Joe & Serena Answer Fan Questions: Part 2

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Speaker 1: Hey, everyone, welcome back to Battery half the Hour.

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Speaker 2: I'm Joe and I'm Serena and this is.

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Speaker 1: Fan Question is Part two. We are back for part two of our episode.

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Speaker 3: We are answering all the questions we love Harry from you guys. It's always some of our favorite podcasts to deal and honestly the easiest because we.

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Speaker 2: Just talked about ourselves the whole time. Yeah.

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Speaker 1: Who doesn't love to do that, you guys.

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Speaker 2: I'd like the audience is interviewing us, you know.

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Speaker 3: I know they're doing our job for a minute. Yeah right, But before we do, we are now gonna break down some Bachriination news, which is what I used to do.

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Speaker 2: Back you know what, when you did Clickbait, I would listen to pretty much every single episode and I always liked it.

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Speaker 1: I knew you were a fan.

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Speaker 2: I was a fan. I was a fan of you. Well, I started listening after we got together, if I'm being totally honest.

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Speaker 1: But.

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Speaker 2: I always thought bacher Nation News with you, Natasha and Tia was like the best part. I thought it was so fun.

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Speaker 3: Yeah, we haven't done it forever. I used to kind of sit back in the wings and let Natasha talk.

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Speaker 2: About it, so I know, vote no Natasha here today, and I'm not going to be doing that. So step up, Joey, step up.

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Speaker 1: Okay.

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Speaker 3: First one, Gabby and girlfriend Robbie talk about moving in together and discuss a queer bachelorette.

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Speaker 2: I mean, they've been together for almost a year now. I think I'm trying to think when the relations I think it was last spring, Yeah, because I remember Rachel Rekia being like they had just started seeing each other before she went to film Paradise and she made a joke like I wouldn't have been surprised if, like I came back and they were like married, Like they were obsessed with each other right away.

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Speaker 3: Yeah, when we went to La and went paintballing with Gabby, I feel like she was already low key in that relationship.

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Speaker 2: That was what in end of May of last year. Yeah, yes, yes, yes, we didn't know about it at the time, but she was already seeing Robbie and then she announced it. I don't know, like June, I think, I don't know. I don't know, but around this time moving.

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Speaker 3: In together, though, I would say moving in together is the biggest step in a relationship besides having a child.

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Speaker 2: I would agree.

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Speaker 3: It's just as big as getting married, like moving in together.

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Speaker 1: I mean, getting married is massive change. Yeah, people, both people's line.

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Speaker 2: Getting married is a big commitment. But like, at the end of the day, it doesn't change at least for us, it did not change the structure of our relationship or our day to day. I mean, it definitely changed the fact that we're committed to each other for life. But like I mean, at the end of the day, we could get divorced. Yea, there's an option. And also if you live with someone it's for like two to three years, you're totally considered common law married. Yeah, so like there's still like.

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Speaker 1: A yeah, an attachment that what you said, it's it is.

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Speaker 3: It changes kind of how you operate out a day to day. Yes, because now there's somebody in your space.

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Speaker 2: Yeah, one hundred percent, you're sharing your home with another person. It does, and you're seeing this person way more. You're having to like compromise and like navigate how you live together, which if you don't live together, if you don't live in similar ways, it can create problems.

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Speaker 1: I love how we just explained what it is to move so much like.

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Speaker 2: For those of you that don't know this is what it means when two people move in together.

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Speaker 3: It's oh my gosh, but yeah, no it is.

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Speaker 1: I think it's just a mess.

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Speaker 2: It's a big step. It's like our relationship probably changed more when we moved in together than when we got married. And then I think, obviously, I think having kids is probably the biggest, the biggest change. But happy for them. That's amazing, love that they're they're moving together. I feel like from social media it looks like they're together, like twenty four to seven. Anyway, I kind of already thought they lived together. But I'm glad that they're doing well and they're taking this step. Every time I see them on our screens or on social they just seem very happy and in love, which is wonderful.

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Speaker 1: And then they discuss a queer bachelorette.

