301 | CCPT Skills for Quiet Sessions: Narrative Summary & Commentary Explained
Play Therapy Podcast: A Master-Class in Child-Centered Play Therapy
In this episode, I talk about how to use narrative summary and narrative commentary in Child-Centered Play Therapy sessions—especially when you're working with a child who is quiet, repetitive, or nonverbal in their play. I explain why relying only on tracking behavior can feel robotic or monotonous, and how adding a layer of insight, reflection, and light commentary can create more flow and ease in your sessions—while staying fully adherent to the model.
I also introduce the concept using a baseball analogy: just like a sports broadcast has a play-by-play announcer and a color commentator, CCPT sessions benefit from both action tracking and reflective commentary. Narrative summary and commentary allow us to bring warmth, perspective, and relational depth into moments where it might otherwise feel like we have "nothing to say." If you've ever felt stuck repeating the same responses or struggled to engage during silent sessions, this episode will give you a new way to stay present, connected, and confidently child-centered.
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Common References: Cochran, N., Nordling, W., & Cochran, J. (2010). Child-Centered Play Therapy (1st ed.). Wiley. VanFleet, R., Sywulak, A. E., & Sniscak, C. C. (2010). Child-centered play therapy. Guilford Press. Landreth, G.L. (2023). Play Therapy: The Art of the Relationship (4th ed.). Routledge. Bratton, S. C., Landreth, G. L., Kellam, T., & Blackard, S. R. (2006). Child parent relationship therapy (CPRT) treatment manual: A 10-session filial therapy model for training parents. Routledge/Taylor & Francis Group. Benedict, Helen. Themes in Play Therapy. Used with permission to Heartland Play Therapy Institute.
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0 00:00:00,469 --> 00:00:04,309 You're listening to the Play Therapy Podcast with Dr. Brenna Hicks, 1 00:00:04,469 --> 00:00:08,220 your source for centered and focused play therapy coaching. 2 00:00:08,590 --> 00:00:08,750 Hi, 3 00:00:08,829 --> 00:00:09,949 I'm Dr. Brenna Hicks, 4 00:00:09,960 --> 00:00:10,710 The Kid Counselor. 5 00:00:10,829 --> 00:00:12,829 This is the Play Therapy Podcast where you get 6 00:00:12,829 --> 00:00:15,220 a master class in child-centered play therapy 7 00:00:15,220 --> 00:00:17,729 and practical support and application for your 8 00:00:17,729 --> 00:00:19,379 work with children and their families. 9 00:00:19,790 --> 00:00:20,850 In today's episode, 10 00:00:21,069 --> 00:00:25,030 we are going to talk about narrative summary. 11 00:00:25,389 --> 00:00:26,879 And narrative commentary. 12 00:00:27,049 --> 00:00:30,920 It's kind of just a topical episode instead of part of a series. 13 00:00:31,409 --> 00:00:33,040 We did a palate cleanse last time, 14 00:00:33,130 --> 00:00:36,000 this time I'm just bringing it up because 15 00:00:36,290 --> 00:00:37,930 it's come up so often 16 00:00:38,169 --> 00:00:40,049 and I talk about it so often, 17 00:00:40,409 --> 00:00:43,400 I decided it was probably going to need to be a podcast episode. 18 00:00:43,409 --> 00:00:43,720 So 19 00:00:44,240 --> 00:00:45,599 we're gonna dive into 20 00:00:46,409 --> 00:00:48,200 providing narrative commentary, 21 00:00:48,250 --> 00:00:49,360 narrative summary, 22 00:00:49,610 --> 00:00:50,700 in play sessions, 23 00:00:50,970 --> 00:00:51,720 what that looks like, 24 00:00:51,930 --> 00:00:52,849 considerations, 25 00:00:53,049 --> 00:00:54,020 how to implement. 