The One About The Vanderpump Rules Season 11 Premiere Party

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Speaker 1: Hello, cool, just welcome back to give them Lap podcast. How are we all doing today, Easton? Amazing?

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Speaker 2: Jessica so good.

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Speaker 1: Tell you I'm feeling really really great. We've had like a pretty fantastic week. It's been very eventful, very eventful, very eventful. Before we get into all the things, I want to let you guys know that we have officially dropped a bonus episode, and we will be dropping bonus episodes every single Monday. They will be out exactly where you find this regular podcast, and you will also find the videos on the YouTube channel, and the bonus episode audio and video drop the same day every Monday. You're welcome make a big deal about it, Easton, Like, do.

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Speaker 2: You even care?

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Speaker 3: It's kind of a big deal, exciting, and people have been asky, They're like, I want to listen to you twice a week.

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Speaker 2: Well, your wish is our command.

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Speaker 4: And we're here for it. Yeah. I enjoyed recording these.

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Speaker 1: I do too. And the bonus is shorter, so you're not gonna get annoyed with us. You know, we're still leaving you with like missing right, wanting more, missing us a bit, and the bonus episodes are much more structured where I want to bring you guys in a little bit more. We're gonna have topics rather than just me and my friends rambling.

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Speaker 2: Yeah, so fun though.

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Speaker 3: The topics so far are so good, and you guys are all being so active writing it.

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Speaker 2: So they are they Yes, I'm trying.

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Speaker 3: To fix this arm, which you'll probably see on the video, and it keeps falling, so that's okay.

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Speaker 2: I'll go like this, Yeah, better fix it.

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Speaker 1: I think that's how you're supposed to do it anyway. I have been off social media. What's going on on the internet. We're on social media?

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Speaker 2: First off? Can you tell us why.

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Speaker 1: I am in a mode of protecting my energy right now and kind of incubating and creating a very positive environment for myself At this stage in my life, I don't feel that I need to really see what's going on in people's worlds that have nothing to do with my world. I want to live in reality and just protect my well being right now. And I'm not saying that I won't be on socials again soon, but I've been off since I want to say, Christmas, and it's been absolutely fabulous. So I've been out and about right, you know, I've been on Katie's socials. But I just I don't feel any desire to see what other people are doing, nor do I have a desire to show people what I'm doing.

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Speaker 3: I love it, love this for you, and I do yes. I always encourage people. I encourage mister Bubbs all the time. Is it take a social media break even if it's a day? Yeah, I know you're doing longer, but that makes me happy.

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Speaker 4: Buddy Jake, he put like restrictions on his apps.

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Speaker 1: I love that.

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Speaker 4: Yeah, so he can only be on like Instagram for like twenty minutes of the day. Okay, so after that it just kicks him off. So I think that's like a really good thing to do. But I like go on cool Turkey too.

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Speaker 1: I just feel I feel really happy, Like mentally, I feel pretty strong, and I think that's because social media has not been in my line of vision.

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Speaker 2: Right for a while. Well, let me ask you something.

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Speaker 3: So this is because you ask what's going on on socials and just so people are aware in case anything big happens before this comes out. We're recording this on January nineteenth, the premiere for vander Pump Rules that we've already seen because we saw it at the premiere party the other night. Is that comes out on the thirtieth Will you get back on socials for that or will you especially ignore socials for that?

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Speaker 1: I will not be back on social media for the first episode. I don't. I don't see myself getting back on socials for a while. Maybe if I think something is worth posting, like the Emmy look. I was like, that needs to be posted. So I sent the photos that I wanted to Jessica, and Jessica has access to my Instagram. I said, make this the caption, and then like, We're good.

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Speaker 2: It's really that was a stunning look. By the way.

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Speaker 1: No, I definitely don't think I'm going to get back on especially for the first episode.

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Speaker 3: Right well, for Socials as far as right now. There's some talk I saw this morning about Rachel episode two. Do you want to touch on that? Rachel's podcast episode two? Do you want to touch on that?

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Speaker 4: Another one?

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Speaker 2: Yeah? And I listened to it this morning and I did, oh, did you listen to it?

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Speaker 1: Okay, so I have to say. Easton played me the tiniest little bit of the first episode after we recorded our podcast a couple of weeks ago, and I did not. I think it was unbearable to listen to. I did not find her voice to be shaky or annoying. I found it to actually be pretty interesting. Again, I only listened to the tiniest little bit, but I thought that she was I thought she was good. And it was only the first episode, and the Lord knows, you only get better unless you're me.

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Speaker 2: Then it's all.

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Speaker 1: Downhill from the first episode. You've become a little too COMFTB.

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Speaker 3: But she well today when I listened to the episode, and you know, I won't spend too much time on it, but I agree with you. I thought she did bring up she said, you know, I know a lot of people are saying I'm laughing. I do laugh when I talk about things. It's not me being insensitive. That's what I do when I'm nervous from someone who does the.

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Speaker 2: Exact same thing.

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Speaker 4: Right, I can comfortable.

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Speaker 2: It's very uncomfortable.

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Speaker 4: Like I said that. I said that she was laughing, but it was an un comfortable I feel like I did touch on that when I was talking about it. I didn't think she was coming or laughing from a like a place of hate. It was almost like you.

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Speaker 1: Like didn't care.

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Speaker 4: Yeah, she was uncomfortable. That's what you do. I've done it as well. You either laugh or you cry.

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Speaker 2: Yeah, she says something that.

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Speaker 1: Well, she usually laughs and then starts crying. And it's actually really really sad. It happened on when we were driving to Lake have a SEO.

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Speaker 4: I believe.

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Speaker 1: She started laughing in the back of the car and then started sobbing, and it was heartbreaking.

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Speaker 3: So she said something that you say, which I was like, oh, wow, common, this is a common belief they have. So basically Rachel said something that I've heard you say before, and she said, when someone dates so quick after a breakup, it's a red flag in my mind. But then she quickly follows it up with but who am I to judge, it's not my life.

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Speaker 1: I agree, But we have a podcast, so this is a platform where we talk about other people and we wouldn't do what they do, you know, this is where we ride on our high horse. I think it's a huge red flag. Not only do I think it's extremely unhealthy for someone to get out of a relationship and jump into another one, but it's a red flag for me when there's a person who's willing to get into a relationship with someone who just got out of a relationship.

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Speaker 3: Right right, I hear you. She also brings up so that point I thought.

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Speaker 1: I say one other thing. Yeah, when someone or people say there's no timeline to moving on, people move at their own pace. I cringe. Do you you're right? It's the difference between people who are are unhealthy and who are healthy. Yes, you're right, there is no timeline. No one says when you should or shouldn't. But if we're gonna like really break it down, it's really the difference between being a healthy person and being an unhealthy person.

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Speaker 2: I hear you.

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Speaker 3: Can I bring this up. So Kyle was in a four year relationship before he met me. Uh, they broke up. We met I think two months later, and we were dating four months later. A lot of his friends said, dude, that is way too fast. Obviously, I mean seven years later and we're engaged. Maybe it wasn't too fast, but what I'm just curious, what are your thoughts if you're like, wow, that's fast.

