Stripchat Spotlight Sessions: XSIV House Secrets To Success

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<v Speaker 2>Hey guys, coming to you from the strip Chat Excessive House.
<v Speaker 2>I am Holly Randall and my guest today got her
<v Speaker 2>start in the industry by camming, took some time away
<v Speaker 2>to rediscover herself, and came back with a whole new energy.
<v Speaker 2>She's now making waves as a top strip chat starlet
<v Speaker 2>and as a Vixen contract model. Welcome Stripchat Ambassador Hope Heaven.
<v Speaker 3>Hi, I'm so happy to be here with you.
<v Speaker 4>I'm so happy to have you here.
<v Speaker 3>Thank you.
<v Speaker 4>You are so beautiful.
<v Speaker 2>I was kind of joking earlier that we're like we're
<v Speaker 2>twinning like a little bit. You're in all black, I'm
<v Speaker 2>in all pink, but like similar hair going, our old
<v Speaker 2>theme going.
<v Speaker 4>I love it. Are you ready for the music party tonight?
<v Speaker 3>I'm still ready. I looking forward to it. Are you ready?
<v Speaker 2>I don't know if I'm ready to be honest, this
<v Speaker 2>whole thing has been like a lot to plan and
<v Speaker 2>I'm really glad with how amazingly well it's been going.
<v Speaker 2>But I won't lie, it's been it's been a little
<v Speaker 2>stressful as these events are to plan, but I'm really
<v Speaker 2>happy with how it's been going. I feel like last night,
<v Speaker 2>which you know, was our private dinner and our VIP
<v Speaker 2>cocktail party, that was really nice. It was low key
<v Speaker 2>and chill, but it was great. But tonight it's going
<v Speaker 2>to be like the crazy night you know where it's
<v Speaker 2>gonna be.
<v Speaker 4>This play is gonna be filled with people.
<v Speaker 3>But you know, I'm just the guest. I didn't plan anything,
<v Speaker 3>so I can just enjoy everything.
<v Speaker 4>You can enjoy it.
<v Speaker 2>Yes, I will be walking around being like, don't touch
<v Speaker 2>that art, don't smoke inside, don't burn cigarette holes in
<v Speaker 2>the furniture.
<v Speaker 3>I will touch everything for you.
<v Speaker 4>Don't fall in the pool. That pool, oh my god,
<v Speaker 4>it's like, yeah, someone's gonna fall in the pool tonight.
<v Speaker 3>That wouldn't be funny.
<v Speaker 4>Yeah, you know, well, as long.
<v Speaker 2>As I'll have towels on the side. Let's just put
<v Speaker 2>it that way. Lots lots of towels, all right. So
<v Speaker 2>let's start from the beginning. What got you interested in
<v Speaker 2>getting into the adult industry.
<v Speaker 3>You know, I was traveling a lot, and I always
<v Speaker 3>knew I want to travel and work, like I really
<v Speaker 3>want to have this together or wanted and I saw
<v Speaker 3>a YouTube video about all of this and it was like, hmm,
<v Speaker 3>maybe I should try this. So because of a YouTube video,
<v Speaker 3>I started all of this.
<v Speaker 4>Really really what was the YouTube video?
<v Speaker 3>It was like a German one okay, like a porn
<v Speaker 3>star and they also they did just uploaded videos, and
<v Speaker 3>I was like, I will try this. And then after
<v Speaker 3>I just got into camming and all of this. But
<v Speaker 3>the first I just uploaded videos.
<v Speaker 4>Where are you from?
<v Speaker 3>I'm from Germany?
<v Speaker 2>You are from Germany? Okay, so that makes sense. And
<v Speaker 2>so what was the first like adult thing that you did?
<v Speaker 2>The first adult like, what was the first you know,
<v Speaker 2>when you first put your toe in the water?
<v Speaker 3>You know?
<v Speaker 4>Actually it was my.
<v Speaker 5>Toe because oh really yeah literally, yeah really because I
<v Speaker 5>saw a video how to start best, and everyone told
<v Speaker 5>me start with foot content for real, and it was like, okay,
<v Speaker 5>I'm not into foot things, but when this is the
<v Speaker 5>thing that is running.
<v Speaker 4>I should try it. Yeah.
<v Speaker 3>It was horrible. It was horrible. It's not my thing,
<v Speaker 3>you know, so I was just like.
<v Speaker 4>It was weird. Yeah yeah, but when I.
<v Speaker 3>Started after this, it got my thing and I liked it.
<v Speaker 4>Yeah.
<v Speaker 3>The first toe thing, first dipping your toe, that was
<v Speaker 3>not so good.
<v Speaker 4>Okay, and then so where did you go from there?
<v Speaker 2>Like, tell me a little bit about how your adult
<v Speaker 2>career like evolved.
<v Speaker 3>So I started with the videos, and I started just
<v Speaker 3>on one platform where I could sell videos and pictures.
<v Speaker 3>And at some point after a few months, I realized,
<v Speaker 3>oh wow, I can also stream there, and so I
<v Speaker 3>took the opportunity and started to stream.
<v Speaker 4>There as well. And I was so nervous. It was.
<v Speaker 3>I had like a mask on back then, so no
<v Speaker 3>one could see my face. I would rarely talk there
<v Speaker 3>because I was so afraid. And when somebody asked me something,
<v Speaker 3>I wrote it because I don't wanted to talk. And
<v Speaker 3>it took me a few months to get comfortable with
<v Speaker 3>my voice to talk. And I think after a few years,
<v Speaker 3>I bent my mask and I showed my face. It
<v Speaker 3>was the best decision I was I made.
<v Speaker 4>Yeah.
<v Speaker 2>Did you find that your career really started to skyrocket
<v Speaker 2>after you took your mask off?
<v Speaker 3>Yeah?
<v Speaker 4>Yeah.
<v Speaker 3>And the reason I took my mask off was because
<v Speaker 3>I showed a video a blowjob, and it was planned
<v Speaker 3>that we cut it till here, but this video was
<v Speaker 3>so good, so it was like, okay, we can't cut it.
<v Speaker 4>We need to.
<v Speaker 3>Post this like like with my face. Yeah, this was
<v Speaker 3>the moment where I decided to show you.
<v Speaker 2>Were like, this blowjob video is too good. Everybody the
<v Speaker 2>world needs to see it. I can't hide my face anymore.
<v Speaker 2>This is the moment exactly, the world needs to see
<v Speaker 2>my face.
<v Speaker 3>It was such a good video.
<v Speaker 4>Then have you done better blowjob videos since then? Yes?
<v Speaker 3>It was like my beginning in the first few months
<v Speaker 3>or right, yeah.
<v Speaker 4>Where I feel like people who are watching this are
<v Speaker 4>gonna be very curious about this blowjob video that literally
<v Speaker 4>changed the trajectory of your career. So where can they
<v Speaker 4>find this blowjob video? It's actually on.
<v Speaker 3>My only fens Okay, My only fence is the Hope Heaven.
<v Speaker 3>So someone is interested in that video.
<v Speaker 2>Okay, so they need to go to your only fans
<v Speaker 2>and DM you and ask you for the video that
<v Speaker 2>changed your life exactly.
