EP #044 - My Daughter Wants Me To Make Up Bedtime Stories? + No More Fire Extinguishers Kids! | For The Dads

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Speaker 1: Face, I could just kiss it.

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Speaker 2: Jill out of town till Thursday.

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Speaker 1: Who is it? We have a special gas Yeah, treadmill. Other side, we had a fig We had a special guest that just walked in the shop.

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Speaker 2: He sort of deliver our treadmill. Treadmill is going in the shop that fits getting right, that's huge, dude.

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Speaker 3: It's that treadmill is like something that I can very easily adopt.

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Speaker 2: Boom and thousand steps, Yes, got to get them. Yes, and this was got you know, he's got the flat. You walk on a flat, you can hit the incline up to twelve. There might be a decline decline of like three degrees, so you could walk even downhill if.

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Speaker 1: You need to.

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Speaker 3: What's the benefit there? Instance, So I'm pretty sure it has a screen on it.

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Speaker 2: Yeah, so my brain is telling me that you can go on these hikes that the monitor has probably an app inside that you can go walk a mountain in Colorado, and that mountain in Colorado, if you go on that hike would have inclines that go up and then at some point you'll be walking downhill.

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Speaker 1: Just like climbing the mountain. You got to go down it. You have the climb. Is that more of your quads if you're downhill? That's a quad killer?

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Speaker 5: Right?

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Speaker 1: Okay?

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Speaker 5: Ye?

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Speaker 1: Yeah?

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Speaker 2: But I feel like if you're going to like a three percent decline on a treadmill, you're probably just taking a nice little break, nice little brisk walk down Oh Okay, So it's like I said, you've been elevating, You've been you're huffing and puffing, you're even you're even having.

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Speaker 1: A hole because you're walking. Yeah.

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Speaker 2: Then you hit to the part of the workout where you go down to the decline, You're like, thank God, I get a little bit of a breather before I got to climb this next hill.

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Speaker 3: Now I do I do have something that I just thought of with the six oh one, the dad's number that we brought up because last episode and I didn't see a lot of people come to the defense of the state of Mississippi. But I do want to give a shout out to our six zh hundred dads area code is a Mississippi area code. Really yeah, so shout out Mississippi, dude.

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Speaker 1: Shout out Missippi.

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Speaker 2: I actually have a comment here from from Morgan and be.

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Speaker 4: Really good at podcasting. If you knew that he had the comment for the thing you said that, we.

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Speaker 2: Would be really good. But this is from Morgan. She's an empty sixer in Mississippi. Morgan Wallace put some respect on Mississippi. Cry laughing emoji. You do use our ARIA code for six and one. The dance here in Jackson, Mississippi. I think we deserve a shout out. Love the pod and I have enjoyed listening throughout my daughter, Wren's first year of life. For birthdays coming up on April twenty ninth, Happy birthday.

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Speaker 1: Happy birthday, So shout out to her and.

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Speaker 2: My husband Sheldon, who is also a loyal listener for The Dad's and Bustle with the Boys.

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Speaker 1: Dude, shoutut Misissippi, shout out Jacksonsissippi. I've been there. That's actually really really funny. You didn't know that, No, I.

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Speaker 3: Did not, Well, I knew I did not know that.

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Speaker 1: Yeah, I didn't know that. That's hilarious.

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Speaker 3: Yeah, we do have a Mississippi area code.

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Speaker 1: That was on Spotify. I missed that one. I had to look.

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Speaker 2: You had to look for some like underground voice that was free and easy to offer.

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Speaker 1: So maybe that's what Mississippi office. Hey we got. We got a landline here where we can get the voicemails that come in. Hey is the number that nobody's have a good Yeah, yes, it's Mississippi.

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Speaker 2: The six and one area codes up for grabs. Oh no, it's been using twenty years.

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Speaker 3: Shout out Jackson. I've also been to Jackson. My dad was born in Mississippi. Also, really yeah, that's unfortunate. Yeah, he moved to Texas when he was three.

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Speaker 1: Nice. Yeah, nice, I'm joking about Missisi. We love Mississippi, Dude, I'm not. He was born in Mississippi.

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Speaker 2: Mississippi's used for a lot of things. The Mississippi River, Mississippi River, counting county, Mississippi one, Mississippi two, Mississippi three, Mississippi blitzing in football games.

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Speaker 3: Hey, you have to get to five Mississippi before you rush the quarterback.

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Speaker 1: Hey, that's good.

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Speaker 3: Also, probably one of the funnest how to spell it songs? Yeah, am I SSI s s I pp?

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Speaker 1: What? Oh god? Fuck? All right? Hey, that's is that?

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Speaker 2: This is who's hosting these the dumb asses hosting for the dads.

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Speaker 1: He you wouldn't be a good dad to be a good day. Hey, Scarlet, you're doing a great job. What's this last letter? Mississippi? Though, honey, it's a y, it's not n Well what city are you from or outside of? What's up? Where am I from?

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Speaker 6: Like?

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Speaker 1: Where was I born? What city? What major city do you grow up? Outside of? Are you are you talking about Saint Louis? Yeah?

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Speaker 2: What river is? Saint Luis on Mississippi River. That's what I'm saying. There you go, I said, Mississippi River. That was the first one I saw.

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Speaker 1: Ship. We're figuring it out. Was what was your first address? Good times?

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Speaker 2: We got Roo's birthday was over the weekend. Yes, Jill out of town. Yes, Easter egg hunts we did three of them. Oh my god, who went a little? I have nanit written down, nan it do we we got nan it this week.

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Speaker 1: Are you saying you have nanit written down? Nana?

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Speaker 3: I just have the word nan it written We certainly did a nanit custom social that we can talk a little bit about the behind the scenes of.

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Speaker 2: We can do that later. Yeah, do that later. Man, We had fun making a nan it custom social.

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Speaker 1: We did. Nan It's on board.

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Speaker 3: It's I've been using my this is true.

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Speaker 1: Nan It's been awesome with uh.

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Speaker 3: Unfortunately, really really unfortunately, my wife took Scarlett out of town for Easter and this week that I'm currently talking.

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Speaker 1: O're okay, we'll get into it. We'll get into it, into it.

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Speaker 3: However, I can check my nan it app, which has been awesome because Jill took the nan It with their two Texas. So from my bed in Nashville, as I'm going to bed, I can pop open that little thing and see my little bundle of joy sleeping, and it's kind of sick. Dude, Like, I love checking in and spying on her a little bit.

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Speaker 2: If you love checking in knowing you have zero responsibilities, you don't have to do anything except look at your phone and just smile, knowing that there are thousands of miles away, hundreds of miles.

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Speaker 3: Hundreds of miles away, and audio works on that thing. So I've been hearing Jill and the mother in law talking in the mornings. They don't think I can hear, but I've been oh, no, shit. Yeah.

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Speaker 1: Last week when we started recording.

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Speaker 6: The Nana in the stream room from the custom social that we filmed was on and uh, I started getting alerts during the episode. COMP was in there like with one on ones and I'm like, I hope he unplugs this, and I think he did within like five or ten minutes. But I was sitting there we already started recording, and I was like, shit, hopefully did you listen in No, I'm a good one Chef, I'm a good employee.

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Speaker 2: Knowing that Nana was in the stream room. Boss man's doing one on ones. You sitting there, you could easily just turn up that Nana in here the one on ones he's talking about with guy.

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Speaker 1: Easily could. But I'm a man of balor. Yeah you are good on you man, that's that's the leader of Semen Team six a very quick segue.

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Speaker 3: Derek told me the story, and it's one of my favorite stories of Chef. I don't know if I've spoken about it in front of him, but one day I was sick and I could have come into the office and I had to edit from home, and uh, was it Jeremy that was.

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Speaker 4: Mess with Chef, basically saying to Chef like, oh, sure, I just can't come into work, Like he doesn't want to work here anymore.

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Speaker 1: That's weird.

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Speaker 3: Oh and you have to do all of his edits because he's sick, Like, are you sure he's even sick? And apparently Chef did not find that joke funny at all and came to my defense in a real way. Was like, Sherman Young would never do that.

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Speaker 1: He is sick.

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Speaker 3: I know for a fact he would be here right now. If he felt good, that's that's a Semen team, six of six, that's got your beds riding for your boys.

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Speaker 1: That's riding for your bed rid. Thank you. That's an ongoing bit. I love high roading Clumba.

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Speaker 6: Any time I get it chance, he swings really low, I go as high as possible. I hope he listens this too, and if he doesn't, I'll make fun of him for it. But Clump, for people that know Clump is the office troll. And I've learned that the way to beat the office troll is to take everything very literal and then high road every single step you get.

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Speaker 1: And he doesn't know what to do. It's really funny. Clump is also the boss. He's also the boss. My boss also the boss, and you high rode his ass every day. Sherman Young would never get sitting over here, Shiram. Do you see how I'm just circling? Yeah? What's going on? I was worked up before I came into the shop. What happened?

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Speaker 2: I came across a video on X and this is this is to me. I'll send you this tweet so you can put it up, Jeff. But from see this is from my CBS Mornings. It's about the sixteen year old. What got me worked up is knowing that he he was talking about how he was having a conversation with his parents and he told his dad that I'm gonna do this whether you like it or not. It's a sixteen year old kid that's quote a Now, it's an interview that CBS Mornings did with a sixteen year old that's essentially doing steroids because he looks maxing. You know how all these phases of flat s killer yeah are coming in are kind of just infiltrating the youth. All the trends they usually do. Keep your court is all low yeah. But this kid to quote because there's a video. I don't know if we can if we're allowed to play the video, but it's this interview with this kid and he's quoted as if I have a heart attack at thirty, I have a heart attack. One sixteen year old told CBS News that he was starting that he started taking a steroid known as Trend, which was developed for Livestock, after seeing Jim influencers participating in the looks maxing trend on social media.

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Speaker 1: And it's like this deep dive interview. They do it. It's six and a half minutes long.

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Speaker 2: This kid was chubby and this and that, and he just started doing steroids because he wanted to.

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Speaker 1: He wasn't getting.

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Speaker 2: Girls looked, he was fat, he was short. He just didn't look like or feel like a man. So he started to do it. He started doing steroids, and he's jacked. Now he's doing all the things well.

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Speaker 1: And steroids will do.

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Speaker 2: Steroids do help with doing that. You do need some discipline behind it. He does seem like he's very diswinted doing this. If I give him any type of flowers of discipline, he is doing something every day, okay, but his thought behind it is so surface level of this look maxing bullshit that he's taking steroids to do so. And this is a steroid that's used for livestock like and not good for your body. He's probably getting it from Mexico.

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Speaker 1: I'm assuming it was. I don't know.

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Speaker 2: I got two worked up because I quote tweeted it. Oh gosh, because again I'm just thinking like this to me is what happens when there's not a strong foundation at home. And I'm dead ass serious, like this is no we laugh to matic the looks Max. We could laugh about all we want, but it does, in a way kind of piss me off because you just see the domino effect when there's not a strong foundation at home for this young man. Because I'm looking at this young man and just service level reaction. If this was my son, I would whoop his ass. But then when you go deeper, I'm thinking it wouldn't. I don't even feel like it would ever get to that point because you're able to communicate with your son, or there's like this healthy fear that he would have, or respect that he would have, or obedience that he would have to where you're truly educating him on what the problem with this issue is. And also let's not get stop getting caught up about what everybody's doing on social media and what everybody's doing at school. Let's look a little bit deeper what the issue is. Because all this discipline and structure that you have daily that is phenomenal, It's the obstacle is the way you are taking the path the road less taken.

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Speaker 1: You can get there one day. Obviously, steroids do is something different to you, but you're doing it for all the wrong fucking reasons and the fact, he said, like he's in the interview and he sat there, He's like he was talking to his dad and he was like, his dad doesn't like it. His dad said he doesn't want him to do it, and he said, he basically communicated with his dad and we can I'm just gonna find this cut through this the part to where I'm able to just play this little part.

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Speaker 5: My dad isn't too supportive of it, and he was very like, like, what are you doing to yourself?

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Speaker 1: Like You're gonna hurt yourself. He's just like great for me.

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Speaker 7: I explained to him everything, told him like, hey, like I'm.

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Speaker 1: Doing this regardless.

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Speaker 5: Basically, even if you tell me not to do it, I'm still gonna do it.

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Speaker 6: So if I'm gonna do it, I'm gonna do it like in the.

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Speaker 1: Safest way possible. I just want you to know that.

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Speaker 8: I mean, like, I look, buddy, if I'm gonna do if I'm gonna do Heroin like just now, I'm gonna do it in the safest way possible.

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Speaker 3: Like I'm gonna do all my research and it's something that i want to do, I'm gonna do it. I know that steroids isn't up there with it, but with heroin, but just.

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Speaker 1: It's crazy, and just.

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Speaker 2: The fact that he like thinking his dad's not supportive of it, he doesn't want him to do it. I'm trying to put myself in that dad shoes, and then my son is telling me x y and Z and then I also try to put myself in the shoes of the sixteen year old. Let's go back to sixteen year old will will he see if I had this rebellious type of urge to go against something my parents felt strongly about, Like if I was if I was trying to do that dog with my with my parents, with my dad, bro, they would have whooped my.

