Sisterhood, God, & Kash w/ Kash Doll

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Speaker 1: Calling all my sweeties to the forefront. I'm your host, Christopher and this is the Keep It Positive, Sweetie Show.

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Speaker 2: Hello and welcome to another episode of the Keep It Positive, Sweetish Show, a place where we bring real conversation with a whole lot of heart and positivity. I'm your host, CHRISTOPHINEE. Hazelt, and today we have a certified superstar joining us. She's a rapper, entrepreneur, and all around powerhouse. She's taken the industry by storing with her confidence and authenticity. Get ready because we have Cash Doll in the building. You know her from hits like Ice Me Out and for Everybody, and you may have seen her on your favorite TV show. Today She's hit to drop Jim's about her journey, staying true to herself and how she keeps it moving on no matter what. She's an inspiration to fans everywhere. Please welcome the one, the only Cash Doll.

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Speaker 1: Cash We got you here. Here, you are here, honey, looking good? That is us. We imagine you guys, we already page. I love that. Yes, they're high. I appreciate that. Thank you so much for taking time to stop by. Sure, so I was excited. I was excited I'm like, yes, we're going to go somewhere positive.

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Speaker 2: Yes, listen, ye safe place, say thank you, yeah, thank you so much. I want to learn about you, more about your journey.

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Speaker 1: You're from Detroit.

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Speaker 2: Yes, it's a place that has so much rich history. What was it like growing up and what were the inspirations that really pushed you to want to do music.

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Speaker 1: Growing up in Detroit? I mean.

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Speaker 3: It's bittersweet, you know. I don't even remember how how it like, if it was bad or not, because we made it great. Yeah, me and my siblings. You know, my mom had five of us at twenty one. I'm the oldest of six right now. And we had each other. You know, we didn't have much, but we had each other. And I can't complain about my upbringing in Detroit. You know, Detroit is Detroit though. Yeah it's rough, you know, it's a home of hustlers and pimps and birds and hair.

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Speaker 2: What was that like, Like was it almost just like second nature?

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Speaker 1: Because that's all you knew.

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Speaker 3: That's all I know, you know, So it like think about second nature to you? How people could say, how are you so positive? That's second nature? I can't explain to you how to just be bothered, like that's just who I am. So it's like that's Detroit, That's just who I am, and that's all I know. But as I traveled the world, I noticed that every place is not like this, you know what I'm saying, Like, you know, it's easier in Detroit. It's not a lot of opportunities that just come and people not just traveling to Detroit. I mean now, but you have to go get it. You got to figure it out. And I got got the mugs. I started from nothing and made it into something, made it into something.

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Speaker 2: I love that you're in this industry where women are dominating the rap game, Like y'all are killing it and I'm asked, I'm loving it. It's like beautiful to see like everybody's just doing their thing and y'all are so confident and powerful in this space. How do you feel about it? And then who would be like your dream collab? If you could collab with anybody.

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Speaker 1: Who would it be? Like of all time? Anybody? Yeah they're alive.

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Speaker 2: I like to ask those questions, like if anybody like if you could have oh what you.

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Speaker 1: Already got the bang?

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Speaker 3: That's my number one favorite artist time I remember where I was eftless, effortless, beautiful, just I wanted to her just so fire her beautiful, like she didn't have to do much, she has to show much. She just was herself. And just Aliah is my favorite. You know, she's from this exactly, so coming up and I'm seeing her, I'm like, I could do that, but I don't know if I'm gonna do that.

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Speaker 1: That's Aliah.

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Speaker 2: The fact that you thought that and look at you now, come on, I want to do.

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Speaker 1: And that is my girl.

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Speaker 3: She really helped me just even have that that inspiration of like coming out of Detroit. Yeah, well I could be that girl, you know, so Aliah of all times?

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Speaker 1: Yes, Rihanna, Yes I could. Y'all would kill a song together? Is my girl? We me and and the DMS talking. That is my girl. I love it.

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Speaker 3: It's who else I like? Uh as far as dreaming.

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Speaker 1: Her, She's so talented. You feel like all these R and B. Yes, I love R and B. That's that's what I listened to. Wow, Yeah, that's all I listen. I was gonna ask you that, like, what where do you put your inspiration from?

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Speaker 2: You listen to other music to be like, let me see what's out here? Are you like when people like I can't because some.

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Speaker 3: Artists cannot listen to nobody, I don't. I can't, especially not other female rappers.

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Speaker 2: Yea.

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Speaker 1: And it ain't even that I don't like them.

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Speaker 3: I can't listen to them because I get a studio, like like right now, I like that song Brokey.

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Speaker 1: I like Brokey. I'm like, catch myself, want and say that. You're like, no, that's not yours. You know what I'm saying.

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Speaker 3: So I don't even listen to them so that I could just stay on track with myself. But like as far as female rappers, I like CARDI love CARDIEH.

