Relax

<v Speaker 1>And this episode is code Relax.
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<v Speaker 2>Henry, speaking of people who are awesome, what should we
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<v Speaker 4>Is the hell else?
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<v Speaker 4>No?
<v Speaker 2>It's a cool username though, isn't it?
<v Speaker 4>Yeah? It is.
<v Speaker 2>We heard from Melanie Gideon let us know that his
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<v Speaker 4>Happy birthday. Happy Birthday, Genevieve.
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<v Speaker 2>Well, guys, we just got done watching Relax.
<v Speaker 3>Yeah, let's get all this stuff up to the unit
<v Speaker 3>and head straight to the beach. I want to start relaxing.
<v Speaker 2>Yeah, Henry, could you tell us what was going on
<v Speaker 2>at the beginning of this episode.
<v Speaker 4>At the beginning of the episode, they are driving in
<v Speaker 4>their car and Bluia and Bingo are singing.
<v Speaker 3>In the back.
<v Speaker 4>They go to a parking area and they park and
<v Speaker 4>it turns out they're on vacation and they're going to
<v Speaker 4>their hotel room.
<v Speaker 2>Very good, Henry, do you remember what song where the
<v Speaker 2>girls girls singing?
<v Speaker 4>I don't remember.
<v Speaker 2>I only remember the very first line, and I had
<v Speaker 2>to look up what some of the other lyrics are
<v Speaker 2>from it. Does anybody remember.
<v Speaker 3>I didn't recognize the song.
<v Speaker 2>Three Little Men in a Flying Saucer flew around the
<v Speaker 2>world one day and then something something Something. There's more
<v Speaker 2>to it, but that's the only part that I caught. Stella,
<v Speaker 2>are you familiar with that?
<v Speaker 5>No?
<v Speaker 2>Yeah, I haven't heard it either, but it was super
<v Speaker 2>cute either way. Henry, what does Bandit call the girls
<v Speaker 2>when he gets them out of the car?
<v Speaker 4>I don't remember, all right, Super troupis at the.
<v Speaker 2>Holiday bun Stella Chili is in a hurry to get
<v Speaker 2>out of the car into their room. What is she
<v Speaker 2>wanting to do straight away.
<v Speaker 4>She wants to go to the beach and relax and
<v Speaker 4>read her book.
<v Speaker 2>What is her book about?
<v Speaker 4>Her book is about how to be happy?
<v Speaker 2>Yep, how to be happy. When they get into the lift,
<v Speaker 2>what is Bingo doing? Immediately?
<v Speaker 4>Stella Bingo goes over to one of the handles on
<v Speaker 4>the side of the elevator and starts swinging on it.
<v Speaker 2>What does Bluey do?
<v Speaker 4>Blue asks Chili which button she needs to press, and
<v Speaker 4>she starts pressing any of the buttons, but the one
<v Speaker 4>she actually needs to press.
<v Speaker 2>Do you remember what button she was supposed to press? Five? Yeah,
<v Speaker 2>she missed it by a bunch. They might need to
<v Speaker 2>take a look at that school she's going to. When
<v Speaker 2>they're in that lift, Stella Bingo tells Chili that being
<v Speaker 2>happy is easy. What does she tell her all you
<v Speaker 2>have to do is?
<v Speaker 4>She said that all she has to do is and
<v Speaker 4>then she turned towards the mirror and the elevator and
<v Speaker 4>did a really big smile.
<v Speaker 2>Yeah, her big cheese smile. It's so cute where she
<v Speaker 2>shows like her teeth look enormous when they animate her
<v Speaker 2>that way. And she did look happy, didn't she?
<v Speaker 4>Yeah?
<v Speaker 3>She did.
<v Speaker 2>Amanda Once they get into the condo they're staying in,
<v Speaker 2>the girls are excited right away. What room do they
<v Speaker 2>go to?
<v Speaker 3>They go to their bedroom first.
<v Speaker 1>They got.
<v Speaker 3>The girls were so excited to see those bunk beds.
