Live From The Improv with RHOC's Tamra Judge & Vicki Gunvalson

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Speaker 1: Hi, my loves.

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Speaker 2: Today is usually the day that we go to the studio to record an on an episode of the Give Them Lama podcast. We had an amazing show planned, but there's an atmospheric river happening in Los Angeles and it is just not safe to be driving.

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Speaker 3: So instead we're releasing the live show that I did at the Irvine Improv back in October with the dos Amgas, the og of the OC, Vicky Gumbelson, and Tamra Judge. We had the best night ever. I'm super excited that you guys will be able to listen, and next week, myself, Jessica, and Easton will be back on the mics talking about all things Real Housewives and Banner Pump rules. Thank you guys for understanding. I love you and I will catch you next week. Hello, my love. Fair warning, everyone up here could see my camel toe, But I'm okay with that. Chloe Kardashian taught me that it's all good. I'm a grown ass woman. How is everybody? I see Darryl is in the house. We've all retained. I see we've got the new Daryl Merch right here. I love that for you, and I love that for me because I have legal bills to pay Zoo. We've all just got to retain a lawyer. At some point. It's like fuck, but it's all good. I'm really excited about tonight's show because I figured I'm turning five on Sunday. Thank you so much, and I'll go My program teaches me one day at a time. I'm feeling pretty solid. I know we'll make it to Sunday. So this is kind of like my birthday celebration that I invited you guys to pay for to come celebrate with me. It is not lost on me that you all work extremely hard. It's rough out there, and I want to tell you thank you for spending your money and coming to be with me and support me. You guys are fucking awesome and I appreciate that you could be.

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Speaker 4: Have you watched.

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Speaker 3: People are always shocked by that. By the way, when I'm like nice to them, they're like, you're so nice. I'm like, what did you? I mean, did you fuck my boyfriends? I mean you seem cool, so I'm gonna be cool five years. This is like kind of a big fucking deal, right of sobriety, I want all of you, if you drink to get totally fucked up. All right, I want you to have the best time ever. But before you do that, if you haven't already started, I want everyone to know who's taking them home safely. I don't need anything happening. Do I have any other people who are just like choosing not to drink or maybe sober in the house. I love it, all right, Well, we're gonna support our drunk friends tonight, and we're gonna still have just as much fun, except we're gonna wake up without a hangover. So we're winning a fucking game. I oftentimes google myself, but not the way you would think, just to remember why I got sober. I Number one, am obviously in a program. Two. I obsess over my rock bottom moment a lot, which also takes me back to a place where I'm like, Okay, we've got this. I know why we're sober. Do we have a baby?

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Speaker 4: Look at a buff?

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Speaker 3: Can I touch? I'm sorry I have baby fever. Hello, hi, baby girl. I love that I'm so hungry for a baby. Anyway, back to me being a drunk and not being a drunk anymore. There's this one picture that pops up that is so mortifying, and it's me on a red carpet with a tupac onesieon, or you know, like thong looking swimsuit, shoved up my ass as far as it can go. Because in my mind, drunk Walla was like you kind of look like Beyonce, bitch, because that's what alcohol does to you, right, you like think you look away that you don't. And I was performing at this cup called Rehab Ironic with DJ James Kennedy. Have we heard of He's great, he's thriving, And I remember they wanted to do a champagne shower. All right, you pop the top, you like shake it a little bit, and I was like great at handies back in the day, but like I still couldn't get a motion. So instead of like I look at James if he's spraying the crowd, they're all going buck wild, and I just immediately just like dump it on my head like this, like a fucking string bean, dumping champagne on my head. I'm also super high, right, so I immediately get paranoise, running to the kitchen of this like club and I try to climb into a refrigerator as my mother like charged after me. Now I do do we have any la people in the house? Okay, no one wills. I'm sad it all the right, trust me. I wanted to be there for so long and now I'm there and I'm like, get me the fuck out of here. Anyway, I blame this club called Davy Wayne's. Have you heard of it? You enter Hi Bradley, my hair stylist. He did not do this. I did this hot mess, this rat's nest. Hi baby, you enter a refrigerator door to get to the club. Right, So that wasn't all alcohol. That was like, LA fucking me up because they're like, how can we make this super cool? Like maybe enter a vending machine and like maybe you buy a kit cat and unless you buy the kid cat, you can't get in. And I'm like, ooh, it was so dope. So that wasn't all alcohol. That was Davey Wayne's problem. But when I see that picture, it is so mortifying that I'm like, bitch, you better stay sober for your whole life. By the way, can you guys hear me very well?

00:06:57
Speaker 4: Is that better?

00:06:58
Speaker 3: I've got this? Britney Yours Mike gone tonight in honor of her memoir.

00:07:05
Speaker 4: Out of all Britney out of all.

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Speaker 3: I love me a bad bitch. That's like, this man sucks. You're being outed. This man sucks, you're being outed out them all. We need a cleansing. Okay. Some people are like, I don't know about that. So I've done some shady shit in my day and I don't really want to be outed. We all have. So I'm so hyped for tonight. I have a lot in store for you. But I want to bring out my left and my right arm, my little brother Easton, Bernie Haw and Jessica Walta. Oh how hot does Jessica look? And how cute is my little brother with his Bravo holict being Hey everyone, thank you. That's a funny story. Now that she chose to get married, that is laughable. I'm just kidding. I'm like marriage. So I want this to be very relaxed, chill, we're all homies. We're gonna treat it like a live podcast, right. The first thing I want to know from my little brother, because last night was his very first live show, t T thank you, thank you, not well nervous a ship, I think, tell us how you felt last night?

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Speaker 5: Oh I speak, I can't even speak right now, I'm fucking nervous. My heart is racing, and right now feels a lot like Night one.

00:08:48
Speaker 3: But it was fun.

00:08:49
Speaker 5: You pete about a hundred times, pacing and peeing and kept down a couple of bars, splash.

00:08:55
Speaker 3: Them front row. But no, we're gonna have fun.

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Speaker 4: Can I tell you something about you two? Though?

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Speaker 6: With Laala and Easton, I mean, does he look nervous like when No, not at all. They're They're sitting back there like they're like, shit, I'm so nervous and they're just chilling. And if I were nervous, I would be throwing up, sweating, crying. But you guys look so chill.

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Speaker 3: I'm never chill doing a live show. The only time I'm chill is when I filmed Vander Pumperboles, which is very weird. Right, I'm like, let's fucking go, bitch. And then they're like, you're doing a live show where you get to be kind and yourself and I'm like, oh my god, I feel so exposed. Right, Okay, so thank you, Jess. We do cover our nerves well. Speaking of your engagement, Okay, this was very weird last night. Okay, you guys, I overhear Jessica. She's talking to someone and Kyle her, well, I call it a fiance. She does not, apparently, because she introduces Kyle to this person and she goes, this is my try husband, and I was like, what the fuck is that?

00:10:03
Speaker 4: Hear me out?

