Men Aren’t S*** with Demi Burnett | Golden Hour

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Speaker 1: Welcome back to Golden Hour.

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Speaker 2: I'm Kathy and I'm Susan, and it's so nice. I'm so happy to be back.

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Speaker 3: We are so happy to have you back. We had fun with our guest hosts and but we missed you, Susan. So yeah, I'm glad you're personally, I'm so glad you're back.

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Speaker 2: Thank you.

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Speaker 3: Okay, today we have don't We always have special guests, but this one is a favorite, our favorite bachelor and Paradise Girl, Demmy, and we are so happy to have your high Demi.

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Speaker 4: Hi, I'm so happy to be here. I love chatting with you, ladies. If I've missed you, how are you?

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Speaker 5: I'm good.

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Speaker 2: Yeah, it's nice to see you again.

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Speaker 5: It's so good to see you. I want to hug you.

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Speaker 2: I know, soon, baby soon.

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Speaker 5: Yeah.

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Speaker 2: So what's going on in Demi's world?

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Speaker 5: To me? Well, I mean, what do I do A lot?

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Speaker 4: I stream a lot, a stream playing Fortnite and playing video games.

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Speaker 5: Yeah, so that's what I do a lot.

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Speaker 4: I know I still crochet, so yeah, crocheting and playing a lot of video games. And like I have like a cool little online community now, and you know, it's like slowly growing, but it's just like a safe space where a bunch of girls can play video games together, because if you know anything about video games, it can be like really toxic and scary because the guys are really mean and mess Yeah, so not just.

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Speaker 1: Not just with video games, may I say no.

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Speaker 4: They're literally they ruin everything. They've infiltrated everything, and they've ruined everything. So it's like a nice little safe space for.

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Speaker 5: Girly pops who like to play video games too.

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Speaker 6: Yeah, what about sewing. Have you had the sewing machine now at all?

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Speaker 5: Well?

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Speaker 4: No, but me and my friend we do have a project coming up and we are going to use the sewing machine in June.

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Speaker 5: In June, the sewing machine is going to be used.

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Speaker 2: We are making so all of our listeners know.

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Speaker 6: When we were on Got to Get Out Together, she had an interest in sewing, but hadn't a clue, so I bought her a starter sewing machine.

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Speaker 5: She did, and I have sewed.

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Speaker 4: I've made a pair of pants, I've made a pillowcase, and I've cut out some fabric to make some more pillowcases. I just haven't done it yet, but I'm really excited to do this thing in June because we're like making a surprise dress for one of our friends and so like they're going to be so excited. And also I have like doing it with me, so you know, it's like you can always just get more done with an extra set of hands.

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Speaker 2: That's so exciting it is.

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Speaker 3: I want to be part of your online community. I have to tell you, Demi, I just taught my seven year old granddaughter how to crochet and she is the most crackerjacked chainer you've ever seen. I've got her into single crochane. We're about to learn double crochane. But yeah, I'm the queen of Afghan making with Kroshane.

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Speaker 6: Oh my god, the needle point with her. Yet, Kathy, she's too young.

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Speaker 5: She's young, though, that's so special that you can teach her that.

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Speaker 4: I'm excited because, like the blanket I'm working on right now, a lot of people are like, that's a good family heirloom, and I'm like, you're.

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Speaker 5: So right, Yeah, I'm broke. They better be fighting over it.

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Speaker 6: There you go, all right, dev Now we've seen your tiktoks about wanting to see Taylor's season and that whole taking the Roses back moment.

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Speaker 2: You know, what I'm referring to, right, What were your.

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Speaker 6: Thoughts on the pause and how have you felt watching it all play out?

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Speaker 2: I mean, what are you thinking?

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Speaker 5: I mean absolute cinema.

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Speaker 4: I mean, I am I've never been so hooked and locked in and on something for so long. You know, it's been I mean, it's very unfortunate for everyone involved, but as like a bystander, objectively, it's been very entertaining, and I mean, of course it's also been very sad. It's it's very I have very complex feelings about it, but the ultimate feeling is like, let's see it, release it, you know, let us be it, because so many people worked hard on it, not just her, Like there's a whole and you know what, Fuck them boys. I don't care about the boys, the men. I don't care about their feelings and how they're saving innocince Joan. I'm sorry, I don't care. I don't I'm zero zero.

