The One About What It Takes To Be A REAL Real Housewife

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Speaker 1: Oh my gosh, we're back at it. Welcome back to the Give Them La La Podcast. Last week's episode put me on my face. Why was it so funny? It was so funny.

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Speaker 2: I think it's because we were all exhausted or like, we were all just super tired, and that's when the funniest things come out. Your Amazon lives are funniest when you're sleep deprived. I don't know about Easton, but I'm silly, goofy girl when I'm sleep deprived.

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Speaker 1: Easton's yeah, well that's really shitty because I got an excellent night sleep.

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Speaker 3: Now you shoutin before you came in.

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Speaker 1: The amount of times that I watched last week's episode on YouTube because we're now on YouTube, y'all, so you're listening to this and on Friday at nine am Pacific time, you can watch it on YouTube. But it Jessica, you thinking that otters were rolling up to the mall. It's just you're so funny. The whole episode was fantastic, So hopefully we can keep that for you.

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Speaker 3: Yes, keep that going.

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Speaker 1: I have really huge news. My daughter pooped in the toilet for the first time.

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Speaker 3: It was this is news to me. You didn't even tell me.

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Speaker 1: It happened last night. She peepe's in the toilet on her own right whatever. Last night. She's very afraid of pooping in the toilet. And I was talking to Sena about it because she gets in like poplock and drop a position when she needs to go to the bathroom. And oh, I was talking to Sena about.

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Speaker 4: I was just picture and Sheena just squawking under the table like a five star restaurant ocean.

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Speaker 1: I'm like, can you not do that right now? And then She'll go, I'm pooping. I'm pooping, and I'm like, oh my god, I'm mortified.

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Speaker 3: When she did that.

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Speaker 4: We were at the Beverly Hills Hotel and she told everybody at every table she was like.

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Speaker 1: I poop. I was like, they're trying to enjoy their caviar, please stop.

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Speaker 3: Too.

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Speaker 1: Yeah, she does it everywhere. I love it. So I was trying. She just said, when kids poop, if it's in a diaper, and I don't know if this is true or not, but if it's in a diaper, it still feels like it's a part of them. Because when they're pooping, it almost feels like they're like losing an organ. So when they start on a toilet, it feels like their stomachs are being pushed into the toilet. So last night she said she needed a diaper on because she needed a poop and I was like, no, We're gonna go on the big girl potty, and my mom and my bff Madison, she's in town, said you want to know how fun it is to go poop on the toilet. The poop when it hits the water makes a splash. It splashes everywhere. Ocean has like dude energy right Like. She likes to jump all over the place, climb on everything, yell, scream, thinks fart jokes are funny. So that helps the poop hitting the water. The thought of it made her want to go on the toilet, and she did. And as she's pushing and I'm looking at her dead in the eyes and she's doing I'm like, you're doing it. I'm watching it's happening, and she's like, it hits the toilet. She looks and I did it.

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Speaker 5: I pop on the toilet up by myself.

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Speaker 1: She was so excited and I was like the proudest mom. Ever, however, I then got her ready for bed and forgot to put a diaper on her. So this morning I woke up to a very wet bed and I felt so bad. I was like, did you take your diper off? She's like, you didn't put one on me. I was like, oh my gosh, I'm so sorry. But then she told me she she did it this morning, so I was like, okay, great, and it was still warm.

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Speaker 5: She oh, she peed this morning. She wasn't laying in it.

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Speaker 1: I feel like if she if, it wouldn't have been warm. Still, I don't think it would have been like yellow colored around where it like dried. No, it's that's good she didn't lay in it. That makes me feel a little bit better. Oh, that makes me feel I felt like a horrible mother because I'm all about the nighttime routine. I'm fantastic at it, but apparently not that great.

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Speaker 3: The first thing she said to Lisa this morning was I forgot to put a diaper on it.

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Speaker 1: I beat myself up.

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Speaker 3: I didn't even walk to her room first thing.

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Speaker 2: I feel like that's such a normal thing to do, especially she just went poop on the potty. In your mind, it's like undis vibe. Yeah, you know, so, have you ever peed the bed? Lalla or Easton? Oh, yeah, have you as an adult?

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Speaker 3: As an adult, I mean.

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Speaker 4: I think, I mean I can remember wedding the bed though I was old enough to remember.

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Speaker 1: Okay, right, I don't know. I can't remember ever wedding the bud. Interesting, Okay, I'm sure I did. You know, I'm pretty perfect, but not exactly perfect. She just fuck you, fuck you Easton? I hate you. You're an asshole. What else happened this weekend? Oh? The Rams lost to the forty nine ers and I was very confused to see at We have Producer John very upset about it, by the way, and I was like so confused how they were playing at Sofi But it was just like a sea of red. And when I asked producer John about it, he said that the loss is attributed to it being I wrote this down. What is it called Levi South? Yeah, that's exactly right. Oh you've heard of this?

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Speaker 3: Yeah?

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Speaker 1: What does that mean?

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Speaker 4: Because when the forty nine ers travel and they play in Los Angeles, it's like they all travel so instead of playing like at Levi's Stadium, Yeah, they just call Sofi Levi South. Oh, because it's like they just put like this, they pick up the stadium and bring because they travel.

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Speaker 1: Now that's a fan at Base Sun like a home game.

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Speaker 4: Yeah, so it feels like a home game. So they're playing at Levi's South instead of there you go.

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Speaker 5: What happened to all the Rams fans.

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Speaker 1: I'm a little upset about it because my daughter is now a RAMS fan. And if she's like sitting here looking at a television screen where they're playing at home and it's just a sea of red, you're now confusing her.

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Speaker 3: Yeah, you're confusing me. Why because they're away? You know, they shouldn't be wearing already.

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Speaker 1: No, I know, So what is that? There's just a lot of night.

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Speaker 3: It's kind of like Greater Nation. They travel everywhere.

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Speaker 5: See I want to be part of that fan group, producer John.

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Speaker 1: Yeah, because where they're everywhere?

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Speaker 2: He says, boo, because if you're if I'm going to show up to a Rams gain game and the forty nine Ers fans are taking over, I feel like it used to be that way with the Steelers at the Titans because I used to be a big Steelers fan. The Steelers at the Tennessee Titans Stadium stadium. I would show up in my Steelers gear and I felt at home because it was all Steelers.

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Speaker 1: Wow.

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Speaker 2: So maybe I'll be a forty nine Ers fan now and producer John and I can duke it.

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Speaker 1: Out, duke it out. I would love that, bring in some competition. The dukes are up. So Lisa came through with the news yet again. But it was a little darker this week. Okay, it was like really dark. Actually, she first told me that Californians are pussies. Pussies, she used that word, and I was like, you mean they're dicks weak, little, flaccid, soft, soft, uttterly yucky, No, just ugly. Because she saw this video where it's in New York and this guy goes in to rob this jewelry store and he's got like this giant chain and he's like breaking the windows with it, not realizing that like it's a family owned jewelry store and they're inside this family the fucking boss up on this fucking guy. Okay, they come out with bats, they're approaching, and I love that energy and it feels it is New York energy, where like I've worked hard to build this company, all right, this little shop I came from nothing, and you're gonna come in here and try to take what's mine. I'm fucking you up. It was the most beautiful video I'd ever seen. Like they didn't give a damn no. This guy's whipping the chain at them and they just keep approaching, like just this family. That's New York Energy. There were a lot.

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Speaker 2: Yeah, that's New York Energy for sure, New York Energy. That's also Texas Energy a bit oh, which we love, we love.

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Speaker 5: It's like, I'm protecting my.

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Speaker 1: What I've worked. I'm protecting my shit. It's like fifty cents says what's he saying? I protect what I've got. I'm in the house with my blade.

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Speaker 3: G unit.

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Speaker 1: We hit it cracking in the club, G unit. So that happened. And then she was also telling me about God she really did get dark. California Mom had all of her limbs amputated after consuming bad tilapia. She almost lost her life.

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Speaker 2: Lalaha, that's fish right, that is I'm at so many different emotions right now.

