Breaking Generational Parent Cycles + Dealing With CRAZY Neighbors | For The Dads Podcast

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Speaker 1: Pop A Team six. Welcome to another episode for the Dads. You might be in one with the missus right now. Boys, Good, that's why you're listening to the Fellas. Maybe you just dropped your little one off at school and you got us on the You got us playing audio right now on Spotify, Apple, the Amazon one, Amazon one, to Google one, Google, whatever it is. Make sure you are subscribed and following. And maybe as you are subscribing, there's a tear in your eye because again, you just dropped your little one off at school for the first time, which is what I did last week. Good. What else could you be doing mowing the lawn. Maybe you're in the weight room. Maybe you're at work listening to your boss, but you don't want to really listen to your boss. You just want to listen to the boys on for the Dads. I am Will Compton, my co host Sherman Young. This is a show Fellas that embraces the highs and lows of fatherhood, embraces the trenches, embraces the suck and love of fatherhood. We talk about dad wins and losses. Things we'd crack a cold one too, some dad hacks, things we put in our survival kit. We have a hotline that you can call into that is six' oh one The dad's where you call in you leave a voicemail talking about a win or a loss or a dad hack that you might. Have we feature you on the. Show you get featured on the, show we ship you guys some free. Merchandise and then to round out every, episode we talk about a, lesson a, quote a, philosophy a, concept something That sherman AND i have gravitated towards over the last week that we're trying to challenge ourselves as better. FATHERS i have one for us at the end of the episode that it took some time to think on and write down THAT i think you will enjoy BECAUSE i do believe THE pt sixers out, there the POP a team six, guys, me, you everybody out there consuming this brain in this, podcast we're all cut from the same cloth a little bit or else they wouldn't keep coming. Back we have a great ten thousand view base right. Now we got to get those numbers. Up the way to do, that make sure you are subscribed to the CHANNEL i believe we. Are are we around six thousand. Subscribers dada on, YouTube i believe. So, yes we're around six thousand. Subscribers we've got a great foundational base of around ten thousand view coming. In that's not including the tens of thousands on, audio which fires me. Up but, again to help the boys, out to help out this, brand continue to engage with us on our social media's at for The Dad's. Pod you can also reach out to me on x Or, instagram share them on ex Or. Instagram the comments on YouTube are absolutely. Incredible we love seeing the conversations in the back and. Forth AM i missing? Anything just really quickly do?

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Speaker 2: It they set a new RECORD pt six six said a new record Four they clogged the voicemail after a fresh deletion in five.

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Speaker 1: Days and how many remind me, again, chef how many fit in the? Voicemail three hundred three hundred and then you have to unload. It, yeah the calls are coming. In. Boys we absolutely love it again embracing pop a team six and what that means for our. Brand And i'll just give you a small example BECAUSE i saw this YouTube comment the other night AS i was doom scrolling a little. Bit but this comes From Miles rough and he left us a little ps paragraph at the bottom that was. Embracing. Good wife is uncomfortable in the beach chairs we. Packed, good SO i have to walk back to the, Car, good find a local store Nearby, good and pay an inflated price for a new beach chair that we may never use. Again. Good that right there is. Embracing a moment OF i am pissed off AND i am, irritated but there's this good in the back of my. Head THE. Pt sixers out there are on my shoulder right. Now, Hey willie, BOY i had a moment last. Week can you hang a? Shelf didn't want to? It paying me to my. Core there's a little bit of back and forth with me and the. Wifey ultimately she was, right as they always are wives out, there, sweetheart we love, you we appreciate. You but those are the moments right. There scherm kiddo spits up on.

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Speaker 2: You good spits up a. Lot did you see the nickname that they tried to give you in the? Comments, no they, said All willie one.

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Speaker 1: Shelf it's. Fair you're gonna be part OF. Pt. Six you gotta be willing to get your.

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Speaker 3: Balls.

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Speaker 1: BUCK i gotta take. That you gotta take the Hits willie One. Schell there he goes walking down the road.

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Speaker 2: Again it's kind of catch.

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Speaker 1: You, yeah just on on a stroll with the kid like the little like a post dinner. Walk neighbor steps, up say, Hey willie One, shell you gotta build something. Tonight get your back, inside old. Man uh name the movie FOR I Break Your? Hip, Oh Happy? Gilmore? Happy it was That Happy gilmore WHICH i know It's Adam. Sandler, yeah It's Happy gilmore. Thing. Yeah, yeah oh my.

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Speaker 2: God, incredible, INCREDIBLE A willy One.

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Speaker 1: Shell we go through, it, man trust, me you paid. Me AS i was driving home last week thinking about that, CONVERSATION i was, like, Man i'm really gonna it's not a good look for A Papa team. Sixer.

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Speaker 2: Yeah i'm already putting the feels out for trying to get a handyman in. HERE i Told CHEF i think it would be really fun for a for the dad's, vlog short. Vlog we have a handyman come in, Here we get all the boys in the office in on, it and we just you, know learn a, little get a little refresher. In this is a, hammer this is a.

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Speaker 1: DRILL i saw a comment, too this is a stud. Fighter oh you found the stud right? Here what else you? Need? Oh it? Works what did the? Man what did he say in the? Comments right? Off, yeah, yeah let's let's talk about the comments of being popping.

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Speaker 2: Up and also to add To Miles reff's, comment he had a great first.

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Speaker 1: Part he, Said i've.

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Speaker 2: Never been a commenter on, anything first time, Commenter Miles. Reff but nothing has to be more fired up than to JOIN pt, six deploying Soon september twentieth for the first tour of A pt six. Mission, Congratulations, miles thank.

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Speaker 1: You for your. Service.

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Speaker 2: Brother currently on the beach with the pod in one, ear my wife is next to me and, enjoying enjoying our final days before our little girl joins. Us couldn't be more excited for. Fatherhood and then of course THE ps note that will rattled off down below.

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Speaker 1: It, yeah the good. Dude the comments are so, Fun, Bro they're great there And i've BEEN i was just telling the boys before the show started That i've now created the bookmark, folders the archive that what you can save On instagram and what you can bookmark on X i've created a LITTLE ftd folder so that WAY i can keep up a lot better Because i'll see all the comments AND i think to, Myself i'll jump on these tomorrow at work Because i'm usually scrolling at, nighttime AND i had to find a system that actually remind me to get back to. Someone because, dude, seriously when you guys share our, stuff that's how everything grows. Organically like we're gonna have the SAME pt sixers showing up every. Week the buying is absolutely. INCREDIBLE i Love there was a comment too THAT i had shared where it's like he's, LIKE i think it was ON x where he's, LIKE i got the whole family. Watching if you're passing a run to your dad group, chats you're just letting the boys know out there if they have a kiddo and you think they're you think they are cut from the same cloth as we, are and they might be five degrees removed That sometimes that's all it. Takes it's like if you're in the if you're in the world, somewhere you might not be at the. Level sometimes we. Don't we're not up to the. STANDARD i wasn't up the standard WHEN i get Nicknamed willie One. Chell but if there's, potential if there's a POTENTIAL pt sixer out. There we gotta recruit him to the. Brand you do that by, sharing by, commenting by doing all the things that you guys are. Doing but it's Truly sherman AND i we geek out Me Sherman, chef who is also captain Of Seman team. Six we got our little group chat and we're showing our screenshots of the love that you guys show and it at uh it warms our. Hearts we.

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Speaker 2: Did we've been texting back and. FORTH i saved this one for the POT i wanted to text y'all so.

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Speaker 1: Bad got this one that you're about to.

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Speaker 2: Read read. It Jake frederick does not have An. Instagram, however his, Wife Chloe. Frederick jake got on his Wife's instagram TO dm. Me he dms this really nice. MESSAGE I dm, back he. Said his wife said he DMed you, back have fun and tossed them the Fam and then he told me later in our conversation that she was pissed because he was smiling harder dming back and forth ABOUT pt six that he's ever smiled in a family. Photo so thank, You chloe for being a part Of Milk team. Six and congratulations and thank you for dming me off of your wife's.

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Speaker 1: Account that was. Legendary just imagine the grinest smile of just operating WITHIN pt six and then your wife asked and you're, like what are you over? There? Smiling? Ah Papa team? Six what the fuck Is Papa team? Six, hey, hey calm, down. Sweetheart you are a part Of Milk team. Six?

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Speaker 2: What what's what's up with all this?

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Speaker 1: Energy?

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Speaker 2: Man what's the?

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Speaker 1: Deal, Yeah i'm excited to be a. Dad? Yeah, so, hey what a, Week i'll, say a very emotional week for your boy went to school for yes for the first. Time so we will be diving into those. Stories reading a couple more, COMMENTS i found the. Studfinder this one's From Derek. Sanchez dad tip For. Will anytime you use a stud, finder AND i mean, anytime you always gotta make it beep on yourself. First that's the ultimate dad joke FOR bt, SIX pt six. Out that's the ultimate dad. JOKE bet six. Out and you gotta again it's got like you, know thirty three likes all the. Dads, yeah gotta beep it on yourself, first.

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Speaker 2: And you gotta the line to go with it is are we sure this thing. Works put it on yourself and it beeps and you, go, YEAH i think it's. Working wife will love that. One, OH i got the.

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Speaker 1: Giggles you, say. Yay you keep playing your cards? Right tonight's D daddy might mount.

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Speaker 4: You we're adding another, one another. One if you're a part Of Papa team, six that little bit Of Semen team six in you never really.

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Speaker 2: Leaves.

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Speaker 1: Never hey just, Challenge, hey challenge for all Of Papa team six within this next. Week won't you listen to this? Episode your mission is once you get your wife to laugh at a funny little, joke you just tell. Her keep playing your cards, Right daddy might mountain.

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Speaker 2: Tonight, hey speaking of speaking of somebody comes off the pups list pretty.

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Speaker 1: Soon i've been, curious BUT i don't want to get in your. Business you're not my. Business i've wanted to ask how everything's going with. You so what we're talking about Is schirm's wife is on the pup list right. Now pup list being AN nfl term physically unable to perform. List when you have a, child there's it's eight, weeks eight weeks some you know you might hear like a six to eight weeks And Papa team sixers kind of push the boundary for that six as we do as we always but wife is on the pup list for eight. Weeks, yeah meaning it's just you yourself in your hand or whatever you're, into whatever you're. In, yeah we don't. Judge, yeah we don't judge. Goombres we're not. Judging. Yeah and you're kind of on a lonely feeling because you, know boys got. Needs, yeah but you got to swallow that, pride you, know because your wife has.

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Speaker 2: To heal, absolutely and it's it's going to align perfectly With Baylor Auburn. Weekend so If baylor catches AT W i know the perfect way to.

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Speaker 1: Celebrate so she she's she comes off pup list in a few. Weeks two, weeks two, weeks two. Weeks how's it, been how's it been going for for The Papa team sixers out there or the dads that just had. Kids they're kind of learning about the whole situation right, now soon to be dads that might not understand that there's this eight week protocol where ain't really no, touchy, touchy lovey.

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Speaker 2: Lovey i've gone into a place WHERE i no longer Feel i'm almost, numb if that makes.

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Speaker 1: Sense it.

