161. Paige's exit; Marriage and phone etiquette; Next Gen NYC; Jax is just plain dangerous

Cocktails and Gossip

Paige announced her exit from Summer House this morning, coming off the final reunion episode of Summer House season 9. We have thoughts on why she's leaving and what might be next for her. Amanda and Kyle shared that they have had struggles in their marriage over the last year - and we have some tea on how Kyle's behavior isn't exactly matching up with his words. Is it ever appropriate for a married person to give another person (of the sex they are attracted to) their phone number? How do we handle this situation in our real lives? Next Gen NYC is here and we are pleasantly surprised that we loved the first episode. We do a breakdown on each castmember - backgound and who we're liking and who can go. Plus, our thoughts on why this show really could become Bravo's next big franchise. And last, we share a comment from our friend and Cocktail Party member, @stonecolddaddy about Jax. We couldn't agree more. We hope you're listening on this one, Bravo.

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Why are you giving these
attractive women your number and

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one or two people? You think you
gave your number to a couple?

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Why are you giving, as a married
man, your number out to multiple

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women? It isn't like she was the
director of management of the

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Bellagio Hotel and he was
booking a DJ gig, right? Nobody

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should be that friendly when
they're married. Nobody is

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screwing you. You're screwing
yourself. You're disrespecting

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your wife.

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Welcome to cocktails and gossip,
the podcast where we drink

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cocktails, but you better
believe we're going to spill the

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tape. We chat reality TV
celebrity blinds and the hottest

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tea from Bravo and cocktails.com
and as always, it's all alleged.

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And just for fun, we do not
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I'm B and I'm Amanda. Let's get
into this week's tea. Well,

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drop.

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What's up? Cocktail ers, I
apologize in advance for my

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voice. My allergies are and I'm
doubling up. I'm taking allergy

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medication in the morning and
allergy medication at night. But

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I just saw online, the Canadian
wildfires are apparently

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affecting the air quality in New
York, because this is like

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crazy. I I'm like, I'm losing my
voice as I'm talking and having

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to constantly drink water, so
I'm sorry.

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Well, we just hope you're
feeling better. And I struggle

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with allergies too, and it's
like, I don't know, it's been an

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extra long season. And we have
this one tree in our front yard

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that drops and, like on our
front area, that drops stuff,

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different stuff, all year long.
And I think I'm allergic to all

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you're allergic to everything it
drops pretty much. Okay. So we

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should start with summer house,
because the reunion was on last

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night, but also some big news
was also

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dropped today. So today, Paige
officially announced her

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departure, and this week has
just been filled with Will she?

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Won't she? Different Intel?
Amanda and I, prior to anybody

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saying she wasn't returning, had
a long chat a couple pods ago,

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our listeners know that we
really felt there was no way

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she'd be returning full time.
Yeah, and the reason for that,

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she doesn't need the check, I
have to say, I never saw a page

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as somebody who loved it. It was
more a vehicle to get her where

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she wanted to be. And it appears
to me she's quite possibly she's

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got further to go, because
everything she touches is gold,

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but just, quite frankly, it
didn't make sense for her to

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come back for that check. I did
think we'd get appearances, and

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I do believe, and I'm going to
walk you guys through all of the

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different intel we had Amanda,
and I will, because I do believe

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there were contract
negotiations, trying to get

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appearances. I was told that she
was asking for a lot of money,

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rightfully so. So whether or not
we'll see her on summer house,

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really, in my opinion, comes
down to what the budget is, and

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if they were able to make it
work. I would like to point out

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that a source reached out to me
as soon as Paige announced and

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said, B notice she's thanking
the NBCU family and not

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specifically. Bravo. This is a
perfect example of one door

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closing another one opening.
There's a bigger deal coming

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down the pipeline. Does that
look like a regular feature on

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the Today Show, her own show, in
addition to maybe a summer house

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spin off,

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she started in the post too. She
said, you'll see me again, and

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that doesn't surprise us. Yeah,

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so I think we should walk
everybody through the different

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intel we got this week, because
sometimes it's funny to see how

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we landed here. Yes. Okay, so at
the beginning of the week, we

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got this email subject, casting.
Casting is looking at bringing

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Oh, and the email is from summer
house at Bravo, so we this is

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how we know what the email is
about. Casting is looking at

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bringing in two new guys and two
new girls, all single. They want

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Jesse, Lexi West and Sierra to
be around single people, so the

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drama of possible hookups
happens. Sadly, Lindsay Carl and

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Paige won't be full time, but
will definitely make appearances

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and might be shown in solo
scenes in the city a little

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which will be like more test
scenes for a spin off. Gabby and

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emerald are done, and Danielle
will not be visiting any longer.

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Thank God for that shell. Mean,
she's just mean. I'm bitter her.

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I agree, bitter. So yesterday we
got more intel and other gossip.

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Sources are were saying
different things regarding the

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summer house cast. I was told it
this was yesterday. It isn't

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decided yet. Kyle and Amanda
weren't mentioned in that email.

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Well, my source said they're
full time. As of yesterday, I

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was told Paige is still
negotiating the want is for full

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time, but they're giving her
flexibility to not go to The

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Hamptons and film with Lindsay
in the city, full departure with

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only guest appearances are the
backup plan. And again, the

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person at the same thought that
she just doesn't want her love

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life, life in general, played
out on camera, because the

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payoff isn't worth it for her to
expose that much. So she

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announced a full departure. I do
think that the last thing

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anybody would do is alienate the
network that made them famous.

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So we will absolutely see her a
separate source did say that she

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was asking for a lot of money.
That's where these negotiations

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came into play. This was as of
yesterday, and obviously it was

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ironed out yesterday. And the
announcement she made today, she

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didn't mention an appearance.
But if she's making a deal with

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NBCU, an overarching deal, I
don't see a world where they

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don't work in something this
summer. You know what I mean.

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And why would she mention that?
Because even if she pops up at a

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lunch in the city. She's not
going to mention that in her

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goodbye post, no,

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she just said, you'll see us.
You'll see me again. And we

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know, you know, there's been
talk about the spit off in the

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city show, and you know, I, I
gotta give it to her, because

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she did it, right? She built
something else amazing while on

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the show, in a situation where
she has creative control, she

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and Hannah do for giggly squad
and all of those properties,

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including the tour, all of that,
she has also built a sizable

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Amazon live selling business as
well as lots of brand deals and

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influencing. I I really do
think, you know, not everybody

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can do this. I think she is very
she is a star, right, as we have

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discussed, she's doing it right,
and she's leaving when the show

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still wants her, she's, I'm
sure, leaving on very good

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terms, and she's leaving and she
doesn't when she doesn't need

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the show. And I think everybody
should follow this as textbook

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on how you do it, because I
think of a lot about the other

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housewives who have dabbled in
other things, right? Like Teresa

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judais comes to mind, and

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right, there was a point where
she could have done more she and

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she didn't, but not everybody is
offered that opportunity

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or herself. Paige made it right
herself, and that's what I think

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is so cool about her, because,
but not everybody

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has the likability factor. Like
as an example, Amanda gets brand

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deals. Sierra gets brand deals.
People like them on the show.

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They're not in a position to
give up the check, no, and

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that's and the exposure that
comes. They don't have a podcast

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that a million people listen to,
as Paige and Hannah do, and

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that's where I think, as well,
that hand or that Paige in her

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next step, whatever she does
next, she's probably looking for

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more creative control as well,
yeah, and to not be a part of an

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ensemble cast where there is
less control of her image and

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the way that she is portrayed
honestly. So

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she's a huge brand. She's a
name. I think one name only,

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Paige. I

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think it makes so much sense for
her. And I'm I obviously we're

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gonna miss her, but I think I
think this is a really smart

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call on her part.

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I do want I agree
wholeheartedly. I know we'll

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still see her. I know we can
listen to her on her podcast.

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She has her YouTube show with
Hannah, so I will miss her on

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summer house. I think it's
absolutely the right move. I

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wonder what the success of the
show without her looks like. And

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speaking of those who are
continuing on the show we saw at

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the reunion, the second part,
Amanda and Kyle opened up about

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the struggles in their marriage,
Amanda said that the combination

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of Kyle's work and party habits
led her to have one foot out the

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door. Quoted, I'm quoting
directly, right, Kyle was asked,

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Are you ready to have kids? And
he countered with, is Amanda

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ready to have kids? And we saw
this in the clip, but I found it

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pretty shocking that she said,
Yeah, with someone who actually

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wants to have kids with me. So
clearly, Kyle was trying to

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gloss it over, like, yeah, I've
made changes. Things are not

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great, and him trying to spin it
that he's made some changes, but

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we know about his current work
and party schedule, and no

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changes have been made. And
Amanda looked very unsatisfied

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with his answers. Yeah,

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I mean, she said it's hard to be
a family when he's working as

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much, and then he's gone on the
weekends on these DJ gets gigs.