<v Speaker 4>Okay, got it? Got it?
<v Speaker 2>So tell me a little bit about camming. What was
<v Speaker 2>your first cam show?
<v Speaker 1>Like?
<v Speaker 3>So, my first camshow was like with the mask and everything.
<v Speaker 3>I was just on my at my kids room, at
<v Speaker 3>my desk and was just sitting there and I did
<v Speaker 3>nothing That's special because I didn't know anything about about it.
<v Speaker 3>So the people were just like asking, yeah, show these
<v Speaker 3>and bed and I was like okay, okay, you know.
<v Speaker 3>And then from time to time I got more comfortable
<v Speaker 3>or not, because at one time I quit everything because
<v Speaker 3>I wasn't feeling good because this platform was just the
<v Speaker 3>people there there was not understanding me.
<v Speaker 4>They will they.
<v Speaker 3>Always wanted more and more and more, and I was
<v Speaker 3>so I don't want to say shy, but the people
<v Speaker 3>just they asked and I did it, and that break me. Yeah,
<v Speaker 3>I stopped and.
<v Speaker 2>They were pushing your boundaries, making you were doing things
<v Speaker 2>you felt uncomfortable with, and it made you feel not
<v Speaker 2>good about what you were doing. Yeah, and so then
<v Speaker 2>you quit and you stopped shooting for a while.
<v Speaker 3>Yes, I stopped everything, Like I thought, that's my ending
<v Speaker 3>in the adult industry, even when I when I was
<v Speaker 3>not really inside it was just like my little camming thing.
<v Speaker 3>But it was so hard that I really thought I stopped.
<v Speaker 3>And I think I was off for around six months,
<v Speaker 3>okay more or less. And in that time I traveled
<v Speaker 3>and I explored the world and was like, okay, what
<v Speaker 3>do I do with my life? Like what do I want?
<v Speaker 3>What I really want? And then yeah, I just covered
<v Speaker 3>that the adult industry is nice and is something for me.
<v Speaker 3>But I just need to grow more confidence and know
<v Speaker 3>where to stop and know that I need to tell
<v Speaker 3>the people where my limits are.
<v Speaker 4>Yeah, even when it hurts sometimes.
<v Speaker 2>Right, what was it about the adult industry that made
<v Speaker 2>it feel like it was the right move for you?
<v Speaker 3>Like?
<v Speaker 4>What did you miss about it in those six months?
<v Speaker 3>So first I was thinking about what could I do else?
<v Speaker 3>And nothing ever fits, you know, what I would study
<v Speaker 3>or what other job? And I love to be in
<v Speaker 3>front of the camera. And it just makes sense. You know,
<v Speaker 3>I love sex and to be in front of the camera.
<v Speaker 3>It just makes sense to be in the adult industry.
<v Speaker 3>And the people are so nice everyone, you know, it's
<v Speaker 3>just like family. Even we met like yesterday and it
<v Speaker 3>feels so familiar to ya.
<v Speaker 4>It was like the reason I think.
<v Speaker 2>Yeah, so what makes you choose strip chat over other campsites?
<v Speaker 3>Like I said, I was on another side before and
<v Speaker 3>after my break, so it was really good. I was
<v Speaker 3>on the first place there. After my break, my score
<v Speaker 3>was so bad that no one came. So after I
<v Speaker 3>came back from my break, I was like, I think
<v Speaker 3>I will stop again because I don't make any money
<v Speaker 3>because you know, everything was so bad. And then I
<v Speaker 3>changed the side to strip chat and it was just
<v Speaker 3>so different. Someone told me, yeah, you have so many viewers,
<v Speaker 3>because back then on the side you just have ten
<v Speaker 3>or something and you maybe have I don't know, a
<v Speaker 3>thousand years. And it was like, oh my god, for real,
<v Speaker 3>thousand people are watching me. So it was such a
<v Speaker 3>weird feeling, but I got used to it and I
<v Speaker 3>love it. It's just the energy and the people and
<v Speaker 3>they're so kind, you know, I love it.
<v Speaker 2>Yeah, So how many viewers were you averaging on the
<v Speaker 2>other camps? I I mean, if you were coming to
<v Speaker 2>strip chat and you were getting a thousand viewers there,
<v Speaker 2>what were you getting at the other one?
<v Speaker 3>And the other one it was like they needed to
<v Speaker 3>pay per minute, And that's the concept I don't like
<v Speaker 3>because then someone is like, hey, please do analo or something.
<v Speaker 4>Yeah I know, and like now and they're like crushing you, yes.
<v Speaker 3>And do it now, do it now? And okay, okay,
<v Speaker 3>okay stop. And this was also the reason why I
<v Speaker 3>stopped right and on strip chat. At the beginning, I
<v Speaker 3>had like one thousand, and now I have like the
<v Speaker 3>highest thing I ever had was twelve thousand people inside there,
<v Speaker 3>and it's crazy if you just think about how many
<v Speaker 3>people you were in a room or something.
<v Speaker 4>Yeah, it's crazy. Yeah.
<v Speaker 2>What kind of things were outside of your comfort zone
<v Speaker 2>that people were like pushing you to do? And like,
<v Speaker 2>how are you setting boundaries now?
<v Speaker 3>The people on the other side, they were a strange
<v Speaker 3>They had like I don't know, they wanted to see
<v Speaker 3>such weird things. And on the first place, everyone wanted
<v Speaker 3>to see annals and I don't like it. So I
<v Speaker 3>was forced to do it because I was feeling bad
<v Speaker 3>to say no because they were pairing per minute, right,
<v Speaker 3>and also some weird things like put the dildo in
<v Speaker 3>your mouth and close it then, or just I know,
<v Speaker 3>weird things you know that no one would ever do,
<v Speaker 3>And I felt I need to do this because otherwise
<v Speaker 3>I will lose them.
<v Speaker 4>Do you feel more comfortable setting boundaries now?
<v Speaker 3>Yes, way more comfortable, and you.
<v Speaker 4>Don't feel like people are really like pushing you so much.
<v Speaker 3>They are trying. But now, I mean, I'm in this
<v Speaker 3>industry for three or four years now, and now I
<v Speaker 3>exactly know what I want and what I don't want.
<v Speaker 3>So I'm telling them, okay, if you don't like me,
<v Speaker 3>and if you're not fine with what I do or
<v Speaker 3>what I don't do.
<v Speaker 2>Go Do you wish that you had waited, if you
<v Speaker 2>more years to get into the industry or are you
<v Speaker 2>glad that, like you had that earlier experience to like
<v Speaker 2>figure out like what you wanted.
<v Speaker 3>So I think I think I'm happy to do it
<v Speaker 3>such early because now also in my private life, I
<v Speaker 3>feel more comfortable and like I'm older than I am inside,
<v Speaker 3>you know what I mean. So pushed me in a
<v Speaker 3>right away. Yeah, I grow from it. Yeah, so it
<v Speaker 3>was the right choice.
<v Speaker 4>Yeah.