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Speaker 1: I like all of them that like Meg, I love glow.

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Speaker 3: Baby, Come on my girls, I love a lot of all everybody that's out right now.

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Speaker 1: I like to just do a whole like collaboration. I love that. I'll do that, like for sure.

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Speaker 3: But and then the fact that we living in a time where so many female rappers and it never.

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Speaker 1: Been like this.

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Speaker 3: It's just like dang, it's it's like we living in history literally something that it's a new way. Yeah, And to know that I was at the top of the pyramid when when it first started. Yes, it wasn't a lot of girls before I came out, So it's like, dang man, it's just to know that I'm a part of a wave like that.

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Speaker 1: It's crazy. Yeah, I love that.

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Speaker 2: I was at meals on wheels like two years ago and you performed oh yeah, right around the corner. And my publicist she is Jennifer the whitest black girl you ever meet, rapping lyric for lyric, I was like, I would have never guessed even like your like people love you Like I was just like, wow, like you because you're thinking, like.

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Speaker 1: I don't know that that cast off.

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Speaker 3: When I say she was like at my at my shoulds, I'd be looking like, wow, yes you have.

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Speaker 1: It's like very diverse crowd. Wow, Yeah, how did you come to reach? Yeah, I don't know. You know what.

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Speaker 3: This is really helping me realize who I am. Wow, because I've been in the clubs and just like doing little quick shows that sometime I do festivals or whatever the case may be. But they're here to see multiple artists. These people are here to see me. So it's like when I'm seeing these people in the crowd and like little young kids and like I said, it's very diverse, and people with my shirts on and hats and signs.

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Speaker 1: I'm like, this is where we are.

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Speaker 2: The little girl from Detroit that looking up to Ali.

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Speaker 1: And wondering if I could do I can't do it like that. I can't do it like Kirk. But I'm gonna do it. You're doing it, and it's like, wow, it's very it's just mind going. It is.

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Speaker 3: I'm not even gonna it is, you know. And then to be off tour, I mean like where I'm on tour and then like the days I do have off, I'm just slumped and it's like, you know, finding that balance with being a mom.

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Speaker 1: That's why my son is here. I want Yeah, Cash is here, my guy. It's just having at all. I don't know.

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Speaker 3: God, come on, like literally, it's nobody else but God.

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Speaker 1: I just let it go and let God just help me. You know. I want to be the best mom I could be. You know. I want to be the best artist I could be.

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Speaker 3: I want to be the best woman I could be. For myself, yeah, you know, I want to wake up and remember to take my vitamins, to do my skin routine and to exfoliating.

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Speaker 1: But when you're on the rush. You're going going, going, going, going, going going something. Something's fall short. Yeah, and don't have a man maybe because that's another kid. That's another you took the words of that. That's another child that needs that attention.

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Speaker 3: And that love and nurturing that relationship too. You have to nurture all the relationships in your life. And I tell people all the time, like you have to make sure that you prioritize them all because you know, like I feel like some people getting relationships and they just prioritize that yep, and everything goes far short. And then when that relationship don't work, they're searching and looking for people to And it's like if you prioritize everything, I mean, of course, and when it's over, it's still hurt, but you still have those same people and you've still been nurturing all your relationships and they're still there.

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Speaker 1: Yeah, you dropped that ball. Now you're trying to go find other people. Come back. I need y'all. I'm going through something.

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Speaker 3: Yeah, they're like, no, I mean, when you when you're going through something, right, you forgot about it.

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Speaker 1: You forgot about.

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Speaker 3: Me when you was all love me, double hold on you know what I'm saying, Like, when you was all hell over here.

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Speaker 1: You forgot about your girls.

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Speaker 2: Guilty of that, you guilty. I've been guilty of that, like being so hit over heels. Well, like I just like I'm pouring more important to my person that my girls, Like damn's been time with us, but like your person is always like, let's do this, let's do this, let's go here, and it's like, and you want to go because when you especially at beginning, in the beginning, forget about.

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Speaker 1: It, forget about it, y'all will never see it. I was like, man, goodbye, s less God. Then when he'd a bitshed you off, you call your friends, they're like, no, no, no, you miss me now. Yeah, yeah, I.

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Speaker 2: Do better about prioritizing now. And it comes with maturity and just world and learning how to balance it.

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Speaker 3: And then it's healthy for your relationship with him too, because I feel like he has time to miss you and see that you have a life outside of him.

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Speaker 1: And not just like you have other things to do, like yeah, separate.

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Speaker 2: That's so I absolutely love that because I've.

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Speaker 1: Been like that. It does. It comes home in growth maturity. I feel like we're grown now.

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Speaker 3: Yeah, and then it helped the relationship last longer. I feel like, yeah, yeah, it's like when you miss him, you know, you got other things to do, and y'all like scheduling and trying to be together.