<v Speaker 3>But other things excited them too as well. They found
<v Speaker 3>tiny little soaps on their pillows, and they were excited
<v Speaker 3>about having their own closet and the hangers, and there
<v Speaker 3>was a safe in the closet, and they decided they
<v Speaker 3>were going to use that as an oven when they
<v Speaker 3>played pretend. It was so neat to see them just
<v Speaker 3>so excited about every little thing in their room.
<v Speaker 2>Oh yeah, well, what did they decide they were going
<v Speaker 2>to be?
<v Speaker 3>So they wrapped themselves up in towels and pretended to
<v Speaker 3>be mermaids, and Bingo was baking a pie in the
<v Speaker 3>oven the night.
<v Speaker 1>Wait up, they have a pie? Please? Oh yes, I'll
<v Speaker 1>just cook it. It will be raising the night.
<v Speaker 2>Chili comes in and tells the girls she wants to
<v Speaker 2>get down to the beach. But Amanda, what have they
<v Speaker 2>not done?
<v Speaker 3>They have not put their sunscreen on yet, like Mom
<v Speaker 3>asked them to when they first got into the room.
<v Speaker 3>So they go to the bathroom to put their sunscreen
<v Speaker 3>on and everything in there is just as exciting as
<v Speaker 3>the bedroom. They found. They found the toilet, and you know,
<v Speaker 3>if you've been to a hotel room, you know that
<v Speaker 3>when the toilets are cleaned, the cleaners put like a ribbon,
<v Speaker 3>a paper ribbon around the toilet so it shows that
<v Speaker 3>it's clean. The girls see this ribbon and they are
<v Speaker 3>so excited.
<v Speaker 1>Well, the Bingo, what's this? I don't know. The toilet's
<v Speaker 1>got a ribbon.
<v Speaker 4>I diat won my prize.
<v Speaker 1>Yeah, the best toilet in the world. I congratulations your ribbon.
<v Speaker 2>Blue opens it and gets to tear that ribbon, and
<v Speaker 2>now Bingo wants to do one too, Henry. What do
<v Speaker 2>the girls do?
<v Speaker 4>They start running around the room looking for another bathroom,
<v Speaker 4>and they do find another toilet, and Bingo gets to
<v Speaker 4>do it. This time it's.
<v Speaker 1>Got one congratulations toilet, Henry.
<v Speaker 2>What other amazing thing is in that bathroom.
<v Speaker 4>There's a triangle shaped tub and they saw one thing
<v Speaker 4>in there. There was soap, and they're wanting a bubble bath.
<v Speaker 2>What was the thing they called the shower nozzle, Henry.
<v Speaker 4>They called it a microphone.
<v Speaker 2>Yeah, a triangle bathtub with a microphone. And now they
<v Speaker 2>want a bubble bath. The condo had bubble bath in there.
<v Speaker 2>But what did it not.
<v Speaker 4>Have, Stella, It didn't have dishwasher detergent.
<v Speaker 2>Yeah, they're missing that. The girls didn't care about that though,
<v Speaker 2>because they wanted to have a bubble bath right now.
<v Speaker 2>Chili wasn't keen for that, but Bannitt said to let
<v Speaker 2>the girls go ahead and have it. But Stella, what
<v Speaker 2>is Chili trying to do?
<v Speaker 4>She is trying to get them ready to go to
<v Speaker 4>the beach.
<v Speaker 2>Right, Amanda, What does Bandit say to that?
<v Speaker 3>Banditt tells her to go ahead and go on to
<v Speaker 3>the beach and the girls can have a bubble bath
<v Speaker 3>and he'll take care of everything in that suite? Was Yes?
<v Speaker 2>Does that remind you of anybody? No? Unfortunately, how dare you?
<v Speaker 3>I'm kidding.
<v Speaker 2>Chili is on her way down to go to the
<v Speaker 2>beach and is telling herself that it's time to be happy.
<v Speaker 2>What does she do in the elevator, Amanda.
