The One That’s All About ALL The Housewives

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Speaker 1: Hello, my loves, welcome back to another episode. I'll give them La La podcast Today. I am feeling so freaking hyped because my love for Housewives has been reignited through OC. What about Jersey not so much?

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Speaker 2: Okay, no, I had to rewatch it this morning.

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Speaker 3: Oh see, though Jersey I.

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Speaker 4: Did watch while moving, so I was half paying attention. But I do have some notes.

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Speaker 1: You know what, every franchise has gone through its ups and downs. Every single show on Bravo has gone through its ups and downs, right where like some seasons are like, but then you give it a second chance, third chance, fourth chance? What is it thirteen chances?

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Speaker 3: Again?

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Speaker 4: No?

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Speaker 1: But really, like I stick with the Housewives through thick and thin, baby, And it's hard because even if I don't mess with someone like on the show, I've met these women at Bravo con and whatnot, and I can't think of one housewife or Bravo celebrity who's been unkind to me. So it's hard talking about the shows because I'm like, if they listen or whoever's listening, which I know you motherfuckers send send these bravolebrities clips in their dms, and then suddenly we're beefing.

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Speaker 3: Yeah.

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Speaker 1: Yeah, I'm just a squirrel trying to get a nut. That's a squirrel. But I'm like, I'm strictly coming from a place of what's on television, But truly, I have had nothing but positive experiences with most of the women who are on TV right now. I don't watch Dubai, okay, but I was listening to a clip on instead a gram of two teas with the new girl I think her name is Talleen, and I'm like, Okay, maybe I could get on Dubai.

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Speaker 2: Let's try Dubai. Let's give it another Why don't you watch it? It just doesn't hit for you like the others.

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Speaker 1: It's not that it doesn't hit for me. I haven't given it a chance. They're only on their second season, and I just for some reason, it's hasn't been something I've put on.

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Speaker 3: Okay, if is there, would you be down?

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Speaker 5: If our friends were to tell us which episode to watch that we could dissect on Dubai, that would be good.

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Speaker 1: Out of the two seasons.

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Speaker 5: Yeah, whatever one is, Like, whoever they send in, we can dissect that one episode and we can watch it see.

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Speaker 4: If it ignites us to watch.

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Speaker 2: Yeah, I do have to say a note here at Bravocon because I didn't watch Dubai. I looked over and I didn't necessarily know the table, but I looked over and I was like, who is that? That was the most dunning table I'd ever seen.

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Speaker 5: There beyond can I tell you the funniest story. This was not last Brovo Bravo Con, but the Bravo Con book.

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Speaker 1: They should start a brovocon for dudes who love Bravo.

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Speaker 3: Brovocn freaking it is.

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Speaker 5: All we need is like a bar for the home, like the dudes with like sports in the Bravocon area, and we would be watching sports, but as well as watching our women go and then we would be a part of like the little voices.

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Speaker 1: Well because there are some bros. There are some bros.

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Speaker 3: Can we love that?

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Speaker 1: The housewives?

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Speaker 3: I'm telling you, but.

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Speaker 4: You guys also a bravocn.

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Speaker 2: If more dudes showed up, there's a lot of like hot single women, That's.

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Speaker 5: What I'm saying, And that's the Bravo we might be onto something talking until yeah, we need something. But me and my mom, we're going to see her on panel, Lisa. I let her take the reins last time.

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Speaker 1: This was This was the two years ago, a few years ago.

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Speaker 3: This was in New York.

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Speaker 5: Yeah, we walk up, Lisa, We're ready, and Dubai is just walking on beautiful obviously. But yeah, that's the only interaction I've had with the housewives of Dubai is thinking that you were going to come out to panel and me and my sister or my mom just watching the Dubai.

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Speaker 4: Thinking, lad, you went to the wrong panel.

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Speaker 5: Oh yeah, we're dead center. So Lisa, I'm like, yo, let's go, and she's like, we look rude.

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Speaker 3: I was like, I mean for my sister, I don't care how I look. So I just got up and left.

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Speaker 5: You did, oh yeah, And she just was looking at me like I can't do it.

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Speaker 3: She did it.

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Speaker 4: I love her.

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Speaker 3: But yeah, it was.

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Speaker 5: The only incidents I've had with the Dubai. But I'd be down to watch it because they really are.

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Speaker 2: I don't know what you did this morning, but you you seem so you have the greatest energy right almost in the car.

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Speaker 1: That is wild, because we were both in the car being like this could end pretty badly, maybe in.

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Speaker 4: A roll over, which you seem very awake alert. Did you are you high or not?

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Speaker 5: Okay, maybe that's it been waking up about seven thirty every morning going on walks.

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Speaker 1: There.

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Speaker 3: We are on a new schedule.

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Speaker 1: He is on a new schedule.

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Speaker 3: Okay.

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Speaker 1: Speaking of looks, if I'm looking a little oily on Fun, it's because I put on a bunch of oil. I have an event tonight.

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Speaker 4: What oil do you put on?

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Speaker 3: This?

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Speaker 1: One's a pumpkin seed oil okay from from I just got on Amazon amazing, And so I'm just trying to hydrate the skin. I haven't put makeup on in a while, and I've been outside.

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Speaker 4: Skin looks fab what's the that?

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Speaker 1: The event is Sutton's having an event at her her store.

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Speaker 4: So Fun? Are you bringing a plus one? I texted you that yesterday because they asked.

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Speaker 1: Just my bump, just your bump. I'm gonna go with uh Sena and Janet, so Fun. I don't leave the house much. You guys know that. Which I'll talk about my ache at the end. I need to remember, like I'm I'm five weeks away from giving birth, and you would think that I wasn't giving birth at all. Yeah, Like when I almost crashed my mom the car with my mother in it fourteen times yesterday. Why and then straight up sobbed because she was like, you seem out of it, and I was like, no, I guys that I'm pregnant.

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Speaker 4: I didn't be given burk.

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Speaker 1: Why driving its fucking car?

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Speaker 3: You never did when I'm with you, you never drive. But I will say. Lisa comes up and she goes, we need to baby her more.

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Speaker 1: I thought, no, that is true, that is true.

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Speaker 3: Do I need to start picking her up to go everywhere?

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Speaker 1: Yes? Okay, you literally hams that we needed to pick up because I need to get the nursery looking like my baby's nursery. Right now, it's just this generic room. And I'll be damned if like my first born had this extravagant nursery and the second baby is like, here's the hand me down crib and rocker. I hear you, you know, like I want it to look nice. And Easton was like battling my mom on going so I drive us there.

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Speaker 3: I was battling.

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Speaker 5: They went to pick up mirrors, which is totally fine, and I am going to interrupt they want they went to get mirrors, that's totally fine.

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Speaker 3: Go pick out your mirrors, leave them there.

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Speaker 1: We did. It's exactly what we did.

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Speaker 3: Well, that's the other thing.

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Speaker 1: And then we asked you to go pick them up, and you said, you and Lauren go no, and people could put them in the car and then you'll get them out of the car when we get home.

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Speaker 5: I said, you guys said, can you come in land in his car? I said, he is not here. I don't have a.

