BIG FACTS FRIDAY- BOOTY CALL

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Speaker 1: Big and DJ Scream bring you Big Facts this podcast in the streets. Visit the new website your Day www dot Big Facts pod dot com. Line for first class house is DJ Scream Big Bank, Baby Jay, call that duct tape, Dave, Big Jones over Jones in the cup up. It's going down, Big Facts, Big Friday's Big Facts Fridays. Come on, shot joined the party, Big Facts Fridays. Hot my Mike, you can leave me talking about wellness, show the wellness check. Everybody good? So that hungry man younger? Yeah, we all are. Yeah, you know count you're cool with he code that no man code. That being the gym every morning. I need to tell me he's seen. Yeah the work now said you being everyone there? You got me doing some push up in the moment. He's doing hard. Oh you'll be working together, Ain't that in the morning. Don't gosh my hair, y'all look get into this ship because these definitions are going to make out stuff. No food should. We gotta make do with what we got. I don't start myself to me too. Word of the day. The word of the Dame is lust. So the textbook Saltine definition of lust is it has four meanings according to this, an intense sexual desire or appetite, uncontrolled or illicit sexual desire or appetite, a passionate or overmastering desire or craving, usually followed by for lust or power, ardent, enthusiasm, zest, or relish. In the verb format, it's to have intense sexual desire, to have a yearning or desire, or to have a strong or excessive craving for sexual things. Man, Now, when you get to the urban definition is the feeling you get when you see someone and all you want to do is fuck the ship out of them. That's the most urban is that sounds up right, That sounds it up And I usually don't agree with the urban break what they lead to the topic negros anybody. So basically the topic is what we're trying to figure out. The ship close down on me. If it's three am, O those booty call ours automatically booty car, no, no, no, whatever. The question is just pulling up at booty call hours always mean that it's a booty call or do you pull up at three am just a chill? If a woman pull up at three am just to chill with you, she just got done getting beat that's that's cat. That's cat. That's cat on. That's not that's extreme. That's extreme. You that's a call man. And she just got by somebody else and she pulled up on you. That's crazy. Pull up with chill, you know, getting she wants to chill after she just got beat out. And then whoever beat her out didn't do a good job of beating. That's extreme. Yeah. Yeah, you're dead to the world till tomorrow. That's depends on It depends on the ship that y'all have. No, it depends on the relationship with y'all. Hell at three am, because if you if you, if you wanted my look that I funk with you called me just like I want to come late with you. Come on, we gotta fun. What are you talking about, y'all? Say? Is it always booty? Call it three am? That's a topic, right, Is it always a bootycol But call it three am? Somebody you ain't never hit before? I say, it ends on the relationship. Oh yeah, but if you don't hit them before, and then that's what But if I a never sucked you three am? They're talking about friend zone. I want to come really watch a movie Oh no, yeah, that's what that's what we're talking. I don't go away how long? Let me play Devil's advocate. No, because sometimes as girls, sometimes you just want to smoke. So it's like if you like even be smoking my ship right or midnight m not two am, not one am, not twelve ye really after the sun that sun. Some girls when they leave the club, but they want me or whatever, and then they're just like, oh, we may pull up on some and so house like weed or whatever to smoke my ship, right, that's my home girl ship. That could happen, so we could be spot. Yeah, don't pull up the house three blood. Yeah, y'all. It's a mutual thing. Even like that pulling up on somebody at three in the morning, A small We don't make your morning, yea. I mean not like no, I mean I'll smoke all day. But now if they leave in the club and were already up smoking that, I'm just saying, like these smoking niggas spot by the night, I pull up smoke. If it's a spot full of niggas, Okay, yeah, I can see that possitive that ship differently, one nobody pulling up at three in the morning. One on one like exactly, Hey, let's but let's watch Netflix. Bitch, you couldn't watch. But if I'm already been hitting you, we already got what we got going on call be like I'm here at home. I'm like, no, I pull up a bill. We ain't got a fun. Yeah, definitely that's fair because my ship probably didn't go through it already tried, so you don't really boy, So pull up man, I didn't do you magic Johnson ship. I was about to say the wrong then wake up in the morning got them sucky, sucky, relaxed. So what So what happens? What happens when are you still watching? Was still watching? What happens when they arrive