RHOC Recap: Friends Worth the WEIGHT

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Speaker 1: Reality with the King is hosted by me, Carlos King. I'm an executive producer who have produced some of your favorite shows from the Real Housewives in Atlanta, New Jersey and my own creation, The Love and Marriage Franchise and bell Collective. Every episode we recap reality television from the Real Housewives Franchise to The Bachelor or Selling Sunset, in addition to celebrity guests, whether in the unscripted space or scripted as well. Hey, ray Drops, Oh, today's episode Reality of the King. We are going to recap episode five of season nineteen of the Real Housewives of Oorts County. And look, I've been having such a good time with her and she has been such a gem. Why not invite her back? You guys are loving her. I love her the most. Give it up for the beautiful Alexis Bellino back again.

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Speaker 2: Like it or not?

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Speaker 3: Hi, I like we like it.

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Speaker 1: The ray Drops are loving you. I hope you've been having as much fun with me as I have it with you.

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Speaker 4: Girl, Carlos, I would never have invited you to my wedding if we weren't having fun all the time.

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Speaker 2: So yeah, it doesn't matter if we're at a party or we're here, you're fun everywhere.

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Speaker 4: So yeah, yeah, And guess what if I was wearing an ugly outfit, you'd say, I think maybe you should, you know, step it up a little.

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Speaker 2: I know that about you that I.

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Speaker 3: Like the Yes, that's totally beat, that's totally beat.

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Speaker 1: Well, look, as we get started, I gotta ask you the million dollar question.

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Speaker 3: Okay, do you have a fatty photo somewhere?

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Speaker 2: Oh my, you're going there.

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Speaker 3: You know, it's the topic of the episode.

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Speaker 2: I know you're right, You're right.

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Speaker 4: I I do fluctuate sometimes.

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Speaker 2: I think five at the most pounds.

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Speaker 4: I don't have a photo of me super super heavy. I think here's the thing, here's the thing I wanted to make clear. I'm glad you brought this up. Every woman, as stick thin as you could be, can take the wrong pose at the wrong angle, or your arms like in the road, and you could look twenty pounds heavier than you really are, or ten pounds or five pounds. So yeah, I'm sure there's there's some out there. But I my weight doesn't flexuate because I just I don't know. I mean five pounds, it does five to ten pounds, five never ten.

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Speaker 2: But I don't think that it's.

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Speaker 4: Something where it's like that could have just been a bad angle to be honest.

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Speaker 3: Yeah, I mean, look, I feel like we all have one. Look, Alexis I got one? You see?

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Speaker 2: Okay, that doesn't look bad to me, Carlos, but look at the house. Okay, show me your abs now? Oh okay?

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Speaker 4: Oh okay, Well you didn't prep me, see we don't. We don't talk before these You didn't prep me to go find the worst photo I have of my ads. I would show you after Memorial Day weekend or something like that and show you the way I look.

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Speaker 2: Okay, you didn't give me that.

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Speaker 4: Yeah, can you give me a little bit of advice when we're going to do this episode from now on?

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Speaker 3: I want to.

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Speaker 2: That isn't okay? So wait is that you? Now?

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Speaker 3: Yeah?

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Speaker 2: Okay, hatty p Tati? Holy okay, you have a six pack? What you've been eating?

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Speaker 1: Well, you know I'm planning based, so I eat lots of grease kanewah to.

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Speaker 4: So you are hold on, I know we have to get into the episode, but you so you are vegan?

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Speaker 3: Yes?

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Speaker 2: Wow? And is that medical or is that just you just decided to.

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Speaker 3: No, it's all vanity it's all vanity. I'm vain.

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Speaker 4: So you think meat causes because there's traders that think it doesn't. But you think meat causes you to be heavier, and the greens keep you.

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Speaker 2: And the vegetables keep you lean and mean and mean machine.

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Speaker 1: Yeah, I feel like greens keep you lean and meat keeps you meat these so I am very much a lean cuisine.