<v Speaker 3>I think when I have stopped there, it would be
<v Speaker 3>the bad choice, you know, Yeah, because then I would
<v Speaker 3>be naked on the internet. Maybe I had a normal
<v Speaker 3>job and that it's just not so nice.
<v Speaker 4>But I'm here.
<v Speaker 2>And what advice would you give to girls who want
<v Speaker 2>to get into porn, like, considering the experiences that you've
<v Speaker 2>had and what you've been through.
<v Speaker 3>I would say, it's a nice job, but you need
<v Speaker 3>to be fine with what you do, because I think
<v Speaker 3>we all know when you show yourself on the internet,
<v Speaker 3>they will stay forever.
<v Speaker 4>Yeah, So if.
<v Speaker 3>You want to do after a normal job or even
<v Speaker 3>a manager job of something, you will be naked in
<v Speaker 3>the internet forever.
<v Speaker 4>So I don't know.
<v Speaker 3>You really need to think about is that fine for
<v Speaker 3>you or not? And if not, never do it. But
<v Speaker 3>if that's okay, then I would go for it or
<v Speaker 3>even try.
<v Speaker 2>Did you think about it a lot before you got
<v Speaker 2>into porn the first time or did you kind of
<v Speaker 2>just jump into it?
<v Speaker 3>No? I thought about a lot, And that was the
<v Speaker 3>reason why I were in the mosque because a lot
<v Speaker 3>of my you know, old friends or family or whatever.
<v Speaker 3>I didn't want that they recognize me. But now it's okay.
<v Speaker 3>Now my family knows what I do, my friends know
<v Speaker 3>what I do, and if someone has a problem for
<v Speaker 3>my past life, that's okay. I mean, they don't need
<v Speaker 3>to like me.
<v Speaker 2>Are your family like you have a good relationship with
<v Speaker 2>your family now and they're accepting of what you do.
<v Speaker 4>Yeah, right, that's good. That's really important. That's not the
<v Speaker 4>case for everybody.
<v Speaker 2>So sadly, So you transitioned to shooting studio porn, which
<v Speaker 2>not every girl who cams does. So tell us about that,
<v Speaker 2>like why you decided to do that and what that
<v Speaker 2>first scene was like.
<v Speaker 3>So I also do a private porn scene with my boyfriend,
<v Speaker 3>and so I know, like a little bit, but of
<v Speaker 3>course a proborn is just different. And I was really
<v Speaker 3>excited to shoot it. The producer was really kind, so
<v Speaker 3>she was telling everyone, okay, please go, just like the
<v Speaker 3>important people stay and that was so helpful, So I
<v Speaker 3>really was. It was just fun.
<v Speaker 2>You know, did it help it? Have you said that
<v Speaker 2>a producer was a woman? Sounds like did it help
<v Speaker 2>you think that the producer was a woman that it
<v Speaker 2>makes you feel more comfortable?
<v Speaker 4>Yes?
<v Speaker 3>Also the team it was like half man half woman,
<v Speaker 3>And I think it's better than just like everyone is
<v Speaker 3>a man, you know, I feel comfortable more comfortable around
<v Speaker 3>also with women. Of course men also I don't have
<v Speaker 3>a problem, but yeah, when there's at least one woman,
<v Speaker 3>I feel like, yeah.
<v Speaker 4>It's good to have that diversity. Yeah.
<v Speaker 2>Yeah, you became a Vixen model last year, So how
<v Speaker 2>was that. Tell me a little bit about your experience
<v Speaker 2>shooting for Vixen, maybe your first time, and just a
<v Speaker 2>little bit about what it's like to work with that brand.
<v Speaker 3>The brand is actually so nice. The people there are
<v Speaker 3>so kind and they just care about you so good.
<v Speaker 3>You just feel also like a family there, you know,
<v Speaker 3>everyone is there's just so kind, so the experience.
<v Speaker 4>I loved it.
<v Speaker 3>And also the other models, the male and female models,
<v Speaker 3>they are just I was new and everyone else know
<v Speaker 3>each other. But I felt like I feel like being
<v Speaker 3>a family. Everyone just tucked me and it was such
<v Speaker 3>a nice feeling. And also to shoot with them, it
<v Speaker 3>was not bad or I heard many bad things about
<v Speaker 3>pro born, many many things, but so it was a
<v Speaker 3>little afraid to try it, but at the end nothing
<v Speaker 3>was true.
<v Speaker 2>So and then how is that affected your career like
<v Speaker 2>being a Vixen model.
<v Speaker 3>It affected me in a very very good way because
<v Speaker 3>now I'm like more into this broke worn thing and
<v Speaker 3>more into the American market. And I think it was
<v Speaker 3>a really good decision and I don't regret.
<v Speaker 4>It at all.
<v Speaker 2>So if someone was to go and check out some
<v Speaker 2>of your scenes from Vixen, where should they go?
<v Speaker 4>Like?
<v Speaker 2>What would you What do you think is the best
<v Speaker 2>scene that you've done for Vixen? That's your favorite?
<v Speaker 3>My favorite? I think it was the blecked with a
<v Speaker 3>Jason Looth.
<v Speaker 4>I think that's awesome. I got to oil him up
<v Speaker 4>for a shoot once.
<v Speaker 3>That must be a dream.
<v Speaker 4>I shot him from mini VIDs like a long time ago,
<v Speaker 4>and I get to put oil on him. He has
<v Speaker 4>a very nice body. Yeah, and he's also so kind.
<v Speaker 4>He's so nice. It's funny though. I brought it up
<v Speaker 4>to him at Avon on the red carpet and he
<v Speaker 4>like didn't remember it. I was gruy. He was like,
<v Speaker 4>you did, and I was like, oh my god, you
<v Speaker 4>don't remember. It's the pilot of my life. You know,
<v Speaker 4>I don't forgive you. Jason. You need to do that again,
<v Speaker 4>I know, and this time I'll make him remember. Yeah,
<v Speaker 4>I'm gonna oil that boy up.
<v Speaker 3>Everything the best part. You don't need to get the
<v Speaker 3>best part right.
<v Speaker 2>So okay, So it was a black scene with Jason
<v Speaker 2>Love tell us a little bit about the scene.
<v Speaker 3>So it was a scene in the Alps, and it
<v Speaker 3>was just I met him there the first time and
<v Speaker 3>it was just like such a nice connection. And also
<v Speaker 3>like it was it was real, you know, it was
<v Speaker 3>not acted or something. It was just real pleasure and
<v Speaker 3>I don't know, it was just nice. I really enjoyed
<v Speaker 3>everything of it, and also how he acted how like, yeah,
<v Speaker 3>the whole connection and also the team. You know, when
<v Speaker 3>something is not working or even when it's working, they're
<v Speaker 3>so I don't know, everything is just working so good.
<v Speaker 4>I didn't yeah, you know, yeah, just everything like worked
<v Speaker 4>out that day. All the stars aligned, yeah, so smoothly. Yeah.
<v Speaker 2>What's your favorite kind of scene to shoot? Like solo
<v Speaker 2>girl girl, boy girl, boy boy girl, orgy like.