and you got one thing on your mind and they got something else on their mind. Y'all would never know. Y'all would never know. Y'all would never know what you wouldn't know what was on somebody else's mind, like some ship like that. Like if I'm pull up at your house at three o'clock, the fun we're gonna I'm gonna tell you, like I'm here to funk. Let's get in because let's say, let's say y'all want to send a text message if you call me to me one women like stop it gets rubber because I ain't got a ship. So I'm gonna let you know what. I'm only for you even yeah, I get some rubbing some blunts and said what would need that for the number? She turned around to be like, I ain't really want to do that with hey baby, I'm gonna lay down. Yeah, I catch you to miro down. I don't want to hear you calling me. Got one kind of person out of the state everything that I'm That's what I'm saying. Yeah, you called me for a three o'clock you crazy. I want to show them crown let you know what them shoulder you know what them shoulders turned up? Yeah, crown around and I always shouted a cry on turns into what you know that? So what's the latest? What's the latest? What's what's what's what's the latest? And they gotta be three am? I say, and I'm being extra after the sun go down, it's going down, but three am, two am, because what's the latest, what's what? It ain't no time, it ain't that. Don't come to my house at night. That's what I'm just saying. When the sound go down it's going down. Freaks come out of that night when the sun go down, go down for freaks, come out that night. What you talking about that? Wait till the morning? Yeah, you're saying talk called me, call what are they coming for them? She come over your house late night and don't fuck you. She gonna to go to Uprint. He like, ain't really don't fund somebody else. They don't fund somebody else. He didn't even try me, right, He's definite. That's my friend. I don't I don't smoke up all this way. You leave and go for somebody else. That's what I'm That's that's what I'm saying. What I'm saying that puts all back. And look, you know, soon you walk into you're looking good. He's grabbing the ass from then you like then you know like nothing, but tell you what you start doing that you gotta come down hard swamming with the jericy si. That tell us what happened. The shot. So the jericy skip was he was he was playing like a dude like you know, you at the party and it's always one one of two niggas that all like, bro, let's take a shot. He did. Bitches take a shot. Take a shot. Take your shot, but he's really just trying to get the whole is drunk. Every time he got, damn pot the shot they got, damn got three times looking they shot that, they got. He coportunity he got throughout the party, he tried to get home. So that's what they was going in what I'm saying here. On some other ship, he's like he's like a predator. Now they were saying he was promoting rape coaching, but that wasn't that's the same ship. But with somebody like the one guy that we had. Um, Yeah, he trying to listen her. I guess they I don't like that drunk head puts it up definitely, though you know you gotta give, you gotta get it depends because it's it's different kinds of drunk pussy wool, drunk puss like I'm over pointing, oh drinking, like she too drunk. Yeah, that's gonna drunk. But even that, that's like you're just looking for the vibe, man, Yeah, because yeah, I want you to already be rid it, man, because on the other on the other end of that, you don't want the niggas in the party to start drinking on liquor. They're gonna be on some on some extra ship. Now, ain't even no party. I'm trying to say what they're trying to say. He was wrong for saying that. Yeah, they tried. They were saying that he was promoting rape Coach because the whole video he had it was like two girls there and he's sitting there like and then he was, oh, yeah they're going, and he oh you're going. Now, like he go, you know, trying to get her loose, like diff go to the back room with them. Basically they're about to be going for real. Yeah, you know how he got the party and it's always like one of two dudes that's always around the girls trying to get them more drunk than everybody else, being creeps. Ship. That's basically all his year to break It was like it was like a skit. Yeah, it was the same way. It was mad because niggas, But niggas got mad because it was bringing awareness to the ship that they'd be done. But now it was the same ship he was doing. Two weeks ago. He was talking about how lot niggas be like be overdoing it on drugs and ship. You know, how like he was saying we're going to be going to sleep on live or whatever because it'll be on so many drugs. Ship isn't the same. He'd be talking about real ship that be happening. He just bringing awareness and ship that's currently before. Yeah, but that ship was really though, like his niggas really do be like that, but they don't see it as them being like creepy. That's saying