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Speaker 1: I'm just laughing at your overall demeanor.

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Speaker 2: You going, she almost lost her life, No, she did, No, but like over tilapia, that is horrifying.

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Speaker 1: Tilapia that was contaminated with a deadly bacteria. I want, I need to know what this is.

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Speaker 5: Can we know where they caught the telapia?

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Speaker 1: Well, let me read on further. It says a woman who was who was a mother of a six year old, became sick days after eating the fish that she had purchased at a local market in San Jose and made herself at home. They put her into a medically induced coma. Her fingers were black, her feet were black, her bottom lip was black. She had complete sepsis and her kidneys were failing. So Sepsis occurs when chemicals released in the blood stream to fight an infection trigger inflammation throughout the body. This can cause a cascade of changes that damaged multiple organ systems, leading them to fail, sometimes even resulting in death. Can you freaking imagine you go to the supermarket, You're like, you know what, we don't need Tyson's chicken tonight. I'm going into the section where there's the glass, and I'm gonna tell the guy give me the telapia making my family a five star meal. And that happens.

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Speaker 2: That's that's And I wonder if it was was it the fish the water that they caught it from, or was it that it was left out too long at the store, Like you don't know.

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Speaker 3: I could see where I looked it up. They are found in.

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Speaker 4: Shallow streams, ponds, rivers, and lakes. So I'm going to assume maybe this one came from a pond.

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Speaker 5: Yeah, maybe we don't eat tilapia right now.

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Speaker 1: Tilapia is not found in the ocean.

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Speaker 3: Well, this one just said they're fresh water fish. Not so.

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Speaker 1: Probably lakes is where I've seen telapia on really really incredible restaurants. Menus. Tilapia is delicious. I've had it, many says mainly, so I was never eating tilapia ever, It's not like it's my first choice.

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Speaker 3: They fly fish in though, and they like send hundreds of them into lakes. Have you seen that?

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Speaker 4: What you haven't seen that hundreds of what fish like into lakes like they'll just like get it's like a to populate or yeah, to populate lakes because people fishing them. Do you remember, Oh, maybe that's why it says mainly they're caught here, but they could be a.

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Speaker 3: Sea like a saltwater fish.

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Speaker 1: Well, do you remember that place we went to in Utah where we went fishing with mom and dad?

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Speaker 3: That's where they would like helicopter them and just drop them in from hundreds of year.

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Speaker 1: It was so many fish, like, yeah, half of them. We went there to fish. You watch the fish get dropped with at Oh you watched them get dropped in?

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Speaker 3: Yeah.

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Speaker 4: When we I'd go up to Rockport in Utah and they would have a helicopter and they would go like really close with a huge thing and it would just open and fish would just.

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Speaker 1: Free, fish free falling.

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Speaker 3: Yeah, you can look it up.

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Speaker 1: It's it's rain in Tilapia. Don't eat that ship. You'll die. I'm terrified. You're out of your mind. I'm sticking to like the salmon where you catching it right.

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Speaker 5: I've heard all of it though. You just got to be careful.

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Speaker 1: You know, you really do have to be careful about anything you're eating from the ocean. I think it's just by the way Trader Joe's they have. I love Trader Jos, but they now it's like someone's sabotaging them.

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Speaker 4: I know everything I eat from there, I'm like.

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Speaker 1: They've had rocks.

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Speaker 3: No.

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Speaker 1: I love them though.

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Speaker 3: They have the best metal.

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Speaker 1: But I'll be real with you, I've gone into Trader Joe's multiple times looking for the cookie butter cookies, and I would eat rocks just to have them right put them back on their shelves. It's like, what the fuck is that they take them off? The shells gone no where to be, I swear, And I looked it up to see if they were discontinued. I saw that the cookie butter cheesecake is discontinued. I can find nothing about the cookies, the cookie butter cookies, cookie butter cookies. So naturally I went to the next cookie, which was like a hazelnut cookie, just as good. Yes, I finished the entire pac class night during a game of Rummy Cube. But it's no cookie butter cookie. So I'm letting you know. I'm fine with eating things that should not be in my box of whatever from Trader Joe's, just to have one more day of cookie butter cookies, one more day.

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Speaker 2: Ideally no rocks, but if there's a rock or two, lalla will be okay.

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Speaker 1: I've had more suspect things in my mouth in a rock.

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Speaker 3: Moving on, okay for true, Moving.

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Speaker 1: On, okay. Manhunt for a murderer is over after escaping prison. It's like prison break. This is real news that my mom shared with me. Okay, he escaped from a Pennsylvania prison just days after being sentenced to life without parole in the fatal stabbing of his ex girlfriend. Okay, okay. August eleventh. He escapes September fourth, spotted on a security camera in Longwood Gardens. September ninth, he steals a van. He's he's run wild, all right, He's still in cars. He's looking for weapons, grand theft auto because on September eleventh he stills a rifle. Could you imagine? Could you imagine? And by the way, as I'm reading this, September thirteenth, he's captured. But he followed the same method of escape and route used by an inmate at Chester County Prison, Igor Bolt, broke out of prison on May nineteenth. I want to know, well, how are they how do they know how to like escape off of someone else's Do they get news in prison?

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Speaker 2: Oh, if someone else escaped and then didn't come back, if they escaped and came back, they could be like, well this kind of worked.

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Speaker 1: But here's absolutely different prison. Oh so they're saying he used the same method, but like I think it would be if you sit there and you're like, oh, it's the same method. That's strange. Is that like a common thing. I feel like if that was like common knowledge, well, all the inmates would be escaping from prison. So were they communicating and was he like, oh my gosh, dude, this is how you do it.

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Speaker 2: There's a prison talk, so surely they can get news. There's a prison talk on TikTok. You go on TikTok and you can.

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Speaker 1: Don't have TikTok in prison.

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Speaker 3: Band phones.

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Speaker 2: They have cell phones and they're doing TikTok in prison and they're doing dances and stuff.

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Speaker 3: Yeah, I half a home.

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Speaker 4: Just don't even Most of them will like show you everything in their cell They show you what they're watching. They have television, they know exactly they could be watching Van or Pump Rules right now.

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Speaker 1: Well, no, wonder people are out on the streets still committing crimes. You just get locked up, you get a lift for free pretty much, and you still get a TikTok your ass off. No, you take the phones?

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Speaker 3: Were they getting them in? No?

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Speaker 1: Even a child who does something naughty like break curfew or sneaks out gets their cell phone taken away. But you can mrk someone and like here's your cell phone.

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Speaker 4: Well, that's like your mom and dad watching seven hundred kids. What they're gonna sneak a phone?

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Speaker 5: Oh yeah, I see what you're saying.

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Speaker 1: I don't know how it works. I don't know how they get phones.

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Speaker 2: I don't know if it's after a certain amount of time or you have money. We all know inside the prison walls there's shady what are they called security cards.

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Speaker 4: It's not it's not like them sneaking it in when they're like hugging their friend on the way out, like you know, when they're their meetings.

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Speaker 3: It's the guard who is saying what do you need.

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Speaker 4: And going to get it and then getting paid or whatever. And that's how they're getting everything in. It's prison guards, not all of the prisons.

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Speaker 1: But yes, we've heard it. We've seen it on TV. We've seen it on TV. I will say I watched Orange is the New Black, and that was enough to make me say I will never commit a crime because I would not last. No, sure wouldn't. I mean I run vander Pump rules, but I certainly wouldn't be running prison. I just wouldn't.

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Speaker 5: I think you might have a chance.

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Speaker 3: Really, she would be somebody's bitch.

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Speaker 2: Have you seen the photos of Why am I blanking on her name?

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Speaker 1: We were just talking about her from that hold on that I want I really want to talk about this, Okay, Okay, I do want to say that this guy who escaped is also wanted in his native Brazil for homicide. So he's like extremely.

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Speaker 4: Dangerous in Brazil. Yes, that's where you run to get away from things.

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Speaker 1: Nope, he's wanting it wo.

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Speaker 5: But he was caught or he's still out there.

