Dear Horse World, It's Karl Cook: From Olympic Athlete to Mad Scientist in the Saddle (Sponsored by Connaway & Associates)
Every rider knows the feeling: you're in the middle of a training session and something just doesn't click. There's a disconnect, not just with your horse, but with your approach and mindset. It's more than just a riding issue—it goes deeper, reflecting the challenges and complexities of the equestrian sport.
Today, we've got a guest who isn't afraid to challenge the status quo. Karl Cook is an Olympic medalist and top-level showjumper who brings innovation and blunt honesty to the equestrian world.
In this episode, we'll delve into Karl's unique viewpoints on horse care, training, and the tools and technology that are changing how we approach the sport.
Known for his blunt and innovative style, Karl discusses the importance of focusing on fundamentals, avoiding quick fixes, and the tendency of horse owners to frame their horses as inherently unique to evade responsibility.
He talks about his latest projects, including the development of new bits, bridles, and sensors to improve training accuracy. Karl emphasizes the value of actionable data over mere feelings, highlighting a balance between subjective feel and objective information. He also discusses how simple yet disciplined adjustments can significantly impact riding performance and horse care.
Karl dives into his methods for integrating new horses into his program and the subtle differences in their management, stressing the importance of treating horses well, maintaining consistency, and the role of structured, data-informed practices. He advocates for a straightforward, action-oriented approach to overcome challenges and promote continuous improvement in both riders and horses.
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1 00:00:00,000 --> 00:00:03,930 People wanna believe their horse is complete individual, again, 2 00:00:04,170 --> 00:00:07,680 to abdicate blame for why they aren't doing what they want. 3 00:00:09,090 --> 00:00:13,560 Everyone says they want the truth, but what happens when 4 00:00:13,560 --> 00:00:15,360 someone actually tells it? 5 00:00:16,110 --> 00:00:20,220 Carl Cook is a top level show jumper, Olympic medalist, an 6 00:00:20,220 --> 00:00:25,410 innovator, and a rider who doesn't play by the industry's rules. 7 00:00:25,890 --> 00:00:31,020 He's blunt, he's curious, and he's not here to sell you shortcuts. 8 00:00:32,250 --> 00:00:37,890 In this episode, Carl shares why we chase the wrong solutions, ignore the basics, 9 00:00:37,890 --> 00:00:40,980 and spend money in all the wrong places. 10 00:00:41,580 --> 00:00:43,325 Why we avoid the hard fixes? 11 00:00:43,915 --> 00:00:44,545 The discipline. 12 00:00:44,545 --> 00:00:47,455 We lack the balance issues we won't face. 13 00:00:47,785 --> 00:00:52,045 The simple changes that would actually move the needle and why 14 00:00:52,045 --> 00:00:54,295 we tell ourselves the same story. 15 00:00:54,565 --> 00:00:56,185 My horse is just different. 16 00:00:56,575 --> 00:01:01,254 A story that helps us dodge responsibility from building his own bits to 17 00:01:01,254 --> 00:01:03,685 tracking every detail of horse care. 18 00:01:04,075 --> 00:01:06,265 Carl's not chasing what's easy. 19 00:01:06,835 --> 00:01:08,905 He's chasing what works. 20 00:01:09,835 --> 00:01:11,454 Dear Horse world, it's Carl Cook. 21 00:01:16,735 --> 00:01:18,625 Carl, welcome to the Dear Horse World Podcast. 22 00:01:18,625 --> 00:01:18,715 It's 23 00:01:18,715 --> 00:01:19,285 great to be here. 24 00:01:19,765 --> 00:01:21,985 I am so happy you're here. 25 00:01:22,795 --> 00:01:26,695 I'm gonna tell you my nickname for you, the Mad Scientist. 26 00:01:28,375 --> 00:01:29,664 I mean, the first word works 27 00:01:31,315 --> 00:01:31,525 okay? 28 00:01:31,525 --> 00:01:33,805 So I'm gonna explain to everyone who's listening and watching why 29 00:01:33,805 --> 00:01:35,275 I call you the Mad Scientist. 30 00:01:36,145 --> 00:01:38,815 So over the years watching and. 31 00:01:39,690 --> 00:01:40,800 Getting to know you. 32 00:01:41,160 --> 00:01:43,589 I used to, when I would come to the shows a lot, you'd pull me in 33 00:01:43,589 --> 00:01:48,119 sometimes to the barn or into the, the alleyway, and you'd show me something 34 00:01:48,119 --> 00:01:49,440 really cool that you were working on. 35 00:01:50,220 --> 00:01:55,289 And I've always really admired that kind of innovative mind that you have. 36 00:01:56,190 --> 00:02:02,310 So I wanted to ask you, what are the latest and greatest innovations products, 37 00:02:02,310 --> 00:02:07,050 things that you're building, testing, trying, that we might not know about yet? 38 00:02:08,250 --> 00:02:08,550 Yeah. 39 00:02:08,550 --> 00:02:10,019 So what am I working on now? 40 00:02:10,560 --> 00:02:16,680 Um, yeah, I released a new bit, um, last year, which I'm really proud of. 41 00:02:16,890 --> 00:02:18,450 I designed a couple years back. 42 00:02:19,109 --> 00:02:21,570 Um, didn't really plan on releasing it, but. 43 00:02:22,200 --> 00:02:24,269 You know, the opportunity came about. 44 00:02:24,690 --> 00:02:27,690 We have some new versions of it coming, coming out soon. 45 00:02:28,140 --> 00:02:34,260 I have a new bridal coming out, um, that's taken a while, um, to 46 00:02:34,260 --> 00:02:37,829 get to where we can actually, you know, have production of inequality. 47 00:02:38,190 --> 00:02:42,420 I made some studs for some of my horses, uh, that are lighter weight. 48 00:02:42,750 --> 00:02:48,359 Um, and, you know, trying to take that element out of things. 49 00:02:48,840 --> 00:02:54,390 There's also work on trying to add sensors, uh, when you ride, not 50 00:02:54,390 --> 00:02:58,500 in the saddle as or on the girth, you know, there's plenty of those. 51 00:02:58,800 --> 00:02:58,890 Mm-hmm. 52 00:02:59,220 --> 00:03:03,209 Um, but they don't really tell you anything actionable. 53 00:03:03,990 --> 00:03:08,640 Uh, they give you data, which is cool, like cool, but it 54 00:03:08,820 --> 00:03:10,560 only, it's only distraction. 55 00:03:10,950 --> 00:03:15,030 Uh, a lot of it because it's not connected to more actionable stuff. 56 00:03:15,690 --> 00:03:16,350 Um. 57 00:03:17,100 --> 00:03:21,090 So I've put tension sensors on my reins and on my stirrups, 58 00:03:21,120 --> 00:03:22,320 and I use them for training. 59 00:03:22,560 --> 00:03:28,019 Uh, and then those could help some of the data points from some of the other 60 00:03:28,019 --> 00:03:32,490 sensors, but you kind of need those actionable items, your reins in your 61 00:03:32,490 --> 00:03:34,079 stirs, because that's all we talk about. 62 00:03:35,190 --> 00:03:39,120 You know, when we ride is, oh, you, you know, you were too late to sit up and 63 00:03:39,120 --> 00:03:40,710 pull the reins to get that line done. 64 00:03:40,769 --> 00:03:45,420 Or you yanked your horse off the floor or you were, you had all 65 00:03:45,420 --> 00:03:46,590 your weight in your right stirrup. 66 00:03:47,820 --> 00:03:50,310 That's, you know, common conversation. 67 00:03:50,519 --> 00:03:54,420 And these will confirm or deny that it will tell you exactly how 68 00:03:54,420 --> 00:03:55,590 much time it took you to pull. 69 00:03:56,010 --> 00:04:00,990 It'll tell you, did you actually yank or were you actually have all your weight in 70 00:04:00,990 --> 00:04:02,970 your right stir or was, were you balanced? 71 00:04:03,360 --> 00:04:07,920 So you can actually just be more accurate with your analysis of your rounds. 72 00:04:09,300 --> 00:04:09,750 Okay. 73 00:04:09,840 --> 00:04:10,650 This is really cool. 74 00:04:10,650 --> 00:04:14,400 I kind of wanna dive into this because you are doing something that 75 00:04:14,400 --> 00:04:16,380 we've never been able to do before. 76 00:04:18,015 --> 00:04:18,375 Yeah, 77 00:04:18,495 --> 00:04:20,714 technology allows for what you're talking about, it 78 00:04:20,984 --> 00:04:22,544 allowed for 15 years ago, 79 00:04:23,205 --> 00:04:24,344 but not 50 years ago. 80 00:04:24,734 --> 00:04:28,755 Well, no, but this is just an application of technology that we have. 81 00:04:28,755 --> 00:04:33,284 It's nothing new, it's just a application that no one's tried, 82 00:04:34,245 --> 00:04:36,315 I think outside of a, a lab maybe. 83 00:04:36,945 --> 00:04:42,224 So why you're taking the oppo, the ability for technology to accumulate data. 84 00:04:42,224 --> 00:04:44,174 Why is data important to someone like you? 85 00:04:44,565 --> 00:04:46,724 I think data informs decisions. 86 00:04:47,085 --> 00:04:52,125 Um, and we have our feeling in our sport and we use that as data 87 00:04:52,125 --> 00:04:53,385 right now 'cause it's what we have. 88 00:04:54,164 --> 00:04:59,054 Um, and some people are more accurate than others, but I think there are 89 00:04:59,054 --> 00:05:04,155 things that you can benefit from if you actually have more objective data. 90 00:05:04,515 --> 00:05:08,145 You know, like we spoke about years ago, the footing measuring, you know, 91 00:05:08,445 --> 00:05:12,795 tension measuring in your reigns and your stirrups is a great continuance of that. 92 00:05:12,795 --> 00:05:15,195 And it just helps inform your decisions. 93 00:05:15,225 --> 00:05:19,215 You know, if you think you made a mistake, but then the data shows you 94 00:05:19,215 --> 00:05:23,535 didn't make the mistake, you thought, well, then you made a different 95 00:05:23,535 --> 00:05:24,855 mistake that you have to go figure out. 96 00:05:25,125 --> 00:05:28,905 But if you thought you made a mistake that you didn't make, you'll go 97 00:05:28,905 --> 00:05:31,335 down that road of fixing a mistake that you didn't actually make. 98 00:05:31,695 --> 00:05:31,845 Yeah. 99 00:05:32,385 --> 00:05:34,725 And then you're like, why am I not getting better? 100 00:05:34,965 --> 00:05:36,855 Well, you're trying to fix something that wasn't broken. 101 00:05:37,335 --> 00:05:40,605 Do you feel like what you're, this is a, to me, what reminds me 102 00:05:40,605 --> 00:05:44,985 of is you're speaking of the, is the contrast or the, the conflict 103 00:05:44,985 --> 00:05:47,235 between subjectivity and objectivity? 104 00:05:48,195 --> 00:05:49,725 I don't think they're in conflict. 105 00:05:49,725 --> 00:05:50,895 I think they're critical. 106 00:05:50,955 --> 00:05:56,175 I think it's important that people have really well developed subjective feel. 107 00:05:56,895 --> 00:06:00,345 Um, and I think it's important for objectivity to fill in 108 00:06:00,345 --> 00:06:02,355 where it's most well suited. 109 00:06:02,925 --> 00:06:08,085 I think if we then get to a point where young riders are riding off 110 00:06:08,085 --> 00:06:12,105 of data and they're not actually thinking, and they're not actually 111 00:06:12,105 --> 00:06:17,445 feeling, they won't be able to communicate at all what they're feeling. 112 00:06:17,445 --> 00:06:19,695 They'll just look at a screen and be like, oh, I did it perfect. 113 00:06:21,165 --> 00:06:22,635 And that's, that's wrong. 114 00:06:22,875 --> 00:06:25,665 You know, should you pull more with your Right, right. 115 00:06:25,665 --> 00:06:26,265 Or your left, right. 116 00:06:26,925 --> 00:06:27,495 I don't know. 117 00:06:27,885 --> 00:06:28,365 Maybe. 118 00:06:28,905 --> 00:06:32,385 But if your goal is always to be even sometimes you need to have asymmetry. 119 00:06:32,745 --> 00:06:33,075 Mm-hmm. 120 00:06:33,135 --> 00:06:35,655 And if you're right off of just the data, you will fail. 121 00:06:36,165 --> 00:06:42,675 And so it's important that the objectivity is just a sub, uh, supplement, 122 00:06:43,215 --> 00:06:49,425 um, to confirm or deny, um, your feeling and your trainer's feeling, 123 00:06:49,425 --> 00:06:51,315 or your team, that sort of thing. 124 00:06:51,675 --> 00:06:52,995 It kind of reminds me of. 125 00:06:54,045 --> 00:06:57,615 The, what you're talking about, the importance of subjectivity, the importance 126 00:06:57,615 --> 00:07:01,965 of field, the importance of being able to apply data, but the also the ability to 127 00:07:01,965 --> 00:07:06,585 collect data kind of feels like where art and science meet when it comes to horses. 128 00:07:06,825 --> 00:07:08,115 I don't know if art's the right term. 129 00:07:08,115 --> 00:07:11,655 I think it, I think it, I hate the term, but it's the best term is it's your feel. 130 00:07:11,985 --> 00:07:17,085 Mm. You, you know, you, you know, I can know, I can get data that 131 00:07:17,085 --> 00:07:20,145 shows that I pull more with my left. 132 00:07:20,145 --> 00:07:20,445 Right. 133 00:07:20,445 --> 00:07:22,664 Doing a right to left change than a left to right change. 134 00:07:23,294 --> 00:07:23,985 Okay, cool. 135 00:07:24,555 --> 00:07:25,485 Which one is correct? 136 00:07:26,865 --> 00:07:30,765 Well, that's where your fuel comes in that says, oh, I think the stickiness 137 00:07:30,855 --> 00:07:36,465 on my right to left change is maybe due to a preexisting injury that we know of 138 00:07:36,495 --> 00:07:38,474 and that affects the gait a certain way. 139 00:07:38,775 --> 00:07:43,485 Or if the horse isn't rotating his, his neck to the left, that's why 140 00:07:43,485 --> 00:07:44,925 I'm pulling more with my left reign. 141 00:07:45,315 --> 00:07:49,485 That can mean he doesn't want to compress the left side or he doesn't 142 00:07:49,485 --> 00:07:50,925 want to extend the right side. 143 00:07:51,360 --> 00:07:56,250 And that compression would, on the left side would mean that 144 00:07:56,670 --> 00:07:58,050 it could be these structures. 145 00:07:58,200 --> 00:08:00,780 Extension on the right side would mean these other structures. 146 00:08:00,900 --> 00:08:04,110 And so that's where your knowledge and your feel and your experience comes in. 147 00:08:04,115 --> 00:08:04,425 Mm-hmm. 148 00:08:04,650 --> 00:08:10,800 The brain tension data just tells you something, you know, very basic, but you 149 00:08:10,800 --> 00:08:15,810 have to fill that in with the rest of your experience and your team's experience. 150 00:08:16,650 --> 00:08:21,780 So, let's talk a little bit about this bit and the bridal. 151 00:08:21,990 --> 00:08:25,350 First of all, what did you see in the market that didn't exist and why you 152 00:08:25,350 --> 00:08:27,300 wanted to create something unique to you? 153 00:08:27,960 --> 00:08:28,800 I didn't want to. 154 00:08:29,310 --> 00:08:29,820 You didn't? 155 00:08:29,909 --> 00:08:33,210 No, I, you know, you only create things outta necessity. 156 00:08:33,210 --> 00:08:34,679 You don't create them 'cause they're already there. 