like just always looking for a reason to hate on a craft. That's the way I look at it. Yeah, the other day, nigger, this ship going on every day. Everybody who get a bit whatever, you're trying to lessen her. Here you go, baby, whatever you don't want to drunk, you want the smoke that just high go Yeah, but you ain't ain't staying up and they got them pulled down. Your throw the poll. You know that nigga's just gonna do that, like what you like? I got actually, and a nigga's mind being, I'm not trying to convince you of ship. What do you like? I have been here up and then no matter what it is, and women, if a guy don't even offer that we were like that, ain't even lock him. It's really that between the nigga being hospitable and him being a creep because there ain't nothing a lie between the hospital and creep. Creep is very out there creep creep. There was no can were pushing pe you come in, baby's are aggressive? Creep hospitable? Come out of video. So in the video it being a creep. Yeah, like a little bit. Yeah, man, man, the creek was the nigga was like, yeah, going out himself that the creek. Yeah, yeah, com yes, you know. I don't think he said I advocate this show. Really he really saying out loud what a nigga thinking in their mind. But now I was looking at it. I saw the video on Instagram first and not looking at him commenting on people' ship like he was like, yeah, bro, niggas really be like this. Like it wasn't him saying this is okay. It was saying this is that niggas really beat Yeah, this is just reality show. I ain't creek your creek one who was saying did you feel like he hit okay? So let me ask you this then star back to the question. So if you do come over at booty call hours and no booty call occurs, are you upset? That you wasted your time? Can you kick her out? Yeah? What you mean? Can you kick her out? We can kick her out. You can kick anybody out of your house. She come over, and then she like, oh, I got a story. But if you but if you, if you got a story, you never ain't never pressing, like, yeah, for sure, some people are never sleep in the room or something. No, I got that sound about right now. I got a story. Really happened. So back when I was working at my old rail job, this chip, it was like one o'clock in the morning, ain't come over, So you want to come morning here? I think you should aout to go down. So got that. She answered the door and laundry and I'll never forget this ship. Do the ash grad from the door there, So we're kicking it in bed. She get on top, kissing the niggers. Do next? She hop off and got that rollover. Start going to sleep, keep trying, trying, trying, real problem, Yeah with you do something big like someone run bottom. This is not working. I left this, I left. I left. What you're gonna do it wouldn't need no conversation, It wouldn't. It wasn't no conversation. Yeah, yeah, I am. It's realized. She's just big years ago, like embarrassing facts. This is years ago. Okay, this should not happening now. You like, yeah, no, no, no, it wasn't a ghost nig ghosted her. No, she's all right. So she let me tell you how because I've seen her at fringe. I've seen her at a house party. I've seen her at house party your family, James, what No, she nike t story. So I see it that at the house sounds like some bush I've seen at the house party a few a few years after that ship and she saw me starting started laughing, bat Man. She saw me. She was like, what's up? And I was like, I remember what you did? Don't talk to me. So she was like, you didn't do that, that's remember what you What reason do I have to lie? We're not saying story because you came on up. You came with us smelling like chicken girl, like I promise you mixed stuff in the bowl. It don't even matter because you ain't feel to say you ever smash. It don't matter to stop playing the right. The fact that over on you something's wrong with you. Why I got so I got to be caught and why can't be something wrong with you still hit? If she would to let you hit you you're still hit right now? Yeah, maybe she's just crazy. Ship, nor what it mean? It wasn't mean it wasn't just say that you said she didn't feeling that poker. It was the poker was out, but she didn't feel it. Sometimes as girls are like, we don't I mean like it's small. If we don't feel supposed to be, you'll find a reason to escape. Go man, Ship, Well after the fact, she's not by the waste of my time, Well after after after the fact she was talking to me, I wasn't talking to her. So Ship, you know right, so you want after you? Yeah one only one of us is blocked on Instagram. Yeah you're a girl, so so so for the nicks of a girl come over there acting like you want to with you jack off and then put out do that while she write a perfect hey you on the way, get out. When you find this thinking been like this is the whole twenty years out of thinking. Man, it used to be worse, believe it or not. Oh my goodness, she might feel like I don't really want to do it, Like on