Single Moms, Situationships & Summer House Drama

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Speaker 1: Hello, gorgeous, It's Lala Kent.

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Speaker 2: Welcome to untraditionally, Lala, Hello, gorgeous, it is La La Kent.

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Speaker 1: Welcome back to untraditionally.

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Speaker 3: Lala go here going already?

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Speaker 1: Yeah, we're going, baby, I have Lindsay Hubbard.

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Speaker 2: This is crazy, I know because so far you and I have talked about the two biggest things.

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Speaker 1: The eye situation.

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Speaker 2: When like I posted about my eye and I was like, oh my god, Lindsay had the same thing. So I called you in a panic. Yep, you talked me through it.

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Speaker 1: And then.

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Speaker 2: Baby daddies, Yeah, baby daddies, how's that going? By the way, are you allowed.

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Speaker 3: To say such a great place right now? What tell me more? We're in a really great place. I feel like it took a while. Last year was such a big year. You know. It was my first year becoming a mom. Like you're finding your footing, you you know. I went through a breakup a month and a half after I gave birth. I'm in postpartum era. I'm trying to breastfeed in palm and like figure out that schedule. I went through a huge move after ten years in Grammarcy to downtown New York in a neighborhood I've never been in, and my apartment needed a lot of repairs. Then I went straight launched straight into filming for five months, straight back to back shows Summerhow, straight into in the city. So like it was just a lot all at once, and like I can handle it, but it was overwhelming at times. And you know, there's like I love talking to you and I love seeing you, like when we bump into each other at Bravocon, and it's just like there's a lot to focus on. And so I think, like now that last year is behind me, and like we've found our footing as like new parents and a new dynamic of co parenting, mediation. The whole bit the lawyers of this is that, yeah, like we're in a good place.

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Speaker 2: So you guys broke up when Gemma was only a month old a month and a half. Yeah, I mean that because Ocean was seven months old, and that like threw me for a freaking loop. I mean, how did you hold that together?

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Speaker 3: A lot of friends and family it, yeah, and like and that was right when Summer House Season nine, last season of Summer House was premiering.

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Speaker 2: How long had it been since you had broken up with Carl to when you met this new guy and had Gemma.

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Speaker 3: Carl and I broke up at the end of August, and Gemma baby Daddy and I had started dating in January of twenty twenty four. Okay, but I had dated him before, so he was familiar to you. Yeah, like we had dated three years prior and then like three or four dates and then didn't like, you know, we were just on different paths. Wasn't the right time. And then he reached back out in December of twenty twenty three, like a few months after Carl and I broke up. Yeah, started dating in January. I was a little busy in that December. Started dating in January, got pregnant in March, and was this like a planned no blessing? Of course. I was like, this is what the universe want totally, you know, because I never got pregnant with my with Carl.

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Speaker 2: Yeah, I've I got pregnant with the pullout method, not with my ex, but their time. Well, yeah, which is why I was always like, wrap it up, dog, I'm not taking a chance, I know. But a lot of my friends they're like, I've never had a noopsie. I'm all good, like I do the spray and pray or.

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Speaker 1: Whatever the fuck it is.

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Speaker 2: I was like, all right, well, God has your back a lot harder than he had mine because that didn't happen for me. A lot of difficult decisions back in Utah. Okay, so you guys, you guys are good. Now, how did you come to be good? Because like I could never, I could.

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Speaker 1: Never, well never do.

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Speaker 3: You have a very different situation and circumstances and your ex is has a whole different we'll call it a rap sheet category things happening. My acces is just very private, and he learned that he values his privacy more than he knew. Yeah, until he started dating me and realized that I was real public.

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Speaker 2: Well yeah, I mean your whole I don't want to say your whole come up. But the elevation happens with you being so open and honest about your life.

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Speaker 3: Right, Well, that's like, that's how, that's how we have these jobs.