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Speaker 1: But I think we're coming from two different places here, Okay, okay, because when you're coming from a place of probably of normalcy, right, sometimes couples just break up. Yeah, right, And in that regard, maybe it is where you can you can move on quickly. Okay, I'm coming from a place of traumatic breakups that God, does that make sense? Yes?

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Speaker 2: Traumatic breakup toxic?

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Speaker 1: Right, or the relationship you were in was toxic and you realize it was toxic and then you move on. There are See, this is where I start learning and I eat my words. Some people call it flip flopping, but you just made an excellent point. If you're in a relationship and you two were just not right for each other, you wish each other the best, go move on. But I have personally only experienced and experienced other people around me have toxic relationships, and there's usually cheating involved, and it's a very traumatic breakup.

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Speaker 4: I think that's what separates where Kyle is right, the other people are and that's the healthy person and unhealthy. Kyle is healthy. The relationship ended, right.

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Speaker 2: Yeah, no cheating it.

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Speaker 4: He knew what he had, he knows what he wants. He's healthy. He found it in you. He doesn't need the time because he knew what he wanted with his ex and with you, and you were what he wanted, so he didn't need that time. When you start seeing what the cheating and the unhealthy person you need to be able to be healthy to find that next step.

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Speaker 3: Yeah, that's a great And just to reiterate, we did not meet while he was in the relationship.

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Speaker 2: We met two months later.

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Speaker 1: Right, Yeah, A healthy person, normalcy, good people.

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Speaker 4: You know what you want when you're like cheating on people, it's like you're wanting.

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Speaker 1: This, but you're wanting you have a lot of self work to do, right. So, as you can tell, my trauma is still very deep rooted. And when I hear when someone they're like, we broke up, and I'm like, what's seeing our sister city cheap? They're all assholes.

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Speaker 3: Last point she made that I think you wouldn't agree with it. She does kind of one thing, big thing Tom Schwartz. She said he knew the whole time his apartment was their safe space.

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Speaker 2: Yeah, I think we all knew that.

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Speaker 1: I think we all knew that. Believe that, And you know, I just I want Raquel or Rachel I keep doing that, and I know that I don't want it to seem disrespectful when I call her Raquel. Here's the thing she wants to be well, she wants to be Rachel because she feels like who she was as Raquel and that could be deep rooted and she may have worked with an actual doctor. For me, I'm sorry the name Raquel slaps, it just does.

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Speaker 3: It's funny now, it's wild now that people are going back to calling her Raquel because she wants to be called Rachel.

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Speaker 1: It's a little fucked.

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Speaker 2: Up, like everyone.

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Speaker 3: Maybe the one thing you wouldn't like of the episode and then I'm done making points on her episode. She puts a lot on the producers as far as the scene with her making out with Schwartz, she said her date going on a date with Peter. She said they previously had a date, it didn't work out, and she claims like the producers really wanted that. Same with the Schwortz thing that she said, they set up a table, there was lighting.

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Speaker 2: So she puts a lot on the producers as far as that.

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Speaker 1: She said, you know, we were a producers set up lighting and cameras. You mean we're filming a television shiit? What the fuck?

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Speaker 2: No shit sherlock right, So that was something.

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Speaker 1: But I think overall, and by the way, had they not set up the lighting, it would have really been an ill makeout session because it was like watching an uncle make out with his Like at the premiere, it was disgusting, and they kept.

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Speaker 3: Cutting to that scene and Laala sitting next to me, She's like, oh, I can't watch.

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Speaker 2: What did you say? You're like, it's like a grandpat making.

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Speaker 3: Out with his daughter or whatever, his grandchild or something.

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Speaker 1: I said, it's like watching a dad make out with his daughter.

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Speaker 4: That's what it was.

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Speaker 1: And his glasses were all steamy. It was just really bad. And then Schwartzy was like holding his face at the premiere because they did keep cutting away from that. I don't like when anybody blames anything on producers. I just don't. Yeah, yeah, I just don't. We all we all know the drill. We all know the drill, and then when the people have a tough time with it, we got to place the blame somewhere, you know, and let's not forget. Like I don't think people would have really cared that she made out with Schwartz, Like I think the audience would have been like, really team Raquel because she was coming into her own and she didn't really owe Katie much. I think that's where I think the audience would have.

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Speaker 4: Been wasn't that scripted? Didn't? Was that brought up? What Raquel said that the makeout with Santoval was scripted.

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Speaker 2: Well, that's what she meant.

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Speaker 3: That's what I meant when I said sorry, Yeah, when she said that producers were involved, she basically was like.

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Speaker 1: That's literally what are you listening? That's literally what the whole conversation has been about.

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Speaker 4: I was reading this thing, SOO goes. First of all, Raquel's parents bought her the dog Graham for her birthday. It was a gift. She didn't go and buy a dog herself. So Lola calling her the B word is inaccurate.

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Speaker 1: I call everyone the bword.

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Speaker 4: Bet she'd get over considering La La slept with her boyfriend being James.

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Speaker 2: But it's like, it's not I your friend.

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Speaker 4: This is where I was reading.

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Speaker 1: Hold on, please tell me.

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Speaker 4: So this is what this girl do? I give her what's her name?

00:14:12
Speaker 1: Give her a fucking shower.

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Speaker 2: This is on Instagram.

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Speaker 1: Make her famous for five seconds.

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Speaker 4: Yeah, her name is it's Jazz xx Ma Camaggie. Just if you.

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Speaker 1: Want, you can show it.

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Speaker 4: But first, all right, this was last night too. First of all, Raquel's parents bought her the dog Graham for her birthday. Well educating.

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Speaker 1: So both she and her parents are dumb asses, all right, noted?

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Speaker 4: Yeah, perfect, thank you both of them a gift. Go get them a gift from the shelter. Ye all right, box, All right, So Lala calling her the B word is inaccurate, also pretty hypocritical, considering Laala slept with her boyfriend.

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Speaker 1: What does that have to do with adopting a dog? Me, fucking James, what does I have to do with going to a shelter and getting a dog?

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Speaker 4: Then you have an issue with Raquel taking her pants off?

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Speaker 1: Well yeah, well yeah, kind of when when my friend when my friend is sleeping upstairs in the bedroom, I got a little bit of a problem with some random hoe taking her pants off.

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Speaker 4: And then she goes. She's not saying it wasn't wrong, she's explaining what happened. The person who kissed Raquel was was Sandoval, So you should be pissed at him. First of all, she like I said, she was the one who walked to a locked door and then walked behind into the backyard. You are telling Sandoval I can fuck you.

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Speaker 1: Let's be very clear, you're okay. Number one, it was shitty of you to take your pants off. Yes, when your friend and his girlfriend are sleeping upstairs stairs, it is very shitty of Sandoval.

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Speaker 4: No, it's shitty like to.

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Speaker 1: Think with his wiener. No, but he also shouldn't have made the move exactly. But you shouldn't have taken your pants off, and he should not have said and he shouldn't have taken the bait.

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Speaker 2: I agree.

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Speaker 3: I also have to say you take your pants off. That is not saying I couldn't.