157 00:08:34,980 --> 00:08:41,789 I had a specific need for something and nothing that existed could fill that need. 158 00:08:42,690 --> 00:08:43,860 I have a deep bit box. 159 00:08:43,890 --> 00:08:50,730 Trust me, I, nothing could fill that need and I. Had an idea of 160 00:08:51,210 --> 00:08:55,590 combining two different bits in a way that hasn't been done before. 161 00:08:56,100 --> 00:09:01,290 And it ended up working and I used that bit a lot. 162 00:09:01,290 --> 00:09:03,810 I show one of my horses, I've shown a in it for years. 163 00:09:03,810 --> 00:09:08,370 And, um, it accomplished the goal I wanted for it. 164 00:09:08,580 --> 00:09:11,310 And that was the whole thing. 165 00:09:11,370 --> 00:09:12,120 That was the end. 166 00:09:12,120 --> 00:09:12,840 I had a need. 167 00:09:12,840 --> 00:09:13,830 I filled it with a bit. 168 00:09:13,890 --> 00:09:18,720 And then down the road I, you know, I met, met someone who 169 00:09:18,720 --> 00:09:20,430 could help produce the bit. 170 00:09:20,490 --> 00:09:23,010 'cause I thought it could be useful for other people. 171 00:09:23,025 --> 00:09:23,105 Hmm. 172 00:09:23,105 --> 00:09:25,770 Because I have a couple other bits that I've had designed 173 00:09:25,770 --> 00:09:27,780 for, again, a need for me. 174 00:09:27,780 --> 00:09:29,940 But that use case is so narrow. 175 00:09:30,450 --> 00:09:35,940 Mm. And you need to really know what you're doing to get the benefit of it. 176 00:09:35,940 --> 00:09:36,030 Mm-hmm. 177 00:09:36,270 --> 00:09:41,220 Where this one, I think is you can get the benefit from it a lot simpler. 178 00:09:41,400 --> 00:09:43,020 And I thought it could help a lot of people. 179 00:09:43,020 --> 00:09:46,470 'cause that need, I feel is more widespread. 180 00:09:47,250 --> 00:09:49,290 And people don't know that they need it. 181 00:09:49,470 --> 00:09:51,240 They just know that they're struggling with something. 182 00:09:51,720 --> 00:09:55,380 Um, and I believe this bit can help. 183 00:09:56,160 --> 00:09:56,910 What is that need? 184 00:09:57,449 --> 00:10:00,209 It's a bridge between apel and a swale. 185 00:10:00,480 --> 00:10:01,770 Everyone knows what a plum is. 186 00:10:02,280 --> 00:10:07,860 I think like two thirds to three quarters of all show jumping horses go in a pellum. 187 00:10:07,860 --> 00:10:08,819 Mm-hmm. 188 00:10:08,821 --> 00:10:11,579 Um, it's great 'cause it keeps the horse stable. 189 00:10:11,790 --> 00:10:11,880 Mm-hmm. 190 00:10:12,449 --> 00:10:14,640 But by doing so, it makes it kind of just dull. 191 00:10:15,630 --> 00:10:19,260 Um, I frankly can't ride in a pellum 'cause it's too dull. 192 00:10:19,439 --> 00:10:23,670 I can't turn, I can't do all these things that you need to do. 193 00:10:23,670 --> 00:10:24,780 It's just too dull. 194 00:10:24,780 --> 00:10:25,050 It's just ugh. 195 00:10:26,520 --> 00:10:29,939 Um, but it makes the horse stable, which is great, you know, and 196 00:10:29,939 --> 00:10:36,209 that stability can really help riders who need that stability. 197 00:10:36,810 --> 00:10:41,280 Um, but sometimes horses are just so dull on it, on the other side. 198 00:10:41,280 --> 00:10:44,939 On as Wale it's great 'cause it can make courses really, really light. 199 00:10:45,960 --> 00:10:49,260 The problem is horses need to have some weight on the bit, on 200 00:10:49,260 --> 00:10:50,550 the final approach to a fence. 201 00:10:51,060 --> 00:10:54,360 And as Wale oftentimes that final approach, when the horses load your 202 00:10:54,360 --> 00:10:56,970 hands, they'll, they'll pop off the bit. 203 00:10:57,180 --> 00:10:57,240 Hmm. 204 00:10:57,510 --> 00:10:59,370 Um, because they want to load. 205 00:10:59,370 --> 00:11:00,780 And the bit is not letting 'em load. 206 00:11:01,800 --> 00:11:04,080 Not because it's aggressive, it's just how it works. 207 00:11:04,350 --> 00:11:09,720 So what I did is I, the, my bit is a combination of a pal, the strengths of a 208 00:11:09,720 --> 00:11:12,870 pal, and the activity of a, of a swale. 209 00:11:13,050 --> 00:11:18,090 So it's, you have the stability, but you also have more, you know, a more 210 00:11:18,090 --> 00:11:20,310 dynamic feel than you ever get with a pal. 211 00:11:20,640 --> 00:11:21,000 Cool. 212 00:11:21,660 --> 00:11:25,140 Why do horses, I think that a lot of people listening might wanna 213 00:11:25,470 --> 00:11:26,580 want me to ask this question. 214 00:11:26,580 --> 00:11:28,770 Why do horses need to load on the bit before they jump? 215 00:11:29,490 --> 00:11:30,540 I think it loads their body. 216 00:11:30,630 --> 00:11:32,640 I think it's like, it's like loading a rubber band. 217 00:11:32,645 --> 00:11:32,815 Mm-hmm. 218 00:11:32,895 --> 00:11:35,970 You know, if you just take a loose rubber band, it's not gonna fly across the room. 219 00:11:36,000 --> 00:11:36,090 Mm-hmm. 220 00:11:36,600 --> 00:11:40,650 You know, that, that load is like loading up a rubber band. 221 00:11:40,710 --> 00:11:43,680 And I think it's just that simple. 222 00:11:43,710 --> 00:11:44,460 You, you know, you, it. 223 00:11:45,225 --> 00:11:47,775 It'd be like saying jump, but don't bend your knees. 224 00:11:47,985 --> 00:11:48,195 Yeah. 225 00:11:48,314 --> 00:11:49,995 That's, I think, a really cool explanation. 226 00:11:50,445 --> 00:11:54,195 Um, 'cause a lot of the people, a lot of our listeners are deep, deep, 227 00:11:54,195 --> 00:11:57,255 deep in the jump in the world of jumping and then, and some aren't. 228 00:11:57,255 --> 00:11:58,995 So I think it's a really cool opportunity. 229 00:11:59,265 --> 00:12:02,415 The biomechanics that happen when horses jump over fences, especially 230 00:12:02,415 --> 00:12:06,555 at the height that they jump with you, is a really exciting thing to witness. 231 00:12:06,825 --> 00:12:10,575 And I think when you dive into the biomechanics, the balance aspects of 232 00:12:10,575 --> 00:12:12,375 it, the angles, it's really interesting. 233 00:12:12,375 --> 00:12:16,070 We did a little bit of that when we talked with, when Nikki Hinson came in mm-hmm. 234 00:12:16,150 --> 00:12:17,565 To the EPIs into the studio. 235 00:12:17,565 --> 00:12:19,125 It was really cool to talk about it. 236 00:12:19,845 --> 00:12:20,115 Okay. 237 00:12:20,115 --> 00:12:22,005 So let's, so we've touched on the bit. 238 00:12:22,005 --> 00:12:22,815 Do you have a name for the bit? 239 00:12:23,444 --> 00:12:24,435 We call it a s Swum. 240 00:12:24,735 --> 00:12:26,475 So it's a combination of a s sw and a pellum. 241 00:12:26,745 --> 00:12:26,835 Nice. 242 00:12:27,015 --> 00:12:32,265 I thought about naming it something unique, but it was already new and, you 243 00:12:32,265 --> 00:12:34,365 know, didn't want to confuse people. 244 00:12:34,365 --> 00:12:35,235 Mm-hmm. 245 00:12:35,236 --> 00:12:38,265 Um, I want just to be, make sense to 'em. 246 00:12:38,355 --> 00:12:38,715 So 247 00:12:38,985 --> 00:12:39,345 cool. 248 00:12:39,675 --> 00:12:39,825 Yeah. 249 00:12:40,335 --> 00:12:40,875 The bridal. 250 00:12:42,030 --> 00:12:43,020 Just a leather bridle. 251 00:12:43,560 --> 00:12:44,760 Well, you're really selling it, girl. 252 00:12:45,570 --> 00:12:49,770 No, I mean, there's all these new bridals where it relieves pull pressure 253 00:12:49,770 --> 00:12:54,720 or it moves the cheek piece so it doesn't pinch on a nerve that's there. 254 00:12:55,410 --> 00:12:56,850 You know, all of this stuff. 255 00:12:58,020 --> 00:13:03,600 First of all, people will put on a bridle that doesn't put pull pressure, 256 00:13:03,930 --> 00:13:07,140 but in that, there's so many more straps around the cheeks and around the horse's 257 00:13:07,140 --> 00:13:09,390 face, and then they put on a pellum. 258 00:13:10,080 --> 00:13:12,630 A pellum is designed to apply pull pressure. 259 00:13:13,530 --> 00:13:17,460 It's design is literally based around applying pull pressure. 260 00:13:18,360 --> 00:13:21,720 So if you're complaining that your horse is sensitive to pull pressure, 261 00:13:21,960 --> 00:13:23,610 yet you were required to use a pellum. 262 00:13:24,705 --> 00:13:27,855 Or a gag or any of that, it makes no sense. 263 00:13:28,250 --> 00:13:31,815 You, you know, and also people with tighter nose bands, any 264 00:13:31,815 --> 00:13:34,515 tension in the nose band puts downward pressure on the pole. 265 00:13:34,755 --> 00:13:37,155 Whether it's because the horse is opening their mouth against the 266 00:13:37,155 --> 00:13:40,665 nose band, or because you put a tight nose band, it doesn't matter 267 00:13:40,725 --> 00:13:42,615 any nose band tension mm-hmm. 268 00:13:42,915 --> 00:13:43,995 Puts downward pressure. 269 00:13:44,145 --> 00:13:45,105 And anyone can do this. 270 00:13:45,255 --> 00:13:51,105 Just put your bridal on, put your hand underneath, uh, the crown piece mm-hmm. 271 00:13:51,525 --> 00:13:53,175 And twist the nose band. 272 00:13:53,355 --> 00:13:56,685 So you're slowly tightening it and you will feel downward pressure on your hand. 273 00:13:57,375 --> 00:14:03,585 So all this anti pull pressure stuff, I think maybe 0.1% of 274 00:14:03,585 --> 00:14:04,965 the time it's actually needed. 275 00:14:05,475 --> 00:14:10,395 I think the rest of the time it's be, it's used as a cover so people don't 276 00:14:10,395 --> 00:14:12,045 have to actually fix the problem. 277 00:14:12,255 --> 00:14:15,315 I have never had a horse with a pul pressure problem. 278 00:14:15,915 --> 00:14:21,855 I know every horse is unique and a special flower, but I also don't really. 279 00:14:23,310 --> 00:14:31,620 Sh like I can't think of one horse that I ride in that their 280 00:14:31,620 --> 00:14:35,640 show bridal a prize pull pressure except for Car Cole with Hack More. 281 00:14:35,880 --> 00:14:36,900 That's the only one. 282 00:14:36,959 --> 00:14:37,050 Mm-hmm. 283 00:14:37,380 --> 00:14:43,680 Um, again, I'm not saying it's impossible, I'm just saying it's used as a to abdicate 284 00:14:44,699 --> 00:14:46,110 blame for what's actually happening. 285 00:14:46,410 --> 00:14:50,699 Um, but more than that, I think a lot of the bridals 286 00:14:50,699 --> 00:14:52,410 nowadays are just really cheap. 287 00:14:53,220 --> 00:14:56,010 Even if you spend a lot on them, just 'cause you spent a lot doesn't 288 00:14:56,010 --> 00:14:57,449 mean that they're well made. 289 00:14:57,810 --> 00:15:00,150 You know, you'll pick one up and it'll smell like chemicals. 290 00:15:00,600 --> 00:15:04,620 Well that's because it's not vegetable tanned and it's chromium tanned in 291 00:15:04,620 --> 00:15:07,350 like Bangladesh and they don't last. 292 00:15:07,380 --> 00:15:08,760 And people just accept that. 293 00:15:10,860 --> 00:15:14,819 And I wanted to make a bridal that works, that has better leather, 294 00:15:15,240 --> 00:15:21,689 that works better, and you know, if you clean it moderately correctly. 295 00:15:21,975 --> 00:15:23,175 Will last a long time. 296 00:15:24,075 --> 00:15:28,515 Um, and we tie everything together so the bridal matches and it's made out of the 297 00:15:28,515 --> 00:15:30,705 same leather as the Martin Gale made out. 298 00:15:30,705 --> 00:15:34,305 It matches the reins, it matches, you know, so the whole thing 299 00:15:34,305 --> 00:15:35,835 looks to, you know, correct. 300 00:15:36,045 --> 00:15:40,575 Instead of having these mixed matched pieces that just don't look right. 301 00:15:41,085 --> 00:15:41,235 Yeah. 302 00:15:41,235 --> 00:15:45,825 I mean, as a kid I remember using electrical tape or zip ties or you, you 303 00:15:45,825 --> 00:15:50,115 know, whatever you could have, or you, you know, you put on a different nose 304 00:15:50,115 --> 00:15:53,535 band, but you didn't have that nose band in the bridal that the bridal was. 305 00:15:53,535 --> 00:15:57,375 So you put that on, but it's doesn't match at all, and it looks ugly. 306 00:15:57,375 --> 00:16:02,115 So, you know, we're just trying to make use go leather that people don't 307 00:16:02,115 --> 00:16:05,475 use and use because it's expensive. 308 00:16:07,005 --> 00:16:08,085 But for me, it's worth it. 309 00:16:08,085 --> 00:16:11,595 And I don't like designing something I know is gonna fail 310 00:16:12,225 --> 00:16:13,425 in a certain period of time. 311 00:16:13,845 --> 00:16:14,715 It's more profitable. 312 00:16:14,985 --> 00:16:16,605 It's way more profitable. 313 00:16:16,665 --> 00:16:16,905 Yep. 314 00:16:17,180 --> 00:16:21,200 But that's, that's not hard. 315 00:16:21,390 --> 00:16:21,449 Yeah. 316 00:16:22,050 --> 00:16:25,020 And it's not fun to design a product that you know is gonna fail. 317 00:16:25,800 --> 00:16:27,150 You can just so much easier. 318 00:16:27,150 --> 00:16:28,050 You just know it's gonna fail. 319 00:16:28,050 --> 00:16:29,040 You don't have to solve the problem. 320 00:16:29,430 --> 00:16:33,120 It's interesting 'cause we talked about this when ZA came into the 321 00:16:33,120 --> 00:16:34,350 studio, talk about saddle fit. 322 00:16:34,560 --> 00:16:40,080 And I don't think people, uh, do you think as an industry we talk enough about the 323 00:16:40,650 --> 00:16:47,130 commercial patterns of T fit and the fact that it says you make more money when 324 00:16:47,130 --> 00:16:49,020 something fails and needs to get replaced. 325 00:16:49,020 --> 00:16:50,430 Do you think we talk about that enough? 326 00:16:50,520 --> 00:16:52,560 No, but I mean, in society we don't. 327 00:16:52,920 --> 00:16:55,410 Um, what's the technical term for it? 328 00:16:55,530 --> 00:16:59,790 Uh, planned obsolescence is the technical term for it. 329 00:17:00,180 --> 00:17:02,400 You plan for it to obsolesce. 330 00:17:03,180 --> 00:17:06,420 Um, and they do that all over. 331 00:17:06,420 --> 00:17:09,690 You know, we can make light bulbs that last millions of hours. 332 00:17:09,690 --> 00:17:11,730 Why don't we, because it's not profitable. 333 00:17:13,290 --> 00:17:16,319 We, we, we could make saddles that last longer. 334 00:17:16,379 --> 00:17:17,910 Why don't we, it's not that profitable. 335 00:17:18,599 --> 00:17:20,430 And also people are cheap. 336 00:17:20,865 --> 00:17:23,775 You know, there's, there's plenty of, plenty of studies out there where everyone 337 00:17:23,775 --> 00:17:26,715 says, oh, we want organic, uh, produce. 338 00:17:27,105 --> 00:17:27,195 Mm-hmm. 339 00:17:27,495 --> 00:17:33,375 And but then when you people see the price difference between the two, like 340 00:17:33,405 --> 00:17:35,175 98% of 'em go to the conventional. 341 00:17:35,685 --> 00:17:35,865 Yeah. 342 00:17:35,865 --> 00:17:37,425 Do they really want organic? 343 00:17:37,455 --> 00:17:37,575 They 344 00:17:37,575 --> 00:17:38,355 don't wanna pay for it. 345 00:17:38,655 --> 00:17:40,995 They want it, but they don't wanna pay the difference. 