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Speaker 2: That's what's hard for me is when I go out and date and when a man says that he loves my independence and what I've created and I don't need him, but he wants to be private, I'm like, well, I have all of these things because I'm not a private person.

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Speaker 3: Yeah, are you dating?

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Speaker 1: I am dating.

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Speaker 2: I had this situationship, which was kind of it actually made me really nervous because it's no longer, but it made me. It made me realize that I want something that I I really didn't think I wanted, Oh, which is like a relationship, Like yeah, like normalcy.

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Speaker 3: So really wanted a relationship with your situationship.

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Speaker 2: If he could have shown up the way I needed him to, then we would be all good. He just couldn't in the end, and that was fine. So what I gained from it was like, oh, I have been like denying myself wanting a man, and like I've got this and I'll have kids via sperm donor.

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Speaker 1: It's like, oh, I now know that I could be very.

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Speaker 2: Open to getting married one day, I could be open to having a baby with a man one day, which was.

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Speaker 3: Very not traumatized. Like I feel like still I'm a little I'm still in like the traumatized mode because like two x'es ago, he broke up with me two months before our wedding on camera in a very publicly humiliating way. Yeah, last X, I had a baby with him and then breaks up with me, you know, a month and a half after giving birth in the middle of postpartum. So I'm kind of.

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Speaker 1: Just like, you know what, You're where I used to be, and I get all the men. Yeah, no, I get it.

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Speaker 2: And you also like I, I just had one really traumatizing relationship that was like good enough for me, Like, I don't need it twice.

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Speaker 1: You head back to back.

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Speaker 2: Yeah, So how do you go on and be like, yeah, these are the things I want when really the only person you've been able to count on is yourself, myself.

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Speaker 3: And then I have my unconditional love with Gemma.

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Speaker 2: Right, my little writer, dat your little partner. You're figuring this out together. Yeah, I totally get that. And now the steaks are super high.

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Speaker 3: I started, I was like toying around with the idea of dating okay, on Summerhouse last like last summer this current season of Summerhouse, I started toying around with it. I was like, let me go for the sugar daddy, Oh love this for you, because I've I've always gone for love, yeah, never for money. And I was like, let me go for the money, you know, why not, Let's try something new around here. Didn't work out so well. Well, well some of my mom. She didn't say this to me, someone said it to her. But it's just as easy to love a rich man as it is to love a poor man. So like you might as well just like go for the rich man.

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Speaker 2: Yeah, no truly, but like like really rich, like I'm not fucking around.

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Speaker 3: Yeah, private jets, Yeah, I need big Pepe with the Frans, let's go.

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Speaker 2: And I've also learned that if they want to get you a bag or like spoil you.

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Speaker 1: You need to ask.

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Speaker 2: If it's like I want to buy you a Birkin bag and it's twenty five thousand, great, I would love the Burken bag, but I need twenty five thousand dollars in cash as well. My rent I pay it, yep, you My rent is ten grand. I'm going to need that in cash as well because when you leave, I can't afford my rent. What the fuck am I supposed to do with all these bags? I'm gonna need hard cash as well, or just give me the cash and don't give me the gift.

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Speaker 1: You can do just cash, otherwise you're gonna have to match that shit. That's a smart sugar baby.

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Speaker 3: Oh my god, yeah, you should give a lesson. I should we need like a crash course on being a sugar baby. I didn't do well at it. I can tell you that I found a guy with a kayak and a fishing boat that was like twenty feet. I was like, no, it's not gonna work for me.

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Speaker 1: Oh, you did it real wrong.

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Speaker 3: No. Well, I'm also gonna not gonna find a sugar daddy in the summerhouse, right, and these are all like people like these are all like partygoers at the Summerhouse. So then the fall ahead and I was like, Okay, this is like ten months after my breakup. I feel like I've been through like the thick of it. I'm getting my footing more, like now I can really try to date. And we started filming In the City when I was right around the time of like, okay, I'm ready to date. Yeah, so you're gonna see a lot of that on this new season of In the City. Yeah.

