The One Where The Pay Is The Pay No Matter What You Do

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Speaker 1: Hello, my love, Happy Wednesday. Welcome back to the Give Them La La Podcast.

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Speaker 2: I've got my left and right hand with me today. Easton is frush out the hurricane. Good morning's wake.

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Speaker 3: Yeah, it was a wild weekend's wild and.

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Speaker 1: Wet and wild.

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Speaker 3: My favorite type of weekends.

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Speaker 1: Is that why you're wearing that?

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Speaker 3: Yeah, you don't know when it's coming.

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Speaker 1: Back, You don't. You've got to be prepared. You're used to like blizzards though, Easton.

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Speaker 3: Yeah, that's why I have a face mask.

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Speaker 4: I love how your hair is so thick though, that you can see it under the hat.

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Speaker 5: It makes me so happy, like the hair.

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Speaker 3: But sometimes when I put it back in a button now the front goes up and I look like I'm part of the polygamy tribe. The little bumpets.

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Speaker 1: Oh yeah, hey, the higher the bump closer to God.

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Speaker 3: Baby, I know I'm getting it big too, Jessica.

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Speaker 1: How are you doing this morning?

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Speaker 5: I'm good, I'm good.

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Speaker 4: This morning was wild. I'll put it in the ach of the week.

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Speaker 1: But good, Oh I can't. I love your age.

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Speaker 2: So before we jump into what was this weekend right before the hurricane?

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Speaker 1: And what's that thing called earthquake?

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Speaker 2: Earthquake before those two things hit at one time, and decide to have a dick measuring contest. Let's talk about so Bernice Easton, you want to take over his dog?

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Speaker 1: Or had the cancer? It never ends, It never ends.

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Speaker 2: After the party, after the party, wait, after the party. It was Friday night. Friday Nightriday was Saturday. Okay, we do Friday.

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Speaker 1: You wanted to go.

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Speaker 3: Out, well, yeah, no, but Friday, I was with you all day, You were.

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Speaker 1: With me all day, and then you were going to go out.

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Speaker 2: And then I get a phone call and NISI had her stitches removed.

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Speaker 3: Ye yeah, Lisa had it done. And the place was like, yeah, I shn go back to her regular daily activity. Don't worry. She's great. So I'm like, all right, So Friday, she gets them out in the morning. I come home Friday night, I'm getting ready to go out, and I just lift her up to see if everything is all right. Her hole, like the wound is just a giant gaping.

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Speaker 4: Hole, no gaping open, oh yeah open, oh yeah.

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Speaker 5: Sorry, I'm not laughing at the whole.

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Speaker 3: I'm still funny. We started yelling at each other. It was a whole message.

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Speaker 2: He calls us He's like, you need to come over. One of her rooounds is.

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Speaker 3: Open and Mom goes, send a picture. I just get the fun.

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Speaker 1: I was like, no, no, no pictures. We dealt with this with the cat.

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Speaker 2: Remember my mom was like face time me right right, right right, so I could tell Anesen's voice.

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Speaker 1: I was like, we're coming. So we go over.

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Speaker 2: I pop the door open, a little eastern goes in. But I was like the only thing I was asking you, guys, I.

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Speaker 1: Was like, is it bleeding?

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Speaker 3: All I see?

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Speaker 1: Because that's my biggest fear.

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Speaker 2: I don't do with blood. That's why I could never kill anyone. Oh that's not the only reason my.

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Speaker 1: Pass out.

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Speaker 2: They pass out next to the body and they'd be like, well, we know who did it.

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Speaker 3: But so Lisa walks to the house and all I hear is is there blood and just a hand around the door with just a box of like bandages gauze, And she goes, is it how bloody? There's no blood, no blood, but it's it was so weird.

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Speaker 2: So it's like it was in the shape of a vagiant okay, okay.

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Speaker 3: And it's like no blood coming out, but it's just moving around her body as she and it's under her armpit, so it's a very high.

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Speaker 5: Mobility areas crying.

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Speaker 3: She's like panting and stuff and like, so now we're trying to put gauze on. It's in an area that doesn't like it doesn't it can't put band aids on dog hair. So Lauren grows a pair of balls. It was crazy.

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Speaker 5: She went grows some over eyes.

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Speaker 2: Because I never it had to have been the uh the n oh, yeah, she was. I was one, and it was kicking in when I got there. So Easton's trying to wrap it and keep in mind, y'all. Now that I have a kid, like, I kick into high gear when I need to write, Like there's been there has been one time every mom has to call the er or whatever take their kid to the ear. I've had to do that before with Ocean, and I like, Lisa freezes up right.

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Speaker 1: I kick into like robot.

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Speaker 2: I'm like, this is where we are, this is the code to get into the gate, this is where you're going to park. You're going to take a left, then a right, and then you're gonna go up the elevator.

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Speaker 1: I'm like very.