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Speaker 1: Ass for trying.

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Speaker 2: And there would be okay, they wouldn't whoop my ass, but my dad if I pushed and rebelled and got to the point of, hey, I'm gonna do it whether you like it or not, my dad would have whooped my ass.

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Speaker 3: Yeah, because you're you're you're being disobedient.

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Speaker 2: Yes, And something that he was like a he was like an amateur bodybuilder, Like he worked out, he did all the things, so he would have knowledge in this to work. He would not only have a strong opinion but if I if I even had the kahonas to say I'm gonna do this whether you like it or not, that I can't even bring myself even to my sixteen year old state of mind to think that I would have the courage to say something like that because of that fear that you do have for your old man. Like it would never get to that point. But if it did, like I put up a funny response back uh the look maxing I would have received from my old man saying.

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Speaker 1: I'm gonna do it whether you like it or not. Buddy, he'd say, I'll show you what the fuck look maxing is, and he fucked me up.

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Speaker 3: I was about to say the quote unquote fear of God that was in as a teenager.

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Speaker 1: Would it deterred that? My my main note?

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Speaker 3: And I like I do not know enough about Clovicular as an individual.

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Speaker 1: He's like the person that's he's.

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Speaker 2: That influencer that does like the the in real life streaming or something.

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Speaker 3: Yes, I RL streaming. He's very much championed the looks maxing. He's championed like a lot of substance, like he'll he'll take a meth uh for like stimulants and dieting and like a bunch of crazy stuff regardless of clovicular like push that to the side. This is a tale as old as time of every single generation, and we're now we're now the parents. It's kind of crazy, like being on the side where it's like.

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Speaker 1: Like, hey, what the hell are the kids doing?

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Speaker 3: Because back in the day it was rock and roll and dancing and wearing skirts and you know, my kid, you know blah blah blah. Yeah, very different from taking steroids. Very different. But it is kind of like a like who are your kids idolizing Slash? What kind of standard or what kind of life are you living that they would want to idolize, Like what's in front of them around the house, being their mom or their dad, whether it's a girl or a boy.

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Speaker 1: And the fact that.

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Speaker 3: They are more willing to idolize and replicate a complete stranger on the internet over somebody that knows them very well and knows what's best for them Slash that they love and see every day, Like it kind of shows the importance of not only setting standards, but like setting an example and building that relationship with your kiddo. It sounds like this kid was just kind of.

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Speaker 1: He was floating in the ether.

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Speaker 3: If he's got to latch onto that, Yeah, you know what I mean, Like he was pretty directionless. If that's like right where he's going, right, I see what you're saying. I get what you're saying, because obviously the saying my dad would fuck me up. There's some like some humor I'm having in that, but knowing that that would have been like a real reality, but also it would have never gotten to that point with us to where I'm going against something that my parents feel strongly about. Not because there's anything that I have, I just now that I'm thirty six, now that I have a couple of kiddos of my own, Now that I look back or laughter back my old man would have did this to me, It's almost like, yeah, like you see why parents have to be firm and strong in protecting their child's like innocence for as long as you can, because you could get your kids could get off the path to idolize these certain individuals. And I don't know how much the parents are involved around and I'm not gonna say they're not. I don't like I want to Like when he's doing the interview, I'm seeing that they're in a nicer house or this and that. So I'm just curious of how involved in how much everything kind of goes on and plays into this, because to me, it just makes me think of this is this can be something that happens if you don't have that strong foundation connection and everything with your kiddos, because I'm like, man, it's a fear of dude, I hope there's never a conference.

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Speaker 2: Obviously, this is steroids. This is a masculine thing and for the boys and all that type of stuff. But even on the girls version, if I'm not getting into a spot to where like Rue or Scottie is in this, I'm sure they'll have rebellious phases, yes, but you want to keep their thumb on them so much to where it never gets to a point of where they feel like I'm gonna do something whether you like it or not. And them I'm so handcuffed mentally as a parent of you almost have to let this happen because what are you gonna do? Like, dude, anytime I like got in a had a like a rebellious moment of I'm gonna run away from home or I'm going to do something that's way out of character, way out of way, out of left field. My mom would literally look at me and say, go, I will help you pack your bags and get up from her chair and start going to my room, and hey, which clothes do you want to take? And then some like fear sets in, Like I'm younger at this point, I'm not sixteen, but it's almost like you almost have to be ready to cut them off. Hey, whatever you think you're trying to do, I will help you do that. And there's a point that obviously, as a parent, you don't want that to happen, but you almost have to position yourself in a way of I'm like, I will cut you off from everything going.

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Speaker 1: On, Like, you live in our house.

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Speaker 2: We pay the bills, we pay your tuition, we pay everything for you to live in function. All that's gonna Hey, give me your phone, like all this stuff's gonna wait. Go go ahead, go go operate on your own, see how far it takes you. But knowing that the bond and the love and everything is so strong, Like ultimately I know what I'm trying to think, Like if I'm a young kid and I'm having a rebellious moment to where I'm gonna do X, Y and Z.

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Speaker 1: I think I'm strong enough to like, I'm going to stand up to my parents right now. Yeah.

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Speaker 2: Yeah, But behind it as such has been such intention, love, bond, connection, protection, safety that damn they're really ready to just throw me out like that, to where.

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Speaker 1: There's almost the fear kicks in.

00:24:17
Speaker 2: You stay and then you kind of got them as a parent back where you want them, not in like a manipulative, negotiative type of way, but that's essentially what it is. But if you're bonding, the foundation's not strong. It's almost like the kid will sit there and throw the gill back at you. You never do this, you never do that. Blah blah blah. Okay, I will do this all on my own. They go off and try to do it on their own, and then they're telling all their friends, Yeah, I'm doing X, Y and Z. I'm kind of homeless right now, or I'm gonna go stay with my buddies. I'm like, man, what my parents did to me wrong? And YadA, YadA, YadA. This is such a longer, more in depth conversation. I'm kind of just spitting things out into the ether right now.

00:24:53
Speaker 3: You're fine, and again to like bring it back to a more concrete situation of like you're my dad.

00:25:01
Speaker 1: In this example, I am your son.

00:25:04
Speaker 3: Imagine all the steps that I have to take to your blind eye to get illegal prescribed steroids. Have a friend group or somebody that I interact with that's very pro this getting out of the house and you know, going to the gym and injecting myself with steroids and blah blah blah. Like there's a lot of absence or blind eye that you would have to give for me to even get to those steps.

00:25:34
Speaker 1: Does that make sense?

00:25:35
Speaker 3: Yeah, Like it's not very seldom do a does a kid wake up and go, you know what, dude, I'm gonna start juicing. I'm gonna start juicing today, and like I want girls to like me more. I want this to blah blah blah, and like the answer is steroids. Like this kid has been searching for an answer for quite a while, and it seems like no structure in answers were really being thrown his way at home.

00:26:03
Speaker 1: Toy's getting the.

00:26:04
Speaker 2: Answer from the influencers from the internet versus having an answers or a safety to talk about it at home. Boom or your parents have such a pulse on you tour, maybe they noticed something or the first couple.

00:26:16
Speaker 1: Of weeks, Hey boy, yeah, yeah, Hey buddy, I saw that you're working out. Dude, that's awesome.

00:26:20
Speaker 3: Would you want to you know, hey, I need to get in a little bit of better shape too. Maybe we could start going to the gym like.

00:26:26
Speaker 1: Stuff like that. What's been on your mind? What's been on your mind? Now we're talking, because think.

00:26:31
Speaker 2: About it from the terms of this just seeing this, and again we're assuming a bunch of stuff, but you see this video. Yeah, if dad's having a hard time, and there was, and he's probably thinking back of where did.

00:26:46
Speaker 1: Things go wrong?

00:26:47
Speaker 2: Now that you're here, you have to accept the reality that is currently happening. Think of all the steps that you now have to take as a parent to carefully build back all these bridges, to speak to them or to get to them in a way that they are now listening. It's going to take so much longer now on the back end, or on this point moving forward, because it wasn't if you're able to look at yourself that closely as a parent to know I didn't do the necessary things to where now it got to this point and then you get into the regretful stage. I wish I would have done this. I wish I would have done that.

00:27:20
Speaker 1: Well, are you going to change it now now that you see that there is a massive problem that you're seeing in your household, that you are with your boy and you are nervous about his health And say, the kid just said if I die at thirty, I die at thirty, like he's Ivan Drago and Rocky. If I have a heart attack, if we die, we die, like he's to the point where he's saying that in an interview because I believe in looksmaxing, I believe in.

00:27:48
Speaker 3: That is capital t truth to him. It's almost a religion at this point. Yeah, a full buy in. And I'll say this another great healthy way. I sound like a therapist right now, but I feel like a great healthy way to show that you care for your kid to also be able to monitor them, keep tabs on them is showing interest and things that just kind of come out of nowhere so that you can kind of know the direction of where it's going. Like, yeah, I loved music as a.

00:28:20
Speaker 1: Kid and.

00:28:23
Speaker 3: Was, you know, doing piano and but really hated the piano lessons and my mom instead of you know, hey, Mom, I want to quit piano. What instrument do you really want to play? You don't like piano? What instrument do you want to play? I was like, well, I really I want to play the drums. Awesome, we're going to do this where you're going to do stuff around the house. You're gonna get money for a drum set, and let's get you some drum lessons so you can learn how to drum.

00:28:48
Speaker 1: I was like, hey, that's a I like that idea. Let's do that.

00:28:52
Speaker 3: I did drum lessons for like four years. When jerking came out, the teaching how to jerk brother, I got the high top bands, I got the skinny jeans, saving up money for it, going to the mall with your mom. I got it, Mom, I gotta wear this stuff. And had cardboard boxes out in our driveway practicing one handed like handstand like b.

00:29:16
Speaker 1: Boy style of ding.

00:29:17
Speaker 3: Oh yeah, And my mom's sitting there every step of the way going oh yeah, that's good. Oh Sherman, you're getting so much better at it. And it's like she's on fully, like you know, buying me these things are like telling me to go practice jerking the dance uff. But she's showing interest enough to have a pulse on me of like, this is something that Sherman's into. Hey, Sherman, would you want to take dance lessons? I was like, Mom, you're great. That's like, no, that's the dumbest.

00:29:45
Speaker 1: Thing in the world.

00:29:46
Speaker 3: That means embarrassing. I'm not doing that. Yeah, but like she was there every step of the way to see where that tangent would go. I know that's very different from steroids, but it like when you have a pulse on your kids.

00:30:00
Speaker 1: Yeah, you're you're right, bro. Like it's not like.

00:30:05
Speaker 2: We woke up today you want to come in and like shame this video this kid, or or saying things about this family.

00:30:14
Speaker 1: Yeah. Yeah, yeah.

00:30:15
Speaker 2: And obviously we sit there now we have our opinions or we say our things about the video. But ultimately it's like when I'm sitting there watching this video on my truck before I come into the shop, to me, it's like it's a these are things of fears you have.

00:30:27
Speaker 1: As parents of Like, God, I hope he doesn't get.

00:30:30
Speaker 2: To this point one day with my kiddos when they grow up and they become teenagers, and it just shows me that if you you aren't intentional about how you move with the majority of things in your kids' lives, like this is a ripple effect that could take place and happen.

00:30:45
Speaker 1: It's not like, hey, just naturally these things are.

00:30:47
Speaker 2: Yeah, some little blips on the radar are going to happen throughout the course of all the parenthood.

00:30:51
Speaker 1: Like that's that's a fact.

00:30:53
Speaker 2: But to think like your kicking go fully off the rails and do this just spontaneously out of nowhere, I'm I'm just saying that, that's to me, I'm calling bullshit, because yeah, I'm thinking you can do so many different foundational things.

00:31:06
Speaker 1: To where it honestly never even gets to this point. Yeah, there was no pulse on the kid because I see and I reacted. My god, I would beat my son's ass if this.

00:31:13
Speaker 2: And then it's like, okay, well, let's peel back, let's go through all the things of like the regret you probably feel on the reaction of just wanting to fight him, and'll be like, bro, what are you doing right now? This is terrible for you. This is unhealthy. Like we've been around the park. I've been around the park a few times and know how bad this is for you. No, you're not going to do this, But do you have such a strong relationship with them to whether they're actually hearing it or Oh, this is the first time my dad's ever taken interest in my life.

00:31:39
Speaker 3: And see where that's where we come in now is where the shit has hit the fan, and how your mom was able to go, Okay, let's see how you do on your own. She's been there every step of the way with you, and she knows how much she needs you, how much you need her.

00:31:58
Speaker 1: The foundation that y'all have.

00:32:00
Speaker 3: The realization that you'll have in your head when you get to the end of the driveway with your overnight bags and you're like, what the fuck.

00:32:07
Speaker 1: Am I doing? You know what I mean to where he doesn't have that.

