319 | Art of the Session: Empowerment on the Way to the Playroom
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In this episode of the Art of the Session series, I walk you through a phase of the play therapy process that's often overlooked—what happens on the way to the playroom. This moment may feel small, but it holds tremendous power to reinforce the child's sense of autonomy, predictability, and safety. I share how empowerment choices—offered consistently and predictably during the walk back—set the tone for the session and become a ritual that communicates "You are in control here."
I offer real-life examples of how to work these choices into your routine, even if you're in a school, office building, or don't have a sink nearby. Whether it's picking a hallway, choosing which sanitizer to use, or deciding how to travel to the playroom (hopping, skipping, or sliding in socks), these micro-moments become powerful anchors of trust and consistency. This episode helps you refine the seemingly simple transitions into meaningful therapeutic opportunities.
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Common References: Cochran, N., Nordling, W., & Cochran, J. (2010). Child-Centered Play Therapy (1st ed.). Wiley. VanFleet, R., Sywulak, A. E., & Sniscak, C. C. (2010). Child-centered play therapy. Guilford Press. Landreth, G.L. (2023). Play Therapy: The Art of the Relationship (4th ed.). Routledge. Bratton, S. C., Landreth, G. L., Kellam, T., & Blackard, S. R. (2006). Child parent relationship therapy (CPRT) treatment manual: A 10-session filial therapy model for training parents. Routledge/Taylor & Francis Group. Benedict, Helen. Themes in Play Therapy. Used with permission to Heartland Play Therapy Institute.
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0 00:00:00,469 --> 00:00:04,320 You're listening to the Play Therapy Podcast with Dr. Brenna Hicks, 1 00:00:04,469 --> 00:00:08,199 your source for centered and focused play therapy coaching. 2 00:00:08,550 --> 00:00:08,710 Hi, 3 00:00:08,789 --> 00:00:09,810 I'm Dr. Brenna Hicks, 4 00:00:09,819 --> 00:00:10,550 The Kid Counselor. 5 00:00:10,670 --> 00:00:12,710 This is the Play Therapy Podcast where you get 6 00:00:12,710 --> 00:00:14,949 a master class in child-centered play therapy 7 00:00:14,949 --> 00:00:17,299 and practical support and application for your 8 00:00:17,299 --> 00:00:19,139 work with children and their families. 9 00:00:19,459 --> 00:00:20,309 In today's episode, 10 00:00:20,350 --> 00:00:23,299 we are continuing the Art of the Session series. 11 00:00:23,629 --> 00:00:24,799 So our second, 12 00:00:24,909 --> 00:00:26,260 I guess our 2.0 13 00:00:26,469 --> 00:00:27,389 summer school series, 14 00:00:27,469 --> 00:00:29,590 but this one is Art of the Session. 15 00:00:30,690 --> 00:00:32,750 And I hope that you, 16 00:00:32,840 --> 00:00:34,119 I know this is only the 3rd one, 17 00:00:34,159 --> 00:00:35,799 so maybe you haven't connected the dots yet, 18 00:00:35,880 --> 00:00:37,270 so I'll connect them for you. 19 00:00:37,520 --> 00:00:39,310 I'm hoping that you have seen 20 00:00:39,479 --> 00:00:43,880 that we are literally starting at the beginning and doing the progression. 21 00:00:44,400 --> 00:00:47,959 So first episode in the series was making sure your playroom was set up. 22 00:00:48,840 --> 00:00:51,389 Then it was interacting with 23 00:00:51,959 --> 00:00:53,099 your client 24 00:00:53,360 --> 00:00:57,080 slash child and parent slash customer in the lobby. 25 00:00:57,880 --> 00:00:58,430 Now 26 00:00:58,970 --> 00:01:01,979 today we're talking about heading toward the playroom, 27 00:01:02,639 --> 00:01:04,500 not once inside the playroom yet, 28 00:01:04,559 --> 00:01:05,309 that'll come, 29 00:01:05,680 --> 00:01:10,230 but this is what do we do as we're heading back to the playroom. 