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Speaker 6: Hear me out a trial? First off, isn't every husband a trial husband? Night until they make it?

00:10:12
Speaker 7: Until you unsubscribed dark.

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Speaker 6: But die together subscribe, every husband's a trial husband. So we it feels this is stupid. But the second we got engaged, like thirty seconds later, Kyle was like, but we don't have to call each other fiance, right, And I was like, thank god, because that feels so.

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Speaker 3: What's the word.

00:10:31
Speaker 4: What's the word.

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Speaker 3: It's like French. The word French sounds so frenchy.

00:10:35
Speaker 4: And he came up with that ladies and gentlemen.

00:10:38
Speaker 3: He came up with.

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Speaker 4: I was like, what do we call each other?

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Speaker 6: And he's like, I don't know, Like you're my I guess you're gonna be my trial wife. And then and I was like, yeah, so trial wife, trial husband.

00:10:47
Speaker 3: Pick it up. It sounds so much better. So he was the one who came up.

00:10:51
Speaker 6: With it, Kyle, make We're gonna make that happen.

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Speaker 3: Do we have a lot of married people here tonight, so it's not marriage is not dead. Not only did I learn that marriage is not dead, but we have one straight man in the house. I'm so I love this? Who else is straight? I love this?

00:11:18
Speaker 4: Hell?

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Speaker 5: Yeah?

00:11:19
Speaker 3: Did you come against your will? Were you dragged here?

00:11:25
Speaker 4: Oh?

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Speaker 3: It's his favorite show? Can I tell you? Lalla's comfort zone is the girls and the gays? All right, that's that's where I say, right, buddy.

00:11:38
Speaker 6: I asked Lala last night because people are curious are you dating? And if you're not? Is there if you're against men?

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Speaker 3: Right now?

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Speaker 4: Fine?

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Speaker 6: Is there one man you would be like, one hundred percent, I'm dating you, I'm having your baby, marrying you. No rules though, it can be someone who's married, because in this world they're not married, you know.

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Speaker 3: Oh I love this world. Yeah. I think you're just gonna stir some shit up. Yeah during the pod. Now, I'm not gonna stir anything up. I think it would be either Odell Beckham hot or Michael B. Jordanhi done. I will be like paintball shooting babies out of my tot for you. You knows your brother? You Okay? So naturally. At the beginning of the podcast, segment one, we call it Easton and I drag our mom. It's the best. My mom was here last night. She's not here tonight because she's picking up my adorable honey boo boo baby. Yes, and hopefully she will arrive in time for you guys to see my child. Yes, that's a hoe. Let's all keep our fingers crossed. She's a fucking star. So there. We always have family drama. In fact, we were and it's so lame. Like today we were driving and I was thinking, as I was driving my family around, do we ever just like talk to each other? Is it a constant like argument about something so fucking stupid? And finally I was like, enough enough, I cannot talk about this anymore. Okay, I'm like the mother of my mother now she can't even order by herself anymore. She looks at me when the waitress comes. I'm like, Hi, you know, what do you want? I'm ordering for her, my child, my other child, which is why I turn into a baby with Jessica. I'm like, can you drive me? Can you make me soup? Can you book a flight?

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Speaker 6: Suddenly I know the airport's my favorite. I'm like, honey, follow me, I'm checking us in. I've got all the bags, and she's just like shuffling through. But Kyle, I'm you. I'm shuffling through.

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Speaker 3: You Guys should see me when we travel with vander Pump rules where I'm like expected to print my own boarding pass and do the whole I'm like, can a producer help me here? They're like, you're joking, right, I'm like, I'm not joking. You wouldn't allow me to bring Jessica. So now I'm completely worthless to all of you. So this is the case of the missing wallet. Now, let me tell you something about my mother. Anything she touches falls into the fucking abyss.

00:14:20
Speaker 4: It just happens.

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Speaker 3: I don't know if it's like an age thing, but I'm like, when did you become someone? Okay, we're all out at each other. This person's outing her mom. Okay, so it's a mom thing, and she's like, Jessie away and tell your elder, and Oceane gives you something and I'm like, oh god, please do not send karma. I've like dealt with enough, right. So we're searching for this fucking wallet and I don't lose anything, all right, especially my AMX. All Right, we need that. The wallet's missing for like four days, and I remember being completely disoriented. I gave it to my mom, then my mom gave it to Jess, just handed off to me, then she handed off to Easton. So we are on the hunt for this wallet, and my mother is velociraptoring around the fucking house like this because for some reason, my mom doesn't swing her arms. Have you seen the Seinfeld Do you guys watch seinfelds? Okay, a little bit of context. Elaine, best person on Seinfeld, tells her coworker, you need to swing your arms. She gets offended. She walks into Elaine's office and she's like, and it's the girl from Superstar. They like puts her hands under her arm and goes and sniffs them, and she's like, am I swinging my arms enough? She's like knocking all the shit off the Elaine's desk. But my mom, she says, my body hurts, and so I attempted to walk like she walks, and I'm like, my body kind of hurts too, like walk in like a fucking came out of comcreek and can't move.

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Speaker 5: And that's how she chooses to walk this way too. That's the fucking thing.

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Speaker 3: The best is when she's holding my daughter on one arm and the other arm. It was like this through them all, I'm like, you look constipated, and I'm a fucking famous person. Look hot, Chris Jenner, your ass off, bitch, Damn. Okay, So this is a very quick story. So anyway, Easton tells me he gave me my fucking wallet. Easton, would you like to tell them what you told me in the elevator which made you suspect number fucking one? Yeah, in the wallet. I see how I became suspect number one.

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Speaker 5: I can see how. But I know people out here are gonna they'll agree with me. Is anybody a human fucking backpack for their family or somebody? So like, get you have your shit, and then they just start giving you more shit, and then you don't know what is your shit. I just remember fucking getting out of the car. I've had a day with this one already, so I just get out fucking everything that I had, and I just remember giving her her shit whatever that was at that point, I don't know, but I said, I gave you your keys, and she was like Nope, didn't have those. And I thought, well, I don't know what the fuck you had. And then I was like, maybe I didn't fucking losey.

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Speaker 3: I know, because he's lost his shit before and Lisa's lost her shit before. And I'm like, okay, one of you two motherfuckers has hijacked my amex. I'm looking at my I'm looking at the bill right now because y'all are hustling me. Can I tell you where I found the wallet? In a doggie shit bag? There was no shit in it, thank god, but my mom had put it in the doggie shit bag for what fucking reason, okay, and was ready to take it to the trash. Okay. So this is what I deal with on a regular basisis So any of you little fuckers who are like we're always team Lisa, I resent that, okay, because everyone has a mom who they love and a door, but it's so easy to shit on them all the time, right how you know you really.

00:18:04
Speaker 7: Really love them?

00:18:05
Speaker 5: Oh and when she thought I was first suspect, she loved to just kind of poke it and smile like this isn't my problem, And then whose problem was it?