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Speaker 1: No, they caught him. Okay, they caught him on September thirteenth, thank god, because at that point he had stolen a weapon. Now he's armed. They caught him in like a field and they did have dogs. The dogs are the ones that brought him down, and they're no shots were fired, which thank god because when she sticking on end even on his head. But it weighed kind of heavy on my heart. Like I read this news that Lee sent to me and I got home from dinner one night and I was by myself. It was just me and I'm buck naked, and I'm thinking, what is that guy? Because I was like getting ready for bed.

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Speaker 3: I thought she was just partying.

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Speaker 1: I do party in the nude. It's my freest self. But I'm sitting there and in my bathroom phones on the charge, and I'm like, what if the guy that escaped from prison was like in my apartment right now and he just like rolled up on me and he had killed my dog. And I'm like scanning the bathroom, like what would I use as a weapon? And thank god I was using scissors to cut my split ends earlier in the night, because I did have a weapon if this were to really happen.

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Speaker 3: So did you leave the scissors where they are now?

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Speaker 1: It just like really made me think because back in Salt Lake, my grandpa gave me a machete and I kept it by my bed because I stayed at the front of the house and you could climb these like keys on the side of the house to get onto the balcony and into my room. And I liked sleeping with the door open, especially winternight. I didn't even need to sneak guys in. Mom was like, they can use the front front door.

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Speaker 3: That's true.

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Speaker 1: I don't know why they're doing that.

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Speaker 2: Why is that man on the side of our house he can just use the front door.

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Speaker 1: What's going on, so that also happened in the news, very very dark. Let's actually go into Salt Lake really quickly about prison because I read that we'll cover ocy in just a seg. But seeing as we're talking about prison, let's talk about john Shaw. Yeah, great, a lot of Wait, tell me like she's trying to start a like a Housewives in prison? No she yeah, wait did you read that? Yeah?

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Speaker 3: What? Yeah, this is a while like this was like.

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Speaker 1: The real Housewives of Prison.

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Speaker 3: Yeah, like she was a federal prison. Yeah, it's like, are you even taking prison serious?

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Speaker 1: Well, it doesn't sound like anyone takes prison tiktoking their asses off and building building content to.

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Speaker 3: Make a lot of prison foods though.

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Speaker 1: Yeah, yeah, you've learned on TikTok. Yeah really, wait, should we have a night where you make us food that they would make?

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Speaker 4: Yeah, prison TikTok food, let's do it. I would love that. You would love it because we love shit food. It's like it's like Ritos but with crunched up like flame and hot Cheetos.

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Speaker 1: That does sound pretty fast. Sorry, don't get me going. Jen Shaw has bonded with Elizabeth Holmes in prison. They're friends. Okay, So as we know Elizabeth Holmes started that like, and I want to say, what's it called Easton something where instead of drawing blood, all you have to do is pick your finger and they can literally test you for anything and everything, So like drawing blood would no longer be a thing. Elizabeth Holmes literally stole like I want to say, it was like it was a billion dollar farahnose she started the dropout.

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Speaker 3: Isn't that what the That's exactly right. That's her.

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Speaker 1: That's her. So she's in the same prison as Jen Shaway. They have bonded over their situations, and in my mind, I'm thinking, when the two of these women get out, guard your fucking bank accounts with all your life because they're plotting and they're gonna steal from everybody. These two women who literally have scammed people like out in the open millions upon millions of dollars, hundreds of millions, and they're bonding in prison. I'm scared and I don't want you around me. Yeah. Yeah.

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Speaker 3: See Genshaw creating prison play Real Housewives of Brian.

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Speaker 2: Of Brian creating prison play like a theatrical production in prison?

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Speaker 1: Or is it gonna er on like?

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Speaker 2: Or is it gonna would assume prison talent show.

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Speaker 4: Prison talent show, but I think she was like pitching it for it also to be like film.

00:21:42
Speaker 1: Delusion.

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Speaker 4: I mean, we could look more, and I don't look into it. I just saw a headline and I don't dive into You.

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Speaker 1: Know, Jilly really really liked Genshaw and I may have shared this story on the podcast before, but I made one comment on someone else's podcast, and I was like, you know, you're innocent until proven guilty, But when you hear that someone may be like robbing the elderly, it just doesn't. It hits different. She heard this. This is when she was not This is when she was still like, I'm innocent, I'm innocent, writes me a DM. This long y'all raging on me about how I should not speak on things that I don't know about that she's innocent and a comment like that has hurt my family. She went on and on and on, and then I didn't even respond because I was like, what am I supposed to say to this? Like it wasn't even that big of a deal. But cut to She then says that she's guilty and he's in prison now, which is why I'm okay, talking about it, because she can't come for me unless she also and she's listening to the give them WHI l a pod you know, in which case call in, call in, you have a collect call. I'm open to it, Jen, I'm open to it. And I think that I would be an epic producer for your play, don't you.

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Speaker 5: Think one hundred percent?

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Speaker 1: I'm actually kind of on board with this, on board with the theatrical play perfection, but I really yeah, but I need to keep her at arm's length if we if I.

00:23:20
Speaker 3: Do it away from her and you're fine.

00:23:23
Speaker 1: Yeah, I just there's something about the two of them, Elizabeth Holmes and Jenshaw where it's like, oh.

00:23:29
Speaker 3: Shit, oh shit, oh shit, something's off.

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Speaker 1: You're not bonding over your situations, all right, because all of you in federal prison kind of have like the same situation, like you did something bad and got locked up. You're not bonding over that.

00:23:45
Speaker 3: Your bond come about how you got away with it for as long as you did.

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Speaker 1: Stay scheme and no, they're scheming, not bonding.

00:23:54
Speaker 3: You think they're likely, but is a bond for them?

00:23:58
Speaker 1: That's okay. You call it whatever it is, whatever you want, okay, let's jump into did you guys watch Salt Lake?

00:24:04
Speaker 2: Sure didn't, but I did listen to a podcast about it.

00:24:08
Speaker 1: That's okay. It's very crazy watching can you listen? It is so crazy watching Real Housewives of Salt Lake. Because I'm watching it and the home the Heather just purchased, I'm like, Easton, I used to trigger treat in that area?

00:24:28
Speaker 3: Is that where that is?

00:24:29
Speaker 1: We've been triggered treating in that area. Also a lot of like dances where you like go somewhere after you meet at a house to like take pictures. We're in that neighborhood, in the rich kids neighborhood where you like go and yeah, it's a nice neighborhood. It wasn't in like our school district, but I would go to dances for other schools sometimes. Oh interesting because my friend groups were kind of all over the place and they're like, you should ask this boy from our school. So like a lot of times we would go to houses in that neighborhood to like take our pictures or it was like the after party.

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Speaker 2: So you recognize, you just recognize all the locations the cameras are taking you through.

00:25:05
Speaker 3: Yes, every time I watch salt Lake.

00:25:06
Speaker 1: I'm it brings it. Yeah, it's like it's so there's.

00:25:10
Speaker 4: Not like a whole lot of places in Salt Lake. Honestly, every time everywhere they go, it's like, ah, I.

00:25:15
Speaker 5: Know where every time I watch vander Pump, That's how I feel.

00:25:17
Speaker 1: I'm like, I know that place, it's Sarah, I've been there. Ye know what It is weird when you watch it and you're like they're making this look like so bougie and it's like I've been there, it's not really.

00:25:28
Speaker 3: It's thirteen dollars place.

00:25:29
Speaker 2: Do you have a specific example, because I'm dying to okay, I.

00:25:32
Speaker 1: Don't don't out knocking out anybody, okay, And then it makes it seem like a lot of these places they're going to are like in my backyard.

00:25:40
Speaker 4: I'm like, they make these bitches drive when it's when they're saying so and So's house in like daybreak, and then Park City that is a fucking hour and a half drive.

00:25:52
Speaker 3: Really no traffic, Like that's long.

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Speaker 2: I would love an episode or like one of those screens where you guys take us through an entire episode of Salt Lake. We have to do this somewhere we can't do it on the podcast and you're telling us, okay, this and you're just like telling us where it is. This is actually not in the backyard. This iss far because that shit interests me well.