30 00:01:10,800 --> 00:01:13,589 I've noticed in a lot of videos that I've been reviewing lately 31 00:01:13,589 --> 00:01:16,389 and a lot of discussions in the coaching and the Collective. 32 00:01:17,339 --> 00:01:17,980 That 33 00:01:18,309 --> 00:01:20,050 people understand in general 34 00:01:20,260 --> 00:01:21,650 what CCPT is, 35 00:01:21,779 --> 00:01:23,769 and people understand the clinical side, 36 00:01:24,099 --> 00:01:24,900 the skills. 37 00:01:25,940 --> 00:01:27,709 But what seems to be missing 38 00:01:28,160 --> 00:01:29,589 is the nuanced 39 00:01:29,879 --> 00:01:30,760 components 40 00:01:31,000 --> 00:01:32,110 of the process. 41 00:01:32,360 --> 00:01:36,870 So that's really what I'm trying to accomplish with this Art of the Session series 42 00:01:37,199 --> 00:01:37,750 is that 43 00:01:37,919 --> 00:01:39,680 there's awareness of what 44 00:01:40,040 --> 00:01:41,430 we're supposed to be doing 45 00:01:41,639 --> 00:01:43,339 at every point along the way. 46 00:01:43,800 --> 00:01:45,550 So that's what I'm hoping 47 00:01:45,760 --> 00:01:45,930 you're, 48 00:01:45,940 --> 00:01:47,510 you'll see this all come together. 49 00:01:47,839 --> 00:01:48,470 So today, 50 00:01:48,519 --> 00:01:49,989 heading to the playroom. 51 00:01:50,790 --> 00:01:52,349 What does that look like? 52 00:01:52,669 --> 00:01:57,220 How are we to be interacting as we're walking back from the lobby 53 00:01:57,830 --> 00:01:58,419 to 54 00:01:58,629 --> 00:02:00,699 actually moving into the playroom? 55 00:02:01,269 --> 00:02:03,940 One of the helpful things that I've 56 00:02:04,150 --> 00:02:06,099 done and I've trained my therapists to do. 57 00:02:06,919 --> 00:02:11,550 Is after you have that lobby interaction like we talked about in the last episode, 58 00:02:12,199 --> 00:02:13,949 then I typically say to the child, 59 00:02:14,679 --> 00:02:15,949 I'm ready if you are. 60 00:02:16,559 --> 00:02:18,149 I have often said, 61 00:02:18,279 --> 00:02:20,350 I wonder if you're ready to go play, 62 00:02:20,639 --> 00:02:23,589 but I think I tend to more often than not say, 63 00:02:23,720 --> 00:02:25,110 I'm ready if you are, 64 00:02:25,600 --> 00:02:28,190 and that indicates to the child that 65 00:02:28,639 --> 00:02:29,830 it's time to go play. 66 00:02:31,160 --> 00:02:31,429 Now, 67 00:02:31,440 --> 00:02:35,229 here's what you need to know before we dive into my process. 68 00:02:35,990 --> 00:02:37,610 We're going to get into 69 00:02:37,830 --> 00:02:38,559 the four pillars, 70 00:02:38,639 --> 00:02:40,880 we're going to get into the reflective responses. 71 00:02:41,710 --> 00:02:45,619 We're going to look at those in light of what does that mean 72 00:02:45,949 --> 00:02:47,339 in the play session, 73 00:02:47,630 --> 00:02:49,100 how are those executed, 74 00:02:49,149 --> 00:02:50,119 what's the outcome, 75 00:02:50,149 --> 00:02:51,039 what's the purpose, 76 00:02:51,070 --> 00:02:52,179 what's the why? 77 00:02:52,350 --> 00:02:53,910 I know we've covered the skills before, 78 00:02:53,949 --> 00:02:57,259 but we've not covered them in light of being in a session 79 00:02:57,259 --> 00:03:00,750 with a child as part of the process from start to finish. 80 00:03:01,029 --> 00:03:02,660 So we're going to look at all of those, 81 00:03:02,990 --> 00:03:05,110 but here's what we're talking about today. 82 00:03:05,720 --> 00:03:06,949 When you think about 83 00:03:07,160 --> 00:03:07,789 choices, 84 00:03:08,080 --> 00:03:10,380 we know that choice giving is one of our pillars. 