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Speaker 1: Car to write them right, So then we came home.

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Speaker 3: I would have picked them up.

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Speaker 5: All I'm saying is and Lisa goes, is it that hard to spend time with your on fire?

00:08:00
Speaker 1: I'm about to light you on fire.

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Speaker 3: Light me on fire.

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Speaker 1: We did say that we arrived at the house because you couldn't bring Landon's car to us. You said, we can't have three people in the range rover. You said, you and Lauren just go and have the people help you. And Mom goes, well, it's a bunch of women who work there, and you didn't flinch, and you said, you guys, get them in the car and when you get back to the house, all unload them. So what turns out is me sobbing in the car, being like, why the fuck am I doing this? Oh? So it was you and Lisa, Yes, my mom filled up later. What do you mean later? It was later?

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Speaker 3: It was like noon, because no, it wasn't.

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Speaker 1: What are you talking about. I didn't even get out of the house until twelve thirty one o'clock.

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Speaker 3: Okay, so it was two.

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Speaker 5: All I'm saying is I would have gone and picked them up. I've done that before me and Mom went. We bought stuff. I went by myself, picked it up. All I said is grab the mirrors, purchase him.

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Speaker 3: I'll go back that night. Here's the thing.

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Speaker 1: He was very adamant that he was not going to do it, that he would unload them once we arrived at the house.

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Speaker 4: Okay, got it all right?

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Speaker 1: Yes, So I lost my goddamn mind and said, I'm fucking done. I'm giving birth in five weeks. Everyone step your fucking game up.

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Speaker 4: I hear you. Number one. I'll be over tomorrow with a notebook.

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Speaker 2: We're getting all your or today, we're getting all your stuff listed, getting the room.

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Speaker 5: All I'm saying is I would have done it watching it.

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Speaker 3: I've done it.

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Speaker 1: This is how my whole life works. Vander pump Rule family life. When I hit a million, then people are like, all right, everything's gonna change. I'm like you know this didn't have to happen, right, You realize I've been being like I've been pretty.

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Speaker 5: Fucking sha in her life. We've always done it, but she just hits a million.

00:09:50
Speaker 3: Don't want? Somebody get me some water?

00:09:52
Speaker 1: Oh yeah, let's pull up. When I was in the third what was I thirteen? Seventh grade? Oh?

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Speaker 4: Don't you feel though changed?

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Speaker 2: I will say with the comments, don't you feel good about this? A lot of people say, your second child, you're more chill. You're like, what do you feel?

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Speaker 1: No? Chill?

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Speaker 2: Yes, being more chill, being more like, we're good being more.

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Speaker 4: I don't know you've been so chilled?

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Speaker 3: Do you want to you want to? Fucking no.

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Speaker 2: You've even said with Ocean, you were like, we gotta get this.

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Speaker 3: That's the other thing. So I can't compare.

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Speaker 1: You weren't okay, I was pampered with Ocean.

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Speaker 3: Okay, Well yeah, it was.

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Speaker 6: Also COVID, so that's not so much. This round, well, this round was not COVID. So you can just hunker down because life wasn't stopped, right. I do believe that as well, because you always say that when you were pregnant with Ocean it was COVID.

00:10:46
Speaker 1: Do you want to know why I work for myself so that I make the rules, and the rules are I'm ready to be fucking done, so go get the heavy shit for me.

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Speaker 4: Did you get the mirrorst the mirrors?

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Speaker 1: Because we're too bad bitches obviously.

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Speaker 4: Shout out TJ Max. Hell, yeah, who put him in the car?

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Speaker 1: Yeah she did? And you know what, she didn't even ask me to help her. She carried them out on her own, didn't say a word because she felt so bad that I had just sobbed the entire way there, and then I got out because she was like, I can't get them in further. So then I lifted them and you know they were getting like stuck on the seat. So yeah, we handled it.

00:11:22
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00:11:25
Speaker 1: I need a task rab because asap, Yes.

00:11:28
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00:11:34
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00:11:39
Speaker 1: Hot free task rab.

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Speaker 3: But I don't know, I thought you said that. The other man that came in he was a redheaded man and just he was great. The business was done.

00:11:48
Speaker 1: Yeah, I'm sorry, I'll let you on fire.

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Speaker 5: It's fine, and I'm sorry that I didn't help, but I promise you it would have been picked up.

00:11:54
Speaker 1: Just do a little better. All right, let's talk about Mauricio locking lips with Nikita Khan, who is thirty three years old at the airport.

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Speaker 4: Thirty three is decent though, Now is he sixty? How old is he? Easton?

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Speaker 3: I know you looked it up fifty four.

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Speaker 4: I don't think that's bad. I'm telling you it's so what do you guys say?

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Speaker 3: I don't think so. Here's how I look at it. I don't think it's.

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Speaker 1: Like way too way too much.

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Speaker 4: Thirty three is mature.

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Speaker 3: It is. But also how I look at it is I'm thirty one.

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Speaker 5: I know thirty three year olds looking at a fifty four year old man. I could not look like that man talking to the thirty three year old because I now know how a thirty one year old would look at me. As a fifty four year old man talking to a thirty three year old, what are you talking about together?

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Speaker 4: Weird?

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Speaker 5: Like I know he's fifty four talking to a thirty three year old. Okay, I could never do it because I look at him as discussed. So now when I hit that age. I could never do it because I know what I think of that.

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Speaker 1: Man, Right, you know how people are looking at you?

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Speaker 3: Yes, in that yes, and it's disgusting.

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Speaker 5: In my opinion. You're a good looking dude. You have a business, You're very successful. There are beautiful women your age that are successful in things like that.

00:13:20
Speaker 3: It's go for your age.

00:13:23
Speaker 1: And Kyle Richard, Yeah, yeah, he.

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Speaker 2: Doesn't get anymore. And I kind of think it's great. I honestly would have expected it if I saw a photo of Kim and a twenty three year old, Yeah, come on, grow up.

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Speaker 4: But thirty three.

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Speaker 2: In my mind, she knows what she wants. I looked at her Instagram. She's an actress. She seems like a hustler. I don't know a ton she wants. Mauricio, Get Mauricio.

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Speaker 1: He's hot, he is I don't know, I don't know.

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Speaker 4: That's how I feel.

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Speaker 3: From my point of view, it's.

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Speaker 1: Where I would say he's hot. It's an old man. Yeah, here's the thing. Yeah, I can talk about it because my eggs was not hitting like mo. Yeah, but twenty years the way that I look at chicks and I was that chick right the way I look at chicks who are dating older men like that. I look at them and go, the money is definitely not fucking worth it, babe, I promise you.

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Speaker 5: I promise anyways, And even if it's not about the money, that's my way.

00:14:26
Speaker 3: I just think you have nothing in common. Sorry to cut you off, gold.

00:14:29
Speaker 4: No, no, I cut you off.

00:14:30
Speaker 3: There.

00:14:31
Speaker 2: You might you say you have nothing in common. I think that men are so this is my thoughts.

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Speaker 4: Men are so stupid and immature.

