00:06:31,529 --> 00:06:34,929 that you discharge them and will not take the child back onto your case load. 170 00:06:36,529 --> 00:06:36,730 I, 171 00:06:36,769 --> 00:06:38,679 I don't know that that is 172 00:06:39,489 --> 00:06:41,799 necessarily the hard and fast rule for every single case. 173 00:06:42,089 --> 00:06:44,239 There are certainly families 174 00:06:45,049 --> 00:06:49,959 for whom that makes sense because you know that they're never going to 175 00:06:50,769 --> 00:06:51,209 buy in, 176 00:06:51,369 --> 00:06:52,640 they're never going to commit, 177 00:06:52,690 --> 00:06:54,019 they're never going to be faithful, 178 00:06:54,089 --> 00:06:55,839 they're never going to take it seriously. 179 00:06:56,890 --> 00:06:59,019 And that's setting everyone up for failure, 180 00:06:59,100 --> 00:07:00,380 if you know that's the case, 181 00:07:00,459 --> 00:07:02,529 but those are very rare outliers. 182 00:07:03,059 --> 00:07:05,369 Most families that stop and come back, 183 00:07:05,980 --> 00:07:07,649 they still need and want help, 184 00:07:07,940 --> 00:07:09,070 they're just not. 185 00:07:09,970 --> 00:07:11,589 Feeling comfortable enough, 186 00:07:11,839 --> 00:07:12,880 they're not bought in enough, 187 00:07:12,920 --> 00:07:14,390 they don't understand enough 188 00:07:14,760 --> 00:07:16,989 so that falls on us that is our job 189 00:07:17,160 --> 00:07:19,200 to make sure that we are effectively articulating. 190 00:07:19,279 --> 00:07:21,040 We talk about this in coaching 191 00:07:21,519 --> 00:07:23,480 every single day I feel like, 192 00:07:23,760 --> 00:07:23,970 why? 193 00:07:24,179 --> 00:07:25,470 Because it's that important. 194 00:07:26,079 --> 00:07:27,160 We can't do our jobs, 195 00:07:27,220 --> 00:07:28,290 we can't help kids, 196 00:07:28,320 --> 00:07:30,269 we can't provide CCPT 197 00:07:30,720 --> 00:07:32,549 if parents quit bringing their children. 198 00:07:32,799 --> 00:07:33,839 It's just that simple. 199 00:07:34,040 --> 00:07:36,000 So the relationship with the parents is just 200 00:07:36,000 --> 00:07:38,079 as important as the relationship with the kid. 201 00:07:38,559 --> 00:07:41,459 And we put a lot of emphasis on the relationship with the child, 202 00:07:41,510 --> 00:07:44,279 we should be putting emphasis on the relationship with parents. 203 00:07:44,670 --> 00:07:45,670 They're the hinge pin. 204 00:07:46,369 --> 00:07:47,519 If that falls apart, 205 00:07:47,690 --> 00:07:48,640 we're doomed. 206 00:07:49,130 --> 00:07:50,290 And so I think Sally, 207 00:07:50,369 --> 00:07:54,399 maybe what's going on is you don't have a framework and a template. 208 00:07:54,660 --> 00:07:57,399 And a script for these consultations, 209 00:07:57,730 --> 00:08:02,089 I think maybe you don't feel confident in how to articulate some of the concepts. 210 00:08:02,209 --> 00:08:03,760 I think maybe you're not saying enough, 211 00:08:03,839 --> 00:08:05,000 maybe you're saying too much, 212 00:08:05,130 --> 00:08:06,329 maybe you're overexplaining, 213 00:08:06,410 --> 00:08:07,720 maybe you're under explaining, 214 00:08:07,890 --> 00:08:09,130 maybe it's too jargonny, 215 00:08:09,170 --> 00:08:10,410 maybe it's too highbrow, 216 00:08:10,450 --> 00:08:10,920 and it's 217 00:08:11,100 --> 00:08:14,559 not landing at all because these people have no concept of 218 00:08:14,890 --> 00:08:16,890 the clinical components of what's going on. 219 00:08:17,880 --> 00:08:18,920 So on and so on. 220 00:08:19,320 --> 00:08:19,880 So, 221 00:08:20,559 --> 00:08:24,630 if you mention that your colleagues feel that you're too strict in your approach. 222 00:08:25,859 --> 00:08:28,579 I don't know that look if we have boundaries 223 00:08:28,579 --> 00:08:31,410 and we have protocol we stick to them because 224 00:08:31,820 --> 00:08:34,469 we are bought in when we make business decisions. 225 00:08:34,820 --> 00:08:37,369 So if that's your protocol and that's your standard, 226 00:08:37,659 --> 00:08:38,929 you should stick to it. 227 00:08:39,058 --> 00:08:42,530 You may want to reconsider whether or not it needs to be 228 00:08:42,859 --> 00:08:45,260 those specific boundaries and protocol. 