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Speaker 4: Well, I'm known as the rabbit because I eat mostly vegetables. I want a salad or some veggies. I'll order the asparagus even though it makes your peace snank. I don't care. I will order the asparagus with my own seasonings and maybe some parmesan doesn't matter. So maybe that's why I don't gain a ton of weight here and there. I also don't like sweet anymore in my older age. But yeah, okay, we have to dig in.

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Speaker 1: I know, we okay, so we have to say again, so listen see we First of all, I thought this episode was super fun. I laughed a lot watching the episode, so I thought it was a fun. Well, but what wasn't fun is this. You know, listen, there's a storyline that they continue this episode of Tamera alleging that you know, Jen wants to be her and showing a photo of Jen where she was heavier than she is now.

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Speaker 3: The cast called it.

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Speaker 1: The fatty photo, and Jim looked visibly upset by it. She's like, who walks around? Like and does that? Did you think it was mean?

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Speaker 2: Wait?

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Speaker 4: When you say Jen walks around saying who does that?

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Speaker 2: You mean who does the photo?

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Speaker 3: Yeah?

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Speaker 4: Because because here's the problem. Jen was in the photo with her. They were taking the photo together. It was a photo of you saw the photo, It was a photo of all of them together.

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Speaker 3: Yeah, yeah, yeah.

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Speaker 1: Jen was not happy that Tamara decided to send it to people and show it to people.

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Speaker 3: Did you think that was sending it me spaed it?

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Speaker 4: Yeah, well I definitely wouldn't start showing that to people. I don't know what that was, but I think at the point, I'm not sure, I don't know, okay, but I feel like maybe at that point, here's the thing. I think Gin's up to here with Tamar, and I think Tamar's up here with Jen. I don't know how we're ever going to make this a Kumbaya moment, which we all want, right, we all want, we all want the reconciliation part of it. I think at that moment watching that, I was like, Tamar is completely fed up, thinks that Jen did really want to turn into her and become her. So she's showing the photo of when they met and then that I don't know what I mean, how else do you explain it?

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Speaker 2: I don't.

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Speaker 4: I honestly know that Tamar doesn't have a n bone in her body like that. But I do think it was not okay to show it. I will be honest, I don't think it was okay to see it, And I'm sure would you would you show that photo if you were in Tamor's position.

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Speaker 1: Well, that's the thing, listen, I think I agree with you right in the sense of look showing the photo to insinuate someone's weight. If that's what she was doing, then that's not okay, right.

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Speaker 3: Based on what I've.

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Speaker 1: Heard from Tamora on the show prior to that, was how she really thinks this woman has transformed herself into how into what Tamer feels right Like. I think that's the difference that I'm seeing, and I think you agree with that. To Alexis, I think Tamar was saying this woman transformed herself into looking like me is the before and after of it all.

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Speaker 3: That's what I got from.

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Speaker 2: It, And here's that's what I got from you.

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Speaker 4: And here's what I'm as an outsider I'm saying, is Okay, I can see both sides.

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Speaker 2: Care's why I can see.

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Speaker 4: Where Tamra would think this girl's trying to be me. I can see also Jen wanting to Tamra has. Let's be real, Tamra has like seven things. Now we've watched the season a little bit more, We've seen like four episodes or three episodes for Tamar has all this evidence.

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Speaker 2: Of Jen did this and does this, and does this and does.

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Speaker 4: This, and now it's like, Okay, I can kind of see that side. However, there's also the side of if someone sees a photo of them or is like I just want to be better. I want to be leaner, I want to have longer hair, I want to have better skin.

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Speaker 2: We can't judge for that either.

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Speaker 4: It's like, that's why I'm so caught in the like this like the middle and a vortext because it's like, I don't think either of them are really trying to.

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Speaker 2: Be I don't I think they both have Okay, let me see it.

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Speaker 4: This way, I think they both have a good position for where they stand. I think Tamarra has a good point and Jen has a good point. And that's the rot why this makes this this argument so like monumental, like it's a big deal and I don't know where's it going to go from here.

