BIG FACTS FRIDAY- Success
On this episode of BIG FACTS FRIDAY, the crew talks about the idea of "Success."
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2023-01-27
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00:00:00 Speaker 1: Big Bag screen. You don't be on nothing. I'll be one, okay, So let me ask how this bring you Big Big Fact Now visit the new website today Big Facts Paul dot com dot com coming to your line for revote studio in the A T is DJ screen, Big Big Baby, Jay, Shot Jones and Big Homie code at this time for that Big Facts Friday. That's the conversation. How's everybody doing, Homie? Now? You want to be loose? Do get change? What's up? Jones? I'm trying to be like you. I'm trying to be like you. You got that good money green on that get money Green. That's my being their brother right there speaking what what a big homie class life is amazing? The session? How did they see he's done? Yeah, you're feeling spirits j okay, turkey jerky turkey turkey. She starts feeling it. Take your shots back to back in this slowly, get get cook, try and get drunk so I can talk some ship. What we're talking about? God? Success means honor? What say honor a performance or achievement that is marked by success, as by the attainment of honors. I guess something that so it's success something that has to be rewarded well rewarded in order to be considered an achievement. I think by definition, you had a successful track meet, you had a successful wedding, you had a successful basketball game, you had a successful date. But it success goddamn circumstances to the person, because you don't you can't tell me what my success is. I might feel like if I come in fifth place, I succeeded, yeah, for sure? Or but can you but you can't. You can't lose if you call that a successful I'm gonna ask you how you can. I think it's I think it depends on your goal and you lost. A dude was a dude in the NBA that made the NBA that never go to the finals. He had success because he made the NBA. That's all he wanted to do, if that was his goal. Right, If my daughters just to get in here with Mike Tyson and get this money, then I want I'm successful. But if my daughters are not the net you get knocked out, you're lost. You're not successful. But technically, like a loser is anybody that does make it the first place? Right, you don't know what nah, because I can train to run a marathon, and if I come in last, if I finished, I don't success that you can't really say because a second place might be good enough. Yeah, it depends on that goal exactly. Whatever you're going not other people's standard, but other people standard up what you might be successful and might be different. So other people expect you to win. Like, we know we're going to this fight. Bate been training, He's gonna win. So to them, you did not succeed. You failed them, But you might have been successful to yourself. That's the way get paid for you. I'm saying, your goal is to get paid, So you were successful. But let's say to a little one, he might be like, I know they're gonna win. You might not be in that particular city successful to him overall of your successful. The thing about it is, I should come into top ten every week, right, so, but you've got people that's number one. So are we not successful? I feel sure number one used to be number one? But am I succeeding right now? So we did not succeed him. We were just number nothing. We we were we were not successful. We were not successful in being number one. How far had shuts is doing a little too much? Yeah that could he hold them? Man? Yeah they are? They really upset, big, clustered. No, but are we not succeeding? It is what I'm saying, be successful if you quit succeeding, because succeeding is an everlasting evolution to more success. But it's just up to yourself. I think success come within self, like what you view success as, Like that's right now, it could successful, could have been just starting the podcast. Now we're successful. We haven't. That's why I think they used a turn. How do you measure success? Because something like just because the motherucker guy a bunch of stuff and material don't mean they're successful. Like if you got your you're successful in the material space. You got the cars, the houses. But that might be successful to a person that values and looks at that type of ship as a measure of success. But they might be a failure as a parent. They might be a failure as a wife or a husband, but they might not to who they yeah themselves, your fault about no relationship relationship will make your successful family person unless that's your goal. If you if your goal is to make your wife and your kids happy, that's a goal in order to achieve it. You have to be successful if you don't give a funk. You're right, If you don't give a funk about something, then you can't measure the successful. I don't know. Just like if you don't give a funk about something, you can't measure this. You don't give a just say shack, how uh? He was married to Shuney, right, and they got a di voice. People feel like that's a fake. People that view marriage as you never getting the boy, they feel like that's a failure. He did too, He did, he did, He said he did just being humble and modest man. That's probably the best ship he could have ever did. You never know because at the end of the day, you still you studied hurting this woman every day. Right, But the fail of the marriage is still unsuccessful for who? Because are you going to say, how you get a divorce? The marriage