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Speaker 2: So when you go out and date, is it like you have the mindset of I'm just gonna go out and have fun and see what I like and don't like, or are you because we're women and I've noticed this about myself. Another thing I don't love. But I now go out and I'm like, I can't just have fun. I have to like like what what the fuck is up?

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Speaker 1: What are we doing? Like what are your intentions?

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Speaker 3: Yeah, you're like it's it becomes more serious more quick because you have to be like you have a family, so are you able to just fun? So I don't. I don't have time to go out. Like literally, it's like I'm in work mode. I'm in mom mode and like unless someone sets me up, I'm not on the apps. So someone has to either set me up and like do the vetting already, or like it's you know, somehow, in some way, I meet someone like I recently reconnected with an old fling.

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Speaker 2: Okay, you're really loving to go back to old flings. Your baby daddy's an old fling. Like what about could we could Carl be the old could.

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Speaker 3: You go out at No? I don't know.

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Speaker 1: You like comfortability there? Keep going back.

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Speaker 3: There's there is a lot of rumors just because we become friendlier lately, and we're like kind of putting these positions to like, you know, in public settings like yesterday at upfronts and we have Carl and I have the same group of friends like me, Kyle and Carl, you know, so we're around each other, and so we keep running into each other at you know these like things. No, no, no, no, I know, Carl is I think that we we could get back to a place of friendship. But that's probably you.

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Speaker 1: Don't you wouldn't consider him a friend right now.

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Speaker 3: I think we're in a like really friendly place I love, and I like that. I like where we're at. I'm like, I think, what do you call a friend? Someone you call someone you're like, you know, talking to on more of a regular basis. Carl and I don't call each other and we don't talk to each other on a regular basis, So would you consider that a friend?

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Speaker 1: I don't even know what a friend is anymore.

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Speaker 3: We love like labels and statuses and like, you know, we like to like categorize our relationships with each other a lot, And I think I think we should just be okay with where we're at.

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Speaker 2: Me and girl and long answers all the time and yeah, like it is what it is. Yeah, do you think that you've bonded now because of this commanda of it all?

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Speaker 3: That definitely helped. I think you know, Kyle, Carl and I are very protective of the show itself, like we we're the ogs, like we started the show, like we've been here since the beginning, and when something rocks that or threatens it, like we're gonna come together and protect it. And I think, you know, and support each other too, you know, like I know that, like this was a big betrayal against Sierra, but it also is very hurtful for Kyle as well. And like, you know, although Kyle and I have had like a crazy friendship over ten years, like he's we got to support and protect him too.

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Speaker 2: Are you still friends with Amanda? Like what is she doing in the world now? What is she doing?

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Speaker 3: I don't know, I don't know. You know, the reunion was a wild time and you're so composed.

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Speaker 1: Can you tease anything? Did you stay like pretty chill?

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Speaker 3: I will say I got pretty activated. Yeah, but I also kept my mouth shut when I needed to keep it shut, and I it was very open when it needed to be open. I tried to do have a little balance. That's great.

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Speaker 1: How old are you thirty nine? You look great, bitch. Oh thanks, You're welcome.

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Speaker 2: When you go into film like Summerhouse, or a reunion, especially this season when it's super fucking heightened, do you get worried, just like as a mom, how you're going to come across like knowing And I've never thought about this. The only reason I'm asking you is because blast me this all the time when you act out of pocket. Do you worry that Gema was gonna watch it one day and like not dig it.

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Speaker 3: I don't think I'm there yet.

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Speaker 1: I mean maybe.

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Speaker 3: I would worry about that in like a sexual sense, Like I stopped like hooking up on camera as of like I don't know, three years ago. Yeah, you guys don't have that problem because you don't have cameras in the fucking bedroom.

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Speaker 1: By the way, that's so strange to me. You just see like little bare asses all the time.

