Bimbofication and Byron Noem: Lydia Love Breaks Her Silence

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<v Speaker 1>world Got Official. So my guest today has spent ten
<v Speaker 1>years in the adult industry as a webcam model, femdown performer,
<v Speaker 1>OnlyFans creator, and cam's studio owner. She's built a career
<v Speaker 1>from the ground up in the digital age and now
<v Speaker 1>runs her own agency helping other models do the same.
<v Speaker 1>But if her name sounds familiar right now, it's probably
<v Speaker 1>not because of any of that. Lydia Love is the
<v Speaker 1>first of Byron Nomes camgirls to speak out publicly after
<v Speaker 1>it emerged that the husband of the former Homeland Security
<v Speaker 1>set secretary, Christy Noam had allegedly been a regular client
<v Speaker 1>of hers for femed on sessions for over a two
<v Speaker 1>year period. But she didn't go looking for this story.
<v Speaker 1>She didn't even know who he was until the photos
<v Speaker 1>surfaced and she recognized his face in the news. And
<v Speaker 1>trust me, she has a lot to say about it.
<v Speaker 1>We'll get to all of that, but first we're going
<v Speaker 1>to start from the beginning. With Lydia Love. Welcome to
<v Speaker 1>the show.
<v Speaker 2>Thank you for having me, of course.
<v Speaker 1>Thank you so much for being here, of course, and
<v Speaker 1>thank you for your patience.
<v Speaker 2>Oh worth the wait, Okay, worth the wait. They astead
<v Speaker 2>of that county.
<v Speaker 1>Oh my god. Yeah she got here like I don't know,
<v Speaker 1>good hour ago and the furniture got delivered and you know, anyways.
<v Speaker 2>Say took care of me. I got coffee, yeah, good, Yes.
<v Speaker 1>Got coffee, talked about getting an OFTV channel, all kinds
<v Speaker 1>of stuff we had time. Yeah, all right, So let's
<v Speaker 1>start at the beginning, like we always do. How did
<v Speaker 1>you first get into the adult industry?
<v Speaker 3>So in twenty sixteen, I turned eighteen years old, and
<v Speaker 3>essentially the week I turned eighteen, I hopped on a
<v Speaker 3>cam site. I was familiar with it through like Twitter.
<v Speaker 3>Someone actually had reached out to me before I was eighteen,
<v Speaker 3>and I didn't tell them content or anything. They reached
<v Speaker 3>out and asked me if I was a webcam model,
<v Speaker 3>and I was like, what is that? And they asked
<v Speaker 3>if I had an Amazon wish list, And so the
<v Speaker 3>seed was kind of planted. And I didn't look down
<v Speaker 3>on the industry or anything. I didn't look down on dancers.
<v Speaker 3>So as soon as I turned eighteen, I jumped.
<v Speaker 1>In, Wow, and did you have like ambitions to do
<v Speaker 1>something else before then?
<v Speaker 3>Well, I always kind of knew that I was going
<v Speaker 3>to have an unconventional job. I didn't know what it was.
<v Speaker 3>I was like, I want to be business own. I
<v Speaker 3>don't know what it was. At the time I was
<v Speaker 3>working at when I first started, was working at Talco Belt.
<v Speaker 3>I was also a CNA, and then I became a
<v Speaker 3>strip club waitress. So I did like a bunch of
<v Speaker 3>different jobs. I think that I was kind of going
<v Speaker 3>the direction of maybe being a.
<v Speaker 1>Therapist, which you kind of are model.
<v Speaker 3>Oh exactly, And I wanted to be like a sex
<v Speaker 3>related therapists, like kind of helping people through their like
<v Speaker 3>sexual traumas or things like that.
<v Speaker 2>And so in a way, yeah, yeah, I do that.
<v Speaker 1>There's a lot of emotional labor in being a cam model.
<v Speaker 1>There is so much, especially camming, because you guys have
<v Speaker 1>one on one direct interaction with fans. And like, I mean,
<v Speaker 1>how long do you average like cam for because like
<v Speaker 1>the hours that I hear.
<v Speaker 3>Oftener, Yeah, so I mean I've done like twelve hour session.
<v Speaker 3>I think my longest session ever was eighteen hours, but
<v Speaker 3>typically I try to hit three hours like a day
<v Speaker 3>if it's a streaming day.
<v Speaker 2>But it really just varies for me.
<v Speaker 3>Yeah, I'm kind of in a place where I don't
<v Speaker 3>have to do the crazy hours. If I do three
<v Speaker 3>hours a day, you know I'm ranking on the site.
<v Speaker 3>I'm doing great.
<v Speaker 1>So yeah, yeah when you started, were you doing much
<v Speaker 1>longer sessions?
<v Speaker 2>Yeah?
<v Speaker 3>I was doing much longer sessions and I was not
<v Speaker 3>making good money at all. Like I would probably do
<v Speaker 3>like five hours and make twenty bucks and be like, yeah,
<v Speaker 3>I got grocery money.
<v Speaker 2>Let's go at all.
<v Speaker 1>So question for you, because you know the this is
<v Speaker 1>a contentious topic that I hear so often. You know,
<v Speaker 1>a lot of people believe that eighteen is too young
<v Speaker 1>to get into the industry. Being older now having been
<v Speaker 1>in the industry for a while, how do you feel
<v Speaker 1>about that? Do you think you should have waited or
<v Speaker 1>do you think it was the right time for you?
<v Speaker 2>For me personally, it was the right time.
<v Speaker 3>I think that the industry saved me from like being
<v Speaker 3>in more unsafe situations like at the time I was,
<v Speaker 3>I was on my own. I went through a phase
<v Speaker 3>where I was essentially homeless, like living in motels, and
<v Speaker 3>if I didn't have the option to get on a
<v Speaker 3>campsite or go work at the strip club, maybe I
<v Speaker 3>would have been in even more unsafe situations trying to
<v Speaker 3>get money in other ways. So for my personal situation,
<v Speaker 3>it worked out for me. You know, ten years later,
<v Speaker 3>I have a great life.
<v Speaker 2>I love it.
<v Speaker 3>But I think it's really subjective, Like it's hard for
<v Speaker 3>me to say a hard no.
<v Speaker 2>You shouldn't be eighteen and do this. Now.
<v Speaker 3>If I talk to an eighteen year old tomorrow and
<v Speaker 3>they said I think I want to join the industry,
<v Speaker 3>I'd be like, have you tried other things? Like have
<v Speaker 3>you done anything else yet? Like I have a sister
<v Speaker 3>who's twenty, and because of me, she doesn't want to
<v Speaker 3>be in the industry because I don't know, she just
<v Speaker 3>has her own opinions. But if she came to me,
<v Speaker 3>I would be so terrified because there's just so many
<v Speaker 3>things that can go wrong. You know, there's a lot
<v Speaker 3>that can go right, but there's a lot of things
<v Speaker 3>that can go wrong for someone that young. Your brain's
<v Speaker 3>not developed. I yeah, just navigated it correctly, I think, yeah.
<v Speaker 1>I mean I will also say that, you know, when
<v Speaker 1>people ask me about getting into the adult industry. I
<v Speaker 1>always suggest and I've always done this, like before I
<v Speaker 1>even knew. I mean, obviously, like now being partnered with Stripchat,
<v Speaker 1>I know a lot more about camming than I used to.
<v Speaker 1>But I've always suggested camming is a good start because
<v Speaker 1>it's a You're in a safe place, you're separated from anyone,
<v Speaker 1>You're in your own bedroom, you can turn it off
<v Speaker 1>at any time, and you know you're in complete control
<v Speaker 1>over anything and everything that happens. There's nobody who's telling
<v Speaker 1>you like how to unless you get caught up with
<v Speaker 1>an agency or and one of those weird camras are.
<v Speaker 2>Weird caam agencies I didn't know existed.