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Speaker 2: Into it, right, Okay, So the bandage falls off and I see it and it doesn't bother me, which is strange because usually, like I said, I would pass out or blackout. And and so I'm trying to wrap it and Easton's holding the dog, but he doesn't think I'm doing it correctly, so he gets all tense and he's like, Lauren, this is how you do it, and I go, shut the fuck up.

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Speaker 3: I was like, and my defense, I'm looking at the wound, holding her butt and holding her head so she doesn't move, and they're just wrapping, and like, the wound is here and her ass is here, and they're like, wrapping.

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Speaker 1: You're such a damn lie. You're on the other side of the dog.

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Speaker 2: I'm face I'm face to face with the wound, all right, We're up close and personal.

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Speaker 1: I take the gauze and I'm wrapping it to perfection.

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Speaker 2: Right, I'm rapping on both sides on top of it because I know it is in a place that is very hard to make it stay there. Right, she's gonna be moving around. Easton loses his mind. I'm kicking into high gear, right, robotic, robotic, and I wrap that fucking wound like a champion. And then and then I calmed the room down. All right, we have this under control.

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Speaker 1: I said.

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Speaker 2: What we need to do is get butterfly tape from CBS. I'm in a bathrobe, you guys, Okay, I look like most people in LA at this hour on Third Street.

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Speaker 1: Perfect right, in we go in, we clear out the place, right.

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Speaker 2: I get all sorts of little bandages whatever I'm feeling.

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Speaker 1: I'm feeling myself, doctor Lalla.

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Speaker 2: We're walking out. We're walking out for spending shit, yeah, eight dollars. This guy eating a chicken wing. I walk past and we make eye contact as I passed. All a sudden, the chicken wing comes flying past my head, flying past my head, and I look behind.

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Speaker 1: Me, like what and he goes like this to me with that noise.

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Speaker 6: I die, Wait, if that isn't the most boss way to try and pick up a chick whipping a chicken wing at her head and then.

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Speaker 5: Be like, yeah, there's where that came from.

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Speaker 3: If we didn't have to get back to Bernice, it may have worked.

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Speaker 1: I would have hollered. I would have pulled up.

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Speaker 2: Oh my gosh, so that was our night three hurricane an earthquake.

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Speaker 5: What did you say to him?

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Speaker 2: Were you like, I just smiled like I was kind of flattered. I was like, oh, like you want to get someone's attention that bad? You're willing to throw an animal leg at them?

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Speaker 3: Right? And it still and I don't waste a chicken wing?

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Speaker 1: Did you used? And picked it up?

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Speaker 4: And oh, my god, is Bernice right or you call her Bernie?

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Speaker 3: Yeah?

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Speaker 5: Is she okay? Is she okay?

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Speaker 3: No? I mean I mean it was an open wound? So I had to go back to the vet. The next day.

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Speaker 2: We called, We called the er and they they said, we're with a critical patient right now, so like we can't take care of your animal. And it wasn't the wound wasn't like life threatening, so we took her. Then Easton took it the next day and we just.

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Speaker 3: Like wrapped it, made sure it was good, put her shirt on her. And then now she's.

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Speaker 5: Got staples, so she's okay, she's better.

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Speaker 2: She's better all as well as well traumatized with animals.

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Speaker 5: Are you ever gonna get a break?

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Speaker 1: Easton?

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Speaker 3: No? And then Lisa, she was like, yeah, I don't think I'm gonna take Bella and until like we need to until it and I was like, until you need to? She needs to right now.

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Speaker 2: Like Bella is like fully blind. She she sat in the elevator the other day we all got off and she was just staring in the corner and I was like, Bella, we've all left, and she.

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Speaker 1: Like turns around kind of and I'm like, oh, sweet baby, baby Bella. She's so cute. She's so cute.

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Speaker 2: Okay, So we were all fully prepared for the hurricane. We ordered Saturday night.

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Speaker 1: I told my mom.

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Speaker 2: I was like, we need to order groceries because God forbid, this really is what they're saying it's gonna be. We need food and she was like, well, what kind of food? And I was like, healthy shit that we can survive on. I was like, berries, avocado, all of the things, spinach, right, h She is so.

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Speaker 1: Not like me to get any of those things out the groceries.

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Speaker 2: Whow like maybe for ocean, I'll get a few things, but like to feed the whole fam, not at all. Yeah, we have so many groceries. And I have to say I was a little underwhelmed by the storm. Were you I mean in my area, in my area, which is shocking because you fell and we'll get to it.

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Speaker 4: I think you will get to the earthquake, but I was rain wise. I wasn't underwhelmed. I did think there was gonna be more winds and stuff. And this morning when I drove through Los Fheelis Street, I mean, that is definitely flooded in those areas. But yeah, it was not what I expected it to be.

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Speaker 1: Yet.