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Speaker 2: I mean, that's why it's juicy. Okay. And by the way, yeah, big jam Or hadn't shown that photo.

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Speaker 4: I mean that photo is creating the entire storyline once again right now, Like I don't know, she kind of carries.

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Speaker 2: The story, she moves everything forward. I don't agree with it. I'm letting you know right now, I am telling you I don't agree with it.

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Speaker 4: She ever showed the photo. However, here we are and I can see both sides of them.

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Speaker 3: Yeah yeah, yeah, yeah, yeah, yeah yeah, No, I agree.

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Speaker 1: And it's interesting too because I felt like when Gina was talking to Heather about it, Heather was sort of like, look, I think she did it for these reasons. And instantly they're like, Heather is scared of camera. This is your friend group. I don't know them as well as you do. Do you think Heather is scared of Tamera?

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Speaker 2: No, No, Heather is not scared of Tamra.

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Speaker 4: No, I think I think Heather has her own viewpoints. I don't think Heather is scared of Tamla. I think it's it's this is a sticky situation because Tamara had does have six or seven valid points about why Jin is looking like she's uh, you know, seeing a white female Jin.

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Speaker 2: Also, it's like this is worn pony.

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Speaker 4: I'm just trying to be a better person, like look better, be better, feel better kind of thing.

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Speaker 2: That's that's the wash, and that's the truth of it.

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Speaker 4: Like, I don't think at all that Heather is scared of Camela. I don't think anyone I was just tell you, I will tell you. I think Heather is afraid of having enemies. I think Heather has such a soft soul that she doesn't want to have anyone mad at her or like I feel like she plays Switzerland a lot, like doesn't have a lot of a huge backbone in certain areas. But Heather is not scared of people. So what That's that's how I feel. And I love Heather, She's one of my good friends. I love her so but that's how I mean. I think we can see that through the show and through the season.

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Speaker 1: You know, yeah, Aubrey, I don't think Heather is afraid of anybody. I think Heather has based on what I've seen from Heather on the years she's been on She's a tough woman and she's.

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Speaker 3: Never shied the way from stating her opinion. I'll be a popular or not.

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Speaker 1: I feel like Heather stands in her beliefs, in her convictions.

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Speaker 3: I don't think for a second she's got a tamera. I think when.

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Speaker 1: It comes to Heather, she owns who she is and she's not trying to ever follow the majority boat. I just don't see her as the type of woman.

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Speaker 4: I agree. I one hundred percent agree. I think she does stand her ground, but I.

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Speaker 2: Do feel like to keep I feel like she's kind of the peace. She tries to be a little bit of the peacemaker.

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Speaker 4: There are times I feel like she could have one side more than the other where she I feel like she.

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Speaker 2: Kind of goes a little in the middle. But that's just me and I have filmed with her, so yeah.

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Speaker 4: I mean, I sat by her at the reunion in last season eighteen, and she did not stick up for me.

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Speaker 2: When everyone's yelling at me and we have already talked about this, we have smashed this, we have done this. It's done.

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Speaker 4: But you know, she was right there where she could have simply said, guys, let her like this talk and so so I just think she sometimes she wants to be the peacemaker.

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Speaker 1: I didn't think about that because I remember you and I spoke about that too, and I felt the same way at last year's reunion when it came to I felt like it was a pile of shit just dumped on you, and I'm like, why is it anyone defending election?

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Speaker 2: So it wasn't a pile of shit dumped on me.

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Speaker 4: It was Emily yelling and not letting me speak, and so it was it was just her loud mouth and then Heather was stuck in the middle. So it was But that's okay. Look, I don't want to talk about the past. We got to talk about this episode. So it was juicy and good and I think next episode, Okay, the trailer for next episode.

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Speaker 2: I'm like, oh, hey, gosh, I can't wait to see it.

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Speaker 3: But no, it's good.

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Speaker 2: Yeah, yeah, it's good.