failed? Because you can't understand that. But if I get a divorce, how that can't be successful? Her? Look at her now, she's with Passiki on living a lovely life. He's living his lovely life. She got conversated for that marriage, for that marriage, where's the failure at he? She is apparently successful but their marriage did fail. That doesn't mean that they're failures. So if I get a divorce, our marriage fail didn't work. It failed like that, the failure of the marriage is the birth of the evolution of the two people. Then it technically wasn't a fail Sometimes sometimes to go if I gang after this marriage, did I win or nobody said? Nobody says said, nobody says you can. Yeah, That's what I'm saying. Do Shinny look like she's stressing over that? Shohnny and Shack tell you we had an unsuccessful manage. However we moved forward and became successful. People. Look right, you gotta lose all your games to get the number one pick to get a better team, to improve your team. So if you get the number one pick after you lose all these games, but you get a great player in retire. When you lose all your games, you get to take the first pick. But you were unsuccessful, but the talking but throw the season to get to get the pick. Team get to pick the best player, yes, because they're bad to improve your team. So one player is supposed to help the whole team. Team. I think the team could be already cool, just missing one dude. So we lay down on a season, get the dude and turn up exactly sac where you were at home. You're watching them boys pop them Shamfay bottles, and we want y'all you were unsuccessful that season, but I know that next season exactly, I'm gonna say, but I'm gonna see some I'm gonna saying, it's never too late to be a winner for sure. Right, So if I'm I'm still if I feel like it ain't my turn to win, I need to go in the cut later on for a minute and back that did not win a champion and shoot to left and came back, but they wanted when he came back, he wouldn't got he know he wasn't. He left when he got his parents came back and gave him. So they still he still end up being what success he did not the they did. They we did, but it didn't work. Hower you're saying this it worked like because when we're talking about, like in future tense, like what happens after the unsuccess and we're screaming, are unsuccess? No, we're still at the still profits preparation. You cannot have success exactly. So I'm if I if I'm preparing myself to be successful. Failure is part of success, thank you. That's all I'm saying. But I'm saying is if you go to the gambling house and you don't win, your loss, that's the end of it. Said that don't mean I'm unsuccessful gambler because I can win. In the movie, it's not perfident. We got what's your goal? What's your I'm just working out. I'm not competing. No, I mean well, if you were to compete, what's your goal? You want to win? Absolutely? So if I get I was if I hit, you, do you think he was unsuccessful? In No? A hit in this different? You don't want to get hit, but hit that will be loss. Ye that's if you have one argument in your marriage. I don't mean you lost, so would your hit? So would you? That hit is gonna fucking set you up for failure? Can you be you will be successful? Just trying to act like you're having success? Yeah? How are you gonna say if you're an unsuccessful marriage already and you get a divorce, how are you not gonna say that's success? What? No that know? Because out out I said I try this ship? Would you can fail? But we can't say that it's successful because it didn't work. You can fail when you try something because guess what what what what? What did that game? By being married to this woman? Did that game knowledge on how to be successful for the next woman that I haven't heard. It's all I'm sad. Failure. If you get on the bikey trying to ride a bikes you'll need that. Don't mean you're a failure for life and you cant that day you fail? No, not anything. You talk to the micaul now please and failure leave something now. I know when I get to that little bump in the sidewalk, I gotta move around that. You got on that motherfucking bike and tried to ride that bitch and you failed. I mean you fail. It was failure, you fail, It was not that f Failure is not just sucked up permanent day. We all failure. We don't let something to day. Failure is nothing but a teacher see your favorite here, come on, let's come on tell us something real quick success. The opposite of it is what thank so that answers your questions? You got for you guys. Of course, what I'm saying is I have felt that so many things that I didn't take as failures. Where's something from him? I still get success from that to week. But because if you look at failure, if you look at failure as a failure, then that failure is gonna disturb you from trying to go trying to make something simple deep, and it ain't at the end of the day. If you fall, you fail, your friend, you failed. You gotta get back tomorrow. You have motivation, might never get it back on that. But then you never grabbed that mike again. You failed to me term, yes, still lost. Get up and learn how not to fall again. That's not a failure. But and you fall. Okay, okay, okay, okay, okay, kaeka, I got a scenario. Okay, Michael Jordan. He takes all the game winning shots, right, I mean he missed. He missed a lot of way more than he missed the game. You're right, yeah, Let me try to be deep off the daily, all right, he's taking these shots, he's missing all on, but we make the one. He made the one