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Speaker 2: When I was probably too young to be watching this. I was at a friend's house. I wasn't even watching like the Battery at it this time, but I remember they did like Tila Tequila's Search for Love, Do you remember that? And they had like girls and guys. That's the closest thing in the US I've ever seen to like a queer dating show or someone as the lead of a dating show from the LGBTQ plus community. One of my best friends who is gay, he was like, a gay bopsler would never work because you would have one male lead and then just a house full of men that are all attracted to one another.

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Speaker 1: I still don't know why they haven't, well, like, why haven't we done that? Like that?

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Speaker 2: That would be I feel like it have to be like Paradise, you know what I mean?

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Speaker 1: Want that because honestly, that adds so much drama. I mean, wait, could you imagine at the end when the.

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Speaker 3: Lead is ready to propose to a person and then that person's like, hey, listen, also like you're not the only one that hooked up with Jeffrey.

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Speaker 1: I Also, I was like what and then he can't? Like could he even get mad? Because like if the lead gets bad, it's like, well, like but you did it too.

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Speaker 2: Yeah, I don't know.

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Speaker 1: It would be wild.

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Speaker 2: I think they would have to create a unique structure or like an adjustment in the rule book if they were to do a queer lead. But I think it would be fun. I think it's something they should explore. I mean, they have had certain like aspects of representation through the show. But like they've had people on the show, like contestants that are openly bisexual. They've had people come out and say, you know that they're gay, but they've never had someone on the show like as the lead at that time.

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Speaker 3: Yeah, okay, uh moving on Blake Horsemen in Giannina from Love Is Blind.

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Speaker 1: Just had a baby.

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Speaker 2: I know, I think the baby looks so much like her, like the eyes, Like she has these really beautiful, big, like almond shaped eyes, and I feel like the baby like looks so much like her.

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Speaker 1: Oh.

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Speaker 3: I never think babies look like anyone until they until they start hitting like the three Yeah, two three year old age.

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Speaker 2: You're not wrong because like, but you can kind of pinpoint like certain features.

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Speaker 1: I don't know, I always feel like it's a stretch. Maybe I always feel like it to show. When I see like like like one month old, I'm like, they don't look like anyone except like the other one month.

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Speaker 2: Old, even like your cousin's baby. Yeah, when he was born, you were like, oh my god, he looks so much like the mom your cousin, And now that he's like two, everyone's like, no, he looks like the dad.

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Speaker 1: Yeah, I I I yeah, I don't know. I don't know. I just don't.

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Speaker 3: I think I think babies all look just like babies. I don't think they look like their parents.

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Speaker 2: Okay, you think they like grow into.

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Speaker 1: It and they're growing. And I think everyone that says that, I think they're just wrong.

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Speaker 2: Okay, it's fo Yeah, I just think it's a stretch maybe a little bit. Yeah, but I think it's just fun to speculate.

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Speaker 1: Also, Oh, also, like I don't I don't judge, like I like, everyone's not everyone sees must see the same thing. Because there's people that have said, like, I look like someone and I'll be like or like I'll like a friend looks like like a like an actor or something. Yeah, that's not even like close, like like no, like I don't look like this person or this No, like you're not even close, Like how is this what you see?

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Speaker 2: I mean, yeah, I think appearance is somewhat subjective.

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Speaker 1: Effect. Like some people have cilantro and they love it. I don't know if anyone really loves cilantro.

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Speaker 2: I like cilantro, but do you love it? Love's a strong word. I don't know if there's any herb that I love.

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Speaker 1: But some people eat cilantro and it tastes like soap.

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Speaker 2: Yeah, but that's a genetic thing.

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Speaker 3: Yeah, And that's why I think maybe maybe with some people's like vision, it's like you may, I don't know, maybe some features stand out more to you.

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Speaker 1: That has to be no way we all no way, the entire well, it's just just let's just call it the United States. No way, the entire United States looks at Serena Pitt and sees the same face I see.

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Speaker 2: Why not you think, I'm like, I'm just telling you that's transforming.