first night, like cool, don't come into a clockney, you know that should that should have pissed me off, Like if I called the nick off to my house the fuck and we didn't. I'm like in my mind like I'm already like ready to fuck and like it's gonna go down, and I'm imagining all the different ways it's going to go down, and all of that ship and this ni gets off here, nothing happens like might make me nut up, Like for Rever just to come over. Sometimes you need to know that the nuts ain't right. Like I really take a shower. I really need to take a shot. I just asked, like a shot, Like we'll be here for like something. What are you gonna do? What I want to because some of the girls girls like you're twing, like you go back. Oh yeah, that's already lying on the bed when you came. Yeah, I can't get in bed without taking a shower. Yeah, I'll be like I can't get in my own. Bid, I'm definitely getting somebody else. Bid. Man, we don't want to hear that because oh girl, all off on you? So what kind of shoes paint I forgot? He remembers up some ship I ain't gonna do it like that. You put a couple of hunt them dressed. Na what I'm saying, No, she turned over, it was over. Man, He's sure because sometimes girls do the roll over and they want you to come cut behind you, ky, No, I ain't do that. Now. That's your risky, bro, risk put in risky because I'm a nigger that need like we need to both be ready for this ship. Essensual, Yeah, exactly got you got that she rolled over, you got to get behind said no, no, no no, I'm saying no, no, no, no, no no no no no no no no no no no no no. I ain't the only one guy. When I just said, I said, I need that mother to be I don't want the goddamn putting the moves in for it. We both need to be put pushing for this ship to happen. Now I put moves in, I ain't putting a moves in. I feel like you're gonna I'm gonna put that on your back. Come laying down too slow, trying to run like laying behind, get ended up in the rubbing, rubbing your leg and ship first. I'm saying that, no close. Just when she rolled, when she rolled up you got she was facing that way. I faced that way, and I started calling you and your feeling, using your feelings, guy, in your feeling. You see what's up with that puss that called me over here? If he called that girl right now, she was different stories. Look at my block. She would tell a different story. She would tell a different story. She rolled over said, Okay, how did she get off? You know? Really what what I blocked her for was was the incident that happened afterwards, like she at the party, because when I didn't want to talk to her, then she started getting like loud and ship what she said. That's why I true what she said. No, it wasn't know, it wasn't on that because I don't. I don't break up past incidents. But she got loud what she's saying. She was like, oh this nigga, I ain't She was starting No, no, you know, educated would be listening tore. This was when the nigga curving. So she's like, what I got all this? She going for me? How sad? You said? Educated bitches list their credentials. Yes, but she jumped off of the top of you. But but no, no, no, but that was that was But at the party. Nigga didn't want to talk to her the party party that got the first kill, like she got the first well, I got the second kill. I apparently wanted. I can only count, but I didn't. It was no bo. Why did she start going off because I didn't want to talk to her? Then she's got oh you are punk as you got funny fat? Okay? Then she got you gotting funny because it wasn't. I don't even know what she brought up all that ship because I'll be tuning that because it's other bitches there. Why would I saw she approached you after she killed your face? That doesn't make sense. Kill who in front of who? That ship didn't happen. That sounds that didn't happen. No, that ship that stween that ship between me and you? How do you embarrassing me? Don't nobody, don't nobody else know that should happened, but us bro, you should be internally embarrassed. Yeah, man, man, that six years we all have that should have last six years ago. I'm up now, God listening, homies and nobody else. Big fact. So the more booty call after the sun goes down is going down. Facts and it depends on I think it's like at least like after one two the so mother coming to the twelve to kill? What time? What's the different twelve and one? You know, I'm just saying, like it shoots, maybe like Joe you shooting, Yeah, night shift, it shoots. They how that ship. But I mean that's it really all depends because it depends on how you call, because you can call it two o'clock in the day and what's happening. She just said, I personally don't like the ain't gonna be the same in the middle of the day. The expectation might be I'm coming to brain for some other ship. Like the expectation ain't gonna be the same as at night. I mean some people call during the day like what you're going, yeah, coming from if it's understood. But I'm saying the