<v Speaker 3>I think boy girl because I think it's like I
<v Speaker 3>would not say the easiest, but I love to do
<v Speaker 3>something nice two men and to film that with two girls, of.
<v Speaker 4>Course it's nice.
<v Speaker 3>Or threes like with two boys, everything is nice, but
<v Speaker 3>to be alone with.
<v Speaker 4>One man it's the nicest, I think, Yeah, more intimate.
<v Speaker 3>Yeah, you can concentrate on each other instead of you know.
<v Speaker 4>Yeah, favorite position with a guy I would go for writing,
<v Speaker 4>for writing you on top, I'm on top? Oh wow,
<v Speaker 4>So you like to work? I like that.
<v Speaker 2>I like to lay on my back. That's also nice,
<v Speaker 2>like go to town. I don't lay her and not
<v Speaker 2>do anything, but you like to put the work.
<v Speaker 3>Out, Yeah, because you know, I love when guys play
<v Speaker 3>with my boobs.
<v Speaker 4>That's such a zone for me.
<v Speaker 3>And when I'm on top and I see how that
<v Speaker 3>makes him horny, that makes me crazy. Yeah, so I
<v Speaker 3>really really love that.
<v Speaker 2>What is the one thing that a guy can do
<v Speaker 2>to like get you going? Like how does a guy
<v Speaker 2>get you turned on when it comes to foreplay?
<v Speaker 1>Mm?
<v Speaker 3>I like these little things. I'm I'm really like a
<v Speaker 3>cuddled person. Of course I like heart sex also, but
<v Speaker 3>those really musculine things, you know, when I just he
<v Speaker 3>don't need to do anything, he just needs to lay
<v Speaker 3>next to me, show his muscles and just lay like
<v Speaker 3>this and I'm looking at him and see his muscles
<v Speaker 3>and maybe tough.
<v Speaker 4>Oh wow. So it's really just a visual thing for you.
<v Speaker 3>I am like totally into muscles and it.
<v Speaker 4>Just drives me crazy. Interesting, what's with you? Hmmm?
<v Speaker 2>Actually, so the back of my neck and like my
<v Speaker 2>ears in the back of my shoulders, that's my erogenous
<v Speaker 2>now to lick them, yeah, Like if you kiss me
<v Speaker 2>and like lick me back like I just like that
<v Speaker 2>just tend shivers down my spine.
<v Speaker 4>I can't so for light or know what I should do. Yes, exactly,
<v Speaker 4>now you know? Now you know. Let's actually, let's I'm
<v Speaker 4>gonna ask you one question that that men are always asking.
<v Speaker 4>Penis size. Is it important?
<v Speaker 3>You know for many girls it is important, but I
<v Speaker 3>would go for it. It's not that important because I'm
<v Speaker 3>like a man can't choose how big histic is as
<v Speaker 3>well as we can't choose how big our boots are, right, well,
<v Speaker 3>and we kind of can, yeah, we can, but racturally yes,
<v Speaker 3>And I think everyone like if he If someone has
<v Speaker 3>a big dick, it's nice, but sometimes I don't know
<v Speaker 3>what it's with you, but sometimes it's hurt myself. Yeah,
<v Speaker 3>So I can't really relax. So this cliche that must
<v Speaker 3>be so big, it's nice. And also for a scene,
<v Speaker 3>for example, it's just so hot, but to have it private,
<v Speaker 3>I can't relax because I'm always so afraid that it's
<v Speaker 3>gonna hurt.
<v Speaker 4>So right, So I like this average dicks.
<v Speaker 3>And also if someone has a small lick, I would
<v Speaker 3>not say, like it depends how small, but if it's
<v Speaker 3>like normal small, I would say that's not a bad
<v Speaker 3>thing when you know the technique. Well, okay, if a
<v Speaker 3>man doesn't matter the size, can't bring a woman to come,
<v Speaker 3>that's bad.
<v Speaker 4>Okay, all right, see you guys, there's hope for you.
<v Speaker 4>All right.
<v Speaker 2>So it's twenty twenty five now, kind of, you know,
<v Speaker 2>sort of early ish in the year.
<v Speaker 4>Any big plans for twenty twenty five. I have some
<v Speaker 4>big plans, but I don't want to tell them though, Okay.
<v Speaker 2>I'm like, are you like one of those things can't
<v Speaker 2>tell what your wishes and then it won't come true.
<v Speaker 3>I have, Yeah, I have the feeling that when you
<v Speaker 3>tell people something, it will not going to happen. I
<v Speaker 3>don't know, it's just not gonna happen. So I want
<v Speaker 3>to I don't want to tell something and at the
<v Speaker 3>end it's like, oh my.
<v Speaker 4>God, you did it. Yeah, yeah, I know, I hear you.
<v Speaker 3>Yeah.
<v Speaker 2>Sometimes it's better to just like wait until the thing
<v Speaker 2>is done and then everybody will be amazed by your
<v Speaker 2>progress rather than sitting around and telling people what you're
<v Speaker 2>gonna do and then.
<v Speaker 4>It doesn't happen. Yeah exactly, I know exactly what you mean.
<v Speaker 3>But I don't want to stop this, so I will
<v Speaker 3>just I want to continue and do more and more
<v Speaker 3>and more.
<v Speaker 2>What are you like your biggest goals? Like, what's your
<v Speaker 2>what's like the one thing that you really want to
<v Speaker 2>achieve in the adult industry.
<v Speaker 3>So I'm a chem girl and I do poor and
<v Speaker 3>at all of this, but my also biggest dream is
<v Speaker 3>to model. And it doesn't matter for magazines or also
<v Speaker 3>in the adult industry, but also for no things are
<v Speaker 3>for one way or something you know, that's just such
<v Speaker 3>a big dream.
<v Speaker 4>Yeah. When I was a little so so like some
<v Speaker 4>kind of like magazine like print work like that kind
<v Speaker 4>of thing. Yeah, yeah, okay, I hear you. I know
<v Speaker 4>that's kind of like a dying art.
<v Speaker 2>I started as a photographer and all I did was
<v Speaker 2>magazine shooting, you know, and it's just like something that
<v Speaker 2>there's not a lot of it anymore.
<v Speaker 4>Yeah, which is why we came out with Excessive Magazine
<v Speaker 4>because I think it's such a good idea.
<v Speaker 3>I saw it and it's so nice.
<v Speaker 4>Thank you, thank you.
<v Speaker 2>Yeah, no, we it's it's really fun to do so well, Hope,
<v Speaker 2>thank you so much for joining us. It's such a pleasure.
<v Speaker 2>I look forward to hanging out some more at the
<v Speaker 2>party tonight. Can you tell everybody where they can find
<v Speaker 2>you online? Your strip chat user name, all all the
<v Speaker 2>all the good things.
<v Speaker 3>Of course. My Instagram name is the Hope Heaven, also
<v Speaker 3>my X name and my only fan's name, and on
<v Speaker 3>strip chat Hope Heaven.
<v Speaker 4>All right, guys, that was Hope Heaven.
<v Speaker 2>Now you are going to meet our next girl for
<v Speaker 2>the Stripchat Spotlight series, So stick around. I'll be right back.