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Speaker 3: I just I don't think people see everyone for what everyone sees them as. Does that make sense?

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Speaker 2: Kind of?

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Speaker 1: Because I'm just telling you because there are people that have compared you to a certain person, and I'll look at the person they're comparing you to and be like, that's not even No, that's not what she's not what I see, that's not what she looks like. And I so the only way that this makes that I can make this make sense to me is the ciladral fact.

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Speaker 2: But I also think, like when you receive not just you, like when people perceive someone's looks, there's so many factors that go into it, like you knowing. I think personality plays a big factor in how attractive or unattractive people view other people. Do you know what I mean? Like I think like and I think but yeah, if we're just talking straight up features like physical features, I don't know. I think you're not wrong, Like I think that, like you might look at me and be like, oh, because she has like dark hair and this color skin, she looks like this person. But then if you break down like features, maybe I don't. I don't know, I know what you're saying.

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Speaker 1: I just want to bring it back that this topic is about Blake and Right.

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Speaker 2: And their child and their new room baby. So happy for them. The baby's name is Heath, Heath, I forget the middle name Heath something horsemen, do.

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Speaker 1: You feel like it is now.

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Speaker 3: Something that has you have to do if you are someone that has a social media following, take professional photos when you have a kid.

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Speaker 2: Quick pause. The baby's name is Heath Orion or O'Ryan. Okay, horseman. The middle name is beout O R I O N.

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Speaker 1: What happened to Joe or Jeff?

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Speaker 2: What do you mean you don't like the name Heath?

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Speaker 1: Get me just navy?

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Speaker 2: Yeah, let's go literally half your.

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Speaker 1: Family Joe, Jim or Jeff or John, Mike.

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Speaker 2: You're just naming one syllable white boy names. We won't be naming our kid any of those.

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Speaker 1: Name our kid Joey.

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Speaker 2: No, we're not, Yeah, Joey. The thing is, I'm like quaking right now because I know your dad's listening to this podcast, being like, what's wrong with the name Joe.

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Speaker 1: No, we're gonna name our daughter Mittilda.

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Speaker 2: Already said that, saying that literally since we met.

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Speaker 1: What was I just talking about though.

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Speaker 2: The name Heath and how people should just.

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Speaker 3: Name no, no, No, I was talking about something before some of them before Heath.

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Speaker 2: Oh, yeah, sorry, I did cut you off. I'm sorry. I don't remember what you were saying. But I don't have a middle name, so I'm indifferent on giving our kid a middle name.

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Speaker 3: Yeah, I don't. I don't think the kid needs a middle name. The only reason I feel like I even have a middle name is because my father and I have the same name. Yes, and his father and so, and that's the only thing. That's the only way you're a junior is if you have the same whole name.

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Speaker 2: Oh, so you're technically not a I'm you're just another Joe.

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Speaker 3: I'm just yeah, I'm Joseph. You're Joseph, Joseph Anthony. My dad is Joseph Salvatore.

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Speaker 2: Yeah, okay, and then all the other Joe's in your family have different middle names too.

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Speaker 3: You oh what I was saying, Going back to what I was saying, yeah and yes, the answer to that is yes. Do you feel like when we have a kid, do you want professional photos?

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Speaker 1: Oh?

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Speaker 2: Sorry, that is what you're talking about. I think I do. Think it's nice. I actually did see her post the professional photos, like of the moments right after she'd given birth and like in their home with the baby, and I had two thoughts. One, I was like, how does she look so good? She just gave birth. I can't imagine like being sweaty and exhausted and having like a camera steck in my face. I think that would be the last thing I would want. But at the same time, like the photos are so beautiful and they capture like a moment that you're only, yeah, like one of the biggest moments of your life to have these like beautiful photos to like look back on. Like I actually was like, wow, Like that's actually a really good idea, Like that's so special to have those. I agree, you know, Like it's like I feel like you call the photographer and like, all right, you got thirty seconds to get in here.

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Speaker 3: I feel like it's one of those things that you don't really want to do in the mob kind of like why do we do this?