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Speaker 2: Yeah.

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Speaker 3: Yeah, I started changing in the bathroom. Yeah, and that was even way before Gema, So I had started like shifting just because like at that point I was like engaged to Carl and I was like, out of respect for him, I should probably like, you know, not be naked all the time. Yeah, But with Jemma, like I think, I I don't know, I think I've just like as maturity finds us, and you and I are very simil like you get activated and pop off. I get activated and pop off. It's less about like is she gonna watch this one day and like, you know, have feelings and thoughts and opinions, and it's more about like, I think, as we mature as women, we naturally just like balance ourselves a little bit more. Don't you feel that way? Or yeah, you're like still not balanced.

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Speaker 2: It's very hard because when you've been doing something for the same way for it since I was born, just like very black or white, for someone to say, like, let's find the gray, let's like balance it out, it's kind of suffocating, and I feel like I'm finally finding yeah, the gray. But I mean when I was filming vander Pump Rules and I was very much a mom. I mean for the first time since I was in my twenties, I was like, that guy's kind of cute. Let's bring him back to the house, and they like show me closing the door and like obviously doing what I do, which I apparently squirt.

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Speaker 1: Now, so that's.

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Speaker 3: Wait, now you just started squirting, Well, I.

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Speaker 1: Guess a few years ago.

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Speaker 3: Yeah, wait a second, I don't know if I've ever scored it. Maybe I've just had bad seconds.

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Speaker 1: Throw your way. Because he'll get it.

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Speaker 2: He'll get it, he'll get it to happen. I don't know why that just happened, but yes, I'm mortified. And I probably should have thought that way well before Ocean was born. But in a weird way, I'm like, you know what if one day she decides to watch the show, Yeah, I feel like they're gonna look at us and be like, oh my mom was like a pretty down bitch, Like I'm pretty safe.

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Speaker 1: This is a judgment free zone.

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Speaker 3: I just Okay, here's the thing. I I think that like we we as women naturally are very hard on ourselves. Like yeah, and it's because the world is hard on us. I think you have to give yourself a little bit of grace. Like I guess I'm so activated. I still get activated, it just looks a little different, you know, Like even my activation has matured.

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Speaker 1: It's more refined.

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Speaker 3: Yeah, it's more like it's more like like I will cut you with my words real fucking quick, yeah, as opposed to like raising my voice, do you know what I mean?

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Speaker 1: Totally?

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Speaker 3: So, my activation, like yah, has matured as I have matured.

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Speaker 2: You guys are on season what ten? So you started the show season one season one? But I mean how I mean ten years you're thirty nine now. So you were like.

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Speaker 3: I was turning thirty. Yeah, I was turning thirty. My thirtieth birthday was on season one. Oh wow, Yeah I threw a holdown.

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Speaker 1: You threw a holdown.

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Speaker 2: Yeah, I don't think I ever saw season one?

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Speaker 1: What were you like.

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Speaker 3: The same, just younger, because.

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Speaker 2: Thirty anywhere else in America, like where I come from, my friends at the age of thirty have like six kids already, and like it looks very different thirty in New York, it's a baby still. Yeah, so like you're still getting turned up, You're still like hooking up with random Oh of.

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Speaker 3: Course, right one night stands. I was a hoe in my day and like I had boyfriends, but when I didn't have a boyfriend, I was a savage.

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Speaker 2: You were, Yeah, what does savage look like to you? Like, are we talking about thirty year old? Lindsay was yeah, like where you just go out, you get your.

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Speaker 1: Hort man, you find the door man, and you're like, oh you hit different.

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Speaker 3: It just depends. But I didn't have sex for a year after I gave birth.

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Speaker 1: That's like not even that long, is it?

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Speaker 3: I don't know, I don't know how long did it take you?

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Speaker 2: Well, I had not had sex since I conceived my daughter in like July of twenty twenty one. Oh wow, it was a long time. It was a very long time, Like it was nothing.