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Speaker 2: Does taylor on the other day in the office, goes, y'all were you Know rasinbie for something and he, said, uh oh, Yeah sherman didn't do. That AND i, said underneath my, Breath and you know, what El sherman hasn't done because WHAT i leaned, IN i, go, Come he, goes for, REAL i, go.

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Speaker 1: Yeah emptied the. Clip emptied the. CLIP i have yet to do. It but that's, okay.

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Speaker 2: Good so you blow keep being. Gooning oh yeah in my, Mind well, REALLY i mean it's been it's been a. Minute not to be TM, i but like it's been a. Minute, yeah it's, been it's been it's been a.

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Speaker 1: Month, yeah, yeah that makes. SENSE i personally like it's hard to navigate Because i'll get a little you, Know i'll get a little. Restless we all do the seeming team sixer and me gets a little. Restless yeah, yeah, yeah the goom beret in You yeah, today. Sweetheart like, Again i've said this yoke before on this. SHOW i Know i'm busting with the, boys but it's Like i'll even tell her just because one ride is broken down doesn't mean the whole theme park has to be shut. Down, Amen like ALL i. Need i'm telling you it ain't gonna take.

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Speaker 2: Long you're acting Like i'm asking you to cut your hand, Though, YEAH i.

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Speaker 1: Just need a little friction and a whisper my. GO i truly.

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Speaker 2: Am i'm to the point of numbness. Now, Yeah like there was that like four week stretch WHERE i was waking up in the.

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Speaker 1: MORNING i was, like you, know suns, out guns, dude.

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Speaker 2: Sons, out guns, Out like you just kind of feel. It it's weird and like you kind of you're, like, DAMN i need. It and then after you get past that four week, mark Now i'm kind of in this Like i've almost uh was it? Over like you've gone to a higher plane.

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Speaker 1: Outside of your.

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Speaker 2: Body like, Literally Doctor strange like poked me AND i came, out and Now i'm just, like was It STEVE o that was LIKE i didn't come for a year On busting with The.

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Speaker 1: Boys, yeah.

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Speaker 2: And he was talking about how he like his brain development was crazy from. IT i kind of get.

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Speaker 1: It, yeah it's a it's a it's a weird thing to navigate because, again it's like your, NEEDS i, know for a man like when you're like if you're the husband or the, dad, whatever and your brain it tells us that we are secondary to what the wife. Needs, yeah talking from my own personal, experience where it's LIKE i would have these conversations in my head to where it's, like, MAN i want, to like in a fun, way express like what my needs are BECAUSE i. Do like you, know we're all human. Beings we all have our, things but you feel like you have to suppress or become. Secondary so it's like trying to find those spaces to talk about even in a fun, way and if nothing even, Happens i'm just using this thing as an. Example, yeah, yeah, yeah because even when your wife's pregnant and a lot of the needs and it's like, again you you try to make yourself secondary because you want everything to be good with, wife or you want to stay, strong you want to do all these things that you tell, yourself uh to make to do anything you can to make your wife feel. Comfortable and in, turn like, internally the domino effect is it'll it could snowball a little, bit a little, bit and you don't know it's snowballing until the snowballs at the bottom of the hill or until you have a. Moment. Dude, NOW i know we were going off that, example But i'm talking about in. Anything oh, Right, Yeah i'm talking about you communicating things that you might want out that this is outside the, bedroom things that you might be, feeling wanting to talk about your long, day and there's a part of you that when if your wife's talking about, it or you kind of get a cold shoulder because there's a lot of hormonal things happening at the. Time if you're like in, That i'll just say THE pt sixish mindset that will have that dads will have is to shell up or. Internalize, okay you don't want to hear from, me and you kind of hold it in and you can eat it for a few, days but at a certain point it comes. Out it comes, out and you'll. LASH i don't know WHERE i was going with, that but more so talking like all of these things are real things that, happen, yes.

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Speaker 2: And I'll i'll pick up from. That jill has gotten very good at knowing WHEN i come home AND i get on the couch AND i don't say a, word and so, sorry, uh AND i like get. Horizontal she instantly knows he has something that he wants to talk, about but he's not talking about, it and so she's done a good job of being able to identify that and kind of be, like how's your. Day do anything happened at the, office anything fun or like anything kind of? Frustrating do you have a stressful?

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Speaker 1: Day? No?

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Speaker 2: No, Really like for the first couple of times that you.

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Speaker 1: Are you subconsciously doing? This so are you Intentionally Like i'm gonna, Listen it doesn't be like.

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Speaker 2: Subconsciously, absolutely there is a part of me Because i'm just stewing on Whatever i'm stewing. On So i'm not even picking up on the fact THAT i came, in kissed my, wife said, hey and then plopped on the couch.

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Speaker 1: And didn't say anything for thirty.

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Speaker 2: Minutes and if you know me and you're, like, Hey sherman hasn't said anything in an hour thirty minutes And i'm not sitting at my computer and, editing you.

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Speaker 1: Would be, like, oh one thousand, percent what's.

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Speaker 2: Going on With he's Kind, Yeah so there's. That and then the other THING i was gonna say is the signs are leaning towards some good, stuff, dude some good stuff here in two. Weeks, Wife he's, like, hey what are you doing so far away from me in? Bed let's cuddle a little. Bit, god it's been a minute Since i've heard, that because when she's, Pregnant, hey don't that's too much.

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Speaker 1: Pressure i'm comfort too. Much, absolutely it's like they'll have to move around every couple minutes because they're trying to get comfortable so they can fall asleep one hundred.

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Speaker 2: Percent and SO i just naturally, like haven't been doing that a whole lot. Lately and Now i'm hearing the like are you gonna do with me or? What And i'm, like, okay oh you talking about.

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Speaker 1: Cuddling are we? Cuddling are we cuddle?

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Speaker 2: Cuddling it's, like, okay she had a glass of wine the other, night right before. BED i don't want to put too much out, there but that's a good sign for.

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Speaker 1: Sure that fires me up for, her because it's like women go through postpartum and it's it's such a transition BECAUSE i, know like just listening to my, wife you you feel like you lose yourself because you have to care for this little, child and the mother nature that kicks in is like everything is about the. Child, yes even if they're intentionally trying to be in the, partnership in the marriage and everything. Else but it's like it's like it sounds like she's starting to see the light at the end of the tunnel a little, bit because my wife would just she just gets so fired. Up she'll step on the, scale losing, weight feeling, better feeling like they want to, exercise like getting back to what made them, them because it's, like you're carrying a kid FOR i mean it's nine, months but really in, reality it's like ten. Months they're carrying a. Kid then you got the, postpartum all the hormones going. On it's pretty much a year's time since they've been there their fool self and they like lose their. Identity they gain another one that they love and appreciate and. Enjoy, yes but when they remember who they were before the kid and they start to feel it a little, Bit, oh let's have a glass of. Wine, hey you're not coming to you a little far, away it's like they're coming back to. Life so that fires me up to, dad, dude it got me.

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Speaker 2: Juice like last night she was she was actually having a shower, wine WHICH i want that's a.

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Speaker 1: MOVE a shower, wine just a glass of wine in the shower and the. Shower are we talking taking her taking her time too long? Shower? Yeah and THEN.

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Speaker 2: I came back in and she was putting on a little the tanning. Lotion she's very excited for tailor's. Today we're filming this On. Friday taylor's having like a little pool. Bash, yeah she's.

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Speaker 1: Very excited for.

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Speaker 2: That AND i was, Like, oh we're putting on a little tants of blah, blah and she was, like, Yeah i'm just LIKE i don't. Know i'm just kind of like feeling. Myself i'm excited, to, like you, know get out of the house And i'm like getting in front of the mirror and you, know just kind of doing my.

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Speaker 1: Thing and it's fun to SEE i like.

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Speaker 2: It we have to keep it under Our CAN i read one more? Comment du A pt. Sixer it's A pt sixer and it's A Milk team. Sixer this one comes From Anna. Withrow her husband is a big fan Of busting with The. Boys and now for the, dads she, said AS i am subscribed to both as. Well my husband is the director of a equipment for The. Razorbacks our first daughter was born during fall. Camp she's a week. Old, good she, said As will knows nine arguably ten years in the. League there's zero downtime during season needing advice to get through the trenches for the both of us love the pod and she provided a great. PICTURE i put it in our credits Of dad and his weepig suie stuff and he's just passed out next to baby.

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Speaker 1: Girl so is dad a?

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Speaker 2: Coach he's the director of equipment for The. Razorbacks, oh unsung.

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Speaker 1: Heroes oh, yeah. Buddy and you think players and coaches and they put in work equipment, managers bro especially them. Gas oh. Yeah but they're there all hours of the.

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Speaker 2: Day and The razorbacks aren't a two uniform, team.

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Speaker 1: Right and there's no, like, uh you, Know i'd imagine if you're a. Coach and AGAIN i don't know BECAUSE i haven't been in the coaching, world but witnessing the coaches That i've, had like if there's a moment like kids like you have a little bit more not, autonomy but a little bit more control of your. Schedule you're still putting in a shitload of. Hours, Yeah but if you're an equipment, manager if you're these equipment, guys, like there's no there's no like say or any control like you were. There there's no, asking there's No if you have a great head, coach maybe he'll give you some time off or work with you a little. Bit but those equipment dudes are there all day, long even getting the guys, prepped getting everything, prepped, yeah getting workout clothes, prepped getting your practice stuff, prepped dealing with all the sweat and the airing out the shoes and the shoulder pads and the helmet after, practice getting all the loops in the. Laundry they're they're doing laundry all, night getting the, laundry getting that cycle, through setting out their workout closes for the next, morning setting out their practice pads and shoes for the next. Day around and around and. Around shout out my.

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Speaker 2: Cousin, george he was an equipment manager.

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Speaker 1: Just one year AT. Tcu, yeah but, yeah they're thinking about that.

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Speaker 2: Now i'm just, like oh, my they grind no wonder he did it from?

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Speaker 1: You, Yeah and being a full time. Student. Yeah, yeah would you say psychotic, hours would.

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Speaker 2: You say that's arguably harder than being a student athlete being a student equipment?

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Speaker 1: Manager, yeah why. Not it's like you're you're putting your energy and time into. Something some guys who are doing the equipment, stuff they might not necessarily wanting to be doing. It, yeah So i'm assuming in their brain it's like even, more it feels even more like, work whereas being a student, athlete like there's a lot of shit you gotta do because, you're, again you're a, student you're going to, school you're getting a twelve, hours twelve fifteen credited, hours and then you're also trying to pour into something that you could hopefully do one day as a. Profession there's aspects that are, fun but it is a very like physically and mentally hard thing to. Do but it's like if you if you're in a, dude if you're a student and you're also a full time, worker like you're grinding your ass.

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Speaker 3: Off and also like some people want to do front they do it because they want an end to front office stuff and. Sports there's a lot of people who do, it especially a d one call like a college like all the guys At, tennessee they do it because they fucking love the. Program, Right so you're, Putting, yeah you don't get paid a, lot you're working insane outa buddy who did, It you work insane, Hours but it's just because you love that team and you want to be a part of it in some way and you're not on the, field and a lot of times you don't get the, praise but it's like that's a huge part of that. Operation.

