348 | When Families Stop Coming: Understanding Attrition in CCPT

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In this episode, I respond to Sally's question about attendance and attrition in Child-Centered Play Therapy. Many therapists are noticing families stop coming around the fifth or sixth session, and I explain why this usually reflects a breakdown in articulation. When parents don't fully understand what's happening in CCPT, they lose confidence, make excuses, or believe they've seen enough progress and can stop. Our job is to communicate clearly, build trust, and ensure parents are genuinely bought into the process.

I also clarify other key practice points: parent consultations should never replace a child's session. Playrooms should be reset for every child with toys visible, accessible, and inviting. Rather than expecting parents to commit to 30–40 sessions upfront, it's better to structure treatment in rounds of five sessions with re-evaluation at each parent consultation. Finally, I address misconceptions about progress timelines and emphasize that strong parent relationships are just as vital as our therapeutic relationships with children.

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Common References: Cochran, N., Nordling, W., & Cochran, J. (2010). Child-Centered Play Therapy (1st ed.). Wiley. VanFleet, R., Sywulak, A. E., & Sniscak, C. C. (2010). Child-centered play therapy. Guilford Press. Landreth, G.L. (2023). Play Therapy: The Art of the Relationship (4th ed.). Routledge. Landreth, G.L., & Bratton, S.C. (2019). Child-Parent Relationship Therapy (CPRT): An Evidence-Based 10-Session Filial Therapy Model (2nd ed.). Routledge. https://doi.org/10.4324/9781315537948 Benedict, Helen. Themes in Play Therapy. Used with permission to Heartland Play Therapy Institute.

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You're listening to the Play Therapy Podcast with Dr. Brenna Hicks,

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your source for centered and focused play therapy coaching.

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Hi,

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I'm Dr. Brenna Hicks,

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The Kid Counselor.

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This is the Play Therapy Podcast where you get

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a master class in child-centered play therapy

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and practical support and application for your

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work with children and their families.

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In today's episode,

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I'm answering a question from Sally and hers is about

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attendance and therefore attrition.

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This is a really important topic.

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I'm actually getting a lot of

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conversations recently about attrition rates

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and parents pulling their kids and not naturally terminating with kids.

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That has been a pretty hot topic

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in recent weeks or so.

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So Sally,

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thank you so much for the question.

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I'm actually really looking forward to discussing this.

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So let me read parts of the question and then we'll

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process together.

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I've noticed that after 5 sessions with the child and then the 6th with parents,

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there's a change in how kids attend sessions.

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They often drop off completely or their attendance becomes spotty and irregular.

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Parents are initially very happy with the progress,

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minimal as it might be,

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and they have some helpful strategies to implement at home.

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I have some families who try to go 3 months in between sessions.

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I ended up discharging families who do not regularly attend,

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and I also have families who abruptly stop CCPT midway.

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Then attempt to start up again

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with no information about why they stopped.

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If a child or family stops coming to therapy and or does not regularly attend,

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I discharge them and will not take the child back onto my case load

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as I feel it is detrimental to the process of building trust and predictability.

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Many of the kids I work with have separation anxiety,

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and I don't feel this is helpful.

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Some of my colleagues feel I'm too strict.

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Am I?

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How do you handle these situations?

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I send out a protocol reminder and what will happen.

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I also go over the attendance expectations thoroughly in the intake.

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I would appreciate your guidance.

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We now have a registered play therapist on staff who has questioned

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whether my approach is CCPT with how I keep the playroom.

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I reset it after every child and she stated that I

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should keep everything in buckets for time management and effectiveness.

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You and Landreth say that the toys should be visible.

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She also stated that she used to be child-centered,

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and there are no schedules for treatment.

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I usually tell parents between 20 to 30 session,

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but depends on the child.

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If the families cannot commit to this,

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I don't take them on.

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She also stated no change happens until around sessions 11 through 15.

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All right.

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first and foremost,

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when you mentioned that you see the child for 5 sessions

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and then you have the 6th with parents,

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I just want to provide some clarity there.

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I don't know that this is how you meant it,

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but this is how I read it,

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so I might have misinterpreted,

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but I want to be real clear,

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we do not sacrifice a child session for a parent consultation.

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So if you see the child for 5 sessions and then the 6th week.

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The child does not get a session because you're meeting with parents.

