How To Survive A Family Trip + Baby Blowout Battles | For The Dads Podcast

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Speaker 1: Pop a Team six see Team six. You might be going through buds that's breeding until Dad's Datus or Seeman Team six. Welcome to for the Dads. This is a show that embraces the trenches of fatherhood with dad wins losses. We have a call in Hotline six so when the Dad's We also round off every episode with a quote or a lesson that we are consuming that helps us in the journey of fatherhood. The replies in the comments sections of our YouTube videos on social media, they have been phenomenal. We implement them into this episode and talk through some of the responses and comments that are out there. What else, We also talk about our family vacation. Myself, my wife are two little girls. We went on a family vacation in Canada. We talk about week three in the Trenches with Shrham and we talk about a lot of fun stuff on this episode. And dude, if you want to keep supporting us and support this channel and support this brand, keep doing your thing in the comments. Make sure you're subscribed on all channels, make sure you're following us on social media at for the Dad's Pod, and if you want to be a true papa. Team six member and fight for our freedoms. Go to our store at bwtv dot com to buy the new Papa Team six shirt. Again that is bwtv dot com. Enjoy this episode. Welcome to Ford the dads. Make sure you take out your trash. Are we recording is the first question, because what I've noticed is the little Tech deal isn't backed by you anymore. It's over by Chef Jack, captain of Semen Team six. So, Chef Jack, are you now? Are you now the guy who hits the record button?

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Speaker 2: I am now the guy that hits the recording.

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Speaker 1: I saw some wat in the comments saying this should be on Jack, it shouldn't be on the guy helping host a show. To that guy, I say, you are wrong, because that was Shirm. That was that was Shirm's like entire like, yeah, he is a co host. Well, we started this show, it didn't feel like it was gonna be this much of a co hosting show with each other. Now I felt like you were gonna chime in, You're gonna run the stuff, You're gonna help produce a lot more we did. We've gotten very lucky with our intern Chef and but to that comment, it's like yeah, but we understand that, and we hear you that Chef Jack could have possibly been the one that hit record or ask a question, are we recording? But we don't. We take full accountability in this place.

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Speaker 3: There there is no part of me. First off, I took pictures of his new setup. Please put that in the edit on YouTube so that they can see it set up. His set up is dialed, dialed. I walked through that door into the production side today. I saw that there was no recorder over here himself. He did, and I said.

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Speaker 1: This wasn't a team this wasn't a duo conversation.

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Speaker 3: I lowered my head and I said good. I said good, but honestly because and I told him, like I love that, And this was in the part that we didn't record last week. Chef is full of time now well starting.

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Speaker 1: He hasn't signed a dotted line, nor does he have the contracted.

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Speaker 3: Does he have the contract?

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Speaker 1: Yeah, yeah, he's been offered to be for he's been Yeah, he's heard that he's going to get offered full time, which is even which is funnier because it's like we haven't even had well, I guess you came up and you said thank you, and I'm like, buddy, you've you've crushed it all summer and for you to take on a full project like for the dads, like take on the show, it is nuts. What are you twenty three? Yeah, twenty three unpaid internship coming in on the production side. We had zero thought of hiring anybody outside of like social media, and for you to come take on this show for the dads, take on this brand afore the dads. Yeah, there are some things I think we could tighten up on YouTube and posting. Right now, guys, as you're watching Chef Jack, our twenty three year old intern who's been.

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Speaker 3: A stud a stallion, dude.

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Speaker 1: What is the saying? Whyse beyond his ears?

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Speaker 3: Is kind of wise beyond his years.

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Speaker 1: It's kind of the sentence people say when you bring out, Hey, what do you think about Chef Jack? He's he's wise beyond his ears. He's got that professionalism about him. Yes, and uh, but for you to take it on, dude, seriously, it's you've crushed it.

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Speaker 2: Thank you. I appreciate it.

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Speaker 4: It's fun, Like just like everyone who probably listens or watch, like, it's a fun to watch you guys interact and put on the show, and I feel like I got a great seat to it and I've enjoyed.

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Speaker 2: Like every bit of the work. Like it's been cool.

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Speaker 4: I'm just I just graduated college and I was sitting on my couch two months ago with my buddy drinking a beer and I saw on Instagram, you guys are looking for in turns and I had nothing lined up. So I was like, full, full transparency. I got denied to a bunch of places, and I was like, well, let's just see, let's see what we're gonna do. I was already gonna be back to Nashville, and so to go from that two months later, sitting here and it's like it's really cool on my end, and I'm like, just pump for this whole podcast. And yes, not official yet, but well, you know it's gonna be a good road.

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Speaker 1: I mean, shout out Chef Jack in the comments. Shout out Chef Jack, captain a Seman Team six.

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Speaker 3: He is the happened now of both the Record Button and Semen Team sig Yes, and well, dude, well deserved, well earned. I won't gload too much because he waxed poetic very well, but Chef is awesome and Jared was in charge of picking our interns this summer, of filtering them down to like a number that we could easily select our interns. Yeah, and when he pulled up Jack's resume and his video that he submitted, he said, in that moment, I don't think this guy needs to be an intern. I think he needs to be full time. And JP and I after watching that, and Mitch as well, but JP and I actually spoke about it. We're like, dude, before he even got in the building, this guy's a stud. So those places that rejected you, their loss. That's our game.

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Speaker 1: And correct me if I'm wrong too. But for the dads, was more like a project that he approached asking to do.

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Speaker 3: Yeah. Yes, and dude, the whole this whole process. The reason that I feel like we thank everybody at the top is because we went into this so blind. There was an idea that you had generated. There was a full pitch deck. There was us working with our third party production part or really you working with our third party production partner, going Sherman, this could be a really good show. This is where I see you, blah blah blah. We had no idea that it was going to get the buy in that it got. We had no idea what it would look like with me having a baby. How much can Sherman carry on his shoulders? Having a child is a very humbling experience, and I feel like I'm texting this guy multiple times saying you are the man, you are crushing it. I feel like I'm letting everyone down with how much I'm not doing and the fact that an unpaid intern is editing the full episode doing social cle.

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Speaker 1: Like showing up early, staying late.

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Speaker 3: You're a stud, dude, Well you're a stud.

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Speaker 2: Quickly, I'd like to throw back.

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Speaker 4: Sharam within a week came to me and offered, Yeah, as much as I'd love to say, I've had the brilliant idea of approaching Sherm came to me and asked to watch the episode and possibly help out with some clips.

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Speaker 1: Right because Sherm was essentially gonna be doing yeah as much as possible on it. Again us not experiencing what it'd be like when you had your kid. It's like, yeah, you did you miss hit and record?

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Speaker 3: Could it have been? Dad brain?

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Speaker 1: I saw a few comments out there, and you, of course, thank you guys, hey, and thank you guys, But I'm not God, I will not accept that, but thank you, thank you, I see you. Yeah, and then he watched the first one and started breaking down and making clips and you'd be like, hey, uh, Chef Jack's been the one making the clips and posting everything on the internet, and it's kind of like, you know, oh, that's awesome to hear. It seems like we're going to need a producer for this show.

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Speaker 3: Yeah, because there would be some weeks where and now we're just kind of going into the weeds of like the back end stuff here at Busting. But uh, it is a full on operation that is really fun, and I feel like something that will be explored way more from what I'm hearing with the bust scene stuff of like this fall is it's a full on operation. And so the intern's coming in and crushing like they did, but especially Chef and shout out big Cheese Caeso Grande for his help. Dude is unreal. Just being able to hey, I can really edit this episode because I can trust Chef to do these social clips. Yeah. Oh well, now I'm you know, with baby, I'm coming up here trying not to micromanage, but how's the how's that edit going, Oh man, it's good, I got it.

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Speaker 1: I was on the couch with my boy drinking a beer. Sure, nothing lined up. You just be a dad man, that's all you gotta worry about.

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Speaker 3: Right now. I'm like, this guy's an unpaid intern told me this, Yeah, crazy, crazy.

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Speaker 4: I want the responsibility like in a in a way like that, Like it's been cool because I didn't if I could, I've been able to do some cool stuff before graduating. But i'm you know, taken on like a podcast. It's like you don't even know if you can do it. So it's kind of a cool challenge to be like, oh yeah we can, and I agree will there's some stuff we can hone in on and trying to juggle some hats. But yeah, it's just cool all around.

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Speaker 2: That's why I told you no one just.

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Speaker 1: Knowing that everything's coming from you is like, you know, obviously there's tons of empathy. It's like I'm scanning stuff and kind of looking at and it's like, it's why you want to throw resources and bring in a social media producer and bring in bringing talent to help because the buy in of the show has been so cool and it's like you don't want to let you don't want to let everybody down. It's like we're building this community and people are comment and people are you know, whether it's on Instagram, on YouTube, whatever it is. We talked about the Papa Team six shirts, like, the community buy in has been awesome.

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Speaker 3: We didn't even know if this would be a weekly show when you were first pitching it.

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Speaker 1: Right, because we just didn't know how often we wanted to potentially do it. It's like committing to doing another show on top of us and all the things we got coming down the pipe with Busting with the Boys. Used didn't know. I personally didn't know how often I would want to do it or would have the bandwidth to do it. But it's been so fun.

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Speaker 3: It's been fun, dude, And shout out these Sikkahs that showed up to buy that PT six shirt.

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Speaker 1: Bro were sold like over five hundred right now, which yeah, that's unreal, dude. We wish it was all the shirts. So if it's like we have ten thousand views in the last episode, I wish all ten thousand dads, all ten thousand Papa Seals chimed in and boll the shirt. I know it's still coming because this shirt is a shirt that just it bonds the fatherhood. It imagine yourself walking around, say you're on vacation, or say you're just walking around on a Saturday. Maybe you're at the farmer's park and you look down over by the lettuce and tomatoes and you just see a Papa Seal repping a Papa Team six shirt and you just know that they tune into the same for the Dad's podcast that you do, and you go up and tap on the shoulder and be like PT six and just dap them up. That's a fatherhood that is etched yep. That only dads and only Papa Seals and Papa Team six members understand. And that's what juices me up about it. When we're getting the text from Garrett on how many you know, I think it was like in the first thirty minutes over around one hundred.

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Speaker 3: And fifty was sold. Yeah, it just it gassed me up, and then it just very I don't remember the amount of time, but later that day, Oh by the way, we're at four eighty eight like something like that. I was like eight, Oh my god, and.

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Speaker 1: I'm like I'm out enjoying vacation.

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Speaker 3: In Canada.

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Speaker 1: A lot of great stories that are gonna come from Canada on this episode. Let's go in week three of Scarlet. I know there's some fun, fun stories down the pod. Yeah, but being in Canada and like, you know, you want to make video, you want to like do stuff to keep juicing the Papa Team six. But I'm like, I gotta be here, I gotta i gotta enjoy vacation to turn off the work brain.

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Speaker 3: But juice.

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Speaker 1: When I saw you made your video to promote the Papa Team six shirts, I'm just I'm geeking and smiling behind my phone. I'm like, man, I can't wait to do some of this stuff when I get back. But it's been awesome. Bwtv dot com is where you can buy our first iteration of our Papa Team six shirts. And to start off, there's a comment from Alex Alex W fourteen fifty seven. It says, showed my wife the new shirt. Her response, the bear has all that gear, but where's the baby? Mom taking care of the baby boll? Dad grills with the gear, then he put damn still getting the shirt. PT.

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Speaker 3: Six. The mom is right, Mom, I'm.

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Speaker 1: Damn, I'm looking at the detailed shirt, and people are like, why you guys not wearing the shirts right now? We haven't got him in we haven't. We haven't gotten him in the shop yet, trust me.

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Speaker 3: But that's okay.

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Speaker 1: But I'm thinking, I'm like looking at the details of the shirt because i love the shirt. And then I'm like laughing about this quote because I'm like, the mom is one hundred percent right, Like what is this? What is this Papa Sial doing in the garage? Just setting it up so you can get a nice photo for the Graham It's just back. I'm locked and loaded ready for my watching. It's like, where's the kid?

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Speaker 3: Which was me? I mean truly me and that raccoon video? Where's Scarlett? I'll tell you where she is. She's getting bounced by Jill and they're probably crying and Jill's going, what the hell is my husband doing?

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Speaker 1: The Papa team Shook six shirt. That's pre game. That's getting ready. You're getting to go on watch.

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Speaker 3: You're getting ready, dude, because you're pulling some uh you're pulling some some all nighters.

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Speaker 1: Yeah yeah, but you want to you want to keep ripping YouTube coming.

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Speaker 3: I'm so sorry, don't wheel pop. We have Brooke McKenzie seven eight two six. Hey guys, my name is Brooke. I just gave birth eight days ago. My fiance and I are twenty five and twenty six years old. None of our friends have children yet. And essentially she walked into the room husband was uh watching for the Dads on the TV. She popped the squad next to him. She said, she's equally as big of a fan as her husband. Let's go, Brooke, come on, let's go. That.

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Speaker 1: Does that juices me up?

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Speaker 3: Does juice us up?

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Speaker 1: Just to picture of couple sitting on the couch and watching for the Dad's podcast on I'm going to assume big screen.

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Speaker 3: Yeah, just enjoying the night and Mama bears like, yo, this ship's gased.

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Speaker 1: Yeah, we gotta do more for the moms. I saw a couple being like, do the collab with the wives with the wives podcast? Should be doing collabs with mom. But trust me that stuff. These three brains, one of them operating the most, and that chef Jack. The other two brains more just dad brain fleeting, just taking it as it comes. We will have a strategy and there will be some fun down the pipe to so he'll bloom lesson of the Week last week on enjoying the Magic Years from his book Five Types of Wealth. Having see Heal bloom On. I think would be a lot of fun having dads on moms. Yes, just doing fun collabse. I think it'd be sick, especially diving into the weeds of how do you do this? Yes, this is how dad's kind of bitch on the side and talk shit behind your back a little bit.