26 00:00:54,689 --> 00:00:55,009 Etc. 27 00:00:55,330 --> 00:00:56,189 Before I do, 28 00:00:56,560 --> 00:01:01,729 a huge thank you to each of you who attended the live episode 300th 29 00:01:02,409 --> 00:01:02,840 episode. 30 00:01:03,130 --> 00:01:06,019 What a huge accomplishment we celebrated together. 31 00:01:06,169 --> 00:01:09,050 This is all of our celebration and win, 32 00:01:09,300 --> 00:01:10,080 not mine, 33 00:01:10,529 --> 00:01:12,349 and it was so amazing. 34 00:01:12,410 --> 00:01:14,629 We recorded that on Friday. 35 00:01:14,769 --> 00:01:16,839 We posted the episode 36 00:01:17,169 --> 00:01:21,690 on Saturday and that Saturday when that 300th episode was posted. 37 00:01:22,309 --> 00:01:26,540 It was the 3 year anniversary of the start of the podcast. 38 00:01:27,110 --> 00:01:28,790 So on the 3 year anniversary, 39 00:01:28,830 --> 00:01:30,860 we published the 300th episode, 40 00:01:31,669 --> 00:01:32,739 really cool, 41 00:01:32,949 --> 00:01:34,180 the way everything lined up. 42 00:01:34,510 --> 00:01:36,650 And I'm just really grateful to each and every one of you. 43 00:01:36,709 --> 00:01:39,629 Thank you for those of you who are able to attend and hang out with me. 44 00:01:39,669 --> 00:01:40,980 It was about an hour and a half. 45 00:01:41,309 --> 00:01:42,410 Lots of Q&A, 46 00:01:43,150 --> 00:01:44,300 lots of discussion, 47 00:01:44,589 --> 00:01:49,139 and it was just lovely to have faces and names and conversation. 48 00:01:49,389 --> 00:01:50,309 So I appreciate y'all. 49 00:01:50,980 --> 00:01:51,309 OK, 50 00:01:51,470 --> 00:01:53,669 so let's talk about narrative summary, 51 00:01:53,680 --> 00:01:54,510 narrative commentary. 52 00:01:54,589 --> 00:01:55,819 Why am I bringing this up? 53 00:01:56,349 --> 00:01:56,550 Well, 54 00:01:56,830 --> 00:01:57,430 a lot of reasons, 55 00:01:57,470 --> 00:01:57,900 I suppose, 56 00:01:57,989 --> 00:02:00,180 but probably the number one is 57 00:02:00,470 --> 00:02:01,860 pretty consistently, 58 00:02:02,230 --> 00:02:06,989 I get questions and posts in the collective and people wondering 59 00:02:07,470 --> 00:02:08,910 what do you do and say. 60 00:02:09,910 --> 00:02:13,139 To remain adherent to CCPT when the child is quiet. 61 00:02:14,509 --> 00:02:15,449 And 62 00:02:15,779 --> 00:02:19,210 it's kind of funny to me because I know everyone has their thing, 63 00:02:19,380 --> 00:02:19,820 right? 64 00:02:19,979 --> 00:02:23,289 Every CCPT has their thing that is tricky. 65 00:02:23,380 --> 00:02:25,009 The thing that challenges them, 66 00:02:25,100 --> 00:02:27,460 their thing that kind of bothers them a little bit, 67 00:02:27,740 --> 00:02:28,690 that they struggle with, 68 00:02:28,699 --> 00:02:29,169 whatever. 69 00:02:29,380 --> 00:02:32,100 So I think a lot of people struggle with silence. 70 00:02:32,240 --> 00:02:33,339 I personally don't, 71 00:02:33,580 --> 00:02:36,539 but I think that is a really difficult thing for a 72 00:02:36,539 --> 00:02:39,339 lot of CCPTs because I'm asked about it all the time. 73 00:02:40,179 --> 00:02:41,339 And here's what 74 00:02:41,529 --> 00:02:42,429 ends up happening 75 00:02:42,649 --> 00:02:44,690 if we think about the reflective responses. 76 00:02:45,619 --> 00:02:47,770 We can always offer one of the three. 