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Speaker 4: I did come across memes that were like, you know, the entire US, it's like California hunkered down. And then it's like Californians and people are like on the beach and they're surfing.

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Speaker 1: You're like, oh my god, we're gonna get some ray and that's so cute and cozy.

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Speaker 3: I enjoyed it.

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Speaker 1: I like that, which is exactly what I felt.

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Speaker 2: I was like when I heard this was coming. I was like, oh, my favorite kind of weather. And Ariana, who's from Florida, is like, well, we should probably like not treat it that way. It is like a real thing that's coming. Then it switched to like a tropical storm. And then I was watching Justin Martindale. He's a comedian. He's always on Heather McDonald's podcast. He's outside and he's like, I'm very underwhelmed. I was ready for my windows to break. I was ready to be cute and cozy. And this is what you deliver tropical storm nothing.

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Speaker 1: It's like a light drizzle where he is.

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Speaker 4: Wow you So you guys were really because I didn't think it was gonna be You thought there was gonna be like window breaks and like trees falling.

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Speaker 2: On I mean, you hear, kay, hurricanes coming and I've seen Florida during a hurricane, and I've seen a lot of other hurricanes, not just in Florida, but they seem to hit there a lot right anywhere on that coast. And I was like, they're preparing us for that. Yeah.

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Speaker 4: I do have to say with your food choice, though, I feel like the hurricane is the one time you don't want to get the healthy shit. You want to get the stuff that's gonna last in your shell, in your frozen goods are on your shelves, not even frozen. Had enough of that, oh you did, because if that electricity goes out, you want to get canned goods.

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Speaker 5: You want to get cheese, it's chips.

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Speaker 1: Oh we had all of that.

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Speaker 2: Where was like, we need something healthy, you know, to like for the first couple of days whatever. Anyways, sitting on the toilet, Lisa's taking the dogs out, and all of a sudden, the builds and.

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Speaker 1: Starts as shick, and I don't know. It's like, what the fuck is happening right now?

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Speaker 2: And I'm watching the plants all move, and so I get up, I fly up, I hold the rest of my body by up, pants off, and I'm standing at.

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Speaker 1: The doorway like, oh my god.

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Speaker 3: What is happening?

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Speaker 2: And Lisa walks in the door and she's like, what are you doing? I was like, because then the phone starts going off like preparre. Did you see it?

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Speaker 1: Yes, you got it?

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Speaker 5: Yet after the earthquakes?

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Speaker 1: What was happening in real time?

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Speaker 3: Oh?

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Speaker 1: I didn't see it.

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Speaker 2: My phone was over there and it's doing the thing while we're moving and I'm in the doorway and Lisa's didn't.

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Speaker 5: Feel a thing.

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Speaker 3: Neither did I. When I was walking. I think I was walking when it happened and I got the alert and I am not gonna lie. I was so sick of getting flood warning alerts that I assumed and I just clicked it to shut it up. And I didn't even know. When I walked back in, my roommate was like, did you feel that earthquake. I go, didn't even know what happened.

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Speaker 5: You didn't feel it at all.

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Speaker 3: I thought that. I thought that, like the emergency was a flood flat and like a flood again.

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Speaker 4: I was like, god, we know, see I was I heard Wes Hollywood felt it more.

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Speaker 5: I was out to lunch in Glendale and.

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Speaker 1: What Yeah, yes, I was out.

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Speaker 5: I sure did. I sure did.

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Speaker 4: I went out to lunch. But listen to this. I'm so scared of earthquakes, the thought of them. So I'm out to lunch with Anna and she's sitting across from me, and just so our friends know, Anna's like very calm, she doesn't show a lot of emotion, very collected. So we get the alert and it says earthquake coming like hide under the table or.

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Speaker 5: Something, and I'm like, we gotta get down. Like we're at lunch and I'm.

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Speaker 4: Like everybody and I'm just like and she's like, you need to chill, like relax, and I'm like, no, no, no, it's coming, like which table. I'm looking at the tables and she's like relax, And the people in the restaurant are looking at their phones and then looking at me, like, girl, you're fine, and then so I sat there. I had the table picked out that I was gonna hide under once it hit, and I'm waiting and I'm like looking, and I'm like okay.

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Speaker 5: And a few minutes.

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Speaker 1: Past, and I'm like, do you worry about the aftershock?

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Speaker 5: The after Apparently there was like twelve did you feel.

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Speaker 1: I didn't feel any of those.

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Speaker 4: Well, Glendale, as far as I know, didn't feel the earthquake.

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Speaker 1: All right, Well, there we go. Yesterday was full of week shit.

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Speaker 5: I'm just kidding wild Well.

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Speaker 2: No one wins this deck measuring contest. You're both small ast shit, just kidding, all right, So a lot by the way, today was supposed to be a Disney day, all right. I booked out, we had Stossy's podcast up and ready to go, and then Bethany Frankel decides to come out with a three part podcast with Riquel. So in honor of her doing this, I did as much research as Bethany Frankel did for that podcast, which was absolutely fucking none.

