Peter Weber on Night One and His ‘Biggest Fear’

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Speaker 1: What's up, everybody? Welcome to another episode of Bachelor Happy Hour, Got my girl backa here, I'm a new co host. We're very happy right now. We are happy because I feel like the people have been asking right. We may have heard from him just a little bit on the podcast. He called from a distance, but we have him in studio today. Would you like to tell them who him is? We have him in the flesh everybody, and we know that he's taken time out of probably the busiest schedule of his life. But we needed to hear from the man himself. So of course we have Bachelor Peter. What did drum call you? Bud? Whenever you want to call him? He is here with us today and we are so excited because you know, everyone and their moms have been talking about Night one, all of the girls, all of the drama that went down. So we are going to hear from him. We have a million questions, but we have to hear it from the man himself. Yeah, so thank you Peter for being here. Thank you guys. Yeah, We're ready like start well and I feel like we've been catching up a little bit behind the scenes. So I'm sorry you didn't get at all, but we have so much to cover. Yeah, a lot that we unfortunately cannot get to today because I'm going there, We're getting there before. Well, we've been just waiting for you to come back to us, right like you finished your season. You've been in the sky. We've been waiting for you to come back here. So we can not grill you, but just question you were We've kind of feel like two baked sisters because we've gone through this before. Yeah, and we know what it's like. This this time is so exciting but so scary. It's a very weird phase this time. I mean, your life is literally going to change. It's going to be rocked upside down. You I can't I mean, we can tell you from experience what to expect, but it's going to be so different for you. And this is the time when it's exciting and the show's just starting, and you probably can't wait to share with the world everything that happens, but you can't. You have to stay silent. So I will say this is probably you should hopefully enjoy this time because it's about to get crazy, pretty crazy. You need your you time. I mean, I know from experience. I just wanted to hold up and be with my family and at that, you know, at my point with Garrett. So we're hoping, fingers crossed you have some special to share this quiet time with until until the finale. Yeah. Now I'm excited for you guys all to see it. It was. Honestly, it was the two most amazing months, insane months, hardest months of my life. But UM, so happy it. Did you feel be happy? Do I feel like you're always smiling? I am, I'm always happy with a writer, Give me your top three words to describe your overall experience. Top three words? Um, let's see here, I'd say surprising, um, emotional and love. Oh, positive words. What else do we expect from exhausting? I like the word. But it was so worth it. So coming in, I mean, it's it's such an exciting time, you know, to find out that you're the Bachelor. It's it's huge, and you're you're humbled, you're honored, you're scared. Um, you kind of don't know what to do with yourself because it's such a surreal experience. But coming in, what was your biggest fear to start this whole thing? Yeah? I so I was obviously just extremely humbled to have this opportunity, and um, I just remember when I actually found out that it was going to happen, just all this excitement just completely just over was overflown with excitement and just in my head trying to have all these expectations of what it was going to go like and if this was going to work. And I always knew it was gonna work. I had that mindset going into it. Just that's the way I've always been. But I think I my biggest fear about it was possibly just falling for someone that, for whatever reason, wasn't into it. For that, that's obviously that exact reason that I was or didn't fall from me as strong as I felt for them, because when I was going to do this and I decided to do it, I was going to give everything to it. And I remember that first night, you know, with all ladies in that first toast, like that's what I told them, and I said, you know, I know this works, believe me, Like I just finished, you know, an amazing journey. Yes it didn't work for me the way I wanted it too, but I'm here to tell you one hundred percent works if you give yourself to this and I just asked for you to do that right now tonight, make a promise yourselves and to me that you're gonna do that, because I'm gonna give you everything. And I guess my biggest fear was maybe that I ended up with someone that didn't do that. But I would say it's a valid fears, like didn't you have that fear because you know, you know you you know what you're giving, but you're kind of in a room full of strangers, you know, beautiful strangers, I might add, but you don't know if their intentions are the same. And it's so scary and you're alone. You know, you can't phone a friend, phone family, you can't do a Google search, background search. You really just have to trust your gut. Yeah, absolutely, Yeah. And you know you went through Ham a season you lived with however many guys, and you saw first hand some guys were there quote unquote for the right reasons and some guys who weren't. And of course I'm sure you knew some women were going to be the same, like some would be there for you, some probably necessarily wouldn't, right, So it's it's a very scary thing giving all of yourself to something and just like hoping for the best, but you have no idea what to expect because you don't know these women yet, No, you don't. That's a very real fear. And on top of that, as the as the season went on, you know, obviously stuff inevitably comes up and you hear stuff. You know, certain people start talking about certain people. But one thing that I didn't necessarily realize was going to be so hard being on this side of it. Side of it is, you know, obviously you're not in the house and you're not with them every day when the cameras are rolling. When they're not rolling, you only see that person putting their best foot forward and there's you know, their best face and telling you pretty much what you want to hear, especially in the beginning before you really get to know them. And then stuff started coming up, and that was one of my biggest struggles, having to deal with how to kind of like weed through that and who I could truly trust and who I couldn't. And I'm hearing one thing from one person and the exact opposite from the other person, and I'm not in the house actually do my own due diligence and own kind of like just feeling it out. That was very difficult for me. How did that make you feel when people would come up to you and tell you what was going on in