00:26:14
Speaker 1: By the way, when Daybreak first started, every like the community, everyone was freaking out because it's so close to Kennicott Copper Mind that they're like, this is not safe. Yeah, it's not safe to be like building houses here. It's a mine to a yes, whoa, but coping, but here we go, Like people were worried about.

00:26:36
Speaker 3: They just started another development.

00:26:38
Speaker 4: When I was out there because my buddy lives there and I went out there and the whole new development is being built.

00:26:44
Speaker 3: I was like it pretty soon, they'll just be in the mind.

00:26:47
Speaker 1: Oh gosh. Oh, Kennicott Copper Mind is one of the only minds you can see from outer space. Kennicott Copper Mind.

00:26:53
Speaker 2: What is it called, Kennacock Kennicott, Kennicott copper Mine.

00:26:58
Speaker 1: I kind of like that Kennicott's copper.

00:26:59
Speaker 2: Mine brought to you by Kennicott copper Mine.

00:27:03
Speaker 1: Yeah. So it's those things. And then like Lunatic Fringe, which is one of the girls that's a hair place. A hair place I remember, like some of my friends that was like they claimed it was like the place to go again, a place where you're like, like, I've been there. It's like hair salon. It's fine, like try like back in the day, because I don't really I haven't been a Salt Lake in so long that I don't even know what it's like really anymore. Like a lot of the places I don't recognize, like the new places they'll go and eat, but Lunatic Fringe, like back in the day, it was like, oh, it's so edgy, like look at this red extension, just the one piece and like like the choppy short look, and it was like lunatic fringe, Oh so edgy, so edgy. And they sold bras there like lingerie. At one point, Oh my god, I know. I was like, what's your mama gonna say when you put those over your garments?

00:28:05
Speaker 3: Oh?

00:28:05
Speaker 1: Yeah, no, it's like such an it's a crazy And how much talk about the church is happening? Yeah? Yeah, all right? The new girl Monica is that her name? Yes, I actually really like her. She starts crying to her mom about she's got four kids. She got divorced remarried her dude, her baby daddy, then they got divorced again. Four kids, ranging from like seventeen to like five, I think five is her youngest. And she's like usually like I'm in sweatpants. I love her so real, right, She's like, I'm usually in Christmas pajamas. Down isolate getting milk at ten o'clock at night because I've forgotten like four kids and they're all girls, so emotional, and she tells her mom like, I'm going on a trip with these girls to Palm Springs. I'm very nervous. I went into Louis Vuitton the other day, which, like that brings so much joy to my heart. When did they get a Louis Vuitton, Oh, Fat Lake, It's like, what brings.

00:29:07
Speaker 5: Jod They didn't have a Louis Vuitton, a Louis.

00:29:10
Speaker 1: Voton store in Salt Lake?

00:29:11
Speaker 3: Now, what do you mean I had to do? You not remember you? We got a backpack?

00:29:17
Speaker 4: You got a backpack online and the only store it was at was in Salt Lake and I had to go and pick it up. Do you not remember this?

00:29:24
Speaker 1: I do remember.

00:29:24
Speaker 3: Now they've had it for since City Creek.

00:29:27
Speaker 1: Open, City Creek. Okay, like a big beautiful outdoor mall. In fact, for a while City Creek, when you went there, they had like guards and you couldn't show your shoulders because the church.

00:29:37
Speaker 3: Oh like you couldn't my tattoos couldn't be out. What.

00:29:41
Speaker 1: Yeah, you'd get that's a separation between church and city in Utah.

00:29:46
Speaker 3: But it was a really pretty moll, all right.

00:29:49
Speaker 1: So she goes in to get a Louis Vauton back because she wants something nice around these girls. And I'm like the worst person to ask, do I get the You always get the bag, babe, because it elevates a very inexpensive look. Right like you roll in Tsara, you grab like a look you maybe spend one hundred, one hundred and fifty bucks if that, and then the bag elevates every single look. So for me, it was like, oh my gosh, it's so sad that she's like feels like she has to spend thousands of dollars on a bag so she has something nice around these girls, which I'm still convinced a lot of them wear fake stuff. Becau it's very easy to buy it.

00:30:28
Speaker 3: Well, if you feel like that, find new friends already.

00:30:32
Speaker 1: Easton, we have a show to film. We have a show to film, bitch. I think she fits in quite nicely. Like I don't look at the girls in Salt Lake and Go. When I think about them, I think of bougie, Like, yeah, they're wearing some like designer brands, but like I'm not looking at them going they are top of the food chain, Beverly Hills bitches.

00:30:55
Speaker 4: And it's Melissa, right, you're talking about Monicai. Monica, Monicai. I thought you were talking about like seventeen year old girl needing Louis to fit in with her friends.

00:31:03
Speaker 1: No, Monica went in and bought herself a bag because she's going on a trip to Palm Springs and she feels like everyone is decked in like designer goods all the time. But it does feel forced in Salt Lake when I see them in like all their designer brands, it's too much. It's too much. It's like this feels because I've been to Salt Lake, right, I grew up there, Like no one's looking like this like out here, or when you watch Real Housewives of Beverly Hills, like what they have on it's fabulous, and it feels like they're wearing it effortlessly. Salt Lake doesn't quite feel that.

00:31:35
Speaker 3: Way to me.

00:31:36
Speaker 4: No, it seems like a uniform, like they put it together like weeks in advance for this one scene.

00:31:43
Speaker 1: It just feels forced. Because of the Housewives of Saltake.

00:31:46
Speaker 2: I just figured Utah was very bougie like designer.

00:31:51
Speaker 1: That's what I thought. And maybe it did get that way.

00:31:53
Speaker 4: Yeah, maybe maybe I've lost it, Maybe I'm off the bandwagon for this, but.

00:31:57
Speaker 1: I don't remember it being that way. And I grew up with people who were fucking rich, rich, wealthy, like ginormous homes that you dumb money, like stupid money. And I don't remember any of the moms in the Tahas.

00:32:19
Speaker 3: Yeah, you wouldn't even know they had money until you pulled up to their house.

00:32:22
Speaker 1: Yeah, and then you go to their house and it's thirty thousand square feet yeah, and ginormous, and they just I don't remember the moms being like that.

00:32:31
Speaker 2: Well some of the wealthiest people that think look at them. Steve Jobs wearing unmarked, un logoed every day.

00:32:37
Speaker 3: You know why he did that because.

00:32:39
Speaker 2: He didn't want to put the brain effort into choosing an outfit everything.

00:32:42
Speaker 3: So did you guys? Know, and I could be very wrong.

00:32:44
Speaker 4: Come at me, but you only have so many creative thoughts throughout the day, oh and most of it is being used up on an outfit. So instead he would wear the same thing and use all of his creative thoughts on what he was designing. And that is why Albert Einstein same thing, He wear the same Maybe that I don't know.

00:33:03
Speaker 3: If it's because the clothes were already come by, but he wore the same thing every day. There's a lot of people that just wear the same thing. You want to know.

00:33:10
Speaker 1: How you know someone's rich, though, is when they have like an unmarked like sweatshirt or shirt and then the label says that it's like some designer and there's literally no. You're like, wait, so you literally went in and bought like a black T shirt for twelve and you're like yeah, you're like but the.

00:33:27
Speaker 5: Ones who know, no, it's like the threading.

00:33:29
Speaker 1: You look at it and this guy's got dumb. Yeah.

00:33:32
Speaker 3: Yeah.

00:33:32
Speaker 4: The ones who know they or like the older gentleman that wear the like four thousand dollars like lower boat shoes that don't like not the guccheese, You wouldn't even know. And you look at him and they're like triple the cause, and you're like, that guy's fucking he's about it.

00:33:47
Speaker 1: Yeah, totally. That being said, I'm a sucker for a marked up label. Throw me in all the Berbery prints, Christian door CDs all over my body, head scarf.

00:34:00
Speaker 3: You know, do you think it's too much?

00:34:02
Speaker 4: Do you think it's too much when you're wearing like the headband, Like say you're wearing Chanel headband, Chanel jacket, Chanel pants.