<v Speaker 3>But no, when people come to me, I always recommend
<v Speaker 3>cam I mean, the thing is a lot of people
<v Speaker 3>nowadays they see girls and only fans that seem to
<v Speaker 3>have hit overnight success and caming is a grind and
<v Speaker 3>it can really really pay off, but it takes work.
<v Speaker 3>And I would say when people enter the industry, I'm like,
<v Speaker 3>why would you not cam Because they bring you the traffic,
<v Speaker 3>they bring you the audience.
<v Speaker 2>You just have to build it.
<v Speaker 3>It's not the same as only fans where you have
<v Speaker 3>to have ten social media accounts and you have to
<v Speaker 3>put on TikTok and helpe you go viral. It's like
<v Speaker 3>they're bringing you traffic. But also sometimes people hear the
<v Speaker 3>percentage they take and get scared, But they're bringing you traffic,
<v Speaker 3>like you don't. You get to stream and you don't
<v Speaker 3>really have to do all the other things that people
<v Speaker 3>do to grow and only fans.
<v Speaker 1>So yeah, it's definitely a trade off. And I think
<v Speaker 1>you really hit the nail on the head. And this
<v Speaker 1>is something that you know, we talk about a lot,
<v Speaker 1>especially like I said now that I'm partnered with stripchat,
<v Speaker 1>because it is because ever since only Fans blew up
<v Speaker 1>and became such a big thing, and you know, it's
<v Speaker 1>changed the adult industry or industry like one percent. And
<v Speaker 1>I'm like so grateful to only fans because it's really
<v Speaker 1>enabled me to, you know, try different things. And actually,
<v Speaker 1>if it hadn't been for only fans, I wouldn't have
<v Speaker 1>been able to take certain chances and start new ventures
<v Speaker 1>that actually ended up leading to me becoming introduced to
<v Speaker 1>strip chat and forming a partnership with them. But I
<v Speaker 1>wouldn't have been able to get there if I hadn't
<v Speaker 1>had the income from only fans that allowed me to
<v Speaker 1>like step away from directing because that's such a time
<v Speaker 1>consuming thing. And then there's you know, that's all you
<v Speaker 1>can do. But you know these stories of these girls
<v Speaker 1>making millions and millions of dollars, and you can make
<v Speaker 1>a crazy amount of money on OnlyFans if you have
<v Speaker 1>that social media following, but you have to have that following,
<v Speaker 1>and so many people don't have that, and it's hard
<v Speaker 1>to get there, especially with how unfriendly social media sites
<v Speaker 1>are too us. I mean, I know that you've had
<v Speaker 1>experiences with that.
<v Speaker 3>Yeah to tiktoks down this week, baby, So yeah.
<v Speaker 1>I mean you just keep building like new ones.
<v Speaker 3>And yeah, every time I get to like a hundred,
<v Speaker 3>I was gonna just get taken out. Like I get
<v Speaker 3>a hundred thousand followers on TikTok, it's gone. It's crazy,
<v Speaker 3>which is I'm this is why I love camming, because
<v Speaker 3>it's like I can stream and I make my money
<v Speaker 3>and social media secondary. You know, I'm sad about losing
<v Speaker 3>my tiktoks, but I can go on cam and make
<v Speaker 3>incredible money for the month.
<v Speaker 2>Still.
<v Speaker 1>So you said at the beginning when you first started
<v Speaker 1>camming that you really weren't making a lot of money.
<v Speaker 1>What got you past that hump? Like how did you
<v Speaker 1>get to a place where it was like a viable
<v Speaker 1>career and you were like, Okay, this can like fund
<v Speaker 1>my lifestyle.
<v Speaker 3>I started camming twenty sixteen, and then the end of
<v Speaker 3>twenty seventeen twenty eighteen, I was really clip heavy. I
<v Speaker 3>joined a clip site and I went all in and
<v Speaker 3>then I took a break from camming during that time.
<v Speaker 3>And when I went back to camming, I had built
<v Speaker 3>like a little following online and I was in a
<v Speaker 3>good place to where I had an apartment. I wasn't
<v Speaker 3>going from you know, basement to motel six to wherever
<v Speaker 3>I was in. I was just in a different place
<v Speaker 3>in life where I could really commit the time to it.
<v Speaker 2>And I think that was the.
<v Speaker 3>Major change is that I treated it as more of
<v Speaker 3>a job, like I want to build something in this
<v Speaker 3>rather than I'm going to log on on a Wednesday
<v Speaker 3>at around random time, on a Friday at random time.
<v Speaker 3>I like, I really made a set schedule. And so
<v Speaker 3>then I remember my first day back from camming after
<v Speaker 3>not streaming for like six months, I had my first
<v Speaker 3>thousand dollars day and what I was like twenty years
<v Speaker 3>old at the time.
<v Speaker 2>It was incredible.
<v Speaker 1>So from what I understand, Like, I mean, honestly, this
<v Speaker 1>applies to all you know, adult content like platforms. But
<v Speaker 1>usually people like find their niche and like the one
<v Speaker 1>thing that like really works for them. Yeah, how did
<v Speaker 1>you find that? Like when you started, did you just
<v Speaker 1>have no idea like what you were into what to do?
<v Speaker 1>And then like how did you get to a point
<v Speaker 1>where You're like, oh, this is my thing?
<v Speaker 2>No idea.
<v Speaker 3>I remember my first interview I ever did. I think
<v Speaker 3>I was like nineteen years old, and they actually asked
<v Speaker 3>me like, oh, what are you into like my personal kings,
<v Speaker 3>you know, outside of work. I was like, I have
<v Speaker 3>no idea. I'm nineteen, I don't really know. And then
<v Speaker 3>as I started camming, I'm a really open minded person
<v Speaker 3>and I kind of like to do things like for
<v Speaker 3>the experience, you know, So someone could come to me
<v Speaker 3>and have a crazy fetish and I'm like, sure, let's
<v Speaker 3>let's try it.
<v Speaker 2>And so I kind of just did whatever.
<v Speaker 3>I did the more vanilla stuff where it was just masturbation,
<v Speaker 3>and then I'd do the fetish stuff and eventually I
<v Speaker 3>just somehow built a femdom audience. I mean, I kind
<v Speaker 3>of feel like it started on TikTok. A lot of
<v Speaker 3>people found me that way. I started talking about my
<v Speaker 3>like femdom experiences on cam and then they just found
<v Speaker 3>me on cam and so now, yeah, I'm on a
<v Speaker 3>pretty I'm on a camp site that's pretty like Vanilla,
<v Speaker 3>Like it's very porny, but somehow I have a large
<v Speaker 3>femdom audience on there and vanilla people too, So yeah.
<v Speaker 1>How did you find that, Like femdom was your thing though,
<v Speaker 1>because you have to have a certain kind of attitude.
<v Speaker 3>I just thought it was fun, Like I genuinely it
<v Speaker 3>excited me, like I didn't I didn't know that I
<v Speaker 3>was into it. And at the time, I was like, oh,
<v Speaker 3>I'm a sub forever, I'm a sub only and that's it.
<v Speaker 3>And then I just started exploring it. And I feel
<v Speaker 3>like I've learned a lot about my sexuality, like through
<v Speaker 3>the job, and I just.
<v Speaker 2>Think it's fun. I love.
<v Speaker 3>I think something about means I love giving people like
<v Speaker 3>the experiences that they want. So when someone comes to
<v Speaker 3>me and says, this is what I'm into and maybe
<v Speaker 3>they're feeling shame about it, maybe they're feeling like they
<v Speaker 3>don't have an outlet for it.
<v Speaker 2>I love being that person to give them the experience.
<v Speaker 1>So yeah, So, speaking of like kinks and all of that,
<v Speaker 1>what are some of the more like interesting custom requests
<v Speaker 1>that you've gotten? Are like interesting and well, we'll get
<v Speaker 1>into like the obvious elephant in the room at some point,
<v Speaker 1>but I don't want to touch on that yet.