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Speaker 1: But then once you get the product, you're like, I'm so.

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Speaker 2: Happy, Yes, one hundred percent. And I would imagine, like I did click on the instagram of the girl who took her photos, and I think she's like not a midwife, but like all of her photos is like birth photos, so it's like she would I would assume, have like the etiquette and know kind of how to go about it in a way that didn't feel overly invasive for sure. The parents sure, So yeah, it was something I've literally never thought about in my life. But I was like, oh, maybe I would want to do that. I mean, like the photos like have so much emotion in them, it would be nice, Okay.

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Speaker 1: Joey and Kelsey Moving on. Moving on, Joey and Kelsey reveal how couples counseling has made the relationship. Also, I apologize I'm a little nasally, I apologize Joey Kelsey. Okay, I think that's great. I think doing that, I honestly I think it probably should almost be I don't want to say mandatory, but I mean definitely should always be an option, especially after an experience like this, because.

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Speaker 3: They both have to watch the whole season back. Kelsey's got to sit there and watch the person that she's now engaged to have feelings for strong feelings for other women, so she's got to work past all that.

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Speaker 1: I mean, it's easy to just say, like, don't watch, but like, of course you're still gonna watch, and even if you don't watch, you know what happened, or you're gonna hear from family friends or hear from social media, which is even worse. So I think it's really great. I think it's I think it's something that should the leads should always do.

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Speaker 2: Yeah, I agree. I think we did not do couples counseling after.

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Speaker 1: Pairs, but I'm essentially a counselor myself.

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Speaker 2: Sure, okay, you can tell yourself that.

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Speaker 1: I mean, it's true you were things that you were worried about. It I say it down, and I let you, I let you talk and I whipped out my notepad.

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Speaker 2: It No, that's not what happened at all, just spreading lies, spreading so many lives. But I will say, like coming off of Paradise, we had had like a lot, a lot of time together to establish a foundation and like figure out our communication styles and all of that, and I would say we really needed that and leaned into it for the first few months, probably up until like after the finale, of just working through like the struggles that come with coming off the show and navigating it being a secret and then watching it back, Like watching back the show both times is like a really unusual experience because it really does put you back in a moment that you lived months ago, and like all these emotions come back, and then you've got to watch interviews and all of this stuff. So it really is crazy. But it coming off the Baucher and the Baucherette, like whoever they end up, but they have not spent that much time with like a minuscule amount compared to what you get on Bachelor on Paradise, so you're really still trying to figure each other out while watching the person you're engaged to on TV publicly dating a bunch of other people, and like in Kelsey's case, like a lot of people were like, I hope Joe ends up with Maria, I hope he ends up with Daisy, Like, I'm sure that element is very difficult too, Whereas like, thankfully for us on Paradise, like we were together the whole time, I didn't have to like watch you date a bunch of other people. So like, I really think it's like the best thing you can do for your relationship coming off of or Bauchlorette is do regular couple's therapy because it's such an unusual experience for.

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Speaker 1: Show for show for show.

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Speaker 3: I agree with that being said, Let let's move on to fan questions. Question because we're running a little long here because I did a little rant which I enjoyed. Okayan question number one, You guys seem to take the best trips.

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Speaker 2: Thank you, Thank you.

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Speaker 1: You guys seem to take the best trips. What is the next vacation you have planned?

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Speaker 2: We actually don't have another vacation planned yet.

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Speaker 1: Oh nothing.

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Speaker 2: We typically only take one vacation maybe two vacations a year. One one, well, one big one. We actually went to Miami for Valentine's Day.

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Speaker 1: Yeah, so that's that's a trip.

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Speaker 2: That's that's a vacation anything. What do you what do you define as a vacation.

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Speaker 1: I find a vacation.

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Speaker 3: Okay, yeah, that's great, love this question. I I don't find a vacation. Well, you know, because we travel, so you know, growing up, I never I never really went on vacation or took trips. But now you know, but now lucky, been very lucky to be able to do that. So I had to find like a trip to be like a three four day thing somewhat to a place that I've been multiple times. So like going to Miami, going to Vegas, such as a quick trip. A vacation, I consider it to be seven to ten days out of the country.

