BONUS: Ask Me About Travel, Tattoos, Tell-Alls & Très Bien Tresses

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Speaker 1: Hello, gorgeous, Happy Monday. Welcome to the bonus episode. We're deep diving. Is that you making your presence Stone? I love that you just said that because I had a picture of a little tiny creature who made a similar noise when we went to Hurst Castle, a gopher, which I was like, they're so cute. And Kristen, who is like very into like she makes floral lorrange arrangements in Utah. She has a floral company, Kristen's Flowers. I believe it is on Instagram. She's actually planning a baby shower that I'm having at the house. But she was like, they will up your yard and I'm like, oh, but they're so cute in the wild. Yeah, So thank you for giving that little Hey, Hi, how are you. We're doing an AMA today, which I'm super excited about because there's really amazing questions. Oh no, I know, let's just deep dive into it now. If you could live anywhere in the world, where would you live Easton? Do you know?

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Speaker 2: Oh my gosh.

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Speaker 1: Anywhere in the world.

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Speaker 2: I don't know. Bally is pretty. I don't know.

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Speaker 1: I know it would be hard because I haven't I.

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Speaker 3: Haven't traveled enough to know yeah, and like if you're going like, do I need to like the people or is it just like I live there.

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Speaker 1: Everything's great, right, I think it would be really really hard. This is what I'm going to say. So if you were to look at my passport right now, it is so mortifying. I think I've left the country once and then we went into a custody battle where it was like you can't travel unless the other person, you know, consented to it, And then leaving the country is just a whole different ballgame that I could not even deep dive into. Like Ocean doesn't even have a passport right now, but now she'll finally be getting one. I would say home base. I would always want to be in Los Angeles. I just I really love it here. I get excited to come home. I love this house, and I actually like the hubbub that surrounds it. You know, I like I do too. I like having neighbors. I like being close to a freeway. I just like hearing noise. I don't know that I would want to be concluded if you were saying like, yeah, she'll still have neighbors in an eye and earshot, but a little bit more property. That would make me happy. But then I would like to have homes kind of everywhere. Like I'd love to have like a chateau and pettie yeah on the outskirts, like a.

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Speaker 2: Travel like being somewhere for like a couple of months and then go somewhere else.

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Speaker 1: Yeah, Like give me a yacht that I can just yacht around.

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Speaker 2: Are my favorite thing is yachting. I love yachting around.

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Speaker 1: I love yachting around too.

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Speaker 2: Who doesn't Joy and Monaco? Oh that's my dream?

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Speaker 1: Really? Yeah, I mean I could get down with that. What all tattoos do you have?

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Speaker 2: Now?

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Speaker 1: Well, you can't even say what tattoos you have because they're all just like a piece.

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Speaker 2: Yeah, I got pieces ginormous.

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Speaker 1: The first tattoo I ever got was lily on the back of my It's not like an ankle butt like.

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Speaker 2: Yeah above your achilles right yeah.

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Speaker 1: On my right leg, and it is so it used to be pretty. But you, guys, if I can give you any advice, if you're going and getting a tattoo, there's this new thing that they do where they put like this plastic over it, but it sticks to the tattoo. Do not do it. Every time I have done that my tattoos have bled like, they get thick. After that, your ink runs, your ink runs like I would highly recommend just telling them to put like the ointment they put on and then just use I.

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Speaker 2: Have a couple. Yeah, I have a couple of tattoos. And I always go back to.

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Speaker 3: The first time I ever got a tattoo, which would like on my collar bones.

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Speaker 2: Yeah, and tattooed done. I use a D ointment.

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Speaker 3: Use whatever you want, but I use A and D and then I cut a small piece of saran wraps and put it on and then tape around it.

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Speaker 1: Yeah, do not have them stick now and what they're like.

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Speaker 3: And it lasts for like twenty four hours or forty eight, don't do it like it.

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Speaker 2: Lasts for a week. Just say I can we not do that? It makes your ink bleed.

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Speaker 1: We'll look at my dad tattoo it because it makes it thick.

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Speaker 2: Yeah.

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Speaker 1: So I've got the lily tattoo. I've got the lion that was a cover up of my ex's initials. I've got a white ink tattoo that says give them La La. I have brand new, which was also not a cover up but a rebrand of my ex. To get your ex's name. I've got mom in her handwriting. I've got Dad in a heart on the back. I've got an orc on my side. I've got heathen on the back of my.