346 00:17:41,385 --> 00:17:45,285 So if you have a conventionally made saddle versus one that'll last you 347 00:17:45,285 --> 00:17:48,825 four times as long, but it's twice as expensive, you'll go for the cheaper one. 348 00:17:49,440 --> 00:17:50,867 Why do you think that is? 349 00:17:50,867 --> 00:17:51,345 Why do you think we do that? 350 00:17:52,815 --> 00:17:55,155 Uh, it's human, human nature. 351 00:17:55,155 --> 00:17:57,435 There's so much work to try to figure it out. 352 00:17:57,435 --> 00:17:58,305 It's just expensive. 353 00:17:58,965 --> 00:17:59,385 Um, 354 00:17:59,925 --> 00:18:05,685 I also wonder whether we have an ability to delay gratification the 355 00:18:05,685 --> 00:18:08,865 way that we used to because we live in such a, well, wasn't that option. 356 00:18:09,735 --> 00:18:10,155 What do you mean? 357 00:18:11,775 --> 00:18:16,125 I think people weren't as good at planned obsolescence in the past. 358 00:18:16,125 --> 00:18:19,800 I. Okay, so stuff actually lasted mm-hmm. 359 00:18:20,130 --> 00:18:22,290 And there wasn't an option between something that doesn't 360 00:18:22,290 --> 00:18:23,460 last and something that does. 361 00:18:24,510 --> 00:18:26,220 So then let's talk about the studs. 362 00:18:27,840 --> 00:18:30,450 Yeah, I mean, I had a need for lighter weight studs, so 363 00:18:30,450 --> 00:18:31,590 I made lighter weight studs. 364 00:18:32,220 --> 00:18:33,120 Why did you have a need? 365 00:18:33,840 --> 00:18:36,870 Um, I had a horse that was barefoot her whole life that needed to jump on 366 00:18:36,870 --> 00:18:38,730 grass, so we had to put shoes on her. 367 00:18:38,970 --> 00:18:43,470 We put plastic shoes on her and I made really lightweight studs so that we 368 00:18:43,470 --> 00:18:47,760 didn't slip, and that was to minimize the difference between barefoot and, 369 00:18:48,330 --> 00:18:50,160 and uh, having the plastic shoes on. 370 00:18:51,060 --> 00:18:51,300 Okay. 371 00:18:51,300 --> 00:18:53,520 This is really cool 'cause this is, I really wanted to dive 372 00:18:53,520 --> 00:18:58,170 in to the end of each of your horses and how you navigate that. 373 00:18:58,170 --> 00:19:01,350 But before we go there, I think this would be a really good 374 00:19:01,350 --> 00:19:03,150 opportunity to talk about one. 375 00:19:03,150 --> 00:19:07,110 So you've tested, you've tried and you're using plastic is like glue on? 376 00:19:07,235 --> 00:19:09,120 No, no, I think glue on. 377 00:19:10,530 --> 00:19:12,585 I haven't tested it yet, but I think it's, it. 378 00:19:12,775 --> 00:19:13,740 It's, it's bad. 379 00:19:13,890 --> 00:19:14,220 Okay. 380 00:19:14,460 --> 00:19:16,890 So you're using plastic shoes that are nailed on. 381 00:19:16,920 --> 00:19:21,985 That are nailed on and you're using it on your ma, can you name who The horse on 382 00:19:21,985 --> 00:19:22,385 Carole. 383 00:19:22,500 --> 00:19:22,620 On 384 00:19:23,010 --> 00:19:23,340 Carole. 385 00:19:23,340 --> 00:19:23,580 We wanna 386 00:19:23,580 --> 00:19:25,020 start using on some others too. 387 00:19:25,020 --> 00:19:25,350 Okay. 388 00:19:25,770 --> 00:19:27,300 And she was barefoot her whole life. 389 00:19:27,360 --> 00:19:27,510 Yep. 390 00:19:28,140 --> 00:19:32,100 So you wanted to use lightweight shoes because she wasn't used to that. 391 00:19:32,160 --> 00:19:33,180 Like she's gone her whole career. 392 00:19:33,180 --> 00:19:33,780 Yeah, and we wanted 393 00:19:33,780 --> 00:19:34,650 flexible shoes. 394 00:19:34,650 --> 00:19:38,070 We wanted, you know, every piece to be as similar as before. 395 00:19:38,070 --> 00:19:38,460 So. 396 00:19:39,000 --> 00:19:39,630 And how's it going? 397 00:19:40,650 --> 00:19:41,220 Been going great. 398 00:19:41,730 --> 00:19:41,970 Great. 399 00:19:42,270 --> 00:19:42,450 Yeah. 400 00:19:43,140 --> 00:19:46,140 So you wanted to create a lightweight, you wanted to like recreate that 401 00:19:46,170 --> 00:19:47,460 lightweight feel that she has. 402 00:19:47,610 --> 00:19:48,990 She's had for most of her life, she has. 403 00:19:48,990 --> 00:19:49,050 Yeah. 404 00:19:49,110 --> 00:19:49,890 Biomechanically. 405 00:19:49,890 --> 00:19:52,230 It's different, you know, we know that when you take shoes off 406 00:19:52,230 --> 00:19:54,930 a horse who had been in shoes, there's differences to their gait. 407 00:19:55,170 --> 00:19:57,600 We know that when you take a barefoot horse and you put shoes on, there's 408 00:19:57,600 --> 00:20:00,330 differences in their gate and there's differences in their jump. 409 00:20:00,330 --> 00:20:02,460 And we wanted the best parts of both sides of it. 410 00:20:02,670 --> 00:20:02,730 Hmm. 411 00:20:03,900 --> 00:20:05,730 So a horse that's barefoot will slip on grass. 412 00:20:05,730 --> 00:20:05,970 Yeah. 413 00:20:05,970 --> 00:20:10,950 It's like you, no one, no one plays soccer or American football and, and 414 00:20:10,950 --> 00:20:15,540 goes with uh, you know, uh, you know, formal shoes they go to dinner with. 415 00:20:15,930 --> 00:20:16,170 Right. 416 00:20:16,320 --> 00:20:18,750 You know, not gonna work. 417 00:20:18,810 --> 00:20:20,850 You need, you need cleats, you need studs. 418 00:20:21,360 --> 00:20:24,930 So you wanna, and you want her to feel confident like the angles and the speed at 419 00:20:24,930 --> 00:20:26,620 which you're moving at the, at the, yeah. 420 00:20:26,620 --> 00:20:26,730 If 421 00:20:26,730 --> 00:20:29,340 you're going full speed and turn and you think you're gonna slip, 422 00:20:29,340 --> 00:20:30,750 you're not gonna turn right. 423 00:20:30,870 --> 00:20:33,090 So, and you're also not gonna push off the ground. 424 00:20:33,090 --> 00:20:36,540 You know, if you don't have a staple platform to push, they won't push. 425 00:20:37,170 --> 00:20:38,070 So you have less scope. 426 00:20:39,360 --> 00:20:39,570 Okay. 427 00:20:39,570 --> 00:20:43,890 So let's start, I love this topic, especially with someone like yourself. 428 00:20:43,890 --> 00:20:48,240 'cause I think you can describe really eloquently how the process that you 429 00:20:48,240 --> 00:20:52,080 go through when you get a new horse and determining their individual 430 00:20:52,080 --> 00:20:54,630 needs, what is that process for you? 431 00:20:55,485 --> 00:21:01,544 I think this is a dangerous topic because people believe that their horse is one of 432 00:21:01,544 --> 00:21:08,445 one, and all of the normal processes you can do don't apply to their horse, apply 433 00:21:08,445 --> 00:21:10,004 to everyone else's, but not to theirs. 434 00:21:10,395 --> 00:21:10,425 Okay. 435 00:21:10,425 --> 00:21:14,085 And so they think that everything about their horse has to be completely 436 00:21:14,085 --> 00:21:15,975 different and nothing else will work. 437 00:21:16,485 --> 00:21:18,435 And they spin themselves down a rabbit hole. 438 00:21:18,975 --> 00:21:19,485 And guess what? 439 00:21:19,995 --> 00:21:21,885 Horse never gets better and they don't get better. 440 00:21:22,754 --> 00:21:26,865 Mm. Um, the differences between my horse is, sure there are differences, 441 00:21:27,075 --> 00:21:29,625 but if you actually see what it's like, it's not that different. 442 00:21:30,405 --> 00:21:34,514 People wanna believe their horses completely a complete individual, 443 00:21:34,875 --> 00:21:39,105 again, to abdicate blame for why they aren't doing what they want. 444 00:21:40,485 --> 00:21:42,044 That's an interesting call to action 445 00:21:42,105 --> 00:21:42,794 and. 446 00:21:43,439 --> 00:21:45,540 If I have a horse that's a little bit colder, I'll give 'em a 447 00:21:45,540 --> 00:21:46,800 little bit more energetic food. 448 00:21:46,830 --> 00:21:49,260 If I have a horse that's hotter, I'll give 'em a little bit less energetic food. 449 00:21:49,439 --> 00:21:54,810 But they're still all, I'm not saying my horse processes carbohydrates 450 00:21:54,810 --> 00:21:56,010 different than another horse. 451 00:21:56,014 --> 00:21:56,235 Mm-hmm. 452 00:21:56,320 --> 00:21:57,239 No, no, no. 453 00:21:57,479 --> 00:21:59,429 I'm not saying a feed won't work with that horse. 454 00:21:59,429 --> 00:21:59,729 No. 455 00:22:00,389 --> 00:22:05,219 You know, they all still, all the saddles are the same, their boots are the same. 456 00:22:05,219 --> 00:22:09,179 The, you know, the, the only reason for the bits being different is 457 00:22:09,179 --> 00:22:13,110 a little bit different in, in just their base biomechanics. 458 00:22:13,110 --> 00:22:13,169 Yeah. 459 00:22:13,350 --> 00:22:16,889 'cause, you know, one might be taller, shorter, you know, longer stride, 460 00:22:16,889 --> 00:22:18,000 shorter stride, that sort of thing. 461 00:22:18,659 --> 00:22:26,820 Um, but I, I, I, I think horses are individual, but this understanding that 462 00:22:27,419 --> 00:22:35,100 my horse, like if, think of the odds if you are, if it's a 1% chance that 463 00:22:35,100 --> 00:22:36,479 something doesn't work with your horse. 464 00:22:36,479 --> 00:22:36,810 Mm-hmm. 465 00:22:36,815 --> 00:22:36,915 Okay. 466 00:22:37,860 --> 00:22:39,540 There's one thing that's 1% chance. 467 00:22:39,600 --> 00:22:39,690 Mm-hmm. 468 00:22:40,050 --> 00:22:40,680 A second thing. 469 00:22:40,950 --> 00:22:46,080 Now your horse is one in 10,000, two 1% things. 470 00:22:46,200 --> 00:22:46,290 Mm-hmm. 471 00:22:46,530 --> 00:22:48,510 The likelihood of that is one in 10,000. 472 00:22:48,990 --> 00:22:53,490 Now one more, one in a hundred, that's one in a million. 473 00:22:54,330 --> 00:22:56,370 A third now a fourth. 474 00:22:56,850 --> 00:23:00,060 That's one in a hundred million. 475 00:23:00,300 --> 00:23:00,390 Mm-hmm. 476 00:23:01,710 --> 00:23:03,060 So that's four. 477 00:23:03,210 --> 00:23:04,350 One in a hundred things. 478 00:23:04,530 --> 00:23:05,850 It's one in a hundred million. 479 00:23:06,390 --> 00:23:06,630 Yeah. 480 00:23:06,930 --> 00:23:14,400 The likelihood, so I, I just, your horse is an individual, but most of the time 481 00:23:14,400 --> 00:23:17,280 when people are saying, my horse is just different, it's just different. 482 00:23:18,150 --> 00:23:25,020 They're, that's just to allow themselves to not be, to make it okay that they're 483 00:23:25,230 --> 00:23:29,880 getting less out of their relationship and that, and to make it okay that them as a 484 00:23:29,880 --> 00:23:32,160 rider and as a manager aren't doing what. 485 00:23:32,534 --> 00:23:33,254 They should be doing. 486 00:23:34,305 --> 00:23:40,935 Um, I know that's maybe not the most comfortable way to look at it for people 487 00:23:41,115 --> 00:23:44,055 and they'll push back on and say, no, no, my horse really is one of one. 488 00:23:45,915 --> 00:23:49,965 Well, I think if you look at biology, there are similarities amongst people 489 00:23:49,965 --> 00:23:51,645 and then there are also individual needs. 490 00:23:51,645 --> 00:23:51,646 Right? 491 00:23:51,915 --> 00:23:53,595 And so it's a balance between the two. 492 00:23:53,955 --> 00:23:55,605 Is one person one of one? 493 00:23:55,605 --> 00:23:56,805 Well, we're one of many. 494 00:23:57,225 --> 00:23:57,405 Yeah. 495 00:23:57,405 --> 00:23:59,925 But I mean like, you know, good horse care is good horse care. 496 00:24:00,495 --> 00:24:04,215 Mm. You, you know, if you have bad horse care and say My horse doesn't like this 497 00:24:04,215 --> 00:24:08,024 one skin product, but you have bad horse care, I would say, how about you have 498 00:24:08,024 --> 00:24:10,840 good horse care first, then we can talk. 499 00:24:12,044 --> 00:24:13,004 I just think it's dangerous. 500 00:24:13,155 --> 00:24:13,725 I love that. 501 00:24:13,725 --> 00:24:17,895 And you're someone that actually has spoken very openly about, um, I think 502 00:24:17,895 --> 00:24:22,695 you did a walking and talking, talking about the importance that we teach. 503 00:24:23,310 --> 00:24:26,880 Our young riders, our up and coming generation, not just about riding, but 504 00:24:26,880 --> 00:24:31,110 about horse care, about management, about keeping horse, about finding a 505 00:24:31,110 --> 00:24:36,000 horse, about, there's so many elements that go into success to what you're 506 00:24:36,000 --> 00:24:38,250 talking about is a holistic look, right? 507 00:24:38,490 --> 00:24:38,670 Yeah. 508 00:24:38,670 --> 00:24:39,630 And have structure to it. 509 00:24:39,630 --> 00:24:44,040 How can you, how can you come up with any solution if you're changing 510 00:24:44,040 --> 00:24:49,260 the variables at a whim and you're not keeping track of any of the 511 00:24:49,260 --> 00:24:50,910 variables that you can keep track of? 512 00:24:51,960 --> 00:24:53,850 There are variables you can keep track of. 513 00:24:55,140 --> 00:24:55,560 Like what, 514 00:24:56,160 --> 00:24:58,680 uh, how much weight and hay does your of course get a day? 515 00:24:59,790 --> 00:25:00,780 What time of day? 516 00:25:01,350 --> 00:25:02,430 How many times a day? 517 00:25:03,030 --> 00:25:03,990 When do they work? 518 00:25:04,860 --> 00:25:07,980 What weight are they at the same time of day every Monday? 519 00:25:09,030 --> 00:25:09,060 Mm. 520 00:25:09,450 --> 00:25:14,580 Um, where, how many, how much time do they spend in a paddock? 521 00:25:15,270 --> 00:25:16,800 What is the grass like in that paddock? 522 00:25:18,180 --> 00:25:20,340 How often do you clean the shavings? 523 00:25:20,385 --> 00:25:20,445 Yeah. 524 00:25:21,105 --> 00:25:24,254 Do you know that each batch of your hay has the same nutrient 525 00:25:24,254 --> 00:25:25,665 density as the batch before? 526 00:25:25,965 --> 00:25:27,765 What's cool is that we're coming back to data. 527 00:25:27,855 --> 00:25:29,595 You're coming back to measurable data. 528 00:25:30,105 --> 00:25:32,895 Control the variables you can, because there's plenty you can't. 529 00:25:33,285 --> 00:25:35,475 So at least control the ones you can. 530 00:25:36,105 --> 00:25:36,795 Really cool 531 00:25:36,795 --> 00:25:37,455 at least. 532 00:25:38,115 --> 00:25:40,185 So walk me through the process. 533 00:25:40,305 --> 00:25:43,305 What's the kind of timeline that you look at when you get a new horse? 534 00:25:43,335 --> 00:25:49,245 What's the timeline of observation, let's say that you have in your mind or in your 535 00:25:49,335 --> 00:25:55,365 program when you're trying to determine the very best, let's say, ingredients 536 00:25:55,365 --> 00:25:58,485 for that horse within the structure and within the program that you run? 537 00:25:58,875 --> 00:26:00,675 Well, first they have to be fed stably. 538 00:26:01,725 --> 00:26:06,015 So whatever they were fed before, if it's your decision to feed them the 539 00:26:06,015 --> 00:26:09,405 exact same thing, the exact same way, that's, that would keep it stable. 