Cindy: Somewhere Between the Sock Drawer and a Puppy | Happy Hour

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Speaker 1: Hey, everyone, welcome back to That's Your Happy Hour. I'm Jeus and we are back for part two with Cindy. Let's get into it.

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Speaker 2: I can't say anything bad about that man, I'll be honest. Even you know, after experiencing what I did with him, I thought he was a little short with me on the hot seat, to be honest, that I didn't deserve. But in general, okay, thanks, No, I think he's he's a high quality guy. He's smart, he's kind, he's family oriented, he's caring, he's funny, he's like I mean, curious. There's I can't say anything bad about him.

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Speaker 3: What did you No?

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Speaker 4: I want I want to ask the same question I was going to ask, what did your daughters think?

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Speaker 1: If what did they tell you after they met him? What did they think of him?

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Speaker 5: That's what I was going to ask.

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Speaker 2: Yeah, question is Yeah, I'm curious why you want to know that question right now?

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Speaker 4: Because because because you speak very highly of mel and I'm just curious if your daughters felt the same way about him.

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Speaker 3: They did not. They did not, And interestingly.

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Speaker 1: Enough, now we're getting somewhere somewhere.

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Speaker 3: Wow, I would have to defend it after.

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Speaker 2: This, So my daughters and my son in laws. Because it's not just the gals that those guys are protective of me too. They're protective of me right, and we've been through several relationships, so they're no longer shocked to see me with a man. They're no longer so overprotective, you know, just because they don't want to see me hurt. They really do want to see me fall in love and be in love and understand that being hurt sometimes going to happen in relationships. And it was a very short time period, so they got to all meet Mel and chat with him on their show. You saw, you know, Sarah and I having a conversation and she felt like maybe Mel wasn't quite there yet. But what's interesting, she's the only one I talked to after they spoke with Mel. The others when they hugged me on the way out, the girls were hugging me, Mom, you know, we believe in you, but use your discernment. And the word discernment. All three of them said the same word to me, and I thought, that's just crazy. Where's that word coming from? In our family? Judgment is right and wrong. Discernment there's no value statement to it, it's what is right for you, and I didn't. I couldn't understand maybe what they heard or what they saw with mel And I even asked him several times, like how did I go with my kids?

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Speaker 3: And I'm thinking what really happened? Because I could get.

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Speaker 2: A disturbance in the force, so to speak, that there was something up. And then when I came out of the show and I had a chance to get my phone back and obviously call my kids, they were like who you know, they were relieved because they were worried for me. They didn't think that he was the right fit for me.

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Speaker 3: All it was.

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Speaker 2: It was unanimous and they're like, we would have, you know, given him more time, and we could tell that he wasn't as forthcoming as they would have liked to have seen at that stage. But back to your point, you know, maybe if he had been on the show and known how important that time was, he would have experienced hometowns differently. And my kids would have experienced a different male because I know I know that they would they would love them given more time, the male that I've known, my kids would be thrilled with, But they just didn't see it in that that period of time.

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Speaker 5: Yeah, and it is such a high pressure situation hometowns. You're getting so little time to kind of meet the most important people in your life. So I would imagine there's a lot of pressure.

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Speaker 3: Yeah, okay, so.

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Speaker 1: You want to go that same question again, I wonder now probably.

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Speaker 4: Actually maybe maybe. So ultimately you send yourself home in that moment, like you get into like you you leave, you get into the suburban whatever car that is.

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Speaker 1: Suburban, whatever the I don't know what.

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Speaker 4: I don't know what they're using.

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Speaker 1: Are you all right?

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Speaker 4: Do you in your in your gut, do you feel like you made the right decision?

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Speaker 3: Okay, let me go back to that moment.

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Speaker 2: So I'm on the doc having dinner, knowing that I have to leave, and I'm you know, I try to.

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Speaker 3: Not be aware of any of the cameramen.

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Speaker 2: And any of the the sound people and the producers. Right, you just have to from the entire show. You have to just pretend like it's your real life, because it is. We're dealing with my real life on camera. But I just became aware of I can't stay here any longer. But how do I get off?

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Speaker 3: You know? The way? The next step is for him to give to read the fantasy card and for us to walk off and go to the fantasy suite together, and that's not going to happen. Do I have the power to leave? Can I leave? Like? What can I do? I mean, there's nothing strapping me down.