00:32:12
Speaker 3: So when kiddo is going, he's like, oh shit, like he really will go because I haven't. I've been so out here. He truly doesn't need me and is on this path himself. So now I have to like come in and I'll help in any way. Oh, you need money for the steroids. Here's some money for the steroids. As long as I'm still in your life and you're grasping for straws.

00:32:36
Speaker 2: At that point, it's too late, yeah, well said, well said, because his his goal and safety and vision is now, Like well, not is now, but it has been tied to like social media. Yeah, like the external all the external things that he's feeding his mind with.

00:32:52
Speaker 3: These guys on my computer and on my phone one have my back more than my dad does.

00:33:00
Speaker 1: That is that is his mindset right now. These guys will tell me the way these and my dad is such a fill in the blank that these guys aren't. These guys are the man.

00:33:10
Speaker 3: Yeah, yeah, and that's gonna that's gonna happen a million times over. Of like to bring it back to me again, of like I thought the guys on YouTube in the hood doing these like teach me how to jerk videos were the coal students on planet Earth, and I wanted to emulate that so bad. You with WWE like those guys, You're like, hell yeah, dude, Like these guys got it figured out. Every kid's gonna have their idols and like being able to attach yourself to your kiddo and support them in those endeavors of drum lessons, karate ballet, Jim Jim, like whatever, it is like being alongside them, for it is like the healthiest way to navigate that.

00:33:59
Speaker 1: Yeah, I don't know.

00:34:02
Speaker 3: Good not an expert nine months old, I don't know what I'm talking about.

00:34:08
Speaker 1: She looks Maxes. Scarlet does looks Max however in a healthy way, in a healthy and healthy way. She's been wearing sunglasses recently. Have we talked about this? How adorable or sunglasses? Oh, dude, and Scarlet loves the sunglasses. Loves them. There's dude, it's so fun throwing sunglasses on them.

00:34:29
Speaker 3: Oh and I picked out this outbit dude, and chef has the assets. We This is my crack a cold one, dude, crack it open, ollipop, Thank you all, Thank you, Shirley Temple.

00:34:42
Speaker 1: There's an actual way crack it. Speak it.

00:34:45
Speaker 3: And not to give you extra work on the back end, Chef, but this is my super crack of the cold one, three thousand, thousand thousand.

00:34:54
Speaker 1: Don't worry for this one. I will be adding in.

00:34:56
Speaker 3: This is a major crack a cold one because we did have We went to stokehouse that has spelled h a U s h the German stuckhoffs uh spelling and it's a brewery slash barbecue place, and we did a little PT six get together with Chef and Deeke and myself and I brought Scarlet along.

00:35:17
Speaker 1: It Wasth's birthday PT friendship meet up. I know Deek was busting my balls about a friend's lunch that I missed, and now I'm hearing that it's it was a PT six that lunch.

00:35:31
Speaker 4: It was a sponsored ollipop Nana cam Wayfair.

00:35:34
Speaker 1: Boys know each other. Bring your daughter? Yes, we all we all have the safety glass gable. You don't like these And just to be clear, this happened on Friday. This happened on Friday, your daughter's birthday. Just to help you, we just did.

00:35:52
Speaker 3: Yes, And uh, dude, it's really my krackticle. One is I love that I've gotten to a place with Scarlet. Through the challenges that I've received from Jill, from yourself, from other friends that have just lived life with their I'm talking infancy kiddos, like getting out of the house with your little ones. I've now gotten to a place where I'm like, I'm going to Stokehouse with these guys, to this brewery, no questions asked. I'm bringing Scarlet. What do I need? I need her bag. Oh man, she's been loving sunglasses. She has those sunglasses that are kind of like a burnt orange color, and she's got this little outfit I could throw on her. Mom's gonna love that. I'll throw in that outfit with the sunglasses. Oh, I'll get the high chair table that connects to the table. It's gonna be easy. I know she loves mac and cheese. Do they have mac and cheese? Deeks like yeah, I'm pretty sure. Great, then this is gonna be an awesome endeavor. We had some adult bevies. We're just having a time, and there was like zero stress to that situation, and like not the pride, but just like the joy that I had of like walking in with my girl, like right there and everybody in the little brewery that wasn't associated with us seeing her and like seeing their little face of like.

00:37:18
Speaker 1: My god, oh my god. And you're like, yeah, dude, I got this cute kid, and like she's out in the world and we're living life, and like it was just awesome, dude. That's why it's a super mega krackicle one three thousand. I love that.

00:37:33
Speaker 2: And bonus, were you about to cry? Don't you see the shine on his eyes.

00:37:40
Speaker 3: The shine, for sure, but not the not.

00:37:43
Speaker 1: This doesn't fully get there like you're composed.

00:37:46
Speaker 2: It's like the composure you have when tears are about to come.

00:37:51
Speaker 1: Yes, got you.

00:37:52
Speaker 3: That muscle has been very much worked out in flex to where like I didn't have that before the show. This show has vastly helped me to not just go into crime out, I cried, quoting Hardball. Dude, don't forget about that.

00:38:10
Speaker 2: Dude, the story the cracker Cole won. That fires me up. You should be proud man, because I do. I feel like and we know this. When you're a new parent, a lot of times you feel so tied and locked to the structure and the scheduling of your kids to where your kids because they do your kids ultimately decide, like what your decisions are going to be with everybody. Yes, but a lot of times you're so tied to they have to do naps, Like obviously naps, they should be doing naps, but you know people like they have to nap in the crib, They have to nap at home. It has to be from one to three, it has to be they have to eat their lunch at this time. It has to be this meal. It can't be a meal on the go.

00:38:47
Speaker 3: It has to be a bottle casts a bottle.

00:38:50
Speaker 2: Yeah, Like some things you have, you're non negotiables that you kind of prepare for when you leave the door and go out of the house. But just the freedom that you where I'm like, dude, you should be super proud the freedom that you have of just knowing I am going to go to lunch with the boys like you guys pick a time. All this time kind of goes in line where it kind of leaks into what naptime would be or what nap time is going to be, and then the thought of Li's like, dude, I'm bringing the kiddoh, or I'm bringing the kiddos and they'll be able to nap a little bit on the in the car if that, if need be, What are all the things I need to bring because we're going to go and get out and they're going to be a part of my world versus me just being so immersed and doing everything in their world to where I'm saying no to everybody else and then I'm chulling. Then next you know, you have the anxiety and urge like God, I've got to get out of the house. I feel like I'm going to prison.

00:39:36
Speaker 1: Stir crazy, you stir crazy? Yeah, man.

00:39:38
Speaker 3: And what was so fun is we had a great time. Chef had to get to something deaconized, stayed for like Actra forty five fish and I totally missed Scarlett's bottle at two and so I looked at the I literally did a oh fuck, Like what time is it.

00:40:00
Speaker 1: You're grabbing for your keys. It was two forty five, and I was like, I gotta go. I got it.

00:40:04
Speaker 3: And then I was like, oh wait, no, I packed her bottle. I have all this stuff here. She can just eat here and we'll push nap time and all that stuff. And like being able to kind of go with the flow because you're coming.

00:40:17
Speaker 2: Or they've always only taken a heated bottle. Oh I forgot to heat the milk. Yeah this is cold. Then your brain goes.

00:40:24
Speaker 3: To, let's see if they like some cold milk. Yea, Then they try it.

00:40:27
Speaker 2: They might drink it and be like, oh snap, I just kind of found a little dad hack for our little world. Say she doesn't like it, then you're trying to figure out the pivot of we're inside of a restaurant. Hey, I got my eight month old. Is there any way I could get some hot water any way to warm this up to where they do? And then they bring the bottle back and you just solved all the problems because you're just going with the flow and like, hey, I need to find a way to make this happen. Then if you get to a total dead end, you might have to go home, But no matter what, you're trying to like exhaust all options of being on the go, like Charlo. We get so proud that Charles was big on we're going to travel with them, We're going to hey, if we're going to the farmer or like getting out of the house doing this, Like they're going to adapt more to our world with the structures that we have around them, So we're going to need all the things that we need to go with them. And it is like it is fucking hard at times, Like it is shitty when you're on a flight and they won't calm down or they need all these things and they're ainsy or they're a busy body. Like all the shit that you go through to make some of your travel planes or vacations or weekends or having an afternoon like for those things to happen, like they make no mistake. The shit is difficult, it is, but now like Rubing four, like she just feels so much more adapted to being a kid that like we're gonna be on the go, we're gonna be doing this to where she's even thinking of things or Scotty might need this, yeah, or she communicates what she needs, but she's just so she's getting so well versed and so adapted to us just being kind of a busy family or on the move at all times. Now you're just like you're happy that you did those things.

00:42:02
Speaker 3: Yes, dude, it is like an introduction into your life for the kids. Yeah, so that you're adapting to their needs, but they're also adapting to yours because those will be their needs eventually. Those needs for social interaction, for outdoor time, yeah, for hobbies that like bring them joy, for just their curiosity, curiosity like.

00:42:26
Speaker 2: Dead at Why are we standing in the security Why? Why is it called the security line? Why do we have to stand in here? Why are there so many people? What number do I have to look for?

00:42:36
Speaker 1: Like the gate?

00:42:37
Speaker 2: Like she knows like her ABC's and she knows the one, two, three's all that stuff to where you're like learning all the go with them, like you're having these little fun moments. Hey, fine gate, we're looking for B and A nine. You got to look up on these across these ways and you try to find B nine.

00:42:54
Speaker 1: For dead well, why are they up there? And you're explaining to them why they're up there.

00:42:58
Speaker 2: People got to be able to see. It can't be low because it wouldn't be able to be visible.

00:43:02
Speaker 1: What if they were down there?

00:43:03
Speaker 2: So that way, like let me pick you all the way up. You put them on your shoulder. You see how you can see all the way down the hallway. That's why they do this, dad, Why are you looking at the screen trying to see where our check baggage claim.

00:43:14
Speaker 1: Is going to be? What's check baggage claim? Dude?

00:43:18
Speaker 2: A great question, great question. But they're like they're learning in real time. And then the next iterations that you do where you're traveling, they almost they start to get a foundation of like what the process looks like.

00:43:29
Speaker 1: And then it's just cool to see. Yeah, dude, there is cool.

00:43:32
Speaker 2: You see them kind of have the knowledge or learn or like ask the right questions. Yes, oh we do this because this dude, you're right, good job, yes.

00:43:41
Speaker 3: And there is so much education to be had in books and flashcards, et cetera. Yeah, we do flashcards. Y'all have a great little game. This was a while ago. Y'all might not even do it anymore with rough where y'all have this little game where Charlo was like, now, really look outside is it sign?

00:44:00
Speaker 1: Is it overcast?

00:44:01
Speaker 3: Is it kind of cloudy? And she puts or busyboard? Yeaheap, and well what time is it? Okay, you put on this time and there's like what day of the week, What day of.

00:44:10
Speaker 1: The week is it? Yeah?

00:44:12
Speaker 2: The degree range outside and the like how hot is it going to be? Like finding the sixty find in the seventies?

00:44:18
Speaker 3: Like there there's stuff to be learned inside, but then like the real life application of it of getting out of the house even when they're little. And I am no expert, but like everybody, all of my closer ends were like, there's no shot in hell that you're going to Waco, Texas for Auburn Baylor with an eight eight week old. You are a psychopath, your psycho, and it's not going to happen. And I'm so glad that we did it because it really did set that benchmark of if we were able to do that when she was eight weeks.

00:44:53
Speaker 1: We're on cruise.

00:44:54
Speaker 3: Control as far as like how much easier this gets, and it does. Jill's like we said, she stole my daughter away from me this week.

00:45:04
Speaker 2: And yeah, and you just you get like again, it's like did you should be proud? It's like, as parents, you just get proud of yourself because you did challenge yourself to do like, hey.

00:45:14
Speaker 1: You're a psycho. Oh we shouldn't do that. Why shouldn't we do that?

00:45:16
Speaker 2: And they kind of tell you maybe some good reasons why I get that. Maybe you pivot back to, well, you don't do the thing because hey, I wasn't thinking about all of these things, or you see it as like, oh.

00:45:27
Speaker 1: I like her chances, we'll figure it out.

00:45:29
Speaker 3: And to you, we are not experts, not experts. Your kid is susceptible to stuff at eight weeks. Totally get it if you're not going to travel for those reasons, and that's very smart of you. Like I'm not saying you're a good parent if you do one or the other.

00:45:44
Speaker 1: Yes, yeah, zero zero.

00:45:46
Speaker 2: Like Charle was listening last week and she was like what did you say about how Scarlett like drops her passy on the floor or can't put it back in the round?

00:45:54
Speaker 1: Where was she at the airport? At the airport?

00:45:57
Speaker 2: At the airport and Charlo and I were laughing like we kind of just let it ride when it hits the ground and put it back in. But then if you're like Johnny on the spot is an extreme example, but if you're in a very dirty like if it's like in a bathroom or in a stall and it hits clean it off. But I'm thinking, yeah, like in the middle of an airport, Like in the middle of the airport, it drops on the ground, he picked that back up, like get it back in. Hey, there's ay thousand different ways of skinny cat, the amount of times I've done yeah, yeah, hell yeah, yeah yeah.