the house. Yeah, absolutely complain to you. It's like, you've got a few minutes with me. Can we make the most of it? Yeah? I know that. I could not say that, and I will say so, there's there's so much you don't see being the lead. I mean, you're only going off of what people are telling you or what other people are telling you about someone else. Yeah. Right, And I will warn you, even watching your season back, you're going to see so much more that you miss I had no ideas even going on. Yeah, totally. And it's like, yeah, sure somebody will mention something here and there, but you'll watch it back and you'll be like, oh my gosh, I wish I would have known this sooner or how did I miss this? And that was one of the things for me personally watching the season back, I loved it and I hated it at the same time, because there was a lot of funny parts that I was like, dang it, I missed that, and then there are parts where like I was like, shoot, I wish I would have known that like three weeks prior to this, So it'll be you know, as much as you lived your side of things, it's going to be very eye opening watching the next couple of weeks go on, because I will say, going into whenever you have your women till all, you'll have some new points to probably talk about. Yeah, I will sure. So that first night happens, and which I think is one of the most fun nights, right, Like, you never know who's going to pop out of the little or whatever whatever they come out of because to meet all these new people, feel all this new energy and they're there for you, and it's exciting and it's wild that. There's nothing like that night. But the rose ceremony, your first rose ceremony. You're on the other side. You see the secret of how everything is laid out, how you call names, and the very technical Yeah, you get it all, and it's like, oh, this is what it's like. You're finally on the other side, and you see back rooms in the mansion that you've never seen before. Now I'm forgetting my questions. Ceremony was that Oh sorry, no, no, go ahead, don't say it was that. The first night was that what you were most nervous about, or were you more nervous to meet the girls, to have the conversations, to get to know them, to kind of see the ins and the outs of how it's all run. Like, what was the part that was most nerve recommend that stood out to you the most. I definitely had a fear of letting go of someone first night that I really could have clicked with and like it could have just been fireworks with because obviously you only get yes. First impressions are huge, um, and then you know, you get maybe a ten fifteen minute conversation and you have to really kind of be sold on that person to at least give them a chance to really get to know them, you know, in that quick bit of time. Um, that was a fear. I remember, like leaving that first night or I guess morning because it goes so late, just really hoping, shoot, I hope I didn't let go of anyone that you know, really could be my person. So did you go off of gut instinct? Then I did? Yeah? Um, And I trusted myself that first night, just like I did the whole time, and I felt good about my decisions. But you know, I thought sending people home the first night was the easiest thing because I was like, I don't know you, but you didn't You didn't think you didn't wonder maybe what if there were too many other people there? You can? Yeah. So it after that it became extremely hard because I had more conversations. But I do want to know and and Becca China. I don't even think I'm asking you this question either, but they come out there for you. Did you think you already knew who you wanted or like, who was your top person? Yeah? Same? Did you think that I had? I will say I wrote in my journal that night, and I had three or four guys that I wrote, Oh, when you just met them at the limo, did you already kind of have it? Not? I'm talking before any conversations, Oh, because I'm going there, just when they opened the door and they're just walking towards you. Yes, yes, yes, Okay, No I didn't. I literally blacked out that entire time out. But I didn't black out on the one that I was really into. Let me take my inser BacT because well, I will say this, because Garrett stood out because he didn't come out of a limo. He came out of a minivan and he was just like wild and crazy. So he did stick out and then he's one of the guys that going into that night I wanted to talk to. I was excited to see again, and then I just liked to more after that. Did you give him your first impression? Rooms? Yeah. One thing for first Nights that I personally got a lot of flak four was sending Joe home Grocery Store Joe heard that. Okay, I have my reasons. He's a great guy, but since see, that's why I kind of had a fear right there. Yeah. So since we're now into you know, we've seen the first episode, do you think there's gonna be any female versions of mister Grocery Store Joe. I honestly think, like I said, I'm gonna get a lot of flak. Obviously being the pilot there, one of the flight attendants. She came in a full on flight attendant get up, had the most amazing no. But I loved it, Like I'm really surprised, but at least like the opening, I was like eating it up. I'm like, this is freaking awesome, and she's like doing her whole speel and like welcome a board, like flight Bachelor twenty four or something like that, like did her whole thing? She did no work. She does that every guy. I guess, biscop cookie, because then you should have kept her. No, she didn't. That's why she did not, So that wasson. I mean, honestly, I think I would want to stand out at it if I was coming. I get the windmill stuff. That's that's gonna happen. I'm sure we'll have heard it one too many times. But a flight attendants like I see this all day every day, you know, like at least put on like a Halloween version of it where it's sexy or something. I mean, I'm gonna take a scarf off and wrap it around his next spank them with it, something like something if Rachel's ever on the show again. We know it's something you see every day. You're right, I don't know. I still appreciated it. But so do you feel like you had to get rid of the Did you have to get rid of those girls the flight attendants to not live up to a stereotype? Are you sick of being pilot? Pete? First of all, I'm not, no, because as much as more people. Everyone else is probably sick of it. But I love flying. That's just that's me, and that's always going to be me. Um, that's just my number one passion, my first love for sure. Um. But when that's all people know you at right, that and there's so much more to me than just being a pilot. And hopefully and hopefully every yeah and it will know um that stuff. You know, they'll everyone will be able to hopefully learn a little bit more about me throughout this season. But um, no, I didn't do it to kind of get away from that