BIG FACTS FRIDAY - CAN YOU BE IN A FAITHFUL RELATIONSHIP IN ATLANTA?

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Speaker 1: Big b and DJ scream bring you big fat this podcast in the streets. Visit the new website today www dot Big Facts pod dot com. As DJ scream, We're coming to your life for first class sounds. Big Bank, Baby Jay, Big Facts Friday is here, another big Big ain't even know extra no more. This is what we're doing. Kodak is here, Louisvia is back again. Stee. Louis Vie really works his way in because he brings good weeds. And we can lock Louisvie and can we lock you in for these Fridays? Man, Yeah, right, shot shot even cash. She's she over there sweat and she got some ship she want to say today. You know what I'm saying. So what we're talking about? What's what's the topic at hand? I just walked in. I missed The topic was can you be in an honest, faithful relationship in Atlanta? Not if you're nick No, you can beat you can you can make that. If you're a black man, you'll need it's a difference. If you'll need to running the streets around all these bitches and ship man, it's over. You might were going to be to be a faithful man. You have to live a faithful lifestyle in Atlanta or at least got all of the all of the bullshit at your system. How you get it out if you're still around the bullshit. It may not have been this year, it may not happen next year. Okay. If I'm in a relationship, right, y'all saying cheating, right, and I'm in a relationship in Atlanta or anywhere else in the world, and I have a problem with my bitch. We've been split up two three weeks and I got this this, but we're not broke up, which is you know how nigga don't be broken? Ain't You may not be sucking nobody at least that's what we feel. Yeah, you know what I'm saying, Like, you know what the fun you know what if you if you with any nigger closer close, y'all sharing these secrets every day? We we all on that level, No agreed. I'm sorry, I got dogs, I got homeboys, y'all. Y'all slanging out, But you don't do that with the person you're assistant. That's not part of it. Like, y'all, that's not a lot of what I'm saying. It's like y'all are almost I don't want to say the same person, but it's like y'all spend so much time together, y'all are so close, and this woman's job is to basically friends. She's not y'all not friends, like you're not friend with her dude, or you're not friend with the girls. You know what I'm saying. I say, but but, but that's that's the eat of all. It's a blurred line back to your question, can't you know? It's it depends on what type of person you are. So when I was when I got here, it was explained to me that what I said, Atlanta is a single guy's playground and a married man's worst nightmare. Facts and what I heard. So, so are you in a relationship? No? Okay, so what you would you? Would you be in a relationship with one of these women from Alma. That's a good question. Um, a woman from Atlanta. I'm saying this inta and that's another that's the woman I'm saying. That's another big key to this ship from Atlanta. If you're from Atlanta, you've been doing this ship since you used to Atlanta. It don't matter what I'm saying. Would be the relationship with a woman that you see that everybody knows in Atlanta. Let's just from that, see y'all, y'all not get what I'm saying. From the home of Atlanta. It's different than being in Atlanta. In Atlanta in the scene. Ye know what I'm saying. What I'm saying, I'm in Atlanta, like I moved here dating somebody that that that's that's already from here, and that's kind of been like in that scene already. Yeah, it's not a bad thing, But I don't know if I don't think I would date the woman from Atlanta. I could date a woman from Atlanta if if I was single, I would be aby to date a woman from Atlanta. That's if I bring around due to you know, to brain around tists. Yeah by this where you been? Why you you've been somebody brus one d brom You get what I'm but you right around, he be like, what are you get up from you? Because niggas know everybody know everybody. Yeah you got grand then you maybe have a chance, but then you best to not keep bringing her around because she's gonna get addicted to that lifestyle and then come turn you out. Turn you out. You gotta turn yours like I don't know, I don't know all your bit but not tested tested, I'm not that's tested. I'm talking you turned, not tested tested a little vie turt brounta nigga brott. Now we know that. Tell you bro we don't party together. Gotta you gotta you, gotta you gotta get out of Atlanta and move out to the suburbs and decide to have a different life. But if it's in Atlanta, in the in the condo, the party city, really so if you gotta in the conduct, I stay. I stayed. MLK was get what you say? I would say if you're in Atlanta, in the condo, in the heart of the city, here in the hookah lounge that you're looking for us, it's too easy to slip, slip up and get baby girl. I can understand you go out with your friends here and there and you know what I'm saying. You can explain the night. But if you're out there when I'm out there at the club work looking for something there, I'm out there I'm looking for saying. There you feel meal screen tall, wait