00:46:27
Speaker 1: But you know, wife, he's standing right there. I'm in the airport.

00:46:30
Speaker 3: Oh yeah, oh we got next one in the back.

00:46:32
Speaker 1: You're right, honey, Well.

00:46:34
Speaker 2: Yeah, you know, like right now we're trying to speaking of the thousand different ways of skin a cat. We're chowing rue like we had Shepherd's pie last night. You know, in Shepherd's pie, you got the ground beef, you got the PE's, you got the carrots, you got the potatoes. It's all kind of mixed together, and Rue's not like she identifies something that in her brain. She's not liking that. We have to go to Daniel Tiger. It's fun to try new things because it my taste good. What would Daniel Tiger say? Cause she's like, you know, she's for whatever reason, doesn't like peas, or since carrots are cut in a small little way, she doesn't like carrots. Dude, you don't know what you like. You gotta try it, because she would heat the beef. She likes the beef, but she's kind of picking through it. I'm just like, dude, come on, like, just scoop it up. You want to mix the mash potatoes in it. See how you take the fork and you kind of stirred. It makes it a little creamy and dreamy.

00:47:20
Speaker 1: Scoop it up. I promise you you won't taste the peas, you won't taste the carrots.

00:47:25
Speaker 2: You will taste the ground beef that you're tasting, and a little bit of those massed potatoes.

00:47:28
Speaker 1: That you like.

00:47:29
Speaker 2: Hey, we're trying to get her to do it, but charls like a lot of ways to skin a cat, sweetheart, And I'm like, she said it.

00:47:35
Speaker 1: She was saying it to Rue. She said it to Rue wanted to try something like, yeah, you can do that a lot of ways to skin a cat. And I just kind of chuckled myself on Rudy, you know how to skin a cat? See me and the boys. But I was.

00:47:53
Speaker 2: Cracker, maybe dude, you one today?

00:47:59
Speaker 1: You want bedtime? We But Bro, I had a oh my gosh, I had a tweet a post over the weekend where I couldn't believe Rue had turned oh four? Where Rue had turned four.

00:48:20
Speaker 3: You kind of had a self reflecting moment.

00:48:22
Speaker 2: Yeah, just to continue to fill space, continue to feel.

00:48:25
Speaker 1: Sec the way turning four. Yeah, absolutely, Bro.

00:48:30
Speaker 2: In Easter Acuns, we'll get into the Easter eight guns, and I want to learn about the Nanty conversation. My post was I can't believe my daughter just turned four. Time goes by way too fast and I absolutely hate it. I know I have a ways to go, but my takeaway so far, the worst part about being a parent is watching them grow up. Obviously, we talked about that, yes in depth a little bit last week on last week's episode. It's not the tantrums, not the late night wake ups, not having to go back up to her room for thirty minutes to talk to her about how wolves want attack her while she sleeps. That's on me for including me and wolves in her make believe story, but essentially cherish every moment it goes.

00:49:05
Speaker 1: Way too fast.

00:49:06
Speaker 2: But going back up to talk to her about wolves and story time and skin of casts to bring it all the way back around. She we're now in this phase to where she doesn't want books currently right now, for like the last I would say week, she wants stories from us, stories, which kind of challenges you as a parent because now you're you're legitimately trying to storytell. How many stories can you just make up in your brain? I'm tying into okay, I'm like, what characters do you want to be in it? She always wants Tigy, She always wants Princess Cerulian in the story. So I just grab any Disney movie that I have. Lion King, that's genius, Bugs, Life Tangled, Angels in the outfield. It could be angels in the ones that like you know well that you've seen a lot that you remember back in the day, and then you just insert said characters and then make up all the other characters.

00:50:04
Speaker 1: But once she wanted it to be.

00:50:07
Speaker 2: A mountain, Princess Cerulian, Zooey that was a name we kind of made up in one of the stories. Zooey, Tigi, Tige's friends. But Tiger's friends got to be the bad guys, got to be bad.

00:50:18
Speaker 1: But she's kind of.

00:50:19
Speaker 2: Given me a lot of parameters to where it kind of cuffed me to.

00:50:24
Speaker 1: How I could storytell.

00:50:26
Speaker 3: Sounds like the producer needs to get out of the writing room.

00:50:29
Speaker 1: Kind of, yeah, I needed, I need to implement that standing. Yeah, but it got it to where I basically did the Bugs Life story to where they go off Princess.

00:50:42
Speaker 2: Serulian and Tigi. They have to deliver food to tie or not. Princess Serulian and Zooe were the good guys in the story. She wanted Tiger to be a bad guy with his friends. Okay, Tigi was a hopper, the bad guys in Bugs Life. So Princess Seruli and she wanted the town to be called beautiful to where there's beautiful trees, beautiful grass, beautiful flowers. So I have to involve this entire story of Once upon a time, there's Princess Serulian and Zooey, and they lived in this place called beautiful trees, grass flowers, and they lived the happiest life to effort. The only but the only thing they had to do to continue to live happy was to deliver food once a month to Tigi and his bad guy friends. Every month, Tiger and his bad guy friends would come in and they would collect the food that Princess Serulian and Zoe would round up. With everybody in the town, all the people, all the animals, all the insects. They'd round up the food, deliver it to have it setting out for Tige and the bad guys. Tiger and his friends, they'd pick it up and they'd go on their way to One day, all the food they set it out in, this big gust of wind came through. Are you guys familiar? Pretty good?

00:51:48
Speaker 1: Bugs Life? So are you guys sticking? Are you staying with me? At the first what fry? Yeah? Oh yeah, I'm a bugs Life or the main character in Bugs Life, I forget his name, but he's out there something like flip or yeah, yeah, something like that, click flick, there we go.

00:52:06
Speaker 2: He like messes up and hits like the rock and all the food falls down into the river. Yeah, I'm just there's no flick in this one. The wind picks it up, blows it away. So Zooey decides she's going to go off on her own to find some friends from a nearby town to gather some food. Those friends' names, I'm like, what do you want those friends namesed to be? She's like, hook, boom, great flick by Dean Dean, Yeah, dude, deep and Bear, let go. But as she's going to the town, she has to go through a forest. In the forest, I'm thinking, all right, what what scary things could be in the forest, because this is a journey. You got to take them on a journey. Yeah, have all my brain thought of was wolves. And all of a sudden, she's in the she's she's in the forest. She sees the town light from down the road. It's dark out, and all she sudden she hears and she's like she kind of like leans up out of bed, no like.

00:52:57
Speaker 1: And then then Zooey hears we'll start chasing zooeys. Ooh, he's running hook Dean and Bear right at the end by line, Hey, just get to us, We'll save you from the wolves.

00:53:09
Speaker 2: They make it to them, they save them from the wolves, the wolves from back in there. Zooey tries to break down, Hey, here's what I need help with. We got to gather food for Tiger because Tiger made a visit and said, if you don't deliver food. I'm like, I can't say I'll kill you, So I'm like, we'll throw you in a cave.

00:53:24
Speaker 1: And trap you there forever. Oh no, Sue.

00:53:26
Speaker 2: He's breaking it down. All of the friends in this town, this nearby town, they're like, Dean, Hook and.

00:53:32
Speaker 1: Bear, Hey, we'll help you, We will help you.

00:53:35
Speaker 2: The stipulation they got to go into the forest and gather all this food and I'm just naming all Roo's favorite foods like yogurt, me eggis, met meal, meat stick, bananas, blueberries, all over the gathering on the firs by. But then the wolves found Zooey, Bear, Hook, and Dean. Now you need a sacrifice in this moment story, how are they going to get out of the forest.

00:54:01
Speaker 1: Don't do Dean, don't sacrifice Dean, Zooey, Dean.

00:54:04
Speaker 2: And Hook, We're going to continue and run. Was going to sacrifice himself. She wanted Bear to growl and roar.

00:54:11
Speaker 1: At the wolves. Yeah, bro, okay, so bears like you guys go, I'll stay back.

00:54:17
Speaker 2: Kee's having his heroic moment in his in the hero's journey. Well, they save themselves. They go to Princes Serrul and they have the food. They're all happy. Hey, Zooey, Hook, Dean, Why are you guys sad? We lost Bear? But meanwhile in the forest, no, Bear defeats. Yeah, Bear defeats the wolves. And right when they were trying to live happily ever after, and Zooey and Hook and Dean they.

00:54:40
Speaker 1: Were still sad. Out walks Bear plea made it.

00:54:44
Speaker 3: Please tell me you got Scrilla playing on your phone as you yeah, out of the forest, stay here, subtle music.

00:54:55
Speaker 1: Bears just slow mo coming out of the brush. God, why rush that story? You crossed?

00:55:02
Speaker 2: That Rue was leaning up out of her bed like they're hitting all the moves, So I tuck her in. We like she's asking all the questions about the story. Why are they a bed?

00:55:11
Speaker 1: Guy?

00:55:11
Speaker 2: Well, you wanted them to be about so I had to kind of that kind of had to be their role. Go downstairs. Rufe starts crying. Mom goes up. Mom comes down, Hey, what story did you tell her? Oh, did you talk about wolves? It's like, yeah, I was kind of just thinking on my feet. I need I needed a moment of adversity while they were trying to go through the forest, and all I could think about were the wolves. And she's like, well, now she's scared of wolves. Like she sees shadows on the wall, the sound light, the sound machine. The light's too bright, so I have to turn down the sound machine because she's scared of the shadows. She thinks the wolves are going to get her. And I'm like, you're living and you learn. Then fifteen minutes later, Rue starts crying again. I go up there because I'm like, all right, I did this. Rue's scared because she has so much fear that she can't get out of her bed to turn up the light because she can't see anything now, and she's scared of all the walls being black, And so I got a lay there with her, talk to her about wolves. Hey, no wolves are gonna get you in the house. There's no wolves in the house. There's no wolves in your room, there's no wolves in the house, there's no wolves outside. And she's like but there are wolves in the forest. I'm like, oh, there's wolves in the forest, like far far away. But I'm sweetheart, it's all make believe. Like Dad is just telling stories. Dad is just doing make believe. I'm pretending there's no wolves even close to us. Yeah, are wolves black white, gray, brown, black?

00:56:22
Speaker 1: Yeah, she'solve doesn't matter the wolves. Wolves are in the forest, like we have forests outside, sweet those are just trees. While all the trees they're close, they're close together, so it's like a forest. Like that's a great point, but they're not. They're they're sweetheart. You gotta go to sleep. There's no wolves. There's no wolves. Chef had a great point too. She had a great because I was telling Chef about this yesterday. Yeah, I gotta I gotta fix uh. I told Will. First thing he needs to do is say, sweetheart.

00:56:51
Speaker 6: I am a wolf. They're good and bad wolves, so you just want to stay with him bad ones. And then the forest part, you go, No, that's the woods. That's just the woods. The forest is. The forest is far. It's no homes.

00:57:02
Speaker 9: Around the forest. There's a lot of forest. Is a special place. That's just the woods behind behind the house. Yeah, Forest, Canada, Woods, America. Yeah, are we in America still?

00:57:15
Speaker 1: Oh it's just the woods. Oh are we in Nashville, Tennessee. Oh it's just the woods. Go to sleep.

00:57:21
Speaker 3: Well, Chef had the exact same idea as me, and not to like bring levity just for a laugh, But I really would have loved to see you pull up your whoever made that like real rudimentary highlight tape of you with like the intro where it's just the text on screen of your NFL highlights.

00:57:40
Speaker 1: It's like will Compton number fifty one, the wolf.

00:57:43
Speaker 3: And it's like the image of a wolf and you being like like coming out of the smoke and truly being like, your dad is a wolf, but I'm a good wolf. And look how I took care of all these other wolves. Like I think that would open something up for her of Hey, I'm.

00:58:02
Speaker 1: Like, oh my dad can turn into a wolf. Yeah, my dad, Well he can turn to a wolf. That he's a good wolf, a good wolf. He's a good wolf. He's a good one. And maybe she's too young for that.

00:58:11
Speaker 4: You solved this before one of my first episodes, we had a caller call in how his kid thought they had a monkey in the room and we said they should put out anti monkey stickers. Oh and so I'm just saying it sounds like an anti wolf sticker.

00:58:24
Speaker 3: Such a wa Yeah, I forgot yeah wolf spray dude with the airsols.

00:58:28
Speaker 1: That's what I need to go.

00:58:29
Speaker 2: Yeah, dude, wolve part of the night to where when you're doing storytime instead of books, you're taking way longer doing storytime because you're having to like think on your feet the whole time. I'm caught up and I gotta have like these moments of like keeping her on her toes, and it takes so long, and then they want to have a recap of the entire story. So you just get to wear your run down. After doing bedtime for a certain period of time, you're going down, ready to kick your feet up. Now she's crying, she's scared. Okay, I did this. Let's go put these fires out. But I need to to flip the swing.