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Speaker 2: I almost feel like thirty three year old women with fifty whatever year old men. Maturity levels sometimes match up. Okay, energy levels sometimes matchup. You want to be mow and be like, I'm gonna be out partying. I don't know if this is true, but he seems.

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Speaker 4: Like I'm gonna be out partying doing my thing.

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Speaker 2: It's like and sometimes you want to just chill at home and watch it. Like to me, maturity levels matchup. I'm thirty two. If I met we'll touch at this. We'll touch on this at the end of the pot. But if I met a guy who I clicked with who was a little older, I think I'd be like, Okay, we click and like he's hot and this works.

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Speaker 1: I don't know. Can I tell you my thought on older men? Yeah, and this is this is strictly my opinion, Okay. I find that older men do not want you know, we hear about how women are, you know, hitting new heights. They're independent, they don't need men. Those women who truly embody that like independence, right, they don't need anyone to take care of them. Older men are not turned on by that. Older men want someone that they can take care of, who needs them, who they can kind of like take under their wing and feel like the protector, feel masculine. Right. It's the younger generation of men who I think are really really into the independent woman. There's no threat. They're excited when their girl has something going on that makes them excited. They're excited to go and support their chick. Older men like the girl who needs saving.

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Speaker 2: That's a great point. And you said this to me last week and I totally agree.

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Speaker 4: Again, just so attractive, No.

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Speaker 2: In people our age, it's so attractive. They respect the hustle. I've noticed, like thirty whatever, your old men it's like do your thing, get your bag, or like they respect the hustle versus the older men.

00:16:35
Speaker 4: Who might say, oh yeah, I support you, respect your dreams.

00:16:38
Speaker 1: And then all you need money for your new endeavor or like, I'd love to back it.

00:16:43
Speaker 2: I tell you the independence right are like, so, when are you gonna stop with this little dream of yours and.

00:16:51
Speaker 4: Have a baby? Oh? What, I thought you were supporting this.

00:16:55
Speaker 1: I'd really like your endeavors to be cooking, cleaning and raising the children.

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Speaker 2: It's like, wait, they like to be all talk about like I support you, and then I don't know this.

00:17:05
Speaker 4: I'm just saying from what I've heard.

00:17:07
Speaker 1: You know, that's just what I've seen.

00:17:09
Speaker 4: I've never experienced that.

00:17:10
Speaker 1: But yes, okay, so we're torn.

00:17:15
Speaker 4: I say, go do your thing with the girl, do your thing.

00:17:19
Speaker 1: The marriage is over.

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Speaker 5: I'm torn about it too, because, like you just said, girls do, they mature very quick. So a thirty three year old could be on a forty five an old soul. It's very I would need to know her to understand that relationship because maybe I'm far off.

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Speaker 1: Yeah. I think it would be hard for Nikita because people love Kyle so much. And the reason I saw this thing, this blurb about them, was because a Bravo account had posted it and said I hate this so much and I'm like, I'm going to talk about it on the podcast, but how much I hate it too. So anyway, we wish you the bat.

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Speaker 4: We wish you all the baths.

00:18:07
Speaker 1: When you say thoughts to read Erica. Kyle and my fave Lisa Rinna celebrated their birthdays in BH. They're all cancers, okay wow, and so they had their little get together, which I absolutely love. I love a group of chicks who has like this. My mom has it with her friends back home, and she still goes back there to celebrate all of their birthdays that are in like September and November. And I just there's something about a group of women who come together to celebrate their birthdays that reminds me of the End of Sex and the City where they cheers to Samantha turning fifty with the cake. And I'm just like, God, I love a group of fucking girlfriends.

00:18:53
Speaker 4: Love it.

00:18:54
Speaker 2: Those are homemates. I think that is really really sweet.

00:18:58
Speaker 1: Because I liked that that crew and we're gonna gets so much heat for things, and it's like, guys, let it go. Kyle's going to dinner with her. If Kyle don't care, why do you, I know, right, and.

00:19:11
Speaker 2: We talked about this a couple of podcasts ago. She's a bad bitch, Rinna, I.

00:19:15
Speaker 4: Mean they all are?

00:19:16
Speaker 3: You know?

00:19:16
Speaker 1: Yeah, everyone needs to start listening to Let.

00:19:19
Speaker 4: It Go by Demi Levado or No by Frozen.

00:19:25
Speaker 1: Sings the Very Yes but a Dina Menzel plate in Dina Menzel, Dina Menzel I, Dina Menzel. Do you guys are how did you ever say? How you say it?

00:19:37
Speaker 2: Did you ever see the clip of John sorry, John Travolta announcing her and he.

00:19:43
Speaker 4: Goes Adele dot seem He goes by the wickedly talented.

00:19:51
Speaker 2: He's at an award show and he's announcing her to sing, and he goes the wickedly talented Adele dot Seam and everyone's like.

00:20:01
Speaker 1: And she's like, did I say it? Okay?

00:20:03
Speaker 4: Yeah, yeah yeah, I'm just he's like out of his mind.

00:20:06
Speaker 1: I don't know's I don't know they.

00:20:13
Speaker 3: Those award shows.

00:20:18
Speaker 1: Oh my home anyway, Happy birthday to my fave four, Happy birthday. Moving on to uh, did we so we all watched? Okay? Oc oc has is two episodes deep. Okay, so the season starts, we're doing episode one and two. Shannon's kids are like, really really freaking grown now, right, Like we've seen them since they were tiny, toilet papering their friend's houses and being grounded. Okay, now they're like going to college, one of them studying abroad, saying you haven't lived until you live in Paris, and everyone's like okay, and they're dealing with the aftermath of Shannon's duy, and they're very vocal about how much they hate John Jansen. Okay, don't we all we all hate John Jansenka he's like.

00:21:12
Speaker 4: A prize and talking about her like he's a prize.

00:21:14
Speaker 1: Sorry, Okay, the freaking worst Okay, and the whole bit of like Jesus Jugs being like, I walked into the Quiet Woman and we just knew. It's like, no, you, you walked into the Quiet Woman. You wanted to be on TV Johnny Jay has a weird obsession with Shannon and wants to hurt her at all costs, And that's how this came to be the.

00:21:36
Speaker 2: Quiet Woman, though, didn't they wasn't there's something there, right, Because someone made a comment on one of the blogs I was looking that was like and that was just that probably hurt Shannon so much more?

00:21:46
Speaker 4: Did Shannon and John used to go to the Quiet Woman or something.

00:21:49
Speaker 1: No, the Quiet Woman is just like a well known It's like the you know how, yes, you know those like places where people go all the time. It's like the Quiet Woman. If it could be inside of Watch What Happens Live.

00:22:02
Speaker 4: It would be oh so it's okay.

00:22:05
Speaker 1: It would be like Lisarna's Bunny Tameras implants and like the Quiet Woman.

00:22:10
Speaker 2: Would it be like comparable to like sir maybe or maybe not that No.

00:22:14
Speaker 1: No, no no, because sir yea, sir is like the backdrop if it were the show. But everyone I was at the Quiet Woman. I went to the Quiet Woman, Like there's so much shit that's happened at the Quiet Woman, and it is fantastic. I have been okay before, like the Quiet Woman was a thing I'm tiny taught. Now I go because I'm like, it's.