<v Speaker 2>Yeah.
<v Speaker 3>Okay, Well there's a couple that I talked about this
<v Speaker 3>one the other day, and there's someone who his thing
<v Speaker 3>is me pumping a pedal of an old truck.
<v Speaker 1>Okay, I've heard this before, what y pumping?
<v Speaker 3>What?
<v Speaker 1>Yes, I've heard this at some other It might have
<v Speaker 1>been Candlebox, who like was the queen of custom requests,
<v Speaker 1>and there was someone who loved her pumping on like
<v Speaker 1>a like a pedal like an.
<v Speaker 3>Old truck, and he wants the foot arched in little shorts.
<v Speaker 3>So I don't have an old truck. So I just
<v Speaker 3>use YouTube bodios and I'm like playing like the engine
<v Speaker 3>Revy and I'm.
<v Speaker 2>Like it's not working, and then YouTube audios are really
<v Speaker 2>really good.
<v Speaker 3>I think more people don't utilize it because I have
<v Speaker 3>another guy who's the thing is that he wants his
<v Speaker 3>heart to stop, and like he'll call me on sex
<v Speaker 3>Panther and he'll be like yeah, my, like he'll just
<v Speaker 3>start talking to me and then he'll start going out
<v Speaker 3>of it kind of and I'm like, oh, no, are
<v Speaker 3>we losing him?
<v Speaker 2>Are we losing him?
<v Speaker 3>And so then we have like the little flatline audio
<v Speaker 3>on YouTube and the what is it called defibrillator.
<v Speaker 1>Yeah, defibulator that like shocks you.
<v Speaker 3>I was in Paris with my best friend recently and
<v Speaker 3>he's one of her clients too, and so we were together,
<v Speaker 3>we were both nurses, and we were talking back and forth.
<v Speaker 2>Like we're losing him, We're losing.
<v Speaker 1>Him, and like an episode of Gray's Anatomy.
<v Speaker 2>I don't know any about this. I'm like, CNA school
<v Speaker 2>did not prepare me for this. We're like cool here,
<v Speaker 2>we like do the shock.
<v Speaker 1>We were dying.
<v Speaker 3>I'm really sure I recorded the behind the scenes of
<v Speaker 3>this because it was so funny.
<v Speaker 1>Oh my god. So and this is all just audio stuff.
<v Speaker 1>I fits sex Panther, right, Yeah, yeah.
<v Speaker 3>I like phone calls, video call, that's not it is
<v Speaker 3>so fun. Yeah, it's just ones like that. Sometimes I'll
<v Speaker 3>do like video on there but this one is a
<v Speaker 3>phone call, which is great because how would I explain
<v Speaker 3>that I don't have a defibrillator exactly?
<v Speaker 1>Oh my god, that's amazing. Yeah. The pedal pushing, Yeah,
<v Speaker 1>I've heard.
<v Speaker 2>I think I've never Wow.
<v Speaker 1>I think for Candle though, it was she to be
<v Speaker 1>wearing heels. Okay, they may maybe like red heels or something,
<v Speaker 1>but it was definitely that.
<v Speaker 2>What do you think it is?
<v Speaker 1>I have a feeling that probably they were in the
<v Speaker 1>car with somebody that they were attracted to at like
<v Speaker 1>a very specific time in their life. Usually fetishes are
<v Speaker 1>born from what I am understand, Usually fetishers are born
<v Speaker 1>out of like something that happened during like a kind
<v Speaker 1>of sexual awakening moment. So usually during adolescence. That's why
<v Speaker 1>a lot of you know, guys are into like older women,
<v Speaker 1>Like there's a hot teacher or something that like you know,
<v Speaker 1>gave them boners in class or something like that, like nylons,
<v Speaker 1>like you know what I mean.
<v Speaker 3>Yeah, I took a human sexuality class and we learned that,
<v Speaker 3>and I'm like this makes so much sense.
<v Speaker 2>Like all the guys that.
<v Speaker 3>Like wearing panties and stuff, I'm like, they probably got
<v Speaker 3>in trouble for like wearing someone's panties a certain time.
<v Speaker 1>You know, yeah, I think it has something to do
<v Speaker 1>with that. So my guess would be at experience or
<v Speaker 1>there was a TV show there was some sexy girl
<v Speaker 1>was trying to start the car and she could you
<v Speaker 1>know what I mean, and it just like stuck in
<v Speaker 1>their head.
<v Speaker 4>Was it a scary movie because you know scary movie? Well, yeah,
<v Speaker 4>and there's always boobs and scary movies. Yeah, the hot
<v Speaker 4>girl always dies first. Yeah, so who knows. I mean,
<v Speaker 4>I've always wanted to like ask guys like where their
<v Speaker 4>fetishes come from.
<v Speaker 3>I'm a very like inquisitive person, and it's so hard
<v Speaker 3>in the middle. Like sometimes I get people's kings that
<v Speaker 3>are so specific.
<v Speaker 2>I'm like, and what made you like this?
<v Speaker 4>You have judgment, but like I need to know, but
<v Speaker 4>keep it sexy so that I.
<v Speaker 2>Can't And I'm like it just haunts me at night
<v Speaker 2>and just getting down on my journal.
<v Speaker 1>So you own IGF Studio, which helps other models build
<v Speaker 1>their careers within their own personal boundaries. What made you
<v Speaker 1>want to build that? And what does that look like?
<v Speaker 2>Yeah?
<v Speaker 3>So it's an online webcam studio, so it's not the typical.
<v Speaker 3>You know, they go into a place and then they
<v Speaker 3>stream from the Are you familiar.
<v Speaker 2>With webcam studios?
<v Speaker 1>Yes, I am.
<v Speaker 2>Okay, so they're less common in the US in Columbia.
<v Speaker 3>Yeah, yeah, I've been to some in Columbia and yeah,
<v Speaker 3>they're pretty cool. The one that I went to they
<v Speaker 3>have a dentist office in the studios.
<v Speaker 2>Yeah, it's really cool.
<v Speaker 1>And wait, like a real one.
<v Speaker 3>Yeah, they like do dental work for the girls and stuff.
<v Speaker 3>Oh yeah, no, it's amazing. It's a it's a crazy studio.
<v Speaker 3>I did a vlog of me touring it.
<v Speaker 2>Oh really, it's really cool.
<v Speaker 3>I'm someone who travels a lot, so I didn't have
<v Speaker 3>the funds or the lifestyle to have one in person,
<v Speaker 3>especially in America, it's so expensive. So I started realizing
<v Speaker 3>that all of these OnlyFans agencies were popping up, and
<v Speaker 3>I heard horror stories. I mean, we've all heard of
<v Speaker 3>bad ones, right, we've heard of good ones, We've heard
<v Speaker 3>of really bad ones. I heard of them taking fifty percent,
<v Speaker 3>sixty percent. And I, throughout my career, have put out
<v Speaker 3>so much like free advice, like my YouTube channels dedicated
<v Speaker 3>to it, on my social media, like I love helping
<v Speaker 3>other webcam models, and I thought, how can I turn
<v Speaker 3>this passion project you know of me posting informative content
<v Speaker 3>into a business that doesn't exploit models, doesn't you know,
<v Speaker 3>influence people to do things outside of what they want
<v Speaker 3>to do. And we only take five percent because I'm
<v Speaker 3>I do I'm not doing it to live off of it.
<v Speaker 3>I'm doing it because you know, I want to employ
<v Speaker 3>people and I want to help people in their careers.
<v Speaker 3>And so that's kind of where it started, is just
<v Speaker 3>the idea of, Okay, what.
<v Speaker 2>Can I give people that I wish I had in
<v Speaker 2>the beginning.