00:59:00
Speaker 1: Mike, secret stuff, dude.

00:59:02
Speaker 3: Go to Walgreens, get a cleaner spray bottle, tape over it, wolf spray water in there, surpriser tonight, Honey, look what I got at the store.

00:59:13
Speaker 6: I think one last point is when you're doing a story like this, always give a descriptor of like a far far away land. This happened, and this happened far far away. This doesn't even exist around me. That's that way you can. You can say whatever you want in the story and go, no, that's the forest and blah blah blah, it's far far it's we'll never even go there.

00:59:34
Speaker 2: Next, I know she'll she'll have me up with her little globe in the room and back. Can you show me where? Yeah, all right, it's over here in Japan. You're opening some more doors.

00:59:44
Speaker 6: But I think that's a good like you're putting the expectation first that hey, this is not anywhere.

00:59:49
Speaker 1: This is in in Tennessee. Yes, this is in Ukraine. It will will.

00:59:57
Speaker 3: I would be remissed if I'm being so. Since hearing this, we brought up Stokehouse, the barbecue play shout out no free shoutoutouts. A lot of people we've been seeing comments, Hey, when you're gonna let chef talk about turkey, when you're gonna let him talk about the truck. I would love to let chef talk about the pulled pork at Stokhouse.

01:00:16
Speaker 1: If we have a brief moment for you, is that. Okay, Am I getting the green light? Oh? Is he getting? What? Am I getting the green light? Is he getting the green light? Lights? Me go green? You're getting the green light? Chef? All right, yeah we are all I want to hear about the pool.

01:00:33
Speaker 6: Lady Derek invited me this place, and I had no clue that Derek had not been there.

01:00:37
Speaker 1: Derek is, he's been on a run. There's no other way to say. The heater. He's on a heater. Do we show up?

01:00:42
Speaker 6: This place is very unassuming now, will say, I'm gonna walk in. They had an offset smoker sitting in the side that looked like it was three hundred years old. That's a good sign now. And also let me preface I am. I take a lot of pride in my barbecue. I take a lot of pride in rating it and caring about it. And I take very much pride and how I rate given and respect it deserves. Will this place limited menu? All it does in meats is pull pork memphistyle pork ribs, and then on Saturday Sundays they do brisket.

01:01:12
Speaker 1: Am I correcting that it's very Texas style brisket? Yeah it is.

01:01:16
Speaker 6: I didn't we didn't the brisket. It was Friday, so they didn't. They weren't doing the brisket. I got a half pound of pulled pork, and uh, that's my go to. I'm a pull pork guy, like Carolina style. I like a vinegar sauce. Come on, it's the best. I've been thinking about the slot of the weekend. It is the best pull pork in Tennessee. And I don't say that lightly. They do a heavy bark over it. And what they do is they soak it in a vinegar and that gives it this juice and this tang. It's my kind of style. I'm not as much on the sweet barbecue. I like to have the tang in it. It did that. And my next favorite think of barbecue is Memphistyle dry rubber ribs, and they had some of the best. I wouldn't put them over like a Rendezvous and Memphis, But I mean overall, I was shocked. Limited menutube, the mac and cheese is greatly curly. Fries were incredible. Plantains, yes, smoked plantains.

01:02:08
Speaker 1: Talk to him.

01:02:09
Speaker 6: It was the smokehouts and I was I was floored. I think Derek and my reaction I was kind of like in a shock. I didn't know what to say during it.

01:02:16
Speaker 1: But Derek, unfortunately my favorite part of Chef's experience. Chef was doing a review on snapchat. Were you recording? Yeah? He was recording himself.

01:02:29
Speaker 3: As he was taking bites will and I swear to God, this is how fast his rating of the pull pork was recording himself. He goes, pull pork looks pretty good. Let's get about seven out of ten. That fast, seven out of ten.

01:02:45
Speaker 1: Seven.

01:02:47
Speaker 6: I think I don't remember the number it was. I don't remember the number I gave. I don't know if I gave it a number.

01:02:52
Speaker 1: Maybe I'm wrong.

01:02:53
Speaker 3: But the review, the review, we might have just been lost in the experience.

01:02:56
Speaker 1: I was lost in the experience. I was just watching Chef work.

01:02:58
Speaker 3: The review was as fast as Dave Portinoy giving a pizza zero point zero. You know when he like does it's yeah?

01:03:05
Speaker 1: I mean he.

01:03:06
Speaker 6: Was it, And I wonder if it's recent bias.

01:03:10
Speaker 1: Like that's where I've been.

01:03:10
Speaker 6: There's a place in East Tennessee called Ridgewood, that's up in Johnson City, Old Guss's Mountain Pit, Sweetwater, Tennessee. Those are places I have high. I'm wondering, like do I need to go back and retry? And then there's places out east to Memphiss and Jackson. So it's a but man, I was I was shocked. I was very happy.

01:03:32
Speaker 1: Will we got to know.

01:03:34
Speaker 6: I know it's your daughter's birthday, but yeah, hell yeah, we should have found a way.

01:03:38
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01:04:30
Speaker 3: Slash PWTV did should we knock out some comments?

01:04:33
Speaker 1: Please?

01:04:33
Speaker 2: Please, let's knock out some comments. I have a couple just from last week, just from last Let's do that. Josh Jacobs is back on the show again. Get a shout out on the pod. Good get mistaken for the Josh Jacobs good in the words Alan, in the words from Alan from the Hangover, Your Josh is a white laughing cry emoji's face.

01:04:53
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01:05:16
Speaker 3: We're very hands off in the same way you would be with really close friends and setting them up on a blind date and you don't want to ruin.

01:05:23
Speaker 1: The Yeah, you don't like getting the dynamic.

01:05:25
Speaker 3: We all of a sudden we kind of felt like, oh we did we go too into the can we put to much pressure?

01:05:30
Speaker 1: Yeah? Yeah we're sorry. Yeah sorry?

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01:05:44
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01:05:45
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01:07:29
Speaker 2: I have a little girl that was born on March twenty sixth, twenty twenty six, at three twenty two am. Labor is a process, and wow, what the women do is truly amazing. My wife we got married courthouse for the wind, pushed for five hours, had to do an emergency c section, so I couldn't be there at the time my daughter was born. My wife was under anesthesia, so she shows she couldn't even hold her. Now five days with this little one, and she is our whole world. Your guys' podcast has been awesome in preparation and through the unknowns, the hard times and the ups and downs already. I just think of you guys and have love for the show. Fucking love you guys, and proud to be a part of Papa Team six. And yes, she's been deep asleep in my arms writing this while the wife he is getting suppressed.

01:08:11
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01:08:16
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01:08:39
Speaker 2: IT i have a hubby shout out here From gray C heflin On. Instagram, HI i was wondering if you guys could do a shout out for my fiance on his birthday On april. Eleventh it's, seventh oh, see it's while people are listening up three days he's turning thirty. Two could you guys shout him out on the podcast you released just before his. Birthday he is a first time. Dad we welcomed our baby, Girl beckham In july of twenty twenty. Five we listen to your podcast weekly and we'll look forward to them so. Much his name Is Skyler, brownlow Brown, Low, Brownlow, Brownlow. Brownlow that seems Like, brownlow and he's easily the greatest dad and partner in the. World if you could shout him out and let him know That grace And beckham love him so much and we are so proud of, him it would mean so much to me and. HIM i want him to feel incredibly. Special thanks for reading you, guys rock, Well, gracie we don't have it seems like this is a comment we would read and then just shout him out on our own, Naturally but just reading your comment all the way, through it feels like we just we knocked it all out of the.

01:09:45
Speaker 4: PARK a quick note from, HER i try when people send those in to match them up with the. Episode she sent that in the beginning Of, march so she had this in the. CHAMBERS i actually Asked, GRACIE i, said, hey can you dm us back closer to the episod pisode to remind?

01:10:00
Speaker 1: Us remind she hit me up. Yesterday you know what you. Are you're an uncle that. Cares you're an? Uncle how Now brown Lauw, Low Skyler Brown, Low happy, Birthday happy, Birthday.

01:10:15
Speaker 2: Skyler you are a sicko A skyler for your birthday to fun? Coupons?

01:10:23
Speaker 1: Oh what did? Those go? To shockwave and put a bow on? It? Oh what's that? Entail Happy? Birthday Happy? Birthday they listen to our podcast, weekly they know what it. Entails oh what is?

01:10:34
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01:10:38
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01:10:39
Speaker 3: That let's put a bow on? It what's Shock?

01:10:42
Speaker 1: Wave?

01:10:42
Speaker 2: Shockwave is that amusement park you walk, Into you go on the biggest, ride you have two minutes of absolute fun highs and, lows and then rest after?

01:10:50
Speaker 1: That is? It?

01:10:52
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01:11:01
Speaker 1: Wife he's.

01:11:02
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01:11:09
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01:11:16
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01:11:25
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01:11:26
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01:11:33
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01:11:35
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01:11:39
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01:11:42
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01:11:43
Speaker 1: Yeah, yeah birthdays and thanks for Writing.

01:11:47
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01:12:18
Speaker 4: Hum magic gum up until we put the graphic on. SCREEN a lot of people wrote in that they assumed That superpower had Magic.

01:12:28
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01:12:51
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01:13:07
Speaker 4: Bunch we just haven't tried it on the show, yet and we HAVE i haven't Tried twist my.

01:13:14
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01:13:26
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01:13:32
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01:13:36
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01:13:44
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01:14:04
Speaker 1: Children are we? Excited should we dive into THE? Mlnc?

01:14:08
Speaker 2: Yeah the military. Families thank you guys for your. SERVICE I Pt. Sichos this Is Celeste. Gonzalez i've recently become A Milk team sixer over here thanks to my.

01:14:18
Speaker 1: Husband my name Is.

01:14:19
Speaker 2: Celeste to my, Husband Jacob gonzalez AND i love listening to The alls podcasts. Together it's become one of our favorite. Hobbies i've literally stalked him up on all of your merch all in caps, lock, dude shout Out, Celeste thank YOU bwtv dot. Com just wanting to give him a shout out on your pod for being the best dad of our two baby, Girls olivia And. Chloe we also have the girl. CURSE i died When will was chanting about break the girl curse literally lives rent free in my.

01:14:47
Speaker 1: Head ha.

01:14:47
Speaker 2: Ha he's such a good, husband, selfless, patient, loving and so much. More we just got stationed In. Germany he is A k nine handler in The. Army we're definitely excited to, travel but also nervous since this is our, First, uh this is our FIRST PCs as a.

01:15:03
Speaker 1: FAMILY.

01:15:05
Speaker 2: PCs, yeah look that. Up this is our first UH PCs as a. FAMILY i want to say thank you for spreading positivity and being a dad in parenthood because it is truly a blessing to raise kids with someone you. Love your podcast gives us so many laughs and positivity in the way you all, parent especially being girl.

01:15:22
Speaker 1: Dads to thank, You Celeste.

01:15:24
Speaker 4: GONZALEZ PCs stands for a permanent change of. Station it's an, official non optional relocation for military, personnel typically lasting two or four, years moving service members to new duty. Stations so that is a permanent change of. Station they were restating in there for two to four and that.

01:15:41
Speaker 3: Could be From california To. FLORIDA i mean you can go clear across and overseas and.

01:15:47
Speaker 1: Yeah they just got stationed In. Germany Bro, go, dude what a change that would.

01:15:51
Speaker 2: Be that's the one where it's just like you're obviously tied to that career and it's, like, yes you can't do, anything but in RaSE it right if you want to Keep once she talks about the positive attitude and parenting and being a partner and all the things like you have a sudden change like.

01:16:07
Speaker 1: That that can't be easy.

01:16:09
Speaker 2: Whatsoever, yep we're gonna go live In germany for two to four years around the military.

01:16:15
Speaker 3: Base oh you love your school and you love your friends at your. School, hey guess, what get ready to spreck in The Deutsch we're going To, germany which opah would love that would, love would love The?

01:16:28
Speaker 1: Uh what is it In? Munich the Hoffbor house In? Munich? Oh, really you've traveled To.

01:16:36
Speaker 2: GERMANY i went To germany WHEN i got my sports orney of. Surgery that's run over, there got a sport earnia. Surgery was there for a couple of, days but we had the Hofbor house walked all like the, cathedrals all the steps like immerse ourselves In, Munich.

01:16:49
Speaker 1: Germany that's, sick a little key.

01:16:51
Speaker 2: Fun i'm sure they're gonna.

01:16:54
Speaker 1: Have a lot of fun doing.

01:16:55
Speaker 2: It i'm just, saying like a sudden change like, that and thinking about all this little gray space of anxiety and fears and nerves that you live in until you start to get acquainted with the new.

01:17:05
Speaker 3: Scenery, yes with this being the month Of Military Military, CHILDREN i want to make sure to Highlight.

01:17:12
Speaker 1: Taylor but for time.

01:17:13
Speaker 3: Purposes will is traveling later. Today i'm just going to quickly summarize What taylor wrote to.