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Speaker 2: Why do you say that?

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Speaker 4: Because I don't think that we need any more male influencers.

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Speaker 5: I just don't. I don't.

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Speaker 4: I don't think there what are they really doing on the internet? Like women are providing so much inspo and creativity, and we are just stunning to look at.

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Speaker 5: And what are these men doing.

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Speaker 4: All they're doing is getting attention and getting a bunch of DMS from a bunch of women who are better than them and they don't even know it.

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Speaker 2: Oh, women don't get the dms? Is that it?

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Speaker 1: Women get the dm Women get the d ms as well.

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Speaker 4: Well, that's fine, but I'm sure they don't get the same amount.

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Speaker 5: I'm sure not near the same amount.

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Speaker 2: Are you a little biased? Maybe? Like women?

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Speaker 4: The reason that I think that I know this is because I was one of those girls. Before I ever was on the show, I absolutely would have been in their DMS.

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Speaker 5: I probably wasn't. I think I was in Nick Byel's DMS.

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Speaker 4: Like, come on, okay, I know what they're getting, and it's just yeah, it's just disgusts me.

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Speaker 3: Ad.

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Speaker 5: They are mid dude, you don't even have a real job, but.

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Speaker 1: They are must. They have great bodies to look at. Come on, that's something. I mean, you may not want it, but they have great bodies.

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Speaker 3: You know what.

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Speaker 5: I would like to see them do.

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Speaker 4: Clean up something, you know, take care of me, because I've been taking care of myself for like the past however many years I've lived alonely seven years.

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Speaker 5: I'm sick of it. You think to take care of someone else, do absolutely not?

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Speaker 2: Absolutely not.

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Speaker 3: I just want to say, dummy, if you feel that struggling now, I can't wait till you get to be our age.

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Speaker 1: You're gonna be.

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Speaker 3: You're gonna be, you know, taking names and kicking ass. That's that's what you're gonna be doing.

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Speaker 5: Okay, they're not They're not gonna be safe because I'm fed up.

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Speaker 3: All right, so let's get I want to get back to the to the show. It's fed up as you are. Did you ever expect that the show would be paused?

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Speaker 1: Did? Were you surprised that it was paused?

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Speaker 5: I was surprised that it was paused.

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Speaker 4: Honestly, I did not think that it would get paused because the incident that they caused it, I guess you get paused was from a long time ago, and it was as they already had their day in court or whatever over that.

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Speaker 5: So it's like we already knew that something.

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Speaker 4: I mean, we saw on this your life as a Mormon wives, like we already knew like this, really that moment happened. The thing that makes me so sick is that I know that this is just exactly what Dakota wanted.

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Speaker 5: Like the Dakota is a demon himself.

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Speaker 4: Like I think that they both have their issues, but him demon like that is a life ruining man, and he will cause women to go crazy and act out of character and lose like themselves and like all of their toxicity to that. I'm not saying that's one hundred percent what's going on. I need to back it up because I don't know. Also, please don't sue me, all right.

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Speaker 2: That's just your assumption, that's all.

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Speaker 4: This is just this is what I'm seeing, the patterns I'm recognizing, and like, yeah, so I hate that he's winning. I hate that like her not like the season not being aired is like a win for him.

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Speaker 6: Have you got to talk to Taylor at all or any of the guys that were on her season by chance?

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Speaker 5: I don't know. I haven't talked to Taylor at all.

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Speaker 4: Know, the only time I've ever talked to well, I've met Taylor, but you know, her sister comes into my lives sometimes in my live.

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Speaker 5: Streams because there's this through place Fortnight.

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Speaker 4: So I've talked to your sister, but not since then now since everything has gone down, but yeah, it's I mean, what what did you guys think about whenever they it was canceled?

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Speaker 5: What happened?

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Speaker 1: It has been canceled, it has been yea.

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Speaker 5: This is happening.