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Speaker 2: What a vacation is only an international trip to you? Yeah, wow, I have a different definition. Yeah, So I would consider a trip like it could be work related or typically it's like work related, like we're going to La to do something or trip, or if we're going home to Chicago or Toronto. Not that we consider those like work by any means, but usually those are like we're going home to see our family, Yeah, We're going home to like see our friends, we're going home for like a bridal notification. A vacation to me is any time that we go away that is strict something that we have planned, paid for, organized for ourselves, just for pure enjoyment and adventure. Like going to Miami for four days. We literally were just like, let's go away, let's go lay by pool, let's go out for some nice dinners and spend some like really good quality time together in warm weather. That is a vacation, even though it was like three four days. Exactly, what do you mean exactly? I gave a totally different definition. I do.

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Speaker 1: I do agree with you, but I know I yeah, I guess, I.

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Speaker 2: Feel like exactly, but it has to be out of America.

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Speaker 1: No, yeah, yeah I could. So how would I consider a vacation for us moving forward is seven days plus out of the country.

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Speaker 2: Okay, good to know, well to answer this person's question.

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Speaker 1: And we may not even do those every year, you know, that might be a once and every three year.

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Speaker 2: Yeah, we usually. So far, we've done one vacation by your definition a year. We did Spain our first year together, and we did our honeymoon last year to Italy, and then this year our hope is that we're going to go to Asia, to Asia, specifically Japan and maybe a few other stocks.

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Speaker 1: But I've been to Japan, so I don't know if that'll be a vacation for me.

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Speaker 2: Okay, But you're the one that wanted to go there.

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Speaker 1: No, I still do.

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Speaker 2: Okay, I do too, and I hope we make it work. We're thinking September, and I think it's a good year for us to do it, and I'm I'm excited about the potential because I've never been Okay, Okay, next question, Yeah, how is it being married, lived together and working together for the podcast? Do you get sick of each other? I feel like this is a good question because we literally do everything together and I'm not loving look on your face right now, so wipe that shit off.

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Speaker 1: Do you ever get sick of me?

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Speaker 2: I actually don't know. Wow, I don't get sick of you, which is something I realized early on in our relationship and I was like, this is a huge green flag for us and our future together because I think that you can be very in love with someone and have an amazing relationship, but it doesn't mean you can spend all your time with them, which is okay, like, I think there's a lot of people in long successful marriages that are like, I need my space and I need my alone time, and I just feel like you and I aren't really like that. But do you agree with me? I'm feeling super vulnerable right now.

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Speaker 1: No, I do.

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Speaker 3: I do agree with you, and I think but like, we do do everything together, but we also do things separately. Yeah, And it's never like a thing like you went at dinner last night.

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Speaker 1: I went and did my thing.

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Speaker 2: Yeah.

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Speaker 1: I go to the gym, but usually by myself.

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Speaker 2: Yeah, or like you have things that you do with your friends, yeah, where it'll be like, yeah, go to your thing.

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Speaker 1: I'm going to say, take a Vegas trip with my friends.

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Speaker 2: Yeah.

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Speaker 1: But yeah, no, I don't. I don't. I don't. I don't ever get sick.

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Speaker 3: There's never a time where I'm like, oh, I need to anita a guys night Well, actually a guys night out's different because it's just something that's just it's not that I'm sick of you.

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Speaker 1: It's just like I haven't done that in a while. Yeah, but I'm never.

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Speaker 2: Yeah, Like thereover be times when I'm like I it's not that I want to get away from you, but like a night out for dinner with you is not the same and not giving me the same thing as like a night out with my girlfriends U. And I think that it's important that we still have balance in our lives and like invest in our outside relationships, and I think that's why we don't get sick of each other.

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Speaker 1: Yeah.

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Speaker 3: I also feel like if we answered this we're we two get sick of each other, this whole podcast would go away Differently.

