Sip and See and Lots of Tea

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Speaker 1: Hello, gorgeous, it's Lala Kent.

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Speaker 2: Welcome to Untraditionally Lala. Welcome to our very first Untraditionally Lala podcast, where we are going over season three, episode one of the Valley.

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Speaker 1: So I'm worried about doing this.

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Speaker 2: That's okay, talk about it, talk about it because this I remember me and you looking at each other going, we may not have friends.

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Speaker 1: I know.

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Speaker 3: I'm really worried, and I have mom friends that Lisa the show, I know that listen to everything.

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Speaker 2: Yes, yes, we can't care, Lisa. Let me ask you this, what was Lauren's thought? What was her her thought on me and on you and I doing this?

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Speaker 1: I think she was excited about it? Well was she? I don't know.

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Speaker 2: I don't think she's that excited. And she was like, I don't know, I don't want to hear anything. You guys are saying, you're gonna put me in a hot water. I said, yeah, I am, I'm going to put you in the deepest, hottest, boiling water.

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Speaker 1: I'm going to call her out on things.

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Speaker 2: I am too, now that me and you are doing this, we did want to go back so we could at least figure out where how.

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Speaker 1: Did we get to this now. Yes, yes, but.

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Speaker 2: Listen tell the Ocean story about when you were because it's just a cute one.

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Speaker 1: Yeah.

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Speaker 3: So Ocean the other night was really doting on me at bedtime. She was like, do I need a drink? Do I need my fan turned on? She's going to turn off my light, close my door, really doting to the point where it was kind.

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Speaker 4: Of weird, what do you need?

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Speaker 1: What do you need? Exactly?

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Speaker 3: So I just had this prompting that I needed to get up and check on things. In fact, I was thinking, the back door is still open. I come out of my bedroom and my cute little granddaughter is running down the hall with a big old candy bar and it's bedtime, like way past bedtime. She looks at me like, oh, no, I've been caught. And I said, you know what I saw on the camera that you were doing? You saw me on the camera.

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Speaker 1: She was so so now she thinks we have cameras.

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Speaker 4: She had finished off the m and ms.

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Speaker 1: No, she's a sweet tooth gay.

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Speaker 4: She's probably been doing this every night.

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Speaker 2: Yeah, we have to put that candy out higher, so now we know if she dotes on you, she's sneaking candy from somewhere.

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Speaker 1: Yes, but big time. Anyway, I just thought it was cute.

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Speaker 2: And now I want a deep dive. All right, what are I want to start with? Just the relationships that have not come to an end? Jackson, Brittany, Jackson Brittany. But I saw the Zen party. He was wanting to drag it out to the very end. He told Brittany that Jax yeah, well he well that was on season two at the very end, right, Just looking at it and seeing Michelle and Jesse and then seeing Brittany and Jack's I have so many opinions because I've seen close.

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Speaker 1: I've just been in the mix.

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Speaker 2: Yes, and not only that, just I've with law her going through her like separation, not from marriage, but just like not getting the engagement, not going further. But like when I see Michelle and Jesse and Lacey and them trying to make that all work.

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Speaker 4: And Lacey is the girlfriend is the girlfriend.

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Speaker 2: Of the girlfriend who was the girlfriend from OCI who is now can be named. So I always think that the man is the problem.

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Speaker 1: There's some sort of they need.

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Speaker 2: It's almost like I have control and I can't let that last bit of control.

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Speaker 3: Go well, and I don't want to call them narcissists because I'm not a therapist neither of narcissistic behavior.

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Speaker 2: If you were to read the dictionary and read the definition, yes, maybe that is exactly what it says.

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Speaker 1: I'm not either.

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Speaker 2: All I'm saying is from a guy, and I'm not going into the mental and like all of that and the therapy of it. I'm just saying it seems like they don't want to They want to make.

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Speaker 4: Their lives tough.