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Speaker 2: That is called That's.

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Speaker 1: Called I don't want to swim in my jeans.

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Speaker 2: You can fuck it. Yes, you can fuck me. I should be able to it be fucked up.

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Speaker 3: But I'm just saying if I'm with a guy and he's got a girlfriend, I would never do this, and I take my pants off and my shirt fucked up. But I'm not saying you can fuck me. I'm saying you can fuck me. When I say, hey, you can fuck me, you know what I mean.

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Speaker 1: Let's be very clear, sand of aal I gave the wrath to the difference is Raquel disappeared. I was given no option to have a productive conversation with this person. So it's not that I'm still holding her feet to the fire and Sandoval gets off scott free. It's that Sandoval was in front of me for us to have a productive conversation, which is exactly why I wanted Raquel to come back, so that she could come into a place where dust had settled. Time has passed, logic sinks in, and you have a productive conversation. Okay, just because you have a cookie doesn't mean I'm a huge fan of yours, right, Like, I don't just like support women, but I do prefer women over men. Okay, doesn't mean I like all women. In fact, women are usually the ones that come for me usually like men are pretty cool to me. It's usually the chicks who are fucking assholes and usually registered nurses next Tuesday, I don't want you ever coming in and making me feel better.

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Speaker 2: We love our nurses here at the give them las. Okay, we love our nurses.

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Speaker 1: But I'm just saying when I click on their Instagram pages, it always says I'm an RN, and I'm like, what the fucks?

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Speaker 2: Not the rude ones.

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Speaker 1: They're the ones that jam the needle into you. Rather than say this is won't hurt a bet what you do today, do you like Jello? They're the ones who don't give a damn right and their names are Beatrice, not Beatrice Beatrice. So although I appreciate, here's the thing, I always say the bitch word, bitch, bitch, bitch, bitch love a good bitch love it. I stand behind saying that you should adopt, not shop for this girl Jazzy xx. Bitch to say to the right doesn't matter me sleeping with James. That seems out of complete left field? What does that mean? Left field?

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Speaker 2: It's like a baseball term.

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Speaker 1: I think it's right, came out of left field, but you always wanted to come out of the right field produce.

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Speaker 4: Left field is usually that's yeah, I know where most people don't hit in left field. It's like the statistically you hid in right centerfield.

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Speaker 1: All right, So yes, it was out of left field.

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Speaker 3: And I have to say, I know this comes out before the premiere, but I'm very this is I'm going to say, I'm very interested for all you guys being.

00:18:57
Speaker 2: Like alaa dragging Riquel White, you got a bully.

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Speaker 3: There's not a lot of you, but I've just seen a couple. I'm interested to hear your feedback. On what you think about the premiere in the season.

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Speaker 1: Here's the thing. Let's say I'm tough as it gets, but I'm also as soft as it gets, and I will build a bitch up, but I will tear a bitch down. All right, Just depends on how you step to me. It is what it is. I don't know how I'll be received this season, but you know what, I'm not really too worried about it because I'm off social media, so I won't even know what y'all say. Let's talk about very quickly. The premiere party was absolutely fantastic. It was It was surreal to walk in and be like, this is for our show.

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Speaker 3: It was incredible. The food, the ambiance, the florals.

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Speaker 1: All of that.

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Speaker 4: You did you notice that they changed the florals too?

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Speaker 1: What do you mean?

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Speaker 4: Do you mean you guys didn't notice that. No, So when we got there there was flower the amount of a certain amount, and then when they were starting the show they brought one more. I don't know if.

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Speaker 1: It was like this is meet and greet florals, this is appetizer florals, dessert florals. I love it. That has Lisa vander Pumpertten all over it.

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Speaker 2: It was. It was stunning. Thank you for taking the crew.

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Speaker 4: Thank you.

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Speaker 1: Oh we took the whole crew. I loved it. Teresa Judai says the food in prison was so good. She often cooked for her fellow inmates, her specialty dishes. She cooked for two hundred people camp style, and she said that her most favorite thing in prison was the banana nut muffins. So elderly commissary, she said, I would have a banana nut muffin every morning, and then they ended up running out of them and I was so mad. Well, Teresa, you ate them all.

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Speaker 2: They ate them all, girl, you were so mad. You know what good to hear?

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Speaker 3: Because I've only ever heard the food in prison is not great.

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Speaker 1: I think that's for like murderers. She was in. She was in prison with like doctors, lawyers, so she.

00:21:04
Speaker 2: Was in like a bougie prison area.

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Speaker 1: Yeah, there's like different kinds of.

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Speaker 4: I don't know if anybody knows Poushisty, but he's in prison, okay, and like murder, I believe, going through the steps. But he even like you see selling you live pretty nice in prison. I don't know how they're getting it in there. People got phones, people prison talk. Oh my gosh, I watch people like, Yeah, they're making like burritos under their bed. They're very resourceful.

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Speaker 1: I will say, I have a tremendous amount of respect for.

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Speaker 4: I could see the food being money in there too.

00:21:45
Speaker 1: Oh, especially with tree full on Italian three time New York New York Times bestsellers cookbooks and yeah.

00:21:56
Speaker 4: I'm telling you she can get whatever she wants in there.

00:21:58
Speaker 3: Oh yeah, she's I'm gonna I'm gonna err on the side that I don't want to try prison food, but good for everyone.

00:22:04
Speaker 4: I want to try prison food out of side of prison.

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Speaker 1: I'm sorry. I just for Teresa Judaice to have to serve prison time for something her husband did. Your fucking gangster. And I have mad respect for you. You went in, you had, you left four children behind, you held it together, you came out. Look what you got. I mean, I love it. And she said she still communicates with some of her cellmates or people who were in prison with her.

00:22:32
Speaker 2: Oh that's cool.

00:22:33
Speaker 1: Yeah, well that's got to be a bonding experience. Yeah right, they really know who you are. They know yeah, they do.

00:22:42
Speaker 4: They know her better than anyone outside of prison. That's guaranteed.

00:22:45
Speaker 1: Yeah, they see you at your most vulnerable moment. Of course, Madonna's being sued for starting her at New York City concert I guess concerts late. Two fans of Madonna filed a lawsuit against the singer on January seventeenth, accusing her of false advertising, negligent misrepresentation, and unfair and deceptive trade practices.

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Speaker 2: Fans to me late or for not showing No.

00:23:11
Speaker 1: She was late.

00:23:13
Speaker 4: Honestly, ain't fans to me?

00:23:15
Speaker 3: Have you never been at a concert where I've a little lil Wayne never shown I've.

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Speaker 4: Been to a concert where it's like twelve o'clock and then it's like one thirty and you're like, all right, two o' clock comes and you get them for thirty minutes and you're.

00:23:27
Speaker 2: Like, oh whatever, they're high.

00:23:30
Speaker 4: Even saying they're just walking around, it's.

00:23:31
Speaker 1: Just plain Madonna. Fans seem like square, Yeah, they're not fans.

00:23:36
Speaker 2: It's Madonna. She can be late. Let her be late.