01:17:20
Speaker 1: Us he served for twenty three years in The. Navy shout Out.

01:17:25
Speaker 3: Taylor so this is a not only A, ptsico but A ptsico with a lot of. Game and something that he wrote in his email THAT i, Loved as he, said if for dads there in the, military something that they need to. Hear if you're in like your child's, life be in. It and if you are, home be, home not just, physically but mentally and emotionally. TOO i know that there's probably a lot of stuff that's on these guys in gal's brains when they are off you, know not off, duty but in the reserves or back home or. Whatever AND i love That taylor gave that note for some. Game we also asked people to list their favorite barbecue sauce at the end of last. Episode taylor was kind enough to, say ps Head country barbecue. Sauce nice love always From Taylor. Hims that was On. Facebook thank you for writing In.

01:18:22
Speaker 1: Taylor, Yeah, taylor.

01:18:23
Speaker 2: Thank you for your service all those, words and you can, like obviously we don't know we're not in the. Military so when he's speaking to the military on, hey if.

01:18:30
Speaker 1: You're, home be, Home if you're, present be.

01:18:32
Speaker 2: Present, yeah BUT i feel like you do get an iteration or example of it in some of these movies that you get to, watch Like American. Sniper oh my, god When Bradley cooper's home and all he can think about is he's got to be, Back he's got to be back over there with his, boys or like you, know when the husband comes home and they're just like so wrapped up and everything else except being. Home, Yeah, okay your, daughter she just wants. You your, son he just wants you to be.

01:18:58
Speaker 1: Here it never, present you, know all those.

01:19:00
Speaker 3: Little oh, Yeah i'm sure that there's probably a bit of. THAT i know That rude didn't overlap too much WITH, nfl But i'm sure that there's probably a lot of that. Too with all THE nfl guys that you have on the, pod just hearing what it's like being in a professional sport and feeling so deprived from your. Kids those guys are still seeing their kids at least once a, week twice a. Week imagine these guys that aren't seeing their kids for months.

01:19:27
Speaker 2: Years, yeah, man, DUDE i could NEVER i. COULD i feel LIKE i could never do, it.

01:19:31
Speaker 1: And doing serving something that's so much bigger than.

01:19:34
Speaker 3: Themselves the amount of military affiliated listeners that we have on this, podcast, dude it's really. Cool what an awesome community to be not a part, of but like to feel like we have gotten to know them more and, more have gotten closer with, them and that they love this.

01:19:56
Speaker 1: Pod that's pretty.

01:19:58
Speaker 2: Cool, yeah and that's great by for anybody who's in any career that they. Love obviously the jobs are vastly. Different, yeah but the concept of being, present being at, home being when you're with your, kids be with your kids like, that that's great advice for literally, everybody because we all have jobs we.

01:20:15
Speaker 1: Love we all have jobs we.

01:20:16
Speaker 2: Sacrifice the light, for we sacrifice a lot. For where at times you're at, home Like i'm guilty of this as, well to where you were thinking about, work or you're thinking about the next, thing you're so wrapped up in, it or you're on your, phone to where you're not present or you're not there or, wife you might say something to, you or you just catch yourself or you just kind of, know recapping your day or your weekend about where your mind has just been, off you, know trying to solve a different problem versus just.

01:20:41
Speaker 1: Being at, home being intentional at.

01:20:43
Speaker 3: Home to that, POINT i have a dad act in my hand THAT i want to get. TO i do have a loss THAT i feel LIKE i need to get off my. CHEST i hinted at you very briefly, yesterday but mind was somewhere, else AND i had maybe the worst attitude possible Dropping jill And scarlet off at the airport On saturday.

01:21:08
Speaker 1: Morning oh, really Heh, yeah it was.

01:21:10
Speaker 3: Bad it was, really, yes, DUDE i was being such a loser about. It as far As jill had three roller. Bags i'm dropping her off at like five o'clock in the. Morning i'm making it in my. Head i'm not talking out. Loud i'm, LIKE i can't Believe i'm having to do, this blah blah. Blah i'm gonna drop them, off not even, thinking, hey she has three roller bags and an. Infant she might need you to park and like go in with, her not just drop her. Off and So i'm, like, oh, Okay i'll.

01:21:43
Speaker 1: Drop you off.

01:21:44
Speaker 3: Here she's, like you're not going to park and go in With.

01:21:46
Speaker 1: Oh, yeah, yeah, Yeah i'll Go i'll go in then the.

01:21:49
Speaker 3: Morning shit hit me on the way into the, airport And i'm walking like a. Duck you're on your three, Piece i'm working on my three Pers i'm walking like a. Duck i'm not even walking With jill And. Scarlett i'm speed walking Because i'm, Like.

01:22:03
Speaker 1: HONEY i gotta get to the. Bathroom, Hey i'm getting her all.

01:22:08
Speaker 3: Flustered get there's these huge lines for the bag drop. OFF i leave her bag in the wrong line for the wrong, airline and she's, like you, know one hundred yards, away catching up to me in The Nashville. Airport, honey your BAT i went to the bathroom.

01:22:28
Speaker 1: Dropped, oh she's face zimming me right. Now DO i answer? It do? YOU i don't know you can.

01:22:37
Speaker 3: Answer, Hi, honey you're on for The dad's right now. Recording, Hey, Jill, hi, Honey, yes we're. Recording i'm so. Sorry Hey, jill it's.

01:22:55
Speaker 1: Okay we're talking about how much wait, Wait, jill.

01:22:58
Speaker 2: We're talking about how much of a look was your sure is when he dropped you off at the airport at five in the.

01:23:02
Speaker 10: Morning, yeah it was, Bad, Yeah, Jill, jill do you mind picking up from the story of me dropping your bag off in the wrong line and running off to the, bathroom would you want to take it from?

01:23:17
Speaker 7: There, well, YEAH i basically did everything by, myself and which is. FINE i can do.

01:23:24
Speaker 1: It i'm.

01:23:24
Speaker 7: Capable but we got in the line And i'm, LIKE i really just want to spend time with my, husband and he like gets in the line and he puts scarlet on top of the, suitcase which is like, cute and we're, like, oh this is so.

01:23:36
Speaker 1: Fun and then he walks.

01:23:39
Speaker 7: Away AND i was, like oh sherman, like make sure you're watching, her like put your hand on her back or, something and.

01:23:44
Speaker 3: He was, like don't talk to.

01:23:46
Speaker 1: Me Like i'm.

01:23:47
Speaker 7: FIVE i was, like oh my. God and the women behind me were like they.

01:23:53
Speaker 1: Gassed they were LIKE i had to even know what to.

01:23:57
Speaker 7: DO i was, like if you're, really doesn't do. That he didn't talk like that to, me SO i was, like oh my, Gosh i'm so. EMBARRASSED i was just we did not do hugs. By he just said see you, later and you.

01:24:11
Speaker 1: Can think about what she.

01:24:11
Speaker 3: DID i tried to hug her and she, said uh huh not after that display that.

01:24:19
Speaker 1: You don't, talk you don't talk to your girls like.

01:24:21
Speaker 2: THAT i can't believe you made everybody around you. Gasp yeah that's.

01:24:27
Speaker 1: Way what do you THINK i, SAID i can't believe he made everybody around. Gasp. Yeah.

01:24:32
Speaker 7: No, literally the two women behind, me they were older women and we were like talking them about scarlet and when he said, that they were like AND i like looked at each.

01:24:40
Speaker 1: Other it was. Bad it was. Bad it was not a good character. Moment god. Damn it was a bad dad. Vos, dude why do you have so many? Bags? Jill it was.

01:24:51
Speaker 3: Bid and the note honey THAT i wrote.

01:24:55
Speaker 1: Down Hey, Jill, jill why did you have so? Many shum said you had six roller? Bags?

01:25:03
Speaker 7: Six cut it in?

01:25:05
Speaker 1: Half it was.

01:25:06
Speaker 2: Three oh, sure, sure you know How sure likes to.

01:25:12
Speaker 1: Exaggerate there's a little there's a little tragic.

01:25:16
Speaker 11: Too but NOW i have a suitcase for, her suitcase for, me and THEN i bring a roller back BECAUSE i know last time y'all talked about, That so you roller back. Now AND i have all her toys and stuff because it's just me, solo SO i need a lot Of.

01:25:30
Speaker 1: And that's a great. Idea, yeah you go. Prepared that's a great. Idea we're. Prepared, yes, yes Ma'am.

01:25:38
Speaker 3: Jill the note THAT i have from we have the after pod report that we call THE, apr and the note THAT i had from, you which was on my, screen was to be a. GENTLEMAN i need to TREAT i need to be a. GENTLEMAN i need to treat you as.

01:25:53
Speaker 1: SUCH i like. THAT i think that's a good. GOAL i think that's a good. Goal, jill, sweetheart house dealing with this three? Piece not? Good, no what you're not doing? Good? Honey are you being LIKE i didn't know that you told. Me, HONEY i have been doing better at. THAT i can hear. It, well, okay come, ON i love, You but, no you have no idea what you just did the met slash Like i've, Been i've been like putting a conscious. Effort what you did to? Yourself yeah, no you, know you know? What you know what you might have been.

01:26:37
Speaker 2: Disgusting now you're just less. Disgusting but you're. Disgusting oh, yeah maybe you're.

01:26:42
Speaker 3: Gross Now i'm just gross and, Honey, ACTUALLY i think you're right and there's plenty of room for improvement AND i need to continue to get.

01:26:49
Speaker 1: Better, NICE i. AGREE i. Agree, first we can talk about the.

01:26:53
Speaker 7: Attitude then we'll.

01:26:54
Speaker 1: Go to the three. Piece, yeah, yes, ma'am, yeah, beautiful so much, fun And i'll look into. IT i love, you, HONEY i love can we dismissed her.

01:27:13
Speaker 3: Dad i'll JUST i, Know i'll FaceTime you, After, HONEY i love you so.

01:27:19
Speaker 1: MUCH i love you by what a piece of? Ship you? Are, disrespectful not a, gentleman, disgusting well, gross now, scaring scaring everybody in the. Airport here the old the old, wayman they. Gasped i'm surprised they didn't. Leave they wanted to.

01:27:46
Speaker 3: DO i saw in their eyes LIKE i really affected their whole.

01:27:50
Speaker 1: Week the WAY i spoke to my. WIFE i love the way that she told the. STORY i WISH i had footage of it THAT i walked away from the, suitcase WHICH i. DID i. DID i Believe, hey, LISTEN i walked.

01:28:06
Speaker 3: AWAY i just let her just sit on that suitcase AND i, said good, luck don't.

01:28:10
Speaker 1: Fall what WAS i, Thinking verdi or? Side we've heard her.

01:28:15
Speaker 2: Side there's obviously the truth out there that will never get To, yeah but when you get, home you'll talk about the attitude, first and then the.

01:28:21
Speaker 1: Three, piece and then the three piece that really broke my. Heart the three piece broke my, heart. DUDE i could kind of feel it BECAUSE i wasn't. SAD i was just kind of just being, funny like how's he doing with the three? Piece AND i was elated that you, Asked and she's, like, OH i can't believe. You guys he actually talked about the three piece on the Pod and then she's, like not. Good that just. Sad it kind of saddens. Me but what are you doing on this?

01:28:47
Speaker 3: Toilet that's What i'm, saying, Dude that's What i'm, saying because now like the conscious effort is, there and like it truly.

01:28:57
Speaker 1: Is oh, Wipe i'm wiping the, boys.

01:29:00
Speaker 3: Dude like WHEN i have the seat, Up i'm, like, boy seat is?

01:29:03
Speaker 1: Clean? Girls seed? Down is it like an air fresher or something that you can just add add an? ELEMENT i got up the. Game, YEAH i gotta get one of those little doily like seat. Things that's WHAT i need to. Do is she in the dog house with you right? Now? NO i was.

01:29:21
Speaker 3: Certainly in the doghouse On. Sunday she's in the dog house with?

01:29:25
Speaker 6: You?

01:29:26
Speaker 1: Oh is she in the doghouse with? Me CAN i do? That because that. Lasts you're, RIGHT i. DON'T i don't.

01:29:34
Speaker 2: Know have you ever put yar in your? Doghouse not, REALLY i don't think. So like maybe If i've made an attempt but it doesn't last. Long, yeah because they have the power over you no matter. What, oh what are you gonna?

01:29:49
Speaker 1: Do sue?

01:29:50
Speaker 6: Me?

01:29:51
Speaker 1: Yeah, yeah you're gonna assume. Me y'all had to try, that see how that? Works? Yeah, Yeah, oh you're not gonna have sex with. Me let's see along that last.

01:30:06
Speaker 2: INSTANTLY i think you forgot who the gatekeeper was in the bedroom.

01:30:10
Speaker 3: Sexually i'm gonna go. Shower just leave the bathroom door wide open and throw on. Scrilla she did mess up the story.

01:30:21
Speaker 1: THOUGH i.