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Speaker 2: It wasn't because they can control that tough because they've lost all control. And I just by the look of it, even when you don't have control of over your own life, work and whatever. And like I said, I don't know what's going on, but that's one thing that they know they can control, and that's why they try to make their life hell because Lacey, like Michelle asking Lacey to get him to sign the divorce papers. What is Jesse saying to each of them that isn't adding up Because Lauren and Amber, this is my biggest thing, is Lauren and Amber hated each other and didn't even know each other hated but it was because of the stories that he would say exactly, so the stories with Michelle and Lacey. I feel like be squashed if Jesse wasn't doing whatever is whatever it is he is doing behind closed doors. I feel like he's controlling both narratives because that's what he needs, he needs to control. But once you get rid of the guy, the girls usually seem pretty well. Yeah, so that is that's me on I feel like they the divorces are because of that reason. They love the control and they won't give up that control. You what do you think?

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Speaker 3: I'm in a total agreement with you? Okay, total agreement because.

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Speaker 1: That's the only thing that I've seen. And I'm hoping with the episode.

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Speaker 2: Two we get a little bit more because I'm just going off of what we've seen on one.

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Speaker 1: In a little bit of two.

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Speaker 2: You know, yeah, me too, So I'm hoping that it looks like it's got good bearing.

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Speaker 1: So I'm excited to see what I'm doing.

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Speaker 3: And I'm really proud of Brittany and what she's taken on and what she's accomplished, and you know, the mortgage and all the things that.

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Speaker 2: She's and I mean not only that, but seeing what was added to her mortgage, oh yeah, because of you know, being a single parent and like that's the thing.

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Speaker 1: People make mistakes.

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Speaker 2: I don't think Jack's mental was like I'm going to do all this so it's more expensive for her. Things happen. You know, addiction is ahell of a thing, but once you can get out of it, you know a lot of things. But I'm very proud of Brittany in the way she's handled herself. So what about can we talk about Zach pep tides?

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Speaker 1: We are we are tiders.

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Speaker 2: So when he was stabbing himself with the g LP, I was like, Hey, different stuff, but same thing, baby, So let's talk about Janet and the sipency.

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Speaker 4: I know that's really sticky, all of that it is.

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Speaker 1: So I'm trying to figure out how she was in to.

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Speaker 3: The sip and sea then and Kristen were holding right, yeah, Casita, Yeah, that they've had a lot of turbulence.

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Speaker 2: Question if you're if you Nia and Kristen, would you, with everything that you have seen and know what's going on, would you have invited Janet?

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Speaker 3: Honestly, well, probably not because they really don't have a relationship right now. They're not really on speaking terms and they've had a lot of like contentious.

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Speaker 4: Yeah, no behavior going on.

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Speaker 2: Yeah, I think that Janet you you you made your point. And I know that she knows this as well. We've all talked, but she drove it too far to the point where like, you're attacking my family. You're attacking like you're attacking the man of the family who has like there would be a lot of repairing that would have to be done.

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Speaker 4: But on the flip side, Danny needs to keep his hands to himself.

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Speaker 1: And that's my next thing.

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Speaker 3: And Nia when they were at the Zen party, was making a point to him saying, this is on camera.

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Speaker 2: It's like and that's where I'm like, okay, and this is what you trying to hide to everybody that we're only one episode in. Me and Lisa have been watching the past what two days. Everything's kind of so Lisa when she's talking about that that's that's season two, last episode when they're talking about the perfect life, and I kind of agree when Jacks was like, you're you're pretending that you have this perfect life. Jackson is getting so frustrated because he had to dismiss him from his bar with whatever happened inside that could have gotten both of them in trouble.

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Speaker 4: He said he had to call me a multiple times.

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Speaker 1: And then for Nita Goo, well, I almost hit you drunk in the road.

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Speaker 2: It's like, Okay, Nia deflecting, deflecting, and I'm not gonna lie.

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Speaker 4: I'm a deflector.

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Speaker 1: Yeah, situations too, I get it, but not Okay.

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Speaker 2: It isn't. But I just feel like new season knew everything. With what has happened, there has to be some sort of repairing. But how do you think you can even pair the relationship between Danny.

