Episode 171 | Is Rory Using His Kid For The Album Rollout?

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Speaker 1: One of my homegirls friends on me. She said, all right, I'll take you off the friends one if you can answer this question. She said, why you want to fuck me?

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Speaker 2: Damn?

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Speaker 1: I did not know what to say, Like anything I would have said in that moment was gonna be like, all right, that's exactly why I'm not fucking you.

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Speaker 3: I asked that question now too, as like as an adult woman, that question why didn't want to fuck me?

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Speaker 4: But what a shitty question is?

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Speaker 3: How is that a shitty because it's such.

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Speaker 4: A because you know, you know where I want to give me that ask question? Yes, you have to say bullshit.

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Speaker 3: Like that, tell the fucking truth. Why do you want to fuck? N go fuck somebody else?

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Speaker 5: You know how the street ship goes always stayed down on the streets ten toes. See me in the club with at least six holes in my section. But you, who I'm gonna leave with, th got you the mostown ap Writst bros.

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Speaker 3: Passes.

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Speaker 5: Aside of my two dollars, I no niggas probably leasing those no got him by the fleeting and sweet like candy, your lover I can't escape from. But you my little secret, so well, not a secret, but keep ship low the man in the city big key for my homes.

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Speaker 1: Whoa we got game like that?

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Speaker 5: What other young nigga getting changed like that said, you don't funk up with me, but you came right back because you ain't never came like that.

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Speaker 1: Fact.

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Speaker 6: Oh shit, he took it out of hand.

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Speaker 2: Hairlines strong, It's.

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Speaker 4: Doesn't piss you off, Like why do you why do you cover it? What your great hairline?

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Speaker 1: Again? My hair?

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Speaker 2: Yeah?

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Speaker 4: Oh god, why are you hiding that?

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Speaker 3: Oh you got good edges, mom, Yeah.

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Speaker 6: You got good edges.

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Speaker 2: Mall.

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Speaker 3: Just you know, like when it hats, are you green hair?

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Speaker 1: I don't know what I'm doing with it? Just you have a lett him do what it's doing.

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Speaker 4: You have like a Janelle Money thing with your hairline. I just found out, like what she was hiding under the Blues brothersuit, Like, God, look what you're hiding under the hat man like's a new episode.

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Speaker 1: Hey, but you my hair?

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Speaker 4: I know it pisses me off every time I'm repeating myself, Bob is me every time you take your head off for one second, because why would you hide that beautiful thing?

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Speaker 2: I'm not yo, I'm comfortable as often as often as we see Mall. It is always a surprise when you your hat off.

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Speaker 1: But I mean, yeah, I guess so, I guess a lot of people that don't know, but Rory seen me without my hat.

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Speaker 4: My corners are fighting for their life. My corners are Simba's father at the edge of the fucking cliff and you're sitting here as the king of the jungle.

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Speaker 1: But it is always funny when like people see me for the first time without my hat. Just like a lot of people think, I'm like, so, what do you think? Like this is just here and there's nothing up here.

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Speaker 3: Maybe, but you have have a shitty hairline. A lot of people have a se don't let it go.

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Speaker 1: Yeah, I'm not one of those. I let sh it go before let me go.

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Speaker 6: Okay, okay, okay, drop that.

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Speaker 4: Okay, that's a better.

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Speaker 1: Right here, here you go.

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Speaker 4: You know we're here.

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Speaker 1: Welcome to a new episode of the new Rory and Mal Podcast. I am Mall, I'm Rory, and we are back today with a special special episode.

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Speaker 4: The Most Specialists Special.

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Speaker 1: This is definitely a special special episode, special episode. Edit you got that special. This is a special special special episode because well number one, congrats to my to my guy Rory on becoming a father.

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Speaker 4: Yes, yay, thank you. Graboration, Rory, wasn't that difficult?

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Speaker 1: Wasn't that difficult? Wasn't too much pain? So much pressure?

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Speaker 4: No, it's it's really crazy. I don't know if he knows. All you have to do is have sex.

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Speaker 1: That's it.

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Speaker 4: It's really wild.

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Speaker 1: You know, was touch and go for man? Was is he getting something? Is he not getting any? Yeah?

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Speaker 4: And I mean I'm happy now everyone knows that I have had sex.

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Speaker 1: You have had sex, So we do know that Rory has had sex, heterosexual sex, right?

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Speaker 2: Sure?

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Speaker 6: Was there a doubt?

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Speaker 1: I mean, you know, listen, I don't ever want to put any labels on anybody when to give them the rank.

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Speaker 6: You literally just literally just led.

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Speaker 4: You just labeled my child's inception conception inception well with all a dream.

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Speaker 1: But because I know you, I put that on you because I can only as assume that you had heterosexual sex. Yeah, to conceive a child, for sure? Yeah, you did to get the turkey based during you know what I mean?

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Speaker 4: Well, where do we begin? I kind of want to begin with you guys. Well, of course I've been hiding a child, but you guys are culprits.

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Speaker 1: And it's been so much pressure. You've all been hiding a child. You don't know how many people have asked me no dms really, oh my god, like yo, does Rory have a baby? And I read it and it's just like I don't answer it, you know what I mean, just like people, you don't know people, I don't know what do they think?

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Speaker 4: What do they think You're going to answer me?

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Speaker 1: Like yeah, you know they want to know, does Rory have a kid? I'm just like, come on, why you ask me this? Then when we were on we were on tour, yes, and then uh, you know your girlfriend was with us and she you know, people obviously saw her her stomach.

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Speaker 4: There was there was a stomach that.

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Speaker 1: Like I'm like, yes, worries having a baby?

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Speaker 2: So or all right?

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Speaker 4: When I was hiding this child and even during the pregnancy and when people I saw her with his stomach, I did have the thought that maybe people would think, like I'm really just one of those like suckers that's like no, like it's not my kid. But like Freddie Gibbs, that's his child first and foremost.

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Speaker 1: To be respectful, and Freddie reached out to me till he texted me what Freddy said? No, he just he thanked me. What do you.

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Speaker 3: Say, terrified? No, because I put, like all types, I put trick him and ice is on his jacket. I didn't even mean to do that.

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Speaker 1: You put a lot on people's jackets. Marriage you do that a lot.

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Speaker 4: Yeah, you are the jacket giver.

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Speaker 6: Yeah for sure.

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Speaker 1: Uh No, he just said, my nigga, I appreciate you. This is Gibbs And I was like, okay, cool, gosh it.

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Speaker 2: Well, you knew it was him because his the tax heurity he has a.

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Speaker 1: New number, and he said he's working on movies and you know he's recording as well. So he just gave you a whole rundown, right. I guess he wanted me to have his number, and he saw we spoke about him, and you know, so always always well, wish is to Freddie. That's one of my one of my favorite.

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Speaker 4: Yes, we call him the racist kid.

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Speaker 1: No and not telling me. I didn't know.

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Speaker 2: But what if his kid and Rory's kid become friends.

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Speaker 4: That's true. That could be in twenty twenty three, like they're Yeah, it would be in the same grade.

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Speaker 2: Now we can look at all the kids in the culture and we can, like, let Rory's kid can become friends with them.

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Speaker 3: Are we allowed to say her name?

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Speaker 4: I'd rather not.

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Speaker 3: Okay, we're not going to say her name, but we don't know what she identifies as. I feel like they wouldn't. I feel like they would make fun of the kid whose dad stink Star is on the internet.

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Speaker 4: No.

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Speaker 6: Yeah, this lady Bro's not on the internet.

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Speaker 1: Though they wanted, they wanted his baby mother to release the pictures, and she was like, noah, I'm not doing that.

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Speaker 4: Okay, Honorable Tente's down.

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Speaker 1: God listen.

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Speaker 4: I just we're having when we can finally talk about me having a kid. And I was about Freddy Gibbs asshole.

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Speaker 1: Yeah about that already, and we ended up backing Freddy.

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Speaker 4: Somehow my daughter got in never mind, it's crazy.

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Speaker 3: We were talking about how we all handled keeping a secret of such large magnitude.

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Speaker 4: Yes, and me like Dallas looking like I was raising someone else's kid.

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Speaker 1: Yeah, that was nah.

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Speaker 4: I don't have no kids.

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Speaker 2: Like the MAVs game, it's most well lit arena in the NBA.

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Speaker 4: Big big, big stomach too, like not even one you could you know, put a big.

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Speaker 1: But it was it was. It was hard for for for me, especially because you know, if people heard I don't know how they heard that you had a kid or you had a kid on the way, but it just started the influx of d m s and ship.

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Speaker 4: I was just like, well, the hiding, the hiding a child thing is more for jokes. Yeah, there was no hiding. I was walking around. If you have seen me in the street.

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Speaker 1: In the last though, I have.

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Speaker 4: Just because I didn't put it on social media, everyone around me knew what it was. Even people that are't around me that are close to me knew immediately that she existed.

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Speaker 1: I mean social media. I'm never I don't care about you're letting social media know. But I do think that it was people that know you in real life that had no idea.

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Speaker 4: Oh well, I think that would just attest to them not being in communication with me at all. I will say, having a child is similar to changing your number.

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Speaker 1: Hear me out, Okay, sure we go listen. Hold on that because you got to bring this all the way home. You just yeah, you got you said some crazy shit. Just that it is to your point, like people you realize who you didn't talk to before. Okay, because if I'm going to start telling people, and I look at the last time we spoke, I didn't feel like I needed to tell certain people.

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Speaker 4: It was people that I speak too often. And that's the same thing that it's like when you have a new number of who's worth the time to give the new number two because you don't speak to them. Yeah, we know each other, we're associates, we could even be friends, but we don't speak. So I wasn't like adding them to the baby.

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Speaker 1: Threats my mom Actually every time, well, your.

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Speaker 4: Mom doesn't text me, so.

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Speaker 1: She knows, but she asks about your daughter all the time. I've sent any pictures you sent me I've sent. I'm just letting you know. My mom has all of the pictures. And she said she can't wait to bite her a little red cheeks. Yeah, I mean face like yeah, she hugs kids, kissed them and kind of like this cheek.

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Speaker 2: What does she do?

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Speaker 6: Thank you mom?

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Speaker 1: Any don't mind? You don't even notice? Man put this baby down? Like whose baby? Are you biting it?

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Speaker 6: Women have an obsession with eating babies, and I don't know what.

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Speaker 4: It is a little creepy like and it's like I just want to eat her feet. I'm like, huh, I mean, I feel you, but.

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Speaker 6: For yourself, she has very delicious feet.

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Speaker 3: She does.

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Speaker 1: Yo, what is that you've eaten her feet before?

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Speaker 3: Yes? Babies? Do you kissed it?

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Speaker 1: That's not what you do. I've never eaten a baby's feet in my life.

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Speaker 2: Maybe it's like a woman thing.

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Speaker 6: It's very much a woman, which is like, keep that ship to yourself. Why want to eat them?

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Speaker 4: Because I've been in elevators with people and they're like, she's so adorable, want to eat her hands?

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Speaker 3: I'm like, all right, that's weird.

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Speaker 2: Oh they're we throw a croc.

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Speaker 1: Said he was crazy cook.

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Speaker 3: That was grown ass man.

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Speaker 1: Yeah, what.

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Speaker 4: Corners with my daughter and that heavyweight fighter.

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Speaker 1: I said, I want to eat his kids, and then he said I'm doing a lot. I'm like, I don't think all would be like the Yeah, no, he said I want to eat his children.

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Speaker 4: Be to a lot like, well, I don't think agrees with it. Yeah, not my religion, but I'm saying, I don't know if a lot is with you eating that gentleman's whole family. But yeah, I mean, it's been hard not to talk about it on the podcast to some degree.

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Speaker 3: Especially when we're having kid conversations.

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Speaker 4: Oh, I mean at this point. Yeah, the audience that did not know can probably listen back to a lot of episodes where with a different ear. Yeah, definitely like new father opinions.

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Speaker 2: How is it?

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Speaker 1: How is it being a father? Now? Like, how do you view? Well, first of all, how do you view your relationships with women? Because you have a daughter. I know that a lot of friends of mine, once they have had their daughters, they you know, they told me that immediately their entire like demeanor and the way that they even talk about women and look at women changed forever.

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Speaker 4: Oh no, I'm still very misogynistic.

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Speaker 1: Good, you still got some soul.

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Speaker 4: Nothing changed. I don't know if I've had that moment per se, because I don't know if I've always like had some like scumbaggy.

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Speaker 1: View of women.

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Speaker 4: Yeah, so like I'm not, Yeah, I don't have like even down to the the Jbar, I was waiting because of course with the whole Vengers, and I was like, oh, I can't wait to wrap four point forty four and like not see the world through my daughter's eyes.

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Speaker 1: Yeah not yet.

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Speaker 4: No, it hasn't really happened in that regard. But also I never looked at women terribly, so I don't have that, but it does make me look at the women that I would never look at differently, like what happened? Ye? Like can we go? Can we find the breadcrumbs of what got you here? Just so I make sure I don't make the same mistakes.

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Speaker 1: Your father did. So that.

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Speaker 4: Yeah, I've started to look at women I would never look at. Because now I'm curious, did you uh so? Like where did their parents fuck up on the.

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Speaker 1: Day of her birth? Did you did you cry?

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Speaker 3: Oh?

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Speaker 4: Of course?

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Speaker 1: Yeah?

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Speaker 2: Was it?

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Speaker 1: Well? What kind of cry?

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Speaker 2: Though?

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Speaker 1: Was it like Denzel and Glory when he was getting beat just tears dropping? But wasn't no sound coming out of his mouth? Or was it like was it like the cry when Jim Carrey found out their finkle was iron Horn and Einhorn was finking what.

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Speaker 2: That cry looks like? No, I didn't.

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Speaker 4: I didn't take bleach and cover my No.

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Speaker 1: But you know he was crying in the shower like he was like, it's big crying.

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Speaker 4: It's a wild experience. It's like a outer body experience to some degree.

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Speaker 1: Like this is me, this came from me.

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Speaker 4: Yes, And also like watching the whole process because there's not much you can do, Like you're in a very helpless position as a man, and you're just like yelling, breathing noises and just trying to repeat what the duel was saying and like now you got it, and like you almost sound annoying because like everyone in the room besides you has a purpose. So that's just a weird feeling in general. But you have like the best seats, like I was, I was courtside while everyone else was playing that's hilarious, which was interesting, and it doesn't really hit you. I know, parents are gonna lie in the comments. Like the moment you see her, everything changes. It's just the feeling of like, oh fuck, Like I didn't have some revelation where I was like, my life is so much different. I'll never look at the world the same. I was like, fuck, that's a kid.

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Speaker 2: Yeah.

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Speaker 4: It takes a while for that to set in. And it's so funny how helpful the hospital is until she's born and then they just like throw you in a room. They're like, yeah, there's food downstairs if you want it.

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Speaker 2: Yeah, it's to send the kid down to get it.

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Speaker 1: It's like a vey belt, like Okay, it's another one.

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Speaker 4: Yeah, just move on.

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Speaker 1: And uh.

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Speaker 4: The doctor was was amazing, but it was her job, and that was so weird to me, Like she was so much a part of everything and so supportive and so great, and then like once she was born, she just moved on to the next Yeah.

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Speaker 1: Like how crazy is that that your daily job is the biggest thing in people's lives and then you move on to the next room for the next most impactful thing that will ever happen in somebody. Yeah.

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Speaker 4: I was just looking at her like, yo, you like you have to be numb. We always talk about like doctors with people dying and like how can that affect them? Like that's got to be crazy. You have to have some detachment from shit. I saw it differently from the birth side, yeah, because like we were so attached to this entire thing and she was like, y'all a great piece and she was amazing, but she just moved on to the next moment of a life lifetime.

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Speaker 1: Hospitals are very weird in that, Like I always I talk about it when I worked at a hospital and you get attached to the patients yeah that are there, Like you meet some really cool patients that come from all different walks of life. They have so many different stories, and then you know, you go to their room one day to check on them to see how they're doing. They're like, oh, no, he passed away last night. You like what you do in the hospital, mam, yeah, prescription. Yeah. So I was like I would go to the rooms and like, you know, like kind of like work with the nutritionis on the diet for the patients what they needed to eat daily. But then you meet patients that are like super cool, yeah, and like they're not they don't even seem sickly most of the time. Like they're up, they're alert, they're talking and watch TV.

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Speaker 3: You know.

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Speaker 1: You meet some older guys that, you know, the real New York like the old Italian you know, they got the stories, yeah, and talking sports, and you're like, I'm gonna go check on them today, and you go to their room and it's like, no, he passed away last night. You're like, damn, what the fuck? You know what I mean, Like it's just like it's a whole But then it's like this as usual though, like everybody is just like now it's a whole new patient in the room, Like it's crazy. So I understand how you feel being in the hospital, Like, okay, I just had the biggest moment of my life, and the nurses anybody just treating it like I get off at seven.