00:23:40
Speaker 4: She could come up on stage, smack her ass, walk off, and I'd be like, I got my Money's right.

00:23:46
Speaker 1: We're talking about the woman who does Vogue, The Vogue. I mean, don't don't Donna done.

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Speaker 3: Right?

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Speaker 1: A girl I mean, but Donna can do whatever she wants. She would literally be four hours late, come out to get ship on stage.

00:24:06
Speaker 4: And I'd be like standing ovation.

00:24:15
Speaker 1: Kanye West got a new titanium grill dentures.

00:24:20
Speaker 4: Actually like it's AI on those.

00:24:22
Speaker 2: So over him. I've been over him for so.

00:24:24
Speaker 1: Long I cannot get anough.

00:24:27
Speaker 2: I'm sick of him.

00:24:29
Speaker 1: It's like it's like watching a semi truck crash over and over again and like just hauling using us, taking everyone up.

00:24:40
Speaker 4: Why it's Gnar helping him recreate the semi after it crashes.

00:24:44
Speaker 1: These people I don't know.

00:24:46
Speaker 4: Get off the semi. It's us that make him feel.

00:24:49
Speaker 1: We're saying the wort a lot on this episode.

00:24:52
Speaker 2: Not you, Jess, you said it though I said, Hi, as.

00:24:55
Speaker 1: F it's because Ocean's been gone, and we save all of our f words for what she's gone because we can't say it when shoes here.

00:25:02
Speaker 3: I thought you were going to say it's because ocean' has been saying it.

00:25:09
Speaker 1: But listen, they're fixed, so the rep says they are permanent. This goes way beyond veneers or grills, the source added, and his particular implant is quite unlike anything that has ever been done before, because it's extremely hideous. He didn't say that. I added that it's experimental dentistry to say the least.

00:25:32
Speaker 3: If I'm lovely, If I'm going to experiment with anything, it's not going to be my teeth.

00:25:37
Speaker 1: And have you seen them? They they look like the wooden grills that that people used to wear.

00:25:42
Speaker 4: Back in the day. I can't they used to the day. Yeah, they used to have donkey teeth and like horse teeth.

00:25:51
Speaker 1: It looks like that, except and guess what, you guys, they were designed entirely by Yay with the assistance assistance of medical and dental experts. I'm sorry it should have been he should have been assisting the medical dentistry.

00:26:08
Speaker 2: Ors, Like, what do you amazing their assistance? It's all of It's all of them.

00:26:13
Speaker 1: It's all them, It's all them, and it only costs you eight hundred and fifty thousand dollars if you want the Titan for real, eight and fifty g'soget change.

00:26:24
Speaker 2: I'm so.

00:26:26
Speaker 3: I have two viewpoints on Kanye. Number One, I'm over him. He to me is like a walking baked potato. I'm like, what are you doing? And then on the other side. I feel bad because I know Northwest, like is obsessed with her dad and it's sometimes really sad to watch. She loves him so much, and it's just like, you're gonna have a lot to deal with and that's not my business, but that's just what it is is.

00:26:46
Speaker 1: It's kind of our business. We have a podcast and we have people to entertain, so you know what, the Kardashians are gonna have to take one for the team.

00:26:53
Speaker 4: I don't know what his girlfriend's wearing out and about nowadays, his wives.

00:26:57
Speaker 2: I love it.

00:26:58
Speaker 1: I love her giant tits flopping everywhere with the tiniest little bit of nipple cover super.

00:27:05
Speaker 2: Tits, super tis.

00:27:08
Speaker 4: I hate it.

00:27:08
Speaker 2: You know what, live your life. Beyonca is her name.

00:27:11
Speaker 1: Right, Bianca? Yep, Sun Sorrier problems and they're real.

00:27:17
Speaker 2: Stop it.

00:27:18
Speaker 1: They look very real to me.

00:27:20
Speaker 4: Good for her, Yeah, they're juicy. Yeah.

00:27:22
Speaker 3: Every time I see movies like that, I'm like, I I want.

00:27:26
Speaker 2: Fake tits and I'm going to get them. I don't know if they're going to be fake, but I'm going to get something. After I have my first.

00:27:30
Speaker 1: The thing is like a okay, because let me tell you something, Jessica, you breastfeed and they become volumptuous and yummy, and then all of the sudden they deflate like little sad ballue.

00:27:44
Speaker 4: No, they're like little wind sock titties.

00:27:46
Speaker 2: Like smaller than they were before the wind socks.

00:27:49
Speaker 4: Haven't you seen wind socks?

00:27:51
Speaker 2: No, like the the.

00:27:55
Speaker 4: Like a wind sock flag, Just two little wind socks floating in the air.

00:27:58
Speaker 3: Oh, we love all titties here on giving past, making that clear, even if they're no.

00:28:06
Speaker 4: I love a boob with no titties, A good boob.

00:28:08
Speaker 2: There we go.

00:28:09
Speaker 1: How do you have a boob with no titty? You mean nipple?

00:28:12
Speaker 4: Yeah, Well, isn't that a titty? Nipple a titty?

00:28:15
Speaker 1: Does everybody know boobs are titties? What are you talking about?

00:28:19
Speaker 2: Nipple and a titty is the chitty.

00:28:22
Speaker 1: There's the ariola, there's the nipple, and then there's.

00:28:25
Speaker 4: The breast, so there's the titty.

00:28:28
Speaker 3: Speaking of areolas, do you guys watch is it called Naked Dating on Netflix?

00:28:33
Speaker 4: No?

00:28:34
Speaker 1: But I want to because you've talked about this.

00:28:36
Speaker 2: I talk about it so much. I am enthralled with it.

00:28:38
Speaker 3: I'm looking you see vagina, penis, titty, you see, you see.

00:28:42
Speaker 2: Every singler is afraid without yeah, but like no, but you and you.

00:28:48
Speaker 3: They start at their feet and the penis, and the host will go in and she'll be like, oh, that's weird, that's a little that's quite an interesting willy.

00:28:55
Speaker 1: They have accents. Yes, Also it makes it so classy.

00:28:58
Speaker 3: This would never film here. This is a UK show on Netflix. It's incredible. And I find myself commenting on the penises, like too much foreskin, not like on the vaginas.

00:29:09
Speaker 2: I'm like, interesting, laby a choice or like whatever.

00:29:12
Speaker 4: But she chose it.

00:29:16
Speaker 2: Me talking to God, I can't.

00:29:21
Speaker 1: I'm so dead. Did you mean to make her laby on this way?

00:29:28
Speaker 4: I don't know?

00:29:30
Speaker 2: So funny? I mean, you guys gotta watch it.

00:29:33
Speaker 1: Okay, let's start watching.

00:29:34
Speaker 4: It's I don't know if I want to just kind of like sit down with my sister and mother and watch just naked people.

00:29:40
Speaker 3: Well, I do it with Kyle, and it's well and Kyle each other.

00:29:44
Speaker 2: That's true.

00:29:45
Speaker 1: It's like basically watching porn with your partner.

00:29:47
Speaker 2: That's true.

00:29:48
Speaker 1: I don't watch porn with my brother and my mother. I'm sure people would not be shocked if we.