00:34:11
Speaker 3: Is that too much?

00:34:11
Speaker 5: You can get the same brand, but you never mix, right.

00:34:14
Speaker 1: I don't like mixing brands.

00:34:16
Speaker 3: I but is there too much of a brand on you at a certain point? I think it.

00:34:19
Speaker 1: Depends on who you are. Like DERI from BH head to toe in the same designer and same print, I like, go crazy for it.

00:34:29
Speaker 3: Maybe it's go on.

00:34:32
Speaker 1: There are some people where I would look at that and be like, oh God, please make it end.

00:34:36
Speaker 4: I think it's different for like men, like a guy in a Gucci tracksuit?

00:34:41
Speaker 3: Is there anything worse?

00:34:43
Speaker 1: We had this conversation do you remember with Mercedes with MJ we did, Yeah, yeah.

00:34:48
Speaker 2: A guy in a Gucci Gucci track suit, A guy branded out driest vagina ever, don't.

00:34:54
Speaker 5: Ever wear your brands around me. What's happening, Saharah one hundred.

00:35:02
Speaker 1: I don't care, No, it's all I think. It's the person and how you carry yourself. Yeah, but I want she bought the bag and I'm thrilled about it. She deserves the bag. I also love that when she was four, her dad left. I don't love her dad left, but I love that the mom. The mom was so gangster. She fucking deleted all traces of him, took every photo of him out of the house. He just like one day decided to leave and he never came back. So Monica, I like her. Her backstory is like deep, it's pulls at your heart strings. She's normal.

00:35:38
Speaker 3: I like looking at her too. She want that.

00:35:41
Speaker 1: Okay, well good, I'm glad. So now we've got you on Roney and Salta allor.

00:35:48
Speaker 3: Yeah, most of them got standards.

00:35:51
Speaker 5: You're the highest of the high standards. Don't even let anyone tell you otherwise.

00:35:55
Speaker 1: Yeah, what was that? Do you know how many people are in the comments section being like as Easton seen? Yeah?

00:36:01
Speaker 3: I don't read. I don't like hate, and I feel like I get a lot.

00:36:03
Speaker 1: So you want to know who told me because Lisa is I don't know what happened to her, but she's all over the gram and the comment section. She's the reason I knew that a troll. Mom was talking about the jealous comment. She's how I know that people love Easton by the way she answers every DM. There was a girl that split into her DM and I guess was like using the C word, and my mom replied, my love, why do you talk about yourself that way?

00:36:34
Speaker 4: We need, we really do need to have a segment where she reads mean things and just in the monotone, but she reads it so monitor it'll be one sentence and it'll take her three minutes to get to it, like through it.

00:36:47
Speaker 2: Yeah, and she's double glassed glass, you guys, do we add that to the live show?

00:36:53
Speaker 1: She's or don't answer now, you'll see if you let's talk about it, because I was thinking the exact same thing. Yeah, double glasses reading the comments and then stupid bitch, you are a whore who fucks for money, and I'm like, wow, you're right when you read it, it doesn't sound.

00:37:14
Speaker 2: That bad, and then she goes an whatever, fuck up, No, that's so funny to me.

00:37:21
Speaker 1: No, she's incredible. God, how do we feel about Angie Kat's, Aniva's or whatever.

00:37:27
Speaker 3: I don't like her?

00:37:28
Speaker 1: Really tell me more, because everyone I ask says the exact same thing.

00:37:31
Speaker 3: Sometimes I just don't like her.

00:37:33
Speaker 4: She gives off talking about the person who can it depends on the person on wearing something.

00:37:38
Speaker 3: She just can't wear anything. I hate her. She just sucks.

00:37:40
Speaker 4: Oh God, her vibes are terrible. The way she even like steps out of her vehicle.

00:37:45
Speaker 1: Yeah, she's too And everyone I talk to says the exact same thing. Beverly Hills Kyle says her relationship with Mauricio is too much to deal with right now, so she I don't know if they're together not together. It hasn't aired yet. I did have dinner with Erica Jane last week, and unfortunately for you guys, I'm not talking about anything. We talked about moving on Atlanta Reunion Part two. Little Snoozy, Little Snoozy. I can't tell who's lying. Drew may be lying, Ralph may be lying. I'm going to do I'm going to implement things that I've learned from my healing process, and I'm not going to call Ralph a narcissist or draw any parallels. He may be one, he may not be one. He may be full of the truth. However, fans are saying they are desperate for a reboot of the City's franchise. They want to see old cast members back.

00:38:43
Speaker 4: Well, this is also I wanted to bring back up. Did we come to a conclusion of people living in the same house?

00:38:48
Speaker 3: Is it?

00:38:48
Speaker 1: It doesn't make it to me. It still doesn't make sense.

00:38:52
Speaker 3: This is that or is it something.

00:38:54
Speaker 1: Someone wrote in that you're at risk for forfeiting something or it's abandonment. I've never heard of that. I don't see how two people could own a home together if you I do know that if you were to leave your child in a home and you start a custody battle and one parent leaves to like get some space, you can say child abandonment. I've never heard like he cheated, it's a toxic environment. And I know that you've invested five hundred thousand dollars, But abandonment you lose. He gets the house. It still doesn't make sense. Whatever, don't care. Breaking news that happened today. This will air Wednesday. So Monday, Shannon Madore arrested for dui hit and run. This makes me so sad.

00:39:38
Speaker 2: Oh no, this is breaking, breaking, Like I know this will air a couple days later, but this is like we just found out from producer John thank you.

00:39:50
Speaker 1: Minutes, just mere minutes ago, mere minutes.

00:39:54
Speaker 3: Did this happen last night?

00:39:56
Speaker 5: It's broke on TMZ two hours ago.

00:39:58
Speaker 3: Yeah, so she got a dui at eight am, seven forty. Well it came on that. I guess it was probably last night.

00:40:06
Speaker 1: I think a lot of her anxiety comes from her drinking. And if you and I'm not labeling anybody, alcoholism is a real thing. Being an alcoholic is a self diagnosed disease. No one can diagnose you for that unless I guess you go to see a professional and you open that line of communication. But even her talking about her body to me, because I'm looking at her and I'm like, you've got a great body, and you're complaining about your mid section and like how your face is filled out, that's all alcohol. Alcohol is sugar. It attaches itself and it's very hard to get rid of. And there's if you notice people who drink heavily, they've got like the thin arms, uh, you know, they they'll complain about their weight and then they'll only talk about the mid section in your watching them. And I'm not going to name any names, but I've seen it in the past where I'm like, you're complaining about your way, but there's nothing that you can do no matter how you eat. You've got to like come down on the drinking a bit, obviously. If you're getting duys and hitting and running, it's like a problem that needs to be addressed.

00:41:21
Speaker 2: Yeah, And it's a sad cycle because now I'm not speaking for Shannon, but just speaking from like friends or it's you're you know, someone gets depressed about their body and then they drink to forget about it and have fun, and then they gain weight and then they're depressed more and they drink.

00:41:36
Speaker 5: It's like the classic. And then that's really sad to see.

00:41:38
Speaker 1: Right, Like, you wake up, you're depressed, and then you try to numb the depression by drinking more and then you're like, oh, I feel great, and the site in.

00:41:46
Speaker 4: The anxiety you're bringing up, like anxiety to drink. And that's the one thing that I've noticed. I used to have terrible anxiety no matter where I was, and it was because I was drinking, and I'd pick up a drink and then drink it, but I'd still having anxiety.

00:42:00
Speaker 3: So what would I do? Drink another another drink?

00:42:03
Speaker 4: Yeah, and now saying like not drinking, I can go anywhere and be anywhere and not have anxiety, and you.

00:42:09
Speaker 1: Can figure out how to get rid of the anxiety when it's obviously I'm not saying no one needs to be medicated for their anxiety. That's not what I'm saying. I'm saying personally. In Easton, You're obviously saying personally, Yeah, there are things that I can now do mentally to like bring my anxiety.