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Speaker 4: Yeah, and they were like, all right, she's boring. You guys got about like an hour for skin to skin and then you gotta go to the next scale, like yeah, pack all your shit up. But they were great. I don't want to make this sound like it was a bad experience. They were amazing. It was just so crazy how that is such like a factory line type of thing, like you just move on. Men don't get much respect though in the hospital, and again we don't do anything to a life, you know. Like I won't say the hospital, but I guess it's across board with the most hospitals. They only feed the woman stay for like two days.

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Speaker 2: Damn.

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Speaker 4: Like you have to fend for yourself as a man. Like they come in, there's one person dedicade. They give you a little menu and all that shit, and like they you know, take the order or whatever. The first meal, I was like, all right, I'll probably do like a bagel and sir, it's just for her. Yeah, you just have just her insurance. Yeah, I guess I'll go outside. Yeah, that's that's That's just the way the hospital.

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Speaker 1: It's a business. At the end of the days, it's worked. But so now, how did it affect how did having a baby do you think affected uh, your decision making?

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Speaker 2: For me?

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Speaker 1: Because I remember when you first found out you were having a kid. You told me we were in l A I think, and I thought you was about to tell me like some terrible fucking news.

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Speaker 4: No, I'm just a cynical person.

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Speaker 1: Yeah, he was like, yo, at you. I was like just crazy. Yeah, I'm like all right, I'm like I'm thinking of my man burning to something. I'm like, yo, you need me to take you to go get something. I mean, I mean that's or something like that.

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Speaker 4: Type of news. I would just walk in Yo, clapped up.

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Speaker 1: I'm like all right, like what's up? And you're like, Yo, no, you know about to have a kid, man, And I'm like, oh once it was that, I'm like, oh, y'all can have to know that. He was like, yeah, man, you know, I just don't know how this's gonna affect our business. I was like, I don't worry about that. Ship we'll figure that ship out. Well.

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Speaker 4: I mean, because that is also a huge factor when you work with other people and our partners with people in business with people, because it does take up your life. Like hey, I mean, I wasn't asking you if she should be aborted, But.

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Speaker 1: That's a conversation because when famished the pot over everything. Yeah, like you thought I was gonna say, rory, yo, everybody can't go.

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Speaker 2: Fall on.

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Speaker 1: Nah, we still got time.

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Speaker 4: But yeah, you have to think about other people in that regard, like he just let you know, like I have a whole another full time job now.

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Speaker 1: Yeah.

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Speaker 4: Yeah, So yeah, it was a conversation we had to have and I found out right before I got on a plane to LA So I was on that flight, like.

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Speaker 1: Oh man, talk about anxiety, talk about anxiety. That flight must have been the worst flight ever.

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Speaker 4: It wasn't. It wasn't bad. It was just like, oh fuck no, but you can't turn your brain off. No, god no, it was like you can't you just in a in a cloud, yeah, literally, and in a blissful one. Because I know people will take this as this sounds negative. It doesn't. I just think people lie about when these experiments happen. Because you don't really have time right away to process it, to really have feelings. It's like, fuck, yeah, okay, how do we adjust my entire life now? Which is not an easy thought right away, Like, of course it's it's the most amazing feeling, but it's also all right, how do we adjust it so I don't ruin this kid's life and I don't ruin everyone else's that I work with. It's an adjustment, for sure, And that's also why I kind of kept so much of it quiet, because that was a process I had to learn more or less. Like I didn't also feel like dealing with the public bullshit because you know they'll also go after everybody else too, which is the wild shit. Yeah, and during that time, that's definitely not something because you know, the Internet would not give a fuck like let's make sure this woman's pregnancy is the worst thing ever in flood terr comments, and you know the response to that is like, yo, you.

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Speaker 1: Signed up for it.

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Speaker 4: No, I did not sign up for you trying to run a pregnancy, guys. So that was another reason I want to keep ship to the side. Figuring all this out with the pod at the time, not having the internet attack someone else like it was and I had to learn how to be a fucking father and not talk about it on here.

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Speaker 1: Do you feel like since you've had a kid you've become closer with your parents?

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Speaker 4: Yes and no. Yes, because there's much more understanding. We're now on even playing fields. Like officially, it is a nice excuse when you become a dolt and you could tell like your parents, even if it's premature, like yo, I'm an adult. Now there's like we are all on even playing fields.

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Speaker 1: I have a kid.

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Speaker 4: There's nothing you can say to me anymore. As far as I thought paying bills meant I didn't have to answer to certain thing. Now it's like nothing at all. But there is some understanding to it. And you know, I put out a clip on Instagram addressing some of that stuff. There is a larger clip regarding your exact question. It is it is odd watching your parents become grandparents for the first time, so because it's the first time they're ever doing that. Yeah, as well, like they may think, all right, I've raised a kid. Being a grandparent is not being a parent. So they're learning at the same time. Well, I'm learning and not to say that me and my parents aren't cool, but we've clashed in the past. Yeah, this has brought up some clashing, if you will, in regards to how raising a child and the difference between being a parent and a grand parents. And on top of that, I'm their kid, and that's their granddaughter, but it's like half their granddaughter if that makes sense. Of course it's their granddaughter, but I'm their kid.

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Speaker 2: That's it.

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Speaker 4: That's half your grandkid. You don't get to have all to say.

00:22:19
Speaker 1: It's a thin line like grandparents, because it's yes, they've raised the child before you, obviously, but this is different in the sense of they're there too, you know, kind of and and enhance what you're doing. Yeah, and help you along the way, like this is your responsibility. We can give you pointers, we can you know, have conversations and help you along the way, but ultimately you're the one that has to raise this child. They're there to just kind of like beat the buffer for things you can't quite figure out yet.

00:22:48
Speaker 4: And I was laughing with my mom, but I was like serious, you know, like when you joke, but you're serious. Yeah, Like, Mom, you raised one kid thirty three years ago. Stop walking in here, Like you John Madden, Like it's changed, like your relaxed. Yeah, I understand you did a great job. Love that, but that was thirty years ago. Things have changed a bit. You haven't raised the kid in a long time. Yeah, so relaxed. Those ex'es and o's have changed.

00:23:15
Speaker 2: The game has changed.

00:23:16
Speaker 4: It's not the trying offense anymore.

00:23:17
Speaker 6: Right.

00:23:18
Speaker 1: I remember when my when my twin sister when she had her U, when she had her son, my nephew. Naturally that we were that's my closest nephew because that's my twin sister. So it's just a different bond there. And one of the funny things that we talk about is, Yo, you ever going to like beat him, like if he like get out of line. And my sister's like, nah, I don't think so, And I'm like, yo, I don't think I would be mad if you did. Like it's weird, Like I got to ask from its growing up and I know I needed him like I did. I deserved it because I was just bad. But like seeing my nephew do shit, I'm just like, yo, Noah, you can't hear.

00:23:52
Speaker 4: Him, but you're supposed to ask his uncle, like be the scapegoat to get him out of trouble.

00:23:57
Speaker 1: Oh for sure, for sure. But as a father, now do you see yourself anything? Hell see what I'm saying like, not even like not even like a little bit. This is what I'm saying, Like, So this's to me. There's nothing my sister could call me, tell me my nephew did where I'm like, I feel like I have to yell at him. I'm definitely never gonna like hit him like that's out. And I will be mad if my sister called me like, yeah, I just had to pop and I'm like, why you hit him? Like I'm there and that's not even my child.

00:24:23
Speaker 4: And like what I it's so weird once you get older because I thought this even before she was born, But like hitting a kid, even though I was and I was an advocate at one point, Oh it's deserved.

00:24:37
Speaker 1: I'm still are j somebody.

00:24:39
Speaker 4: It's a way to save things. It's not like, what a terrible way to just break trust as a little kid, like this giant is just gonna hit you and you it's the craziest. That concept is like the most helpless easy in the world. And then like God forbid, all right, this is crazy, right. Imagine if my daughter was in here and Baisley was in here, If I hit Baisley, y'all be like, yo, what the fuck is wrong with you? Yeah, if you hit your kid, it's like, it's cool, she.

00:25:07
Speaker 1: Probably did something where. But I just can never see a dad hitting their door. Yeah, that's I mean, that's next one, you know what I mean, Like, that's just like, yo, what the fuck?

00:25:15
Speaker 4: But I would feel the same way if I had a son. I couldn't see myself hitting my son.

00:25:21
Speaker 1: Yeah, I just I just I think that's something that our parents were. It was just handed down generationally, like youre just supposed to like spank a kid when they get out of the line they do something bad. But I just think that there's way more progressive. Like I told you, the thing that hurt me more than my mom ever beating me was when she didn't speak to me for like five days. It's a long time, yo, But that's cruel though all YO know that, how old are we? I was like seventeen sixteen. No, that's fine, yo. Five No, in the same house.

00:25:51
Speaker 2: What you do?

00:25:52
Speaker 4: Psychological warfare?

00:25:53
Speaker 1: I like it. I think I just like I failed like two classes or something like that, and like my mom.

00:25:58
Speaker 4: Was just like I like, I'm not mad, I'm disappointed.

00:26:01
Speaker 1: It's no talking to you like okay, cool, you know everything, And just five days I'm talking about nigga. It wasn't the stove was cold like nigga. It wasn't no eating, no cooking, no nothing. Like my mom came home from work straight in her room, didn't say nothing, and I'm just like, yo, this is crazy. Like I hear her on the phone in the room, laughing with my aunts and all of them.

00:26:23
Speaker 4: I'm thinking that's like yo, she ayes. She didn't have your mood. I go knock on the door.

00:26:26
Speaker 1: I hear hold on like she or the phones like hold on what like damn she's still mad, Like wait, Jamal, I ain't eat either.

00:26:34
Speaker 4: Nah she ate, Okay, she didn't fail her classes.

00:26:37
Speaker 1: She ate. She ate like we ate. But it was like it wasn't like I was used to like home cooked meals.

00:26:43
Speaker 2: Yeah.

00:26:43
Speaker 1: The only time my mom didn't cook is she would ask us if we either wanted her to cook or do we feel like eating outside, Like go to a restaurant, go to you know somewhere and pick up some food. But when your mother's not told my mother's because my mom is the mom that's cool with everybody, Like everybody people still oh my mom to this day.

00:27:01
Speaker 3: I can't imagine your mom not Yeah.

00:27:04
Speaker 1: So my mom not speaking to me was the bro that her. I was like, yo, you could just hit me, like, go get all.

00:27:10
Speaker 4: My mom's gave me a classic ass with me with a tennis racket one time.

00:27:13
Speaker 1: I don't know where she got this tennis racket from. I never no, don't play now.

00:27:18
Speaker 4: How was her backhand incredible?

00:27:20
Speaker 1: I was like, she came out the room. I'm like, first, I'm looking like where did you get that?

00:27:25
Speaker 4: She was trained with Richard Williams.

00:27:26
Speaker 6: I'm like, what the fuck did you get it?

00:27:28
Speaker 1: And it was a nice tennis racket. It wood in the wood in the old school ship.

00:27:33
Speaker 6: Damn bro, I'm talking.

00:27:34
Speaker 1: I whooped my ass. I was. I was ready to take that as long as she would talk to me. So, I feel like there's more ways of disciplining your kids than it is, like, you know, just beating your kids. To me, it just seems like such a crazy fucking thing. Now.

00:27:47
Speaker 4: I mean, at this point, the kids I've seen there are older, taking their phone or the screen of the iPad away from them. They would they'd rather get punched in the notes.

00:27:55
Speaker 1: That's how your birth a school shooters, every school shooter.

00:27:59
Speaker 4: They had like iPad or like Nintendo, taking something was taken that they really just love and he never recovered from that.

00:28:05
Speaker 1: That's when they start winning all black. Yeah, hanging out in front of hot topic, like that's how it happens, like, oh mom, she took it. She took your Yeah, I could see it.

00:28:14
Speaker 4: Hanging out in front of hot topic, like just loitering in front of hot topic.

00:28:18
Speaker 1: On the hot topic. That's all they do, hang out in front of hot time.

00:28:20
Speaker 2: I had a split household. My dad was right, he got hit, so he would hit us, but my mom wasn't in that environment. Yeah, it was weird, just handed down because my dad would tell my mom because my da would be at work. He would tell my mom to like beat us, and we would start laughing because she was terrible at it. Yeah, she would like miss we'd like roll in that, and she like the belt. The belt would just start slapping the literally ken on that. My brother just like, oh ship, stop it. And then my dad would come home and fuck us up.

00:28:47
Speaker 1: Before my mom stopped talking to me. I think the reason she didn't hit me that time was because the last time she had tried to like hit me with the belt, like she hit me and I was just looking at it like it didn't even hurt.

00:28:57
Speaker 3: And that's what you got.

00:28:58
Speaker 1: She was at that point where she was acting. Yeah, then she would like threaten me like I'm gonna call your uncles. I'm like, all right, if these niggas come over here, they're gonna fuck me up. Like so, I'm like, all right, let's talk about this because them niggas, how about the silentary like them niggas is fresh out they did fifteen years Like, Nah, them niggas ain't putting the hand on.

00:29:14
Speaker 4: They don't know how strong they are, like.

00:29:17
Speaker 1: To call like we don't got to do that.

00:29:20
Speaker 4: But that was that's just the yard. That's the yard strength and.

00:29:24
Speaker 1: There's no talking. They'll come right in and be like, yo, so you acting up And what do you say to that? No, I'm lying, Yes, I'm acting though I'm one hundred percent the one reason why you're here, like I'm fucking up everywhere. Yeah, So that is something that you know, like a lot of my homeboys that have daughters or have kids that they say all the time, like, bro, I'm never putting my hands on my kids. I can't. Like it's just I can't do it.

00:29:47
Speaker 4: Yeah, that's I couldn't even fathom doing that.

00:29:50
Speaker 6: Yeah, And I think that should be.

00:29:51
Speaker 4: Across the board for all parents. We should get rid of hitting children.

00:29:55
Speaker 1: We should. Now, I will say this.

00:29:57
Speaker 4: Maybe just like a flick on the forehead.

00:30:01
Speaker 1: Then there's to be something because there's some kids that I've seen out in public with their parents that they just start throw themselves on the floor, yelling, screaming, knocking it off the shelves, cursing. I'm just like, yo.

00:30:13
Speaker 4: But a lot of that comes from shitty parenting where they should have parented before sure, and then they were lazy and didn't parent and now it's like, well I gotta.

00:30:20
Speaker 3: Hit them because that fear. You have to instill that fear of embarrassing your parents in your kid early, like you would never even do no shit like that, even at an early age, because you knew there was the threat of the I could get fucked up for this. Even if you never actually got fucked like this, I know better than to do this, because that's you were raised a lot of people, don't they think gentle. There's this whole gentle parenting thing, and there's a difference between being a gentle parent and being a negligent parent, Like oh yeah, having your kid run around or talk to you however you want without instilling some type of respect is how they grow up and they don't respect anybody out in the world, and they embarrass you on planes and shit like that.

00:31:00
Speaker 4: So you're saying we should think we should threaten our children with violence.

00:31:03
Speaker 3: No, there's but see, honestly, if you're the type of person that, how can I put this? I would My father never hit me. I think he might have hit me once, and it was like because I hit him, So it wasn't like.

00:31:15
Speaker 2: Wait, wait, it wasn't. It wasn't.

00:31:20
Speaker 4: That she didn't ever left them, So, I mean, it was only the national My dad.

00:31:23
Speaker 3: Had a bald head. I was a kid, I was like eight. My dad had a bald head. No, but dad had a bald head, so he was and me and my little sister like we used to like to tap it when we were kids, but like it was usually soft. One time he didn't see me coming because I was like following him. Down the stairs and I was like just a kid and I hit his head and it was a reflex and he knocked me down the stairs, but it was a complete.

00:31:45
Speaker 1: Okay, he probably thought that was Darwskin Jermaine running down on him for that money home like that ain't.

00:31:51
Speaker 3: Yeah, he didn't mean to h No, my father was a bit very big, like, well my mother hit me. He said, Oh, if you or your mother or your sister ever put their hands on my daughter again, I will knock all you bitches out. Like he didn't play. Nobody could put their hands on me.

00:32:02
Speaker 1: What a great guy, great father. Father.

00:32:07
Speaker 4: Anyway, I don't touch my daughter, but all the women in here blind knee to everyone's face, I get it to touch my head. And once my daughter's past eighteen, then then she's okay to hit Yeah.

00:32:20
Speaker 1: Nah wow either. But what's the difference in uh, Because I've never had white friends that I saw can get beat Okay, like I've never I've never seen any of my white friends growing up get get beat. So like what is the Irish?

00:32:37
Speaker 4: But Irish and Italian kids get that's normal, they get.

00:32:40
Speaker 1: Fed up, But like what is your I don't like what is the what's the soundtrack though, like what is your mom saying why she's beating you?