expert listen if your phone you know, if you're Nigga Dick Sucker, know that if I'm calling you, whenever i'm calling you, I'm calling for that right whatever. It is not all I'm saying. You know, I'm not calling to say let's go to the movies. You know I called you say what you're doing in me? Can we fuck. You know what I'm saying? Where you are you close enough to just if you just if you just met a female. The phone ringing at two pm gonna look different than ringing at two am. Oh yeah, two pm. You ain't got no expectations a ship. Yeah, facts don't be different facts facts, Yeah, but it is. Yeah, definitely you ever missed him? To BEM might be God damn, two pm, might be sending it up for two am, like you definitely to PM, might tom might be the temperature check. Yeah, to BEM, like, let's go get some food. I don't want you doing later because I gotta go home. Bid you know you gotta like you gotta even he got you to do? Yeah, you can't be Yeah, you gotta sam. Yeah, come back and later. Definitely you can't call back. Yeah you ready pull up? All she said she gotta work and then she says she get off into hit when you get off. Yeah, she hit you. He's up, especially if what we're talking about this ship. The keyword was lust, that was blush. That's all up now. But the question is is a automatically booty call out right? The answer absolutely is yes, Are you change your ship? You said at a house different but at my personal crib. I agree, I had the spot, but I know some thoughts that have gotten in the spot. That's in the spots. New podcasts coming soon, man, that's in the spots right there down the spot looking like looking like looking like got o tables and nice ship. Yeah so in the beds are nice? She was like an Airbnb or ain't ship very inviting? You think you think when you when you when you first meet the motherfucker no matter if it wasn't just like a meat like I might not meet you on a relationshipship, like I'm a sucker on a fuck him. Do you know what y'all? That's a lot that happens a lot when you first meet somebody. Do you trying to know your head like yeah, yeah, yeah, I don't see it taking me like damn making for a good relationship now, trying to beat I know what I'm saying, Like even if it could be like some friendship ship like but you just see like we kind of guy something and I'm sucking up yeah the real Yeah you could be yet damn comtable. I mean if we never do it, but you just know, like I mean, yeah, it's a strong possibility. Possibly possibly, you know, shut up, you look at them. I'm just saying, like, you come around the nigga, you know if you attracted to the person. So that's the same thing. Nature you look at somebody, you know, if you're attracted. That's what I'm saying. That's the same thing. So if you give your infront to a nigga, like in public, you already is that in the back of your mind. Damn, I might suck this nigga. Yes, that's question. Everybody say that. I said, that's my main approach, Like when I see it, like unless unless you do something to turn y'all offer. But you got bit you there to say that. Let you know they want to suck you to like I gotta staff around you. We can't be in a closed area they let you know, like cool but key rord, Like yeah, but you smell two good to day. I got that around you. You want to you're taxing, you're making me do stuff? Yeah, like and drop him. Yeah, yeah, you know what I'm saying. Yeah, you see what I'm saying. Yeah, that's that indirect like you know, just checking your but yeah, but you can't say I tried you. Yeah, that's just let you know that, don't open for you to try me. Yeah, up, and then after enough back and forth, Okay, how are we gonna do this? Ship? Exactly right? She might do it right there in the car. Okay. So so let me ask you it is now that you said like something about the car. So I'm about to ask you all a question. What's better like the traditional bed sex or the spontaneous section different places. It's the person, depend on the person, because you can get some good heads some car head like okay, is it is it better to have or would you rather have like traditional bed sex? Or would you like to go fucking the park after dark or on the balcony on the side of the high way like it depends on with the movie we're leaving the club or something. I just can't wait to you know, how you might pull up on the in the west night time. I was like something like we broke down. Come on, you might be on the now. You might be on a date like on the pitchnicle. So y'all, it's up. We used to ben stop Yeah, I mean situation the background of the movie. I prefer to bed though. I'll back though, but if we have a half have had like we gotta go, we gotta go. Pull over. But it's not even about going. It's about you can even plan to do some spontaneous ship like na. When you're planning to do spontaneous, it won't be the same. It got way then I gotta follow the GPS day I'm already warned it. I might hit the ship down. I were leaving being live, got them the