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Speaker 2: Other ailes which your most recent the.

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Speaker 1: Oh, I haven't gotten a tattoo since the O, which was like two years ago. I've got a wave for her as well. I think that's all. Oh, I've got a heart around a lady part of mine. I think I've got thirteen tattoos total, Okay, and I honestly, you know how people say when you get a tattoo, you become addicted. I do believe that's true. The last tattoo I'm going to get is Sosa's name, and then I think I'll be done. I don't think I want any more.

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Speaker 2: Yeah, I want to be covered.

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Speaker 1: Well yeah, I mean you've you've gone far. Mine are just little little tattoos. But I also don't want it to look like I have little sticker tattoo.

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Speaker 2: Yeah, like sticks very very Yeah.

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Speaker 1: Fine, I call.

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Speaker 3: It American traditional, but that's what I think. I think it's American traditional, which is.

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Speaker 1: Like this kind of like the Miley Cyrus.

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Speaker 3: Yeah, like it's a piece and then like next to it are like little stars and then there's another piece like there's no shading.

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Speaker 1: Not exactly, not that I have anything against the Miley cyrus.

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Speaker 2: Look or not much tattoo choice. I love it on certain people.

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Speaker 3: There's like barbers, I don't know what it is about barbers, like with the shave side, with the long hair, with your like ray bands, with like the Dicky's jeans totally, you know that the very West Coast, Yes, and then they have that tattoo, you know, with the tighter shirt with like the vans on.

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Speaker 2: Almost the Paul Walker Oh yeah.

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Speaker 3: Yeah, like the first fast and furious like that. When those dudes have it, I'm like that guy.

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Speaker 1: Fucks slaps he fo Yeah, but I don't. I don't want that for myself.

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Speaker 2: Shading I need, Yeah, Like, it's not for me.

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Speaker 1: I heard Sena talking about how she's working on her sleeve right now, get them pretty hot.

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Speaker 2: Right, Yeah, I'm nervous about my upper arm.

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Speaker 1: Just go to that place that it puts you under.

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Speaker 2: No, I'm going to chich oh.

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Speaker 1: Yeah, chitch back in Utah.

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Speaker 2: Yeah.

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Speaker 1: What is your favorite thing to do with the girl slash kids? Oh that's so hard because I have so much fun doing so many things with them, But I prefer more of an excursion. Like I wish I were the mom that could sit up in the playroom and play like hours of Barbies and then.

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Speaker 2: Do do that, but it's not.

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Speaker 1: I don't, and I'm not going to pretend like I do. Gigi does that all the time's she was just there. Gigi's great at like playing school with Ocean or playing hairdresser, like I just am not good at that. But I love doing an outing. I'm like, oh my gosh, let's go in mini golf. Let's go and do this with this group of friends. Yeah, you know, let's go on an excursion to hers castle and show. We didn't even talk about how Ocean saw sea elephants on the last episode.

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Speaker 2: We were too far. That's for next.

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Speaker 1: That was amazing for Ocean. Ocean is now putting two and two together of like I was named after the ocean. So on the way to see the sea elephants, I told her, like, do you know why Mommy named you Ocean? And she said why mom? I said, because the ocean is very powerful ocean, just like.

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Speaker 2: You, and she.

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Speaker 1: I love that.

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Speaker 2: She's getting a little character and something else.

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Speaker 1: She's so cute. But you guys, when we went up north, the beach was filled with these hefty, hefty women, uh seals, seals, seals, absolutely gorgeous. But let me tell you what's crazy. In December, so it was so peaceful, peaceful, peaceful. You want to know why I looked it up. No, well, yes, the sand on the backs. It becomes very unpeaceful in like December because the male elephant seals make their way to the beach. Men want to establish dominance, and they go crazy on one another, blood everywhere. But now they've all left, and now it's just the women and children on the beach and it is a lovely, peaceful place.

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Speaker 2: No. I could have gone down there and laid down and they wouldn't even have cared.

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Speaker 1: I would have never. Oh that was another thing we taught Ocean though. She was like, I want to go down and pet them, and I said, no, we absolutely don't do that. We absolutely let them be in peace. Would you want them coming up here and petting you? And she goes, yeah, I would be so scary. I said, I know, imagine U's going out there putting them fright, then it will become very unpeaceful, that is for sure.

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Speaker 2: Are you dating me or you?