<v Speaker 3>Because I was eighteen years old, which sorry, eight to
<v Speaker 3>the eighteen year olds, I wouldn't. I would not let
<v Speaker 3>an eighteen year old join the studio, But you know,
<v Speaker 3>people who are joining it and they don't know what
<v Speaker 3>to do, we can give them those tools and support.
<v Speaker 2>So and my team is really awesome.
<v Speaker 1>What do you think about when you think back to
<v Speaker 1>when you were eighteen that you wish you'd done differently?
<v Speaker 3>Well, I'm not really the kind of person that looks
<v Speaker 3>back on my life and is like I would change anything,
<v Speaker 3>because it got me exactly where I am. So it's
<v Speaker 3>hard for me to kind of think of what I
<v Speaker 3>would do differently, because I think life just goes the
<v Speaker 3>way it should.
<v Speaker 1>Yeah, everything happens for a yeah.
<v Speaker 3>Yeah, So it's hard for me to look back and
<v Speaker 3>be like, oh, I wish I didn't do that, because
<v Speaker 3>you know, are there things that I could have not done? Yeah,
<v Speaker 3>I could have not done shows for two dollars you
<v Speaker 3>know or whatever. Yeah, but it got me here, so yeah,
<v Speaker 3>part of my journey. I'm nice to my past self.
<v Speaker 1>So a lot of people have a pretty service level
<v Speaker 1>idea of what webcam modeling actually involves. What do they
<v Speaker 1>consistently get wrong.
<v Speaker 3>I think a lot of people think we literally just
<v Speaker 3>get on cam, we just start getting straight to it, masturbating,
<v Speaker 3>going crazy, And I would say it's different for everyone,
<v Speaker 3>but like I spend the majority of my time talking
<v Speaker 3>and hanging out and yeah, being in my cute little lingerie.
<v Speaker 3>But I would say, like the sexy parts of it
<v Speaker 3>are probably like twenty percent and the rest is just
<v Speaker 3>really hanging out with my audience.
<v Speaker 2>So I would say that people think it's easy.
<v Speaker 3>You just get on get straight to it, and you
<v Speaker 3>make thousands of dollars and the grind is crazy.
<v Speaker 2>The camgirl grind is crazy.
<v Speaker 1>It takes a while to build an audience.
<v Speaker 2>It does.
<v Speaker 3>Yeah, it's kind of like I mean, cam girls were
<v Speaker 3>here first, but it's kind of like a twitch streamer,
<v Speaker 3>you know, like they don't just get on and they
<v Speaker 3>have yeah, thousands of viewers.
<v Speaker 2>You need to build that and show up for your people.
<v Speaker 1>And Yeah, if there was someone watching who's thinking about
<v Speaker 1>getting into cam modeling, approximately how long could they expect
<v Speaker 1>to need to be like camming consistently for before they
<v Speaker 1>could like build an audience that would make a difference
<v Speaker 1>monetarily in their life.
<v Speaker 2>I want to say six months.
<v Speaker 3>Okay, it's really different for everyone, and sites have new
<v Speaker 3>model tags, so like a new model tag could be
<v Speaker 3>it could be a week, it could be a month.
<v Speaker 3>And so sometimes people will make a lot when they
<v Speaker 3>first start because of that new model tag, and they
<v Speaker 3>won't be consistent and it will drop off and then
<v Speaker 3>they'll quit. I would say, yeah, give it six months
<v Speaker 3>to really see like the fruits of your labor. Even
<v Speaker 3>a year sometimes, but to me, the money's worth it,
<v Speaker 3>Like if you can give it that year, or maybe
<v Speaker 3>you have an extra job, but then you're still streaming
<v Speaker 3>and you're consistent.
<v Speaker 2>Yeah, yeah, that makes sense.
<v Speaker 3>It's really so subjective, and it's like it's really based
<v Speaker 3>on how much you put into it, Like you get
<v Speaker 3>what you put into.
<v Speaker 1>It, right, And when you see that new model tag,
<v Speaker 1>you mean that, like most camsites send more traffic to
<v Speaker 1>new models, you featured it a certain way, so you're
<v Speaker 1>going to have a lot more people like visit you.
<v Speaker 2>Yeah, exactly.
<v Speaker 1>I think I tried like camming once and I had
<v Speaker 1>no intention of doing anything. I can't remember why I
<v Speaker 1>did it. Maybe I could just I think someone told
<v Speaker 1>me that I could just go on there and not
<v Speaker 1>take my clothes off.
<v Speaker 2>I mean that's true.
<v Speaker 1>It is true.
<v Speaker 3>I shows completely where I make great money.
<v Speaker 2>No nudity.
<v Speaker 1>Yeah, and I know that there are some girls that
<v Speaker 1>don't do nudi at oh yeah, but I definitely wasn't.
<v Speaker 1>But yeah, the amount of traffic that I got on
<v Speaker 1>the first day, I was like, this is a lot.
<v Speaker 1>But then like people were like so disappointed. They're like,
<v Speaker 1>so what do you do? I'm like nothing, and they're
<v Speaker 1>like bye eoms, I know I should have right. How
<v Speaker 1>has the webcam industry changed over the ten years you've
<v Speaker 1>been in it.
<v Speaker 3>Well, only fans we kind of like talked about because
<v Speaker 3>really shaken up our industry and a lot I saw
<v Speaker 3>a lot of the top web cam models go to
<v Speaker 3>only fans and just quit camming completely. I think that
<v Speaker 3>people have this idea that camming is dead. Camming is
<v Speaker 3>not dead, like if you're consistent with it. I just
<v Speaker 3>think that less people are starting out camming, so it's
<v Speaker 3>not as widely talked like the industry is still booming,
<v Speaker 3>like it's it's an amaz the industry, but I think
<v Speaker 3>OnlyFans kind of like overtook it and is what's talked
<v Speaker 3>about more in the industry. I would say that I
<v Speaker 3>haven't seen like too much change other than like, yeah,
<v Speaker 3>we're what platforms people are on and stuff. Yeah, because
<v Speaker 3>cam is still great for me. Like, I don't subscribe
<v Speaker 3>to the idea that camming is dead in the slightest.
<v Speaker 3>People still want that personal connection and they always will
<v Speaker 3>And with the rise of everything being fake and AI
<v Speaker 3>and agencies, people are still going to pursue cam models
<v Speaker 3>probably more we're coming back.
<v Speaker 1>I was gonna say, actually, what's your opinion on the
<v Speaker 1>rise of AI, Like are you afraid of it or
<v Speaker 1>do you feel that the ability to interact with a
<v Speaker 1>real person, like, especially with camming.
<v Speaker 3>Is my feeling on that is, if someone wants an
<v Speaker 3>AI model, they don't want me. I don't look like AI,
<v Speaker 3>Like I don't interact like AI. So you know, some
<v Speaker 3>people are like, oh AI is taking over the industry,
<v Speaker 3>It's taking our jobs. It's like there's always going to
<v Speaker 3>be those people that want the authentic Lydia love experience
<v Speaker 3>and if they want you know, AI, they're not They're
<v Speaker 3>not gonna seek me out. That's not what I'm offering.
<v Speaker 3>So I think that there's gonna be a pendulum swing
<v Speaker 3>where AI is new and exciting, it's the shiny new toy,
<v Speaker 3>and then people are gonna get sick of it and
<v Speaker 3>they're gonna be like, I just want to talk to
<v Speaker 3>a real girl. I just want to know that I'm
<v Speaker 3>talking to a real girl. So I personally am not
<v Speaker 3>worried and I'm not really into like the fear mongering.
<v Speaker 2>And I'm like, hey, I'm so bad in.
<v Speaker 3>This industry because there's a bunch like every industry, and
<v Speaker 3>I go to and there's new AI companies popping up,
<v Speaker 3>and we'll see how many are still here in five years.
<v Speaker 1>Did you go to the Avan Awards this year.
<v Speaker 2>Remember, I think I skipped it. I think I skipped
<v Speaker 2>this year.