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Speaker 1: This is reality with the King, and I'm Carlos King. Let's get back into the show. So what I love about Gina is listen, I'm proud of Gina, her sobriety. I'm happy that she is killing it in real estate. So she's hosting this event and she surprises the girls with the New Orleans trip, and then you visibly see Tamra not excited to go, and that's when we learned that this is the start of what has been you know, out there in social media world about how Tamra left the cast trip early and she announced I believe on.

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Speaker 3: Social media that she quit.

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Speaker 1: So what we what we saw in this episode, Alexis, was Tamra talking about her lack of enthusiasm going to New Orleans because it's the same location that her best friend and fellow podcast host Teddy Mellencamp felled down marble stairs as she's going through cancer and getting humors removed.

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Speaker 3: And I'm just like.

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Speaker 1: It's it's it's it's fascinating to watch all of this unfolding real time because you I saw camera personality change instantly when Gina announced New Orleans. And I know a lot of people are like, oh, Tom's making excuses, but I feel like that was to me, that moment was so pivotal that she really is dealing with some heavy shit at this current time of filming.

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Speaker 2: It. You can see it. And this is the thing.

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Speaker 4: Tamra doesn't cry on camera about personal things, like not deep of a personal thing because she doesn't like to go there.

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Speaker 2: I can tell it. I can see it. Even in the seasons that we've watched before, she'll cry about things that are in the moment that she's ticked off about or this, and that she doesn't go deep.

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Speaker 4: That's what she's in therapy for. I feel like right now it's trying to dig deep, right, like get to the deeper roots. But she doesn't typically cry about something that's so close and personal. And I think she was still at that moment back at that time, it was all true new. I don't even think camera could even function like knowing, okay, what's happening right now, Like I'm barely being able to film.

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Speaker 2: I don't know my best friend. I don't know if she's you know, what's happening, what's her what's her diagnosis? But so it was.

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Speaker 4: That's the thing with the camera is a raw and it can capture the real moment. It can also tell when you're faking it. Fake crying is very apparent. Real crying and real emotion is very apparent.

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Speaker 2: So I feel like that.

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Speaker 4: Was one of the moments that you can look and go, holy hat, she's hurting like bad right now.

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Speaker 3: No, it's just to like hear what Teddy is going through, what happened.

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Speaker 1: To her, how the fall really you know, did a did her confidence that she was rebuilding after going through this. It was just it was very sad to to to just hear that and then to have to visualize how that moment must have felt for for Tamera being triggered by the thoughts of New Orleans. But look, it's the beauty of the show when you get to follow stuff in real time. Speaking of beauty, following Ran in the gym full time, it's my idea of a great night.

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Speaker 3: Alexis, I'm just.

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Speaker 2: Okay, what do you mean following Ryan Jen's husband? Yeah, I'm confused. So you want to just you want to just go back to more gem scenes and follow him.

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Speaker 3: That's it.

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Speaker 1: Give me that spin off, Bravo, What do you think? What are you guys talking about? Give me that spinoff? You can add Eddie there at John Like, that's my type of seed. Give me Ryan working out please every day of the week.

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Speaker 2: Well, like you mentioned, I mean.

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Speaker 4: You mentioned at the beginning of this episode or just when we first start talking about this episode, you mentioned that you liked that it was lighter and there were some fun There was a lot more like some of the home Wife, some of the gym wipe, some of the other life and the whole episode, which I enjoyed because the quirkiness and the fun stuff that you see behind a couple or two friends. That's draw and not just you know, more of the let's get into the heart of it all.

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Speaker 2: It's really actually cool and I thought it was fun.

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Speaker 4: I think it's cool to see how people interact and couples interact and you can relate and you're.

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Speaker 2: Like, oh we do that or oh that was odd, you know, like either way, it's just so fun.

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Speaker 1: Yeah, yeah, No, I really really enjoyed it. And like you said, getting deeper in this episode versus like the girl and Girl drama to hear Jan talk about what she's going through in her situation with her ex husband, how she was awarded child support.

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Speaker 3: She mentioned how she was also awarded never paid.