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Speaker 1: I didn't listen to it seemed like a lot.

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Speaker 2: I only listened to like my own podcasts or like Murder podcasts, to be honest, So I only saw notes did you listen to it.

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Speaker 1: Jess, I did.

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Speaker 5: I listened to all three parts.

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Speaker 2: Okay, I heard it was like forty minutes of ads and maybe twenty minutes or maybe I got that mixed up and like twenty minutes of interview.

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Speaker 5: Yeah it was.

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Speaker 2: It was frustrating, but it was Yeah, with the ads you couldn't skip through. No, it was the interview was frustrating. Okay, tell me why because I didn't listen. I do have some notes, but just tell me what you gathered from listening.

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Speaker 4: That she didn't do research, which was disappointing because it's like it's one thing to be Howie. We love Howie, but like, yeah, how he's not a Bravo guy's and then but then to be Bethany, it's like she's in the world. She I feel like she's a smart woman. She should have known. Maybe she didn't know and didn't care about what it would take. The research that she should have put behind this interview.

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Speaker 1: She should have.

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Speaker 4: I mean, people scanned of all was huge. You people went back and watched season after season.

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Speaker 5: It was such a thing.

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Speaker 4: And Bethany was like kind of doing the research while she was interviewing Rachel and and there was a look, there was a clear motive that Bestthany had, which is understandable. The reality reckoning. I want to hear about Bethany. Clearly she had an agenda, and it was she kept bringing things back to like this reality reckoning, and it was like, that's great, look, I want to hear all about that, Bethany. And I want to hear I want to hear what Raquel has to or Rachel whatever, what she has to say.

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Speaker 1: I do.

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Speaker 5: But it didn't work together.

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Speaker 4: I want to hear just because I don't agree with what she did, and I probably I didn't agree with a lot of what she said. There are things that she talked about mental health, emotionally, how she felt.

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Speaker 5: I want to hear that. Dig deep.

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Speaker 4: If you're gonna come out and do an interview, tell us ask the right questions. And guess what else I want to hear about reality reckoning. If reality stars can get treated better or they're being treated unfairly, tell me about it, tell me how we can help change the industry. But these two together did not work. It's like Bethany wasn't asking the question. She kept bringing it back to like reality reckoning. I feel like Raquel was like things weren't matching up that she was saying, and she maybe would have dug deeper if the questions, the right questions were asked. I think she, her and her team maybe thought it was going to be I think maybe she got a little bamboozled and didn't realize that it was going to be such a Bethany agenda. Anyway, I'm just it just didn't work together. It was it could have been a hit, and it.

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Speaker 1: Was a hit. No, it was a lot of people listen. It wasn't a hit, like it didn't hit, but it was okay, yes, yeah.

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Speaker 2: You know people people went and they listened, which amazing. And I say all the time that there are going to be moments where our voice is all we have.

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Speaker 1: We have all been able to go.

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Speaker 2: Onto a platform, whether it's our own or someone else's, to share our side of any story.

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Speaker 1: Right.

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Speaker 2: Raquel absolutely has that right, and I'm happy that she finally got to take advantage of a platform to tell her story. I only saw clips, and what I gathered from it was Bethany completely exploited that girl yet again.

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Speaker 5: Which is the total.

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Speaker 1: She's pretty exactly to me.

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Speaker 2: She sat there and said, you know what, this girl is going to be easy to manipulate because I'm Bethany Frankel. She's floundering, She's gonna be easy to manipulate. Her story is crazy, even though she brought it upon herself, and this is gonna be the perfect way for me to place her in the narrative that I'm trying to create. It was actually really sad to me because I really liked Bethany Frankel. I felt like everything she said always made sense. She was a great arguer, she was extremely intelligent what she built. And then with this, it was like, we're all over the place, and I think someone needs to intervene because I don't even think you know what's going on with reality not just reality TV. I don't think that reality television is for everybody. It is a very intense environment.

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Speaker 1: If you are not.

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Speaker 2: Mentally tough as fuck, it can break you. It definitely can. Now to say that Raquel was the victim of something, I don't know. What I do know is you made a choice to sleep with your best friend. She says, they weren't that close, your best friend's partner of ten years. Okay, you did not have to do that no one was forcing you to do it, no.

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Speaker 1: One asked you to do it.

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Speaker 2: I felt like Bethany really tried to like push her in a certain direction. And Raquel being someone who I don't know if she got a diagnosis from that facility or not, she's very easy to manipulate. And you put words out there and she's like, yeah, that's how I feel, and it's like.

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Speaker 1: But you don't.

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Speaker 2: You're being told to feel a certain way, and you're being guided in a direction that I don't think is healthy for you. I don't know why anyone would allow her to do that interview.