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Speaker 3: How do the moms do it? The wives would be crazy, dude, we would be flamed. But we hold her own. We hold her. I would have to sit over there with you.

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Speaker 1: Because the dad's out there watching. We're representing Papa Team six. We can't just go quiet into the night and lay down.

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Speaker 3: No, we need a full kangaroo corda. Don't put the camera chef on them too much. Keep it over here. I'll come sit next see you. We'll have them over here, and it's gonna be two v two.

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Speaker 1: Yeah, it'll be two v two and a lot of times it'll be like you're one hundred percent right. But let me just tell you what goes on in my brain when this happens. And I'm not defending myself. Sometimes I'm just not thinking about it. I can't read your mind, but you do a.

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Speaker 3: Great job of communicating. Yeah, and I love you. You look beautiful. Yeah, sweetheart, we love you.

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Speaker 1: Here we go from a Nick C ninety six Papa Team six sled dog again. You have one girl of my own, My girl has, my girl has three girls. Just found out the gender of our baby on the way. We will have a full roster of girls. Girl, Dad times five, pray for your boy. This comment right here is why dads go silent later in life. It's why you find him sitting in the corner at a holiday party and everybody's like, oh, what's up with Joe over there?

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Speaker 3: Oh?

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Speaker 1: He doesn't talk whole lot. That's because he's out manned and out gunned the moment he gets into the car to go home. Because you know Joe, if you just sit and get to know him and talk to him, I'm sure he's gonna love hunting. He's probably got his camera, like, Hey, check out this a porner I found on my farm.

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Speaker 3: He does. But he stays quiet at parties.

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Speaker 1: Why because those dads who say one wrong thing on the car right home?

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Speaker 3: Honey, what you have to say? Why'd you say it like that. Dad, don't talk to you like that, dad, Dad? Oh my god, what was his say?

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Speaker 1: Thanks for telling everybody I don't give you blow jobs anymore? What what the hell was that?

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Speaker 3: I turn have some fun. I can't just be a man.

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Speaker 1: I can't just have some fun at a holiday party, joke around with the boys.

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Speaker 3: And I did say blow job. I said, smoke my pipe, death friend. That's death friend. They fucking say that. But that right there is how dads go silent.

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Speaker 1: And that is why I'm terrified of having a third daughter, because you just get out, you get out numbered, and he's just like you fucking let me just get home, let me survive.

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Speaker 3: Where's my baby? Yeah? Let me yeah? Yeah? Where's my baby? Yeah?

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Speaker 1: Where's my baby boy at? Where's my lineage? Where's my heir to the throne?

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Speaker 3: Oh?

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Speaker 1: But that's what happens, I'm telling you. That's kind of my that's my thesis on it. I've thought about this a lot because a lot of dads out there that are like great, great talks when you when you break through the barriers, and you wonder why they're sitting with the twenty four pack at the end of at the end of the dinner table or at the end of the island, kind of sitting in the lung, just waiting for the conversation to come in because he knows he says one wrong thing. It's listen, boys, I love having a great time around you guys. But the minute I leave here, the other twenty three hours.

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Speaker 3: Nood there there. There was a perfect example of that by the way of a girl that I went to high school with, very social girl would have like bonfires at her house and friends all come over and her dad all girls. They had, all girls. Her dad was such a fucking legend. Dude, so quiet though you had to get him in the right spot. But he's the one while the party's going on inside, he's building the bonfire outside. Yeah, are you putting gas on that? You don't put gas on a bonfire, You put diesel because it burns slow.

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Speaker 1: Anybody ever showed you this trick? Runs out to the woods, Go get that lighter. Go, I'm gonna show you how desel burn slow. This is what you look for when the wood's a little too dry. You don't want the wood too dry. And what are you doing right there?

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Speaker 3: What is that? No, we're not using an electric lider. We're using mattress. We're gonna step away, We're gonna toss the matches.

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Speaker 1: Hold that thought.

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Speaker 3: Here comes the ill ball and chain. But truly such a legend, dude, and very like Yeah to your exact point, Gang camera is probably a CFB sicko. I didn't have too many talks with them, but all of us we had always talk about like, bro, he's such a legend.

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Speaker 1: Yeah, and you gotta I don't know how to say this, but you gotta continue.

00:19:14
Speaker 3: You can't let you can't let him take.

00:19:16
Speaker 1: Your voice away.

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Speaker 3: Yeah.

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Speaker 1: You know when you start having a conversation, I'm saying, I'm asking you a question, then your wife starts answering for you.

00:19:22
Speaker 3: They talk for you, so you're just like, you know, what's.

00:19:24
Speaker 1: The But hey, Nick, congratulations on the girl coming the girl dad of five.

00:19:31
Speaker 3: We love Nick, and you have a voice in our comments. Yes, you have a voice in this comment section.

00:19:37
Speaker 1: Nick, I expect to see another comment from you on this episode.

00:19:43
Speaker 3: Your existence is futile. Yeah, but we love you.

00:19:46
Speaker 1: This is why you gotta love Papa Team six because we're all in this shit together.

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Speaker 3: We are, It's why we have the platform and we may have a new branch of the military with this comment. Okay, reporting then sorry, this is Carlos. Carlos the one reporting from the goon Berets. Can we represent as well the goon Berets. Look, he said, it's just how you're gooning. Dude, you're talking like he's not seeming team. He's just jerking. He's just he's gooning. You're just jerking off. He's just jerking. And he wants to be at six. He wants to start the goon Berets. Jack McPherson would fucking love to be a part of the goon Berets.

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Speaker 1: With this being a family show. Can I tell you what my opinion.

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Speaker 3: Is, please go ahead.

00:20:43
Speaker 1: I love it.

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Speaker 3: I love it the beretson Berets. Get that on a shirt, dude.

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Speaker 1: Okay, for there's there's probably because you know we got I would like to assume very quality parents and mature adults on here. They probably have no clue what we're talking about.

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Speaker 3: Yeah, and they're like, hey, where's the you.

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Speaker 1: Know, goon Yeah, gooning meaning urban Dictionary. All right, here we go.

00:21:13
Speaker 3: So this is the goom Berets, This is the goom Berats. Okay, bro, I can't say this. I thought gooning might just be jerking off. We're all adults here.

00:21:27
Speaker 1: Gooning is an act.

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Speaker 3: We're in.

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Speaker 1: Porn Addicts masturbate in edge for hours on end, yet do not achieve orgasm, nor do they want to for weeks or months. Any orgasm a gooner or goo neet does have should be ruined. Oh ah, Yeah, the goom Berets, the goom Berets Family show.

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Speaker 3: Family show, they can represent they Yeah, like we can be aware that the gooon Berets are a thing. Yeah, and that there's an assignment. There's a job somewhere out there where we will need the goo Berets later on down the rest.

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Speaker 1: Yes, because no matter what, when the TikTok moms come after us, we're gonna need an army. That's what you call those sikos. Yeah, the special That's what I said. Papa sherm Hey fifty miles south, Go talk to house goon Beret.

00:22:28
Speaker 3: Go go light the torch.

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Speaker 1: Who said that comment, Carlos the one. Go talk to Carlos the one. He's head, he's head of the goo Berets. House goon Beret, House goon Beret House. Yeah, House Bolton, House Gooner, House Gooner. I'm trying to get in my Game of Thrones Brainery Carlos of House goon Yeah, Carlos, the one of House Gooner, and let him know. The leader of the goom Berets small army, very niche. But when a push comes a shove and we might need to build out an army for a war, we gotta be able to call on the goon Berets.

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Speaker 3: I don't know that the moms of House TikTok march upon for the dads, light the beacon.

00:23:09
Speaker 1: Let the yeah, let the gooon Bereas know winter is coming. So yeah that moms are here.

00:23:18
Speaker 3: That was probably my favorite comment that I saw, Like that's funny, bro dude, God, I think I replied to it on YouTube. I was like, this is fucking.

00:23:29
Speaker 1: What makes me laugh.

00:23:30
Speaker 3: Twos.

00:23:30
Speaker 1: We might have people tuning in for the first time that are like, what in the fuck did Tim put me on? What link is Tim? What show is Tim trying to put me on?

00:23:41
Speaker 3: Right now? And they're probably in the office.

00:23:42
Speaker 1: I thought he said they talked about dad hats lesson of the week. They do fun call ins with some some dad advice, not experts. We're not experts experts and we will get to those segments. But this is just a boy's goofing.

00:23:54
Speaker 3: This is just we're we're goofing with Papa Team six.

00:23:59
Speaker 1: We are And if you want to be a part of up at Team six bwtv dot com, go get you that shirt first iteration.

00:24:05
Speaker 3: Pop can subscribe, I can subscribe.

00:24:07
Speaker 1: I like the envision those shirts too, being a collectible one day, like maybe we have this show for thirty years.

00:24:13
Speaker 3: Dude, I like that. I'd okay. One, I love that idea. Two an idea that I'm just throwing out there. I kind of wanted to talk to you about this before we did on the pod, but I feel like it's the right Okay. There's a podcast that one of my friends used to listen to last podcasts on the Left, and they would sell these little buttons that you put on a backpack, like you know those like sorority buttons that those people made. Yeah, it's like miniature ones, and they would sell them with like little sayings from their podcasts. But a guy and I need to find the DM who's actually a VET was like yo in the Army, like in the military, or I think he was actually in the Navy. He was talking about how they have something called morale patches, where it's not like official patches, but they're just morale that you put, like on the back of your backpack or somewhere.

00:25:03
Speaker 1: In your study.

00:25:05
Speaker 3: We could make little badges with those miniature sorority buttons that would go perfect on like a diaper bag or like something like this.

00:25:14
Speaker 1: Bro, the possibilities are endless. You just have to execute. We have to execute.

00:25:20
Speaker 3: We have to execute.

00:25:22
Speaker 1: And speaking of execution, here's a dad hack from Cameron Blake ninety eight ninety A dad hack. We're not even to that segment, but I want to shout out this dad hack. Teach your son how to use the fly swatter. My two year old spent thirty non tantrum minutes on a mission deleting flies as Dad cracked a couple of cold ones watching sports, teaching patients hand eye coordination and the killer instinct. Bet could Betty could even take Taylor three twenty two to the pool side if he could ever find the zone. His stats forty two whiffs, twenty four almost twelve dead at watch Goda Love Dead aut watch, dude, eight dead flies. It's a dad hat. Let your boy get going with the fly swatter.

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Speaker 3: What a legend. Yeah, and if for any of the hunters out there, that would be a good introduction into hunting world with those assault guns. Have you ever seen those salt shotguns? Oh yeah, no for fly? Oh will oh?

00:26:24
Speaker 1: Oh oh yeah yeah for fly Yeah. Okay, I know you're talking about.

00:26:27
Speaker 3: That would be sick too. Just let them go. Yeah.

00:26:31
Speaker 1: Just I love the dead out Watch stad dude, the dead out Watch, Like I had to watch rude. She's like dad watch uh forget what she calls him in ballet where they like hop or leaps.

00:26:41
Speaker 3: I it's leaps. Dad watched my leaps.

00:26:43
Speaker 1: And she's just got those little focus fakes on.

00:26:45
Speaker 3: She's just leaping in the kitchen.

00:26:46
Speaker 1: I'm just like, oh my god, that I watch, Oh that I watched ooh, And I'm just having a shame. But it's always Dead out Watch. Sweete. I've watched you four times. Can I finish making breakfast? Okay?

00:27:02
Speaker 3: All right?

00:27:02
Speaker 1: Do you know what?

00:27:03
Speaker 3: Do one more? Doing? More? Make this the best one? Oh my god, dude, I wish I could be a fly on the wall for stuff. Like that I cannot wait for Scarlett to be able to start talking. I cannot wait, dude.

00:27:18
Speaker 1: I feel you, And I always stop myself and just be like, yeah, you can.

00:27:24
Speaker 3: Wait, because it flies by, bro.

00:27:28
Speaker 1: And you see the parents in the comments and just talk about how they love the show and they love hearing the lessons or whatever it is, because time just flies by. Because I made the comment the other day like I can't wait for Scotty to get older to her and Root can play because I know it's going to be magical. And then Charles like, we can wait, like we gotta enjoy, like just enjoy Scotty Army crawling around right now. I like to think she's like, oh, Papa, Team six, I got crawls because she's not crawling yet. She'll like get up to her hands and knees and kind of like like rock back and forth.

00:28:01
Speaker 3: Oh you about the girl, and then she'll go back.

00:28:02
Speaker 1: Down to the tummy and just her little left foot and right arm and she just goes.

00:28:06
Speaker 3: Bro.

00:28:07
Speaker 1: She's got a nice little pivot, nice little pivot foot. Okay, but you say like I can't wait, and it's you just gotta remind yourself you enjoy it man.

00:28:15
Speaker 3: Yeah, because it flies.

00:28:17
Speaker 1: We got this stupid picture frame, not stupid. I love the picture frame. But it's connected to your phone, so it's like digital and shows all of our family photos. That's sick and so you just see h great survival kid. That's actually my survival kid.

00:28:28
Speaker 3: Shout out okay.

00:28:29
Speaker 1: Is a little digital picture frame that connects to an album, so it's just like running photos. But we just we see all the old photos of Ruin. I'm just like, I missed that little girl.

00:28:37
Speaker 3: So she's still.

