Gigi Gorgeous and Nats Getty

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Speaker 1: Hello, my little gorgeous faces. Today is super exciting because I have my most favorite couple in the entire world on the podcast. We have Nats Getty and Gigi Gorgeous.

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Speaker 2: Yeah.

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Speaker 1: Oh I'm so sweet, am I?

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Speaker 3: Yeah?

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Speaker 4: Nice?

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Speaker 1: Well, so Randall's not here, so today is the Give Them La Lat with GG podcast. She's going to co host with me and Nats is our guest.

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Speaker 4: Yes, welcome, no, thank you.

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Speaker 1: I'm super I'm super excited, but I'm also very nervous because you guys, I obviously instagram stock you both, I mean diddo.

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Speaker 4: We honestly are like the biggest fans of you and Randall, so the feelings mutual.

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Speaker 1: Well, thank you, and you guys have amazing content on the Gram and I'm like, how does it happen? I don't get it. How long do you spend on your gramjee?

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Speaker 4: I mean addicted to social media.

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Speaker 1: But you're like good at it. Thanks.

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Speaker 4: I mean, just like you know, content photo shoots, you always got to get the photo. Yeah, I mean yeah, I try to like stay up with it, but it's it's honestly not as bad as it used to be. I used to be like god to post every day, like always on my phone. But now I'm like, oh, I haven't posted in a few days. Like it's not that deep.

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Speaker 1: It's not that deep.

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Speaker 4: It's not that deep for him. It's like really not that deep though. I really don't like you barely go on anything like your phone's for like texting and.

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Speaker 3: Calling, yeah, if that and shopping, I mean barely. Like just no, I don't like my phone.

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Speaker 1: I mean you're a fucking getdy so you can do whatever the fuck you want totally, and like mental.

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Speaker 4: Health and all that, like it's a big thing. Yeah, like it can really mess with your head being on it too much.

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Speaker 1: That's so true. I notice when I start getting in a funk, I'm like, you scrolled too much?

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Speaker 4: Yes, And you know, like why am I picking myself apart so much?

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Speaker 1: Yep? Totally I'm the same way. And I'll like look at girls and I'm like, how do they like I want to look like that? I'm like, bitch you, Oh, they don't even look like that.

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Speaker 2: Yeah, It's just like, why am I obsessing over shit? That's not real?

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Speaker 1: And it's like it's not real.

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Speaker 4: Like probably obsess over us as much as we do other people sometimes, you know.

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Speaker 1: I do it's just like that's absolutely true because I look at your guys's graham and I'm like, they have so much and you guys do have so much fun obviously, but then I sit there and I'm like, your life kind of sucks.

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Speaker 4: It's the highlight reel of everyone's life. It just is like people just post the best stuff. I mean, us really not included though, because we really do share some dark stuff and you.

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Speaker 3: Feel like it's like really hardcore.

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Speaker 1: Yeah, your Instagram's hardcore, but I think it's something that people it's refreshing. Yeah, you know, like I wouldn't say that it's hardcore where it's like I gotta get off of this. You know. It's like you really do make people feel like I can relate to this person. I'm going through a tough time. I want to follow him just because he speaks some real shit.

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Speaker 2: Yeah, I mean I try, because like it used to be like superficial as how, just like my muddling picks and it's like when I felt skinny, I'm gonna take a picture, and now it's like, okay, I know, like I struggled with drugs, I hadn't eating disorder, Like that's all real shit, and it's like stuff that sits with me on the daily. So like if I don't include that and what I'm posting, then like I'm just being super.

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Speaker 1: Fake, right, No, I totally get that. And the realization is, wow, if you're not gonna talk about it, Like there are people in different places, little small towns who who don't feel comfortable talking about these things, and you're the person that they look at and go, I'm gonna be comfortable talking about these things.

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Speaker 2: No, And whenever I get like dms or like comments from people like reaching out talking about like oh I'm struggling with this, I'm going through that, Like it always makes me feel like really amazing, and I always like interact with them, like I respond to whoever, like, especially if they're going through like a hard time. Yeah, I'm like super conscious of that and like that makes me like selfish, you feel like amazing.

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Speaker 1: So I love that you brought that up, because I'll have people reach out to me about their alcoholism and it's it's kind of I don't want to call it a burden, but in those dark moments that people are reaching out to you, it's that's something that you know you have something heavy too. I keep I'm trying to find the words, but it's like they could be in the darkest time ever and you are the person that could single handedly change it all for that.

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Speaker 3: Yeah, it's like a responsibility.

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Speaker 1: There's the word responsibility, is it is?

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Speaker 4: And when that's goes on the gram or on social media in general, even like this podcast, like he just spits so much truth and that's why I think, like I have so much respect for him. One of the reasons why because it's just like people just post selfies and you know, I'm guilty, guilty of this, but it's like every time he pops off, he pops off in like the most real, respectful way, right, and like for his community, it's like he holds the responsibility so high.

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Speaker 1: I love that you said that. And even though you may post like your gorgeous selfies, the caption the captions are the money.

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Speaker 4: I mean, yes, you know you have to you have to keep it real for real. I mean, it's just it's just fun at the end of the day, it really is. If you're not having fun, then just like don't do it. Log off for a minute, right.

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Speaker 1: I like to turn my comments off because there was so okay, yeah, I do it, tid I have to. There was one I've never gotten, not that I've seen messages that have been directly derogatory toward my child and someone someone the other day was so mean about her and I won't even lie. I went insane on this gang cry I nope, rage blind, rage, Like I'm almost embarrassed.

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Speaker 4: How does she say? I?

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Speaker 1: So I went to slide into her DM. She had actually written me a bunch of times, like just tearing me apart. But now, like what I saw originally was she was being mean about my kid. So I told her she was a human trash bag. I said, I want you to remember that you're a waste of flesh on this earth, and I feel so sorry that your kid has to call you mom.

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Speaker 3: I went too, Yes, that's insane.

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Speaker 1: Yeah, and you guys, if it would have just been mean towards me like I would never stoop to that level. I also told her I'd pay for her therapy.

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Speaker 4: It probably won't work.

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Speaker 1: It won't work. She's the lost cause. But when you're mean about a three month.

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Speaker 4: Old like that's crazy, along with you just trying to reach desperately for any kind of attention, she's clearly obsessed. If she started with you announced to the kid, it's like, okay, well she's really grasping its straws here, right. It's sick, I know, and really sad. I mean, people will say the craziest shit just to get you riled up, and its better. Did you feel better off?

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Speaker 1: I did?

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Speaker 4: You did? Okay?

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Speaker 1: Only because it had to deal with my baby, right, You're like what I had to say? Yeah, in that moment, I was like, I am defending my young bitch. You know, I was like a mama bear.

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Speaker 4: Did you like screenshot it and post it so other bitches new?

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Speaker 1: You know? I wanted to, but then I was so embarrassed about my response. Yeah, I can't do it.

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Speaker 4: I mean, honestly, I feel like it won't be the last time people are crazy.

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Speaker 3: Yeah, people are nuts.

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Speaker 1: It definitely won't be the last time. But that needs to be the last time that I do that.

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Speaker 4: And sometimes I regret it whenever I like comment back or I you know, just give any of my energy, I'm like, I shouldn't have fucking done that. I would you get deleted or just have them see that I didn't see it. That's like giving them so much. I don't know.

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Speaker 1: The scene part leaving them on scene is like pretty powerful to I saw it and I didn't even respond. So, how was your guys's pride? I was fine.

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Speaker 4: I mean it's like virtual, right. So we've been doing not as much traveling.

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Speaker 2: Yeah, I mean getting to go out in West Hollywood has been a treat because it's been so fun.

00:08:04
Speaker 1: Did you guys go to West Hollywood yesterday?

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Speaker 2: No, yesterday was a personal day for me because I was watching movies.

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Speaker 4: It was his brother's birthday this.

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Speaker 3: Weekend, this weekend, so we had is that August August?