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Speaker 3: She needs to take a lot of times, she needs to take like two years for herself.

00:20:19
Speaker 1: She's vulnerable, she's very vulnerable.

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Speaker 3: She needs for her in my opinion, just get away from all of it and restart your whole life.

00:20:27
Speaker 1: Yeah.

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Speaker 2: I'm all about being a voice for the voiceless, but we're all grown ass people who a contract is placed in front of us. We know the drill, we know what we're what we're signing up for. We're signing up to show our real lives. And I remember going to produce her saying something is not right, and then like thinking, I was crazy. They're like, that's not happening. None of it was on TV.

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Speaker 1: The hope was to get away with it. In my mind, and again I was not there.

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Speaker 2: In my there was a solid plan that there was gonna be a breakup that happened between Arianna and Sandoval, and then they would come out and say, we spend a lot of time together and we actually think that we have something more, and then everyone's hands would be clean and it would seem like some flawless you know, segue into a new relationship. Yeah, that's what I think. That's my opinion. I wasn't there behind closed doors.

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Speaker 4: The part about Graham was I know I'm gonna get heat for this. That was pretty upsetting to me because the things she was saying weren't adding up. She was like, oh, using all making all these excuses and like heat bites and we did this and then this happened.

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Speaker 5: Oh my god, you made all.

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Speaker 4: The wrong choices, like the choices she was saying she was making. And then she was like, well, James isn't fit to be a dog dad. It's like you made a really awful you made a million awful choices, but you're saying the stuff with Graham and it's not adding up, and that was like, I don't know why I was so upsetting.

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Speaker 1: For me, I was very upsetting.

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Speaker 2: And you know, there's two things happening on what I've seen right, the clips, what I've read online. There's a piece that is about perspective, right, James's X Y and Z is a dog owner. Graham does this because of that perspective. Ariana and I weren't that close. Arianna says, they were very close perspective. As an outsider, y'all seemed close, right, But it's all about everyone's point of view. There were things that she was then saying, and this is another reason why I didn't feel like I wanted to break down every single thing, because in my opinion, it's time for all of us to disengage right and let her go and live her life and hopefully continue the help that she that she needs. But there were things that she was then saying that were not perspective.

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Speaker 1: It was this is this is a.

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Speaker 2: Flat out lie, and I can't imagine that you believe what you're saying. So this part says The following day, Laila and Christina came into my hotel room, talking about the Alliver situation, and they were like, oh my god, Raquel, that was amazing last night you were Reality TV Ratings Gold. You killed it, like so funny. I can't believe you. You're so you did it, You're the best.

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Speaker 1: That never happened.

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Speaker 2: Raquel that night, after she said good thing you don't have a man, went to her bedroom, went to sleep. The next morning when you guys see her come into our room and she sits down and feels embarrassed. That was the first time we had seen her. There was no We came into her room.

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Speaker 1: Told her she was Reality TV Ratings Gold.

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Speaker 2: This never happened. And this is not perspective, this is fact. Yeah, no one ever said this to you ever. Okay, cut to the next thing. Raquel says when she considered returning for season eleven that she asked for equal pay with Tom and ray on it and asked the network to reimburse her for her treatment. I'm not going to speak about asking for reimbursement for the treatment, and I don't know that doesn't affect me day one. Ers are always going to make more than you make, Okay, That's just.

00:24:07
Speaker 1: How it works.

00:24:08
Speaker 2: So there was no way that she was going to come in here and think that she was going to be rewarded with a paycheck and Bethany can say whatever she wants. And she was like that I could see rewarded with a paycheck for what you did, because that's not how this works. Okay, No matter what you do, the pay is the pay, all right, send it to Darryl. The next thing she says is that I purchased my home with send it to Darryl money, and I stole the house out from under Brock.

00:24:48
Speaker 5: That I laughed. I laughed at it.

00:24:50
Speaker 1: But this is what I mean.

00:24:51
Speaker 2: This is where it's like, Okay, share your perspective on things, but once you start combining your point of view with things that are blatant lies, you are getting a muddy situation.

00:25:04
Speaker 1: No one can trust what you're saying.

00:25:07
Speaker 2: And the only reason I knew about the home was because Barrock called me and said, you got to get to Palm Springs to day.

00:25:13
Speaker 1: The house next door is for sale.

00:25:15
Speaker 5: I remember the day they were like get down here now.

00:25:18
Speaker 4: You and your mom had to literally get in the car and drive that day because Sheena and Brock or Brock was like, you gotta get here.

00:25:24
Speaker 1: Now Brock and Sheena, we're next door.

00:25:26
Speaker 2: While I traveled for two hours buttering up the owners being like, my friend wants this house, so what are you talking about? And I did not purchase the home with send it to Daryl money. Okay, send it to Daryl didn't exist. I bought the home. My business manager was like, law, I really don't want you to buy this. You want a home in LA and this is going to make it so that, like your budget is not as big for your home in LA.