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Speaker 3: Nia and Danny needs to take accountability for his actions and they need to not worry that the cameras are rolling because you signed up for it. Exactly what are you trying to portray? Like why are you worried that there's cameras there?

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Speaker 1: Okay, and that can unfold? Well, I mean, and that's the thing.

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Speaker 2: We have some insight about the show because obviously we live with somebody who.

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Speaker 1: Is on it, and.

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Speaker 2: There's always every time I've seen Danny in an altercation with somebody, Nia is right behind to kind of deflect, deflect, and like steer him into whatever narrative they've talked behind, talked about behind closed doors. So I don't love me and Danny at all. You guys can come at me. I think they're they're hiding something. And to be honest, it seem they feel like a Utah family. Yeah, oh totally like very you Utah very and if you know, you know, but that's they just seem like that to me. And they just like they seem like they're a Utah family. And when I say this, like, I'm sorry, she looks like the cookie cutter. Our life is perfect, we have the children, but she's got our antenna's up. Yes, ever, and that is like, so you taught to me of like the mom keeping the cookie Cutter house that looks this way. The husband, what will the neighbors say? My husband is outside mowing the lawn with a beer. What will my neighbors think? It's like she is trying to control Danny into the narrative of like what will everyone think of us?

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Speaker 3: She wants to have the perfect pageant life. Yes, that's what I can.

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Speaker 1: And I love you, but that doesn't exist on camera. No I don't.

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Speaker 2: I'm just no one does. Here's the thing, most of us listening don't know her.

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Speaker 1: Yeah.

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Speaker 2: All I'm saying is from what I've seen and just the little experiences that I've had.

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Speaker 1: This is my this is how I feel. Yeah, and these are my opinions about it too. Come at me. You can have your own opinions.

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Speaker 2: We can battle them out, but like those are my opinion of like, every time he's in hot water, I have to come and save him because he will say something that won't come to the cookie Cutter home, right.

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Speaker 3: So, and I also think that because there's so much contention that I wouldn't.

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Speaker 4: Want to be at the sipancy if I were Janet.

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Speaker 2: No, I wouldn't either. And there's kids, and you want that to be a good energy. My what about Kristin and Janet? This is where my hiccup is a little bit of like I feel like they are taking on other people's like hatred of each other and like taking it for them. I feel like they could have a conversation and mash everything that they've Yeah.

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Speaker 4: She's protecting Kristen's protecting her.

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Speaker 1: Friends, and I can't.

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Speaker 2: And I can defend christ because I would be Kristin and I would be defending But there.

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Speaker 1: I I don't know.

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Speaker 2: I'm this type of person who is close enough to these people where it's like I want to see everyone get along, but then we wouldn't have a show.

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Speaker 1: But that's what I want. Not everybody's going to get on, No, they're not.

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Speaker 2: There's too many many personality, too many personalities, and a lot of things that I think have happened that they're not getting over. So I agree because if I were them, I would have not invited her as well.

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Speaker 1: So that is me on that. Let's go back to Brittany, can we?

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Speaker 4: Yeah?

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Speaker 2: What are your thoughts on her and her dating after Jack's.

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Speaker 5: You know what?

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Speaker 4: I think she should go out and have a good time.

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Speaker 3: She's been through a lot, She's been through a ton, and I think she needs to go on have fun.

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Speaker 4: Does it mean she's getting married tomorrow?

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Speaker 1: No? So you did? That's what you think as well?

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Speaker 4: Why not go kick up your heels?

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Speaker 1: I see.

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Speaker 2: I'm going to rock in a hard spot with it because I love Brittany more than anything and I want her to go out and have fun because she did put in a decade and I feel like she's through a lot. She's been through a lot. I want Brittany to go have fun. But the one thing that I do want Brittany to do is love herself the way I feel like a lot of us love her. Yeah, you know, and when Tom brought up a master dating, Brittany is no.

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Speaker 1: But I when I the.