00:22:38
Speaker 3: Yes.

00:22:40
Speaker 1: So it ends with I want to get the relationship between Shannon and Jesus Drugs out of the way. How do we feel about Jesus Drugs? Easton Jesus Drugs is dating John Jass. She's in the peak straight hair.

00:22:56
Speaker 5: So here's the thing I don't it is what it is find love. I don't care. I need to find more of it. We all hate Johnny Jay, right.

00:23:06
Speaker 4: Did I miss? Are we talking about Alexis?

00:23:08
Speaker 7: Yeah, you haven't watched from the beginner, I was like, okay, okay, camera, and one of the episodes says, you are psychotic Jesus just.

00:23:20
Speaker 5: I the talk outside when they're all watching like cockroaches and then scatter when they walk back in.

00:23:26
Speaker 3: I loved that.

00:23:27
Speaker 5: I feel like they could have had more of a I don't know, could have been more what's the word.

00:23:33
Speaker 3: I'm looking productive?

00:23:34
Speaker 5: It could have been more of a productive conversation.

00:23:36
Speaker 1: Between Shannon and Jesus just yeah.

00:23:39
Speaker 5: But and here's the thing that I don't know, and I would love for other people. I did like how when they go and they grabbed like the things, and she was like, what do you want to fix for the friendship in like twenty twenty four, and she said that she wanted to fix it with Shannon, and I did like it. But Shannon says that, but I want to see, like Shannon should let fucking Johnny Jaco. She has though, but has she because she shouldn't care. She should look at him and her and go, good luck with that fucking guy.

00:24:07
Speaker 2: She did still her exactly, but she still is taking that hurt.

00:24:11
Speaker 5: And that's the other thing is she said I would like to fix this, and Shannon goes, will never fix it. It's like, so where is the hump that you need to get over to be her friend? And I get that she's done shit dirty, but then look at it from a sense of she fucking saved you. Look at what this man has put you through in your whole life. Let it go and just see what she can offer you as a friendship and let all of the rest go. I'm just somebody who can stop looking at the negative to hurt yourself.

00:24:38
Speaker 3: You didn't start looking.

00:24:39
Speaker 4: At Shannon didn't respond that way.

00:24:40
Speaker 2: Though Shannon didn't say this will never Shannon said, did I thought Alexis said the thing about the friendship and Shannon to.

00:24:47
Speaker 4: Me, Shannon was so poised because she responded to.

00:24:50
Speaker 3: Me, no, she did. But then in her interview she said, what are you talking about? That will never.

00:24:56
Speaker 1: Happen because she just came off of sitting outside and she's saying the way I look at you is you took three hundred thousand dollars from me, And that's true. She was married Jesus Jugs was married to a man who sued Tamra and sued Shannon, And even though your name wasn't on the lawsuit, you were with this guy and she and Jesus jug says, we weren't married, you know, And it's like, it doesn't matter, I associate you with that person, Uh right? And yeah, it also doesn't feel good that I've had nothing but horrific experiences with this John Jansen person and now I have you who's dating him on the show and in the Inner Circle. The way that Alexis talked to Shannon about Johnny Jay, it was like what planet do you live on? It was like watching the Boy as Mine? Okay, you know, And I don't know at what point it clicks for a woman that when there's a man who has treated his ex a certain way and you think you're special and it would never happen to you, you're up in the night, you're next. Let let the man in the way he treated his ex be a window into what your future holds.

00:26:20
Speaker 3: And that's the that's where I'm sharing.

00:26:23
Speaker 5: Let it go and just look at this from a whole different point and go Now I can see how I looked dating this manner man.

00:26:31
Speaker 1: He is saying that though Shannon came off so well, by the way she goes.

00:26:36
Speaker 5: So fucked sheds the way she handled with even what's her name, Tamor when they were in the hall, I thought she handled that very well, Okay, but no, I just how I look at it is Shannon has gone through a whole bunch of shit.

00:26:51
Speaker 3: Let all of it go, and I know she has.

00:26:53
Speaker 1: That's so much easier said than I know. I know very present in her life. She has to deal with an entire like duy situation now, And.

00:27:01
Speaker 5: I've been in a boat and it's let it go and let everything hit you and just let it.

00:27:09
Speaker 3: Just you're not seeing it.

00:27:11
Speaker 2: Because it feels like she is bad, Okay, she feels like think about Shannon.

00:27:16
Speaker 5: Going off the interview of her saying like, I would like to be friends with you, and yes, you don't have to be friends, but I'm saying, look at it from thirty thousand.

00:27:23
Speaker 3: Feet, say it is what it is, by godesby.

00:27:25
Speaker 5: Bygones and just now view her as you look dating Johnny Jay, and maybe she is. I could sound like an idiot because I haven't seen a whole lot of it, But for me in her interview, there was still holding on to something of like we'll never be friends, and it's like, you know what, maybe they won't.

00:27:43
Speaker 1: Then, by the way, when she was sitting there and Alexis read the note, Shannon, all she said was that was nice.

00:27:50
Speaker 3: That was nice.

00:27:51
Speaker 1: It was nice. Never gonna fucking happen.

00:27:52
Speaker 4: Yeah, Well, someone out who was it.

00:27:54
Speaker 2: That said like maybe she should stop sucking her ex with that camera?

00:27:57
Speaker 4: Yeah, which is like that wasn't even Shannon.

00:27:59
Speaker 2: And also I didn't even heavily watch beginning of OC, but think about that, Shannon before versus now would have like I think, gone off, I.

00:28:09
Speaker 1: Got you would.

00:28:12
Speaker 3: Maybe this girl got you out of the ship that you needed to get.

00:28:14
Speaker 1: That's absolutely true. And the girl there's a girl who got me out of my shit, and guess what, you'll never have the luxury of breathing my same air. Like just because you got me out of the ship doesn't mean I'm trying to be your homie.

00:28:25
Speaker 4: Yeah, but it is. She's on I mean, let's let the elephant of the room. She's on the show.

00:28:30
Speaker 5: She's on the show exactly, and you gotta gotta you're making a show the same thing she is.

00:28:39
Speaker 1: Let's talk.

00:28:41
Speaker 3: Let me tell you because we know people who didn't do that.

00:28:43
Speaker 1: Shannon Badore has been and I and I've always enjoyed watching her, and I've always enjoyed how authentic she's been through every season. That woman has never shied away from who she is and what she's feeling. She's had some very unhinged moments. The fact that Alexis was the one who looked unhinged and you made Shannon Badour look like, oh, I know, yes, it never happened.

00:29:17
Speaker 3: Ever.

00:29:19
Speaker 1: Ever, she really always does like whack, yes, hyper emotional. And here we got Jesus being like, there's the door Shannon Badoor.

00:29:28
Speaker 3: It's like, we know what, Johnny, this is a Johnny jay.

00:29:34
Speaker 2: But how many times did you like rehearse that line? It felt like that's embarrassed.