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Speaker 2: But you know, in this mode, you're kind of just thinking, you know, you were told to come have this dinner at the table and you're having this conversation, and I just knew I couldn't stay. And then the fireworks went off, adding insult to injury.

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Speaker 5: That was really you know, yeah I heard, yeah, of course, because you're probably watching being like I went into tonight thinking I'd be watching these beautiful fireworks with someone I'm falling in love with, and what a shocking moment that must have been.

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Speaker 2: Yeah, So it was chaos. It was absolute chaos. And even though I knew I had created chaos for these amazing people who are putting the show together, I was sorry, but I wasn't going back, and I had I really had turned corner and made my decision and just decided that I want a long term relationship if I'm going to put this much in at this stage. And he still doesn't know then he's probably not my guy, very very the heart. One of the hardest things I remember ever doing.

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Speaker 5: Yeah, did any part of you after leaving Antigua regret not going to the fantasy suite? Wish you had said anything differently? It's okay, take your time so hard. No, it's okay, it's really hard.

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Speaker 2: I have I have no regrets about going to the fantasy suite.

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Speaker 3: I wish.

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Speaker 2: I wish nothing but the best for mel Mel and Peg, and that's how I know what I feel for him is very genuine, like that true love, the true love where you know, as much as I want it to be me, I just want them to be happy.

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Speaker 3: And I.

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Speaker 2: Here's something I learned a long ago, and I think men and women have the potential to grow from this.

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Speaker 3: But it's kind of a lot. Are you ready for it? You're ready.

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Speaker 2: There's there are people in our lives who want to share time with us. Why wouldn't they. We live great lives, we're fun to be around. We add, you know, color to every situation. So there are people who want to share lives with us, and there are other people who will commit to us. And knowing the difference between those two can save you a lot of heartache and a lot of confusion, years of it. And I carry that with me because I've been in relationships where they want to share time with me and that's great, but at some point, if you want to stick around, you got to commit.

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Speaker 3: And I just you know, I.

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Speaker 2: See there's two different phases in people, not two different people. I think you could still have somebody who wants to share time with you eventually want to commit.

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Speaker 3: But I just didn't. I wasn't getting that feeling from No.

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Speaker 5: Yeah, so should we jump to a fry?

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Speaker 4: Well before we jump to a fr So, I like what you just said there, and like, I guess moving forward in your dating life, how how are you gonna figure that out when you meet someone? Like, like, what's how do how do you know? Like how do you know the difference?

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Speaker 2: And like, yeah, I think I think it was my roommate Monica. Monica be said to me, girl, do you know the only men who are going to date you want to be in a relationship? Like anybody who's seen the show is going to be scared to date me unless they're going to be serious. And you know, I'll go there are buckets in my life. I still have dating buckets. I have people that I'll date to have fun and we'll go and do gallus together or football games or fun things together, and I don't necessarily have to be serious with them. But when I find someone who aligns the way I felt like Mel was aligning, you know, I wanted more. And you know, if the sun, moon and stars ever align again, I'm going to want more from that relationship, and it will beg the question again at that moment. You know, if both of us are on the same page, we'll move forward.

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Speaker 3: But what if not? Will I still walk away? That?

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Speaker 2: I think that will be the biggest test, Like if faced with the same situation again, will I still walk away?

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Speaker 5: I feel like you will because you clearly are someone that knows what they want and what they're looking for.

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Speaker 3: I would hope. So. I mean, that's sixty years old. I think you you should have a better understanding and not that things can't change, right. Things will change, and every season of our lives, like next month, could be different. But I know what I want now, and I believe that I have judgment enough discernment enough so to speak, to be able to predict what will be successful as a relationship for me and my family moving forward, right, It's it's you know, as a golden you carry the responsibility of trying not to mess up your kids and their lives and your friends even you know, how how do these people? How would a new relationship, a new partner integrate with the friend group? You know? Yeah, definitely, I.

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Speaker 4: Think I think you'll. I think you'll you'll know, But what do I know? Maybe you'll make a mistake. Who knows thy too?

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Speaker 1: Yeah, okay, so let's yeah, let's jump to the to a f R.

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Speaker 4: We see you sit down, you talk to Jesse's kind of everything you've been explaining to us, and then Mel comes out. What was it like seeing him for the first time and what I believe would be months months months?