00:32:46
Speaker 4: It's not much of a soundtrack, Like, yeah, that's probably that's probably difference because.

00:32:52
Speaker 1: Oh yeah my mom she was she had bars when she was beating me.

00:32:55
Speaker 4: Okay, here's the biggest difference. Like mostly my West Indian friends when they would talk about being beaten, I was like, Westdy, you parents beat you like you know, when you would share those stories, I'm like, oh I was being disciplined. I think you were being abused. This is a salt one. This is way different than my house old parents.

00:33:12
Speaker 1: Oh god, so yeah it was.

00:33:15
Speaker 4: It wasn't the experience that I've heard from certain friends. It's you know, there's a wooden spoon there, you catching that, Like it's it's more of a reaction, like it's not a whole experience, like I wasn't jumped, yeah the way I've heard some of my friends where it's like the whole family got in on it.

00:33:30
Speaker 1: Yeah, my mom used to take like tom out. She used to call like twenty second time outs and the ass open, go gather herself, hydrate and come back and commenced.

00:33:40
Speaker 2: For a round two. Oh yeah, it's like a showtime.

00:33:42
Speaker 1: But that was also your time to like kind of like double up on like the sweatpants through, put another lay on, two hoodies.

00:33:48
Speaker 4: Went to the respective corners.

00:33:49
Speaker 1: Yeah yeah, like I know she's coming right back. Put these we put these long jones.

00:33:54
Speaker 4: On your sister. Put a corner on your face to bring the swelling. Now, yeah, give you a peptal.

00:33:59
Speaker 1: It was just it's almost over hang in there.

00:34:04
Speaker 4: You do a spelit decision right now. She may have to go for the Haymner to get the win.

00:34:08
Speaker 1: Me and my mom talk about some astrobs now and just laugh, bro, Like, I don't know what my mom was going through. Actually I do. She was a single mom raising twins in the fucking Bronx. I get it. Yet that sounds like I totally understanding. She was like, nigga, you ain't about to be out here in the streets doing some crazy shit. I give respect to any parent that has twins. Yeah that has to be crazy. It was well for my mother's words. You and I'm sure you're experiencing this now as a new parent. One day you look up and you just figure it out.

00:34:41
Speaker 4: That is that is cool about just the human race in general. Yeah, because no matter what, you feel like you won't be prepared. Who's like prepared for something like that? You figure it out no matter what, Like, there is some human nature to parenting, like even her coming out, the woman immediately latching to eat, Like that instinct also kicks in on the parents side, Like you could watch a million Instagram videos, blogs, listen, talk to parents all that shit. Instincts do kick in. Yeah, you do know immediately kind of what to do at all times in a weird way. So that has kind of been cool to see what, like animal instincts are exist. Yeah, I mean I live in a first world country. My animal instincts don't kicking out only bar fights to the kick, you know exactly. So that's actually been cool to like see how your mind kind of just knows what to do instantly when certain things are happening, even though you haven't been trained that type of shit. But it was funny. I was in an elevator with my daughter and there was a woman in the elevator as well, and she was like, oh, you have to understand I was on like the twenty fifth floor. Wasn't a long elevator, right, It's like, oh, it's so cute. Yeah, I have twins. They both feed at different times and they both sleep at different times. Like no, hello, like nothing. She just need to get that. She had to get that ship off, and I didn't even know what to sounds like damn. Yeah that sucks.

00:36:08
Speaker 1: So no sleep for you. Huh. Yeah, that's how it was. My mom. She said it was the same thing, like when one would sleep, the other one would be up so she could feed Jesus Christ. It was like almost having one at a time. It wasn't always two.

00:36:20
Speaker 4: So you have to think about that. Though you have the twin g I have, I think it skips the skip.

00:36:26
Speaker 1: I mean, I know it's yeah, I know, I don't know, but the twins do run heavy in my family. I have a bunch of twins in my family. I have twin nieces and nephews, so I know there's a great chance that I have twins. But whatever I have, I know I'm going to have daughters. That's just my karma.

00:36:46
Speaker 6: That's your caramel.

00:36:47
Speaker 1: Yeah, elaborate well, because my biggest fear is, uh, my daughter's bringing home a kid that was anything like me in high school, Like you know, like on the surface, like oh, respectful, genm. As soon as that dog close, like yo, come on, just touch it like.

00:37:03
Speaker 6: Wow, wow, wow wow.

00:37:06
Speaker 1: You know you know the ones. He's such a nice, respect very well spoken, well groove yeah. Like and as soon as your mom's sound like she' in there sleeping, he and their pants to his ankles.

00:37:19
Speaker 6: Oh my gosh.

00:37:20
Speaker 1: So I just know, like I just know that's my car.

00:37:22
Speaker 3: I knew Rory was having a daughter at the moment he texts.

00:37:24
Speaker 4: Me, Yeah, but I wanted a daughter. Yeah, when I got that news, I wanted a daughter girls immediately, Yeah, yeah, mainly, And this is this is a very selfish.

00:37:36
Speaker 1: She want a girl as well. I hear that mother's like women always usually their first one, they want a boy. She was a little easier.

00:37:43
Speaker 4: She was cool the way, and I was cool either way as well. But I did kind of want a daughter, mainly because I watched my father's only sister take care of their father, well all the uncles. So it was a very selfish reason. I just see, as you know, the do as men of as you decline, like at least I know I'll have somebody. And even my dad had text me when she was born. He was like all right, you finally have unconditional love for the rest of your life. Yeah, And I mean some would view that as like that's a odd text, like shouldn't he have given you? That came from I was like, wait, got it, now, I didn't have it.

00:38:22
Speaker 3: You didn't have to give me.

00:38:28
Speaker 4: My death loves me for sure. He really did send that text. But that's pential text. Wait, I didn't have it before.

00:38:36
Speaker 1: No, no, unconditioned. It was very conditional.

00:38:39
Speaker 4: But it is a little different. And you guys can have your gender wars, but there is definitely human nature with sons and their mothers and daughters with their fathers, especially in the latter years of life. So I mean, that's that's nice. Though I don't know if Demerius is going to take care of me when I'm when I'm old, so.

00:38:54
Speaker 1: She probably will. Daughter should might put some some baby pod on your balls and give your your bath or something like that.

00:39:03
Speaker 6: That sounds about right, That's exactly what I was thinking.

00:39:05
Speaker 4: Well, hr exist, y'all are not that far a partner.

00:39:11
Speaker 3: That's what I'm like. Wait, we're both gonna be old and his daughter will be taking care of us, But how how is it?

00:39:19
Speaker 2: I meant to.

00:39:20
Speaker 3: I don't think me and you have had this conversation yet. But that whole that daddy daughter thing that you mentioned, like it gets strong like as you get older, like it gets stronger, like your money no longer belongs to you. Being a daddy's girls my favorite part of like being.

00:39:34
Speaker 2: A lost Yeah, gotta see you had a baby for sure already.

00:39:41
Speaker 4: What if she wants to do nothing and doesn't matter?

00:39:44
Speaker 1: Does she just exist?

00:39:46
Speaker 2: Yeah?

00:39:46
Speaker 3: For sure?

00:39:46
Speaker 4: She would have named her nepa.

00:39:49
Speaker 2: Is that how that goes?

00:39:50
Speaker 3: Would have been a good hipster name?

00:39:53
Speaker 4: Crazy?

00:39:54
Speaker 1: It's a hips name.

00:39:55
Speaker 3: But yes, that that that whole daddy daughter Like are you ready for that? Because it doesn't stop people say, oh when against eighteen? It does not stop. I just asked my dad for money, like twenty minutes ago.

00:40:05
Speaker 4: Of course I will.

00:40:06
Speaker 1: But job and as men, we know that that's all we're on this earth for.

00:40:11
Speaker 3: Oh for sure, do y'all why y'all be arguing on Twitter off splitting bills? If y'all know y'all born with this knowledge? Why are we there?

00:40:18
Speaker 1: But those are the men that you see on social media arguing about paying bills. Those are guys that just they just haven't figured it out yet. Those are usually younger guys. That's just like, you know what you mean, I'm gonna go a half on the homie with the duve for the weed. Know that they still arguing about going on half a weed, Like you don't want to argue with them type of niggas. Like, but men know, like, I'm here to provide. I'm here for security. I'm here to you know, just make things easier for the women in my life, not just my mom or my daughter, just like the women in my life cousins. You know what I'm saying. Shit Like, that's just what we're here for.

00:40:54
Speaker 3: And it's not just money. It's a it's a there's a different type of security, like when you're like when your dad uplifts you. Yeah, as a girl, like there's a different type of like I can go out into the world and I'm not afraid to fail at mad shit because I know, like at the end of the day, I can go cry to my dad and he'll money aside. He'll be like It'll be okay.

00:41:14
Speaker 1: I'll never forget. One time we was out and it was like a group of girls that was hanging out with us, and it was one in particular. I was like she was cool, but she was like more stand all fish, not really like turned up as much as her homegirls. So I started talking to her like, I'm like, yeah, what's up? You all right? Like what's going on? Like you say, seemed like you a little like you're not feeling the vibe or whatever. She said, Nah, I'm cool, Like she was like, I'm just you know, I'm just chilling, like I don't really I'm not the stand on the table dance type of girl. Like I just be chilling. So I said, oh, okay, I say you got a boyfriend? Huh? She said no, I just was raised by good father. Like I said, you know what, I understood what she meant though in that moment not saying that the other girls weren't, but she was more so saying like I'm not going to even open the floor because we could have a conversation when women are out and they're enjoying themselves of you know, whatever type environment is. You know, men know which women to approach and how to approach them, and ones that don't have fathers and ones that don't have fathersh you could just tell like can really talk, I know, the girl that yo, nah, why she will have this shit surrounded in ten minutes by a bunch of niggas that did time in the seventies, Like you just know, you just know, like yo, like nah? And she when she staud it up, I laughed, and she said no, like, I don't even want to open the floor to a guy even halfway disrespecting me. Like if I get on this table, I got a dress skirt on, I start dancing, shaking my ass, A dude, come and lift my shit up and grab my ass. It's going a whole different way now. So I'm gonna just sit here chill. You know, I'm drinking and having a good time my girls. But I'm just not gonna go that far because I know where it is going if somebody disrespects me, and I don't want to even open up the floor for disrespect. So I understood what she meant. I was like, you know what, that makes perfect sense. It was funny the way she like delivered it, but I know what she meant, like, nah, man, because if somebody disrespect me here, it's gonna go a whole different way.

00:43:23
Speaker 4: I do think this next generation of kids may this may be my naive prediction may end up being a bit more private than this generation now because my parents didn't have social media, so I could post a lot of shit on my social media and my parents would never really see it. This next generation, even if Instagram is going by the time my daughter is in her teens, I grew up with social media, so I'm gonna probably move on to the next social media app that she's gonna be on. My parents are just discovering Facebook. That's not part of their world. We're gonna see everything they post no matter what.

00:44:06
Speaker 3: Oh yeah, they're about to get these new kids.

00:44:07
Speaker 4: So I think these new kids where everyone is like, oh, kids are gonna just put everything on the Internet, I think that shit is gonna change. I really think it's gonna change. I think they're going to start living off social media in some degree, because how could you get your ship off when your parents see everything. They're on the same app as you. So I'm terrified in that regard because I won't be able to see everything. But I mean, you gotta you can't have that anxiety all the time. You have to trust that you raise your kids out.

00:44:36
Speaker 1: And still certain things in them, certain levels of morals, and things like that, and know that you know there's sometimes their strength in privacy. Yeah, and just don't stand on the table with rich French told on the table your feet shouldn't be there too, Like you know what I mean, It's just not this, it's not the envibment have fun, like you teach your kids to have fun, but be safe, be smart. But you want to open up that floor for your kids to feel like they can talk to you about anything. Oh, for sure, you know what I mean, Like, I'm going to have that dialogue, like, yo, you can tell me anything now. The first time your daughter tells you she's dating, well.

00:45:12
Speaker 4: We can go back to your point of being the nice Eddie Haskell guy. The difference way too old.

00:45:18
Speaker 1: Sorry, I've made peace with that already, have you, so you could say you made peace until.

00:45:29
Speaker 4: Now as long as it's a safe environment, like who, like, come on, I'm an adult now. Of course my daughter eventually is going to want to date and consume herself in those types of activities.

00:45:43
Speaker 2: You dumb, You're gonna shoot.

00:45:45
Speaker 1: Them if it's anything but consensual and not safe.

00:45:49
Speaker 4: Of course, yeah, absolutely, Like I'm right behind for sure. But I mean, you've gotta like allow thee to live in that world. Because the same way Tomaro's like, can y'all spot the girls that didn't have fathers, we also can spot the girls that were so sheltered and protected their entire life, and the moment they walk outside, it's like, oh, that's going to be the hoe because she has been. That's the ones that suck it sloppy, Like they have been so protected and so much under that father microscope of like you can't go out, you can't do anything, you can't even explore who the fuck you are. And then of course they're going to become an adult and they're gonna go off on their own. It's like, well, I need to experience the last decade of shit I wasn't able to, so that scares me more. I'd never want to be that father and that girl or even guy to some degree has no relationship with their parents to talk about that stuff. I would like my daughter, when she becomes a teenager, to be able to talk about those conversations, like if there's some guy that is like you and it's like yo, he was in the room saying touch it, touch and touch it. I want to be able to have that conversation. Yeah, I don't want to be like, yo, don't ever fucking talk to a guy.

00:47:01
Speaker 1: All right, you gotta see I'm different.

00:47:04
Speaker 4: It's just not good parenting causes all boys have AIDS.

00:47:07
Speaker 6: Whoa whoa, whoa, whoa whoa.

00:47:09
Speaker 4: Things have changed since cooties.

00:47:11
Speaker 1: Yeah we were from coodies. Yeah, kissed them, don't kiss them, don't hug them.

00:47:16
Speaker 2: Nothing.

00:47:17
Speaker 4: Just we're just big as they have eight and you're the only guy on earth that doesn't.

00:47:20
Speaker 1: That doesn't happen. That's cool. Different until they're old. You're like, listen, I had to feel that fear.

00:47:26
Speaker 4: You got the AIDS vaccine.

00:47:27
Speaker 1: Yeah, you got to instill that fear, like like just with daughters, because it's just different man, like you know, having a boy, having a son. You know, it's just things happen, and it's like, Okay, my boy can defend himself. He could, you know, get out of certain situations with women because women are usually softer and just more you know, she's got a box. I mean well yeah, even if even if you have an active athletic daughter into you know, sports and things like that, it's just it's just a lot to fucked up people in this world. Man, you know what I'm saying, and you know that's what that's what we're here for. That's why men are supposed to protect, provide security and things like that, because you know, just women are just out here sometimes and you know, they're going somewhere with their girls and they think it's all good. And then you have a bunch of dudes that's going on some different type of agenda.

00:48:17
Speaker 2: M h.

00:48:17
Speaker 1: And now you got to get out of your bed with your boys and go shoot sit up.

00:48:20
Speaker 3: But see that's this is this is this is what always confuses me when men say, oh, I'm so scared to have daughters because of things like that. Right, they're so afraid of their daughters being victims. But I never hear men be afraid of their sons being.

00:48:36
Speaker 4: Can we stop with that narrative? I understand it when women say that, but you're talking to us.

00:48:41
Speaker 2: I'm not.

00:48:41
Speaker 3: But we have a podcast, so we're talking to for sure.

00:48:44
Speaker 2: But what's good y'all?

00:48:47
Speaker 4: We think that you should teach your sons not to victimize women, But we also live in the real world and understand that the same way we talk about there's not good fathers and daughters go out and do wild shit. There's not good fathers that don't father their sons and then they go out and do wild shit. I would love to live in this perfect world where yes, the answer is bother your sons so they don't abuse women. Completely agree, I also live in the real world, so yeah, my daughter has to keep her head on a swivel and know what time. Oh sure, I wish I lived in the utopia where people really father their sons and say, yo, do not disrespect women, do not take advantage of women, don't put your hands on women, don't get women drunk just to fuck them. I wish we lived in a world where that existed, but we don't. So I'm not putting the blame and more pressure on women to say, like, you have to be ready, but let's just talk about realism. I'm not going to not get you prepared for that world. Yeah, because I think men should father their sons better, even though I do think that absolutely.

00:49:49
Speaker 1: I mean that's first and foremost, father your kids correctly and raise your kids correctly. But we know that that doesn't happen. So our job is to prepare ours to always protect themselves, and you know, to know that they do have people behind them that support them that because you know, you go out in the world and shit happens. We know that. But I'm just you know, you've seen so many things like that. That's why a lot of the times where I see you know, women with you know, men put their hands on women, That's why that shit bugs me out so much, because I'm just like, what do you like, how do you put your hands on somebody? You you know, you clearly have an advantage over Yeah, like that, to me, that just doesn't make It's just the weirdest thing in the world. And we know that it comes from insecurities and comes from trauma. It comes from a number of things. But my thing is, if you've come from a situation where you were abused, molested, or you know, anything that happened traumatic as a kid, wouldn't you not want anybody else to feel that? Like? Isn't that to me? That seems like the more more natural thing.