00:18:12
Speaker 3: In the shit bag? Lisa's It's always Lisa's cross every time.

00:18:17
Speaker 4: Can I say for Easton though?

00:18:18
Speaker 3: Really quick?

00:18:19
Speaker 6: Just being around it? And I've said this on the podcast before You hold the family together, men, holds the family together?

00:18:26
Speaker 3: You do all the things? Hey freaking man? Amen?

00:18:29
Speaker 7: Yes, thank you?

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Speaker 3: All right? Has anyone seen this really fucking random photo that Bustany Frankel posted? This picture, you, guys has mini leafs, Larsa Pippen, who I love. I'm like confused, I'm like, what doesn't belong in this photo? Larsa Pippen, the girl who plays Amber in Clueless, Joan Rivers's daughter, and then cow slash Rachel And she said a dinner just because thanks for a beautiful night, ladies. I'm still cleaning up all this spilty What in the name of random fucking shit is going on here? All right? I had to talk about it because it is just that weird.

00:19:27
Speaker 6: Would you want to be a fly on the wall to see what was discussed?

00:19:32
Speaker 3: Though? Well? No, And I used to love her. I'm like, girl, why'd you go so rogue? She read fucking rogue? I'm like, come back to the light, Bethany, the rony light, Come on, please.

00:19:49
Speaker 4: Girl, all right, I have some guests for you.

00:19:58
Speaker 3: I'm very very They're two of my most favorite people on reality TV. They have been for a very long time. I have for you the O G of the O C and Tamra ju.

00:20:23
Speaker 7: I'm done.

00:20:26
Speaker 3: Both the dose amigas. I do have the Dose Amigas. They're going. I told you the best surprise ever? Right, did I fucking deliver? I knew it first of all. The two of you walk into the green room and I'm like, are you fucking kidding me? Neil, You guys are fucking hot as shit? How does how does that work? You can't be hotter than me. It's my show. I'm gonna steal my thunder. You're hot now, it's gonna steal your thunder. Trust me, me and my fucking loafers. Tamra over here. I mean, it's beyond I'm so fucking excited to have you guys.

00:21:13
Speaker 7: I love you.

00:21:14
Speaker 3: I love it. Okay, you guys just finished Wild Tamra, You're a fucking potsterer.

00:21:25
Speaker 4: I mean, somebody had to save that fucking show.

00:21:28
Speaker 7: It was dying.

00:21:34
Speaker 4: Thank you.

00:21:37
Speaker 3: I fully agree with you. I gave it a chance after the two of you were not on it anymore, and it was beyond torture.

00:21:46
Speaker 8: Yeah, yeah, it was hard to watch. It was yeah, difficult, very difficult.

00:21:51
Speaker 3: It turned in for me to like background noises. I was like cleaning the house or something, or letting my mom clean the house and me pretending to help. What were the perks of not being on the show anymore? For me?

00:22:05
Speaker 7: Yes, it's down the show very much this year.

00:22:07
Speaker 8: So for me, I had a normal life, Like I went to work, I have a really great boyfriend. I get to go see my daughter whenever I want. I don't have a big schedule. I get to do what I want to do when I want.

00:22:17
Speaker 7: To do it.

00:22:17
Speaker 8: So for that was really important for me at this time of my life. Okay, he's telling me where to be.

00:22:22
Speaker 9: That is nice, and I'm going to tell you there's no fucking perks not being on the show.

00:22:26
Speaker 4: So I'm gonna be honest, No, there is.

00:22:30
Speaker 7: There is.

00:22:31
Speaker 4: I cried for a year.

00:22:33
Speaker 7: We'll, we both did.

00:22:34
Speaker 9: And I was like, really, you kept her over me, Like really, this one has a job and I don't.

00:22:40
Speaker 4: But I got I was a little upset because.

00:22:42
Speaker 9: I was I had been doing it for twelve years and all of a sudden, it's like it's hard to transition into regular alive. And then after that, I was like, Okay, life is fun, like you get.

00:22:53
Speaker 4: Used to it.

00:22:54
Speaker 3: How long were you not on the show? Was it two seasons? Two years? For me? Okay, I'm gonna play a fun game with you guys in a minute because I can't. I just I just want to be a little petty for a moment. You said that, like this bitch is still on the show over me. Is there someone you have in mind? Or just everybody pick a bitch.

00:23:20
Speaker 8: Noel is not on this Noel's not on me.

00:23:24
Speaker 7: She was a one season wonder.

00:23:25
Speaker 4: I mean, we all have our special bitch to pick.

00:23:28
Speaker 3: But I mean it was weird to me to not see the og of the OC. Do you still claim? I mean you're getting the Wifetime Achievement Award at Bravo co.

00:23:42
Speaker 8: It's it's still hard because I just did a podcast with somebody and never get who. But I did say I'm not I'm not coming back on unless they want all of me, because it's too hard for me to come in and not knowing what everybody's fighting about.

00:23:56
Speaker 7: Like when I went to Cancun, I didn't know what was going on. I really didn't.

00:23:59
Speaker 8: I'm like, why is everybody mad at everybody? We're in this beautiful place. Let's just have fun. But it really struck me and I cried and I went outside because I was to the producers, I don't know what's going on.

00:24:09
Speaker 7: You can't bring me in part time. Are either all of me or none of me?

00:24:13
Speaker 4: So okay, yeah, I think it really comes down to you.

00:24:18
Speaker 9: You gotta know your worth as no, you have to know your worth and if you come in as a side bitch, you're.

00:24:24
Speaker 4: Always going to be a side bitch.

00:24:26
Speaker 8: And I'm not bringing a side bitch for me. I'm going in all or nothing.

00:24:30
Speaker 3: Okay. So when you did have that moment of crying saying this is toxic with the women and it can be a very toxic environment. Like we've all watched the show, it is definitely not easy. It's you have to be a certain type of person to be on reality TV, basically unbreakable, and you have to compartmentalize reality from reality because they don't show it's not Cameras twenty four to seven. We're not the Kardashians here, and it's still a produced show. When you said that it wasn't like this may not be for me anymore. It's got to be all or nothing.

00:25:01
Speaker 8: Oh, I really believe it's for me. I mean, I created a branch house a little bit, but I do believe it's for me. I do believe I still have good TV in me, but I don't want to just dip a toe in it. It was too hard for me this year because I got insecure and then I got jealous and I got this is what I mean.

00:25:20
Speaker 4: The bottom line is you weren't getting paid enough to cause any shit.

00:25:24
Speaker 8: No, I don't know, no, but I'm going to go on all the way all just the way you did or not at all.

00:25:29
Speaker 7: It's just not important to me.

00:25:31
Speaker 8: I don't need to be any more famous. I want to create a reality show.

00:25:35
Speaker 3: I lived for the scene. And if you guys listen to the podcast, you know what I'm talking about. When you guys played the game or whatever in Mexico and you say to Jen you shouldn't be with your guy and they're like, are you talking about Ryan? And she goes, who's Ryan? Well, I.