85 00:03:10,639 --> 00:03:12,149 When you think about choices, 86 00:03:12,320 --> 00:03:13,509 there are two different kinds, 87 00:03:13,520 --> 00:03:15,110 we're gonna dive into that more deeply. 88 00:03:15,320 --> 00:03:16,710 It is very difficult 89 00:03:17,399 --> 00:03:20,000 to provide empowerment choices in a session. 90 00:03:20,850 --> 00:03:20,860 It 91 00:03:21,839 --> 00:03:22,669 is possible, 92 00:03:22,800 --> 00:03:24,110 it is just difficult. 93 00:03:24,559 --> 00:03:26,639 The circumstances are not ideal for being 94 00:03:26,639 --> 00:03:28,869 able to offer empowerment choices frequently. 95 00:03:29,279 --> 00:03:29,630 However, 96 00:03:29,740 --> 00:03:35,309 it is easy to work empowerment choices into your approaching the playroom process. 97 00:03:36,149 --> 00:03:36,679 And 98 00:03:36,850 --> 00:03:38,970 we're also going to talk about the consistency 99 00:03:38,970 --> 00:03:41,800 and the predictability of the entire process. 100 00:03:42,089 --> 00:03:46,279 So this goes into that constancy that we provide as well. 101 00:03:46,820 --> 00:03:50,639 But what we're talking about today are offering empowerment choices 102 00:03:50,889 --> 00:03:54,679 as part of your standard routine every single week. 103 00:03:55,210 --> 00:03:55,330 All right, 104 00:03:55,460 --> 00:03:56,919 so let's start diving into this. 105 00:03:57,369 --> 00:03:58,820 As you 106 00:03:59,130 --> 00:04:00,440 have spent time in the lobby, 107 00:04:00,529 --> 00:04:02,160 as you're ready to walk back, 108 00:04:02,610 --> 00:04:03,639 you now have said, 109 00:04:03,729 --> 00:04:04,759 I'm ready if you are, 110 00:04:04,929 --> 00:04:05,570 the child says, 111 00:04:05,669 --> 00:04:05,850 yep, 112 00:04:05,929 --> 00:04:06,440 let's go, 113 00:04:06,490 --> 00:04:08,169 and we start walking back to the playroom. 114 00:04:08,250 --> 00:04:08,490 All right, 115 00:04:08,610 --> 00:04:10,320 that's where we are in the process. 116 00:04:11,089 --> 00:04:13,410 Empowerment choices are worked in. 117 00:04:14,149 --> 00:04:17,350 So that the child gets practice making choices, 118 00:04:17,510 --> 00:04:19,779 so that it's consistent every single time, 119 00:04:20,029 --> 00:04:22,709 and so we're not hoping for opportunities in the playroom. 120 00:04:24,489 --> 00:04:27,489 The way we have found this to work 121 00:04:27,739 --> 00:04:28,390 is 122 00:04:28,739 --> 00:04:30,859 for us where they choose to wash their hands, 123 00:04:30,940 --> 00:04:31,570 for example. 124 00:04:32,630 --> 00:04:34,510 Our policy is clean hands going in, 125 00:04:34,630 --> 00:04:35,980 clean hands coming out. 126 00:04:36,709 --> 00:04:37,500 So therefore, 127 00:04:37,790 --> 00:04:40,829 every kid washes their hands before the start of every playtime 128 00:04:40,829 --> 00:04:42,950 and they wash their hands at the end of every playtime. 129 00:04:44,109 --> 00:04:44,899 Therefore, 130 00:04:45,190 --> 00:04:46,420 we have an empowerment choice. 131 00:04:47,130 --> 00:04:49,279 You can choose to wash your hands in the bathroom or 132 00:04:49,279 --> 00:04:50,959 you can choose to wash your hands in the playroom, 133 00:04:51,000 --> 00:04:51,750 which do you choose? 134 00:04:53,959 --> 00:04:56,600 Many of you do not have sinks in your playrooms, 135 00:04:57,000 --> 00:04:59,600 so maybe your choice becomes you can choose to wash 136 00:04:59,600 --> 00:05:01,720 your hands or you can choose to use hand sanitizer, 137 00:05:01,760 --> 00:05:02,519 which do you choose? 