00:50:59
Speaker 4: Like I want to answer you, but it's gonna sound like I'm like saying that behavior is okay to continue on with. But I guess with certain traumatic experience, I guess a lot of men that hit women grew up in households where domestic violence was a thing. So I think it tends to be okay. Even though it's painful to watch their mother get beaten to them, they saw it as more of a norm and like it was kind of instilled in them. I guess is what a therapist would say. I'm not defending any of them. I'm just trying to answer your question for podcast.

00:51:37
Speaker 1: So my mom being abused, there's no way.

00:51:39
Speaker 4: Some people internalize it different that even the rage in which they felt watching their mother get beat can sometimes roll over into their relationship with a woman, and because that was so normal, it's kind of not it's not okay, but it's a reaction without thinking it may be a reaction to them because it's been instilled in them because they watched it so much.

00:52:03
Speaker 2: I guess seeing it happen doesn't mean you seeing it happen and knowing it's bad doesn't mean you develop the tools to make better decisions. It's just you can identify it's bad. But when that time comes in your relationship, your brain goes, oh, this is familiar, this is what I know. It takes like having discussions and meeting other people to be like, oh, I can identify that this looks painful, it's bad. Okay, let me see what I can do to avoid those situations. Like you can hate it, you can hate watching your mother get beat, but when it's your time, when you're with your girl or whatever your relationship status is, if you don't have the tools to communicate or do something different, you're just going to revert back to what you know.

00:52:42
Speaker 4: It's almost even like if someone has an attic parent and they know how much that destroy their childhood, there's a high chance they become an addict because it's just kind of part of their upbringing. It becomes normalized. Even though they hate it, it's still a thing and it doesn't make it right.

00:52:57
Speaker 1: But I don't see I grew up in with all of that shit was around me. Now, my mom was never abused. I was a type of kid. A nigga would put his hands to my mom's I was gonna grab a knife and kill something.

00:53:08
Speaker 4: I mean, I've met a few of your brothers. Yeah, I don't see it happening.

00:53:11
Speaker 1: Yeah no, But even growing up around drugs, like a lot of my you know, relatives were addicted to drugs and things like that. But me seeing that. I never wanted to end up like that. Like I remember seeing like some of my aunts strung out, some of my uncles and cousins and thing, and I'm just like like, this is what you be doing? Like to me, just something in my brain was like I'm never going to end up like that.

00:53:35
Speaker 4: Yeah, just some people internalize those things differently. And even sometimes that's as much as an aunt and uncle are very close, it can be secondhand someone that I think is in the house with an addict in that regard, like the act like their mother Vie would have been differently.

00:53:50
Speaker 1: But even like my mom she grew up. I remember she smoked cigarettes. I never smoked a cigarette, like, not one in my life, you know. I mean like I used to go to the store with a note to get serruts for my mom. You know what I'm saying, Like and I one day she just quit. But like I never smoked. That never made me want to say, And that's one thing my mom always say, like, yo, I love the fact that you never smoked a cigarette. Even with weed. I've never smoked weed in front of my mother and my mom and my mom smokes.

00:54:18
Speaker 4: Yeah, Well, you're also.

00:54:19
Speaker 3: Not an easily influenced person, then you don't have an addictive personality.

00:54:26
Speaker 1: No, I understand that, but I feel like a lot of people don't either though. But I do feel like a lot of people, you know, they fall into this thing where they're trying to fit in. They don't they don't know who they are, Like they have like an identity crisis type of thing where they're trying to figure out do I like this do or not? Do I want to be like this?

00:54:42
Speaker 2: Do I not.

00:54:44
Speaker 4: To me?

00:54:45
Speaker 1: I remember early it was just certain things that I just was like, nah, I don't want to do that.

00:54:49
Speaker 4: It was Nancy Reagan, right.

00:54:52
Speaker 1: Well, it was Nancy Reagan. It was when she put the egg in a pan and was like, this is your brain on drugs.

00:54:58
Speaker 4: I was like, really impact, I don't.

00:55:02
Speaker 1: Exactly absolutely, So it was just I remember from early man, it was just certain things I think that I was just like I did. I didn't want to do that, And that was just always been my mentality, like if I don't if something is just not me, it's not for me. I don't care how many other people doing this, Like.

00:55:19
Speaker 4: It's just not my thing, and we can close the child conversation. But I do want to end it with you will be faced with way tougher questions and the stuff we just discussed. Things you never thought you had to answer in your life. You have to answer kind of immediately, like what's your stance on Santa Claus? How do you feel about the tooth Fairy?

00:55:41
Speaker 3: You better? I don't know.

00:55:44
Speaker 6: How do you feel about the tooth fairy?

00:55:46
Speaker 1: Like?

00:55:46
Speaker 6: How about you put it under her pillow?

00:55:48
Speaker 4: And with inflation? Yeah, like you can't put a quarter on it at least five. I was going, see note, you gotta.

00:55:57
Speaker 1: Get money, No, the whole yard.

00:56:02
Speaker 2: Damn, just put a mic stand under her pillow.

00:56:05
Speaker 4: It was my daughter doesn't sleep. I would wake her up immediately if I try to take a tooth under her pillow.

00:56:10
Speaker 1: It's fun to see kids that's still into that though, Like seeing my nephews still like into the tooth Fairy and things like that. That's fun. It's kind of like, okay, you still believe in that.

00:56:18
Speaker 2: I think my niece just got the news broken to her. I think, damn, and I think so only about it a while ago. I think she kind of she's really smart and I think she kind of figured it out, like on her own and she was like, Eh, it's whatever. He was like, she was like thanks mom and dad, Like she was like more grateful that her parents were doing.

00:56:36
Speaker 1: I think you have to let kids have that because that that promotes uh an imagination. To me, it promotes creativity and things like that. So I think that Santa Claus and things like that. Now as you get a certain age.

00:56:49
Speaker 4: I'm gonna say it has to be a younger age that you cut it off. Yeah, yeah, because at what age could you have used Google?

00:56:56
Speaker 2: Which that's the thing she's smart. Yeah she could have.

00:56:59
Speaker 4: Because I feel like I've believed in Santa at an age I probably could have Googled had I had Google in a computer.

00:57:05
Speaker 3: Well, somebody has to insert the seed of doubt before you google it. Are you saying what I'm saying? Like, if I just know that the color red is the color red, I'm not gonna google is the color red really red? You're not going to do that because you know it as fact. Somebody has to implant that seated.

00:57:18
Speaker 4: But I was also like a weird and quisitive kid where I always wondered still believed. I was like, how does how does Santa do all that? If I had Google at that time to my disposal, I'd be like, how does Santa bring presents to everyone? Knowing that, and then I'm sure the first Google search and'd be like, yoah should ain't real, bro, And then there'd be a whole Reddit page and be like you should join q and on.

00:57:41
Speaker 1: Somewhere intended to go right.

00:57:43
Speaker 4: So that's almost what scares me with holidays of like what if I send my kid down a rabbit hole on Easter that they don't need to be in?

00:57:52
Speaker 1: That's and then they end up with Freddy Gibbs and his stick stuff actually freestyle all that. I like that.

00:57:59
Speaker 3: Really, you're happy for you. I know I'm speaking. I know everybody here agrees. Watching you become a dad has been a very beautiful super Yes, we we love it. Every time we see you. We all love her. We all have our own relationship with her.

00:58:17
Speaker 4: And she's gonna keeping the Ginger Jean a lot. Yeah the fuck you all you fucking gingers out there here for the cast.

00:58:27
Speaker 1: No, I didn't you definitely continued you know that your baby, Yeah, for sure, there's no denygning.

00:58:34
Speaker 6: There's no denying Big Pepy Yoh fucking daddy.

00:58:38
Speaker 4: The doctor, because I didn't think she was gonna right hair. The doctor said as she was coming out, like midway through.

00:58:45
Speaker 6: Like, no, that's how blood.

00:58:46
Speaker 4: I was gonna say that looks looks like Dad's beard, was like, you took a peak. I mean I was watching did you look?

00:58:55
Speaker 1: So?

00:58:55
Speaker 3: Did you look? Did you like?

00:58:56
Speaker 4: Of course you even't think I wanted to watch my daughter be born.

00:58:59
Speaker 2: I would have passed films.

00:59:02
Speaker 4: Know, we have a bunch of photos from the side angle, not the vagina sick.

00:59:09
Speaker 1: I thought you had and set up the whole product.

00:59:11
Speaker 2: Yeah, I thought you know what I mean, Well, we'll put that cameras. Yeah, I thought that was our Patreon and it was like, could you.

00:59:19
Speaker 1: Put the mic close?

00:59:20
Speaker 6: She can like din she count real quick?

00:59:26
Speaker 4: What patreons here? Would that content.

00:59:29
Speaker 7: Passed?

00:59:30
Speaker 1: Actually?

00:59:30
Speaker 4: Fivef you're kind of a sick if you want to watch.

00:59:34
Speaker 3: That's sick.

00:59:35
Speaker 1: I think that's a very beautiful thing.

00:59:36
Speaker 2: We should put a helmet cam on Rory.

00:59:40
Speaker 3: All the time that go pros shaky ship on the side.

00:59:46
Speaker 2: Cam.

00:59:47
Speaker 1: I gotta do the dad cam. But well, congratulations, man, I know that you've been keeping that to you and your family for a while, and now that you know you let everybody know that you are indeed a dad. It's been. It's been dope to watch and transform into a dad. I think when you were a young, wild little lad running around with wood jewelry on, and now you have a beautiful, beautiful baby girl. So not much has changed. Not much has changed, it's just better with your Yeah, not much has changed, but a lot has changed. So congratulations, God bless man, and you do have a beautiful, beautiful family.

01:00:18
Speaker 4: So outside of having like a child's also have an album also which is another child. It's it's been, it's been a weird week, it's been a year first feat. Yeah, you know, I just had to use my kid as a rollout.

01:00:37
Speaker 1: Well that's sick. It's not using the kid as a rollout. She doesn't have a job. Well, yeah that's true. Yeah, I see what you put a give us.

01:00:46
Speaker 4: Something if we family like you got to carry your weight over.

01:00:48
Speaker 1: Carry your weight. I get it. I understand that.

01:00:50
Speaker 4: But Marrit is just telling me now what it's like to be a girl dad where you have to pay for fucking everything. Yeah, let's bring some attention to my album. Sis should have made it gonna be all your daughter's sisters, that's family. Is she gonna be the wark that is family, that first link family, She's not gonna be.

01:01:09
Speaker 1: No, she's not gonna be the work.

01:01:10
Speaker 4: We were family off first link first now that I think about it, me and my daughter were family off first link like that first night. Like we was cool, Like like now you like you family, Yeah.

01:01:20
Speaker 1: Your life is, yeah life, your life is. That's forever.

01:01:24
Speaker 4: Now we vibe.

01:01:25
Speaker 1: But I could tell you, just like me.

01:01:29
Speaker 2: In the face, I can't wait.

01:01:31
Speaker 1: For people to like see your daughter to understand how funny that is. Like once they see.

01:01:34
Speaker 4: Her, it's it's it's obnoxious. It's of how much she looks like.

01:01:38
Speaker 1: It's crazy, how red she is, Like I don't get mad, like she's like red.

01:01:43
Speaker 3: When she gets mad and she starts shaking, she turns like her eyebrows get super red.

01:01:48
Speaker 2: Yeah, it's like the baby from the Incredibles.

01:01:51
Speaker 1: Yeah.

01:01:51
Speaker 4: And I used to like hate when people be like, oh, she looks so much like you too, in general, when I be like, yeah, that's someone's kid, of course is going to look like them. My daughter is like exact record just like you.

01:02:02
Speaker 1: It's it's hilarious, it's funny, like just.

01:02:04
Speaker 3: Me she gets frustrated. I birth faces everything.

01:02:08
Speaker 4: Yeah, but so your birth of the album, first of all, congratu my flustered faces had.

01:02:13
Speaker 3: You're literally flustered all of the time I had.

01:02:17
Speaker 1: I had the privilege of hearing this album for at least a year and a half. Yeahs things have changed. Well no, no, no, because you added some songs. Definitely change You changed some some of the production on certain songs, for sure, added some things. So it's I've heard the shell of an album for about a year and a half, two years.

01:02:34
Speaker 4: And if they didn't take it from me, that would have continued.

01:02:36
Speaker 1: Yeah. So now the album is finally done.

01:02:40
Speaker 4: It's out.

01:02:40
Speaker 1: The album is finally out. Congratulations that stream that ship fall asleep to it. And like I told you before the last time when I heard the final version of the album, it's an incredible, incredible album, incredible mix of different types of songs. You got verses on there from rappers that I never thought I would hear. I'm on certain types of production, the R and B is amazing, the features just mixed. Well, this is a really thought out, uh curated piece of work that you did. And I'm proud of you because I know this was something that you really like worked on diligently, and you're perfectionist. So even if you hear something and it's dope, you sit on it for about two three days and then pause and then you come right back and like now I want to change I just want to change that.

01:03:26
Speaker 4: No, I mean having James fons Roy on your debut like is I would say the definition of bare minimum?

01:03:32
Speaker 1: Yeah, absolutely, men and him, because you could have that's really like could have gotten Stevie Wonder, so you know what I mean. It's just like Angel just getting Jay elect and James fons Roy just yeah, I mean yeah, did you even try on this project? Yeah? Like you you lived up to the bare minimum to that, so this is this is Uh. I want to thank you for at least keeping the bare minimum think. Yeah, you know, don't do too much, never too much.

01:03:57
Speaker 4: Some local artists that do things for everybody.

01:04:00
Speaker 3: So what other artists are on the album for people who have not downloaded it yet? Uh?

01:04:04
Speaker 4: Well I know that ship idiot sorry as he said, and I guess by it on iTunes. Do whatever the fuck you please.

01:04:10
Speaker 6: At this point, we're poor.

01:04:11
Speaker 2: Thank you ahead.

01:04:13
Speaker 4: I haven't worked on this part of the press run yet to give like that. Pitch Yo May twenty sixth, available everywhere on all streaming platforms, featuring Alex islehold on I need.

01:04:23
Speaker 1: To pick up the track with Alex, James font Roy.

01:04:26
Speaker 4: Ario Lennox, n Conway Machine, Carlson Fonte is on there. I got Fonte on my first project, and you know, Fante is my favorite artist about that was the coolest shit ever to me, Like everything else is what it is. I'm in James Fonsroy's stand. That kind of like made my life. That would be like having a whole feature to me, like that's how much I love with Fonsroy. But having Fonte on the project was honestly, like thirteen year old Rory was like really really proud he was. It's funny, thirteen year ROI was extremely proud of himself.

01:05:02
Speaker 1: I remember when you got the uh, the James faunt le Roy verse back.

01:05:06
Speaker 4: We were when you were being pissed on.

01:05:08
Speaker 1: Yeah, I was being pissed on that day.

01:05:09
Speaker 4: We were in the sex Dungeon no longer on Patreon because Patreon, Sorry, that was such great.

01:05:14
Speaker 1: Is there anywhere we could put that? We can't put that anywhere?

01:05:16
Speaker 6: Can we put that on YouTube.

01:05:18
Speaker 3: No, if you send me money, I'll send you the link.

01:05:21
Speaker 6: We definitely can't put done.

01:05:22
Speaker 1: We can't.

01:05:23
Speaker 6: I mean I would have to learn most of it for our content.

01:05:26
Speaker 2: You said, Yeah, how much of that could we put on YouTube?

01:05:29
Speaker 6: I would just have to blur most we could do, like.

01:05:30
Speaker 4: A one time dollar ninety nine feet on only fans just for that. That's sick and like that entire thing, we should be only fans. We could just put the raw footage, no pun intended on only fans for a dollar, just for that specific video. But anyways, Yeah, Maul was getting pissed on in a sex dungeon.

01:05:47
Speaker 1: Yeah, and you walked out.

01:05:49
Speaker 6: I was like, yos.

01:05:51
Speaker 1: James sent his verse. I'm like, yo, but this beautiful young woman it's peeing everywhere. They're like this is great, a hydrated woman at that very high yellow peek.

01:06:01
Speaker 4: No.

01:06:01
Speaker 1: No, And you walked out, So I know you was happy to get that. That was a super dope move because we all know how James doesn't just work with any and everybody, and he's very you know, kept to his circle of people that he works with. So that was that was a big movie.