77 00:02:48,139 --> 00:02:50,490 We can either reflect content, 78 00:02:50,860 --> 00:02:52,259 whatever the child is saying to us, 79 00:02:52,360 --> 00:02:53,369 we say back 80 00:02:53,899 --> 00:02:55,729 in paraphrased form. 81 00:02:55,979 --> 00:02:56,889 If you say it exactly, 82 00:02:57,059 --> 00:02:59,490 you're going to get yelled at for being a robot and copying, 83 00:02:59,580 --> 00:03:02,610 so that that's just your public service announcement for the day. 84 00:03:02,940 --> 00:03:03,330 Don't, 85 00:03:03,380 --> 00:03:04,210 if the kid says, 86 00:03:04,330 --> 00:03:05,259 I'm going to build a tower, 87 00:03:05,380 --> 00:03:07,460 don't you dare say you're gonna build a tower 88 00:03:07,460 --> 00:03:10,009 because that gets irritating to a child real fast, 89 00:03:10,169 --> 00:03:11,410 and they'll call you out. 90 00:03:11,740 --> 00:03:14,649 But we're going to reflect the content of what the child says. 91 00:03:15,380 --> 00:03:15,860 However, 92 00:03:15,990 --> 00:03:17,820 that's eliminated when a child is quiet. 93 00:03:18,309 --> 00:03:20,350 Then we have the option of reflecting feelings. 94 00:03:20,550 --> 00:03:22,100 If the child is quiet 95 00:03:22,500 --> 00:03:23,990 and playing something repetitively, 96 00:03:24,089 --> 00:03:24,899 for example, 97 00:03:25,630 --> 00:03:28,410 there's probably not a lot of emotion to identify. 98 00:03:28,509 --> 00:03:29,020 Therefore, 99 00:03:29,190 --> 00:03:32,979 we don't really have the opportunity to reflect feeling in that moment either. 100 00:03:33,470 --> 00:03:35,860 So you have a quiet child that's not emoting. 101 00:03:36,470 --> 00:03:39,419 Now all of a sudden we're left with just tracking behavior. 102 00:03:40,529 --> 00:03:45,110 And that also becomes very laborious and monotonous very quickly, 103 00:03:45,520 --> 00:03:46,729 because how many times, 104 00:03:46,800 --> 00:03:49,110 if a child is coloring a paper, 105 00:03:49,720 --> 00:03:51,309 how many times can you say 106 00:03:51,600 --> 00:03:53,029 you changed to that color, 107 00:03:53,639 --> 00:03:55,070 you colored that there. 108 00:03:55,949 --> 00:03:58,160 You switched to that side of the paper, 109 00:03:58,690 --> 00:04:00,589 you picked up that colored pencil. 110 00:04:00,970 --> 00:04:01,479 I mean, 111 00:04:01,550 --> 00:04:02,210 holy Moses, 112 00:04:02,289 --> 00:04:02,690 it just, 113 00:04:02,729 --> 00:04:03,380 it's like, 114 00:04:03,389 --> 00:04:04,800 please can we do something else? 115 00:04:04,960 --> 00:04:07,850 And I think that's why it's so uncomfortable and I think that's 116 00:04:07,850 --> 00:04:12,250 why it's so difficult because if we're left with just tracking behavior. 117 00:04:13,410 --> 00:04:15,160 It makes it very tricky 118 00:04:15,410 --> 00:04:18,959 to not feel like it is just the most repetitive, 119 00:04:19,369 --> 00:04:21,600 irritating kind of dialogue. 120 00:04:21,690 --> 00:04:23,290 The child's not engaging verbally, 121 00:04:23,489 --> 00:04:25,359 the child's not engaging emotionally. 122 00:04:25,570 --> 00:04:26,109 Therefore, 123 00:04:26,190 --> 00:04:27,480 all we're left with 124 00:04:27,690 --> 00:04:29,679 is say what we see them doing, 125 00:04:30,049 --> 00:04:33,730 and they start to just want you to stop talking. 