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Speaker 1: Yeah, YEAH i, mean you could sit here and we could do the whole comparison, game but it's like your hardest thing that you're doing is my hardest thing That i'm doing because you're pouring into. It, yeah you know what i. Mean, yeah even with this, stuff it's Like chef grinds his dick. Off he does to edit and do all the, things and not only, that but improve on the skills that he's working on and also try to find new creative. Ways he's also trying to think like we, are, Hey will And shurham like, this we're thinking of all of our we're doing our day to. Day you're at home with the, kid like balancing work in life in my world Where i'm not behind a computer editing all, Day like my heart is still. Hard but it's like you're sitting, here it's like YOU'RE i don't. Know it's LIKE i think if you're somebody who grinds every day with, work with life and you're trying to learn how to balance it, all like you're doing as hard a thing as everybody else is. Doing, yeah taking out, compensation taking out what's more physically, grueling you know WHAT i, Mean because at the end of the, day you're constantly trying to challenge yourself to be, better and doing that is fucking.

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Speaker 2: Hard, yeah because doing What chef is doing now for those like first two, weeks like really before we Had chef like pumping.

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Speaker 1: Out this stuff with. Us, YEAH i now am in my.

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Speaker 2: Situation i'm not having to do all that. Stuff but Now i'm in the situation i'm. In and to your exact, Point i'm, like, man.

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Speaker 1: This is, hard.

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Speaker 2: Dude it's not, impossible but it does have like its. Challenges we kind of talked about that before the episode last. Week you feel like you're so spread thin that you're letting everybody, down.

00:28:10
Speaker 1: Right but so you got to be. Intentional it's like she was asking for advice with the head equipment manager and they have a one week, Old, yeah a two week, OLD i. Guess, yeah it's, honestly it's just make sure you guys are. Communicating you guys are able to anticipate each other. Schedules. Yeah If dad is a way because he's grinding his dick off being an equipment manager and that's the life that is chosen between you, two then it's wife just needs To dad needs to ask the, question what do you need from me throughout the day so he's not, guessing and wife needs to clearly communicate the expectations of things that she would love and enjoy with also the empathy Of, OKAY i might not be able to reach him, HERE i might not be able to reach him at this, Point dad needs to think the same. Way you guys just need to be on the exact same page so that way you guys can anticipate what each other. Needs and then you just got to know that this structure that we're putting together were the pain points when is it going to be? Hard and life is just going to be?

00:29:09
Speaker 2: Hard and knowing the busy season right like being great by her already. IDENTIFYING i, mean obviously football, seasons the busy. Season but she's, like, hey this is going to be hard for both of. Us she did use, us, like what is some advice for?

00:29:24
Speaker 1: Us, yeah And i'll say Because dad has to know that when he's working and thinking in his. Brain because here's what here's what dads or males will, do especially coming from the generations before, us is we, uh we justify us, working were wanting to put food on the. Table we want to be the, protector the, provider all these things to provide security at. Home so then when a dust up happens at, home, verbally it's Like dad's defending what he does all day, long moms defending what she. Does it's it's, like, no you got to get that shit out of the. Equation it's you guys got to both know that you're pouring in an insane amount of value for the. Family as long as you two are on the same, page that is what. Matters dad has to, Know, Hey i'm at, work, sweetheart you gotta tell me what you need for. Me dad also has to be super curious and, Intentional hey what do you what do you? Need? Yes as, well so it all goes both. Ways, Bro it's not about staying strong for each, other it's about just staying fucking.

00:30:23
Speaker 2: Connected curious is a great, word and that's a great bit of, advice that little text THAT i don't remember every single day to, sin but WHEN i do send To jill Of, Hey.

00:30:35
Speaker 1: I'm thinking about. Lunch have you eaten?

00:30:37
Speaker 2: Yet blah blah Blah, no And i'm. STARVING i would love to get lunch Right just, that, Like, Hey i'm thinking about. You i'm thinking about your needs because she's nap trapped at home with little.

00:30:49
Speaker 1: Scarlet one thousand. Percent and then IF i say, hey could you just, Respond it's, Like, Yo i'm at, Work i'm doing, This i'm doing. That, No, dad you also got to be empathizing and being conscious of what mom's going through a, home because think about any dad who spent a weekend or days were there with the kidd oh by. Themselves like it's like you're you, know if you're talking to your wife wondering what's going, on and nobody's like checking in or tapping into, you it's just, like, oh people Think i'm just watching the. Kid it's LIKE i just got some easy work Because i'm just chilling at home with the. Kids, like, no those parents that have kids know that shit is a. Grind, yeah and mom's not getting out of the, house especially if you got a young. One you got a young one in those first few, months like you're at home most of the.

00:31:27
Speaker 2: Time two, WEEKS i mean that is every three hours on the, dot on the, dot that little girl or boy is going to be hungry and it's gonna let.

00:31:37
Speaker 1: You, yeah, milking, pumping even if you're not doing, that the, hormone everything that's going. On your entire mind is around the life of this little being at all, times and there's no deviating because you are the vessel that this kid comes. From, yes you can't just leave the kid on his own at, All like they need constant nurturing and. Attention you hope you get a great amount of three whenever you have those three hour, breaks but you're. Tied you're tied to having to do.

00:32:05
Speaker 2: It and if you do lay them down and they snuggle me and they do fall, asleep you're, like oh my. God. Yeah otherwise it's only right there on mom or right there on dad that they'll even get.

00:32:15
Speaker 1: Sleep, Yeah and the dads that do work grueling hours that when you do come, home you should in your. Mind you just got to think when that garage door opens, up all, Right i'm about to go in. Good how CAN i take whatever load is going on from my wife so she KNOWS i can trust this dude to kind of operate on, himself to operate by. Hisself because even even when mom hangs the baby, over it's like they know everything they want to do in their brain and they're trying to trust that you can do the. Same so they can actually remove themselves and just go do whatever they need to. Do if you want to go do, laundry you want to go take a, walk you want to go get a, call if you want to go DO, X y AND. Z have the freedom Knowing dad's back. Home he's A pt. SIXER i don't have to worry about.

00:32:56
Speaker 2: It that would be to the director Of equipment Of. Arkansas, well that would be my biggest piece of advice is no when.

00:33:03
Speaker 1: You get, home because that's so.

00:33:05
Speaker 2: True jill has her checklist because she loves keeping a tidy.

00:33:10
Speaker 1: House, dude that is her. Love she wants a not as much, mine as much mine at, all But jill wants a happy.

00:33:18
Speaker 2: Home she wants a home that smells, good looks. Good, Off, yes candles are lit and so just no director of. EQUIPMENT i don't know his. NAME i know his wife's. Name but when you come, home your wife probably has that checklist in her head exactly like you.

00:33:35
Speaker 1: Said and when you take, baby.

00:33:38
Speaker 2: That frees her to then all this stuff that's been sitting on her head all day that she couldn't do because she was trying to hold, Baby now she has the freedom to go do. It the amount of pressure that is going to come off of her when you allow her to operate and what she wants to get, done, dude is gonna be great for both of you, guys not only her but you as, well because then you're gonna be able to really sit there and enjoy the moment together once she has knocked out of her.

00:34:06
Speaker 1: List and if you have to ask a, Question, okay when DO i do? This or what DO i do? Here just simply this is a little dad hack switch the what or, when, why? Where? Whatever with remind me, heymind remind me of the. Time remind me the time she last, ate because you should know the every three hour. Mark if you have a. Newborn, yeah remind me the last time she ate Versus, hey when does she need to eat? Again Or, hey remind me what she had for. Lunch, hey BEFORE i go check the, fridge remind me what we have in there for potential. Dinner so that, way it's just like they're. Reminding it's Not, hey what DO i need to, do and they're just, Thinking, MAN i wish you knew just a little bit, more.

00:34:45
Speaker 2: Dude that's All i'm talking. About we hate this is, good this little back and FORTH i like.

00:34:54
Speaker 1: Doing Vision Papa team six are sitting at THE. Tv, oh don't forget this, one and somebody says, like, yeah, yes that.

00:35:00
Speaker 2: Too you just went like four for four on stuff that BECAUSE i, Mean scarlett is six, weeks but she's not that far ahead of a two week.

00:35:08
Speaker 1: Old, again we're not.

00:35:09
Speaker 2: Experts we're not, experts but everything that you're hitting, On i'm, Like, GOD i WISH i knew that at the beginning because it's so. True And jill AND i have had those conversations of, like if you're at home And Will compton texted you at nine, pm do you know how fast you would reply to that? Text because it's work it's worth this might be. Important that's my. Boss, yeah, bro LIKE i got to answer, that But i'm on home time.

00:35:37
Speaker 1: And, gentlemen, gentlemen these conversations come about like what this uh? Situation are hypothetical that term's talking. About these conversations come up when it's getting toward the breaking, point, yes because as, men we don't know until it's being said to, us and then we're just thinking if you'd have just told. Me but it's, like, listen this is just some game to be aware of so you don't get to. Win you ask too many what when DO i do? This how DO i do? This because in, time in a couple of weeks, time when it gets to the breaking, point you guys are having a big, conversation that's when those things are coming. Up it's like. Sweetart when you ask, me what DO i do? This when DO i do? That and your wife's kind of giving you a talking to a little, bit that's when it's starting to click a little bit in your mind that she's putting you in her. Shoes but now it's got it's gotten so far to where your guard might be up and you might be a little defensive to where you don't want to handle the conversation that. Way these are things to just be aware of before they happen.

00:36:33
Speaker 2: And be willing to have an open mind that When jill does bring up the great point of If will did text me at nine.

00:36:38
Speaker 1: O'clock because that's a good one.

00:36:40
Speaker 2: About something, IMPORTANT i would want to reply very quickly BECAUSE i want to Show Will i'm on top of.

00:36:46
Speaker 1: IT i.

00:36:47
Speaker 2: Care i'm a good. Employee i'm not. Lazy his time is important to. Me he took the time to, text And i'll text him. Back and she goes flip that you're at, WORK i text you so being important AND i you, know not that she's.

00:37:03
Speaker 1: One like your wife's texting, you not your. Boss, yeah is your marriage? Important is getting back to the family? Important are you having the same urgency that tells HER i got it? EASY i? Care?

00:37:14
Speaker 2: Yeah, Yes and she and she's not, like, UH i want to text back in five, minutes but.

00:37:20
Speaker 1: She Knows i'm.

00:37:21
Speaker 2: Busy. Yeah but IF i did ghost her like all, day she would feel some type of, way, right just like you would if you texted me something important AND i ghosted you for, like, yeah twelve eighteen, hours like you kind of be, like, yo sure. Question, like knowing, you you'd probably just like emphasize.