00:29:39
Speaker 1: Who knows? People thought I rehearsed the line of like taking the trash out, and that was actually when I came up with that. I was like, that's fucking funny. I was talking about taking trash and I was like, you didn't add for this. Confused, everyone was like, hell, I did it? Take you? I was like, you can in the moment on the spot in the moment. That's why I'm here and you're blogging anyway. Shannon. I can't get over how good she looks.

00:30:08
Speaker 4: I think Shannon's killing it. I think Shannon's the way.

00:30:12
Speaker 2: I love her energy. She looks stunning, she feels let Jesus.

00:30:15
Speaker 3: Jugs be taken down by Johnny Jams.

00:30:17
Speaker 2: And also it's almost like, do you guys feel the energy that like Jesus that Alexis feels like she's one And I'm like, you know what you got because she got the man And I'm like, but you got the man that we don't like.

00:30:33
Speaker 4: Nobody likes him. She has the energy of like. But it's like the Promise Ring.

00:30:38
Speaker 2: And I know we're getting into episode two now, which like, no, it's promised ring, the promised Ring.

00:30:45
Speaker 4: Yes, promis Ring, promised Ring. There's no difference besides a fucking ded No.

00:30:52
Speaker 1: I know. My whole thing is when you look at a man who has treated his act a certain way and you think your special guess what he and his ex That's how he looked at her at the beginning too. They didn't meet and he was, you know, really mean to her, and she was like, I'm gonna stay with him. Yeah, No, it happens over time. You will soon be treated the exact same way, I promise you.

00:31:14
Speaker 2: Okay, So then let me ask you really quick. Cutting to this is a different but really quick because I want to get your thoughts. So let's just say, like Lenny, right, Lenny and his chick. Do you think eventually Sammy, Yes, eventually he will cheat on her.

00:31:28
Speaker 4: Do you think how it works?

00:31:29
Speaker 3: Yep?

00:31:30
Speaker 1: James said it perfectly season six about who I was with. Yeah, he's gonna find a hot new blonde and you'll be done. So that's just how it works with narcissistic men. They don't know how to how to be committed, and they get bored. It's the new shiny object and you get their rocks off, and then it's like moving on. I need to move on.

00:31:56
Speaker 3: He's got the thirty three year old. When she turns thirty six, he's gonna go.

00:32:00
Speaker 1: You know, I have learned the hard way. That was a tough pill to swallow, and it's.

00:32:03
Speaker 4: All kind of leaving. They just find the new shiny abject and keep you right there.

00:32:07
Speaker 1: Yeah, because they got to control you. They got to control you while they fuck around and that kind of gets them off too. They're like, oh, this is fun. He Johnny Jay is finding pleasure in torturing Shannon by dating Alexi. I was just gonna And if Alexis doesn't see that, that makes me sad for her.

00:32:23
Speaker 4: And she's like deft that she's sold on. Yes, we will get married one day. Well, you didn't win, Alexis winning. You're with this man that.

00:32:31
Speaker 5: And I feel like it's he still has Shannon on his mind, and that's he's hurting Shannon by dating her.

00:32:37
Speaker 3: That's that's his rocks off.

00:32:38
Speaker 2: These women are beautiful too, What is up with this?

00:32:42
Speaker 1: Well, that's why it's like the boy is mine? Jen saw no. Jen opens up about being victed, and Gina is the one who kind of vouched for her, saying she can take care of the rent.

00:32:59
Speaker 5: Question I want to ask you, is it her place to be saying that she was evicted when she was the one who said vouched?

00:33:08
Speaker 3: Do you think that's her place? What do you mean?

00:33:11
Speaker 1: What? I don't understand?

00:33:12
Speaker 3: What's her name? Got evicted? Jen? Jen got evicted? Right, I'm terrible with names.

00:33:18
Speaker 4: Gina.

00:33:18
Speaker 5: Gina was the one who got her the place and said she's I vouched her. So when she didn't pay rent, do you think it's Gina has the right to say to everybody else like, yeah, I fucking vouched for and she didn't even pay rent. Because I do, I feel like, yeah, I thought for you up to I can say whatever I want because it is now my vouch that got you here.

00:33:41
Speaker 1: Absolutely, And let me tell you, you're on a TV show together my love Jen. When she's like, it's no one's business. You signed up for this show. It is everyone's business. And whether it's fucked up or not, I don't know. But bottom line is you're getting evicted and you're talking about it about being evicted. Gina is talking about how she's working her ass off to support her family off of real estate, and she helped you get into that place, and you cost her fifteness.

00:34:09
Speaker 2: She allowed her to pass the Catta check and all that that being said, I do think Gina, and again I know this is episode two, but I think it could have been one hundred percent. You say that because you don't you're messing with Gina's business. You really screwed her over. But Gina coming at her, it was the one thing about like the take care of your kids. I was like, no, why did you have to say that. I didn't love that she brought the mom stuff into it. I just obviously Jen's going through some shit.

00:34:39
Speaker 1: I wish just going through she's going.

00:34:41
Speaker 2: She's going through like when she was crying to her dad and being like I needed you here, like you really helped me. She's living in a house that she's like, it's you know, the kids are getting used to living in a house that's not theirs.

00:34:52
Speaker 4: Like, I'm sure that's.

00:34:54
Speaker 1: Get it together. You're for your forty six, get it together.

00:34:57
Speaker 4: I just think coming after your parenting was that's.

00:35:00
Speaker 1: I don't know Joe's coming for the parenting, but get it the fuck together.

00:35:04
Speaker 4: Get it together for sure.

00:35:06
Speaker 3: What parenting is.

00:35:07
Speaker 5: Find your fucking kids a place to live that you're not getting evicted from. That to me is the parenting of it, Like be a parent, make sure you have a home for your kids. It wasn't coming at like a different angle in my opinion, it was make sure your kids have structure.

00:35:21
Speaker 3: What are you doing? Get him in a house that you can afford.

00:35:24
Speaker 1: I don't find it to be. It was not a productive conversation. Things got very heated. And Jen remains very level headed, and I will always give her credit for that. She's had two seasons so far that she has stayed on point. She's interesting, level headed Gina. I love because she's a straight shooter. She's from New York. She doesn't pull punches. She tells you like, I would trust that bitch with my life. This is giving a little bit of scrub behavior. You relied on your ex. Your dad is I guess somewhat wealthy because or has some money because he's helped you. And now you're moving into Ryan's home. But when asked what does Ryan do, he doesn't have a job. Well, that seems like you're now throwing your kids into another unstable situation. In your interview, you're saying, Pilates Studio only pays me fifty dollars a workout class. I suggest you get multiple. This is my most favorite fucking line. Weeds okay, And Nancy goes into her weed dealer U turn it's her new weed guy, and she's like, how am I supposed to pay my bills? You keep upping my debt And he bends down and goes get a fucking job. And that's now what I say to people when they're like, I don't get a fucking job. Yeah, I knows to tell you, right, like fifty dollars a week or fifty dollars a class, it seems like you have some time on your hands, right, does that do.

00:36:51
Speaker 5: Two classes a day or three? And also two hundred bucks a day. It's not the greatest, but that's a job.

00:36:58
Speaker 2: Because I heard I did read something that was like that said about her glam because it was the whole like I'm seeing her getting glam done.