540 00:26:09,705 --> 00:26:09,735 Okay. 541 00:26:10,095 --> 00:26:15,195 Um, if you choose to make a change, it takes a certain period of time for 542 00:26:15,225 --> 00:26:18,585 that change to manifest, you know? 543 00:26:19,560 --> 00:26:22,170 For example, if you decide to feed them twice the amount of calories, 544 00:26:22,470 --> 00:26:23,640 they're not gonna get fat tomorrow. 545 00:26:24,090 --> 00:26:24,360 Hmm. 546 00:26:25,080 --> 00:26:26,670 They'll get fat in a period of time. 547 00:26:27,240 --> 00:26:30,810 And you obviously have to go for a search to figure out the right equipment. 548 00:26:31,500 --> 00:26:35,160 Uh, you know, tendency would be, oh, it, this horse went in this bit before, 549 00:26:35,160 --> 00:26:37,200 so I'm only ever gonna use that bit. 550 00:26:37,590 --> 00:26:39,960 Well, you're not the rider who rode it before. 551 00:26:40,650 --> 00:26:50,040 You might be taller, shorter, stronger, weaker, older, younger, and we almost 552 00:26:50,040 --> 00:26:54,450 never, I think there's only one horse that I go in the same bridal. 553 00:26:54,660 --> 00:26:54,840 Yeah. 554 00:26:56,010 --> 00:26:56,370 Ever. 555 00:26:57,450 --> 00:27:01,320 So you have to get a, a stable feed and stable flat work. 556 00:27:01,800 --> 00:27:01,980 Okay. 557 00:27:02,790 --> 00:27:06,180 Because then you can say, okay, well these things are stable. 558 00:27:07,125 --> 00:27:08,235 Is the horse still heavy? 559 00:27:08,294 --> 00:27:09,284 Is the horse still light? 560 00:27:09,495 --> 00:27:10,574 Is the horse dull? 561 00:27:10,754 --> 00:27:11,895 Is the horse too hot? 562 00:27:12,195 --> 00:27:13,365 Is the horse skittish? 563 00:27:13,544 --> 00:27:14,895 How has the body changed? 564 00:27:15,044 --> 00:27:17,745 Does the saddle that we fit in the beginning still fit because 565 00:27:17,745 --> 00:27:21,794 they lost weight or gained muscle, or just gained fat, maybe. 566 00:27:21,915 --> 00:27:22,004 Mm-hmm. 567 00:27:22,365 --> 00:27:25,844 Um, you know, and then you just slowly tweak from there. 568 00:27:25,875 --> 00:27:30,495 You tweak, you know, one variable at a time and you just step along the process. 569 00:27:31,064 --> 00:27:34,875 You know, obviously if the program the horse was in before compared 570 00:27:34,875 --> 00:27:39,314 to yours is very different, you'll see a lot more change. 571 00:27:39,794 --> 00:27:42,435 And it'll probably happen faster, but also take longer. 572 00:27:42,645 --> 00:27:51,284 So there's no cookie cutter, six weeks, but it's also not, it takes forever. 573 00:27:51,344 --> 00:27:52,935 Like it just, it's part of the work. 574 00:27:52,935 --> 00:27:55,215 You just step through it and you go from one day to the next. 575 00:27:56,324 --> 00:27:57,975 I don't think an expectation should be set. 576 00:27:59,294 --> 00:27:59,745 I love that. 577 00:28:00,554 --> 00:28:02,774 What's one piece of advice? 578 00:28:03,405 --> 00:28:06,645 For everyone who's listening, who has a, who have a new horse, and let's 579 00:28:06,645 --> 00:28:09,885 say the horse went really well or didn't go so well with the previous 580 00:28:09,885 --> 00:28:14,564 rider, what do you think is one thing that everybody, regardless of their 581 00:28:14,564 --> 00:28:18,495 socioeconomic background, their geo, geographical location, their area, 582 00:28:18,495 --> 00:28:23,720 their sport, any of that, what's one thing that every rider is capable 583 00:28:23,780 --> 00:28:25,875 of doing to accommodate a new horse? 584 00:28:26,895 --> 00:28:27,495 Treat it well. 585 00:28:28,935 --> 00:28:32,415 Horse doesn't know if you are rich or you are poor. 586 00:28:32,415 --> 00:28:33,314 The horse doesn't know. 587 00:28:33,314 --> 00:28:37,455 If you felt you spent a lot or a little, your horse doesn't know your 588 00:28:37,455 --> 00:28:41,145 expectations or the expectations before. 589 00:28:41,804 --> 00:28:43,814 Um, just treat it well. 590 00:28:44,625 --> 00:28:51,435 And from that you end up getting what you want instead of just expecting and only 591 00:28:51,435 --> 00:28:52,784 treating it well if they give it to you. 592 00:28:54,764 --> 00:29:01,304 You know, you don't do that with kids or dogs. 593 00:29:02,070 --> 00:29:04,860 You know, where you're basically treating 'em poorly, hoping that 594 00:29:04,860 --> 00:29:08,400 they guess the right solution, and then you treat them well. 595 00:29:08,850 --> 00:29:12,150 How likely do you think it is a horse is gonna guess the right solution? 596 00:29:12,150 --> 00:29:16,260 Because there's like many steps to actually get to the right solution. 597 00:29:16,410 --> 00:29:17,370 Mm-hmm. 598 00:29:17,371 --> 00:29:19,830 But you haven't given them any of those steps, and you're expecting them 599 00:29:19,920 --> 00:29:22,950 to figure out all of those steps to get to the right solution, and then 600 00:29:22,950 --> 00:29:24,480 you treat it well just treat it well. 601 00:29:25,350 --> 00:29:25,830 I love that. 602 00:29:25,920 --> 00:29:26,220 Sorry. 603 00:29:26,220 --> 00:29:27,000 It's boring, but 604 00:29:27,240 --> 00:29:32,370 No, I like that you chose the word well instead of good or fair, 605 00:29:33,000 --> 00:29:33,690 let's treat it well. 606 00:29:34,290 --> 00:29:35,580 What do you think well means? 607 00:29:35,580 --> 00:29:37,200 What's your definition of Well, 608 00:29:37,585 --> 00:29:42,210 I mean, horses, they don't need a pretty barn. 609 00:29:43,350 --> 00:29:47,760 They don't need perfectly manicured shavings at all times. 610 00:29:48,150 --> 00:29:51,720 They don't need to have a soapy bath every day. 611 00:29:51,990 --> 00:29:52,080 Mm-hmm. 612 00:29:52,230 --> 00:29:57,510 They don't need, you know, a lot of this stuff. 613 00:29:57,630 --> 00:29:59,370 They need highly functional. 614 00:30:00,389 --> 00:30:01,020 Surroundings. 615 00:30:01,979 --> 00:30:08,040 Even if the barn has old wood, they don't give a shit as long as the wood doesn't 616 00:30:08,040 --> 00:30:13,739 like stab them with shards of wood when they rub up against it on accident. 617 00:30:13,919 --> 00:30:14,040 Yeah, 618 00:30:14,189 --> 00:30:14,699 that's fine. 619 00:30:15,179 --> 00:30:17,909 You know, they don't need some state-of-the-art watering 620 00:30:17,909 --> 00:30:21,659 system that keeps track of every drop that they, they drink. 621 00:30:22,169 --> 00:30:24,840 No, they just need clean water in clean buckets. 622 00:30:25,500 --> 00:30:27,060 That's really not that hard. 623 00:30:28,169 --> 00:30:34,020 Um, they need a diet that's appropriate for what they do and that's fed to 'em 624 00:30:34,020 --> 00:30:40,919 many times a day, um, consistently at the same time, all the meals, every day. 625 00:30:41,790 --> 00:30:44,760 And you, to just be fair, 626 00:30:46,560 --> 00:30:52,860 I love, I love that statement because we had some amazingly inspiring 627 00:30:52,860 --> 00:30:57,330 veterinarians in the studio and they talk, you know, about spend the money on. 628 00:30:57,975 --> 00:31:00,765 Getting the teeth floated properly instead of the brand new tack 629 00:31:00,765 --> 00:31:03,885 trunk, because you, that's not gonna make the difference to your horse. 630 00:31:04,125 --> 00:31:07,785 And some people they spend, you know, they spend whatever they spend on a horse. 631 00:31:07,785 --> 00:31:08,295 Mm-hmm. 632 00:31:09,285 --> 00:31:14,536 And then they balk that you have to shoo them every, you might decide to s 633 00:31:14,685 --> 00:31:16,515 them every four weeks instead every six. 634 00:31:16,575 --> 00:31:16,785 Yeah. 635 00:31:17,205 --> 00:31:22,365 That'd be like me buying a Ferrari and putting, you know, oil that's 636 00:31:22,365 --> 00:31:26,055 meant for like a 1982 Acura in it. 637 00:31:26,955 --> 00:31:28,035 Like, that's just dumb. 638 00:31:28,215 --> 00:31:29,835 Why are you saving money there? 639 00:31:30,375 --> 00:31:33,315 Mm. That's, it's, it, it makes no logical sense. 640 00:31:33,435 --> 00:31:33,585 Yeah. 641 00:31:33,615 --> 00:31:40,875 If you're gonna, and if you make the choice to invest in a horse, you 642 00:31:40,875 --> 00:31:43,875 have to invest in the whole horse, not just in the purchase price. 643 00:31:44,595 --> 00:31:50,625 And sorry to tell you that, but it's kind of self-explanatory. 644 00:31:51,165 --> 00:31:51,405 Okay. 645 00:31:51,405 --> 00:31:55,425 So this, I just really appreciate, I also just, I think a lot of 646 00:31:55,425 --> 00:31:56,745 people, I mean, judging by the. 647 00:31:57,285 --> 00:31:59,385 By the popularity of walking and talking. 648 00:31:59,385 --> 00:32:02,895 I think people appreciate the way that you deliver things 649 00:32:05,205 --> 00:32:06,315 and why. 650 00:32:06,645 --> 00:32:08,355 Actually, here's a, here's a good question. 651 00:32:08,355 --> 00:32:13,065 Before we dive into a really cool, I wanted to talk to you about your 652 00:32:13,065 --> 00:32:21,675 style of riding, but before we do that actually, why do you feel like inspired 653 00:32:21,675 --> 00:32:26,145 or a sense of, maybe even maybe in the sense of responsibility, why do you feel 654 00:32:26,145 --> 00:32:29,835 the need to, to tell people and speak honestly, and speak openly and speak 655 00:32:29,835 --> 00:32:33,825 transparently, because you don't have to, you could have no social media. 656 00:32:34,275 --> 00:32:39,795 You could just ride and focus on all your goals. 657 00:32:40,485 --> 00:32:45,885 You don't have, you don't owe anyone any information, and yet you have dedicated 658 00:32:45,945 --> 00:32:47,505 a big part in walking and talking. 659 00:32:47,505 --> 00:32:51,015 I think a lot of people in the horse world would contribute or attribute 660 00:32:51,015 --> 00:32:55,335 it to be a tremendous effort in transparency and open dialogue. 661 00:32:55,815 --> 00:32:56,265 Why? 662 00:32:57,060 --> 00:33:02,939 I think there's two main reasons I would say they're not in sequential order. 663 00:33:03,000 --> 00:33:03,030 Okay. 664 00:33:04,020 --> 00:33:07,830 At Conway and Associates Equine Insurance Services, they understand 665 00:33:07,830 --> 00:33:09,420 how special your horse is. 666 00:33:09,600 --> 00:33:12,750 That's why I personally chose to work with them to ensure my 667 00:33:12,750 --> 00:33:16,590 horses before we embarked on this epic journey across the country. 668 00:33:16,860 --> 00:33:20,670 I chose them because their agency writes coverage in 48 states. 669 00:33:20,700 --> 00:33:24,420 They also work with several A rated admitted insurance carriers, so 670 00:33:24,420 --> 00:33:27,810 you have options and can select the insurance coverage that best 671 00:33:27,810 --> 00:33:29,970 suits your own unique needs. 672 00:33:30,210 --> 00:33:32,880 Having confidence in my insurance selection allows me 673 00:33:32,880 --> 00:33:34,530 peace of mind on this journey. 674 00:33:35,010 --> 00:33:39,630 I can focus on my horses and embrace these learning opportunities of a lifetime. 675 00:33:39,750 --> 00:33:42,240 Who better to trust with the insurance of your horse than 676 00:33:42,240 --> 00:33:43,890 a team of fellow horse people? 677 00:33:43,950 --> 00:33:48,330 Conway and Associates was founded in 1992 by Laura Conway, herself, 678 00:33:48,360 --> 00:33:49,800 a Grand Prix show, jumping Rider. 679 00:33:49,815 --> 00:33:55,035 Laura and her experience team have built a strong reputation as a reliable partner. 680 00:33:55,545 --> 00:33:59,565 Building relationships through service, trust and understanding. 681 00:33:59,655 --> 00:34:05,685 Explore www.conway.net or call them for competitive personalized 682 00:34:05,685 --> 00:34:09,465 insurance coverage options from their team of like-minded 683 00:34:09,495 --> 00:34:11,264 equine insurance professionals. 684 00:34:13,425 --> 00:34:17,145 I've been a fan of Carl Cook for a long time, not just because 685 00:34:17,145 --> 00:34:21,315 he's a great rider, but because he says the things most people won't. 686 00:34:22,545 --> 00:34:24,014 He asks the hard questions. 687 00:34:24,045 --> 00:34:28,155 He challenges old school thinking he's honest about the ride. 688 00:34:28,635 --> 00:34:31,275 The good, the bad, and the messy in between. 689 00:34:32,264 --> 00:34:36,735 For the first time ever, you can access Carl's masterclasses on NF 690 00:34:36,735 --> 00:34:40,335 Plus at a new price and on your terms. 691 00:34:40,965 --> 00:34:44,475 You can rent a course for just 14.99 a month, or own one 692 00:34:44,475 --> 00:34:47,264 for forever, for just 99 99. 693 00:34:48,525 --> 00:34:54,855 But honestly, the move is to unlock all five plus the entire NF plus library of 694 00:34:54,855 --> 00:34:57,645 top instructors with an annual membership. 695 00:34:57,735 --> 00:35:01,815 And because you're listening here, you get 15% off with the code. 696 00:35:01,905 --> 00:35:08,685 DH W. This is the kind of learning you don't find in quick clips or reels. 697 00:35:09,255 --> 00:35:11,835 It's the part most people miss. 698 00:35:12,525 --> 00:35:17,625 Once you've joined NF Plus, you'll wonder how you ever rode without it. 699 00:35:18,345 --> 00:35:25,095 Go to Noel Floyd plus.com/pages/ Carl Cook to check it up. 700 00:35:28,425 --> 00:35:31,605 I would say they're not in sequential order. 701 00:35:31,725 --> 00:35:32,055 Okay. 702 00:35:33,045 --> 00:35:35,895 Um, first it helps me 703 00:35:37,965 --> 00:35:46,215 because you, we all can think about a problem in our head for hours. 704 00:35:46,425 --> 00:35:46,575 Hmm. 705 00:35:46,635 --> 00:35:49,755 We can talk about our feelings with our trainer for four hours, 706 00:35:50,205 --> 00:35:53,085 you know, after a round to solve feelings and feelings and feelings. 707 00:35:53,085 --> 00:35:55,755 There's so many feelings, too many feelings. 708 00:35:58,035 --> 00:36:07,035 But actually having to say it out loud in a concise manner is helpful. 709 00:36:07,875 --> 00:36:12,645 Just like when someone says, write it down, like, well, I, 710 00:36:12,645 --> 00:36:13,575 I've, I've thought about it. 711 00:36:13,755 --> 00:36:14,805 Like I know my thoughts. 712 00:36:14,805 --> 00:36:15,465 I know. 713 00:36:15,825 --> 00:36:21,555 Write it also in one paragraph that changes how you think about it. 714 00:36:21,975 --> 00:36:25,425 It changes your method of thinking and. 715 00:36:25,935 --> 00:36:30,135 You now don't have an option of being three and a half hours of feelings. 716 00:36:30,405 --> 00:36:34,815 Mm. You have, you have maybe two sentences of feelings, and then 717 00:36:34,845 --> 00:36:40,125 hopefully you do like five sentences on what you're gonna do now. 718 00:36:41,475 --> 00:36:47,355 And me speaking is a lot similar to that, and it is helpful for me to do that. 719 00:36:48,585 --> 00:36:52,275 Um, also, a lot of times some people's comments are quite interesting. 