stereotype. And it's kind of funny because a little bit later on in the season, I get a surprise that I didn't know about. Um has a little bit to do with this, and it was it was actually really well done. I definitely appreciate it. With the flight attendant, did you no, I got rid of the three No, no, but a little bit with flight attendant the one that you sent home. No, none of the three that I sent home. So there was three flight attendants that I knew about the first night, and I sent all three of them home. But later on it was a fun little I like her already, That's what I'm talking about some originality. She's already my favorite character. She is definitely fee That was cool. That was cool. The way she does it and delivers what she does is just so perfect and has me on the edge of my seat. I'm like, well, what I will say, You're getting me very excited to watch the season. No, it's it's good. It's definitely very entertaining. Okay, do you feel like after the first because the first roal ceremonies exhausting. You're up all night, it's the morning, people cry, you know, people shot, are shocked and all. And did you feel emotional though, Like, did you get emotional sitting anybody home after that? The only time I got emotional was the beginning. I got emotional on my toast. I just remember walking in and you know, all the ladies are there, they all stand up, they raise their glasses, and I just I mean, that's like the first real for me. A He's the first real moment, like, oh my god, it's probably because you have all these girls here for exactly and just like it was just I'm getting like goosebumps right now even thinking about it. I was just so much gratefulness, just my entire body that's what it was, and just so appreciative to have this moment and to realize that I remember saying like, I hope this is, you know, the start of the greatest love story ever, like and I really believe that, and just knowing that we were all on this together and about to embark on it. And I was so excited for it and just so happy to be in that position. Um, and so thankful that I got emotional there. Um, I didn't get emotional at the end, though, I could see you having all that emotion, like, yeah, you're all on, like you're you're pouring your heart out, You're being so vulnerable, and then some little bitch says, cans till you for a second, and then the whole thing just starts and yeah, so we know obviously you were nervous. I think, yeah, we've I was shaken in my little heels. Was so nervous. Um, And I'm sure you could sense the girl's nerves too. How did you help them throughout the night, you know, feel at ease so they could kind of give you a glimpse of who they are, Because that was the one part that I was like, you know, you have to be making these quick decisions. You know, obviously you only have a few minutes with everyone, so it's like you want to try to get to know them as best you can without this front on. So how did you kind of put them at ease and help them out through it? Honestly? I for me, so, I'm I've just always been kind of a physical person, Like physical touch has always been a lovely but no, I because I remember I was just you know, just as nervous as them. But I think just it was like a small thing. I remember like I try to like at least, you know, touch her like or grab her hand and just like hold it and just like kind of just like give her, you know, that confidence that I want her to feel, to be able to be herself and kind of relax and and just you know, I remember multiple times I just like would talk to them like like, guys, how cool is this? Like this is a crazy first night We'll never forget, Like this is just so amazing, I'm so happy that you're here. Just I don't know, just not trying to make the moment too big. Obviously, it's very nerve wracking for them because they kind of have this pressure, But um, I don't know. I think yeah, in regards like just the small little physical touches and just trying to not make it too big of a moment. How did you pick a bow tie? You know? I said, a little carry into. I fight for that. I know you did. You made carry ups. Probably he wasn't too mad about it. He there's some other people that I had to kind of get the approval on um to sign off on it. But I don't know. I kind of just I've always loved James Bond and like the whole like that whole suit. I've never worn a tuxedo like that, like the whole slim fit, custom fit texedo was like I remember the last time I wore a tuxedo was at prom and I wore my dad's like tuxedo was just really big and never fit me well. And I was like, I just want to wear a tuxedo and like go all the way. And I fought for that boat's head and I loved it. I'm not normally the dude, and I remember going into I'm like, there's a chance maybe I don't even kiss anyone threw a hand all over the place. If you were definitely going to be kissing some girls that night, yes, but okay, to be real this actually it is to my point with Hannah, I waited a while to kiss here, and it was a long time. Yeah. So for me, I've always been a person that when I'm really into someone, I think it just comes from me being you know, I was really shy when I was younger, and it was I didn't talk to girls for long. It was really hard for me too. Um, I just always been that way. And night, I've always waited a while to kind of make that first move. It's like with kissing, and so I kind of had this like, Okay, I'm gonna do this for the first night and see how it goes. But then the Savannah comes up to me and you know, she does this little act with me and puts this blindfold on and like, you know, does this you know thing like starts like massaging my body or something and then goes in for the kiss. And she did it, and I was like, all right, there we go, Like I kind of got the whole mindset. It was broken. Yeah, it feels broken, and here we go. Like I didn't have her up. I wasn't waiting for that first kiss again. So I kind of I don't know, like I was feeling it with them, so I went for it first impression Rose, because we've all been there having to give your first impression Rose. Yeah, now you give your first impression Rose to Hannah and Hannah and Hannah and Hannah, Hannah and Hannah An. Okay, why did you decide to give it to her? Because I know this is going to be a little bit controversy because you gave it to somebody who stole us three times times. What's up with that? I know you that's honestly part of the reason I love that. Um So, Hannah Anne was someone that she that girl knew exactly what she wanted coming into this and never um let me question that. And I literally mean that from the beginning, she was the first person to steal me away. Uh for the first conversation. She was the first kind of normal kiss, not from like the first you know, first um, you know entrances and just I mean we clicked immediately. Just ar. Yeah, I'm gonna