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<v Speaker 4>I have Love Lily.
<v Speaker 2>She's been camping for almost four years and is one
<v Speaker 2>of strip Chat's top cam models.
<v Speaker 4>Hi Lily, how you doing today?
<v Speaker 6>Hi Holly, I'm doing absolutely fantastic. I'm super excited to
<v Speaker 6>talk with you.
<v Speaker 2>Have you been having fun here at Excessive House? Absolutely?
<v Speaker 6>Honestly, I have never experienced some thing is exciting and
<v Speaker 6>professional like this, so it's been amazing.
<v Speaker 4>Oh good, I'm so glad to hear that.
<v Speaker 2>Well, we have the big music party tonight, so hey,
<v Speaker 2>this place is going to be filled with people one
<v Speaker 2>hundred bucks.
<v Speaker 4>Someone's going to fall in the pool. Let's hope it's
<v Speaker 4>not you.
<v Speaker 6>I almost did already. Yeah, I understand.
<v Speaker 4>Yeah.
<v Speaker 2>All I was say is heels, stay away from the
<v Speaker 2>edge of that pool.
<v Speaker 4>Absolutely, maybe free spend most of your time indoors. That
<v Speaker 4>sounds like a game.
<v Speaker 2>But yeah, I got to say like that pool makes
<v Speaker 2>me so nervous. I'm gonna have a lot of towels
<v Speaker 2>on standby and a eagle eye on that pool. Sounds
<v Speaker 2>like a good idea, but it should be fun. So
<v Speaker 2>let's talk about you. Let's start at the beginning. How
<v Speaker 2>did you first get into camming?
<v Speaker 6>So, actually, I had a really good friend. She was
<v Speaker 6>already a cam model, and as a twenty first birthday
<v Speaker 6>special stream, she really wanted to bring a girl with her,
<v Speaker 6>you know, got the audience excited, wanted to do a
<v Speaker 6>huge birthday bash, and she asked me if I was
<v Speaker 6>up for it, and I was really reluctant at first.
<v Speaker 6>You know, I had never like, you know, gotten undressed
<v Speaker 6>in front of a camera, in front of a live audience.
<v Speaker 6>I didn't know what to expect. But I was like,
<v Speaker 6>you know what, let's do it. You know, get some cash,
<v Speaker 6>have some fun. It's a new experience, so why not
<v Speaker 6>joined her and decided to do a show of my
<v Speaker 6>own afterwards, and it's been going on ever since.
<v Speaker 2>No, she must have already thought you were a pretty
<v Speaker 2>adventurous girl to even ask you in the first place.
<v Speaker 6>Right, Yeah, I mean, yes, of course, I've always been
<v Speaker 6>kind of like the outgoing type, very talkative. And I
<v Speaker 6>was even told, like right when I had gotten on stream,
<v Speaker 6>like you seem like you're kind of meant for this,
<v Speaker 6>you know, like you're unnatural.
<v Speaker 4>Is really nice.
<v Speaker 2>So after that session you decided, Okay, I'm going to
<v Speaker 2>give this a shot. So tell me about what like
<v Speaker 2>your next session was like solo.
<v Speaker 6>So at the time, I was actually doing like part
<v Speaker 6>time job, part time cam model. I would get off
<v Speaker 6>of work and I was like, you know what this
<v Speaker 6>is it, I'm going to try it. I'm going to
<v Speaker 6>go all in literally quit my job that day, went home,
<v Speaker 6>got ready, got dressed up, and it was awesome. It
<v Speaker 6>was like a giant party.
<v Speaker 4>Wow. So what does a typical cam day look like
<v Speaker 4>for you? So honestly this is why, like I have
<v Speaker 4>the best job ever.
<v Speaker 6>You know. I wake up, I work out, put on
<v Speaker 6>a cute little outfit, sexy lingerie, get my phone out,
<v Speaker 6>my laptop out, turn it on, and I go live.
<v Speaker 6>What's it do that for a few hours, get offline,
<v Speaker 6>eat dinner, watch a movie, go to bed.
<v Speaker 4>Wow.
<v Speaker 2>Yeah, Now we all have our off days, right, we
<v Speaker 2>have the days that like we just I don't know,
<v Speaker 2>we don't want to talk to people we would like,
<v Speaker 2>you know, get under the covers and cry all day
<v Speaker 2>in bed. I don't know, maybe that's just me, But
<v Speaker 2>what do you do on days like that? Do you
<v Speaker 2>like not log in? Do you just suck it up
<v Speaker 2>and get online? Like how do you handle the days
<v Speaker 2>when you just like don't feel not feeling like it?
<v Speaker 4>That's the thing.
<v Speaker 6>It's essential to have like a really good attitude when
<v Speaker 6>you go live to an audience because you want them
<v Speaker 6>to have the best experience just like you. So yeah,
<v Speaker 6>I mean, like, if I'm not feeling it, messy bun
<v Speaker 6>sweats on, put the saffy movie up on TV, I
<v Speaker 6>watch a good movie, watch a comfort show, and snuggle
<v Speaker 6>up under the covers or on the couch and I
<v Speaker 6>just chill all day.
<v Speaker 4>Yeah.
<v Speaker 2>So you don't have like a particular set schedule where
<v Speaker 2>you like have to go online, Like do you have
<v Speaker 2>to like set an update and be like, hey, guys,
<v Speaker 2>not feeling it today or feeling sick or like can
<v Speaker 2>you just be like just not log in that day?
<v Speaker 6>Consistency is important in order to keep your like audience engaged.
<v Speaker 6>You know, I actually like miss the guys when I'm
<v Speaker 6>not online. So Yeah, I always want to give them
<v Speaker 6>an update, like, hey, you know what, probably not going
<v Speaker 6>to be online on Friday, you know, going.
<v Speaker 4>To take a day off mental health day.
<v Speaker 2>Yeah, it sounds to too that, like and from the
<v Speaker 2>other girls that I've talked to that you you know,
<v Speaker 2>you get a lot of like positive reinforcement on camp
<v Speaker 2>and that you know, you you build these personal connections
<v Speaker 2>with your fans, So it almost sounds like too, like
<v Speaker 2>going on cam might even be like a positive mood
<v Speaker 2>boost for you.
<v Speaker 6>Yeah, it's almost like hanging out with my friends. Yeah,
<v Speaker 6>it's really awesome.
<v Speaker 4>That's great.
<v Speaker 2>What is some of the like the most meaningful things
<v Speaker 2>that fans have done for you?
<v Speaker 6>Got to go with the classics, you know, making their
<v Speaker 6>username like that they're my biggest fan, or you know,
<v Speaker 6>updating their profile to show that like I basically own them.
<v Speaker 6>They're like, you know, love Lily is my main girl,
<v Speaker 6>so that no other cam models like you know, message
<v Speaker 6>them or anything like that.
<v Speaker 4>But also just like.
<v Speaker 6>You know, they they kind of understand what it takes
<v Speaker 6>for me to take the day off, and they'll be like,
<v Speaker 6>you know what, you deserve the day off.
<v Speaker 4>Here's a big tip there.