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Speaker 3: Yeah, I think that you know the network, you know, when when you have that kind of mischig that's going on, you don't want to do the wrong thing, you know you. And I think that's what they're being safer rather than sorry, that's.

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Speaker 2: What that's my opinion.

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Speaker 6: I think now that they paused it, there's so much curiosity out there.

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Speaker 5: Oh my gosh.

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Speaker 4: I mean, I'm dying to see it. Me and all my friends are dying to see it. And and we got the promo, and the promo is stunning. Though.

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Speaker 5: I love someone who's going to come in here and be like, I don't care what you think.

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Speaker 4: The value of this flower is, like I'm taking it bag or whatever, you know, because I infamously came in and picked up the rose and everyone lost their mind over it. So I'd like to see them like breaking. I like to see how she's like breaking the character or breaking the fourth wall almost but not. It's like she's going against like what you're supposed to do on the show, and it's fantastic.

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Speaker 1: What do you why do you do you have any idea?

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Speaker 3: I mean in the promo, we don't really know why she took the roses back to what are your thoughts? What do you think happened? Do you have any idea?

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Speaker 4: And no, but I assume that the men were not acting right, you know they I would do the same thing.

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Speaker 5: I could see myself doing it. That's a thing.

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Speaker 2: Yeah.

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Speaker 5: Yeah, if I.

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Speaker 4: Find out that they're any funny business, any funny business.

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Speaker 2: You're going to go get them.

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Speaker 4: Yes, yes, because I'm not playing those mind games. And you know what, that's probably where she's at in the Bachelorette, is any kind of mind games, anything that's making her question herself or like, you know, think, wait, what's going on?

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Speaker 5: I don't know.

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Speaker 4: That's when she was like, Nope, I'm not doing that anymore because that's what I've been doing with Dakota.

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Speaker 5: So if that's happening to me, I'm taking those roses back.

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Speaker 6: Good point, very very well spoken that I like this. We're going to switch it up just a little bit.

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Speaker 2: You'll come back to it.

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Speaker 3: If you will come back, We're going to come back. You are very strong opinions. But the other thing, uh, Demi, that you have spoken out about is and it is Autism Acceptance Month, and you've been open about your diagnosis and your experience over the past few years.

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Speaker 1: And I know that.

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Speaker 3: You know, people say, we can't ask you, uh to speak for everyone with autism. You know, if you've met, if we're asking you a question about autism, we're asking you your opinion. You're not You're not speaking for the community at large. So let me say that first. But what what are some of the big biggest misconceptions people you think people still have about autism.

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Speaker 5: Well, I think there's a lot.

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Speaker 4: I think there's still like a stereotypical view of autism, which is like, you know, the typical boy who likes trains or doesn't talk and stuff like that. But we're like, we're understanding that it's like being autistic means that you have a different way of like sensing and perceiving the world. So every autistic person there is no Okay, the biggest misconception is that people think it looks a certain way my phone, Like there is no one way it is, so so you could not there's there's no way that you could look at someone and know, because it is so different for everyone that has it, and the spectrum it's not like this, like you're not like on the spectrum a little bit, like a little bit here and then a lot of it here. Like the spectrum is like a circle, and all around the circle are like different things like executive function, communication, verbal communication, stuff like that, like all kinds of things. I've made the chart before, but so so you have like different amounts of all of those. That's like the spectrum. It's not a linear spectrum.

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Speaker 1: Interesting.

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Speaker 6: And there's also touch as some that I've noticed in people like they can't they don't like to be touched.

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Speaker 4: Yes, yes, yes, but some autistic people love to be touched. And some autistic people are actually with a big hug squeezing them can actually regulate them. Whereas for me, I would be panicked and feel trapped.

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Speaker 3: You know, it's so exactly when I then she's running exactly when I you.

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Speaker 5: Oh, no, when you hug me. No, it's different. It's very different because you're very.