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Speaker 2: Yeah, you know, I knew I had to come back for that taping, and it wasn't until to tell all that I realized, Wow, I'm gonna have to share a couch with him. Yeah, yeah, and yeah, there was a lot of trepidation. I didn't know how I would feel. I didn't you know, I didn't I didn't know what that would be like for me. And it's hard to say that I was looking forward to it because he's with another woman, right, that sounds a little creepy. So I didn't want to, you know, be excited about sitting next to him because he belongs to someone else and I've got strong boundaries there.

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Speaker 3: Yeah, it was I tell you.

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Speaker 2: When I walked down on stage, grateful for the audience response and especially those women, you know, and my kids, that was great. And then from that moment on, I kind of blacked out. You know, everything that I wanted to say I didn't say, and what do you do?

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Speaker 3: And I had to say what I wish I had said that night. I think it's true, fuck yourself.

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Speaker 1: That's a go fuck yourself over you.

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Speaker 5: This is not what you would say, Joe, this is what Cindy would say.

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Speaker 1: I actually didn't go to the fancy suite because I don't even like you.

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Speaker 2: Yeah, yeah, I I wish I mail wasn't in a moment where he would have heard me either.

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Speaker 3: And I'm a big believer.

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Speaker 2: That I you know, I'm not going to hug you and slap you at the same time. And you know, if if there's something hard to say, I'll try to figure out a way to wrap it in feathers to say it to you and make it kind. And Mel just was in a mode that day where I feel like he wasn't going to definitely wasn't going to learn anything from me. Let's just put it that way. And he came with his own idea of what happened, and I wasn't going to change it.

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Speaker 5: Mel seems to really believe that going to the Fantasy Suite and being able to talk off camera could have potentially answered your questions and eased your concerns.

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Speaker 3: Do you You.

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Speaker 5: Don't seem to be aligned on that, Like, it seems like you feel very confident that there was no benefit to you going to the Fantasy Suite. Yeah, I guess, Just how do you feel about that? Like, you guys didn't really seem to come to a common ground on that topic.

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Speaker 2: I feel that Mel wouldn't answer the question like would the Fantasy Suite have changed your mind about making a commitment? Nobody's asked him that, And if you do ask him that, he'll deflect and say, but you know, you've got to play it till the end. But if the Fantasy Suite, if I felt the Fantasy Suite would have changed his mind to make a commitment, then maybe, but he was so adamant with me at dinner.

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Speaker 3: Are there questions?

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Speaker 2: Are there things like what happened in my divorce, what happened in his divorce? Tell me the details of what you know some of the trauma that you've gone through. These are details that are very, very important. But at this stage I knew enough about him that I was crazy about him, and that would just be texture in the relationship. It wouldn't change the direction of my relationship with him, if that makes sense, does make sense? Yeah, so I was interested in knowing the texture. But again back to the comment of I'm not going to spend time with him. I want to commit to him, and he just wanted to stay on the other side of the road spending time with me.

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Speaker 3: And I'm grateful I didn't.

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Speaker 2: End up with the promise ring that that does not work for me.

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Speaker 3: Yeah, and I tell you a little story.

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Speaker 2: And I'm not sure if I have permission from my son in law to do this, so you know, forgive me. I think it's I think it's good, very close to my kids and to their husbands, and I'm so grateful for their relationship. And my son in law shared with me how important it was for him to be engaged to my daughter and to move from that this is my girlfriend conversation to this is my fiance, and then he doubled down when he got to say, this is my wife. And there is such a pride for a man in some men, maybe in the man that I want to be able to make a claim of you, so to have this is my person and whatever that vocabulary that's special to you. I love I love the way that that feels to a man and feels to a woman and feels or forget the genders, feels in a relationship to want to claim them as part of your life. And so that's the commit instead of the share your life for me. Like whatever that looks like, it doesn't have to be the wedding dress. It can look a lot differently, but mel was was clearly in the share of your life stage.

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Speaker 5: Yeah, we see on AFR that you express what commitment looked like for you and the actions that you planned to take to show that you were committing, which maybe to some people's surprise, wasn't necessarily you know, an engagement in a wedding you said I will move to you. We don't have to move in together, kind of aligning with that slower pace that he maybe as comfortable with. We can develop our relationship in the same city, we can spend time with our kids. And it was nice, actually as a viewer to hear you kind of list out those things of like, this is what commitment looks like to me, this is what I'm interested in doing for you and for us, and he responded with I think he said that doesn't interest me or I'm not interested in that.