say something. Don't get mad at me. Okay, I know exactly what we've all listeen one episode, but you know who Hannah Anne reminds me of and the way you talk about her. Everybody's staying with me. Now what two three? Luke, not even close, not even close. Don't even go there saying you listen, he took an issue. She was intentional, but not like, no, that's be different. You know him outside of all of that, you know him. Pass the first tip. I'm only talking about first episode. We didn't know he was like that first episode. It was like, Wow, he's really into this girl. He knows exactly what he wants. He's very intentional and exactly what he wants to do, and she feels it as well. That's the same way. I'm just saying, we've only seen one O. Ye disagree, but that's fine. And but like she like Hannah, and she brought me up. We went to like the couch she had drawn out this beautiful painting for me is she had drawn with her dad. Immediately starts going into like about her family. Now important her family was to her, and it just like it was it. She's so not like that. I believe you. I'm just saying there's a lot of similar I'm talking only first night. Yeah, please, everybody don't judge me. I'm just talking about her. I have no idea anything else about Hannah and I get that night and maybe you know you saw Hannah and Brown, you know, really take a liking to him right first night, and I think we all did. The first night you saw him on a date, I did see him say, I'm not just only keep it in content just that first night night. There's nothing wrong with that, you know, being that kind of at all. Just the first night is all I'm talking about. Nothing past that, because I had a lot to say about him. I'm just saying. I'm just just saying, I hope she's not like that. We'll have to see how it all plays out. I have to see Hannah and Um, so I know for Bautcheourette's well, the streak is now broken. Um, but we were very good at choosing our final person who would give first impression Rows too, So who knows, maybe Peter will follow in our footsteps again. We will have you find out, did you you mean with like choosing the end, you might as well practice with us before you have somebody else. You know what I'm saying. No, I, um, yeah, I don't think it's going to get out and hoping it doesn't. So I hope it doesn't too. I want to be surprised. I don't want to know again. I think I said this to your parents last week, but I want to be very unspoiled this season. I will probably be wrong, because I'm always wrong, Yeah in most things. Um, but yeah, I wanted to be very surprised at the end and see it all unfolding. I think that at the end of the day, that's everyone wants to like. I hate this whole spoiled now type to enjoy it. I'm longing to be upset if you don't pick anybody like I have. I like Peter's. Peter's gonna find it if anybody does. Peter does. The only reason I'm gonna be upset if I don't. I don't think anybody I'm going to be upset. I would not be upset because as long as you're happy, and if no one was there as you're perfect fit, then that's okay. I can't No, I cannot imagine that Peter doesn't find I think you will, Yeah, and I just can't. And then we now have someone to triple date with us. Yeah, we're coming to your mind. If I like her, okay, very intense doesn't like you. The first night is so wild, it's so crazy, so long. Do you think there's anything you would have done differently if you could maybe I kissed so many women, Um, but no, honestly, I made a point to talk to every single one, and I didn't want because I know sometimes that doesn't happen just because of straight up time. So I was really happy I was able to do that. Um. Honestly, no, I really wouldn't change anything about about that first night. I will say I did hear from um some of the producers who I still stay in touch with, that they really appreciated the fact that you pushed to talk to all the girls, and I think I did too that night. Good for you, it's hardly easy. At least you know who you're sending home. I did not so tired about the end that I was like, I'm fine. I was a zombie at the end of that. But well, do you know what, And I want to know if you guys thought this too when I was going through it, I thought, never forget what it feels like to be a contestant, to be on the other side, sacrificing you're making and be there. Yeah, And it's like even if you're exhausted as the lead and you're so you're just like, all again, you've had all these conversations. That person's been waiting five, you know, hours, days at sometimes to have a conversation with you. And I always remember thinking, just put yourself, remember what it was like, just muster up enough energy just to give themselves. That's not easy. But no, it's not me. Feel like crap, when did you not talk to you? Ah? Well, okay, I did. I talked to those people. I think there was four guys that I didn't talk to you. I will say the one I did not care to talk to who And I won't say his name, but he won't remember. He gave me. He came out of the limit and he's like, I want a relationship, or he's like, how do you feel about a fifty fifty relationship? And I was like saying, great, that's what I want. And then he's like, what about sixty forty? And then he took a step away for me, making me do more of the work. Yeah, and so I did. I actually said I didn't feel the need to talk to him, but well, if he wasn't, I have no I literally I watched your season. Obviously, I have no idea who this person is if you said him home the first night. Yeah, So I want to backtrack a little bit. So your night one, you meet all these amazing women, well hopefully amazing yeah. Um, and then Hannah comes out and she's the last girl out of the limos. What is going through your mind in that moment? Like, I feel like my stomach would have fallen out of my butt. Yeah, I would have been I wouldn't. I honestly probably don't know what I would have said. Yeah, I so, I remember, she's so the last girl come through what I thought was the last girl. And then one more limo comes. Didn't know it was her though, and then I like, look a little closer, and I realized it's actually Hannah. I was like, you've got to be kidding me, Like I really, honestly, I didn't. I did not expect for her to show up that first night. Maybe sometime throughout the season, but not that first night. It was a complete shock to me. And then I mean, yeah, I get I can be honest, like all good, Um, whether I should have or I shouldn't have, I price are getting a little more excited. I'm like I thought, maybe you know she was coming for? Yeah, what else are you going to think in that moment when she's walking up? So yeah, and I would feel Rachel's saying, we would feel the exact same way. You get that, like the little butterflies of excitement. Yeah. So then obviously she gives you the wings back, right, says Sara. And then the