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Speaker 3: Girls, when they get together, Lauren comes home, I call her Lauren has the best time and the best stories and just jovial and happy.

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Speaker 2: And Brittany is a bubble of joy. I love Britney, but I like, I want to see her going and do all of these things and hang out and go have fun with these guys I think she is and I want her to. But I also want her to know her value and know her worth and I want her to do what Tom is what was saying, and like this master the master dating, because I like she Brittany can get any guy, but I want her to be able to get the right one.

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Speaker 1: Because I mean, I know, I know, and she can.

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Speaker 2: But I want her to know her worth as well, and that she is very special and she's gone through a whole lot and that is not who she is, and her worth is high. That's what I want her to know. And that's where I do want this. I would love her to. I mean, I want to self, what is it? I want to master date and then come home and master date. Thank you I want her to master date because I think that she would find a lot of peace, and I think that she would find a lot of love within herself that she doesn't know she has because of the ship she's gone through.

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Speaker 1: Go have fun, Britt, I love you.

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Speaker 2: I want to make a point on them wanting Jesse saying that he wants the modern family dynamic. This is where I'm saying where we had it, Lisa, We had it Dad, Pam Brandon, Oh, yeah, like, you're right, we had what Jesse is wanted.

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Speaker 1: Right.

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Speaker 3: My husband Kent, was married before I had a child, and then the divorce and we'd go out with Pam Lynn.

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Speaker 2: Like, guys, I my first job ever was from my dad's ex wife's new husband.

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Speaker 4: Yep.

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Speaker 2: I worked at a golf course. So I get where Jesse is wanting that dynamic. You're not going to get it when you are the problem.

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Speaker 3: Well, you can't call your your soon to be ex a whore, yeah, and all these other things and expect to have a modern family, modern family damage control.

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Speaker 1: Hello. Yes.

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Speaker 4: The thing that I don't.

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Speaker 3: Like is, like he's saying in one of the episodes last season, I believe it was that she was sleeping with a billionaire for money because people were questioning how she made ends meat and then he's calling her a or and all these other things.

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Speaker 1: But it is not okay. But also I don't think he was the one modern family.

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Speaker 4: You're not going to get it.

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Speaker 2: Dude calling your your wife, not even your ex wife, mother of your child.

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Speaker 1: Hello.

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Speaker 4: Yeah, And she can look back on this, you know, and.

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Speaker 2: Well that's where well, that's where the well, that's where the cut is too deep, where I don't think you can ever heal.

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Speaker 1: We'll see, but I don't think I can come back from that. No. But that's just me. That's just me too.

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Speaker 2: I want to talk to you about the infertility that Kristen oh.

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Speaker 3: I know, well, you know I can relate, not on that degree because she's been trying to just yeah, like a long long time dad and I had a bit of a time getting pregnant the first time, but not to that exactly.

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Speaker 2: And I'm only asking and bringing this up because obviously we know they have their baby, but I want to know because of where they are and not going out and just their relationship they're talking about.

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Speaker 4: I feel like post depression.

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Speaker 3: This all happens, but very bad and I can totally relate with Kristen, like it's it's a big adjustment.

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Speaker 4: You don't have the body that you had before.

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Speaker 3: You're tired, you're emotional the whole nine yards, and I get that.

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Speaker 1: But here's the one thing that.

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Speaker 2: I that Luke said that I have said that I feel like a lot of guys have said, but I never know the woman's and I don't know if I'll get it from you even But when you're like when girls are like, I don't want to have sex because I don't love my body, but Luke is like, you have boobs, you have a buddet. It's like I love it. Isn't that enough for just the one guy? And no, it's not, Well you should be in a guy's body because we sure hate ours.

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Speaker 4: Well, I'm just saying.

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Speaker 3: And I can late too, because I was having my first baby like Kristen, and I had a friend that was on her fourth. I had two friends that were on their fourth kids. And I remember being so depressed that my friend came over. She ripped open the drapes and said, you've got to get dressed, You've.

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Speaker 1: Got to get out of the house.