00:37:38
Speaker 1: It, yeah you're spot. On, Hey i'm, here you're spot, on because it'll be the same thing like Like charli texts me SOMETHING i have don't RESPONSE i get, home she's, LIKE i texted. You, Yeah she's like if this would have been so and so that's a great. Point great question by the. Wife, yeah, great, yeah, yeah great. Question by the, WAY i HAVE i HAVE i. LISTEN i know we got to keep it under an, hour SO i have three more little quick comments THAT i can rattle. Off go, ahead and then we can get into the to the meat and potatoes of the. Episode, Cheers, cheers Bro, hey, cheers. Cheers shout Out, Anna Shout. Anna this one's From kevin jack seventy seven to fifty. Three baby boy do in four. WEEKS i needed this episode for football Talk chin strap on about to head into the. Trenches let's go. Boys NICK. C ninety six got my Girl dad had on at the beach with my three year old ROCK. Pt six. Shirt last night we up Sled dog out Sled. Dog Noah Earl jackson. Pt six just got my. Shirt i'll be tagging the boys in two weeks when my baby girl gets. Here, guys if you want to support the, boys you want to Rock Papa team, Six Papa team six merch or for The Dad's merch bwtv dot. Com that is where you get the. Merch that's how you can tag, us that is how you can. Share that is how you can wear the. Merch proud knowing that you're a you're A pt six. Er and what do you have on top of your head right? There will? Hat, sherman what do you? Ask? WHAT i believe one of our new. Hats, yes the black and white for The dad's hat little patch up. Top this is a newer. Hat we have them in this. Color they've been sitting in that. Color we have them also in the black and. White and you were, Saying i'm wearing a visor right.

00:39:19
Speaker 2: Now we also have a same visor over here with different color. Scheme so funny on the inside they got the little teddy bears standing up and the little for The dad's patch on the inside.

00:39:32
Speaker 1: TOO i love.

00:39:34
Speaker 2: That so MANY pt six sicos that, like you.

00:39:36
Speaker 1: Know you're a visor. Guy i'm a huge visor like. ME i don't think i'd be wearing. That and There i'm worry For Papa team SIX i. Worried that's not my, style AND i PUT i put the feelers out.

00:39:48
Speaker 2: There gr head of merchant was, like hey put, it put it tweet out you, see.

00:39:53
Speaker 1: And you had enough sickos that wanted a.

00:39:55
Speaker 2: Few there were some, sicos, dude there was some SICK i think we have like nine or ten definite like, yo that's. Gas but One siko filmed his. Desk he had like nine golf. Eyes he was, LIKE i added to the. Collection but this exact same, logo we will also be putting on a. Hat chef off camera is actually wearing said. Hat we want to tease that at a later. Time, yep we want to tease it at a later.

00:40:22
Speaker 1: Time but chef looks. Good chef looks, good and it's a great hat For Semen team. Sixers there just, hey take a photo of chef right, now so that way you can just shoot him the shoot him the photo to put in during the. Episode and this hat is bad. Ass this one is one that maybe you're not a father yet and you just you you're about the, brand but it's got the little you guys see the photo the little bear with the with the whiskey with the cigar in his. Mouth. Exactly, yeah that exact emblem That shirm's. Wearing we'll tease.

00:40:52
Speaker 3: It we're gonna do a different color than the One i'm wearing right.

00:40:55
Speaker 1: NOW i do like that.

00:40:56
Speaker 3: Color we can also do this, color but we have, well as long AS i can just have that.

00:41:01
Speaker 1: One, Yeah i'll just fuck with. You do you like the?

00:41:07
Speaker 2: Green just really? QUICK i like the.

00:41:09
Speaker 1: Green i'm, LIKE i love the, colors like fall, colors earthy. Colors, YEAH i like the green. Too can we do the green and the other two colors that you.

00:41:17
Speaker 3: WERE i think this hat's good enough to where we can do a couple of different. Colors white's gonna be. Badass white is for sure gonna be. Badass and it's more, universal just a couple more so the social.

00:41:27
Speaker 1: MEDIA i know every week we talk about YouTube, comments but, again just to not leave out the social media people out, There Nick giles number, one shout out you being a new father, Brother Nick, Giles he, said, UH i shared this. Comment Thanks, will the pot has been amazing to listen to the whole family listens, now and thank you for the honesty about situations you wish you handle. BETTER i know it makes all of us dads feel normalized when we do the. Same love and appreciate you. Boys and then another one From wes W Underscore murray twenty. One you saw THE x ray broke my toe on? Night dude tripping over my wife's? Shoes? Good, yes and see that's one. AGAIN i used the bookmark BECAUSE i hadn't engaged with it. Yet so he's probably, wanting, like, damn the, boy see this you probably you do a great job of responding to.

00:42:12
Speaker 2: DO i D m him and he said best part was he, said wife told me to stop faking it and get our daughter to. Sleep so in True pt six, Passion, YES i got her back to, sleep taped my toe to the other one and then got some. Sleep have to go back next week or so to get a pin put.

00:42:30
Speaker 1: In oh my, god let's go. West, yeah let's GO i love that THE x.

00:42:35
Speaker 2: Ray.

00:42:35
Speaker 1: OH i love to think about. Too when he just wanted to show the wife THE x ray and he's just, like, hey quick facing. It what are you? Doing, yeah, Hey, wes what'd you say to? Her what did you call?

00:42:45
Speaker 2: Her?

00:42:48
Speaker 1: BITCH i broke my?

00:42:50
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00:44:01
Speaker 3: Too, yeah you, guys IF i read a comment real, QUICK i know we're pressed for.

00:44:04
Speaker 1: Tys, yeah you got to keep it under an.

00:44:06
Speaker 5: Hour.

00:44:06
Speaker 1: Chef, now we're got to keep it right, now really.

00:44:08
Speaker 3: Good right, Now i'll be really quick. Here, uh this is from. YouTube i saw.

00:44:13
Speaker 1: This by the, way people, listening this Is Chef, jack captain Of Steamen team.

00:44:17
Speaker 3: Six i'll wear that honor. Proudly this Is Forrest dobbs nineteen thirty, One Cap Jack. MAN i THINK i might have been one of the people you grabbed after autome P lmao season ticket holder since twenty. Nineteen so this is the throwback to last week WHERE i talked about probably one of my most embarrassing moments as A tennessee volunteer. Fan it balls up where we were Leaving Neeland stadium AND i was coming to grips That Joe milton was not a heis and hopeful and that we might be regressing from the year prior With Hennon. Hooker we had an awesome.

00:44:50
Speaker 1: Offense and tell tell everybody what you were telling me that your girlfriend Was Jess yeah was how she was breaking it.

00:44:57
Speaker 3: Down SO i called them my wonderful Girlfriend alex after who's with? Me that's still with?

00:45:03
Speaker 1: You still with?

00:45:04
Speaker 3: Me?

00:45:04
Speaker 1: Oh, yeah thank?

00:45:05
Speaker 3: You.

00:45:05
Speaker 1: Alex.

00:45:06
Speaker 3: Uh BASICALLY i was like, WELL i told the story AND i kind of, said you, KNOW i kind of the gist of what we said on the, episode and she, goes, baby it was way fucking worse than. That she was, like you were grabbing seventy year old men and screaming what.

00:45:21
Speaker 1: The fuck are we?

00:45:23
Speaker 3: Doing AS i was, leaving kneeling and uh, Yeah So, FORREST i want TO i want to give you a sincere. Apology i'm a passionate claim that is. Unacceptable AND i love.

00:45:37
Speaker 1: The fact too That forrest is listening to for the dance and he's, LIKE i think it's going that's the fucking kid that grabbed my.

00:45:47
Speaker 3: ASS i THINK i might force it's unmistakable if it was, me because you couldn't miss me if he. Tried it was, like, UH i think we left like a couple of minutes in the fourth quarter. Left it, was you, know. Awesome at the end of the, year we're trying to walk. Back but, YEAH i think what we should. Do this will be an extra. Step but we get a. Shirt you link up With.

00:46:08
Speaker 1: Forrest, yeah you get his, information what, Size you get a shirt shipped, here so that way you can personally ship you could personally ship something to with with a. Note, yeah that just says my Bad, Forest.

00:46:21
Speaker 3: Forest i'm Sorry. Forrest you know what we can. Do he's a season. TAKEHOLDER i will be In knoxville for The georgia. GAME i will get your contact if you. Guys i'm sure if your season take aholder you have your tailgate in g ten or something like. That if, so please let me. KNOW i will swing by personally deliver with the photo photo to photo. Two that's if you're up for, It i'll reach out to.

00:46:43
Speaker 2: You that's the general Of Seamen team six right.

00:46:46
Speaker 1: There.

00:46:46
Speaker 2: YEAH i don't want to air dirty, laundry AND i know that we're trying to keep it under an, hour but do you want to share that story that you remembered about said girlfriend that you are matching each other's.

00:46:58
Speaker 1: Energy.

00:46:58
Speaker 3: Yeah, so, also to My alex's, credit she shouted out. Story, yeah shout out, out we love, You, alex because she, goes, well don't forget That i've had my moments, too BECAUSE i was, like that's so. Embarrassing she we last YEAR i brought. Her we came back To nashville For tennessee was Playing, arkansas and, uh that's the same Weekend vanderbilt was Playing alabama And bandy Upset, alabama and we were at the tavern In midtown. Eating we could hear the, stadium and so we watched the fourth quarter in the red door saloon In. Midtown shout out and, uh bandy. One And i'm not one to always root On. Bandy shout Out cay. McConnell, uh you.

00:47:36
Speaker 1: Know at shout out the boy. Came we love my brother.

00:47:39
Speaker 3: Now but we were pumped, because you, know banda loss AND i was, like, oh it's so. Great we're gonna kick the shit out Of. Arkansas And alabama just. Lost and then we lost To. Arkansas and we're sitting in that bar that's a bandy. Bar it's a bandy student, bar and people are coming back and they're starting to filter in and they're, hammered and people are starting to say stuff to us because we're inn all. Orange and, finally this, DUDE i forgot what the zact words were it came up and said some and my girlfriend looked over and, said you better shut the fuck up BEFORE i kick your fucking.

00:48:07
Speaker 1: Ass AND i.

00:48:11
Speaker 3: In that, moment the pride built up inside me AND i but Also i'm, going, oh. Ship NOW i call an uber and we Got i'm, like, hey, baby we gotta, go you, know getting out of. There and she we're both passionate, fans.

00:48:24
Speaker 1: So they couldn't see this fas't he like tells those story and he's, like we're passionate. Fans you could just tell deep in his soul the balls don't. Play the balls don't.

00:48:41
Speaker 2: Play to quote, chef don't start with that.

00:48:44
Speaker 1: Ship he don't start with that.

00:48:46
Speaker 3: Ship, also she probably. DIDN'T i don't know if an f bambas in. THERE i don't want to speak for, her but of course she's Got i'm gonna hear.

00:48:54
Speaker 1: That that's.

00:48:55
Speaker 2: Cool.