00:29:52
Speaker 4: Did, but we don't. Locker.

00:29:57
Speaker 1: Good to know the Family Night does not consist of that but Cards against Humanity, which Lisa is extremely inappropriate.

00:30:05
Speaker 4: She wins every time, every time. We now know where we get our minds from because.

00:30:09
Speaker 2: She's so funny.

00:30:10
Speaker 1: She's so funny. Did you guys watch American Nightmare the Kidnapping Hoax with Denise Huskin?

00:30:18
Speaker 3: No, but can you tell us about this, because you know, when you said kidnapping hoax, I thought you were talking about the hoax where they remembered there was a flying balloon and they said some child was inside of it and there was a hoax. Yeah, there was a flying giant balloon and like everyone was chasing it because a family said, our child's inside of it.

00:30:37
Speaker 2: And then it finally lands, yeah.

00:30:39
Speaker 3: Something like not that it's like a weather balloon, but like big enough. And then it finally lands in a field and there's no kid and they're like, oh, it's a hoax, And it was like, you know, there was so many people involved and the family was just doing it for fame. Anyway, keep hosting so good you can remember this.

00:30:55
Speaker 2: No, producer, John, do you remember that? Are you for real?

00:30:59
Speaker 1: Google it?

00:31:00
Speaker 3: We'll put up a click here. No, I'm not kidding Okay, go ahead.

00:31:03
Speaker 1: Okay, so it's on Netflix. I do remember it. Easton told me last night watch Louder louder Milk, louder Milk, which I want to start watching louder Milk, louder.

00:31:15
Speaker 4: Milk, louder Milk. It's a very it's a dude who it's like a recovery. So they're in AA and his last name is just louder Milk.

00:31:23
Speaker 1: Oh okay, yeah, but it's like twenty two minutes sitcom style or whatever. But he told me to watch that. But when I put Netflix on, you know, they do the preview of like What's New and I and I remember this hoax, and to be quite honest, I still thought to this day that these people made this shit up until I watched this three part series. Okay, okay, So there's this woman. It starts with the boyfriend first, Aaron, and Aarin calls the police in the morning and says, my girlfriend was kidnapped last night, and he's like monotone, like it doesn't even seem like a big deal, and they're so confused and they go, well, what do you mean last night? People broke in last night and they took my girlfriend. Well, why are you only calling right now because I was tied up and they gave me a sedative. So they come and get him. They bring him in for questioning. He talks about how people broke into his house at three am. They zip tied their hands, they put swim goggles on them with duct tape, and he said he was cold, and the guy goes, oh, I'm so sorry, Aaron. I forget how cold it is in here because I'm wearing a wetsuit. He's telling the police this, and he goes and then they put me on the couch. They took my girlfriend, Denise, and they took my car and left. They kidnapped my girlfriend. And the story seems so insane, right whatever. Cut to forty eight hours later, a niece is found on a ring camera walking up to her dad's house in Huntington Beach, which is four hundred miles away from where this took place in Vallejo, California Bay Area. So now they're like, I don't think he made it up. I think she made this up. And she has the exact same story and it is heartbreaking to the only thing I hated about her episode was that they kept doing a close up of this eyeball going like this, and it made me because they were like I was in the trunk and I had these goggles on, and so they were doing but it was like so many close ups of an eyeball, and I was like, this has got to end. You've got to stop doing a close up of an eyeball. I'm going to crawl out of my own skin.

00:33:44
Speaker 2: Weird crea.

00:33:45
Speaker 1: I really really hated that part of it about her visual It was discussed it kind of both. It was just like, you shouldn't see an eyeball that close up for an extended period of time. Yeah, she's it's like, it's the entire screen this eyeballs, and.

00:34:05
Speaker 2: It's a reenactment. That's weird.

00:34:07
Speaker 1: It was such a weird creative choice. So then she tells her story exact same as Aaron. They threw me in a trunk. I was in there for a couple hours. I was then taken into a house. He was very kind to me, would take me to the bathroom. He was not violent, but then he came in and told me that his colleagues needed me to have sex with one of them because if we release you, there's a chance you could go to the police. So if you go to the police, were releasing this sex tape. So she said, I did not fight back. I knew that it would be violent then, so I.

00:34:42
Speaker 2: Just took it. Then come he got resulted, yes, yes, okay.

00:34:47
Speaker 1: He comes back in again the next day and says, we have to redo it because my colleagues said that it doesn't look consensual. You need to look like you're my girlfriend. You have to enjoy it. You have to look like you enjoy it.

00:35:02
Speaker 2: I'm sick to my stomach.

00:35:03
Speaker 1: It is heartbreaking watching her talk about this. So she then says that. He then comes in and says it's time to release you. I'm taking you home, and she's shocked by it. She gets in the front seat, he gives her more of the sedative. They drive from Lake Tahoe, we find out to Huntington Beach and then the police Lejo police start pinpointing it on her because it's so far fetched, and she says that she was not sexually assaulted. Anyway. Cut to the third episode and it happens again, okay to a different to a different family.

00:35:46
Speaker 2: A family said she wasn't sexually assaulted.

00:35:48
Speaker 1: I just want because she was because because she's yes, because they were going to release the sex tape.

00:35:55
Speaker 4: Yes.

00:35:55
Speaker 1: They also threatened her and her family. They said, we'll take care of you if you go to the police, where we will always be watching you. So in the meantime, in the meantime, the police are putting out that Denise and her boyfriend this is a hoax. Okay. The kidnapper is actively writing this like Bay Chronicle, right, this writer who is keeping up on this story and putting out the stories you know, daily with updates, and he's emailing this writer saying it's not a hoax. The Vallejo police have X amount of hours to acknowledge that this is real or I will do this again. He says, I'm in the military, I have PTSD, I went to this college for this. Like he's giving details about himself. It's like he wants people to know that what she's saying is real. So anyway, they then show in the third episode Doubling California, forty miles outside of Vallejo. This happens again. However, the kidnapper at this point in time runs away, but he originally was going to kidnap this random daughter right of this couple who calls the police. He left duc tee behind something else and a cell phone. They use the cell phone to call someone. It happens to be his mother, right, She goes, Oh, yeah, that's my son. He's staying at my house in Tahoe. They roll up to the house, they collect evidence. There's evidence of the sedative. There's evidence of this room that looks very sketchy, and the police are thinking this is very scary. They find a bag in the back of his car that has the fucking goggles and a strand of hair that leads back to this Denise Huskin, I am so utterly terrified of the police.

00:37:48
Speaker 2: Yeah.

00:37:49
Speaker 1: Yeah, and just the legal system, like to watch what these people went through. She goes, it was so crazy because I was so excited to be released and be I thought that the kidnapping was the worst part, and she was come to find out. What was waiting at home was law enforcement thinking that I made this up, and they tried to paint her out as like a whore and like a piece of trash. And even when they would write Valey Hope police send the emails that the guy from the chronicle was getting saying I didn't make this up. No fucking response from them. Shame on the fucking Valay Hope police and then twenty fifteen, So then hold.

