Love Thy Neighbor: RHOA Headlines + LAMH

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Speaker 1: Reality with the King is hosted by me, Carlos King. I'm an executive producer who have produced some of your favorite shows from the Real Housewives in Atlanta, New Jersey and my own creation, The Love and Marriage Franchise and Bell Collective. Every episode we recap reality television from the Real Housewives Franchise to The Bachelor or Selling Sunset, in addition to celebrity guests, whether in the unscripted space or scripted as well. Poor Show Williams is free at last, Free at last, Thank God Almighty, she is free at last, So Claudia and Dustin Poor Show, william scores legal victory as ex husband Simon Gubatia's divorce appeal was denied by the judge. According to court documents obtained by People Magazine, the Court of Appeal of the State of Georgia denied Simon's application for a discretionary appeal on Tuesday, September ninth. Porscha followed it up on an Instagram post, saying it's over, Thank goodness, grateful, and she even played one of my favorite Destiny Child tunes.

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Speaker 2: Free now.

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Speaker 1: Simon, as you know, has never met a moment that he didn't want to match. He said that he is not letting this legal setback stop him. Simon said, I quote, we intend to continue pursuing this appeal as we have not yet exhausted all legal remedies. I anticipate a resolution with an approximately. I'm sorry, it's the fact that he gave a tip. I anticipate a resolution within approximately.

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Speaker 2: Twelve through twenty four.

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Speaker 1: Months, depending on how far the opposition chooses to take this matter. And Simon also referred to Portia and response to her Instagram polls as missus two hundred.

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Speaker 2: And sixty five days. Claudia Jordan, what are your thoughts on this?

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Speaker 3: Simon? Leave it alone. This is the prenuptial agreement that you signed off on. Everything else is irrelevant. You want to reverse engineer this thing and now realize that maybe you would targeted or it wasn't real.

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Speaker 4: Dog.

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Speaker 3: You supposed to figure that out before you signed those papers. She's not asking for more than that's in the prenuptial agreement. She's asking for the courts to enforce the agreement that you both signed. You both had time for your lawyers to look up and said documents, and you were the dummy You agreed to this. You were the dummy, Simon. You agree to this. You aful about you was gonna get a peach and you got played. Like people have been saying online, it's the first Nigerian to get scammed by an American. And I loved it for Portsie, I I you love that she is at the place in history now she beat a scammer at scamming. Not to say that Nigerians do that and vote, because I have a lot of friends that are not here. They are fantastic people. But a couple of people that have emailed me have tried to get me to give them four hundred dollars for me to get my one point eighty five million inheritance. And I'm sick of it. But that's neither here nor there. Porscha Williams. I am with you on this. I sup port you in full solidarity, my fellow sister. You are right and he is wrong. That is a prenup for you. Hey, props to you. You got a good lawyer. You you you beat him at his own game. You got forty racks before you got married. Hell, you know, I'm with this. I am inspired, Porsia Williams Uh Porscha Martin Luther King Junior. I am inspired by you. I know y'all surprised. I don't care. You want to call her miss two six five Simon as a dig you married to sixty five and you loved it. You have faith, was all up in that booty, and I'm not mad at Portia.

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Speaker 4: She won and it fits you. See how his face is shaped. Yeah, it's right in there too.

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Speaker 3: Simon sits your ass down. You lost it, you lost it. I'm not mad. I'm happy for Porsche because she if she was trying to go above and beyond the prenup and be greedy and try to get more. She that's one thing she's not. She's only asking for what you read to So man sucking up Simon aka Florida Evans Laudia Laraday.

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Speaker 2: First of all, thank you, Justin.

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Speaker 3: I was looking up at the sky to speaking hell has frozen over?

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Speaker 4: What?

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Speaker 3: Sorry? My sound is bad? Would you saying no, I want to sing it really loud right now?

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Speaker 2: Were you saying no? I was looking up in the sky to see if hell has frozen over?

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Speaker 1: Because I never thought I'll see you the day where you actually gave it.

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Speaker 2: Five minute monologue porsa nothing but compliment.

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Speaker 3: But I don't hate Porsche. I don't like some of the activities, just like I God, I'm on her side. Yeah, no, I'm with her. I'm with her. She's right when she I'm with her when she's right.

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Speaker 4: She's right.

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Speaker 3: She's not being greedy, she's being quang bear and I would need forty thousand a month to sleep with Simon Gobadia once. She is a hero. She gave hope to the hopeless. She glowed him up, got his teeth fixed. He lost little God on the ozempic. He lost a little of weight. I mean he got kicked out the country at the end of the day and can't come back if you want. If so, they're gonna tag his ass, Porscha, get your money, girl, Pete Willie. I'm seeing Pete Willie on this. I know they say said Simon won't stop, mister mcclaudy, And I know, Simon, I know what you scamming my internet provider. I know it's you, Simon. What do you say she's an American hero. I'm mad at her. City girls up like text Porschet. I think I got another stuff. I'm proud of you, girl, I am she's not being gritty. She once was fair. Porsha Williams, I salute you. When's Women's History Month, I'm doing a post to Porscha Williams.

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Speaker 2: All right, that's the.

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Speaker 4: Wrong, you know.

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Speaker 5: I just about season thirteen of the Real Housewives in Atlanta when Porsche went over to Fallon and Simon's home, and I think about that scene when Simon fist bumped Porsche.

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Speaker 4: And the look that was on his face when they said hello and they fist bumped like that.

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Speaker 5: And I think about like different ways that I've seen him show up, even on the show a conflict when they she did her family spin off and it was all that chaos going on. I think about the pitch of his voice when he's speaking about things that he passionate about. There was some red flags of vindictive bitch assness that were missed along the way here, right, And this is why when you see signs on some real shit, when you see signs of people being vindictive and having a nasty, mean spirit against others, that can very well be pointed at you when you're in relationship with them. So sometimes you have to consider the risk versus a reward with marrying someone for whatever purpose she married them for. Portia says that she was in love with him, and we believe that because that's what she said. But love wasn't enough because he now is actually hateful towards her.

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Speaker 4: So I don't know.

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Speaker 5: You call, like Claudia said, you're calling her miss two sixty five, But nigga, you married her and you also calling her miss two sixty five from somewhere else.

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Speaker 4: She literally got him out of her hair. She got that.

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Speaker 5: Her and Kelly Clarkson have gotten the best divorce deals that I have ever.

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Speaker 4: You know what I'm saying. Like they got the they got in the end. You know what I'm saying, They got a good result. So that's all I have to say. I just started.

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Speaker 5: I think that when you see signs, just pay attention to the signs before you attach yourself to someone and you have to have legal counsel come in to get you away from them because they Simon is holding on to this marriage with Porsche, the way Celi and Nettie was holding on to each other, and the color purple that mister was telling me to get off of his land, and shit, that's how hard floating on to this marriage, and I know that that's got to be frustrating as hell for Porscha because she's ready to move on.

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Speaker 4: She back on the Housewives.

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Speaker 5: Her money is up, she's got a great deal over there at NBC Universal. She's looking good because she's now working with the stylists that Kelly and Britt fell out, you know what I'm saying. Over and Paris is throwing down. Got Porscha looking good as hell. She had on a black LaQuan Smith dress that was like cut out on the side.

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Speaker 4: The other day.

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Speaker 5: Paris already getting over there with Porsche. So she's gonna look amazing this season. I know she's ready to just close that chapter, but unfortunately she married a motherfucker that just ain't gonna let go.

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Speaker 3: So and ladies, when you're man, when you're dating him, and it feels women, I gotta speak to my women right now. The way we're wired. A lot of times we think when a well, women are waking up to this. But a lot of times we hear my ex was crazy, she was a bitch, she was this, that and the third, and then they're love bombing you. You're like, oh, it's different with me. She didn't see him like I saw him up. We have a different kind of bond. A bitch ass is the bitch as the bitch ass. And the way he was carrying on was fell in online being doing a little social media bullshit. It was foreshadowing for how he behaved now. So I'm not surprised by his antics. I think he's the same person with all of his women. It just transfers to a different person he loved while I'm whoever is in his face and you know, shot with them with gifts and stuff, and then when it goes back he gets vien dicked. But good for Courtio, she got it in writing ladies, prenup and life insurance policies. Get life insurance policy on your boyfriends because they might be putting your life at the risk with theirs outside of your bedroom. I'm just saying, and see, wow, oh okay, Dustin, do you have any life shaving policy from people?