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Speaker 1: She told Jeff Lewis is actually two hundred thousand dollars that is ow to her.

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Speaker 3: She has not seen a dime.

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Speaker 1: That was wild to me, Like, how is he able to get away with that if it was the judgment in court that he has to pay.

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Speaker 2: I don't I honestly don't know. It's actually bizarre.

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Speaker 4: And also props like and by the way, there should be something that is done about that because of the judgment of the court.

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Speaker 2: She's got most of the kids most of the time. She needs some help.

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Speaker 4: But props to Ryan for actually taking these kids under his wing and just saying okay, look, but how embarrassing for the dad that didn't isn't paying Like now the stepdad or the boyfriend their fanced but like, okay, now the boyfriend's.

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Speaker 2: Paying for all the kids when the dad should be.

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Speaker 4: But I mean, why don't we know if he has like some you know issue, Well, he's not on the cat so we won't know, but he might have financial problems.

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Speaker 2: I don't know.

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Speaker 4: But all I know is it's embarrassing the other fatherers taking care of your children when you're well capable of it.

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Speaker 2: In the judgments, you're spots too.

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Speaker 1: No listen, Ryan is great because he's not married to Jin just yet. He had his girlfriend with his fiance and her children move into his home. I listen, I understand why Ryan felt the need of Alexis to confront Jim's ex husband to really ask about, like where's the money? Because I think it Ry's defense is a man to man conversation and the fact that his children, you know, Jen's and his.

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Speaker 2: Child or residing in Ryan's house. They're residing Arian's house.

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Speaker 1: It's like, it's it's crazy, It's crazy. I don't I thought it was a great thing that he confront of him.

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Speaker 3: What did you think?

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Speaker 4: I'm I'm kind of mixed about that, honestly, coming from a broken family, I think it's I think it's hard because you just don't know what's going to be the right thing to do, right Carlos, because he is supporting the kids. Ryan is supporting the kids most of the time. They are living in his home most of the time. I don't even know what the what the agreement is.

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Speaker 2: So it's hard, and I don't know that a.

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Speaker 4: Man to man conversation is the right way to handle it, because then that, you know, does set Gin back ten steps, like she said, and she's just trying to keep the peace.

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Speaker 2: But maybe it's the one thing that'll work.

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Speaker 4: Maybe it's the one thing that'll get will isn't it will to actually step up a little, you know, I don't know.

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Speaker 2: It's hard because I'm from a broken pain.

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Speaker 4: So it's like I can see I can see the that Ryan was doing it and all, you know, wanted to.

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Speaker 2: Do it to help the situation. And then I can see where Jenna is like, that's just hurt the situation. I can see both sides.

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Speaker 3: Okay, No, that's fair.

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Speaker 2: I can't be black and white.

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Speaker 3: No, that's fair.

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Speaker 1: That's fair because at the end of the day, if something goes awry, like Jen said, the ex would allegedly use that to punish her, which is not okay.

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Speaker 2: Right, And that's the sticky part to it.

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Speaker 1: No, that makes sense that yeah, yeah, yeah, no, it was. It was tough to hear. The other thing, though, alexis as we're diving to the deep personal stories. The other thing that was tough to hear is what Gina and Travis are going through as it relates to traps ex, who.

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Speaker 3: Is allegedly.

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Speaker 1: Not allowing Travis to see his son because Travis is dealing with Gina and how he's not even the son isn't even going to school like this.

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Speaker 3: This is mind boggling to me that.

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Speaker 1: This happens, the fact that a parent would do that.

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Speaker 4: It's scary because the court system can't keep up with all of it. There's so many, Like I do feel a court tries to make it fair and equal for everyone, and there's just so many divorced families, and.

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Speaker 2: It's like, how how do they keep up? I don't know.

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Speaker 4: That's why you have to work really hard to keep you know, some kind of an agreement so it doesn't go to court.

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Speaker 2: And and and the fact is, where does Travis go? How does he get any help? You can't. It's like you just don't get the sun. I mean, you can call the cops, you know, you couldn't.