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Speaker 1: Yes, he is so gorgeous and hot name. Your family just breathes beauty.

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Speaker 4: They really do. Like the jeans like I've always I've always said it, it's like they're like God.

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Speaker 1: I mean, come on, it's true, it really is. When you guys all have pictures together, I'm like, what the fun? Everyone is like so.

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Speaker 4: Good looking in their family, and it's insane because they all kind of look the same. So it's like when I meet an uncle or what was it two three years ago, we went to London for Mark's wedding and I met so many of the family that I was like so overwhelmed and so nervous. Okay, I'm like, I don't want them to think that. I'm like, you know, this blonde dumb ass that's just showing up to this like gorgeous old money castle. I'm just like, oh my god, it's so much pressure. But they all are so stunning. I'm like, oh, of course you're in the family or spaghetty jaw baghetty eyes.

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Speaker 1: People pay mad money for that job. I'm one of them, and it still just doesn't look like that.

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Speaker 4: You know, it's just not you got to have it built in from the jump totally.

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Speaker 1: So I have to know how did you guys meet?

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Speaker 2: We met actually because of my brother. We were both in his fashion show. He did a show with Davel Chappelle and we were both like his muses at the time, but we were on like opposite ends of the presentation, so we never like saw each other directly. And then like two weeks later we went to Paris for fashion week all together for ten days or two weeks or something like that, and I stumbled into lax, like still up from the night before, definitely like yeah, like not one of my healthier moments, and I.

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Speaker 3: Like saw gig.

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Speaker 2: I just like my mind explode and it was just like instant.

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Speaker 4: And I was in this like faux fur jacket of Paris, like yeah, goes to Paris once, and I was just feeling it totally have to give them fashion. I show up, I'm like, nobody dresses like that, so embarrassing.

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Speaker 1: So then what was your like how did you approach her? Do you remember? I think money, like.

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Speaker 2: Really aggressively, like I just pretty much. I feel like I made it completely clear and like obvious. I feel like within like four days, I was like, Okay, so I really like you. I think we should go on a date. Let's go to ball Mall get in the car, we're going and we went.

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Speaker 1: Mm hm, you would have snagged me that way.

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Speaker 4: It was very that. It was very that and we went like to the dressing room. They gave us like Champagne. I was like Parisian and like I saw Taylor Swift where this bamba dress. It was like this strapless one with like crystals in the middle, and they had it and I was like, can I just try it on? We took pictures like in the dressing room with it, gave it back and I was like that was the best first date ever.

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Speaker 1: That is, I mean that first date makes mine look like I think my first date may have been to like a chain restaurant with Randall. I think.

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Speaker 4: So it's the company that makes it good, though we could.

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Speaker 1: Have done Yeah the bitch, I'm from Utah, take me to Applebee's and shit, I love it.

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Speaker 4: I love it.

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Speaker 1: And then you guys were just in separable after.

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Speaker 3: That pretty much, pretty much.

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Speaker 4: Yeah. I remember I went to Canada right after that trip and we were just texting all the time, and I would tell all my friends at home. I was like, I think I like someone new. This is like, you know, coming on really strong, Like I'm thinking about them all the time. And at the time it was before his transition, so they were like, oh my god, like, you're with a girl. That's so insane, Like this must just be a phase or something.

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Speaker 1: Had you always been with men? Okay?

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Speaker 4: Yeah, So my friends were like, oh, you know, she's just like going through a phase. This is just like Paris love or whatever, and I like, no, I think it's more though, Like I have a feeling inside me that it's more so. When we went When I came back to la we just were like together all the time, and I was like still together, guys, like I had to prove myself.

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Speaker 1: But so, how long after you had the Balman experience, was it like We're official, I'm obsessed, never going to anybody else.

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Speaker 4: Like probably like a month or two.

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Speaker 2: Yeah, it was like pretty and media like I'm sure. I think probably within like two months, I was saying like I love you, Like I was like totally in love with Gigi. Like it was like I want to say, probably by the end of like that Paris trip, I was like totally in love.

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Speaker 1: With How long was the Paris trip?

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Speaker 2: It was like fourteen days and we were just like together every day.

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Speaker 3: I had a different hotel long days.

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Speaker 2: I was staying in like the Mandarin Oriental, like the most gorgeous hotel.

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Speaker 3: Gigi in August, We're staying somewhere else and.

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Speaker 4: I feel like like a five minute drive away.

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Speaker 3: No, it was like further. It was like far and like annoying, And I.

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Speaker 2: Would sleep on Gigi's couch because I just wanted to hang out with her. And like on the one of the last night's they all came to my room and like in my hotel and they're like wait, you've been sleeping on our couch, and this is you like where you actually have been meant to be staying, Like you're crazy.

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Speaker 3: This room is so like room.

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Speaker 4: I was like I would have Yeah, he was sleeping on like the floor. Basically the couch was like a fashion couch, Like you're not functional.

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Speaker 1: That is true, levet, when you're willing to like sleep on a couch. I mean, I definitely I loved Gid. She's like, I would have come to you.

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Speaker 2: Yes.

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Speaker 4: I was like, not this the whole time, so let's just stay here now. And we had like two days left.

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Speaker 1: Yeah, so yeah, okay, and then you guys end up obviously getting married.

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Speaker 4: I know, it's insane. It's like it's crazy though, because I'm always like I'm such a hopeless romantic. I'm like, how did you meet? When did you say I love you? You know, when did you guys hook up? When was your first kiss? Like all that, But for us, it just happened so fast, Like yeah, it wasn't like, oh, you guys got together too soon or I'm always kind of judging like that of people, but with us, it was just like you can't, like you can't predict these things now, we were not looking for love. It literally just happened, and looking back, it's like that was really fast. Yeah right, but it's like it's we're still together, we're still madly in love and we're married. It's like, wow, you know, when you look back at everything on paper, it's crazy.

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Speaker 1: I totally get that, because if you were to write Randall and I down on paper, people would be like, this is fucking weird, this makes zero sense. But I always say, like rand and I were written in the stars before we even arrived on this planet, right, you know, like that's what you guys had. Yeah I have.

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Speaker 4: I see that with you and him too.

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Speaker 3: Yeah.

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Speaker 1: I just you can't deny something that's right.

00:14:29
Speaker 4: You guys are like Bonnie and Clyde. I feel yeah whenever, yeah, duo.

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Speaker 3: The dynamic is like super real.

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Speaker 4: Yeah yeah.

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Speaker 1: And that's why I tell people, I'm like, you literally cannot you you number one cannot have a type because, like you said, you were like dating men and everyone was like, it's a phase. You can't have a type because that puts you in a box. You also can't deny something that you feel in your gut, like your heart and your mind. I feel will fuck you a lot, but when you fill it in your gut, you just got to roll with it.

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Speaker 4: Yeah, right, and you just know like when you know you know. I was like, oh my god, I think I'm in love.

00:15:06
Speaker 1: Yeah that's so cut me. And then how long were you together before you tied the knot two years?

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Speaker 2: Yeah?

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Speaker 3: Two and like two and a half years.

00:15:16
Speaker 1: That's a good amount of time.

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Speaker 4: I think so too. That on paper makes sense to me. That makes total sense, makes sense to me. I think I was the hesitant one though, like he'd be like, let's move in together, you know, let's do.

00:15:26
Speaker 1: Yah such a.

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Speaker 2: Move.

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Speaker 4: Always lived alone, always my whole life. I just feel like I'm such a nightmare to like live with.

00:15:35
Speaker 3: But we spend every day at my house. You slept there every single day.

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Speaker 4: Like my hang up was like I'm going to move all my clothes in, all my.

00:15:43
Speaker 1: Shoes, right, Like I'm not going to have a drawer.

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Speaker 4: No, no, I was not going to be half like it's I have a lot of stuff. And I was like, I don't think you're ready.

00:15:50
Speaker 1: And were you when she moved in?

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Speaker 2: You like of course, I was like you've been living here, like you're crazy, Like all we have now is your couch like a couple more TVs.