<v Speaker 6>You go take care of yourself for the day, buy
<v Speaker 6>yourself dinner tonight, you know. And it's stuff like that
<v Speaker 6>where it's just like it goes beyond. It's not transactional,
<v Speaker 6>you know, it's really a relationship you built with these people.
<v Speaker 4>Yeah.
<v Speaker 2>Now I can tell talking from you that you like
<v Speaker 2>have a business acumen. Like it's just like it's coming
<v Speaker 2>across pretty pretty easily.
<v Speaker 4>Yes, And you view it seems that you.
<v Speaker 2>Viewed camming like as a sales job, right, But does
<v Speaker 2>that take the pleasure out of it or like how
<v Speaker 2>do you balance you know, being it being a business
<v Speaker 2>but also like you know, having it those personal relationships
<v Speaker 2>you know, like yeah, balancing that.
<v Speaker 4>Connection with the fans, but not also.
<v Speaker 6>Like just it's never transactional. Yeah, it's never transactional.
<v Speaker 4>Yeah.
<v Speaker 6>I take pride and being able to find out what
<v Speaker 6>somebody's desires are. Somebody is dream fantasy, you know. I
<v Speaker 6>always tell them, you know, like this is your show
<v Speaker 6>when we're together, I want your dreams to come true,
<v Speaker 6>and I want to make those dreams come true.
<v Speaker 4>And it's not just you know.
<v Speaker 6>It's it's almost like exchanging emotional labor between each other,
<v Speaker 6>you know, And so it's it's a give and take.
<v Speaker 6>There's a balance. It's never like one side takes all.
<v Speaker 6>I always want to leave each experience with you know,
<v Speaker 6>a user just as a positive one when where they
<v Speaker 6>you know, want to come back and they want to
<v Speaker 6>be comfortable with me. What would you say your brand
<v Speaker 6>is probably girl next door, Girlfriend experienced definitely. You know,
<v Speaker 6>I love the glamour and I love you know, the glitter,
<v Speaker 6>But I'm never somebody that's unapproachable.
<v Speaker 4>Definitely attainable.
<v Speaker 6>And yeah, you know you whatever you put in, you know,
<v Speaker 6>I give you.
<v Speaker 2>Do you ever find yourself like I mean, I know
<v Speaker 2>that people think that you know, camming being on only
<v Speaker 2>fans or like any of this, you know, kind of
<v Speaker 2>like online sex work stuff is just all about the sex,
<v Speaker 2>and but I find that a lot of it is
<v Speaker 2>you know, this intimate, these intimate conversations, this connection like
<v Speaker 2>you talked about. Do you ever sometimes find that like
<v Speaker 2>you've become almost someone's therapist.
<v Speaker 4>It's definitely therapeutic.
<v Speaker 6>It's even therapeutic for me, Yeah, because you know, you
<v Speaker 6>find out everybody comes from a different walk of life,
<v Speaker 6>and you find out what their story is.
<v Speaker 4>Sometimes you connect to that on.
<v Speaker 6>A personal level with them, and yeah, It's definitely therapeutic.
<v Speaker 6>And I want them to feel like they can be
<v Speaker 6>honest with themselves because I do respect them.
<v Speaker 2>Do you have any favorite fans who like, just have
<v Speaker 2>great stories or just like support you so much, maybe
<v Speaker 2>you want to give them like a little shout out.
<v Speaker 6>Absolutely, I definitely am all for the like Age is
<v Speaker 6>just a number one of my long guest customers. He's
<v Speaker 6>actually he's seventy six years old.
<v Speaker 4>Oh wow.
<v Speaker 6>And you think somebody like that, you know, doesn't know
<v Speaker 6>how to use a computer, They definitely do. And yeah,
<v Speaker 6>you know what, like, just because they come from a
<v Speaker 6>different period of time doesn't mean that you can't connect
<v Speaker 6>with them, you know, emotionally and you can't find something
<v Speaker 6>that you have in common. So yeah, that's definitely really
<v Speaker 6>special to me.
<v Speaker 2>What do you think are the most important qualities to
<v Speaker 2>be successful as a cam girl?
<v Speaker 6>Positive attitude, grit, consistency. Honestly, you know, it has to
<v Speaker 6>be something that you enjoy, something that you take pride in,
<v Speaker 6>and something that you can see yourself doing for a
<v Speaker 6>long time.
<v Speaker 2>What's your favorite thing about camming on strip chat versus
<v Speaker 2>other platforms?
<v Speaker 6>The interface interface is unmatched, you know for the users
<v Speaker 6>for the models on there.
<v Speaker 4>It's easy to use.
<v Speaker 6>And there's just so many different options to browse from.
<v Speaker 6>There's so many models online, you know, I think users
<v Speaker 6>definitely get their pick at the litter.
<v Speaker 4>What was your longest private session with someone?
<v Speaker 6>Longest private session as a video call with sixteen hours? What?
<v Speaker 4>Sixteen hours? Yeah?
<v Speaker 6>Wow, I know it's take naps during that at all,
<v Speaker 6>I know, you know it really it really just felt
<v Speaker 6>like hanging out with somebody. You know, it wasn't sexual
<v Speaker 6>at all. It was somebody that I had kind of
<v Speaker 6>done like an hour here, an hour there private sessions
<v Speaker 6>with and then we just went all in. We just
<v Speaker 6>basically spent the night and the day together and you know,
<v Speaker 6>ordered food while we were together. We watched a movie
<v Speaker 6>and we just talked.
<v Speaker 4>It was amazing. Yah. Was that planned or was it
<v Speaker 4>not planned? Oh my god?
<v Speaker 6>It just kind of the ball just kept rolling. He
<v Speaker 6>was like, you know what, let's have a drink together.
<v Speaker 6>I'm like, yeah, I've got a bottle here, all right,
<v Speaker 6>let's share a drink. And I'm like, you know, I'm
<v Speaker 6>feeling kind of hungry. He's like, here's a tip, go
<v Speaker 6>ahead and door dash yourself something, you know. Yeah, and
<v Speaker 6>I'm like, all right, like, help me order something. We
<v Speaker 6>talk about our favorite movies. It's like, oh, you know,
<v Speaker 6>let's stream that right now, let's watch it together. Would
<v Speaker 6>you watch We watched you know, the movie Her Yes,
<v Speaker 6>Big John, Yes, which is a little like ironic, Yeah, ironic.
<v Speaker 6>So it was it was really awesome and it's it's
<v Speaker 6>like almost like a two hour long movie.
<v Speaker 4>Yeah, so like it was. It was easy. Yeah, and
<v Speaker 4>it's one of my favorites. Yeah, it's an incredible movie. Yeah,
<v Speaker 4>that's so funny. Whose idea was it to watch that movie?
<v Speaker 4>It's mine, it was yours. I bet you guys probably
<v Speaker 4>had a lot to talk about it after you watched that.
<v Speaker 1>Oh.
<v Speaker 2>Absolutely, that's a very like yeah, I mean that's a
<v Speaker 2>trauma yeah, and that's a conversation like starter kind of movie.
<v Speaker 4>Yeah, for sure.