126 00:04:34,709 --> 00:04:35,390 So then, 127 00:04:35,670 --> 00:04:37,230 this is where narrative summary, 128 00:04:37,309 --> 00:04:39,029 narrative commentary comes in. 129 00:04:39,750 --> 00:04:41,260 This goes beyond 130 00:04:41,630 --> 00:04:43,350 just the tracking of behavior. 131 00:04:44,029 --> 00:04:46,649 And if you integrate both together 132 00:04:47,220 --> 00:04:48,850 in fluid conversation, 133 00:04:49,339 --> 00:04:51,010 it makes it flow. 134 00:04:51,260 --> 00:04:52,649 There's fluidity 135 00:04:53,059 --> 00:04:56,549 to the interaction so that it's not just 136 00:04:56,859 --> 00:04:58,940 one track to the next to the next. 137 00:05:00,220 --> 00:05:01,649 Here's my baseball analogy, 138 00:05:01,660 --> 00:05:04,089 and this is actually why I'm doing this podcast 139 00:05:04,089 --> 00:05:06,309 episode because I was on a coaching call this week 140 00:05:06,739 --> 00:05:09,450 and somebody asked about 141 00:05:10,059 --> 00:05:11,459 if you're just tracking behavior, 142 00:05:11,500 --> 00:05:12,649 that becomes really 143 00:05:13,059 --> 00:05:13,679 boring 144 00:05:14,119 --> 00:05:14,700 and I said, 145 00:05:14,779 --> 00:05:14,869 well, 146 00:05:14,899 --> 00:05:18,059 that's when you have to use narrative commentary and the 147 00:05:18,059 --> 00:05:21,339 baseball analogy popped into my head about the color commentators. 148 00:05:21,500 --> 00:05:23,059 So if you're not a baseball fan, 149 00:05:23,140 --> 00:05:23,700 just go with me. 150 00:05:23,739 --> 00:05:24,459 I promise you'll, 151 00:05:24,500 --> 00:05:25,450 you'll understand this. 152 00:05:26,059 --> 00:05:27,700 So when you watch a baseball game. 153 00:05:28,640 --> 00:05:29,549 By the way, 154 00:05:29,839 --> 00:05:31,510 the Tampa Bay Rays 155 00:05:32,239 --> 00:05:32,709 team 156 00:05:33,290 --> 00:05:36,679 for the broadcast of Dwayne Stats and Brian Anderson, 157 00:05:37,200 --> 00:05:40,589 they are constantly rated top tier broadcast 158 00:05:40,589 --> 00:05:43,540 and commentators across all of the majors. 159 00:05:43,720 --> 00:05:45,910 So we have an amazing 160 00:05:46,290 --> 00:05:48,149 commentator duo for the Rays. 161 00:05:48,160 --> 00:05:49,640 If you've never watched a Rays game, 162 00:05:49,679 --> 00:05:50,200 you should. 163 00:05:50,279 --> 00:05:52,040 They are top tier 164 00:05:52,320 --> 00:05:52,920 commentators. 165 00:05:53,000 --> 00:05:54,279 They're fantastic to listen to. 166 00:05:54,799 --> 00:05:55,399 So, 167 00:05:55,649 --> 00:05:56,489 here's what happens. 168 00:05:56,609 --> 00:05:57,549 You have 169 00:05:57,809 --> 00:05:59,040 the main commentator. 170 00:05:59,089 --> 00:05:59,690 In our case, 171 00:05:59,700 --> 00:06:01,209 it's Dwayne Stats. 172 00:06:01,369 --> 00:06:03,239 The role of the main commentator 173 00:06:03,489 --> 00:06:05,529 is to describe the action. 174 00:06:06,570 --> 00:06:08,559 So the entire focus 175 00:06:08,899 --> 00:06:10,779 of the main commentator in our case, 176 00:06:10,899 --> 00:06:11,410 Dwayne, 177 00:06:12,079 --> 00:06:14,929 is to help someone that is not at the game, 178 00:06:15,049 --> 00:06:16,130 understand what is happening. 179 00:06:16,940 --> 00:06:19,109 You can liken that to tracking behavior. 180 00:06:19,260 --> 00:06:20,989 I hope you're seeing where this is going, 181 00:06:21,679 --> 00:06:23,750 because they are describing action. 182 00:06:24,320 --> 00:06:25,589 When I'm not at the game, 183 00:06:25,839 --> 00:06:28,470 Duane is going to tell me what's happening in the game. 184 00:06:29,529 --> 00:06:30,320 However, 185 00:06:30,549 --> 00:06:33,940 there is never just one commentator on a broadcast. 