00:16:00
Speaker 3: It's like, it's fine.

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Speaker 1: Are you in the same house that you were in when you first moved in?

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Speaker 4: Yeah, when we moved in, yes, No, but I was thinking about the one before.

00:16:09
Speaker 2: Yeah, we met and I was living in West Hollywood, and now we live in.

00:16:13
Speaker 1: The valley amazing, which I'm obsessed with. Yeah, you get the best content in the valley. I mean I see it. I'm like, what the fuck?

00:16:20
Speaker 4: Where are the neighborhoods? The like the heat, I'm obsessed.

00:16:24
Speaker 1: All I'm like a lizard. I want to like bake in the heat.

00:16:27
Speaker 4: Yeah too, except I just burn, so I just like have to be careful. But I love the heat. I especially the dry heat because you're not really constantly sweating. No, like you're not kind of just gorge gorge.

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Speaker 3: Yeah.

00:16:42
Speaker 1: So at any point, are you guys wanting to have babies?

00:16:47
Speaker 3: Oh my god?

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Speaker 2: Yeah, I like can't wait to have like an extended family, like outside of me and g and like our cats that we currently have.

00:16:56
Speaker 1: Right the cats are the babies right now, I see them on gram There's They're the stars.

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Speaker 4: Yes, they really are high maintenance baby, but I feel like we actually are friend. Our best friend has her sister over at the house right now with two kids. Okay, and that's like our little taste of having kids.

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Speaker 3: Yeah, and I'm obsessed with I'm.

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Speaker 4: Obsessed to you, but I will say, when they're not yours, I feel like you're like, okay bye, right like a few hours, it's like, oh my god, Okay, I can't wait to focus on me again.

00:17:24
Speaker 1: Like one hundred percent.

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Speaker 4: I feel like when it's ours, though, we'll be like wanting that we won't be like annoyed with it.

00:17:31
Speaker 1: I literally so. I have two step children who I love dearly, Like the only way I could love them anymore is if I birthed them, or like, I just I totally get what you mean, because when you know, like your baby is coming, and it doesn't even matter how your baby gets here, right surrogate, it doesn't matter if you have them on your own, it doesn't matter if you adopt. I have a family member who is adopted. Literally the best thing that ever happened to our family. I'm not going to say who it is because who knows if they know, but oh my god, my god, I don't know.

00:18:09
Speaker 4: I don't know how old. Are they like younger? Oh? Yeah, too much.

00:18:15
Speaker 1: But when you know that it's your human it's just like there's nothing like it.

00:18:20
Speaker 3: Game changer.

00:18:21
Speaker 4: That's it's a game changer. I'm just so like, I don't know, I feel like I'm ready to be a mom, But at the same time, I'm like, am I ready to give up my own life? And that's what it feels like it's going to be.

00:18:31
Speaker 1: But you know what change it won't be because you guys will be able.

00:18:35
Speaker 3: To have help, right And yeah, you're you're both too.

00:18:39
Speaker 1: Busy to not have help. Like you're in the entertainment world. There's a lot of things that you guys are having to do that moms that are you know, stay at home moms and the dad goes and works in nine to five. It's just very different. It's different, you know, like agreed, Yeah for Ocean, I mean I have to have all hands on deck, especially during filming. She can fill for twenty minutes at a time, and you know a scene could she filming? Yeah, Oh my god, I was wondering that.

00:19:06
Speaker 3: She's a star.

00:19:08
Speaker 4: She's a baby.

00:19:10
Speaker 1: She was very colicky at the beginning, and it was like, it just means they cry for no reason.

00:19:16
Speaker 4: It's like usually oh right, like they're just like feeling it.

00:19:19
Speaker 1: Three months, it's out of their system.

00:19:21
Speaker 2: Now.

00:19:21
Speaker 3: She's more like diva baby.

00:19:22
Speaker 1: Like she'll be sitting there and she'll be like, why the fuck have I been sitting here for twenty minute? Cry? You know, like do something for me.

00:19:31
Speaker 4: What's your sign?

00:19:33
Speaker 1: She is a hold on She's a Pisces.

00:19:37
Speaker 4: Pisces. Pisces.

00:19:39
Speaker 1: Pisces are my soulmates?

00:19:42
Speaker 4: Is Randall? You're like, no, Randall's and Aries? Oh my god, me too? Okay, bullheaded, goal oriented fire stoners. Yeah, wait, what's your sign?

00:19:54
Speaker 1: I'm a sage? Okay. Sages are very like I love my mom's a sage. She's going keeps it real, very chill unless you fuck with them over game over. But there's no middle speed.

00:20:07
Speaker 4: No I agree with.

00:20:08
Speaker 3: That, Yeah I do.

00:20:10
Speaker 4: Yeah yeah. Whereas Aries, I feel like there's a lot of middle speed, Like we could just be.

00:20:14
Speaker 1: Like, oh yeah, kind of what you see is what you get. You're never gonna be thrown off by a arees.

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Speaker 4: I heard once, like once like two days ago. I heard one like on Instagram someone said Aries is they either are so obsessed with you or they just don't care. There's no room for hate. I feel like that's kind of very me. I never really thought about it like that.

00:20:36
Speaker 1: Oh I like that. I actually just.

00:20:38
Speaker 4: Don't really care a lot of the time when I don't like somebody.

00:20:40
Speaker 1: I get that vite from you.

00:20:42
Speaker 4: Yeah, but I feel like I do hate.

00:20:44
Speaker 3: Those sometimes too, not really, though you don't think. It's kind of been going.

00:20:47
Speaker 2: Like I'll really hate something and I'll be like Gigi, like please get on board, and you're just like so indifferent.

00:20:52
Speaker 3: It's just like irritated.

00:20:54
Speaker 1: Oh my god. Wait, is that how she is when you guys talk shit?

00:20:57
Speaker 3: Yeah, for like I mean not that I talk shit all the time. Like if there's like.

00:21:00
Speaker 2: Something like specifically that I like loath, I'll be like, babe, like get into it, and she'll just be like, like, I don't really get.

00:21:07
Speaker 3: Why you're getting so worked out.

00:21:08
Speaker 1: You're like, no, I need you to, like, I need you hate this as much as I do.

00:21:12
Speaker 4: That's true. That's true.

00:21:14
Speaker 1: That is so amazing. I have Matts, Getty and Jugi Gorge. We will be right back after this break. We are back, and I love it because well, obviously because I have you guys, but Also, it is the end of at our house and I'm sure at your guys' houses and houses in anywhere that's normal. Pride is celebrated all day, every day year round, but for the month, today's the last day of Pride month. So this is like the best way to quote unquote wrap it up. I love for last, save the best for last. So we I really want to dive into you, naxt because when and I'm going to try my best not to get emotional, cabin, but you're posting on social media look at me.

00:22:13
Speaker 4: Take off.

00:22:13
Speaker 1: So I just sorry, I just I think you're incredible. I always have since I met you. And when you decided to come out with your story, I was shook. Yeah, and not shook like oh my god, what the fuck, but just shook because you're so well spoken when you explained your path. So tell me a little bit about how this whole you. I read somewhere that you you told your friend first and then went into that I told and GEEJ said you better work.

00:22:57
Speaker 3: Okay, So but I.

00:22:58
Speaker 4: Was just as shook as you.

00:22:59
Speaker 1: By the way, where are you? Yes? Okay, so kind of kind of walk me and my co host ye through it.

00:23:06
Speaker 2: Yeah, Well, I mean it's crazy because so during quarantine, obviously alone with your thoughts, just like thinking, thinking, thinking all the time, and I just like noticed more and more how uncomfortable I was like with my body, Like and I used to like be obsessed with being like shirtless all the time and just like would stare at myself in the mirror like naked all the time and just be like, oh my god, you're like the hottest thing ever.

00:23:29
Speaker 3: Like I was like obsessed with myself.

00:23:31
Speaker 1: Good for you.