00:42:23
Speaker 3: Yeah. I have the tools and I can use them when I'm out now, right, right.

00:42:28
Speaker 1: Did you guys watch last week's episode of OC Yep?

00:42:33
Speaker 5: Yes, Oh my god, it was good.

00:42:35
Speaker 1: It was so good. I love Heather Debreu, the amount of time and effort she puts into the detail, constantly bringing gifts. She always brings the hostess a gift when she has something at her house. She's like the queen of etiquette, and she's everything I wish I could be but will never be for many reasons.

00:42:55
Speaker 5: I'm sold.

00:42:56
Speaker 1: I'm done.

00:42:56
Speaker 2: I'm sold on her. I totally agree with you. I want to be her. She's just a class act. Her relationship is beautiful. What we see, what we see family's beautiful. She's thoughtful, she carries herself in a different way now and that there may be, you know, fifty five million reasons why, but I think that she like.

00:43:16
Speaker 1: Got made a difference. You don't think, not even a little bit.

00:43:18
Speaker 5: Because I saw the teaser for next week and she goes, I'm done with the show.

00:43:21
Speaker 1: I'm done with the show. And I was like, well, I.

00:43:22
Speaker 3: Might be too.

00:43:24
Speaker 1: I have we all say we're done with the show at some point in time.

00:43:29
Speaker 3: Yeah.

00:43:29
Speaker 1: I just love like her attention to like the smallest details, like when she was building the house that she just sold for a fifty five million. This was a while ago, many seasons back, where she's going over the blueprint and she's like, this is the luggage room, and I was like, she has a room dedicated to her luggage. I'm so wet, right, Yeah, yeah, yep, fantastic. I just love her. I just love her. I don't feel like she's pretentious. I just don't. And I know that there's so many people on the planet that if they had her kind of money. They would be fucking hassholes. Okay, maybe even some of the girls on the show. I think she carries herself pretty well for just of solding her home for fifty five million dollars.

00:44:14
Speaker 2: In the gift Like the gift thing was so sweet. I know we talked about that or mentioned that, but I don't know. There's something about that that it's like extra special. And she goes a Leopard's not going to change your spots, like I'm not. I'm not gonna never, I'm always going to bring a gift into me. I'm like, don't change your spots. That's amazing.

00:44:29
Speaker 1: Yeah, And we like gifts. We like gifts, And she was like, I had they were naughty. I shouldn't have given them the gifts. But they were already monogrammed, and I'm like, monogrammed. This bitch is a planner. I wonder how many assistants she has or if she like really does it on her own.

00:44:44
Speaker 2: Now you think you'd see them on the show, or no assistant eventually, Like at the on the show, I think she.

00:44:49
Speaker 1: Has one assistant that we've seen on the show, Okay, and.

00:44:52
Speaker 3: That assistant has two assistants.

00:44:54
Speaker 1: Maybe maybe I related to Shannon this episode when she's They're at dinner at the beginning of the episode and she starts opening up about her relationship and she's like, you know, John is a private person, but I'm not like I. He's a he retreats where I'm a communicator. And I felt for her because I remember season five where like, the person I was with was not wanting to be spoken about ever at all, and it was so debilitating that like I ran back to Salt Lake and no one could get in touch with me. I could barely function. I dove deep into the bottle, heavily drinking, and I'm wondering if this DUI will be a wake up call in her relationship as well, where she's like, I'm cutting out anything now that is not working for me, because I do think the drinking is coming from many relationships that she knows are not good for her, but she continues to stay in them and doesn't even realize you don't need them. But because you keep numbing with alcohol, you can't even wrap your mind around like what you deserve in life, so.

00:46:09
Speaker 2: You don't believe the Because she says this episode, it's basically just you know, we used to be around each other all the time, and now he goes home sometimes and that's hard, like when we're arguing or fighting, and that's hard, but that's just a normal thing.

00:46:20
Speaker 5: You don't believe that, you think there's more.

00:46:22
Speaker 1: I don't. I feel like in the beginning of the episode, she was saying that, like I'm going to share, and Emily points out, this is like this is a safe space, like we as women in relationships, have to be able to talk about these things because it's good for for the group, but it's also therapeutic for you. I don't buy that things are are all good at all. And he's I don't feel like he's he's like sweeping under the rug, like there's no communication today. Tomorrow it's one thing to be like, you know what, I need to take a breather. Let's pick this back up when we've calmed down. It sounds like he just gets the fuck out and doesn't want to talk about it ever. And I just don't feel like that's sustainable. And because she's such an arguer, and I get that, like I don't care if we hit a hundred for an hour, as long as resolution comes. And this is not a good quality. It's something I've been working on. But I get where she's coming from. But I do think that's why she's drinking so much. She's trying to quiet what her gut is telling her, and I relate to that. No, you guys don't feel me.

00:47:25
Speaker 4: No, I think that's a very good point. And I think that what just happened to her is going to be a wake up call and we're going to see where it goes from there.

00:47:33
Speaker 1: Yeah, yeah, I agree with you.

00:47:35
Speaker 2: I'm sure she's probably trying to quiet what her gut is telling her.

00:47:40
Speaker 1: I agree. I want to pay homage to Tamra's look in the Blue. It's so good.

00:47:48
Speaker 3: Yeah.

00:47:48
Speaker 1: And then she like drags the other drags Jen for wearing all of her fake shit fuci.

00:47:54
Speaker 2: You know what, though, I don't know what do you think about that? Because I think I probably have a different viewpoint than you.

00:48:00
Speaker 1: Why, because.

00:48:04
Speaker 5: I I don't know.

00:48:06
Speaker 2: Part of me is like, if she wants to spend yes fake shit, it's probably, I don't know, it's probably. If it's made, made in a shady situation or stolen whatever, then it's a different scenario. But then another part of me is like, she's on the show, she feels pressure, sort of like we were talking about with Salt Lake City. She feels pressure to get all this designer stuff, and maybe she just doesn't want to spend the money, and she's like, oh, they'll never know.

00:48:28
Speaker 5: I'll buy some knockoffs.

00:48:30
Speaker 1: I don't know it. Just to me, it's like.

00:48:32
Speaker 3: You, if you are just go to Zara, baby.

00:48:34
Speaker 1: That's how I feel. I don't buy the dis Yeah, I would not be caught dead in a fake label if I cannot afford it. I may be a freaking idiot for spending that kind of money. But to me, it's like if I'm going to just go if it's just for If I go and I buy something that's not real because it's inexpensive, I'm now buying it because I think it's going to impress people. I'm not here to impress anybody. I go out and I'm a sucker for a designer label because I just love it. Yeah.

00:49:07
Speaker 2: Do you not think she'd get dragged then if she was wearing all like fast fashion, Like, she's gonna get dragged either way, I guess.

00:49:15
Speaker 1: I mean, I think we're all wearing fast fashion. I think it's horrible and it's sad and I wish it could change. But I think I'm sure every single person, I mean a Zara Fast Fashion I don't know.

00:49:25
Speaker 5: Yeah, but I'm.

00:49:27
Speaker 2: Just saying, if she only wore Zara, you don't think Tamora would be like and that Zara bitch over there.

00:49:31
Speaker 1: Or no, I don't. You don't know, Okay, okay. And you can tell if a designer piece of clothing is fake because designers work very hard on matching the corner fabrics together so it looks seamless. If it's not like that, and by the way, this could be completely false. My mom told me, if it's off, like if the GE's on this side, don't meet the GE's on this side, it's fake. But now I'm gonna go home and look at all my bags and see your mom told me that.

00:49:58
Speaker 2: And I looked at the Gucci you got me and that was true on the classic print one.