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I believe she used the word the
term midlife crisis about him. I

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mean,

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do have some exclusive intel
that and Amanda and I both

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Amanda, my Amanda, have really
hesitated to share. This in the

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past, ultimately, because they
discussed the issues in their

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marriage at the reunion, and we
saw the clips before it aired. I

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Okay? So, as be said, we don't
always, you know sometimes when

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we're posting stuff like it's
not our favorite to post this,

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but in this case, there were
receipts. So Kyle was in Vegas

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for a bachelor party and also a
DJ gig, a cocktailer who we know

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because she's often we chat with
her, she sent pictures and

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videos of them hanging out and
said he took her number. He had

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no ring on but they did not hook
up. It was super friendly. The

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second part of the summer house
reunion had not been shown yet,

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but as we just mentioned, Things
are tense in their marriage. So

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we shared this one, prophesying
that although it was flirty, it

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was not a hookup or anything
like

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that. Many times I've received
DMS. We've received emails with

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similar Intel, and we have
decided not to post it. There is

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a guilt that comes in with us
posting this stuff, but the

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reality is these he is a public
figure. All reality stars are,

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and you are in Vegas at very
public pool parties. So if we

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don't post it, somebody else is
going to the same way.

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Scandoval, we posted the intel
we had about the affair with

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Raquel, and then it was
confirmed. It gets to a point

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where I kind of take the
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and we really do come to
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sometimes I'll be ready to post,
and she'll be like, I don't

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know, let's hold off. And vice
versa. And we kind of came to an

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agreement this time, like, Okay,
it's time, because Jesse teased

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the big announcement, and I
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based on the fact that he wasn't
wearing his ring at the pool,

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and he was so blatant that maybe
we were getting a separation

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announcement. Honestly, that is
why I felt comfortable posting

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it. Ultimately, they did not
announce a separation, but we do

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have a confirmation from our
source that they'll be full time

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next season. All of this is in
the air. Amanda has said that

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Kyle's partying puts their
marriage at risk, so I don't

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know what we're looking at this
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Yeah, well, I do want to say
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this, I think it's one thing.
Like you and I have talked

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about, like going out on a girls
night and like having a good

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time is one thing going. Out
repeatedly until you know they

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say, nothing good happens after
2am or midnight, depending,

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yeah, midnight, but whichever.
But you know, when you're

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repeatedly putting yourself
purposely in these situations,

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and you're planning your life
around being in these

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situations, right? It raises
eyebrows. It you can't I think

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every you know, I think you can
be a man. You can go to Vegas

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for a wild bachelor party. That
is a route, you know, at a pool

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party, whatever. You can still
be respectful to your wife,

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right? I think, though, if you
continue to put yourself in

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these late night everybody shit
faced situations again and again

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and again, that you really need
to look at your behavior and why

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you aren't home in bed with your
wife at 2am on correct any given

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Saturday.

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So the posts that we shared and
the receipts that we shared. Got

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back to Kyle, and he actually
texted the woman, woman who sent

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us the video, picture, etc, and
he said, this is his text to

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her, sorry. So he sent a
screenshot of our cocktail post

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and said, Sorry, but did you
send this in I don't think I

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gave my number to more than one
or two people, including you and

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I was just being friendly. Sucks
when I get screwed like this. I

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lost my wedding ring at the gym
earlier

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this week. Sorry, but that text
sounds like guilt to me.

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Listen, you're a married man,
you're in Vegas, you're at a

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pool party in bikinis, not
you're not in a bikini, but the

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women are Why are you giving
these attractive women your

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number and one or two people?
You think you gave your number

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to a couple? Why are you giving,
as a married man, your number

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out to multiple women? It isn't
like she was the director of

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management of the Bellagio Hotel
and he was booking a DJ gig,

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right? Nobody should be that
friendly when they're married.

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Nobody is screwing you. You're
screwing yourself. You're

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disrespecting your wife, and
none of that has anything to do

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with any of us that report on
it. That makes what it is.

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Let me ask you a question,
because I know what you're gonna

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say to my first question, so I'm
just gonna assume you're gonna

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say no, but I can't think. Can
you think of any situations

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where you would be out in Vegas
and you would give your number

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to a man that is just somebody
else partying? I'm gonna assume

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no, right, no.

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And if I got the same receipts
from Abe Lici and Aaron from

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Roni, I would think it was very
inappropriate and or any married

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person. So here I are a woman
giving

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here's my follow up question I
am actually, this is one that I

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am really curious, because I as
a mom of two kids, I do a lot of

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logistics planning, right?
Carpool planning, tournament,

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planning things like that. And
there are often or like even

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play dates. You know, when kids
are coming back and forth, I

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usually copy the person's if I'm
trying to figure something out

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with a dad, I usually copy their
wife on all of the text, because

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I think that is respectful thing
to do. Do you have, like, What

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is your thought on that?

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I am trying to think of a
situation where I've texted a

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father, and I can't think of
one, because in both cases, it's

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either a team message where,
like everybody, whatever parent

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is on the team, that's the
contact is on there, but it's

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public for the whole team, yeah,
or I'm dealing with

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the mom, yeah. And for fun,

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I agree with what you're saying.
I had a text Jimmy's dad, John,

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I would tag his wife, Colleen on
that, like I

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write CC, you just put her on
the text, which is what? Because

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I think in my older son's
situation, the some of the like

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this, there's just a lot of
planning and coordination with

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some of the travel team stuff,
but then all and like that. So

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there's a couple of the dads
that kind of lead it, and so I,

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I and like, I just, I can't
think of a situation where I

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wouldn't also put the life on
the text, even though I know

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she's not going to be
responding, that I'm, you know,

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really reaching out to the dad
to follow up on something, or to

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firm up carpool or whatever. So
it's just, it's that, to me, is

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extremely disrespectful to give
somebody your number and like,

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there's in a quote, unquote
friendly way. I just don't, I

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don't know. I don't believe in
that. I don't think that. I

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don't think that's a thing in a
respectful marriage. Maybe I'm,

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like, really traditional. I
don't know. I don't think

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it is either, and I'm interested
to see I haven't received any

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DMS or any comments on the
cocktail posts that say he's

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just being friendly. I think
people generally agree with us,

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and I do think that Kyle is a
friendly, outgoing guy, but you

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don't have to give anyone your
number. You can be friendly and

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outgoing. I

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have met people. So I have met
people in business situations

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and but then I give them my work
email. I don't give her my phone

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number, same, yeah, it's just, I
don't know. It's whatever. This

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is not like a virtue signaling
situation. This is just somebody

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who's got a lot of experience
being married, and I just this

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is what I, you know, I
personally find to be

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appropriate or inappropriate.
Okay, so let's talk about what's

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going to happen with the rest of
the cast, because I know I am

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really hoping we get this show
that we have been asking for,

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which is this filming in the
city with some of our favorite

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cast members, including Lindsey,
which, you know, I have said

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many times, I'm not like a huge
Lindsey fan, but I really like

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watching her, because I
honestly, I'm really losing

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interest in watching people my
age and this Kyle, I'm looking

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squarely at you party, just
every weekend. And I like this

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idea of maybe summer house,
going younger, more single, less

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couple house, and then possibly
following some of the characters

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that we love, the cast we love
in the city. And

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I totally think that will happen
regarding this summer and what

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summer house will look like. It
makes sense. We're gonna see

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Lindsay out there. I think we'll
also see her in the city.

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Unfortunately, we know that she
is not being considered for

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Roni, despite her friendships
with some of the cast, including

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Erin and Jessel. I don't agree
with that decision. I know a lot

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of you guys don't agree, but
that is what it is. Yeah, they

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should put her on Roni, but
they're not if there's a spin

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off coming, which I do believe
that there is, that has been the

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plan. But as we said, that plan
has not been for the immediate I

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can tell you, it is not on the
production schedule for the

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calendar year 2025 My hope is
for calendar year 2026 they

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start moving with that again.
Let's call it January, right.

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Get cameras up ahead of the
summer so that before the next

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season, 11 of summer house,
maybe we get to see the spin

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off. Also,

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just from a production
standpoint, guys like, listen to

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us, this makes sense, because
you've got a team in place to be

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in the Hamptons on the weekends.
Get that same team, that entire

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same team you can have working
during the week on this other

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show. So we're talking
efficiencies Exactly.

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Let's get efficient. And I
actually wrote because Amanda

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and I write notes, and I
actually wrote in my notes. We

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know beyond this season 10, we
knew maybe we would see Paige do

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some limited filming to close it
out, but I strongly felt she

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wouldn't be full time, if back
at all. So by season 11, who's

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coming back like I can see Kyle
and Amanda wrapping it up after

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this 10th summer, we still want
Lindsay. So yeah, as far as

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getting rid of Gabby, I really
like her. I can see them wanting

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to free that salary up for
somebody that might bring more

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drama. Emerald never got a fair
shot, but he's out. You know,

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there's some, there's some
people who are saying that Lexi

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is out. I believe she's in. I
just That's my gut, and my

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source told agreed with that.
Let's see, yeah,

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I mean, I read comments. There's
a lot of, I think, hand energy

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behind Lexi as well, and there's
some against her as well. But

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we're all noticing all of the
posts from Lindsay posting with

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Aaron. It's got our attention,
whether it means anything,

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probably not. But on the topic
of Lindsay, at the reunion last

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night, we learned that she and
her boyfriend are no longer

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romantically together, but they
co parent very well, according

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to Lindsay, so

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not only did we have this in
cocktail party in February, we

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had the details right down to
them still brunching together.