00:23:32
Speaker 2: And then it stopped, and I was like, what what's this about? And I just started thinking more and more like okay, like I need to dive deeper here and kind of figure it out. And at that time, my best friend kid, who's also like a trans guy, was quarantined with us, so I was just like talking a lot with him, and we were just like having like really like honest and open like conversations, and it really just opened my mind up, and I just one day out of no where where I realized, damn it, like I need to get top surgery.

00:24:03
Speaker 3: Like I'm completely unhappy with the way that I.

00:24:05
Speaker 2: Look, and I know that it's like based around my gender, and I think, what's like interesting is like I decided top surgery first and then I'm going to figure out my pronouns and like how I identify after I get this surgery, when like.

00:24:21
Speaker 3: Normally it's the other way around, Okay, But I.

00:24:24
Speaker 2: Decided, like I'm going to do this surgery first because it was like my body for my eyes, for like my feelings and I feel like genders almost for other people, it's like allowing them to put you in a box. And so I wanted to like make my body right in my mind right first and then like live in my new body and then figure out like what my pronouns are, and like obviously they now are like he him, but I like allowed myself this space to really figure it out for a while. And we didn't I didn't know, Gidi didn't know, and it was just like, okay, I have to live with this new version of me. I kind of get into.

00:25:01
Speaker 1: It, right, Yeah, I mean you had overwhelming support.

00:25:05
Speaker 3: Yeah, oh my god, Yeah, I mean it was insane.

00:25:08
Speaker 1: And then to see you guys released footage of like the whole trip. I believe it was San Francisco, y yes, yeah, doctors out. Yeah, I love it. And so what was that I mean, the trip looked like it was amazing, but you were going to have top surgery. So how long were you guys there for? And where did the top surgery take place? In that time?

00:25:31
Speaker 2: We went only in specifically for the top surgery, right, And so I think we were there a total of like what eight days or something.

00:25:39
Speaker 3: Like that, maybe nine?

00:25:40
Speaker 1: And how long were you there before you had your surgery? In the eight days?

00:25:44
Speaker 3: Less than two days?

00:25:46
Speaker 4: Okay?

00:25:46
Speaker 2: Was there a quick little merry up just like a ten minute in and out think because we had done everything else like virtually over like two months or something, and then it was surgery day?

00:25:59
Speaker 4: Just like that.

00:25:59
Speaker 3: W was crazy?

00:26:01
Speaker 1: And what was your headspace like going into it? Were you nervous?

00:26:05
Speaker 2: I was like normally like before I had like knee surgery before, and I'm always like a little bit nervous, But for some reason, I had just like this overwhelming sense of calm and I just was like, I'm doing the right thing.

00:26:16
Speaker 3: And for the first time in so long, like I finally.

00:26:19
Speaker 2: Felt like still, which was so strange because like during all of COVID, like we were maybe being like physically still and not doing that much. But I felt like my mind was ping ponging, and my emotions were just like all over the place, and I was just like literally like rattled, like my body felt rattled. And I woke up for surgery and I just was like, yo, I'm totally at peace, and like that was just.

00:26:41
Speaker 3: The best feeling ever.

00:26:42
Speaker 2: Waking up was painful and kind of gnarly, but.

00:26:47
Speaker 1: Right, it was right.

00:26:50
Speaker 2: Yeah, it was definitely like a way more intense surgery than I had thought of, okay, because it's literally stitches from one side of your body to the other.

00:26:59
Speaker 1: Okay.

00:27:01
Speaker 2: As a wonderful person on Instagram pointed out, it looked like I'd been cut in half by a chainsaw. But no, literally that's kind of what it does. Like look like that person's a dick though, home. Yeah, No, waking up was kind of gnarly, but I called Gigi immediately and it had like one eye closed, and I was like, gg I woke up like I was just so excited that I had woken up.

00:27:24
Speaker 3: And it was over with. I couldn't believe it was crazy.

00:27:27
Speaker 1: I mean, I I'm sure because even though that person is an asshole, I mean essentially that is what is happening, Like the way they have to cut you open. How long is the healing time with that?

00:27:40
Speaker 2: Okay, so we I keep saying weep. It was like a team effort because like Gig was there, like.

00:27:45
Speaker 1: You took it home like a gang of support.

00:27:47
Speaker 2: Yeah, it was like everyone that lives at my house and kid who like technically doesn't live with us, but like kind of does.

00:27:53
Speaker 3: So we all went.

00:27:56
Speaker 2: The first like seven days you have drains in and so like three times a day somebody aka Gigi had to empty the drains, which was like horrifying, Like I couldn't look. So it just was like horrible because it's just her blood.

00:28:12
Speaker 3: Coming out of your body.

00:28:13
Speaker 1: Do you think you could have looked if you were taking care of someone else that had been through it?

00:28:17
Speaker 2: Yeah, okay, yes, I've seen Like when Caid had his drains, we did, we took we went, we did the same trip, just with the shame group of people. Yeah, so we'd like done it before, but with him, and so everyone was just like now doing it for me. The drains were normally that was like seven days and then they take off all the bandages and it's the first time you get to see your body since before you went under. Yeah, and that was when it really just like hit me and I got so emotional and it still makes me get so emotional now when I think about it, because like I was laying down and they were like cutting everything off.

00:28:54
Speaker 3: They have to pull the drains out, which is like horrible, and I remember being like, wait, so.

00:29:00
Speaker 2: You can see my whole chest and she kept be like yes, nuts, like I can see it.

00:29:03
Speaker 3: I was like, no, but you can see all of it, and like for.

00:29:06
Speaker 2: Some reason, I just like didn't believe her, or I thought that's like the surgery had been like fucked up, and like it was like I still had tits or something like. I just was like because I couldn't like bend down and look at the angle that I was at. So when I finally stood up and walked towards the mirror and I saw myself, it was just like I don't know, I just felt like a wave of gratitude and just.

00:29:28
Speaker 3: Like I don't know, it was like pure joy. It was crazy.

00:29:32
Speaker 1: I mean, of course, I can only imagine like you probably looked at yourself and you felt like you had come into your own Yeah.

00:29:39
Speaker 2: No, I finally was like this is the person that I've been like supposed to be looking at every time I look in a mirror or like see a picture, and like that was just like so real and crazy.

00:29:47
Speaker 1: Wow you look hot as fucka right, yeah, for real.

00:29:53
Speaker 4: I like if it wasn't enough before.

00:29:55
Speaker 1: But I mean before and then just when you see somebody really come into who they are, there's something about it where it's.

00:30:04
Speaker 4: Like, yes, we can all relate, you know, not feeling good when we wake up or whatever. A gender is like a whole other realm. But it's so like it's so freeing when you have people around you who are gonna fight for you because you know, you can just live your life right. And that's like we like wound right around NAT's we were like one hundred percent like he him, let's get this done. You want top surgery, We're all gonna come. Like it wasn't like a struggle.

00:30:30
Speaker 2: It was.

00:30:30
Speaker 4: It was hard, but we tried to make it not a struggle. We're like, we're just gonna do this right, and we're just gonna kill it for you because that's what anybody needs going through her time.

00:30:38
Speaker 1: Oh my gosh, I know. And obviously your mom, you're super close with your mama.

00:30:45
Speaker 3: Yeah, she's the best.

00:30:46
Speaker 1: What was her reaction when you told her, I mean, obviously, I know you're gonna stay supportive, but like for people that don't know.

00:30:53
Speaker 2: Yeah, she just started like sobbing, but not out of like anything bad. I think she was just like really stop for me that I had been feeling this way, and then on the flip side, so happy that I was able to like realize it, kind of confront it and then make a plan. It's like, Okay, this is what I'm going to do to get through this and make myself like who I want to be. And she was just like obviously like the most supportive woman in the world, Like I'm so blessed, and like it's not lost on me because a lot of people can't afford to get surgery, a lot of people don't have the support of their friends or family. So like I'm doubly blessed and like super lucky, and it's like it.