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Speaker 3: Yeah, that's what he said at the AFR.

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Speaker 5: Yeah, does that surprise you?

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Speaker 3: It definitely did. I had.

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Speaker 2: Also gotten a comment from him, like, you've lived there thirty years, you would leave your life. This goes less to the commitment side as for me, and more to the.

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Speaker 3: Side of wanting him.

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Speaker 2: You asked me before what I wanted to hear from him. I wanted to hear that he had thought about a plan. So this was kind of more about the plans that we could do. This wasn't like this is what we have to do step one, step two. But I told him I was definitely willing to live in California. I'd still have roots in Austin, I'd still have my friends at Austin. I'd still go back to Austin. It's you know, I could still figure out what life would look like that way, but I would be willing to make those steps.

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Speaker 3: And he had nothing else for me.

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Speaker 2: Had he had no idea of, you know, other than I've got to get two years down the road to get my boys, you know, out of you know, situated. And by the way I've been through that process with the kids and I you know, I might be able to help you with a thing or two. I think my kids turned out pretty spectacular, not without bumps, but you might want to align yourself with somebody who could help you with that and not intrude with it, but integrate into it. And I just don't think he had thought about it.

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Speaker 1: Yeah, yeah, I mean it seems that way. I really like you're the way you're thinking about this entire situation.

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Speaker 4: If you or my mother, that would have been the advice I would have given you going on the show, because it's like the show is great and it works and it's yeah, yeah, it's love this that, But like when you get off the show, like you do need to have a plan because like if you don't, it's not going to work. Like we see it all the time where people are like, oh shit, like we live in different in cities and we you know, and then like you know, within within three four months of being separated, it just doesn't work.

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Speaker 5: So like, yeah, you have to keep the momentum from the show going. And once the show's done, it's not on the date, producers or the you know, the director, anyone. It's on you to figure it out how to do it.

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Speaker 1: Yeah, and I think you.

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Speaker 4: I think you really went about this whole process the right way. You know, you didn't end up getting the happy ending that you want it, but like you shouldn't have any regrets because I do think you did it the right way.

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Speaker 5: Yeah, I agree. I also think the happy and it's.

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Speaker 1: Coming from you, I've been very successful on the.

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Speaker 2: I really, I really that needs the world to me. Thank you for saying that, especially from a male's perspective too. I think you're for saying that.

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Speaker 5: Of course, I think that the happy ending you're looking for potentially wasn't on the table in this situation. I don't think and I don't think it was the guy that was meant for you either, But I feel like you're definitely gonna. You're gonna find it. For sure, You're gonna You're gonna everything that you're looking for because you're not asking for too much. You're not asking for a miracle. It's it's very practical.

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Speaker 4: Okay, So what what is what is next for you? What's dating life look like?

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Speaker 3: Mm hmm. I'm just free for a week and I got my first day out. I got that day. There is hope, you know.

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Speaker 2: I'm not sure, and there might be a period of time where I just go and have fun with my friends and see what happens. I think dating apps developed some bad habits, and I don't see myself back on a dating app necessarily to find men, So I don't know how I'm.

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Speaker 3: Gonna bump into them. I'm waiting for the universe to help me out a little bit with that. I don't know.

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Speaker 2: I'm just gonna continue to be me and I've gone through phases of my life where and this might be another one. It's okay just to be Cindi pooh. I'm telling you my life is pretty spectacular. And if a man snuggles up to me and we could make it work, that's great. But other than that, I'm not gonna wait or change my life. I mean, I've got I've already been to several football games and concerts and dinners, and you know, two trips, three trips to La I see you get my kids all the time. My life won't change that way. I just really was hoping that I could have come out of this with a partner.

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Speaker 5: What would your daughters love? What kind of guy would your daughters love to see you with if they could build their dreamman for you? What would he be like?

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Speaker 2: Somebody who uses a few more words they I mean, definitely sports are a big.

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Speaker 3: Part of my life.

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Speaker 2: So somebody who enjoys watching sports, going to sports concerts, who's active, likes to travel, but is family focused, like consider around and do a puzzle. Who could you know, have deep conversations. I'd love somebody plays golf because my son in laws like to play golf.

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Speaker 3: That'd be fun. Give more time for the girls.