186 00:06:34,190 --> 00:06:34,600 Why? 187 00:06:34,989 --> 00:06:37,339 Because the other one is the color commentator. 188 00:06:37,529 --> 00:06:38,700 Now here's the disclaimer. 189 00:06:38,910 --> 00:06:41,309 This is very much a United States phrase. 190 00:06:41,420 --> 00:06:43,549 So for those of you international listeners, 191 00:06:43,750 --> 00:06:44,470 hello and welcome, 192 00:06:44,510 --> 00:06:45,230 by the way. 193 00:06:45,549 --> 00:06:46,660 I know you're all over the world. 194 00:06:46,859 --> 00:06:47,510 Glad you're here. 195 00:06:48,410 --> 00:06:50,820 You have no idea what a color commentator is. 196 00:06:50,899 --> 00:06:51,760 In other countries, 197 00:06:51,820 --> 00:06:55,179 they typically call them summarizers or commentators. 198 00:06:55,339 --> 00:06:56,850 So I just want to let you know 199 00:06:57,100 --> 00:07:01,500 that color commentator is kind of unique to the states as far as a term. 200 00:07:02,269 --> 00:07:04,130 And I find it very ironic that 201 00:07:04,260 --> 00:07:06,540 they call them in other countries summarizers and 202 00:07:06,540 --> 00:07:10,649 commentators because we're talking about narrative summary and narrative 203 00:07:10,859 --> 00:07:11,420 comments. 204 00:07:11,540 --> 00:07:11,890 So, 205 00:07:12,059 --> 00:07:13,850 so fascinating how this is all tying together, 206 00:07:13,880 --> 00:07:14,820 it's divine intervention. 207 00:07:15,440 --> 00:07:17,220 The color commentator, 208 00:07:17,589 --> 00:07:18,700 the whole purpose 209 00:07:18,910 --> 00:07:19,720 of having 210 00:07:20,029 --> 00:07:20,839 two people 211 00:07:21,230 --> 00:07:24,109 because you have the guy that describes the action or the girl, 212 00:07:24,190 --> 00:07:24,549 I suppose, 213 00:07:24,589 --> 00:07:25,510 usually male, 214 00:07:25,989 --> 00:07:28,100 you have the guy describing the action 215 00:07:28,390 --> 00:07:31,390 and then you have the guy providing color commentary. 216 00:07:31,450 --> 00:07:32,220 What does that mean? 217 00:07:32,390 --> 00:07:33,950 They provide humor and insight. 218 00:07:35,359 --> 00:07:37,450 So one's describing the action, 219 00:07:37,700 --> 00:07:40,290 and then one is kind of talking in general 220 00:07:40,739 --> 00:07:42,049 with humor and insight. 221 00:07:42,299 --> 00:07:46,450 This is exactly what narrative commentary and narrative summary is. 222 00:07:47,149 --> 00:07:48,529 So rather than just going, 223 00:07:49,100 --> 00:07:50,329 you switched to that color, 224 00:07:50,500 --> 00:07:51,850 you picked up the pencil, 225 00:07:51,980 --> 00:07:53,089 you're coloring there, 226 00:07:53,260 --> 00:07:54,489 you shaded that in, 227 00:07:54,700 --> 00:07:55,670 you drew that, 228 00:07:55,899 --> 00:07:57,690 you moved to that corner of the paper. 229 00:07:57,820 --> 00:07:58,029 OK, 230 00:07:58,160 --> 00:07:59,410 that's describing action, 231 00:07:59,420 --> 00:08:01,450 tracking behavior in its purest form. 232 00:08:02,019 --> 00:08:03,579 If you want to add 233 00:08:04,019 --> 00:08:05,890 some bigger picture insight, 234 00:08:06,100 --> 00:08:07,820 you can do the narrative summary, 235 00:08:07,839 --> 00:08:08,859 narrative commentary. 236 00:08:09,739 --> 00:08:12,570 You're working on filling up the entire paper. 