229 00:08:46,020 --> 00:08:47,650 Because it seems as though 230 00:08:47,940 --> 00:08:51,099 this probably goes back to communication and articulation 231 00:08:51,460 --> 00:08:52,250 more than 232 00:08:52,380 --> 00:08:53,489 the families 233 00:08:53,940 --> 00:08:54,340 themselves. 234 00:08:54,460 --> 00:08:56,530 I think these families need and want help. 235 00:08:56,739 --> 00:08:59,450 I just think they don't feel grounded in what's happening. 236 00:09:00,059 --> 00:09:03,169 So that may be a reworking of the process. 237 00:09:04,010 --> 00:09:04,750 And 238 00:09:05,659 --> 00:09:06,840 As far as the playroom itself, 239 00:09:06,919 --> 00:09:09,580 I know that was kind of like an additional question that was thrown at the end. 240 00:09:10,599 --> 00:09:13,330 You absolutely reset the playroom after every child, 241 00:09:13,460 --> 00:09:15,729 every time a child walks into a session, 242 00:09:16,140 --> 00:09:17,130 it is 243 00:09:17,500 --> 00:09:18,590 their playroom 244 00:09:18,859 --> 00:09:20,190 and it is reset 245 00:09:20,380 --> 00:09:23,210 to as much of a consistent playroom as you can provide. 246 00:09:23,419 --> 00:09:24,260 Obviously, 247 00:09:24,469 --> 00:09:27,299 one little figure might be in a different spot and you know, 248 00:09:27,380 --> 00:09:29,929 the stuffed animals might be rearranged differently, 249 00:09:30,099 --> 00:09:31,609 but they're still in the same place. 250 00:09:31,820 --> 00:09:34,969 We try to make it as consistent and predictable as possible. 251 00:09:35,260 --> 00:09:37,140 You should not keep everything in buckets. 252 00:09:37,940 --> 00:09:39,890 When kids have to rifle through things, 253 00:09:40,020 --> 00:09:41,369 dig through things, 254 00:09:41,619 --> 00:09:42,299 move things, 255 00:09:42,419 --> 00:09:43,690 it's prohibitive, 256 00:09:43,890 --> 00:09:45,010 it is interruptive, 257 00:09:45,140 --> 00:09:47,369 and it is a barrier to their work. 258 00:09:47,659 --> 00:09:48,969 The toys should be out, 259 00:09:49,260 --> 00:09:49,729 accessible, 260 00:09:49,820 --> 00:09:50,580 and inviting. 261 00:09:51,770 --> 00:09:53,520 Those three adjectives out, 262 00:09:53,890 --> 00:09:55,119 accessible and inviting. 263 00:09:55,140 --> 00:09:57,049 They shouldn't have to find them, 264 00:09:57,090 --> 00:09:57,799 open things, 265 00:09:58,090 --> 00:09:58,450 drawers, 266 00:09:58,530 --> 00:09:59,010 bins, 267 00:09:59,090 --> 00:09:59,640 boxes, 268 00:09:59,770 --> 00:10:00,559 containers, 269 00:10:01,369 --> 00:10:03,080 that that's become the lazy, 270 00:10:03,609 --> 00:10:04,330 I'm air quoting, 271 00:10:04,450 --> 00:10:06,830 but that's become the lazy CCPT 272 00:10:07,330 --> 00:10:10,919 is we're just going to keep everything in a bin with a label on the front of it. 273 00:10:11,630 --> 00:10:12,979 That gets in the way 274 00:10:13,190 --> 00:10:14,539 of what the child needs to do. 275 00:10:14,669 --> 00:10:14,840 So, 276 00:10:14,950 --> 00:10:16,739 you are actually very on target 277 00:10:17,030 --> 00:10:17,900 to not 278 00:10:18,070 --> 00:10:21,900 put everything in buckets and make sure that it is reset after every time. 279 00:10:22,780 --> 00:10:27,169 The average length of time for CCPT right now is 30 to 40 sessions, 280 00:10:27,369 --> 00:10:30,030 so you quoting 20 to 30 is actually a little bit 281 00:10:30,130 --> 00:10:30,570 scant. 282 00:10:30,650 --> 00:10:32,280 It should be 30 to 40 283 00:10:32,609 --> 00:10:37,640 with the quote ideal number being 37 according to meta-analytic research 284 00:10:38,369 --> 00:10:39,159 and 285 00:10:39,849 --> 00:10:41,440 obviously it does depend on the child. 286 00:10:41,450 --> 00:10:45,239 You said that it is a case by case scenario by scenario basis. 287 00:10:45,570 --> 00:10:48,479 No child is going to hit that number every single time, 288 00:10:48,530 --> 00:10:50,489 but 30 to 40 is the average. 289 00:10:51,179 --> 00:10:51,890 And 290 00:10:52,219 --> 00:10:56,409 it's actually more helpful to let a parent know they're committing to 5 at a time 291 00:10:57,020 --> 00:10:58,849 rather than 30 to 40, 292 00:10:59,169 --> 00:11:00,799 because every 5 sessions with the child, 293 00:11:00,809 --> 00:11:02,059 you're going to meet with the parent. 