00:37:06
Speaker 1: Yeah, it was so hard to watch.

00:37:08
Speaker 2: Yes, and people were like, well, you know, breaking the whatever wall her glam is for her job. Let's not forget this job is a TV show. But what's so great about this TV show is you can have a job and.

00:37:22
Speaker 4: They will film it.

00:37:23
Speaker 2: So it's like you can have a job and be on the show and like you know what I'm saying, they're mutually. It's not like you have to be like, well, the TV show is my job, so I have to not get another job. Does that make sense? You guys get what I'm saying.

00:37:36
Speaker 3: Whatever you start will be filmed.

00:37:38
Speaker 5: Yes, you can benefit what you have into creating something and having that film.

00:37:44
Speaker 4: Yes, like literally, you in the office in that boat. You can get a job and take advantage.

00:37:49
Speaker 1: Yeah, at forty six, I feel like you should have it together. And guess what, it's not just the glam. You've got hair extensions in you got a furry vest on with a Gucci bag. Like, at least walk in here looking like a homely bit. She looks like she's struggling. You know, now you're gonna walk in deck to the nines, full up in your range, drop and be like, I got a victim. This is screaming La.

00:38:11
Speaker 2: Sell the range Droverer, get a cook, get a camera, Toyota camera, get a col get a jeep, Jeep Patriot Basic Bottle twenty sixteen.

00:38:20
Speaker 3: I promise you and you can lay down the seats and sleep in it.

00:38:23
Speaker 4: Yes, you sure can.

00:38:24
Speaker 1: Yeah, no, never, I've never seen any scene more like California, O C. Los Angeles. It's it's what the public sees, what you go home to. No one's got to see that. Yeah, my dad said when he was doing a house in LA he was like, it was wild. I got picked up in a Rolls Royce by this guy. He had a rolllex on. He had wads of cash and he took me to his like one bedroom apartment.

00:38:53
Speaker 2: Is that house poor? No, that's when you have a giant house and like no furniture.

00:38:56
Speaker 3: That's something else that'll be me though.

00:38:58
Speaker 1: I don't know what it's called, but.

00:39:00
Speaker 4: I mean that's I mean, that's wild.

00:39:05
Speaker 1: Should we jump into Jersey, It's gonna be very quick. I'm you know what though, tell us where bitches are out here putting their lives out there and we respect it. So Joe cutting the tree, I died. I fucking died rhyming.

00:39:22
Speaker 5: Nothing goes as long as she did, as long as he didn't kill any of the living trees, and she goes.

00:39:29
Speaker 3: He didn't. All I saw was just living like some good ones up.

00:39:37
Speaker 1: How do you not kill the living tree? I know, Danielle, she kind of lost me. She's lost me a bit, you know. I there was the shove that happened between jen Aiden. Jennayden shoves Danielle. Danielle takes her glass. I mean it was plastic and busted on the side of jen Aiden's face. I was like, that was a little extreme, But I think if someone had pushed me that hard, an had insulted me over and over and sinuated I stole from a charity. You may get the one two you know.

00:40:18
Speaker 4: Don't touch me, Yeah, don't touch me.

00:40:21
Speaker 1: See that's that's why I feel like I've never been physical because no one's touched me before. But I think I'd get enraged.

00:40:26
Speaker 4: The second their hands are on. You don't touch me or my things.

00:40:29
Speaker 1: Yeah, So I was like very much into Danielle. Then they're at Teresa Judae's panel. She's doing like a live podcast, and she's she's like, Danielle's making comments to Jen Aiden, who's just sitting there being like, I can't believe the church Dan burned down with you in it or however she talks from New York and then on her way and Jen just sits there, and then on her way out, didn'iell walks out and she bends down and goes by the way, you look like shit, And I'm like, what was the point of this? You lost me?

00:41:12
Speaker 4: What are you doing?

00:41:13
Speaker 1: And she's talking to Fuda at the little playdate for the girls about this, and she's so proud of it, and I'm like, it's not something to be proud of.

00:41:21
Speaker 4: It's embarrassing.

00:41:22
Speaker 1: It's embarrassing, and it's also nothing to be proud of. That Like you talking about back in the day, how your dad watched you get into like a physical altercation and he was like, fuck.

00:41:32
Speaker 5: Yeah, it's good for you, and he goes and she goes. That's what sticks in your mind when you do something like that and your parents are behind you, It's like, oh, that's where you go to prison later in life.

00:41:42
Speaker 1: If I if I ever got into a physical altercation at school, okay, my mom would light me on fire. I would I'd be sent to boot camp. If I ever laid hands on anybody, my mom would have sheered disappointment. Yeah, what did I Where did I go wrong?

00:42:03
Speaker 2: Especially if it wasn't in defense, if they didn't lay their hands on you first. My dad always said if you get hit, hit back, but did not say hit first.

00:42:11
Speaker 1: My mama would be like, why was there hitting at all?

00:42:15
Speaker 5: Use your words and never after. If I had ever been in one, my dad wouldn't come up.

00:42:19
Speaker 1: And go never. My mom would be like, who are you hanging around that they think physical violence is okay? So I'm changing schools anyway. She's she's definitely lost me. Dolores remains the fucking boss bitch of Jersey. She can she will never ever be wrong. In my eyes, She's fucking bad ass. Okay, So she is talking to Fessler. Jen Fessler another like kind of boss bitch, and they're talking about like how the group is kind of fractured. They need to go away. You talk to Fuda because Fessler and Fuda are good friends, but they've had kind of, you know, a splitting of the friendship because there's so much toxicity within the group. And Fuda is like, how could my friend Jen Fesler go and talk to Teresa Judas when Judas has spoken so poorly about my husband and accused him of being a drug dealer. I don't think it's that big of a deal, Like have you heard of the Godfather?

00:43:31
Speaker 4: Especially in Jersey.

00:43:34
Speaker 1: Shit happens. So Fessler and Fuda finally sit down, and I think as they're talking, this has to do with like emotional intelligence, and you can just tell Fessler has way more emotional intelligence than Fuda. This is not an insult. This is just something that I believe comes with age, where you can tell what Fuda is saying to Fessler. Fessler's like, I want to, but I don't think she's fully capable of understanding where I'm coming from again, not an insult. I truly believe that comes with age. Yeah, and they finally get to a good place, which I think is really sweet because it's kind of like big Sis, little Sis. And to see how Fuda just seemed like so lost when Fessler was talking to Teresa. Even though I felt like Jen Fessler was always having food as back, it didn't matter like she could not hear what Fessler was saying. It was like, you talk to Teresa, I don't care that you defended me. Just leave my name out of your mouth when you're talking to her. So it was sweet to see them kind of get back on good terms. I guess, Yeah, they are going to all go on a trip, all of them.

00:44:48
Speaker 4: How do we feel?

00:44:49
Speaker 1: What I've heard is there is no reunion. We've been hearing talks that there's like an alternative reunion.

00:44:56
Speaker 4: So you think this trip is going to be a shit show.

00:44:58
Speaker 1: I think it might be a shit show.

00:45:00
Speaker 3: But don't you have a reunion?

00:45:02
Speaker 2: No, there is a reunion, right, there's just like a different style, like I would like a parallel.