walking and scrape my turn exactly for my that with a ball, take it forward the two shots straight I'm trying to have. That's a different I got you. You can have a good time without trying to suck on that thing until you get home. Man, you're trying to funk on something that But you have to understand that this is gonna really crazy. I hate to keep picking on this. You really like the science, the science of sex and fucking is different in Atlanta than California. Is two different places. How is it different? Because y'all like how we used to certain ship like California, like the science of sex and all that free sex. Ship is different out west. It's the sexuality and all that ship. It's just different out west. You know that ship y'all more sexual. Se I don't give a funk about no sex by the time you came to Atlanta, like sex there was sexual ten years old already true ship you earlier on the West Coast. I say, I stand on. It's just different. So so you mean to tell me, said, when you're out and about, this is what I'll be trying to tell the female female be trying to like they can just be so committed and when you're out and about, you don't see a nigga. Not you're gonna do it, don't You're gonna say anything to him and ship. You don't see a guy that you would mine pursuing. No, that's not normally, that's not how it goes. Like if I'm going if I got a nigger, if I'm in a relationship, right, we're not talking about you. You went blind when relation you went black? No, I'm not saying that. But if you okay, if you go question when you were in the relationship, you like, you don't look at people and think like, oh, I'm a like. Girls don't look at niggas and be like I'm a fun look at nig and be like, you know what, Like he could think, right, I know that nigga, Like we got to look and guy have on grace sweats. Every girl's gonna look there exactly. That's not But if you're faithful, let me answer this first. Look at hold on, Can I answer this question? Okay? So, if I'm in a relationship and I'm going out and I'm going with my friends, I'm going to get lit, but trust and believe in that process. I'm texting my dude to come home and what I'm gonna do that. I'm talking about what cheat. I'm saying if if, if, if you out with your girls and he'd be like your girl, be like he checking you out? You're looking at him like, oh fine, Yeah, say so you see a guy that you will fun? That's not saying that was because I say he's fine? You would? You would? That's fine? Yes, he could be most lame. That's like, ye'll not getting what I'm saying. I'm not saying that you're actually I'm saying hyper Do you see your type every day of your life? That you that's that you would that you would have? Fine? Or in person? Yeah, that you would if you were single and or I thought they was cool, if they possibly possible? Yesso possibly always means yes. So what are you so? What are you saying? You know, if the time is right, anybody gonna go. Everybody everybody going to the time. When we were talking on the situation circumstances, we were talking to Sting in the relationship. We were talking about being in a relationship. He said, could could in Atlanta? Faithful to faithful relationships said no, not if you're in the have you dated a guy in Atlanta? Was it a faithful relationship on your behalf or his? I believe on both of our behalf. It we didn't work out. Why not listen? It just didn't work out. Why didn't work out? It had nothing to do with nobody else can fidelity issues or anything like that. I mean, we just didn't want to be together. No, mom, why aren't want to be together? The sex was bad? Nah? My sex is always popping? Or do you know if a person was lying or you do know it just didn't work out, I'll be lying. Yeah, she's like she don't want to get up my daughter father listen to this ship and I have still you know, get respect. I didn't know that was the last year. That's why I said, have you dated in Atlanta? You said, yeah, I didn't know that he was in Atlanta. We just didn't work out. But I'm not gonna get on here and be like you do anything you want to do if you put your mind. That's what some people get blessed. Yeah, scream, you're a good guy, your queen, y'all have up. Some people get blessed. And you're gonna pull me away from that and you don't move around like that, And when I do even when they do what I do, Like she say, I'm on the phone, but you never do though. When you're moving around, you're working, you're not being so you're not so to screamed nigga, nigga. I look up, we're looking at the show scream ship show so fat. Like you could have stood up with me that that's not your vibe, said, if that was your vibe, do you think you obeby to be faithful? It depends on the person. It depends on the person we're talking about. You know me, sure, I'm all wired on when I made my mind up on some ship, That's how I'm wired. When I don't make my mind up on some ship, I'm stubborn. You know what I'm saying, Like, this is what it is, this is what it is. I'm off the bullshit. I'm on this. That's that's where I but it. But it took you to go through some things to get to that be tested all right, But before this, before this, everybody got passed life. That's what I said. I didn't