at the right time, and when it goes down to history, he goes down. Is a successful buzzer beater. He's probable to miss now I'm over the mint Roe dem that when he made makes him the man. That's all I'm saying. That night Sports ESPN, he failed, he lost Michael Jordan and then lost tonight. We still didn't you see it? All they loser to me? But yeah they lost. They know losers loser today. Losers don't try again, Yes, for sure. But we're talking about like unsuccessful. Like even if you even if you sunk up that, you didn't have success in that. That's what we're saying. The perfect episode two hundred go plastic plast two hundred us are we failures? If we that episode to do more? It's like this, let me get a perfect example. You're in school. No listen, you're in school. You fail your tests, That don't mean you ain't gonna graduate. You still failed the test. You were not success. I failed your you get talk about go back to the marriage. No marriage, y'all say it's a failed marriage. But we both learned something in game something. So however, to have a successful marriage, get that marriage. Know some things. It's gonna say, you can have you can have you can you have a ram shop, a restaurant and a barbershop. Two of them can fail that don't make you a failure. But you're gonna say I feel that that God damn barbershop I just did. I ain't worried because I got this. I'm a I'm a winner, but I failed at dead. So you're talking about like the individual instances of failure, like you feel it safe the great if I feel yeah, that's basically saying failure and taking a loss. It's not a bad thing. Sometimes you need that ship to make you go harder, but you have to accept, like you can't be on no Trump ship, think your loss. That's upon what we are. I ain't lost because I'm still right here, y'all still right here talking to me, and I'm still the president. How the funk as a whole? You're still a success at night, but that night you failed to it. When you ain't got no guess what, you ain't got no accomplishments. If whatever you did and nothing popped off, then you have no accomplishments, it's a failure, right example, right, Okay, it's my nephew Neme. All right, he's um like number one on his team. Their team is like one of the best teams whatever whatever they played. This other team I'm not gonna call their names for the second of kids for home coming. Um, before it was even second quarter, the score was twenty eight to nothing. So instead of the other team playing the game out, you know, teaching the kids you gotta be soldiers, tough it through whatever, whatever, they quit football. Yeah at a certain amount, like y'all have go to come back. Yeah, just keep doing it, running clock if it's the fourth quarter, but if it's I felt bad for the other team because I felt like that was teaching them to be quitters. Now usually thirty five, thirty five is automatic over because they know where they're gonna be able to catch up to you. It's a waste everybody's time at this point. And then you don't want how they get hurt, Yeah, hurt for no reason. Now you're gonna blow them out. Samit to Zerros and football. They were failures. Yeah quit yeah, yeah, yeah, that's the US. If it was twenty one zip and they scowed a touchdown and they still lost, they wants to me, but they still failed the game. They lost home coming. That's all I mean, scream saying when you lose, unsuccessful, Well they didn't fail, they quit unsuccessful. That quick caused them to be failures and quit calls. No, it was on every plate that led up to that ship. Every place they failed. Yeah, because it was a combination of a bunch of films. You kids asked, man, I couldn't it was. It was a slaughter session. Yeah, ain't not firmly because I don't. I don't think gambling before around. I'm one, I failed at one. Now I'm down trying to play black jackon and I'll go, that's what that that I give a job saying. I'm just talking ship about the whole ship. But the thing about it is, I feel like once you feel like you're a figure that should have stick to you anything to do. I don't feel like I lost. I don't even if it didn't go right, it ship just didn't. I didn't love to be time. That's just how I feel when I when I say that ship, I don't look at the the faior. I just say that ship didn't work because in the grand stament things, I have a bigger goal. And that's how I feel to that ship. If I was if I want a god, damn, if I want to learn what I'm just saying like that, ain't that don't. They don't define like I'm bigger people and people in the game. And when I meet you a man, now you're just lying. Wait, he treats you and mad were playing a game and you lose. I don't be lost. I don't be losing. You can lose, not really insteed, we can play. Come come on, paper says are right for him. It's why West Coast. No, it's paper, says a rock Jojo thinking is rock papers to supposed to be a rock. That's how you put the piece. Yeah, gotta make man, that's the quickest paper I have to say in my life. Now you're a few away from That's what I'm saying. It's not permitted, but I know what you said. There's a mentality because I'm really right now. You don't feel like he loses? Yeah, right, Like I'm a winner regard y'all may look at me as that I'm feeling, but I'm a winner because he got this up out of all of them damn contracts. He definitely won, saying he just feels like he's a woman. Feel like I can win again, even though impeached and all that. Ship. Some people just feel like that, like no matter where to go. You just that's the best way to