237 00:08:13,059 --> 00:08:15,989 You're making sure that you're not just using a few colors, 238 00:08:16,059 --> 00:08:18,859 you're making sure that you're using lots of colors. 239 00:08:19,640 --> 00:08:20,829 Here's what you're doing. 240 00:08:21,079 --> 00:08:22,760 You're giving some perspective, 241 00:08:22,880 --> 00:08:24,390 you're giving some insight, 242 00:08:24,559 --> 00:08:27,390 and often you can do it in a very lighthearted way. 243 00:08:27,679 --> 00:08:29,790 Now you're not intentionally trying to be funny, 244 00:08:29,880 --> 00:08:30,760 let's be very clear, 245 00:08:30,799 --> 00:08:34,289 that would be agenda driven and that is not CCPT. 246 00:08:34,599 --> 00:08:36,308 So you're not trying to be funny, 247 00:08:36,520 --> 00:08:40,210 but a color commentator in baseball provides humor and insight. 248 00:08:40,760 --> 00:08:43,210 It's often more lighthearted dialogue 249 00:08:43,558 --> 00:08:43,919 than 250 00:08:44,200 --> 00:08:45,440 the main commentator. 251 00:08:45,479 --> 00:08:45,650 Why? 252 00:08:45,859 --> 00:08:48,830 Because the main commentator is describing the action on the field. 253 00:08:50,109 --> 00:08:53,260 When you start doing the narrative summary and the narrative commentary, 254 00:08:53,349 --> 00:08:54,239 all of a sudden 255 00:08:54,429 --> 00:08:55,909 there's some objectivity, 256 00:08:56,030 --> 00:08:56,869 there's some insight, 257 00:08:56,950 --> 00:08:58,049 there's bigger picture, 258 00:08:58,150 --> 00:08:59,669 often it's more lighthearted. 259 00:09:00,530 --> 00:09:03,030 And this is where your personality 260 00:09:03,359 --> 00:09:04,909 is a little bit more 261 00:09:05,239 --> 00:09:06,270 on display 262 00:09:06,760 --> 00:09:08,369 because it's conversational, 263 00:09:08,599 --> 00:09:09,950 it's interactive, 264 00:09:10,239 --> 00:09:12,049 it's dialogue driven 265 00:09:12,630 --> 00:09:15,950 we're not just stringing a skill with a skill with a skill 266 00:09:16,320 --> 00:09:17,630 we're gonna track behavior 267 00:09:17,840 --> 00:09:19,869 and then we're gonna provide some narrative summary. 268 00:09:20,119 --> 00:09:21,479 We're gonna track behavior and then 269 00:09:21,479 --> 00:09:23,400 we're gonna provide some narrative commentary. 270 00:09:24,349 --> 00:09:26,849 And this is so useful 271 00:09:27,059 --> 00:09:29,609 when a child is quietly playing 272 00:09:29,780 --> 00:09:31,409 and doing a repetitive, 273 00:09:31,619 --> 00:09:33,330 consistent type of play. 274 00:09:34,869 --> 00:09:39,580 They're moving cars 1 inch at a time across the floor for the entire hour. 275 00:09:40,969 --> 00:09:45,640 They're stacking blocks in a tower nonstop for the entire hour. 276 00:09:46,570 --> 00:09:51,320 They're shooting at a target with the crossbow nonstop for an hour. 277 00:09:52,299 --> 00:09:53,289 Saying nothing 278 00:09:54,219 --> 00:09:55,880 You don't see a whole lot of emotion. 279 00:09:56,710 --> 00:09:58,619 It's just repetitive behavior. 280 00:09:58,989 --> 00:10:02,539 You get stuck in only having one reflective response option 281 00:10:02,789 --> 00:10:05,190 unless you start working in narrative summary, 282 00:10:05,210 --> 00:10:06,179 narrative commentary. 283 00:10:06,349 --> 00:10:07,340 So when you do that, 284 00:10:07,549 --> 00:10:08,510 it flows. 285 00:10:09,739 --> 00:10:10,450 Oh, 286 00:10:10,599 --> 00:10:11,530 OK, 287 00:10:11,799 --> 00:10:15,489 so now you're gonna set up on the other side of the room before you shoot the target. 