say. When you're saying you said, I said earlier and you be faithful and that's it. And then when you was like the condom thing. I was like, or if your screen you get the bullshit out the way, getting the bullshit out the way, I like, everybody get big bullshit out sewing your whatever. I would suggested, get out the way for sure. Now when they come down to it, I know people in the city, right they out there, they're on the scene. But for them, it's like their business. They play, they be out there. It's women that will go to the It's rare. Now I'm not saying that the majority, but they'll play that game. It's strippers that fucking go with dope boys. And you know what I'm saying that they're working the move, they run the money up and they're happy together because they don't stripper don't really be going like that trure. Indeed, it would be the regular like we said before, right exactly, they'd be tired of this ship. You know what I'm saying. I think it's just what you could you day the strip. We know the relationship with a strip, of the sad relationship Virsion married. Either ship fucked up. I'm screaming you because it's me. It's more of a mental thing, bro. But what if it's just a thing like you know what. I get my bag my way. You get your bag your way. Me half if you are, but I couldn't. I got it out. I keep it real Like I think it's different between the active one and one who's stripped retired boys nobody in the cup and see right? Oh yeah, yo? What about what about like a bartender or bottle girl. It's the same scene. It's the same scene, but you want the bartender end because you pound to get your money. You want the bartend in the goal room. That's a different ship to be a girl A thousand like all night, hard night. You ain't got you know that? Yeah, night, like damn the whole time. Put my phone ringing. Nigga's texts me. You're gonna be at work tomorrow. Yep, you come to see Why are you nigga? Yeah, that's a hustle, That's what I'm saying. Please, that's us. But but but if she but if she solid and she'd be that nigga, what you doing that? Nigga? I mean, I mean that when when I was barten the nice to Happiness at the time, when I was with my daughter Dad, he'll be right there at the end of the bar. Sometimes It's like I want to say that I who bartend in the strip club. Some niggas just don't. Some people say that's a fine line. That too, but and then you need to know that why does the nigga have your number to text you? Like that's a fine line, like and to be okay, what's the Difference's my nigga? I mean, it's not my niggas. But I know niggas that are not going for that. What's it feels are not going? But nobody's that's her client. I wasn't getting him. They want they want to go see her when she went out there, passed over the business card. You're running me the money, and both replied, that's about yourself. You're sitting there planning dates and ship like hanging out. It's like schedule, you're gonna come, sive me my tips and a sucker my golf g What you think he wants? Do he want something? Yeah? I think he likes me. Maybe I don't know. You know that place man if if I beat your ass, like for real, that that ain't nobody that ain't like, No, that ain't. What I'm saying is that's her client. Yes, that's why somebody being speaking, I'm speaking from the perspective of a real nick understanding about me being a photographer. That's club. That's different. You're not in the club saying around, No I can meet she's saying. When she's saying, when she was a bartender, she would give out her number two clients because you need to come drink it. I was hired, not for that. She came from a name speaking bitch, you got me fucked up. What if she was a real estate agent, what if she was what if she was a massage Therapist's not here what she was like? I respect that, I feel you. I agree, but that's kind of sucked up. Realtor and bartender the same thing. We can't ignore the new ones. You can put a massage therapist with bartender or you can remember either honest, honest, touch your time already, Why already be thinking a massage therapist some dick. No, they don't. You can't say that. That was Kodak said. Yeah, Kodak said that clear majority of them have anything. I look at making this ship up. No, that's not true. If I see a girl on Instagram and she's that's like saying that, that's like saying every bartender want to get drunk. Absolutely fucking never let me doing all this. Okay, that's the flute, not you let exactly if I'm if I'm fair for that ship no her beside deside by women, that's just what's about you have seen them dudes, cheese, We're not doing that. That would about the side. The stereotype could be all bartenders like to get drunk and all massage. That's why you got hold on. Let me let me say that though you said it, if you post marriage, walk to the club and get a barton the number, do you feel like your client or do you feel like ship attention? But on the other side, you're trying to potentially funk so so so why would I want everybody? Say? Everybody some people that want to potentially why would you cause listen, why the wrong listen and my tripping listen. Listen. The pim put in the pimp and the pimp set stood out and she go like she