Marriage Expert: Three Questions That Replace Years of Miscommunication & a New Way to Think About Resentment That Could Save Your Marriage

IN IT with Jordan Harper and Ashley Buckler

If you've ever looked at your husband and felt something closer to resentment than romance, you're not broken.


Dr. Tracy is a couples therapist and psychologist who has spent nearly 20 years sitting across from couples with young kids, busy careers, and the creeping feeling that this wasn't what they signed up for. In this episode, she gets into the patterns that keep couples stuck, why resentment isn't a red flag but contempt is, and the three questions you can ask every night that replace years of miscommunication.


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2026-04-14 48 min

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