00:28:38
Speaker 1: Little, like she's still three years old, and we got time, but she's going to school this month, and I'm like, I know I'm gonna take it harder than she does her mom. We're gonna take it hard, way harder than she does. But it's like, God, her little chubby cheeks at those early ages. Just God, enjoy every second. Bro, do your best, because I know it's fucking hard. Right now, if we interrupt this episode because we are spot answered by Row, maybe you're sitting with your significant other right now on the couch, wondering if there is an answer to your problems with Papa Team six down Low, and there is. Rose Sparks are a two and one prescription treatment for guys who need a secret weapon again softness roast sparks can give guys bigger, thicker, longer erections, so they get fuller faster, And maybe she right now is nudging you in the arm because after roast sparks dissolved, they work in fifteen minutes on average, and if prescribed, new sexual health patients get fifteen dollars off their first order of sparks on a recurring plan. Connect with the provider at road dot co slash dads to find out if prescription roa sparks are right for you. That's ro dot co slash dads for fifteen dollars off your first order. Compounded drugs are permitted to be prescribed under federal law, but are not FDA approved and do not undergo FDA safety effectiveness or manufacturing review. For full safety information, go to road dot co slash safety info. Back to the episode. Compounded drugs are permitted to be prescribed under federal law, but are not FDA proved and do not undergo FDA safety effectiveness or manufacturing review. For full safety information, go to road dot co slash safety info.

00:30:10
Speaker 3: I'm Gonna be a wreck. Dude, I'm gonna be a wreck. It already is starting to happen. Of like, because Scarlett was so small when she came out. She was five pounds six ounces. Yeah, and so were little hands and feet. They look huge. That's the first thing everybody says. They're like, whoa, we're hands and feet are like long and stuff. And it's like, well, yeah, because she doesn't have the cherub chubby hands yet. Yeah, I'm starting to see it in her hands now, dude. As she's growing like her she's kind of fluffing up and I'm like, damn, you're growing fast. You're growing fast. I just got to stay locked in.

00:30:44
Speaker 1: I know my boy who have vacations with. He's my best man in my wedding, like my best friend growing up. I like to think of a first generation best friend nick maybe yeah, nick O g Og, Like he's one of my first friends I ever had because we went through like first communion together and then we were in the same pod and classrooms. Uh, travel with him a baseball But one of my first friends ever was.

00:31:05
Speaker 3: He good friends with Buddy with the Killer Basement.

00:31:09
Speaker 1: Killer Basement, Killer Basement Dad Brain remind me.

00:31:13
Speaker 3: At his house quite a bit.

00:31:15
Speaker 1: Oh Logan, Logan you're talking about? Oh yeah, that was the crew right there, Oh Logan. Yeah, any tier ones listening, Yeah, for Tier Ones a bus and they know the they know the Lure Logan. But yeah, me Nick Logan, John Chuck like we had a squad man. But anyway, he was telling me like, uh, he reminds himself like when he's like putting he has Grady, who's like a year and a half, Like he's putting the little one down, he might be frustrated. He's like, I just stare at his little hands, dude, and it's just like a reminder of them just how little and innocent and everything they are.

00:31:47
Speaker 3: Because when they're just going.

00:31:48
Speaker 1: To sleep on you and you're just staring at their hands, their little feet, and you're just hearing the little breathing noises, drinking the milk, try to capture it. I wish there was a bottle you could just It's also they're all like, I'll just video Scottie. I would with Rue, just like sleeping and trying to like capture the little noises, and like, man, I'm gonna weep one day looking at these videos, just wishing they were this small again.

00:32:10
Speaker 3: I caught her. She's not actually smiling, and I mean she is smiling in this photo. But I caught her smiling. That's a good one. That's a good one. It was pretty good. I'll send it to chef. But I caught Scarlett smiling. That's her, Like yo, I just pushed a ship out. I was gonna say, yeah, just like that, milk just ram through this little body. Damn just shitted on him and she did. Well we'll find out later. Sorry, keep going with Nick.

00:32:39
Speaker 1: That was it?

00:32:40
Speaker 3: Oh, that was it. That was it.

00:32:41
Speaker 1: Just a joys like you. So you brought the small hands and it made me think, like Nick was telling me that, I'm like, no, bro, it's time just flies?

00:32:48
Speaker 3: Man?

00:32:49
Speaker 1: Can time flies?

00:32:50
Speaker 3: Can I ask a selfish question?

00:32:51
Speaker 1: Absolutely? Puppa Team six?

00:32:53
Speaker 3: Did I come up at all with Nick about the record button? I let him down? No, because you know Nick loves you. I told him.

00:33:01
Speaker 1: He texted me after the first episode, says, I love the new for the Dad's podcast. Sure might be my favorite podcaster. Well you know he might be your second, right, Oh buddy, I didn't even make his top five, But he loves you. Big fan of yours, he told me to cut you some slack?

00:33:15
Speaker 3: Did he really?

00:33:16
Speaker 1: Yeah?

00:33:16
Speaker 3: And I thought I did the best job I could in the moment you did, I thought I did the best job I could. I fully agree, fully agree. As we discussed on Busting with the boys, and I did not do a good job of shouting out this show, I'm busting with the boys. That is on me.

00:33:33
Speaker 1: Yeah, it's you know, shoomless shout out, shameless plug. It's a bigger audience.

00:33:38
Speaker 3: Yeah, big audiences. We gotta grow.

00:33:39
Speaker 1: We gotta grow. We need pop a team six members. We need the moms, dads, everybody that enjoys his show in this podcast. Yeah, you need a dish himunt in your group chats. You need to comment, share and do all the fun stuff to get this to build the brain awareness truly, because even though you say, you know, say, it gets a lot of reach. However it packs in whatever the median is. Where it packs in. We know who's tuned in, who's about Papa Team six? And for the dads like that's you know, I digress, We both do.

00:34:08
Speaker 3: Yeah, did you have any other comments that stuck out to you? I really quick, great, great iron Gilly Sure come on, dog forgetting to push the record button is a total boofer move, not mad, just disappointed. Great callback by great iron Gilly.

00:34:24
Speaker 1: And great comment just to let you know like he's thinking about you, he's rooting for you. Yeah, he just disappointed. He's like, you don't operate that way. I know you. You're better than that.

00:34:35
Speaker 3: Also, I've been seeing a lot of comments of Sherman looks exactly like I thought he would. He looks like he sounds. And that's just how does that make you? It makes me?

00:34:47
Speaker 1: Let's go in the therapy room. How does that make you feel?

00:34:49
Speaker 3: It makes me laugh? Dude, it's somebody ride under that comment and a jiff of Matt Stafford waving.

00:34:56
Speaker 1: Oh bro, when they say fat Stafford on the internet, that is my true my favorite.

00:35:01
Speaker 3: And when the beard grows out for him and me, it does like fat Stafford begins to become a thing. Yeah, so I love it. The comments were great this.

00:35:10
Speaker 1: Week, top dude. The comments are my favorite, Bro, Denny May, this is a wife, This is a mom.

00:35:17
Speaker 3: God, shut out the mode.

00:35:20
Speaker 1: Hang on, let's hear it.

00:35:23
Speaker 3: T Okay, she's not a mom yet? Oh right now?

00:35:27
Speaker 1: Her body's building milk Team six Team minus seventeen days until we become first time parents over here to our baby girl. Love the pod guys, my hubs has me locked in every Wednesday watching with him such awesome content you are putting out in such great community you're building. It's made my husband even more excited to be joining Papa Team six. Does that not warm your heart and make you think should we edit out the gooning? Because she had to witness that, and she might be thinking, I think, I don't know if I get on board.

00:35:58
Speaker 3: I think the gooning is the part that we bring that most TikTok moms and dads don't break. Yeah, we bring the gooning.

00:36:05
Speaker 1: Yeah, just yeah, just authenticity, just an inside look of what dads actually talk about and laugh about behind closed doors.

00:36:16
Speaker 3: Carlos is just in his car going yeah Jesus Christ.

00:36:19
Speaker 1: I mean, and you being the younger version of me being like in gooning, just jerking off like, oh, let's look it up on the diction.

00:36:26
Speaker 3: I'm like, oh my god, oh yeah, it's the whole thing.

00:36:30
Speaker 1: Yeah, the goon berays, the goom berets.

00:36:34
Speaker 3: And the boofers. There's a there'll be a PT six boofer.

00:36:38
Speaker 1: I do like, so there was a there was a dad who chimed in Coach Skelley. My one year anniversary of joining Papa Team six, and I've learned a couple of things. M So a good lesson from from Papa Skelly. When you're in the foxhole, strap up that helmet and keep your head down. But when the bullets stop flying, make sure you check on mama, because even though you may have caught some stray bullets, she's looking like Swiss cheese. Two. Know when you just stepped on a land mine, a dad loss and go down a hero, say sorry. And three, the enemy is the only enemy. Wait and three the enemy is only the enemy for a season. It will get better. That's it. That's good that, dude.

00:37:32
Speaker 3: I like the enemy is only an enemy for like just right now, because it's already starting with Scarlett of like I said this last week, the little problems and issues, Like I feel like there's new problems and issues each week, but there's other problems in issues from the previous week that it's like figure that one out, Yeah, got that one solved, onto the next, let's fuck up something new. Yeah, it's fun, dude, dude, It's a revolving door of new experiences. I love it.

00:38:03
Speaker 1: Should we we we gotta keep today we we honestly we got to keep this one under now or get into our segments. How long have we actually been going Chef thirty five for real? That's so we're we're pretty much at the halfway point of the podcast.

00:38:17
Speaker 3: We shot last week before we got word that we were before I went.

00:38:26
Speaker 1: And these are the vibes too. Vibes are still great. Vibes are still great on the episode, but we were having incredible vibes because we were.

00:38:35
Speaker 3: Like, we are right now. Do you want to kick us off with what? Whatever? You want to kick us off? I know we usually start with dad losses. Do you want to crack a cold one first? Switch it up a little bit.

00:38:47
Speaker 1: Dude, I have a lot we can do. Crack a cold one first, because I got a lot of crack of cold ones.

00:38:51
Speaker 3: You do, dude, go, you go.

00:38:54
Speaker 1: Just because we spent a week Saturday to Saturday in Canada, yep up in bamf can More. We're like, I think it's called Yoho. But we hit all these different lakes, Lake Moraine, Lake Louise, Gosh, there's another one, Lake Moraine, Lake Louise. There's a third one. There's a third one.

00:39:16
Speaker 3: They call it Lake Gatorade because that's what it looked like.

00:39:19
Speaker 1: Bro Let me hang on. Let me just for those at.

00:39:23
Speaker 3: Home or those listening or watching, switch like very quickly google search Bamp. That's b A n FF Canada, and oh my god, the views are insane. I mean, Will's gonna go into it.

00:39:40
Speaker 2: Send me some pictures. I'll put them in the episode.

00:39:42
Speaker 1: I gotta think of this third lake, this third lake.

00:39:44
Speaker 3: I have you keep going on watx poetic just a little bit. Uh, would shout out to my buddy, Actually, I forgot to tell you this.

00:39:51
Speaker 5: Will.

00:39:52
Speaker 3: My buddy Derek was up in Bamp with his mom. They were playing golf up there at that same resort that Will was staying at, and uh, a part of me, I wish that you guys had run into each other and I got the most epic selfie of all time from him. It did not happen, But shout out Derek, who also enjoyed bamf.

00:40:12
Speaker 1: Emerald Lake, Emeralds Emerald Lake. So we had Sunshine Meadows, Lake, Moraine, Lake Louise, Emerald Lake, Johnston Canyon or Johnston Falls Marble Canyon, Downtown bamf Cascade Garden.

00:40:24
Speaker 3: HM.

00:40:25
Speaker 1: The trip was unreled, so I have a lot of crack of cold ones, and my first crack of cold one is just I was mentioning Nick earlier, Nick being one of my first friends ever, yeah, and being my my He's like, he's my best friend.

00:40:38
Speaker 3: Yeah.

00:40:39
Speaker 1: But getting to go on vacation with him and his kiddos and his family and seeing like Rue is three and Hudson is four, and getting to see them play in their dynamic and just like sitting back with my boy and just being like, buddy, how crazy is it that we're thirty five, We're dads with families, a couple of kiddos and two oldest are playing right now and getting along.

00:41:03
Speaker 3: Getting a long dude. They looked freaking cute. Bro chilling that one window pick where Ruth's pointing out the window and Hudson's right next year, Yeah, she's telling.

00:41:13
Speaker 1: Him some she was pointing at birds, bro like damn their homies. And it was so funny because I was watching for the first time Rue have interest in this boy, Hudson.

00:41:27
Speaker 3: Yeah, And it was a true like boy.

00:41:30
Speaker 1: Girl dynamic to where Rue was just talking his ear off and Hudson ain't wanting to talk sometimes a couple of times and where Ruth's crying and she's like comes over, like what's wrong, sweetheart. She's like, Hudson doesn't want to talk to me, and I'm just like, oh, he's just you know, he's just hanging out. He's just trying to chill right now and play with his motorcycles. He's trying to play with this four wheelers and she's bummed that Hudson doesn't want to talk to him. And it was just it was so fun to just watch and kind of like chuckle and laugh and also kind of think, hey, Hudson, he better tighten your ship up.

00:42:01
Speaker 3: Yeah, what the fuck.

00:42:02
Speaker 1: Don't be breaking my daughter's heart now, breaking my daughter's art now that video?

00:42:08
Speaker 3: Yeah, yeah, keep your hands.

00:42:11
Speaker 1: I would talk to him with these like some of these stern voices at times, because I know him like we we obviously I've been around him several times, but it's like he we're not like around each other all the time to where like when I'm getting my voice and talking, certainly, he's a got that He's got like those eyes where he's like what we were at uh, we were at breakfast and rud drew this or they set you up, they sit you down, and they give the kids like coloring sheets. So they're drawing bears and Rue finishes beautiful, beautiful blue bear, all blue, a little yellow in it. Yeah, yeah, blue bear. And she wants to go show Hudson. And this is later in the week, so I've got a little bit.

00:42:54
Speaker 3: Better rapport with Hudson. Yeah yeah, yeah. And I'm like, go show Hutson, go show him.

00:42:58
Speaker 1: And as she's walking over there and go hey, honey, he looks over and I go, you better tell her you like it. He's four, he's boorty. He's like looking down at the table. I'm probably like this far away from him.

00:43:12
Speaker 3: He's like.

00:43:14
Speaker 1: And then rub comes over.

00:43:15
Speaker 3: She's like, honey, how do you look look at my bear?