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Speaker 3: It was the longest that you've ever gone.

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Speaker 2: Probably that, yeah, or this last time. It was like twenty twenty two. And then I decided to like conceive via sperm donor, and that was like I didn't really want to be having sex. Lister to imagine, I'm like, no, it hurts or is it a man's you know, like I couldn't take the risk. So that I've gone like many a many year Yeah, both post part of me. But yeah, it's it's just not fun on in the city. Do you show Gema on that show?

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Speaker 3: I see, yeah, so she's on it. Yeah, it took a while, a lot of a lot of conversations.

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Speaker 2: I love how we went from not having sex at all to Gemma, are we going to see her?

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Speaker 3: Speaking of sex? This is how you get pregnant?

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Speaker 2: No, but I remember us talking about this and you how do you deal with like the biggest part of your life not being on camera.

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Speaker 3: Yeah. Well, This in the City is literally a show that shows our next chapter of life. And my next chapter of life is me being a mom. How do you show me being a mom without me being a mom?

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Speaker 1: So what did you say to the baby daddy?

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Speaker 2: Though?

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Speaker 1: How did you let him?

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Speaker 3: I mean we just we There was I mean, I'm not gonna get it. There was like months and months and months and months of lawyer conversations.

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Speaker 2: Okay, yeah, because I'm telling you, like when I Ocean was like maybe three months old and he had no problem like parading her around on TV. And in the moment that he was no longer a part of it, she couldn't be a part of it. So this season of The Valley, it's the first time that people have actually seen me like face to face with my child, right, which is my soa yeah.

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Speaker 3: And then they're confused why Ocean's not on and it's like.

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Speaker 2: Oh, she's like so some more, she's embarrassed. It's like, come on, come, are we.

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Speaker 3: In middle school? Also, like here's the thing you have to pick and choose your battles. Like currently as of this present moment, which is one week before In the City premieres. Right, Okay, I do not post Jema on social media at the request of the baby daddy. Okay, okay, Like you don't want me to post her on social media? Fine, and she to be on the show. Yes, she's gonna be on the show, and people are going to see her face. Am I still gonna not post her on social media? Correct? Because you have to pick and choose your battles, right, the older I get it's like, you know what, you don't want me to post her on social media. Fine, but let me go live my life, do my job and do what I've been doing for the last ten years with my baby. And like, just give me that and I'll agree and not have to post her on social media. We're all good.

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Speaker 2: Do you think that if you guys would have been together, he would have been fine with her on socials? No, because he's so private.

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Speaker 3: Yeah, I don't even Like he doesn't even and post on socials Like he doesn't. He's in a very different world. Like it's like the things that matter to him are very different than the things that we do in our lifestyle.

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Speaker 2: And you know what's really hard about this is that when you start dating somebody in theory they can handle what comes with you being in the public eye.

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Speaker 1: And then when it.

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Speaker 2: Becomes real and they see how crazy exactly what happens, they start to kind of freak out and lose it.

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Speaker 3: Yeah, or or and I don't know this in my I'm not saying this is what happened with me. But it's all fun and games to like fuck the famous chick or the girl who's on TV until oopsie, it's becoming real.

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Speaker 1: Well, there's nothing there.

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Speaker 3: And again I'm not saying that's what happened with No. I think it's more in line with what you just said of like you don't really realize just how public our lifestyles are until you're in it.

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Speaker 1: Well, and there's just nothing like this.

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Speaker 2: Bravo bubble is like the craziest fan base. And I don't mean that in like an insulting way. They're just the level of fandom you can't ride.

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Speaker 3: You have the greatest fans on earth, like the stickiest, most loyal, diehard fans. They will ride at fucking done.

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Speaker 1: There also bury you in their backyard with one wrong move. So just ask me. I know, I'm like, oh, this bitch who had sent me so much.

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Speaker 2: Love in a matter of moments, wanted to dig a pool, bury me in it, and then lay the concrete.