<v Speaker 1>So I skipped this year. I was at a b
<v Speaker 1>M but and I did the red carpet for three hours.
<v Speaker 2>Oh gosh, No, you know what.
<v Speaker 1>It was three and a half hours that I didn't
<v Speaker 1>go to the awards. No, no, no, But I didn't go
<v Speaker 1>to the awards because after I was so tired. I've
<v Speaker 1>been standing for a three and a half hours talking NonStop.
<v Speaker 1>But I saw a clip from there was I can't
<v Speaker 1>remember the name of the company, and even if I
<v Speaker 1>could or wouldn't say it, I don't want to call
<v Speaker 1>people up. But there was an add for like an
<v Speaker 1>AI like company on and it got booed yeah, like
<v Speaker 1>big time from the entire audience. Yeah, And I was like, whoa,
<v Speaker 1>that's I do think that that was. That was a
<v Speaker 1>really interesting moment.
<v Speaker 3>Yeah. I think people are treating the OT industry, they're
<v Speaker 3>training AI kind of like the gold rush, Like what
<v Speaker 3>can we create and get rich off of real quick?
<v Speaker 3>And yeah, the people have money for sponsorships because they're
<v Speaker 3>dumping it in. So if we feel like we're seeing
<v Speaker 3>more AI companies around, it's just because they have the
<v Speaker 3>money to sponsor things. It's not really because they're actually
<v Speaker 3>like creating something that will like add value to your
<v Speaker 3>career or to the industry, you know, not saying that
<v Speaker 3>there can't be one, but I haven't seen it yet.
<v Speaker 1>Walk me through the moment that you saw those Daily
<v Speaker 1>Mail photos and recognize Byronnoum. What was that actually? Like?
<v Speaker 3>Well, it was jarring, Like it was incredibly shocking. So
<v Speaker 3>I was scrolling on X and I see the photos
<v Speaker 3>and initially I like, you know when like your brain
<v Speaker 3>doesn't process something and then you're like, oh shit, that's
<v Speaker 3>what happened to me. I was scrolling and I saw
<v Speaker 3>the tits and I was like hold on. But then
<v Speaker 3>I saw the face and it clicked. And I immediately
<v Speaker 3>texted my best friend because she was familiar with my
<v Speaker 3>big titty client. We had gone on a trip about
<v Speaker 3>a year ago, like April actually know it was exactly
<v Speaker 3>yourgol April of last year, and I had told her
<v Speaker 3>about my big titty client because we did a session.
<v Speaker 3>We were on tallhome and I text HERM like there's
<v Speaker 3>no way, and we were just freaking out about it.
<v Speaker 3>So it was just kind of like a a weird
<v Speaker 3>double take moment.
<v Speaker 1>Yeah, like, what was your initial reaction because you've been
<v Speaker 1>clear that you weren't the one who broke the story,
<v Speaker 1>and you weren't. It was the day and mail, and
<v Speaker 1>you know, I know that you don't make a habit
<v Speaker 1>of exposing clients. Yeah, so what made you? Yeah right,
<v Speaker 1>I mean what made you decide to like speak out?
<v Speaker 3>Well, I had no idea who he was, like, because
<v Speaker 3>I recognize this face, of course, But how am I
<v Speaker 3>supposed to know that that was her husband?
<v Speaker 2>You know what I mean? Like, especially like in a
<v Speaker 2>webcam setting.
<v Speaker 1>And also like I don't think that people like he
<v Speaker 1>was never really featured much.
<v Speaker 3>No, yeah, yeah, And I mean I keep up with politics,
<v Speaker 3>but not enough to know what like people's husbands looked like. Well, okay,
<v Speaker 3>the first thing is it was kind of like an
<v Speaker 3>easy decision for me because that information was literally already
<v Speaker 3>out there, like his pictures were already out there. I
<v Speaker 3>didn't think that it was honestly even going to be
<v Speaker 3>that shocking to people for me to say, oh my god,
<v Speaker 3>he was one of my clients, because he was and
<v Speaker 3>he I specialized in the sssification niche, So I just
<v Speaker 3>thought my friends would be like oh that's crazy.
<v Speaker 2>Yeah.
<v Speaker 3>I just felt like immediately there was hypocrisy there. I
<v Speaker 3>knew that his wife was very anti trans, so when
<v Speaker 3>I saw that, and I know that being trans is
<v Speaker 3>not the same as being a cross dresser, but I
<v Speaker 3>just felt like their their politics were you know, I
<v Speaker 3>stand against it, And I thought, is it really that
<v Speaker 3>big of a deal if it's already out there?
<v Speaker 1>Right?
<v Speaker 3>Yeah. I feel like my motivation it wasn't extremely like
<v Speaker 3>thought through right away. I just knew I his wife's politics,
<v Speaker 3>it's already out there. Yes, he was one of my clients.
<v Speaker 3>It wasn't as like calculated really, if anything, I didn't
<v Speaker 3>have time to really calculate because I immediately commented like,
<v Speaker 3>holy shit, he's one of my clients.
<v Speaker 1>So yeah, and then what was like, what happened afterwards?
<v Speaker 1>You started getting contacted by news out.
<v Speaker 3>So you're like, I honestly, and you're in this industry,
<v Speaker 3>you know, we get kind of desensitized to things.
<v Speaker 2>Yeah, So I.
<v Speaker 3>Didn't think it was that crazy. I really thought, like
<v Speaker 3>my best friend we were laughing about it. We're like,
<v Speaker 3>oh my god, you're big titty guys, you know, married
<v Speaker 3>to Christine.
<v Speaker 2>Now that's crazy.
<v Speaker 3>I thought maybe my followers would be like, this is insane, Like.
<v Speaker 1>You didn't think it was going to get picked up
<v Speaker 1>by the news the way?
<v Speaker 3>Oh no, And if I you know, I can be
<v Speaker 3>an anxious person sometimes, and this did cause me some anxiety.
<v Speaker 3>I don't regret speaking out at all, but I didn't
<v Speaker 3>think that far. Like I didn't think that it would
<v Speaker 3>really And so whenever the Times from London reached out
<v Speaker 3>to me, I had a conversation with them literally through
<v Speaker 3>like Instagram, dms, like audios, and I didn't even really
<v Speaker 3>think that they would a story on it. I didn't
<v Speaker 3>tell them that they couldn't, but I didn't think that
<v Speaker 3>it was that notable. Really, I didn't think my experience
<v Speaker 3>was so crazy. I dressed men up like women all
<v Speaker 3>the time. And then someone from I believe it was
<v Speaker 3>Daily Beast but I can't remember, was really really on it.
<v Speaker 3>And I was actually kind of like trying to avoid
<v Speaker 3>talking to him because I just I didn't think it through,
<v Speaker 3>you know, And he called me on X and I
<v Speaker 3>just said fucking and I answered and we talked about it,
<v Speaker 3>and then I ignored literally everyone else, like I did
<v Speaker 3>an interview the other day, and then this is my
<v Speaker 3>second interview. I haven't talked to anyone else. I was
<v Speaker 3>very choosy on like who I spoke to about it,
<v Speaker 3>and there were a ton of opportunities, but I didn't
<v Speaker 3>really view this as like a way to build my career. Yeah,
<v Speaker 3>it just kind of happened and I said fuck it
<v Speaker 3>and followed it.
<v Speaker 1>So Yeah, And honestly, my guess is that, you know,
<v Speaker 1>at least this would be my fear of being interviewed
<v Speaker 1>by people outside of the sex work industry. You're, you know,
<v Speaker 1>stand the possibility of getting vilified, getting blamed simply because
<v Speaker 1>I mean we are already so stigmatized for what we
<v Speaker 1>do anyways. Yeah, and so my guess is like you
<v Speaker 1>were just concerned about getting stuck in like a fucking
<v Speaker 1>Peers Morgan interview where you would just get attacked, like
<v Speaker 1>your character it would be attacked.