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Speaker 1: Well, we can both answer no, No, I'm not dating neither am I. And you know I've spoken about this before. I just I'm open to the idea of dating. And then when it really comes down to it, and I spoke to Lisa vander Pump about this and she said, you know, Lala, you they're not going to remember and you have to live for you. And I thought about it and I'm like, but I am living for me. I don't want to take time away from my kids to go on a date with someone right now. Yeah, and maybe that will change.

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Speaker 2: I'm but for no, and you're great.

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Speaker 1: But I think even my mind saying yeah, I'm open to it is I've come a long way.

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Speaker 2: Because there was that door was very shut.

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Speaker 1: It was very very shut. I was like, I'm a lone wolf me and I'm just a mama bear me and these kids. I don't need to go out and do all that. And I was talking to my mom friends the play date that I had and they were like, like, what are you looking for?

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Speaker 2: You guys.

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Speaker 1: By the end of me telling them what I want, they were like, You're never continue to someone else there's no.

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Speaker 2: Freaking walk good luck.

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Speaker 1: I was like, well, this, these are the physical attributes, and then I need someone who doesn't want children. But they can't be older than this. They also can't want to get married. They also have to be okay, if I do want to have another baby, that I'll be getting pregnant with the same donor. And they're like, okay, so you want like an open relationship. No, they have to be in a partnership that is just us too. Okay. But they can't live with you. No, they have to have their own place, but they can stay over sometimes. Would you clear a drawer? No, I'd prefer they just bring a bag. Wow, Okay, good luck, good luck with that.

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Speaker 2: Yeah, that you're done.

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Speaker 1: This person wants to know if they can be my next baby daddy. I think I just answered that.

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Speaker 2: No.

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Speaker 1: Will you write another book? That question comes up a lot, and I think the other day you and I were talking about this, and I was like, maybe I just write a book and I publish it on my own, but I still would have to go through the legal process. I'm sure. Yeah, you can't just publish whatever you want, even if it's your experience.

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Speaker 3: I mean, no, but you've already got like a book out, so it would be easier. You kind of already have a pathway laid, so it would be a little easier.

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Speaker 2: But I think you should write a book.

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Speaker 3: And now that everything's kind of set in stone, is it set in stone? I don't know if any be set in stone, but I feel like it's set in stone enough where you could talk.

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Speaker 1: I don't want to write a book until I can tell the whole story. And there's so many screenshots that I want to post.

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Speaker 2: And I can't get that.

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Speaker 1: Yeah, and like the text message like, if.

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Speaker 3: You're going to write a book, you're not going to just write it to keep people coming, Like you're going to do it.

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Speaker 2: To do it right.

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Speaker 1: Yeah. And I think once the story is complete, I think it'll be a hefty book. I would want a few people to participate because I think that it would be not only my story but also educational.

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Speaker 2: Yeah.

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Speaker 1: And I believe that that day will come, Like there will be a day when when people know the full story of where I left off from the Give Them La La book to where we are now. Yes, how do you find strength to chase your goals when your whole world is falling apart. Oh my god, Hope. I think that that's a really tough one because I think when your world is falling apart, everything takes a back seat to just surviving the day. And I think that that's okay.

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Speaker 2: Hope. Sometimes you just got to hope. I get through on hope.

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Speaker 3: Maybe stupid, maybe something all. There's a lot of times where I'm like, you know what, I'm beaten. I don't feel like it. I'm I'm banking on hope today.

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Speaker 2: I hope I can get through.

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Speaker 1: I love this because I've I think I live on hope in a prayer most days. But this there's a follow up, she said, especially when you've got a kiddo looking up to you saying she wants to be like you one day. I think, Chelsea, my love, you're doing I.

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Speaker 2: Think you're doing very doing it.

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Speaker 3: Yeah, I think you're being too hard on yourself with her just saying she wants to be like you. That should I should let you know that you're doing everything just fine.

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Speaker 2: Yeah.