00:25:54
Speaker 7: Have ever met him. I just heard bad shit about him.

00:25:57
Speaker 4: And that's why make he's good TV.

00:26:00
Speaker 7: Like who were we talking about? Oh, that's right.

00:26:02
Speaker 8: His name was Ryan, So I thought we were talking about her something like, what are we talking about?

00:26:06
Speaker 3: Who the phone?

00:26:07
Speaker 7: Were we talking anyway?

00:26:09
Speaker 3: That's right. I thought that you would be in the reunion.

00:26:14
Speaker 7: I know the phone didn't ring.

00:26:15
Speaker 4: I didn't too, the phone didn't ring.

00:26:17
Speaker 9: I felt like that was a big mistake not to have her at the reunion, because she was.

00:26:21
Speaker 4: She was there a lot.

00:26:22
Speaker 7: Didn't you love that? I texted Andy.

00:26:24
Speaker 8: I didn't know he was going to show it, but I texted the picture of him.

00:26:28
Speaker 7: And me all around.

00:26:29
Speaker 4: That wasn't the only text you sent him at the reunion? Wait?

00:26:33
Speaker 3: Can you tell us other times?

00:26:34
Speaker 4: I know he kept calling. He kept reading them at the couch.

00:26:36
Speaker 7: I said, have a lot of texts? Yeah, I was wait what else? Pick tell her that I can go back and get my phone and tell you a mile?

00:26:42
Speaker 3: But were they rage text like tequila Katie texts? No?

00:26:48
Speaker 7: It was more like, I think, what's going on? Do you miss me so much? Why am I not there? Am I not there? Do you have a chair eupd with my you know my picture in there?

00:26:58
Speaker 3: Like?

00:26:59
Speaker 7: What's going on?

00:27:00
Speaker 3: I thoroughly when you appeared in Mexico. I got wet, I paid my pants.

00:27:10
Speaker 7: She literally I literally didn't tell them I was coming.

00:27:14
Speaker 9: We had no idea that Vicky was coming to Mexico. And Andy text me and he's like, were you said? But you weren't surprised, right, And I go, no, this is the first secret Vicky's ever kept. And so she literally showed up and she's knocking on the door. We thought it was production, somebody from production. So I'm like, looked over it like somebody. I'm like, can you just go with the door.

00:27:32
Speaker 3: Can you get the door?

00:27:33
Speaker 7: They're like, no, you have to get it.

00:27:35
Speaker 4: And then it was this.

00:27:36
Speaker 7: Bitch, this bitch.

00:27:38
Speaker 3: We love this bitch.

00:27:39
Speaker 7: It was fun, it was good. Damn.

00:27:41
Speaker 3: Why do you think you stirred the pod so much? Was it like this show's boring and I'm here to function up or did you have some legitim pies?

00:27:48
Speaker 4: Yes? Yes, because I knew my assignment.

00:27:51
Speaker 9: I knew my assignment, and I came back and I fulfilled my assignment. I'm sorry I had to fill my assignment.

00:27:57
Speaker 3: I know what you mean.

00:27:58
Speaker 9: I just felt like the show was getting stale, it was boring, nobody was watching. The ratings were down, and I'm sorry, but if somebody on your cast got a dick pic from somebody else's boyfriend, would.

00:28:10
Speaker 7: You not show it?

00:28:14
Speaker 3: Wait, the flaccid dick pic, like the slug dick. It was.

00:28:17
Speaker 4: Yes, I actually didn't show it, he says. Friday Good sued, but yeah, it was.

00:28:22
Speaker 9: The dick pic was sent to my girlfriend Heather when we were at dinner.

00:28:29
Speaker 3: Oh. I can't think of anything worse than seeing like a limp dick at dinner.

00:28:35
Speaker 7: But Heather had been with no limp.

00:28:38
Speaker 4: No.

00:28:39
Speaker 9: I thought with him no, that that dick pic was not meant for my friend Heather. It was meant from another girl, Heather.

00:28:46
Speaker 3: Oh my god. Okay, I stand by the when when Jen calls him, and she calls Ryan and is like, I need to know, and I need it to come from your mouth. I don't want the other women telling me. His tone of voice, I could tell he wanted to get off the phone and immediately call every bitch that he's fucked behind her back.

00:29:08
Speaker 10: To silence them immediately. Yep, A are they still together? I believe they're still together. Yeah, do you talk to her? I was very kind to her at the reunion. I was very open and honest with her. I said, listen, I want to move on with you.

00:29:25
Speaker 9: I mean, if you guys saw the reunion, you saw and then afterwards I talked to her. You could watch that part on Peacock. I talked to her after the reunion. I said, listen, let's go out to dinner. Let's move forward. I hope that he's treating you better. I just hate that he cheated on you. And she said okay, And then she never showed up. And then I tried to set up a glam for her for the reunion and I never heard back from her. And then her and Ryan both have been blasting me. The second I went to Scotland to film Traders, they blasted me on social media.

00:29:55
Speaker 4: So I just I don't have nothing to say about it.

00:30:00
Speaker 3: I really think they need to be back. I don't think they added much, right. I'm sure there's a lot of like calm, cool and collectedness, which I don't dig.

00:30:09
Speaker 9: Yeah, I mean, she's not going to get anything out of me next season, that's for sure.

00:30:12
Speaker 3: Well, I just don't think she fits in the group. Do we agree or am I up in the night?

00:30:22
Speaker 4: Oh?

00:30:26
Speaker 3: What?

00:30:27
Speaker 7: Life keeps going forward?

00:30:28
Speaker 8: As we all know, when you're on reality TV, whether you're still on it or not. But the good news is, I've got a daughter in Oklahoma now, four kids, and I have to babysit on Friday for nine.

00:30:40
Speaker 7: Days while they go to Hawaii. I'm going to have five sheep, four kids, eighteen chickens, and me.

00:30:47
Speaker 4: So I don't know what and Apartra had.

00:30:52
Speaker 7: So you know, the cool part about it is that would be cool fucking TV.

00:30:55
Speaker 8: Just fill me my reality with my daughter and you know it's like they're missy so much of life.

00:31:01
Speaker 3: Now I would one hundred percent watch VICKI go to Oklahoma. The baby said, four kids on a farm.

00:31:10
Speaker 7: I'm twenty dollars scared.

00:31:11
Speaker 8: I'm gonna lose somebody I met woke up with the mill last night, like, Okay, do you.

00:31:14
Speaker 7: Have all five sheep? Do we have all eighteen chickens? Do we have all two dogs? We have all four kids?

00:31:19
Speaker 4: She's like a simple life.

00:31:21
Speaker 7: This is how I feed the babies.

00:31:22
Speaker 8: You turn this on, you teet them hair, and then the four the other two kids, they have to have the lunch made at six and we're like, oh my god, Like somebody just sos like help me, Like but I'm.