00:48:55
Speaker 1: Graphic shut the fuck up BEFORE i beat your ass From lovely See crack A Cold One Survival Kid Dad Hag. Hotline, correct my crack A cold one is simply going to be. Rude going to. School very emotional week for your boy this. Week back to. School back to, school that's why we have these school. Supplies. HERE a little bit of, coffee not to shut Up, parn but no free shoutouts to. Paren got a nice little coconut Cloud americano THAT i enjoyed instead of mind for a pretty long. Time shout out chef on the, decor the decor, chef the decorse. Chef we got the back to school. Supplies but it was a back to. School it was a first time to school week for your. Boy And rue went to school On wednesday and dropping her off and it's a very, uh weirdly, happy sad stage because and there was also just to give you guys some more context on it being like an emotional. Week my the day she went to school for the first time was also it would have been my mom's sixty first. Birthday you're, Kidding, yeah, Yeah so had all the fields going. On was fired up Because rue was so excited to go to. School and, dude it's like we're sitting there prefacing she goes To she goes to like where it's like there's three to five year, olds so she's in this she's in this. Classroom it's kind of like a PRE k type primary, school and prepping her to go to school because the teachers and stuff are telling us that we can't get out of the car to like hug her kiss or tell her godbye because you gott to keep the line. Going i'm now in the school lines and experiencing that for the first. Time but we can't get out of the. Car so two days prior we're running her. Through dad has running her through on a very like calm. LEVEL i don't want it to come off like, sad, Like, hey when we go, there you won't be able to hug mom and dad. Ads i'm more just telling, Her, hey now when we go to, school here's how it's gonna go. Down we're gonna give you hugs and kisses before we get in the. Car, yeah and then whenever we, arrive we'll give you three SQUEEZES i love you in the back before you get, Out, yeah before you get jack the door almost slam coming in, here give you, one, two three squeezes before you get. Out teacher is gonna get, you unbuckle you and get you. Out and then when she pulls you, out we'll have the windows down and we'll just do hug, kiss, hug, hug, kiss and then you, know say. Bye. Yeah and we're prefacing her for that for like a couple of, days just to get her, ready because we don't know if she's gonna. Cry we don't know if she's gonna be. Sad you, know we don't know if we're gonna be. Sad and we pull up, dude and she's she's, excited and then when the teacher opens the, door you can tell her shyness and nerves are kind of kicking them a little, bit like as she's getting, unbuckled the teacher's trying to engage with her and we're getting under the. Squeezes rue gets out and the teacher says, like we're gonna go on a little walk today or the kids don't know, it but we're gonna get to DO, X y AND z, today And rue kind of lights up st our song With rue gets out of the car and is, like By, Mama, dad, hug, hug go be great to day and then ends up walking. Bro And i'm watching her walk down the sidewalk going into school and water fills my eyes because it's just, like, UH i don't, know like in my, brain it's like now that she starts the chapter of, school even though it's not like real it's not like technically real, school like they're going they play a, lot they do all these different, things but it's like this, chapter this phase goes until at the end of high, school the end of, college, yes, dude, yeah now, yeah now yeah for the rest of, time and just watching her handle herself, shy a little, reserved but confident once she got out and going to classicause we start rolling off and then we end up breaking kind of like looking back because we hear a kid. SCREAMING i thought it was rude for a. Second you're a kid screaming the TEACHERS i. Got i'm like kind of halfway out of the. Car they're like hanging on. No and these are probably moments parents that you're just, like you hope that they handle it. Well you're also sad because it's, like is she gonna feel alone when she's in? There is she gonna end up telling the teacher LIKE i miss MoMA and dad, then and you just think of them being, alone, afraid not knowing what to, Do like these are the internal BATTLES i feel like the parents deal. With and you think of these situations even though it's like not. Reality then you flip, like, oh they're gonna, Crush they're gonna do this and, that and then you we get. Home Charles charles was sobbing in the. Car i'm, like, y all, right Sweet, alry give her. Hug i'm, like don't, WORRY i have some tears in my eyes. Too she looks. OVER i got water filling the. Eyes and it's just it's just cool because you're, excited but you're also sad because they're just growing. Up, yeah and Uh ruth saw mom teared up before she got out why you, Said, Mama And i'm, Like i'm, like, hey, sweet we gotta we gotta be. Hype we don't want. To we. Don't we don't want her to be nervous at. All And i'm, like, Hey, sweeter you know Every Pizza friday when we drive and go get pizza and come, back AND i said a couple of times out makes me happy and sad that you're growing, up and she when we're in the, car she will just say out, Loud dad that you. Ad i'm, like why WOULD i be. Saying she's like Because i'm growing. Up i'm, like, yeah you, Know dad is both happy and sad because you're growing. Up BUT i want you to stay my little girl. Forever So i'm Looking i'm going back to her and just like, Oh mama, said but she's also really happy because this is like you're going to, school so you're just growing. Up you're you're you're becoming such a big girl and all this. Stuff But charles sobbing a little. Bit i'm crying a little, bit and you just kind of have that. Moment you drive. Home we Got scottie or nine month old in the in the car. Seat we take her out and go inside And i'm getting ready to go to the shop And i'm, like, WELL i guess i'll uh all going to. Work it's it's like eerily. Quiet, yeah Because rouge just you, know you got a little, Toddler like they're on ten the whole. Time they want to, play they want you to watch, them they want your, attention they want all these, things not Just scotty kind of crawling around on the carpet and you're kind of just sitting. There, Well ring's the confident talk to. You, yeah, yeah, Yeah ru's the confident taller and you're she commands the. Space. Yeah but it's just it's it's weirdly. Quiet it's, like, man this is, uh this is how it. Goes and THEN i, think in my, brain this is how you start thinking about having another kid to Fill, yeah the, space you know WHAT i? Mean, YES i don't know how to explain, it but it was a very, uh it was an emotional week for your, boy AND i just thought it was really cool that there was like a, coincidentally it was also my. Mom it would have been my mom's sixty first birthday and your mom was a. Teacher, Correct my mom was a. Teacher that's even.

00:55:22
Speaker 2: More when you first said, THAT i was, like that's even. More just the, universe, Man, yeah that's.

00:55:27
Speaker 1: Awesome my mom was a. Teacher and then it was a principal for A catholic school. Episode, Though, yeah my mom was a, beast. Dude you, KNOW i obviously always get sad thinking about, her but she Was she was. Awesome she would have been so obsessed with.

00:55:47
Speaker 2: RUE i want to say this to you BECAUSE i love. You she'd be really proud of, you don't.

00:55:53
Speaker 1: You, Hey, hey, hey, HEY i know come on, NOW i was just doing a good job talking about her being a, beast and DON'T i don't want the he's, uh all. Right you, know if you've Watched busting with The, boys you know how emotional it makes me talking about my. Mom BUT i feel the SAME i feel the exact same, sentiment, BRO i.

00:56:11
Speaker 2: Do let's go, DUDE i was crying last. NIGHT i was looking AT i.

00:56:14
Speaker 1: Kind of see some water in your eyes right. Now, yeah, dude.

00:56:17
Speaker 2: BECAUSE i just You're you're a good. Guy you're a good. GUY i love.

00:56:20
Speaker 3: You.

00:56:22
Speaker 2: YEAH i was looking at pictures Of scarlet last night and started.

00:56:24
Speaker 1: Crying she's so much. Bigger i'm, like, dude what the? Hell?

00:56:30
Speaker 2: MAN i was looking at pictures of her in her first week and she's like this little, thing and now she's got cheeks and like a double.

00:56:36
Speaker 1: Chin i'm, like what.

00:56:38
Speaker 2: Happened i'm, like you said the, crying, Dude the crying is totally.

00:56:43
Speaker 1: Different she was.

00:56:46
Speaker 2: Everything that you keep on saying on this, podcast Keep, mike, sorry everything that you keep on saying on this podcast keeps coming. True of just those cries in the first week are way up here and now it's saying And I'm i'm just, like oh my, gosh she's like growing so.

00:57:02
Speaker 1: Fast it's, crazy.

00:57:04
Speaker 3: Dude, YEAH i don't think it stops. Either my dad was emotional last. WEEKEND i don't want to air out Old, john BUT i just came.

00:57:12
Speaker 1: BACK I i love hearing. That, Yeah AND i don't know what the context. Is so, again if you don't want to air. Out john gets, fine BUT i, PERSONALLY i love it because there'll be a lot of times WHERE i talk ON i speak on things where there's some THINGS i wish looking back THAT i want to be better than what my dad. Was and we always have long conversations now and WHEN i did my The retirement podcast and he did a little video at the, end he's like talking through stuff and things they kind of make them, emotional BUT i love the masculine energy that feels their emotions and thinks about things that they wish they would have done. Differently but they feel it so much that they're your guys' connection and your relationship is it gets even better as you get, older and they wish they would have been more intentional like when you were, younger because it was a different era back. Then, yeah but now it's like it just it gets.

00:58:08
Speaker 3: Better, yeah he's awesome and he's a good like he's. Not he won't mind me talking about because he's proud all quickly HE i came back home for the. Summer parents are leting me stay with. Him WHY i kind of get on my feet and grant my little brother he's in college and my dad was just The grant went back to, school and my dad was, like he. Didn't they never thought that there'd be a time again After grant, left that we would all be home for an extended, period all under one. Roof and he was just like one of those things where you don't it's a it was a good, time and he was just, like come to terms with that's probably the last time that will ever happen for, real and he was just really glad that we had that time for the summer all. Together and he was getting choked up over the phone while he was moving my little brother, in but he's you know that's that fires me. Up, yeah he's a.

00:58:55
Speaker 2: Beast, yes a little shout out you being a workday as well as a dad at. Home this guy came in this morning on A. Friday we're wishing each other Happy, friday and he, SAID i got my first big boy check this. Week first big boy, check he, said and, man it feels.

00:59:14
Speaker 1: Good let's. Go. Man i'm not even his, boss per.

00:59:17
Speaker 2: Se AND i was just fired, up, dude just seeing that smile and just, like oh that's.

00:59:23
Speaker 1: Awesome smell the, flowers, Man, yeah smell the. FLOWERS i love that convo that you had with your dad, too AND i love that he broke down a little. Bit we need more breaking, Down we need more breaking.

00:59:34
Speaker 2: Down Uh mike crack of cole. One i'll make this super. Quick auburn trip went, great. Sherman did she wear the? Boat, yeah she wore the.

00:59:42
Speaker 1: Boat Did did you take any pictures just You? SCARLET i maybe.

00:59:47
Speaker 2: TOOK i maybe took a picture With scarlet so that If baylor Beats, auburn we're right there in front Of Jordan hare AND i, said good. Thing girls got Her auburn sophon with her daddy From. Baylor baylor's.

01:00:06
Speaker 1: Daddy nice, thinking, Nice And i'll work the.

01:00:09
Speaker 2: Caption i'll want, caption But i'm posing there with. Her we're in front Of.

01:00:13
Speaker 1: Georgian put The auburn logo on. Her. Baylor oh, Yeah scarlet took her first ale. Today scarlett took her first life l.

01:00:26
Speaker 2: OH i already sent it to, y'all her screaming in the auburn.

01:00:30
Speaker 1: Dress, yeah that was. Phenomenal all you.

01:00:33
Speaker 2: Need she hated the auburn dress and she legit had a blowout after the graduation ceremony to WHERE i JUST i was so HAPPY i, go, HONEY i think this calls for an outfit. Change threw that thing into those little trash bags that you carry. Around was so quick to throw that thing.

01:00:48
Speaker 1: Out AND i love too that your your mindset as a. Father Was she's screaming because she hates the auburn dress and she had a blowout because she wanted an outfit. Change she wanted an outfit. Good. GOOD i really was.

01:01:01
Speaker 2: GOOD i was so.

01:01:02
Speaker 1: Proud oh you should push it out down your like you get it all over your. Clothes. GOOD i, uh.