00:25:50
Speaker 1: And I said, fuck the La home. I want this house. I'm getting it. I need a retreat.

00:25:56
Speaker 2: So I bought it cut to you know, because my team they're very conservative, because they know I like some money and I don't want to go broke anytime soon or ever. So I told him I'm just gonna have to work a little bit harder. However, many days go by and he sends me a message and says, what the fuck is this money that just came in about merch And I said, I fucking send it to Darryl just may it up for the house and then some Okay. So I didn't buy the house because I got sent it to Darryl money and I didn't say, ooh, Brock wants this house.

00:26:27
Speaker 1: And why would he want the house next door?

00:26:28
Speaker 3: He's got a house, right.

00:26:30
Speaker 5: And he was over the moon because you were gonna be there with ocean and like then summer. That was such a weird And.

00:26:38
Speaker 3: Even if Brock had the money, yeah, he wouldn't buy it. That was a concerning He would have called you a still and yeah, done the same thing he did.

00:26:45
Speaker 4: It was concerned a concerning thing for her to say because I knew, Okay, no one she didn't misunderstand anything. No one told her this, So this is just a blatant lie.

00:26:56
Speaker 5: And that's when it got like a little concerning. She didn't. It's not like Brock was like, well I was gonna buy No, there was no That's why.

00:27:03
Speaker 4: I was like when I heard that, I like laughed, and then I'm like, oh, oh, she's just like making stuff up.

00:27:08
Speaker 5: I don't understand what's happening.

00:27:09
Speaker 3: She's just.

00:27:11
Speaker 1: Seeing what sticks.

00:27:12
Speaker 2: I don't know if people told her this, if she's My thing with her is she talks about I want to get it right. I think the most disturbing thing is when I sent out the season to Cist from my litigator to all of the cast to not share the video that was taken without my consent. Laala decided to use that and be like, oh my god, don't contact me directly contact my attorney Darryl. And then she started making these sweatshirts that said send it to Daryl. I guess that was enough for a down payment on the Palm Springs house. Raquel could have made merch. Kel could have done a lot of things. I made money because I say, funny shit.

00:27:52
Speaker 5: Of of what you said out of your mouth.

00:27:54
Speaker 1: Right, And by the way, I didn't even think it was that funny.

00:27:57
Speaker 2: But then I see Bravo fan pages creating Darryl Mrch and I'm like, no, no, no, this is something I said.

00:28:03
Speaker 1: So I'm gonna make the merch.

00:28:05
Speaker 2: And y'all are spelling his name wrong, so I'm gonna also sat as well for her to say, like everyone capitalized off of this. You could have two You could have made shirts that said Captain still your man, I don't give a damn I'm about to bang your man. You could have made sweatshirts that said, good thing you don't have.

00:28:26
Speaker 1: A man, Hella. I would have bought that.

00:28:30
Speaker 4: Yeah, that would have been funny if you bought that and we're wearing it around.

00:28:34
Speaker 1: Yet there were so many things.

00:28:35
Speaker 2: You can't be upset when people decide to make moves and capitalize on a moment that's never gonna come around again. I got bills to pay, I did a funny rant.

00:28:45
Speaker 1: And guess what it hit.

00:28:47
Speaker 2: I deleted it nine minutes later and it's still hit. Don't be it's not disturbing. That's called being a smart person. And what angers me the most is she was.

00:28:58
Speaker 1: She was so many people's.

00:29:01
Speaker 2: Favorite, and she had such a brilliant idea about this like line she wanted to start, and I was like, I have an amazing place that could help you get that started. Fabrics, different designs, textiles, whatever you name it, Like, let's do this. And you chose when you were at a crossroads, you could have gone one way or the other, and you decided to go the other. And the only person to blame is you. You can point the finger all day long. The ultimate decision was up to you. And I don't feel that she is someone who fully understands like consequences the way you move. Like to say that it's disgusting that Graham is being used as a storyline. Bitch, what are you talking about. We're filming our real lives. You gave your dog up. James was called it's happening during filming. We are filming our real lives.

00:29:55
Speaker 4: She said she thought that happened as to try and entice her to I'm back on, Like to come back on the show, is what I heard.

00:30:03
Speaker 5: So I was like, huh, it's.

00:30:05
Speaker 1: A travesty that she didn't end up coming back.

00:30:08
Speaker 2: Because I'm not gonna say too much because we're in production.

00:30:11
Speaker 1: She should have come back.

00:30:12
Speaker 2: I think she would have been very surprised, and instead she went and did this. She was manipulated yet again by someone who says they hate Bravo. Well, it's sure paying your bills still, Like, what even is skinny girl?

00:30:24
Speaker 1: Yeah? All I know you for now? Like what is be strong? What is skinny girl?