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Speaker 3: Safe, very safe. I was doing a little bit of research, you know. I have some friends who are on the on the have the diagnosis of autism and they're some friends who have children are have the same diagnosis. But I came across this article and I was actually curious about your thoughts on it. You know, they talk about Susan and I talk about the love languages. You know this whatever it is, the five love languages, And I was reading an article about people of autism, and that was sending the love languages are different. The pebble, yes, pebble, penguin pebbling, yes, And I thought that was televin what that is because instead of gift giving, it's penguin pebbling, and instead of a physical touch, it's deep pressure. And there were all of them, they went through all of them. But I was so interested to read about that. Can you talk about that a little bit?

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Speaker 4: Yes, I can't remember what they all are, but if you name them then I could tell you more about them. But I remember the penguin pebbling because I just thought that that was so I related to it so much. It's like giving like little gifts that like maybe aren't even a gift, but it's like something that I saw that made me think of you. And it could be something like a cap of a lipstick or something and it's like just something so little, but like it's my way of like showing you like I think of you and this made me think of you, and I want you to.

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Speaker 5: Know, like.

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Speaker 1: That's that's just thoughtful. But gift giving.

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Speaker 4: Sorry, it's like weird little gifts like like not not normal, like like.

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Speaker 5: Okay, Susan, for you, I would give you.

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Speaker 4: This little tiny fake lighter reminds me of you know, I don't want to, but you know what I mean, because i'd be like for in the morning with your coffin, you know, something silly and cute like that.

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Speaker 3: So yeah, and and and that's what I read that it it holds personal meaning to the person.

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Speaker 1: Another one Demi was parallel play.

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Speaker 5: Oh, my favorite, my favorite.

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Speaker 4: It's like you're in the same room with someone and but you're each doing your own thing, so you're not engaging together in the same activity. You're each doing your own activity but in the same.

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Speaker 2: Room at the same time.

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Speaker 4: Yes, yes, yes, yes, And that can like for me, that kind of goes with like body doubling, like uh if usually I'll do it like on FaceTime, like with a friend and she's doing like chores around her house and so like I'm doing chores around my house too, and we're like both doing stuff at the same time, and and or sometimes though she doesn't even have to be doing anything, I just need other presence there to chit chat while I'm doing the chores.

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Speaker 6: Right, normal though, That's that's normal life with girlfriends, is it.

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Speaker 4: Not, Susan, You're probably like onrumrum Yeah, like we're we're so we connected so fast, so I believe, Oh my gosh, yes you have.

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Speaker 5: You have so no social were sometimes Yeah.

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Speaker 2: It's just because I don't have a filter and don't care.

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Speaker 1: Yeah, I live.

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Speaker 4: That's we are conditioned by society to care. So the fact that you don't, that you go against the grain this much screens autism.

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Speaker 6: Okay, but back in my day they didn't diagnose anyone then. No, you know, adhd, I have the whole probably alphabet if you know. But Kathy, Kathy knows how I feel. I lived through my rose colored glasses, and that's the world that I like to choose to live in a happy, kind place.

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Speaker 5: Yes, and you should live there. And I love it there and I love being in your world. Your world is amazing. It is no, it's fabulous, it's so full of love and joy and laughter.

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Speaker 3: Well, Debbie, I want you to come into my world too. We can crochet together, parallel play crochet.

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Speaker 5: Yes, we need. I need to come into Kathy's world some.

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Speaker 4: Yes, because me and Kathy will we'll have some realism there.

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Speaker 6: You know you can make me something I'd like it in pink please, thank you?

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Speaker 1: Okay, I can advantage that.

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Speaker 5: Okay, I to crochet with you. That would be so cute.

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Speaker 1: Guys, Susan, I'm going to teach you a crochet and the three of.

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Speaker 6: Us, how many Afghans back in my day back and heard it.

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Speaker 2: Been there, done that.

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Speaker 3: Okay, I want to know DEMI like because it's you know, things like autism, suicide we've talked about people don't know what to say, they say the wrong thing, they don't know how to ask what What are some ways that you would say that people can move beyond awareness of in this case autism, but actually practice real acceptance.