group date, you know she's going to be hosting it. Okay, you guys are realized, Like she I went in because she was like very emotional. I didn't just go to catch up whether she was like crying like crazy, and so I walked over and I see her and she's like mass scare everywhere, just like crying. I like trying to go comfort her and talk, and then I get emotional and just stuff just floods back to me. Of course at that point I feel like a jerk doing it. But at that point I didn't have any feelings for any of the girls yet. She was just honestly to host a date, and I believe that's gonna be surprised for me. I didn't know what they entailed. I just knew she was going to host it and solve that. But as a lead and you can and you can vouch for me on this. When it gets down to those final people, you all, they pull on your heart strings in a certain way. Yeah, And like in our talk, I call her out on that because I was prepared at Afar to like give it a shot, and I had knew there was a chance for the Bachelor, and I was gonna say no to the show anyways. What I was saying at yeah, how that whole conversation kind of ends or why I even give it another chance was I called her out because at Afar when I saw her for the first time after the show, and then um, we kind of like had a brief like just saying goodbye to each other off camera, just like caught Up said. She said that she had actually moved out to close to where I was living. I was like, no way, Like let's let's yeah, let's meet up. We'd agreed. I honestly got excited at that point. I was like, you know what this maybe this isn't over yet. Yeah, I had felt like some cameras she went there on stage, to be completely honest, and I remember my family and I we flew out to New York that night. We were gonna go up for this UM for a couple of weeks vacation, and um was really excited to like pursue something. And then that next night, I remember watching the second episode Afar with her and Tyler and she asked Tyler out. Yeah. I was like, what the hell? Yeah, And so that was just like right there, I'm like done, all right over it. I'm moving on, and like because it hurt, like I was not expected, I get that. So then I'd called her out on that. I was like, why the hell did you do that? Um? And so then we just kind of everything just came out and to answer your question, Yeah, it obviously broke my heart to see her in that way. Um, I had never kind of I didn't know that she still felt that way for me, completely honest, And I wasn't dming her like apparently she said that she know her and Tyler had been dming that summer before UM or that summer, so UM, Yeah, when she cried, what did she say her tears were based on? Like what was the emotion behind her tears? She just was pretty much expressing to me that obviously she had been through and like a very difficult time obviously with how her relationship ended with Jed and just how difficult being in that position it is, and now I've seen it going through a whole season. It's insanely difficult, as both of you know. And she just was being very honest with me that you know, she wishes she made. She admitted to me that she made the wrong decision, like she told me that, and with Jed or with Tyler. Do you get why I'm asking, because we know with Jed, but then she essentially chose from the story you're telling me, she essentially chose Tyler as well. Right, So did she explain? Which was it just a general stage? She explained to me the whole Tyler thing was apparently they have been dming a little bit, they've been talking a little bit, and I just hadn't. I had never reached out to her. I was waiting to see her afar and that was the first time. And because you followed the rules, I mean, yeah, I can just see the good in people. No, that's that's why I did. But um again, I know that she has something really real. It's really real with Tyler as well, And so I can't get mad at her for pursuing a relationship there. I just the part that pissed me off and that hurt me was we had talked about and maybe I shouldn't have gotten excited about No, you should have gotten excited. No, you should have. It makes all the sense in the world that you would get excited over that, Like, honestly, it does, and it's flat. I would have too, you know, Like I will say, we're all human, and there's a point when I'm sure we've all felt to next at some point comes back and you feel like it's kind of an ego booth. So I get that, you know, of course, I think that's a natural human feeling and emotion. Okay, I guess I am just like I am. Listen, we met before and I told you that I explained to you. I was like, listen, you're going to see in the media that I was a big advocate for Mike for Bachelor, and explain to you why I was doing it, and I wanted to get ahead of it before I sat down. I talked to you because I wanted you to know where I was coming from and that it wasn't anything personal. It has nothing to do with you, I have said. You know, you read the clickbit. You don't see that if you dive into the article. I have spoken very highly about you being a great bachelor, and I really think that you are, and having talked to your parents last week about you and learning who you are, and even sitting in here now like now, I'm a huge advocate for you, so I feel protective over you. So I'm I am you deserve somebody who wants to give you exactly what you want to give them, and I'm well, I guess, I guess we'll have to see what happens. But I hope that you know, you realize that through your journey, you know whether whether that's whether Hannah joins or not. So obviously we left the first episode knowing, you know, Hannah came out of the limo, Hannah came back for the first group date to host it are you? And I don't want you to give anything away obviously, I feel like the next episode is going to be very juicy. But were you able to kind of bounce back from that emotional conversation with her? Yes, I was, UM, yeah, I won't give anything in a way of how that whole conversation ends or what happens after that, but obviously everyone you know. Can you assume that I had to go confront the other women that I was on a group date with at that point and not gonna say it was comfortable. It was definitely uncomfortable. There was definitely some anger coming from them, and rightfully so. But what I will say is going into that after party from that date, while I was really uncomfortable and they were just being really honest with me, I appreciated them calling me out on what they did and expressing their feelings to me and not holding back, and in a way, I think allowed me to almost get closer to some of the women really early on, just with them being able to be so open and just raw and honest with me. That's kinda suck though, because I think my first couple group dates that I had, I mean, it's still you're still getting to know people, it's you still get