01:01:10
Speaker 2: But, yeah the whole crack of the whole crack of cold. ONE i don't know Why i'm leaning back so much. Today uh was just being around. Family we have a ton of family and fort Where jill has twenty Six. Forst, COUSINS i have Sixteen forst. Cousins it's, crazy sixteen. SIXTEEN i THOUGHT i had a big. Family jill's got twenty.

01:01:28
Speaker 1: Six it's not.

01:01:29
Speaker 2: So and so we here In, nashville we're just not around that. Family and we got to be around a lot of them In, auburn and, man it was so much, fun just like how much we were passing Around scarlett and Just scarlet's being held by. Everybody, yeah it felt like a vacation to some extent because it's like we're getting to be Around scarlet and like live life and do normal. Things But i'm literally like in a restaurant with a cup like in my. Hand i'm, like oh my, God i'm not Holding. Scarlett i'm looking over At, Jill she's eating her. DINNER i was, like this is. CRAZY i look across the table And Aunt linda's Bouncing scarlett and And scarlett's you, know just sitting there loving. IT i was, like, oh, MAN i MISS i miss, family but these moments are.

01:02:20
Speaker 1: Great, yeah so that's a that's a GOOD i see another separate krack of cold one is just family and family members helping out to where both of you and the wife aren't holding the. Baby, yeah enjoying the. Moment, yes seeing your family enjoy the. Moment, yeah, like oh CAN i hold?

01:02:37
Speaker 2: ABSOLUTELY i, Go, linda do you want you want to go?

01:02:41
Speaker 1: Back she goes NEVER i said, that you, go. GIRL i would be holding Good we're at the fourth Of. July i'd be Holding scotty And i'd kind of, like, Uh i'd Find. CAITLYN i just Look. KATE i, said, Hey, CAITLYN i, said, Past, Scotty caitlyn is my Brother cody's.

01:03:02
Speaker 2: Girlfriend, okay, okay shout Out.

01:03:05
Speaker 1: Kate, yeah shout Out. Kaitlyn shout Out, kaitlyn or just anybody, like, YEAH i haven't seen you holding. You she looks pretty. Good, yeah she's kind of. Fun i'm gonna go get a. Beer shout, up Bud, light shut up by, Life shout up dad lost not cleaning up the area and putting clothes in the. Laundry SO i had a moment the other. Night Or, scottie she's. Listen people understanding are starting to understand the lore of Scott zilla a little. BIT i posted a couple of. Videos one she's all over the place, Kid, hey, Hey, Scotty, No and she'll look at me and kind of give me, this you, know this little evil grin where you just know she's gonna be trouble one, day and she like looks over and grins and then like army crawls faster and that little toes just dig a little. Buddy we got to put socks on her because she's got blisters on Her she's got blisters like on her feet from how she repetition after rep she's digging into The you keep on pulling her, back and she's, like all, Right, god, yeah loves that. Plant just over and. Over she's crawling back to the plant ANYTIME i. Listen it's hard to beat somebody that refuses to. Quit, yeah you realize she's not gonna. Quit you gotta pick her up and move her somewhere. Else but, anyway so the other, night changing her into her pajamas And scottie, again she's a. Mover i'm talking head neck bridge head. Bridge she's rolling over the side AND i got on My scottie no to WHERE i got to like hold her down and hold her down to her she starts getting a little, upset like you are not, moving didn Min AND i grab the leg again to try and hurry up and wipe and change her. Diaper she's moving to the point to Where i'm wiping her and, say let's Say i'm holding her like. This i'm wiping her and she's turning that. Way So i'm holding her like this to where she's neck bridging up so much to WHERE i gotta keep going with. Her she's just upside down As i'm wiping her trying to get to where she would kind of back roll over onto her. Stomach is how much she's how much she's, Bridging, yes SO i have to Once i'm done wiping, HER i have to pick her up and grab her neck to WHERE i can lay her back down on her. Back so she's almost doing a full.

01:05:09
Speaker 2: Scorpion, yes a full.

01:05:11
Speaker 1: Scorpion she's a little psycho. Bro and that's like the changing routine with her a little. Bit she had a great one this, morning or she kind of laid there AND i was just encouraging. Her that's how we Do that is how we change a, diaper, Kid that is how we do. It that's. Clinical, yeah that's clinic. Tape that's that's coaching tape right. There WHEN i put WHEN i cut up some pieces, together that's gonna be part of the. Film that's And i'm showing an eight month old how type of changes. Come, yeah one day When i'm a coach And i'm going over the a gap your, Clips she's gonna cut. In this is how you keep a. Standing this is how you stay, poise stay, calm and let the game come to.

01:05:44
Speaker 2: You dirty diapers just shoots up on. Screen the full, yeah full room of football.

01:05:48
Speaker 1: Players Whoa. Yeah but ANYTIME i take her clothes, OFF i throw them on just her little her little uh. Sofa, yes throw them on her little, sofa because you, Know i'm a. Guy i'm thinking maybe we'll where we will wear this again, tomorrow like we do when we take our clothes off in a little pile by the end of the by the side of the. Bed might wear these, socks might wear these, Shorts might wear this shirt again tomorrow or sometime this. Week, Yeah SO i tossed him on the. Sofa scotty, was you, know In scott's zilla. Mode SO i left the diaper on LIKE i you, KNOW i strapped it, up but left. IT i didn't put it in a trash. Can yeap clothes on the. SOFA i go to sit, down get in her. Sleepsack she's having. Milk we're having a good. Time charlo And rue come in because always suposed to Give scotty a hug and a kiss good. Night and here's where the loss comes. In, OBVIOUSLY i haven't set it. UP i didn't clean out my. Mess, YEAH i got the laundry on the, SOFA i got the diaper on the thing And charles, LIKE i see you forgot to put the diaper in the pail. Again it's two feet, away two feet. Away you know we got a diaper, pail, right, yeah so we don't, know we get you, Know i'm kind of. Chuckling i'm, like ah. God she she was In scott's zilla mode and she's, like it's just right. Here did you put the butt bomb on? Her, Yeah i'll put the butt bomb on her or it gets. You just a reminder the diaper, pail it's right, there, yeah just reach, over it's right. There And rue's little candy. Ass she joined T. Mom she joined team mom because Cin charle, GOES i see, you, uh your favorite thing to. Do Leave scotty's clothes on the. SOFA i don't know if she's gonna wear him and get the, borrow, sweetheart and Then scotty Are rue's little candy ass dead. Day you got to Put scotty's laundry, away, walks walks in the, closet Gets scotty's, laundry goes in the, closet puts it in the, hamper and Then rue Goes Dad, dad the hamper is in the, Closet LIKE i, know. Sweetheart ru grabs the hamper and slides it out of the closet and, says this the hamper right, here dead. Day you gotta put the laundry in the, Answer i'm, thinking, hey can you guys Let scotty have her milk and go to. Sleep BUT i don't need both of you up my ass right. Now, yeah you guys who bought that. Hamper guess who knows where it is because he bought it and put it. There, yeah but on my, ass you, know charge joking with. Me she's on my. Ass and then the rue's over here putting on a. Clan, hey, dad here's the. Hamper you got to put it in the? HAMPER i, GOT i got. You and this is this is why we talk about. It this is not a.

01:08:16
Speaker 2: Myth we are not conspiracy. THEORISTS a man can become. Outnumbered it's a real.

01:08:21
Speaker 1: Thing it's a real.

01:08:22
Speaker 2: Thing why Is will so quiet at the? Party they won't ask, that, Though, yeah they won't be asking.

01:08:27
Speaker 3: That what?

01:08:28
Speaker 1: Happened you used to have so much charisma AND i had three, girls three. Daughters the hampers in the, Closet but either, way, Hey, will what's you up? To the hampers in the, closet what but two feet? Away type in the two feet. Away, OKAY.

01:08:45
Speaker 2: I don't have a dad loss this, week AND i don't have a.

01:08:50
Speaker 1: Motherfuck that's. GOOD i have a new.

01:08:52
Speaker 2: Segment i'll keep it, quick under an, hour under an. Hour this new segment is called The. Trenches it is where a dad loss then turns into a dad, win a, crack.

01:09:05
Speaker 1: A cold one where a loss meets the, wind where a loss meets the.

01:09:08
Speaker 2: Win so if it's not a true definitive loss or a true definitive, win it is now the.

01:09:14
Speaker 1: Trenches do we like? It love? It love?

01:09:17
Speaker 3: It?

01:09:17
Speaker 1: Okay, yeah love it?

01:09:19
Speaker 2: Good my trenches very for trenches to kick us.

01:09:24
Speaker 1: OFF i was actually tweeting about this last. NIGHT i sent you a. Video, Yes, SCARLETT i hit THE RT i hit the. Retweet that makes. Sense love the bet six when they're out there retweeting it out, there that makes.

01:09:37
Speaker 2: Sense BECAUSE i saw it got like one hundred, LIKES i was, like, oh that's a lot for a selfie video with my.

01:09:42
Speaker 1: BABY i did not REALIZE i gotta get down in front Of Papa team. Six we got, to we got.

01:09:47
Speaker 2: To, Yeah scarlet can boo it'd been twenty four. Hours dad has took her on a. Walk that's Also i'll segue that to save. Time that's my dad hack evening. Walks just put her in that little wild. Bird, yeah and she passed, out And i'm, like, man what is the game plan going in tonight to get this little thing to?

01:10:07
Speaker 1: Poop she didn't poop all.

01:10:09
Speaker 2: Night she's, fussing not sleeping, well crying. Constantly jill had a day with her. Yesterday shout Out. Jill she put.

01:10:19
Speaker 1: Up love You, Jill love You.

01:10:21
Speaker 2: Jill she put up with, scarlet like having this poop up in her for probably like eighteen straight hours of just like trying to figure it, out burping, her you, know all this, stuff doing the, legs pushing it in and. OUT i did the evening. Walk we thought her being, vertical, yeah and kind of moving and stuff that that would.

01:10:40
Speaker 1: Help nothing was.

01:10:41
Speaker 2: Helping this, MORNING i finally get her for her seven o'clock, feed AND i put that bottle, in, dude and.

01:10:50
Speaker 1: Oh my, god seven of, them seven of. Them just it's like a.

01:10:55
Speaker 2: SUBWOLFER i don't know how to describe it other than your hands on a. Subwolfer, yeah AND i was so proud to you because it's not like in that moment like you want the poop so, bad so you're.

01:11:07
Speaker 1: Just like, Good, oh good, Job, scarlet good, girl good.

01:11:15
Speaker 2: Girl and then we get her out of her sleepsack AND i see on her onesie the brown stain already on the, back And i'm, like good. JOB i truly was like good BECAUSE i knew that she got it all out of. There, dude we open up that, Diaper, holy holy good.

01:11:34
Speaker 1: GOOD i THOUGHT i.

01:11:35
Speaker 2: Knew what a dirty diaper. Was there wasn't a single patch of white going the full.

01:11:40
Speaker 1: Length the whole thing painted like with a paint. Roller it was. AWESOME i love. That so that was My The trenches, great great. Segment thank. You love the segment because again you do get caught in like dad lost DO i just talk about the lost, part crack a, coal one could come out the. Other BUT i love how you brought it all. Together loss meets, dub lost meets. Dub we can find, Another i'll find. It we can find another phrase that ties it. Together BUT i love The trenches. Segment.