01:06:15
Speaker 4: Yeah, And I mean I don't really know how we should go about this on our podcast, because did slash doing a press run and those are weird? Man, I'd rather talk about doing the press run here rather than give you my press run answers on this project. Yeah, was it amazing for thirteen year old Roy to have Fante on the project. Of course, do y'all give a fuck? No, no, So let's talk about how awkward I am during press run.

01:06:39
Speaker 1: Yeah. It's funny though, to see you actually doing a press run about music. Though, it's cool because usually on the other side of it, usually you're working with an artist that isn't yes run, or you were at the label putting together press run shit for the artists. Now you're actually putting out a project, so now you have to promote it and you have to go to these different outlets and talk about the project.

01:06:58
Speaker 4: But it is actually cool having the lens of watching so many press runs to go into one, like, I already know what's gonna look corny, look weird, like look at the great press runny even like the people that I picked for the press run per se, I didn't want to go to everybody. I wanted to do what I thought would be impactful conversations where I would have a different conversation with each person, not so like, tell me, tell me what the process with Bink was like on the outro, like I knew that can only go so far, especially with the audience now on YouTube, like they don't care. So it's been fun sort of. Let me start with playbacks For those that don't know what playbacks are. I'm not gonna co sign Julian's uugh, even though I feel it internally because I am appreciative of playbacks. For those that don't know playbacks are you get on Zoom since covid used to do them in person. Now no matter what, they're on Zoom and you have it could range from seven people in some cases it's twenty people. Yeah, and they're all from different offices, whether it be New York, LA, Nashville, Atlanta, and it's the DSPs and you play them their album in hopes that they will support it. They introduce everyone from each department and you kind of run through that entire thing, which I am extremely appreciative of, and I do think people care about them, But boy are they the most awkward fucking things ever.

01:08:28
Speaker 1: Yeah.

01:08:29
Speaker 4: One, the sound is insane. No, matter what, they've tried to find ways to do plug ins, all this shit.

01:08:35
Speaker 1: Every the sound is. It doesn't not gonna do nothing.

01:08:37
Speaker 4: It's just Ali can't figure out how to make playback. It's always trash, which is all like weird to begin with, especially when like with an album like mine where it's mostly live instruments and like you can't hear certain shit and you don't want to come across as that guy like, hey, did you do you hear the chime on that one? Did you the triangle? Because I know you can't, right, you're right, right. Then there's the awkward position of you don't know what beat everyone is on because it's just an array of zooms everyone. It's like the Brady Bunch, and you play the record like, hey, this is this record, and then it starts and one person is on the one, one person is on the three, one person is on the two, one person is on the four. Someone has a lagged Wi Fi so they may be on beat, but they still look like they're on the one. And you're just looking at faces off something that you've worked on ever, and they're at their desk and they are busy, like they have shit going on in their life and their job as well. And I'm sure that an email just came across their shit like yo, playback, need you here. They don't know who it is. They don't care. This may even interfere with their lunch. They were gonna have an hour lunch. Now they have a twenty minute lunch because they have to sit at their desk and watch some guy go so for my next record. Yeah, it's the weirdest process ever. But it's a mess, but it's I I appreciate Apple Spotify, everyone that I've done that with. I do appreciate it for real, Like I'm not shitting on that process. Just the awkwardness of it is literally it's unbearable watching someone listen to your shitty audio on Zoom and they can playlist you.

01:10:21
Speaker 1: Right, It's crazy. It's great, But again it's a necessary thing because you do have to get people to hear it, and you do want it to get it playlisted. You do want, you know, people to support the project because you work, You worked hard on it, so you want people to appreciate it. But I think that you know this, this this project you put together. It's easy for anybody that's a music lover to enjoy it. It's a it's an easy listen, it's a dope listen. It's a lot a lot of good music, good lyrics. It's just you could tell that you really took time and didn't just put something together because you want to put something together. It really took your time with it and you cared about the music and the product, and then it's a whole full thing. It's not just something you slapped together. Everything was very thought out, very meticulous, very like attention to detail. And as somebody that just.

01:11:07
Speaker 4: Like shit like that, I appreciate that, and I appreciate that. Can I ask you as a vulnerable question?

01:11:14
Speaker 1: I love when you ask vulnerable questions.

01:11:16
Speaker 4: Okay, I did a lot of feedback I've gotten from people within the industry that I've sent it to, not like to artists or friends or people that like I. We have music conversations all the time.

01:11:28
Speaker 1: Type of shit.

01:11:29
Speaker 4: You know, you have to do your due diligence and send the shit out. You have to be you want to listen to my project, like you have.

01:11:33
Speaker 2: To do that.

01:11:33
Speaker 4: That bullshit I've gotten back A word that has kept me up at night outside of my daughter's crying and cluster feeding. It's refreshing.

01:11:47
Speaker 2: Oh they're gonna say mid.

01:11:51
Speaker 4: They should have said mid.

01:11:54
Speaker 1: Nah, But I understand.

01:11:59
Speaker 4: We're doing a difference. Have a roll out at this podcast. I'm doing my press.

01:12:02
Speaker 2: Run with me.

01:12:03
Speaker 4: Let's have a real conversation.

01:12:04
Speaker 6: But don't do that.

01:12:05
Speaker 4: No artist ever talks about when they send their project to the industry world and they get back certain adjectives and artists you can lie about that. I felt weird about it.

01:12:15
Speaker 2: Refreshing sounds like a beverage No, but it's refreshing, refreshing thing when I hear.

01:12:21
Speaker 1: But refreshing is not refreshing is from from how I'm taking it. Refreshing means yes, yeah, thank god, this is something that I could Actually this is joy. Get into appreciate this.

01:12:37
Speaker 3: Yeah.

01:12:38
Speaker 1: Like, to me, refreshing is like, this is what I've been waiting. It's like when you're in a hot ass room and finally somebody turns the AC.

01:12:45
Speaker 2: On you, like, oh, brisk God, It's like no, it's just like brisk.

01:12:49
Speaker 1: Yes, this is what I was looking for. This is what I've been wanting to hear. So refreshing to me is a great thing.

01:12:57
Speaker 4: You guys told me refreshing. I would feel really good about it, because when you're doing the industry back and forth with certain people and their family refreshing fans who told you almost it sounds like no more than one person. That's why I'm like, is this is this the new words?

01:13:18
Speaker 2: Is this the hey?

01:13:19
Speaker 4: It was sequenced well, or maybe it was just this is refreshing, that new buzzword.

01:13:24
Speaker 2: People don't want to wear ourselves though they probably said that, like this is the new word. We don't want to sound like everyone else. Let's say something different. It's refreshing.

01:13:32
Speaker 1: No, but I don't want you to put that.

01:13:33
Speaker 4: Who else? Who else do they think was refreshing? That's where I'm at in my head.

01:13:37
Speaker 1: That's what you should ask.

01:13:39
Speaker 4: You should have asked that, like what wild question to ask someone?

01:13:42
Speaker 1: I would have said, when was the last time you heard something refreshing? When was the last artist that you were I've been on both?

01:13:50
Speaker 4: Actually, Ice Spice is a refreshing in some yes, I would say she's refreshing in a good way. No, well, it's a different type of sound within the quote unquote pussy wrap female era. I think it's refreshing.

01:14:05
Speaker 2: I think it's new. So do you go but refresh.

01:14:08
Speaker 6: You are ginger laatee ginger lat.

01:14:11
Speaker 1: You are pumpkin spice. That's ice spice. You're pumpkin spiding. That's all. That's all the labels are trying to tell you, Rory.

01:14:17
Speaker 4: When Halloween comes around, this is your time. I don't know, and I'm not going to have that conversation with someone that I just have an industry relationship with because I've been on both sides. So I'm grateful that people would even listen to it because I know how busy people are and i know the times people have asked me to listen to music and I just wanted to but didn't have the time to and me even giving feedback is tough sometimes with the schedule. So I'm so appreciative where I'm happy with refreshing, but it my mind wanders at two am, like, so what did he mean by refreshing? Yeah, it has to be the new industry.

01:14:57
Speaker 1: Where it's it has to be your industry brain like taking over right there, because you like, this is a sensitive artists, this is the new this is the new industry.

01:15:06
Speaker 4: Term like they don't they hate it, but they don't want to say they hate it like this is their way of letting me down easy, Like or did they even listen?

01:15:13
Speaker 2: Probably not, because I used to do. I would even they have to listen to I would, oh my god, I wouldn't listen to ninety percent of them.

01:15:22
Speaker 4: Which, honestly, I would not be offended at all, again because I've been on both sides. If I sent it to someone and they did not listen to it, I'm totally fine.

01:15:32
Speaker 1: No, I would be.

01:15:33
Speaker 4: I was only mad at you that one time.

01:15:35
Speaker 1: I listened to listen to the album.

01:15:37
Speaker 4: What you like in that world? If they listen to it, great, if they can support it, great, But if they don't, I don't take that personally.

01:15:47
Speaker 1: Listen just you. You just have to trust and know that you just don't call my ship brisk. That's that's what they said. But you just have to first of all, as a music lover, as a person that appreciates good music, it would be hard to see the track list, see those features and not listen.

01:16:05
Speaker 6: Yeah, yeah, I agree.

01:16:07
Speaker 1: Like if you're a music lover, if you're somebody that knows like damn like Alex Eisley, like sing my ass off, you know what I mean? Jay alect he don't wrap no time, no, but nobody other than.

01:16:17
Speaker 4: JAYZ like you're there, so it's like okay, and then you have all these other conway, let me hear this ain't a darrener beat, like who did?

01:16:24
Speaker 1: Like you understand I'm saying, it's just a different it's.

01:16:27
Speaker 2: Gold Link, who's been pretty low.

01:16:29
Speaker 1: Yeah, like you would be inclined that you have to know what that sounds like because these you have names and features and artists that you usually don't hear from, and if you do hear from them, it's quality.

01:16:40
Speaker 2: Yeah, And this is cool because it's like, in its true sentence, a collaborative project, like you're not inviting them on the track and just letting them run rampant with like you're helping with the writing in most of the cases, like your your influences in the writing and the production. So it's it's from a curiosity aspect alone. I think it's incentivized people to check it out because this is a really accurate insight I think to you as a person and reflects who you are. So a lot of these records, I'm like, oh, like this is I can hear Rory saying this and conversations we've had, and it's cool that you were able to sequence that and put it on a production that match that same entergy.

01:17:17
Speaker 4: So refreshing.

01:17:18
Speaker 2: It is refreshing, but refreshing the sense that it's like, like you said, Jay does Jala doesn't do versus like he did for your album, Like it's a refreshing take on an artist that we haven't heard this kind of music from.

01:17:30
Speaker 4: Does Refreshing have replayed value?

01:17:32
Speaker 1: Absolutely?

01:17:33
Speaker 2: Yeah? I think so?

01:17:33
Speaker 4: Okay, Oh no, I know my album does. I'm just I'm only focusing on the word refreshing. My album I know is correct.

01:17:39
Speaker 2: I run back.

01:17:41
Speaker 4: That album is incredible and I stand by it.

01:17:44
Speaker 1: Can I read Can I read Don Cannon's report card on it?

01:17:49
Speaker 6: Of course Don Cannon's report card.

01:17:51
Speaker 2: What do you think Pitchfork's gonna give it?

01:17:53
Speaker 4: Oh my gosh, I don't mean this in like a shot or thing. Does Pitchfork still Yeah?

01:17:58
Speaker 2: Remember the Ice they've raided Ice b.

01:18:01
Speaker 4: Oh yeah, of course, of course I doubt they'll review it. I don't think I'm in there. They're cool.

01:18:07
Speaker 2: I'll hit him a realm. I want some content. We'll make sure.

01:18:10
Speaker 4: So I would like to. I would like Pitchfork.

01:18:16
Speaker 1: All right.

01:18:16
Speaker 4: I don't know if we'll be able to do this. This is just me spitballing in person. Anyone that reviews my album on Patreon, I would love to have you come to our studio and talk to you about the review.

01:18:29
Speaker 2: Where does Anthony Fantano live? He could come in.

01:18:33
Speaker 4: Here's the thing. I know everyone thinks he's that culture Vulture hate him all that. I emailed it to him.

01:18:37
Speaker 1: He's great. I think he's cool.

01:18:39
Speaker 4: I emailed him the album. I don't know if he's going to review it. He's turned me down on like five emotional origins projects.

01:18:44
Speaker 3: Yeah, but after after MA gives you don Cannon's report, I do want to ask you a question at about as far as your contributions to the album, because I know you think it's press releasey and you don't want to do press release. He stuff here.

01:18:56
Speaker 4: Doing it with eleg keV Hi everybody.

01:18:59
Speaker 3: This is your big platform and our fans need answers.

01:19:02
Speaker 2: This is a press run low kid like like I wanted to.

01:19:06
Speaker 4: I wanted to have the fun conversation.

01:19:07
Speaker 1: We will have.

01:19:09
Speaker 4: The fun only came with me to.

01:19:10
Speaker 2: To e Bro.

01:19:12
Speaker 3: It's still a question. It's still your biggest fan base. They deserve to answers to certain questions. What was Don Cannon's report?

01:19:18
Speaker 1: All right, so Don Cannon, where you know this is the Generation now versus Rory and mall group chat there and uh yeah, I don't know who named it that, but where where we're probably it's like the Avengers versus the fucking Marvel guys. I don't know, the DC comics. I don't know. But so Don Cannon says his report card. It says favorite song, sobering thoughts enough, don't go the golding interlude and surrender overall thoughts. This is solid. This is a solid offering. Surprise Conway wrapped on that beat. The artist selection is dope, replayed, a lot of replay value in this Rory overall of B plus I'll take it.

01:19:53
Speaker 3: Why laughing because he said this is a you know when people say it's a solid effort, like but.

01:19:59
Speaker 2: You all right?

01:20:00
Speaker 4: From anyone else besides offering? Can you read what Lake said afterwards, because that will sum up Don Cannon's report.

01:20:07
Speaker 1: He said, Wow, this is a game changer. This nigga don't even this nigga doesn't even like himself. So the fact that I will take a solid effort quote unquote from Don Cannon any day and listen because.

01:20:21
Speaker 4: He does not like him.

01:20:22
Speaker 1: We've had some some some great conversations off the record with Don Don and he doesn't like ship that we deemed our classics. So for him to send an actual report card and off of those words that caught everybody in a chat, oh god, like what the fuck like?

01:20:40
Speaker 4: And when I put it in the chat, he's listened kind of like right away and was giving feedback as he was listening, and he's like, oh shit, this shouldn't even whack.

01:20:50
Speaker 1: Yeah, that's coming from Don Cannon. That is absolutely like damn. That's like when your dad never hugged you, like you do something good and he gives you like the he punches you on the shoulder. It's like he loves me, man, Like you know what I'm saying, Like that's just our way of like, Yo, he actually listened and he likes it because dog Cannon on like anything other than Gez and fucking Hlula Wayne.

01:21:18
Speaker 4: And I know he listened out of friendship. So the fact that he's like, oh shit, this is damn all right, my bad, I didn't know this was good.

01:21:26
Speaker 1: No, I told I told you when I listened to it, Yo, listen, it's an easy listen. You could just put it on whatever you're doing. It just matches. You're gonna find something on there that just suits exactly what you're doing at the moment.

01:21:37
Speaker 3: It's amazing cleaning and cooking music. Well, I'm a person who likes to have like an amazing It's a.

01:21:42
Speaker 1: Good drive record too. Yeah, it's a good drive album if you have a nice little road trip.

01:21:46
Speaker 3: What's fucking Roy's album?

01:21:48
Speaker 1: It's been on the back.

01:21:49
Speaker 4: Oh no, y'all are gonna have kids to refill? No pun Yeah, you guys have to join me just based off refill that alone.

01:21:58
Speaker 2: Missionary.

01:21:59
Speaker 4: That's missionary music for sure.

01:22:01
Speaker 1: Yeah, that's made mission I don't want to know if I want to be missionary about Conway rapping though, that's when you switch position. No, just.

01:22:10
Speaker 4: Yeah, and again, I don't want to press run it because like it's not I would love to tell that the Conway story.

01:22:17
Speaker 3: Oh that yeah, but that's funny though. Also side note, I saw a tweet that said, why all the Griselda beats sound like a grand piano falling down the.

01:22:27
Speaker 2: Stairs, and then they like had evidence of ever it was like six or seven songs in a row. It's just like they're rolling piano works.

01:22:36
Speaker 3: It does.

01:22:37
Speaker 1: It does like they ushered in a whole different well not different, but they brought back a genre of m seeing and rapping that was like missed. So, I mean, I get it, have jokes, but that Darren Joe loop beat, I love it.

01:22:52
Speaker 4: So we were in engine room, you were with us, Yeah, Conway and there was there was a bunch of people when they were just listening to a bunch of records. But like once everything dispersed, Conway and I had another session and had another session the next day. But he came up to me like once people had left, it was like, bro, why you send me that beat? And I was like, wait, I thought he was ready to kill me, Like I thought he was offended, and he was like, now everyone just sends me fucking like these diet Alchemist beats, so they try to sound like Darrenger and like I would have done the verse for you because I fuck with you. But when I opened it, I was like actually excited to rap, Like no one had ever sent me something like that before, and that's the type of win to me.