00:38:34
Speaker 3: On, this was proven, yet it's not then blasted all over the news like they were wrong.

00:38:41
Speaker 2: This wasn't a hoax.

00:38:42
Speaker 3: So even someone like you who was paying attention to the story was like, wait, I thought it was a hoax.

00:38:47
Speaker 1: Yeah, well now it's everywhere obviously since this came out and devastating.

00:38:51
Speaker 2: That is horrific. Oh my god, they asked.

00:38:55
Speaker 1: So Denise's lawyer asked for a rape test to be conducted on her, and the Valejoll police said, We'll only do that if she gives us a statement. It's like, are you like, this needs this, No, this needs to happen immediately, And come to find out, it did show that she had had intercourse in the last forty eight hours. It's a wild like they don't care who did it. They just want to pin something on somebody so they can say case closed. It's wild to me. So I just want to put out there that anybody in law enforcement or the legal system who's out in these streets like really doing God's work and seeking justice and listening and putting the pieces of the puzzle together and not just to close the case, but to really find the truth. Like those people deserve a lot of credit and they deserve to be acknowledged.

00:39:53
Speaker 2: And thank you and also Bravo too.

00:39:55
Speaker 1: Sorry that was a really long story.

00:39:57
Speaker 2: No, that was like I'm going to watch it.

00:39:59
Speaker 3: Bravo to these documentarians, these podcasters, all these creatives coming out of the woodwork because we have platforms now making stuff like this like this is the stuff crazy, Bravo because like order podcast things are being solved because there's like you know, Internet investigative people and just like Bravo for the creative.

00:40:20
Speaker 2: Who make keyboard No, not warriors, that's about it.

00:40:24
Speaker 1: They're called it's called civility.

00:40:29
Speaker 4: Civil No, I really do want to know the name of it, because it is like the people that do it have brought a lot of people to know. I know, I'm like rebringing up cases that are like, hey, we just saw this and we thought.

00:40:40
Speaker 1: It was civilian journalism or something.

00:40:42
Speaker 2: It's incredible, all of it, all of it, all of it. Yeah.

00:40:50
Speaker 1: Anyway, let's move into House vives. So did you guys watch the Reunions of Utah? Yes? Part two?

00:40:58
Speaker 2: Like, how do we feel I felt.

00:41:01
Speaker 4: I felt like Utah wild d did it feel like you taugh to you? Like everything was like, it's just the.

00:41:08
Speaker 1: Same, A bunch of very bored people in a bubble.

00:41:11
Speaker 4: Yes, talk on my business. I'm a staple and salt leg.

00:41:15
Speaker 3: It's like all rightuswives, though, I gotta say fresh in my mind right now is and I am. I'm saying this because my tune has changed little since we last talked about it.

00:41:25
Speaker 2: Is Monica's mom psychopath.

00:41:29
Speaker 3: I horrified, and I said last time, I was like, oh, they're both the same in Monica and I did say like, oh, Monica had grow up with that.

00:41:37
Speaker 2: My sense now is like.

00:41:40
Speaker 4: Have it.

00:41:41
Speaker 3: That's trauma having your mother like that, having someone leave like that and say bye bye.

00:41:45
Speaker 2: I'm going to chase my dreams.

00:41:47
Speaker 4: And it's like and then live her dream through you.

00:41:49
Speaker 2: Yeah, I'm heart broken.

00:41:50
Speaker 3: And then the prayer, the prayer saying for the housewives, Yeah, crying on your mother's couch.

00:41:57
Speaker 2: Monica's crying on her mom's couching. I don't think I got it. Blah blah blah. Heartbroken.

00:42:00
Speaker 3: The mom says, let's say a prayer, and she prays that she that she the mom would become a housewife.

00:42:08
Speaker 4: Yeah, why the fuck would she become a housewife? Does she know? I mean very like, Yeah, she's nothing. I don't want to look at her and I don't think she's pleasant to hear her speak.

00:42:19
Speaker 2: No, it's heartbreaking.

00:42:20
Speaker 1: But see this is but this is where I get a little bit.

00:42:26
Speaker 4: I don't even know her names.

00:42:27
Speaker 1: Like, I don't really know how I feel. Right, because let's take Rachel Raquel. We have no idea what her home life was like, what she experienced in school, Monica, She's now opened up about what a toxic mom she grew up with. You sit there and you're like, yes, we've all been dealt shitty hands, and it's all about how you deal with it, right, But I couldn't help but feel so heartbroken for her and be like, well, no, wonder you are the way you are. But you know, at some point, like you, you can't blame your your bad actions on your upbringing. But at the same time, I come from a place of such privilege, and I had such an incredible upbringing. And even though I may not be trolling people on the internet, you know, I've certainly done other things that I'm not proud of. So it's like, at what point do you do you practice compassion and sympathy and empathy for someone because of maybe what they've been through, but also like keep your guard up. It's like a it's a really and it's kind of what I struggled with this season, you know, and finding a softer spot for a cal because I don't know what she went through as a child, you know, like sometimes we just fuck up because we're human. Other times, like we look at the world differently because we were raised much different than maybe, you know, our friends were.

00:43:56
Speaker 2: No, I agree with you, and I don't think it's such a clear cut line.

00:43:59
Speaker 3: I think it is is like, no, I don't think it can be an excuse for your actions.

00:44:03
Speaker 2: Let's just talk about Monica.

00:44:05
Speaker 3: But at the same time, we also have to realize, like, oh, wow, she went through something with that woman that a lot of us didn't and we don't know or people who haven't experienced that. I will never know what it's like to be raised like that, and just the things that are programmed into your mind and your brain that is probably so difficult to unlearn.

00:44:28
Speaker 2: So it's like I think it's the same thing.

00:44:30
Speaker 3: I think it's like we're not saying she's fine, she made this mistake, let's give her an excuse because she is a shit mom. But we're also realizing, like, damn, you know, she's been delta shitty hand with that mom, and she maybe made these mistakes because of it, you know.

00:44:46
Speaker 1: Yeah, same with ray.

00:44:47
Speaker 2: I hear you with Rachel. You know, like we don't know what she went through her upbringing. That's with all of us.

00:44:53
Speaker 1: But that's what I mean. And so for me, maybe a few years ago, even a few months ago, someone could come and tell me their SOB story and I'd be like, we've all dealt with shit, you know. But I just don't know that I want to think that way anymore. That's because I don't really appreciate when I'm trying to explain where I'm coming from and someone tells me we all have our shit, it's like everybody right, so let's be a little let's be a little easier on each other.

00:45:21
Speaker 4: Yeah, that's the thing. Yeah, everybody comes. That's the one thing I always say, emotional Like, emotions are personal. You can't ever, you can't tell me that my emotions are misplaced because they're personal exactly yours are the same. So it's like, you got to come from that place of understanding because everybody may not explain their emotions the way you may explain the way their emotions are. Do you get what I'm saying. Yeah, So it's like that. It's just tough.

00:45:43
Speaker 1: It's very tough. I do think there's a chance that Monica will come back next season.