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That is not the way we handle parent consults.

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Parent consults are a completely separate

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time and day

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from the child's regularly scheduled session.

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And so if Tuesdays at 4 or when you see the child,

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even on the 6th week,

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you will see that child Tuesdays at 4 and then

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you schedule a consult with parents maybe on a Friday

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at a completely different time.

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So I don't know if I misinterpreted that,

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Sally,

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but I just want to make that known for everyone's sake.

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so the fact that you're seeing

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the

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attendance shifts after

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this first parent consult.

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It either becomes spotty and irregular,

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they go 3 months in between,

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they

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not regularly attend.

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that communicates to me

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that

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they're not bought into the process.

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I don't think it has anything to do with

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after 5 sessions,

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all of a sudden this happens.

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After 5 sessions they've finally

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been in it long enough and they've had a meeting with you

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and if they don't understand what's happening,

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if they don't feel that progress is being made,

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if they're not bought into CCPT,

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if they're not trusting you and trusting the process,

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they gave it a shot,

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they went 5 weeks,

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they met with you,

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and if they don't feel satisfied,

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they're going to bail.

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So I think that actually what this comes down to is articulation

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and communication.

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And setting expectations,

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making sure that they really are understanding and bought in

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and all of that comes back to your framework

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and how you structure that initial parent consultation as

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well as your subsequent 5 week parent consultations.

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This is one of the most crucial components of CCPT

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and it has nothing to do with clinical knowledge.

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We cannot continue to do our clinical work

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if parents aren't bought in and they're not

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on board and they don't keep bringing their kids

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and we spend so much time on the clinical as we should.

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I'm not downplaying that we need to have mastery over the model,

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but all of our time and energy and focus goes toward the model and the clinical pieces

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where the bulk of what we're doing in this profession is outside of the playroom

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and consults are a prime example of that.

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So it sounds as though

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they're happy with progress.

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I think that's usually honeymoon phase,

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and they're like,

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OK,

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we finally,

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we finally did something we finally took a step.

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Maybe this is it.

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I,

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I have a little bit of hope here.

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Maybe this is going to solve the problems that we're having.

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It's a honeymoon.

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And then

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things don't really get better.

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5 weeks in,

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we don't really expect them to.

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And then they meet with you

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and they don't feel like they really understand what's going on.

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They don't feel like it's been worth 5 weeks' worth of sessions.

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They don't feel like they're seeing enough change,

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so they're going to make excuses for why they can't come anymore.

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This is very consistent.

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So when you say that you have families who abruptly stop and then start up again,

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also very common.

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Typically it's the,

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the grass is greener on the other side mentality.

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So often they will stop and say,

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Well,

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maybe things will be OK and we don't need therapy and then things are not OK,

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so they revisit or they say,

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you know what,

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I'm gonna go down the road and see about this CBT

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children's therapist,

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thinking that that might be the solution,

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grass is greener on the other side and then they realize,

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well,

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that didn't work either,

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and they come back.

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Very common process if parents do not understand what to expect

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if they're not bought into the process and

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they're not trusting you and trusting CCPT.

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So when you said

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that you discharge them and will not take the child back onto your case load.

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I,

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I don't know that that is

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necessarily the hard and fast rule for every single case.

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There are certainly families

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for whom that makes sense because you know that they're never going to

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buy in,

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they're never going to commit,

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they're never going to be faithful,

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they're never going to take it seriously.

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And that's setting everyone up for failure,

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if you know that's the case,

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but those are very rare outliers.

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Most families that stop and come back,

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they still need and want help,

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they're just not.

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Feeling comfortable enough,

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they're not bought in enough,

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they don't understand enough

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so that falls on us that is our job

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to make sure that we are effectively articulating.

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We talk about this in coaching

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every single day I feel like,

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why?

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Because it's that important.

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We can't do our jobs,

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we can't help kids,

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we can't provide CCPT

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if parents quit bringing their children.

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It's just that simple.

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So the relationship with the parents is just

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as important as the relationship with the kid.

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And we put a lot of emphasis on the relationship with the child,

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we should be putting emphasis on the relationship with parents.

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They're the hinge pin.

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If that falls apart,

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we're doomed.

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And so I think Sally,

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maybe what's going on is you don't have a framework and a template.

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And a script for these consultations,

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I think maybe you don't feel confident in how to articulate some of the concepts.