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Speaker 4: Well? No, I don't even know.

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Speaker 5: I'm like, whoop, we go berg. I don't want nobody in my house. Remember when they asked you if you won't work, why she didn't want to get married and she said she didn't want no quote she said she didn't want nobody in her house. I felt that and I felt seen. So no, I don't have none, and that I'm gay. So if you get to try to get a life insurance policy on me, I'm gonna beat your ass. That's offensive for me. You know how, some stuff just requires a reaction of either cussing out of I'll never forget Nephew tim Me shout out to Nephew tim Me from Steve Harvey Show. He used to do these prank phone calls, and they prank phone call this this girl's father. This girl has a prank phone called her father, and who was about to have surgery. And this guy pretended to be a reverend from the church and he was praying for him. But then in the prayer he started acting like he was going to ask them to take one of his kidneys out while he was up there on the table and to give to him. And mind you, he's having a completely unrelated surgery. And so the guy, as he's going along with the prayer or listening to the preacher pray, he just.

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Speaker 4: Started going to fuck.

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Speaker 5: Wait, wait a goddamn minute, he just started like his whole energy change, what the hell you mean give you, my kiddy, I give you know my motherfucker.

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Speaker 4: He just cussed them out. Some things just require that sort of response.

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Speaker 5: And if I found out that a motherfucker had gotten a life insurance policy on me without me knowing it.

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Speaker 4: I would just I'll beat you the fuck up personally like that.

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Speaker 3: I have friends that I have a good friend that does has an insurance company. I'm not going to put him on blast on the show. But ladies and jasleman, if you would like to get a life stress policy on your trifling baby daddy, on your ex, whatever, hit me up and I will connect you with my boy and I will get that down.

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Speaker 4: I will get a cut, you will, uh, claud.

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Speaker 3: There's some policies that they don't even need to know. So I'm just saying, ladies, we got to be smart business women. We put our lives in risks sometimes. And imagine if you had a life insurance on every nigger that did your dirty in the past, that you're dating, that you broke, Oh my god, I would be rich. I would be able to pay for it.

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Speaker 4: Oh wow, you rich if you collect on it, right, Huh, I'm saying the collect.

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Speaker 2: It they're you know, they keep me.

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Speaker 4: Okay, Hey, I've been drinking.

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Speaker 3: Let me straighten.

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Speaker 2: Jesus. At the end of the day, love is love, and it appears that those two have definitely.

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Speaker 3: Love wins, and so the good lawyers.

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Speaker 4: Okay.

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Speaker 1: Well, with that being said, speaking of Housewives of Atlanta, our last hot topic of the day before we begin to love in Madge.

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Speaker 2: Huntsville, and our special guest Tricia from Love of Matge Huntsville joins us.

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Speaker 1: Housewives of Atlanta star Kelly Farrell was hit with a protective order after allegedly.

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Speaker 2: Entering a woman's home. Oh Kelly, I don't know you were insurrectionists. Okay, so here we go.

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Speaker 1: Kelly Farrell was ordered to stay thirty yards away from a neighbor who claimed she entered her home without permission. US Weekly exclusively reported on this. Kelly has denied the claims, So Destiny, Claudia.

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Speaker 2: This is what happened. On September second, a person by the name of Buinalda Cash excuse me, followed.

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Speaker 1: The petition for a temporary protective against Kelly. Kelly is a part of his neighborhood and the person is an HOA board member. She claims that Kelly aggressively entered her private patio through her private gait in a violent manner. She goes on to say that Kelly was accompanied by others and added that this incident occurred after her vehicle was booted.

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Speaker 2: For again violating guidelines by parking in a narrow.

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Speaker 1: Driveway which is also a designated fire lane. The petitioner lists that Kelly had to be physically restrained and removed, during which time she engaged in bizarre behavior while making a series of erratic verbal threats.

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Speaker 2: Before I get your opinion, a for.

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Speaker 1: Kelly said, since the announcement of kelly involvement with the rough House works in Atlanta, Missus Cash has engaged in a concerning pattern of behavior directed at Kelly and her family. Out of all respect to parties, we would not be commenting any further. We strongly urged at Kelly's pharmacy and that her family be respected, and we cautioned against the spread of mis information. So dustin you like to cutch folks out when you can?

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Speaker 2: What do you think.

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Speaker 6: Kelly being an insurrectionist allegedly a not insurrectionist?

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Speaker 4: Right not storm the.

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Speaker 2: Capital, Honey, She's stormed the cash house.

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Speaker 4: Child number one when they said that she wentn't through the gate.

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Speaker 5: All I could see was Kelly reaching her arm up over the gate like this and clarent and not right to come over. Then she got to get a restraining or her.

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Speaker 4: All you gotta do is Kelly ain't nothing before one, you know what I'm saying. How tall is Kelly?

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Speaker 3: Man?

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Speaker 4: What was she gonna do?

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Speaker 5: And they talk about she came through acting e radic and shit, that was just that outfit. You know her outfits be big and dramatic. Shit over her heead it's probably a big outfit, big hair, you know what I'm saying.

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Speaker 4: And she came through there cussin man, you know, doing all that stuff.

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Speaker 5: What I think happened was it's one of two things now that since they've been this is Kelly's second season filming for the Housewives, that neighbor either wants to be on the show and it's trying to create like a conflict with Kelly creates some drama that may be filmed, or she's literally sick of the parking when the production vans and shit are over there filming. Kelly lives in a She lives in a like a condominium attached home, right, you know, style community. So the parking is probably very limited. It's probably parking wars. That's what it sounds like to me. They've probably been beefed out over the parking on the shoot days and shit, and the lady just called the police. He's probably a shitty neighbor. Let Kelly have a TV show with being jealous. You know what I'm saying.

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Speaker 4: I'm on Kelly side with this, because how much harm can she do?

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Speaker 2: Claudia.

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Speaker 3: Real quick disclaimer, because some of the rain drops are dragon is. I'm not encouraging you to commit insurance fraud. Y'all talk with y'all talk, y'all figure out what you can get in your state and what guidelines and what countries and states y'all in, y'all work it out. I'm just saying, if you want me to introduce you to Songe who goes insurance, and then y'all can figure out the legalities. I have a connect and he lives in Tectives. That's all I'm saying. So I knock it off.

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Speaker 2: I remember through the.

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Speaker 3: Shorts, I am not britt Eatie. I remember, Yo, calm down, Okay, I know a guy. I know a guy. That's all I'm saying, okay, that's the lady. If giving motherfucker Karen energy. Yo, if you with the HOA, most likely you are Karen. First of all, let's get into the history of AH. They were starting to keep black people out the neighborhoods. They put on the little little destrictions, make it difficult, make it wear it. You put a sawn in your yard, We don't like, we can take get your house out of here. You didn't pay it, hoas, we can put a lean on your house and take it. They start off very racist. So I feel like, I don't know if this woman is a white woman issue, why it's given, Like, oh, that's true. Well she's given Karen energy and they're on black herons. Okay, yes, yes, I'm not gonna be an accomplished you guys, knock it off. Okay, So it's giving, hater, it's giving. Who does she think she is? And like you said, parking wars like we're really I feel like Allen iverson practice. Really we talked about it, right, a narrow alley practice, you're gonna call the police, and then the language they use, right, she approached my patio area very aggressively, like Dustin said, Kelly is four feet three and tiny. Maybe she has a loud mouth, but you're so offended, it's like knocked off, Like this seems like something that could be dealt with through a simple conversation. It is probably misunderstanding, and this woman has motives. There's probably a lot of jealousy. She knows who she is. Now Kelly doesn't have a target on her back. And if you really thought she was a threat, now you got a protection order against.