00:43:17
Speaker 1: And he just goes I like it.

00:43:28
Speaker 3: I'm so sorry, Oh my god.

00:43:32
Speaker 1: And then like she's still talking here he was talking and you were talking a million miles and how And I go, honey, I go tell her she did a good job.

00:43:39
Speaker 3: And he's like, you did a good job. And yone runs back to me. He likes it.

00:43:45
Speaker 1: He likes I know, he does, sweetheart, that's awesome.

00:43:50
Speaker 3: Oh my god, dude.

00:43:52
Speaker 1: And when they're over there and and that bird photo that you're talking about, Rude like you can get up and sit on like that side of the all to like look out the window. And she's like, Hudson, do you want to sit up here with me and hold hands? And we're chuckling and Hudson sitting at the table and I was like, Hudson, you better get up there. He doesn't go up there because he's like coloring or doing whatever. But we're laughing and Charl's like, will are you in a spot to where you you're more upset? You'd be more upset that Hudson like holds her hand, and it's like you know the boy girl dynamic or if he wouldn't hold her hand. And I'm like, I'm at the point to where he better get his ass up there and hold her hand because I don't want her to be sad.

00:44:28
Speaker 3: Yeah, you gotta listen to Rude. You gotta do what my daughter said.

00:44:31
Speaker 1: Yeah, yeah, because what I do before when your your daughter's not around any boys or doing that stuff, and you're like, oh, they're not gonna date until they're here they're there, You're like, no boys, no, this, no, that to where I'm seeing something in real time and I'm just thinking, hey, Hudson, you better get your little ass up there and hold her hand.

00:44:46
Speaker 3: You're gonna be the dad. Do YO have moms for? Like I'm coming? Do you know what a mom is?

00:44:50
Speaker 1: A mom?

00:44:51
Speaker 3: Those big flowers? Do you do you have moms?

00:44:54
Speaker 1: No big flowers?

00:44:56
Speaker 3: I know it's like a Texas thing, but it's like flowers made out of ribbons. It's a big fucking deal for any Texas listeners or Arkansas and Oklahoma. I think that moms too. But if you were my date, Will, I would get this big old honking mom that says your name on it says Will, and it's in our school colors, and you would wear that to the homecoming game. And since I got you a really big one, it's basically an engagement ring for high schoolers, if that makes sense. Will would be the dad that goes up to the boyfriend two weeks before homecoming and slips them one hundred. And that would be fucking big, big, And you know what I'm talking about.

00:45:40
Speaker 1: I don't know how I'm gonna handle dating. I really don't I would love to get put on any parenting books about prepping for it, because I want to say I would love to reenact The Bad Boys too. Will Smith, Martin Lawrence coming up, answering the door just so you get a gun out. Huh you smoke that shit?

00:46:00
Speaker 3: You smoking, don't you? You're high right now?

00:46:03
Speaker 1: Yeah, hey, you better have her home by ten. Ain't gonna be no in the night. My homies roll out, Ludacris playing in the background.

00:46:12
Speaker 3: He's just the entire time it says, yeah, yes, sir.

00:46:15
Speaker 1: I'm sorry. He just got out of prison.

00:46:17
Speaker 3: I just got out of jail, and I ain't going back.

00:46:19
Speaker 1: I ain't going back.

00:46:24
Speaker 3: What he said?

00:46:25
Speaker 1: You ever made love to him? Man, No, sir, you want to dude, that guy won't be chitty chitty bang bang that guy's face. I hope everybody watching has seen Bad Boys do. That scene is iconic. If not, go watch it on you That scene on.

00:46:39
Speaker 3: YouTube right now. Such a good scene. Dude. Oh where was I going? The dating?

00:46:44
Speaker 1: Oh the dating.

00:46:45
Speaker 3: Literature that you want to get into.

00:46:47
Speaker 1: Yeah, I don't know what I'm gonna do. I think that any boy that she probably dates, I'm just gonna have like a good one on one talk with this gentleman.

00:46:57
Speaker 3: That'd be sick.

00:46:57
Speaker 1: Dude, give everybody the benefit of doubt. I'm sure I'll do a first you know, first one off the bus. What they look like when they come off the bus, what I think of I'll probably prejudge him a little bit. However, I think I'll just sit him down, man the man, and just essentially let them know how important my daughter is to me and her mom in there, and more of like a respect conversation, so that way he can at least feel my voice, I guess, feel my energy, feel my I don't know like what she means to me.

00:47:30
Speaker 3: Can I tell you our chef's got something too, and that I got some I got a.

00:47:34
Speaker 2: Good one for you real quick.

00:47:35
Speaker 4: This happened to a good friend of mine when he first met his girlfriend's parents.

00:47:40
Speaker 2: They talked and it was all great. Sorry, and as he was walking out.

00:47:45
Speaker 1: Come on, clear, clear, clear throat.

00:47:47
Speaker 3: Chef's got it. He's got you got I'm sorry. Good show, it's a kid, good show. Moms are watching.

00:47:56
Speaker 4: As he was leaving, the dad goes, hey, wait one second and rosen something in the air.

00:48:01
Speaker 2: My buddy catches it. He looks in his hand and it's a shotgun.

00:48:04
Speaker 4: Shillcues you see that, and he goes yeah, and he goes comes at you a lot faster when you're running off my front lawn.

00:48:10
Speaker 2: He's like, don't be a jackass.

00:48:13
Speaker 1: See that's a good fear tactic.

00:48:14
Speaker 3: That's a good fear tactic.

00:48:15
Speaker 1: I want to do fear tactics, but I almost want him to know the respect level that he's going to have for not only my daughter but for us.

00:48:23
Speaker 3: I have a really, really good one. It has stuck with me my entire life. I so, first off, shout out Coach Wright. He was a coach at Aledo. This dude is such a fucking sicko. By the way, I can't believe I haven't told you about Coach Right. He would get the Alito logo branded on his arm every state championship that they would win. He said, every state championship that we win, I'll make a custom Alito logo and I'll brand myself. And they would do it in the Cowboys Stadium locker room after the state championship. He would let the kids go in there with the brand and hold on. This dude's a psychopath in the best way. Possible had a daughter two grades below me. She played soccer. The boys and girls team were very close with each other in high school. And all the boys and girls are going to the same place. Where are going to like Buffalo Wild Wings or something. She happens to be riding in my car. I get a text, or I get a call later that day from an unknown number. I answer it, Sherman, this is coach right, hey, coach, yeah, blah blah. I hear my daughter is gonna be riding in your vehicle today. I go, yes, sir, goes. I want to tell you something. Her life has been in my hands, my entire life. It's been in my hands, and she's now getting in your vehicle. Her life is in your hands when you're driving my daughter around, and you got that. I go yes, sir, and he goes, I like you. You're a good kid. I know that you're gonna be safe when you're driving. You're gonna make sure everybody's gonna have their seatbelt on. Blah blah blah, Yes, sir, Yes, sir, All right, Sherman, I'll have fun. Hangs up on me. I was like, I like that, man, Yo. It scared the fuck out of me. But he didn't say anything scary. You didn't threaten me, right, but it's scared the fuck at me. And dude, I was ten into that entire I have never driven safer in my life because I had his daughter in my hands at that moment. Yeah, it was awesome.

00:50:20
Speaker 1: I love that because it's almost too like I'm trying to picture if if I'm getting a phone call like that, or you're having a conversation like that, it's like you're also being made aware that dad is also going to have a relationship with you, Like he's going to communicate to you, yes, like one on one, like we'll be able to talk about this and then also, hey, have a great night tonight.

00:50:38
Speaker 3: Oh yeah, and I'm sure that daughter was probably like you know, because he had to have asked somebody for my number. Yeah, like I didn't have his number. He was my coach.

00:50:48
Speaker 4: Like.

00:50:48
Speaker 1: I love too that he walked you through. I know you're gonna have everybody's seat build on.

00:50:51
Speaker 3: Oh yeah, oh dude.

00:50:53
Speaker 1: He was usually no, you know the male brain, you know how we operate. Yeah yeah, high school college like animals, bro, Yes, dude, And so those thoughts always kind of you know, they come into my brain. Another he in The Strong Father's Strong Daughters. There's a story of the author. I don't know if it was her dad or she was like telling a story. But say you're supposed to be home by ten o'clock, around like nine point fifty, her dad or the dad would go outside and start doing yard work. So that way when they pulled in, ain't gonna be no funny business taking a little extra long in that in that driveway. Dad just gonna be out there just doing nothing until she walks in and you know, you give it a little wave goodbye. You know what I'm talking about. You pull in, bro, Hey, we got ten minutes to kill. I had a good time tonight.

00:51:39
Speaker 3: Dad comes everybody you know and get some smooching going on.

00:51:42
Speaker 1: Next thing, you.

00:51:42
Speaker 3: Know, dad's got shovel over his shoulders.

00:51:45
Speaker 1: Yeah, you pull in and see Dad out there working shit. So I like that technique.

00:51:51
Speaker 3: You're gonna be such a good dad for that. Like prom night pickup. I want to be at the Compton Household for prom night pickup. You just answering the door. Yeah you got Oh you got her caressage. It's a nice looking carissage.

00:52:06
Speaker 1: I got her one too. Just pull out a bigger one.

00:52:11
Speaker 3: And that's the word I was looking for. Mom's kind of like a caressage but made of ribbons. Okay, saying on cracker cold one, Yeah, sang on crack. Did you have more?

00:52:22
Speaker 1: I could talk about Canada all day long.

00:52:23
Speaker 3: Yeah. So you go ahead and knock out your cracker cold one. Okay, cracker cold one. We're crib training, so we have the sleep schedule of Moms on Call, which is a book very similar to twelve Hours and twelve Weeks. You and I texted briefly about this. Will and Taylor, uh like very kindly as part of my uh paternity leave here at Busting because I am still coming in like twice a week. Yeah.

00:52:54
Speaker 4: Uh.

00:52:54
Speaker 3: They included a night nurse, uh for the days that I come into the office, I think, and can have a night nurse that night. It just so happened that that Mom's on Call book, the night nurse that we had won whatever that was like Wednesday or Thursday night, comes over and we find out.

00:53:14
Speaker 1: That she used to be.

00:53:17
Speaker 3: A not a client, but you're a It starts with the C you're helping people. You're a consult coach, a consultant, coach. You know what it was, actually coach. I was looking for it. You're right, I think it's funnier that it's consultant. I'm just coach coach. But she was a consultant as well as a coach because she would help people with this book and anyway she comes in. Her name's Rebecca. Shout out Rebecca so sweet an employee of Carla's. Shout out Carla. But yeah, dude, I mean she was like the earlier that you start, I saw that you'll have moms on call, y'all doing that. What's y'all's nightly routine. Yeah, we want to get in into moms on call, and we want to start with the zero to three weeks plan. The sooner that you get her on it, the better. I think the zero to three weeks, like you know, there will be some little pains and this and that, but you get her on it, she's going to adhere to it faster. This is why kind of broke down the signs to us. Mean, oh, dude, Jill and I are sleeping in the same bed and like able to just without a night nurse because now I can come back and lay in bed with Jill and have Scarlett on the monitor, and Scarlet's taken to the crib very very well, which is to be respected you Yeah, yeah, it is to be expected with the younger ones because they still don't really know what's going on.

00:54:47
Speaker 1: But you're still like I for everybody listening and talk. You know, if you're into sleep training, there's a lot of different methods out there. Yeah, you talk about a book called Mom's on Call Call. I know, I've referenced twelve hours by twelve weeks or twelve hours and twelve weeks. Yeah, there's a lot of differ methods, but a lot of it if you like dive into all that stuff. It's just like the routine of them knowing their environment. You know, when the curtains close, you put them on the changing table, you start changing their diapers, slip them into their pj's. You're closing the curtains, you're turning on the sleep the seal machine, you're reading, whether you have a night lamp next to you, and you're sitting there feeding in the bottle, and you got some go to books that you read. You're like training their mindset to know, hey, it's time to This is when we start winding down and going to bed, and which is different from like a nap. Like you know, you'll train also doing nap time, but like again, it's like getting all of their surroundings and environment right to where their brain starts to figure out, Hey, this is when it's time to rest, this is when it's time for bedtime.

00:55:41
Speaker 3: This is your final feed, this is big feed beforetime. Yeah, like it was so cool. I don't want to spoil my dad loss because it is a fun one. But you'll see in that story. Initially, Scarlett was in the basinette with us in our room, very fussy, very very fussy in the bacinet and we had been doing the crib training before that. Mom was a little worried you'll find out later why, so she wanted to keep a close eye on Scarlet, so we had her in bacinet. She's fussy, she's fussy. Jill falls asleep. I go do my first change on night shift, and I just thought to myself, Hey, I'm gonna help Jill get some sleep and get some rest. Let's try the crib and I'll keep a close eye on Scarlet on the monitor and bro it you could see the difference in scarlet. Once she got the sleepsack on and I put her in the crib, she was like, this is the spot where I sleep, Like, this is the spot where I'm comfortable. This is the sounds and like it. Dude, it was cool. And that's after like four nights. Yeah, but you could tell that there was a major difference of bacinett. What the hell is this? I want to be in that shit crib? Oh hell yeah, this is yes, right, it was awesome.

00:57:02
Speaker 1: And two it's like there are babies that do just fine in the bastin that there are I wanted like my mom because I remember I was like six or seven. I was six when White was born, and I just always remember like we slept not in a bassinet, but just a close hamper next to the bed. I love that, I know, like one of them wide you go to the ground wide close hampers and we just slept next to the bed. But there are babies that do well. It's just every baby is different. You figure it out like as you're going in. But I like, I know, like myself, my wife too, It's like you you like to have some kind of plan going into something, and then if you got to deviate. You dev eight, but at least you understand a toolbox by these methods, like when there's times to deviate when and not make something a habit. I love that though. That fires me up. Have you tried, like a dad lost mind? Have you tried putting that stuffed animal in the crib?