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Listen, we had seen the
speculation about them not being

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together, but then we had a
reliable person tell us that

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they are just co parenting,
which is exactly what she said.

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We also have posts that they
were spotted after we had heard

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they weren't romantically
involved, that they were spotted

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at brunch, it made us wonder if
they had gotten back together.

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But as Lindsay pointed out,
they're co parenting Well, she

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did say that she's not in a
place to date anyone else, and

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he spends a lot of nights at her
place, not she said, not friends

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with benefits, just co
parenting. But she pointed out

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that if he were dating somebody
else, it would have to change

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their arrangement arrangement.
She wouldn't want him staying

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with her. So I do get the
feeling that they are at a

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crossroads of her not being
willing to give. Up her public

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persona for the relationship and
him not willing to be with her

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if she doesn't give it up, which
makes me sad for her, because he

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got together with her knowing
full well who she was and what

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she did for a living. Yeah,
yeah.

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I just hope they are able to co
parent well, and they're able to

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continue that, because it's not
easy to co parent and and they

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don't

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get back together at some point,
one of them is going to date

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somebody else. They're not just
going to be celibate like

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forever. But also,

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as Gemma gets older, I think
things can change a little bit,

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because when you have an infant,
it's the, it's not like the

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infant can be doing a week on,
week off, yeah, with their, you

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know, their mother. And so I
think the fact it makes a lot of

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sense that Tanner, the dad, is
spending nights with the baby,

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so, like, I can see it being
like, okay to, you know, Tanner

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like you're here if she wakes up
in the night, tonight's your

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night. So Lindsay can actually
get some sleep, because I don't

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think the baby is probably
sleeping at Tanner's house yet.

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But as she gets older, it'll
become a little bit easier,

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because you don't have it's not
as immediate. You know,

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parenting is not as a immediate
as in, like the baby's crying, I

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need to go feed her right now.
Situation, it'll be interesting

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to see, but I hope that they can
continue to co parent. So New

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York, next gen, New York City
started this week, before we get

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into the people. I am curious to
hear what you think about

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everything. But did you after
watching that show? And I know

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you're a New Yorker, so this is
because I watched the show and

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felt like it's, it's making New
York City look amazing, like

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very much like sex, and the city
did the way, the city was a

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character of sorts, 100%

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it gave such Gossip Girl vibes.
Yeah, I agree with you. The city

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is a character in the same way
the city is a character on Roni.

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I was excited and hopeful, but I
was actually really pleasantly

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surprised with how good it was.
The cast meshed very well

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together. And you have Charlie,
Georgia and Ava, who are like

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00:27:26,120 --> 00:27:30,440
legit New Yorkers, right? And it
felt that way. It felt

422
00:27:30,440 --> 00:27:34,220
authentic. You then have the
Bravo infusion of Brooks, who

423
00:27:34,220 --> 00:27:38,480
went to NYU, who is seemingly
really friends with Charlie,

424
00:27:38,600 --> 00:27:43,300
yeah, and Georgia and Ava as
well. Riley also went to NYU.

425
00:27:43,360 --> 00:27:47,020
Yeah, so they do all have that
common bond. We saw their

426
00:27:47,020 --> 00:27:50,920
backstories. We saw who was
rich, like Charlie and Ava and

427
00:27:50,920 --> 00:27:54,280
like celebrity, like Ava, and
then who were who wasn't like

428
00:27:54,280 --> 00:27:59,140
Georgia, who's just a hustler,
right? It was what felt like an

429
00:27:59,320 --> 00:28:04,260
authentic representation of the
New York City Gen Z social scene

430
00:28:04,260 --> 00:28:07,860
at so let's go through the
episode as we met everyone.

431
00:28:08,220 --> 00:28:13,860
Kim bierman's daughter, Ariana,
was the first person they showed

432
00:28:13,920 --> 00:28:19,080
we hear that she will be the
breakout star, and I feel like

433
00:28:19,080 --> 00:28:20,220
I'm already seeing it.

434
00:28:20,220 --> 00:28:23,000
Remember when she was little,
she was the smart one in the

435
00:28:23,000 --> 00:28:28,400
family. She continues to hold
down that crown. Yeah, we saw

436
00:28:28,400 --> 00:28:31,340
her and her boyfriend Hudson,
looking at apartments. I have to

437
00:28:31,340 --> 00:28:33,620
tell a quick story. So on the
way to one of my daughter's

438
00:28:33,620 --> 00:28:35,840
tournaments, we had a drive
through Manhattan. We're in

439
00:28:35,840 --> 00:28:40,480
gridlock traffic, and there was
this small brownstone, and it

440
00:28:40,480 --> 00:28:43,240
was on the way to the Holland
Tunnel, so it was like a major

441
00:28:43,300 --> 00:28:47,440
street, right? And my husband
was, like, just for shits and

442
00:28:47,440 --> 00:28:50,440
giggles. Google that address. I
would love to know what that is

443
00:28:50,440 --> 00:28:53,740
listed at, yeah. So it was a
fully attached brownstone. Think

444
00:28:53,740 --> 00:28:57,700
Sonia Morgan's, but not as tall,
so not as many floors, so

445
00:28:57,760 --> 00:29:02,400
smaller than that. Some
brownstones do have a garage.

446
00:29:02,520 --> 00:29:06,780
This did not it was $8 million
or, like, seven, seven or

447
00:29:06,780 --> 00:29:09,060
something. So when I looked at
the listing, it said it was,

448
00:29:09,060 --> 00:29:11,820
like 3000 square feet. But it
looked tiny. It was fully

449
00:29:11,820 --> 00:29:15,180
attached. My kids were like, Oh
my god. So Manhattan real estate

450
00:29:15,540 --> 00:29:19,500
is truly insane. Ariana, his
boyfriend, as we know because we

451
00:29:19,500 --> 00:29:22,760
posted about it in cocktail
Hudson. He's uber rich. His

452
00:29:22,760 --> 00:29:26,600
family, his dad created Zach's
bees. Am I saying that right? Do

453
00:29:26,600 --> 00:29:28,580
you have them by you? I think
they're mostly in the South.

454
00:29:28,580 --> 00:29:28,760
They're

455
00:29:28,760 --> 00:29:32,780
in the South. I've been there
before, but yeah, they're in the

456
00:29:32,780 --> 00:29:33,080
South.

457
00:29:33,260 --> 00:29:37,160
This is a fast food chain, and
so he does very well. Ariana

458
00:29:37,160 --> 00:29:40,780
shared that her mom stole all
the money she made over the

459
00:29:40,780 --> 00:29:44,320
years, I assume, from the show
and any brand deals or whatever,

460
00:29:44,320 --> 00:29:46,720
she actually noted that she
moved out because of her

461
00:29:46,720 --> 00:29:50,080
mother's lying, and I guess,
like, we can call it like

462
00:29:50,140 --> 00:29:53,020
personality disorder, really,
truly, but she did say her

463
00:29:53,020 --> 00:29:56,920
parents stole her money. So Kroy
is not an innocent in this,

464
00:29:56,980 --> 00:29:59,800
right? But yet she does carry
guilt, and she still sends a.

465
00:30:00,000 --> 00:30:03,120
Her mom money all the time. And
Hudson expressed concerns,

466
00:30:03,180 --> 00:30:05,580
because while he understands her
guilt, and of course, he

467
00:30:05,580 --> 00:30:09,120
understands her need to want to
help the four little kids that

468
00:30:09,120 --> 00:30:12,000
Kim and Croy have, he said to
her, how do we even know that

469
00:30:12,000 --> 00:30:15,180
money's going to the kids? Like,
I think he's I think he's trying

470
00:30:15,180 --> 00:30:17,460
to say to her, like, yes, we
want to help the kids, but we

471
00:30:17,460 --> 00:30:20,600
have to do something where we
know that it's going to them,

472
00:30:20,600 --> 00:30:23,720
and it's being utilized for
them. It was so disturbing,

473
00:30:23,720 --> 00:30:24,560
learning this,

474
00:30:24,620 --> 00:30:29,660
it is so sad. I can't say I'm
surprised that it happened to

475
00:30:29,660 --> 00:30:34,340
her, knowing how bad the
finances had gotten with Kim and

476
00:30:34,340 --> 00:30:39,980
cry, I was honestly very
surprised, in a good way, I

477
00:30:39,980 --> 00:30:44,800
guess, to see Arianna be so
honest about it, yes, seeing her

478
00:30:44,800 --> 00:30:49,240
feel so conflicted about wanting
to send the money to her mom for

479
00:30:49,240 --> 00:30:53,800
the kids, but then also seeing
her mom drink a $200 bottle of

480
00:30:53,800 --> 00:30:57,520
wine, that's just not a way that
I could see myself living a life

481
00:30:57,520 --> 00:31:00,700
but and then that they lied
about where all the money went,

482
00:31:00,700 --> 00:31:03,480
like you said. She said she
moved out because of all the

483
00:31:03,480 --> 00:31:07,680
lying. All of this feels
unfathomable to me, but it also,

484
00:31:07,680 --> 00:31:10,860
again, just makes me wonder
about the mental health of Croy

485
00:31:10,920 --> 00:31:14,760
and Kim and which just makes my
heart go because they have

486
00:31:14,760 --> 00:31:15,300
speaking of

487
00:31:15,300 --> 00:31:19,680
Kim in real time. This morning,
I got a text from a cocktail

488
00:31:19,680 --> 00:31:22,080
that sent me a picture that
isn't a good one. She's going to

489
00:31:22,080 --> 00:31:24,440
try to get it back. Get a better
one when they land. They're

490
00:31:24,440 --> 00:31:28,520
currently in flight who spotted
Kim zolziak on a flight to the

491
00:31:28,520 --> 00:31:33,140
Bahamas sitting diagonally from
our cocktail or talking very

492
00:31:33,140 --> 00:31:36,080
loudly and chugging bloodies. I
hope she can get me a better

493
00:31:36,080 --> 00:31:39,680
picture. Oh, and she's also with
a Croy look alike, and it looks

494
00:31:39,680 --> 00:31:42,580
like it's first class. Let me
try to zoom in, but yeah, yeah,

495
00:31:42,580 --> 00:31:43,240
it's first class.