00:45:10
Speaker 3: I don't know.

00:45:10
Speaker 5: I feel like I don't think it's going to see what makes the season kind of come together with everybody talking about it, So it's gonna be weird.

00:45:18
Speaker 1: You can't come together with two groups of women who hate each other.

00:45:22
Speaker 2: You don't think they're filmed like side by, like parallel, two different.

00:45:27
Speaker 3: I don't know that.

00:45:29
Speaker 1: I think they're naming it an alternative alternate reunion just to like keep in the spirits of housewives and like what we've been doing for you know, over a hundred seasons of Housewives. But it's just too toxic. So I think that this. I know that Teresa and Melissa come to blows at the finale. I do know that there's just so much that's happening where it's like life changing. You know, you've got like the legal system involved, things that are hard to shake off. And Dolores thinks that this trip now is going to really help the group kind of heal. She says, sometimes you fake it until you make it. That's how I was able to co parent with Frank Senior. Is you pretend and then all of a sudden you kind of trick your mind. And I kind of agree with that. There are chicks who I don't dig where I pretend to, like give a shit about them and like kind of laugh and I'm like, I'm kind of having fun.

00:46:32
Speaker 2: And you said it before with confidence. You were like, I wasn't confident and I faked it and then I became confident.

00:46:37
Speaker 1: Yeah, you can trick your brain. Your brain is not that smart.

00:46:39
Speaker 2: Yeah, trick your brain.

00:46:44
Speaker 1: Trick your brain. There's many compartments in the brain.

00:46:48
Speaker 4: I'm all about faking until you make it fake.

00:46:50
Speaker 1: The left brain fakes the right brain out.

00:46:53
Speaker 4: Well, it's the whole thing.

00:46:54
Speaker 2: Get up and smile even if you feel miserable, and if you smile long enough, you start to.

00:46:57
Speaker 1: Be happy, or you turn into the.

00:46:59
Speaker 4: Joker, turn to the psychopath.

00:47:01
Speaker 1: Yeah, exactly. Let's jump into our aches and reliefs of the week.

00:47:06
Speaker 4: Egges and reliefs.

00:47:08
Speaker 1: Of the week. Jess, you want to start us off and relief?

00:47:11
Speaker 4: Yes, you, guys. I and my ache and relief isn't one.

00:47:16
Speaker 2: So I will address the Kyle stuff, nor probably, but do me No, I think I'm fine.

00:47:27
Speaker 1: Would you like give her something?

00:47:30
Speaker 4: I'll use my sleep.

00:47:32
Speaker 2: No, So, Kyle and I thank you. I love you though, thank you. Okay, I'll start it off on a light note. This past weekend, I helped Kyle set up his dating profile.

00:47:48
Speaker 4: So you guys know we're on good terms.

00:47:51
Speaker 2: Kyle and I split back in April, and it was.

00:47:59
Speaker 4: I don't know why, It's like, okay, I'm taking a breath.

00:48:02
Speaker 2: Kyle and I split back in April, and it was me who called off the engagement. We you know, came to a point where Kyle's always been consistent. Kyle's always known what he wanted, and I, you know, started my viewpoint on a lot of things started changing. And you know, we are like we were and are I consider best like truly best friends. He's the most incredible soul, truly the most incredible man, And there were just conversations that had to be had after we got engaged, and you know, we just realized, like my I was starting to have different viewpoints. He always, like I said, remained consistent. We always had a plan for our life and where it was going to go. And my I, my mind changed and I like, I don't know if it's evolved or it just I was growing in a different direction.

00:49:04
Speaker 4: So I called off the engagement.

00:49:07
Speaker 2: It was, you know, really difficult at first, and it still is, but we are in I think a good place we are. We just respect each other. There wasn't something specific that happened. It was really just tough conversations that had to be had. And like I said, we had a plan, Like he moved to LA with me in twenty twenty. We like packed at the U haul and our dog and moved here. And his mindset he wasn't going to move to LA. He was probably going to stay in Nashville. And his mindset was like are we doing this? Are we forever partners? And my response was like yes, And he moved to LA and with me, and then you know, I had I mean.

00:49:47
Speaker 4: It wasn't like this past year.

00:49:49
Speaker 2: I think We've been having some deep conversations on our different viewpoints for a while and I think that you know, we got as soon as we got engaged, I was like, Okay, we really need to deep into these conversations. So all of that to say, we are not together anymore. And Kyle's I will say this, he is literally the greatest, one of the greatest humans I've ever Oh.

00:50:17
Speaker 1: It's okay, Jess.

00:50:20
Speaker 2: He's literally one of the best people I've ever truly met in my life. Like he is, like you don't find them like him. He's like consistent, he's kind, he's like knows what he wants.

00:50:33
Speaker 4: He's a go getter. He he's like stable. And I won't get like.

00:50:39
Speaker 2: Too much into it, but in every aspect of life where I feel like you find a lot of men who are like, yeah, they're kind, but maybe they're not like mentally stable or whatever. He's a really a really fantastic person. And whoever he like, he's just like he's ready to get married, he's ready to have a kid. And whoever is like the lucky one who gets to be with him forever and who gets to be like his partner.

00:51:07
Speaker 4: And his like his wife and like the mother of his.

00:51:11
Speaker 2: Child is going to be the most lucky human ever, Like she's going to be. She's going to be very, very lucky. He's an incredible person. So all of this to say, we really respect each other.

00:51:27
Speaker 4: He's on Hinge.

00:51:28
Speaker 2: Ladies, so definitely swipe because he did like this past weekend. Again, it's been a while, but this past it's been since April.

00:51:37
Speaker 4: This past weekend, he showed me his profile and I was like.

00:51:40
Speaker 2: Kyle, no, what is this photo?

00:51:45
Speaker 4: And I was like, what is this?

00:51:47
Speaker 2: Prompt Like the things so we overhauled this profile because I'm like, this isn't you and you seem like a little weird now, So we changed his photo and I was like, this is better.

00:51:58
Speaker 4: He's just the greatest. He's like fantastic.

00:52:04
Speaker 2: Well, I mean, you know, it was like, you know, so I thank you. He's so yeah, we did that. We overhauled this dating profile. And like I said, I don't know sort of where our our lives are going to go separately, but I think and I pray and hope forever, like you know, we just stay good friends.

00:52:28
Speaker 4: He's he's one of a kind.

00:52:32
Speaker 1: I think you will say I think so too.

00:52:34
Speaker 3: Yeah.

00:52:34
Speaker 4: So yeah, so he is. There's my ache and relief. Thank you guys.

00:52:39
Speaker 2: Everyone who's like DMed me has been very sweet and been like I feel like something's off, like we just want to know because we love you, and like I thought it was fair. I talked about him all the time we got engaged. Everyone is congrats, and then all of a sudden, like I stopped and it was quiet.

00:52:53
Speaker 4: So thanks for being patient.

00:52:56
Speaker 2: And these two and like my LA family, Lisa, they've been just like so supportive and great and Lala's entire team, like her agent and just everyone's been I've I've had so much support and it's been really beautiful and and we're moving along and everything's good.