00:31:35
Speaker 3: Doesn't fall like I'm not blind to that.

00:31:38
Speaker 1: I love that you say that, because you know, I surround myself and as do you guys, with people who are very accepting, and you know they don't think about things that maybe other people and other parts of the world think. And so when I hear someone talk about like them going through what you went through and them saying like my parents were supportive, and it's like well done, and it's like, well no, not well doe, Like this is something that a lot of people go through and they.

00:32:07
Speaker 3: Have zero support, like none, It's crazy.

00:32:10
Speaker 4: I don't know why people do it. And that's like the messages that we get all the time.

00:32:13
Speaker 1: You know that those are the people that are turning to you guys see yes.

00:32:16
Speaker 4: And it's like, oh my god, Like we're literally like diving into all of these stories. And it does show us how privileged we are. It does show us how lucky and blessed we are. It's like not lost on us.

00:32:27
Speaker 2: Just no.

00:32:28
Speaker 3: Yeah.

00:32:28
Speaker 2: And I think that's why Gig and I take so seriously kind of like our unofficial jobs of just like kind of being like champions for our community and like whatever way we can, like whether it's like responding to people on Instagram or just like doing anything that's asked of us when it comes to like stuff to do with the community. Just like anytime there's like a pride something and somebody wants like a video for whatever, Like we're always.

00:32:53
Speaker 3: Just the first people to be like, yeah, we're so down, We're in.

00:32:55
Speaker 4: And that's didn't have to share this, you know, that's not auguest like wow, because he's like such a private person at the end of the day. And when we started dating, it was a constant reminder to me that he didn't sign up to be on my YouTube channel or just like going to events anything. You know, his job, he doesn't have to do that. He can stay home. I like, send me off and I'll see him later. But he was like, I'm kind of down. And then when the whole transition thing happened, he was like, let's film it, like I want this, and I was like, can I put it on my channel right just for documentation like purposes for us because we always want to remember it. And totally he was free game and like does interviews. He just did like this dope spread with paper magazine.

00:33:34
Speaker 1: I sign fantastic.

00:33:36
Speaker 4: It's like, hello, like being so loud and proud. That's saving people's lives at the end of.

00:33:41
Speaker 1: The day, right, like you realize that this is way bigger than just you know.

00:33:44
Speaker 2: Yeah, It's like I used to be like such an introvert and I was like riddled with anxiety, and I'm sure I had like a lot to do with like my gender related like insecurities and like coming off the tail end of like being like really addicted to like hardcore drugs and stuff like that. But it took me like a really long time to just be able to even be in a room filled with people. Like we'd go to the club or like to an event and I would just be like cold sweats, like shaking, because I just like couldn't be around people.

00:34:10
Speaker 3: I couldn't interact, and I.

00:34:12
Speaker 2: Just like had to tell myself, like, dude, like this is bigger than you. It's like more important to be like visible and to do as much as you can for people that like need GEO. Right. I mean I don't think I'm like fucking Superman or anything, but like I know a lot of people you are, actually yeah, but like doing my best to like live like a really out loud and proud life. I know that it affects like some people because I hear from them on Instagram and like in person when I've like gone around and just like randomly met people. So that's when I really kind of turned it around, because I used to hate all I just like hated.

00:34:48
Speaker 3: Being like public about anything.

00:34:49
Speaker 1: I don't know why.

00:34:49
Speaker 3: It was just like super insecure.

00:34:51
Speaker 1: I think, wow, I would never get that from you.

00:34:53
Speaker 3: Oh yeah, it was crazy. And everyone just thought I was such a dick because.

00:34:56
Speaker 1: I was just yea everyone everyone sh Now, I feel like really good because I've never like you've never been a dick.

00:35:03
Speaker 2: Yea.

00:35:05
Speaker 1: God God, So how was I know You've always been a part of the community, but was this Pride different for you?

00:35:14
Speaker 3: It definitely felt.

00:35:15
Speaker 2: Different, Like I made sure, like every Pride is important. I've been going and attending Pride since me and my brother first came out. And I think my brother was like fourteen, and I was like dragging him down because your brother older, younger than he's younger than me, younger than you. So like I took him to his first Pride. We went to our first Pride together in West Hollywood. We were like sneaking into bars and just like being bad and just having the best time.

00:35:37
Speaker 3: We definitely like went to sir and got fucked up. Amazing yeah full circle. Yeah, no, we totally did.

00:35:48
Speaker 2: And you know, I've been like a part of Pride each year since then.

00:35:52
Speaker 3: This one just felt different. Because I think I have like a new layer or like level of pride. To me, I have so much more to be proud of and to like.

00:36:04
Speaker 2: Celebrate, And I feel like I have a newfound community within my community, which is like really cool too, because I randomly have been meeting, like recently in the last couple of weeks, like so many trans guys, Like I know a lot of trans women, but I really didn't know that many trans men, And in the last two weeks, like I've met more trans guys than I ever have in my entire life. And it just felt like really nice to be a part of like our and like their community.

00:36:30
Speaker 1: Totally. Yeah, I love that, And sorry, I'm getting like I just I think you guys are so amazed.

00:36:38
Speaker 4: That was a really good question, by the way, How is pride different this time around? I didn't even really think about that, that it would be so different for you.

00:36:45
Speaker 3: Yeah, this was like my first pride as like a transperson.

00:36:47
Speaker 2: Yeah, I felt super major, Like I've been like right, I mean, I guess I haven't been verbally like talking about it because like you were totally unaware, but like I've been like very.

00:36:55
Speaker 3: Conscious of it, like in my mind.

00:36:57
Speaker 4: Yeah, yeah, and it's like you are prouder than ever.

00:37:00
Speaker 1: Yeah, No, I really am.

00:37:02
Speaker 2: Yeah, and I made sure that I did like as much like pressed stuff.

00:37:06
Speaker 3: I mean, you can't see my air quotes.

00:37:07
Speaker 5: Because they're not feing this, but like, yeah, I've been like doing as much like Pressed ship as I can, just to like I don't know, like further the pride and like further like like a message of like love.

00:37:21
Speaker 1: Yeah, I feel like and in Utah, I'm sure a lot of people will be shook by this. We have one of the largest gay pride I've been parades. Have you been.

00:37:29
Speaker 4: Yeah.

00:37:29
Speaker 3: When I was spending some time at Circlub.

00:37:33
Speaker 1: I love it. He's like really, He's like, I'll be at sir, but best believe I'll be a Pride.

00:37:38
Speaker 2: Yeah. I know. They took me because I was the only gay kid there and they're like, you want to go to Pride and I was like, yeah.

00:37:43
Speaker 4: That's fine.

00:37:45
Speaker 1: Out of this place. I can't believe they did that. That's actually pretty bad ass.

00:37:49
Speaker 3: Yeah that was cool then.

00:37:51
Speaker 1: Yeah, No, we have a really large Pride parade. So, like I was out and about with my like science tits out obviously to do it. It's out and so I've always wondered, you know, even though I'm not directly a part of the community, I'm an ally. So I was just like I always ask my friends who are in the community, like.

00:38:12
Speaker 3: How is pride for you, right, you know?

00:38:15
Speaker 1: And how has it changed when you go through a transformation like you have No.

00:38:20
Speaker 2: I mean it's like I think I have like a newfound respect for it because I was so.

00:38:25
Speaker 3: Young when I came out.

00:38:27
Speaker 1: How old were you?

00:38:28
Speaker 2: I think I was like fifteen or like fourteen fifteen. And it wasn't like some big, crazy, like dramatic moment.

00:38:36
Speaker 3: It was like I hyped it up to be and I like told my mom and.

00:38:39
Speaker 2: She was like, oh my god, I thought you were gonna tell me that you got a fucking tattoo.

00:38:42
Speaker 3: Not so I've known since you were born.

00:38:43
Speaker 4: Like relax, she's like the biggest ally of life.

00:38:46
Speaker 1: Yeah, you can totally tell them. Yeah, she's so gangs, I might.