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Speaker 2: I don't think so, because I do think there's people that would say, like, yes, like you know, like we're kind of like that's why a lot of relationship ended during COVID. Yeah, it was like I'm together with this person twenty four to seven now and I'm realizing like I don't want to be, which is also very normal. I think it's normal to get sick of your partner, especially with the way we live where it's like we live together, we both work from home, we both work on this podcast, Like it would not be weird if we were like, yeah, sometimes we get a little sick of each other. I agree, but we're very fortunate that we don't. And I think that's why we can work together and live the way we do show the show.

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Speaker 1: Okay, Serena, name one thing that Joe does that annoys you.

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Speaker 2: Okay, let me think about this one, because they can't. Well, it used to be that you would put your dishes in the sink and not the dishwasher. But you actually have worked on that a lot. You don't really do it as much anymore.

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Speaker 1: I know. Well.

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Speaker 2: The thing that also used to annoy me that doesn't really because you don't do it as much anymore, is if you would go to bed without telling me that you were going to bed.

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Speaker 1: I said that last night.

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Speaker 2: No, you text me and said that you were going to bed. I hate it, I really hate it. Like I hate it in a way that like it's comical, it's not like a real problem in our relationship, but like genuinely, like if we're both sitting there reading our books together and Joe like shuts his book, puts it on his bedside table, turns off his light, and lays down to go to sleep, that's an absolute no. That is so makes me so mad. My my blood is boiling just thinking about that.

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Speaker 1: I wake up.

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Speaker 2: I've always like, what do you think you're doing? I don't care if you go to bed first, but you have to say, hey, I'm going to sleep, good night, And sometimes I'm be like, I want to go to sleep too, So why don't we just go to sleep initiate sleep boat together versus me look over and see your back while you're snoring.

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Speaker 1: That's so hard to because I do, I too.

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Speaker 2: I hate it.

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Speaker 1: I do joy.

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Speaker 2: I feel crazy saying it like it's such But there's really not much that bothers me, but that one really does.

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Speaker 1: That is a ball buster, and I do kind of enjoy you do it. I'm her sure, I do enjoy busting street up balls, but if I do it at night, I know she gets all worked up and that's going to screw up the sleep.

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Speaker 2: So yeah, because then you start laughing and that we're awake. But no, But last night I went out to dinner with Abigail and Chelsea and you text me and said, hey, I'm going to bed, which I really appreciated. But I said, okay, I'm on my way home, meaning I was going to be home in ten minutes, so I thought that you might wait up for me. Came home, lights her out, Joe's horizontal asleep in bed.

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Speaker 3: That's crazy, though, that's crazy because you you were out late.

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Speaker 2: No, I was okay with it. I was like, this is understandable. I mean I got home at like midnight, but I did wake you up. I wanted to chat.

00:26:44
Speaker 1: Yeah, you woke me up.

00:26:46
Speaker 2: What I hadn't seen you all night. I wanted to to chitty chat about our evenings and see how yours was and tell you about mine.

00:26:53
Speaker 3: Do you think if you two had met when you were in high school that you would have ended up together?

00:26:59
Speaker 2: Yeah, I'm maybe. No, I don't know. It's hard to know.

00:27:02
Speaker 1: I don't know.

00:27:03
Speaker 2: Like you, I was basically I've been basically the same person my whole life.

00:27:08
Speaker 1: I have.

00:27:08
Speaker 2: I would say if you met me in high school, I'd be the same as I am now. But you, I think have changed a lot. Yeah, over the course of your life.

00:27:16
Speaker 1: Definitely.

00:27:17
Speaker 2: Like even if I met you at twenty five and we were both twenty five, I don't know, I was thirty.

00:27:23
Speaker 1: Yeah, so yeah, definitely.

00:27:25
Speaker 2: Yeah.

00:27:25
Speaker 1: I don't know.

00:27:25
Speaker 2: I don't know either. I mean, like, I think we always would have like clicked and had chemistry, but I don't know if we would have worked out. I think for our relationship to work out, we kind of had to meet in the stages of life that we were at when we met one another.