day and take she oh, but she still don't get on them. I had to pull over. She won't it now? I can I do? She won't it now? She didn't drinking that guy there daily. I feel good, we're smelling good. Maybe we're looking younger. And you know what I'm saying. Yeah, she let the seat down. And are you naked in the truth? You never know? We couldn't. We couldn't make it to that. I don't wait. Yeah, situation this situational, man. Okay, So do you think it also outside of the situations? You think it depends on the person. Yeah, you think you should be reattracted to a person. What's you mean like savings? And if you funk with somebody and then you just lose it from him, do you think you could get that back. Yeah, So why I lose it in the first place? Are you saying like physical? Because I think you could be, like, we're attracted to someone person, you know, I think I think it's I think it's possible for you to be reattracted to that person. But whatever made, whatever happens to initially make you lose that attraction is always gonna be in the back of your mind. So no, I mean it's possible to get back. That's all I'm just gonna keep asking question. Do you think attraction is more physical and metical? Nothing? Nothing? Physical? What you think holds it the longest? For show men? Because a lot of people be bad, as mother would be stupid. You can't froll in love. Nobody's stupid because I don't give a funk how good you look. If my mind ain't in it, or if I don't look at you like that, I can't fuck you, like I can't even get in a mood to get right to be able to fuck you, like if my mind ain't there or if I'm not like I don't necessarily want to say in love, but like, if it's not some kind of something there, like I don't even want to touch and it's not even like when you say mental, it's not even all the way ir Q every time, because like sometimes you can follow, you can fall love somebody ambition, like damn, you want to do a lot. I like that ship. You got plans for life and ship, but the mother that ain't got plans for ship like damn, but you just want to exist in its motherucker And the motivation yeah, like yeah, exactly dry in the motivation yea kid didn't dry like motivating yeah, Like, but when somebody is not motivated to do ship, they ain't got no plans. Hell no. But if you bad can't get you can get hit. But its far as you gonna go exactly exactly ain't gonna go far. The best sex is with somebody you really care about. Fact, that's why. That's why casual said you really got them. I almost played out. I agree casual sex is whack. Yeah. I can't really fucking home like period. I can't hit period like it because like why are we're here because my because my decons off for a few minutes. That was it. That was really nig might be able to do that, but when I don't think women I was younger, I gotta like you. I got to because I'm gonna be bored, Like I'm gonna get and you ain't gonna annoy me after a little bit, like never forget. In two, they're doing a different kind of rolling over. I think scream got contact and you smoke something. Maybe it's the glue that they use. It's a mixture, it's a mixture. Ship. Yeah, Like do you think I got a question? Do you think lust can turn into love? Like? Definitely? You? You you love for in person? How do you think these halls get turned in the housewives going out the way to so do you think that you can teach somebody how to learn or do you think a person is supposed to? Are you're seeing? You can't? You can't not because when you try to, when you try to teach somebody how to love you, like, you're basically trying to project your love language onto them. And if you try to get them to love you how you want them to love you, and not how they want to love you like from themselves, that should ain't never gonna work. Yeah, that shouldna work. You're gonna waste so much time trying to teach this person how to love you till it's gonna be like you're gonna resent them eventually. Do you think you can teach them how to love you if they want them, if they if they if they're saying like, what what do it take? What do you need? Yeah? But then but then it's like you're teaching them from your point of view, but you teaching me how to treat you? How just a learning curve and relationship. It's definitely a learning curve. But you got to give people that grace to learn you because a lot of people be like, oh, well he didn't get this ship right the first time. We'll him I'm finding somebody else. Then, well, ain't nobody gonna get it right the first time. That's not how life works. If you're trying to do some some new ship, you're never gonna get that ship right the first time. Love included. So give people grace to learn you and how to treat you. You definitely gotta learn the motherfucker before you try to love the motherfucker friend you got because because you gotta teach your motherfucker how to keep your attention exactly. You gotta, because I gotta let you know if you're on the old they're doing