00:31:32
Speaker 7: Gonna do this.

00:31:32
Speaker 4: You do some live videos as you're doing it for nine days.

00:31:35
Speaker 7: I'm gonna do this. I'm gonna do this so it'll be good.

00:31:39
Speaker 3: That does deserve a round of a park. I could never he's gonna do that, all right. I want to ask you guys some petty questions in a game. The meanest house I've you've ever met? He's the meanest one.

00:31:54
Speaker 8: Derinda, Derinda is me me me, Dereinda?

00:32:00
Speaker 7: Absolutely did she did?

00:32:02
Speaker 6: She just say birds nicest house life I've ever met? You guys, besides these two Derinda.

00:32:09
Speaker 8: Derenda really, Oh my god. We went to her house and she did not make us feel welcome. We were starving the whole time. In fact, Jill ordered bag over in we were ordering pizza's out door dash like. We did not feel welcome at her home. Yeah, I'm shocked.

00:32:28
Speaker 3: Did you like her? Tim? Did you like Derinda? I love Derinda?

00:32:32
Speaker 7: Did you stay at her house for nine days in the Berkshire? It was awful? It was a It was awful.

00:32:38
Speaker 3: Okay.

00:32:39
Speaker 4: We were also filming a show.

00:32:40
Speaker 9: We're feeling a show, and Dernda does all the things to make the show interesting.

00:32:45
Speaker 4: So I think that that all long to do with it.

00:32:48
Speaker 7: She's an asshole. She so, I did not feel welcome.

00:32:55
Speaker 8: If you all come to my home, I'm gonna make you all feel welcome.

00:32:58
Speaker 7: Hey, all of you. Okay, I did not feel welcome. Nobody felt welcome.

00:33:03
Speaker 9: I don't think that I've ever had a housewife.

00:33:06
Speaker 4: Be mean to me.

00:33:08
Speaker 3: I don't mean I.

00:33:09
Speaker 4: Think that I think they're afraid of me.

00:33:11
Speaker 7: No, Derinda was mean to us. We shared a room. She was mean to us.

00:33:15
Speaker 8: She got mad at us that we had food in the room, and the butler brought the food in the room, and we did not want the food in our room.

00:33:23
Speaker 7: We thought it was like a hotel, she yelled at us. She was mean to us.

00:33:27
Speaker 3: That would be hard for me too, because I love I'm a filthy, fucking animal, and my most favorite thing to do is like lay down a towel and just get all the food in the world in the bedroom. I'm I have a boyfriend. Fuck it, No, it was she's mean.

00:33:43
Speaker 7: Okay, who do you think you.

00:33:44
Speaker 3: Don't have one?

00:33:45
Speaker 4: I don't really have one. Nobody's been like mean to me.

00:33:48
Speaker 3: They don't want to be on your bad side.

00:33:50
Speaker 9: No, okay, I mean there's fired housewives that have been mean to me.

00:33:57
Speaker 4: Who. Yeah, I mean, Kelly Dowd doesn't do many.

00:34:00
Speaker 3: Favors, that's for sure.

00:34:04
Speaker 9: Yeah, I mean that that's the only one that's been really mean to me. But I don't even give her a time of day. But she's mean to everybody here, right.

00:34:13
Speaker 3: She told me I look like Gollam? What yeah, do it? But then she did like a side by side of me and Gollum and I was like, I kinda do look like Gollum in that picture. I hadn't had my ears pinned back yet, and it was like definitely giving Gallum vibes.

00:34:32
Speaker 4: And that's mean.

00:34:34
Speaker 3: It's so mean, But I think I'm the hottest bitch that ever stepped foot on the planet.

00:34:41
Speaker 4: Well, because you kind of are.

00:34:44
Speaker 3: I'm thank you, Thank you guys. I want to know what housewife doesn't deserve the title of housewife, Like from any franchise, someone that you watch.

00:34:57
Speaker 4: Where do we start? What do you guys think?

00:35:03
Speaker 3: Megan King? Oh, Mary Cosbie, Marry Cosberry.

00:35:11
Speaker 4: Are they they're in Salt.

00:35:13
Speaker 9: Lake She's on Salt Lake City. Mary doesn't even really.

00:35:17
Speaker 4: Know she's on TV. I don't think.

00:35:24
Speaker 9: Oh okay, Well, I didn't like in fact that she fat shamed Heather Gay.

00:35:29
Speaker 4: That was not cool at all.

00:35:31
Speaker 3: No, No, I'm like, she is the worst. And every time I scroll, which I don't love doing but sometimes I do because I'm human, and people in the comments section are like, she's so dope, she doesn't give a fuck about anything, I'm like, I don't want to watch her anymore. I can't watch her eat fucking McDonald's in a van, all right, And can I tell you I don't know about your guys' show. If I told production I don't want to go into this, take me to get McDonald's, they'd be like, get your fucking ass out.

00:36:03
Speaker 4: Of the car, right right. For sure, I love her.

00:36:09
Speaker 9: Sorry, she she is somebody that's pushing storyline if we didn't have cy on the show.

00:36:16
Speaker 4: Yeah, she's an asshole times, but she's giving you something to watch.

00:36:21
Speaker 3: She is stirring the ship.

00:36:23
Speaker 4: So I feel like she she is a girl that's doing her chop.

00:36:28
Speaker 3: Yes, I don't like her either, I love so for every time.

00:36:31
Speaker 9: I mean, Rolling Stone has Jessla on the cover right now, I believe like Jessel's killing it.

00:36:36
Speaker 4: She's killing it.

00:36:38
Speaker 6: Easton had a hot take on Jessel. I don't know whoever listened to today's episode.

00:36:43
Speaker 7: It doesn't like I don't know.

00:36:47
Speaker 3: Yeah, I don't like the vibe that she got off.

00:36:49
Speaker 5: Like I liked her in the first couple of episodes, but then once she had like that party with that I want to say, g Q or a whole bunch of people showed up, she started just acting like that bitch and she just doesn't I don't know.

00:36:59
Speaker 4: I don't appree she and her husband.

00:37:01
Speaker 7: I don't like it.

00:37:02
Speaker 4: I don't like that.

00:37:03
Speaker 9: I don't like you any guy that's calling another housewife bipolar, but no, she's actually a fucking bitch.

00:37:09
Speaker 4: I don't I don't like that.

00:37:12
Speaker 7: The boys need to stay away from the girls. Let us do our job.

00:37:15
Speaker 3: I just have a problem anytime, Like even with Jersey, I'm like, all right, husbands, Oh my god, is that my daughter? Hi?

00:37:30
Speaker 7: Baby?

00:37:31
Speaker 4: Oh Hi goose, Hi baby?

00:37:38
Speaker 3: Hi sweet Angel? Is she she's Can we take one second, you guys. I'm sorry to do that. Baby. Oh my goodness, baby, I just want to see hi.