nervous. It's just a kind of an uncomfortable situation. And to add this tension on top of that, I feel like I would have been dreading it. Yeah, and I didn't. Again, I didn't intend to. That was never the intention, right, they were supposed to be a full on date that day. We obviously didn't get to do and stuff just happened. But just for anyone that maybe thinks that I don't know what they're thinking about Hanna and I, but that that was a really real relationship and those are real feelings and stuff came up, and you know, feelings came back when I saw her there, and I don't know, I just we both kind of just followed our heart in that conversation. And but you guys will see what happens. I know it was tough for the girls on the group date to be there just to witness all of that, and you know, it's tough. You know, you're you're in this place where you don't really know what's going on, you don't trust anything anything, and to see that on the first date, that's a lot. Yeah, but I would have loved to have been the girls that weren't on the date. And I'm at home and all those girls come back, just angry little birds that are just like, let me tell you who was on the date, And I'm just like sitting back with popcorn, like I'm so glad I wasn't there, because you know, you're upset when you find out you're not on the date. Then you hear about that day. Yeah, do you feel you let you leave us hanging? So we have no idea what happens next week, But do you feel you got the closure that you needed out of that under that conversation with Hannah? Yes? I do good? Yeah, and everything that happens from that point on, Um, I feel really good about good. Okay, So night one is over. You now know that you have your entire exciting season to look forward to. Is there one thing that you you wanted to make sure you avoided throughout your season, something that you wanted to maybe do differently from hannah season, or that you just knew going into you did not want personally for yourself to happen. Well, I guess because I was asked a lot before the whole show started or season started, like what do you want to be remembered for? Like you have you know, Colson with the wall and then Hannah with the windmill, and you know, so what's Peter going to be? And I remember like taking a fence to that. I was like, I swear to like I hate to gain that question, Like I don't want to be remembered for any of that stuff. All that I care about is I want to hopefully, hopefully at the end of this be able to give everyone that watches this show and has fallen in love with this show an opportunity to live, you know, for these two months vicariously through my journey and my love story and kind of fall in love and throughout watching that. That's all that I cared about being remembered for. But answer, who the fuck wants to be remembered for an inanimate object? A windmill and a five. I got asked that all the time, like what do you want? I'm like, I don't care about that. I just want you know. And I will say I think they're such a split now for people, They're like, do you want to watch for a love story or do you want to watch for the drama? And I think I feel like I follow you and I'm sure Rachel, you can attest to this. I went in being like, this is my life. I want to find a partner to share it with, Like I'm taking this so seriously, like I'm all in to find my person if he's here. I didn't care about the drama. And yes, people can say I had a boring season, but I didn't care about all the bs, like I wanted to find my person and so now it's like, of course, it's a TV show. You want people to have their moments and you want to wrote people in and the drama. But like for me, it was about the love, which I love that you said that, But now it's such a split vote. I think for people it really is. Yeah, I get you need the drama, and it's at the end of the day, it's a TV show and entertainment of course, but also, yeah, this is our lives and I think all three of us went into it with the same mindset and yeah, and I think people forget that along the way, like yes to them, it's a TV show and it's like an object for them at times, but it's like we're also humans and at the end of the day, we have to live with our decisions and we want you know, it's a it's a big thing to say yes to be in the boucher and about Charrette, and so we want to find what we were looking for and that's not the drama. But that's exactly and that's what I everyone listening, please keep that in mind. Yeah, the future people. So that being said, we saw episode one and a lot goes down. So what can we expect for the next upcoming episodes? What what is it going to show us? Drama? Love give me Never? I never got a break. Um Honestly, something happens every single week, and it got to the point like it was very exhausting, and it was like I was, Okay, this week, it's gonna be okay, smooth, silent. Nope, no, and then it's just like just something every single week. Um, So, so we're gonna get good TV, is what you're saying. Yeah, yeah, I think so. I want to just know one thing throughout your season? Did you ever forget someone's name to their face the first night? So this girl? Oh yeah that. Um what's the most okay, let me backtrack, what's the most embarrassing thing that happened? Good question on your season? Oh boy, besides be pretty embarrassing. Um, let me see here. Shoot, I'm on the spot. I gotta think it is. Um. I likes some of the dates I mean I had. I don't know if it was embarrassing, it was like awkward. A lot of exes come back that like, not even just my exes come back. Oh, always get the axes in somehow, But then also my exes, I had multiple axes come back? You have? How many more? Are there? Another one that I hadn't seen in like years, Peter? According to your parents, you didn't break out of your shell. Tell what your senior year of high school? Yeah, and you didn't really talk to girls. Well I shouldn't say not talk to them. But so how many axes are we talking here? I mean, yeah, that I broke on my show a senior year, I got my first girlfriend because she came up to me and talked to me first. And um, I don't know. I guess I've had like four or five Okay, well not like they're all on the showp That's true, Yeah, twenty nine more. I don't know who knows. But um, let me think about that, the embarrassing one embarrassing story. I want something to juicy that I'm trying to talk about that give anything away. I have a question, and maybe this can be that it's not embarrassing. Maybe juicy I've been saying that. You know, of course we get talked about the windmil blah blah, bah blah blah. Whatever I've been saying. If I was a girl on Peter season and I make it to the fantasy suite. If he doesn't do it at least four, we have an issue. So my question is, surely we know your your season has ended. I don't know. Did we set another recer? Okay, so does anything to