01:23:37
Speaker 1: But that's but you know, you know how I feel about Conway. To me, he's he's such a just a different type of rapper. He's he's he pays attention to the real pin pushes the real spinners. And I understand why he would say that, because he listens to a lot of different type of shit.

01:23:54
Speaker 4: Yeah, and he was like, he's like, I'm actually excited to cut this, Like I really want to do this record.

01:23:59
Speaker 1: Rather than like.

01:24:02
Speaker 3: Heard that that is like the Shrake verse with all the fucking photo captions. Like I've had those photo captions in my phone for like a year a week to throw them.

01:24:12
Speaker 4: Out, and even like when I did the Apple Music playback, you know, typically they tell you to do the one with like the craziest names, and of course Conway is a big name, but Hablo Brown is one of my favorite groups, but up and coming. Still, that wouldn't be one that you played. That was by far the one that everyone was like, this is it, we love this this record. And when I was making that ship with Hobblo, I was like, this needs a really weird feature and it's not someone that gets like having Golink on the album is incredible. We could have put gold ink on that song, but Golnk's been on those type of beats, like he's in that dance world. I was like, man, I need to put Griselda on this type of ship. This is what is needed right now.

01:24:54
Speaker 1: It's the most.

01:24:54
Speaker 4: Typical fucking thing ever.

01:24:56
Speaker 1: No, it messed. It messed really well. I was kind of when you played it be in the studio, I was like, I wanted to see what he was going to do, and then he automatically called it and started going off. I was like, oh, nah, this is That's how you know. Conway is just a dude that just loves music. Anything that's good music is if he doesn't, he doesn't feel out of place listening to something like yes we know him from this sound that we know him from this type of content and lyrics. But when you're a writer and a creator, like you want to push yourself to do different things and show people that Nah, I could do that too, don't yeah, don't discount me, don't count me out when you hear this like, nah, we can't send that to com I send it to me. You'll be surprised. And I think the people are gonna enjoy that one.

01:25:33
Speaker 3: It's refreshing, always refreshing. To answer that, to answer the question, I refresh this. What makes this your album?

01:25:42
Speaker 1: Like?

01:25:42
Speaker 3: What did you? Don't have to go through it? And oh I had an idea when I was laying down in my bed at seven am and it was raining, Like, you don't have to go through all that. But tell us what makes this your album? What did you do? Because a lot of I see a lot of comments on social media like this Rory rap? Does he sing? Does he produce? So please just quickly you tell us. I know you only want to do the press one thing. What it is you do, how you made this out.

01:26:04
Speaker 4: I had a hand in every single record as far as actual production, arranging, as Ebro put it, which I would never take that, but it's the best way to put it. Quincy Jones like, I'm not touching every instrument, but I'm certainly arranging every single song. I'm let drummers go for an hour and then pick every part I liked off that hour session to make a drum loop, and then from there, all right, I think I hear strings on this. Let's make this the string section. I want the strings to sound like this, and coaching people through that process it is producing to me, I know, are not Quincy, not Rory Jones. No, no, I are not comparing. Just that's the process of how this was made. On an actual producer standpoint. I'm not a musician, I'm not a beat maker. Those are different things and those people are way more talented than me. But I is a producer on this, which I think people get fucked up, and I think hip hop kind of changed that term. There's beat makers and there's producers, and then there's both.

01:27:11
Speaker 2: You get it.

01:27:11
Speaker 4: Just Blaze, just Blaze is a beat maker and a producer. But there's also people that just make amazing beats, send it to the artist, and the artist will produce a lot of that. And then there's producers that don't touch an NPC, don't touch the keys, don't touch anything. But they know how to arrange everything, they know how they want things to sound, and it was in a huge collaborative process. In no way was I sitting there with my fucking baton telling the orchestra to go like this. But baton, it's not even what it's called. It's not just to show y'all how.

01:27:45
Speaker 1: Ignorant I am.

01:27:47
Speaker 4: I mean, I know how to keep account. That's how I was keeping the count on the playbacks. One to know that you're on the one, sir, turn your camera off so you But yeah, no, very much arranging every record. The Division Interlude I think is the only record that was like given, and that was just because we had went through like two or three Division records that I still think we'll see the light of day. But that one just fits so well and as something eighty five and Daniel had already and it was it just worked so well in the sequence and how I wanted to break up the different sounds on the album. So yeah, I mean, I could never say have anything to do with that that record, but it was an interlude, so I felt.

01:28:31
Speaker 1: Okay, what's something that you want?

01:28:33
Speaker 4: Writing wise, I was involved heavily as well.

01:28:36
Speaker 1: What's something that you want people to take away from this project? Like when they listen to this, what's something you want them to well, if they never, excuse me, if they never listened to it again, what's something you want them to take away from listening to it?

01:28:50
Speaker 4: Their own interpretation. I don't know if that's like a political answer, whatever they want to take from it. There's so much emotion on that album. That's why I almost didn't answer Demrius's question correctly because I thought she was asking a different one. My contributions outside of the music like that shit is my life. Like each song specifically has a theme for a reason, Like this wasn't just random records that were put together. Every last song fully has to do with the theme of I thought it'd be different. Yeah, it's my twenties. Yeah, everything is a different emotion, even down to Conway's verse just fell in that way, like I felt how Conway has felt in that regard and it ignorant in the club. The entire project is pretty much my twenties, is the best way to put it. I guess you've been working on this joint for That's why I have no words for it. It's so far out of my fucking mind from when I was creating it.

01:29:55
Speaker 1: It's so tough.

01:29:56
Speaker 4: It's so tough to talk about it now. This is like I don't know how to verbalize it the best way. It's it's what four years no but close.

01:30:04
Speaker 3: He started working on the album that he started working on. I feel like four years ago is not no album.

01:30:10
Speaker 4: It's not even the same.

01:30:12
Speaker 3: There's four process like this.

01:30:14
Speaker 1: This started, This started. This was something that you want. You started doing at least four years ago.

01:30:18
Speaker 2: Yeah.

01:30:18
Speaker 4: The idea was when I was having DSPs reach out to me to do their playlisting when we were doing the Sleeper Picture, and that turned into me thinking like, all right, I should do an original one where it would be more exclusives, like this playlist is going to be actually new music that I was involved with, with artists that I like that are up and coming. And once I started on that, it started to form into an album, and I started to find even more of a passion within the studio outside of me just being a fly on the wall that I was before. Said Fuck, this is an album. This is not a playlist. And I mean, I saw what happened with rap Cavia and that's none of my business, but I saw what happened when someone can start a playlist and lose creative control of it. Yeah, and it scared me when I was in the process of starting this journey, and I was like, well, fuck it, I could just owe my own album with the same exact concept, yeah, and make this a full project rather than a playlist.

01:31:21
Speaker 2: Well, now that you have a proof of concept, first one's done and you're going to go back into I mean, I'm sure, and you're already preparing and writing and getting to the creative of the second one already. What do you want to do anything like differently, or what are your goals, how have your goals shifted moving forward? Or if you even want to do this again?

01:31:42
Speaker 4: Oh no, I definitely do. The most exciting part about it is I don't know. Yeah, Like I've experimented a little bit since we turned in the mixes, at least before we got it mastered. I have no idea where the next one's going to go, and I kind of love that process. In no way it's going to take the same amount of time because at least they'll have a proven concept, Because I was also tough going to artists that I have a relationship with. Pretty much everyone on here I have a relationship with. Even explaining that to friends and family Reddit was weird. They're like, so what is it exactly? You're like, you want to produce something for me? I'm confused what you want me to do. Now that there is a proven concept, that process will be a bit easier. But now I have to figure out what that sound looks like because I it can't sound like this one. Yeah, I'm gonna have to go take some shrooms and go to the woods of Montreal trying to figure out what the funk I want.

01:32:46
Speaker 3: To do with this one? Why do you feel like the next one can't sound like this one? The reason why? I mean, like, when I say that, I don't mean exactly like this, but I mean the vibe of this right.

01:32:55
Speaker 2: So, I.

01:32:58
Speaker 3: Think everybody in this room knows the type of music that you like. Everybody who's ever listened to your sleeper picks knows the type of music that you like that you play on a day to day right outside of rep So that's what you're known for.

01:33:11
Speaker 4: But even that, the original title was bare Feet Volume one. Yeah you're yeah for sure, but it changed that. I thought it'd be different outside of everything else in my life, which we obviously talked about with kids and all that, the album is different.

01:33:26
Speaker 2: It is.

01:33:27
Speaker 4: There's only one quote unquote bare foot song on here. I would say the Other Side featuring font and b my Fiasco is the only clean, your fucking crib barefoot type of upbeat record. Maybe you could say I Want You is as well, But I found way more success and peace within some of the slower records, like the BPM's on this, But I think this project are way lower than any barefoot shit is. So I went into this process trying to do all the up temple ship that I love, and I was way more successful at the other stuff. So that's why I need to like figure out what to do with the next one.

01:34:07
Speaker 2: You think you need like a theme, like you said, this encapsulates your twenties, but it doesn't need to be like a singular through line. You can just kind of go off.

01:34:15
Speaker 1: You got to make it look a like Daddy's Daycare volume Volume one. Yeah, something like that. You can come put the baby to sleep too.

01:34:26
Speaker 3: Rain sounds yeah, you know, I mean the other day rain sounds funny.

01:34:31
Speaker 4: Rain saw my daughter was listening to Baby Sharks as all that's there, all about the bench of.

01:34:37
Speaker 1: Course, of course.

01:34:39
Speaker 2: Multi multi platinum, and I tried.

01:34:42
Speaker 4: To remix it to you are being brain washwash wash or wash wash, and oh god, my child's mother got so mad at me when I was singing that in her face, you are beating brain washedwashed grand grammy. But yeah, I don't know what the next one is gonna be And I think that's the beauty of it in a really corny way, because this album helped me personally to get through other shit, like I had something that I could attach myself to when I needed it the most, and going into even a peaceful environment with my child and parenting, you still also need something else. So it may look different, but I still see this project or the second album rather being that for me. I just don't know what that's gonna sound like. Yeah, it could be ayahuasca, it could be it could be shitty diapers. I don't know what's gonna spark it.

01:35:38
Speaker 1: Something is gonna just go off for you, Like that's it. Yeah, And that's the best way it should be. That's the way it's supposed to happen.

01:35:46
Speaker 4: The next album is not my fear. It's my daughter's friends parents and me having to hang out with them is my biggest fear. The next album is. That's the scary that's figuring out. This next project is not it. It's who she's gonna choose is from and who are their parents? And I'm gonna have to sit across from them in a living room going Yeah, it's like, what do you do? We're in for life now, our children are friends. So I have to fucking deal with you every fucking Saturday.

01:36:15
Speaker 1: Now. Yeah, well that's my fear. The album is available now on your DSPs, download that, stream that by that, play that, and and leave us voicemails about how you feel about the album his voicemails. Let us know what your favorite songs are. Uh, let us know what you were doing the first time you listen to the album. If you think it's.

01:36:35
Speaker 2: Trash, let us know if you think it's refreshing.

01:36:38
Speaker 1: But if you think but cool, if you refreshing, no, no, if you think it's trash, tell us it's trash. But tell us why you think it's trash. I'm not mad at somebody saying something is trash. Tell me why you feel like it's trashed, Like, tell me why you feel that way. Don't just say the ship trash and then hang up. Let no, let's have a deeper conversation, man, why do you feel like this is trash?

01:37:01
Speaker 4: I'm still with If you can talk to Pitchfork and whoever wants to review it, I would happily have a conversation with him afterwards. Yeah, but either way, it's something that we could introduce. But I don't think the media outlets as far as print goes, would do that. I think podcasters we just go straight to the writer. But I know I'm saying the writer vacation. All right, writer, let's sit down and tell me why you think that. With I can get I have a platform with a microphone, we can really talk about why you think it's.

01:37:30
Speaker 2: Trash if if you want, I can get a really well known staff writer from Complex to come in, someone that contributed to the list that we went over. I can have him come in. He would love to do that, but not if he likes it.

01:37:47
Speaker 4: Come in here and tell me he likes it.

01:37:48
Speaker 2: He hasn't heard it yet.

01:37:50
Speaker 1: Well, I'm definitely gonna stream this all all week and you know, catch some vibes to it. Man, And even though I have it in my phone, he takes that sound cloud link Stewart, he does killed it. No, It's okay. So, I mean, I've been listening to it, but I'm gonna download it, stream it. It's great music, it's great vibes, great energy on it, and it is refreshing. I know exactly what that person meant when they said it was refreshing.

01:38:13
Speaker 4: Do you think Biggs will listen to it?

01:38:15
Speaker 1: Absolutely? Yeah, Yeah, that's his type of ship. Okay, that's his type. That's his type of music. Trust one type of ship.

01:38:23
Speaker 4: I haven't sent it to. Would you guys judge me if I sent it to Drake?

01:38:28
Speaker 8: No?

01:38:28
Speaker 3: No, I wouldn't judge it.

01:38:30
Speaker 4: That's nasty.

01:38:30
Speaker 6: I'll judge.

01:38:31
Speaker 4: I would.

01:38:32
Speaker 3: I fucking judge you, and I'll hate.

01:38:34
Speaker 7: You for it.

01:38:34
Speaker 4: Your big bro listened to his music musical selection?

01:38:41
Speaker 1: No man, you get cold, Drake? Yeah, try to hop all this. You can't call nobody, big bro that you don't have this?

01:38:48
Speaker 4: What if I email it to Jay?

01:38:50
Speaker 2: I have his personal phone.

01:38:51
Speaker 1: I think that you could email it to Jay.

01:38:55
Speaker 3: Can't You can't.

01:38:55
Speaker 4: You can't go to the phone.

01:38:57
Speaker 1: No no, no, no, no no. You can email it to him, but email. I think he would funk with it.

01:39:03
Speaker 4: I mean this, this, this albums heard enough, but that he wouldn't this album up.

01:39:09
Speaker 1: This, this project is made for It's a certain level of taste that would appreciate it. This, this, this music is for the ones that you know you order salad before you eat the meal. A lot of niggas going just want the steak and the potatoes to come out. It's like, no, you know, clean your palate up a little bit, get some greens in you, and the not the season. No, no, no, no no, never the season. Never the season.

01:39:33
Speaker 3: Don't do that.

01:39:34
Speaker 1: No, we ain't eat no Caesar, You're real. Salad is ghetto either salad, Get the apples and walnuts, get the real ship that se that.

01:39:48
Speaker 3: No, it's because I eat the.

01:39:50
Speaker 1: Salad is chicken nuggets, bro.

01:39:53
Speaker 4: Chicken nuggets. And I love a good Caesar salad. Don't get me wrong, but.

01:39:58
Speaker 6: Salad.

01:39:58
Speaker 2: Why McDonald, sir? Was this Caesar Donald?

01:40:01
Speaker 4: It shakes out, ain't it.

01:40:03
Speaker 1: But this, this, this project is definitely for a certain it's a certain uh, it's a certain level of taste.

01:40:11
Speaker 4: It's not Kale per se. Kale, I think is too high brow of music. Whether you wouldn't understand it. I think it's a good arugula.

01:40:18
Speaker 1: That's the ring you you gotta appreciate. It's for the ones that appreciate good music, real instrumentation, real lyrics, real content. It's real emotions, real feeling and soul in the music.

01:40:32
Speaker 2: So block slippers.

01:40:33
Speaker 4: I just don't know if we can ever stay at the Madre on again. By the way, I definitely fleeced us in that regard, because that whole reason outro was a conversation reason I had outside of the madre on that we just then turned into a hunk.

01:40:44
Speaker 2: That's that's free press.

01:40:47
Speaker 4: They then they should take they should take my fucking smoking fee off. When I didn't smoke, give smoking.

01:40:56
Speaker 2: Hilarious.

01:40:57
Speaker 4: It was five hundreds. I was like, I don't they said. For a while, I thought they were talking about like a blunt or someone's like, did I have anyone in my room that maybe smoked weed and maybe left it?

01:41:07
Speaker 1: Yeah?

01:41:07
Speaker 4: They said, oh no, we found cigarette butts in your room. I was like, all right, let me talk to that maid. Which room was it?

01:41:13
Speaker 1: Yeah?

01:41:14
Speaker 4: Cigarettes, yes, yeah, that was on the last trip, two trips ago.

01:41:18
Speaker 1: Damn, that's wild. Yeah. Cigarettes.

01:41:22
Speaker 4: So Madrin, I've given you some mad We need we need it.

01:41:25
Speaker 1: We need like your song now, we need two months of free rooms, two months consecutively, like we just.