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Speaker 4: And she, you know, really pulled me out of that. But it's a real thing, no real.

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Speaker 2: Sure, and I do think just talking to you about it, even like Nia said three months they need a date night, Well they did.

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Speaker 4: Need a date night for sure.

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Speaker 3: Dad and I had Tuesday nights was our date night, just the two of us. We'd go out one night on the weekend with friends, but Tuesday night was date night. And that is so important just to you know, have your life somewhat back to incorporate this cute child.

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Speaker 4: But you got to have you know, the whole dynamic.

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Speaker 2: And that's where I'm trying to, you know, relate with Luke on that level, but like I can't at all, you know, like they just had a baby. He's trying to make his wife feel a certain way and the way she looks she is beautiful. Yeah, and then him like, well I still need to go out. Like there's a lot of things and I've never been in that boat. So it's like how do you go through that? And I think he's handling it the best way he can.

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Speaker 3: Well, he's being very cute to her, I think, but you know, your hormones are out of whack.

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Speaker 1: It's it's just no, and.

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Speaker 2: That's the other thing that like I can only imagine what you guys go through mentally. All I can say is I'm an alright guy. I can't say for all men, but like I take on energy and like if hers isn't good, mine isn't going to be good and it would be tough for me. So I feel like a lot like I want to give Luke and even all the guys you know, credit for getting their their significant other through it, but also like you know, it's different too, though I don't want it to be.

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Speaker 4: To go and have coffee with his friends. He got to go and meet for drinks.

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Speaker 2: I know, but Dad did that. I don't think Luke does that. I think Luke is like, no, I'm I'm at home like you whatever. You know, we all have certain feelings like even if somebody were to say, go do what you want to do, I'm not going to be able to do that if I have a child at home, like I won't be able to go and enjoy and maybe Dad could go enjoy. Maybe Luke is stuck in his own head of like why am I enjoying when she's not? Yeah, And that's where it's just like it's tough for everyone, and he's like, you know, I want to go do these things, but I don't want to do him with anybody, but you right, I agree.

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Speaker 1: So, but that's just how I look at it.

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Speaker 2: I just want to give Luke and Kristen some props on how they've handled it, and I want them to go on some date nights and and that soon.

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Speaker 6: Yes, yeah, yes, because on that level, Yeah, what are your what are what did you think about the uh Luke and Sosa?

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Speaker 3: I know, I was like dying when I saw that part. It was like I donated to the same sperm bank. You look at her, she just got the blue eyes, the same coloring.

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Speaker 1: Guys.

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Speaker 2: When they did the side by side, I looked at both my mom and sister and I said, DNA test the media. Barn was like, no, I got it off the off the tap fresh, it was newer.

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Speaker 1: I was like, I don't think I did the math.

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Speaker 2: I did the math, and I was like, well, we're not very good at math, so maybe we should just go in.

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Speaker 1: But that was like all of the things that he was checking off. Well.

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Speaker 2: I loved how he was like cooking, Yeah, I could have been one. He was like, my hobby's changed and it's like, woww you lean that's me.

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Speaker 1: What was the other one? A degree in finance and accounting, Like it was very like side by side.

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Speaker 2: It was well, not only side by side, you put them side by side and you're like, oh shit, this might be your fucking kid. Great job, by the way, it's an amazing child.

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Speaker 1: Honestly, we might need her on over. That's plon over.

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Speaker 2: But yeah, I think that by the end of this season I'll have a DNA test for that because I do need to know.

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Speaker 1: And I don't care if anyone is going to be swapping looke come here. Oh it's not now word, we're doing it. We're doing it because I can't.

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Speaker 3: And then Brittany was back from her trip with her man on the on the episode.

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Speaker 2: Oh yes, let me eat k this is my biggest thing that I want to talk about.

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Speaker 1: Thank you for bringing it up. Britney's saying that she could get bored.

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Speaker 3: See adrenaline rush sometimes that people like they get addicted to the.

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Speaker 1: To their crazy. Yeah, well, when you do it for ten years, what do you know?