<v Speaker 3>She practices smiling really big, like Bingo was doing on
<v Speaker 3>their way up to the room.
<v Speaker 2>In the meantime, the girls are having their bubble bath.
<v Speaker 4>Ah, you seek so well, prim.
<v Speaker 2>The girls sure are having fun in there, Henry, But
<v Speaker 2>Bandit tells them that it's getting ready to be even
<v Speaker 2>more fun. What did he do?
<v Speaker 4>He turned on the SPA.
<v Speaker 2>Did that look pretty amazing?
<v Speaker 4>Yeah?
<v Speaker 2>Yeah, they were excited about it. Chili's down at the
<v Speaker 2>beach and she is having some troubles. Henry, what's going
<v Speaker 2>on with her?
<v Speaker 4>She starts to read her book, but then she puts
<v Speaker 4>it down. She says, maybe I should enjoy the beach
<v Speaker 4>before I read my book, and then she goes, you
<v Speaker 4>know what, how dout I read my book first? And
<v Speaker 4>then she's just having trouble relaxing, so she decides to
<v Speaker 4>go back.
<v Speaker 2>Yeah, she doesn't know how to relax, does she?
<v Speaker 4>Yeah?
<v Speaker 2>Stella, the girls are playing that. They're fancy ladies. Do
<v Speaker 2>you remember their names?
<v Speaker 4>Louis was Melinda and Bingo was Olympia.
<v Speaker 2>Those are pretty fancy names, all right, Yeah they are.
<v Speaker 2>What very fancy thing did they find?
<v Speaker 4>They found a chair that had a lever on it.
<v Speaker 2>What was the lever for?
<v Speaker 4>It was to put out the footrest, right.
<v Speaker 2>It's a recliner. Yeah, they get the wise idea to
<v Speaker 2>use that for something. What did they do?
<v Speaker 4>They decided to launch themselves with it.
<v Speaker 2>Yeah, after it kicked Bingo Bluwie was ready to take
<v Speaker 2>a turn in the Meanwhile, Chili's back and she tells
<v Speaker 2>Bandit that she's having a tough time. What are you
<v Speaker 2>doing here?
<v Speaker 3>I don't know how to relax.
<v Speaker 2>I'll come here.
<v Speaker 3>It's hotter than it looks.
<v Speaker 2>I'll tell you what you want to learn to relax?
<v Speaker 2>Go and get some tips from the.
<v Speaker 1>Mastas yeah, a little bit in this way? Wait much?
<v Speaker 1>This what he goes?
<v Speaker 4>It's crazy?
<v Speaker 1>You did you kids?
<v Speaker 4>Just go about it, don't you?
<v Speaker 2>Amanda? What does Chili do after that?
<v Speaker 3>Bandit brings her a hot cup of I don't know
<v Speaker 3>if it was coffee or maybe some hot tea and
<v Speaker 3>tells her to go out to the deck. She goes
<v Speaker 3>out to the deck and she's leaning over looking out
<v Speaker 3>the side of it, and she sees the beach and
<v Speaker 3>the cargo ship and the trees, and she decides to
<v Speaker 3>lay down in the lounge chair that's out there, and
<v Speaker 3>she sits her cup on the table next to it.
<v Speaker 3>She closes her eyes. She begins to relax a little.
<v Speaker 2>When she was looking out over the water, that's when
<v Speaker 2>it all sunk in, and she told herself to just
<v Speaker 2>go about it. And once she got in the groove,
<v Speaker 2>all of her cares disappeared, and there was a melody
<v Speaker 2>playing during that. Do you guys know what that was?
<v Speaker 3>I didn't catch it.
<v Speaker 2>It's da da da da Da Da Da Da Da
<v Speaker 2>Da da da. It's a song called simple Gifts. It's
<v Speaker 2>an old Shaker melody, and it was in every beginner
<v Speaker 2>guitar book when I taught a lot of young guitar students.