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Speaker 4: With others totally okay this, Listen to autistic people and maybe ask them like the one A great question to ask is like how can I best support you? Like support support, support, like what can I do to support you? And not saying I can do this to support you, Like, no ask what you can do, because there has been a misconception about autism for so long about like ways to like fix it quote unquote or whatever, and a lot of it is really damaging. And it's like you don't need to force them to do things. It's okay, let them do it at their own pace or whatever. But like a lot of the forcing is really damaging. So like more of like asking questions and also looking into like modern research for yourself. If you have someone in your life who is autistic and you want to know how to support better, maybe look it up so whenever you do ask them, you are like familiar with what they might be talking about.

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Speaker 2: And not make assumptions.

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Speaker 6: Don't assume that you know what's best for that person. Absolutely asking is totally fine.

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Speaker 3: I like it, But Susan, I would, I would DEMI I love your answer. I think that is it's right on the money. But I think it also crosses over into really all relationships. But I'm guilty of this. Let me help you, let me tell you what you need to do. When I think asking in how can I support you?

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Speaker 1: What do you need?

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Speaker 3: Instead of telling someone I think that cuts across all communities' that's a really good reminder, So thank you for saying that.

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Speaker 5: I love that. That's awesome.

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Speaker 4: I feel like a lot of learning about my neurodivergence and like learning about my brain has led into like what I would want in a partner of like understanding myself helps me to have compassion for everyone else as well.

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Speaker 5: But yeah, so it is.

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Speaker 4: It's like you you want someone who's just going to be willing to understand your brain the way that you're understanding your brain, and the way that I'm willing to try to understand everyone else's brain, and how I find compassion for everyone, even you know, when they are being mean or ugly.

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Speaker 6: So if I were to ask you, how could I support you, demy, what would you tell me?

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Speaker 5: You already know be well, you feed this.

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Speaker 2: It's just for everyone that's listening.

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Speaker 5: This is how Susan supported me and got to get out.

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Speaker 4: I told Susan, I said, Susan, I can't go up there and get the food from the place, like I'm too scared to like, I don't know why, I just I'm never gonna eat.

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Speaker 5: I will never eat if you don't help me here.

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Speaker 4: I need you to get me a plate or put enough on your plate for both of us, please. I begged her and she's like, okay, freak whatever, like nice, Susan, nice.

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Speaker 2: She did it.

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Speaker 5: She didn't you immediately did it.

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Speaker 4: She was making me breakfast in the morning, she was always taking she was you were fully supporting me, like and and no one else like. I couldn't have asked anyone else to do that, you know, like I needed you.

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Speaker 3: Well, Debbie, if I'd been there. If I had been there, this would have been a mass would have starved. No, she wouldn't have the fact that I didn't have to cook you food. I just had to go and get it. I would have gone for you three times a day. It's if I said, Demi, how can I support you? And you said could you cook me? Immediately be like, oh god, she's gonna die.

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Speaker 5: No, I just in front of me. I don't care where it comes from.

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Speaker 3: Oh I love you. I love it, Okay. I want to know what is it like? How have you watch Love on the Spectrum? And if you have, what's it like for you to watch a show like that.

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Speaker 5: I've not watched the new season. I've watched a little bit of it.

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Speaker 4: I I really enjoy like seeing I love seeing like autistic personalities, and I love seeing them get to shine and not in a way where everyone's making fun of them. It's in a way where everyone loves them. And I think that that's like some of the coolest stuff I've ever seen.

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Speaker 2: Like would you ever go on the show like that? Would you?

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Speaker 4: I don't think it's I think it's more of like level two level three autistic people. I mean, if they had like more like level one people, then yeah I would, But I mean I don't know. Again, level two, level three means more support needs, and like I already have, like I've low support needs.

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Speaker 5: But like I'm.

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Speaker 4: Already I'm exhausted, you know I am. I'm living off hot and spicy make chickens at this point, Like wait.

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Speaker 1: Why are you exhausted? What's going on?

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Speaker 4: Just like taking care of myself and I have four pets and I clean up after.

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Speaker 5: Them all the time.

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Speaker 1: Four pets.

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Speaker 5: I have three cats and a dog, and you know that's just Do.

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Speaker 1: You want two more cats? I have two gear after cats that need home.

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Speaker 5: No, do you want some cats? I'll give you one.