496
00:31:43,240 --> 00:31:46,060
Hopefully he's paying for
everything. I also thought, I

497
00:31:46,060 --> 00:31:48,880
don't know if you picked up on
this, but when Ariana and

498
00:31:48,880 --> 00:31:51,760
husband are sitting outside at
that restaurant and there's that

499
00:31:51,760 --> 00:31:56,200
close up on the bottom of her
Louboutins, yeah, it's such a

500
00:31:56,200 --> 00:32:02,400
metaphor, I feel like, for where
she is in life, which is she had

501
00:32:02,400 --> 00:32:06,120
wealth, it's been taken away,
and she's kind of clawing her

502
00:32:06,120 --> 00:32:09,600
way back to the top. I don't
know. I thought it was cool. It

503
00:32:09,600 --> 00:32:13,080
was cool video work, cool
editing. And I'm really rooting

504
00:32:13,080 --> 00:32:17,580
for her same next they showed
Brooks. He is the creative

505
00:32:17,580 --> 00:32:21,860
director for his mother,
Meredith marks company. He

506
00:32:21,860 --> 00:32:25,100
shares that he is feels like
he's living in her shadow.

507
00:32:25,160 --> 00:32:28,640
I have to say, I think Brooks is
a great fit the Bravo audience

508
00:32:28,700 --> 00:32:32,600
knows him. He's connected to
both the New York City kids like

509
00:32:32,600 --> 00:32:36,380
Charlie and Georgia and Ava and
then the Bravo kids. So it

510
00:32:36,380 --> 00:32:38,120
really positions him to be the
glue.

511
00:32:38,180 --> 00:32:43,780
Yeah, I agree. I think he's, he
is also very just good looking,

512
00:32:43,840 --> 00:32:48,040
I thought too, the fact that
he's not a confrontation person,

513
00:32:48,100 --> 00:32:51,460
and kind of watching him
struggle with that, I think is

514
00:32:51,460 --> 00:32:55,540
kind of interesting, because
we're so used to people on

515
00:32:55,540 --> 00:32:59,440
housewives shows going all in.
So I think that's kind of an

516
00:32:59,440 --> 00:33:03,720
interesting angle. I have to
say, if he feels like he's in

517
00:33:03,720 --> 00:33:07,260
his mother's shadow, don't work
for her. You know, like, Yes, I

518
00:33:07,260 --> 00:33:10,620
think one of the reasons that I
think I'm really gonna like this

519
00:33:10,620 --> 00:33:17,460
show is because I feel like this
is one of the most pivotal, if

520
00:33:17,460 --> 00:33:22,400
not the most pivotal, point in
people's lives, because I

521
00:33:22,400 --> 00:33:27,200
remember feeling so scared to go
and work and build my career on

522
00:33:27,200 --> 00:33:31,340
my own, because school and
college were very comfortable

523
00:33:31,340 --> 00:33:34,580
for me. I was good at getting
good grades. I was good at,

524
00:33:34,580 --> 00:33:38,060
like, figuring things out, but I
had, you know, building a

525
00:33:38,060 --> 00:33:41,860
career. I had no idea how to do
that. I went to school in a

526
00:33:41,860 --> 00:33:45,820
smaller town, and then I moved
to a big city that I was not

527
00:33:45,820 --> 00:33:50,560
from, and I figured it out, and
I never thought of it as brave

528
00:33:50,560 --> 00:33:54,040
at the time, but looking back, I
really do, and so I really

529
00:33:54,040 --> 00:33:58,120
identify with these kids and
where they are, because it's

530
00:33:58,120 --> 00:34:01,980
such a it just is such a crazy
time of life where people are

531
00:34:01,980 --> 00:34:05,820
told, you know, you're an adult
now you have to figure it out.

532
00:34:05,880 --> 00:34:11,220
Like Riley said, she's got a
year until her mom cuts her off.

533
00:34:11,220 --> 00:34:14,040
And I'm like, that's more than a
lot of people have, but it's I

534
00:34:14,040 --> 00:34:18,600
still identify with that. So
this is, I just think I really

535
00:34:18,600 --> 00:34:24,440
like this theme, and seeing this
through the Gen Z lens. And so,

536
00:34:24,500 --> 00:34:28,820
you know, we got that tea about
this being the next big Bravo

537
00:34:28,820 --> 00:34:33,200
franchise, and I can really see
that, because this is a struggle

538
00:34:33,200 --> 00:34:38,240
that people in any city or town
face, ultimately. So it feels

539
00:34:38,240 --> 00:34:38,780
like

540
00:34:38,779 --> 00:34:42,699
I that is such a good point. It
the first episode. If you

541
00:34:42,699 --> 00:34:46,719
haven't, if you haven't watched
it, don't let disliking a

542
00:34:46,719 --> 00:34:50,379
housewife or feeling like the
offspring are entitled deter

543
00:34:50,379 --> 00:34:53,979
you, because it really is good
and they're really giving it.

544
00:34:53,979 --> 00:34:57,039
They're not coming on there and
glossing over anything.

545
00:34:57,100 --> 00:35:00,120
Yeah, and like, I mean, while
some of them, some of them. Are

546
00:35:00,120 --> 00:35:03,840
legitimately booked and busy.
You know, you look at Ava dash,

547
00:35:03,900 --> 00:35:08,160
who we see, and, you know,
she's, she's doing it. We see

548
00:35:08,400 --> 00:35:11,340
something that, like Amira, who
will talk about, in a minute,

549
00:35:11,400 --> 00:35:14,580
you like, she, you know, and
Georgia, who will also talk

550
00:35:14,580 --> 00:35:18,360
about, in a minute, yeah,
they're like, they're out there

551
00:35:18,360 --> 00:35:21,560
and they're working. And again,
like something, I very much you

552
00:35:21,560 --> 00:35:24,080
know, they're they're making
their new group of friends

553
00:35:24,080 --> 00:35:28,520
outside of college. These are
all things that that I did as

554
00:35:28,520 --> 00:35:35,600
why. So we also have Charlie
zacore. He is, was a rich kid

555
00:35:35,600 --> 00:35:39,500
given the title crypto trader,
which I found hilarious. He's

556
00:35:39,500 --> 00:35:42,040
like, Yeah, my dad makes a lot
of money, and he gives me money,

557
00:35:42,040 --> 00:35:46,360
and then I invest. Yeah, that's
really funny. Why?

558
00:35:46,360 --> 00:35:49,840
Sitting at the cafe using his
credit card I invest money? Yes,

559
00:35:49,900 --> 00:35:50,680
exactly,

560
00:35:50,740 --> 00:35:55,180
but he's one that we'll be
talking about, I think, quite a

561
00:35:55,180 --> 00:35:59,800
bit, because he has been
connected to this crypto

562
00:35:59,800 --> 00:36:04,380
scandal, where you don't need to
know much about crypto to know

563
00:36:04,380 --> 00:36:07,140
what happened. So there are
these two. They call them

564
00:36:07,140 --> 00:36:10,080
crypto. These two crypto bros
who live in New York, who are

565
00:36:10,080 --> 00:36:15,060
big or who had moved to New
York, came big on the club

566
00:36:15,060 --> 00:36:19,860
scene, spending hundreds of
$1,000 in a night at the clubs.

567
00:36:20,280 --> 00:36:24,800
They had this brownstone that
was rented that the New York

568
00:36:24,800 --> 00:36:29,060
Post is now calling the
townhouse of horrors. They lured

569
00:36:29,240 --> 00:36:32,420
this and to be clear, I'm
talking about two crypto bros

570
00:36:32,420 --> 00:36:35,240
that are not Charlie. I will
tell you guys in a second how

571
00:36:35,240 --> 00:36:38,360
he's leaked. But two crypto bros
lured this Italian crypto

572
00:36:38,360 --> 00:36:42,880
investor into their town hosts,
and they kidnapped him

573
00:36:42,880 --> 00:36:45,580
essentially for weeks. Trapped
him there because they are

574
00:36:45,580 --> 00:36:50,320
trying to get his crypto
passwords. Because if you can

575
00:36:50,320 --> 00:36:53,680
get, if you can get into
somebody's crypto, essentially

576
00:36:53,680 --> 00:36:57,100
their wallet, you can take it,
because everything is very it's

577
00:36:57,220 --> 00:37:02,160
untraceable with crypto. So you
guys might remember the email,

578
00:37:02,160 --> 00:37:05,880
and then it'll show you guys how
this Charlie guy is attached. So

579
00:37:05,880 --> 00:37:09,000
it says, I'm sure you've seen
reports about this crazy case,

580
00:37:09,180 --> 00:37:13,200
two crypto bros slash assholes,
kidnapped and tortured. An

581
00:37:13,200 --> 00:37:17,460
Italian crypto guy he escaped.
Turns out one of the New York

582
00:37:17,460 --> 00:37:22,820
see the next gen NYC kids,
Charlie was the guy who

583
00:37:22,820 --> 00:37:28,520
introduced the crypto bros to
some of the clubs, etc, shady.