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Speaker 1: It's like when you get together that time just yes, count like you gotta make count, got to make account. So yeah, that's where I met in life. I love that balancing balan all of this, yeah, all of it. It's a lie. You just sawing that you don't get a lot of rest. I want to challenge you, Cash, What're supposed to take a day for yourself? You have to because I know today was supposed to be that day. But then they said you okay, And.

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Speaker 3: To that, I say, here, but after this, but Cash, you want to go to Chunky Cheese and I haven't took care.

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Speaker 1: That's another priority. It doesn't stop.

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Speaker 3: And then tomorrow I have to go to New Orleans, and then after New Orleans, I have to go to Memphis. And then after Memphis, I have to go to Dallas, and then after Dallas, I gotta go to Houston.

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Speaker 1: These are the things you guys don't see. They don't see that.

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Speaker 3: Then in all these places I have to make sure that my hair make up its own point. Yes, I have to make sure my offense is on point for the stage. I have to make sure that I remember to pack all this stuff because if you leave one shoe, that messes up everything.

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Speaker 1: Everything right, because you're moving. You're moving out of.

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Speaker 3: This car to this printer, to this hotel to this and then you got kids. I order need her diaper change, she needs a bottle right now, cash and one ticket on the airplane.

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Speaker 1: It's like he just sail down the stairs. Now everything I'm doing. What happens? Then my manager's on the phone. You have to be here in five minutes. You're like, I'm trying. Hey, yeah, do you ever like deal with like anxiety cause it's you don't know. I'm like that tree, like when it's a storm that's just steals that. Just I sit real quiet and I just be like, yeah, I will sit there and I'll just let all the chaos go. Wow, and why the chaos is going, I'm already calculating it. All. That's good. Then when it's over, I'll be like, all right, so this is how we're gonna do this. If y'all to get in line, this is how we're gonna do this. It's the only way that's gonna work. And then it works. That's God. I love that because God be stressed. I would get stressed therapy and know, I mean like and I don't even have my best friend my therapist. Really that's good somebody you can trust.

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Speaker 3: Yeah, yeah, my best friend and like my big sister, and you know, I just I let it out with people I love. Yeah, I know eventually I will get a therapist. So I don't think nothing's wrong with it.

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Speaker 1: No, not that I have it. I love it.

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Speaker 2: Yeah, I don't think tell people all the time because I feel like it is harder for people who have celebrity status to like find why they can trust because trust is such a big thing in our life, but because of law that they can't tell anybody.

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Speaker 1: But even still in the back of my mind's like, you canna tell my business? Like how much can I really tell you? Because they got a best friend here stressed, you should have want to listen, you know. Yeah, So that's good. You have your tribe. I have my sisterhood that it is very important. Sisterhood is so.

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Speaker 3: Important and for us swimming and I don't know how women do wrong by Hey girls, I need my friends.

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Speaker 1: I need them.

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Speaker 3: It's not even a one or it's it's a need, like to be able to pull up and let it all out, you know, and then walk away like I just dropped the.

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Speaker 1: Load on her and she couldn't wait, you know, because Yes, reciprocation. I love that. You know that helps.

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Speaker 3: My kids, you know, just seeing them having a good time. And then when I'm getting dressed and getting fly.

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Speaker 1: I know that's right, and you always fly. Do you start yourself or do you have a stylist? I stole myself.

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Speaker 3: And then when I run out of things because traveling it gets like that. I have relationships, you know, because I've been around four while, so I'll call and have them pull me some pieces or go shop.

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Speaker 1: You know that that helps me.

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Speaker 4: Yes, I love shop, shop, shop, shop, Yes, shopping, eating eating as we can hang out because we like to do the same thing.

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Speaker 1: Thing. But I was about to say something else, but I'm gonna keep it positive. It's one more thing I like, and she's I'm everybody know what I'm talking about. But that keeps me good. Yes, balance, balance, I love it. I love it.

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Speaker 2: You are the oldest of six have you ever felt survivors were more for being the one who made it and trying to like pull everybody up with you, or even.

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Speaker 1: Holding everybody up. How was that experience?

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Speaker 2: Because I definitely dealt with that and it was really tough, and I think that's what drove me to my first panic attack and having anxiety. It was because like, and then, like, how do I keep all this up? Because I gotta you're saying, keep this life for everybody.

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Speaker 1: Now, I did it all all the way up until I have my first chop wow, And that's what I said, Okay, off, I have my own responsibility here, you know what I'm saying. And then, especially when you find yourself pouring porn, porn, pouring.

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Speaker 3: Into people and it's not reciprocated in no kind of way, you know, because some people might not be able to pour into you the.

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Speaker 1: Same kind of way, or it might not be cost but some kind of way, and make it reciprocate.