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Speaker 4: There are certain things you can do, but then the cops do come and they'll be like, sorry, I can't help you right now, Like you know, this is a court situation. It's just it's so bizarre. And I don't want to say the court system is broken, but in the family court of law, I do feel like it might be a little broken. I feel so bad for so many families, and there's so many emotions and so, you know, especially when children can't speak their mind or really have you know, I think it's like twelve or fourteen so they can actually say, you know, before the court will actually listen to them.

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Speaker 2: So yeah, it's hard.

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Speaker 3: Yeah. No, that made me sad to hear that.

00:24:50
Speaker 1: And then the fact that the ex wife is calling Gina's son.

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Speaker 4: Fuck and involving the children. Okay, okay, you got to keep gives out of it. It's between the adults here, you know.

00:25:06
Speaker 3: I I my my mind boggled with that.

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Speaker 2: I agree.

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Speaker 1: The cast then goes to New Orleans and listen. I love it when the cast goes on a trip. I feel like you're going to get a double dose of fun and drama.

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Speaker 3: So listen.

00:25:24
Speaker 1: I enjoyed them getting ready for it. Shannon showed what she was working with between her legs.

00:25:33
Speaker 3: You know, I was shocked. I was shocked.

00:25:39
Speaker 2: That shocked me.

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Speaker 3: I thought she was like so conservative.

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Speaker 4: Yeah, I'm not gonna I have lost her name for my vocabulary, thank you, thankfully.

00:25:49
Speaker 2: Like now it's like we're done.

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Speaker 3: I will okay.

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Speaker 2: I think people are starting to seed the truth.

00:25:56
Speaker 3: Okay, Alexis. There's certain things you can.

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Speaker 4: Give any advice or any I'm sorry, you can give any input.

00:26:07
Speaker 2: You want to on that. I am going to muzzle Okay.

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Speaker 3: I'll left it.

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Speaker 1: I wish I wish the dress was muzzled like that is something that I just I just do not. I don't want to see that. I just and and and she was gleefully showing it. I'm like, this ain't the love hotel.

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Speaker 3: I don't know who you're trying to secure by showing your.

00:26:32
Speaker 2: I will say that she's sitting there going no, No, nobody wants to date. And it's like, okay, well it's clear why why they don't, Like.

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Speaker 4: No one wants to hear and see those kind of things like they wouldn't if you're gonna act class even be classy, like don't just at it like.

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Speaker 2: Okay, that's all I'm gonna say. I told you I'm not gonna die jokes. No, I no listen, no listen mine right now? You ready.

00:27:03
Speaker 3: To me? Sister?

00:27:06
Speaker 2: You would you would click, honey, you know what you would do. You would click that button? So bad done? Okay, podcasts over the world.

00:27:13
Speaker 3: For the night in recording that you.

00:27:20
Speaker 1: Listen honey, you're about to get married, so clearly you know how to use what you got, so let's just keep it there.

00:27:26
Speaker 3: But well, it's funny because I.

00:27:32
Speaker 4: Mean John and I have not because yeah we're yeah, okay, we learned, you know, let that from last event.

00:27:38
Speaker 3: We'll move on, do you guys? Okay, what.

00:27:43
Speaker 1: What are the topics the Alexis were if aie was ever made a sex video?

00:27:50
Speaker 2: You need a drink for this. Drink water. It's a bottle of water, mylet.

00:27:56
Speaker 4: People can't see and I'm like, I neither drink and I'm like, okay, having a martini over here.

00:28:00
Speaker 1: Okay, So alex Is, what what are your thoughts all like couples making sex videos?

00:28:10
Speaker 4: Well, I think if you're in a loving relationship, and you are, you know, here's the fear that I would always have, because now it's my third marriage, would be what if that gets out? What if then it's like, okay, you something goes awry. It's like okay, now what But they's just out there, you know. I think it's great. It can be a lot of fun for a couple. I just feel like it's a little scary, you know, because I'm getting married to John right now, So.