<v Speaker 2>That was a song that the hal Leonnard Guitar Method
<v Speaker 2>book one had in it, and I recognized it immediately. Yeah,
<v Speaker 2>it is a song called simple Gifts, and that's what
<v Speaker 2>Chili was getting, just the simple gift that the world
<v Speaker 2>was given her of its enormous beauty.
<v Speaker 3>That's cool.
<v Speaker 1>Yeah.
<v Speaker 2>So there she is, all relaxed, and the girls find
<v Speaker 2>a new amazing thing.
<v Speaker 5>Its former control a great Really, look, Henry, what happens next?
<v Speaker 4>They look out the deck and they see the beach
<v Speaker 4>and they go, can.
<v Speaker 1>We go to the beach?
<v Speaker 2>Just as Chili is finally relaxed. Huh, Yeah, what do
<v Speaker 2>you think happened right after that?
<v Speaker 1>Well?
<v Speaker 4>I think that they went to the beach.
<v Speaker 2>I bet they did too, But that was that episode, Henry.
<v Speaker 2>Did we forget anything?
<v Speaker 3>Nope.
<v Speaker 4>I don't think so.
<v Speaker 2>Well, you know what it's time for.
<v Speaker 3>Did we learn anything today, Amanda?
<v Speaker 2>Could you tell us what were we supposed to learn today?
<v Speaker 3>I think we were supposed to learn that everybody needs
<v Speaker 3>to find time to relax. You need to find some
<v Speaker 3>way to relax, whatever works for you. We're all busy.
<v Speaker 3>Everybody has things going on in their lives, school, work,
<v Speaker 3>just whatever, and it's really good for everybody just to
<v Speaker 3>take a moment, take that deep breath and just relax,
<v Speaker 3>and it's good for everybody. So I think we're just
<v Speaker 3>supposed to learn that you just need to take a
<v Speaker 3>few moments for yourself and get to it and take
<v Speaker 3>some time for yourself and relax.
<v Speaker 2>I agree. I agree. What about you, Henry?
<v Speaker 4>I agree with Mom?
<v Speaker 2>Yeah, I think she hit it spot on. What about you, Stella?
<v Speaker 2>Did you have anything?
<v Speaker 4>No? I don't. I think Mom said it pretty good.
<v Speaker 2>She definitely did. There's one other thing I would add
<v Speaker 2>to this, and Bandit hinted at it when he said,
<v Speaker 2>if you need to learn how to relax, you need
<v Speaker 2>to get some tips from the masters. Little kids when
<v Speaker 2>you give them a change of scenery and take them
<v Speaker 2>somewhere like a hotel or whatever. Everything is amazing. If
<v Speaker 2>you can look at things through the eyes of children,
<v Speaker 2>everything is wondrous and wild and new. And I remember, Amanda,
<v Speaker 2>do you remember this?
<v Speaker 3>When I know what you're going to say?
<v Speaker 2>We took Stella on a weekend getaway and it was
<v Speaker 2>her first time in a hotel and she couldn't believe it.
<v Speaker 2>You were one, and you jumped up on the bed
<v Speaker 2>and you were like picking your little feet all over
<v Speaker 2>and like hogging up the whole bed, almost like making
<v Speaker 2>snow angels on the thing.
<v Speaker 3>Right in the bed.
<v Speaker 2>Oh yeah, it blew your mind. And it was just
<v Speaker 2>the hotel. I'm like, man, can you imagine if we've
<v Speaker 2>gone someplace like Disney World or something. Yeah, just the
<v Speaker 2>change of scenery did it. And being able to find
<v Speaker 2>that kind of magic in everything. It's all right there
<v Speaker 2>for the taking. You just have to decide to see it.
<v Speaker 2>Everything's awesome if you decide to let it be awesome.
<v Speaker 1>Yeah.