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Speaker 3: Make it makes sense, you know, because then if I'm pouring, you can't pour back into me. Now I'm empty, I have nothing new, and I feel like that's not fair, right, So I only pour into people and it's not like intentional, But I pour into people that I feel reciprocation from. Like even like with my sisters, I pour into them. They help me with my kids too. I have two sisters and they got my kids.

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Speaker 1: Now, you know what I'm saying.

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Speaker 3: So in those ways or ways where you could call me and make me make my day better or you give me good vibes. I got this one friend named Daniel. Oh my god, every time I see Daniel, he just makes me happy. I enjoy him so much. And it's like just a little stuff like that. It don't have to be you buying me the something really expensive, or it don't have to be what I do for you. It just have to be some type of way you pour in to my cup.

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Speaker 1: You know what I'm saying. So, because I can't, I'm not doing that to myself. You're not leaving me empty. Hello.

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Speaker 3: So once I seen him, that made me realize like, oh no, this is it. I need to have my cup full for my baby.

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Speaker 1: Yes, I love Yeah.

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Speaker 2: You spoke about your on a recent interview about one of your regrets being buying a mansion, and I literally two years ago I bought like a multi million dollar home, seven bedrooms, I'm by myself in this house. And when I saw you say that, I felt so seen because I was literally in the process of like.

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Speaker 1: I need a downside because what why? Why did I do this? Like all the money on that mortgage for what? And all the down payment, ma'am and the maintenance, ma'am, the magnets.

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Speaker 5: I had a pool, Oh I didn't. Oh yeah, that's wish there. Oh yeah, that's that is a bill baby.

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Speaker 3: Then I had a grass that was made out of an elephant, so I had to keep that trim.

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Speaker 1: I had to keep me trump. Hello. It was a lot of cars cars. Wow, So if I feel like we are similar in this area as well.

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Speaker 3: And then all the doors at night. You want to make sure every door you have everywhere everything, so everything has to be attacked. So now it's just I said, you know what, I can't do it says I'm with you.

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Speaker 1: And then I didn't have a man. Yeah, it's like nope, yeah, not gonna happen. No, and I let it go. That's amazing.

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Speaker 2: I'm proud of you for that because a lot of times I think you would get money. We get a lot of money, and then it's like we do things that we can.

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Speaker 1: Just I can do it. I can afford that, I can afford it. I can do that, Like I got it.

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Speaker 2: But then you start to educate yourself and you're like, wait a minute, I can be doing a lot with this money and I can still have a beautiful home.

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Speaker 1: For half the price of this that it's something that I don't even need all this, And you're.

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Speaker 2: Not there half the time anyway, like you know, but you want to come home and be comfortable, but like, do you need all that?

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Speaker 1: What was that self like reflection? We were like, girl, you don't need all this.

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Speaker 3: I think it's when I came to Atlanta to film BMS. I had a condo a high Rocks.

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Speaker 1: And that view David sexy that.

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Speaker 3: Lights, yes, and it was only like five thousand dollars a month or something at the time.

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Speaker 1: Now it was probably a little bit more.

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Speaker 3: Atlanta went up, but I'm like, wow, yeah, And then I just felt like a bachelorette.

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Speaker 1: Yes, I was having a time. I got valet outside it's a you restaurants everywhere right here, no line, no elephants and elephant. It was no elephants and trail girl, no pond and coy fish the pool has already got to making this.

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Speaker 3: It's already in there, and it's sexy, and it's grown, and it's just rich.

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Speaker 1: It's still the life. I said, Oh, I'm overdoing it. Overdoing it. Yeah, I'm overdoing it. You are, especially for me, not to have no kids or a family.

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Speaker 3: I feel like that's when you have a family and it's a big family and you know, y'all have a couple of dollars and you need that space in different rooms.

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Speaker 1: I feel like that's what mansions are for. They not for single people. I didn't have not one kid. Girl, that's me sitting in that house, you know what I mean? None here, and every crack creaky. I'm like, what's that. You've just in there jumping scared? So what did you move? I haven't yet. I just like, I really just came to this realization in the past month. Okay, Yeah, then I saw you saying. I was like, girl, that is me. But I got a condo in Miami, just like you. I got to come to Miami. It's only like twelve hundred square feet. It's perfect. You love it there. I love it.

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Speaker 2: Forty first floor over gorgeous and like the light, like even he went for his birthday. I said, you just go stay at the condo because we were in New York for fashion week. And he's like, I see why you come down here and don't want to I say, yeah, he said, so peaceful, so peaceful that I'm with you.

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Speaker 1: See.

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Speaker 2: Yeah, in my realtive, she was like, I called and said, I think I want to downside. She said, girl, they got this new condo building here. She said, I got you.

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Speaker 1: Yeah, so I'm thinking I'm gonna downside that. Yeah, you should, you should, especially I ten you have kids.

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Speaker 4: Yeah.