01:30:22
Speaker 3: SCREAMED i screamed, IT i. Believe, YEAH i screamed, it SO i don't talk to me Like i'm vive and the entire airport. Froze it was. Bad it was, Bad but, yeah that was my dad. Loss that couldn't have worked out better with their. Calling, no couldn't have you buying the screenkling.

01:30:44
Speaker 1: Women gatst. Me oh you're calling her a? Liar? No oh, okay, NO i didn't know where you're going with. That OH i don't.

01:30:53
Speaker 3: EITHER i must have blacked. Out, YEA i, DO i don't. Remember, OKAY i just were we?

01:30:58
Speaker 1: Doing is it? Calling? Yeah yea, yeah, yeah can get back to Some yeah that we get to the.

01:31:04
Speaker 3: Colon, yeah let's get to The. Collins six so one the dads and if you want to write, in we'll read some emails immediately. After that's six o one the dads at gmail dot. Com will it's kind of an exciting it's not kind of it's an exciting. Week we have three call ins and we also have a special edition email ride.

01:31:29
Speaker 1: In, okay we'll.

01:31:30
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01:35:37
Speaker 5: Episode, boys new pet sixer. Here, yeah name Is, nick calling from Beautiful, Stillwater. Minnesota oh, Yeah i'm a dad that's been in the, trenches but it looks Like i'm getting out pretty. Soon just wanted to call and share that my Son packs Aka The Chance packs Aka Bam bam had a clean cancer scan, yesterday marking two and a half years in.

01:36:08
Speaker 1: Remission he's four years.

01:36:10
Speaker 5: Old he has a twin, Sister, parker who's also, four and my oldest is. Seven so NEW pt, sixer new to the podcast. Again nick From beautiful Still, Water, minnesota just wanted to give a word of encouragement to all the dads that are in the. Trenches it doesn't last. Forever, Boys let's.

01:36:32
Speaker 1: Go let's Go beautiful Still. Water and he's, new and he's he's just part of. It he's part of. It he's, Like i'm new TO bt. SIX i hear him that they got a call in hot. Line let me hit the hot. Line OH i GOT i got.

01:36:55
Speaker 3: Twins, GOOD i got a seven year old? Good who say.

01:36:58
Speaker 1: Packs a ka cham bake a bam bam aka a gap?

01:37:02
Speaker 3: Good oh kick cancer's ass. Good, yeah he's a. Sicko he's a. Sicko love that call. In that was a great call. In Truck nap is our second call Truck.

01:37:16
Speaker 1: Nap what's? Listening what's? Up?

01:37:20
Speaker 12: Boys this Is sean In. California, Hello charlie in the truck in the parking structure across from THE l AND.

01:37:29
Speaker 1: D for a little nap before we go to. War that's labor and.

01:37:32
Speaker 12: Delivery dad snores a little, Bit so wife's asleep in the. Room i'll take the front seat of the truck a little nap. Time but shout out to the. Boys thanks for everything you guys are. DOING i can't wait to join Pet siico.

01:37:47
Speaker 1: Family here we. Go love you, guys but oh, yeah love you, too, BROTHER i love you. Too sean, again it's all in the. Voice, yeah if we Call.

01:37:59
Speaker 3: Sean a month from, now it's gonna be a completely different human a month we Call sean five months from.

01:38:07
Speaker 1: Now, hey, guys It's sean baby sleeping through the. Night remember me taking naps in uh in my. Truck it's Just, hey It's.

01:38:18
Speaker 2: Sean hey, BOYS i uh love Your guys's pod.

01:38:22
Speaker 1: MAN a wife going through a LITTLE l AND. D she's in the room right, now so she's. SLEEPING i, Snore So i'm just gonna be at the front seat of the. Truck i'm gona take a.

01:38:34
Speaker 3: Nap i'm gonna exist as a human being as much as possible out of the way of my.

01:38:40
Speaker 1: Wife, YEAH i love you. Guys. Man i'm excited to be a. Dad can't wait for this little thing to enter the. World. Yeah everything you guys talk about and DO i mess with. It it gets me really stoked to take on the. Day you guys have no.

01:39:02
Speaker 2: Idea my wife's in pain right now in the delivery. Room thank, god she's sleeping for a little.

01:39:09
Speaker 1: Bit she needs. It But i'm gonna leave And i'm gonna go get my truck And i'm gonna sneak me a nap as.

01:39:17
Speaker 3: Well you could truly, Go, Hey, shan you just want the, lottery The mega.

01:39:22
Speaker 1: Million you just want? It? Oh, really, MAN i cannot believe. That, yeah shower busting.

01:39:30
Speaker 13: Balls we've been, there sho, oh, right next time Where i've been, there asleep on the couch after eating a.

01:39:40
Speaker 1: Burger belly's. Fool now you mind IF i snooze a little. Bit woke up the. Screaming the epidural didn't, work grilled. Onion still sorry you woke me? Up loud. SHIT i Guess i'm not gonna sleep this whole TIME a.

01:39:59
Speaker 3: MINUTE i guess we'll do this now. Right this one is titled g damn. It, okay this is our third, Calling.

01:40:14
Speaker 1: Deep Chef Papa, firm will it? Boy, Yeah derek here From.

01:40:21
Speaker 14: Boxville i'm a little bit, behind BUT i. Uh on the topic of our kids repeating are bad.

01:40:27
Speaker 15: Words a couple of years ago when my oldest three point of order for the story he has, autism shout out, Autism, miller no free shout, out.

01:40:39
Speaker 1: Shout out the.

01:40:40
Speaker 10: Boy.

01:40:41
Speaker 15: Uh but so he was non verbal or pretty limited with his with his language, skills and one of his favorite phrases became g damn it. Now unlike, WILL i did not use.

01:40:57
Speaker 1: GOSH i used the full.

01:40:59
Speaker 14: Word and there was one incident where he, Said, dad CAN i have a? Cookie AND i, said, no not right, now you gotta eat lunch or whatever it, was and he responded just simply with ge damn.

01:41:15
Speaker 1: IT i whipped my head.

01:41:17
Speaker 14: AROUND i was, shocked but also kind of proud because he didn't have.

01:41:21
Speaker 1: Many language skills at the.

01:41:23
Speaker 14: Time he used it, correctly but, also you, know we gotten hit that in the. Bud thankfully he doesn't repeat it, anymore but it was it was an interesting time to say.

01:41:32
Speaker 15: The, least all, right boped six, out take out the trash.

01:41:37
Speaker 1: Sick oh, nice but also don't don't can't say. That CAN i get a? Cookie? Ah, no not right?

01:41:44
Speaker 2: Now you gotta eat your. Lunch god damn. Nice, hey, Sweetheart, hey don't just don't say that. Again don't say that. Again don't tell your mother never mind.

01:41:58
Speaker 1: That really.

01:41:59
Speaker 3: Is i'm sure you. Did you feel the same With, Rue, yeah of.

01:42:04
Speaker 2: Course first of, ALL i, started, like you, know dropping a couple of, words LIKE i was in the front. SEAT i was, laughing BUT i, understand like you gotta but, YEAH i was.

01:42:12
Speaker 1: Proud that's one of my favorite gifts on the.

01:42:15
Speaker 3: Internet it's tommed along in The Blink Wait too music video where.

01:42:19
Speaker 1: He's just, like what the fuck.

01:42:22
Speaker 3: My kid, did like something crazy that happened in the real, world and they just hit a what the fuck.

01:42:28
Speaker 1: Pard of? Me there's just. Ude they're so little and they're so, innocent and all the things that they do so.

01:42:34
Speaker 2: Funny yeah you know WHAT i, mean like rocking the, sunglasses like, yeah they don't know they look, adorable but they like, them and you're just, like, oh you're just so innocent and cute and.

01:42:42
Speaker 1: Adorable, yes you don't know how cool you are right.

01:42:44
Speaker 3: Now that's the best kind of, Cool it's the best kind of.

01:42:50
Speaker 1: High like Just rue was just, like oh shit and then just put on her. Sunglasses you're.

01:42:59
Speaker 3: Saying g, said oh shit out loud, then but, hey rude the. Garage the, Garage jim just got put.

01:43:12
Speaker 1: In what do you? Think oh, shit that would be, awesome. Honey love the, energy, yeah love the. Delivery we gotta work on the. Verbit we Gotta oh my.

01:43:27
Speaker 3: God, okay speaking of kids doing some crazy, SHIT.

01:43:34
Speaker 1: I have an email really quickly for.

01:43:35
Speaker 3: You, okay this might be one of our best submissions that we have gotten as far as.

01:43:41
Speaker 1: Video would you agree with, That?

01:43:43
Speaker 3: Deeke, yes this was enough to Where dee pulled me aside and showed me this like four. TIMES i. Digress here we. Go it comes From Peter. Matthews peter, says what's, up. Gentlemen been been listening to the pod for the the last few months and love everything you are doing for the. Community i'm a dad to a wild three year old, Daughter crew and a newborn Son. Graham very deep in the. Trenches gott An easter dad loss from the past.

01:44:14
Speaker 1: Weekend picture This easter.

01:44:16
Speaker 3: Afternoon i'm in the, kitchen cooking a nice family, dinner feeling Like i've got life under control for. Once suddenly footsteps, chaos Screaming crewe and her partner in, Crime brody also, three comes sprinting, upstairs yelling the basement is. Smoking, now as any seasoned dad would, DO i stay calm and controlled AS i walk downstairs to assess the. Situation i'm assuming nothing is actually on, fire but of course prepared for the worst fire, disaster insurance claim the whole. Thing, INSTEAD i walk into what looks like a low budget fog machine. Convention the entire basement is filled with a thick white. Haze can barely see two feet in front of. Me after about ten seconds of confusion and inhaling whatever mystery powdern now lives in my, LUNGS i find the. Culprit these two hooligans had located the fire, extinguisher pulled the pin and absolutely emptied the. Clip we immediately spring into, action running around opening, windows driving to vent the, house while this cloud of extinguisher does starts creeping upstairs towards the. Newborns at this point it turns into a full blown family emergency response. Team brother in law FELLOW ptsiico, Deployed brodie's mom vigorously wiping down, surfaces my Wife captain EMPTY sicico commanding the. Operation like a general shopbacks industrial, fans dyce in some. Mops everything we own is suddenly in.

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Speaker 1: PLAY a day. Later now there is still a fine layer of mystery dust coating my entire house and probably my.

01:45:55
Speaker 3: Lungs but crisis. Averted and the best. Part we checked the playroom camera expecting some sort of curious accident to have. Happened, No, sir crew showed zero, hesitation no, fear no, regret just walks, up pulls the, pin and commits like she's been training for this moment her entire. Life, honestly can't even be. Mad this one's on. ME i left a fire extinguisher within reach of two unsupervised three year olds and learned a valuable. Lesson if it has a, pin a, button or it looks even remotely interesting to a, toddler they will use it every. Time, Anyway no, fires no, injuries just a house that now smells like a chemical plant and a Story i'll be telling, Forever dad. Life you can't make this shit, Up Peter, Matthews.

01:46:45
Speaker 1: Dude, peter great storytelling right. There we have the. Video, oh we have the. Video we have the.

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Speaker 3: Video, OH i do want to preface in the, background you will hear a song it is come, on ride the train and ride it to on full. Blast these kids knew what they would, do get the arms, up, weapons run for, momy just a little bit of, panic, like oh, shit, bro.

01:48:05
Speaker 1: They were blasting.

01:48:08
Speaker 3: Music crew's, like, oh let's get this party. Started have you all ever seen A goofy?

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Speaker 2: Movie what's his, Name? Peter, yes he just walks. Down god damn. It have y'all seen A goofy? Movie the original? One, yeah long time. Ago Paulie shore plays the guy with the red. Buzzcut and When max is performing at the school, thing he gets a fire extingle shirt and he, goes how about a little smokage and he like starts spraining it.

01:48:39
Speaker 1: Out that Was, Crew, yeah that was. Crew crew was dialed. There that's. Funny that's a good. Story. Peter thank you for writing it and thank you for sending the video videos crazy and he gave us full permission to post it math to which is a. Tonic, yeah got.

01:48:55
Speaker 3: HIM i can't wait for that clip to hit the. Internet send us more, Videos send us more videos?

01:49:00
Speaker 1: VIDs what else we got?

01:49:03
Speaker 5: Here?

01:49:03
Speaker 1: OH i have a dad hack For ru's.

01:49:06
Speaker 2: Birthday this comes from my wife and basically like to Surprise. Rue we went up and As ru was, SLEEPING i took Out charles, like go up and get twenty stuffed. Animals SO i go up and get twenty stuffed. Animals charles already got the balloons. There we sit down and we start tying the balloons around, her all of her like favorite stuffed, animals so they could be there to Greet rue when she came downstairs.

01:49:31
Speaker 1: Or out of her.

01:49:32
Speaker 2: Bedroom so the hack is just like finding like little ways to surprise, them to show, them, like, hey everybody's involved for your, birthday to make the day feel, special to start off the day with it feeling. Special it's like she goes, in she only Has tigy with. HER i don't THINK i brought You tigy. DOWNSTAIRS i got all the. Ones there's like eight that sleep. Byer you, know there's like ten down at her. Feet there's some in the. Closet got a bunch of her favorite. Animals brought them, down so when she comes, down she's got. Them she's got all the animals sitting there with the balloon tied to, him hanging up the little four year old one so she could be fired.