288 00:10:17,469 --> 00:10:19,099 Notice how different that is than 289 00:10:19,510 --> 00:10:20,510 you're shooting again. 290 00:10:22,289 --> 00:10:23,679 You can bring in 291 00:10:23,929 --> 00:10:25,919 just a natural flow 292 00:10:26,489 --> 00:10:27,960 to the whole process 293 00:10:28,250 --> 00:10:30,440 and it gets you out of saying, 294 00:10:30,929 --> 00:10:34,840 I just feel like I'm saying the same thing over and over and over again. 295 00:10:34,929 --> 00:10:36,049 And the kid gets annoyed. 296 00:10:36,130 --> 00:10:36,890 I get annoyed, 297 00:10:36,900 --> 00:10:38,039 neither one of us like it, 298 00:10:38,049 --> 00:10:39,440 but I don't know what else to do. 299 00:10:39,650 --> 00:10:40,200 And I know, 300 00:10:40,250 --> 00:10:41,520 and you all quote me all the time, 301 00:10:41,630 --> 00:10:42,780 and for better or worse, 302 00:10:42,849 --> 00:10:43,369 that's why I'm, 303 00:10:43,419 --> 00:10:45,219 I try to be so careful with my words. 304 00:10:45,330 --> 00:10:46,919 I don't want them to be misconstrued. 305 00:10:47,799 --> 00:10:50,039 You all quote me and come back to me and say, 306 00:10:50,109 --> 00:10:52,599 and I know that I can't do my job if I don't talk. 307 00:10:52,849 --> 00:10:53,010 Yes, 308 00:10:53,090 --> 00:10:54,010 100%. 309 00:10:54,210 --> 00:10:56,200 We cannot do our job if we don't talk. 310 00:10:56,489 --> 00:10:57,960 So then the pressure is, 311 00:10:58,090 --> 00:10:58,179 well, 312 00:10:58,210 --> 00:10:59,260 I have to say something. 313 00:10:59,989 --> 00:11:01,020 You moved that 314 00:11:01,190 --> 00:11:02,169 you picked that up, 315 00:11:02,270 --> 00:11:03,380 you set that down, 316 00:11:03,630 --> 00:11:04,840 you put the cap on, 317 00:11:05,109 --> 00:11:06,219 you laid it down, 318 00:11:06,570 --> 00:11:07,900 you straightened them, 319 00:11:07,909 --> 00:11:08,340 you, 320 00:11:08,429 --> 00:11:09,380 oh my gosh, 321 00:11:09,989 --> 00:11:11,669 we need some alternatives. 322 00:11:11,869 --> 00:11:13,059 That's where this comes in. 323 00:11:13,229 --> 00:11:15,309 So I hope my baseball analogy helps. 324 00:11:15,469 --> 00:11:15,830 By the way, 325 00:11:15,909 --> 00:11:17,340 next time you watch a baseball game, 326 00:11:17,390 --> 00:11:18,559 you're going to 327 00:11:19,030 --> 00:11:22,020 readily identify the main commentator and the color commentator, 328 00:11:22,030 --> 00:11:22,619 I guarantee you, 329 00:11:22,630 --> 00:11:23,950 and you're gonna think about this episode, 330 00:11:24,030 --> 00:11:25,150 so you are welcome for that. 331 00:11:26,150 --> 00:11:28,500 I hope that this gives you some. 332 00:11:29,349 --> 00:11:30,030 Thought 333 00:11:30,250 --> 00:11:34,119 into how you can make your sessions flow, 334 00:11:34,489 --> 00:11:35,479 feel at ease, 335 00:11:35,770 --> 00:11:37,200 feel conversational. 336 00:11:38,010 --> 00:11:39,809 The purpose is relationship. 337 00:11:40,619 --> 00:11:41,809 And while just 338 00:11:42,090 --> 00:11:45,200 just tracking behavior with that reflective response, 339 00:11:45,369 --> 00:11:47,650 it's not going to rupture the relationship by any means, 340 00:11:47,729 --> 00:11:49,679 it's adherent and it's necessary. 