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Speaker 1: I just waited out, like you don't even need that right now. I mean, it's good, it's not good. It's no way I could see because.

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Speaker 3: It's so much money into it. It's you spend so much money, you're not even really all the ways safe. You know, houses is not like my house got broken into, you know, so yourself.

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Speaker 2: You a woman, yeah, oh my, I can't even imagine a violation. And just even the state of the world right now. I see all these posts about this outage that's gonna come in the blackout, and one guy was just saying he was like, imagine, he said, when people who are prepared have it eaten in three days? What they're gonna do. They're gonna start breaking the houses. It's gonna be in flight or flight mode and like trying to survive.

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Speaker 1: And I was like, that's really scared. We're not safe, you know what I'm saying. And I'm like, what am I gonna do? Come on here? You know I don't want to No, I don't want to be We're women. We want to be sold. Yes, nobody want to feel like shoot them up? Baby, don't nobody feel like that? Speaking of bay Bang, one of.

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Speaker 2: My guilty pleasures is like mafia, drug movies and TV.

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Speaker 1: Shows like it just makes you feel like that. I love them like so much, especially when their true story, like it don't matter what it is, like that really happened. Yes, I'm fascinated by it. I'm just like, oh my gosh. People love like true crime. I love like the Mafia and mob and gang movies.

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Speaker 2: Okay, So when it came to be a math true story and storytime, I auditioned for Monique.

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Speaker 1: Yes, So when I saw them, I sware, So you know, when you don't get it, you like who got it? And like who got it? And then when I saw you. I was like, she's perfect, like because you know sometimes like and it's so funny because we're like the same time, like as we're kicking and it's like we're in the same claw. Yes, you that was your role, and that's one of my favorite shows. You killed it, Thank you. I was sad when when it was Lamar.

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Speaker 3: But you know, Monique really died in real life. No, yeah, she really died in real life before he moved to Atlanta.

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Speaker 1: She died. Oh my god. That was his first baby mama and she passed away. Yeah, so I knew that that was going to happen.

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Speaker 3: Yeah, I just wanted to stay a little bit longer. I was having a good time, and every time it aired, I was like so excited, so good because I didn't watch nothing until the erul be surprised him. Plus not sitting there critiquing myself and just like nervous and have anxiety and want to change stuff and I can't, so everything.

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Speaker 1: Was out of my control. So I was like, I'm just gonna let this fly. Yeah, and I just watched it with the world I love. And then I also loved the r from Detroit that you are bag.

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Speaker 2: No, I didn't I didn't even know about that show, but I actually I loved the r Kilpatrick and Shannon another one of my friends, he's on that show too, and John.

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Speaker 1: It's a few people that I know on that show. But I love that. So when I saw you on Their Town, I was like, you better be working. And then I like that bro. Yes, like Monique was my girl too, because Monique was a player, like you got these crazy at all? So I was. But it was like, you know, she she was on the wild a little bit. She had her little but it was acting and it was fun. But I like that I could go into being gang.

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Speaker 4: Yeah.

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Speaker 1: I was like, yeah you girl boss. Yeah, I love that. So now I need to be in a movie where I'm shooting up something there you go, Listen, I need to be shooting I need I need to be rolling around on the ground right hiding on the cars like I want to do that. Put it out there, it's gonna happen. I want to do that. I want to do that, you know, and one time I want to I want to be a crackhead. Listen.

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Speaker 2: I actually auditioned for a character where I was a heroin adict Listen, the stuff that you auditioned.

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Speaker 3: For and I'm not mad at that because I want to see the rain, the range and just having fun.

00:25:45
Speaker 1: I want to look crazy.

00:25:46
Speaker 3: I want people to see me in a different light and I just blamed a time and beautiful like see me looking crazy like.

00:25:51
Speaker 1: That girl really can act? Yes, it's crazy. Now did you do like acting classes? How did you prepare for these?

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Speaker 3: I did acting class with Tasha Smith, so I did a couple of classes with her. But other than that, I didn't do anything. But I'm about to do some more.

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Speaker 2: Okay, got it amazing? Where you body those roads? That's amazing.

00:26:10
Speaker 1: I appreciate it. What else is next for you? What more acting? More acting?

00:26:16
Speaker 3: Yeah, I'm gonna get back and I'm getting back to it in March, finishing the worst of this tour. Yeah, I'm really get into products and different because I want to sit at home.

00:26:28
Speaker 1: Baby. That's that's another thing. What can I do? They can make money when I'm sleeping, because I have to make money.

00:26:36
Speaker 3: So if it's between getting on a road and not making money, I'm getting on a road no matter how tired, I.

00:26:42
Speaker 1: Am going to get the money.

00:26:44
Speaker 3: But if I can sit down and make money, I'm doing it. So as soon as I find my niche, I'm going to take that and I'm running with it. Yeah, because I could be at home with my kids just having a where I build me a warehouse or something.