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Speaker 2: There's no different, Like, you don't feel like you're in a relationship if it's not that.

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Speaker 3: Yeah, but I think it's cute that they met each other and then reconnected years later.

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Speaker 1: Same.

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Speaker 2: But here's my thing. I I don't think and this goes for any Bravo person, man, woman, whoever you're dating. If you try to date somebody normal that you bring onto the show, you're always like, she'll always have chaos. So no matter what, I don't think she'll ever have a relationship boring Because what Lisa, if I started dating a girl, I don't know.

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Speaker 4: What if they just had a nine to five job and they were.

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Speaker 5: Beautiful, beautiful, they have that normal Yeah, normally I think that's what this guy is a nine to yes.

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Speaker 2: But here's where my point comes. Yes he's a nine to five Yes. If it gets serious, what happens to your nine to five?

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Speaker 1: It's no more.

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Speaker 2: Really, you're on a TV show and you better be giving more.

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Speaker 4: Other shows that they have.

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Speaker 1: I Jason still works. See I guess I don't know. She does like an attorney.

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Speaker 2: Yes, I all I'm saying is you can take a normal person, but if they get involved in this, who knows how that.

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Speaker 1: Normal person will act?

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Speaker 2: True, because we all like to think that we'd act a certain way, like I would never have done that. Stick a camera in your face and tell me that, because it's very different.

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Speaker 1: True.

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Speaker 2: So, I I always think, no matter who Brittany is dating or anybody in the Bravo world, if they pick somebody not in it, get ready because you're gonna have a stir of fun.

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Speaker 1: Just my opinion.

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Speaker 3: Yeah, I'm excited to find out.

00:24:38
Speaker 1: You're excited to find out. Yes. Oh. Then when they were at lunch, Brittany el coyote.

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Speaker 3: Yeah, and they were talking about what Janet went through at Britney's house with Kristen.

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Speaker 1: What are your thoughts on that?

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Speaker 5: I thought it was inappropriate on Kristen's end. Yeah, Well, what would you have done if you were Brittany there?

00:25:02
Speaker 1: What would you have done if you were Brittany?

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Speaker 4: I think Brittany should have intervened.

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Speaker 2: I think we're all going to say that. But if you're Brittany in that moment, what are you doing? Because I'm not going to lie to you. I may have been Brittany. I'm you're Yes, you're at your house, there's kids around, something just happened. You're thinking, how do I get her to be happy? While her happy? How do I do all of this? And by the time, like you even get your thoughts, you've been quiet and everything's already done. Yeah, because you can't bet Like I thought Brittany was in it. I mean it should have never happened, obviously, but I think Brittany was in a tough position. But she does say that she avoids confrontation. Well, she's a people pleaser, she is, and that's where I think master dating could help her. Yeah, on not people pleasing.

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Speaker 3: Blame her though for not wanting like she is a people pleaser, and that's okay.

00:25:52
Speaker 2: It is, but to a certain degree. Yeah, you know, because a friend to everyone is a friend to no one. Oh, remember I find these words. It was That's just what I've that was today. You know, a friend to everyone is a friend to no one. So it's like you have to have your you know, so pick but like, yeah, I and that's the thing.

00:26:13
Speaker 4: I felt bad for Janet. I think it was embarrassing for Janet. She had this little guy that wanted to go swimming.

00:26:20
Speaker 2: Well there I get upset the two boy cruisy getting to play.

00:26:26
Speaker 3: Yeah, and like Janet thought, if she is there, she'll stay in the house.

00:26:31
Speaker 4: I'll be in the pool. We won't have to cross paths.

00:26:34
Speaker 2: No, so yes, I but I'm not going to say that, Yes, Britney should have, but I'm not going to say if I was in her boat, I would have either, So I can't get upset for her not saying anything.

00:26:46
Speaker 3: I think I would have tried to diffuse the situation. But of course I'm sixty five years old, so hello.

00:26:53
Speaker 5: Yeah, some more life experience over there. Yeah, okay, that's just my opinion.