00:45:48
Speaker 4: I have a really good feeling if Monica can dismiss her mom and maybe yes, a really good comeback. I think she will make a very good season two for herself, and even three, I think she'd have longevity in it. Yeah, but she has to dismiss her mother. Yeah, I feel like she's a puppet for her mom right now.

00:46:05
Speaker 1: That mom is that mom is a fucking beyond. We got to stop saying the forties that's an abusive relationship.

00:46:11
Speaker 3: I mean, that's all. Like she said, people are like, why didn't you cut her? I forget who said it? Why didn't you let her come on the show.

00:46:17
Speaker 2: After she talked like that? And mom, because like, yeah, I'm used to it. That was my mom.

00:46:20
Speaker 1: I loved when she said that. And Andy she goes. I think it's maybe because I'm so used to it. And he goes, yeah, you are, and what I can't remember.

00:46:28
Speaker 4: I think it was Lisa and she goes, I kept asking, why do you not want us to like your mom? And you just kept saying you'll see it. And I can understand that because when you when you're asked that, and I'm just coming from that point, it's like she's done so much shit. It's like I'm being asked and in the moment, it's like I don't even know which one to pinpoint so you'll see. And even Andy was like, you've seen you see yeah, And I like that he said that too, because it's just like, holy shit, you can't even pinpoint one thing. She read so many things.

00:46:55
Speaker 1: I ran into someone who's in the Housewives circle, like production and for salt Lake, and just when I said, you cannot have her back and keep in mind right now, you guys are gonna see, maybe even throughout this season, even on this podcast, that it seems like I'm a bit of a flip flopper, like I'll go really heavy in the paint and then I kind of ease up a bit, and then I may go heavy in the paint because I'm not quite sure how to navigate things. I'm feeling very torn on how to be soft and let people in but also deal with the things that I've dealt with and you know, kind of retrain myself to not have a permanent wallop. So just roll with me in this moment where I am practicing compassion, going like I get it. When I met this guy, was like, you cannot have this woman back, and he just kind of sat there and stiled, like, we'll see. Oh, interesting, Yeah, I think she may be back. The only Oh what is it?

00:47:50
Speaker 2: I was gonna say, Also, thank you for that journey. I love you.

00:47:53
Speaker 3: I know you've been calling it flip flopping, but allowing people to see that it's like we're all changing our minds all the time, and it makes it just a safer space for us to.

00:48:01
Speaker 2: Be like, you know what, I don't feel that way anymore. I know I said this yesterday.

00:48:04
Speaker 1: But today, well that's well, that's how people call it. I don't call it flip flopping. And here's the thing. I'm not a politician. I'm not like you know, out in these streets being like I'm your new candidate for the Democratic Party. Oh wait, guys, I think I were a like I'm just out in these streets trying to understand life and emotion. And I'm really tired because, like, the human mind is a lot.

00:48:30
Speaker 2: It's a lot.

00:48:31
Speaker 1: It is a lot, and sometimes I want to hang my mind, my personality, my face on the door and be like, I don't want to see it. I don't want to hear it. You're annoying walking away.

00:48:43
Speaker 4: For a minute.

00:48:43
Speaker 2: Welcome to my life.

00:48:45
Speaker 1: But unfortunately I have bills to pay, So here I am. Let's quickly touch on bh. So we're back at the Homeless not Toothless event. Erica is hit on by her dentist. I totally relate. Erica probably goes her dentist with giant sunglasses on hair and a bun, no makeup. Here's my girl, now here she is at this event looking absolutely fabulous. The dentist doesn't recognize her. She's like, what's her name? He's like doctor so and so, and she was you're your patience. He was like you look beautiful. She's like, thank you, No, you really look beautiful. Thank you, thank you.

00:49:25
Speaker 4: I totally relate.

00:49:26
Speaker 1: It's like the people in the building but were like, ah.

00:49:30
Speaker 2: Are you hold up?

00:49:32
Speaker 1: Are you sure you live here?

00:49:35
Speaker 4: With the dog.

00:49:36
Speaker 1: Yes, exactly, I learned. Anne Marie is very annoying, the most annoying. She's very into talking about how she is a nurse, that she's in the medical field. I need it to end. Guess what, Bet, you are officially not in the medical field. You're just a housewife. So all we know, Yes, you're a housewife. Once you sign up for any type of Bravo show, this is your identity, right, so get used to it. If I hear her say one more thing about being in the medical profession, I'm gonna lose my mind, so much so that Crystal becomes upset because you know, the esophagus thing with sudden this. Anne Marie keeps bringing it up, and she goes, I've I looked it up for hours on end, and it doesn't exist. And the only way that happens is if you have an eating disorder, and of course Crystal has been open about her eating disorder. So she goes, I don't like this, goes toes with her, and Anne Marie thinks that it's because she's jealous that she's in the medical profession, and that's what Crystal always wanted, so there she's that's why she thinks it's like you cannot get out of this bubble of medical profession. It's actually because you are labeling that someone has an eating disorder when Crystal clearly has had one, and like you don't just like throw that out there also as someone who watched their dad, Like we've talked about, it's very much a real thing. And so Crystal looks it up and it actually is a real thing and it's genetic, which is all what Crystal or what Sutton had said. And Crystal goes, it's just crazy that this like woman in the medical field took hours of research and I freaking googled it and found it in five minutes. She goes, so it seems like I'm also in the medical field, right, I wouldn't.

00:51:24
Speaker 4: Say it just so she can be something else and be smarter or looked at as brighter than the other house.

00:51:31
Speaker 1: Maybe yeah, probably you would leg.

00:51:33
Speaker 4: Up because you're in the medical field, you better listen to it. It's like what we talk about has nothing to do with the medical field. So whatever, Well, who cares, I guess.

00:51:41
Speaker 1: She also told Crystal when they first met that she was like an anesthesiologist, and she's actually not, and she said, I'm a doctor, and she's actually not, She's a nurse.

00:51:52
Speaker 4: They make like the most money in the medical field.

00:51:54
Speaker 1: Well, she's she's married to like a professional an ex professional football player. I think, yeah, it was very cute.

00:52:01
Speaker 4: Anesthesiologists have to like go through the most medical field because if you give too much, those are the people who are coming in and giving you just the right amount.

00:52:10
Speaker 1: Honey, I've had a boob job a couple of them. You know, you can kill someone or someone could.

00:52:19
Speaker 4: It's for your insurance.

00:52:20
Speaker 2: That's what I went to college for. That was my first.

00:52:23
Speaker 1: Well, by the way she is, we talked about this. She's she's not over the housewives, but at the very beginning she said she was, Well, yeah, so let's make it clear. Crystal has outed her and said she that is not what she is. Mauricio didn't go. So Kyle's best friends since childhood ends up committing suicide. It is devastating. She has this beautiful event for her that's not only a celebration of life but also uh for NAMI, which is National Alliance of Mental Illness. And Morgan Wade performs and her friend Loreene's mom is hugging Kyle they're obviously devastated. Mauricio's not there, but Mauricio appears at this homeless not toothless event, which you guys. I don't want to speak too much on the homeless not toothless because it goes back to the Kathy Hilton thing. But I just find it weird that it's like, we'll leave you without a home, but not a grill.