00:38:05
Speaker 9: Hi.

00:38:07
Speaker 3: Do you want to say Hi?

00:38:12
Speaker 4: I love you?

00:38:14
Speaker 3: You love me? I love you too. Okay, I'm gonna finish doing this and then I'm gonna complay with you. Okay?

00:38:19
Speaker 6: Is that the famous Donna.

00:38:20
Speaker 3: La you want to go on stage? That is Donna on stage? You want to wave to everybody? That is so sweet? All right, go with Gigi and then I'll be I'll be right to you. Okay. All right? Do you guys care if I keep her up here?

00:38:38
Speaker 7: Okay?

00:38:41
Speaker 3: All right, I have I'm sorry you bring my child in here and I'm like, where am I? What's happening?

00:38:46
Speaker 8: All right?

00:38:46
Speaker 3: Back to what we're doing. I want to know the cringiest moment that both of you had have had on the show. Oh my god, we have, Oh god, we have the cringiest We're like, you cannot.

00:38:57
Speaker 4: Watch my bath my bathtubs.

00:39:03
Speaker 3: In a way, you kind of made it. I like everyone tries to recreate it now, like what's her name? Meredith and her husband? Oh yeah, yeah, yeah, yeah yeah.

00:39:16
Speaker 9: A few people have done it. It just didn't play out like I thought it was gonna play out.

00:39:23
Speaker 4: It was just a little cringing.

00:39:24
Speaker 3: The thing is you're both really fucking hot.

00:39:27
Speaker 9: Ah, thank you, And I'm sure the judge thought it was hot too.

00:39:31
Speaker 4: And my ex husband brought it into my custody.

00:39:34
Speaker 3: Battle that is so fucked up? What is yours?

00:39:39
Speaker 11: Vic?

00:39:39
Speaker 8: I think it was when we were in Iceland and I Kelly gave me two drugs and upert a downer and my blood pressure went out.

00:39:46
Speaker 4: Of It'd be an adderall on his annex.

00:39:49
Speaker 8: I was in an ambulance for an hour and a half and playing it that you.

00:39:53
Speaker 4: Are Michael Jackson's son. We're playing head.

00:39:56
Speaker 8: We're back at the resort, drinking, eating, having bun And that was that.

00:40:01
Speaker 7: So that was kind of cringey to watch bless Her Heart?

00:40:03
Speaker 3: Isn't it crazy that all of the the moments that you think are cringey are actually iconic. I know, like still to this day, I cannot watch me calling Raquel Slash Rachel a bamb eyed bitch.

00:40:17
Speaker 4: I'm like.

00:40:20
Speaker 3: Mortified by it. Don't even lie. When it first happened, and you all loved Raquel, you were like, this girl is a bitch, right, Okay, best season you've ever had?

00:40:39
Speaker 7: Wow, we had some good ones, tam, Well.

00:40:42
Speaker 4: It wasn't this season, you know.

00:40:47
Speaker 9: Yeah, I think that isn't And I think it was the season that any proposed to me and boor more that was a really good season.

00:40:54
Speaker 3: Yeah, I have to cover the TV when I see the cut though, you know I'm talking about how you cut the tattoo off your finger.

00:41:01
Speaker 4: Oh yes, yes, holy shit.

00:41:03
Speaker 3: I'm like, oh no, no, no, no, no, no, no no.

00:41:05
Speaker 4: I'm a nice scar there.

00:41:07
Speaker 9: I don't have my wedding ring on today because I lost my goddamn diamond.

00:41:12
Speaker 4: The bitch just fell out after I did the dishes.

00:41:16
Speaker 3: What is it with housewives losing their diamonds right now? I don't and why can't I find them?

00:41:21
Speaker 4: So it's at the jeweler.

00:41:24
Speaker 3: What's the best for you? Vic?

00:41:25
Speaker 8: For me, it's when my kids were younger at home and we just having family.

00:41:29
Speaker 7: That was the best times for me.

00:41:31
Speaker 3: Yeah. I like when you rolled up to your son's place and did that was fun ball in college.

00:41:37
Speaker 8: That was fun and that's real TV. There was no manufacturing a fight with them. It was just good TV. It was just continue because that's what people want to see. I don't think we want to be fighting with everybody.

00:41:49
Speaker 7: She disagrees with me.

00:41:51
Speaker 8: I want if I with the bitch, she's in love and happiness and laughter and inspirational.

00:41:56
Speaker 7: I just am at a different place in my life now.

00:41:58
Speaker 9: I don't want it's the wrong work for that bag. No, it's gonna have to go to Lifetime. What's what's the other one?

00:42:03
Speaker 7: Okay? Whatever Lifetime movies.

00:42:05
Speaker 4: Not everybody likes the Hallmark, not everymark.

00:42:09
Speaker 7: Not everybody likes the fighting. Let's just take a pall so anyway we can fight later we will.

00:42:16
Speaker 8: But I just I think after you get removed from it, you realize what's important. And for me, what's important is just peace and love and my family and my friends and just it's easy.

00:42:29
Speaker 3: And giving you your full time contract.

00:42:31
Speaker 4: Men, you get that full time contract, you're gonna have to bring.

00:42:35
Speaker 7: It, you know what.

00:42:36
Speaker 8: I'll bring it. Not in your level, but I'll bring it. I don't have to take my shirt off to bring it.

00:42:43
Speaker 3: Lah.

00:42:44
Speaker 6: Do you have a favorite season of vander Pump of yours?

00:42:47
Speaker 3: I feel like last year was my best season. Last year everything just aligned perfectly.

00:42:55
Speaker 7: And your strength and your power as a woman, that's important.

00:42:58
Speaker 3: Yeah, I feel like I really came into my own. This coming season is gonna obviously look very different. I think you guys will enjoy the hell out of it, but it looks different. But I think season ten was like you fucking did the damn thing. Bitch.

00:43:12
Speaker 12: You know.

00:43:14
Speaker 4: You guys.

00:43:15
Speaker 3: I want to open it up so you guys can ask questions and whatnot. Easton and Jessica are gonna have the mics. All right, Who's first?

00:43:24
Speaker 4: Okay? Laila, I fuck you love you? I fucking love you. Okay, but this is a mean question.

00:43:32
Speaker 3: Fuck Mary kill? Oh my gosh, who are my choices?

00:43:36
Speaker 4: Tom?

00:43:37
Speaker 3: Tom and James? Oh, Tom, Tom and James. Okay, I will kill sand of all. I like this. Schwartz is kind of like in his own world and goes away. I'm not. I don't like clingy, so I'll probably marry him. And then I've messed around with James, and Haley is good pipe, so I guess I'll find it. Don't tell us, girl friends, all right, Who's next?

00:44:10
Speaker 4: Hi?

00:44:10
Speaker 3: Gorge, Hi, I love you so much.