loved everybody, but bring the money back to dad. But you yeah, y'all, So y'all got secret. Y'all got your money that he gave you your insut y'all, that's y'all. Friendship and in a relationship. What is she taking it home? Whatever she is, she taking it home to daddy. Daddy different. That's what I'm saying. You're gonna have our number. You're not just gonna have your number. I mean the phone ain't sitting there like a sneak ship. Like if somebody Texas that's one of my clients. Don't hell you because many clients I got, tell you any classes I got, we both go be having our phones on the table. I just feel like if the premise of ship, that's either side. But for DJ, that's like the girl not not you know, Bohm, I got you. That's like girls hanging you up. You're gonna be at the Beverly Are you gonna be at the Beverly Saturday Show? You want to? You want to want to hear his djo You look on his page, just heard me post. You don't text me. They don't text me about nothing. He text me you want to do something? Anybody put the fire, But then you text You're gonna be there. Small talk leads. The small talk lead too. Hopefully one day somebody don't want the end of that phone. If it's not trying today to nigga would be nice enough until the patient shot. I mean, that's fine way out for that box. He's probably still not gonna get it. But I got to hill. What I'm saying is you gave me his number, so that guess what's so he's saying, there's a choe. They're saying. What they're saying is it's a it's a thing that the man that's with you knows that. The niggas that want to fuck you act text. That's what they're saying. Now, I gotta walk home thin night so you won't get upset and got them y'all, don't damn core friendship. Yeah, and then and when you when you your dude go out and run the one of the they're gonna be extra friendly. And then you get you get that house, you go to work. This nigga shows takes each other. Yeah, maybe you had an argument, but your your client takes me shot show up okay. Yeah, also severity, also security ship. I told you that's how some people get their money together. But I know that's how some people get their money. Again, I made a whole lot. I ran a whole lot of money. What you're doing when you leave here that'd be shot when you're getting the two shots. Nah, but I'm gonna do when I get home because he didn't got me drunk. Don't you manage call shop? I mean, that's what I'm saying is how does how does it go when the shoe on the other feet though when she was going on the other feet that you don't dude get into it? You know your dude get into it. But these niggas still text you that he knows want to fuck you, but he tip you. He tips you. So how your clients? I mean, at the end of the day, if I if I'm dating somebody and they have an issue with it right now, I ain't gonna lie. I'm gonna just be like, that's how I get my money, exactly exactly. I'm not even gonna sit so when it comes to so if he if you can, if he feels like you can be flirty for ten dollar, if he'd be like, hey, I got I mean not ten dollars, I meant for tips. Bad. If he be like, what ship I got? The nigga? I want to feed my car. I want you to flirt with him so you can fix it. Well, I mean, I ain't gonna liebody, I get ship cheap. HU, don't be friend back the phone now, don't. I might like my mind, my brand. You can take the offensive because you are showing him that you would do that. I wouldn't be offended if if he wanted to go first. You know you hold what I'm saying. You say no, self up with this? Shot my bad? Like he said, you say yourself up with this? If you're showing me that you're a flirt for a certain amount, if if I gonna find them the right bags. You weren't give me my pussy, and you told me you did. But I know you. But if you're gonna do that for the money, and we don't care that we we we we we ah we cally sexual. You don't care about sex, so cally ship. We're about to get put out. I got all did You've been being friendly. You've been got here being out too. You've been being friendly that sho ain't knowne. You've been going behind the bargain friendly. You need to gonna do something else too. It ain't just oh me, So I gotta give up my foot because I'm saying, hey, I'm not I'm not promoting that I'm not promoting pimping. I'm not promoting that. What I'm saying. What I'm saying is when you put yourself in a position that you know how to trick guys, let's trick them tricker. No, let's go all the way. Let's trick them trick. That's the money we're gonna get paid, get paid. I don't need anything, we're gonna we're gonna staying level. Right, want to be a boss on work? You got it on the hood. Yeah, I'm just saying, now that's real. The woman be telling drugs minimum, go sell some drugs, get some money if you're gonna do it, That's what I'm saying. You get what I'm saying, though, I get what you're saying, But that's it is. Forget it. But I'm just that's the why when you got it. That's like being like, why is you even why you even like dumb a dance online? How are you dumbing? Are you dancing on it? At the that's there's a bartender that shows a bartender, you call him a dude, that your client that you don't want to fuck, You don't know he want to Let's stop. Let's shot the