720 00:36:53,025 --> 00:36:56,775 Maybe not in the way that I, I didn't expect it, but that 721 00:36:56,775 --> 00:36:57,855 doesn't mean it's not interesting. 722 00:36:57,855 --> 00:36:58,575 It's not helpful. 723 00:36:58,935 --> 00:37:01,125 So first of all, it's helpful. 724 00:37:02,655 --> 00:37:07,245 Second, um, I'm very grateful for a lot of the experiences and the 725 00:37:07,245 --> 00:37:08,895 people I've been able to learn from. 726 00:37:09,675 --> 00:37:12,825 I have been very fortunate to be able to learn from them in the 727 00:37:12,825 --> 00:37:14,655 way that I was able to do it. 728 00:37:16,065 --> 00:37:18,255 That is not the cheapest way to learn. 729 00:37:19,290 --> 00:37:23,460 And most of the time the knowledge that people are searching for, 730 00:37:23,460 --> 00:37:28,860 whether they know it or not, is locked behind money They do not have. 731 00:37:30,540 --> 00:37:31,320 And 732 00:37:33,480 --> 00:37:41,430 they, so the help they get are generally misappropriated bandaids as 733 00:37:41,430 --> 00:37:44,340 opposed to what actually will help. 734 00:37:44,730 --> 00:37:48,540 That doesn't mean they'll do it, but would what would actually help if they did? 735 00:37:49,290 --> 00:37:53,580 And I'm not saying I have all the right answers 'cause I don't, I would 736 00:37:53,580 --> 00:37:55,410 jump clear in every class if I did. 737 00:37:56,220 --> 00:38:03,300 Um, but I want it to be cheaper for people to learn how to treat their horses well 738 00:38:06,600 --> 00:38:08,130 that's a really cool why. 739 00:38:09,930 --> 00:38:10,770 It also helps me. 740 00:38:12,825 --> 00:38:14,865 I like that you said that they're not in sequential order. 741 00:38:14,955 --> 00:38:17,234 Well, 'cause I was gonna start with what I started with anyway. 742 00:38:17,294 --> 00:38:17,355 Yeah. 743 00:38:17,355 --> 00:38:18,524 I didn't want to, you know, 744 00:38:19,634 --> 00:38:25,904 it's a really cool why because I think there's some of us in the, I 745 00:38:25,904 --> 00:38:27,705 think there's more people than maybe, 746 00:38:27,794 --> 00:38:31,095 well actually we also spend our money in awful and really not awful, 747 00:38:31,904 --> 00:38:35,714 really not objectively correct ways. 748 00:38:37,035 --> 00:38:42,345 So you'll spend, I don't know, what does it cost for a lesson? 749 00:38:42,555 --> 00:38:42,734 I 750 00:38:43,185 --> 00:38:47,234 can cost anywhere from 50 to 250 to 751 00:38:47,625 --> 00:38:47,924 Great. 752 00:38:48,345 --> 00:38:51,705 Let's say your lesson cost 50 to $250 and you have what, 753 00:38:52,214 --> 00:38:53,564 two to four of those a week? 754 00:38:53,984 --> 00:38:55,665 I think some people have them one time a week. 755 00:38:55,665 --> 00:38:56,205 Sometimes. 756 00:38:56,265 --> 00:38:56,444 Yeah. 757 00:38:56,450 --> 00:38:56,600 Yeah. 758 00:38:56,685 --> 00:38:56,984 Fine. 759 00:38:56,984 --> 00:38:57,225 More. 760 00:38:57,464 --> 00:39:00,314 That is a lot of money that you're paying consistently. 761 00:39:00,314 --> 00:39:00,404 Mm-hmm. 762 00:39:00,645 --> 00:39:05,535 And the point of why you're doing that is because you want consistent knowledge 763 00:39:05,924 --> 00:39:08,234 to change consistently, to get better. 764 00:39:08,775 --> 00:39:11,475 And unfortunately to get better, you have to change who you are. 765 00:39:12,105 --> 00:39:14,055 You can't get better without change. 766 00:39:15,135 --> 00:39:19,155 I know we're all perfect flowers the way we are, but you can't 767 00:39:19,155 --> 00:39:20,235 get better without changing. 768 00:39:21,405 --> 00:39:21,615 Are 769 00:39:21,615 --> 00:39:23,265 we perfect flowers the way we are? 770 00:39:23,565 --> 00:39:25,545 Uh, I was placating to an audience. 771 00:39:26,055 --> 00:39:27,465 Uh, no. 772 00:39:27,465 --> 00:39:30,645 We're, but you know, people want to assume that they could just change 773 00:39:30,645 --> 00:39:33,435 one tiny thing and everything will, like they're doing everything right. 774 00:39:33,435 --> 00:39:34,335 It's just one little thing. 775 00:39:34,485 --> 00:39:40,635 But, so let's say your lessons are a hundred dollars and you do two of them 776 00:39:40,635 --> 00:39:44,805 a week, that's $200, $800 a month. 777 00:39:45,165 --> 00:39:46,215 And that's just the lessons. 778 00:39:46,215 --> 00:39:48,825 That doesn't count the other expenses, which is really expensive. 779 00:39:48,885 --> 00:39:49,095 Yeah. 780 00:39:50,685 --> 00:39:53,295 Now there are plenty of books. 781 00:39:53,835 --> 00:39:58,455 Each one can teach you more than any one of those lessons. 782 00:39:59,985 --> 00:40:00,555 You think so? 783 00:40:01,095 --> 00:40:01,305 Yeah. 784 00:40:01,575 --> 00:40:08,384 In one one hour lesson a. $30 book will teach you more than that one hour lesson. 785 00:40:08,654 --> 00:40:09,495 A hundred percent. 786 00:40:10,154 --> 00:40:11,265 That's really cool. 787 00:40:11,714 --> 00:40:18,734 Yet we proverbial, we want to learn while sitting our ass in a saddle. 788 00:40:20,145 --> 00:40:27,375 And the thought that you would learn about riding not in a saddle, on a horse, in a 789 00:40:27,375 --> 00:40:29,339 ring with someone talking to you mm-hmm. 790 00:40:30,160 --> 00:40:33,734 Is just anathema to success for some reason. 791 00:40:35,984 --> 00:40:40,035 And so, back to my point, people spend money in the horse 792 00:40:40,035 --> 00:40:43,095 sports just unintelligently. 793 00:40:43,904 --> 00:40:46,814 'cause you can get, I'm not saying in-person lessons 794 00:40:46,814 --> 00:40:48,765 while writing is useless. 795 00:40:48,975 --> 00:40:49,185 Hmm. 796 00:40:49,605 --> 00:40:55,305 I'm saying it needs to come with other things that can actually make you have 797 00:40:55,814 --> 00:40:57,524 more context to what's being said. 798 00:40:58,154 --> 00:41:00,915 So you can get more out of those a hundred dollar lessons 799 00:41:01,694 --> 00:41:03,435 and you can get better faster. 800 00:41:04,155 --> 00:41:04,995 But people don't do it. 801 00:41:05,685 --> 00:41:10,485 When I tell people the, what helped me the most outside of working with 802 00:41:10,485 --> 00:41:17,955 Eric was reading, they look at me like I speak in Chinese and I also sit 803 00:41:17,955 --> 00:41:23,595 there and I see the reaction and the only thing it tells me is it's only 804 00:41:23,595 --> 00:41:25,755 gonna hurt them to have that reaction. 805 00:41:26,145 --> 00:41:26,895 It doesn't hurt me. 806 00:41:29,025 --> 00:41:34,995 It makes me think of when we go to school, you would never just show up 807 00:41:34,995 --> 00:41:39,525 to class and listen to your teacher and not do any of the reading or any of 808 00:41:39,525 --> 00:41:41,175 the homework because they're, or there 809 00:41:41,175 --> 00:41:46,515 just wouldn't be reading or homework or, or anything you would just be spoken at 810 00:41:46,695 --> 00:41:48,615 and then expect at the end to get a PhD. 811 00:41:49,005 --> 00:41:52,455 Right, because what I think you are talking about, and 812 00:41:52,455 --> 00:41:53,505 I love that you brought up. 813 00:41:54,075 --> 00:41:57,375 That reading was the best way to get the most out of riding with, 814 00:41:57,525 --> 00:41:58,605 is that, that what you said? 815 00:41:58,965 --> 00:42:01,305 Riding with Eric, the best thing you could do was read. 816 00:42:01,395 --> 00:42:01,485 Mm-hmm. 817 00:42:02,025 --> 00:42:05,085 But what it makes me think of is that what you were doing was you were 818 00:42:05,085 --> 00:42:09,855 priming and enriching and building the brain that was receiving the 819 00:42:09,855 --> 00:42:13,515 information you're getting from Eric in a way that makes what you learn from 820 00:42:13,515 --> 00:42:16,275 him that much more valuable to you. 821 00:42:16,275 --> 00:42:16,575 Sure. 822 00:42:16,905 --> 00:42:21,345 Also, working with your vet, you know, you, you, you know, I've 823 00:42:21,645 --> 00:42:24,915 studied one of my favorite books I've studied over and over again. 824 00:42:25,095 --> 00:42:30,105 It is boring as All Hell 'cause All it is is rote memorization. 825 00:42:30,435 --> 00:42:31,485 It's an anatomy book. 826 00:42:32,865 --> 00:42:34,005 So it's just memorization. 827 00:42:34,365 --> 00:42:34,575 Yeah. 828 00:42:35,895 --> 00:42:41,925 Yet when you can remember the various structures, you can then picture how 829 00:42:41,925 --> 00:42:43,875 they move, how they interact together. 830 00:42:44,295 --> 00:42:47,565 How if you have a little bit of swelling in this tendon, and let's 831 00:42:47,565 --> 00:42:50,085 say you have a little bit of, you have a tear in a dispensary. 832 00:42:50,265 --> 00:42:50,415 Yeah. 833 00:42:50,625 --> 00:42:52,845 You know, you have more context. 834 00:42:53,384 --> 00:42:56,325 Two, what type of movements could have caused it? 835 00:42:56,330 --> 00:42:56,600 Mm-hmm. 836 00:42:56,939 --> 00:43:01,455 Is it a compensatory injury, which 98% of the time is so then 837 00:43:01,455 --> 00:43:03,285 what are they compensating for? 838 00:43:03,290 --> 00:43:03,439 Mm-hmm. 839 00:43:03,560 --> 00:43:07,544 If you don't treat that, you're not gonna fix the dispensary and 840 00:43:07,785 --> 00:43:09,464 you can adjust your flat work. 841 00:43:09,584 --> 00:43:14,774 You, depending on what you're trying to strengthen or avoid. 842 00:43:15,044 --> 00:43:15,134 Mm-hmm. 843 00:43:15,495 --> 00:43:16,694 Uh, especially in rehab. 844 00:43:16,845 --> 00:43:21,075 And when you're talking to your vet and your vet's talking about what they see, 845 00:43:21,345 --> 00:43:25,484 you actually have context for what you're saying and you actually know where the 846 00:43:25,484 --> 00:43:26,895 structures are that they're talking about. 847 00:43:26,895 --> 00:43:27,105 Mm-hmm. 848 00:43:27,435 --> 00:43:29,714 I mean, how many people listen to their ve they're like, oh, yeah, 849 00:43:29,714 --> 00:43:30,855 yeah, yeah, that's a good idea. 850 00:43:31,064 --> 00:43:33,345 But they have no idea if the vet's talking about a structure 851 00:43:33,345 --> 00:43:34,365 in the back, in the neck. 852 00:43:34,395 --> 00:43:34,935 A leg, 853 00:43:35,115 --> 00:43:35,654 oh, um, sorry. 854 00:43:35,654 --> 00:43:38,444 Present company included for most of my junior. 855 00:43:38,745 --> 00:43:40,455 And, and how much would it have helped you? 856 00:43:40,830 --> 00:43:41,430 You, you know so 857 00:43:41,430 --> 00:43:41,730 much. 858 00:43:41,730 --> 00:43:44,490 But I was intimidated to even say, I don't actually have 859 00:43:44,490 --> 00:43:45,884 any clue about what you're the 860 00:43:45,965 --> 00:43:46,206 internet talking about. 861 00:43:46,206 --> 00:43:46,210 Well, you got the 862 00:43:46,770 --> 00:43:47,040 Yeah. 863 00:43:47,070 --> 00:43:47,700 Now, 864 00:43:48,210 --> 00:43:49,049 and, you know, I 865 00:43:49,080 --> 00:43:49,710 definitely, 866 00:43:49,860 --> 00:43:54,360 or, you know, pay 20 bucks a month for, uh, an AI search engine Yeah. 867 00:43:54,540 --> 00:43:56,190 So that you can search your questions. 868 00:43:56,220 --> 00:43:56,549 Yeah. 869 00:43:56,820 --> 00:44:01,500 Um, I, I just don't get why people don't do that. 870 00:44:01,860 --> 00:44:03,360 I just, I just don't, never will. 871 00:44:03,810 --> 00:44:04,259 Hmm. 872 00:44:04,320 --> 00:44:09,120 I think it's, well, one, I think there's a lot less education, 873 00:44:09,180 --> 00:44:12,750 especially about biomechanics and about anatomy than the books are out there. 874 00:44:12,750 --> 00:44:15,570 Most people are comfortable to admit 875 00:44:15,630 --> 00:44:16,049 they're out there. 876 00:44:16,049 --> 00:44:16,560 The books are that. 877 00:44:16,560 --> 00:44:16,890 I agree. 878 00:44:16,890 --> 00:44:16,924 I agree. 879 00:44:16,930 --> 00:44:20,009 And actually, the main book I'm thinking of was, I think it was printed in oh four. 880 00:44:20,370 --> 00:44:21,150 2004. 881 00:44:21,420 --> 00:44:21,690 Yeah. 882 00:44:21,930 --> 00:44:22,890 Not 1904. 883 00:44:22,975 --> 00:44:23,340 No, no. 884 00:44:23,430 --> 00:44:26,190 2004. I think it was 2004. 885 00:44:26,190 --> 00:44:28,560 Well, you know what we should do is in the show notes to this episode, 886 00:44:28,560 --> 00:44:32,100 so it was in one of your previous things that you posted My five books. 887 00:44:32,130 --> 00:44:32,310 Yep. 888 00:44:33,060 --> 00:44:34,980 I already spoke about two of those five books. 889 00:44:34,985 --> 00:44:35,235 Okay. 890 00:44:35,640 --> 00:44:37,350 'cause we're gonna include them in show notes. 891 00:44:37,470 --> 00:44:40,140 So, and, and the book is on Amazon for like 45 bucks. 892 00:44:40,140 --> 00:44:40,620 There you go. 893 00:44:41,040 --> 00:44:45,180 And like, why wouldn't you do that? 894 00:44:45,840 --> 00:44:48,960 Like, just, just why it makes no sense. 895 00:44:49,650 --> 00:44:53,700 Well, and I think, I think an Olympian sitting in the studio saying that it 896 00:44:53,700 --> 00:44:59,130 will tangibly contribute to your riding. 897 00:44:59,940 --> 00:45:00,540 Just try it 898 00:45:01,380 --> 00:45:02,250 and see what happens. 899 00:45:02,310 --> 00:45:02,490 Yeah. 900 00:45:04,470 --> 00:45:08,640 So we talked about, I'm glad you brought up Eric, because, so for, for those who 901 00:45:08,640 --> 00:45:12,690 are listening and watching you who don't know, you have ridden with and worked 902 00:45:12,690 --> 00:45:14,970 with Eric Neve for how many years now? 903 00:45:15,750 --> 00:45:18,330 Uh, almost 13. 904 00:45:18,900 --> 00:45:19,230 Right. 905 00:45:19,410 --> 00:45:22,345 And he's an, and you would consider him a great mentor of yours? 906 00:45:22,345 --> 00:45:22,585 Mm-hmm. 907 00:45:22,725 --> 00:45:23,070 Of course. 908 00:45:23,400 --> 00:45:27,029 So I think Eric, personally, I think he's one of the greatest of all time. 909 00:45:27,060 --> 00:45:27,660 I think he's mm-hmm. 910 00:45:27,930 --> 00:45:28,710 Unbelievable. 911 00:45:29,550 --> 00:45:35,790 So at what point do you go from riding like Eric to riding like Carl Cook? 912 00:45:35,790 --> 00:45:37,860 Because everyone in the horse world talks about this. 913 00:45:37,860 --> 00:45:41,640 They talk about, you know, you kind of ride in the style that you're 914 00:45:41,640 --> 00:45:47,490 mentored and until you develop your own individual approach. 915 00:45:47,730 --> 00:45:47,850 Mm-hmm. 916 00:45:48,090 --> 00:45:49,410 When did that happen for you? 917 00:45:50,220 --> 00:45:52,560 I always had my own style before I rode with Eric. 918 00:45:52,950 --> 00:45:53,100 Okay. 919 00:45:53,100 --> 00:45:56,910 I was never, I, uh, for good or for bad. 920 00:45:56,910 --> 00:46:02,190 My, my first barn I was at never really forced a position on me. 921 00:46:03,420 --> 00:46:05,160 There's many good things about that. 922 00:46:05,580 --> 00:46:07,170 There's also some less good things. 