beat the windmill? Nothing is going to come out. I was not the person that vocalized any of that. Okay, I said nothing, and I am not gonna say anything about this season either in regards to intimate stuff in a bedroom. Okay, last time it wasn't. It wasn't just fantasy sweet in general. I don't know, were you embarrassed? Embarrassed when she said that four times? Truth? Now, I was not expecting it. But back in the summer, I was hanging out with Demi and um and Luke. I remember Luke ass and And it's funny because I just it was the first time I actually meant Demi and she just like, you know, I love Demi. She just brought it up. She's like, man, Hannah was like talking about she and like talking you up. And I was like, yeah, I don't know why though, she like she said twice or something like, I don't know where that came from because it wasn't twice. It was like a lot more than that. And that was that had that conversation. And then when she said it to me on the air on Afar when it was all live, I was like, holy shit. She actually corrected herself like, yeah, that's the truth. Like I didn't know why she had just said, you know, the twice before. Um, but I wasn't. I don't know. I honestly, for whatever reason, I've never been someone that I can get embarrassed about, like sax or talking about sex and even I know my parents were there and that's I guess kind of weird. But um, I think it did you a favor. Like I think a lot of people are kind of like that when they when they see you and they're like, oh, hey, he's kind of Ben Higgins ask who's this straight lined person? Yeah, you give that same vibe as well. That's a compliment. I'm just saying that. But then to hear that you got all rowdy and wild and I'm sure there's some things we don't even know about. And listen, I'm married to we have we have a great whole time. I'm just saying, but I just I do I didn't but I think that it like kind of gave you a little credibility, like kind of like street cred to hear that, oh he's a lover. I think it did you. Some girls came on being like well twelve times. I think I think it gave you like a boost because it was like, oh, there's this other side of Peter. I think I think it was. At first I was like whoa, but then it was like, okay, Peter four times. Like I said, if I had been one of the girls, that's one, all right, tell me read take a nap, he had not kidding, I would have. I would have been like you guys, gonna dish your fantasy sweet secrets at all about Headboard, I've talked about that like multiple No way, Mom was not pleased that I told that on TV, but you didn't tell we saw it, that he was away from it and this stuff. Yeah, in Thailand, it's a great time, you know, during the time, I didn't really talk about mine out of out of respect, Like yeah, when you end up with a person out of respects, you don't talk about a lot. But I mean I have, um, oh gosh, I was gonna ask say something else though about the credibility that it gave you. Oh no, I know I was gonna turn into something else. So I think a lot of times and we when we talk to your parents, we talked about this too. They're watching from afar you go off and you do this journey, but they're also having to hear family members and friends come at then did you see this? Did you hear this happen? And we Beck and I both talk about how our moms are in the comment section and we're like, mom, please just stop, you know, don't read the comments. But there is you know, if you're gonna accept the good, you have to accept the bad. And there all these negative things, and I just want to wonder how you took some of the things that came out before your season. You know, I already threw myself out there. You know, I was one of the people who was a proponent for someone else, and you know we talked about that. But once you were chosen, how how did you feel and how did you overcome here and getting some of that negative attention um or just negative media about them the franchise choosing you as the next league. Yeah, I mean that's a really good question to be one hundred percent honest, and this may really be a boring answer. Um, I was just way too distracted with being the most excited, grateful dude on this entire planet and just realizing what was awaiting for me in the next couple of months, that it didn't matter what came out, what negative thing came out, how many people thought I'd be the most boring bachelor in the world and had didn't want me and wanted it didn't matter. All I cared about it was exactly how excited and how ready I was to start that middle of September and just get it going like that truly was the only thing that mattered. Well, shut me up. One more thing, speaking of comments, I was given I have a gift for you. I was given this when I became the Bachelorette from one of my producer friends. I'm going to pass the torch and give this. Wait, read what it says. Never read the comments. Okay, it goes on your key chain. That's some good advice right there. It's a good reminder. So you keep it for yourself, maybe give it to a special lady who knows. Yeah, that's awesome. Thank you. I will take this advice for sure really never read the comments. Never read the comments. They're not healthy. Yeah, I mean I get everyone has an opinion. Yeah, and you will read them, okay, like you'll you will. It's it's I mean sometimes I still even do at times. It just happens, but just like, don't let it consume you are so like I have. I mean, I'm not gonna. I've read comments too. I kind of like getting like the really bad ones. I actually like, I don't know, Wow, you really dislike me that much? That's crazy. They're really really terrible ones. I will say, like they kind of get me going a little bit where they're so funny in the sense where it's like, how are you as a person even typing this right now? It's like I always say, you know how Jimmy Kimmel has this mean tweets. I was like, I want to get everyone from from Bachelor a contestant to like give me their worst tweet or comment and like make like a book over it. No you don't want mine? Oh yeah, my own way too personal. But honestly, do you guys want to see? Like all it has just been keyboard keyboard Warriors. I have not once, not once, had one person in real life come up to me and say something negative. Everyone will come up to and be like, oh my god, you're my favorite badge. Sorry, I love you so much, and no one's gonna say to your face you were just mediocre dude, right, No one will say anything like that to your face. I haven't called, so sometimes I'll write them back, like if it's just something like so off the wall, like like usually if it's something racist, right because I get allowed the um, I'll write them back back and then they'll say, oh my god, my sister got ahold of my Instagram. And that has happened more times than I can count. I really love you. I think you're so great so many