138 00:05:03,720 --> 00:05:04,350 Ironically, 139 00:05:04,380 --> 00:05:05,540 we also have sanitizer, 140 00:05:05,619 --> 00:05:06,019 but 141 00:05:06,299 --> 00:05:06,700 that's, 142 00:05:06,940 --> 00:05:09,519 do we typically say wash your hands in the bathroom or the playroom, 143 00:05:09,540 --> 00:05:09,940 but 144 00:05:10,579 --> 00:05:12,820 you can choose to wash your hands in the bathroom or 145 00:05:12,820 --> 00:05:14,619 you can choose to use sanitizer to clean your hands, 146 00:05:14,660 --> 00:05:15,489 which do you choose? 147 00:05:16,859 --> 00:05:20,140 One of my former coaching participants is in 148 00:05:20,140 --> 00:05:22,290 the UK and she's in the school environment, 149 00:05:22,940 --> 00:05:26,489 and Lee does not have a sink anywhere near 150 00:05:26,739 --> 00:05:27,429 her playroom. 151 00:05:27,579 --> 00:05:31,089 She has to take the child from the classroom to the playroom 152 00:05:31,609 --> 00:05:36,019 and so she has two separate bottles of hand sanitizer. 153 00:05:36,779 --> 00:05:38,609 I actually have a current participant that also 154 00:05:38,609 --> 00:05:40,480 has 2 bottles of sanitizer in the room. 155 00:05:40,850 --> 00:05:42,209 So this is another option. 156 00:05:42,529 --> 00:05:44,399 And so for Lee in the UK in the school, 157 00:05:44,410 --> 00:05:45,239 for example, 158 00:05:45,690 --> 00:05:45,920 she, 159 00:05:46,049 --> 00:05:47,600 I don't know if she put one on there. 160 00:05:47,730 --> 00:05:49,380 I don't know exactly what the circumstances are, 161 00:05:49,450 --> 00:05:49,799 but 162 00:05:50,250 --> 00:05:52,369 there's animals on the bottles. 163 00:05:52,489 --> 00:05:53,769 So she offers, 164 00:05:53,829 --> 00:05:56,920 you can choose to use the sanitizer with the 165 00:05:57,209 --> 00:05:57,679 giraffe, 166 00:05:57,690 --> 00:06:00,410 or you can choose to use the sanitizer with the zebra, 167 00:06:00,489 --> 00:06:01,320 which do you choose? 168 00:06:02,700 --> 00:06:03,959 And although it would be 169 00:06:04,089 --> 00:06:06,079 giraffe and zebra in in her case, 170 00:06:06,170 --> 00:06:06,640 but 171 00:06:07,399 --> 00:06:07,529 look, 172 00:06:07,570 --> 00:06:07,769 I, 173 00:06:08,049 --> 00:06:08,329 I am, 174 00:06:08,410 --> 00:06:08,589 uh, 175 00:06:08,660 --> 00:06:08,779 I, 176 00:06:08,890 --> 00:06:10,640 I possess some skills in some things, 177 00:06:10,769 --> 00:06:12,160 but accents are not one of them, 178 00:06:12,209 --> 00:06:15,239 so I apologize to all of you Brits that just butchered your beautiful language. 179 00:06:15,450 --> 00:06:16,010 Anyway, 180 00:06:16,410 --> 00:06:16,980 so 181 00:06:17,529 --> 00:06:18,959 she offers the animal, 182 00:06:19,209 --> 00:06:21,089 you can choose to use the zebra or the giraffe. 183 00:06:21,149 --> 00:06:22,329 I don't even know if those are the animals, 184 00:06:22,410 --> 00:06:23,640 but you get the concept. 185 00:06:24,619 --> 00:06:26,119 And notice that 186 00:06:26,329 --> 00:06:27,959 this becomes a routine 187 00:06:28,290 --> 00:06:31,239 part of every single walking back to the playroom. 188 00:06:31,850 --> 00:06:33,570 How are you going to clean your hands? 189 00:06:34,820 --> 00:06:36,809 Another option that you can work in. 190 00:06:37,220 --> 00:06:39,190 If you are not on the first floor of a building, 191 00:06:39,299 --> 00:06:39,690 for example, 192 00:06:39,859 --> 00:06:41,260 I know many of you are not. 193 00:06:41,970 --> 00:06:42,910 You can 194 00:06:43,119 --> 00:06:43,920 give the choice of, 195 00:06:43,929 --> 00:06:47,390 you can choose for us to do the stairs or you can choose for us to do the elevator, 196 00:06:47,440 --> 00:06:48,160 which do you choose? 197 00:06:49,279 --> 00:06:50,250 Another option, 198 00:06:50,510 --> 00:06:53,029 you can choose to push the buttons for the elevator or you 199 00:06:53,029 --> 00:06:55,029 can choose for me to push the buttons for the elevator, 200 00:06:55,070 --> 00:06:55,869 which do you choose? 