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01:14:15
Speaker 2: Famer maybe future guests on for the, dads that would be. Awesome no, relation no, relation.

01:14:22
Speaker 1: But, yeah a bunch of, quotes a lot of things from again the greatest coaches of all, time.

01:14:27
Speaker 2: And it has like a fun little write.

01:14:29
Speaker 1: Up Bear, BRYANT i just opened it. Up, yeah take those little, rascals talk to them, Good pat them on the, back let them think they are, good and they will go out and be the biggot and be the big Guns. Biggins go out and they will beat The. Biggins Coach Paul Bear bryant Coach Paul. Beart, bryant he, right didn't change a lot of diapers back in his. Era talk to the little, rascals they'll beat the. Biggins pat him on the, Back talk to him good they'll beat the biggest. Coach what does that? MEAN a good? Job good job? Kid, YEAH i MEAN i can change the diaper in my. Life my wife HANDLED I my quote this week is actually from this.

01:15:07
Speaker 2: Book it is very fun if you're a big quotes, guy and there's like a nice little forward at like the beginning of each. Chapter i've only read the first chapter forward and THEN i just started peeling through like all the. Quotes but if you're just a sports guy in general or what App, yeah there's some really great quotes in the same far as it's a fun.

01:15:26
Speaker 1: Read shut, up thank you. Dad that Was that was very, thoughtful very. Thoughtful that's so funny to Bear. Bryant i'm like reading through that and it's, like, yeah it sounds like a dad back. Then i'm you, Know i'm breaking Down rou's first day of school to my. DAD i ended up calling that night and checking on, him catching, up and he's, like, YEAH i remember when you guys went to school for the first. TIME i started. LAUGHING i, said, no the hell you, don't, bro you. Ain't you ain't think us the. School he got, it sat there for two, seconds he, goes, yeah you're probably. RIGHT i didn't think you guys, school and then he gave me, Though i'm up before you guys were even. Awake i'm driving to work before you, Guys LIKE i. Know he's, like but you, KNOW i get home And i'm asking you about, school And i'm, LIKE i, know, Death, like it's just funny to. Me you're trying to LIKE i remember, dropping you, know seeing you guys on your first day of, school And i'm, like fucking take us to, school, Man, yeah you're probably. Right here's, yeah that's.

01:16:19
Speaker 2: True here's another quote from Coach paul Bear bryant spit on.

01:16:23
Speaker 1: It yeah, good thanks. Coach that could have been a few different things they. Could he was a smart, man a lot of. That he spit on.

01:16:32
Speaker 3: It what?

01:16:35
Speaker 1: Coach what the? Fuck for? Dads what? Uh dad hot? Line that dad hot. Line let's dive into the dad hotline this week six oh one The. Dads if you want to drop a voicemail to the boys to for the, dads is that six oh one the. Dads we have our caller coming into us this week named don't know his.

01:16:56
Speaker 2: Name we're about to find out if you're an international six on one the days at gmail dot. Com that's six o one of the dad's at gmail dot. Com if you're an international, listener.

01:17:06
Speaker 3: Sure preface real quick. Too from from what we talked about before the episode with the call at saying a, name just real.

01:17:15
Speaker 2: Quick thank, You thank you for the, Reminder thank you for the.

01:17:18
Speaker 1: REMINDER i, captain thank, you.

01:17:20
Speaker 2: Captain Will you're gonna love. THIS i am not upset WHEN i say.

01:17:24
Speaker 1: THIS i just found it.

01:17:25
Speaker 2: FUNNY i got a dm uh from A pt sixer that, said, boys what the fuck on saying my?

01:17:33
Speaker 1: Name you got?

01:17:33
Speaker 2: Me you got me in the doghouse with the wife. Feet oh, no how does the wife you listen? TO i guess wife you listen. To but to my, Thought i'm, like if you say your, name here's here's my, thing we said at the, top and it's in the voicemail thing if you want to remain anom very first episode we. Did we were, saying very first, episode and it's in you, Say, hey this is Will. Compter you reach for the dads and. Listen if you want to share your, name you want to stay, anonymous doesn't.

01:18:05
Speaker 1: MATTER i mean it's. There OH i say that in the.

01:18:07
Speaker 3: Voice, yes, okay if you got, that if you open up the, Voicemail, hey, guys this Is jack here calling in for, like it's very. Obvious we're gonna say your.

01:18:16
Speaker 1: Name, Yeah we're gonna play the. Voicemail we got him in. Trouble we got likes to think that he listened to the clip and then showed his wife and then maybe she was busting his. Balls got him in. Trouble which guy did we get in? Trouble what was the?

01:18:28
Speaker 2: Situation because then what is that gonna?

01:18:32
Speaker 1: Do you're, right it was a.

01:18:34
Speaker 3: SITUATION i Don't we don't. Know we gotta go back and find. Out maybe the wife is standing right next to. Him he's, like, Look i'm telling these motherfuckers, like how dare? You and on the inside he's, like if that's the, case we'll we'll take the. Blame, Hey i'm so sorry that we did.

01:18:51
Speaker 1: That when your wife asked, you who did? It your responses pop a team. Six we're all one, heartbeat we're all one. Voice, Hey Brock obama slam Bin. Laden who took the? Shot we all? Did, no, no, no who actually took the? Shot? President with all due, respect we all took the. Shot, there you're we all.

01:19:14
Speaker 2: Did her friend one hundred percent heard the clip and, said is this Your?

01:19:19
Speaker 1: Joey, yeah this is YOUR us? Familiar what?

01:19:23
Speaker 2: That what the hell are you doing calling into this?

01:19:26
Speaker 1: Thing i'm What they heard me out like?

01:19:29
Speaker 3: That what is this?

01:19:30
Speaker 1: Ship although this ship Is we'll take, It. Papa this is a off tame. Six that's off a team. Six took the. Shot we took the.

01:19:37
Speaker 2: Shot, okay back to the voice we.

01:19:40
Speaker 1: Have we have a fun. Voicemail we're just doing one this.

01:19:43
Speaker 2: Week we got tight, deadline we're keeping under an.

01:19:45
Speaker 1: Hour here we.

01:19:46
Speaker 5: Go what's not, boys it's. Nat put a quick shout out to my young Brother tom for putting me On butting with the. Boys couldn't have been happier to give another podcast in the, rotation especially now that it's for The dad.

01:20:07
Speaker 1: Is The Traffic cold?

01:20:08
Speaker 5: One maybe a new category Called Dad. Collecting but but you, KNOW i remember of Pat. STATES i got a foign and six year. Old i've been recommissioned out to the. Suburbs you, know getting a little long in the. Tube and you, KNOW i don't feel Like i've been put out the, pasture but maybe given a new, opportunity you don't fashion. Launch there's nothing like. It you got to embrace. It and it's really not as munch of a responsibility as an, opportunity opportunity to cultivate.

01:20:34
Speaker 2: And present what you can do to your.

01:20:36
Speaker 5: Neighbors and so last Week i'm up against the, clock last few hours of the week where my nanny's still on the. Clock i'm home, early got to get the lawn. Cut it's ninety nine fucking degrees.

01:20:48
Speaker 2: Outside i'm going to like a horn.

01:20:50
Speaker 5: Church what DO i get as a tap on the shoulder from my boy scout neighbor across the.

01:20:55
Speaker 2: Street what does he?

01:20:57
Speaker 5: Want he wants me to put a shirt. Up it's inappromphrey for me to come to grat and my shirt. Off you, know don't mean to flex on it too.

01:21:05
Speaker 1: Hard but.

01:21:08
Speaker 5: We don't all look great in our, fifties but in our, Thirties i'm still looking good.

01:21:12
Speaker 1: Fellas i'm not a.

01:21:13
Speaker 2: Freak short off a little.

01:21:14
Speaker 5: Bit get the dance flex. Showing so you know WHAT i did and to just kindly take appreciate the, consideration keep it. Moving what do you?

01:21:23
Speaker 2: Do goes and complain to my.

01:21:25
Speaker 5: Wife it's been, better but.

01:21:31
Speaker 1: You just can't keep him.

01:21:32
Speaker 5: Down we're here to build a, community not tear each other. Down so get out, there flett the, muscles showing your most muscular and don't be afraid to pop the top off every once in a.

01:21:42
Speaker 2: While keep it.

01:21:43
Speaker 5: Up love hearing it every. Week can't wait to hear.

01:21:46
Speaker 1: Him, No oh, GOD i love, that he Said nate From Papa team. SIX i thought he said, smitty, smitty?

01:21:57
Speaker 2: Smitty is It? Nate let's rune it?

01:22:00
Speaker 1: Back hold on By, Nate, nate It's. Nate, yeah, yeah It's. Hey you got the shirt's got the computer over? There so my you, know, hey you, KNOW i don't know If i'm gonna need to hear no by. Here, Yeah oh my. Love that's a great example of a get back, inside old, man break your, hand put a shirt?

01:22:28
Speaker 3: On what on? This on?

01:22:30
Speaker 1: This oh you don't like what you, see old? Man why don't you come say it to my? Face? Oh fuck, Off?

01:22:39
Speaker 2: Scott what the?

01:22:42
Speaker 1: Fuck what'd you?

01:22:42
Speaker 2: Say?

01:22:43
Speaker 1: Scott you need me to piss on your?

01:22:44
Speaker 2: Lawn?

01:22:49
Speaker 1: Yeah i'll piss on it After i'm. Done. Cut how about that sounds like you haven't mounted your wife in a. While scott.

01:23:01
Speaker 2: That he told him to keep, pushing and Then scott or whatever neighbor went to his wife to then go. Complain do you hear that part of the.

01:23:11
Speaker 1: Time, Yeah so he told he had the shirt. Off, yeah said it's, inappropriate told him to keep, pushing, like, guy keep mowing the.

01:23:19
Speaker 2: Lawn, no, no guy that had his shirt. Off nate Told scott the, Neighbor, hey keep pushing. It, scott thanks for the, tip but keep. Pushing kept his shirt.

01:23:31
Speaker 1: Off finished the. Lawn So scott went to his wife to tail on. Him, yes we got a tattletail on our. Hands, dude what in the. World AND i.

01:23:44
Speaker 2: Love that he kept it. Positive he's, Like, hey we're just trying to build a, community not holding it against the. Neighbor not holding it against the. Neighbor But i'm gonna keep on mowing the lawn with my shirt off when it's ninety nine, Degrees thank you very. Much and somebody that's From, texas he's.

01:23:59
Speaker 1: Trying to get the. Sell you're trying to get a little tangle, on you, know what the farmer's tans are, fun but it's like he's trying to get some color to.

01:24:05
Speaker 2: Him, yes, dude a rat house that we had In texas that WE i did the unknowing for on those summer. Days it is like almost. Unbearable it is almost, unbearable especially when it's getting up to like ONE o, two one oh, three which.

01:24:22
Speaker 1: Happens Bro nate should next time He moslon do the exact same. Thing put some booby tassels. On, yeah Leave scott of notes and, says go tell my wife about this. One or if he wants them to wear a, shirt just wears something, ridiculous.

01:24:40
Speaker 2: You know WHAT i, Mean like as he's mowing the oh yeah you have to maybe one of these visors WITH thess or.