00:44:14
Speaker 13: It's a random question. And it's like, so okay, you know, because all my friends are like laughing. Now, Okay, you did an interview, Okay, you talked about all about what you do with your skin and your beauty line, and you were like, and then I use baby oil but in jel but.

00:44:33
Speaker 3: You oh yeah, yeah, yeah, how do you use it?

00:44:36
Speaker 7: Because then I was like, oh shit, that's a good idea.

00:44:39
Speaker 3: In the shower. In the shower, the baby, just you rub it all over. Baby, you rub it all over, You rub it all over. That's how you use it. All right, Okay, got it? Thank you, They're welcome. That was the most random and I love you for that.

00:45:01
Speaker 6: We have a question back here for Tamra and then one for Lala.

00:45:05
Speaker 3: Okay, Hi, Pamra. My name is Tianna and I'm from Glendora and I know you are Glendora.

00:45:13
Speaker 9: Yeah, oh my god, that's where I was raised.

00:45:17
Speaker 3: Okay, my question for you is how is your relationship like with your daughter right now?

00:45:25
Speaker 4: It's great.

00:45:26
Speaker 9: My relationship with my kids are amazing. They have been for years. That was kind of a narrative that my ex husband was trying to put out there. He was trying to brainwash all the kids into hating me, and it kind of backfired in his face.

00:45:42
Speaker 6: So yeah, thanks Samra.

00:45:46
Speaker 4: We have a Lala questions.

00:45:47
Speaker 3: I love that. Can I tell you That's why I trust in the universe. I'm like, the universe will reveal what is really. I don't have to do shit.

00:45:54
Speaker 9: Any man that's trying to take kids away from their mother for no reason is disgusting, or any woman that's trying to take their kids away from their dad is disgusting too.

00:46:09
Speaker 12: Hey, Lala, it's Popa and I just want to say I'm so attracted to your personality. And also, do you think you'll listen to Tom Sandeville's new podcast?

00:46:24
Speaker 7: Wait?

00:46:24
Speaker 4: He has a podcast?

00:46:26
Speaker 3: He does? He told me he was coming out with a podcast. It's called Everybody Loves Tom.

00:46:34
Speaker 4: Wait, he could come up with a better name than Everybody Loves Tom.

00:46:37
Speaker 3: You want to know what I would have done, I would have done it. Everybody hates Tom like everybody hates Chris. You know what I'm talking about? It.

00:46:44
Speaker 4: I mean that's a little more fitting.

00:46:46
Speaker 3: Yeah, yeah, I see fit, But no I don't. I only listen to a handful of podcasts. I don't know that I would listen to that one. But you guys are gonna boom me. But you better fucking not. We we have to give it. Like I have the tiniest bit of respect for this one thing. The entire world fucking hates you, and you still get on stage and screech like a dying cat and don't give a fuck. I'm like, you know what, I can't be mad at this, like no one is taking you down, and I don't know. I'm not a doctor. You could be a narcissist and that's why. But again, I'm not a doctor and I'm not bitter. But I'm like, all right, I'm not gonna I'm not gonna shame you for that, Like you know, you have bills to pay. Still, who's next? Right here? Laala? I?

00:47:36
Speaker 6: Would you ever fucked Chef from Southern.

00:47:39
Speaker 3: Absolutely fucking.

00:47:43
Speaker 4: Orhason from below deck captain?

00:47:49
Speaker 3: No? None of them a boat? No, none of them? Give me drip on?

00:47:54
Speaker 4: Not Chef. What about Craig Craig no Arana.

00:48:00
Speaker 3: No, no, no, I need some swag, you know, because now I'm not drunk, like I see it for what it is. There's so many people I never would have slept with had I beenced over. Oh my god, I allowed you to fuck me?

00:48:17
Speaker 4: Are you joking?

00:48:19
Speaker 3: Anyway?

00:48:20
Speaker 4: We've got one right here? All right?

00:48:22
Speaker 11: So I'm new to Orange County. I just been watch uh vander Pump and Oca House. I I'm only on season eleven. I literally just met Kelly. So I'm I just yeah, I'm new. Uh, Lola, I just have to say you're fucking amazing.

00:48:39
Speaker 4: You're the best ever.

00:48:42
Speaker 11: And we love James Kennedy obviously he's also the best.

00:48:46
Speaker 4: Vicki, I love you.

00:48:47
Speaker 11: You are just you go with your heart, you say what is meant to be, and no matter what goes behind you, you're always there to be loyal.

00:48:56
Speaker 4: You're amazing, Tima. I'm you.

00:49:00
Speaker 11: Best friend's here with me and we're Vicki and Tamra and we will. We're our writer guys, no matter what. Like you guys are us and I inspire to be you guys.

00:49:08
Speaker 4: So cheers to you.

00:49:10
Speaker 9: I love Hi, La.

00:49:17
Speaker 4: La, Hi George.

00:49:20
Speaker 14: Uh, first Easton, In another life, we would have the cutest curly haired babies.

00:49:29
Speaker 3: Oh my god, I have to background check you first.

00:49:34
Speaker 14: Oh I would pass. My question was actually about Tamra. But now I can just ask Tamara this question. I'm over here, Tamara high.

00:49:44
Speaker 3: Right here, right under the clock.

00:49:48
Speaker 14: Uh, Tamara, do you think you bring Brandy Glanville energy to the o C?

00:49:54
Speaker 3: Not even close?

00:49:58
Speaker 9: Okay, First of all, I love, I do love Brandy, and I think Brandy is amazing TV. When it comes to reality, I really do. I think that we're we are a little different. We're a little different than and I mean, if I bring Brandy, I bring Brandy.

00:50:18
Speaker 4: I don't know. I'm the truth teller.

00:50:20
Speaker 9: If somebody is full of shit, I'm going to bring it out, I'm going to bring it out.

00:50:25
Speaker 3: I don't think you're a Brandy of oc at all.

00:50:29
Speaker 8: I just filmed another show with Brandy at Morocco. It's gonna come out in January. And I love Brandy.

00:50:34
Speaker 7: I mean, Brandy is very misunderstood.

00:50:37
Speaker 4: I think people don't know. Brandy has a really big heart, very she's very sensitive.

00:50:41
Speaker 7: She's very misunderstood. But she's good TV.

00:50:43
Speaker 8: So you have to see The Morocco Trip Ultimate Girl's Trip five. We were four, but they moved just to five. And it'll come out and not because of legacy. I think it was legacy and just a lot them.

00:50:54
Speaker 7: It's after a legacy, Okay, so anyway, it'll be a good show. We were in Morocco. I might have wrote the camel.

00:51:02
Speaker 3: Vicky on a camel.

00:51:03
Speaker 7: I can't wait?

00:51:07
Speaker 3: All right, Oh where are you, Josh?

00:51:10
Speaker 4: Right here?

00:51:11
Speaker 3: Right here?

00:51:11
Speaker 4: Okay, we've got one right here.

00:51:13
Speaker 3: Awesome.