00:26:57
Speaker 1: On my land.

00:26:58
Speaker 2: Yeah.

00:26:58
Speaker 1: Oh yeah, come on, and yeah, cause I'm gonna get it. I'm gonna get a house again. Right, I have kids, you have family. Yeah, it makes sense. You have to make it make sense. Yeah.

00:27:07
Speaker 3: Yeah, I don't have it now, but eventually I will feel me something or something you know. But in the next five years, by the time my son starts school and get into them activities, Yes, it's time for me. I'm going to them games. So I need to find my way without having to move around. Yes, make their life all complicated.

00:27:28
Speaker 1: Yeah, I love it. I love that.

00:27:33
Speaker 2: Through everything that you've been through in life, what is a moment or a point that pulled you close to to guy to make you leaning.

00:27:41
Speaker 1: On your faith. Hm.

00:27:46
Speaker 3: I feel after I had both of my kids, for sure, kind of a switch was like yeah, like even knowing that you know, given birth, you could that's hot.

00:27:56
Speaker 1: That's listen. That is one of my greatest fears. Yes, you could life or death. Yeah, and then you created life, like you create life in the process.

00:28:05
Speaker 4: Yeah.

00:28:05
Speaker 3: So it's like you know that just knowing that and you know, overcoming and you know, coming out on the positive side of it.

00:28:11
Speaker 1: So it was like I'm just grateful.

00:28:14
Speaker 3: Yeah, and I get closer to God and just knowing how he operates and having and getting closer as being more intuitive with him and He's showing me things and it's and it's happening and I'm like, wow, that was you. You told me that, and it's like it just brings me closer because I know you're real, you know, because I mean, coming up, we don't know for sure parents, but we just you start realizing that on your own and you live in this thing called life and you're seeing how it operates with him and it's spiritual. You start to learn like, okay, I gotta get closer, you know, and I still feel like I can be closer.

00:28:52
Speaker 1: Yeah.

00:28:52
Speaker 2: I feel like it's an ever evolving relationship. Yeah, likeship.

00:28:57
Speaker 1: It is to always yeah yeah, to keep you and then and just yeah, I'm with you on that.

00:29:02
Speaker 2: And I feel like in this past year, I feel like every conversation I had with friends, at some point God comes up. You notice because it's all the tension everything's going on.

00:29:11
Speaker 1: I feel like he's just pulling us closer and closer, and I feel everything was going on in the world. It's too much. It's too much. It's like I was thinking about, like I'm not about to drive to Memphis. I'm going to get on a plane and I'm plane and flipped over.

00:29:25
Speaker 2: I'm baby, it's scary, Like I don't think I've prayed. It's always like thank you love for let us make her safe. Now it's like heaven, like I want to kneel down on the floor before we take off.

00:29:36
Speaker 1: Heavenly fly the police.

00:29:36
Speaker 2: Let just make it like you you're very intentional now, like about like, am I going to get there safely?

00:29:41
Speaker 3: Because it's crazy because it's like when you know what's so crazy? I think that you can speak thinks to assistance and also think it. Oh absolutely when you have that stuff on your brain all day and every day, and you don't want to have this on your brain all day because sometimes it happens when you just thinking about it and you manifest this.

00:29:56
Speaker 1: Yeah, but it's like you can't help when you get on it internet, this is all you see in your face, like I have to log out. It's like it's like, let me just give this a break.

00:30:06
Speaker 2: I had to start doing like a time limit on my social media, like on Instagram, like two hour daily limit throughout the day. I can only say for two hours two hours. Yeah, because it is it's so much negativity.

00:30:17
Speaker 3: You have to take that, Yeah, because I'd be moving around so much. Like when I do get a chance to get on there, I'll be in there, oh and stuck.

00:30:26
Speaker 1: Whether you find all the new stuff like pregnant, oh wow, limit any sense stuff now you buy?

00:30:35
Speaker 3: It takes it so much, so I'm gonna take that. Give me a limit a day, ye, just a limit, Yeah, just slid up.

00:30:46
Speaker 1: Jas.

00:30:53
Speaker 2: We do something that's called positive outcomes, and a lot of times when women see us, they feel like we're exempt from heartache or even you know what I'm saying, being taken advantage of. I don't know why, because they look at us and like gets so perfect and like who would ever cheat on you or break your heart? Are heartbreaks and stuff and make fun of it because they're like, oh, she got her heart broken too.

00:31:16
Speaker 1: It's like I mean it just like yeah, we're not exempt.

00:31:19
Speaker 2: Yeah, but if you were if there's a woman watching, what advice would you give her if she's going through something.

00:31:25
Speaker 3: Like that, a heartbreak, yeah, or even just feeling like she was taking for granted. It's a light at the end of the tunnel. And trust the process because God do not play about his children, and that get back the.