feel. Honestly, it's a post to feel like that because that ship set up. When you go to feeling like your failure, you're a loser. That ship set ups. Don't internalize. No, don't internalize it and sit on it like I'm a failure and loss and I'm gonna keep losing. Don't do that. You tell you know it's a failure like dollar, That's not what I'm seeing. I have no lost five three huntred from the casino, I launched two hunted up exactly. I might focus, Yeah, I can't. I didn't want focus like I'm gonna get it when he didn't look you because you're not gonna do that again. Ship, you learn how not to lose to it, not try to beatmall we get. We gotta take the casino out of that because the casino is a different animal. We're not real life. You should look at it as learning not lose and also be real with yourself though a lot of people don't be real with yourself. Like if you know you're not good at something right and you're only doing it because everybody around you is doing this and they're getting money for it right, Like, for example, I ain't even gonna say scam. I ain't gonna say nothing like that. Like let's say y'all all doing the podcast and I'm your friend, y'all all getting money doing it, and I'm like, damn, they get money, do it, I'm gonna do it. But then I know that I don't even have the speaking capability, Like when I speak, people don't even understand what the funk I'm saying. But I'm gonna still do it. Like that's not being real with myself. That's me feeling like I could do because everybody else doing I'm not being real with myself. I can't say something. So that's what I'd be like trying to tell my friends all the time, like I'm big on, like don't bullshit me, Like we can, we can fake out the whole entire world, but let's keep it tall between me and you because me and you really know, like what the fun is going on? Like like like you said, like if you know you can't talk, like okay, I'll help you bullshit the world if it's gonna get you some money, like hell, yeah, you know or whatever whatever, But behind closed doors, bro, like come on, let's be for real about this ship, Like, let's be serious. Maybe it's something else that you need to try to approach because this is not gonna work. But I'm never gonna like downplay you on public display, but behind closed doors, like that's all I ask with my friends, Like you can bullshit everybody else in the world, but when it's just me and you, let's keep it tall between us, please, Like that's the only way you can. That's the only way we're gonna survive. Yes, and with yourself, yes, rich brol But we're gonna finish the world with it together because I can't help you for if I don't know the real and you're lying to me and yourself. Yeah, yeah, we're not gonna win. And that is booted, bro. So we need somebody to write this ship for you. Yeah, and we need another signer that makes this ship look like it's official. Yeah. I just I just feel like no one should adopt a failure attitude or loser attitude. That ship easy to do because you're working around to do five six things before you win. Then you you you work around put yourself as a loser and have a complex and an insecurity internally thinking that ship don't never go right for me. You get what I'm saying, Like, Man, this ship ain't gonna go right. So you're really speaking this ship on yourself. You never internalized, you know. I met this one lady one time. That's what I was saying all that ship earlier. Like you know what I'm saying, You gotta keep it real, just say you know when you're a loss like sale, But it ain't because I ain't. I'm gonna come harder. We're gonna forget about this little ship exactly coming hard else. Man. I met this lady one time, and she truly believes that it's only fifty fifty, like fifty percent of people are gonna be happy and fifty percent of people gonna be sad. Like she feels like it's only gonna be fifty percent of people in the world gonna be successful in the other fifty percent is not going to be successful. I'm telling you, like she really viewed it. So she's tried so many different things and it wasn't successful. So now she just feels like in her brain that she's part of the fifty percent that's not going to be just successful. But some people out there that really feels like people that feel like yeah, just saying depending on what you see is normal though, because if you've never seen nobody, when you don't think winning is normal, that go back to being a product of your environment. Like I always say, you got different than you gotta know better to do better. I guess some people that I have ever seen nobody making more than six figures in their whole family. So making six figures, damn, they're impossible to them in their head, so they're not gonna put They're never gonna put forth the effort to get there. Meanwhile, they might have the physical or mental capabilities to do it, but they're just not applying themselves because they don't think that ship is possible. That's that ship ain't gonna work. Maybe like that sho ain't gonna work. Ain't even try, like like uh my home girl comment, they like, go play a lot of this ship too big? You know. The first time I said I ain't gonna be the negg to hit it, Damn, I went and put my photo on it. I ain't gonna do that certain ship I just alone shot. I ain't taking it, like how the funk Banks and the win Too Big you know that's okay. We always say he'll be the one people that will be the ones that win. People see the woman that all in California. Come on, man, that's what I ain't California, that's