<v Speaker 2>You've also said that you've had a lot of calls
<v Speaker 2>with women, Oh yeah, for them to explore themselves sexually
<v Speaker 2>for the first time.
<v Speaker 4>What's your process for that kind of call.
<v Speaker 6>Well, it's kind of the same as any other you know, definitely,
<v Speaker 6>first and foremost, I want to make sure they're comfortable.
<v Speaker 6>Just kind of started as a casual conversation. No, pressure situation.
<v Speaker 6>I'm always like extremely surprised. Usually I've noticed like women
<v Speaker 6>they kind of keep it as a secret. I think
<v Speaker 6>they kind of like indulge in the fact, but I'm
<v Speaker 6>surprised that it's you know, a woman and not a man.
<v Speaker 6>And yeah, just kind of like ask them questions about themselves,
<v Speaker 6>and eventually the conversation always leads into you know, like, well,
<v Speaker 6>you know what brings you here with me? You know,
<v Speaker 6>why did you choose me? And it makes me feel
<v Speaker 6>really good knowing that they kind of see me as
<v Speaker 6>somebody that's approachable like that, because you know, not every
<v Speaker 6>woman is comfortable with their sexuality that way.
<v Speaker 2>Have you found that a lot of them are like women,
<v Speaker 2>they're exploring that side of their sexuality. Absolutely, I haven't
<v Speaker 2>really like taken that step there, and they're just feeling
<v Speaker 2>it out. And like online camming feels like a safe
<v Speaker 2>space to do it.
<v Speaker 6>Yes, because you know, they they don't have to talk
<v Speaker 6>to somebody in real life. They get to talk to
<v Speaker 6>somebody you know, within a screen and just makes everything
<v Speaker 6>much more like easy going. And definitely, yeah, it's about
<v Speaker 6>exploring their sexuality. You know, it's like they kind of
<v Speaker 6>have a crush on me, and I'm like I kind
<v Speaker 6>of have a crush on you too.
<v Speaker 2>Yeah. What's the most money you've ever made from a customer?
<v Speaker 6>So in total in like a three month period, like
<v Speaker 6>around eighty thousand dollars?
<v Speaker 4>Wow?
<v Speaker 6>Yeah, in like a twenty four hour period as a record,
<v Speaker 6>it was a little bit over ten k my share Wow.
<v Speaker 4>Amazing, Yeah, it was. It's pretty insane. That's pretty great. Yeah.
<v Speaker 2>They have you ever had like any big extravagant gift
<v Speaker 2>spot for you by fans?
<v Speaker 6>Yeah, so you know the whole like Amazon wish list,
<v Speaker 6>thrown wish list, you know, you kind of have those
<v Speaker 6>guys that they want to make a statement. So they're
<v Speaker 6>like it's all done, it's all gonna be sent to
<v Speaker 6>you everything off your list, and you're.
<v Speaker 4>Like yeah, and they love that. I do have one
<v Speaker 4>fan he like comes and goes.
<v Speaker 2>I call him like a tipping ninja, this guy Tommy,
<v Speaker 2>and he'll just come and he'll just like tip a
<v Speaker 2>B and he literally does it just to like beat
<v Speaker 2>everybody else.
<v Speaker 4>Yeah, it's like it's competitive, but yeah, it's competitive.
<v Speaker 2>He's like I'm just gonna tip more than everyone else.
<v Speaker 2>And then like he doesn't even want anything and then
<v Speaker 2>he like disappears.
<v Speaker 4>I'm like, okay, truly, that's how they win your heart.
<v Speaker 2>I'm like thanks to yeah, but I'm like, can I
<v Speaker 2>send you something? And then like I don't hear from
<v Speaker 2>him for like two months.
<v Speaker 4>He's like, I just wanted to make your day. Yeah,
<v Speaker 4>and I was like, thank you. That really did.
<v Speaker 2>Do you have any interest in ever doing like studio
<v Speaker 2>porn or anything like that.
<v Speaker 4>Are you like comfortable staying with the camming?
<v Speaker 6>Honestly, I love just being a cam model, and it's
<v Speaker 6>just something I think I only see myself doing right now.
<v Speaker 4>I just love the live.
<v Speaker 6>One on one or with an audience interaction, and I
<v Speaker 6>just I think that's my niche.
<v Speaker 2>Now getting into like personal one on one relationships, like
<v Speaker 2>in the bedroom with a man. What are some things
<v Speaker 2>that a guy can do to like really get you going.
<v Speaker 4>That's a great question.
<v Speaker 6>It's been a while since I've had to deal with
<v Speaker 6>any anything like that. Probably just taking it slow. I'm
<v Speaker 6>a romantic. You have to win my heart before you can,
<v Speaker 6>you know, experience me physically.
<v Speaker 4>Four plays starts way before the bedroom. Absolutely, yeah, yes.
<v Speaker 2>What are some of the things that a guy can
<v Speaker 2>do to get your attention? Like, if you start dating
<v Speaker 2>a guy, what are some of the right moves that
<v Speaker 2>he can make.
<v Speaker 4>Make me laugh?
<v Speaker 6>You know, I think that's definitely the way to my
<v Speaker 6>heart and just be somebody that I.
<v Speaker 4>Can just talk for hours with.
<v Speaker 2>Absolutely any other characteristics that you look for in somebody.
<v Speaker 6>Charsma doesn't hurt, Somebody with a great sense of humor,
<v Speaker 6>and just somebody that is mature, you know, somebody that
<v Speaker 6>is looking for you know, going going all the way.
<v Speaker 6>You know, I'm not here for the short term. I
<v Speaker 6>want something long term.
<v Speaker 4>You're not here for a fuck boy, Absolutely not.
<v Speaker 6>Yes, and that's why you know I've been single for
<v Speaker 6>so long.
<v Speaker 2>Yeah, Okay, let's talk about the one question that like
<v Speaker 2>every guy has penis size?
<v Speaker 4>Is it important do you not to have a monster
<v Speaker 4>cock to be with Lily?
<v Speaker 6>I'm definitely not a size queen. It's definitely the motion
<v Speaker 6>of the ocean for me. I think I do not
<v Speaker 6>I do not care.
<v Speaker 4>Yeah, so it can be like any kind of regular size.
<v Speaker 6>Look, there's enough toys out there, there's enough you know,
<v Speaker 6>fingers mouth. I think they could definitely make up for
<v Speaker 6>another ways if they're lacking in the size department.
<v Speaker 2>Okay, Yeah, So that is definitely not something that shuts
<v Speaker 2>the door on the relationship.
<v Speaker 6>Absolutely not, not in my opinion. If anything, I kind
<v Speaker 6>of prefer them. That's I think the big ones. It's like, uh,
<v Speaker 6>that's not going anywhere. Yeah, that's too much.
<v Speaker 4>I don't want to like yeah.
<v Speaker 2>Yeah, and that is like, especially as an everyday thing,
<v Speaker 2>can be a little.
<v Speaker 6>Bit absolutely yeah, but I mean maybe if they're if
<v Speaker 6>they're willing to go nice and slow.
