How to find true love (w/ Francesca Hogi)

How to Be a Better Human

Love coach Francesca Hogi is dedicated to helping daters find “lasting love in the midst of a broken dating culture.” In this episode, Francesca shares her approach to analyzing romantic patterns and feeling more empowered in your love life. From discussing romantic manifestations to reflecting on bell hooks’ claim that humans are unskilled at love, Chris and Francesca talk about the ways you can be more open to finding love.

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Follow Francesca Hogi on Instagram, LinkedIn, and at francescahogi.com/
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2026-02-09 37 min

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