nave ship. Now for all women in that particular case, especially if they know you got a nigger, they want to fun. Oh some bartender ship because you can go get drinks. So I get it. Drinks can be great whatever the fun. You can get drinks. Though from fucking how many niggers don't care how drinks tasting the club shot. I probably they're just trying to get drunk at the end of the day. Job at that point is to make a whole bunch of wait before I leave that job that night. And we said, we're not we're not saying. We're not saying what we're not saying. After we're saying why you're not at work, you're saying sitting here, this is why, this is why we have in the world tripping talking about here being faithful in Atlanta. This is a the's a real conversation. I'm just saying, we were going through this ship right now. You find text and you hang with a lot of people that came from a straight up do you find it difficul difficult to seeing other people that you know to be faithful in relationships? Extremely extremely what you say, extremely difficult to be faithful in it because have you seen it. You've seen millions of it and wants to be niggas want to be right. That can't help that ship like something else. Bro, Yeah, that can't help it. What do you do that can't help a sickness? Man? I got a buddy of mine. I ain't calling on names and no ship like that, but I got a buddy of mine. Like on God, this nigga, it's like he has to have sex at least like two or three times a day, like like he can't something else. He like he probably like he's been like that like forever. He just he can't help it, like and it ain't like okay, no, he's like borderline for the start smoking dick or no ship like that like from the turn gay or nothing. But it's just like he's just he's just like a horn dog. Like he's just extremely horny like and he can't help himself, like he sees something like he wants to funk, like I gotta funk and he'll go fuck like you know what I'm saying, like a little penis now his dick ain't little. I mean I'm not saying I mean, I'm not saying that. You know, I don't know listen, no, let me take that back. Let me take that back. No, I don't, but I've heard I've heard like stories like it's not it's not not a small dick or no ship like that. But what I'm saying, what I'm saying is like it's it's just it's like I don't know, it's something. I don't know if it's something in the water. But it's like these niggas, it's too many options, too many options, and nigga's niggas tried hard. I've seen niggas try hard, but they just can't do it. They just can't do it. Now, we can't do it by ourselves. So what does that say? Okay, because we need help, can't We can't be out here like that on our own way. The women aren't working, That's what I'm getting at. So the same thing I'm looking for she may be looking for. I'm just vocal. Women. They just sneaky like a woman, a woman of sitting here in the room with us right there, that's her. Nigga's not here, no nothing, and say that she would never do certain things that she is doing right now because they are never gonna give it up. A nigga, be like, I need help. Woman stick gonna stick to that. That's what makes it worse. Yeah, that's what makes it. They don't even tell you got someone, don't even be somebody't like you got some women that don't even tell their best friend and their mama, They nobody. They'll just keep it. It's my own pleasure. Don't even tell nobody because they want to. They want to keep, they want to keep the wool. But listen, I was always taught you get more if you don't talk, you get less if you talk about your ship. But you know, I put it on that like most women don't talk because they know they could do what they want to do. They really they got the power they got them say that you're a piece of ship. When they get you get caught up in something and I never was. But you can do about myself. You're right, how women think like you, she said, Just like you know, like I'm getting putting you down as a woman, Like if you don't know that ship don't count. I can sit here like one of my best friends. We could go back and forth on the phone and she could be telling me how her naked cheating and blah, blah blah, and she mad, and I like what you're doing it too. She's like, well that don't count. He don't know, and he goes back to yea ship like her ship don't count facts. Go bro, that's how that she goes ship, she said, kept a rear, right, Uh, that's how she goes be the sneaks whole ever in life till I take you through everything. Yeah, take you huh. Yeah, that's what I'm saying, taking you through everything. But the nigga, like it's just like a female like dogs, like my grandma used to always say, like she sucked me up like that boy said here and said dog, my grandma helped me and suck me up in the same way. For this side, she said. You right down the street and see dogs stuck on each other, But you don't never see cats. But their hair more kidding than dog. You don't know. You're gonna never see no cats. You don't see a nigga. You see a dog. Got the dogs the nigga. They're hopping on each other, like look at the dog sucking. You don't never see cat. They so well upon the house upon the rug. You get what I'm saying. You