584
00:37:28,520 --> 00:37:31,220
And then it says there's also a
picture of him literally

585
00:37:31,220 --> 00:37:34,940
standing at the crime scene when
the one was being arrested.

586
00:37:39,320 --> 00:37:44,740
So before we met Charlie, prior
to the crypto bro scandal, and

587
00:37:44,740 --> 00:37:48,100
again, he introduced them, and
maybe he lives in the building.

588
00:37:48,160 --> 00:37:50,980
I don't believe he had anything.
There is no connection. As far

589
00:37:50,980 --> 00:37:53,800
as his involvement in torturing
this person, that is not what

590
00:37:53,800 --> 00:37:58,060
we're implying. He knows the
guys. Oh, he knows the guys,

591
00:37:58,120 --> 00:38:02,040
which is crazy, and we had heard
a lot about him being a rich

592
00:38:02,040 --> 00:38:06,900
spoil kid. I actually thought he
was more likable and didn't come

593
00:38:06,900 --> 00:38:11,100
off as a spoil brat. Off the
bat, he's very good friends with

594
00:38:11,100 --> 00:38:14,940
Brooks. He's from New York City,
and I have to tell you guys, if

595
00:38:14,940 --> 00:38:18,600
you've watched Gossip Girl, he's
Chuck Bass here, like but

596
00:38:18,840 --> 00:38:21,680
actually a little bit more
likable, and it's only the first

597
00:38:21,680 --> 00:38:25,160
episode, like he doesn't seem
devious. He's 29 so he's

598
00:38:25,160 --> 00:38:28,640
actually a little bit older than
the kids. He is a New York City

599
00:38:28,640 --> 00:38:32,780
rich kid. It gives him access,
right? He's had this access to

600
00:38:32,780 --> 00:38:35,720
places because of his wealth
from a young age, because of the

601
00:38:35,720 --> 00:38:39,320
connections he has through his
father. I'm sure he knows all

602
00:38:39,320 --> 00:38:44,500
the movers and shakers, and
based off of this, he is the guy

603
00:38:44,500 --> 00:38:47,200
around town that people want to
be friends with, right? He gets

604
00:38:47,200 --> 00:38:53,620
you in, he gets you access. And,
yeah, I think he's, I think he's

605
00:38:53,620 --> 00:38:55,960
going to be a star of the show.
Yeah,

606
00:38:55,960 --> 00:39:01,200
I think he's got, he's got swag
too, or yes, the kids say,

607
00:39:01,200 --> 00:39:01,680
because he's

608
00:39:01,680 --> 00:39:03,780
not, like, really that good
looking. I thought it was funny

609
00:39:03,780 --> 00:39:06,120
when somebody's like, he's like,
Scott Disick, and then they were

610
00:39:06,120 --> 00:39:10,260
like, but he looks like, Neil
Diamond, like, he's not very bad

611
00:39:10,260 --> 00:39:13,140
looking, but he's, he's not
Scott Disick cute. He's not,

612
00:39:13,140 --> 00:39:18,000
like, super cute, but he's okay.
But, yeah, he's cute enough

613
00:39:18,000 --> 00:39:19,320
considering, yeah,

614
00:39:19,320 --> 00:39:24,080
you could just tell like he's,
he's got some swag. I did a

615
00:39:24,080 --> 00:39:27,320
little bit of digging into him,
just because I'm, I'm curious

616
00:39:27,920 --> 00:39:31,280
this whole crypto situation, I
think is really interesting.

617
00:39:31,280 --> 00:39:35,240
Also just wanted to understand
where the wealth comes from. So

618
00:39:35,240 --> 00:39:38,840
first we heard on the show that
apparently Charlie used to date

619
00:39:38,840 --> 00:39:41,920
Lindsay Lohan when he was a
teenager, and says, quote,

620
00:39:41,920 --> 00:39:45,280
unquote, she used to pick him up
from school. So I did Google it.

621
00:39:45,280 --> 00:39:50,200
Yes, Charlie's 29 Lindsay Lohan
is now 38 so in no way would

622
00:39:50,200 --> 00:39:54,280
that have been a legal
situation. But according to

623
00:39:54,280 --> 00:39:58,420
everything I've read, and I've
always read about kids like this

624
00:39:58,420 --> 00:40:02,040
that grow up and you. Know, Uber
wealthy in New York City, and

625
00:40:02,040 --> 00:40:06,180
kind of have the city at their
disposal from like, a young Yes,

626
00:40:06,480 --> 00:40:09,840
my cousin actually went to a
private school in the city. She

627
00:40:09,900 --> 00:40:14,040
got not a full but a good
scholarship, and she knew a lot

628
00:40:14,100 --> 00:40:14,700
of kids like

629
00:40:14,700 --> 00:40:18,240
this, and so he's apparently
been at the club since he was

630
00:40:18,240 --> 00:40:22,820
14. So that would all make
sense. His dad is an investment

631
00:40:22,820 --> 00:40:27,440
banker who is now retired and
does his own private investing.

632
00:40:27,440 --> 00:40:32,360
His mom is an art collector who
lives in Palm Beach. So his

633
00:40:32,360 --> 00:40:36,320
parents are divorced. It I don't
know if they are ever married.

634
00:40:36,320 --> 00:40:40,360
I'm not. I don't I don't know
they might be. I just didn't

635
00:40:40,360 --> 00:40:45,400
actually dig into that part of
it, but like you said, Charlie

636
00:40:45,400 --> 00:40:49,600
has not been charged or arrested
in connection with that scandal,

637
00:40:49,600 --> 00:40:52,540
but we will be keeping an eye on
this. First of all, just, I

638
00:40:52,540 --> 00:40:55,240
think it's a really interesting
story, but second of all, just

639
00:40:55,240 --> 00:41:00,900
to see how things pan out with
his connection, back to the

640
00:41:00,900 --> 00:41:04,800
Chuck Bass thing I do. You
remember on Gossip Girl How we

641
00:41:04,800 --> 00:41:08,580
bought all the PE peonies in New
York? And she thought, then

642
00:41:08,580 --> 00:41:11,160
Blair thought he was trying to
sabotage her prom, but he

643
00:41:11,160 --> 00:41:14,580
actually bought them all for
her. Yes, I could see him kind

644
00:41:14,580 --> 00:41:23,060
of having this softy side. I
agree. But Ava, who is Damon

645
00:41:23,060 --> 00:41:27,500
dashes, daughter who co founded
Rockefeller records with Jay Z.

646
00:41:28,280 --> 00:41:33,380
Her mom is Rachel Roy, the
fashion designer Rachel Roy, you

647
00:41:33,380 --> 00:41:38,180
guys might know is rumored to be
the girl in the Beyonce song

648
00:41:38,240 --> 00:41:43,240
that infers there was some sort
of affair with Jay Z and called

649
00:41:43,240 --> 00:41:47,920
her Becky with the good hair.
So, yeah, I mean, I think Ava is

650
00:41:47,980 --> 00:41:51,700
absolutely gorgeous, like we
said, booked and busy, she's

651
00:41:51,700 --> 00:41:58,240
gonna be really interesting to
watch. She dated Diana Jenkins

652
00:41:58,240 --> 00:42:02,580
son, I think. And then I also
read that she was did some time

653
00:42:02,580 --> 00:42:04,380
as Crystal minkoffs Nanny.