294 00:11:02,789 --> 00:11:06,750 And then you're going to reevaluate whether or not it makes sense for you to do 5 more. 295 00:11:07,419 --> 00:11:09,659 So when you said if they don't commit to this, 296 00:11:09,700 --> 00:11:10,739 I can't take them on, 297 00:11:10,940 --> 00:11:12,729 they don't need to commit to 40 sessions, 298 00:11:12,739 --> 00:11:14,530 they need to commit to 5 at a time, 299 00:11:14,900 --> 00:11:16,090 rounds of 5, 300 00:11:16,380 --> 00:11:18,739 and every round of 5 you meet and you determine 301 00:11:18,739 --> 00:11:20,580 if you're going to do another round of 5. 302 00:11:20,979 --> 00:11:24,369 And if your consultation process is tweaked and efficient, 303 00:11:24,739 --> 00:11:27,369 they will continue to commit to rounds of 5 304 00:11:27,700 --> 00:11:30,530 until the child is ready to terminate 305 00:11:30,739 --> 00:11:32,619 and they meet termination criteria. 306 00:11:33,369 --> 00:11:34,330 And your 307 00:11:34,500 --> 00:11:39,010 RPT that stated no change happens until around session 11 through 15? 308 00:11:40,960 --> 00:11:41,950 Sometimes children 309 00:11:42,159 --> 00:11:44,080 demonstrate change in session one. 310 00:11:45,590 --> 00:11:49,119 But I agree with the fact that on an average 311 00:11:49,570 --> 00:11:54,119 somewhere between sessions 11 through 15 is when work phase begins. 312 00:11:54,289 --> 00:11:56,710 So if she's specifically referencing work phase, 313 00:11:56,890 --> 00:12:00,559 I agree with that that is typically when kids move to work 314 00:12:00,849 --> 00:12:02,039 somewhere in that range, 315 00:12:02,690 --> 00:12:03,159 but 316 00:12:03,609 --> 00:12:07,710 often kids will make changes far earlier than the 11th session, 317 00:12:08,210 --> 00:12:12,320 but specifically in work phase is when you're going to see the bulk of progress. 318 00:12:13,539 --> 00:12:13,700 All right, 319 00:12:13,780 --> 00:12:14,099 Sally, 320 00:12:14,140 --> 00:12:15,179 thank you so much for the email. 321 00:12:15,219 --> 00:12:16,780 I hope that that's helpful for all of you. 322 00:12:16,820 --> 00:12:17,780 If you want to reach out to me, 323 00:12:17,820 --> 00:12:18,739 I'd love to hear from you, 324 00:12:18,859 --> 00:12:20,450 brenna@thekidcounselor.com. 325 00:12:20,500 --> 00:12:21,090 By the way, 326 00:12:21,619 --> 00:12:23,960 I have been getting so many emails from y'all lately. 327 00:12:24,020 --> 00:12:24,489 I mean, 328 00:12:24,659 --> 00:12:26,460 more so than I ever have gotten 329 00:12:26,739 --> 00:12:28,250 since I started this podcast. 330 00:12:28,820 --> 00:12:30,799 You all are sending so many emails. 331 00:12:30,820 --> 00:12:32,250 I read every single one of them. 332 00:12:32,419 --> 00:12:33,570 Thank you for those. 333 00:12:34,020 --> 00:12:35,140 I laugh at them, 334 00:12:35,239 --> 00:12:36,419 I cry with them, 335 00:12:36,500 --> 00:12:37,130 I, 336 00:12:37,140 --> 00:12:38,460 I share them with my team. 337 00:12:38,950 --> 00:12:44,099 It it is so special to hear what's going on in CCPT all over the world. 338 00:12:44,710 --> 00:12:47,179 And so thank you so much for the time that you spend 339 00:12:47,500 --> 00:12:50,099 to reach out and ask your questions and share your stories. 340 00:12:50,349 --> 00:12:51,419 It really does mean a lot. 341 00:12:51,469 --> 00:12:51,640 I, 342 00:12:51,710 --> 00:12:54,349 I read every single one and they really do bring 343 00:12:54,349 --> 00:12:56,109 so much value to the work that I'm doing. 344 00:12:56,190 --> 00:12:58,179 So just wanted to say a huge thank you. 345 00:12:58,349 --> 00:12:58,830 I love y'all. 346 00:12:58,909 --> 00:12:59,739 We'll talk again soon. 347 00:12:59,909 --> 00:13:00,109 Bye. 348 00:13:01,270 --> 00:13:04,030 Thank you for listening to the Play Therapy Podcast with Dr. 349 00:13:04,190 --> 00:13:05,109 Brenna Hicks. 350 00:13:05,270 --> 00:13:07,229 For more episodes and resources, 351 00:13:07,349 --> 00:13:12,109 please go to www.playtherapypodcast.com.