what they was. I said my MoMA, that man, just like I hope that was California, Florida, New Jersey. Text it too, because hid in the hell where y'all not prepared the government getting Come on, man, and they're making all that money just by splaying feed into the scale. But do y'all know anybody who ever want that ship? The big ship? I know people don't want five thousands. I know something wants some not no, not on the bill board. You don't know nobody because they don't even get that high. But it's for showing some people that want some. I always seem to get to that nothing that want a couple of hundred thousand. I think m h a lot of names to be winning on scratch offs to if you want, if you want that money, you'll tell everybody you ship. No would you doing this ship? If you want them to know y'all wouldn't you know? I'll still have been here. I ain't got time for it. I'm letting everybody know I want so they can know I'm ecking fun. Yes, bro, yes, like we ain't seen this man in a year. Disappear, but check your account if you if I funk what you got you. But other than that, it's gonna take a cell like phone to get in touch with me. It's gonna be Yeah, man, you got why don't you want people to see that you're successful? Him? No, I don't need none of my fucking old as cousins coming. My old already know I'm ignoring them. Now. You know what, people you probably got family member are gonna want me dead? Is gonna have ain't nobod. It's gonna be a force feel built around you. I need telling nobody. It's a lot of they're gonna tell somebody my mom, it fus with you when you're like, all right, I'm gonna get done with the two or three people are really funk with one. You're real, I'm gonna be around evenig back it overdoing it. I came and see me. She that's a tough one. How would it though? Are you gonna put a hot to up in the spot overdo it? Everything we do, we're overdoing that. For the hell of it. Brother, look at me, you can be this, go play the lottery. Got two bills, Billy, Yeah, I figured out. Jacked my shirt out, like yeah, virtually, because if you're here for that kind of money and they actually give you when that thing they said they're getting like five on me, that money up out back before I can get a counting the end of that ship, I'm gonna funk a lot of that money up and then figure out what I pulled her due. You spoke, you don't get if you, if you, if you, if you hit the lottery for that type of money, you're gonna get smart or dumb. I'm gonna get smart. I ain't gonna hunt football team for the boss of ship. I'm gonna get smart money. So scared open it. But that's the people. Hey, you better you know say that money. I'm the rest of us say the rest of this ship. I ain't got time to be thinking about how to say that. Look at you, Look at you. I know I don't look if I got a baby man, the least motherfucker gonna a couple of him. Okay, we live. That's how to get some Look at it. What have you figured out five two years later, just being a little financial literally you could have made a player too, so that your last name will be straight for the five generations. Trust. I'm not going to trust no account and I'm not gonna do none of that. I'm gonna go to school and learn how to be my own god damn account. How to do a billion dollars I put up to me and each one of my glad babies account. Get my kids to die, they better take care of the lad name after that. Yeah, y'all figuring this ship out because of finding minds up and live my life being really like, what the fun? This is a blessing? I don't know how often to get this money? Then start stressing about my blessing. When you're going to put yourself and start all these business expects and chancing this money, you might fail, you're gonna start stressing about that money. I see what you're saying. You're gonna go say just your your new profession is living like I get that money, trying to buy Instagram. Don't even know what to do with buying Instagram, Like, then bought the Instagram boat Instagram and that is ship light. It's over with And they gonna jump off twinter and go buy the buildings and let that ship. You know you're gonna do that. That's too much money. Oh that list de liss ship. Just anyway, I'm saying that I'm not gonna go get that ship and start trying to be smart with no link money. What they gonna do when they hit licks that leak money goes man that like you smart when you get down to La Hu Yeah, yeah too late then how from nothing? This motion? That's just like you can go this way, you're motion can just keep going there you get to a hounter, you can get smart out with a hunter with a quarter ship. If you got addicted to the lifestyle, you don't be no food. I just fote on the me. I got a humble lefts time to get smart. I'm crying because you're gonna have people that's my last don't funk with my money. Now you're gonna be real stressed. But I think that's how people do when people got Now get to a certain point that you make all that money out of the beings, like we don't have being enough problems. You don't know what the folk go through. What I'm saying like, that's probably no sleep because they're trying. They're trying so best to protect the money. I'll be the nigger that don't give a funk about the money and end up getting some op because I don't even give a funk about us. Real too, when you start cherishing this ship like iphing to go by the goddamn stadium, nothing to do this and do that? Bro, you know you don't know them about this ship. Now you gotta by about the motherfucker's who