00:30:29
Speaker 2: All the things I looked up to Now I look at you as like some girl who's like, I hate Bravo and every other day you're talking about Bravo and bringing and exploiting bravolebrities.

00:30:39
Speaker 1: I'm allowed to do that because I love Bravo.

00:30:43
Speaker 4: Well, I just have to say number one two things I got out of that.

00:30:47
Speaker 5: Number one.

00:30:48
Speaker 4: I hope to god Bethany paid or a call for that interview.

00:30:53
Speaker 1: I bet she didn't.

00:30:55
Speaker 2: And then when people started saying, like making comments about that.

00:30:58
Speaker 1: She probably did.

00:30:59
Speaker 5: Okay.

00:31:00
Speaker 4: Two, I think Raquel is probably most upset about not being in the Uber one as good as Gold commercial.

00:31:07
Speaker 5: Let's be honest. That was a hit.

00:31:10
Speaker 1: That was that did slap?

00:31:12
Speaker 3: That was that? In the same time?

00:31:14
Speaker 2: Yeah, like yes, everything started popping off when our show became very very well known.

00:31:21
Speaker 4: And you know, she said she brings you. She said, Bethany said, did anyone reach out to you? And Lala said or she said, yeah, Lala did.

00:31:30
Speaker 5: She didn't give an opinion on it.

00:31:31
Speaker 4: She just said, Lala DMed me or texted me and said I'm here if I if you need an ear or something. So that was something she said about you. She didn't say she loved it. She didn't say she hated it. She just stated it and moved on.

00:31:44
Speaker 1: They moved on.

00:31:46
Speaker 2: Enough about that again, I do want to say Raquel is who she is. I think everyone needs to put their their weapons down, let her go and do what she needs to do. She's clearly got Bethany Frankel guiding her, and I think you just keep them at bay.

00:32:06
Speaker 1: You know, you don't want the smoke. Once things start getting a little too Highie, it's like oh oh oh. It's like if someone comes at you flailing their arms, you're like, oh.

00:32:14
Speaker 2: Shit, oh shit, fling the flailing arms. I'm I'm happy that someone The silver lining is Raquel got a chance to have her voice heard.

00:32:30
Speaker 1: We all deserve.

00:32:31
Speaker 2: That right, even if you didn't like what she said, we all get that.

00:32:36
Speaker 1: Right to use our voice.

00:32:37
Speaker 5: Amen.

00:32:38
Speaker 1: Okay, I want to jump to what our.

00:32:43
Speaker 2: Relief, Well, your aches first, because I want to hear about you, Ache, and then the reef first. Yeah, because I gotta get to freaking Disney and my kid's ready.

00:32:50
Speaker 4: Okay, Okay, I thought we're gonna talk about Ronnie.

00:32:54
Speaker 5: I was like, I'm.

00:32:54
Speaker 2: Ready, No, no Ronney this week. Sorry, guys, we'll recap next week.

00:32:58
Speaker 5: Ten episodes, okay, Ache.

00:33:00
Speaker 4: The obvious I'm just gonna stay really quick in the list is obviously Lolita, then the fires and the weather because of the climate. Everything is heartbreaking. I had a good cry over Lolita. That's a thing that's heartbreaking. But just or this morning, why I was very late to this podcast was because my dog is doing this thing.

00:33:20
Speaker 2: Now.

00:33:20
Speaker 5: I love her, she's my baby, but she's eight years old.

00:33:23
Speaker 4: And she she sits and on walks and doesn't move, and she lays down, especially if she were blocks away, a mile away from my house. If she realizes we're turning around to go back, she sits and she does not I can do whatever I need to, and I'm like, we gotta go.

00:33:39
Speaker 5: I've tried treats.

00:33:40
Speaker 4: She does not move so much so that I have to physically pick her up. You know, she's she's got a little she's a little thick.

00:33:48
Speaker 5: Love her for it.

00:33:49
Speaker 1: Baby got back.

00:33:49
Speaker 5: He baby got back.

00:33:50
Speaker 4: She's like forty pounds and walk trudge her through the streets.

00:33:54
Speaker 5: And she did that this morning.

00:33:56
Speaker 4: And I know it's because yesterday she was inside a lot because of the rain, and you.

00:33:59
Speaker 1: Know, I don't want to go home.

00:34:01
Speaker 5: She didn't want to go home, and I just I don't know what to do.

00:34:04
Speaker 4: So if you're a dog trainer or no, dm me please because she's a little bit right now and I love her, but she's just wilding out. And that's my ache and my relief is, oh god, it's so many aches.

00:34:19
Speaker 5: My relief, my relief, My relief is doing this with you guys.

00:34:24
Speaker 3: I don't know.

00:34:24
Speaker 1: I don't want to relief, no relief.

00:34:27
Speaker 5: I have so many reliefs, but it was like there were just what.

00:34:31
Speaker 2: About today that it's going to be an easy day because we're going to be a Disney. That's a relief because you had you had a mega a mega Friday. Remember you can't talk about it.