00:50:03
Speaker 1: Yes, they yeah, there we go. I'm so thrilled to see that Vicky is back. The Trace Amigas are back. They she arrives, They take a shot of tequila, They dress Vicky and pink. She is so freaking fabulous. She comes in ready to rock guns blazing. She knows, she understands the assignment. Hello the og of the OC. She sits down and is like, truth or dare truth? I think that you're pretending in your relationship, oh with Ryan? Who's Ryan? And she's like, we have a mutual friend. Cut to Vicky's confessional. She's like, we have a mutual friend. Jenna and I Tamra. Tamra's the mutual friend. It's a Tella Tamra. I'm like, Tamra is so messy, She's so funny. I love her, and it's it grosses me out because this Ryan person and who she's with, She like, I I don't know if she's gonna hit an explosive breaking point. I hope she does. Like you have to if you're gonna be a housewife, you have to be a little bit unhinged. You have to be vocal, opinionated, and you have to hit one hundred pretty quickly. Right. If you are only one of these things, two of these things, three of these things, you ain't a housewife. You have to be all four. You have to be on a hundred at all times, triggered by everybody who may overstep, like it needs to be like we're walking on eggshells, okay, and I need to be able to hit a breaking point otherwise, like you're a normal person and we don't want you on camera. You're just boring. And Tamra says to Jen, Ryan has not only hooked up with that girl, and Jen knows about all of these text messages that Tamra's talking about, and she doesn't care. She like puts it in the back of her It's really really sad. This for me, I'm like, Wow, the gym, Tamra's gym is not for like Ryan to go work out at, right, it's like his playground to like pray on women, to like scout out his like next Tucci Mama, how sick? That is sick?

00:52:17
Speaker 2: My first question, My first question is why doesn't she care? And how do we even feel about that? Because if she is, she just like a woman who wants to be in a don't ask, don't tell relationship, because that's one thing.

00:52:31
Speaker 1: No, I think that we still live in a world where people can I tell you the amount of times that I have told people that I want to live my life a certain way and this is what I want and their immediate response is but you're going to find someone. You're going to find someone. You're just scarred. And I'm like, why does everything come back to finding a man? In life? Women think that if they don't have a dude. Some women, not all, mostly women that are older than me. They think if they don't have a man, they aren't complete, they aren't desired, they don't have it together, they have their fairy tale is nonexistent, all because you don't have a dude. If she decides to say, you know what, fuck this, get the fuck out of my house, she already decided to leave her marriage behind for this guy, and now she feels if she leaves him behind, what will everyone think. I literally left the father of my children, my husband for many years, who my family loved, for this guy and it didn't work out, Like we better fucking suck it up because it has to look like it was worth it. Oh, that's sad.

00:53:44
Speaker 5: If that's that sounds like it is the case, and that's really sad.

00:53:48
Speaker 1: It's that or or she's the type of woman who doesn't care what the man does, how he treats her. I just need the man. Yeah. Ew And this is her gym. First off, what gym is this it closed down? Oh?

00:54:03
Speaker 5: It did, so you we know the gym.

00:54:05
Speaker 1: It was cut fitness. Oh I didn't. It was Tammer's gym. Jim Okay, got it.

00:54:12
Speaker 5: That makes more sense now.

00:54:14
Speaker 1: I was gonna say all these house was there East anyway? Moving on, Moving on New York. I caught up. I loved last week's episode, Jessel opening up about her upbringing. Jenna talks about her mom, who had asked burgers, and I loved how producers cut to like an alternate universe about like when there would be a right time to It was such a good ed.

00:54:42
Speaker 5: It was such it was amazing because that's how it would have been.

00:54:44
Speaker 1: Yeah, Brin's like crying talking about her devastating childhood, and they're like, my real name's Judith.

00:54:51
Speaker 5: And then the good Yes, it is so good.

00:54:54
Speaker 1: Yes, it's so good. Cy opened up about her mom. It was like a very good episode. So I'm sorry we didn't talk about it last week, but I did watch it and it was great. Can we talk about Jessel and uh this week's episode snoring? Jessel snoring and Uba records it. I had PTSD because Theresa, yes, but you did it to Lisa, she.

00:55:15
Speaker 3: Did it to you, Lisa is a Q train.

00:55:19
Speaker 1: But not only that. I remember going to Saint George to my parents' home, and it was quaint. It was small. I'd be in one bedroom and my parents would be in the other, and their snores weren't in sync, so it was just a constant run on snore. And it was literally I when I would could you say enough to drive you insane? Like I would throw shit at my own door to try and get them to jolt awake.

00:55:48
Speaker 3: She would.

00:55:49
Speaker 4: I'd remember her because it was her room at the end of the mine and we could hear it, and I'd.

00:55:53
Speaker 3: Just hear her just like start pounding down this. Did she just go and open the door? Stop? Shut the fuck, slam it stop?

00:56:03
Speaker 5: Like both of your parents would snore.

00:56:05
Speaker 1: Yeah, but I wish that they could have done it, and because it would just would have and then it would have given us a little bit of downtime. But it was.

00:56:13
Speaker 3: It was.

00:56:15
Speaker 2: Rough.

00:56:16
Speaker 1: It was so rare. That is the funniest thing ever, was stomping down the hall.

00:56:21
Speaker 4: I wasn't sleeping, it was I felt like it was I'm not kidding.

00:56:25
Speaker 3: I was at a nightclub. It just was snoring. Yeah, and then I would just hear Lauren just door open, shut up.

00:56:36
Speaker 1: Oh, I'm so nice to my.

00:56:38
Speaker 3: Parents and I could.

00:56:39
Speaker 4: I was thankful for it because I could get some z's out that ship for real.

00:56:45
Speaker 1: Gosh, we really we have been talking, talking, talking, I know, let's just jump right to this. Would you guys be mad because this was like the explosion that that is about to take place. And by the way, they're not in Greece, They're in Anguilla. Sorry, And I did I see the private beach and it's fabulous and I'm pissed off.

00:57:05
Speaker 3: Did we say grease?

00:57:06
Speaker 1: Yeah, you were like, it's green.

00:57:08
Speaker 4: Looks like I don't. You could say I'm wrong, go back and look, but I said it looks like grease. Roll the footage though, I said, I think it looks.

00:57:18
Speaker 1: Like, Yeah, it's Anguilla. But Aaron decides to steal UBA's phone as a joke, and all hell is about to break loose next week. Would you guys be that upset about a phone being stolen?

00:57:30
Speaker 4: No, just like I wouldn't be that upsetive Jenna didn't tell me her real name was Judith.

00:57:35
Speaker 1: Yeah.

00:57:36
Speaker 3: Yeah, this group, I know, it's like get a worry.

00:57:39
Speaker 2: And also the stuff with brn It's like, take a everyone, take a joke.

00:57:45
Speaker 5: Brind's fine.

00:57:46
Speaker 1: Like the sensitivity, what do you mean? Brin's fine? Yeah this, yes, this was last time.

00:57:53
Speaker 2: But I'm just I'm just bringing like, why is this take a joke? Yeah, take a joke. Why is everyone so sensitive?

00:57:57
Speaker 1: They're very sensitive?

00:57:59
Speaker 5: If this for on my phone now, no, if it were my phone eight nine years ago, I might be nudi'es.

00:58:07
Speaker 2: Yeah, because just like you have nudies or you have like you're texting with someone who you don't want the other girls to know that, or like.

00:58:14
Speaker 3: So you're shady.

00:58:15
Speaker 2: Well no, mine was like someone who was like no, not like that. Oh god, now I'm in myself. No, like someone like they saw their name, they'd be like, what you're texting with him?

00:58:26
Speaker 5: And it was like it was like one of those I was in Nashville. It was like a country music guy. You know what I'm saying, something like one of those things.

00:58:33
Speaker 3: That's why you got to put an emoji as their name.

00:58:35
Speaker 1: Yeah, I know, why would I have a real name? I don't know. But she Uba was about to lose her mind. I ripped the sunglasses off of her face.

00:58:45
Speaker 5: We haven't seen you but lose her mind though.

00:58:46
Speaker 1: So I love Uba. I loved her talking about Jessel when Jesse was like I had twenty dollars in my name, and so I was like I had negative four and it was like twenty dollars, zero dollars, you broke. It's all the same. It's all the same. You're poor, Okay, life is hard even if you got twenty bucks and that's it. I love her. Might as well have zero because what is twenty bucks gonna buy you? Yeah, and we will have zero soon.