01:24:48
Speaker 1: Just wears a shirt and cuts everything like all the way up to where it's, like you, know flowing in the wind.

01:24:52
Speaker 2: Everywhere IT'S pt six shirt and just cropped off.

01:24:55
Speaker 1: There yeah Go pt six cut it up to the. Sternum so you still show off the app as just short.

01:25:02
Speaker 2: Shorts just give him the biggest thumbs up when he pulls into it drive.

01:25:07
Speaker 1: So some badass sunglasses crop top up to the. Sternum really short cut off jean shorts or something so you can get the quads. Out, yep maybe that busting bucket at. On, YEAH i got a shirt.

01:25:22
Speaker 2: And you gotta keep the mower going and yell over the. Mower that's the biggest power move. Ever somebody trying to talk to you and you just keep on ripping on whatever your.

01:25:31
Speaker 1: Tools, yeah we'll write him a little, note put it in his. Mailbox heard you tattle to my? Wife what's a lot of stones you? Have that's a crazy. Movie, yeah that is a crazy.

01:25:42
Speaker 3: Move what's the scene In Step brothers Where Will ferrell's going along Like derek's trying to sell the house And Will ferrell's in the FULL ss.

01:25:50
Speaker 1: Outfit, Yeah ain's, great, Great oh my.

01:25:57
Speaker 2: GOD i had a neighbor in his like late, Sixties steve shout Out steve back In.

01:26:04
Speaker 1: Texas every other day he's.

01:26:06
Speaker 2: Retired every other day he's out in his front yard with his little docks in no shirt, on killing it and he had the, hunchback like the early hunchback going he's just Fucking he's just oh and he got me juiced. UP i don't see how A pt sixer could see ANOTHER pt sixer with his shirt off that late in the game and, go, dude fuck, him put a shirt.

01:26:29
Speaker 1: On was hein't a REAL pt? Sixer, Yes scott AIN'T pt Six scott ain't A pt sixer for. Real Maybe nate should put him on for the. Dad that's a great. Call introduce him to the. Culture you might hear this part at some. Point, wait wait two, weeks but he'll be able to check. Himself. Yeah, wait you know what these boys are, RIGHT i need to do a better job of embracing the fatherhood and the.

01:26:57
Speaker 2: Boy scout terminology called his neighbor by boy scout. Neighbor that's a wild ricochet for the boys.

01:27:06
Speaker 1: Scout while.

01:27:10
Speaker 2: Oh, no, Golly, nate that was an all time.

01:27:15
Speaker 1: Call great, Call, Nate thank. You we did our call.

01:27:19
Speaker 2: In we're doing so well on. Time we are at the end of the. Show it sounds like your lesson is pretty long or.

01:27:26
Speaker 1: Long not. LONG i JUST i just wrote a few things.

01:27:29
Speaker 2: DOWN i have a very quick quote THAT i can hit hit bro. Lesson this is from Jim. Valvano that's THE nc state. Coach remember back in the, Eighties JIMMY.

01:27:42
Speaker 1: V JIMMY.

01:27:42
Speaker 2: V my father gave me the greatest gift anyone anyone could give another, person he believed in. ME i really love that. Quote so my father gave me the greatest gift anyone could give another.

01:27:57
Speaker 1: Person he believed in.

01:27:59
Speaker 2: Me, boom nice simple and it covers the. Bases, yeah covers the.

01:28:05
Speaker 1: Base simple quote that you can just tell yourself in the back of your mind when you're kiddo's questioning a SHOULD i get on the? Scooter that's a big slide up?

01:28:13
Speaker 2: There SHOULD i put my leg overset handlebars of? Scooter dad's over there.

01:28:17
Speaker 1: With this phone Doing, Yeah, OH i did have A i did have a dad hack on like on. ONBELIEF i. Had. Uh so by the time we're filming this, Episode rude just went to school for the third day in the. Row It's, friday it's, beats A friday movie, night all the good. Stuff but It dad. HACKED i had because on day three we were it was just me taking her to school and we were waiting in the car line and she was all of a sudden saying she didn't want to go to. School why don't want to go to? School? Sweet our deadad's not at, School, like come to school with? Me kind of didn't want to, leave that kind of didn't want to go to. School we're starting to feel a little. Sad she wasn't crying or anything. Like that was this. Morning that was this, morning? Okay and uh so WHAT i did is that As i'm talking to you about, school you, know you have so much, Fun you play a, lot you, learn your friends are going to be, there so and so's, there so and so's, there, YadA, YadA. YadA AND i was, like and here's what we'll. Do we can Do, remember we're always going to do three, squeezes because she, SAID i want you get out of the. TRUCK i want you to hug me and kiss. Me so you know they don't let. Parents so why because we got to keep the line. Moving why because we got to stay effishing and. Effective and that's just the way it, is all this. STUFF i was, like but here's What i'll. Do dada is going to give you five kisses and you can put them in your. Pocket just got a little pocket on the front of her dress or shirt whatever it, was And i'm and putting them in her, hands two, three, four, five and she puts them in her. Pocket i'm, like you can use those throughout the. Day so if you think about, dad dad Or mama and you get, sad just know you can pull out a kiss out of your pocket and you can put it on your. Cheek and, also you know how mom and daddy got you that little roo necklace you wear in your little. Necklace she's, like, YEAH i was like if, again if you run out of your kisses or again you're feeling sad that mom and dad aren't, there we got you that. Necklace just squeeze your necklace and we'll feel. It and just know that we're always going to be with you as we. Are we got your necklace and it is around your. Neck so if you're feel, sad just squeeze it and just know That i'll feel it Wherever i'm, At i'm gonna feel.

01:30:07
Speaker 3: It.

01:30:09
Speaker 2: Bro that's a little dad having a. Girl fucking, rocks dude having. IT i want some boy dads on the, show but little moments like.

01:30:16
Speaker 1: That that's so, sick. Dude and she ripped. It you, know teacher got her out by. Dad dad uh walked off and you just see your little human just walking, off, bro just being a little g, bro just being a.

01:30:29
Speaker 2: Little with their little five is there necklace along the.

01:30:32
Speaker 1: Way but that was my that was my. Dad, heck here's here's the, lesson here's the lesson or theme uh for this, segment for this topict some, DOWN i emailed it to. Myself here we are you? Ready sure? HIM i am, Ready Captain Chef jack. Ready it's our job to break the cycle of pointless punishments when our children are, developing learning and. Growing this is a challenge THAT i Know i'll face because growing up in an era of choosing what you'll get spanked, with having that fear of dat anytime you do something, wrong and the feeling of isolation after. Punishment life is too short to get upset over your toddler being a, toddler or your kiddo going through a developmental. Stage they fuck, up they break, things they lose their mind over little, things and push you to your. Limits but they're also learning how to regulate their, emotions develop their, skills and how to show up to the. World and that is where our job comes. In don't reprimand them for the mess ups and. Outbursts, instead encourage and guide them and guide, them walk through the fire with, them and challenge yourself to stand in the storm with them and show them the way we need to get out of the way of our own bullshit and lead our. Children it's why we embrace good and it's why we will help set the standard for the next. Generation that concludes my ted. Talk those are big, words, Dude, yeah those are big. Words. Yeah i'll come across stuff that talks about, like you, know, punish like the punishment, stuff or your, children you, know going through a developmental stage or having a, tantrum or the moments that you just know push you to the absolute end of the. Earth we all have. Them we all fail at times a lot of, times where then it's all about how you self talk after that and look back on what happened and see how you could have done a better job of keeping your, poise because, again they're going through so many big emotions and it's our job to again sit in the storm with them and help guide. Them or If ruth's yelling, you there's only so many times where you're gonna. Yell it's, like, hey you're starting to piss me off a little, bit or you're starting to frustrate dad, Dad or it's like IF i give you something and you're like CAN i do this or blah blah, blah ask, Dad, hey use your confident. Voice that's not how we, talk that's not how we do. Things yeah, yeah, hey, dadda can you? Help can you turn on Little bear for? Me can you ask? Nicely? All all like all these other or they're having a, moment they just want rue didn't want to see. Me this, morning she came, downstairs sent her. Outfit she usually comes and Sees dad ad me to like look at her, outfit And i'm, like oh my, gosh you look. Amazing what'd you do with your? HAIR i love to all like all this. Stuff that's like every. Day that's a that's a daily routine that we. Have but this morning she came down stairs for whatever, reason she didn't want to see dadd or didn't want me to talk to. Her i'm making breakfast and, stuff And i'm kind of hearing her talk to, MOM i don't want to See. Dada goes in the mudroom and just sits in the. Mudroom she was, like, oh we don't got to put our shoes on. Yet we got any. Breakfast Her she's just LIKE i don't want to see, dad, dad OR i don't want daddad to talk to, me AND i didn't do shit when she got out of, there LIKE i haven't seen her yet in the, morning AND i kind of give it some. TIME i finished some breakfast going. On THEN i just KIND i, slowly kindly walk in there And i'm, like, hey, sweetheart like, DAD i don't want you in, here And i'm, LIKE i know you've. Done i'm gonna leave here in a. SECOND i just wanted to, ask, though CAN i ask you a? Question, yeah, like how are you feeling? Today i'm feeling sad and kind of like lays down and does her, thing And i'm just, like all, right that's. Fine i'm gonna walk out of. Here but just, know here's ALL i want you to. Know i'm gonna be right out here in the. Kitchen if you need da death or anything anything THAT i can do for, you you just let me. Know a minute or something comes, by and then you just HEAR i Need, Dad, Dad LIKE i JUST i want to hug and, stuff and THEN i go. On there's LIKE i feel like if you take it the wrong, way you can go in there like, hey what's going? On, like, well that hasn't done nothing to. You you're, like you're like defending your. Position. Yeah, yeah it's like whatever moment she's having right, now, like, hey, sweetheart number, one we are number, one we are. This, yeah you know. THAT i know. That i'm just, thinking, hey how are you feeling this? Morning i'm feeling. Sad all, right that's. Fine, Listen i'm not gonna talk to. YOU i just want you to. Know can you look at? Me she looks at. ME i just want you Know i'm gonna be right in. Here if you need me for, anything do whatever you need me to. Do walk. Out and then all of a, sudden you hear need, dad, DAD i need a, hug you, sweetheart that's all you have to. Say pick her. Up we just have a great. HUG i love. That did you wad for school? Today let's go kick some ass.

01:34:53
Speaker 2: Bro, yeah whatever you push, Out i'm not buying because guess, WHAT i love.

01:34:56
Speaker 1: You, YEAH i love your. Kid on that, note we got a roll BECAUSE i got an eleven. Thirty i'm.

01:35:05
Speaker 2: DONE i covered EVERYTHING i wanted to, cover AND i loved your lesson of the.

01:35:09
Speaker 1: Week, Dude thank you. MAN i loved your lesson of the. Week thank, you. Dude fucking love. FATHERHOOD i do. Too keep embracing the. Trenches boys pop a team. Six we have a, standard we have a. Responsibility keep carrying the torch and keep recruiting guys to this. Brand. Yeah share the, show keep leaving, comments share your, photos tag us on social. Media we love, you we appreciate. You don't forget to take out the trash bet six ol boom