00:34:40
Speaker 5: I can't talk about it.

00:34:41
Speaker 4: But my relief is having a special thing with the Birningham family on Friday. And that was fun and I can't wait for you all to see it.

00:34:51
Speaker 1: I'm excited too, T T you're up. What's the ache and what's the relief?

00:34:55
Speaker 3: The ache was I think the weather, not your.

00:34:58
Speaker 1: Dog busting wide an incision.

00:35:00
Speaker 3: It's like every week. Last week it was her, the week before that, I'm pretty sure it was a cat.

00:35:06
Speaker 5: Yeah.

00:35:06
Speaker 1: So the podcasts, it's all about getting vulnerable.

00:35:09
Speaker 3: I know, but it's like I'll try to pick something else, but I guess Bernice, she's an ache. Okay, that that is one. And then the weather because we put all of our furniture like inside, moved a whole bunch of shit and that was an ache. Okay, and nothing hit you know, like if it was windy, out've been like, okay, glad we did it. But we have piles of shit in our place now with no wind. Yeah, so ach is it wasn't as cool as I thought it was going to be the tropical storm. I was really wanting that hurricane. Oh god, right, I was looking forward to it.

00:35:41
Speaker 1: Everyone who's actually had like a crazy.

00:35:46
Speaker 3: Off.

00:35:47
Speaker 1: You don't want that. We're from California, I know, right.

00:35:50
Speaker 3: I thought I was the one smiling at the beach.

00:35:53
Speaker 4: Yeah, ready to go surfing.

00:35:56
Speaker 3: But my relief is, uh, Disneyland today, that really is it? Oh yeah, I'm hoping that with the weather, like everybody's not there. I know you and need both run these lines.

00:36:06
Speaker 1: I'm going to run these lines too.

00:36:07
Speaker 3: Yeah.

00:36:07
Speaker 1: I'm running train on these rides.

00:36:09
Speaker 5: Dude, running train on the ride totally.

00:36:12
Speaker 3: So that is my relief.

00:36:13
Speaker 1: Love it. My ache of the week is also Lolita.

00:36:17
Speaker 2: She was one of the longest captive orcas at Did I say that right?

00:36:25
Speaker 5: Longest captive Yeah?

00:36:26
Speaker 2: Yeah, at Miami Sea Aquarium. There was footage a few years ago when a hurricane was hitting Florida. Everyone was evacuating and there's like an aerial shot of her just sitting there waiting.

00:36:38
Speaker 1: For the storm, and the tiniest tank you've ever seen. It's basically a swimming pool.

00:36:43
Speaker 2: A few months ago, we all got word that Lolita was being moved to a seaside sanctuary, and it was like the biggest deal in the world, right, she was ripped away from her family put at the Miami Sea Aquarium. Everyone kept saying like, we cannot wait twelve to sixteen months, She's gonna die. And that's how long they were saying it was gonna take. We all tried, we all tried signing things, and sure enough, we didn't get her out in time. So she did pass over the weekend, the second orca to pass away. Within the last week that was in captivity, her brother died because he continued to ram his head into a wall until he died. It's disgusting. Please stop going there. I'm begging you stop going to any place who uses these animals as like like entertainment. Are you joking what you need to stand on an orca and have it waived you? How depressing is your fucking life where you're like.

00:37:36
Speaker 5: Ah, my life is made?

00:37:37
Speaker 2: Did you see the dolphin amy God, like what your YouTube video.

00:37:44
Speaker 1: To go to a water park on like a water slide?

00:37:47
Speaker 4: Yeah.

00:37:48
Speaker 1: Anyway, the relief of.

00:37:50
Speaker 2: The week is that send It to Daryl was being mentioned.

00:37:55
Speaker 1: On the number one podcast in the world, just be.

00:38:01
Speaker 5: Send it to Darryl Shoplola Kent dot com.

00:38:04
Speaker 1: No, I was thinking about it.

00:38:04
Speaker 2: I was like, damn, they just talked about send it to Darryl and then she posted number one podcast in the world and I was.

00:38:11
Speaker 1: Like, holy shit, this is awesome.

00:38:13
Speaker 5: It linked the merchant your story.

00:38:16
Speaker 1: Oh yeah I did. Obviously, you usually have to pay for spots like that.

00:38:21
Speaker 2: I know all those people, all those odd spots had to pay, not me.

00:38:26
Speaker 1: I was all up in her mouth for free. Amazing.

00:38:33
Speaker 2: Anyway, I'm so happy that we got to come in and record this because I felt like there was time ten today content.

00:38:40
Speaker 1: So I hope you enjoy the episode.

00:38:41
Speaker 2: I'm gonna head to Disneyland with my boo boo Happy hump Day, Stay safe, and I will catch y'all next week.

00:38:47
Speaker 1: The Stars Shroda