923 00:46:07,170 --> 00:46:10,680 It's, you know, nothing's good, you know, nothing's all or nothing. 924 00:46:10,890 --> 00:46:11,070 Yeah. 925 00:46:11,520 --> 00:46:15,120 Um, but I went to Eric because a lot. 926 00:46:15,525 --> 00:46:17,325 Too much stuff was not working. 927 00:46:17,805 --> 00:46:20,805 So I needed to learn that stuff that wasn't working. 928 00:46:20,835 --> 00:46:28,634 So I changed how I rode because it was the right plan, it was the right way, 929 00:46:29,174 --> 00:46:34,995 um, so that Eric wouldn't have to teach around what I didn't want to learn. 930 00:46:35,835 --> 00:46:39,495 Um, and so I rode as much as I could like him. 931 00:46:39,525 --> 00:46:43,275 Obviously I knew that I would fail 'cause you can never ride 932 00:46:43,305 --> 00:46:44,685 a hundred percent like anyone. 933 00:46:45,194 --> 00:46:46,335 That's just impossible. 934 00:46:47,055 --> 00:46:50,174 Um, but I knew I needed to learn a bunch of stuff. 935 00:46:50,205 --> 00:46:53,505 So, uh, that's what I did. 936 00:46:53,775 --> 00:46:58,725 And then maybe I started to ride more like myself. 937 00:46:59,685 --> 00:47:07,634 Uh, once I really, once I started to pick my own horses, uh, because I had a certain 938 00:47:07,634 --> 00:47:08,985 type of horse when I was a young rider. 939 00:47:09,765 --> 00:47:11,595 I was very successful on that. 940 00:47:11,595 --> 00:47:12,615 Obviously stopped working. 941 00:47:13,004 --> 00:47:16,754 Um, but then for a number of years I didn't pick my horses and you 942 00:47:16,754 --> 00:47:20,535 could say it's a bad thing, but also those horses had characteristics 943 00:47:20,535 --> 00:47:22,004 that helped me learn those things. 944 00:47:22,004 --> 00:47:23,955 I didn't know. 945 00:47:24,254 --> 00:47:24,404 Yeah. 946 00:47:24,890 --> 00:47:27,315 You, you know, if you are trying to learn how to use your leg 947 00:47:27,404 --> 00:47:29,415 better yet your horses are runaway. 948 00:47:30,285 --> 00:47:31,785 You're never gonna learn how to use your leg. 949 00:47:31,904 --> 00:47:33,915 Mm. Uh, this, this just won't happen. 950 00:47:34,395 --> 00:47:39,585 You need a horse that needs, you know, a good leg for you to learn. 951 00:47:39,915 --> 00:47:41,595 Is my leg do helping or not? 952 00:47:41,745 --> 00:47:41,835 Mm-hmm. 953 00:47:42,615 --> 00:47:47,325 So, um, but once I started to be in charge of picking my own horses, then, 954 00:47:47,654 --> 00:47:52,424 you know, stylistically I could take what I, you know, had been and was 955 00:47:52,424 --> 00:47:59,835 learning with Eric and bringing in horses that were more similar to what I 956 00:47:59,835 --> 00:48:02,745 was successful with when I was younger. 957 00:48:03,045 --> 00:48:06,525 But now since I knew so much more then those errors and 958 00:48:06,525 --> 00:48:08,145 those issues from the past. 959 00:48:09,105 --> 00:48:11,355 The idea, the hope was wouldn't come back. 960 00:48:11,715 --> 00:48:13,515 So what is that type of horse now? 961 00:48:13,785 --> 00:48:15,501 How would you describe the horse that you It's a 962 00:48:15,506 --> 00:48:16,095 modern horse. 963 00:48:16,155 --> 00:48:20,625 It's, it's just a modern, you, you know, people joke that 964 00:48:20,625 --> 00:48:21,795 it's only one type of horse. 965 00:48:21,825 --> 00:48:23,175 'cause I only have Hot Bay mares. 966 00:48:23,175 --> 00:48:23,445 But 967 00:48:24,735 --> 00:48:27,225 also we all love the fact that you have Hot Bay mares. 968 00:48:27,225 --> 00:48:29,535 Yeah, I do have an inordinate number of Hot Bay MAs. 969 00:48:30,585 --> 00:48:32,355 I, I am not looking for only Hot Bay MAs. 970 00:48:33,075 --> 00:48:36,525 Um, but, you know, there's always a balance of feel that you're going for. 971 00:48:36,525 --> 00:48:39,045 And I think nowadays the courses are getting more delicate. 972 00:48:39,375 --> 00:48:42,105 The times are getting faster, the jump offs are getting faster. 973 00:48:42,435 --> 00:48:49,635 You need a smart, um, quick active, delicate sport horse. 974 00:48:49,845 --> 00:48:55,815 Um, you know, those big boats of things that used to be more successful. 975 00:48:56,265 --> 00:48:58,365 I think what we do in the ring now is different. 976 00:48:58,425 --> 00:49:02,865 So you can see people are riding quicker, hotter, more energetic 977 00:49:02,865 --> 00:49:04,485 horses than, than they used to. 978 00:49:05,160 --> 00:49:05,370 Okay. 979 00:49:05,370 --> 00:49:08,460 I'm gonna ask you a hard question, which I wasn't expecting to ask 980 00:49:08,460 --> 00:49:10,080 you, but you say that statement. 981 00:49:11,040 --> 00:49:17,370 So because we are breeding potter, sportier, finer horses, and the 982 00:49:17,370 --> 00:49:21,720 way that the sport has evolved, things are really technical. 983 00:49:22,320 --> 00:49:23,700 So you have two factories. 984 00:49:23,700 --> 00:49:25,530 When we talk about change, we talk about data. 985 00:49:25,740 --> 00:49:27,570 So those are two factors that have changed. 986 00:49:28,200 --> 00:49:31,680 So the additional factor that's important to making, to creating 987 00:49:31,680 --> 00:49:32,790 success is horsemanship. 988 00:49:33,450 --> 00:49:39,690 Do you think horsemanship has caught up or is in, in alignment with the 989 00:49:39,690 --> 00:49:41,730 breeding and the technicality of the 990 00:49:41,735 --> 00:49:41,875 sport? 991 00:49:41,875 --> 00:49:45,690 Well, I don't think, I think some people are breeding lighter horses. 992 00:49:45,720 --> 00:49:50,610 What I would say is more accurate is we are selecting those for the top sport. 993 00:49:51,240 --> 00:49:53,520 Those heavy horses just don't go to the top sport anymore. 994 00:49:54,240 --> 00:49:58,590 They go to teach juniors, amateurs, they go to hunters or equitation or, yeah, 995 00:49:59,010 --> 00:50:02,310 you know, they just go somewhere else. 996 00:50:02,805 --> 00:50:03,405 Um, 997 00:50:04,095 --> 00:50:05,470 and they find success elsewhere. 998 00:50:05,470 --> 00:50:05,670 Yeah. 999 00:50:05,675 --> 00:50:06,825 And there's nothing wrong with that. 1000 00:50:06,825 --> 00:50:10,845 They just, the horses we are selecting for the top sport Yeah. 1001 00:50:10,845 --> 00:50:11,445 Are just different. 1002 00:50:11,775 --> 00:50:14,595 Not sure they're attempting to breed, you know, every breeder's trying to breed 1003 00:50:14,595 --> 00:50:15,855 horses, they can sell for a lot of money. 1004 00:50:15,975 --> 00:50:16,185 Yeah. 1005 00:50:16,335 --> 00:50:18,735 So, you know, they're trying to look into their crystal ball. 1006 00:50:18,825 --> 00:50:19,455 Uh, for that. 1007 00:50:20,145 --> 00:50:22,305 I think the horsemanship at the top level absolutely. 1008 00:50:22,305 --> 00:50:23,595 Has a hundred percent keeps up. 1009 00:50:23,895 --> 00:50:26,475 Um, it's the most dynamic place to be. 1010 00:50:26,775 --> 00:50:29,145 Um, so on that side, yes. 1011 00:50:29,145 --> 00:50:29,595 Mm-hmm. 1012 00:50:29,970 --> 00:50:35,565 But also the, even though that group of people at the high end is 1013 00:50:35,565 --> 00:50:41,265 bigger than it ever has been, it's still tiny in comparison to, you 1014 00:50:41,265 --> 00:50:42,555 know, the rest of horse sports. 1015 00:50:43,575 --> 00:50:45,105 But that's always the way it's gonna be. 1016 00:50:45,315 --> 00:50:45,615 Yes. 1017 00:50:45,705 --> 00:50:48,495 You know, should it be different? 1018 00:50:48,915 --> 00:50:49,305 Yeah. 1019 00:50:49,665 --> 00:50:51,705 It's why it's a pyramid, but it's it's not a bot. 1020 00:50:51,705 --> 00:50:52,755 It's not a rectangle. 1021 00:50:52,815 --> 00:50:53,115 Yeah. 1022 00:50:53,115 --> 00:50:57,135 But also if you stick, if you stick a non-top rider in 1023 00:50:57,135 --> 00:50:58,725 and amongst those top riders. 1024 00:50:59,295 --> 00:51:02,355 They will miss 96% of what's happening. 1025 00:51:02,865 --> 00:51:09,194 Uh, now will they get better faster than if they were hidden at home 1026 00:51:09,194 --> 00:51:10,245 trying to learn by themselves? 1027 00:51:10,605 --> 00:51:10,875 Sure. 1028 00:51:11,595 --> 00:51:12,705 But you're gonna miss a whole lot. 1029 00:51:14,085 --> 00:51:15,015 I don't know how to change it. 1030 00:51:15,015 --> 00:51:15,105 Mm-hmm. 1031 00:51:15,375 --> 00:51:21,045 You know, I, I don't think enough people are up to telling their secrets. 1032 00:51:22,395 --> 00:51:24,524 Um, there aren't any secrets. 1033 00:51:24,524 --> 00:51:25,365 They just think they are. 1034 00:51:26,055 --> 00:51:27,345 So you can't ride like them anyway. 1035 00:51:27,345 --> 00:51:31,935 So why does it matter if they use three holes on the, or three nails on the 1036 00:51:31,935 --> 00:51:33,495 outside and two nails on the inside? 1037 00:51:33,734 --> 00:51:37,964 Or they use a this stir or that stirrup or this supplement or 1038 00:51:37,964 --> 00:51:41,055 that supplement or whatever. 1039 00:51:41,085 --> 00:51:42,345 You can't write like him anyways. 1040 00:51:43,845 --> 00:51:44,295 Doesn't matter. 1041 00:51:44,535 --> 00:51:44,714 Okay. 1042 00:51:44,714 --> 00:51:45,464 I'm gonna say a statement. 1043 00:51:45,464 --> 00:51:46,904 I'm really curious what you think about it. 1044 00:51:47,355 --> 00:51:51,194 I had a really interesting cowboy asked him if he was ever gonna write a book and 1045 00:51:51,194 --> 00:51:52,365 he said, no, I'm not gonna write a book. 1046 00:51:52,365 --> 00:51:53,355 'cause it's all been written. 1047 00:51:54,285 --> 00:51:54,915 Do you think it's true? 1048 00:51:57,450 --> 00:51:58,170 No. 1049 00:51:58,200 --> 00:52:08,490 I mean, no, I think, I think at best, 90% of your book, if successful, 1050 00:52:08,490 --> 00:52:15,360 will just restate things in a way that people might understand. 1051 00:52:16,500 --> 00:52:21,210 Now, the application in the western world is different than the application for us. 1052 00:52:22,140 --> 00:52:29,460 Um, if we are gonna write a book about training your horse to hopefully 1053 00:52:29,880 --> 00:52:32,520 jump successfully to three foot three or three foot six, mm-hmm. 1054 00:52:33,210 --> 00:52:33,660 I'd say, yeah, 1055 00:52:34,525 --> 00:52:35,565 everything's been written. 1056 00:52:35,565 --> 00:52:37,770 Everything you need to know has been written. 1057 00:52:38,670 --> 00:52:42,870 A lot of the stuff that's at the cutting edge, at the high level, 1058 00:52:43,080 --> 00:52:45,750 you don't need at that level. 1059 00:52:45,840 --> 00:52:46,110 Right. 1060 00:52:46,440 --> 00:52:50,580 That'd be like saying, do you need F1 tires to go pick up the groceries? 1061 00:52:51,360 --> 00:52:51,720 Right. 1062 00:52:52,860 --> 00:52:55,350 And nothing wrong with that horse that just jumps Three foot three. 1063 00:52:55,410 --> 00:52:55,620 Yeah. 1064 00:52:55,980 --> 00:52:59,970 But you don't need any of that cra you know, any of that crazy tack. 1065 00:53:00,510 --> 00:53:02,715 Well, I think it's actually really empowering for a lot of us. 1066 00:53:03,045 --> 00:53:03,425 Sit here. 1067 00:53:03,425 --> 00:53:03,428 You could just 1068 00:53:04,140 --> 00:53:04,410 do it. 1069 00:53:04,710 --> 00:53:04,950 Yeah. 1070 00:53:05,370 --> 00:53:06,330 What has already been ridden. 1071 00:53:06,630 --> 00:53:06,720 Mm-hmm. 1072 00:53:07,140 --> 00:53:10,740 Uh, but at the highest level, no, that's always new. 1073 00:53:11,880 --> 00:53:13,770 It seems like it's very innovative. 1074 00:53:14,370 --> 00:53:14,520 Yeah. 1075 00:53:14,520 --> 00:53:19,410 People wanna be, 'cause people wanna win and, you know, any advantage they can 1076 00:53:19,410 --> 00:53:21,630 get, they'll, they can and should take. 1077 00:53:22,470 --> 00:53:22,770 Okay. 1078 00:53:22,770 --> 00:53:27,240 Now I wanna dive into, actually I'm gonna read a, a definition and 1079 00:53:27,240 --> 00:53:32,550 I'm going to ask you if you have ever navigated imposter syndrome. 1080 00:53:32,550 --> 00:53:36,000 And before you answer, I'm gonna, I'm gonna read the definition 1081 00:53:37,260 --> 00:53:38,400 and this is actually something. 1082 00:53:39,150 --> 00:53:41,550 I get from you 'cause I'm pretty sure you've actually read out the 1083 00:53:41,550 --> 00:53:42,810 definition on a couple things. 1084 00:53:43,440 --> 00:53:47,460 Imposter syndrome, also known as imposter phenomenon, is a behavioral health 1085 00:53:47,460 --> 00:53:51,870 issue that causes people to doubt their skills, accomplishments, and intellect. 1086 00:53:52,590 --> 00:53:56,700 It can manifest as a persistent feeling of self-doubt and fear 1087 00:53:56,700 --> 00:53:58,380 of being exposed as a fraud. 1088 00:53:59,400 --> 00:54:01,830 People with imposter syndrome may believe that they are 1089 00:54:01,830 --> 00:54:06,090 undeserving of their achievements and the high regard they receive. 1090 00:54:08,460 --> 00:54:10,260 Have you ever felt that? 1091 00:54:12,750 --> 00:54:15,720 I think it is important to not 1092 00:54:17,880 --> 00:54:22,740 focus on a definition for something, but in what you choose to do. 1093 00:54:23,850 --> 00:54:24,180 Hmm. 1094 00:54:25,050 --> 00:54:33,780 Um, because who cares if you've ever felt symptoms of imposter syndrome? 1095 00:54:33,780 --> 00:54:34,260 Mm-hmm. 1096 00:54:34,266 --> 00:54:35,255 What did you do? 1097 00:54:36,900 --> 00:54:37,410 Sure. 1098 00:54:38,160 --> 00:54:43,650 In my position, I come from a very fortunate position where I've 1099 00:54:43,650 --> 00:54:47,940 been able to ride great horses since my first punny jumper. 1100 00:54:48,360 --> 00:54:48,540 Right. 1101 00:54:49,170 --> 00:54:54,420 And of course, you want to ride any of those great horses that people know that 1102 00:54:54,420 --> 00:54:59,160 you have in a way that is right for them. 1103 00:54:59,370 --> 00:54:59,460 Mm-hmm. 1104 00:55:00,000 --> 00:55:04,770 Now, I could choose to let that cripple me. 1105 00:55:05,010 --> 00:55:05,100 Mm-hmm. 1106 00:55:05,490 --> 00:55:07,470 Or I could choose not to. 1107 00:55:08,760 --> 00:55:14,850 And if I just stay obsessed with the definition, let's say, it perfectly 1108 00:55:14,850 --> 00:55:17,400 explains everything in my being. 1109 00:55:17,970 --> 00:55:22,380 And if I just wallow in that, who loses most 1110 00:55:23,340 --> 00:55:23,550 me? 1111 00:55:23,850 --> 00:55:23,970 Mm-hmm. 1112 00:55:24,720 --> 00:55:26,340 So what is your choice? 1113 00:55:27,330 --> 00:55:31,710 And who cares if you have all of the symptoms? 1114 00:55:32,130 --> 00:55:34,530 Who cares if you have the best reasons why? 1115 00:55:34,710 --> 00:55:35,070 Hmm. 1116 00:55:35,970 --> 00:55:36,690 I don't care. 1117 00:55:36,810 --> 00:55:37,620 You shouldn't care. 1118 00:55:37,650 --> 00:55:39,000 It matters what you choose to do. 1119 00:55:40,740 --> 00:55:43,170 And similar to the question of how do you deal with pressure? 