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Speaker 1: I think when you look around and your world is falling apart, like you don't have the energy to be thinking about your goals. And you know, I talked about this last episode, maybe two episodes ago that I had a conversation with Erica Jane where we were both talking about when your world falls apart, it's just enough to survive, and at one point we both thought, I don't care if I'm living in a box. I just want inner peace. And when everything kind of changed in my life, my entire world was just about getting out of that bed and making sure that my kid was taken care of. There were no goals, no, and then you start realizing, like, wow, I have a strength I didn't know I possessed that actually does look nice. I'm gonna chase that goal. And then the goals become bigger and greater and grander, and you start accomplished them. So I think, like you said Easton living on Hope, saying this will not last forever, Like I know your your world is falling apart, but we always talk about this too shall pass. The best part about hitting rock bottom is there's nowhere to go but U and at the end of it, you're going to look back and go, Wow, had my world not fallen apart like that, I wouldn't have the strength that I have. Now we're like, I'm not scared of shit.

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Speaker 2: Yeah, that's the other thing. You build a lot, You build a lot of character in that.

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Speaker 1: This person said, why is Easton's accent so fia us ozzie gals can't get enough? That is really cute.

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Speaker 2: What's so great is I love a good as accent too?

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Speaker 1: Well, Hello, let's look at her. I'll take a screenshot. Any assis coming at your pink moon is saying in your in your zodiac sign that you're gonna make international.

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Speaker 2: Hopefully a little.

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Speaker 1: Bay girl moving you into the We're moving into the valves. It's all pound right. Bedtime routine tips for my five and a half month old, Oh, the best thing, I would say five and a half months. I don't know how your baby's skin is. My baby skin cannot handle a bath every night. She gets so dry, she becomes extremely chapped. Cheeks are like all stretched. And it doesn't even matter that I'm moisturizing her every night, like the water in La is just a rock. Yeah, I would say the best thing to do for your five months a good baby lotion. I love the lavender baby lotion by Tubby Todd and I do that whole thing where we massage the feet. I also love Dotara oils. There's a dough Tara on guard that I put on the bottom of the feet, and then dough Tara breathed that I put on the chest in the back. And then there's always the same book that I read at night. I switch off between three where she knows it's time to go to bed, and then my love, you need to get Baby Merlin's Magic sleepsuit. You can get them on Amazon, and that is like game changer for Sosa. So all right, I'm going to leave it on this one because I love that this person's talking about my hair.

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Speaker 2: It looks so great.

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Speaker 1: Hair's looking heart eyes. What is your routine? How many times a week do you wash? Slash heat? Well, I'm just seeing like I'm lucky to be getting in a wash a week because I just I am trying to get rid of the dead right, and then Sosa ripping on it is not helping the split ends. I also, I post about neutrafol and there's always a code you guys, I actually take it. I'm not just posting that because there's a code and whatever you guys think about spawn on Like, I'm actually taking neutrafl and it is helping my hair. Tremendously and they have them for so many like postpartum women's if you're vegan, they have a capsule for that. I would also say I let my hair air dry most of the time, but I don't have any curls, so depending on that as well. Also let your let just natural hair, rock, let your hair hair, let your hair hair. That is what I say. You've got the best hair. I think Sosa has your hair like the thick course.

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Speaker 3: I was going to do a pole and say dreadlocks or curls and just see the landslide of that.

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Speaker 1: Maybe I'll do it today. The thing is, though, you're not going to listen to the pole.

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Speaker 2: I just want to see they're all.

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Speaker 1: Going to say curly. They're all going to say curly.

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Speaker 2: Wow.

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Speaker 1: Sosas your hair, thank God, and Mom's and Ocean has mine thin fine strands. You can get a little mullidy, but it's fine. It's all it around you guys. Thank you for writing into the give them While a pod page with your questions. I love when we all participate and have fun convos. Thank you for listening to another bonus episode. Next week's bonus I'm super hyped about because we're going to be talking Real Housewives of Beverly Hills okay in part two, and also the Sweetelebrity is coming to a close. Our brackets. You guys have been voting, which I appreciate. The link is in the bio on the podcast page. We're gonna be breaking down the winner of the Final four and also the overall winner. Who's taking it home? What is your projection? I'm thinking Erica Jane.

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Speaker 2: I'm thinking Erica Jane, or I was gonna say Kyle.

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Speaker 1: You're gonna say Kyle. I think at the very end of this, it's gonna be a face off between Kyle and Eric j. BH is taking yeah, and it'll be a face off of friends. So you're you're okay, what are you gonna give me if I win? I think EJ's taking it. You think Kyle's taking it. You're buying me dinner?

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Speaker 2: Deal?

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Speaker 1: All right? I love it. Thank you guys, and we'll catch you on next week's bonus and then you know the drill. We'll see you Wednesday. Love you, bye bye.