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Speaker 6: I have to thank you, thank you, Demmy, if there is one, what is the most frustrating narrative or misconception about you that just won't go away?

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Speaker 5: Maybe just like.

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Speaker 4: I kind of like sometimes I wish I mean, but it's okay, but like sometimes I wish that like people understood that, like at the end of the day, deep down, like I don't have a bad bone in my body, Like I really don't. As much as I talk like all my bark, like I'm not gonna I want to do the right thing at the end of the day every time, and I want to do what's right for everyone. Like I really am extremely empathetic. I am very self centered. I get that I am, but I am also like I am very empathetic, and I care about equality more than One of my biggest values is people feeling equal. And yeah, I don't know, I just I want to do the right thing like.

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Speaker 2: People think you don't. Is that the mistakes I.

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Speaker 4: Think that I think that people probably think that you know, I'm malicious and.

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Speaker 3: Uh, people have said me, I don't have a mean button in my body, but I've never thought of you that way, Debbie, So it's interesting to hear you say that.

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Speaker 5: Yeah, I think that I think that maybe people think that I'm I might be a mean girl, or I have been a mean girl before.

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Speaker 2: You Your bark is a chihuahua, not a pit. Okay, just so you.

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Speaker 5: Know, Yeah, it's just you. Yeah, I think that what.

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Speaker 4: You say with bangs, Yeah, I think I think I just you know. But also it doesn't It's okay whatever everyone thinks. Because like, I think that going live has helped me a lot to like I am the same exact way I am on Live off of Live, and so like to get to just like show people like who I am like and just like need a bunch of people that are like minded or like, you know, love it or get along with me and stuff. It's it's a it's like validating and it's like, hey, I'm okay, Yes you are.

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Speaker 3: You are.

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Speaker 1: You're better than I can tell you. You're okay.

00:24:52
Speaker 3: I want to jump to a new topic and one that's near and dear to my heart, Demy, I've heard that you have taken or last time we talked, you'd been taking a break from dating, and are you still taking a break from dating? What do you have any updates on that? Because you know I'm living in cricket land over here. So what's going on with you?

00:25:14
Speaker 1: Nothing?

00:25:15
Speaker 5: Maybe nothing? Not a thing, not a single thing.

00:25:17
Speaker 4: We are closed for business in order to open up, it's gonna be a lot. It's gonna take a lot at this point. Okay, I'm not looking for love anymore. I'm looking for money.

00:25:25
Speaker 5: Okay. I have looked for love and all it left me was broke.

00:25:29
Speaker 4: Okay, I need a stable person with good finances, financial good. I've never had anyone like spoil me when I when I've been dating ever, I've never had someone buying me a bunch of stuff.

00:25:43
Speaker 5: So I'm like, you know what I want that call me crazy?

00:25:48
Speaker 3: I mean, I'd like to say to you that it's right around the corner. But sitting in my not pink chair, it's pretty much the same story that you're living. It just it doesn't you.

00:25:59
Speaker 5: Know what better we are? No, we are better for it.

00:26:02
Speaker 4: Because I saw this thing that said that men men's lives improve with women.

00:26:08
Speaker 5: Women's lives only get worse with men.

00:26:11
Speaker 4: Literally, they only get worse with men, like we are so much happier once they pass away.

00:26:17
Speaker 3: But wait a minute, wait a minute. Two things can be true at one time, right, but what you're saying is there's no hope for us. There's no hope if if we get nothing, we're screwed.

00:26:30
Speaker 5: No, there's hope. There's hope.

00:26:32
Speaker 4: The hope is they start acting right. The hope is we all close them up. Everybody steal her up, and we say no, we're not.

00:26:41
Speaker 5: We have the power.

00:26:42
Speaker 4: We have the power of the b and and we just forgot. And we've been trained to think that we don't. They have literally trained us for years and years and years into submission. But we gotta remember we can make them do anything that we want, because they.

00:26:59
Speaker 3: Particularly they're sixty and you're thirty.

00:27:04
Speaker 5: I don't even I wouldn't even want that, Okay, I know I don't want that. She's like, not going in from that's your man? What do you mean? Come get your man?