00:38:50
Speaker 4: As well be within the community. She's like that much of a mother.

00:38:53
Speaker 1: Yeah, I love that.

00:38:55
Speaker 4: Yeah.

00:38:56
Speaker 1: Every So even my usbands, I asked them and I'm like, I'm hoping to find someone some day. And I have a lot of friends a part of the community, right m hm. And I'm like waiting for my Hallmark story of their come out and they're like no, my parents were like really okay, cool, like every single one of them yes, wow, which I'm like, I'm happy about it. But I'm like, I'm like, I want, like, give me my lifetime moment king and everyone's like no, my parents were like what whatever? That is?

00:39:32
Speaker 4: No money? I feel like, I mean, that's amazing to hear for real, but I thought you won't get that from Mari. She like is queer God, She's like, give me bring another Yeah.

00:39:43
Speaker 1: If you're like no, I'm straight, She'll be like are you yeah?

00:39:45
Speaker 2: Are you?

00:39:46
Speaker 1: Are you?

00:39:47
Speaker 4: Are you? Like not, everyone is come in, come into my office and.

00:39:52
Speaker 3: Talking about it.

00:39:52
Speaker 4: Like literally, though.

00:39:54
Speaker 1: Yeah, was your mom alive when you transitioned, Gigi?

00:39:58
Speaker 4: She wasn't. So she passed when I was nineteen and I transitioned right after, like same year when I was nineteen, and I don't know, a part of me thinks that she knew, but I don't know if she knew because being trans wasn't only a thing in my town. It was literally something you saw like on CSI like a dead hooker like that would be the trans representation pretty much so and like you know, Jerry Springer and things like that, Like it just was never like a thing. So I don't even know if she was like, this is possible for where you're from again, Toronto, that's right. Yeah, So it's like a very very open minded, amazing city. I never really had problems there. I would go out in like the littlest dresses, like fully as a boy, and I'd be like hey and everyone and be like oh dope, Like it was never like scary or anything, but yeah, I think like that was That's one of my biggest regrets not being able to tell her because when she did pass, I did know that I was trans okay, and I wasn't taking active steps, but I had known some trans people in my life, and I was like, this is me. And then when she passed, I was like, that's the ultimate learning lesson for me. I just life is too short. You can't fuck around. You got to live every day to your as it fits your last. And that's kind of still how I live my life now every single day because I'm like, you know what shens like, yes you do. I just feel like, you know, like if she like was taken such a beautiful soul too young, and then like anybody could be.

00:41:28
Speaker 1: I know, I don't know if you experienced this, and I'm sure you did because of the way you're talking about your mom. But when my like it's very easy to talk about like time is precious. But it wasn't until I lost my dad that I realized, like I have a really funny, funny relationship with time. Like I was cleaning out Ocean's closet because she's now into her like three month old, and I was remembering like being pregnant shopping for her, and now she's just like warn them and they're done, Like that's this is, it's just done. I don't and it was fucking with me. I was stabbing and Randall was like, it's okay, we'll get her more clothes, and like it has nothing to do with the clothes.

00:42:07
Speaker 4: Yeah, totally.

00:42:08
Speaker 1: Like I'm so weird about time, Like I'll sit in moments and be like, you're never going to get this back, so you need to be very aware of what's happening.

00:42:17
Speaker 4: That's amazing that you can do that by yourself, because a lot of people don't. They get caught up and like life happens, and sary like live, laugh, love, but like life happens, we're in it right now. So it's like you even look at last year, it's like, oh my god, last year's Pride was virtual, and it's like this year's pride is still virtual. It's like, where the fuck did the year go? I know, Yeah, you think it would be a completely different situation.

00:42:39
Speaker 1: It's it's not, I know. And if it will fuck with you if you get into that k hole of like time.

00:42:46
Speaker 3: Time, yeah, yeah, slowly time.

00:42:50
Speaker 1: So I so appreciate you saying that that's something that you wish you would have.

00:42:55
Speaker 3: Told her before she passed away.

00:42:57
Speaker 4: Yeah, And I feel like that's also something that is like just a huge learning lesson because sometimes I hear, you know, my parents are really accepting, but like I just I don't want to come out to them. And I'm like, well, if you feel like you're not in a dangerous space, or you feel like you can do it, maybe you steep to jump and do it, because you never know if you're not going to be able to tell them. And I know how that.

00:43:17
Speaker 1: Feels, right, you know, and if you're not happy, you've become pretty worthless. To everyone around you.

00:43:23
Speaker 4: Totally true, it is, it absolutely is. Misery loves company and really loves a miserable bit.

00:43:29
Speaker 1: No one wants a miserable bit around. So all right, I'm here with NAT's Getty and Gigi gorgeous.

00:43:35
Speaker 3: We will be right back.

00:43:42
Speaker 1: We are back with my sexy babes. What a way to wrap up the month of pride last truly for real though?

00:43:55
Speaker 4: How is your pride though?

00:43:56
Speaker 1: Yeah, my pride consisted of a lot of sucking on my nipples by my baby, fun baby stuff, got it, got it, total babe stuff.

00:44:06
Speaker 4: How is that is that painful for you? I've heard it can be like a gnarly experience. So there's like you're a little You're like a little girl.

00:44:14
Speaker 1: I'm a little human and I can I can take down like a full cow right now because I'm so hungry. Right the other day we went to get sushi and this woman was like, are you going to eat all? Oh, that's just your order.

00:44:25
Speaker 4: I was like, that's just my way in la saying that to somebody.

00:44:30
Speaker 1: She was really cute. Okay, she was cute about it because she was like, where do you put it? Right?

00:44:35
Speaker 4: Thank you?

00:44:35
Speaker 3: Yeah, I'm swallen gorgeous.

00:44:36
Speaker 1: And then because I love compliments, I was like, and I just had a baby.

00:44:41
Speaker 4: I want to see I'm not bad. She's like, I know you, Lala, I know you.

00:44:48
Speaker 1: She's like little Ocean. I watched vander Pump Rule. Yeah, I love it.

00:44:53
Speaker 4: So wait, speaking of vander Pump, how is filming like you just started right filming?

00:44:57
Speaker 1: Yes, we just started, which, by the way, you guys are coming to give them all a beauty events.

00:45:03
Speaker 4: Yeah this week? Yeah, right Wednesday?

00:45:06
Speaker 1: So today today, today, and it will be a filmed event.

00:45:14
Speaker 5: Yes.

00:45:15
Speaker 1: And production saw your name, Geg on the rs VP list and they were like, is there any way that she would like be into talking to you on camera? And of course Geg is my writer dying. She was like, for sure, here's the thing. Give me like, I'm nervous to film with you because because you're so damn gorgeous.

00:45:36
Speaker 4: Ever please no.

00:45:38
Speaker 1: Gigi literally texts me and she's like, so is this going to be like a filmed thing? Like do you put it on camera? I was like no, it's just audio. So like you don't need to worry about it.

00:45:49
Speaker 6: She shows that gorgeous I just rolled out of bed, so this is my looking hats, staring.

00:46:00
Speaker 4: At them the whole time, realizing, well, I wouldn't have gotten ready. I just have stuff to do later, and there's not gonna be enough time because it took us like thirty plus minutes to get here. I know I'm not trying to rush when I get home. No, and also it's smoking mirror's baby. This hair is like two weeks old.

00:46:16
Speaker 1: What does that even mean?

00:46:18
Speaker 4: I just have not washed it. Just dry shampoo on, dry shampoo, makeup is all.

00:46:21
Speaker 1: It tell me this. Yeah, do you go the wig route?

00:46:25
Speaker 4: Because I love wigs, but I have tape bins right now, the tape in Yeah, I know you like wigs too.

00:46:29
Speaker 1: Right I have. I have yet to find someone who can put a wig on me and me feel like it's your legit looking.