00:57:53
Speaker 3: Nor do I need to? No?

00:57:56
Speaker 1: No, Well I was supposed to say, like I put a little stuffed animal on there and try. Yeah, Charles c on the monitor, you.

00:58:01
Speaker 3: Got stuff that. Yeah, I thought you. I thought she's like a stuffed animal. She's like sweeter.

00:58:04
Speaker 1: You can't put nothing in the crib when they're this little. Oh he like goes upstairs and like, shit, I did well just being she liked this line. I got her being married to a nurse. That stuff was ingrand beforehand. Yeah, like I know that that's so off limits, it's not even funny. Yeah, I do not mess with if I put a little uh bird cloth over the thing. But to the point to where she's her arms are now out and she can kind of move around and kind of grab stuff, So you can't have something hanging on the crib.

00:58:32
Speaker 2: Why is that suffocate It's.

00:58:33
Speaker 1: Like Sid's like if they were to get trapped or caught to where they can't. Like Scarlet's young enough, she's probably not able to, like roll over on her own. It's like if she does and be like, oh shit, she rolled over on her own. But a lot of babies are not able to. If they get in that spot and there's something stuffed in their face, it can suffocate them.

00:58:49
Speaker 3: And SID stands for sudden infant uh death syndrome, which is basically them passing away in their sleep.

00:58:56
Speaker 1: Right, So a lot of times, all the times you'll see, like when you have your first kid, like they'll be in the crib or they'll be wherever they're at basting, that crib doesn't matter and there just won't be anything in there because they're laying on their back. You don't want them to risk any like there won't be any pillow or nothing like that. We interrupt this episode because Busting with the Boys has a big announcements there. We are going to be in Lincoln, Nebraska on September nineteenth, my birthday, my birthday. Now for the biggest rivalry weekend, a rivalry rivalry weekend of the season. The Michigan Wolverines at the Nebraska Cornhuskers, the Boys Bustle with the Boys. We will be doing a live show, food, drink, special guests, the whole, the Whole Kit and Kaboodle. We will be live and pre sale tickets are live right now at rococotheater dot com and use code the Boys to access these pre sale tickets live. Is that correct, Clump? Did I say that correctly? Rococotheater dot com. Use code the Boys to get your pre sale tickets now. Because the Boys again will be in Lincoln, Nebraska September nineteenth, my birthday for Michigan at Nebraska. Go shop, go, buy, go, get the tickets.

01:00:11
Speaker 3: Because even it's funny, dude, like even Scarlett in her environment like with the passy. Right now, we'll put her in with the passy. Which is a big difference between twelve weeks and or twelve hours and twelve weeks and moms on call is that they mom's on call allows a passifire.

01:00:29
Speaker 1: We allow, I mean roue had a passing until three.

01:00:31
Speaker 3: Oh well then there you go like, yeah, I knew that, Yeah, I knew that.

01:00:35
Speaker 1: And like Scotty will have this woman up. She's not a big passy gal, which fires me. Up because she's does she just doesn't mess with PASSI she's not about it. Yeah, because we tried to do that for her to help self souons because they can grab these webinoves like the little mini stuffed animals and they have a little passifar on the end. Yes, but even Rue still has Tiger. Tiger was a webinub, just doesn't have the passing up there anymore because it fell off because it's just getting you know, just getting raggedy and tossed around, and the pass he fell off at some point. But it's like the self soothing just have like a little stuffed Tigi's them. I love it.

01:01:02
Speaker 3: Talk to Tigy so much. I got to talk to Tige all that to say, very excited about the crib training. Thank you. I mean, Jill would have gotten on the sleep schedule stuff anyways, because that's Jill. But thank you for being so on it with the twelve day or twelve hours and twelve weeks because it did kind of reinforce like, oh, this is important. But I'm seeing the benefits of the importance of like giving me time, giving Jill time, building structure now like it's ingrained in my head Okay, nine o'clock's coming around, so we'll do that final feed and then you're just.

01:01:43
Speaker 1: In the know too. Like a lot of it was like, hey, do this, you should do this, but it's like for dads out there listening. One way to like you'll have a massive win with your partner is you digesting a book on like whether it's sleep training or sleep schedule. Because a lot of times moms kind of they're the they're the pioneer, they're the ones leading the charge, and they're kind of teaching you why it is and you're kind of like learning on the fly, versus if you're on the same page and you understand a little bit as well, it puts a massive stresser off of them because.

01:02:10
Speaker 3: They know you're in it with them. Yes, dude, Also really quick, this is my dad hap for the week. Actually it doesn't. It's a bonus hack. Rebecca was burping Scarlet like we were doing like this style of burping. The night nurse like set Scarlett up on her leg and started just moving her in circles like this, and like with the butt, like Scarlet's butts right here, and she's just kind of like rotating Scarlet around she's burping like crazy. Dude, it's so sick. I haven't heard of that one. That's a good one. Okay, I got I'll send you a video kill video.

01:02:48
Speaker 1: Have you dine the motorcycle? You have to get farts out?

01:02:50
Speaker 3: Yeah, Jill does. That's so fun.

01:02:52
Speaker 1: You get him the motorcycle legs and then push on their something. Oh, you got a little guests in there.

01:02:57
Speaker 3: You know that you can do that with full grown adults. No, they do it in the hospital all the time. Jill taught me how to do it. Oh, you literally like this is such bad radio. But like you make a ball, you make a fish, and you rub on the top of the intestine and then down the side of the intestine and then across again over by the belly button of the bottom intestine, and then get both legs and push in, pull out, push in, pull out. Repeat that. If you're ever gassing and feel like shit, dude, you will start.

01:03:27
Speaker 1: We should make each other far too. We should make each other far for a social video.

01:03:32
Speaker 3: I'll do it. I'll do it, and we'll have Jill teach us.

01:03:35
Speaker 1: I mean, Jill will chef can video and will just be right here on the floor making each other far.

01:03:39
Speaker 3: I'd be laying in bed going and Jill come rub it out, Dude, get my legs going. And it's just we have to do that to be fun, have to do it.

01:03:52
Speaker 1: Should we get into dad losses? Yes, any more crackic cole ones? That was it? Yeah, my crack cold ones. I mean, vacation was just unreal. But I got some good dad losses. Okay, cool my dad losses. On the week, the theme is around hiking our very first hike, Day one. We's got these new little hiking boots that we got from Ari.

01:04:11
Speaker 3: I shot at Ari. I know, free shoutouts. Sorry, I he's adorable little hiking boots. He's ready to go.

01:04:17
Speaker 1: It's a little rainy and cold outside, but it's our first one. We're pushing through. This is at a sunshine mountain or sunset whatever, and Rude doesn't want to hike. We got I got a carrier most of the time, or Charro does, or so or Nick my boy Nick, Papa six was filling in caring her because Grady Grady, their youngest, he's fussy. I'm right, he's riding on my shoulders at times because I'm trying to I'm trying to help out my fellow Papazio, like, let me take Grady, Like, let you know, let's have fun with somebody he's not as familiar with, because we'll probably just stop and just be up high, like let's bounce. Oh look at this, look at this rock. But Dad losses like hiking. Both of my stories is around hiking, because it's like the kids was just tough to get hiking. Sometimes if one's hiking, the other one's pissed off. You know, you know what I mean. It's like Scotty'll be fussy. Oh maybe it's her feeding time. You get her fed. Oh, she's good to go. She's knocked out sleeping. You probably saw a lot of those photos to where she's just hanging out the back, just knocked out. But she might be good. And then Rue's upset. She's not one to hike. My legs don't walk.

01:05:19
Speaker 3: I can't whoa no, bro.

01:05:21
Speaker 1: We were like and we're sitting there and join the sights and I just see Rude just coming from behind us.

01:05:27
Speaker 3: He's like, like, what, sweetheart, what is it? She's like, it's too cold, I can't walk.

01:05:32
Speaker 1: I need you to hold me, sweetheart. You just get down here and then deadwe pick yup. I get me inside.

01:05:37
Speaker 3: It's too cold. It's too cold. She said that. Yes, bro, man, shut up, get walking. You tell her how cold he used to get in Lincoln.

01:05:45
Speaker 6: Bro.

01:05:45
Speaker 3: She she doesn't know.

01:05:47
Speaker 1: She will one day when he's playing against Iowa minus thirteen degree wind chill. That wait, what is it, lard whale lord? The maassline on his arms, no sleeves out in the cold air coming out. That was your old man out there.

01:06:04
Speaker 3: Get dadas inside.

01:06:06
Speaker 1: Yeah, you got a hoodie on, you got a jacket on, you got your your little hiking pants and sweats, you got your boots on.

01:06:12
Speaker 3: Like, just walk.

01:06:13
Speaker 1: I'm trying to teach her by the back half. It was a big win because I'm teaching on my sweetheart, if you just move faster and run like your body will heat up. So I'm turning things in the games. That's a little dad hackers and all the pairents know this, turning things in the games. So it's like, oh my god, look at that rock, Like, let's climb up that rock. There might be a bear. There might be a bear up there. And then you get them climb on the rock. Hey, let's run up this hill. I think there's like a bear or a fox up this hill. And you get running up the hill and it's like, hey, don't you feel better? She's like yeah, and then she's bragging about how she walked like the last quarter of the hike. But you're like, dude, you crushed it. And then you're kind of building that callous throughout the week. Now we get to Friday, we're gonna go and see Moraine Lake again. But we had already seen Moraine Lakes. So I'm like, hey, let's let's do a pivot. Somebody responded to me on Twitter and said, we need to hike Mirror Lake. We need to go up and see Mere Lake. They posted this beautiful photo of Mere or Lake because I posted one of us hitting the sunset canoe on Lake Louise, which is all time. Okay, five am wake up was tough rooting. You know, there's a lot of bitching and moaning and complaining going on. But it's like, once we get out to the boat, we'll be riding the boat. It's gonna beautiful. You're gonna love it.

01:07:14
Speaker 3: She loved it.

01:07:15
Speaker 1: The sunrise canoe was all time. But we get to where it's like, all right. The second part, we were gonna go take a shuttle to the Moraine Lake. We found out the shuttle you had to have car seats in it. We didn't want to uninstall the car seats from the car or from the car garage, reinstall them in the shuttle. Then you do the whole trip with the shuttle. You come back from the shuttle, you uninstall them from the shuttle, you reinstall them in the car. We didn't want to do all that. But I'm like, hey, I got a great pivot. Somebody responded on Twitter said we should hike Mirror Lake. This photo looks gorgeous. Yeah, and he said the kids could handle it. Buddy, this incline, Oh no, I mean my legs were shaking like a dog show.

01:07:54
Speaker 3: You were, you were hurting that within ten minutes. Who's this guy?

01:08:00
Speaker 1: I don't know.

01:08:00
Speaker 3: I need to go back and back buddy.

01:08:03
Speaker 1: And then I go back on Twitter because I wanted to respond to him, be like, bro, it was fucking brutal to because I had the hiking the hiking carrier on with the little Scottie sitting in the back. Charles got all the bells and whistles, snacks, these heavy ass water.

01:08:15
Speaker 3: Bottles in there.

01:08:16
Speaker 1: I'm carrying forty plus in this hiking backpack going up this hill. Hamstrings are burning. Like I said, my legs were shaking like a dog shitting peach sheets. Not even that high up. We're ten minutes in and I'm leaning on a tree because you know, the rest of the cruise a little behind me, because people are dragging a little bit, and I'm thinking, ain't no way the kids are gonna be able to handle this. Rude can't again, she can't walk. Her legs aren't working. So you're moving them right now. Just look down and go one step at a time. I'm trying to do the left. Check out this song left, left, left, right and left. And she's crying and it's like you gotta stop. And we get up to the mirror lake. Now it's a good it's a good view. Yeah, it wasn't the picture. I got up there and I look back at Nick and I go, what the hell is this? I mean, it was still a nice like little lake, but it wasn't the photo that the dude showed me where there's a mountains in behind it and it's just this beautiful mirror looking you see the water and it just looks incredible. It was Lake Agnes or Lake Agnew or whatever it was. That's another like eight hundred one thousand meters up.

01:09:17
Speaker 4: What is this?

01:09:18
Speaker 3: This height was four hours, bro, bro their background trip. Find out who that was because they won hundred percent.

01:09:26
Speaker 1: Set you up, buddy, it was a it was like a four mile hike round trip.

01:09:30
Speaker 3: They set you up.

01:09:31
Speaker 1: Grew walked on the way down and we played this game the entire time, like we were trying to count. It was like three five onion, three five leopard. It was three five say any word you want, and we would just go back and forth all the way down the mountain. But and I'm saying all the way up and all the way down like this.

01:09:45
Speaker 4: This it was.

01:09:47
Speaker 1: The elevation was like this the entire time. There's no like walking in and you get a little flat. It's this the entire time going up this mountain two miles up, bro, And I'm halfway through it. I'm sitting there.

01:09:59
Speaker 3: I'm like, motherfucker, like just full on switchbacks, like going yeah, but I'm talking long, like there are a couple switchbacks, but I'm saying long. You'd be looking up the mountain with zero hope, you know what I mean, Like you might find one, Okay, once we get around this corner of my flatten out, or once we get around this it might be.

01:10:18
Speaker 1: It might be easier. Buddy, You're you're looking up. You couldn't look up. You just had to look down and think one step at a time. Willie, You fucking got that.

01:10:25
Speaker 3: That's the worst part about hiking, of when you're saying leaning up against the tree is it's like stopping is almost worse than continuing to go.

01:10:33
Speaker 1: Yeah, because I got this this heavy hiking pack on it, I'm like, I'm like sitting it on rocks, so I'm just trying to take a break. I'm more in too many layers at this point, so I'm sweating. I'm sweating everywhere. And then on the way down it rains the entire time. But Charli hits me with you got the easier job as we're walking up. I will toss you off.

01:10:55
Speaker 6: This time.