00:26:59
Speaker 1: I just love to.

00:27:00
Speaker 4: That's the beauty of opinions.

00:27:01
Speaker 1: Everyone has one, kind of like a butt yep.

00:27:17
Speaker 2: I just want to end this with our thoughts on this Lacey character who was nameless last season, sending cease and desists every which way, and now then chooses to be on this show, and people are people have been asking and through the Green Vine allegedly this Lacy character, and Lacey is Jesse's new new girlfriend.

00:27:46
Speaker 5: She was Orange County girl, okay, and she didn't want anything to do with anything to do yes, and now.

00:27:53
Speaker 2: She does season she's on phase to the Yeah, now has a name, now has a name?

00:28:02
Speaker 4: How did they meet?

00:28:04
Speaker 1: Honestly, I have no idea.

00:28:06
Speaker 2: Was it on a data It was either on a dating app or on Instagram. It was it was a virtual meet. That's what I do know. They met on some app Okay from what I hear.

00:28:17
Speaker 3: From what I hear, her backstory is she was married married to a wealthy man.

00:28:23
Speaker 1: Allegedly.

00:28:24
Speaker 3: This is all alleged because allegedly, yeah, and that he had an affair on her the same time she was pregnant. The mistress of whatever you want to call her got pregnant, and so they've got kids and he left for mistress for the.

00:28:41
Speaker 2: Mistress allegedly and now allegedly Lacey gets money from this man every month dollar signed. Do not know whatever it is, but that is where I think a lot of people are asking and wondering where she came from. That is kind of who she is. We said, yes, we see her at the sipancy and she has an interaction with Michelle. Yes, awkward and back to the point I think they could have a real relationship.

00:29:17
Speaker 1: Is it wasn't for Jesse.

00:29:19
Speaker 3: Yeah, Michelle said, I just want to get divorce. Yes, she's willing to walk away just I want my life.

00:29:28
Speaker 1: I just want my life.

00:29:30
Speaker 2: And that says a lot if you're wanting to get out and you don't care for anything but just your freedom, your debt says a lot, and.

00:29:37
Speaker 1: Give it to her.

00:29:38
Speaker 2: But that's where I'm saying, like, Jesse, Yes, Jesse, I don't like. I have no ill will either. I have no thoughts about like anyone right now, honestly. But what I will say is you're going downhill quick on the way that these two women are interacting with each other, because I've been in a situation where I'm near it seeing it with my sister and am her and you, Jesse, are the fucking common denominator, and I will call you out because I know that these two women will probably get along if it wasn't for you and whatever stories you're pitching behind closed doors to each one of these women, because you should have filed for divorce, and why Lacey is fine with you not being divorced. Has a lot of questions on what the fuck Lacey has to do with a lot of this, because I think I can see.

00:30:27
Speaker 4: Why Michelle's upset with Lacey sinning.

00:30:29
Speaker 1: I just I can't too. Why do you?

00:30:33
Speaker 2: I'm going to tell you why I think Lacey came on, and you can tell me why you I think she came on and was nameless. The season two, and I think that so many people were talking about her, you have to kind of come in and now fight for yourself. That's what I think has happened. I don't think she's caring, like I don't think from what I know, we haven't seen a lot.

00:30:54
Speaker 1: I don't think she cares for the but I could be wrong. They all want it.

00:30:58
Speaker 2: I don't think she's here for the fame and things like that.

00:31:02
Speaker 4: I'm just interested to see how it plays.

00:31:03
Speaker 1: Out that season.

00:31:07
Speaker 2: I will say this season, because we watched a little bit of two and two is good. Yeah, we've only seen one of this and a couple of little snippets, but this one has some good bearings on it.

00:31:17
Speaker 1: I think so too. I think it's going to be really good.

00:31:19
Speaker 2: No, I'm very excited for it, and I hope that you guys enjoyed listening to the season three episode one recap of Untraditionally La La with and t T.

00:31:33
Speaker 4: Thanks for tuning in. Bye,