<v Speaker 2>Yeah. I think for me, I was worried about that.
<v Speaker 3>Yeah. I feel like I can kind of hold my
<v Speaker 3>own like people who take time to talk to me,
<v Speaker 3>I think they can kind of see my heart. I
<v Speaker 3>think I was just more like, I know, this sounds
<v Speaker 3>silly to people, because a lot of people take this
<v Speaker 3>as an opportunity to blow up and like do everything.
<v Speaker 2>I just didn't really feel the need to do that.
<v Speaker 2>I don't know.
<v Speaker 3>Yeah, it was kind of just more simple where I
<v Speaker 3>don't want to take every opportunity. If I take all
<v Speaker 3>these opportunities, I feel like I just wouldn't get the
<v Speaker 3>ones that were meant for me. Like I feel like
<v Speaker 3>talking to you this is a great platform, and the
<v Speaker 3>interview I did the other day, that's a great platform.
<v Speaker 3>But if I would have taken all the other random
<v Speaker 3>ones and built my name that way, that just doesn't really.
<v Speaker 1>Yeah, yeah, sound great. And then there's been a lot
<v Speaker 1>of other people who have come out afterwards, a lot,
<v Speaker 1>a lot. Yeah, I mean he had a lot of
<v Speaker 1>their experience.
<v Speaker 2>They're crazier than mine.
<v Speaker 1>Yeah, let's talk about the actual like like kink bimbification,
<v Speaker 1>because so many people had never heard of it. You know.
<v Speaker 1>I remember my husband being like my husband's like were
<v Speaker 1>super into politics, and he was like, I've never heard
<v Speaker 1>of bimboification before. I'm like, babe, everyone you know thought
<v Speaker 1>about him bo, But yeah, can you explain to the audience,
<v Speaker 1>like what that specific kink is?
<v Speaker 3>Yeah, so I mean in terms of like, clearly I'm
<v Speaker 3>not a bembo that's not my fetish. But if it's
<v Speaker 3>a woman, they just kind of want to be like
<v Speaker 3>their ideal feminine like what they view as beautiful and women,
<v Speaker 3>which is like very exaggerated features of big boobs, big ass,
<v Speaker 3>big tits. Now the guy's into it. He wants that.
<v Speaker 3>That's what he wants to be, that's he idolizes that.
<v Speaker 1>So he wants to be like a he wants to
<v Speaker 1>be a bembo, slapt bimbo. But so you don't believe
<v Speaker 1>that Byron necessarily wanted to be like a girl.
<v Speaker 3>Okay, So I personally in my experiences with him, which
<v Speaker 3>were not as intense as like the people that have
<v Speaker 3>a hundred screenshots of conversations.
<v Speaker 1>With him, were recorded like the audio yeah, stuff like that,
<v Speaker 1>which is crazy.
<v Speaker 3>You know, I didn't get the impression that he fully
<v Speaker 3>I thought that it was just a normal, everyday, like
<v Speaker 3>king experience. Like did he talk about like the typical
<v Speaker 3>slut things like you know, I want to be a girl,
<v Speaker 3>I want to be a bembo, I want to.
<v Speaker 2>Tuck cock like all the things.
<v Speaker 3>Yeah, but that's like kind of I've met so many
<v Speaker 3>straight men that play like that, or you know, men
<v Speaker 3>that identify as men that play like that, and so
<v Speaker 3>I didn't think that he wanted to be But now
<v Speaker 3>I've seen someone come out and say that he actually
<v Speaker 3>said that he wanted to be a woman. So in
<v Speaker 3>my experience, I kind of just took it as a
<v Speaker 3>man playing and he didn't like fully dress up like
<v Speaker 3>some people.
<v Speaker 2>They want the wig, they want the makeup. Everything. With me,
<v Speaker 2>sometimes you would do lip gloss, but it was really
<v Speaker 2>like the boobs. The outfit.
<v Speaker 1>It wasn't really like it was yoga pants was like yoga,
<v Speaker 1>but also.
<v Speaker 3>Like spandex type of short like tight shorts, things like that.
<v Speaker 3>It wasn't the full look. So I didn't really get
<v Speaker 3>the impression like, oh, this is a transitioning person, you know.
<v Speaker 2>Yeah.
<v Speaker 1>And then so your role in this is he wants
<v Speaker 1>to be like dominated.
<v Speaker 3>I kind of took it as he wanted like slut encouragement. Okay,
<v Speaker 3>so is that a form of domination, Yeah, But I
<v Speaker 3>think it was more of he wanted to be hyped
<v Speaker 3>up and encouraged to be sluttier, to be a bembo,
<v Speaker 3>because like, like I said, I'm not a membo. He's
<v Speaker 3>not coming to me to worship my bimbo body. He
<v Speaker 3>wanted me to encourage him to be a bembo, and
<v Speaker 3>I'm I've built a niche for for that versissification, which
<v Speaker 3>is I guess a bit different but also kind of
<v Speaker 3>in the same realm you.
<v Speaker 1>Okay, So with him, like specifically, was it more like,
<v Speaker 1>you know, encouraging him to have these big bimbo like.
<v Speaker 3>Oh, your tits look so good, Like turn around and
<v Speaker 3>spank yourself for me, like put on your leggings. He
<v Speaker 3>liked to be told, like to put on his leggings.
<v Speaker 2>Oh it looks so tight.
<v Speaker 3>Oh you you know, want to do this act with
<v Speaker 3>this person, you know, things like that.
<v Speaker 1>Right, So less of like you dumbly, I wasn't like
<v Speaker 1>it wasn't like a degrading kind of thing maybe to him,
<v Speaker 1>but you know what I mean, like that kind of explicity,
<v Speaker 1>like you know, like.
<v Speaker 2>That's kind of not my femdom approach.
<v Speaker 3>Really, Like I'm just saying, I'm like girl next door,
<v Speaker 3>like sometimes I'll be mean, but it's more of.
<v Speaker 2>Yeah, just making people be their slutty.
<v Speaker 1>Selves, helping to encourage their inner slut to come up.
<v Speaker 3>I encourage and that's what I feel like. People ask me, like,
<v Speaker 3>did you dominate him?
<v Speaker 2>I'm like, I don't know. I kind of feel like
<v Speaker 2>I slut encouraged slut influencer.
<v Speaker 1>Now the fact that he did you see his face?
<v Speaker 1>Like right, right, but did you see it like the
<v Speaker 1>first time that you cammed with him or did it
<v Speaker 1>take him a while to decide to show his face?
<v Speaker 2>Okay, So here's the thing.
<v Speaker 3>Whenever I do so many of these shows, I didn't
<v Speaker 3>know he was a notable person, so I can't really remember,
<v Speaker 3>like specifically, like did I see his face, like you know,
<v Speaker 3>logistics like that. I know that I saw his face times,
<v Speaker 3>but there were also a lot of times where he
<v Speaker 3>would show boobs and the body only, so I can't
<v Speaker 3>remember the first time. There's so many shows I do,
<v Speaker 3>so it's hard.
<v Speaker 1>Yeah. Yeah, obviously him showing his face was a great risk,
<v Speaker 1>which clearly came back and him in the ass, because
<v Speaker 1>like it's one thing for there to be a rumor,
<v Speaker 1>but to have like evidence, and he didn't deny it.
<v Speaker 1>You're yeah, I don't.
<v Speaker 2>Think the media reached out to him and he said
<v Speaker 2>that was me.
<v Speaker 1>He said, didn't he say i'll be I'll talk about
<v Speaker 1>it when I'm ready or something like that. Yeah, I
<v Speaker 1>mean you gotta give him credit for that.
<v Speaker 2>Oh no, for sure. It's like, what are you gonna do, dude?
<v Speaker 2>You're out there, your tits are out there. Yeah.
<v Speaker 1>Yeah, it's not like Trump. It's like I didn't start
<v Speaker 1>a wark.