201 00:06:57,130 --> 00:06:58,440 Another option for us, 202 00:06:58,559 --> 00:06:59,540 for example, 203 00:06:59,799 --> 00:07:00,709 we have 204 00:07:00,950 --> 00:07:03,559 a hallway down both sides of the building from the lobby. 205 00:07:04,519 --> 00:07:06,059 So when you walk into our lobby, 206 00:07:06,140 --> 00:07:08,250 there's a right door and there's a left door, 207 00:07:08,540 --> 00:07:10,309 and it makes one big square. 208 00:07:11,329 --> 00:07:14,790 So one of the options is you can choose to go down the right door to 209 00:07:14,790 --> 00:07:17,390 the playroom or you can choose to go down the left door to the playroom, 210 00:07:17,429 --> 00:07:18,200 which do you choose? 211 00:07:19,720 --> 00:07:20,019 All, 212 00:07:20,029 --> 00:07:21,600 all roads lead to the playroom. 213 00:07:21,640 --> 00:07:22,609 It's just which 214 00:07:23,279 --> 00:07:26,390 counterclockwise or clockwise direction you happen to be moving. 215 00:07:27,709 --> 00:07:29,019 Another empowerment choice. 216 00:07:29,890 --> 00:07:32,920 The one that we consistently every single time use 217 00:07:32,920 --> 00:07:35,220 is how they choose to wash their hands. 218 00:07:35,519 --> 00:07:39,549 But sometimes we provide other ones that I'm throwing out for you. 219 00:07:39,679 --> 00:07:40,739 Another option, 220 00:07:41,119 --> 00:07:43,230 how they choose to get back to the playroom. 221 00:07:43,799 --> 00:07:44,730 So once they've 222 00:07:45,320 --> 00:07:47,630 decided on their hallway or their path, 223 00:07:48,079 --> 00:07:51,600 you can choose to skip to the playroom or you can choose to hop to the playroom, 224 00:07:51,640 --> 00:07:52,359 which do you choose? 225 00:07:53,429 --> 00:07:54,019 In 226 00:07:54,739 --> 00:07:57,290 one of my current client's cases, 227 00:07:57,779 --> 00:08:02,929 it is he takes his shoes off and he runs in his socks 228 00:08:03,500 --> 00:08:05,850 about as far down the hallway as he can get 229 00:08:06,260 --> 00:08:08,179 to leave himself with enough room 230 00:08:08,540 --> 00:08:10,320 to slide on his knees 231 00:08:10,619 --> 00:08:13,179 the rest of the way down the hallway all the way 232 00:08:13,179 --> 00:08:15,369 to the door and then he comes back to the playroom. 233 00:08:15,619 --> 00:08:17,619 So he actually passes the playroom. 234 00:08:18,470 --> 00:08:21,070 Sliding on his knees and his socks all the way 235 00:08:21,070 --> 00:08:23,390 down and then turns around and then walks back in. 236 00:08:24,309 --> 00:08:26,920 But starts at the door and like sprints as fast 237 00:08:26,920 --> 00:08:29,750 as he can until he leaves himself enough room to 238 00:08:29,880 --> 00:08:30,869 to do like the 239 00:08:31,480 --> 00:08:33,830 Tom Cruise slide in whatever dance movie that was. 240 00:08:34,520 --> 00:08:34,880 Anyway. 241 00:08:35,630 --> 00:08:36,880 So the, 242 00:08:36,890 --> 00:08:39,900 the options that you're providing with two kids 243 00:08:40,229 --> 00:08:44,539 are for empowerment and let's go back to why does this matter? 244 00:08:44,789 --> 00:08:46,940 We know the value of giving choices. 245 00:08:47,109 --> 00:08:48,900 We know how important 246 00:08:49,150 --> 00:08:54,109 the child practicing making choices and taking the responsibility and ownership. 247 00:08:54,760 --> 00:08:55,849 Of those choices, 248 00:08:56,130 --> 00:08:58,159 but in the playroom session it is 249 00:08:58,159 --> 00:09:01,440 very difficult to consistently have empowerment choices, 250 00:09:01,599 --> 00:09:03,590 so we might as well work it into our system. 251 00:09:03,599 --> 00:09:06,309 Now the system itself is important. 