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Speaker 2: Just somebody who could just more easily integrate into our life and is willing to share their life with us. And I think that they've seen me go through several relationships where there's a partition between you know, especially when it comes to kids and time with kids. Like, well, maybe you go see your kids this weekend and I'll go see my kids the same weekend. And I think, you know, I want something we could do it all together. And yeah, I'm not sure. That's a great question. I might have to figure that out.

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Speaker 3: Stay tuned. Ask me in a couple of months how it's going.

00:22:51
Speaker 5: Would you ever consider being the Golden Batcherette if they asked you.

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Speaker 3: Do you think they could find thirty hot guys for me?

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Speaker 4: I hope so at least I mean at least at least seven.

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Speaker 1: You don't need to pick one.

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Speaker 3: Yes, but you'd have to be able to commit. That's the whole question.

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Speaker 2: I think there's a lot of women who deserve to find love out there in our golden years.

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Speaker 3: And I think the bigger.

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Speaker 2: Question is, you know, what is it that the show can yield and what can it show either goldens or youngers or the whole world about this process, this stage of our life, right, And so I think we need to think about the next Golden Bachelor or bachelorette from that frame and then find somebody that you could build, you know, stories around, And of course it'd be great to show great dresses and great great trips and great people, but you know what do we really want to highlight in those you know and showing this dating life and in these decisions that we go through from Golden's and what's interesting, Like I have some breakup advice? For example, can I give you some break of advice, you puss, because I literally my kids reminded me of this the other day when they were in middle school. One of their friends broke up with the first boyfriend.

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Speaker 3: And she was just sad.

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Speaker 2: We were sitting on they were sitting on the couch and I was like trying to pep them up. And I came down and you know, this is the first boyfriend they've ever had, And I said, you know, there's there's three steps to getting over a broken heart. And they were like, oh, tell me more, you know, wise woman, And I said three steps, three steps. I was making it up on the fly, but it's true. Step one, you gotta cry. You got to feel those feelings and get through it.

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Speaker 3: Right.

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Speaker 2: I've been doing that in my life. Step two, you got to organize your sock drawer. And I mean this because there's a lot of stuff that while you're in a relationship you don't do you maybe neglect some friends. Maybe you aren't paying attention because you're you know, you're spending time in their relationship. So get back to organizing your sock drawer and taking care of those things that you may have neglected. And then the third is buy a puppy. And I don't mean by a puppy, I mean go find your happiness again, Go find your joy. That's great, right now, I love somewhere between organizing my sock jour and buying a puppy.

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Speaker 3: That's right.

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Speaker 4: Well, that you made that up on the spot. I mean, that's that's very wise.

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Speaker 3: It stuck.

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Speaker 2: And so people think that I was so staged and so, you know, performative on the show.

00:25:31
Speaker 3: I'm like, oh, really, that's kind of how I that's kind of how I talk.

00:25:35
Speaker 5: I didn't find that's good.

00:25:38
Speaker 1: Let's real quick. I want to just like circle back. Did you watch the Women Tell All?

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Speaker 3: I did?

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Speaker 4: Was there anything that came out during the Women Tell All that shocked you that you didn't that you didn't know about?

00:25:52
Speaker 2: Oh gosh, give me some options or what I might have been shot?

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Speaker 4: I guess, well, like what was the big I guess the big part of Women Tell All?

00:26:01
Speaker 1: Was the beginning with Nicole, all the Nicole drama or you know, like regarding yeah Nicole Debby, listen.

00:26:11
Speaker 2: Let me just first of all, Nicole is a good friend of mine and we were early friends and were good friends.

00:26:16
Speaker 3: And I taste great.

00:26:18
Speaker 1: By the way, we had her on the podcast, and she's great.

00:26:20
Speaker 2: She I tasted the lemon bars. She could take full credit for him. They were not anything about there is a hot take for you.

00:26:31
Speaker 3: Oh my god, that's so fun.

00:26:32
Speaker 1: I love that. Nicole. If you're listening, you better work on those lemon bars.

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Speaker 3: Yeah.

00:26:36
Speaker 2: Well, you know, to be fair, she had none of her recipes with her, so yeah, she's doing it on the fly.

00:26:41
Speaker 5: Maybe that's why Mel sent her home. He was like, ah, these did love to the Hype's time to cut her.

00:26:48
Speaker 2: Now my bowlet as you could ask the crew about my bowlot as it was a pretty big hit.

00:26:53
Speaker 1: Really, how do you do? How do you can you give me a quick how do you make it?