01:50:07
Speaker 1: Up right when she comes down for her birthday and.

01:50:09
Speaker 3: Dude hit him with that dad hack of you on the dad cam is. Dangerous, dude, bro are you rolling with?

01:50:15
Speaker 1: That?

01:50:15
Speaker 2: Yeah, yeah that camp snap. EIGHT i got it For, christmas and, dude it is. Awesome it's like just that vintage camera gives that vintage feel and all it is is a point and. Shoot you get it in, there the filters and buttons on the knobs are on it easy on and. Off and then you got probably four what is it ratio.

01:50:34
Speaker 1: Picture, yep that's, right.

01:50:37
Speaker 2: Ratio we're four ratio options and then like five filter options if you want, to you, know you want it to look a little bit more, vintage give it some gold whatever the color. Is it's only got about five on. Those and then you just point and. Shoot, Bro you just pull the trigger and it. Goes and then when you get, done you just take the LITTLE usbc from the camera to the phone and he drops it on there right.

01:50:58
Speaker 1: Away it's a and just.

01:51:01
Speaker 2: Ripping around with. It just you, know you got like the parent of voice in the, background like my voice in the. Background i'm trying to get the. Shot let me get the. Shot just having all those little moments of ripping around for a birthday in the, Morning like we got her a couple of square guns for the. Pool, yeah and then we Got twister for us so we could all Play twister together and she saw she's good at. It and then, yeah, dude full, day just full day of just having a lot of. Fun we got her out of. School she only did a half day at. School we pulled her out after they did like a brunch where you could go parents can go and like sit with their kids during. Lunchtime great man eat with. Them so we're sitting out at her school having some lunch and then we take her home with. Us we hit the, pool like all, afternoon we're, Playing we're doing all the.

01:51:40
Speaker 1: Games.

01:51:40
Speaker 2: Twister charle made her a little uh Rest Krispy tree Cake Rice chris put a candle in its Ca.

01:51:49
Speaker 1: Yeah those are kind of slept. On, yeah very slept, on Dou Rice Krispy trees Bang bro.

01:51:56
Speaker 3: Especially for that age, too because like it leaves very little, mess whereas icing and, CRUMBS i mean that's getting. Everywhere, yeah those nice crispies they stay a bit more. Contained that's a. Hack, yeah but that was just a little dad.

01:52:10
Speaker 2: Hack thinking of a little creative ways to spice up a birthday that costs absolutely, nothing but you're just wanting to just pour into the intention of her, birthday make it feel. Special, Charles, like right WHEN i got home From Texas, tech she's making whipping up the Rice krispy. Treats she's, like, hey can you go, upstairs like all the balloons they're over, there go? Upstairs can you grab twenty stuffed? Animals And i'm. Exhausted i'm, like, fuck go, up get all that in these little party, hats like little party hats to put on each stuffed, animal scatter them out before she comes down the next, morning comes out on the next morning and we're hitting the ground running with the.

01:52:44
Speaker 3: Birthday oh that video, too and we can run it on the, episode not to Give chef another thing to, play but just that video of her turn in the corner With Scotty yeah and your dad cam like that was, dude that's peak.

01:53:00
Speaker 1: Rude the birthday. Girl she's four years old. Today, Hi Scotty, key, way can you say a happy? Birthday did you tell her happy? Birthday Scotty key wave Wayam and she just kind of like looks at. It i'm A Scottie, stand, Bro Scotty.

01:53:20
Speaker 2: Stand she is a, legend. Bro she just she just wants to play and have.

01:53:25
Speaker 3: FUN i say her name out loud each Time i'm watching one of your video When i'm at home AND i see that video when when you have both of them coming, out but then you have like an isoshot of her like being d, gap kind of waddling, AROUND i just, go scotta.

01:53:45
Speaker 2: DUDE i took this So i'll dad out for a. Second shore this PHOTO i took over BECAUSE i.

01:53:51
Speaker 1: Want, you, DAD i, WELL i do have a question for. You that's your.

01:53:53
Speaker 4: Dad win is the dad lost this bunny rabbit? Picture you drew well money.

01:54:04
Speaker 1: On sunday?

01:54:04
Speaker 2: Morning we, did, uh we went to stay. Gold here's the photo Of scottie just in her little. Hat you, know let me uh turn up the brightest for you, guys just in her little, hat sitting on the.

01:54:16
Speaker 1: Couch. Deeck her fingers are lace like she's watching the stock, market like she's just catching up what's going. On, yeah then turn it to that money. CHAIN i gotta see how my portfolio is. Doing so she's watching The masters On Master.

01:54:34
Speaker 3: Sunday, hey that's the Caption toobe, bro that's.

01:54:38
Speaker 1: Hilarious.

01:54:40
Speaker 2: Yeah so we went To Stay golden and you know ru loves the color on the, work their little worksheets and stuff like. That, well they were, out but they had some blank ones somewhere rooking have the crowns and just.

01:54:52
Speaker 1: Draw like while we were having.

01:54:53
Speaker 2: Breakfast we loves to draw animals and it was easter your SO i was, like, Hey, sweetheary you should draw. Bunny and she's, Like i'm gonna draw your raft. First she knocks the giraffe just out of the. Park, dude, like look at that.

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Speaker 1: Giraffe, yos that's a good. Draft, spots strong, giraffe four legs check, yeah long neck, check the two horns on top of the head, check smiling smiling. Check and she was, like, UH i don't know how to draw a. Bunny can you draw me a?

01:55:21
Speaker 2: Bunny And i'm, like, DUDE i used to be able to sketch like your boy could.

01:55:25
Speaker 1: Draw back up on Day i'm.

01:55:27
Speaker 2: Talking my self portrait in middle school was hanging in the school hallway BECAUSE i was Dialed.

01:55:33
Speaker 1: Grandpa he taught me how to sketch WHEN i was a young.

01:55:35
Speaker 2: Buck, Like i'm Like i'm picking up the, crowns you, know about to draw for the first time in a, while And i'm, like, YEAH i know my way around a blank sheet of.

01:55:42
Speaker 1: Paper what about?

01:55:45
Speaker 2: You And rue was, Like, daddy can you draw me a? Bunny this should be. Easy legitimately confident is ever going into drawing this? Bunny this is the ship THAT i came up. With and, DUDE i swear to, GOD i was envisioning it as it was like being, drawn.

01:56:04
Speaker 1: AND i was, Like, okay draw the, head, like let me get the ears.

01:56:07
Speaker 2: Going you do a nice swoop in with the, ear like you get tighter as the ear gets, lower AND.

01:56:12
Speaker 1: I gotta, Buddy i'm THINKING i would find a.

01:56:17
Speaker 2: Way to draw the body a bro When i'm drawing, this because this is this is it like next to her? Draft, Yeah And i'm getting done And i'm just making myself. Laughing she's, like what are you laughing? About i'm, like.

01:56:31
Speaker 1: What the fuck is?

01:56:33
Speaker 2: This she starts laughing and, like, dude so like, that what's so? Funny i'm, like, ah, sweetheart THAT i try to draw you a, bunny but.

01:56:43
Speaker 1: You gotta work that. Muscle it looks like she drew the bunny didn't she draw that the great job on the, Whiskers.

01:56:54
Speaker 5: DUDE i was.

01:56:54
Speaker 2: Trying then it's all blending together cause the crowns and. Ship i'm, like fuck Then charlo charl had to fucking lap.

01:57:02
Speaker 1: Me oh that's a bunny. Funny, yeah she knocks it out of a, bark like that's a good looking. Bunny well is it full dad?

01:57:14
Speaker 3: Mode but we were making fun of our dad's at The Dad combine last.

01:57:18
Speaker 1: Year good oh? Ship what we?

01:57:21
Speaker 12: Got where is?

01:57:22
Speaker 1: That AND i, Like i'm, like, UH i.

01:57:26
Speaker 2: Like chew on my tongue and my tongue comes out at times like When i'm like focused on doing, something playing video, games drawing whatever it. Is, Dude i'm dial trying to draw this bunny LIKE i can tell. That i'm like chewing on my tongue trying to like do it the right. Way but, god.

01:57:42
Speaker 1: He can't win them.

01:57:43
Speaker 3: All AM i doing better on the three? Piece, no, Sir i'm. Not there is there room for? Improvement of? Course are we missing? Anything topic lesson? Quote are we good to go into?

01:57:58
Speaker 1: That? Yeah we gotta lose, Cameras, okay stry to lose. CAMERAS i just came across like this.

01:58:06
Speaker 2: Kind of goes with rout turning four and Just dad's being in too where their eyes start water and they're watching, videos they're reading stuff on the.

01:58:12
Speaker 1: Internet their algorithm is full Of dad. Content, god and this one comes From Kevin dahlstrom ON X i booked marked this the other, Day so take it from, me a recent empty.

01:58:28
Speaker 2: Nester the good old days don't feel like it at the. Time it feels more like hard work and. Struggle the days are long and the years fly.

01:58:34
Speaker 1: By then one day you wake up and the house is.

01:58:37
Speaker 2: Quiet one of my most cherished memories is coming home from work each day and opening the creaky back door tour nineteen forty seven craftsman. Home my three year old daughter now twenty, one would drop her, toys run down the, hall her footsteps booming on the old wooden, floor to greet. ME i love my life AND i don't want to go, back BUT i do WISH i could pass one message across time to thirty five years old.

01:59:00
Speaker 1: Me you're living the good old days right. Now savor every.

01:59:03
Speaker 2: Moment and it's just a video bro of them riding his bike back in the.

01:59:08
Speaker 1: Day you just read it and you.

01:59:14
Speaker 2: This drop does she now this drop two, around WHEN i dropped, around WHEN i dropped. MINE i can't Believe ruce Four and THEN i see it from him and he's older, now his daughter's twenty, one and it's like the old dads are, like we're all in the same mental mindset of like being, intentional being, nostalgic being, sad being. Excited, like, DUDE i love my life. Now but IF i could just go back to some of these bottled up, moments LIKE i See scott and it's like our, second our second iteration of having a little girl at sixteen months, old and the times WHERE i look back At rue at sixteen, months one, year two years, Old i'm just Like, GOD i WISH i had. THAT i love who she is right. Now of, course the man you want to go back.

01:59:54
Speaker 1: To some of those moments because she was so, adorable she was.

01:59:56
Speaker 2: So, cute and you get to kind of relieve it With, scotti is this gonna be my last? Daughter is this my last time going? Around and you see guys like that who are older now that wouldn't change, anything but they could go back to thirty five year old.

02:00:08
Speaker 1: Me it's, like cherish.

02:00:10
Speaker 2: Every moment and it's like you know those times are, coming AND i Know i'm gonna feel that way when i'm his. Age, yeah you can't stop, time AND i get in my, feels, bro, DUDE i did.

02:00:21
Speaker 1: Too i'm dead, ME i am dead mean, Yeah.

02:00:25
Speaker 3: And it's gonna get to a point Where i'm gonna be seeing my daughter when she's like like a full grown, woman And i'm gonna want to cry just looking at her Because i'm gonna be so proud and so if you and try.

02:00:42
Speaker 2: To pick them up below again below their knees and, like oh, dad you're still dead as baby.

02:00:47
Speaker 1: Girl get on my, shoulders hang on THE l five THAT l FOUR l five can't hold it.

02:00:53
Speaker 3: Anymore as you were telling that, STORY i was imagining just me walking Into Stoke house With scarlett right there on my shoulder and, like.

02:01:05
Speaker 1: And ru's.

02:01:06
Speaker 2: Four now she's getting, big LIKE i can feel like When i'm holding, her LIKE i feel Like i'm in the year to where this could be the last year Where i'm holding her like all the time.

02:01:14
Speaker 1: Or quite a. Bit, Yeah i'm Sure i'll still hold her at, five maybe, six who. KNOWS i don't.

02:01:19
Speaker 2: KNOW i haven't gotten to that. Part but part of me feel you, know the weight she, is her just wanting dead at, holder, yeah you know WHAT i, mean and just being, like, Dude i'm gonna hold you because who knows how many times you're gonna ask me to still hold.

02:01:31
Speaker 3: You my timeline needs to chill, out, dude because it'll just be pictures of, like, hey you only have two summers with your, infant four with your. Toddler, oh three with your, kid and four with your.

02:01:43
Speaker 2: Teenager two that like little, BILLY i love the weekends with your eight month. Old four weekends with your eight month. Old it's about to be nine, months, one three about to be long. Gone, yes you're never getting.

02:02:01
Speaker 1: Back scarlett's nine months, now.

02:02:03
Speaker 2: Dude oh nine? Months you get four weekends with your nine month? Old oh, great well Four, fridays four Weeks. Fridays, well my wife selfishly took her for one of.

02:02:12
Speaker 1: Them.

02:02:13
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02:02:16
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