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Speaker 5: The only thing I give the neighbor, right, Kelly is single mother. So nine times out of ten when she went around there, she had all her daughters with her, right, they all the same height, Kelly them twins the other to everybody the same height. So she might have thought it was like a posse you know what I'm saying, that first glance type shit like, oh, she didn't her girls over here, but it was really her girls, like her daughters. That's the only thing that I will give the neighbor. Maybe you know saying I don't, I don't know.

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Speaker 3: No.

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Speaker 1: The biggest thing I will say this from my experience, From my experience, not all some some hoa's are unfortunately ruth list. Some of them definitely have prejudice.

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Speaker 2: Motives in them. It's hlways again, not all, but a lot, a lot from my.

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Speaker 1: Experience, have have definitely been very prejudiced and it has It has definitely shown up in ways where whether it's your grass not being cut to a certain link, whether it's your garbage.

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Speaker 2: Cannons outside two hours past, whatever the.

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Speaker 4: Case may be, black lives in the window.

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Speaker 2: Yeah, yeah, things like that. Yeah. So I agree with the two of you.

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Speaker 1: This does like a case of possible situation that may not be what this woman is a legend Kelly has done.

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Speaker 2: We don't know. Dustin makes a good point.

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Speaker 1: I'm not gonna name names, but when I was filming Housewives of Atlanta, there were a neighborhood or two where production vands were not allowed to be in the neighborhood and we have to park outside of the area, We had to bring our geared to the gate, we had.

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Speaker 2: To get bussed, and and that's a lot.

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Speaker 1: And they did feel like you guys are interrupting, you know, our neighborhood and infiltrating on it.

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Speaker 2: So I agree with Dustin.

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Speaker 1: This woman to me sounds like this could be a case of a situation where it has to do the production and it has to do with her not being the best neighbor away.

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Speaker 3: The type of person that signs up to be part of the JAY is the same type of person that signs up to be a security guard after they got turned down for the military or being a police officer. Yeah right, you little dick energy. It's given small clit energy. It's giving no clid energy. I have money, and so I just feel like people just making a big deal and and nothing like to sit there and put a boot on a car of a woman you know, lives in the neighborhood when you can easily go up to your neighbors say hey, lady, you're parked in the wrong area, like you're to be doing being an assholes in this woman she asked kids, why would you do that to her? Like, I think that so foul. You could just make a phone call you. They're weaponizing those stupid laws and the ancient ay and it's it's really frustrating.

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Speaker 4: So yeah, don't mean you got to be an h O E.

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Speaker 3: Who is this?

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Speaker 4: Who is this whole neighbor? Who are you? I had some hennessy, yes.

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Speaker 2: Little water, So let's get you don't don't drink with Claudia.

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Speaker 1: Let's make into I don't smoke either, bitch, I don't do idiot like, won't be a bitch.

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Speaker 3: Oh you're giving h away yourself right now, Karen Karen King.

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Speaker 4: Aka wow you Claudia.

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Speaker 2: At least are text messages from my assistant isn't doing it? This is reality with the King and I'm Carlos King. Let's get back into the show. What big I want to get into Dustin Love.

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Speaker 1: That one is the episode of love and Marriage Hauntsville, Laudia and Dustin.

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Speaker 2: I would love to get your thoughts. First of all, I do want to start about saying this.

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Speaker 1: My favorite seen this episode was Marcel and his daughter having a petiture date and it was super special because look, Marcel to me, and I'm gonna go a record saying this. I think Marcel Scott is like an amazing reality star because I think he just gets it and he shows up and he shows out and he knows how to like, he knows how to be a team player. I'll say that in terms of working with an ensemble cast, he's wonderful at that. He also somebody that the audience hated Paudia for seasons because of the waves. He will, you know, talk to Tisha about me a stay at home mom, all those things.

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Speaker 2: This scene really showed what a.

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Speaker 1: Great father he is and how his daughter really does look at him like I love my dad and they have a great relationship. Because one thing about kids, they can't hide their emotions when it comes to their parents. And I just thought it was a fantastic scene. So before we get to the rest of stuff, I just wanted to shot that one out because it made me laugh, It made me smile, and it's the beauty of what the show presents.

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Speaker 5: And they humanized Marceau in a way that is immeasurably valuable. Right, Like you said, Marceau hasn't had the best history with the audience in a lot of ways, but seeing that softer side of him as a dad.

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Speaker 4: You know, his.

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Speaker 5: Beautiful daughter who is articulate and well adjusted and full of personality and look just like both her parents.

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Speaker 4: She's a beautiful girl. It was good to see them in conversation in that scene. That was dope. That was dope.

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Speaker 3: It was that then gave a lot like if you're really paying attention to what they were saying. You can gather from the scene that the daughter keeps it very real with her dad and he is sweet and he wants his daughter's approval. You can gather that, you know, there's a lot of whispers about whether he cheated and all, you know what, he's his dirt, he's done. She probably knows some of that, and that's why she said she'll be in therapy, therapy for him. Like she was giving him like his criticisms without being mean about it and be honest like she wasn't like being fake, like everything's perfect. And then and also like really giving props to her mother, and he wasn't. He didn't come off jealous or like a bitch about it, like what about me? He wasn't. He was like, yeah, you're right like she is. And when the daughter said when matthe said, if this was a house, she'd be the foundation, and he had to agree with that. I thought that was super dope, Like it was. I that was a great scene and it was more complex than it looks like on the surface, if you like, look at what they were saying. She's saying, I love you dad. We use ab them been perfect, But I feel rocked you, I'm giving you a nine. Then she said at eight, then she went down to like a six and the seven. So you know, there's some things that that she's aware of, right, But even with that, she still love her dad and.

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Speaker 4: It was super cute.

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Speaker 3: He's got me up very likable this season. I think I think he's doing doing the season just right.

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Speaker 2: I do, I do, yeah, yeah, no.

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Speaker 1: And and like you said about the daughter's response to her mother, like saying, how Tsha is the foundation and look, one thing I will say about that family since we're on it is the fact that you can say what you want about Tisha.

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Speaker 2: One thing that I will personally say is Tsha is a great mother. And Tisha's first priority are her kids. And I think it was.

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Speaker 1: Last season, but this season before, and I really wish we spent more time on it at the reunion, but of course we have to talk about other stuff. But one thing that Tsha said that I thought was so powerful, Claudia and Destin, she said that she misses being a stay at home mom and how she was and how she thought that she was caught up in being a boss chick and a boss woman and a boss wife. That she sometimes questioned whether or not she was doing something based on the noise of you know, your sorority sisters, your castmates, your friends, the audience. But she talked about how there was a moment of discovery for her where her kids had these milestones and she wasn't present from them because she was working. And I just thought it was so powerful for a woman who is a wife, a mother that has two college degrees. This woman has several degrees to say I miss just being a mom sometimes and sometimes not a mom a stay and I sometimes wonder if I made the right choice in that.

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Speaker 2: And I thought that was.

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Speaker 1: Powerful and based on Macy's compliment over her mother's choices to me at those that Tsha made the right decision, not quitting her job but balancing it out more to where she's able to be Ramo's kids and shout out to Teasa Scott. I just want to say that because I thought that was beautiful for Macy to really say that about her mom too.

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Speaker 5: I agree, And I actually think there's another point here that adds to Latsa's Scott to her value on this cast right, because yes, that was powerful for her to kind of reflect and maybe make some adjustments in what was going on. I also think it was just as powerful and impactful for her to show her emergence from that, you know, cocoon essentially of being just to stay at home mom with a strong formal education behind her right and a husband who was not encouraging her to go out and spread her wings professionally. I think that was very impactful for people to see. I think she inspired a lot of women who were in traditional structure the marriages, who had husbands that maybe didn't want them to work or didn't want them to go be out in the world. I think Latisia Scott having a husband who aligned himself with traditional marriage values and stuff and still showing that she was willing to figure that part out with him because she was going to make that jump out into the professional world, and she also was not going to lose her husband or family along the way. I think that was also powerful and I'm really glad she showed that because Latisa is the person that a lot of folks had counted out. You hear her mom and them talking over her like they can just control everything about her. So seeing her kind of like spread her wings in that way was dope to me watching that show, and I like that she had an independence in some ways because it was unexpected.