who? Who? Who really knows? Trying to damn your money? Right? You know you thought you're doing the generation generational wealth ship. You die, they're some nigga pop out of the blue like yeah he had signed it over to us and then you actually did yeah right, yeah, why the funder? Don't say and don't try to. You see a lot of dumb its get money and try to get Smare you get what I'm saying? I get their money now, I'm just social. I'm investing the ship. I No, I don't know theming about especially companies and all this ship that folds and ship you don't know. That's just like a nigga trying to buy McDonald's has never flipped the Burger. Yeah, I talk about the play with James. You don't get some work. What I'm saying like, how do you how are you going? How are you gonna try to buy some ship? And you don't know the ins and out of the operation. But that ship like they could be taught somebody like you invests investment like trying to buy football team type ship and you don't know the politics behind even having a football, trying to buy Twitter. The man about Twitter, but he got enough of that ship is he probably feels like I some of this up. I don't even how did this go? How about this ship justifies something he did? I don't know how did ship go? I don't care. I think. I think when you just might not have a whole bunch of money and you try a new venture though, you gotta try something to get some money, right, Like if you ain't got millions and billions and you're only having a few thousands, but you don't know ship about no car washpy leven. I gotta learn this ship something. Yeah, and then they're doing making them type of risk. It's going to do some type of research. You gotta do that. I mean, but you're gonna do even research. When you got all that money, right, you ain't gonna wake up and be like you aren't trusting somebody that that they know what's gonna and they could be hit him. Like Steve Harvey said, Shoot, I gave some money some people they got me, right, that might happen. Then again, you might get somebody that get you, high level scammers that get you put your money in some ship and never see it dounk. But if you ain't got that much you got damn doing all the research, you can't yourself because you can't funk that ship up exactly. You said, you'll be more hands on. I need to know what the funk I'm doing. So that's why I said, I learned how to be my own damn accountant. Yeah, you're gonna sunk up in the midst of trying to do it right, especially all the way I can feed the funking up is mine that, yeah, or steal it from me, yeah, because they do be doing away from you, and you know where that your money going. This whole accounting take because they funked up like nine million dollars. Yeah, like he lost nothing, he had to pay nine that he doesn't count it. Yeah, that's how you don't count. What about the money they got, damn? Which is why, because if you got two bees and you're gonna have two niggers looking over your two bes, I ain't gonna lie a couple of them, hundred of them millions gonna slide someone if you can't. If you can't miss it, you think a person ain't gonna ain't gonna know you can't miss it exactly. I can write this in right here and say that this was this right, this is everything don't add up? And yeah, you don't even know how to read your own ships, so it's gonna make sense. They ship, I feel like I so to your point you saying all that ship, just get this money, start sucking it up and live. I feel so you have to deal with all this ship we're talking about. It's just like, okay, you don't folk state, you know, for text purposes and ship you know they get you too big. You know you'd be like, would you rather get him? Just give me? You give me five on to me. I don't given what y'all do. Take test, I don't talk me about texting no more? And then I hun to live a text free like what you do that. Hell yeah, man, they're they want anyway man billion, yeah, and you got l a, you got cally taxes. So they just like, I get that this free money, right and I understand that, and I'm not like saying nothing about that, but I still feel like, yeah, I don't even need to touch my money hand anyway, yea anything. They said, Yeah, hell, y'all, y'all, y'all, yeah, get timmy. You know what I'm saying. All that trying to go back and for default. Then they dig up something like, well, we didn't know that you had a fellon back in and they butter be doing the board. You get ship trying to er the folks. You know how they filed away to take your ship. We were too big. One dude, he wanted um lotto, but he sent his son and go get the ticket. And because his son wasn't wasn't technically eighteen, that ship avoided and dead. They had to do a whole it's against it. They was not trying to get that man that money because he sent his son to the same supermarket that he go get his lot of every week to go buy his lot on. But the nigga one but and they fought that ship. Did he win? No, he didn't get the money because technically you have to be eighteen years of volder to buy a lot of tickets. But then wasn't the responsibility of that lying on the store that saw it. Don't matter, They're still ain't gonna cut the check. That's great that they still didn't cut it. They always find ways, got them take a nigger ship. I wasn't saying I don't believe in minds I got it. Because then other than that, they'll tell you that they'll give you a certain money amount of money every week or every month. I'll be scared of that. I'm like, man, you're gonna try to kill me off, so you'all can stop