654
00:42:04,620 --> 00:42:08,340
Yes, I think she was actually
shown like in the background of

655
00:42:08,520 --> 00:42:12,180
Real Housewives of Beverly Hills
with Crystal's kids. Yeah,

656
00:42:12,840 --> 00:42:17,160
absolute, real deal. I'm a hip
hop fan. I love that her father

657
00:42:17,160 --> 00:42:19,740
was in the episode. I hope
there's more of that. And her

658
00:42:19,740 --> 00:42:23,480
mom, we see Chloe. Brooks is
gorgeous sister. She's heavily

659
00:42:23,480 --> 00:42:28,160
featured. We heard she would be
there's a lot of kids who are

660
00:42:28,160 --> 00:42:33,200
not main cast members. Featured
a bunch of Charlie's friends who

661
00:42:33,200 --> 00:42:37,280
seem to be fellow Trust Fund
kids on the scene. Charlie and

662
00:42:37,280 --> 00:42:42,340
Chloe have a flirty vibe. They
go on a date. We see him texting

663
00:42:42,340 --> 00:42:45,940
Brooks, who was rightfully
offended, something like, oh,

664
00:42:45,940 --> 00:42:48,280
meet up with us later, unless
your sister's back at my

665
00:42:48,280 --> 00:42:50,980
apartment. Not cool? Yeah,

666
00:42:50,980 --> 00:42:57,940
no, I think he yeah. Can see
where the drama this may have

667
00:42:57,940 --> 00:43:03,720
been a slightly manufactured or
maybe encouraged situation from

668
00:43:03,720 --> 00:43:07,860
producers, but you can also see
that Brooks is legit pissed

669
00:43:07,860 --> 00:43:14,940
about it. Yes, okay, so Georgia,
who is their friend, she's in PR

670
00:43:14,940 --> 00:43:19,440
like party planning, like a
young onesie Hubbard. She

671
00:43:19,500 --> 00:43:23,120
doesn't come from extreme
wealth. She's fourth generation

672
00:43:23,120 --> 00:43:27,560
New York City. Grew up in the
Upper West Side. Says she

673
00:43:27,560 --> 00:43:31,640
doesn't call it hustle. She
calls it anxiety, but big on,

674
00:43:31,700 --> 00:43:35,720
you know, making friends
connections definitely seems

675
00:43:35,720 --> 00:43:40,480
like she's building success on
her own. So she

676
00:43:40,780 --> 00:43:45,940
is another representation, and I
was so happy that they included

677
00:43:46,360 --> 00:43:50,740
her on the cast, because she is
the New York City dream, right?

678
00:43:50,980 --> 00:43:55,780
She is the person who we see on
the sitcoms the Serena's

679
00:43:55,780 --> 00:43:58,480
boyfriend, whose name escapes me
on Gossip Girl. Him and his

680
00:43:58,480 --> 00:44:00,840
sister live in Brooklyn, and
their parents are teachers or

681
00:44:00,840 --> 00:44:03,660
something like that, and they
have scholarships to the fancy

682
00:44:03,660 --> 00:44:07,500
and I think Dan, they have
scholarships to the fancy

683
00:44:07,500 --> 00:44:10,620
school, right that everybody
attends. That's Georgia. She's

684
00:44:10,620 --> 00:44:14,820
the kid who didn't have the
money, but was there, gained

685
00:44:14,820 --> 00:44:20,600
accents access through her
hustle slash anxiety and hard

686
00:44:20,600 --> 00:44:25,940
work, and she is earned her spot
on the scene. She saw it. It

687
00:44:25,940 --> 00:44:29,240
wasn't her world. She made it
her world. She did diplose

688
00:44:29,240 --> 00:44:33,500
party, a rave at cat Stelly, I
last laughed my ass off that

689
00:44:33,500 --> 00:44:36,500
none of the kids knew about.
Harry and Sally are young, 20

690
00:44:36,500 --> 00:44:40,180
year olds, and they're like,
Girl Like, why don't you pick up

691
00:44:40,180 --> 00:44:43,180
what everybody else is laying
down like nobody else really

692
00:44:43,180 --> 00:44:45,940
knows what this is, like we do,
but stop bringing it up. I felt

693
00:44:46,240 --> 00:44:50,080
Yeah, she was not. She's got a
very quirky personality, which I

694
00:44:50,080 --> 00:44:53,620
like. She's very authentic,
yeah, and I love that Riley

695
00:44:53,620 --> 00:44:57,280
lived above cat's deli and
didn't realize it was like the

696
00:44:57,280 --> 00:45:00,540
most famous deli because of that
movie. So quirky. Tricky and

697
00:45:00,540 --> 00:45:04,860
interesting, and then when we
hear like the voice from the

698
00:45:04,860 --> 00:45:08,280
bathroom about her not washing
her hands, I have to tell you, I

699
00:45:08,280 --> 00:45:11,520
get the germ thing. I'm not a
germaphobe, but that's extreme,

700
00:45:12,060 --> 00:45:14,760
and I love that. They were all
like, oh my god, she's gonna get

701
00:45:14,760 --> 00:45:15,060
pink eye.

702
00:45:15,060 --> 00:45:18,660
I have a lot of things to say
about this, because I'm the

703
00:45:18,660 --> 00:45:22,640
same. I am not a germaphobe, you
won't find me using hand

704
00:45:22,640 --> 00:45:24,500
sanitizer compulsively.

705
00:45:24,560 --> 00:45:28,280
No, but like, after if I pump
gas, I use it. If I'm on a

706
00:45:28,280 --> 00:45:30,620
plane, I use it like there's a
time and a place. I'm not

707
00:45:30,620 --> 00:45:33,680
somebody who's spraying it all
day long, same exact

708
00:45:33,680 --> 00:45:37,700
same scenarios. I agree that
some germs are good. I think

709
00:45:37,700 --> 00:45:40,840
it's a bad thing to, like, try
to completely sanitize yourself.

710
00:45:41,020 --> 00:45:46,180
But eco E coli, which literally
comes from poop, if you ingest

711
00:45:46,240 --> 00:45:51,160
it or get it in your eye, you
get, you can get viruses you

712
00:45:51,160 --> 00:45:55,300
that's how you get norovirus. Is
not washing your hands. And like

713
00:45:55,360 --> 00:45:59,980
I do feel a little bad for this
girl, because I feel like this

714
00:45:59,980 --> 00:46:02,400
is going to be something that
follows her for the rest of

715
00:46:02,400 --> 00:46:05,520
life, her life, unless she's
like, Okay, I now been educated

716
00:46:05,520 --> 00:46:09,240
that I do need to wash my hands.
Like I feel like it could be

717
00:46:09,240 --> 00:46:12,540
really bad for her business,
like I don't blame the other

718
00:46:12,540 --> 00:46:16,200
people for not wanting to hug
her. I That would really gross

719
00:46:16,200 --> 00:46:17,640
me out. I, and I

720
00:46:17,640 --> 00:46:21,980
would like to sense that she was
exaggerating. I, but, I mean,

721
00:46:21,980 --> 00:46:23,900
she didn't wash her hands. I
know

722
00:46:23,900 --> 00:46:27,080
I bath for I mean, I am not
again. I'm not one of those

723
00:46:27,080 --> 00:46:32,060
people who, like, compulsively
washes my hands the second I

724
00:46:32,060 --> 00:46:35,000
walk in, like, I just not, but
the second I walk into my house,

725
00:46:35,000 --> 00:46:39,740
just because I've been out in
public, I don't and like, I try

726
00:46:39,740 --> 00:46:43,060
to make, like, remind my kids,
like before, if we sit down to a

727
00:46:43,060 --> 00:46:45,460
restaurant and they're gonna be
eating with their hand, like to

728
00:46:45,460 --> 00:46:47,980
go wash their hands, you know,
if we've been out doing stuff.

729
00:46:47,980 --> 00:46:51,760
But I'm not again, not
compulsive. I do use a paper

730
00:46:51,760 --> 00:46:55,360
towel to exit a public bathroom,
and I'm really glad that I do

731
00:46:55,540 --> 00:46:58,060
now that I know that are people
who do not believe in washing

732
00:46:58,060 --> 00:47:03,600
their hands. Yeah. Anyway, I am
fully sold on Ariana. I think

733
00:47:03,600 --> 00:47:07,680
GIA can go and this is not
because I'm not a big Teresa

734
00:47:07,680 --> 00:47:11,640
fan, but she doesn't live in the
city. She seems scared of the

735
00:47:11,640 --> 00:47:17,640
city, and her real only tie is
that her mom knows the other

736
00:47:17,640 --> 00:47:20,900
moms, and she's met a couple of
them through bravacon.

737
00:47:25,220 --> 00:47:28,400
And I would just like to point
something out as far as like

738
00:47:28,820 --> 00:47:32,720
regional and like where they
live, versus Manhattan. So there

739
00:47:32,720 --> 00:47:37,760
is Bergen County, where Fessler
Margaret and the gorgers moved.

740
00:47:38,300 --> 00:47:42,280
Bergen County is right over the
bridge, right in the same way

741
00:47:42,340 --> 00:47:46,120
that Queens Brooklyn, Staten
Island and the Bronx you have

742
00:47:46,120 --> 00:47:49,840
easy access to the city Bergen
County is the same thing. She

743
00:47:49,960 --> 00:47:54,580
lives in, what would be
comparable like she's in New

744
00:47:54,580 --> 00:47:59,380
Jersey. Okay? It would be like
me being a New Yorker, but

745
00:47:59,380 --> 00:48:02,880
actually being from where? Page
disorders from upstate New York,

746
00:48:02,880 --> 00:48:08,040
and then going to the city. It
take, oh, yeah. It would take.

747
00:48:08,040 --> 00:48:12,360
Like, from where do they live?
Montville. It would take at

748
00:48:12,360 --> 00:48:15,480
least two hours, or an hour and
a half, like, with no traffic.

749
00:48:15,480 --> 00:48:17,820
Forget about the fact that you
get stuck in traffic in New

750
00:48:17,820 --> 00:48:24,080
York. I'm googling, yeah. Google
it, it would say 50 Okay, so 50

751
00:48:24,080 --> 00:48:28,700
minutes to the city. Oh, sorry,
59 minutes, yeah, to the city.