00:31:42
Speaker 1: God get back. It's different from so don't even try it. Don't even try it. Just let it be.

00:31:50
Speaker 3: Pray, get in your back, yes, put your energy into yourself and your back, and let God handle the rest because the way he can do his get back.

00:32:01
Speaker 2: Baby, Listen, I didn't seen there may be some years down the line you'd be like you did not forget about You did.

00:32:07
Speaker 3: Not forget about me, and you just be sitting there like, look how that unfolded.

00:32:10
Speaker 1: And by time and unfolded, you are over it. So you not even living in the No, you really feel bad for them? Yes, yeah, you know.

00:32:17
Speaker 3: Don't do nothing intentional, that's ill, that's so good. I have pure intentions at all times, you know, so that God could take care of HI.

00:32:25
Speaker 1: Don't do nothing with ill intentions. Let him take care of it because he do with the best. Maybe he knew the best. I love God. I love him, Thank you. That's perfect advice to close out. I made a game, a little spin on cash commandments. Okay, it's a rapid fire.

00:32:42
Speaker 2: You're just gonna answer this or that type of game. All right, first cash commandment? Always get the bag or always check the contract first?

00:32:51
Speaker 1: Which one? Get the bag or check the contract? Check the contract? All right? First? More money or more respect? More respect? Big flex are low key wealth? Low key wa Come on?

00:33:04
Speaker 2: It is.

00:33:06
Speaker 1: Invest in real estate or invest in yourself. Wow, that's a tough one. I know. Wow. You know why. I'm gonna say invest in myself because the more you invest in yourself, you can invest in real estate. I love that. Now you love your breaking bags. So this is gonna be a tough one. Designer bags or property deeds. Property deeds? Come on, all right, now I'm gonna go with that. I'm gonna yeah, because that's both. But that helps get that exactly. You got a sacrifice one for them, right, I'll get both? Right, all right? One has to go forever were letting go of wigs or lashes. This is tough because Lord have mercy. Oh my god, that's a tough one. Are lashing if you forever? Oh? My god, I probably say wigs just because we can still do bundles and quick weeds like that.

00:34:05
Speaker 3: Keep our lashes, yes, because we were looking a little sleepy with yah lash.

00:34:10
Speaker 1: Oh yeah. After I stopp getting those individuals, it was I have no lashes. You was an individual?

00:34:16
Speaker 3: See you is my girl, because I was one, and I pulled them all out there and they're doing clusters.

00:34:22
Speaker 2: Now, yes, that might be good that it don't take a lot of time, right you like last I've never done that.

00:34:29
Speaker 3: I did it one time and my eyes was floodshot red, so I never did it again, like plus coming out my eyes.

00:34:34
Speaker 1: So I only can do strips. Oh, yes, what I do now?

00:34:37
Speaker 2: Yeah, I only strips because those the well the individuals, because they put them like more towards the skin.

00:34:41
Speaker 1: But it was like literally pulling my lashes out. It was so bad. Yeah. Oh yeah, I said, do lashes grow back?

00:34:50
Speaker 2: Well they have grown back since then, but it's not nowhere near what it was before I started getting them.

00:34:54
Speaker 1: Yeah. I wish we was just used to Mascar pictures pre like two thousand.

00:35:00
Speaker 2: In nineteen when everybody was getting the last extensions, I had some beautiful lashes with just yeah, look at us.

00:35:08
Speaker 1: Doing too much. You know what I'm saying, doing too much?

00:35:11
Speaker 2: Okay, all right, let's see late nights in the club or early mornings on a business.

00:35:16
Speaker 1: Call, early mornings on a business call, because it gets your structure right. Yes, you gotta get okay, what I'm doing. What I'm doing. Yeah, that's good.

00:35:24
Speaker 2: Spend a weekend. It is hard spend the weekend with Beyonce Arihanna. That are really too word Okay, I say, okay, if someone I love bea though exactly, No, we love, but.

00:35:36
Speaker 1: It's like a weekend. I want to have a good time. Well be probably a good time.

00:35:39
Speaker 2: Too, Yeah, especially like I feel like behind closed doors when she could just.

00:35:43
Speaker 1: Beat herself, I think she a good time. It's a tie, okay, all right.

00:35:51
Speaker 2: If someone disrespects you in public, are you clapping back?

00:35:54
Speaker 1: Are you keeping it positive? Sweetie? See it's a mixture because I'm both, I'm both, I'm both on both. It depends on how you disrespect.

00:36:03
Speaker 3: See, like it be things going on on the internet right now, and that I don't say nothing about until you said something about my kid.

00:36:09
Speaker 1: Oh yeah, so now the gloves are off. But I'm not about to tweet I'm not about to make a video. I'm gonna say.

00:36:16
Speaker 3: Something on stage or I'm gonna say it to where it makes sense for me, right, you know, because I ain't tolerate no disrespect hello, and especially about my kids.