00:27:38
Speaker 1: Yeah, would you guys ever renew your vows? No?

00:27:43
Speaker 2: Saying my vows one of the most anxiety provoking experiences of my life, and I'm surprised I got through it the first time. Yeah, that's but maybe you know what, maybe in like twenty years we could do something like private and intimate and special just like for us, Like I wouldn't necessarily want to like do it in front of a whole bunch of people, but there's other ways we could go about it. I think it's nice to like do romantic things throughout your marriage, throughout the years.

00:28:12
Speaker 1: If you had never gone on The Bachelor.

00:28:16
Speaker 2: Joe's like, no fucking comment.

00:28:19
Speaker 1: If you had ever gone on the Bachelor or the Bachelorette, where do you think you'd be now? Each of us?

00:28:25
Speaker 2: Oh, you go first.

00:28:26
Speaker 3: I think I would probably be in Chicago, probably in the grocery produce business, doing something of the sort.

00:28:39
Speaker 1: Miserable.

00:28:41
Speaker 2: Oh my god, horrible. Thank god you went on the show.

00:28:43
Speaker 1: I know.

00:28:45
Speaker 2: I mean I was working in pr when I went on the show, but I really wanted to get into events. I was doing PR eight because I liked it be because it was COVID times and there was no events to work for, So I would probably have down my way into a career in events, living in Toronto, working a nine to five, doing like what all my friends are doing. You know, it's pretty easy to see what my life would have looked like because I was young when I went on the show, and all my friends were kind of on a similar trajectory as I was at the time, and they've all kind of ended up in a place where I think I probably would have ended up if I hadn't got on the show.

00:29:23
Speaker 1: If you were to get a pet, what would it be?

00:29:26
Speaker 2: It would be a little doggie. Because we have a small apartment and we travel so much. We would need a dog that we could bring around with us and a dog that doesn't shed, because I just I don't think I could emotionally handle a dog that shads. Yeah, do you agree?

00:29:46
Speaker 1: Yeah?

00:29:47
Speaker 2: Like a little like if you see Natasha's dog. That would be what we would get.

00:29:51
Speaker 1: Yeah. Do you want children someday?

00:29:56
Speaker 2: Yes? I believe we do.

00:29:58
Speaker 1: What do you mean you believe we do? Yeah?

00:30:00
Speaker 2: We want children. We're living our best ink life, right now dual income, no kids, but she would no, yeah, no. All I think about when I see you by the dozen is how expensive it would be to have twelve kids.

00:30:15
Speaker 1: And last one? If you won the lottery tomorrow. What's the first thing you would buy?

00:30:25
Speaker 2: I would buy a lawyer who specializes in wealth management. Wow, I would have them on salary. Well, depends on how much you win. You know, how much is it? You know? Are we talking five thirty million?

00:30:41
Speaker 1: Yeah?

00:30:43
Speaker 2: Yeah, I would. I would get a lawyer on staff immediately. Who would you do?

00:30:49
Speaker 1: I would buy a bitcoin?

00:30:50
Speaker 2: Yeah, that's what I would expect. But if we're talking about like an actual physical material purchase, probably property.

00:31:01
Speaker 1: My answer states the same bitcoin.

00:31:03
Speaker 2: Bitcoin you wouldn't want to get like a place in Chicago, a place in Toronto, place in New York, a place.

00:31:07
Speaker 1: I would do that, but the first thing, yeah, not the last thing.

00:31:14
Speaker 2: We wouldn't see a dollar of that money. It'll be in bitcoin.

00:31:17
Speaker 1: Okay.

00:31:18
Speaker 3: Well, honestly, that's it for the episode about your happy Hour. Thank you guys so much for sending in your questions. This has been a lot of fun. I hope you enjoyed this episode as much as I did.

00:31:30
Speaker 2: And we will be back with some interviews that are not about us, that are about some of your Bachelor Nation favorites. Coming up in the next few weeks as we anticipate gen season of the Bacherette, so be sure to subscribe and stay tuned.

00:31:44
Speaker 1: Thanks again bye,