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I think maybe you're not saying enough,

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maybe you're saying too much,

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maybe you're overexplaining,

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maybe you're under explaining,

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maybe it's too jargonny,

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maybe it's too highbrow,

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and it's

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not landing at all because these people have no concept of

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the clinical components of what's going on.

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So on and so on.

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So,

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if you mention that your colleagues feel that you're too strict in your approach.

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I don't know that look if we have boundaries

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and we have protocol we stick to them because

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we are bought in when we make business decisions.

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So if that's your protocol and that's your standard,

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you should stick to it.

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You may want to reconsider whether or not it needs to be

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those specific boundaries and protocol.

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Because it seems as though

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this probably goes back to communication and articulation

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more than

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the families

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themselves.

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I think these families need and want help.

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I just think they don't feel grounded in what's happening.

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So that may be a reworking of the process.

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As far as the playroom itself,

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I know that was kind of like an additional question that was thrown at the end.

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You absolutely reset the playroom after every child,

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every time a child walks into a session,

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it is

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their playroom

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and it is reset

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to as much of a consistent playroom as you can provide.

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one little figure might be in a different spot and you know,

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the stuffed animals might be rearranged differently,

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but they're still in the same place.

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We try to make it as consistent and predictable as possible.

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You should not keep everything in buckets.

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When kids have to rifle through things,

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dig through things,

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move things,

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it's prohibitive,

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it is interruptive,

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and it is a barrier to their work.

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The toys should be out,

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accessible,

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and inviting.

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Those three adjectives out,

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accessible and inviting.

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They shouldn't have to find them,

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open things,

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drawers,

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containers,

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that that's become the lazy,

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I'm air quoting,

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but that's become the lazy CCPT

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is we're just going to keep everything in a bin with a label on the front of it.

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That gets in the way

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of what the child needs to do.

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you are actually very on target

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to not

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put everything in buckets and make sure that it is reset after every time.

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The average length of time for CCPT right now is 30 to 40 sessions,

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so you quoting 20 to 30 is actually a little bit

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scant.

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It should be 30 to 40

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with the quote ideal number being 37 according to meta-analytic research

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obviously it does depend on the child.

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You said that it is a case by case scenario by scenario basis.

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No child is going to hit that number every single time,

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but 30 to 40 is the average.

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it's actually more helpful to let a parent know they're committing to 5 at a time

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rather than 30 to 40,

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because every 5 sessions with the child,

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you're going to meet with the parent.

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And then you're going to reevaluate whether or not it makes sense for you to do 5 more.

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So when you said if they don't commit to this,

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I can't take them on,

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they don't need to commit to 40 sessions,

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they need to commit to 5 at a time,

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rounds of 5,

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and every round of 5 you meet and you determine

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if you're going to do another round of 5.

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And if your consultation process is tweaked and efficient,

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they will continue to commit to rounds of 5

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until the child is ready to terminate

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and they meet termination criteria.

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And your

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RPT that stated no change happens until around session 11 through 15?

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Sometimes children

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demonstrate change in session one.

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But I agree with the fact that on an average

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somewhere between sessions 11 through 15 is when work phase begins.

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So if she's specifically referencing work phase,

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I agree with that that is typically when kids move to work

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somewhere in that range,

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often kids will make changes far earlier than the 11th session,

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but specifically in work phase is when you're going to see the bulk of progress.

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All right,

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Sally,

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thank you so much for the email.

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I hope that that's helpful for all of you.

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If you want to reach out to me,

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I'd love to hear from you,

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brenna@thekidcounselor.com.

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By the way,

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I have been getting so many emails from y'all lately.

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I mean,

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more so than I ever have gotten

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since I started this podcast.

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You all are sending so many emails.

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I read every single one of them.

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Thank you for those.

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I laugh at them,

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I cry with them,

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I,

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I share them with my team.

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It it is so special to hear what's going on in CCPT all over the world.

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And so thank you so much for the time that you spend

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to reach out and ask your questions and share your stories.

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It really does mean a lot.

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I,

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I read every single one and they really do bring

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so much value to the work that I'm doing.

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So just wanted to say a huge thank you.

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I love y'all.

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We'll talk again soon.

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Bye.

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Thank you for listening to the Play Therapy Podcast with Dr.

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Brenna Hicks.

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