paying me. Just give me my fire hunting and let me go. Oh yeah, would you take that's the way? Yeah? Because they have say like, if you want the whole thing I think it is, you gotta you gotta get it in pieces of your life. Would you take a million all the month for the rest of your life? Whoa your whole team up? Like saving a million dollars a month for the rest of your life? Or fit the million up front? Man, you're taking a million? Yeah? Anything happened. Now they're gonna be trying to I don't give a funk, give me that fit. That man, they're gonna still truck the same thing they're gonna do for us. For that million a month, they're gonna come for you. You got the fifty, you got the whole ship right there, That's what I'm saying. But I got the whole ship, and I can disperse it, even leave amongst my people. That means all a month, something happened to me. They're gonna be got damn my hills trying to fight for that little million. That ship. Oh it, Oh yeah, you gotta literally get that money. Okay, you take that guy. Damn me the money lea too monthy, theres your like Lita too money. They put some put some put some white ship on the check that they get what I'm crying. That's what they to me think about, because like if you leave, get the ship up front, your family can the rest of that ship. If you know, some weak ship you did that three weeks. Anybody getting ship that considered a successful person to hit the old hit, ye know, that's considered a lucky person that success a success. Don't have nothing to do with the lottery. The lottery is purely luck, and you can't say that if you become successful you get money. No goal and get money no matter how you get If you get it, you successful. The goal in the lottery is against the correct numbers. Hand you a million dollar. If your goal to have a be a million nothing you mean, no, you're successful. That was your goal, right, You successfully acquired money. If that's your goal to have money, your some story becomes just like you have to work for success, that's what you're saying. I feel like success is earned. But some people, um, some people with a lot of but even with a lot of some people really hit song. Yeah, but you still have to perform that song and to make a pop. Now, lawsuits that ain't success, well it ain't they successfully one in the case successfully catch the chase. Oh God, I feel what you're saying, But you say you don't think it's right now. We ain't gonna be successful. I feel like we're gonna be rich, but not success. Sense like a motherfucker that you're gonna be successful if yo, if yo, If you measure success all money true, if that's your goal, you measure SeNSS all money and you get the money, you're successful because that's what you're measuring your success off. Yeah, some people have you never measured your success of happiness. No matter how my money you got, you ain't successful. I see what you're seeing, right, That's what I would saying earlier. If somebody measure their success by just happiness a family, and they don't give a funk about no money, then in their head they're successful. Even with people when they graduate college, they'd be like, they feel like they're successful as fun, although they're probably leaving with a hundred and fifty in debt. But I know a lot of people that we look at and think it's successful in thinking they're having all the shit in the world that they want with the average dude got a family, Why I can't get that? So they feel unsuccessful. Yeah, that's a big fact. I guess it just depends on the person. And with like you said earlier, with a defined sens Yeah, success as so okay, well what do you feel like, we'll make you successful? You feel successful? Now? What about progress? But my success is always measured by progress. As long as I'm progressing, it ain't gotta be at a like fast pace and I'm happy. I just don't like to be stated. That's my personal thing. Yeah, I feel the same way as long as I'm doing something going forward then not back. Yeah, I'm successful. What about you yet? Um? What was the questioned? What? What do you can successful? I don't keep it real. I feel like I've over teeved. But that being said, because I'm right here while the obstacles. So anything I received after this is extra. Anything I received is extra. I got my family, I got to see my kids be grown. I got my wife, I got my grand baby. I just had a new grand baby yesterday. I'm sure I'm just sitting on the couch kicking ship. So all this ship is extra. Um, I've been successed for ten years ago, able to reduce some goddamn legal ship from being a nigger. That one's gonna never because I never thought I would. I just think about how I'm gonna go out, not how am I stay in. When you come from where I come from, you think about am I gonna go out in jail? Am I gonna go out deaf? Am I gonna go out and get sick? Like that's what you think? You think about the worst. So I'm successful because I don't even think about that though. It's like, however I go out, it's cool because I'm already real ship. All this ship extra broad. I feel like with the goals and I've got in life, I'm not I'm not in the point where I want to be it because I haven't achieved certain ship. But I've had successes along the way that have kind of helped me get to this point. So I've I've had successes to do. I think I'm successful yet. No, yeah, I don't really think some people will be looking too much into career for success though. Mind is not career. Okay, so what is it legacy? I wanna I wanna build something that