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Speaker 4: You didn't expect that from her. So I.

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Speaker 3: Love the fact that a black woman on like didn't have to go out there and give fifty to fifty if she didn't want you, she chose to, and like she had a safe space where she could if she wanted you. And then how important education is. Like all the kids with over four point zero great point average, Like that's pretty damn awesome, Like to balance all that and their issue whatever they got going on, Like, that's that's not an easy feat.

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Speaker 1: So kudos love no kudos have done for sure. And listen, you'll see school Alert.

00:30:37
Speaker 2: You will see may feedback on the show and another scene with her dad.

00:30:42
Speaker 1: But I just watched two weeks ago, and it's just amazing.

00:30:49
Speaker 5: I love that she felt professionals too. She's getting a professional with her for her dad.

00:30:54
Speaker 4: I like that.

00:30:55
Speaker 3: Yeah.

00:30:55
Speaker 1: See, of all the kids, I think Maycie is more like Marceau because Macy is able to match his sarcasm and give it back to him.

00:31:06
Speaker 2: And you're going to see more of that in this season. One of the things I want to get into.

00:31:10
Speaker 1: Speaking of Marceau is the scene between him and Martel. They finally had their one on one based on the disaster group scene with the guys from last week, and in this scene they really wanted to get an understanding on where things went wrong in their friendship and how they're able to move forward.

00:31:30
Speaker 2: They both intimated that, look.

00:31:33
Speaker 1: We do throw jets at each other, especially comes to the women in our lives, and how that can definitely interfer with us finding some common ground. And based on the scene, it doesn't appear that they have made amends. But Claudia, based on that scene, what did you think about Marcel and Martella do you think they'll be able to be friends ever?

00:31:53
Speaker 4: Again?

00:31:54
Speaker 3: I think they both you know, when you agree to disagree and you just say pleasant things, so that's kind of and they like, yeah, okay, all right, well you don't say anything about me, almost because they both win their confessionals, and Martel still seem like he was in his feelings and Marcel's like, I mean, he always does this. He always says he wants to change. He always does this. I mean we like to give him grace, like maybe he'll change, But I feel like there was the posture of both of them. That scene was so different. Martel, I'm Marceau was like smoking a cigar, like Nigo whatever.

00:32:28
Speaker 6: Like you know what I'm saying, like it is what it is.

00:32:31
Speaker 3: He came from for a more position of power, and Martel came from more with a position of emotion like be my friend, like me.

00:32:40
Speaker 4: Me too.

00:32:42
Speaker 3: At the end of the day, I think they got you know, we said it before. This dirt that is out there that Martell has on everybody. He's mad because his dirt is out there. Nobody else is really out there like that, and he probably wants to even it's probably frustrating, and it just seems like Martel is still he's going to be mad about that. I do think Marcell wants the approval of Marseau. I do I think Marceau is like doesn't really take it as seriously, like he ain't really tripping, Like he knows what he's dealing with, he knows the man he's dealing with, and he knows that he ain't gonna really change. I mean, the conversation was cute, but I think one thing goes wrong, they're gonna both be on their size and Martel can be back in a podcast with the ops. That's what I think. I think Martel can't help it. I think he can't help it.

00:33:27
Speaker 5: Yeah, you know, here's what I say, and I actually text Carlos about this earlier. At this point, you got four people in four corners of the boxing ring, right. You got Scott in this corner with the things that she said to me, and Carlos. You have Marceau in one corner with the things that he's saying are true and the things that he's saying are not true. You have Maurice Scott in one corner with the things that he's saying are true and are not true. And then you have Martel in another corner with the things that he he has said that are not true, and now the things that he's saying are true and not true. I think that at this point on the reunion stage and Carlos, I don't know if it's too late to make this happen or not. I think that at this point there's nothing left to do. Then it take a live light detective tests, straight up, Mari. Have Maurice do a light detective test about the shit that Martel said about him. Have Martel do a light detective test about everything. Have Marceau do a light detective test about what Martella is accusing him of. Have Latisa do a light detective test about the things that Martella is saying are not true that she said. Let's just clear it all up, because you have four people who are very, very confident in their conviction right with what they're saying. You have four people who are passionately standing on business and if they're willing to do that, I think that that would be fascinating TV. So Carlos, you can find a third party that's credible now that they're going to get your damn legal note right there.

00:35:01
Speaker 4: You have legal gifts.

00:35:03
Speaker 5: Qualified a minister that for administrator for the test, and you know, do that, Carlos, Can we do that?

00:35:11
Speaker 4: Can we get a light of detective tests on the reunion?

00:35:14
Speaker 2: You know what's so funny thought, I've been watching the Real House Wasserfords County and they did it on their show.

00:35:21
Speaker 4: One thing that well, Number one, I.

00:35:23
Speaker 2: Thought it was entertaining. Let me just say that.

00:35:25
Speaker 1: I thought when OC did a few weeks ago, it's very entertaining. What's interesting about it, though, Dustin is based on the resource that has done. In order for a live detector test to be considered accurate, the person must be strapped paul on with the machine for at least ninety minutes, right, And that's the only way to accurately detect whether or not the person truly did pass or fail. Unfortunately that didn't happen on the show because you've got seven women being polygraph that would have taken the whole day plus more. Sailed that to say, Look, I think it's great for entertainment, but what I will say is it is something that I think.

00:36:14
Speaker 2: Look, if the if we have the time, I would love to do something like that. I don't, but I know my cast. I don't think my cast will ever decide.

00:36:27
Speaker 5: Yeah, you think if they wouldn't be compliant. That's funny to me though, because everybody is really.

00:36:34
Speaker 1: I will say, of all of my cast members, I will say this, and they're gonna look, they're gonna read me at the reunion.

00:36:41
Speaker 2: For saying this, But it's fine.

00:36:42
Speaker 1: Of all of my hospital cast members, the only ones who I think would love to do a life.

00:36:48
Speaker 2: Detective test is Kimmy and Titia.

00:36:53
Speaker 3: I would love a reality show where the cast is strapped up the entire show. Audience can see it the entire time. Who was in real time? You're welcome love, that's actually good.

00:37:06
Speaker 2: Oh oh, and and.

00:37:09
Speaker 1: Give me a teacher one hundred percent, Miss Mail. I'll give Sundy poppercent. But the rest of them, I don't think they would ever do it. Well, listen, we have Trisha coming on, So does it make that the first question you ask her?

00:37:23
Speaker 4: Okay, I'm curious, rain drops.

00:37:28
Speaker 2: Let me know the comments.

00:37:29
Speaker 1: Who y'all think would say yes to a polygraph test at the reunion?

00:37:35
Speaker 2: Let me know the comments. Who y'all think it would be. But listen, I will say this. I do hope that Mark telling Marcelf find their way. I will say this, I think so.

00:37:47
Speaker 1: Much damage has been done that would they ever get back to who they were ten years ago?

00:37:54
Speaker 4: No, I don't.

00:37:55
Speaker 2: I don't think so.

00:37:56
Speaker 1: I think too much damage has been done. And I think what they're trying to figure out, based on me watching the scene, was a common ground, based on how can we move forward while we're all a part of this situation?

00:38:10
Speaker 3: That's what I And also, when did Martell get engaged? Yeah, he said my fiance in that scene, we didn't see an engagement, did we.

00:38:22
Speaker 2: And then he didn't want to move her in.

00:38:23
Speaker 3: The house with him, Like he's like, I'm a mover in but oh, that's when we get married. Your boy is all over the place. He is a narcissist, he's a liar. In my opinion, that's a topic.

00:38:36
Speaker 4: Anything to that, I don't have to.

00:38:40
Speaker 5: It's literally it's a thing like that would be like Claudia is saying like, Okay, tomorrow is you know, Tuesday type shit.

00:38:49
Speaker 4: Ain't nothing for me to say because we all know tomorrow is Tuesday.

00:38:52
Speaker 3: So like, I mean, take I was like, wait, now you claim.

00:39:01
Speaker 2: I haven't seen e engagement photos? You know what's so funny? You know what's so funny?