00:26:57
Speaker 5: Joe's Italian?

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Speaker 3: Oh you too?

00:26:59
Speaker 2: Okay, So we were dealing with mansion food. Okay, So I only had ground beef. I would normally do several different types of ground lamb, pork, maybe bison, something like that, depending on how much. And then you got to cut your your carrots and your celery very small, dice like.

00:27:18
Speaker 1: Almost an onion. You don't do onion as well.

00:27:21
Speaker 3: I do less onion than you think.

00:27:23
Speaker 5: Okay, that's good for you. You don't really like onion.

00:27:27
Speaker 2: I used onion, yes, and I seed up really big, I mean really small, and you just cook it down, just cook it down more than you think.

00:27:37
Speaker 3: And you know, tomato paste.

00:27:39
Speaker 2: It is really whatever the mansion had we had to throw in there and just kind of play with it.

00:27:43
Speaker 3: So we got lucky. But it was pretty tasty.

00:27:45
Speaker 2: For no recipe and no strong ingredients turned out. Okay, I put a lot of parmesan on the top and it was perfect.

00:27:53
Speaker 3: That's the key, Yeah, that is the key.

00:27:55
Speaker 5: To end this podcast on a positive note. Can you tell us kind of of one of your favorite memories from being on the show and what you'll take away from it?

00:28:08
Speaker 3: Yeah? Yeah, oh wow, Okay.

00:28:11
Speaker 2: One of my favorite memories was being in my room and my roommates are Alessandra, Alex Lever, Diane, Hello, funniest woman, Monica Be, and Terry.

00:28:21
Speaker 3: I mean Monica Be, this woman.

00:28:23
Speaker 2: She would keep me up all night with just loved our soft conversations, great room, but the bathroom that we had, I'm really hopeful for this makeover, this mansion makeover. I can't wait to see it. My bathroom had a mirror about this big. It was tiny, and it was mounted so high, so my beautiful tall Monica be could see herself just perfectly. I saw literally this much of my face, and it was so I never knew how I looked, and so I always relied on my women to make sure everything was tucked in, to make sure things were right. And that's why it was really devastating to me when they my room, when everyone from my room was sent home and the big tier it's getting real, this one, it's getting real, was because not because of Mel, but that was because it's getting real because I had to focus on Mel because it could no longer be just about those friendships.

00:29:17
Speaker 5: Yeah, that mansion needs a makeover. It's long overdue, and I'm so excited to see it. And I hope that they included some big ass mirrors because.

00:29:26
Speaker 3: The girls deserve that.

00:29:28
Speaker 1: I need them, We need them.

00:29:30
Speaker 2: Yeah, and I also my next door so I was usually the first one up with the last one to go to bed. The last one to go to bed means I just would go listen to rooms and see.

00:29:38
Speaker 3: Who's still awake.

00:29:39
Speaker 2: And the party room was always Robin, Jerry, Carrol, and Amy.

00:29:44
Speaker 3: Oh my gosh. I think that's why I'm so incredibly close to them. I'd knock on the door. You can't walk across the floor.

00:29:51
Speaker 2: Jerry's like, come over here, come come by in my bed with me, like I'll be impaled by a high heel. So Robin was closed as I'm like, scoot over, Robin. Yeah, it's just some of our favorite memories. We're late into the night just talking and getting to know each other, and we all live by ourselves. We're grown ass women, and we got to go back and live with some other women with like minded and it was a privilege.

00:30:14
Speaker 5: Oh that's so fun.

00:30:16
Speaker 1: Well, Cindy, this was really great. It was lovely.

00:30:20
Speaker 4: Getting to meet you and talk to you. And I think you're going to be just fine. You're probably gonna find a guy like tonight. So yeah, thank you for taking the time and coming on our podcast.

00:30:35
Speaker 3: Thank you.

00:30:35
Speaker 2: You guys do such a lovely job, and you really bring out some interesting aspects to the whole story behind what is the Bachelor story? And I thank you for that because it's really compelling and it's really important. It's the single most important thing you could do is pick your partner.

00:30:52
Speaker 4: Thank thank you so much, and thank you to our listeners. Thank you guys for tuning in to Better Happy Hour. Make sure you download and subscribe to the podcast.

00:30:59
Speaker 5: We have new and exclusive interviews for you every single week. Thanks for listening.

00:31:03
Speaker 3: Bye h