00:59:11
Speaker 3: It just gives you a little bit of hope to fail later. Yeah, that's what the twenty does for you.

00:59:15
Speaker 1: No living. For Uba, everything she does is hysterical and she makes all of the sense. All right, guys, let's jump to our ache and relief of the week. Who wants to start us off? Jess, Sure, I will start us off.

00:59:30
Speaker 2: My I'm gonna start with my relief, okay, which is a relief for me, but mostly for my friend.

00:59:38
Speaker 5: I guess, our friend, the mutual friend, the office friend.

00:59:41
Speaker 1: Dave.

00:59:42
Speaker 2: He we know Dave right, we've mentioned him on the podcast before. He is with the action part. Guys, He's in our same office he's traveling alone in Europe right now, okay, and he comes across he texts me, he said, I met this group and I met this one girl. She loves to give them All a podcast, and I was she's so he meets her in but she's from Florida and he's she's like, oh my god, I love it. Apparently she's so kind to him and sweet and they have fun all day.

01:00:09
Speaker 5: And that's how it's fucking done.

01:00:10
Speaker 2: Because if you're a give Them Lalla podcast fan, you're just a bad bitch and you're kind and sweet and nice.

01:00:16
Speaker 5: Her name is Chris name, Hi, Chris, we love you. Thanks for being so nice to our friend Dave.

01:00:22
Speaker 1: So that's nice.

01:00:23
Speaker 5: I know that's because he's just alone in Spain.

01:00:26
Speaker 1: And I was like, you better be careful. And I love them like someone who's part of the Give Them La La crew who's like out in these streets being kind.

01:00:35
Speaker 5: Yes, so thank you, We love you, Chris.

01:00:37
Speaker 2: Number or my ache is physical aches all over my body from jiu jitsu.

01:00:42
Speaker 1: This week, Madison was like, the way she loves is truly inspiring able. It is truly horrifying. Kyle thinks it's terrifying.

01:00:52
Speaker 5: I'm practicing because I'm trying to practice now, you guys. So I'm like, anyone who lets me practice on them, I'm.

01:00:58
Speaker 1: Gonna do it.

01:00:59
Speaker 2: And Kyle is like, after like thirty minutes, He's like, I'm done, I'm done.

01:01:02
Speaker 1: We can practice in the office today before Amazon, can we?

01:01:05
Speaker 2: Because you know, I have to lay on top of you and roll you and stuff, so you have to that sounds. You have to also know how to roll and have someone practice on you so you don't get hurt.

01:01:15
Speaker 5: But I'm physically aching everywhere.

01:01:17
Speaker 2: My new private coach, Josh at tenth Planet Burbank. He is so kind and patient and nice and great and I'm just jiu jitsuing my ass off.

01:01:27
Speaker 1: Good for you, babe, We're all so proud of you. Thank you. At least we'll have a protector somewhere.

01:01:32
Speaker 4: Yeah, for when we get in all of these altercations in the parking lot with Lisa, I have you.

01:01:36
Speaker 5: Yeah.

01:01:36
Speaker 4: Oh good Lord easton ache and relief, all right, I'll start with an ache. I drove like eleven hours yesterday from Salt Lake here, and he.

01:01:46
Speaker 1: Forgot my dad's earn. First of all, we had him seventeen times and let's remember. Let's remember he drove my mom's car, my mom finally has a card, and he didn't bring my dad's earn. Hold on, how are we even supposed to get at home?

01:01:58
Speaker 4: Let's not brought it up seventeen times? Do you want to know how this happened? I look, Lisa is going through all of her clothes. I look at it.

01:02:07
Speaker 3: And I go, we can't forget that.

01:02:09
Speaker 4: And Lisa goes what And I go dad, and she goes, oh, yeah. If I wouldn't even have brought it up, Lisa wouldn't even have known it was supposed to be in the fucking car.

01:02:21
Speaker 1: I don't believe that, because before she left Utah she set up getting DA.

01:02:24
Speaker 3: Taylor was with me and I said.

01:02:26
Speaker 1: Hey, she left, she said, I'm getting DA.

01:02:28
Speaker 4: Well, she forgot when we were there, so this wouldn't even have been I wonder.

01:02:31
Speaker 1: How she forgot. You guys were like trying to figure out how to move out of a house. All I'm saying is, so, how what?

01:02:37
Speaker 3: So why am I getting punished for forgetting?

01:02:39
Speaker 1: Because you're the one that drove and now the car is here and I googled. It's really hard to get an earned through tsa oh ship.

01:02:47
Speaker 4: If you think that we're done, we still have a storage unit full of shit.

01:02:52
Speaker 3: Okay, we're gonna have another car ride back. I promise you that, all right.

01:02:56
Speaker 4: No, the ache is movies and I WoT Super Bad and Rush Hour, and I just don't think with how soft everyone is, they'll ever make movies like that. Again, that's the comedy that I love, I know with and that is my egg that I don't think we'll ever get those type of movies that like give you quotes like super Bad, like Stephen Glandsberg, fucking Steven Glandsberg.

01:03:20
Speaker 3: You know, So that is my egg. And yeah, and then my relief.

01:03:26
Speaker 1: Is always family.

01:03:27
Speaker 3: We will have that.

01:03:28
Speaker 4: That's one that always pushes the limits and that's why I keep doing it.

01:03:31
Speaker 3: But my relief is honestly the podcast.

01:03:34
Speaker 4: And then I'm not really good at like looking on my Instagram, okay, but talking about it earlier.

01:03:41
Speaker 3: I have been noticing and I'm going to get better.

01:03:43
Speaker 4: But to all the people who have been reaching out and making me feel good, you know, like I the love has been good and I just thank you guys for making me feel good.

01:03:52
Speaker 3: So I want to get better at that.

01:03:54
Speaker 4: But my relief is just being on here and hopefully add and see your guys' day.

01:03:58
Speaker 3: Because you add them on.

01:03:59
Speaker 1: Oh that's so sweet.

01:04:02
Speaker 3: And I'll get better. I'm gonna reach out to all y'all. I won't you got too many of them.

01:04:09
Speaker 1: No, I just there's mean people anyway.

01:04:12
Speaker 3: I know.

01:04:12
Speaker 4: If I read a mean comment, I'm fucking out. Yeah, nice one.

01:04:17
Speaker 1: The relief of the week is I am headed to d C with the Humane Society and support of the Humane Cosmetics Act. When this is airing, I will be on Capitol Hill today. I just got goosey. Yeah, it's crazy. I'll be part of a congressional briefing. Did I say it was on Capitol Hill to end animal testing in the cosmetics industry in the United States. So I'm very excited about it. I'm very very nervous.

01:04:48
Speaker 4: Hold on, I have two things I want to say. Congratulations and help you that I am And also Lisa sent us the news, the news of Shannon.

01:04:58
Speaker 5: Oh tell her she's late. Producer John got to us first.

01:05:01
Speaker 1: La.

01:05:01
Speaker 3: La.

01:05:01
Speaker 2: I'm so proud of you because I know how passionate you are about this with especially in the beauty industry, and I can I be as bold to say this is going to be one first of many visits to Capitol Hill, but this first one is so important.

01:05:16
Speaker 1: It's very huge. We also are just waiting and maybe by the time this airs will have good news. But SB three point thirty one, which I've been talking about a lot, it's so that people in the family court system, like judges, have to go through extensive training in domestic violence. So when someone, for example, is in a custody battle and a mom where a dad keeps coming to the court or authority saying I need help protecting myself and my child, they actually listen. I think this will be an incredible live if it's past. The only person we're waiting on to sign is Governor Newsom. So Gov, let's make a difference. I know, anytime anyone's asking the state to fund something, things don't pass. But it actually costs the state more to not have this long place. It is millions of dollars that are spent when a person is murdered. When it comes to domestic violence. I think it was around I think it was over eight million dollars, but they spend on that. So anyway, I hate to leave it on such a heavy note, but that's what I'll be doing today. I hope you guys enjoyed this episode. It was long, over an hour. Sorry you did all right. Thank you guys. I will catch you next week.

01:06:39
Speaker 3: Bye.