341 00:11:49,809 --> 00:11:52,200 So there's not going to be any fallout from that, 342 00:11:52,890 --> 00:11:55,359 but the relationship is going to 343 00:11:55,770 --> 00:11:57,119 feel more easy 344 00:11:57,330 --> 00:11:59,919 and more natural and more genuine 345 00:12:00,330 --> 00:12:03,570 when you work in some of this narrative commentary and narrative summary. 346 00:12:03,770 --> 00:12:05,359 So I hope that that is helpful. 347 00:12:05,489 --> 00:12:08,359 I hope that gives you some thoughts and ideas on what to do. 348 00:12:09,010 --> 00:12:09,929 If you want to reach out to me, 349 00:12:10,010 --> 00:12:12,599 please do brenna@thekidcounselor.com. 350 00:12:12,929 --> 00:12:15,159 And I just wanna give you a little update. 351 00:12:15,530 --> 00:12:16,880 The CPRT 352 00:12:17,330 --> 00:12:19,200 training course through Corwell 353 00:12:19,609 --> 00:12:22,119 is officially edited and ready to go. 354 00:12:22,849 --> 00:12:28,049 So we are actively getting everything over to Joseph and Kate at Corwell, 355 00:12:28,309 --> 00:12:30,900 and we should be able to launch that this month. 356 00:12:31,109 --> 00:12:33,710 So this is for those of you that are going to listen to this later, 357 00:12:33,770 --> 00:12:35,520 this is May of 2025. 358 00:12:35,909 --> 00:12:38,500 So we are hoping to have that completely ready 359 00:12:38,750 --> 00:12:39,979 and CEU 360 00:12:40,309 --> 00:12:41,419 certification 361 00:12:42,020 --> 00:12:42,510 prepared 362 00:12:42,869 --> 00:12:44,869 for the end of May of 2025. 363 00:12:44,909 --> 00:12:45,150 So I, 364 00:12:45,309 --> 00:12:46,190 I know many, 365 00:12:46,270 --> 00:12:47,830 many of you have been waiting for that. 366 00:12:48,049 --> 00:12:50,039 And I apologize for how long it's taken. 367 00:12:50,119 --> 00:12:55,190 It's a lot of hours of content and editing videos is a very slow and tedious process, 368 00:12:55,599 --> 00:12:57,229 but we have finally gotten there. 369 00:12:57,719 --> 00:13:00,030 We're really excited about that and 370 00:13:00,280 --> 00:13:02,979 so many of you are wanting to add parent coaching to 371 00:13:03,119 --> 00:13:04,469 your suite of services, 372 00:13:04,799 --> 00:13:09,390 and CPRT is going to be such a helpful addition to your practice. 373 00:13:09,679 --> 00:13:12,469 And if you are a facilitator of that curriculum, 374 00:13:12,479 --> 00:13:14,080 it gives you the foundation. 375 00:13:14,500 --> 00:13:17,919 So that you can really be effective in helping parents implement 376 00:13:18,190 --> 00:13:23,030 CCPT with their own children and obviously conduct play sessions in their homes, 377 00:13:23,150 --> 00:13:24,460 which is really meaningful 378 00:13:24,750 --> 00:13:28,510 and so much research proves how effective that program is. 379 00:13:28,599 --> 00:13:28,979 So, 380 00:13:29,109 --> 00:13:30,859 really looking forward to that for you all. 381 00:13:31,469 --> 00:13:32,830 Can't wait to officially launch, 382 00:13:32,869 --> 00:13:33,950 but it will be this month, 383 00:13:33,989 --> 00:13:35,510 so I wanted to let you all know about that. 384 00:13:35,789 --> 00:13:36,270 I love y'all. 385 00:13:36,409 --> 00:13:36,909 Have a great week. 386 00:13:36,989 --> 00:13:37,580 We'll talk soon. 387 00:13:37,830 --> 00:13:37,989 Bye. 388 00:13:39,140 --> 00:13:41,940 Thank you for listening to the Play Therapy Podcast with Dr. 389 00:13:42,099 --> 00:13:43,020 Brenna Hicks. 390 00:13:43,179 --> 00:13:45,140 For more episodes and resources, 391 00:13:45,260 --> 00:13:50,020 please go to www.playtherapypodcast.com.