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Speaker 3: Yeah intense, someone said no, they legitimately. Yeah, Actually there's a dam to fuck up in our world.

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Speaker 1: No, do you think that you fucked up?

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Speaker 2: Because I did an episode like a little bonus where I was like, I just want to like give advice, not that you guys would listen just for the fantasy.

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Speaker 3: I always love your Honestly, I'm always like looking forwards and talking to you because I'm like, God, I just need to talk to La La again because she like has been through this or she knows like I feel you and I like vibe on the scene frequencies.

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Speaker 1: I think, yeah, and when we get together, it's like remember remember.

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Speaker 3: Like like now I talk about scoring Baby Daddies film five different TV shows.

00:23:18
Speaker 1: It's my add that kicks in.

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Speaker 3: Really much. We're packing it all in.

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Speaker 2: Do you think that summer House, like you guys are done with it now? Are they like implementing a new cast or do you know can you even talk to that?

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Speaker 1: Can you even speak to it?

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Speaker 3: I mean, I so last year me Kyle and Amanda did two shows and then this year. You know, I I we thought we had a plan and now where I wouldn't say back to the drawing board, like we have a lot of people left, like just because two people mess up. And unfortunately for Wes, like he's only been around for three years, one of those seasons, the only thing he had to talk about was the fact that he couldn't wash his recycling out before he recycled. That was his big storyline for one of those seasons, and then the other two seasons.

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Speaker 2: Got a lot of storylines. Now, the dick pics that came out.

00:24:12
Speaker 3: Every day is a new storyline for West.

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Speaker 1: Can I ask you did he send those two?

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Speaker 3: Probably somebody on Instagram?

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Speaker 2: I don't know. I don't mean a Wiener shame anybody. It needs to be a grooming situation happening.

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Speaker 4: Do you think I looked at it with like one eye open, you know, like zooming in what are we working with here?

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Speaker 2: Like?

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Speaker 1: What is going on?

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Speaker 2: He doesn't seem like the kind of guy who would just fire off dick pics with many of angel.

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Speaker 3: Yeah, you know it's funny. I I always like West has BD and I totally understand the total picture attraction. He's charismatic, he's charming. Yeah, if you are a girl who has any slight insecurity in your life, if he sees you, he makes you feel seen. He validates you.

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Speaker 1: You know.

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Speaker 3: He pretends to be like all about female rights rights. He talks about sports, He's into sports. He has a lot of friends. He's like, there's a lot Like if you take him as the full package, I can see why women totally attracted to him. And in that situation, if you know, maybe there's whatever size he is, you know, under his fucking pants.

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Speaker 2: Like you two it, I've some that are grower and not showers and I'm totally marry that's what he is. By the way, if this it is not lost on me, but if two men were sitting on a mic talking about a vagina, we would bury them alive, like inappropriate.

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Speaker 1: And we're having here, We're like, what's.

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Speaker 3: Going on, dude. But my whole point is is like West has bde regardless of the size of his actual deck, and I think that that helps a lot. Like I also he's a girl who cannot handle a big dick like I cannot take big.

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Speaker 2: Dicks really, no, not girth like long or just like kind of petite.

00:26:08
Speaker 1: You like petite Dick.

00:26:09
Speaker 3: I just like I'm like Goldielocks. I want something that's like perfect and just right for me, not too big, not too small, just right, you know. Yeah, like I need a Goldilock, Dick. I want to feel like I just went into the circus. What's terrifying? Yeah?

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Speaker 1: No, And then add tattoo is like a face tattoo.

00:26:32
Speaker 3: I will marry you tomorrow, face tattoo.

00:26:35
Speaker 1: I love a face tattoo like.

00:26:37
Speaker 3: What like a tear drop?

00:26:39
Speaker 2: Any of it? Any of it?

00:26:42
Speaker 1: Any of it.