252 00:09:06,479 --> 00:09:07,950 We're going to talk about that 253 00:09:08,239 --> 00:09:09,820 probably next time actually 254 00:09:10,200 --> 00:09:12,320 we have to have consistency and. 255 00:09:12,494 --> 00:09:18,184 Predictability and stability for the child that is a monumental crucial component 256 00:09:18,635 --> 00:09:21,104 of our work in child-centered play therapy. 257 00:09:21,385 --> 00:09:23,184 Kids need to know what to expect. 258 00:09:23,515 --> 00:09:23,994 So yes, 259 00:09:24,034 --> 00:09:25,515 we're going to be a broken record. 260 00:09:25,565 --> 00:09:25,755 Yes, 261 00:09:25,854 --> 00:09:27,625 we're going to say the same thing every time, 262 00:09:27,755 --> 00:09:28,945 but that's intentional 263 00:09:29,195 --> 00:09:30,395 and there's purpose behind it. 264 00:09:31,169 --> 00:09:31,950 And here's the thing, 265 00:09:32,000 --> 00:09:34,469 when you do the same exact choice 266 00:09:34,840 --> 00:09:35,989 every single week. 267 00:09:37,059 --> 00:09:37,820 At some point, 268 00:09:37,900 --> 00:09:38,929 with most kids, 269 00:09:39,099 --> 00:09:41,169 you get about 2 or 3 words in 270 00:09:41,700 --> 00:09:42,729 as you're walking back, 271 00:09:42,859 --> 00:09:43,549 you can choose, 272 00:09:43,659 --> 00:09:44,020 I know, 273 00:09:44,099 --> 00:09:44,340 I know, 274 00:09:44,460 --> 00:09:44,659 I know, 275 00:09:44,739 --> 00:09:46,580 I'm choosing to wash my hands in the bathroom. 276 00:09:47,799 --> 00:09:48,090 OK, 277 00:09:48,150 --> 00:09:49,020 they know the choice, 278 00:09:49,109 --> 00:09:50,859 they don't want you to say it anymore. 279 00:09:51,309 --> 00:09:54,580 They will tell you what their choice is before you even get it out. 280 00:09:55,109 --> 00:09:56,619 And many therapists go, 281 00:09:57,070 --> 00:09:57,179 well, 282 00:09:57,190 --> 00:09:59,390 they clearly are irritated that I keep giving them choices, 283 00:09:59,429 --> 00:10:00,260 so I stopped. 284 00:10:01,299 --> 00:10:02,770 We will not stop. 285 00:10:03,619 --> 00:10:03,739 Well, 286 00:10:03,859 --> 00:10:05,179 they clearly know what the choices are, 287 00:10:05,260 --> 00:10:06,619 so I don't need to keep repeating it. 288 00:10:06,739 --> 00:10:06,900 Yes, 289 00:10:07,020 --> 00:10:07,979 we will repeat it. 290 00:10:08,989 --> 00:10:10,150 There is purpose 291 00:10:10,479 --> 00:10:11,780 in this process. 292 00:10:12,270 --> 00:10:15,659 We are going to state the choice out loud every single time. 293 00:10:15,830 --> 00:10:17,340 It is for empowerment's sake. 294 00:10:17,510 --> 00:10:18,849 It is a reminder 295 00:10:19,309 --> 00:10:21,140 that they have control. 296 00:10:21,789 --> 00:10:25,780 It is a reminder that they are being given a measure of power. 297 00:10:25,989 --> 00:10:29,099 It is a reminder that whatever outcome they choose 298 00:10:29,099 --> 00:10:31,390 is tied to the choice that they made. 299 00:10:32,260 --> 00:10:32,750 Therefore, 300 00:10:32,820 --> 00:10:33,590 ownership 301 00:10:33,820 --> 00:10:35,059 is brought into this. 302 00:10:36,169 --> 00:10:38,090 We don't let the child's 303 00:10:38,440 --> 00:10:42,159 irritation or interruption or I know the choice, 304 00:10:42,169 --> 00:10:43,679 you don't need to say it to me anymore, 305 00:10:44,250 --> 00:10:46,479 interfere with the process. 306 00:10:46,650 --> 00:10:48,479 The process is the same every single time. 307 00:10:48,530 --> 00:10:48,679 Now, 308 00:10:48,729 --> 00:10:50,919 what I typically say when a kid does that is, 309 00:10:51,409 --> 00:10:55,039 you know the choices and you chose to wash your hands in the bathroom. 310 00:10:55,890 --> 00:10:59,109 But I don't stop and then next week I'm gonna say exactly the same thing. 