1120 00:55:44,009 --> 00:55:46,680 My answer to them is, pressure is a privilege is what 1121 00:55:46,680 --> 00:55:47,850 you choose to do with it. 1122 00:55:48,750 --> 00:55:49,799 It makes you better. 1123 00:55:49,859 --> 00:55:52,290 If you think it makes you worse and you act on that, well then 1124 00:55:52,589 --> 00:55:53,670 you're the one who suffers. 1125 00:55:54,390 --> 00:55:55,109 I don't suffer. 1126 00:55:56,400 --> 00:56:04,319 So I, people need to make a choice and not think that, make a choice to act 1127 00:56:04,350 --> 00:56:07,410 and not just wallow in some words or 1128 00:56:11,129 --> 00:56:12,420 I think it's really good advice. 1129 00:56:13,200 --> 00:56:18,150 I think it's very poignant because I think a lot of people have, I mean, I 1130 00:56:18,240 --> 00:56:21,270 certainly talk to all sorts of people in the horse world at lower levels, 1131 00:56:21,270 --> 00:56:24,180 at higher levels that have said they have struggled with imposter syndrome. 1132 00:56:24,569 --> 00:56:30,569 And I think it's really a, it's a thing that we all navigate a 1133 00:56:30,569 --> 00:56:32,129 lot of, a lot of people navigate. 1134 00:56:32,670 --> 00:56:37,020 So what are some of your own tools? 1135 00:56:37,560 --> 00:56:41,580 Because you, not only, so you talk about the, you, you just, you 1136 00:56:41,580 --> 00:56:42,930 just described it so perfectly. 1137 00:56:42,930 --> 00:56:48,990 Like you have had so many opportunities within the horse, within the horse 1138 00:56:48,990 --> 00:56:53,640 world and within horse sport you have competed at the top, top level 1139 00:56:53,730 --> 00:56:54,779 and you've gone to the Olympics. 1140 00:56:55,020 --> 00:56:56,759 You have a ton of pressure. 1141 00:56:56,790 --> 00:57:02,339 And anyone who knows show jumping will say it's like, it has the mental demands 1142 00:57:02,339 --> 00:57:07,710 of golf, but it happens in a matter of minutes, like downhill ski racing. 1143 00:57:08,100 --> 00:57:15,060 So it's a very fascinating combination of, of, um, like I would say like mental game. 1144 00:57:15,660 --> 00:57:15,990 Right. 1145 00:57:16,259 --> 00:57:20,520 So what is your personal practice when it comes to mental health and 1146 00:57:21,029 --> 00:57:23,069 specifically sports psychology? 1147 00:57:23,490 --> 00:57:26,670 Well, what I'd say is, look, you're, everyone has a bunch of thoughts. 1148 00:57:27,480 --> 00:57:32,580 I, I bet you everyone at the Showgrounds has had thoughts, some or all of 1149 00:57:32,580 --> 00:57:33,839 the thoughts on your definition. 1150 00:57:33,960 --> 00:57:34,080 Mm-hmm. 1151 00:57:35,520 --> 00:57:36,359 You think everybody 1152 00:57:36,629 --> 00:57:37,259 probably. 1153 00:57:37,410 --> 00:57:37,859 I agree. 1154 00:57:37,859 --> 00:57:39,629 You know, we we're humans. 1155 00:57:39,629 --> 00:57:40,290 We have a lot of thoughts. 1156 00:57:40,290 --> 00:57:42,120 We've also had a lot of thoughts of confidence. 1157 00:57:42,120 --> 00:57:42,210 Mm-hmm. 1158 00:57:42,629 --> 00:57:46,439 We've had a lot of thoughts of, I can do this, I can't do this. 1159 00:57:46,710 --> 00:57:53,339 I, you know, we all have so many thoughts and I think it's important 1160 00:57:53,430 --> 00:57:56,580 to not focus on that and focus on, well, what are you gonna do? 1161 00:57:57,450 --> 00:58:00,000 What is the action that you're gonna do next? 1162 00:58:01,830 --> 00:58:05,069 Because you're not gonna get better by staying in your head. 1163 00:58:06,149 --> 00:58:06,960 What's your action? 1164 00:58:07,830 --> 00:58:09,029 Where do you go from there? 1165 00:58:10,529 --> 00:58:13,379 You know, it's all fun and games to talk about feelings for hours. 1166 00:58:14,370 --> 00:58:16,140 You don't follow that up with action. 1167 00:58:16,740 --> 00:58:18,089 You'll be in the same place. 1168 00:58:18,569 --> 00:58:23,970 So I don't care if you've had imposter syndrome feelings or you've had. 1169 00:58:24,510 --> 00:58:29,790 Um, loss of worth feelings or, you know, you'll, you might have 1170 00:58:29,790 --> 00:58:34,080 some depressive feelings, some uh, overbearing pressure feelings. 1171 00:58:34,080 --> 00:58:35,700 Some, you know, this is tough. 1172 00:58:36,225 --> 00:58:37,680 This, this is a lot going on. 1173 00:58:37,860 --> 00:58:37,950 Mm-hmm. 1174 00:58:40,140 --> 00:58:41,910 But it matters what you choose to do. 1175 00:58:43,740 --> 00:58:44,550 It's a choice. 1176 00:58:45,720 --> 00:58:47,520 Most people aren't forced to ride. 1177 00:58:50,070 --> 00:58:55,410 If it, you choose to ride and you have feelings that are difficult for 1178 00:58:55,410 --> 00:58:58,470 you to manage, we'll make a choice to figure out how to deal with them. 1179 00:58:59,490 --> 00:59:04,950 We can label all you want, but it's about your choice of action. 1180 00:59:05,880 --> 00:59:10,080 So what are three things that you think are available to 1181 00:59:10,080 --> 00:59:12,630 everybody to up their mental game? 1182 00:59:13,380 --> 00:59:15,480 I mean, look, you can. 1183 00:59:16,005 --> 00:59:19,545 You can read self-help books and, and get a therapist. 1184 00:59:19,725 --> 00:59:21,495 I obviously, I have a sports psychologist. 1185 00:59:21,675 --> 00:59:26,535 I, there's nothing wrong with that, but I think it's important that 1186 00:59:26,535 --> 00:59:28,575 people stay very action based. 1187 00:59:28,875 --> 00:59:28,965 Mm-hmm. 1188 00:59:29,685 --> 00:59:34,605 Uh, very method based and they stay disciplined on their method. 1189 00:59:35,445 --> 00:59:41,175 Um, because if they do the method, whatever they believe is correct over 1190 00:59:41,175 --> 00:59:44,505 and over again, and they keep having the same problem, okay, well then 1191 00:59:44,505 --> 00:59:45,975 change one thing about your method. 1192 00:59:46,155 --> 00:59:46,245 Mm-hmm. 1193 00:59:46,845 --> 00:59:48,315 See if it makes an improvement. 1194 00:59:48,555 --> 00:59:48,645 Mm-hmm. 1195 00:59:49,155 --> 00:59:52,425 And that's how you develop your own way. 1196 00:59:53,205 --> 00:59:57,345 There's no, there's no three bullet pointed system. 1197 00:59:57,345 --> 01:00:00,855 I can't do a, a speech tour where I give people the answers to. 1198 01:00:00,975 --> 01:00:01,095 Mm-hmm. 1199 01:00:01,335 --> 01:00:03,315 All the mysteries of life. 1200 01:00:03,885 --> 01:00:06,975 For me, it's, it, it's the same as writing. 1201 01:00:06,975 --> 01:00:11,955 You show up each day, you work on the action points from yesterday, 1202 01:00:12,585 --> 01:00:13,635 you try to make those better. 1203 01:00:14,580 --> 01:00:15,780 If they get better, great. 1204 01:00:15,780 --> 01:00:17,490 You find other action points for tomorrow. 1205 01:00:17,490 --> 01:00:21,270 If they don't, maybe what you tried today was not the right thing to do. 1206 01:00:21,330 --> 01:00:22,530 You try something else tomorrow. 1207 01:00:22,770 --> 01:00:22,860 Hmm. 1208 01:00:23,190 --> 01:00:25,800 Um, who cares that you didn't fix it in today? 1209 01:00:27,330 --> 01:00:28,350 Just keep going. 1210 01:00:29,190 --> 01:00:31,980 And if it's completely crippling and ruining your life alone, it's, 1211 01:00:33,900 --> 01:00:35,610 you have a choice to not ride. 1212 01:00:37,530 --> 01:00:40,680 I know this is not touchy feely summer camp. 1213 01:00:40,680 --> 01:00:45,000 Everyone's having a great time stuff, but I, for me, it's, you have to choose 1214 01:00:45,000 --> 01:00:49,950 to act, um, make an action, might not be the right one, but by making an action, 1215 01:00:49,950 --> 01:00:52,890 you learn that it wasn't the right one, then you can try another action. 1216 01:00:53,670 --> 01:00:56,970 If you make no action, you'll have the same result. 1217 01:00:57,990 --> 01:00:58,200 Yeah. 1218 01:00:59,040 --> 01:01:04,290 I actually think that I'm gonna draw a reference because as you're talking and 1219 01:01:04,290 --> 01:01:08,760 you said, you know, this isn't the summer camp touchy feely vibe that everyone 1220 01:01:09,150 --> 01:01:11,970 might wanna hear, but actually no. 1221 01:01:12,000 --> 01:01:13,830 Are you familiar with who Jordan Peterson is? 1222 01:01:14,445 --> 01:01:15,465 In the mental health space. 1223 01:01:16,005 --> 01:01:21,765 He's a really, um, he's sort of a thought leader in, in psychology and in human 1224 01:01:21,765 --> 01:01:29,205 thought, and he's very popular and a lot of people attribute his popularity to his 1225 01:01:29,205 --> 01:01:36,645 ability to actually just give that kind of, this is gonna be a heteronormative 1226 01:01:36,645 --> 01:01:40,485 reference, but like his ability to give that kind of like straight up 1227 01:01:40,485 --> 01:01:42,525 fatherly advice that you might get. 1228 01:01:42,555 --> 01:01:46,185 He, he's actually really well known for being pretty to the point and to 1229 01:01:46,185 --> 01:01:50,655 say some say the hard thing for most people, and he's become really popular 1230 01:01:50,715 --> 01:01:54,945 because of that and not popular in some room in some areas because of that. 1231 01:01:55,755 --> 01:02:03,435 And I actually think that the collective needs those points of view. 1232 01:02:03,495 --> 01:02:07,725 I think it's an important balance, right, to say actually there are things 1233 01:02:07,725 --> 01:02:10,545 that you can do and they're not that complicated and they're available to 1234 01:02:10,545 --> 01:02:12,255 you and you don't really have an excuse. 1235 01:02:12,555 --> 01:02:12,735 Yep. 1236 01:02:12,915 --> 01:02:17,145 And a lot of times the reason people don't make simple changes is just 'cause 1237 01:02:17,145 --> 01:02:19,065 it's simple, doesn't mean it's easy. 1238 01:02:19,365 --> 01:02:21,555 A lot of times the hardest change is the simple one. 1239 01:02:22,455 --> 01:02:26,415 Mm. And they want secrets that they don't know. 1240 01:02:26,685 --> 01:02:30,765 So it'd be something complicated or specialized or mm-hmm. 1241 01:02:31,305 --> 01:02:33,435 You know, proprietary. 1242 01:02:33,615 --> 01:02:33,705 Mm-hmm. 1243 01:02:34,065 --> 01:02:35,055 That is simple. 1244 01:02:35,415 --> 01:02:36,975 And they don't have to really do anything. 1245 01:02:37,125 --> 01:02:40,845 It just like washes over them and all of a sudden they're a new person. 1246 01:02:41,085 --> 01:02:41,355 Yeah. 1247 01:02:42,855 --> 01:02:48,195 You see that all the time, but it's often the simple change that is the hardest one. 1248 01:02:48,615 --> 01:02:50,265 That is the one to make. 1249 01:02:51,315 --> 01:02:52,245 But I'm sorry, it's hard. 1250 01:02:53,715 --> 01:02:54,345 Can't change that. 1251 01:02:59,085 --> 01:03:02,475 I just love to like, let the silence sit around some of these really 1252 01:03:02,475 --> 01:03:04,965 powerful talk, like these really powerful statements you're making. 1253 01:03:07,860 --> 01:03:12,090 You have a co a quite a few, maybe more than you realize, a couple 1254 01:03:12,090 --> 01:03:20,190 fans in fellow riders and they, they actually ex, they really celebrate how 1255 01:03:21,180 --> 01:03:23,700 to the point and unfiltered you are. 1256 01:03:23,730 --> 01:03:29,220 They actually, I think one referenced it as a superpower, but it also can 1257 01:03:29,310 --> 01:03:31,590 cause quite a stir, which we've seen. 1258 01:03:32,490 --> 01:03:40,620 I think I am in a very fortunate place where it doesn't hurt me to 1259 01:03:40,620 --> 01:03:43,770 speak out or, or to speak my mind. 1260 01:03:44,010 --> 01:03:49,110 It doesn't hurt me to speak my mind because it, I don't 1261 01:03:49,140 --> 01:03:50,970 have to worry about clients. 1262 01:03:51,120 --> 01:03:54,660 I don't have to worry about good relationships with other trainers. 1263 01:03:54,660 --> 01:03:56,220 So we can do business back and forth. 1264 01:03:56,550 --> 01:03:57,270 I don't, 1265 01:04:00,570 --> 01:04:01,980 I just don't have to worry. 1266 01:04:01,980 --> 01:04:02,070 Mm-hmm. 1267 01:04:02,310 --> 01:04:03,205 And so it doesn't. 1268 01:04:04,245 --> 01:04:09,465 If I cause a stir unintentionally or intentionally, it doesn't 1269 01:04:09,465 --> 01:04:11,565 affect what I do with my horses. 1270 01:04:11,565 --> 01:04:12,375 Mm-hmm. 1271 01:04:12,381 --> 01:04:16,335 You know, I look my owner's, my, my mom. 1272 01:04:17,295 --> 01:04:21,165 So if I say something that rattles the boat a little bit, she's not 1273 01:04:21,165 --> 01:04:23,895 gonna take all the horses and go give them to someone else. 1274 01:04:23,955 --> 01:04:24,165 Yeah. 1275 01:04:24,495 --> 01:04:30,404 So I'm in a very fortunate position where I can be upfront, and a lot of 1276 01:04:30,404 --> 01:04:35,685 people at the show are also upfront, but they choose not to be because it might 1277 01:04:35,685 --> 01:04:37,634 negatively impact their livelihoods. 1278 01:04:38,384 --> 01:04:38,805 Yeah. 1279 01:04:39,465 --> 01:04:41,805 And you could say they shouldn't do that. 1280 01:04:41,805 --> 01:04:44,535 They should always speak their mind all that, you know, they're less of 1281 01:04:44,535 --> 01:04:49,965 a person because No, they, they have, there's more stuff in their equation. 1282 01:04:50,475 --> 01:04:50,654 Yeah. 1283 01:04:50,654 --> 01:04:51,915 They have bills to pay mortgages than 1284 01:04:51,915 --> 01:04:52,515 there is for me. 1285 01:04:52,605 --> 01:04:52,935 Yeah. 1286 01:04:52,935 --> 01:04:58,005 Like the, and I think that's a factor that's super important that 1287 01:04:58,005 --> 01:05:00,975 sometimes maybe the horse world doesn't always take into consideration 1288 01:05:00,975 --> 01:05:02,745 is when you're reading a piece. 1289 01:05:03,195 --> 01:05:05,505 When you're reading an article, when you're talking to somebody, 1290 01:05:05,565 --> 01:05:07,035 what is their point of view? 1291 01:05:07,035 --> 01:05:09,705 Because there's a spectrum of opinion and it's opinion. 1292 01:05:10,005 --> 01:05:11,715 Where are they sitting on that spectrum? 1293 01:05:11,865 --> 01:05:13,305 You're taught it at university. 1294 01:05:13,575 --> 01:05:13,965 Hopefully. 1295 01:05:13,995 --> 01:05:14,535 Hopefully. 1296 01:05:14,925 --> 01:05:16,245 You're taught to, yeah. 1297 01:05:16,455 --> 01:05:22,305 You're taught to discern what is the point of view, what is the bias that exists 1298 01:05:22,305 --> 01:05:24,045 within this particular point of view? 1299 01:05:24,705 --> 01:05:25,035 Right. 1300 01:05:25,575 --> 01:05:30,075 But something that I don't know if we talk maybe openly enough about 1301 01:05:30,075 --> 01:05:34,275 in the horse world is there's a lot of editing that takes place because 1302 01:05:34,815 --> 01:05:36,345 money makes the world go round. 