00:36:26
Speaker 2: No, that's I feel like there are certain lines that should not be crossed, that shouldn't be crossed, and once you do that, all better off for sure.

00:36:33
Speaker 1: I'm with you on that.

00:36:35
Speaker 2: If you can listen to only one artist forever besides yourself, who would it be?

00:36:40
Speaker 1: Eliir? I love that sneakers are heels hell hells. You see that the booty day.

00:36:52
Speaker 2: If a man wants to be in your life, he must bring what loyalty or luxury both both your biggest A man with bad credit or a man with no ambition, no ambition.

00:37:10
Speaker 1: That's credit. Can we can fix that, We figured out back, we figured out. But the no ambition, like how I'm gonna get you, that's how we're gonna get you, Like you gotta have that? That is so disgusting. No, I'm with you. Yeah, that's the biggest, my biggest thing. Yeah. Would you rather be swore with gifts or swell with time and attention? She said, are you asking me so hard. I want everything. I want all of it. Well, they asked me my favorite love lady, and like all of them, I can't answer that. Yeah, because I want love and attention too. I love love and attention.

00:37:40
Speaker 3: But you gotta give me a gift that makes me so happy and to make we make our own money. So it's not like you're giving me something I can't get myself and him too, like I want to buy your stuffy something. Don't make me feel like I'm the trick, hello, like I'm a truth or something by talking about your stuff.

00:38:00
Speaker 1: I don't feel bad. Oh, you brought me so cool. I'm about to go get you something, all right, lads two or three? If he fumbles the bag meaning you, does he get a second chance or no? Have you have you spuned a black cash? It'd be over. It's over. It's over. Sorry, we could be cool. Maybe yeah, I tried it and it just didn't want almost a read like and then you trust the reason why you originally broke it. I originally broke up with it.

00:38:35
Speaker 3: I mean sometimes it haven't happened, okay, and it was successful No, okay, I'm sorry.

00:38:43
Speaker 1: Broke, but loyal or rich and slightly toxic, he said, slightly toxic or just toxic, slightly like a little bit of toxic, just enough, a nothing not like okay, he cared, it's toxic. Care though, I think what is toxic? Like a good time toxic or like cheating and stuff, No, not cheating and stuff. Oh toxic and rich. I am rich. I can't deal with it. I can't. I mean, well, I'm not rich. I do good for myself. I don't even like saying that, but it's like, I do so good for myself. I just don't want.

00:39:25
Speaker 3: Somebody next to me that just can't even do it for themselves like I could do for myself, and I feel bad doing myself because I can, Like I just have to be myself and I can't be myself if I'm around someone that just don't have nothing, like broke, it's broke.

00:39:40
Speaker 1: Yeah, yeah, but you're loyal to me broke.

00:39:45
Speaker 3: It's like I don't even want nobody feeling comfortable being broke.

00:39:50
Speaker 1: Yeah, that's where the ambition comes in. Yeah, like I don't, no, don't be broken around No, absolutely not. It's not gonna work. Don't do it aim as high All right, last question, we're gonna get out of here.

00:40:03
Speaker 2: Your biggest turn on in a man power moves or a good sense of humor.

00:40:09
Speaker 1: Both. Yeah, I need you to get me laugh and I don't. I better laugh. I want to be laying that makes them fine. I want to be in the bed. I'm too goofy. Yes, and then you have to be making some power moves, some moves inspiring, Yes, motivation. I want a man that inspire me.

00:40:32
Speaker 3: Motivating, which already we do a lot in life on our own, and it's like the person that you land with and giving yourself too. You want to be able to look at them like, wow, that's amazing.

00:40:42
Speaker 1: Absolutely, yeah, I love that. Amazing Alright with me, I come kicking with you. Come on back. You are welcome any time. I'm serious, I'm coming back. Let me know when you get that condo out here. Okay, yeah, let's do it. Let's away. Thank you so much. I had a good time.

00:41:12
Speaker 2: What an incredible conversation I have with Cash Doll. Her story is all about.

00:41:16
Speaker 1: Resilience, confidence, and staying true to your vision. I hope you're walking away just as inspired as I am. One of my takeaways from this episode is that Cash is really a Girl's girl. I absolutely love that about her.

00:41:30
Speaker 2: I love how she emphasized sisterhood and how important it is to have your sisters. I got me a new one today. Love you, Cash and thanks for stuffing Bidy. Thank you so much for tuning into this episode of the Keep It Positive Sweetie Show. Don't forget to subscribe, leave a review, and share this episode with someone who could use some positive energy. And while you're at it, make sure you tune into the new episode of Sisters this Wednesday, and remember, no matter what life throws at you, stay focused, stay confident, and of course keep it positive.

00:42:05
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00:42:06
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00:42:17
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