311 00:11:00,570 --> 00:11:03,280 This is how the process looks 312 00:11:03,570 --> 00:11:05,599 as we're walking back to session. 313 00:11:05,739 --> 00:11:05,919 Now, 314 00:11:05,950 --> 00:11:08,780 we also provide empowerment choices at the end of the session, 315 00:11:08,849 --> 00:11:10,640 but we'll talk about that once we 316 00:11:11,130 --> 00:11:14,250 walk ourselves through the entire process in the playroom. 317 00:11:15,260 --> 00:11:18,890 This is a downward flow chart if you all are visual. 318 00:11:19,099 --> 00:11:22,369 So think about every single one of these episodes in order. 319 00:11:22,580 --> 00:11:23,979 This is likely gonna be a long series, 320 00:11:23,989 --> 00:11:24,219 y'all. 321 00:11:24,289 --> 00:11:24,900 I'm just letting you know. 322 00:11:24,940 --> 00:11:26,020 I know it's a summer series, 323 00:11:26,099 --> 00:11:26,450 but 324 00:11:26,700 --> 00:11:29,849 I think we may be into the fall by the time this is over. 325 00:11:30,219 --> 00:11:30,580 That's OK, 326 00:11:30,710 --> 00:11:31,419 endless summer, 327 00:11:31,460 --> 00:11:31,890 right? 328 00:11:32,460 --> 00:11:34,489 But this is a downward flow chart. 329 00:11:35,039 --> 00:11:36,309 So we're seeing 330 00:11:36,520 --> 00:11:36,960 the 331 00:11:37,330 --> 00:11:39,229 playroom needs to be set up a certain way, 332 00:11:39,479 --> 00:11:41,369 then we need to interact in the lobby, 333 00:11:41,440 --> 00:11:43,450 then we're going to walk kids back to the session. 334 00:11:43,520 --> 00:11:45,469 What do we do when they get into the session? 335 00:11:45,719 --> 00:11:47,630 Then what are the skills in the session? 336 00:11:47,890 --> 00:11:50,169 Then what are we doing when we leave the session? 337 00:11:50,640 --> 00:11:51,989 This is a flow chart, 338 00:11:52,489 --> 00:11:56,590 and my hope is that this is going to give you all very clear 339 00:11:57,239 --> 00:11:59,039 understanding of what this looks like. 340 00:11:59,419 --> 00:12:01,440 And you will be much more confident 341 00:12:01,679 --> 00:12:04,479 in the execution of these little things because 342 00:12:04,729 --> 00:12:06,409 there's some clinical component to this, 343 00:12:06,489 --> 00:12:06,979 sure, 344 00:12:07,130 --> 00:12:10,849 but this is not truly just the clinical nature of CCPT. 345 00:12:11,630 --> 00:12:13,700 I could pop quiz you what are the be-with attitudes, 346 00:12:13,739 --> 00:12:14,770 you likely know them, 347 00:12:14,979 --> 00:12:17,340 but do you know how to provide empowerment choices 348 00:12:17,340 --> 00:12:18,950 when walking a child back to the session? 349 00:12:19,039 --> 00:12:20,940 That's stuff that we don't talk about very much. 350 00:12:21,729 --> 00:12:25,119 So my hope is this is providing you with competence and confidence 351 00:12:25,450 --> 00:12:28,890 so that you understand exactly what this looks like from start to finish. 352 00:12:29,710 --> 00:12:29,830 All right, 353 00:12:30,070 --> 00:12:30,979 before I let you go, 354 00:12:31,150 --> 00:12:32,219 I want to remind you, 355 00:12:32,469 --> 00:12:34,890 we have launched Mastering CPRT. 356 00:12:35,229 --> 00:12:36,200 So if you are interested, 357 00:12:36,349 --> 00:12:38,539 please go to playtherapynow.com. 358 00:12:38,780 --> 00:12:40,380 Until July 17th, 359 00:12:40,469 --> 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00:13:40,900 --> 00:13:41,099 Bye. 390 00:13:42,179 --> 00:13:45,059 Thank you for listening to the Play Therapy Podcast with Dr. 391 00:13:45,219 --> 00:13:46,140 Brenna Hicks. 392 00:13:46,299 --> 00:13:48,260 For more episodes and resources, 393 00:13:48,419 --> 00:13:53,140 please go to www.playtherapypodcast.com.