00:28:50
Speaker 2: Yeah, what do you think have you done it? Carlos haven't. Yeah, you're pleading to that.

00:29:04
Speaker 3: There is nothing recorded.

00:29:06
Speaker 1: Listen you know how like when you're listen with cell phone with cell phones, Verse came.

00:29:11
Speaker 3: Out and you were like trying to.

00:29:17
Speaker 2: Cell phones came.

00:29:18
Speaker 4: Out, You're trying to what videos like you were oh and then it dropped or what what?

00:29:24
Speaker 2: I don't know where you're going.

00:29:25
Speaker 1: No, you're just like you're having fun, you're in love, you're having fun, and you test your shit out. But then but then I'm like you Alexis, I was like, wait a second. I immediately was like this is getting deleted the moment, like the.

00:29:40
Speaker 3: Action is done. I just I'm not. I'm not. I don't need anything saved.

00:29:47
Speaker 4: Well yeah, or if it gets out, that's the problem you have to That's what I worry about.

00:29:52
Speaker 2: What these people, you know, that's the scary thing.

00:29:55
Speaker 1: It's okay, No, people are crazy and.

00:30:01
Speaker 3: Exes are not as graceful these days.

00:30:10
Speaker 2: What does that mean.

00:30:13
Speaker 3: If they're mad at you build.

00:30:17
Speaker 2: Engines? Yes, yeah, yeah, yeah, yeah, it's that you're it's at yours. It's right there at your hand. You can do it. You know what I mean.

00:30:25
Speaker 4: Before it was you had to have the big old device, the big cam quorder that you're like, okay, let me try to how do you do that?

00:30:31
Speaker 2: Like a phone?

00:30:32
Speaker 4: It's like, okay, it's more discreet, like you know it was before we had the rep the Flintstone age, you know, like okay, here.

00:30:39
Speaker 3: Yes, yes, exactly. So I'm glad.

00:30:46
Speaker 1: Look, I'm glad that time my life is over now. One thing that I thought was a funny revelation have a Debro revealed that Terry Debro where its lift shoes, obsessed, obsessed.

00:31:05
Speaker 4: Okay, And I think it's phenomenal too because I think most people know it. You can kind of tell when he was, you know, out in about or whatever. But I think it's awesome that it's self revealing. That I'm not duprecating because it's on him, not her, but you know, it's just being so lulnerable and honest. It's like, look, okay, who cares he wants to gain an entry or two?

00:31:28
Speaker 2: Okay, what's the problem with that? No body deal. He still looks great, they're happily married. It does not matter. It's like okay, but yeah, awesome. And she's like I love the comment where she's like they probably cost more than a house or something. I forget when it was like something like that his shoes. We won't be buying another pair of those anything.

00:31:49
Speaker 3: So yeah, no, not any time soon.

00:31:51
Speaker 1: But it made me think, like, I mean, because I'm like five nine a half, and because John is how John is like what six to two?

00:32:01
Speaker 2: Yeah? You tall? Yeah?

00:32:04
Speaker 3: Yeah?

00:32:05
Speaker 4: I and Tina peck and still hot as f So there you go. But anyway, yeah, he doesn't need shoes. He didn't need a lift in anything. Okay, But so you're I do want some, I know what, but you don't think five nine and a half you feel like you want to be a little taller. I'll text Terry and ask him where he gets them. Maybe it's a Christmas present. We'll get it for you for Christmas, Okay, Heather and I'll go in on it together, all right.

00:32:32
Speaker 2: Yeah, so you think it would feel good to feel five to ten?

00:32:40
Speaker 3: Ah? For sure? All for sure? For sure? Because this is things everyone likes a tall man.

00:32:48
Speaker 4: I think that I don't think hype matters. I think that it's about the heart and about everything else. I mean, it's weird because I usually am with taller men because I'm five seven, though, Carlos, It's like, what what short guys even gonna think I'm hot?

00:33:01
Speaker 2: You know, Like it's like I'm like too tall for everyone. It's shorter, you know, so they're like, oh, Jero too tall, you know. So no, it's yeah, I can see it. Okay, let's get you some list, honey.