01:10:58
Speaker 1: Because I know it's tough with the like she's with the three year old. It's all of a sudden paralyzed. She doesn't want to walk, so she's got a carrier. At times she's gotta slowly walk with her. She's behind the pack.

01:11:07
Speaker 3: So I get it.

01:11:08
Speaker 1: You're in hell with the little one. I'm like, I'm glad I don't. I'm glad I don't have ru but this with this weight on my back, like you know how my L four five and s I joint is I'm talking decompressed, my disc or fading on me. I'm still feeling it right now. Hop on that for our flight back from Canada. I'm getting off and I'm like having to slowly, like fully extended, because that it was. It was something she had the nerve to hit me halfway up. He got the easy job.

01:11:37
Speaker 3: What'd you say? What you call her? I said?

01:11:39
Speaker 1: I said, I said, bitch.

01:11:45
Speaker 3: You said that?

01:11:45
Speaker 1: I said some version of that.

01:11:48
Speaker 3: What you said? Said you really said that?

01:11:50
Speaker 7: Though?

01:11:51
Speaker 3: Yeah?

01:11:52
Speaker 1: Yeah, yeah, I said, I said, good, shut up.

01:11:59
Speaker 3: No one in the comments.

01:12:01
Speaker 1: Hey, if we post this clip too, you better run the key and peels of what the reference is. He was like, what he didn't talk to her like that?

01:12:10
Speaker 4: I ate it.

01:12:11
Speaker 1: I heard her, and I just I kind of scoffed. I just said all right, and I kept pushing because there was no time. That's nobody's coming to save you. Yes, that's where when you see the comments, I hope your heart turns black, like you just had to focus on one.

01:12:23
Speaker 3: Step at a time. I love that you were leading the pack too.

01:12:26
Speaker 1: But yeah, and the dad lost in all of that because on the way down, Nick and Rachel and their family, they're way behind us because Nick's having to carry Hudson. He's sleeping at this point because he was like, it was you know, we got up there, your throwing rocks in the lake. You're having a great time. Ye man Ay, these moments starts raining on us. And the loss for me is I'm the one who led us up the mountain. Yeah, Dade four mile hike, and I didn't know what I was getting too. I'm going off a Twitter comment that says, hey, you got to check out Mere Lake. Kids can handle it. I'm ten minutes in being like, I hope it gets flattered because there ain't no handling this.

01:12:57
Speaker 3: But ET six has its first in it.

01:13:00
Speaker 1: Yeah, I'll find him.

01:13:02
Speaker 3: He's a great guy. Well here's the here's the issue.

01:13:06
Speaker 1: I go on Twitter to end up telling him to break down. But I go on Twitter and he has another reply. Damn, what is it saying we'll positive, we'll edit and get get get faster to it.

01:13:20
Speaker 3: That's so rough, dude.

01:13:21
Speaker 4: Imagine he just accidentally he just messed up the lake and he looks back at it like two hours later.

01:13:26
Speaker 2: Ah, ship, I should probably tell him that's not the one.

01:13:28
Speaker 1: It's not. It wasn't The lake was halfway up. Oh dude, I say. He said, Uh, take hike up to Mere Lake while you're there.

01:13:36
Speaker 3: Worth it.

01:13:36
Speaker 1: The kids can handle it. I said, we have changed our plans and now going to Mere Lake because of this reply.

01:13:41
Speaker 3: Thank you. He hits me with, awesome, we're scrolling. He's scrolling.

01:13:51
Speaker 1: Okay, awesome. My wife and I stayed at Morine Lake Lodge for our anniversary a couple of years ago and spent the day at Lake Louise. Also, I just looked at the pigs. That lake is actually called Lake Agnes. Mere Lake is on the way up, if I remember correctly.

01:14:02
Speaker 3: I'm not sure.

01:14:03
Speaker 1: He said a couple other things, but I'm stucked on that the kids can handle it. I want to know what kind of savages, what kind of Jocko Willings is he packing in his family?

01:14:13
Speaker 3: Well, that's the problem. That's the issue with hiking and skiing. Slash snowboarding. Is somebody just telling you, hey, the blacks here are different, Like the blacks and Breckinridge are not the equivalent of the black.

01:14:26
Speaker 1: You're talking about black diamonds. You make that clear, want to talk about the people you could quite blocks and Wreckerridge. I'm like, I know he means black diamond. I hope he says black They're a little different. Yeah, sorry, what were you gonna say?

01:14:41
Speaker 2: Someone had a comedy had a bit on that, some stand up.

01:14:45
Speaker 3: Oh that is right. Somebody did have a good standout to the.

01:14:48
Speaker 2: Gas station and they're like, well, the blacks here are really rough.

01:14:55
Speaker 3: The black diamond. But you're right.

01:14:56
Speaker 1: It's it's almost like I have much other preface. Hey, it's worth it. It's a little bit of a grind, so buckle in, yeah, dude, because I'm thinking my first question, do you have a three year old? If so, is his name David Goggins? Because my three year old, her legs stop working immediately.

01:15:12
Speaker 3: Because if you if you broke down college football to me, like, hey, really getting on the team of college football, it's really not that hard.

01:15:19
Speaker 1: Sherman.

01:15:19
Speaker 3: Yeah, you could have. Maybe you could have played college football, buddy, me trying to play D one college football. Not a chance. Yeah, it's really level to this Woolve's.

01:15:30
Speaker 1: Yeah, but I'm sitting there again ten minutes saying like, holy shit, I hope this gets easier and it it was that elevation the entire time. Dude.

01:15:41
Speaker 3: Uh, there's truly no worse feeling. My mom got hoodwinked one time into a similar thing of oh my gosh, you've never been on Galloping Goose Trail, Like it's the best easiest hike of all time and the views are great. My mom's like literally stuck on the mountain at one point. I don't remember the full story, but I mean it was like she got fucked.

01:16:02
Speaker 1: Yeah, I mean if it was just me, my wife Nick, and his wife Nick and Rachel, Like that's a fun hike.

01:16:07
Speaker 3: Yeah, you're going up.

01:16:08
Speaker 1: Oh, let's go up to the Lake Agnes or Agnew. I hate that I keep messing that up. But when you got forty plus on your back and your three year old is just not cooperating, I want to meet this guy's kids. I do too, Jesus Christ. Oh another dad loss. Yeah, we were sent Papa Team six. Papa Team six soldiers will and Nick were sent on a mission to go get diapers. We ran out of diapers on the last day, or we had like one left. It's like, hey, we need to go get sized four diapers because we still got the plane ride home. Like, who knows what Scotti. You know, you gotta have diapers. Make sure you pack enough diapers, but we were running low. Nick and his side, they were also running low. She also told Nick, hey, you need to go get some baby wipes too. We need wipes and we need five. So he's getting sized five. I'm seeking size four. We called down to the village because you got to drive fifteen minutes down the mountain to get diapers. Yeah. Yeah, we get down to they're like, yeah, we got size four. We don't have size five. But Nick's gonna go and get baby wipes. And we're just gonna go. Hey, Nick and I, we're just gonna run the solo mission.

01:17:08
Speaker 3: We'll do it.

01:17:09
Speaker 1: You know, have them stay back, take care of the cakes. You get a breath of fresh air, and I get to talk to my boy because I feel like I don't get to talk to him whole time, because when you're on vacation with another family, you're not at dinner catching up. You're at dinner negotiating with your kids to eat. You're not really having intimate conversations. You're you're in the trenches the entire time as parents, trying to.

01:17:27
Speaker 3: Be like, hey, how do you usually do this?

01:17:28
Speaker 1: Yeah, we usually go this route, like, let's work together to try and corral all these minions the entire time. So it's a nice breath of fresh air. Me and my boy Nick, we're gonna drive down to the village. We're gonna get some diapers. We go down, simple mission, get fourst get fives, get wipes. We get down to the village grocery store and we're in the aisle and we're seeing fours and fives and we don't know which brand to get. So me and him both are on the phone calling our wives asking about, hey, there's Pampers here, there's Huggies, Like, which brand do you want us to get? And so my dad loss is just not being able to accomplish the simplest task of going to just pick up some diapers. Why do you got to call mom like, yeah, I'm sure they got tolle. It's like they can't do one simple thing and We're both in Aisle two, both of us walking on you know, on the phone, and I'm laughing. We're both start laughing because I'm like, look at us. We can't go down this mountain and just pick up diapers. We have to call our wives to make sure we're getting the right ones. So that was my that's my final Dad, Low dude, I couldn't. I could not agree with you. More was that Target.

01:18:31
Speaker 3: I believe two days ago, we have some bougie wipes that Jill has an order off the internet, and she goes, yeah, we can get these Target brand wipes for her face because you know they're ninety nine percent water, and I go, the ones that we have at home are ninety nine percent water. Why why are we getting And she was like, those are the expensive ones. You don't use those on her face. We get the store brand for that. I was sitting over there pushing the all going I think.

01:19:01
Speaker 1: We do like the Coterie diapers. I think they absorb a lot more like the overnight diapers. It's like you can go and get overnight diapers, but these ones are like an all purpose.

01:19:11
Speaker 3: Yeah, that's what we have. And then Codrie, I don't know Coterie Coterie Code Codie, yeah, Code, we have the wipes too, the Koterie wipes we use, is it honeywell, honeywell honest, honest, yeah, honest. Okay, yeah, yeah, I've seen that too, dude.

01:19:33
Speaker 1: It's so funny when Scarlett gets older and they get done pooping. That's like, you know, if she goes pee, she can do it by herself, she can get tole paper and do all that. But when they're pooping, it's so funny, Dad, I need you come wipe, and I'll like walk in the bathroom and she's already like down and hands on the ground, but up and stuff, and it's just so funny because their heads just like in the ground.

01:19:54
Speaker 3: It's just like, oh my god. I do like I don't think about it at all when I'm doing diapers changes, and I think the other night, like I I truly kind of thought about what I was doing, and I laughed because I had some extra uh oh man, I know the name of destining the destining diaper rash cream. And you gotta put it, you know, on the cheeks, and then you gotta kind of get in between the cheeks too and put it on there and whenever I have extra destining, I just wipe it on my leg like I'm just like, oh, I'll just wipe it off. And then I was thinking about it. That's what I'm saying, dude. Once I thought about.

01:20:30
Speaker 1: It, I say, you get ship on your hand and you'll wipe it on your pant let.

01:20:33
Speaker 3: Well, no, this is after I've like cleaned her off, cleaned her off, like I've wiped her with wipes, and then I get the little cream because you know she's all slick and clean. I get in there. Yeah, okay, I would wipe it off on my leg not thinking anything. Okay, yeah, I do that too. And then I thought to myself, I did just get all up in that business. In that business. Yeah, you put your finger in the hole and you're just wiping it on your pant lets out my leg like, oh yeah, that's fine, buddy.

01:21:02
Speaker 1: When you start, when you start wiping out, so they go number two. It's it's just so funny, dude.

01:21:07
Speaker 3: That's hilarious. I didn't even think about that. Yeah, I'll do my dad lost really quick for anyone that falls me. Got to keep it under an hour, God, to keep it under an hour for anyone that follows me on Twitter. The Battle of Helm's Deep, which for Lord of the Rings fans out there, they know what that is. If you are not a Lord of the Rings fan, I highly advise you to go watch the original trilogy.

01:21:33
Speaker 1: Have you?

01:21:33
Speaker 3: Are you a big Lord of the Rings guy?

01:21:34
Speaker 1: I have watched a Lord of the Rings. I've only watched it around one time.

01:21:37
Speaker 3: Oh no, it's Taylor that hasn't seen it. Like he was too scared. I think he tells the story where he was like too scared as a kid. Yeah, but god, great movies. Anyways, there's an epic battle Helm's Deep and holy shit. So to preface this entire story, Taylor had a end of the year intern party at his house, a swim party to celebrate the interns and tell him good job. We're like, we gotta showface at this party, like it I need to say bye to the interns. We need to get out of the house. Like you can meet the baby, they can meet the baby. Jill is fully on board. She's like, you do need to show face at this party. We need to be good about showing up to things and not making scarleting excuse to miss out on stuff. Love that everyone's on the same page. So Jill is being an absolute superhero and packing the diaper bag. She's crushing it. But I do technically have I got a little win because she had a little oopsie. She had a mom loss and instead of doing a scoop and a half of formula, which would equal three ounces, she did two scoops and a half of formula because we were rushing out of the house. Okay, so after Taylor's we get in the car and where ann Taylor's driveway. She's starts fussing. Jill goes, I'm just going to feed her in the car. I said, Okay, I'll text Taylor and just tell them, hey, we're just we're parked in your driveway. Everyone pretty much has left at this point. If you see my car, we're just feeding Scarlet. We'll head out. Jill dumps all two and a half of that formula into the bottle, mixes it up, so Scarlet's working with like three times the carbs of what is normally put into her body at feeding time. Fast forward to Dad's night shift later that night. She knocks it down easy, knocked it down and passes out, and we're like, wow, she was really sleepy. The pool must have taken it out of her. I mean, she's so sleepy. Oh my gosh. Later that night, I do first diaper change at the beginning of my night shift. There's no poop. I go, oh, okay, well that's happened before. There's pe in here though, so everything's working. Second diaper change, Oh there's no poop. Okay, we're really rocking right now. Look is on my side.

01:24:01
Speaker 1: God is God is with me.

01:24:02
Speaker 2: God is good.

01:24:03
Speaker 3: I was like, uh, but like, okay, like that's kind of weird, but whatever. I get to my final one, which is like four thirty five o'clockish in the morning. In the morning is around the time of the final one, and I change her diaper and again there's no pooper. Pete. I put bottle in her mouth, and Dude, as soon as bottle hits her mouth, it was truly Sourn's forces. The Orcs were marching on Helm's Deep and the dun dun dun, dun, dund dunk like piss and shit is leaking out of her onesie. She shits so much that it seeped through the diaper. It wasn't even a blowout, dude, it was like seeping through all of her stuff because it was a backlog of like the last three feeds in that triple carb feed that we did. I'm I'm just laughing at this point because I'm like, okay, now I'm in it, Like this is what everybody's been talking about. I'm in it. And dude, I'm feeling the hot stuff just go down my chest. Oh my god, oh yeah, all over me. I'm like, this is fine, We're fine. I get her on the changing table.