times. So if you like from time to time, I'm like, oh really you wrote that, let me let you know that I saw it. And then they'll back down. Yeah. He Thus you could be Jesus Christ and people would be like, you're a terrible human, like exactly, yeah, it's but you have the right attitude. I mean, like we all need to have a little bit of Peter in our lives. A scar is just having you know, like who while you're over there and I'm talking to me wasting your time talking about something else and worried about that. I just became the background the time of my life. Meet thirty or you don't know how many women at the time, but meet all these women who were here for me where I'm in the cockpit and I get to take control of all this. That's the way you should be, Like, why why are you get down? You're over there mad? Yeah, Peter, I will say, if being a pilot doesn't work out, you could be a motivational speaker. Really, all right, Peter. From time to time I'm on Bachelor Happy How we like to play a little game. Okay, So we're not gonna let you leave here without playing a game with you. Okay, We're gonna play a word association, which I love. So we're gonna take turns saying a word, and we want to hear the first thing that pops into your mind. Okay, you don't get time to think about it. It's just bam right, like Becca Barett Rachel beautiful. You started off with that b and I thought you were gonna say, okay, okay, here we go. That was just to give you a taste. Okay, I'm not kidding. I was like, okay, I'll do the first one. Co pilot. Um. I don't want to say solely he's not a co pilot, but yeah he's a captain. Loves him. Okay, I know what I would say for this one, but Barbon Peter Senior Um dancing. That was a nice one. Yeah, okay, Chris Harrison father best friend, uh Dom, Well, don't tell you any of your other friends. Limo first name. Celebrity crush Jessica Alba. Okay, Rose, I'm not gonna say it because the first nite I was gonna say Titanic. The first thing they came into my mind was possibly the person at the very end. That's so sweet, actually so sweet. You'll learn to hate red Roses. Okay, we'll tie it again, Rose Um Titanic. That was really good. Flight school Camearrio Airport. That's rather going to fly Neil Lane Um, beautiful diamond. It's technically two words, but beautiful okay. Instagram um, social media. I don't know what would you say. Instagram sucks. Sucks Instagram fans I kind of yeah, A little Bernie told us that you don't want to be verified. Yeah, I'm not about that. That's like not me and I just all right, it's my last like, hold on not being taken over by this stuff being real, all right, listen up. At this point, I'm not speaking a bachelination. I'm speaking to the Batchel franchise. Fine, more Peters, Seriously. I don't know how you're gonna do it, but you gotta find more Peters people who don't. No, you gotta find more. I wish Peter was like, I don't have an Instagram? What's that? Seriously, my gosh, after your first night, they're not going to talk about any other bachelor's Oh precious, okay, next one, final rows, Um, Chris Harrison, you actually pulled the switch and give your final rows most dramatic season. I would love it. I'd support it. Twenty twenty date Line, Yes, it's twenty. It is twenty twenty year. No, no, I didn't even realize that. Better makes me love you so much more. I love date Line. Yes, it's funny. Oh my gosh, what a good year to me. Twenty twenty. I feel like somebody else would have been like, um, I don't know forty you know what I mean? Like, I just love you said day okay, sorry, okay, last one, mansion. It's amazing dirty. I would have said stinky, stinky. It has such a does Okay, it has a unique scent to it that like when you walk in, you know, someone cry, Someone's gonna come at you for some kind of drama. Chris Harrison's going to come in and like give some bad news. Did you guys ever do the pool party at the mansion? No, we didn't have one. It was it was very cold and rainy when we were living. When my guys were living in the mansion, I didn't want to get my hair wet. Did you didn't have Yeah, but I never got to swing. Like just a munch of stuff happened. Okay. It was the hot tub so broken when you were there. Um, I never got to go on this one. But on the bachel Threat we got to go in it, did you. Yeah, you know, you know they have two hot tubs. That's for people that don't know. Isn't that crazy? Okay, we stand corrected. Yeah, I just considered that a bird bath or a bird bath. Okay, one last Rose, one last Rosey. We all get any It's good though, it's good. You guys are gonna get it. So the real question of the day is how do we get freed lights and Biscoff cookies. I have a lot of buddy passes, so just hit me up. Okay. It was nice though, fine first everywhere right, I'm sure. Okay, you have to tell people that because you get treated like an A list celebrity when you be the lead. Yeah, I was sore to come back and have to dress myself now after every single get ready for the real world, Peter. Okay, Okay, we could keep going on and on and on. We obviously try to get you to spill some secrets which you want won't, which I'm sure they're happy. Obviously you've been through media training at this point, so you passed. You're doing it, You're doing a great job. But we just want to thank you so much for being here. It's been such a pleasure. Your positivity, your energy, your light, it's infectious, like even for the Okay, you've touched me. He man, I'm just excited for you. I'm excited to continue to watch your journey. I know you are too. I can't wait. Honestly, again, like I know, I'm trying to get all the spoilers out of you. I truly don't want to know. I want to be surprised, I want to be shocked. Um, but I'm just excited for you. And again, you just look happy and I hope that's the case whenever however this ends up. But I just can't wait. Yeah. Now I can definitely say I am very happy and I'm super excited for everyone to watch this. Okay, thank you, enjoy it. One last important question before you have to skidaddle, all right, who did you pick? You're just not going to stop wor an association? So Rose? What is that was her name? Well, we're wishing you the best. We hope you find the love that your parents have, because now that we've talked to them, we can't get enough of old barbed and pink. You ever stuck with us? I'm sorry. We're coming over for many a many Cuban dinners. Can you cook? Um? I can't. Thank god, we found something wrong. I cannot cook. Can't he can't cook? Yeah? Great, I can make cereal and toes and waffles. But that's finally one flaw. Yeah, I got money, but that's yeah. I need someone that they can help me with that, especially after gain used my mom's cooking. May find someone that can help you with that. Um possibly Yeah. Okay, Peter, thank you so much for coming on. 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