<v Speaker 2>Yeah, what about like perfect first date? What would be
<v Speaker 2>a perfect first date for you? Perfect first date?
<v Speaker 6>Goodness, if it's the first time that we're hanging out
<v Speaker 6>together one on one, I want to do something. I
<v Speaker 6>really want to make sure that they're in They're in
<v Speaker 6>it for the long haul. I'm really into like antique shopping.
<v Speaker 4>Oh cool, there's a lot.
<v Speaker 6>Of antique malls near where I live. So, like, let's
<v Speaker 6>grab a coffee and I'm going to drag you around
<v Speaker 6>with me so I can explain you know, where everything's from.
<v Speaker 6>What time period? It's like something I'm kind of a
<v Speaker 6>nerd about.
<v Speaker 4>So you mentioned like time period.
<v Speaker 2>Do you have like a fascination with history of any
<v Speaker 2>kind and is there any particular time period that you're
<v Speaker 2>more in than others.
<v Speaker 6>I'm like super into mid century modern fashion and furniture,
<v Speaker 6>so that's like fifty sixties heading into the seventies. Definitely
<v Speaker 6>obsessed with all of that. If you took like one
<v Speaker 6>look in my apartment, it's kind of like a time
<v Speaker 6>capsule in that way.
<v Speaker 4>Oh I love that. Yeah.
<v Speaker 2>Do you have any like favorite TV shows or anything
<v Speaker 2>like that that kind of inspire that, Like fashion?
<v Speaker 4>Oh?
<v Speaker 6>Absolutely, I mean like a more modern one is definitely
<v Speaker 6>Mad Men. Obsessed with that show. Yeah, it's awesome.
<v Speaker 2>Yeah, any other like favorite TV shows like forget the
<v Speaker 2>fashion and stuff, like.
<v Speaker 6>You know what you're watching right now? Right now, I'm
<v Speaker 6>always watching Gilmore Girls. Oh really, Yes, that's like kind
<v Speaker 6>of like my comfort TV show. It's like something to
<v Speaker 6>unwind with, you know, after the day is done, you know,
<v Speaker 6>forget about the drama in real life and just focus
<v Speaker 6>on the one on the screen.
<v Speaker 2>What are some characteristics that are important to you and
<v Speaker 2>other people? Not necessarily like a guy, but it could
<v Speaker 2>be like a friend, Like, what are like the three
<v Speaker 2>things that you would say are really important to you.
<v Speaker 6>I'm a girl's girl, so you can't be judgmental here.
<v Speaker 6>You know, everybody comes from a different path of life,
<v Speaker 6>and you know I'm there to be supportive with you
<v Speaker 6>along the way. I've never been the kind of girl
<v Speaker 6>that has like a big group of friends. I just
<v Speaker 6>have like those few close ones I always hold on to.
<v Speaker 6>But I'm always open to making new ones if it
<v Speaker 6>means that they're kind and supportive.
<v Speaker 4>So like someone who's non judgmental.
<v Speaker 6>Absolutely, especially if they're going to find out what I
<v Speaker 6>do for work.
<v Speaker 4>Yeah that's true, that's true. Anything else, I'm probably talkative.
<v Speaker 4>I'm a yapper. Okay.
<v Speaker 2>You might someone who likes to listen. Absolutely, and then
<v Speaker 2>last one, because that's for three, so you gotta give
<v Speaker 2>you one more.
<v Speaker 6>Oh, you're right, Okay. Got to be somebody who loves
<v Speaker 6>to shop. Okay, I want to walk around the mall
<v Speaker 6>with you. I want a Windows shop. I want to
<v Speaker 6>try things on, I want to tell you how they look,
<v Speaker 6>and I want to take you to every store with me.
<v Speaker 4>Okay, let's talk about travel. Have you a lot of traveling?
<v Speaker 4>I've done some? Yeah, Okay. Any places on your bucket
<v Speaker 4>list that you're dying.
<v Speaker 6>To go to, dying to go to? Probably the Netherlands, Yeah,
<v Speaker 6>beautiful there. Absolutely, I want to go to Amsterdam, and
<v Speaker 6>you know, it's like a European country where like you
<v Speaker 6>can kind of like start there and then go to
<v Speaker 6>a few others. You can go to Denmark, Portugal, Belgium,
<v Speaker 6>it like somewhere to start. But I definitely want to
<v Speaker 6>explore more of Europe.
<v Speaker 2>Yeah, that's a great thing about Europe. Everything's like a
<v Speaker 2>hop skip away. I know, you know, like here in
<v Speaker 2>La it's like I have to like forty five minute
<v Speaker 2>plan ride will get me to Vegas, like and you know,
<v Speaker 2>when you're in England, forty five minutes, we'll get you
<v Speaker 2>to like Spain or.
<v Speaker 4>Italy or like you know what I mean.
<v Speaker 2>Yeah, entirely different culture with an entirely different history, different language.
<v Speaker 4>Like all those things. Yes, exactly. Fear like everything's just
<v Speaker 4>so far. It's such like a.
<v Speaker 6>Big it's unrealistic to think that you could fit so
<v Speaker 6>much of the US and all of the cool places
<v Speaker 6>in one week.
<v Speaker 2>Yeah, yeah, no, absolutely, Yeah, Amstream is great.
<v Speaker 4>I would love to go back there.
<v Speaker 2>I went there a couple of times when I was young,
<v Speaker 2>but I just I just smoked so much weed that.
<v Speaker 4>I don't now it's like legal here. It's like uninteresting.
<v Speaker 2>Well, I mean I'm sober now, so like I would
<v Speaker 2>love to go back and not be completely blasted out
<v Speaker 2>of my mind the entire time and actually like go
<v Speaker 2>and see it for like the incredible time and remember
<v Speaker 2>it exactly, remember it afterwards, for like the beautiful city
<v Speaker 2>that it is. I remember, like I did a boat
<v Speaker 2>tour on the river there, and I think I like
<v Speaker 2>threw up all over myself. Oh pretty sure that was
<v Speaker 2>so you know, like maybe a different experience that would
<v Speaker 2>be good. Yeah, take lots of photos, yes, exactly, exactly. Well,
<v Speaker 2>thank you so much for joining us, Lily. It's been
<v Speaker 2>such a pleasure getting to know you.
<v Speaker 6>Thank you so much for having me. It is such
<v Speaker 6>a pleasure and an honor. Oh my gosh, really, cous Well,
<v Speaker 6>I hope that you enjoy the party tonight. I'm looking
<v Speaker 6>forward to partying with you and dancing, yes absolutely, and
<v Speaker 6>not falling in the pool.
<v Speaker 4>No we won't, Yes, we will not. That's the plant.
<v Speaker 4>That's a plan for now, all right.
<v Speaker 2>Can you tell everybody where they can find you online,
<v Speaker 2>and of course where they can find you on strip chat?
<v Speaker 4>Yes.
<v Speaker 6>So my username on strip chat is Lovelily. That's Lily
<v Speaker 6>with two l's and two y's. You can find me
<v Speaker 6>on Instagram at Lovelily one two l's, two y's and
<v Speaker 6>the same username on Twitter and TikTok fantastic.
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