752
00:48:28,760 --> 00:48:32,540
No, which doesn't exist, right?
So you're talking an hour and a

753
00:48:32,540 --> 00:48:37,220
half on a Friday after work to
get to the city, minimum an hour

754
00:48:37,220 --> 00:48:40,420
and a half. Yeah, you'd have to
leave it very off hours for it

755
00:48:40,420 --> 00:48:43,660
to be 55 minutes, so it isn't
all

756
00:48:43,660 --> 00:48:47,260
smiles. That's that is. That's,
yeah, that's not just it's not

757
00:48:47,260 --> 00:48:50,800
the same as Riley living in
Brooklyn. First of all, Brooklyn

758
00:48:50,920 --> 00:48:54,880
is the closest borough, but
parts of Brooklyn could take you

759
00:48:54,880 --> 00:48:57,880
longer, but with no traffic, it
would never be. The distance

760
00:48:57,880 --> 00:49:01,860
isn't 55 minutes. Traffic in New
York City can make it such, but

761
00:49:01,860 --> 00:49:04,620
the distance, the actual
distance from Montville, is

762
00:49:04,620 --> 00:49:06,840
that. So that would be like
living an hour upstate in New

763
00:49:06,840 --> 00:49:10,440
York and just hopping to the
city. It doesn't happen. So it

764
00:49:10,440 --> 00:49:15,240
doesn't fit in that way. I agree
with you. She doesn't, other

765
00:49:15,240 --> 00:49:19,200
than Brooks, who she really only
knows from bravocon and Riley,

766
00:49:19,320 --> 00:49:22,040
and actually her and Riley don't
get along. We've gotten a lot of

767
00:49:22,040 --> 00:49:25,820
emails about it, and actually,
Gia made a comment that I don't

768
00:49:25,820 --> 00:49:28,880
know how to please Riley, like I
wasn't comp I guess Riley

769
00:49:28,880 --> 00:49:31,820
thought something she said was
comparing Teresa to candy, and

770
00:49:32,300 --> 00:49:35,540
Gia is like, I didn't mean to do
that. It was just a matter of

771
00:49:35,600 --> 00:49:38,060
saying both our moms were
housewives. I guess we'll see

772
00:49:38,060 --> 00:49:41,980
the details of that in upcoming
episodes. Riley doesn't like

773
00:49:41,980 --> 00:49:45,520
GIA, yeah, and Gia really isn't
heavily featured. She's very

774
00:49:45,520 --> 00:49:48,160
much she was only in it a little
bit. Yeah,

775
00:49:48,640 --> 00:49:54,100
we'll see how it goes from here.
Then we have Amira, who got her

776
00:49:54,100 --> 00:49:58,840
start as a beauty director from
Paper Magazine. You know, it

777
00:49:58,840 --> 00:50:04,380
says, like new. City has really
seen her glow up. I forget what

778
00:50:04,380 --> 00:50:08,340
the word she used, something
busted, crusted and dusted when

779
00:50:08,340 --> 00:50:11,580
she came to the city. And then
she worked for Victoria with

780
00:50:11,580 --> 00:50:15,180
Victoria's Secret, which she
says is really what got her

781
00:50:15,180 --> 00:50:19,620
noticed. And she is a content
creator. She went to NYU with

782
00:50:19,680 --> 00:50:24,080
Brooks. I love her Instagram
bio. She describes herself as

783
00:50:24,080 --> 00:50:27,440
the Barbie you always wanted.
And then, of course, as I'm like

784
00:50:27,440 --> 00:50:30,860
looking into her, I got sucked
into watching her makeup videos,

785
00:50:30,860 --> 00:50:34,940
which I very much enjoyed. And
she's definitely got that it

786
00:50:34,940 --> 00:50:36,620
factor. And I like watching her.

787
00:50:37,280 --> 00:50:40,420
They didn't mention it, but
somebody told me ahead of time

788
00:50:40,420 --> 00:50:43,120
that she's trans. I don't know
if that's what she meant by her

789
00:50:43,120 --> 00:50:45,940
New York City glow up. I
actually asked the person again,

790
00:50:45,940 --> 00:50:48,880
because I'm like, I don't know.
I couldn't tell so I don't this

791
00:50:48,880 --> 00:50:51,280
is what I was told. So I assume
it's true. That's not like a

792
00:50:52,000 --> 00:50:58,180
rumor. Overall. Love New York
being the character. Love The

793
00:50:58,180 --> 00:51:02,940
Gossip Girl. Vibes. Pleasantly
surprised. I really am so

794
00:51:02,940 --> 00:51:06,000
satisfied with how good it was
and it was worth the wait. Yeah,

795
00:51:06,000 --> 00:51:09,240
I agree. I was prepared to not
like the show after we were told

796
00:51:09,240 --> 00:51:13,260
we might not, because it was
made for Gen Z, but I really

797
00:51:13,260 --> 00:51:15,720
liked it. Does that make us Gen
Z? It makes

798
00:51:15,720 --> 00:51:18,840
us the parent of people who
probably CUSP Gen Z. I don't

799
00:51:18,840 --> 00:51:21,380
think our kids are Gen Z. If
they are, they're like, the last

800
00:51:21,380 --> 00:51:22,340
year or something. I

801
00:51:22,400 --> 00:51:27,500
yeah, I don't know. I was
actually asking my son seemed to

802
00:51:27,500 --> 00:51:29,840
know, but of course, then I've
completely forgotten

803
00:51:29,900 --> 00:51:34,340
maybe Jen why I don't know my
son argues with my daughter that

804
00:51:34,340 --> 00:51:36,560
he's a different generation.
They're three years apart. I'm

805
00:51:36,560 --> 00:51:39,080
like, just logistically, you
can't be a different generation.

806
00:51:39,200 --> 00:51:43,300
Yeah, regardless of what the
Google Search says the year cut

807
00:51:43,300 --> 00:51:44,020
off is,

808
00:51:44,080 --> 00:51:47,260
yeah, you're raising the same
house by the same parents three

809
00:51:47,260 --> 00:51:50,500
years right? Part, or your your
ages are three years apart,

810
00:51:50,500 --> 00:51:51,700
yeah? So

811
00:51:51,700 --> 00:51:54,160
we don't have much time, but I
think we should touch a little

812
00:51:54,160 --> 00:51:55,420
bit on the valley.

813
00:51:55,660 --> 00:51:59,740
Yes. Do we want to go straight
to the jacks of it all I see

814
00:51:59,920 --> 00:52:06,660
stuff, yeah? Because I texted
you this morning, because one of

815
00:52:06,660 --> 00:52:10,740
our friends, a friend of the
pod, he's a he's in cocked he's

816
00:52:10,740 --> 00:52:14,220
a cocktail or he's a friend all
in cocktail as well. And he's

817
00:52:14,220 --> 00:52:17,580
a content creator, Stone Cold
daddy. He makes hysterical

818
00:52:17,640 --> 00:52:19,140
parenting memes fall so

819
00:52:19,140 --> 00:52:24,140
funny, I wanted to start. I
wanted to read his comments, and

820
00:52:24,140 --> 00:52:27,440
I asked his permission. He said
it was fine, because obviously

821
00:52:27,440 --> 00:52:31,940
you guys know, like, we don't we
protect everybody's we protect

822
00:52:31,940 --> 00:52:36,740
everybody and but he he is cool
with us reading this. So this is

823
00:52:36,740 --> 00:52:41,620
what he said. I completely agree
with this, with this take and

824
00:52:41,620 --> 00:52:45,160
ask you if you are cool with us
reading it on the pod and you

825
00:52:45,160 --> 00:52:50,560
agreed so it says, Bravo needs
to get Jax off the television as

826
00:52:50,560 --> 00:52:54,100
soon as possible. I'm usually
here. This is stone called Daddy

827
00:52:54,100 --> 00:52:56,860
saying this, which is true. I'm
usually here to talk shit, but

828
00:52:56,860 --> 00:52:59,740
there's something deeper at
stake here. Every minute he's

829
00:52:59,740 --> 00:53:03,840
featured makes the audience
complicit in furthering what is

830
00:53:03,840 --> 00:53:07,680
obviously a potentially very
dangerous situation. He's prone

831
00:53:07,680 --> 00:53:11,460
to violent outbursts with a
child present. He's prone to be

832
00:53:11,520 --> 00:53:15,420
coked up around his kid. We're
not talking toxic anymore. We're

833
00:53:15,420 --> 00:53:18,720
talking the roots of clear and
present danger. The valley

834
00:53:18,720 --> 00:53:21,920
features him in countless
situations where he's surrounded

835
00:53:21,920 --> 00:53:25,700
by people who are not, who
aren't holding him accountable

836
00:53:25,880 --> 00:53:30,680
and enabling him to continue to
behave horribly, friends, family

837
00:53:30,680 --> 00:53:36,260
and the god damn that god damned
is, he said, network implored

838
00:53:36,260 --> 00:53:41,740
him to go to rehab, and he said
f that and made a mockery out of

839
00:53:41,740 --> 00:53:46,420
whatever the F he called rehab,
microphones, cameras and

840
00:53:46,420 --> 00:53:50,380
exposure continue to be poured
upon someone exploiting the

841
00:53:50,380 --> 00:53:53,560
attention to paint a narrative
that there are two sides to

842
00:53:53,560 --> 00:53:57,520
every story. If there's two
sides, they're both effed, and

843
00:53:57,520 --> 00:54:01,380
so is he. There will already be
questions as to why Bravo

844
00:54:01,380 --> 00:54:04,320
allowed him to have a platform
for so long, and there's

845
00:54:04,320 --> 00:54:09,180
potential questions that they
don't want to or won't be able

846
00:54:09,180 --> 00:54:13,080
to answer if this escalates,
everything we know about

847
00:54:13,080 --> 00:54:18,000
situations that tell like this
tell us that unless there is

848
00:54:18,000 --> 00:54:22,340
significant intervention, These
things only go in one direction,

849
00:54:22,340 --> 00:54:24,920
straight to health. And then he
says, Sorry for yelling.