00:51:14
Speaker 15: Hi Tamra VICKI, you guys are amazing. You were my first reality stars that I just fell in love with I love you guys. While you are amazing, I'm just wondering, all three of you, how do you embody such bad ass bitches?

00:51:36
Speaker 8: For me, it's been knocked down, dragged through the ship, and then how to stand back up again. So it's just a hard naps of life. And you know what, I'm a survivor. I'm going to be a survivor. I've had people shit on me, lie to me, steal from me, cheat on me. I've had it all, so I will survive. Like that song says, I love that, I think I'm a badass bit Yeah, but I just don't fight just to fight. I fight because I need to defend myself, you know.

00:52:05
Speaker 3: Yeah.

00:52:06
Speaker 8: And I don't like family bands, but my daughters. I said, did you get a family van?

00:52:10
Speaker 7: She goes, Mom, I.

00:52:11
Speaker 8: Got a big ass excursion. It's raised up and I'm big tires.

00:52:14
Speaker 7: I'm like, okay, cool.

00:52:15
Speaker 3: So yeah, why are you a badass? Patch of VICKI?

00:52:20
Speaker 4: Why am I a bad ass bitch?

00:52:22
Speaker 3: Yeah? Tell me?

00:52:24
Speaker 4: I mean I'm just born a badass bitch. I'm not sure.

00:52:26
Speaker 9: Now I feel like I've worked my ass off my entire life. I've gone through a bad marriage. I've gone through so much and you just that's just how.

00:52:35
Speaker 4: You come out. You come out like a badass bitch.

00:52:38
Speaker 3: I think I feel like you've got a roll around in the mud to become a badass bitch.

00:52:42
Speaker 7: Right, it's not handed to us.

00:52:45
Speaker 8: We've worked really hard for the life we have and the life we've created for our families, and so I think when you're handed everything, you don't have appreciation for the life that you're able to live.

00:52:54
Speaker 7: So for me, it's it's the hard work.

00:52:57
Speaker 9: You know, I'm both thinking we never had anything added to us ever. We didn't marry rich, we didn't you know, we're not gold diggers, like, we're none of that. We just worked our ass off. From the time I was fifteen years old, I was three months pregnant. In my senior year of high school, I graduated, I had my child. You know, I continue to work my ass off. I mean I was never able to go to college. And you know, at the end of the day, badass bitches.

00:53:24
Speaker 3: I love hearing back to say badass bitches. All Right, we're gonna do a couple more Easton.

00:53:32
Speaker 4: Hi.

00:53:32
Speaker 1: Okay, So my question, I'm realizing kind of piggybacks off of that last one. So originally this was just for Lalla, but I want to hear everybody's response. I am twenty four years old, I have an almost one year old daughter, she turns one on the twenty third, and I am actually pregnant with my second baby right now. And I first of all, I binged vander Pump postpartum. It like got me through it, So I love that. And I just want to know all of your guys' advice, specifically for a young single mom.

00:54:10
Speaker 3: What would your best advice be? Oh, yeah, we are all single moments.

00:54:14
Speaker 8: So I think for me, it's surrounding yourself with good people and don't settle just for anybody in your life. Settle for people that are good influence to your children, somebody that you can trust your children with. And just to me, it's quality, not quantity of people. In my life, my circle is super small right now. I just found out today I was stolen from again at my company because I opened up my circle a little bit too far and I trusted and it really hurts me because I paid people well, I do well for my employees, and you know, it's just like my circle got super small again. So I do that with my children. My kids are both very very protected on their circle. So as a single mother, just keep your circle small.

00:54:59
Speaker 7: For me, I mean for me.

00:55:00
Speaker 9: I was a single mom for jeez, almost thirteen years when I had Ryan.

00:55:04
Speaker 4: I was also very very young.

00:55:07
Speaker 9: Probably one of the most difficult jobs I've ever done in my entire life. And all the single moms out there can bound all the single moms, all the single moms just you know what, I don't know what your relationship is with your ex. Just love your child more than you hate your ex. That's what I tell everybody. Just put your child first before everything.

00:55:29
Speaker 3: I fully agree with that, and like, it is beyond hard to be a single mother, and I don't know what kind of help you have, but to piggyback off of what tam and Vick said, surrounding yourself with people who are going to uplift you, because there are days where it's going to get so fucking intense and you feel like you're going to break. And when you have kids, they don't care if you're going through a lot, they don't you know, they still need you. So I think you're going to find a stray that you did not know you had, I always say, and I don't want to push my beliefs on anybody, so please don't take this that way. But I believe that God never tests our strength. He shows us our strength, and he puts you through moments to show you that you're fucking tough as a guess. All right, wait, let's do one more. Hey, Lama, I've been watching Vanner Pump since the beginning.

00:56:26
Speaker 7: Love you.

00:56:26
Speaker 3: You always been my favorite.

00:56:28
Speaker 7: But my main.

00:56:29
Speaker 3: Question is from your last uh podcast? Why did why did he have right here? Right here?

00:56:37
Speaker 7: Why didn't you shit your shot with Tyler Cameron.

00:56:41
Speaker 3: You know, I'm gonna be very honest. He's not my type. He's just not my type. Tyler Cameron, he was the Bachelor. He's not my type. You know. I want to thank the dos A migas for joining.

00:56:58
Speaker 7: Me, Thank you having thanks, love you all fine.

00:57:03
Speaker 3: I love you, Ba, I know it's awful. Did we have fun tonight? Bitches? This is the part of the night that I always fucking get emotional, and I hate that. I love you way more again.

00:57:30
Speaker 1: You know.

00:57:30
Speaker 3: I love being petty and I love you know, filming reality TV. But more importantly, I I like going out into the world and making a fucking difference. And I love being a mom. It's my most favorite thing in the world. And I remember being in this room, and for anyone who came last night, you're gonna hear my spill again. I remember being in this room a little over a year ago, and I was entering a custody battle, and my life had gone completely differently than how I pictured. I pictured having a partner and we would support each other and create a beautiful family. And just like a ton of bricks, I was knocked on my ass. Thank you guys, thank you Ustin, And like I was telling you, sweet single fellow mama, Oh my god, fellaw single mama, It's all good, girl, We're easy here. In that moment, God showed me my strength. I had a baby on my hip. I escaped a home when she was seven months old. I didn't have anybody to kind of pick up the slack financially, emotionally. I was in charge of supporting my family, my daughter, and no one was waiting. Right, the world kept moving, and I remember planning these live shows and feeling so fucking broken.

00:59:06
Speaker 4: It did amazing.

00:59:08
Speaker 3: So I walked in I did a live show here. It was my first one, and this room revived my body and soul in mind, and here you are again doing that for me. So I want to really thank you guys for supporting me. It does not go unnoticed, and I need you to know that I am not blind to what is going on in our world. I hope that I distracted you and added some fun for the night. I love you all and cheers my loves, Thank you. I fuck with you all so hard.