00:39:06
Speaker 1: And let's have a conversation and listen, we've all been in situations, relationships, all of that. I think it's one of those things where that's just a name you this is this is honest.

00:39:18
Speaker 2: In my opinion, I think it's a name you throw around nowadays. I don't think I feel a lot of people say, yeah, there's a lot of people who use that.

00:39:25
Speaker 3: No Carlo Carlos lamone get married.

00:39:30
Speaker 1: Yeah no I'm not, no, no, no, I'll grout you, Dustin, what I'm saying, No, no, no, let me let me clear what I'm saying. When people throw around the word Beyonce, I agree with Dustin that they're saying that because they want to get married. I was just saying that it doesn't mean if they had an official engagement.

00:39:47
Speaker 2: That's what I was saying.

00:39:48
Speaker 4: I don't know who in the hell will callt somebody a fiance you ain't proposed to.

00:39:53
Speaker 3: He ain't you don't want to get married. He feels lesser than because everybody else is in a real marriage and he's like on a me too thing. So let me make let me validate it more. That's your side, knock it off. That is not your fiance. We'll call your wife when you actually get married. And then when the follow up question was asked about moving her in, I'm moving her in but not with me. Basically like what boy? You full of shit?

00:40:16
Speaker 4: Yeah?

00:40:17
Speaker 2: Yeah too?

00:40:18
Speaker 4: Where did this moral high ground come from? You know what I'm saying, Like, well.

00:40:22
Speaker 5: We have to work, you know, we have to move by the rules of what. Y'all got a baby, you know what I'm saying, And you was married when y'all had the baby. Are the lady grandstanding was kind of like odd to me, Like.

00:40:37
Speaker 3: Ladies don't fall for that bullshit when they call you wifey. No, that's a that's a that's a promise ring, that's a let me shut you up with the wifey. No, I'm with your wife, or I'm your girlfriend or your side. Make it clear, don't call me your fiance if I'm really not. So you can look better. And amongst your male peers that are all married, man, don't do that.

00:40:59
Speaker 2: Put a ring on it.

00:41:00
Speaker 3: Tell make it official, make that woman an honest woman. You know, your family in solidarity under one last name. No broken homes. Be about that life, Martell. I'm rooting for you, are you okay? I'm gonna play the love good night.

00:41:26
Speaker 2: I think you gave Porscha.

00:41:28
Speaker 1: You know you made Porscha the post chop of women's history luck, which we appreciate that, and you want more.

00:41:33
Speaker 2: Tell Hope to put a ring on it and stand on it, and that's what he.

00:41:37
Speaker 3: Wants to do, and you know what good things coming threes. I'll also respond to one thing. Fadra looked good.

00:41:47
Speaker 4: She did, she did look beautiful at the look really pretty.

00:41:51
Speaker 3: She looked pretty and the dress of line. She lost way. That's three for y'all. Right, now, don't ask you for no more.

00:41:56
Speaker 4: She did at the EMS yesterday, she definitely did.

00:42:01
Speaker 3: She was in the room, y'all. She made it. She was in the rooms the room that will.

00:42:07
Speaker 2: I always say, you can't judge.

00:42:10
Speaker 1: A reality star just by what just being a reality star, and they could be in all the rooms.

00:42:15
Speaker 2: And again, I love love, love, love love love. You all were female sing tonight. Brother Oh thanks, Karen Okay from h O A is okays.

00:42:27
Speaker 4: All right, So look.

00:42:29
Speaker 2: We have a special guest tonight. So we're going to get into the scene that.

00:42:33
Speaker 1: Had all of social media talking Claudie and Dustin. It was a scene where Ken told his friend Will that he and Tricia we're having issues. Tricia told her friend Destiny and Sharon that her and Kim were having issues.

00:42:54
Speaker 2: We showed a video this happening.

00:42:56
Speaker 1: So before we get to all of that, I want you to to be able to ask Tricia the question. So, ladies, jentleman, Games and Days and Unskilled fancom may drop giving up our special guest tonight. The beautiful Latricia read.

00:43:10
Speaker 6: Us, Oh, I'm so glad you said.

00:43:17
Speaker 2: What do people call it?

00:43:19
Speaker 6: Well, I know I dropped that Burnett, but you know, I'm so glad.

00:43:24
Speaker 3: That's the last name for being in reality show. Like read us read us down. I like, that's cute. It's r E A d U s.

00:43:34
Speaker 2: Oh my gosh.

00:43:35
Speaker 6: That last night has been butchered so much.

00:43:38
Speaker 4: No read us read.

00:43:43
Speaker 2: Yeah, And that's exactly what we want you to do tonight. So listen, Tricia. Obviously you know this past Saturday's episode was.

00:43:52
Speaker 1: The talk of the social media streets on Saturday, Sunday and even Monday Night Live, where everybody is so invested in your relationship with Ken.

00:44:03
Speaker 6: But I need to get paid for that.

00:44:06
Speaker 3: Wait what you say? I heard him?

00:44:10
Speaker 4: Oh does it?

00:44:12
Speaker 3: Everyone?

00:44:12
Speaker 2: That's the relationship but you Trisha.

00:44:15
Speaker 4: Yes, first question, I got a question for your friend. You know, I come in love. I got a question for your friend. So and I do not mean to derail things, Carlos, but it's just it's there, so we got to go for it.

00:44:30
Speaker 5: Letricia, what do you have to say to There's been a takeaway that a lot of the audience has had that you appear to be okay with either outcome of your relationship. Right when we've seen you have conversations with like your friends Sharing and Destiny, the conversation you had then, and other conversations we've seen you have. When both outcomes are offered, you seem to be okay, like, you know, well, what is he gonna move out?

00:44:57
Speaker 4: He might? Are you gonna say together? Yet we'll be together? It's like an immediate acceptance of whatever it is.

00:45:05
Speaker 5: So what do you based on where we're at on the show and based on what we've seen in the episode right as far as the timeline is concerned, at that point, what did you If you could clear that up for everybody, what did you want to do? Did you want to continue the relationship or did you want the relationship to end where you are you tired of ken you know what I'm saying? Or do you want the relationship to work and you want to figure out a solution? Where were you in that space at the time.

00:45:34
Speaker 7: In that space at the time, I was definitely confused because I felt like you were going through so much that at one point it was like, Okay, let's work it out. And then again three days later, here we are having these back and forth and it was so like new to me because it's just the LANs year has been crazy. So at the moment, I was like, Okay, at this point, I'm tired.

00:46:02
Speaker 6: My soul is tired.

00:46:03
Speaker 1: I am tired.

00:46:04
Speaker 6: If we don't fix it, let's fix it. If not, then let it be what it's going to be.

00:46:10
Speaker 4: But that's it.

00:46:11
Speaker 7: They don't have anymore I didn't have. We've been fighting so much going back and forth. At that moment, I was just tired. I was exhaustome, like I didn't have any more fight in me.

00:46:21
Speaker 5: So you did not want to continue the relationship, then that's what the choice you would have.

00:46:25
Speaker 4: Made in that moment.

00:46:27
Speaker 7: In that moment, it's a part of me did, but a part of it was like, Okay, if it's not going to work, then it's just not going to work. How However, how how much I wanted to work out, it just seemed like it's just not.

00:46:42
Speaker 4: Okay.

00:46:45
Speaker 3: I was watching this scene, like, I recognize that look when you as a woman, like when you're like when they asked you about saving the relationship, they didn't seem like there was like a panic in your eye, like you know when you're like the thought of losing someone, you're like, no, I would never You did seem like you were done. And I want to ask you, at that point, were you not in love with him? It didn't seem like you were in love with that. And you know, we fall in and out of love doesn't mean you don't love the person. But at that point, did you feel like you were in love with him? At that point?

00:47:17
Speaker 6: No, I definitely was still in love with him.

00:47:18
Speaker 7: It was just like, it's just like a family I have, sometimes you have to love to ask from a distance, and you're better to like, you know, if you're in love and it's causing you more grief to try to fight for the love, then obviously it's just it was just it's just not meant to be.