850
00:54:25,280 --> 00:54:31,760
I could not I couldn't have said
it so succinctly and very well

851
00:54:32,000 --> 00:54:36,080
said. And I think it sums up
what the audience is feeling.

852
00:54:36,080 --> 00:54:40,960
And I have a lot of you DMing
me, he brings such a dark side

853
00:54:40,960 --> 00:54:44,980
to it, and there's the other
side of it that is trying to

854
00:54:44,980 --> 00:54:50,200
group Jesse and now, to some
extent, Danny in with him, and

855
00:54:50,680 --> 00:54:55,660
you can't compare. As there was
a meme that pointed out on

856
00:54:55,660 --> 00:55:00,720
Twitter. It said, You can't
compare Jax and Jesse. Yeah,

857
00:55:00,720 --> 00:55:04,620
jax's son appears afraid of him,
and Jesse's daughter adores her.

858
00:55:05,100 --> 00:55:07,500
Yeah, Jesse isn't a perfect
person, and certainly his

859
00:55:07,500 --> 00:55:10,860
treatment of Michelle has been
awful, from what we've seen. But

860
00:55:10,860 --> 00:55:16,020
Jax is dangerous. When the
producer broke the third wall to

861
00:55:16,020 --> 00:55:18,540
tell Brittany that Jax was
texting her and that there was a

862
00:55:18,540 --> 00:55:22,460
bug in the house and he could
hear what they were saying. I

863
00:55:22,460 --> 00:55:24,380
felt like we were in a horror
movie.

864
00:55:24,800 --> 00:55:30,320
And what's so weird, and this is
where I look at Brittany a lot

865
00:55:30,320 --> 00:55:35,600
differently after this episode,
is that she didn't like freak

866
00:55:35,600 --> 00:55:38,720
out. It was almost like she took
it in stride, because she's been

867
00:55:38,720 --> 00:55:44,260
dealing with ABUSE for so long,
like she's got to get out of

868
00:55:44,260 --> 00:55:49,240
this, and like I felt for her so
hard when we saw Jax be

869
00:55:49,420 --> 00:55:53,440
contrite, and, oh, I'm gonna
give her all the money from the

870
00:55:53,440 --> 00:55:58,000
podcast, because, you know,
that's the right thing to do.

871
00:55:58,240 --> 00:56:02,160
And then a day or two later,
sends her this awful email

872
00:56:02,160 --> 00:56:06,720
saying, No, you can't, you know,
you can't have it, and just

873
00:56:07,560 --> 00:56:08,160
eating her,

874
00:56:08,160 --> 00:56:12,360
it was and so something like
that, which, of course, we all

875
00:56:12,360 --> 00:56:18,180
know that he does this, right,
but seeing him make himself look

876
00:56:18,180 --> 00:56:22,040
like the good guy by Telling
Janet and Jason on their

877
00:56:22,040 --> 00:56:24,500
FaceTime call, which, by the
way, you guys noted that they

878
00:56:24,500 --> 00:56:27,500
started on an iPhone, they went
to an Android. I assumed that

879
00:56:27,500 --> 00:56:30,080
was something with production.
Maybe the signal was bad, or,

880
00:56:30,080 --> 00:56:36,380
who knows, but, and then we
watch Brittany read the email

881
00:56:36,380 --> 00:56:40,060
that he sent saying, you're on
your own to figure out the

882
00:56:40,060 --> 00:56:43,240
mortgage. How about the fact
that he also rented that

883
00:56:43,240 --> 00:56:46,360
apartment while she was already
paying for a rental. It's just

884
00:56:46,660 --> 00:56:51,520
his behavior is so erratic and
frightening. He can't be on the

885
00:56:51,520 --> 00:56:52,240
show, but

886
00:56:52,240 --> 00:56:58,900
he is, I guess where I was
going. That point is he is

887
00:56:58,900 --> 00:57:06,060
directing his anger at her. He's
got so much anger and and, you

888
00:57:06,060 --> 00:57:10,680
know, we know from Jax, his
mouth himself, that when he gets

889
00:57:10,680 --> 00:57:14,100
out of this first rehab, he goes
right back to his shit, right,

890
00:57:14,100 --> 00:57:17,520
goes back to drinking, goes back
to cocaine. And that's when

891
00:57:17,520 --> 00:57:22,820
things tend to get really
volatile with him, and I just, I

892
00:57:22,820 --> 00:57:29,060
want to see Brittany and Cruz
get off of this horrific roller

893
00:57:29,060 --> 00:57:34,520
coaster. Because I, I think
whether or not there has been

894
00:57:34,880 --> 00:57:38,000
physical abuse other than the
table situation that we have

895
00:57:38,000 --> 00:57:42,580
heard about there Stone Cold
daddy is exactly right. This

896
00:57:42,580 --> 00:57:46,420
isn't headed anywhere good. And
I think some of Britney's

897
00:57:46,420 --> 00:57:51,580
reactions are stunted because
she is gotten into this cycle of

898
00:57:51,580 --> 00:57:54,160
abuse and doesn't know
different. Yeah, 100%

899
00:57:55,480 --> 00:57:59,620
I'm like, sorry, my daughter
just came in and interrupted me.

900
00:57:59,620 --> 00:58:00,660
What else is new?

901
00:58:00,660 --> 00:58:05,400
I just um, I hope Bravo is
hearing us. I think I again,

902
00:58:05,400 --> 00:58:10,200
Stone Cold daddy is absolutely
right that because Jax has been,

903
00:58:10,260 --> 00:58:14,520
quote, unquote, the star, there
is so much enablement. They, you

904
00:58:14,520 --> 00:58:20,040
know, they give somebody with a
drug and alcohol problem a bar

905
00:58:20,460 --> 00:58:25,460
like, yeah, yeah. It's just he's
exactly right. I hope Bravo's

906
00:58:25,460 --> 00:58:26,000
listening

907
00:58:26,240 --> 00:58:30,260
that scene. I mean, so many of
this, we haven't, they haven't

908
00:58:30,260 --> 00:58:33,980
shown us, but they've told us
about the violence and that

909
00:58:33,980 --> 00:58:38,780
scene, which is mild in
comparison to where and he threw

910
00:58:38,780 --> 00:58:41,080
a table at Brittany and
physically injured her, I would

911
00:58:41,080 --> 00:58:46,360
imagine, was chilling, and I
think, as an example, the abuse

912
00:58:46,900 --> 00:58:50,080
that Taylor suffered from.
Russell Bravo wasn't aware of,

913
00:58:50,500 --> 00:58:54,940
and when he ultimately committed
suicide, they weren't culpable.

914
00:58:54,940 --> 00:58:58,540
They didn't know about the
abuse. It wasn't public. We all

915
00:58:58,540 --> 00:59:01,860
know about this. The network
made him go to rehab. It

916
00:59:01,860 --> 00:59:05,940
obviously wasn't successful. He
hasn't changed. Yeah, so the

917
00:59:06,000 --> 00:59:09,720
next logical step is for us to
hear that he won't be on the

918
00:59:09,720 --> 00:59:12,900
show, which I believe we will
hear. I can't imagine they're

919
00:59:12,900 --> 00:59:16,440
going to keep him on. I hope
that I'm right. Let's hope we

920
00:59:16,440 --> 00:59:18,540
love you guys. Sorry

921
00:59:18,540 --> 00:59:22,460
to end on that. Yeah, sorry to
end on a bummer of a note, but

922
00:59:22,580 --> 00:59:25,280
we've got some good stuff for
cocktail party that we'll

923
00:59:25,280 --> 00:59:28,280
discuss, and we'll also talk a
little bit more about all the

924
00:59:28,280 --> 00:59:33,440
other all the other Valley
stuff. And also, here's a happy

925
00:59:33,440 --> 00:59:39,260
note. Kristen Doty is gonna have
a baby any minute, so keep an

926
00:59:39,260 --> 00:59:43,660
eye out for that news, because I
think her due date is might be

927
00:59:43,720 --> 00:59:45,280
today, June 5. Yes,

928
00:59:45,340 --> 00:59:48,640
very close. And I'm so excited,
because I feel like I'm gonna

929
00:59:48,640 --> 00:59:50,320
love the baby name too. I

930
00:59:50,320 --> 00:59:55,120
know I'm really excited. So
we'll be on baby watch for both

931
00:59:55,120 --> 00:59:59,920
her and for Nia. Yes, till next
time you.

932
01:00:05,760 --> 01:00:09,780
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