<v Speaker 2>It's like throws some rockets hand like.
<v Speaker 1>And a lot of people have questioned, like, why did
<v Speaker 1>he take the risk of showing his face? But you
<v Speaker 1>think that that was maybe part of the kink.
<v Speaker 2>I think it was part of the king.
<v Speaker 3>Now there's been like rumors about, oh, did he want
<v Speaker 3>to be black Milt and blah blah blah. I personally
<v Speaker 3>didn't take it as he wanted to be black Milt.
<v Speaker 3>I just took it as a lot of these guys
<v Speaker 3>do want the risk of showing their face that they
<v Speaker 3>could be exposed. And most of them don't actually want
<v Speaker 3>to be exposed, but when they're in that mindset, the
<v Speaker 3>risk it scares them and it turns them on.
<v Speaker 2>So I could have recognized him. I didn't.
<v Speaker 3>I don't keep up with people's lives, you know that deeply.
<v Speaker 3>But what if I did recognize him and say, oh
<v Speaker 3>my god, this Christiname's husband and I took pictures. I
<v Speaker 3>could have totally done that so I think he kind
<v Speaker 3>of did like the risk of it all. And I
<v Speaker 3>mean he had to have known he's putting his name
<v Speaker 3>his face. Like I haven't read everyone's experiences, but like
<v Speaker 3>I've seen enough screenshots to know, like he was out
<v Speaker 3>there with everyone.
<v Speaker 1>You told the Daily Beasts that there's no way christin
<v Speaker 1>Noome didn't know about her husband's behavior, and what makes
<v Speaker 1>you believe that?
<v Speaker 3>Now, I will say that's probably a drastic statement on
<v Speaker 3>my end, like there's no way, so allegedly my opinion,
<v Speaker 3>you know, I've never been married to someone for thirty
<v Speaker 3>two years or something. I feel like if my man,
<v Speaker 3>if I had, if I was in a relationship and
<v Speaker 3>they wore my leggings or my clothes, I think I
<v Speaker 3>would know.
<v Speaker 4>Would you notice your loose or dirty idea of my
<v Speaker 4>husband trying to fit into my fucking leggings.
<v Speaker 3>Yeah, no, I'm like, I think I would know. But also,
<v Speaker 3>I mean, I don't know what that what kind of
<v Speaker 3>marriage they have. I don't know the intricacies of that,
<v Speaker 3>but I would hope that if I was married to
<v Speaker 3>someone for that long, I would know their most vulnerable
<v Speaker 3>parts and maybe at some point they would come to
<v Speaker 3>me and say hey, I have this interest.
<v Speaker 2>Hey, I you know, you know what I mean?
<v Speaker 1>Yeah, but you would have to have a pretty open
<v Speaker 1>relationship because a lot of people can't talk about their
<v Speaker 1>kinks with their significant other because they're too free, especially
<v Speaker 1>if your significant other is literally like I know platforms
<v Speaker 1>on like anti LGBT, and I like, right, oh.
<v Speaker 2>Yeah, you know what I mean.
<v Speaker 3>It's like I might be viewing this from a privileged
<v Speaker 3>place because I feel like, if I was in a relationship,
<v Speaker 3>I want to know the entirety of my person and
<v Speaker 3>love and except that maybe that's not where they were.
<v Speaker 2>But I don't like thirty years.
<v Speaker 1>Like over thirty years, it feels like there was some
<v Speaker 1>signs that maybe she chose to ignore.
<v Speaker 3>There's no way that you like, do you know, Like
<v Speaker 3>where's all a lot of balloons going? Where are balloons
<v Speaker 3>in the trash?
<v Speaker 2>Like what were you doing?
<v Speaker 3>Like you had a party while I was gone, Like
<v Speaker 3>I feel like how do you?
<v Speaker 2>How do you not know?
<v Speaker 3>And then the thing was like her cheating publicly, like
<v Speaker 3>you know, she had a cheating scandal with Corey Lwandowski
<v Speaker 3>I think that was his name, and he was also
<v Speaker 3>in politics, and she was grilled on that and I
<v Speaker 3>mean he sat behind her during that, And so I
<v Speaker 3>do have my theories on like maybe they just had
<v Speaker 3>because a lot of these guys that are into bembification cecification,
<v Speaker 3>they're also into cooking and their wife fucking other people.
<v Speaker 3>Maybe that's what they just did behind closed doors, and
<v Speaker 3>then public.
<v Speaker 1>They were they have to say they were major hypocrites.
<v Speaker 3>But I also think that a lot of guys that
<v Speaker 3>are into bemification and also into cooking, what's the closest
<v Speaker 3>that they can get to fucking another man without actually
<v Speaker 3>fucking other man their wife fucking another man and telling
<v Speaker 3>them about it.
<v Speaker 2>So that's just my theory.
<v Speaker 1>Yeah, yeah, no, that's absolutely true. Posted about asking DHS
<v Speaker 1>not to take you out, which is funny, But did
<v Speaker 1>you actually like have any real concern about your safety.
<v Speaker 3>I feel like and like my friends are more concerned
<v Speaker 3>than I am. I have a very like to life.
<v Speaker 3>I'm just kind of like, if that's my journey, that's
<v Speaker 3>my journey, Like, please don't.
<v Speaker 2>I love living, I love being alive. My dogs need me,
<v Speaker 2>you know, like, I please don't do it.
<v Speaker 3>I feel like they probably have bigger problems to worry about.
<v Speaker 2>Do I think that? Yeah?
<v Speaker 3>I don't know.
<v Speaker 2>Do you think that they're gonna leave me alone forever?
<v Speaker 2>I don't know. I don't know. I kind of did it,
<v Speaker 2>you know, I didn't think it through. I don't know.
<v Speaker 1>Do you have you had any like big blowback from
<v Speaker 1>like no.
<v Speaker 3>Because I feel, well, maybe I will once like the
<v Speaker 3>interview I did the other day is dropped like maybe
<v Speaker 3>this one.
<v Speaker 2>Who knows. But I think a lot of people like.
<v Speaker 1>Oh, you'll have people on YouTube like I mean, look,
<v Speaker 1>you could be talking about like your wonderful summer day
<v Speaker 1>and you just kind of you that you do like that,
<v Speaker 1>so that's YouTube for you.
<v Speaker 3>But like I mean, I have an uncle who's like
<v Speaker 3>super right wing, and he called me he was dying laughing.
<v Speaker 3>He's like, that's my fucking niece, like laughing.
<v Speaker 2>So I don't know.
<v Speaker 3>We'll see if I get if I get hate from people,
<v Speaker 3>I think that anyone can see the hypocrisy in it, right,
<v Speaker 3>Like for me, I think I've made it clear.
<v Speaker 2>If people want to believe something, believe it.
<v Speaker 3>I like hearing other people's point of view is because
<v Speaker 3>if I don't, then how do I know that I
<v Speaker 3>believe what I believe? Right?
<v Speaker 2>I just don't like hypocrites.
<v Speaker 3>So if you have a fully formed idea that is
<v Speaker 3>completely opposite of mine, I'll hear you out. But why
<v Speaker 3>are you hypocrite? Why are you anti trans? Anti gay?
<v Speaker 2>But then you want to talk about all this with me?
<v Speaker 1>Did you notice a subscriber number boost after this?
<v Speaker 2>I did, But.
<v Speaker 3>A publication or I don't even know what site it
<v Speaker 3>was said that I had like an amazing surge and
<v Speaker 3>it was because I was getting like harassed by other
<v Speaker 3>sex workers on X like just they were being so mean,
<v Speaker 3>saying like the most like foul things about me for
<v Speaker 3>talking about this public and so I or I quoted
<v Speaker 3>something and I was like, y'all are about to be
<v Speaker 3>really mad at all the amazing subscribers I've had because
<v Speaker 3>people were saying that my career is over.
<v Speaker 2>No one's ever.