01:41:32
Speaker 2: Need like, yeah, we spent too much stage like London.

01:41:36
Speaker 1: Well listen, make a gratch once again on on the Beautiful Family, the Beautiful Baby Girl, Congratulations on a beautiful album. Thank you, A beautiful selection of music, a beautiful selection of instrumentation and lyrics, and just a great, great project that you very meticulously curated over the years and put together and it's finally done. So I know that you're extremely happy about that, because you are are maniacol when it comes to just being a perfectionist and you want things to sound and look a certain way. So I know it took a lot for you to get to this point and sleep easy knowing that you put together a great project and the people are going to love it, that people are going to receive it well. Even though you take Refreshing as a fucking knock, it's not a knock. It was confused, confused, It's a refreshing project. So everybody download that stream that support Rory and his project available now on all your DSPs.

01:42:29
Speaker 4: Are you gonna try to get some publishing? Since I put the new Rory mal drop on the intro.

01:42:33
Speaker 1: H yeah, the lawyers on the line now I heard it.

01:42:37
Speaker 2: I was like, oh, there we go.

01:42:39
Speaker 1: Check God nah Man was actually.

01:42:41
Speaker 4: Really cool about that, and we can't close. I promise. I got to give my cousin's son publishing on that song. Oh yeah, he's credit as a writer and has publishing on that record. That's fine because he because he wrote new or more. That's his voice, that's his melody, that's he.

01:42:58
Speaker 1: Did write it, that's him. So yeah, that's fire.

01:43:01
Speaker 4: A shout out to you are Actually we might need a familiar publishing at this point.

01:43:05
Speaker 1: We might need we might need an older ash drop now now that he's older. Oh he's worthy, we might be to give us like an older, older new Rory and mall drop.

01:43:15
Speaker 4: It's going to be a very long drop.

01:43:16
Speaker 1: He's shut up charge this now for shure, Like I'm talking to my talk to my people.

01:43:21
Speaker 4: I have a drop somewhere where uh my cousin sent me after that said, Rory, where's my royalties? I have to find that drop.

01:43:31
Speaker 1: But that's dope that you gave him publishing on that. That was fire.

01:43:34
Speaker 2: Should be adding some questions, yeah, all right, Well, in the theme of the album and growing and becoming a better person, I took like some relationship questions here. So okay, let's jump in. We have two that kind of parallel with each other. To start with.

01:43:52
Speaker 7: Yop Rory and Maul. The Maris Eden Julian was good. Uh my name is at and from the more in Iowa. So my question is, so, I'm a guy and I always have female friends and it's great, you know what I mean, love having them around, letting off from them, you know what i mean. But I'm kind of getting tired of it. You know, it can be a lot, it can be draining, and I just would want my own girl, you know, for once. Like I'm putting attention in time to all this and that, and then you know, you should their friendships. You know, friendships are important and everything, but it would be nice to have my own girl. You know, where I'm putting all my time and effort and I'm kind of getting something back from it, you know what I'm saying. Yeah, how do you think I should go about that?

01:44:48
Speaker 4: And from Iowa or Ohio de Moines, Iowa, from the Moines, Iowa and asking us how to get a girlfriend.

01:44:54
Speaker 2: Yeah, but he's saying all his relationships with women like.

01:44:57
Speaker 1: So it sounds like his problem is different on him. Yeah, like all of the girls are friend zoning him. Yeah, that's what it sounds like. I don't know, he might just have a bunch of female friends that he's just cool with and they didn't friend zone him. He might be smashing all of them. I don't know. It sounds like he wants to have a girlfriend, he's tired of just being the friend.

01:45:14
Speaker 4: He has to be intentional.

01:45:16
Speaker 1: Yeah, you have to let him know, like, listen, this dick work, you know right, period, and I want somebody to suck it and sit on it every night in a.

01:45:24
Speaker 4: More healthy way and maybe with because I'm sure some of these women that you're friends with you may have liked before and you didn't have the confidence to say hey, I like you, and then you got put in the friend zone and now you're just.

01:45:37
Speaker 2: Now you're the only guy at brunch.

01:45:39
Speaker 4: Yeah, and then I've been that guy and now and then they look at you to pay. I'm like, oh, I'm a chick in this circle.

01:45:45
Speaker 1: I'm not the guy e equal opportunity. I'm one of the girls.

01:45:50
Speaker 4: And you have to be confident, which I know can be tough, but you have to be intentional, say hey, I'm interested in you and more more than a front. And what I'm really saying is what Maul is saying, Hey I want to fuck, but say it in a nice way. I like you and I look at you more than a friend. I'm not sure if you feel the same way. If you don't, it's fine, Yo.

01:46:10
Speaker 1: Nothing hurts more than being friends zoned by a girl that you really like. Tough that shit stings you a little bit. Yeah that ship, I mean that shit leave uh the soul you never fully recover from. That.

01:46:22
Speaker 4: Man up a good point, though, How many l ols do you use when you hit that point?

01:46:27
Speaker 1: You asking me now nothing? I want them to know. I'm upset. I ain't laughing at ship years ago? Two l ols?

01:46:36
Speaker 4: Now wait now you thought it like I was not we friends? Like wait, you thought I.

01:46:39
Speaker 2: Liked you like a brother.

01:46:41
Speaker 1: I don't do that no more.

01:46:42
Speaker 4: I'll be like, well, you use the l ol button way too much once you realize you are a friend when.

01:46:47
Speaker 1: When I was younger, I definitely did. But now I let them know, Like damn.

01:46:50
Speaker 3: Because girls friends girls be fake friends on him in what does that mean? Sometimes they fake friends? I've done that. I'm fake friend zoned. Like a guy that was like trying to come on to me like kind of friends told him to see like if he still wanted to be my friend and if he didn't want to be my friend anymore, then like no, no, you're I'm really never getting me.

01:47:06
Speaker 1: I remember one of my one of my homegirls friends on me and she was she said, she said what she said, all right, I'll take you off the friend zone if you can answer this question. So I'm thinking, like I got mad. Answers all right, I got mad and she don't even know she said a BT. She said why do you want to fuck me?

01:47:26
Speaker 2: Damn?

01:47:27
Speaker 1: I did not know what to say, Like anything I would have said in that moment was going to be like all right, that's exactly why I'm not fucking. Yeah, you're asked dumb fat Like what was I gonna say? Like I had nothing. There was nothing I could have said, right, And it was a real question. She was like, why do you want to have sex with me? And I was like, I like you because like that don't really land you know what I'm saying.

01:47:49
Speaker 3: It's like, okay, what else I asked that question now too, as like as an adult woman, Yeah, that question I didn't want to fuck me so bad?

01:47:55
Speaker 1: And I couldn't say because I heard that pussy was good. I couldn't say that.

01:48:00
Speaker 4: But what a shitty question is?

01:48:01
Speaker 3: How is that a shitty because it's such a because you know, you know I want to weird.

01:48:06
Speaker 1: Give me that question.

01:48:08
Speaker 4: No, but just then, now you're forcing me to try to be poetic about a regular thought. I want to fuck you because you look good, and we'll figure it out from there.

01:48:17
Speaker 1: And you can't.

01:48:19
Speaker 2: Like you.

01:48:19
Speaker 4: Oh, I can feel your energy between us. I can't subside from it, like you have to try to make up words astrology. Yeah, you have to be poetic because when I look at your yes, you have to say bullshit like that, tell the fucking truth.

01:48:34
Speaker 3: Why do you want to fuck? Oh, fuck somebody else.

01:48:43
Speaker 2: Tonight?

01:48:45
Speaker 4: To exactly, you have to come up with some bullshit and claim you want honesty. You want to be like I just want to This is.

01:48:52
Speaker 3: The problem what you're always saying that people can't tell the truth. Y'all want to be able to tell the truth, and the truth be shitty, and we just have to do and still get what you want.

01:49:02
Speaker 4: If you're asking a man, why do you want to funk me, you've probably already entertained the idea, and I'm sure your answer is very similar to ours.

01:49:10
Speaker 6: I want to funk you because you look good.

01:49:14
Speaker 4: Yeah you know, No, don't don't make your eyebrows like my daughters that's like you want to try to crunch your eye round like that?

01:49:25
Speaker 1: Why you want to have sex with the dude you have sex with? What I said?

01:49:29
Speaker 2: You heard exactly what you.

01:49:31
Speaker 1: Before?

01:49:32
Speaker 2: This whole.

01:49:34
Speaker 6: Right now like this, you can talk to you like.

01:49:37
Speaker 1: This show answer the question what did you say?

01:49:41
Speaker 2: Mam?

01:49:41
Speaker 1: What did you say the marriag stop playing with.

01:49:48
Speaker 4: Him?

01:49:49
Speaker 1: I'm gonna say it one more time and you better have an answer. Raise up out it, seat up till you.

01:49:56
Speaker 2: Go to buy.

01:49:59
Speaker 1: Why do you you want to have sex with the guys You want to have sex.

01:50:03
Speaker 3: With because I think that he can fuck That's why.

01:50:05
Speaker 2: Okay, But if you said that to a guy, he'd be like, Okay, cool, we're good. But if we said that to a woman, she'd be like with.

01:50:12
Speaker 1: Dogs, there are pieces of ship and explaining it to five million of you is why I'm sorry.

01:50:18
Speaker 3: Not always, not always, because it's because you can save me. You're shamed, yes, or know him to pussy off that question, but it leads you up to your follow up question. You want to fuck me because I look good okay, or you want to or even like what I said, you want to fuck me because you think it's gonna be good. Okay, So if it is good, then what you want to continue to fuck my band?

01:50:39
Speaker 2: You want to.

01:50:40
Speaker 6: Continue to fuck me?

01:50:40
Speaker 3: But wait, okay, so then when I say wait, so then when no, no, no, no no. So then when I say, why are you looking for a relationship? Now, I'm not really looking for a relationship right now, but you want to fuck me because you think it's good. And if it is good, you're gonna want.

01:50:51
Speaker 6: To continue to When did we talk about that part?

01:50:53
Speaker 7: No?

01:50:54
Speaker 1: But can we cross that bridge when we get there?

01:50:56
Speaker 4: That's sex.

01:50:58
Speaker 1: Let me find out if it's that good.

01:51:00
Speaker 3: If it's good, I'm here telling you that.

01:51:07
Speaker 4: Changing to go through that, you'll hear the hypocrisy coming from you want the dude because he could probably fuck it. She's thinking. And now when she asked him, oh, were you looking for a relationship? You wasn't looking for one?

01:51:21
Speaker 3: You know, I know I am, But I'm asking you. Are you you are a relationship?

01:51:24
Speaker 4: So we're on the same page.

01:51:25
Speaker 3: No, no, no, no, no, no, no no no, because I'm looking for a relationship are you?

01:51:29
Speaker 7: No?

01:51:30
Speaker 3: Okay, Well, you're not looking for a relationship, but you want to fuck me because you think that is gonna be good. You're gonna want to continue to fund me, which means that you're gonna want to continue to fuck me while not giving me a relationship.

01:51:40
Speaker 6: To give you a relationship.

01:51:41
Speaker 3: Somebody else to fuck me. So you don't want to give me a relationship, but want my pussyly, my pussy exclusive to be yours because I know it's good.

01:51:48
Speaker 6: And you are talking about it's good. Say his name right?

01:51:53
Speaker 1: Also, that sounded so soncks.

01:51:57
Speaker 2: We're straying away from and explicitly said he wants a girlfriend.

01:52:01
Speaker 1: So let's go back to quest you sorry about that he wants He said.

01:52:06
Speaker 2: He wants a girlfriend. How do we get and because clearly he called because he has a group of friends. One of those girls is the girl he clearly wants to pursue for sure, so he called because he identified the one. He's in the friend zone. How do we get and to get out of it, just be just be, just be.

01:52:22
Speaker 1: Up front, just be you know, straightforward, like yo, listen, I like you, I like you past a friend. I think we get along great. I would love to be intimate with you. I would love to explore that part of our relationship, if that part of our relationship exists yeah.

01:52:36
Speaker 3: And if not, Nigga, I feel like I feel like you being the food.

01:52:41
Speaker 1: No, no, you got aunt twitch them. I would not.

01:52:43
Speaker 3: He just said. He literally just said, I'm doing all this stuff for all these women, but they're not my women, and I'm not getting anything in return, which means you doing all this ship and they going to fucking somebody else and calling you and telling you.

01:52:55
Speaker 2: And looks like he you don't even know it. Listen to he sounds like.

01:53:02
Speaker 1: He's in the friend zone. He can't get out.

01:53:04
Speaker 4: It's family.

01:53:05
Speaker 2: First of all, he's on the album.

01:53:08
Speaker 4: He's in the credit, so thank you. And I think approaches every single interaction with women as a potential relationship. And that's where I think an it's fucking up every girl he sees that he thinks is pretty or cool he looks as a potential relationship. And that's where everybody, not just men, fucks up everything. Sometimes chicks is just pretty and sometimes chicks is just cool. Not everything has to be a potential relationship. You have to dive, nose dive into every single friendship that you think could be a relationship. Just get to know people and see if it's for you. Yeah, it sounds like from this fifty seven second message. Anytime he meets a chick that he thinks is pretty, he tries to be their friend and it gets weird.

01:53:51
Speaker 2: In Ant's defense, as someone that does have a lot of girlfriends, you also know when you meet a girl off rip like I'm off like the first link I could tell of this.

01:53:59
Speaker 4: But you're also a whole aunt sounds like a wholesome human.

01:54:01
Speaker 2: Not true, actively not true whatever you want to put who is it?

01:54:06
Speaker 1: Objectively not true to?

01:54:07
Speaker 2: You don't have a kid.

01:54:09
Speaker 6: That doesn't make you make you a whore.

01:54:11
Speaker 2: I'm just saying I don't know. I'm just gonna die in the hill.

01:54:14
Speaker 1: Okay, well down the hill.

01:54:16
Speaker 2: I have a lot of I have that I have.

01:54:20
Speaker 4: Your parents a whore? No, hold on, you can't.

01:54:22
Speaker 2: My dad was a horror.

01:54:23
Speaker 1: You can't say you're not a whore. Did say I have a lot of girlfriends?

01:54:26
Speaker 2: No, but meaning friends that are purely platonic friends like I have a I have a group chat with like guys, girl like it's a mixed bunch.

01:54:33
Speaker 1: Would you beat No?

01:54:35
Speaker 2: Okay no, I wouldn't wear is one of them? You guys know how you guys were convinced that Greer and I hooked up. Yeah, no, you've all.

01:54:44
Speaker 1: Made Until I got to know was I was never convinced that you you hooked up with Greer.

01:54:49
Speaker 3: I looked at Greer and knew you in your type.

01:54:51
Speaker 4: Until I got to know Greer about maybe women you had brought around, I assumed. But then I got to know Greer and understood that she was an upstanding citizen. I was like, she would never fuck.

01:55:00
Speaker 2: You in Wow, understandings, We're good, We're great friends.

01:55:06
Speaker 4: Sometimes that makes the greatest friends like never but great friend.

01:55:11
Speaker 2: But I'm saying Ant's defends you can have a lot of girlfriends, just to account what Rory said you just because they're your friends doesn't mean at one point you wanted to fuck them. You can have those girlfriends, but you can also have a completely different romantic relationship with a woman. Absolutely that can be cool with those girls, But like, you need to approach differently.

01:55:26
Speaker 4: You can't be like, that's my advice to aunt And is running into every single person that he meets that he finds pretty that it's a relationship. Sometimes you can just be friends with pretty chicks and.

01:55:36
Speaker 1: Just be straightforward. Man, tell a girl that you like her and you want to pursue something deeper and more intimate than just a platonic friendship.

01:55:45
Speaker 4: Or go with Maul's initial advice and say, yo, I'm trying to fuck.

01:55:48
Speaker 1: That works too.

01:55:50
Speaker 2: All right's what we got?

01:55:51
Speaker 1: Who's next?

01:55:51
Speaker 2: All right, we're going to do the girl version of this pretty much?

01:55:55
Speaker 1: Yes, Mary, I love giving women advice.

01:55:57
Speaker 3: Hey, y'all, what's up. My name is Dedra. I live in Atlanta, so real fast.

01:56:02
Speaker 9: I feel like a lot of girls, women whoever, these days, just be going for bullshit like and I feel like a lot of dudes are used to girls just going for the bullshit and being able to have ask it and not really have to put in a lot of effort to you what they want from women period. I don't be going for the bullshit. I'm not here for it. I need nigga to come correct. I need pressure always, And I feel like I'm constantly kind of like being persecuted by niggas because I don't go for the bare minimum like I would like, Oh that was not shade, But I don't just want the bare minimum from niggas. So I don't know, like the GM data now we into it because I told him like, he be so dry when I talk to him all the time, and he's like, well, I don't know what to tell you, that's how I am.