1303 01:05:36,555 --> 01:05:39,825 And a lot of riders or a lot of individuals within the horse world, 1304 01:05:40,245 --> 01:05:43,035 they have, I have been in positions where people have said something to me 1305 01:05:43,035 --> 01:05:46,245 and they're like, I will never say that publicly, Noel, I will never say that. 1306 01:05:46,335 --> 01:05:46,905 Yeah, sure. 1307 01:05:46,960 --> 01:05:49,515 I, I mean, I could, you would say, why didn't this trainer 1308 01:05:49,515 --> 01:05:51,375 tell me what actually would help? 1309 01:05:51,615 --> 01:05:59,175 Well, you didn't want to hear it, you know, if you showed up for a clinic and. 1310 01:06:00,345 --> 01:06:04,154 Your bridle was way too big and you couldn't make it shorter. 1311 01:06:04,575 --> 01:06:11,294 Your saddle was fit for an elephant and you have mismatched boots 1312 01:06:11,595 --> 01:06:18,075 and your horse is really unfit and you've paid for this clinic. 1313 01:06:18,165 --> 01:06:18,615 Mm-hmm. 1314 01:06:18,674 --> 01:06:23,895 And instead of the trainer teaching you what the clinic was about in the saddle, 1315 01:06:24,075 --> 01:06:28,455 they said, I'm sorry, you're still gonna pay, but I can't teach you in the saddle. 1316 01:06:28,455 --> 01:06:30,524 I'm gonna show you what is wrong with your equipment. 1317 01:06:30,975 --> 01:06:32,565 And until that is fixed, you can't come back. 1318 01:06:35,085 --> 01:06:35,265 Now. 1319 01:06:35,265 --> 01:06:37,694 That is the right way to do it. 1320 01:06:37,845 --> 01:06:38,085 Yeah. 1321 01:06:39,105 --> 01:06:43,815 Because until your shoeing is right, your tack, your saddle fits, you know, 1322 01:06:43,815 --> 01:06:49,904 you, you have boots that fit for the purpose that they're supposed to be 1323 01:06:50,384 --> 01:06:52,845 your horses, you know, in a good place. 1324 01:06:52,845 --> 01:06:56,549 Physically, you shouldn't be taught to ride. 1325 01:06:57,855 --> 01:06:58,875 On that horse mm-hmm. 1326 01:06:59,115 --> 01:07:00,165 With that saddle that doesn't fit. 1327 01:07:00,165 --> 01:07:01,785 Mm-hmm. 1328 01:07:01,815 --> 01:07:01,935 But 1329 01:07:04,095 --> 01:07:05,145 that wouldn't go over well 1330 01:07:05,175 --> 01:07:05,835 economically. 1331 01:07:05,835 --> 01:07:06,645 It wouldn't go over well, 1332 01:07:07,395 --> 01:07:10,725 you know, I could do the same format with many different ways. 1333 01:07:10,905 --> 01:07:11,265 Mm-hmm. 1334 01:07:11,505 --> 01:07:14,535 There's many applications of that concept in the horse world. 1335 01:07:14,595 --> 01:07:14,865 Yeah. 1336 01:07:15,675 --> 01:07:20,715 And so it, to me, I don't wonder why the state of things are the way they are. 1337 01:07:21,195 --> 01:07:21,855 A lot of people do. 1338 01:07:21,885 --> 01:07:27,585 I don't, because you look at where the incentives are, where the expectations 1339 01:07:27,585 --> 01:07:32,235 are, and what people are paying for, but they think they're paying for. 1340 01:07:32,235 --> 01:07:32,655 Mm-hmm. 1341 01:07:32,810 --> 01:07:34,485 It actually makes perfect sense, 1342 01:07:35,985 --> 01:07:38,325 which is why everyone needs to pick up a book. 1343 01:07:39,675 --> 01:07:39,885 Right. 1344 01:07:39,885 --> 01:07:40,365 Just think for 1345 01:07:40,365 --> 01:07:40,785 themselves. 1346 01:07:40,785 --> 01:07:41,835 Because you could get, yeah. 1347 01:07:41,835 --> 01:07:45,705 Think for yourself and pick up a book, because that is something that 1348 01:07:45,705 --> 01:07:49,065 actually can mitigate coming to the clinic with a poorly fit battle. 1349 01:07:49,095 --> 01:07:52,545 But, but also it could just be that they knew the right answer, but 1350 01:07:52,545 --> 01:07:53,805 they don't have enough discipline. 1351 01:07:54,465 --> 01:07:54,585 Mm. 1352 01:07:55,065 --> 01:07:55,155 To 1353 01:07:55,155 --> 01:07:55,485 do it. 1354 01:07:55,875 --> 01:08:02,714 Like, you know that, you know, the horse should have been haw four weeks ago. 1355 01:08:03,015 --> 01:08:03,194 Yeah. 1356 01:08:03,225 --> 01:08:03,825 But you didn't do it. 1357 01:08:04,605 --> 01:08:06,165 That is nothing about knowledge. 1358 01:08:07,154 --> 01:08:08,714 That is all about discipline. 1359 01:08:09,375 --> 01:08:09,825 Yeah. 1360 01:08:10,214 --> 01:08:10,815 I agree with that. 1361 01:08:10,815 --> 01:08:10,964 And 1362 01:08:10,964 --> 01:08:15,045 there's a lot of stuff where they want to think it's about lack of knowledge or 1363 01:08:15,045 --> 01:08:16,484 it's really just a lack of discipline. 1364 01:08:17,415 --> 01:08:20,805 Mm. With the knowledge that you had, if you did everything that your knowledge 1365 01:08:20,805 --> 01:08:25,845 told you with discipline, you would be way farther ahead, even if you 1366 01:08:25,845 --> 01:08:28,965 still lack knowledge, but you were disciplined about the knowledge you got. 1367 01:08:28,965 --> 01:08:28,995 Oh. 1368 01:08:31,215 --> 01:08:33,974 Instead of just thinking, I'm doing all the discipline. 1369 01:08:33,974 --> 01:08:34,274 Great. 1370 01:08:34,274 --> 01:08:36,194 It's just I lack, lack knowledge. 1371 01:08:36,345 --> 01:08:37,455 Like No, no. 1372 01:08:37,455 --> 01:08:37,814 A lot. 1373 01:08:38,175 --> 01:08:39,104 You need more knowledge. 1374 01:08:39,104 --> 01:08:39,555 Sure. 1375 01:08:39,915 --> 01:08:43,965 But it's best suited if you also can put it into a discipline program. 1376 01:08:46,665 --> 01:08:47,984 Just more silence. 1377 01:08:49,455 --> 01:08:50,415 So good buddy. 1378 01:08:50,415 --> 01:08:51,314 I just love it. 1379 01:08:51,345 --> 01:08:51,675 Okay. 1380 01:08:52,755 --> 01:08:57,434 Sometimes you say like, you've said stuff to me or you've said stuff publicly 1381 01:08:58,365 --> 01:08:59,955 and then you'll get criticism for it. 1382 01:09:00,434 --> 01:09:04,125 And I loved something you said to me when we were like on the phone 1383 01:09:04,125 --> 01:09:07,904 once you said, doesn't mean that I'm gonna change what I said. 1384 01:09:08,085 --> 01:09:10,455 It's like this idea of just 'cause you get criticism for what she 1385 01:09:10,455 --> 01:09:12,285 said does not mean that it's wrong. 1386 01:09:13,875 --> 01:09:17,234 I think if people are expressing their ideas 1387 01:09:17,234 --> 01:09:18,104 mm-hmm. 1388 01:09:18,854 --> 01:09:24,854 And their experiences, even if it is completely opposite to my ideas and 1389 01:09:24,854 --> 01:09:26,505 experiences, that is still helpful. 1390 01:09:26,955 --> 01:09:27,135 Yeah. 1391 01:09:27,524 --> 01:09:30,825 Both to me and to other people now. 1392 01:09:30,854 --> 01:09:31,274 Sure. 1393 01:09:31,515 --> 01:09:34,875 Attacking people personally, that's really not helpful for the conversation. 1394 01:09:34,965 --> 01:09:35,205 Yeah. 1395 01:09:35,265 --> 01:09:42,135 But differences of opinion are helpful even if I think those opinions are wrong. 1396 01:09:42,720 --> 01:09:44,190 It's still helpful. 1397 01:09:44,670 --> 01:09:50,100 So just because someone has a different opinion than me doesn't mean I am 1398 01:09:50,370 --> 01:09:52,290 going to regret saying anything. 1399 01:09:52,980 --> 01:09:56,730 It just means that there is a conversation going. 1400 01:09:56,730 --> 01:09:58,830 And that's not a bad thing. 1401 01:09:59,550 --> 01:10:00,000 Like who? 1402 01:10:00,480 --> 01:10:01,980 Disagreement's not a bad thing. 1403 01:10:03,150 --> 01:10:04,710 Um, it's how you learn. 1404 01:10:05,190 --> 01:10:07,800 You know, why does that person have that difference of opinion? 1405 01:10:10,110 --> 01:10:14,190 Is there something about my opinion that actually should 1406 01:10:14,190 --> 01:10:16,410 be educated a bit by theirs? 1407 01:10:17,220 --> 01:10:19,920 Mm. 'cause a lot of times that's the case, you know? 1408 01:10:19,920 --> 01:10:22,110 And, and you have to be open to that change. 1409 01:10:22,680 --> 01:10:27,360 As much as I speak loudly, I also change how I think. 1410 01:10:28,170 --> 01:10:30,960 I think that's something that's really important to emphasize 1411 01:10:30,960 --> 01:10:32,940 in this right now, right? 1412 01:10:33,090 --> 01:10:36,090 Is you can have an opinion and it can also change, it can evolve. 1413 01:10:36,480 --> 01:10:41,760 Like Mark Rashid was in the studio and I said he's written 16 books. 1414 01:10:42,390 --> 01:10:46,140 And I said, what's, you know, like, what's one book that just stands out for you? 1415 01:10:46,140 --> 01:10:51,870 And he said, well, each of those books was a, is a representation of the, 1416 01:10:52,050 --> 01:10:54,930 the thoughts and the feelings and the opinions that I had at that time. 1417 01:10:54,990 --> 01:10:55,140 Yep. 1418 01:10:55,320 --> 01:10:59,340 And you know, he's like an icon in, in, in his space. 1419 01:10:59,550 --> 01:11:01,050 And he said, and those have changed. 1420 01:11:01,080 --> 01:11:05,040 I've written 16 books to say that I have the exact opinion that I had in 1421 01:11:05,040 --> 01:11:10,440 each of those books is, is a, is a fallacy, you know, thought evolves. 1422 01:11:11,100 --> 01:11:13,350 It should, you don't get better without change. 1423 01:11:16,530 --> 01:11:16,950 So good. 1424 01:11:16,980 --> 01:11:21,690 Okay, so to wrap up every episode, I always ask each guest 1425 01:11:21,690 --> 01:11:23,400 the same rapid fire questions. 1426 01:11:24,780 --> 01:11:27,870 If you could read one book to the horse world, what would it be? 1427 01:11:28,740 --> 01:11:29,100 I don't know 1428 01:11:29,820 --> 01:11:30,210 really. 1429 01:11:31,560 --> 01:11:32,400 It can't be just one? 1430 01:11:33,780 --> 01:11:34,800 Well, you gotta pick just one. 1431 01:11:35,520 --> 01:11:35,880 I don't know. 1432 01:11:35,880 --> 01:11:37,170 I can't answer that one. 1433 01:11:38,130 --> 01:11:38,370 Okay. 1434 01:11:39,270 --> 01:11:41,160 Who is the most iconic horse in history? 1435 01:11:42,615 --> 01:11:46,035 So many ways you could do it because he would say Eclipse, but then no one 1436 01:11:46,035 --> 01:11:47,235 would know what you're talking about. 1437 01:11:48,375 --> 01:11:54,165 Um, Milton, because how he inspired the partnership inspired 1438 01:11:54,195 --> 01:11:55,245 everyone that came after. 1439 01:11:56,835 --> 01:12:02,325 Do you think that's who, so when top riders want to aspire to what I'd call 1440 01:12:02,325 --> 01:12:06,105 symbiosis between horse and rider, do you think that's who they think of? 1441 01:12:06,585 --> 01:12:06,855 Yeah. 1442 01:12:06,855 --> 01:12:09,855 Or I mean, you could also, in that example, you could pick 1443 01:12:10,155 --> 01:12:13,515 someone, a horse like, oo, who else could have ridden that thing? 1444 01:12:13,520 --> 01:12:13,790 Mm-hmm. 1445 01:12:13,890 --> 01:12:16,275 And that partnership and the way that was amazing. 1446 01:12:16,275 --> 01:12:16,365 Mm-hmm. 1447 01:12:16,850 --> 01:12:24,495 Um, you know, that that same, uh, same, you know, gem twist at 1448 01:12:24,495 --> 01:12:26,145 that time was such a cool horse. 1449 01:12:26,205 --> 01:12:26,385 Mm-hmm. 1450 01:12:26,625 --> 01:12:26,985 Awesome. 1451 01:12:26,985 --> 01:12:27,825 Unbelievable. 1452 01:12:28,365 --> 01:12:34,575 Um, Hickstead like that, you know, I know it's out of fashion. 1453 01:12:34,605 --> 01:12:35,145 I get it. 1454 01:12:35,565 --> 01:12:38,865 But like, remember watching them go around amazing. 1455 01:12:38,895 --> 01:12:39,945 Like, just like, just. 1456 01:12:40,545 --> 01:12:41,505 Ignore some of the other stuff. 1457 01:12:41,505 --> 01:12:43,365 If you just look at watching 'em go around. 1458 01:12:43,365 --> 01:12:43,665 Yeah. 1459 01:12:43,725 --> 01:12:45,460 So, I dunno. 1460 01:12:46,755 --> 01:12:46,995 Yeah. 1461 01:12:47,895 --> 01:12:48,405 Good answer. 1462 01:12:49,305 --> 01:12:49,935 I let you say. 1463 01:12:49,935 --> 01:12:50,175 Okay. 1464 01:12:50,175 --> 01:12:52,095 I let you say more than one there. 1465 01:12:52,155 --> 01:12:52,515 Yeah. 1466 01:12:52,520 --> 01:12:54,855 That's so, okay, so we'll go back to, if you could read 1467 01:12:54,855 --> 01:12:55,695 one book to the horse world. 1468 01:12:55,695 --> 01:12:59,295 Let's say, if you could read three books to the horse world. 1469 01:12:59,385 --> 01:13:01,065 Everything from John Marie Denix. 1470 01:13:02,700 --> 01:13:02,990 Okay. 1471 01:13:03,825 --> 01:13:04,905 That's a great answer. 1472 01:13:05,325 --> 01:13:05,715 Good books'. 1473 01:13:05,805 --> 01:13:06,870 John Marie Denix. 1474 01:13:07,660 --> 01:13:11,685 Jean Marie Deis is a French vet. He's actually still alive and I think 1475 01:13:11,685 --> 01:13:19,965 he's written the best books about biomechanics, anatomy, uh, for horses. 1476 01:13:19,965 --> 01:13:20,145 Now. 1477 01:13:20,145 --> 01:13:22,695 His anatomy is more about jumping. 1478 01:13:23,055 --> 01:13:23,205 Yeah. 1479 01:13:23,265 --> 01:13:25,515 Um, than anything. 1480 01:13:25,515 --> 01:13:28,575 If it's for all horses, then it'd probably be the, what is it? 1481 01:13:28,575 --> 01:13:31,365 The veterinary owner's manual. 1482 01:13:31,425 --> 01:13:31,635 Mm-hmm. 1483 01:13:31,965 --> 01:13:35,595 Like, like literally just be that, like, just, that's horse care stuff. 1484 01:13:35,835 --> 01:13:36,165 Love it. 1485 01:13:37,245 --> 01:13:39,495 Most undervalued skill as a writer. 1486 01:13:40,785 --> 01:13:42,705 What's undervalued skill as a rider? 1487 01:13:45,464 --> 01:13:46,245 Simplicity. 1488 01:13:47,264 --> 01:13:50,474 Who is the greatest horseman or horse woman in history? 1489 01:13:50,684 --> 01:13:51,339 Eric Neve. 1490 01:13:52,934 --> 01:13:55,275 And last question, I have a feeling I know your answer. 1491 01:13:55,605 --> 01:13:57,254 Mares, stallions or geldings? 1492 01:13:57,315 --> 01:13:58,634 Oh, mares God. 1493 01:13:58,634 --> 01:14:00,945 Stallions are dumb and geldings are neutral. 1494 01:14:02,565 --> 01:14:03,045 And what are mares. 1495 01:14:04,495 --> 01:14:06,600 They're spicy, they're smart. 1496 01:14:09,390 --> 01:14:13,260 Carl, I will say I had pretty high expectations of this episode 1497 01:14:13,260 --> 01:14:14,220 and they totally met them. 1498 01:14:14,220 --> 01:14:16,290 Thank you for so much for coming on the podcast. 1499 01:14:16,290 --> 01:14:16,830 Thank you so much. 1500 01:14:18,060 --> 01:14:21,330 Today's episode is brought to you by Conway and Associates, 1501 01:14:21,360 --> 01:14:23,100 equine Insurance Services. 1502 01:14:23,580 --> 01:14:27,510 The friendly and knowledgeable team at Conaway and Associates brings together 1503 01:14:27,510 --> 01:14:32,100 more than 30 years of experience to offer a wide range of insurance 1504 01:14:32,100 --> 01:14:36,990 services, including horse insurance, farm insurance, and liability insurance. 1505 01:14:37,350 --> 01:14:43,200 Visit www.conaway.net to explore options or get in touch today.