00:47:41
Speaker 6: And at that point, this is our first craziness that we have ever been through.

00:47:45
Speaker 7: So it was like do you fight through it or do you just back off? And you know, like, let's see where life takes us. Is this where we're supposed to be, is this where we need to be? Just where we really want to be? So and at that time, I was just I was tired.

00:48:04
Speaker 6: I was like tired of fighting.

00:48:06
Speaker 7: You know, it's so crazy that I'm going to reverse his back to my parents. My parents passed seven months apart when my mom passed.

00:48:13
Speaker 4: I was tired.

00:48:14
Speaker 6: I didn't have any more tears in me.

00:48:17
Speaker 7: It was like so sudden after my dad had passed, it was just like I didn't I could, I didn't feel emotions.

00:48:24
Speaker 6: I was just I was just gone exhausted.

00:48:29
Speaker 3: When when you like went through the gym right when they were doing their workouts to podcast and you didn't say anything like no goodbye in front of his boys, and that seemed like to really tick him off, you know, like I get it, like you know, you want your person to acknowledge you when they leave, and especially when it's in front of people. And on the blog, I was like, she's over him, she's off him, like she's she's she's okay.

00:48:48
Speaker 7: So let me explain this situation. I had to explain to him. He was on a podcast. He didn't get my message. I was like, okay, I'm going to go out. I gotta get zarried. I was in the kitchen cooking, totally forgot about the key it did. So I'm not gonna lie. Even though she has great I have great dance moms. I have two of my sisters there, Horror and Tiffany. They usually bring her home, but I was like, it is a twenty five, I gotta get this here at a thirty.

00:49:11
Speaker 3: So I walked out.

00:49:13
Speaker 6: They were all men doing their podcast.

00:49:16
Speaker 7: I am I supposed to go step right, and you know, just it just seemed off to me, which I didn't understand where he got his frustration from, because I was like, I'm not ever thinking the middle of these all these guys and just now I'm gonna y'all do y'all think I'm gonna just go around and go out. But I didn't know that he felt any type of way about that. See, I was just trying not to be, you know, in their way, and I'm like, yeah, you know, it's a monster shirt with guys like here. Let me just go around the other, you know, other them way and not insert.

00:49:43
Speaker 6: Myself in this situation. So I took it the wrong way.

00:49:47
Speaker 3: I took it.

00:49:48
Speaker 7: I was like, hey, I gotta go, I'm afre got about the kid. Let me go run me get it, even though she's.

00:49:53
Speaker 6: Like right on the street. So my mom was like elsewhere.

00:49:57
Speaker 7: But I didn't realize that he felt the type of way I was rushing out trying to give my baby, and I told him that we loved or Lass because he was out there.

00:50:06
Speaker 6: I didn't know he was gonna actually do a whole podcast out.

00:50:09
Speaker 4: There, So it was just arguing that day or something previously.

00:50:14
Speaker 5: It seems like there was some something missing as far as the story that day, because if someone's let's just talk right out of all the ship that y'all have gone through on the show.

00:50:24
Speaker 4: That really could be like a fork in the row for you guys.

00:50:27
Speaker 5: Right, we've seen you maintain like a unified front and maintain a strength where most people would break all of marqush shit, all the you know, the divorce related these serious matters.

00:50:40
Speaker 4: Right, we saw y'all make it. So how did if you guys.

00:50:45
Speaker 5: Weren't having trouble that day previously, because sometimes the energy is just off and you don't feel like talking to somebody, you know what I'm saying, you just do walk out of places.

00:50:53
Speaker 4: But if not, if that, how did that.

00:50:55
Speaker 5: One disagreement over you just leaving turn into now this this that you all had to take when you were able to overcome such huge herdicles, hurdles and obstacles, you know what I'm saying, That's why they heraticles as they both oh.

00:51:11
Speaker 4: You were able to overcome those things and still make it.

00:51:15
Speaker 5: How in the hell did you walking out of the house without saying goodbye snowball into a break in the relationship.

00:51:24
Speaker 7: Well, I could say the entire year we have been going through issues back and forth, but there was no argument that morning. I'm not sure why it was a blow up that day because we didn't have any arguments during that morning, no whatsoever.

00:51:38
Speaker 6: So that's why I said it was a misunderstanding.

00:51:40
Speaker 7: It was as totally confused as if I was had some type of attitude, but it wasn't.

00:51:45
Speaker 6: So I don't know that was that was confusing to me as well. I was like, I was not trying to be in y'all little man's face. He just came out of it that way.

00:51:59
Speaker 3: Do you think, because like the feedback with you guys is like they think you don't really like him like that, like he seems more entriguing to him. And then you know, now he's in front of his boys and he got the podcast and he wants you to like validate him in front of people like show more love, and you're just like, I don't go pick of my girl, you know, I mean, I got to go you think that's probably what like, He's like, this is the last job tied to being disrespected. He feels disrespected, does he?

00:52:25
Speaker 7: I don't know what the disrespect where he feels disrespect to come from, Okay, because uh no, I don't talk much, so it's not like I disrespect. I'm trying to figure out how that came about anyway. But I really don't know what happened to day. I don't know why he feels.

00:52:44
Speaker 3: Now.

00:52:44
Speaker 6: I love Ken to death. Okay. Now I might not show it like I'm supposed to or that he feels, but.

00:52:56
Speaker 7: I'm a giver. I love language is giving, Okay, I will give you the world. I will work to give you the world. But I think affectionate showing that is one of the things that I have to work on because again, in my previous it was just like not there at all. So I was so accustomed to not showing it or doing it, and can requires different. So I do have to learn how to adjust to the way he receives love, and which is something I'm working on.

00:53:30
Speaker 2: What I can, what I can. What I is Ken's love language. What does he want that he loves affection?

00:53:36
Speaker 7: He loves to be you know, recognized affection, hugs all that. I got that from my parents. I just think get it from you know, in my previous marriage, it wasn't It wasn't that way. So that's something I'm learning. But to me, I'm a giver, Like, ask me whatever you want, I'm giving it.

00:53:55
Speaker 6: It's just showing that. Well, yeah, that's why I say that I got it from my parents.

00:54:02
Speaker 7: We do with my siblings. It's just what's something I didn't do in my previous marriage A lot.

00:54:07
Speaker 3: You just said that you're kind of like quiet, Like You're right. You said you're kind of quiet when it comes to time. But on the show you said you do call him out and you're loud and the girls with your girls are like, well being loud to me, not be so were you are? You just like loud just with them like, well.

00:54:22
Speaker 6: Back, let me take the back. I'm quiet.

00:54:24
Speaker 7: I will sit back and be quiet until I'm pushed and then I'll lean up. And then when i'll push any more of it by stand in the hell up, then we got a problem. So yeah, I'm quiet. I'm just sit back and quiet. I'm a very quiet, private person until I have to speak up. When I speak up, and it's all hell Brookless.

00:54:43
Speaker 4: Got it.

00:54:43
Speaker 1: I do want to ask you this because one thing, because obviously you're watching a scene that your boyfriend is having with his best friend Will and you're seeing it for the first time along with the audience on Saturday, right, how did you feel when you heard Ken say that if he separates from you, it's not just him separating. Everything goes with him, the money goes with him, the everything they.

00:55:15
Speaker 7: Ay, b I'm so glad you brought that up. Let me just clear this narrative here. Okay, First of all, I'm.

00:55:23
Speaker 6: A twenty year engineer.

00:55:25
Speaker 7: I was, by far, I was the youngest NASA oak Wood intern that ever got hired. When I got hired, I've been there for almost twenty years. Where the hell did that come from?

00:55:37
Speaker 6: Jesus fix it? Why in the hell would I need Why would I have to depend on anyone that In the beginning, I was like, Okay, you know, I'm gonna let the streets room with it. I'm not sure where they came from. I'm like, can I split the bills here?

00:55:54
Speaker 7: Okay, we split the bills here, he pays the rent, we split I take everything else.

00:56:01
Speaker 6: If I fall something, I back him up if he fought sort something. We split things here.

00:56:07
Speaker 4: I don't know.