00:53:16
Speaker 4: I feel good.

00:53:17
Speaker 1: Yeah, there we go.

00:53:18
Speaker 4: Thank you guys for giving me that time, of course. Okay, I love you both.

00:53:23
Speaker 1: And you're also a prize and whoever ends up with you is going to be extremely lucky. And I think the way that you handled things was just a testament to how much you respect the relationship that you have and had because a lot of people, you know, they start going off the rails, and you know, you didn't. You You had the tough conversations, and I think you should be really proud of yourself, both of you.

00:53:51
Speaker 5: Yes, not a lot of exes would be doing their profile that we're thrilled about.

00:53:57
Speaker 1: How weird that would be. You've been in a relationship for seven eight years and now you're like back in the zone and you're like, I don't know what to put.

00:54:06
Speaker 4: I'm like, Kyle, that is a LinkedIn, So you need something cool?

00:54:13
Speaker 3: Business?

00:54:15
Speaker 4: Is that.

00:54:17
Speaker 3: All right? Taking relief my ache? We're coming in on like the winter, you know, the fall, and I have e no is this no, I've had it forever and like.

00:54:31
Speaker 5: It's not like like it doesn't what is it?

00:54:34
Speaker 3: It's not prominent?

00:54:36
Speaker 4: Oh, like you can't see it?

00:54:38
Speaker 3: Is the word. So I have it usually.

00:54:40
Speaker 5: Visible, yeah, because it is, and they usually get it in like the fall and winter.

00:54:48
Speaker 3: So I'm getting it here. I'm getting it on the back of my.

00:54:51
Speaker 5: Leg and then a little on my ear because I have it. So my ache is it's getting dry. I am looking. So yeah, that's my ache.

00:55:01
Speaker 3: And I have.

00:55:02
Speaker 1: Hella Ezma cream because I have a baby that has exma.

00:55:05
Speaker 3: You've got you covered. Yeah, So that's my thing.

00:55:08
Speaker 4: I'm just okay.

00:55:10
Speaker 3: And then my relief is going to Utah.

00:55:13
Speaker 1: Oh yeah, we go to Utah this we.

00:55:14
Speaker 3: Gotta see some friends and family. We're gonna do some fun things.

00:55:18
Speaker 4: So is Lisa so excited?

00:55:20
Speaker 1: We're all really excited. Yeah.

00:55:21
Speaker 3: So that's my relief, quick and easy.

00:55:23
Speaker 1: I'm gonna second. That is my relief. I have not been back to Utah in years. I can't wait to take my baby. We're going to stay in Park City and we're going to rote We're gonna make s'mores.

00:55:35
Speaker 4: I love it.

00:55:36
Speaker 1: I'm gonna take her on. My older brother said, I'll take ocean on the alpine slide. She's gonna have the best time to.

00:55:42
Speaker 4: An alpine slide. It's just a slide.

00:55:45
Speaker 1: Let you ride like these little.

00:55:46
Speaker 5: Cars the plastics like half circle and then you get in a car and then you push forward to go fast.

00:55:52
Speaker 3: So it's like you just go down like a roller coaster. But the you're in charge of your right be fun.

00:55:58
Speaker 1: Okay, so we're gonna do all of those fun things. My ache is I was having a little party add to my house over the weekend, and I walked this little kid up the stairs to show him the playroom, and all of this sudden, like my arms and legs whetnam and I could not breathe, and I took everything in me to not pass out and just make it to my bed, and I was trying to yell for my mom, but again I was really struggling, and I was very very concerned.

00:56:32
Speaker 4: Ah lot. I know this is an emotional.

00:56:42
Speaker 8: So I'm gonna see my obie this week, but it was really terrifying. Yeah, I don't know what happened. I've heard that she could be sitting weird, but I felt this like overwhelming amount of guilt. It's because I've been complaining a lot about my just like aching.

00:57:07
Speaker 1: And just wanting it to be done.

00:57:09
Speaker 5: You may complain and things like that, but you know how blessed you are to be in the position you're in, and that's that's all that matters, is you.

00:57:16
Speaker 4: Know, that's not how the universe.

00:57:17
Speaker 5: Yes, if you didn't know when you were selfish and didn't care about the people who really struggle to get pregnant, yes it would be something. But for you to know that, and you to have the right mental and for your higher power to know where you're coming from. This isn't This isn't you having to deal with it because of your complaint. This isn't that pregnancy is uncomfortable.

00:57:38
Speaker 1: Yeah, yes one is.

00:57:39
Speaker 5: But I don't want you to ever think that you've complained or complained too much because you have not.

00:57:43
Speaker 2: And also even if you have here and there, Yeah, pregnancy is uncomfortable. People complain. It's all relative. You can't, you know, be like, oh, I complain, but people can't get pregnant. Yeah, it's all relative. It's your experience.

00:57:55
Speaker 1: Yes, Well, thank you for saying that. And my mom got my be on the phone and he was telling her just like I positioned myself in a different way, and all this sudden I could breathe. He was like, I do want to see you next week. I want to check your levels. But he was He said to me, is baby moving? And like she was definitely active, like she hadn't I said, she hasn't stopped moving. He was like, okay, I'm less concerned now. He was like, this does He said, it's such a different pregnancy than your first, and I think that's what you're basing it on. But I want you to remember that baby we were really worried about. Even though you felt good, we were really worried about what was going on with baby. This seems to be you know you're gonna have a larger baby. And I was like, fuck, I mean brave, but fuck you knew this. You knew this, We knew this, and she could be positioned weird. He was like, I really need you to start staying off your feet, like don't overdo it during the day, which I have been and I think I've been overdoing it since second trimester.

00:59:04
Speaker 4: Being on your feet and being.

00:59:06
Speaker 1: Just acting like I'm not pregnant a pregnant person and being like I'm so tired all the time, and I don't know why, and it's just different.

00:59:14
Speaker 2: Yeah, can you tell us how you're feeling right now? Though I did it go away quickly? Are you feeling a little better?

00:59:20
Speaker 4: Has it come back? Just so people who hear that's.

00:59:23
Speaker 1: Might now I feel okay. I still do that thing where like walking from the car to the building, it feels like I did a burnout. It feels like I did a bunch of squats and then started walking. So I'm I'm not great on my feet right now. Walking upstairs is like I have to sit down. I just don't have a lot of energy.

00:59:44
Speaker 5: Is it because this baby moves so much as well? Does that take energy? I have no idea how pregnancy works.

00:59:49
Speaker 1: I don't either.

00:59:50
Speaker 5: If he's kicking and moving, is that taking energy from you? And which is great? I know it's shitty yet you don't have energy. But if he's kicking, move in doing.

00:59:58
Speaker 3: A whole bunch of aerobics.

00:59:59
Speaker 1: In there, she's definitely active. I think it would be more from your I don't think the movement would take away from it. I think her positioning would though, because I feel her in my rib cage. She's just she's in there making herself write it home. Wow, that was a fun podcast that I stopped during your ache and relief. You guys, thank you so much for listening to another episode. It was very fun to get back to the Bravo roots. I hope you have a happy hump Day and I'll catch you next week