00:46:37
Speaker 4: Yeah, it does get hard, I would say. I mean, you don't drink. But usually when I wear a wig and it's feeling a little weird on my head, like I feel like I'm wearing a hat. Right, I'll go out have a few drinks and by the time i'm out, I forget it's my hair and you can't tell me it's not putting out of my scalp. Really, yeah, I forget. I feel like sometimes, like even just when I'm not drinking, it's like you just get used to it. Just it's definitely a weird feeling, I believe.

00:47:00
Speaker 1: So you just like naturally have great hair. Then if those are just tapens, because.

00:47:03
Speaker 4: It just tapens. But like it's so hair sprayed rock hard right now, I need to wash it.

00:47:08
Speaker 1: It's you got to teach me the fucking way.

00:47:11
Speaker 4: Too many days. I mean, just extensions. I feel like they make you pretty instantly they did prettier.

00:47:16
Speaker 1: Yeah, yeah, that way.

00:47:18
Speaker 3: It all on extensions.

00:47:19
Speaker 4: Here, but yeah, it just helps you know, little extra hair. Yeah, that's a pro extension kind of girl you are. Yeah, the more hair the better.

00:47:26
Speaker 1: Right, Like the bigger the hair, the hotter. Literally, I think I would rather have like a not so great makeup day than a bad hair day because the hair kind of just the booms.

00:47:37
Speaker 4: It all a hundred percent right one. When your hair looks great, it's like, oh she's stunning, one hundred percent. Okay, she's a rock star.

00:47:46
Speaker 1: Did you do your own glam today? Shut the fuck.

00:47:50
Speaker 4: I'm very self sufficient. I'm h I can do it.

00:47:53
Speaker 2: Almost think that Gigi has like a fucking ten person glam team.

00:47:57
Speaker 3: It's legit, just ge.

00:47:58
Speaker 1: Like, well, that's why you have a YouTube pannel because it's like not everyone in the world can afford to have a full staff of just glam.

00:48:06
Speaker 4: And I'll find sometimes when I do, when I do get the glam done, they'll leave and I'll still you will go and like for like thirty minutes, I'm like, well that took three hours when I could have done it in forty five.

00:48:17
Speaker 1: And why do I feel hotter than I did when they did it? Totally?

00:48:21
Speaker 4: Everyone's so specific about how they look. You know, sometimes you're just like this person just doesn't get it right.

00:48:26
Speaker 1: Has Nat says your vibe changed since you've transitioned, Like have you, like, do you feel more comfortable in certain things that you didn't feel so comfortable in?

00:48:34
Speaker 2: Oh? Yeah, Like I'm obsessed with just like I mean, I've always been obsessed with T shirts, okay, but now I find that, like I used to wear like really crazy oversized.

00:48:42
Speaker 3: One today is not a good example because this is like.

00:48:44
Speaker 1: An over by the way, I'm loving the Rick and Morning. I love Wrick in Morning the same.

00:48:48
Speaker 3: But like I love wearing like tight T shirts and just.

00:48:50
Speaker 2: Stuff like that because I don't have a chest and right, so it's just like and also I love being shirtless.

00:48:56
Speaker 3: I'm sure this is like all the time. Yea, literally all the time.

00:49:00
Speaker 2: By the end of every party, my shirts off, sleeping shirtless, so.

00:49:04
Speaker 3: Much fun walking around the house.

00:49:06
Speaker 4: Just like like tops and stuff for summer, like the more. It used to be very like cover.

00:49:10
Speaker 1: Oh yeah, you're like crazy, yeah okay, yeah, when you were like the most stylish, stylish person I know. Yeah, no, I won't even lie. I for sure copied some of your looks.

00:49:21
Speaker 4: Oh my god, and you wear Strike Oil, oh his brand, let's talk about MGK had to.

00:49:28
Speaker 2: How crazy I died because I love him and I've been wanting to address him forever and we actually made that custom for him.

00:49:34
Speaker 1: Shut up. Yeah, he looked amazing.

00:49:38
Speaker 3: He looks so dope. He looks so cool.

00:49:40
Speaker 1: When did you start Strike Oil, which, by the way, for the listener's, Strike Oil is Nats's clothing line.

00:49:48
Speaker 3: So I started it like two years before.

00:49:51
Speaker 2: Me and g started dating, so like eight years ago, okay, yeah, And it started off with just like one of a kind, like painted on. I used to paint on leather jacket, it's okay. And then I started doing merch and then it just kind of kept growing and now it's just like a full fledge and now it's just.

00:50:08
Speaker 1: On MGK and he's performing.

00:50:12
Speaker 4: Like you guys had to check it out. It's like with his blonde hair and the blue and the white and the fit of it, I was like, he needs to be in Strike Oil more. It just looks so good on him.

00:50:21
Speaker 2: Yeah.

00:50:21
Speaker 1: Look well he just has like that vibe, like he has the Strike Oil vibe. Yes, I hope that You're proud when I've worn it? Yeah, now you Yeah what was that one?

00:50:32
Speaker 4: You actually wore it on the show? I think I did the button down and didn't you do?

00:50:35
Speaker 1: Like yeah, I did we off sleeve eyes. It's such a vibe. I love your stuff.

00:50:42
Speaker 2: Thank you.

00:50:43
Speaker 1: So then how so you would do the artwork for the actual like did you do the artwork of the one that I wore?

00:50:51
Speaker 2: Yeah, that came straight out of my like notebook, just like from doodleing cool.

00:50:55
Speaker 1: Yeah, it's a man.

00:50:56
Speaker 2: We just turned it into a fabric and so like I do that for a lot of like the and stuff.

00:51:00
Speaker 3: I line the bombers with my artwork.

00:51:03
Speaker 2: So it's like actually reversible, so you can wear it like on either side.

00:51:07
Speaker 1: I'm not lying. When I leave here, I'm literally filling a cart and no serious tricoil dot com need to be fed.

00:51:20
Speaker 4: There's a bunch of good stuff, and I love how quickly the drops come. It's not like once this season right, No, it's not seasonal.

00:51:27
Speaker 2: It's just like I put together a whole collection and we just drop it like every couple of weeks. So like there was just like a new drop of a bunch of really dope shit like less than a month ago, I think.

00:51:39
Speaker 4: And I like it too. Speaking of Pride, it's not I mean all clothing is unisex obviously, yeah, but it's a very unisex vibe.

00:51:47
Speaker 1: Oh it's like so into that you feel.

00:51:49
Speaker 4: Like it's not like little mini dresses or like whatever. It's like a lot of the stuff is like and then since we've started dating forever ago, I started becoming more of like I have my more tomboids days because I'm wearing a lot of his stuff. You know, one d oil is very that it's like boyfriend clothing, but it's like dope and one of a kind, Like you'll see this shit around no.

00:52:10
Speaker 1: And like I feel these days with like the vibe that everyone's trying to pull off, like I'm just a straight bitch, like nothing, like it's just like whatever, Verry Vanilla whatever, And I I prefer like oversize everything. I want to be cozy. There are days where I get my like chic on right, like can be very Gugi Gore, But for the most part, I'm like, I don't want to fucking do that.

00:52:38
Speaker 4: Yeah, Hunt, I feel you, I feel you.

00:52:41
Speaker 1: I just want to walk out in my sneakers and something fucking dope.

00:52:45
Speaker 4: Huge, huge, no to do. We got to get the cast of vander pump On a little more strike oil this season, Oh my god, because I feel like it really levels your pussy up level are pussy up? Like truly, it's just like wearing like so dope looking for it. Yeah, I love that you said.

00:53:03
Speaker 1: That, but it does tell it cool, tell our listeners what leveling the pussy I mean, I don't know.

00:53:09
Speaker 4: I feel like everyone just kind of dresses the same in La, you know, like a little just like I don't know, I'm not like the fashionista really but Nazas and like He's like, I don't know, it just like breaks the mold, like the little strike Oil moment. It just like levels you up totally. Yeah, I don't know.

00:53:25
Speaker 1: I do all kind of look like a cookie cutter version of each other.