00:26:43
Speaker 2: Rick Ross was on the Today Show today and I'm like, does he have face tattoos? I'm kind of loving Rick Ross?

00:26:48
Speaker 3: Now, No, you should call that guy that was like that got famous who was in jail.

00:26:54
Speaker 2: Who was like dated the billionaire. I don't know, yeah, like a billionaire for a sec.

00:26:59
Speaker 3: Good for him, I know, call him.

00:27:01
Speaker 1: You should be my wing woman.

00:27:02
Speaker 2: Like when I think I need like a New Yorker some grit because I think I overwhelm. Like I found like a nice little southern boy and I think it was fun.

00:27:11
Speaker 3: Until it was Now I don't think that him for you? Who's the southern boy?

00:27:14
Speaker 2: Do we know?

00:27:14
Speaker 1: Him and talk about him.

00:27:15
Speaker 3: Is he on Southern charm?

00:27:16
Speaker 1: He's on nothing.

00:27:17
Speaker 3: Okay, So your vibe now is a face tattoo, a big dick from New York in a relationship, not a situationship. Yeah, that's what I solved. It's when you like, I only want to be in a situationship right now, you know what. That's where I'm at.

00:27:35
Speaker 2: And I feel like the universe wants that for me too, Because anytime I talk to a guy and it starts getting a little bit something like I always do. I could also look with him and be like, this is a you problem, but I'm like, no, the universe is speaking to me. I've got other things on the horizon. I think I need to focus on work as well. Like situationships, I think you're onto something.

00:27:53
Speaker 3: Yeah, I can't deal right now. It's too much for me. I like want what I want when I want it right now, and that's very selfish as a relationship, like I can't like I like, if a guy doesn't live here, I'm like, perfect, let's have like a long distance thing.

00:28:10
Speaker 2: We definitely are gonna like hang out and do something because that's my thing. I'm like, you don't live here? That's great. I'll see you like once a month. We'll get giddy about it and then send you on your way.

00:28:20
Speaker 3: I send you on your way. I'm I'm that's you can.

00:28:23
Speaker 1: Be mom and work and do what you need to do.

00:28:25
Speaker 3: Yeah, like I I've always I've also and you're probably like this too. I've always been better as like single Lindsey too, like on TV, like every time I was in a relationship, and like in the history of Summer House, like sometimes I'm in a relationship, sometimes I'm single, sometimes I'm in a relationship, sometimes single. Every time I'm single, I'm just better without a guide dragging me down.

00:28:48
Speaker 2: You can be yourself, yeah, and go and do things that you want to do. I totally I relate to that so much. I've been on my own for so long that when I think about having to like compromise for another person, yeah, it really fucking throws me off. I'm really excited to see you as a mom and just you dating on this new show.

00:29:07
Speaker 1: When does in the City air May nineteenth? Yeah, we're talk to insteaded baby all right, putting.

00:29:12
Speaker 3: In nineteen, So it's the it's the Summerhouse finale, Okay, of season ten, straight intwo in the city.

00:29:20
Speaker 1: I love when they do that.

00:29:20
Speaker 3: I'm here and then me and Kyle on Watch Happens Live.

00:29:24
Speaker 1: I can't fucking wait.

00:29:26
Speaker 3: Whole round up, a lot of Lindsay, A.

00:29:28
Speaker 2: Lot of lindsay. The people are begging for it, by the way.

00:29:32
Speaker 1: You think, I don't think.

00:29:33
Speaker 2: I know.

00:29:34
Speaker 1: People are gonna lose their shit. I'm so excited for you. I love you. Thanks coming on the podcast Let's Say No More. I would love it.

00:29:40
Speaker 2: You guys, Thank you for listening to another episode of Untraditionally La La. I'm gonna catch you on Monday for a bonus again on Wednesday for a regular old episode and reminder that An Unlikely Affair with Myself and Amber Childers airs every Thursday at nine pm.

00:29:53
Speaker 1: Bye Bye,