that. I ain't finished it around there, but the last nigga probably would have been okay with that, but you're not. That's why they gotta learn you because certain ship motherer's come in a relationship thinking that every nigga is going for the same ship. Everything ain't gonna for the same ship. Shout that with him. You gotta unlearn that or else you're gonna lose me. Because but then that means you have to teach them because if that person been saying that's what that relationships, you gotta teach me now that. But but they also got to be willing that because some people be like, well that's just how I am. That's not for you. We're not gonna be for you. Well, we're not gonna be enough. I'm gonna be like what hold on? What I gotta do? Okay, That's what I was about to say, Like, at what point does the teaching become babysitting? When when it's not being accepted? When you when you're not we don't see you trying to correct the things that I don't like everything. You're just sticking to your no. You're saying like yeah, yeah, yeah, but you're still doing. That's who you are. You're not trying to learn. You're not trying to because relationships are work. You know what I'm saying, y'all gotta work at a relationship because I can wake up every day on some bullshit, but I gotta be able to communicate that with you, like I'm also some bullship with them myself, because I know you can feel this energy and you could think that it's something that you're not doing. You know what I'm saying, Like we could be to ourselves so much that we could push your person away, you know what I'm saying. So you gotta she gotta baby to tell you, like well, when you begetting your moods, whenever I feel like it's me, and then every time you knowing you in your mood, you gotta bey express that this hey, even if you're lying, even if you isn't a mood with huh, hey, baby, ain't even know what I'm saying, you feel, bro, because that that's the same thing and teaching a person how to love you or how to for you to continue to love them, because you could do certain ship and I can keep it in my mind and on my heart and not even funk with you the way you want me to funk with you, because I ain't ain't communicating that I didn't like the exactly because I'm trying to let you be you, right. I can't let you be you if it's gonna fick me, because then I'm gonna pick you. Yeah, you know what I'm saying. And then the compromise is going to cancel out and it's just gonna go left. We're just in some ship doing some bullshit, yeah, or some bank let go another one. Do you think that two people set in there in their ways can still be in a relationship, no relationship, but y'all, but y'allways said in y'all's ways together. Y'all grew up together. That's like what I'm saying. That's crazy. I'm crazy as fun, y'all, But y'all don't got to change. But you guys, you guys as crazy compliments each other, you know what I'm saying, Like that have happened, Yeah na, but see not if it's a conflict, but see like basically not as a grown person. Yeah, he's saying, y'all, can two forty year old setting their ways getting together? Can it work? And it works. It can work. It can work, but it might not be likely. But it can work because the freak ship, maybe the ship that y'all love it is already a match. Then that neither party has to change. Then then it's gonna work. But if y'all said always and y'all are conflicting on things, get Some people like bullshit, some people attracting the bulls see all types of everybody else. Yes, some people do that ship for decades. They like it. Some people, you know what, some people cannot be. Some people can't be in a calm, regular type of Some people can't that type of ship. It's stressful. No, I get it. I ain't like that. I'm just saying there are some people I see what you're saying that will call me all the time. I'm talking about the bullshit. I don't like. You're not You're not gonna like that ship at this point, ten years later, fifty years later, you that ship. Some people like chaos some people. Some people aren't some people. Some people are trapping the drama. Some people have to have drama, feel relations it, so some people might have. You don't say this is a foul you might Nigga might get a female. Everything she wanted is a good, flowing, calm, peaceful relationship, and she'll run and the other way around because that ain't what you want. You can go through all that bullshit, both of y'all saying y'all want something else from each other, right, yeah, but then when you finally get to that point like, Okay, we're here now, I'm actually doing this, I'm coming out every day on which you get on your nerve. Right, it's a word for it too, uh damn crazy crazy self sabotage. Self. Self sabotage is, like scream said, when you get all the night ship that you think you want and you run from it before you ruin it, that's self sabotaged or ruin it, but that's self sabotaged un from it. Yeah, it's good for you, but you don't want it, or