00:56:07
Speaker 7: I don't know why the hell that's big said. I'm like, and then again I was like, okay, yeah, you know, my man, my man, Yeah, need to take care of every damn thing. But when it starts the one crazy, I was like, all right, let.

00:56:18
Speaker 6: Me clear this narrative book, y'all. Now, y'all can be serious.

00:56:22
Speaker 3: Did that piss you off when he said that, like he like it seemed like I'm taking my money with me. Did it piss you off? Like?

00:56:27
Speaker 6: We were like, well, why I've told him.

00:56:31
Speaker 7: Before, you know, if you want to leave, go ahead and leave. But it didn't piss me off, not really because I'm like, uh, okay, like I don't.

00:56:43
Speaker 2: Know why that was said.

00:56:44
Speaker 7: But I was like, no, let's let's let's be let's be clear here, you know, and you know in my Chimney Sports however, I was like, letting you trust.

00:56:54
Speaker 1: No, this is this is crazy.

00:56:57
Speaker 6: Let me clear those narrative of ears.

00:56:59
Speaker 3: No.

00:57:01
Speaker 1: So for the record, for the record, Ken's contributions in your Household is he pays, he pays the rental mortgage and when it comes to utilities, that's fifty to fifty.

00:57:13
Speaker 3: No, I.

00:57:15
Speaker 2: Can paid utilities one hundred percent.

00:57:17
Speaker 7: Yes, most things we do go fifty fifty on Zara's dance because so bill is like a mortgage by itself.

00:57:23
Speaker 4: Got it, got it?

00:57:24
Speaker 1: So he pays the mortgage, You pay the utilities. When it comes to are your daughter, that's that's split.

00:57:33
Speaker 2: And obviously any sort of extracurricular activities with the family is fifty to fifty.

00:57:39
Speaker 6: Yeah, it's fifty fifty.

00:57:40
Speaker 2: Got it.

00:57:41
Speaker 6: Like I say, my own cell phone bill.

00:57:42
Speaker 7: He pays his own cell phone bill, and I got all the kids and all their gettings and stuff on mine.

00:57:47
Speaker 6: It's yeah, I'm not that. That just blew me ask you this.

00:57:53
Speaker 2: Oh, go ahead, I'm sorry to cut you'll go ahead.

00:57:55
Speaker 3: But what.

00:58:00
Speaker 6: No, I was just like, you know that just it just blew me.

00:58:03
Speaker 2: I know, I know what.

00:58:03
Speaker 7: I just had to clear it up because I'm like, no, that and the fact that it seemed like I do not love Ken, Yes, I do very much.

00:58:12
Speaker 6: Now do I need to show it more?

00:58:14
Speaker 3: Absolutely?

00:58:16
Speaker 1: Okay, I do want to ask you this though your your boyfriend Ken obviously is a very attractive guy.

00:58:24
Speaker 2: A lot of ladies want your man. A lot of ladies are.

00:58:30
Speaker 1: In your man's comments encouraging him to leave you. They don't feel like you give anything worthy of deserving. Can there's a lot of women on TikTok on Instagram who want to be with your man. When you watch this scene between him and Will that he does talk about if he does leave, he can do that when he does talk about the fact that he treats you like a husband.

00:59:00
Speaker 2: And you don't even treat him like a girlfriend.

00:59:04
Speaker 1: Do you sometimes feel like these are dog whistles for the women who are watching the show to be comfortable soliciting your man and taking him away from you.

00:59:23
Speaker 7: Well, I really don't pitch in to the comments of what people. I don't go on his comments, you don't go on to mine.

00:59:30
Speaker 6: But I can say this When I was married, when I used to post, I used to get the same comments. Can get posts getting under his comments and my dms everything?

00:59:40
Speaker 4: Now?

00:59:41
Speaker 2: Can he post a lot?

00:59:42
Speaker 6: So he does get that a lot?

00:59:44
Speaker 7: If I'm sure, If I was to go back and start posting like I did before, I just got off of social media because you know, during divorce.

00:59:53
Speaker 6: That's all it was so weird. So I just got completely away from social media all together.

00:59:58
Speaker 7: But I think it if I it would be both ways, if I was to post a lot like Kenny, because that's how Kenny and I met anyway, So me posting all the time and in the DM and I, you know, talking back and forth in the DMS, colments or whatever.

01:00:18
Speaker 6: But no, I mean, I really don't. It's just it can be.

01:00:26
Speaker 3: It is what it is.

01:00:27
Speaker 6: I don't really care.

01:00:28
Speaker 3: I mean, I don't. Comments seem like you ain't pressed about none of it. I mean, I'm good either way. That's how you emotional.

01:00:43
Speaker 6: The fact that I have been through so much getting emotional is kind of.

01:00:48
Speaker 3: Like are you out of Like? Are you out of to give?

01:00:52
Speaker 4: Is that it? O?

01:00:53
Speaker 7: I am listen, beautiful, I'm on a zero fucks to give, absolutely zero. So yes, again, I love Ken to death, But I mean I can't. I can't focus on the comments because I was once there.

01:01:13
Speaker 3: Do you?

01:01:14
Speaker 4: But do you?

01:01:14
Speaker 1: Do you?

01:01:15
Speaker 4: But?

01:01:15
Speaker 1: But I want to make sure we get this answer though. Do you sometimes or maybe you don't? Do you feel that Ken is flirting with the cameras with these conversations, that he takes care of you and all those things, because it makes women want him more. Do you do you think he sometimes oversell it to the cameras when you're watching him and will talk.

01:01:40
Speaker 6: You know, I didn't think about that. I don't think he was over selling it.

01:01:42
Speaker 7: I was just like, let's again, let's be clear, because however, we do split things here.

01:01:54
Speaker 6: We do split things here. I mean, we got all of this together.

01:01:59
Speaker 4: There was no.

01:02:01
Speaker 6: Somebody did we got all of this together. Okay, and again, I am a twenty year vet. Let's think about this, people, your damn self. That is the only job by know, besides the military. I have been there my entire adult life.

01:02:20
Speaker 5: Let's so you know about Ken presenting himself as more desirable to the women that just like, I'm sure as guys all in your inbox, you're on television, you know what I'm saying. I'm sure you get attention when you if you did check your social media, right, Carlos is asking do you feel like Ken is positioning himself to be more desirable by displaying some of the efforts that he's making and sustaining your home and doing the things that a lot of women typically find attractive in a man. They like a nigga that's gonna pay all the bills, you know what I'm saying, and want to help create this family structure and be the mad the patriarch of the family.

01:03:01
Speaker 4: You know what I'm saying.

01:03:02
Speaker 5: How do you feel about King displaying those things? Is what I think Carlos is trying to ask you, Right, Carlos, do you think it's done an effort to make himself more desirable to the audience?

01:03:12
Speaker 4: Or No, well, I don't know.

01:03:14
Speaker 6: I've never asked that. It didn't come off that way. He might be, he might be let me go ask it.

01:03:20
Speaker 4: No, yeah, don't worry.

01:03:23
Speaker 3: I know you say you don't really pay attention to the comment, but one comment that came up a lot. And also, you know, the girls were saying this about you. They were questioning you, saying that you don't tell the truth. And they did one of those flashback sines what they do in reality where they gag you and they show you kind of like, you know, hello, white Fire two here and there. What do you feel about that when they show that.

01:03:52
Speaker 6: I can say me, I always I'm a private person. So it's not like that I was withholding the truth. I was, first of all, I was new to all of this. I don't talk.

01:04:03
Speaker 2: I don't.

01:04:04
Speaker 6: It's crazy because when I get in from the cameras, I will freeze the hell up.

01:04:08
Speaker 3: But I can go and.

01:04:08
Speaker 7: Facilitate a whole engineering meeting from front of hundreds and just talk the whole damn way, no, the whole damn time. But as soon as the cameras get in front, it's like, I'm scared. I freeze up all the time I do. But to answer the question, it was like I didn't know how to answer or what to say.

01:04:27
Speaker 6: I'm still like getting notes and tips from the cast members everybody to trust. You have to do it this way, you have to say that way, or you have to be open and talk. I'm like, well, shit, I've never been open and talk. Okay, let me just keep let me, let me keep warming up and warming up.