01:56:43
Speaker 3: I'm like, okay, well make me feel like you don't like me.

01:56:45
Speaker 9: And he's like, oh, you just always you just ask for too much. And I'm like, damn, am I asking for too much? Asking me to be excited to talk to me? Am I accent for too much? Like just wanting niggas to show that they like me.

01:56:57
Speaker 3: I don't know. Let me know, all right, I'm gonna be the one to tell you. I'm not even gonna like I completely agree with you. A lot of women are accepting the bare minimum and it does make it harder for the rest of us, and they call us high maintenance and say that we're requiring too much. But let me tell you something. If he sounds dry when he's talking to you, and then when you tell him about it, his response was, well, that's just how I am. Or maybe he don't like you. He don't like you, he doesn't like you. You've dated people you don't like before. No, No, he doesn't like you. Like that you are a placeholder and he is way when he when he finds the girl he really, really really likes. She'll get that effort from him. You're just he don't like being alone right now.

01:57:43
Speaker 1: And what's her name, Deirdre?

01:57:45
Speaker 2: I think her name is Deirdre, Deirdre de Very from Atlanta.

01:57:48
Speaker 4: That's that was Drea from Poor Minds.

01:57:52
Speaker 2: Deirdre.

01:57:52
Speaker 1: It's very simple, Deirdre. All you gotta do is post a picture. H random picture of just a guy sitting at the table, was armed, mmmm, and his watch. It ain't even she ain't even got to be the one sitting across from the table. Just google image of one of them pictures.

01:58:08
Speaker 4: He's gonna turn into Shakespeare.

01:58:09
Speaker 1: Oh my god, he's like your eyes your hair just flows in the wind. Like now, this nigga gonna start seeing everything to you. She's got to shake him up little bit and let him know that you're stilling hot the man out here that guys would love.

01:58:19
Speaker 2: To be with you.

01:58:20
Speaker 4: I guess I'll ask why she likes him. Let's tie this into your question with Aunt, when you would say, why do you want to fuck me? Why does DJ even like this guy?

01:58:30
Speaker 2: To begin with?

01:58:31
Speaker 4: If he's super dry, they're already dating, Like, at what point did she say I like this guy. I feel like there's some things she's not bringing up on why she likes this gentleman. Sure, I think there may be some materialistic items this man may have that she put up with the dryness, and now she's getting to her breaking point because she can find another guy that has the same range rover and maybe has a few more jokes.

01:58:56
Speaker 1: We need to know if that man has a do is he have kids?

01:59:00
Speaker 2: What the fuck does that to do anything?

01:59:01
Speaker 1: Because a lot of his energy and shit could be going towards another relationship with his baby mother.

01:59:06
Speaker 4: True, how we just put a whole narrative together.

01:59:09
Speaker 3: I'm just saying, I just need to know you're about to give him fuck?

01:59:13
Speaker 2: She like him?

01:59:14
Speaker 4: Like, how could you She can have a boyfriend that get dating someone you find super dry. That's what's crazy to me. Must have liked him for something else.

01:59:20
Speaker 1: Yeah, he got money, he gets like.

01:59:23
Speaker 4: Mall now where I think every girl just wants a guy with money.

01:59:26
Speaker 1: But the girl does want to guy.

01:59:28
Speaker 4: It sounds like someone that you only like this gentleman.

01:59:30
Speaker 3: I know a lot of women who they broke.

01:59:32
Speaker 7: Man.

01:59:32
Speaker 3: I don't know why you don't don't.

01:59:34
Speaker 1: Want him leave with money?

01:59:36
Speaker 3: That's not true.

01:59:37
Speaker 1: Oh, then they stupid talking about stuid people. They exist.

01:59:39
Speaker 2: We know that.

01:59:41
Speaker 1: That happens right there, stupid people in the world.

01:59:44
Speaker 4: With all my exes alone because I was I was very poor.

01:59:46
Speaker 1: I'm just saying, like, we know stupid people exist. Like, if you're actively just looking and dating broke people, what are you doing?

01:59:52
Speaker 4: You're looking for love all mam.

01:59:54
Speaker 2: Let's not know. You can't say that and you go out.

01:59:57
Speaker 1: And it's actively love age. You mean to tell me there's people out here that on the dating scene that says I want somebody that there's nothing.

02:00:05
Speaker 2: Yes, there's no slider that's like income below thirty thousand. You meet someone you're having to fall in love and then you find out.

02:00:13
Speaker 1: Yeah, but you don't fall in love before you realize, like he can't take care of himself.

02:00:18
Speaker 4: She's falling in love and now he's dry and has no conversation. I don't say you've never had.

02:00:22
Speaker 3: Did he get dry?

02:00:23
Speaker 1: Can't be out here?

02:00:24
Speaker 3: This is important?

02:00:26
Speaker 2: Oh you know.

02:00:28
Speaker 4: Somebody that she liked because he had money.

02:00:30
Speaker 1: That's what this is or that's not that that's a good that could be It could be did you he probably has money? No, personality, no personality, he has no personality. Has a nice car, is a nice house like whatever? Jewelry or let you know, ship that girls like. He probably has that that starter kid.

02:00:48
Speaker 4: For future reference, one time that a girl liked a quiet kid. He was a school shooter at one point. Only the way this works is if he had money. If you date the quiet guy, yeah, quiet man, You don't you like why men that have personality?

02:01:01
Speaker 1: You ain't gonna talk to other women quiet. You don't like a nigga that's gonna sit at the dinitable with you and not say nothing. Quiet. You don't like that. You want to quiet the mother bitches.

02:01:10
Speaker 3: He's quiet.

02:01:11
Speaker 4: You can't flirt with the way.

02:01:12
Speaker 1: You don't be laughing at these bitches like you be quiet with them, but you talk to me, that's what you like.

02:01:16
Speaker 4: But what the bitches is funny?

02:01:18
Speaker 1: Bitches be funny.

02:01:22
Speaker 3: When they come out gigg with another bitch.

02:01:26
Speaker 6: And you got a girlfriend.

02:01:27
Speaker 2: Now women are.

02:01:28
Speaker 1: Fucking when you got a girlfriend. You got a girlfriend of said Chris Rock wasn't funny.

02:01:32
Speaker 2: Yeah, you did say that you shop on that whole special.

02:01:34
Speaker 4: You're losing this argument. Yeah, Also you should text him, that's true. You should you've personalized all.

02:01:40
Speaker 1: These Dedrew, just post a picture of another dude's arm at the table. Best advice, I guarantee you that.

02:01:45
Speaker 2: Your advice is to make the guy jealous. That's your advice.

02:01:48
Speaker 3: It always go find a nigga that really like you, and that's going to give you that.

02:01:51
Speaker 1: They probably don't really like it. Oh, we don't even think about this her energy?

02:01:55
Speaker 3: What if because she's not your type.

02:01:59
Speaker 2: A voicemail like she was saying a lot like maybe also could be the opportunity to look inWORD be like, maybe I'm asking for too much. I'm creating a picture a version of someone. Look at the Mars face doesn't exist.

02:02:17
Speaker 1: It's very I mean you you you like you kind of like went like into a whole nother thing there. I don't think we have to go that deep.

02:02:23
Speaker 2: And we're talking about range rovers and this, but I think.

02:02:25
Speaker 1: No, no, I think that what it could be. What a part that we overlook is what if, Dear Dre it's just not that interesting.

02:02:34
Speaker 3: There just sounds very interesting.

02:02:37
Speaker 1: Off of a thirty second voicemail.

02:02:39
Speaker 3: There just sounds like she has personality enough to where when she's having a conversation, you'd want to have a conversation back with her.

02:02:45
Speaker 1: You could talk, Yeah, but I'm just saying, what if she's just like, what if she's just not like you can only deal with that shit for like eight months.

02:02:53
Speaker 3: All she asking is for a nigga that sound excited to talk to her, and y'all are making her seem like she is asked.

02:02:57
Speaker 2: No, no, no no.

02:02:58
Speaker 1: I'm just saying, we have to.

02:02:59
Speaker 4: We have to.

02:02:59
Speaker 1: We have to just turn over every stone. That's what I said. What if he has a baby mother? You know some days he's just like depressed and he's not he doesn't like talking.

02:03:08
Speaker 2: But we're adding elements.

02:03:10
Speaker 3: We have to.

02:03:11
Speaker 1: We can't just give her. We can't just think that this guy is just a piece of ship and doesn't like her.

02:03:15
Speaker 4: Like, no, let's take away to talk to.

02:03:20
Speaker 3: I just said, That's what I said, talk to you, go find somebody else.

02:03:25
Speaker 2: He could be all right, He's no, we got it.

02:03:33
Speaker 3: He'say, go find somebody like you want to do one more voicemail.

02:03:35
Speaker 2: Before they have the blue che with the homies dirt, That's what Julian.

02:03:39
Speaker 1: He will send us another voicemail in like two weeks giving us an update. Yeah, please let us know how it's going.

02:03:44
Speaker 3: Send me his Instagram and I'm gonna let you know.

02:03:48
Speaker 6: You gotta find your own boyfriend text him back you.

02:03:54
Speaker 1: Yeah, like, what's wrong with you?

02:03:55
Speaker 2: I gotta stop and to call you.

02:03:59
Speaker 1: You just told his other you'll hit you up because because yo, listen, like you ain't betting these calls and just beat niggas right.

02:04:05
Speaker 6: Because we're ripe on.

02:04:07
Speaker 3: They're asking, they're asking for our opinions on things, and we don't have the backstory. So I'm like, listen, we answered this now, but if you want to come to me and give you a backstory, I'll give you.

02:04:14
Speaker 2: You can call in and leave a more detoy to come to me and give me your backstory. Go over it? Can we get it? The next one for yeah, well we'll stay on the relationships.

02:04:24
Speaker 8: Last one, Hey, guys, this is Tony from Biloxi. I'm twenty one years old. I've been talking to this girl that I met at this university that I'm going to. We've been talking from October twenty twenty two to like now no. And I made it very clear about I like her and stuff like that. I don't know, like a romantic leble. And she said she doesn't want to rush things, and that's completely fine. You know, we're still talking and stuff like that. But what I want to get to is just like to not put her stuff out too much. And to make a short.

02:05:10
Speaker 10: I think she's really used to like people doing her dirty and I'm not that type of person. I've been doing right by her for the longest. Not to like bragg or.

02:05:21
Speaker 11: Anything, but that's just it's just what I do. It's just I genuinely care about this girl. But she's constantly like having doubts and just questioning like whether or not I'm going to screw her over or not. She's telling me, oh, you know, it's okay. You know you can just leave if you want to. I'm used to it, and like that's not what I want to do.

02:05:41
Speaker 10: So basically what I'm asking is, is there some way I can like reassure her or is this just up to her to figure out?

02:05:53
Speaker 4: So she's she's reassuring you, Tony, she's going crazy at the university. She's telling you you should leave because this is not gotta work.

02:06:00
Speaker 1: Yeah.

02:06:01
Speaker 4: I hate to break that one to you. That's when you learn with with age.

02:06:04
Speaker 1: Yeah. And another thing, Tony, she sounds like she needs, uh, therapy, therapy. She sounds like she's been through some some things in a previous relationships. She has trust issues, she's still not healed from, you know, previous relationships and things like that. Uh, So continue to it sounds like you have a great, you know, dialogue with each other. You sound like y'all speak a lot about your feelings and things that on your mind. Continue to do that. But at some point, I'm gonna be honest, You're gonna just have to move on, like you're gonna have to start dating somebody else. As much as you know you like this girl. Uh, but it's clearly October until now is like what eight months? Seven months? And I mean how much slower is she trying to take things?

02:06:46
Speaker 4: And in college time, that's that's like yeah, yeah, ten years.

02:06:50
Speaker 1: Yeah yeah. So I mean a good guy. It sounded like a good guy from below Bloxi Bloxi, right, sounds like a good guy, good good, good gentleman. He sounds like a gentleman, but.

02:07:03
Speaker 4: He sounded defeated. I could tell you to.

02:07:05
Speaker 1: Get Tony, get some dog in you, get some dog.

02:07:08
Speaker 4: In you, and she's telling you something you should leave is what I'm saying, you should and.

02:07:12
Speaker 1: You should tell her that. You' like, listen, I got this girl coming over tonight, so you should probably don't change, not in a sexual way, just like y'all have a female friend coming over. You know we're gonna watch the TV. Yeah, you know what I mean. Like she's taking things slow to girl you're talking to, So it's like, all right.

02:07:29
Speaker 2: Well, you know he's not take their dating. He's just saying she thinks it's all going to come to a crashing in because that's what she knows.

02:07:35
Speaker 1: She He also said that she's been she wants to take things slow. That's what he said. And I'm like, October to, now you've been dating, you want to take things slow. I want to know did they even have sex? Shit that?

02:07:45
Speaker 2: Yes?

02:07:46
Speaker 1: How are you answering it like that? You?

02:07:49
Speaker 3: That's why I asked.

02:07:49
Speaker 4: The location he said, was that Bible belt close?

02:07:56
Speaker 2: Yeah, that's that mississipp Where's.

02:07:58
Speaker 4: Yeah, they could be good Christians.

02:08:00
Speaker 1: Oh yeah, they're not having sex.

02:08:02
Speaker 4: There be a lot of Dissanta's votes over there. They may not want to have sex this early.

02:08:06
Speaker 1: No, he wanted Tony want to hit Tony wants to love.

02:08:10
Speaker 2: How she wants to hit other people down, like she's been having sex.

02:08:14
Speaker 1: Yeah, but not with Tony. Tony sounds like he ain't getting none. I know the influx in the voice. He's sounding like he just he's selling. He said that voicemail while he was in bed looking at the ceiling.

02:08:27
Speaker 3: Tony, we love you, don't I don't know that.

02:08:30
Speaker 1: Don't do that.

02:08:31
Speaker 3: I have a conversation with her.

02:08:33
Speaker 4: Man, I don't know he's family.

02:08:36
Speaker 3: Have a conversation with her. And if you don't feel like things are going to change, and you're tired of it and you want more than you leave word. You know that you're a good guy. Don't stop being a good guy because you got with a girl to.

02:08:47
Speaker 1: Bring bring another girl around that look better than her. Watch out fast, shorty, start moving, Watch out quickly, thinks progressing.

02:08:53
Speaker 4: Ma.

02:08:53
Speaker 2: Do you have friends that have gone through that, like they've been done over poorly and they you like the guy it's now in their life, but they don't feel it. Have you had someone like that? Yes?

02:09:03
Speaker 3: I've been also been the girl.

02:09:04
Speaker 2: Yeah, and how's that worked out?

02:09:06
Speaker 3: It's I mean, well, at twenty one, it didn't work out pretty well. As adults, It's kind of like, okay, guys, like y'all, are you need to heal because we can afford therapy now. But at twenty one, it's just like, at twenty one, have you even really been done dirty? You think you've been done dirty, You haven't been done dirty.

02:09:21
Speaker 4: That's what I was about to say, Like how much outside of how much in relationships can you get done dirty at twenty one?

02:09:28
Speaker 1: Yeah?

02:09:28
Speaker 2: Yeah, that one is sixteen. Hit your heart. I'm supposed to go to the prom say we didn't hold hands at social studies.

02:09:35
Speaker 4: Yeah, so Tony, you're gonna be okay. I know it doesn't meeem that way at twenty one, but you are gonna be fine.

02:09:41
Speaker 1: Yeah, she's gonna this girl in a year from now. Wow, you're gonna look back like I can't believe I thought that was my wife. Yeah, it'd be like.

02:09:48
Speaker 2: If you slide to uh, Georgia, you can meet Deirdre in Atlanta and maybe is way too old to baby maybe like I'm young?

02:09:57
Speaker 4: Did you might be like female?

02:09:59
Speaker 1: Who? Yeah?

02:10:06
Speaker 4: Anyways, let's wrap up.

02:10:07
Speaker 1: Thank y'all for leaving these voicemails. Man, he's a very fun and entertaining. I would ask that you just give us a little more detail. Detail. Intel, If you're sending relationship advice, just know you know what's the situation. Is this person somebody you're already intimate with, like you have kids, like something. Just give us a little more detail so we can correctly assess these voicemails and the answer in a more productive I guess progressive manner. I don't know, but either way, this is fun. I appreciate it. Yeah, all right, man, So what you got going on for the rest of the week. Nothing, We're out of here.

02:10:38
Speaker 6: Y're listen, man, We love you, love it.

02:10:40
Speaker 1: We appreciate Yah. Download Rory's album now, Rory different title please.

02:10:45
Speaker 4: I thought it'd be different.

02:10:46
Speaker 1: I thought it'd be different. I thought we would in this episode differently.

02:10:49
Speaker 2: But we're not.

02:10:50
Speaker 1: I'm that nigga. He's just ginger.

02:10:52
Speaker 2: We love you.

02:10:52
Speaker 1: We out peace.