it's good for you and you feel like it's too good to be true, so you feel like you're gonna go ahead and you're just not ready for it because sometimes you have the perfect situation following your lap and you're like, damn, mentally, I'm not even prepared for this ship. Like that's actually I don't say that's actually probably most relationships, though, I'm telling people needs. You kind of do need something in your relationship, some type of spark. I ain't saying they've gotta be drama and all that ship, but you kind of need to go through something, my opinion, make it stronger. I feel like that's like in every relationship, not even just romantic. You gotta you gotta face some type of trauma, not trauma, not not trauma at all. You gotta to face some type of conflict to see how how strong this ship is going to be. Something to create the bond. Something crazy, because if you go through something and then you never internally experience anything, once it's something, once it's an outside for us, that ship is gonna break, y'all. Yeah, make sure. I don't know, man, I just feel like y'all really want to work anything to work with that too. Yeah. Sometimes one party may be looking for out. I'm waiting for some ship to happen. So how many situations we don't see what we're like, Man, they ain't gonna make it, and they make it, and then we know they don't make it, and they don't make it. We see that ship every day, So you can't really sit from the sideline and say what it's them to people. They're gonna figure out what they're gonna do if it's gonna work, not work whatever, You know what I mean my opinion, So ski, let's go. It's different. It's more okay. What happens if your wife and your sister get into it and they want to fight inside, but they don't got to fight, y'all get on out done. I let them get out. My wife and my sisters got in the yard. I ain't never experience, you know not. She ain't another stopping. You ain't fe another stopping y'all trying to put me in the middle of that ship. Now they cordrow you cordrew Yeah, my mama and my wife like you're saying, right, you gotta let it be you gotta let it be consumer you picked that should be like family tests like some people family are gonna test you. But I gotta let I gotta let my wife know, diss my sister, and let my sister know thisss my wife. Don't get it fucked up. If you're wrong, I'm gonna tell you won't get a situation. You know what I'm saying ain't picking out side. You're wrong you How do you spek the girl to do this right? You know what I'm saying, Just straight up. You gotta get out that, get out of y'all. See y'all want to hit hit, you gotta get it off. Don't let it build up. You know, I think I think that made them close your right a little bit your fight. You know what I'm saying. We don't hit ship. Okay, we know where it'll go to. So now when they have look comflicts and be like, I ain't on tyro, I ain't start chante. I know Chante on her bullsh your tyre on her bullshit. You get what I'm saying. So it's like IPEC because I know we'll hit. I know my brother ain't breaking up, and I know my home they're breaking up. Ship in the lad popcorn up, get on my car, my car. I don't know what I'm that's up to fight. Don't breaking up when you see me breaking with corn left, people handle their business, buy my business. You love that girl too much, absolutely, but I love my sister too. But spreading up and then if you break up the fight, neither one of them not known respect you're like, if we are, you're grabbing the hardest. Yeah. Yeah, like you brabed me and she reached over your shoulders, not my teeth out you was holding me. Yeah, stop, you know I got damn did just say my sister? Hold? My wife don't know. I'm just get off, like y'all break it up my wife? Oh yeah, somebody yeah, somebody getting best, somebody's over with. Get let's go it again yet, get up, let up, let us, let us now. I ain't gonna let you pounding right on skulls. Let up, let up. I'll get that again, you know, y'all get run out of run out of brown to do that. My niggas to my nigga, get here, hold on, Hold, that's enough, breaking up, breaking up, breaking up, breaking up, laughing. You want some more? He wants some more. You want some more? Go ahead, ship. I'll be cool after that. Ship. Yeah, and I'm gonna make jokes all night. She whooped your ass trying to read it up. Y'all hit again. Folks ain't going, They're not going. The folst is not going. Damn. But my sister, they love each other because I could never introduce another girl like if I'm out in the club on my bullshit, be on my bullshit and see my sisters something I can't. I gotta hide this because she she might she's not gonna go tell on me, but she gonna look like you like you know that girl loves you. You know what I'm saying, Like she's gonna put it, put that type of energe out there, like even though she loves you, you know what I'm saying. That's yeah, That's what I'm saying. 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