01:25:16
Speaker 1: She's shitting all over you.

01:25:18
Speaker 3: It's the pea coming out, really, but the pea is getting filtered through the shit and the diaper, so it's like shitty piss. That's like leaking all over me. Oh buddy. And I'm like, okay, but hey, we're fine, we're fine. We'll get through this. I got used to wipes on her. I'll get her cleaned off. So I get her cleaned off. She's being she's being great, super easy on the changing table, and I'm like, that wasn't that bad, look, Scarlett.

01:25:43
Speaker 1: We got it.

01:25:44
Speaker 3: We got the change. I got your diaper change, I got you in a new outfit. You're all clean. Let's put some lotion on you. Let's take you to the spa. You love lotion, so I'm doing the lotion on her. She's loving it. Get her in her new outfit just waterfall because she has this whole backlog of all these feeds in her belly, spits up all over the new change. I'm like, hey, that's okay, let's burpy a little bit. Blah blah blah. She's over there just burping like a champ. Wipe her down, Wipe her down. Didn't change diaper because I was like, she didn't put new outfit on all over that that. We're now on the third outfit. So I did three outfit changes. She was into her fourth one. Only had to do one diaper change technically too, but I survived the battle of Holmes deach we are good, but it was crazy. You're better me, she would, we would just it's gotta dry.

01:26:43
Speaker 1: Her off.

01:26:43
Speaker 3: You listen, we got this outfit on you.

01:26:47
Speaker 1: You gotta dry Jill.

01:26:48
Speaker 3: Before that too, had a not argument, but a stern talking to you about setting mom up for success. At the beginning of her shift. Oh, she said at Bustin, when you call out, I bet you not half asset. You seem to really put in full effort whenever you're clocking out, whenever you're leaving, whereas with baby Scarscar sometimes when we're clocking out, we just do the motions and then here you go, Mom, I'm gonna go pass out. None of the bottles are washed, none of the things are done, et cetera. I said, honey, that's a great note, and I'm going to take that and run with it. And so that's in the back of my head as I was doing a multiple outfit chang. I feel that. But I have a new metal that I thought we could bring into our lure of Instead of a purple heart, it's the purple shart. And I got my I earned a purple shart. I love that. For getting shitted on by my daughter. Yeah, I rock with that. But that was my dad loss.

01:27:56
Speaker 1: You handled it well, thank you. You know it sounds like you kept the opt miss them up. I saw the tweet, I saw the post Buddy he's in.

01:28:03
Speaker 3: For Oh dude, it was hey, you know, I dramatized that. I put all the outfits on. I went into the dirty clothes hamper and pulled all of them out and put them on there. Yeah, made it look more like a battlefield since we got to keep it under Now are gonna hit these calls? Please please? Let's who's our first call in?

01:28:25
Speaker 2: First call in is what a fellas?

01:28:29
Speaker 3: This is Trey and chatting is I have a tray and chattananogos okay.

01:28:34
Speaker 5: Request because as a dad who logged a lot of movies with my kids, I would love.

01:28:41
Speaker 4: To hear you guys talk about some movies that you have logged.

01:28:44
Speaker 5: With your kids. Which ones are your favorites, not just for the sake of entertainment, but it's like death, even developing, even like good movies to watch with your daughters, you know, like, hey, this is a great one. But yeah, I heard Will talking about Mowanna and Unfortunate. Only Teffedi's not the bad guy, will he. Teffedi's just the other side of the what is it the heart necklace where you know our boy Maui stole it from the heart of Taffiti. So when her heart was restored, she was the big, old, green, giant looking lady that laid down on the mountain range and that was the end of that story. It's kind of a you know, a analogy for us as people where he can have anger and rage whenever you know something's taken away and then kind of making things right.

01:29:29
Speaker 1: You knows.

01:29:30
Speaker 3: All that's to say, Will just Milan is a fucking classic. So all that to say, will Wana is a fucking classic. He's out here defending Milana with his life, which I love it. Trey and chat Uga, he said, defending Traffedi's name on behalf of the Dad's PT six. I'm out. But his question was, what are three good films that you watching with us? Some Pizza Friday films?

01:30:03
Speaker 1: So my go tos? Are we talking like favorites of rus?

01:30:05
Speaker 3: Yeah, favorites to watch with the kids you and that you also enjoy.

01:30:10
Speaker 1: We've gotten in recently to cars, which fired me up. We tried cars early on and she just wasn't you know. She always wanted a princess on, so we'd had to pick like princess movies. So Frozen, both frozens. She loves Frozen. She's all about Frozen. Cars, great one, and the third one, I would say, inside Out, great movie with the with the feelings joy, happy, sad, what is it nervous? Anger? I love inside Out and inside Out too. Yeah, I love them both.

01:30:44
Speaker 3: Yeah, the anxiety one hit home for me. On the second one, I.

01:30:47
Speaker 1: Was like, bro, inside Out goes hard.

01:30:51
Speaker 3: It's hard.

01:30:51
Speaker 1: There's a lot of good kids movies. It's kind of hard to narrow it down to three. We do always try to choose something different because we were when she it's early on it's like Frozen or die you know what I mean?

01:31:01
Speaker 3: Like I'm talking tantrum.

01:31:04
Speaker 1: Yeah, Cars has fired me up recently. Just is a good competitive one, overcoming adversity, and then inside Out. I just I love the concept of inside out and dealing with your feelings, labeling your emotions, getting to kind of communicate with them in that way, like after the movie in days following.

01:31:25
Speaker 3: So those would be my three, I don't.

01:31:28
Speaker 1: I mean Your Dragon, Oh, how to Train Your Dragon is a great one. Oh, toy story is always a classic.

01:31:39
Speaker 3: But where's a lot live action How to Train Your Dragon? I haven't seen it yet. I want to see it. I want to see it. Le Loo and Stitch. The live action is incredible, Okay, I need to see that. That's Jill's favorite animated.

01:31:50
Speaker 1: Yeah, but those would be my movies.

01:31:54
Speaker 3: Excuse me time, Yes, we gotta wrap up. I do want to say if you haven't seen Puss in Boots the Wish movie. Have you seen that? No? Will you have to watch that movie? To all listeners out there, Boots the Last Wish? Okay, thank you, chef bro. That movie is so fucking dial It is a great kids movie, it is even better adult movie. And I truly walked away from that movie with like some pep in my step and was like, Hollywood can still tell a great story, Like Wow, that was incredible, right story, Puss and Boots the Last Wish. I was so surprised by that, thought would just be another throwaway, but it was incredible.

01:32:40
Speaker 6: All right, Next caller, gentlemen, and particularly sure, I'm I'm a member of pop a team six two years.

01:32:58
Speaker 7: I got a two year old son and now a three month old daughter. It's a crazy trip, but sure.

01:33:06
Speaker 8: You're still in the sleepy baby feet sleep boob. That's it has Will giving you the breakdown on what's next.

01:33:19
Speaker 7: You've gotta force your baby to sleep. You gotta figure out ways to get them down, to calm them down. You gotta figure out how you're gonna feed them, when to feed them wake windows. Yeah, a lot coming up, Shuran, Congratulations again, this is Riley Top a team six player Royal Canadian Operators.

01:33:44
Speaker 3: Canadian operator. We gotta get a Canadian flag now, yeah, we do. Riley from Canada calling in can we can we pay for that international call? Is there a way that we can cover him on the back end, get him on the VENMO Yeah?

01:34:02
Speaker 1: Yeah, yeah maybe, I mean.

01:34:03
Speaker 3: He'll get he'll get merched.

01:34:04
Speaker 4: But like, let's let's I think it's covered if it's continental, like I think Canada there's now.

01:34:10
Speaker 1: Okay, okay, good, I would think good. So he's asking, have I prepped you for what?

01:34:14
Speaker 3: Next phase?

01:34:15
Speaker 1: Yeah?

01:34:16
Speaker 3: Next phase? Which just hearing that it's a reflection of what we talked about earlier with like each week brings new new challenges.

01:34:25
Speaker 1: Yeah, but being on that uh mom on calls, it's like if I'm referring back to the twelve hours by twelve weeks, like it all comes down to those wake windows and sleeping and trying to get them to sleep through the night. And when you're optimistic, you might have a couple of good days to get stacked up, but then a sleep regression might come and you're kind of just you're just in the think of it again, it's like a new challenge it's like new adversity. You're thinking to yourself, oh man, I'm really stacking up four or five six hours of sleep, but then all of a sudden, they're waking up pissed off in your mind for no reason. But that that to me would probably be your next phase.

01:35:00
Speaker 3: Okay.

01:35:01
Speaker 1: It's like once you get into the months, we will be able to talk more about that. But I think like your next week's because again you're going, as we're talking in this episode is being released, you're on week four right now.

01:35:09
Speaker 8: Yeah.

01:35:10
Speaker 1: Yeah, it's like you're hopeful that they hit all those three hours of sleep because they eat eat sleep shit for a bit, and I know with twelve hours. By twelve weeks it's like week six or week eight is like when boot camp begins. Yeah, like when you're really starting to dial them in on having them, teaching them to self soothed, trying not to pick them up all the time, and just being like, hey, daddy's here, finding a song, going to your go to lulla byes. We talk about that all the time, But that'll kind of be your next That'll kind of be your next phase in my opinion, if I can remember correctly, it's all about in those first few months, like if you're on like a sleep training, like the goal is getting them to sleep.

01:35:49
Speaker 3: Through the night. The formula that we went by, Yeah, that's kind of what Taylor alluded to you at the pool party. We talked briefly and he was asking. He was like, she's three weeks right, and I was like yeah, and he was like yeah. Really. The next step, it felt like for us, was like the baby's almost become self aware. They're like, oh shit, I'm a baby, and I'm like, what's going on?

01:36:11
Speaker 1: Yeah, And there's the good part of that is they start to smile. It's like right now, especially with mom, because they're in it twenty four to seven, you got postpartum and everything else, Like the baby just takes from them, takes, takes, takes, yeh needs, the boob needs, milk needs, faed needs, burb needs, change, all the stuff, and Mama's just on deck the entire time. And then when they start to smile, it's like, now you're getting something back in return, which cheers you up, gives you greta maybe taking photos, taking videos because again, those first weeks, it's like you caught that smile picture probably from her poop and stuff. But when they start to look and see you and be aware and you can kind of maybe entertain them a little bit, or they're looking around and observing a lot more, you start to get more. You start to get a return, you start to get an.

01:36:54
Speaker 3: ROI on your investment. I'm excited for that, excited for that, and I I'm excited for the challenge of it too. I really do think that your heart turns black is like such a real thing in this dad stuff. Yeah, I don't know, like I don't know how to describe it, but like I'm not miserable at four point thirty in the morning feeding her. Yeah, And I can't describe that feeling.

01:37:22
Speaker 1: Yeah, I think you do a good job of not putting yourself in like a reactionary state. It's almost like again, it's like embracing and anticipating that sucking moments are gonna come. And as long as you're able to anticipate, because you can't anticipate a plan working. Yeah, you're anticipating a plan and just go to just unfold and unravel. And you're in those moments pivoting and trying to figure out, just reminding yourself that this is what you signed up for?

01:37:47
Speaker 3: Yeah, Jill. The only note that I've gotten from this last week was Jill is like I'm almost too unbothered. In some moments, He's like, hey, Scarlet screaming. I'm like holding Scarlet. I'm like, yeah, I know, like I you know, I'm bouncer. Yeah's like, where you going to do the passy? Do you want to take her outside? I mean she's screaming something's wrong. I'm like, yeah, she's a baby. Like it's all like, I'll figure it out. And she's like I need some I love that attitude, but I need some pep in the step, Like what's your plan? How are you going to get her to stop crying? I'm like, all right.

01:38:21
Speaker 1: I love the comments of the boys reacting to your story about being out and getting on the video game. Oh dude, so funny. Oh dude, so funny.

01:38:30
Speaker 3: Dude. Yeah, I mean, you live and you learn, dude. And it's like, I'm trying to be a good partner to Jill obviously, and that's like separate of Scarlett too, like just in marriage. It's like by soccer coach in high school had a great quote. He said, if I quit whenever something was hard, I would have divorced my wife, you know, thirty years ago.

01:38:49
Speaker 1: It's like, that's a bar.

01:38:51
Speaker 3: You know, everything's gonna be difficult. Good things in life are difficult. But it's like, yeah, I don't even know where I was going with that. You were spending.

01:39:01
Speaker 1: Yeah, you were blacked out and you were spending.

01:39:03
Speaker 3: Buddy, where were we even talking? I don't know.

01:39:06
Speaker 1: That's the beauty of the show. You should get lost in your thoughts, man. You got dad breaking going on right now.

01:39:11
Speaker 3: I do.

01:39:11
Speaker 1: I'm thinking about how Yeah, my wife she's like, uh, She's like, hey, you're gonna be home in time to help with the bad time, because I was like, I'll be home in time for bedtime.

01:39:19
Speaker 3: I forget. Sunday's is a bad time.

01:39:21
Speaker 1: We're recording right now on Sunday and we're trying to get it in so that way we can get back home and yeah, be on dad duty. But as far as anticipating another little dad hack that I'll give before I drop a quote that I heard from a gentleman, you like that, please, A little quote that I heard from a gentleman earlier, but a nice little dag dad hack that I experienced with the two Littles with Hudson and Rue in Canada was when we were staying in the hotel together, same room, all that stuff, but prepping them before anything happens. I remember I sat each of them down individually. I was like, sweetheart, go go ahead and step out in the hallway. I'm going to talk to Rue one on one. And then I pulled Hudson aside and I was like, hey, let me grab your ear one on one and I sat him down and I was like, hey.