00:53:28
Speaker 4: And I'm guilty of that as well.

00:53:29
Speaker 1: But when I wear strike Oil, what planet do you like?

00:53:32
Speaker 4: I mean, I'm wearing like a ten dollars dress from like Walmart right now?

00:53:35
Speaker 3: Are you really?

00:53:36
Speaker 4: I think it's from Walmart? Only you could Amazon. Don't even Swiss sneaks for pride.

00:53:42
Speaker 1: Okase, Swiss, I haven't heard you look adorable?

00:53:45
Speaker 4: Good? Thanks you, but you always do as if you should see me in the morning.

00:53:50
Speaker 1: What is her closet?

00:53:51
Speaker 2: Like?

00:53:51
Speaker 1: Is your closet just as intense as hers?

00:53:53
Speaker 3: Yeah? I have more we have. I have two closets.

00:53:58
Speaker 4: And half closet and there not closes their rooms.

00:54:01
Speaker 1: Well I've seen like on your gram and YouTube where you have done and I'm like, what is this? This This is like a full master bedroom.

00:54:10
Speaker 4: Yeah, we live clothing. We live in clothes. It's really bad. We've been meaning to get like a professional to come organize it all.

00:54:18
Speaker 3: It's like a lot. It's overwhelming.

00:54:19
Speaker 4: It's to get you organized when you want that one piece of clothing, and then it's like I got to go through racks, right, whereas if it was like just dresses or pants all in one area. Yeah, so much easier.

00:54:31
Speaker 1: I have someone for you, really, yeah cool, one hundred person for you. See, I have the opposite problem. I'm like, very Randall is a mess, right, He's like a bull in a china shop.

00:54:42
Speaker 4: And I love that for him.

00:54:44
Speaker 1: Right, you just look at him and you know you use a mess, right stop just ship everywhere. And he doesn't get rid of anything. And I'm like the queen of getting rid of things. So when he comes home, like he takes inventory before he leaves town because he knows if he leaves, you're gonna get rid of Yeah, I'll get ready.

00:55:04
Speaker 4: We call it flipping. So if I'm in a mood and i want a room to look a certain way, like I've just done two rooms and they look fabulous, right, But if I'm in a mood, Nats will be like, oh my god, she's flipping. She's gonna flitch, and I.

00:55:16
Speaker 3: Flip the room.

00:55:17
Speaker 4: I'll throw out so much stuff I'll donate, put it in like garbage bags and stuff, and he'll be like, oh my god, you gave these pants away that I love so much but I had worn in five years. I was like, well, you don't need them though.

00:55:29
Speaker 1: You don't need them if you haven't worn them in five years, then time for them to go out. No, seriously, my housekeeper and house manager love me because like I'm like giving them Sendy and Gibonche and they're just like walking around and I'm like, you look so fabulous, and They'll tell me, like their daughters will be like, do you realize like the shoes you have on?

00:55:47
Speaker 4: Right?

00:55:48
Speaker 1: My my housekeeper took my hooker lubetins that I'm like obsessed with, and yeah, she sent me a picture of her.

00:55:53
Speaker 4: And they gave them away though.

00:55:55
Speaker 1: Yeah, I gave them to her. Why because I was like, I'm not going to wear them again.

00:55:58
Speaker 4: I got it. You know you've already You've already worn them.

00:56:00
Speaker 1: And then like my business manager was like, you could sell it. I'm like, I'm not going to sell it.

00:56:06
Speaker 4: I'm not going to sell it to the real reel or something.

00:56:08
Speaker 1: Yeah. No, I'm gonna give it to freaking Isabelle, who's gonna look like a hot bitch. You know. I love that. Yeah, And Isabelle fucking works. Those lubtons like nobody's business that you know. Love that, So I have someone for you for sure. My closet is the opposite. I'm like, wore it one time, never gonna wear it again. But then you look at my sweatshirts and it's like do you have enough? Yeah, black T shirts and sweatshirts I refuse to get rid of.

00:56:35
Speaker 4: It's you went so special, like I need that one. I need, Like the sweat closet over at our house is the exact same way.

00:56:41
Speaker 2: You have a sweat closet, yes, and it's mine, and it's just like it's like merch and stuff from like Coachella, Like I want to keep every.

00:56:49
Speaker 3: Coachella hoodie that I've ever bought.

00:56:50
Speaker 2: Of course, and it's like my sneaker room at the same time, So it's just like merch, yeasy stuff, sneaker stuff.

00:56:56
Speaker 1: I think I would have more of a Heyday in his closet.

00:56:59
Speaker 4: Than well, I don't know, really awesome, pretty cool stuff.

00:57:04
Speaker 1: Yeah, I would probably need both because there's no middle speed with me. It's like we're going full on tomboy oversize everything or we are getting clammed.

00:57:15
Speaker 4: Yes, like tonight for your event.

00:57:17
Speaker 1: Glammed as fuck, Glammed as fuck. Love it, I know, can't wait, can't Oh, you're both gonna do me so proud of definitely, I know it.

00:57:27
Speaker 4: We're ready.

00:57:27
Speaker 1: Okay, So with this podcast and us wrapping up, we're gonna get We're going to get the feels for anyone listening who is going through a tough time and you are the people they look to, like, what is your inspiring note to them?

00:57:45
Speaker 2: Gee?

00:57:45
Speaker 1: Do you want to go first?

00:57:46
Speaker 2: Ah?

00:57:46
Speaker 4: Sure, I would say from personal experience, I think when I started my transition, it was like, I gotta get it done now. I like, this is the list of things I need to get done by this month and this month, and then by the end of it, I was like I just was rushing the whole thing. You know. It's like you really just got to take your time. So I would just let people know that they are where they're supposed to be and it is fine. Don't put more like unnecessary pressure on yourself because of comparing yourself to people you see online or you know, things you read. It's like, no, no, no, you are unique, you are fine. You can do anything you set your mind to, but just be easy on yourself. I love that, and it's it works, it really does. Oh I love that, gene and put away the pressure because you're killing it already.

00:58:37
Speaker 3: Yeah, I'm true.

00:58:38
Speaker 1: Yes, amen, Sis, what about you? And next?

00:58:41
Speaker 2: I think the most important thing is that I've realized I spent a lot of my younger years when I was just like a lesbian without a sense of community or like chosen family. And now, especially since Gigi and I got together, I had like the most incredible chosen.

00:59:01
Speaker 3: Family around me, like friends, wife.

00:59:04
Speaker 2: People that I live with, and like, obviously my real family is so accepting, but it's so important to have that core group of friends. And a lot of people don't have, you know, their real family to support them. So it's just like find that chosen family, whether it's like an actual community of people you get to see face to face or like a bunch of people you meet online, Like there's always going to be a group for you. You just have to go and like actively search for them.

00:59:29
Speaker 1: Dude, that's amazing.

00:59:31
Speaker 4: Family is almost as important, if not more important, than your real family.

00:59:35
Speaker 2: Yeah.

00:59:35
Speaker 1: Well someone told me once, because we don't get along with my extended family, and it's like you can pick your friends. You don't get to pick your family. So it's okay if you go out and you find friends that you're like, I'm going to make you my family.

00:59:47
Speaker 4: My especially if you're living in a town that your family's not in.

00:59:51
Speaker 1: Well, yeah, totally.

00:59:52
Speaker 4: All LA people basically have chosen families because they're all what's it called.

00:59:56
Speaker 1: Important implant implant implants grab, that's where my mind went to.

01:00:03
Speaker 4: I'm like, exactly, yeah, So I feel like it's like who you surround yourself with, you know, if people want to see you doing well, it's like you're gonna you're gonna flourish.

01:00:12
Speaker 3: I love it.

01:00:13
Speaker 1: You guys are amazing again. We had on the podcast today and Nats, Getty and Gigi gorgeous. We hope that you go out and you slay the day. Remember you are everything and more and we will catch you next week.

01:00:26
Speaker 4: Fine app