<v Speaker 3>Gonna, you know, spend money on me again. So yeah,
<v Speaker 3>I had a little income boost. It was cool, but
<v Speaker 3>it wasn't as like insane as people think.
<v Speaker 1>Are you worried about that at all?
<v Speaker 3>No? I figures, like, like I think the majority of people,
<v Speaker 3>I actually haven't had anyone come to me and say
<v Speaker 3>I'm not playing with you anymore.
<v Speaker 2>I'm unsubscribing I'm doing this because you did that.
<v Speaker 3>People have been giving me a lot of praise and
<v Speaker 3>like people that that.
<v Speaker 2>Come to me, like for femnom.
<v Speaker 3>I've even had new subscribers be like I want which
<v Speaker 3>I didn't even expose it, but they come to be
<v Speaker 3>like I want to be exposed, just like Gnome and
<v Speaker 3>like I like, oh my gosh, I love what you did.
<v Speaker 3>I'm like, oh god, I've been getting a lot of
<v Speaker 3>new subscribers that are really excited.
<v Speaker 1>That want to be that want like that exposure.
<v Speaker 2>Exposure.
<v Speaker 3>Yeah, he got the ultimate exposures. So they're like looking
<v Speaker 3>at it like this is fucking amazing.
<v Speaker 1>So I don't know if I cause that is all
<v Speaker 1>I mean, we just talked about that as a whole fetish,
<v Speaker 1>like being exposed for like you know, spending money on
<v Speaker 1>a cam girl rather than like buying your wife flowers
<v Speaker 1>or whatever.
<v Speaker 2>Yeah, no, it's wild.
<v Speaker 3>If for some reason this situation made all of my
<v Speaker 3>people leave me, I'd be bummed.
<v Speaker 2>I'd probably just go like open a thrift shop or
<v Speaker 2>something like.
<v Speaker 1>I don't know, probably just like go, yeah, I don't
<v Speaker 1>see that happening.
<v Speaker 2>It's not happening.
<v Speaker 1>But because I mean, you said and you seem to me.
<v Speaker 1>And look, you've been doing this for a long time, right,
<v Speaker 1>So if you were someone who's in the habit of
<v Speaker 1>like exposing all of your clients, like you would, we
<v Speaker 1>would know by now there's way cooler people, yeah, like athletes, rappers, actually,
<v Speaker 1>like there's way cooler people.
<v Speaker 3>And you know, I wouldn't. I wouldn't expose it, Like
<v Speaker 3>why why would I? I think that people deserve their privacy,
<v Speaker 3>and I think that people supporting online sex worchs is cool.
<v Speaker 3>I just think this specific situation, it's like, how are
<v Speaker 3>you so like, you know, typical conservative family values, but
<v Speaker 3>then behind closed doors you're doing this, and you know,
<v Speaker 3>I just think what's good for them should be good forever,
<v Speaker 3>you know.
<v Speaker 1>Yeah, I mean it's like, and this is such a
<v Speaker 1>We've seen this happen so many times, right, Like the
<v Speaker 1>people that are the loudest voice against gay people, sex workers,
<v Speaker 1>whatever are the ones that are like the most deeply
<v Speaker 1>entrenched in it, like personally, and they're just being driven
<v Speaker 1>by like a sense of shame and they're overcompensating for
<v Speaker 1>it by like speaking against it, and it's just like it.
<v Speaker 2>Makes them feel like I don't really know what it is.
<v Speaker 3>Honestly, it makes them feel like they're fighting against it,
<v Speaker 3>but they're still consuming it. That's what I don't really understand.
<v Speaker 3>It's like, if you feel like you have a problem
<v Speaker 3>with porn, like go get.
<v Speaker 2>Help for it.
<v Speaker 3>But why like bash the entire industry and you know
<v Speaker 3>what I mean, and like really like speak hate towards it.
<v Speaker 2>We get enough hate.
<v Speaker 1>Yeah, I mean, it's just because there's so much stigma
<v Speaker 1>and so much shamer on sex. I mean, people are
<v Speaker 1>raised with like you know, it's hard for me to
<v Speaker 1>understand because I was raised by pornographers.
<v Speaker 2>Yeah, my family's really chill to my mom's.
<v Speaker 1>Yeah, so I had a totally different experience. But a
<v Speaker 1>lot of people are raised like in an environment where
<v Speaker 1>like shame about sex and their bodies and desires is
<v Speaker 1>like deeply entrenched in their psyche. Yeah.
<v Speaker 2>I try to give those people grace.
<v Speaker 3>Really, I think a lot of times people are just
<v Speaker 3>like fuck you if you you know, I try to understand, like,
<v Speaker 3>if you were raised that certain.
<v Speaker 2>Way, maybe that's why you're acting out.
<v Speaker 3>I just I think it's really important to have empathy,
<v Speaker 3>you know, Like I was raised completely different from a
<v Speaker 3>lot of people, and I don't agree with a lot
<v Speaker 3>of people, but I have baseline empathy for them, Like,
<v Speaker 3>and what other industry is so hated by their own consumers?
<v Speaker 1>Like what, that's crazy? It's just like you, like you
<v Speaker 1>follow girls just so you can tell them how much
<v Speaker 1>you despise what they do.
<v Speaker 3>I feel like maybe it's they hate themselves for so
<v Speaker 3>then they're like, how can I take this hate and
<v Speaker 3>put it somewhere that's not at myself? Oh the girl,
<v Speaker 3>It's like, how are you jerking off with one hand
<v Speaker 3>and typing hate comments with the other, Like chill, dude.
<v Speaker 1>I mean some people ambidextrous.
<v Speaker 2>Yeah, they got it handled literally. All right.
<v Speaker 1>Well, thank you so much for coming on and talking
<v Speaker 1>about all of that. Really appreciated. I know that it's
<v Speaker 1>a topic that you know, you were careful about who
<v Speaker 1>you spoke with, and so like, I feel very privileged
<v Speaker 1>and honor that you came to talk to us about it.
<v Speaker 3>I love this podcast. I've been a fan since the beginning,
<v Speaker 3>So I love this podcast. Career goal achieved. Actually this
<v Speaker 3>is on one of my career goal lists, so just saying.
<v Speaker 1>Oh, that's amazing. So I just want to ask you
<v Speaker 1>a couple questions to kind of like wrap things up.
<v Speaker 1>Where do you see the webcam and creator's side of
<v Speaker 1>the industry heading? Do you think it's sustainable? Do you
<v Speaker 1>think it's oversaturated or something in between.
<v Speaker 3>I don't believe in oversaturation. People love saying that, especially
<v Speaker 3>about the industry. I think everyone is so uniquely different.
<v Speaker 3>We all have different careers. So I think webcamming will
<v Speaker 3>always be here. Webcamming has I'm twenty eight. Webcamming has
<v Speaker 3>existed before. I think the first site was maybe in
<v Speaker 3>ninety six ninety seven.
<v Speaker 2>It's going to be around.
<v Speaker 3>People are craving that, like live connection online, and I
<v Speaker 3>think that camming is coming back. Like you said, it's
<v Speaker 3>kind of a pendulum swing of there's all this fakeness
<v Speaker 3>AI all of that, and people are going to come
<v Speaker 3>back to camming and really start discovering it.
<v Speaker 1>So what campsite? Can people find you.
<v Speaker 3>On cam Soda? Yeah, on cam Soda and I love
<v Speaker 3>the site. I think it's really fun and that's like
<v Speaker 3>my homesite. I've tried so many different sites since my homesite.
<v Speaker 1>Well, thank you again for coming on, thank you for
<v Speaker 1>having me. And can you tell everybody where else they
<v Speaker 1>can find you online?
<v Speaker 3>You can find me on Instagram at your Internet GF.
<v Speaker 3>You can find me on YouTube just starts Lyda Love
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<v Speaker 2>I also have an OnlyFans Lydia Love.
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