00:53:24
Speaker 2: That's what I'm saying.

00:53:25
Speaker 1: I'd rather you house these people.

00:53:29
Speaker 2: It's not toothless, that's true.

00:53:31
Speaker 3: It's just those toothless not homeless for the longest time. And I'm like, I guess that's fine. And then I'm like, it's almost not toothless.

00:53:38
Speaker 1: They're like, you know what, I'm gonta give them a home. You're gonna be living in this box while you're gonna have white And maybe I need to do more research before I'm clowning on it. But they got to change the name.

00:53:49
Speaker 2: It's not a good name.

00:53:50
Speaker 1: It is horrific. But anyway, mogoes to that, but was working out of town for like this celebration of life of his wife's best friend. He's just really not hidden for me. I know, he used to be so hot and now I look at him and I'm like, you're a pathetic And I look at her like, damn bitch, she's killing it.

00:54:17
Speaker 4: She looks like I saw her. She was always pretty, but.

00:54:22
Speaker 1: Like she's no, she is on a Yeah, she's on a different level.

00:54:28
Speaker 4: I think it's the confidence it is.

00:54:31
Speaker 1: But also, she said, after my friend did, I realized that life is too short for me to be around people I don't want to be around, and to be around people who do not appreciate me. She also goes into I will always have a place in my heart for Los Angeles, but I enjoy being outside. I enjoy going on hikes, being in the outdoors. So when Portia is done with school, I want to be somewhere where I can enjoy that. I think she'll I think her eyes have been opened. She does not care about the fluff any longer. She just wants to be happy and enjoy her life.

00:55:06
Speaker 2: Tennessee, Is that what you think?

00:55:08
Speaker 3: I just think, Tennessee, I just have like a feeling or something in Nashville, like outside of Nashville, or like.

00:55:13
Speaker 1: Maybe maybe though she has a home and aspen. Anyway, let's move on to the ache and relief of the week. Jessica, would you like to start us off? Sure?

00:55:28
Speaker 3: My ache is friend guilt, which you know what I'm not going to get into because tune in, you guys to the next bonus episode that drops, because.

00:55:38
Speaker 2: That is going to be discussed.

00:55:40
Speaker 1: Okay, I love it.

00:55:42
Speaker 2: My relief was the premiere. It was so much fun.

00:55:46
Speaker 3: I love that, love the episode. I know this comes out a few days before. You guys are gonna love the premiere episode. I encourage you to watch it with an open mind. I I've never been more proud of you, law Thank you.

00:56:00
Speaker 1: I love you. Thirtieth right yep, January thirtieth, the premiere Easton, what's your ache? And relief?

00:56:07
Speaker 4: My relief is also the premiere seeing all of the hard work that you put in, and you know, going and watching you film and come home and talking about scenes. We now got to see what it was, you know. Yeah, So that is my relief of.

00:56:21
Speaker 1: Like Liston's never lived here, so I just kind of go out and do my thing. It's never really talked about.

00:56:25
Speaker 4: Now.

00:56:25
Speaker 1: He's like boots on the ground. Can you watch ocean?

00:56:28
Speaker 4: I got a film, so I see like her coming home and like it. I it takes a toll on a lot of people, So I'm excited. The relief is like that you're done with it and we get to see everything about it. So I'm excited for that. That is a relief of the week, the month, or anything. So yeah, I'm excited to see you because every scene I saw you in. I'm not going to spoil anything, but I loved every scene and people will see why. And then my ache is I was really thinking hard about it, and I was like, you know what the ache is, Like I'm going on more of like New Year's resolution and like growth, okay, and when you grow close people say it's change and you're changing on them. So it's like maybe like the friendship guilt, It's it's touching on that almost of like am I like I'm trying to grow, but while I'm doing this, my friends maybe think I'm changing and I'm trying to grow while not putting that stress on friendship or FA totally get what I'm saying, Like I'm trying to take time for me okay, without making other people feel like they're not important. Okay, So like it's the guilt of that and me trying to find that happy medium of taking care of me and growing.

00:57:42
Speaker 1: I want you to save a little bit of this for the bonus episode.

00:57:45
Speaker 4: Okay, I can't stop right tune in.

00:57:46
Speaker 2: Yeah, guys, it's the next bonus one, the one on the twenty nine.

00:57:48
Speaker 1: Wow, we're kind of all on the same page because my ache was going to be one of my guilts, but I think, what, we'll save that and I'll pick a different one. My ache of the week is I was watching the reunions of Southern Charm and as you guys know, Shep sat behind me at Bravocon and he was very drunk and it was intense. While the second part of the reunion, he opens up to the group about Bravocon, he says he was blacked out the entire time. Austin was really trying to make him presentable. Andy kind of weighs in and says, like it was really, really bad. It scared Shep a lot, which makes me very sad because I did see him at Bravocon and I know that feeling of being so drunk that you cannot get any drunker. It is not fun. It is not this is Vegas. It's called this is my everyday. And I don't want to label Shep, but I with what he was saying. It really broke my heart. And so it seems like he's leading up to telling the group that he's sober. While he doesn't say that, he says, I am not going to be drinking heart alcohol and shots anymore, just beer, and the group is looks just like so defeated by this. And Craig, who's been a dear friend of Shep's for many years. Craig was a hot mess. He has his life together now he's killing it. But he says to him, you are driving on a road that ends with a cliff, and I have to get out of the car. I cannot participate any longer. So my ache is for Shep and really anyone who's struggling. If you think that you have a problem, don't say I'm gonna give up hard alcohol and only drink beer, because that is not a fix. My ache is my heart breaks that he went through that at Bravocon. I wish that ID could have been a support to him, and I really hope that he really gives up drinking, because I think he's going to live a really beautiful life when that happens, only drinking beer and wine is not the answer. Giving it up is the answer. My relief is that I have been off social media and I feel just really happy about it. So, going back to what we talked about the beginning, I'm mentally tough. I'm in a really great space. I again don't know how you guys will receive this season, and I can't really care. This is my real life. I have to make sense of my life, and you guys will be on a really intense journey with me this season. I think the first episode is going to be very different from how you last saw me on television at the reunion. I'm okay with that. I'm okay with being called a flip flopper, X, Y and Z. Again, this is my real life, and you guys see the entire journey of me really coming to grips and finding peace in what my reality is and accepting my reality and saying, bitch, this is what it is and it's not going to change, So what are you gonna do? Anyway? Wow, that got very intense to see your growth this season. We'll see I go from very compassionate to fuck this bitch. I said the effort again too. So we're just trying to find some balance and do the whole thing. It's a lot, and I hope you participate in.

01:01:42
Speaker 2: The story with me.

01:01:43
Speaker 4: Sorry about it's.

01:01:45
Speaker 1: Really an up and down roller coaster anyway, Thank you guys for listening to another episode of the Given La Lap podcast. I will catch you guys next week and remember the visual. The video of this episode will drop on Friday on YouTube at nine am Pacific time. Again, bonus episodes drop every Monday. That's the audio and video. You're welcome. We will catch you next time.