ain't go bady to catch that ship. But energy, energy is everything. Could get what now? You you're digging at me so much, but you got Nigga texting you. You the bar tender, not you. You know what I'm saying, but you just faith for bar tender. But it's all action right here. But I'm so much of a piece of ship and you steal this nice No you're just good, because no you're not. It's not even it's not even that you're good, it's you're distracted. What you mean like you're saying, you're saying like how you just saying like how you be going back and forth with your girl and she's the bar only the bartender and she's still nice to you after you being so so much of a pizza ship. It's not that she's good at cheating or good at what she does. She's distracted, so she doesn't really give a funk about what you're doing. That's why she's still necessarily you get what I'm saying, just not what I'm saying. Now. What I'm saying is she's over here doing what she's doing so much till she's you want me ask you the question I said if I'm so much of a piece of ship to you, but you have all opportunities to do what you wanna do. You're gonna tell me you're not taking none of your opportunities. You get what I'm saying you. You're telling me how much of a piece of it? But one day you could tell me I'm much to a piece of I'm I am every day on a daily we can't get alone. But you are supposed to understand that you have bar tender friends, somebody that's telling you your hair look nice and whatever they're telling you. How can you think you could be You think the nick is supposed to understand? Then? Yeah, how I mean he just supposed He's supposed to trust me, trust that this ain't gonna leave past this bar. We're not gonna listen. Once I hurt you, I can't trust you. Know, I'm just telling you, like, just trust me. Once I cheat on you, I can't trust you. Once you cheat on me. You can't trust me how because you're gonna be judging me the way that you think. No, I'm not gonna be judging ship. It depends no to be how you take it. If you take it as the nice Christian woman that's upset and we're not gonna speak on it anymore, and noo do we can move past it. But if you let me know that this ship affects you on a day lit you want your link back? If you can't, if you can't get it off your heart, you want your back, dude, what'd you say? Do it better? What you say, be sneakier. It's like, right now we get into it and I punt you in. Run if you call me in and be like, all right, bank ain't tripping that ship. But then if I see you you got them, be like, brother, that's time you put it. You really want to go on my ship? Get you? Eventually you're gonna get your link back many Yeah, but the problem is you because you ain't know huh for you? You you saying you can't take the lick, so you don't, I can take the link. So okay, if you cheat, you rather hurt Just hurt you up and get it out the way. Cheat on you. Yeah, let me know. We either keep dragging me like you like saying you can't deal with a woman cheating, and well, let's get to that point. You're still doing the same. Let's not waste time. Let's don't get it. If a woman cheating on the man, nine time's gonna at tend he either. All right, but you're still playing the game though, Who is still a game? No, not necessarily, that's not a game of you if you got a hold nick in your mouth when I just don't know, no game. Some women a dude can cheat on them, and that we don't even be sitting here like all right, I'm about to cheat on I'm saying if she did cheat on him, actually talking, I'm saying, if she actually talked, actually cheat actually whatever she does, why she just don't say, well I did this too, instead of continue to let me be ain't sad the bullshit? You still she cheated together, you sleep with the person and you so let me ask you a question. If I go cheat, I physically go sleep with a woman, right like I physically cheat, and then you texting and Nigga, you texting talking, laughing, joke it off. That's not cheating. You should we should have fuld you do it around me. It's the same thing, and Nigga did. It's not the fun. I'm gonna know what you did. It's technically you wouldn't funk with if they was doing it. You went with that ship. That's just like, that's just like you want to change thee I fucked. I wouldn't got me some puss. But you're saying you went on a date, and I WoT to believe the cheat looking on dates though it's the same ship. Oh it's not. You already cheated. You already cheated. Like it's cheating. You already cheated. If you win the nigga and you win the day, that's not your nigga. You already broke cold. You already broke cold, so you might as well cheat all the We're not if you don't two weeks you wanted if you wanted to, that's that's a big fat it's fact because is not just not the same saying if you're gonna do it, didn't go all the way do? I ain't going out going out and turn it down. Put right, you're gonna do it, just go ahead again that you're like you're running the bat with a mass of get on, get up, but don't get the money, leave but don't get get get up the same ship the same consequence. Yeah, it's real. So the more the morrow this story is, but I hain't even Yeah. Then we then wed when to send a bit