00:27:13
Speaker 1: Come get my man. Let me know where bus stop he's at. He's at. I'll be right over, Debbie.

00:27:19
Speaker 2: How about your mom?

00:27:20
Speaker 5: My mom is good.

00:27:22
Speaker 4: My great grandma just passed away finally, I know she's old.

00:27:28
Speaker 5: Wait, grandma's ninety something.

00:27:31
Speaker 2: I don't know exact.

00:27:33
Speaker 5: Yeah, and her mom will lived to be in her nineties too.

00:27:35
Speaker 4: My great grandma, my great great grandma was alive when I was a baby.

00:27:39
Speaker 3: You know what this means, Demy, You've got a lot of years left to find your right person.

00:27:46
Speaker 5: My entire life, I've known my Gigi.

00:27:49
Speaker 4: She has not been with a man because her husband's had passed away already. And so Gigi was so happy because she had her own house with all of her knickknacks everywhere, and it was just everything she wanted.

00:28:00
Speaker 5: And and that's why.

00:28:01
Speaker 4: I think she lives so long, is because she would husbandless for so many.

00:28:05
Speaker 2: Years, and she was happy with what she wanted.

00:28:08
Speaker 5: Yes, everything that she wanted.

00:28:10
Speaker 2: There's something to be said about that.

00:28:12
Speaker 1: Oh god, Okay.

00:28:13
Speaker 4: Well, my mom has been taking care of my granny because my granny, you know, it's devastating for her, but like we all need, it was coming. She she begged my granny to She was like, please let me die, please, I've outlived my body.

00:28:27
Speaker 6: Please And any new updates for your life, any projects?

00:28:31
Speaker 2: And we're going to see you on TV anytime soon or no.

00:28:35
Speaker 4: But I wish I want you to tell who someone talked to Dina Katz and tell her to put me on the traders.

00:28:41
Speaker 1: Please may know what Susan, Let's get the three of us on there.

00:28:51
Speaker 5: Come on, let us be on there. It'd be amazing. It'd be amazing. Stop putting the dudes on there.

00:28:56
Speaker 3: I'm telling you all the shows, all the compet shows that are out there, that's what I want to do. Really well, unless it's unless it's you know, going to uh vander Pump villain having men fall over.

00:29:10
Speaker 1: Me in the hot tub. But you know that.

00:29:14
Speaker 2: Did you go to the Hulu party this year?

00:29:16
Speaker 4: We were the Wow, Yeah, that's so much fun. I know, me and I wanted to go. I wanted to get invited. I was like, I asked my manager invited. But that's okay, you know, you know what, because it's the biggest show in right now. I mean, that's that's the that's the new Bachelor. You know, that's going to get millions of followers.

00:29:41
Speaker 3: Now, Oh, no, way to hold on, Debbie. What do you think about Bachelor coming back, Bachelor's coming Back and Bachelor in Paradise in twenty twenty seven? What's your thoughts on that?

00:29:52
Speaker 5: Oh? Who? Who? Who need the Bachelor? Sorry? Who's a Bachelor?

00:29:59
Speaker 1: I don't know?

00:30:00
Speaker 3: I hope but they said last week it's coming back. Are you excited that they're bringing back Paradise and Bachelor in twenty twenty seven.

00:30:10
Speaker 4: Yes, you know. I'm going to be honest with you. It's really hard sometimes for me to get excited for things that I'm not involved in.

00:30:16
Speaker 5: Do you know what I mean?

00:30:17
Speaker 3: Hey, it's like Susan, You and I must be autistic too, because we're right there with you, dummy.

00:30:24
Speaker 4: It's just that, I mean, most people probably feel that way, they just probably wouldn't say it.

00:30:28
Speaker 5: But I'm so excited for The Bachelor and Bachelor's Parents come back. I'm watching it my friends. I definitely no.

00:30:37
Speaker 1: All right, we're done. We're done. We're done with The Bachelor. We're done. We're moving on because we're not on.

00:30:44
Speaker 3: Okay, that's all for now with Demi, but stay tuned because Part two will be out very soon.

00:30:50
Speaker 1: See you next time.