01:04:47
Speaker 7: And then shit, I say, like a damn canary, but let me just keep warming up because I never had people to open up and talk to.

01:04:54
Speaker 6: And I love the whole cast for that, specially the ladies, because I open up to that.

01:05:00
Speaker 7: It's like all of them time now, which is crazy because I was never able to talk.

01:05:04
Speaker 3: I never Are you a liar?

01:05:07
Speaker 1: No? I am not.

01:05:10
Speaker 7: Now will I be like I don't think I want to tell everybody on the own business. I would say that and hesitate to say some stuff, but now I feel, you know, that's all. It's what you got to them do now, So open up, be open because I'm.

01:05:25
Speaker 3: The criticism will be when you're on a reality show, how can you justify being a private person?

01:05:31
Speaker 6: That's this this whole experience has brought.

01:05:35
Speaker 2: Girl, We got a lot of This whole experience just walked the most.

01:05:40
Speaker 6: Out of me because I I do not talk like this and what's his business? I am just like, yeah, it is what it is.

01:05:48
Speaker 2: Yeah, one thing, one thing.

01:05:49
Speaker 5: I both say, Oh that got a question, but ask no, I just so, what do you want to say about that perception of you know? Letricia right, because there is the conversation about the introduction of.

01:06:02
Speaker 4: Martell and you and the whole like, you know, the the lie.

01:06:07
Speaker 7: You know what I'm saying, Yeah, that whole thing though, because I told Martell.

01:06:17
Speaker 6: That dude, it's okay to say we know each other. It wasn't like it was serious. It was okay. I said that outside of Storytowns.

01:06:27
Speaker 4: Before you walk before he walked in, I was like, I don't care. So he asked you. Did you? He asked you, like, what's up? What do you want to do about like our introduction, I was like I.

01:06:38
Speaker 7: Didn't want to know, or I don't know if he felt like I didn't want to know, but I said, dude, that was weird, Like I don't care people know that I know you.

01:06:45
Speaker 6: Am I missing something here? So I was just trying to read the room and go how the room was being presented.

01:06:52
Speaker 8: And I'm like, okay, well sure, Martel and Martell said at the reunion that Martella admitted at the reunion that.

01:07:05
Speaker 2: He obviously did that to throw her off. He did. He did admit that, he said, is Martella liar?

01:07:15
Speaker 6: I don't know him. He might I don't know like that he might be.

01:07:17
Speaker 1: I don't know.

01:07:19
Speaker 6: It was just see he did see.

01:07:22
Speaker 7: I know I was being tricked because I was like, this is just so weird. I was like, okay, Like damn, I was like, it's okay. I said, it's really okay. Am I missing something? Did I forget something?

01:07:34
Speaker 5: Because it's just not that deep because most people would have been like, you know what I'm saying, why are you acting like you don't know me?

01:07:40
Speaker 4: Boy? What's up? Martella, right, you know what I mean? And then it's just over.

01:07:47
Speaker 6: But that's why afterwards I was like, did I miss something?

01:07:50
Speaker 7: And I'm confused here We all went outside, right, because I was like, dude, it's okay to say, you know, it's okay. I'm well, I guess the imagey hats out there.

01:08:01
Speaker 6: He did say he didn't. He felt like he I didn't want to be associated because of the.

01:08:05
Speaker 4: You know, oh yeah, yeah, yeah yeah.

01:08:09
Speaker 7: About him.

01:08:10
Speaker 6: But I was like, though, what these people say.

01:08:15
Speaker 5: But even after that though, remember it was a little confusion around like whether you had actually went to kick it at the crib or not.

01:08:22
Speaker 4: You know what I'm saying.

01:08:23
Speaker 5: I think the story had kind of changed a little bit after that. And then at the certain point we did everybody like I didn't really trust y'all like that. So I didn't want to, you know, disclose that I didn't trust him.

01:08:33
Speaker 7: I'm sorry I didn't trust him. But it was the whole that was the part of the whole confusion, like am I missing something? Am I not supposed to say something? Is this something that I'm not supposed to know or say?

01:08:44
Speaker 3: Or what? I didn't know?

01:08:45
Speaker 6: How that was, But across I'm glad.

01:08:48
Speaker 7: You said that, because I did feel like I was being played like I was like afterwards, I was like, dude, it's okay that.

01:08:55
Speaker 6: It wasn't that deep. It's all right.

01:08:57
Speaker 8: Yeah.

01:08:57
Speaker 2: No, he admitted that.

01:08:58
Speaker 1: He admitted that he was throwing her off her And obviously when we talked about the reunion is the fact that this was her first week of filming and she was just kind of like what this Yeah, it was new, it was new, and she was thrown off her game. And Martell's said he did that for a reason. What I will say this before I let you go, Tricia. In next week's episode, you visit our resident therapist, doctor Princid, and look, I know one thing about Tricia that the audience has struggled with, right is sort of like do we know her?

01:09:36
Speaker 2: Like like Claudia doesn't ask like is there a truth problem here? What's going on? She doesn't emote as much.

01:09:43
Speaker 1: What I will say this, if you benefit of Love of Marriage hunts Bilt, you know that doctor Francis is one of the best therapists in the world. Let alone for this show, Ray drops Tricia sits down with doctor Francis, and it is the most vulnerable scene of this season and Tricia not to spoil anything.

01:10:08
Speaker 2: Get Tricha, don't spoil an if they gave the child, Chrisha doesn't, Claudia. Tricia wasn't even with this man for five minutes and she broke down.

01:10:18
Speaker 1: She broke down immediately, and you were there for I want to say a couple of hours. But what I will say is watch next week's scene. Well this is coming Saturday's episode. You will definitely get to know Trisha Moore. It was and I'm not overstelling it, brain drops. It was a powerful scene because I think rightfully so Trish right rightfully so Tricia is guarded and the audience feels like the audience feels like you're guarded, and the audience feels like they don't know you as much as the other cast members, which is why I appreciate that the ladies from the show has taken inventory and sort of God in you in the right direction.

01:10:59
Speaker 2: But this scene with doctor Francis.

01:11:02
Speaker 1: Does a beautiful job at Tricia opening up, and I felt that the beauty of doctor Princess method is the fact that he was able to extract it from herself.

01:11:13
Speaker 2: Say tuned for that. It was a really possible that I want to see that and that takes it.

01:11:18
Speaker 4: Congratulations on that, Tricia. That's not easy to do. Have a fuck.

01:11:22
Speaker 5: I'm sorry, I'm trying to watch on mouth have a therapy session on television like that's not easy. So kudos to you for being brave enough to do that.

01:11:30
Speaker 2: Yeah at all? Yeah, yeah, yeah. So it's a really emotional situation.

01:11:35
Speaker 1: So Trisha, let the audience know as much as you can without saying too much, because we are not even halfway through the season. What they can expect from you. It can later on this season. Give them a little tease, Trisa.

01:11:55
Speaker 6: A little tease. Okay, well, let's just say we're gonna do a couple's boot camp together.

01:12:03
Speaker 2: Okay, mm hmmm.

01:12:05
Speaker 6: So if it's a couple, that means it's a couple.

01:12:10
Speaker 3: Can I be nosy what you did? Can I be nosy?

01:12:19
Speaker 4: Right now?

01:12:19
Speaker 3: Is he at the house right now?

01:12:21
Speaker 6: He's picking up?

01:12:22
Speaker 4: Are you.

01:12:25
Speaker 3: In your business a little bit? They say, having to be picked up?

01:12:29
Speaker 4: Don't? Well?

01:12:38
Speaker 3: Thank you, well, ketch up.

01:12:40
Speaker 2: Thank you so much for stepping in. Oh bother, my lie, I love you, thank you so much for doing the show. And I will see you so.

01:12:47
Speaker 6: Yes, yes, yes, yes yes.

01:12:52
Speaker 1: Trican Reality with the King is executive produced by me Carlos King, produced by Lizzie Nimetz, and a partnership with the Lack Effect Network. You can also find us on my YouTube channel at the Carlos King Underscore