of text like that puts with hid But I ain't say your dead. Damn, that's a big fact. He just get me some head. You think that you try that, like, shouldn't do that, but that same thing you should have, right, don't have. I gonna make miss either painful. I likely asked somebody this question the other day. Would you rather your girl fuck somebody or suck somebody? Did neither? I mean she was cheering, no matter what. The sucking way worse, thank you. I thought sucking its both bad. Walk the house. She just got fitted. You're gonna kis your girl? That's not want dick. Women ain't just sucking you. Gotta like you, no matter why. They gotta like so she she's invested in that. Did you can say you checked them off? You're checking off. Just be a child as you played both of us. You know what I'm saying, like whatever you did, what another nigga? That's what you did, your sticky ass. I rather I rather you do the whole thing. I'm not going to ask you what was you got. I don't want to know no detail because you did. We can't more than women. Don't matter what you tell me. It is a lot scared, get it too it because you you can't take her back? Can you take care? I don't expect you. You have a choice because I said I want you back, don't mean you have to take me back. You have a choice, and I have to accept it. But when she took you back like fifteen times and then right, women take blah blah blah. But women, once we cheat, I'll be trying to throw us. And they take you back as they take you back, as if I got a card to play. Now, I'm gonna make now take you back whole hardly so you could be a better person. That's no, they take you back to play that card because when my turn, not even that like just to play the innocent card. Now, you gotta be in a somewhat of a state of yeah, you know, you gotta be somewhere in the state of a slave. Yeah you got you got it. You got a men some things. Now that's gotta work on your middle because you gotta do certain that you would normally do because you already to hurt this person and trying not to get them to hurt you or whatever else you might well just say funk this ship. Yeah, I guess you got a point if you if you came to me and say ship, bro, I funk to what we're gonna do? All right, baby, this is the end of us. We have released over, we have released both of us instead of us keep sitting around miserable. You know you already and did ship to either, But I got to be I'm gonna run around to be the south sucker. No, why both came? You cheat? A she cheating? We can't just be like we could still be cool, but she cheats. What the fund is the pointy? I'm being together relationship, don't be with other people. And it was just that one time, the end of the thing. Unless you gotta just complete hope, it's different. But if you got a if you got a wife, that's that's a sensible woman. Whatever. Once you do that beat you step dot on this, my dick don't even matter to me. You know what I'm saying. We don't scrap it up whatever, But it don't matter to me when you get that puts up to it. Nigga, you gave yourself to him that I just got caught up like because sometimes as a woman, you can just have sex like you could just like, yeah, I have sex when you're not in a relationship. You can't. You can't just have when you're in a relationship. Well, I don't know, I can't nobody else. I can speak for myself, like I can't. I can't do that. I can't do that. I can't do that if I'm in a relationship with somebody and we're supposed to be locked in regardless of what's going on on this and whether I choose to deal with it or not, I'm not gonna funk nobody else because you made the conscious decision. Like I said earlier, that's your decision. That's who you are. Like, I can't, I can't even it's nat I won't even yeah, like I won't even you know what I'm saying. I won't even. I won't even like it turned on like by somebody else, Like it's not my mind. Yeah, Like if they're all loyal men and women, they are, they're just not on the scene of mixed swimming the mixed, not the comments. You're mixing. If you got one day, if you ain't working, you're looking for something, you find the best thing. The best thing you could do is find somebody out the mix. I went out with a date and I put like I put her, but I put a little moji over her face. Nigga still knew who she was. But the thing about it is if you if you probably they probably recognized her throat in the mix. You really you really can't data girl outside of the mix until you get out the mix. Yeah you got you might just stay around you on that note right there, you woman, that she in the mix. That's if you want to meet you bring her now? Yeah, yeah, exactly. Yeah, that's it. That's it. You gotta clean that. That's it. Get your get your hands out the nixt. There you go, hey man. That's the episode of Big Facts on the Friday. Check us out Triple w dot, Big facts pot dot com, follow us Big Facts, Luta, Shorts, Lutho, Big Facts Pot All social media. So you're listening to get Big Facts with Big Bank and DJ Scream. Follow Big Facts on social media at Big Facts Pot five, Big Bang and DJ Scream. Bring you Big Bat, hey man, inside way up that merch y. Yeah that's right. 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