01:39:59
Speaker 3: We're about to go to dinner time. We need you. You know, Grady, I'm talking to Hudson. You know your brother. Grady's fussy.

01:40:04
Speaker 1: You know Scotty she can get fussy too, and Rue she's kind of she's up and down right now. Hudson, Yeah, I'm gonna need you to stay poised. And he's like, he's just looking at me, and I'm like, I love your fit. I love how you get the stripes on the collared shirt. I love how they met your boots. They had little cowboy boots on them, and I love that watch. You're rocking right now. You look like a star, and I'm gonna need you to perform like a star. At dinner tonight, when every things get a little hazy and the sharing doesn't go well, I'm gonna look at you and I'm gonna say, hey, Hudson, remember what we talked about upstairs? And then I'm gonna need you to lock in. I kind of did the same kind of thing with the roof. That's that's that's a good little Dada hack right there. Doesn't go perfectly, but at least you can look and say, hey, honey, remember what we talked about upstairs, and it'll be like and then and then Hudson. I enjoyed being around Hudson, bro. It's like getting to be around a little boys. It was like I was having fun. And then, uh, but they both want to press the elevator button when you go to the eleve going everywhere with you're traveling around, she pushes the elevator. But now you got Hudson, who also another family that he didn't charged, and pressing the elevator button. So they're going toes and losing their shit. More so Rue if she can't touch the elevator button or Hudson beats her and does, She's like, I'm gonna push on and Hudson runs and just touches it and then just looks at Rue and she just loses it. So I grabbed both of them, like, hey, hey, hang on. They're both talking about who's gonna touch the outside button, who's gonna touch the button once you get in the elevator, And as they're trying to figure out as they're going, because we're like, all right, guys, want you press one button the other one if you press the other, and we was like, I want to press the outside buttons. I want to press the outside button. And they're walking toward the elevator trying to figure out who's going to press what, and I stopped him. I said, hey, Rue, Hudson, let's stop everybodys standing at the elevator. And I'm like, right there in the hallway, I'm like, hey, let's figure out and have a game plan. Who's pushing what button before we get before we get to the elevator. Who wants to push the outside button? And we was like, I want to push the inside button. Hudson's like, I'll push the outside butt. I'm like, all right, here's what we're gonna do, Hudson, You'll press the outside button. And Rue once we step in, you're gonna press L with the star, L with the star. You're in charge of pushing that button. Teamwork makes the dream work. Let's go execute. We go on on two to one two, Rue press the outside Hudson press the outside button, and Rue pushes the inside button.

01:42:15
Speaker 3: It's perfection.

01:42:16
Speaker 1: Then if they're arguing about who's gonna press the inside button, because everybody wants to press the inside button, Hey, here's what we're gonna do.

01:42:24
Speaker 3: Rue.

01:42:24
Speaker 1: It's Huddy's turned to press the inside button. You're gonna press two buttons. I'm gonna need you to push the outside button. And then when we step in, Huddy's gonna press the number, the floor number, and then you're gonna press the door's closed button with the arrows going in. So once he hits three, you hit the door's closed button and we'll execute this planet. So Rouse hitting the button twice, I'm like, all right, honey, you hit three, and right when he hits three, I'm like, rough, hurry up, push the closed door button. Puts the closed door door has closed. You're like, oh my god, you guys crushed it. You guys probably got us up to the third floor.

01:42:54
Speaker 3: Legendary going in like a huddle too, and going outside down yeah, inside l star yeah on two on two and closed door, closed door zip, closed the door zip on two on two.

01:43:06
Speaker 1: Ready break And then if the door would start to close before they can press the closed door button, I like, put my hands it open back.

01:43:11
Speaker 3: Hurry up, close the door, but it's gonna get broken. Oh my god, you guys saved this. But I fucking love that, dude.

01:43:19
Speaker 1: Huddle them up, get the anticipation going.

01:43:22
Speaker 3: That's so much fun. Those those are like memories that they will have once they get old enough. Is like the little things.

01:43:31
Speaker 1: Yeah, that's I hope. So anyway, if not, I'm gonna have videos of showing like, hey, look at this video back when you guys are you know, old man, but yeah, your old man kind of corralled you guys up. We'll get to do it with Scotty and Scarlet. I mean, Scotty's what eight months older than Scarlet. Yeah, it'll be fun once they get old enough, man.

01:43:49
Speaker 3: Dude, that will be fun. That That's a crazy thought in itself. As I see pictures of Scotty and I do the math in my head and I'm like, oh man, that's crazy yes, dude, how excites me? How old was she when I went over for the trailer? I don't know, maybe four months, five months?

01:44:06
Speaker 1: What month was the trailer?

01:44:08
Speaker 3: What month was the trailer release?

01:44:10
Speaker 1: The chef wasn't with me, wasn't here.

01:44:12
Speaker 3: Fuck, dude, So let's just say three months ago.

01:44:15
Speaker 1: I don't know, two months ago, three eight episodes, three months maybe I'm already thinking of, like, so Scotty was like five months old?

01:44:22
Speaker 3: Yeah? And how happy she was for feeds? How where she was for feeds? How where she was of diaper change?

01:44:28
Speaker 1: When they get aware of feeds, bro, and you kind of have the bottle at night time and you kind of hold it away from their mouth just to see him go.

01:44:37
Speaker 3: This move this move yeah, yeah, yeah, the where the fuck is it? Yeah?

01:44:43
Speaker 1: Or when they're done with then they're just getting out of the mount, you're like, do you sure you don't one more thing?

01:44:48
Speaker 3: It's awesome? Really quick? Uh dad hack. When my hand goes on doorknob, I remind myself what did Jill ask me for? What she asked me to go get? Every single time your hand? What do you do if you don't remember? I'm sorry, I'm sorry.

01:45:06
Speaker 1: This couple you forgot to turn off the the little the bottle heater that I shouted out a few weeks ago, because after you pour it, you gotta hit the power button to turn it off, and I just leave that thing running. Hey, power button's on again.

01:45:20
Speaker 3: Ah. I don't have a dad hack just yet of when your hand hits that doorknob, but you don't remember. I will come up with one.

01:45:28
Speaker 1: Yeah, But because if you say the dad's out there when you touch the doorknob, remember what your wife said my wanting to be a learning father about this? How do you even remember?

01:45:40
Speaker 3: That's what I'm saying as soon and I'm talking about leaving the room right after she just told you I need bottle. Okay, okay, I'm your close. It just remind yourself it gets outside of three minutes. Oh yeah, I'm gonna need help. You're fucking cooked. I'm doing six trips for everything. Let's get to the lessons. Okay, I gotta get home. Oh okay, really quick? Do you have let me do what are the odd shout out fanduls? Okay, go ahead, what are the odd shoutout FanDuel? We do we have a sicko, an absolute sick Oh his name is Mason Nestle Road. Okay, Mason said, uh, flooded the basement a little too hard while on Seaman Team six got the positive pregnancy test six days before the wedding. I thought you told me about actually flooded the basement days before the wedding. God, I love Papa Team six.

01:46:38
Speaker 1: I love the squad.

01:46:39
Speaker 3: Skipped Sperm Team six straight to Papa Team six. Come this January, let's go announce the butN in the oven. At the rehearsal dinner the night before the wedding, he sent me a video. I'll send you all this stuff. We're crazy and we're waiting to find out the gender until birth. But based off these last two sonograms, pretty sure it's a baby boy. He drew a little diesel piece on this undergram. This guy's a sick of a true PT six.

01:47:07
Speaker 1: Six dude completed buds and didn't even mean the complete buds. And for new listeners, that is breeding until dad status. He was busting until dad status.

01:47:19
Speaker 3: He was busting until dad status. And the what are the odds are it is a or fifty to fifty odds? I guess if it's a boy or a girl. We won't know. They're gonna find out when baby comes out. I think that we gotta have a follow up there, we do. But Mason, thank you for writing. And that made me laugh really hard at like three thirty.

01:47:41
Speaker 6: Am.

01:47:42
Speaker 3: Oh that is a good one. Hey. He sent so many pictures, dude sent like videos from the wedding. They had one of those cameras that does the slow mode three sixty and it's just all of his boys with their asses out on the camp.

01:47:56
Speaker 1: It's a guy, he's built for proper, all right. So the lesson segment this is this was just gonna be a simple quote because again, I gotta make it home for for bad time. Yeah, and I'm probably missing some of bad time. I'm gonna have to make it home for bedtime because I told my wife's seven seven ten. It is now seven o'clock, so it'll probably be like seven fifteen, seven twenty walk in that door.

01:48:19
Speaker 3: Okay, I'm sorry.

01:48:20
Speaker 1: You know we tried to keep it under an hour.

01:48:22
Speaker 3: Yeah, Jared just texted me and said that he's showing up to my house around six forty five seven for dinner tonight.

01:48:28
Speaker 1: Oh yeah, yeah, yeah, we'll get this quote out of seven pm because This is one I learned from a gentleman today. I was at a picnic for back to school. Ruth's going to school this month, and al Ru's going to school next month in aug Is it August.

01:48:43
Speaker 3: August? August?

01:48:44
Speaker 1: Yeah, the middle of August, like August thirteenth is Ru's first day of school. Yes, parents, I'm gonna take it. My wife and I were gonna take it way harder than Rue does, because it's just buddy.

01:48:54
Speaker 3: Time is flying by.

01:48:55
Speaker 1: First. The police's gonna go hard, hard, bro, I'm talking. I hit the post her debt. Oh, so you're most muscular. But I was talking to this gentleman at this picnic while we're out in ninety five degree heat, trying to avoid small talk, as dads tried to do when you're at these outings, of course, And I was talking to a gentleman and we were kind of talking about, you know, just being in the suck.

01:49:20
Speaker 3: Like I was like, dude, I hear you.

01:49:22
Speaker 1: I was trying to get Ru here, and she wanted to go as a queen, so she wanted to wear a two two over her outfit we had her. She wanted to wear a two two. She wanted to have the wand she wanted to have the wings.

01:49:30
Speaker 3: She wanted to have the.

01:49:30
Speaker 1: Crown, and was losing her mind to where we're having a little bit of a tiff, a little bit of a dust up at home. Mom goes out the car. I just pick her up and I'm like, hey, sweetheart, Elsa. When she goes to outings as a queen or a princess, like she's got to go talk to people and socialize and joy. She's got to play and do things that she doesn't want to do. And she you know, when she goes into her car seat, she can't wear wings because when you're in the car seat, you can't wear the wings. We got to get the wings off. But at this point she does want to get the wings off. We go to the picnic. We have a great time. It's at a playground. They're playing, they're doing all this stuff. So I'm talking to this gentle on the side and we're kind of recapping these stories of being in the trenches. Okay, and he and me with a quote that I thought was a bar I think his name is Josh. Shout out Josh, Shout out Josh. And he said, when I'm in those moments I try to do my best. What's going to be the best for them thirty years from now versus thirty seconds from now. On taking the extra moment, it's like whether you're whether they're in it and you're sitting there with them while they're crying, whether they ruse in a phase where it's like I don't want you in the room, get out of the room. So I'm like, okay, I just let her know that that will be I'm gonna leave the room. That is going to be right outside with a calm voice. That is gonna be a right outside. If you need me, just let me know if you need help, because I love you, Yeah, because I love you. Whether you take a second to tell them a story about one of their favorite characters, just whenever you're in those moments and they're losing their shit versus like compliance grab them all this stuff. We have those moments. It happens. But that quote that bar of I try to think about how I will want them to be thirty years from now versus thirty seconds from now. It just reminds you to like, just take those moments, have that calm voice, stay in it, let them know, hey, if they don't want you around them right now. I'll be right outside if you don't need me, whether you find a moment to be like, hey, Elsa, she goes to parties too as the queen, and when she's the queen, she doesn't wear wings and she socialized if she doesn't want to socialize, and they kind of stop crying and they're kind of like sitting there thinking.

01:51:14
Speaker 3: Elsa goes to picnics all the time. Name Anna literally said, but it's a ball room with no ball and there's.

01:51:20
Speaker 1: Another story out there where she gets really frustrated and doesn't want to go, just like you're being It's okay to be frustrated. I can tell you're overwhelmed. I can tell you're frustrated, but let's just take a beat. Or if it's beyond that and you have a little data el to where you get, you lose it for a second, reminding yourself to go back to the conversation later in the day when they're cool, calm, collected, whether it's at bedtime, you might just say, hey, remember dad, Hey, I'm sorry for getting mad at you earlier. You know why Daddy got mad at you, And they might just say I was sad or I was frustrated. Yeah, And you know when you get frustrated, it just you know domino effect. You talk to him about the ripple effect, and you kind of just give them a little lesson on how you would like their behavior to be when it's calm, because when you get frustrated, then Mom might get frustured Dadad gets frustrated. I did a poor job of being frustrated back to you. I should have sat with you. I should have empathized with you, because I know it gets sad and frustrating at times, and you get mad and you get overwhelmed, but you gotta know it's gonna be all right, and you gotta know when that happens. If Dad can say something to you in the moment where we can remind and get back to even keel, that would be the what I've thought about since that gentleman Josh gave me that quote earlier today at the picnic.

01:52:29
Speaker 3: It's a bar. That is a bar. It's a bar. It is like the even the little moments of like you bringing up the monsters at the playground and stuff like those little games and everything that are like the quick solves, like that's obviously not gonna affect her in thirty years. She's not gonna be afraid of it.

01:52:46
Speaker 1: Right, But it is like change, it's like doing things to try and change their frame of mind. Yes, and if you're beyond that, it's like, okay, you don't want to see that right now, a sweetheart, Hey, that that is going to leave the room. I'll just be out here if you need me, yeah, or if you your shit on him, you come back around to it. But it's yeah, it's a nice juggle, man. It's a fun it's a fun little balance and challenge. Sometimes not fun, but anyway, we gotta roll.

01:53:10
Speaker 3: We gotta roll.

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