00:33:15
Speaker 1: Yes, almost, almost some lifts, but no. After I watched this episode, I thought of you, Alexis, because I know in our conversations you always talked about like how you know you like it when the shows are fun, you like it when the show's get personal story. I thought this was the first episode the season where I enjoyed them having fun and to be laughing at like broken vaginas, like the joke of that with Jen having public surgery. Like I thought all of that to me was a solid episode of like getting back to like them enjoying each other having fun.

00:33:54
Speaker 3: Did you feel the same way watching it too? I did?

00:33:57
Speaker 2: I was.

00:33:58
Speaker 4: I loved I mean just because some times it's fun to kind of chuckle, you know, even if it's not something you can relate to, It's like it just fun to chuckle and see how other people live their lives. That's what I think is good about all of the reality TV is just like, Okay, you can watch how someone lives their life, because when you're in your own life, it is so a lot.

00:34:19
Speaker 2: Okay, it's a lot.

00:34:21
Speaker 4: And then you can go, oh, well they're kind of dorky in that way, or oh they argue about that, it just it just puts you. Or you can go, oh, maybe that's a better tool I can use for the next argument, or oh that was funny.

00:34:35
Speaker 2: I want to make that joke with my husband. I don't know.

00:34:38
Speaker 4: I love the I love the day to day I do, and I know they can't do too much of it because they've loved the audience.

00:34:44
Speaker 2: I know that.

00:34:45
Speaker 4: You know that as a producer for twenty years in this industry. However, it is fun to have a little bit of an in it. The Carlos quite tell you something. I think after watching that next preview for next week, I think that there's a set up.

00:35:00
Speaker 2: I think they're getting ready.

00:35:01
Speaker 4: We're like, Okay, let's give them a little bit of fun because they don't get hot head down next week.

00:35:06
Speaker 2: Yeah that was all about I.

00:35:15
Speaker 3: Agree with you. They're like motherfuckers enjoy this while you can't.

00:35:20
Speaker 1: This is the last fun episode you're going to get because the ship is about to hit the fan next week. I mean, Gretchen, Tamera, Katie Shannon, like, everybody's getting into it next week.

00:35:35
Speaker 3: So look, one thing we know about this cast trips. It breaks out the drama.

00:35:40
Speaker 1: And when they said twenty four hours later, it looks like they are not going to disappoint in that department. So Alexis you have to come back next week to talk about that. It's going to be insane.

00:35:54
Speaker 4: And I think that's the rest of the seasons unity in same Like you see the trailer, you know, it all goes.

00:36:02
Speaker 2: It's like it's like that's why they're giving us this little bit of It's like here's a piece of cotton candy. Here take a cotton candy stick, and now we're going into the mud. You're going into the mud for the next three episodes, the guy or four I don't know how many, Oh.

00:36:16
Speaker 1: Gosh, I don't know how many, but at least three or four we have to I don't even know what episode we're on.

00:36:23
Speaker 2: What is this one?

00:36:24
Speaker 1: It's episode five? So so the episode five were talking about, we have.

00:36:29
Speaker 2: At least five.

00:36:30
Speaker 1: Yeah, yeah, no, it's going to be crazy and it's we also heard in the in the coming attractions, that's when Tamer quits the show and we get to see what led her to do that, and listen. I can't wait to see it. I can't wait to recap that with you, Alexis. Thank you so much, my sweet dear, for taking time out of your busy, busy, busy busy evening for us. It's a late one for us, but thank you so much for joining me. Enjoy your soon to be hobby and the family, and I'll catch you on the next one, my love.

00:37:10
Speaker 2: Okay, last, We'll see you later, guys. Bye.

00:37:16
Speaker 1: Reality with the King is executive produced by me Carlos King, produced by Lizzie Nimitz, and a partnership.

00:37:24
Speaker 3: With the Lack Effect Network.

00:37:27
Speaker 1: You can also find us on my YouTube channel at the Carlos King Underscore