is kind of like immortal, like you know how like people are remember who made die, but they are they remember because of their works that they do that they have left the impact on society. So that's I haven't reached that level yet, but I'm working awards. That That's why I feel like I have. I feel like if if all else feel today, they can't take it back. None of ship out under it. Yeah, yeah, you're gonna do a lot of ship with nothing, like with no type of help, no, no nothing, just me like my ideas. Everything that you see me a part of I'm the founder and I thought of this ship maybe with another person, but it's my ship. That's what I'm saying. That's success to me. That's that's what I think. That's what I think. She said she is for me and what I'm trying to do. I want to live like That's why I love doing like community service and ship like that, like because I want to impact use what I got to impact other people's lives about you don't um. For me, I feel like in certain parts of my life I'm successful, especially being from like South central l A. You know what I mean, Like to come into Atlanta and didn't know anybody, Like to all my family and friends back home, I'm successful as hell. But then for me, I feel like I haven't reached that point because I still worry about chance and like her future and stuff like that. So my success is measured off of like would my daughter have to fill out a job application? Could I like die to day and know that she's straight for the like you know what I'm saying. So I feel like I ain't there yet because my daughter ain't complete straight. So once my daughter is straight, and I could just sit back knowing that, like, should I got all the money or anything that she want to do, I have those connections to walk her through doors. Then at that moment I feel successful. But right now I feel like I'm on the way there, Like because you know, my baby won't be on TV. So that's the only reason why I really jumped into this, so I could walk her ass through the doors. So and too, I'm able to just walk her to everything that you want to do in life, and she don't gotta wonder how the funk shes gonna get it. Then I think I feel successful then, but right now I'm just on the way there. Just what moral story? Success should not just be defined by your career. Basically success is multidimensional yea, And your success is not defined by your failures. That's a very big part of it, you know what I'm saying. You can you can learn something from those failures and those losses and to turn those losses and two wins and success. Just because you feel a stream to say or take a loss don't mean you're a loser or a fair you. Yeah, I also feel like you shouldn't let either side of the spectrum. Weiin't too heavy on you. Like if you get like, if you get a win, what you're gonna do next? Now, if you get a loss, that lost still don't define you like you gott you still gotta keep moving regardless of what happens. If you if you linger too much in that it like immediate success, you will go the other way, like this is what I did ye until you'll be talking about that. It's folks right now talking about the thirty five, thirty or six years old talking about what they did in high school, like that ship is still matter. Stay, passes don't matter no more, buddy forty, So you musn't want to play football in high school? Oh yeah I was great. That was great, But that ship don't matter. I like, yeah I was. I was. That was all conference and all that ship. Like I got a scholar ship. Yeah that shouldn't matter no more. I passed that. But it's people what you're doing now, buddy, Yeah, I'm here, I'm gonna revote what exactly. That's what I'm saying. That's what kid want to see, Like all that ship, what you're doing now, y'all don't want to hear that what you used to used to call you had they got picture, they got remastered, uh, the nine photo album digitized and ship. What you're doing now, that's the key. So yeah, if you so well talking about your touchdown past and forty something and that's all you got to talk about, you're a failure only touchdown passes. It's Tom Brady m hmm. Yeah, you're a failure. But if you're still doing if you're talking about that and you're doing something else productive and constructive moving forward, Yeah, he is what it is. You're just in a different lane. But I'm telling you all, I'm multitached. That's exactly. Now you have somebody that Inky, he's still talked about him and when he played football, but then now he's a he's talking about that. That's just a part of Yeah, that's the leaders what he's doing exactly. He speaks on that. Inky speaks on the football shape in the past tense. Yeah, he doesn't speak on it like he's trying to be resurrected. He speaking on it like y'all take that ship for granted. Yeah, it's my life. I thought I wouldn't gonta be to do nothing else but this, and then when I lost my ship. My ship up is like y'all, I look at it as y'all taking it for granted, you get what I'm saying. That's what he where he coming from with it. But he's like one of the most life. He had a connugation. I'll be a part of it. Yeah. Yeah what success That is words, Fat Podcast, Big Fast Friday and successfuls fun And we're gonna keep being more successful and more successful because we keep going a lot of way. Just because you're not successful to date don't mean you can't be successful in the future tomorrow. Yeah, that's a big fact. Yeah. Triple W dot Big Facts Pod dot Com salutet Fitch
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