<v Speaker 2>And all of those simple gifts, Oh dang, it came
<v Speaker 2>all the way back around, the simple gifts that the
<v Speaker 2>world just hands you. If you just open your heart
<v Speaker 2>up and your mind up to recognize them at gifts
<v Speaker 2>and you've heard me say this. People who seem inordinately
<v Speaker 2>blessed are the ones who recognize they're blessed. When you
<v Speaker 2>recognize something as a blessing, those people seem like they're
<v Speaker 2>getting blessed more than everybody else, and it's because they
<v Speaker 2>have their eyes open to it and they recognize the
<v Speaker 2>things they get as blessings.
<v Speaker 4>Right.
<v Speaker 2>That's awesome. Man, oh man, this show is so good.
<v Speaker 2>There was something about that moment too, when Chili was
<v Speaker 2>looking out there and the song was playing, and like
<v Speaker 2>I started to get a little teary eyed. There was
<v Speaker 2>just something so beautiful about it.
<v Speaker 3>Yeah, there was definitely.
<v Speaker 2>Does anybody have any parting thoughts about the episode?
<v Speaker 4>Yes, Henry, I think that this episode, it's a pretty
<v Speaker 4>cool episode.
<v Speaker 1>Yeah.
<v Speaker 4>I think the beach was pretty cool, and I think
<v Speaker 4>the hotel was pretty cool as well.
<v Speaker 2>I agree we should buy.
<v Speaker 4>One those chairs with the levers on them and I
<v Speaker 4>could launch myself across the room. I thought this episode
<v Speaker 4>was really cute. I like Bluie and Bingo being so
<v Speaker 4>amazed by the hotel they were staying at and just
<v Speaker 4>having to go around and see everything, just having so
<v Speaker 4>much fun with it.
<v Speaker 2>Yeah, that was really really cute.
<v Speaker 3>I agree with Stella. I really enjoyed watching the kids
<v Speaker 3>just be so excited about these little things that we
<v Speaker 3>would walk into the hotel room and be like, oh, cool,
<v Speaker 3>they cleaned our toilet because it has the ribbon on it,
<v Speaker 3>you know, but it's something that's just it was just
<v Speaker 3>so exciting to them, So it was really cute.
<v Speaker 2>I really really liked this episode, and Amanda, I couldn't
<v Speaker 2>help but think of you, because I know both of
<v Speaker 2>us struggle with just being able to relax. When we
<v Speaker 2>have some downtime. We look around and it's like, oh,
<v Speaker 2>I need to do this, Oh I need to do that.
<v Speaker 2>I've got to do these things instead of just being
<v Speaker 2>able to let go and chill out. How did that
<v Speaker 2>feel to you?
<v Speaker 3>Yes, I agree with what you're saying, because even on
<v Speaker 3>the weekends when we're not at work and we should
<v Speaker 3>be doing a little relaxing, there's like twenty million things
<v Speaker 3>around the house that need to be done or just
<v Speaker 3>things need to be caught up on, and so it's
<v Speaker 3>very hard to find times always to relax.
<v Speaker 2>It is and reminding yourself that you're worth it and
<v Speaker 2>then it's okay to relax and that you need to
<v Speaker 2>relax because you're so busy. And I think in this scenario,
<v Speaker 2>Chili is so busy taking care of everybody that's her
<v Speaker 2>personal role that she finds her sense of fulfillment through.
<v Speaker 2>But then she can never shut that off because she
<v Speaker 2>always has to be the caregiver and while she loves
<v Speaker 2>doing that, if she doesn't recharge, she doesn't have anything
<v Speaker 2>left to give of herself exactly. So seeing her being
<v Speaker 2>able to step back and finally sink into it and
<v Speaker 2>just slow down, I think that's the real thing. It's
<v Speaker 2>slow down. Yeah, for sure, it's really something. Now I
<v Speaker 2>got to get out the Howl Leonard Guitar Method Book
<v Speaker 2>one and play Simple Gifts for you. Guys, Stella, are
<v Speaker 2>you going to learn to play the guitar? You can
<v Speaker 2>play that? Okay, this shure was a fun one. Well, guys,
<v Speaker 2>we think Bluie is awesome. And until next time, we
<v Speaker 2>are out of here.
<v Speaker 4>Bye guys, Bye bye,