The One About Dorit Filing For Divorce, Day Parties in Palm Springs, and the Ca-Choilet

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Speaker 1: What is wrong with you? Your spaghetti legs, dancers legs? Hi my love it is Lala can't welcome back to give them l LA podcast. We were at home again. I'm not mad about it when when people ask like, are you out of the studio, I'm like, we'll be back in it at some point in time. But I'm just.

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Speaker 2: I'm excited to be I am excited to be in the studio if you were to ask me my honest opinion. And I can't wait to get the looks from our producers.

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Speaker 3: I rather do this, you ask for them, And I understand.

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Speaker 1: Asking Easton to like leave his four walls is wild. And I told him like, once we have the studio, we're not going to be behind like a desk, so you're gonna have to like actually put something on other than sweatpants. I do love the crocs.

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Speaker 2: We both have guys to no I have. I'm taking mine off because they need a moment.

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Speaker 1: Okay, they're so good.

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Speaker 3: I got a bag on it.

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Speaker 1: So I posted a photo of your crocs and oh my god, and so many people were like, what is that bag? And I was like, I want, I wanted to say what you wanted to do Easton wants to do. Put no, well, that's off of that's out of a movie. He's like, most people don't know this, but you can put your weed in there. But now that Eastern sober. He's now putting the money that he's going to give for the seventh tradition in his age.

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Speaker 3: Now it's time for the seventh tradition. I'll just lean over.

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Speaker 2: I don't know if you heard that, Zipper, but I'm packing dollars in here.

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Speaker 3: Oh my god, I can't wait to give them out.

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Speaker 1: I love the giblets that you chose. So yes, we will be back in the studio. We love being home. I just went this morning. So Ocean's in Miami, uh visiting her dad, and I went to the school this morning to listen to two people who are like professionals when it comes to putting your child into school and the accepting process you've been accepted. It's so wild to talk about it like it's college when we're talking about kindergarten. You guys, we're talking about when they enter kindergarten. You have to go through an interview process, you have to be teed up for donations, you have to go to events, you basically have to create like.

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Speaker 3: This.

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Speaker 1: I don't I hope no one listens to the podcast who I'm going to go in and interview with, but you, like, the entire family is basically being interviewed. And I'm like, okay, I'm a bit nervous.

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Speaker 3: Well that's it was easy for you. You're the only one there, right, I was.

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Speaker 1: The only one there. But this is this was there was one woman who raised her hand because again, this was just for us to kind of understand the admissions process and if you're going to choose public school or private school, which by the way, I learned that private school is going to be a minimum of fifty thousand dollars a year, which is so cooker. Kindergarten, Yeah, if you choose to do kindergarten, you can also there are sure, I'm sure there are going to be parents who are like, you know what, We'll do public school, kindergarten through the fifth grade, and then we'll start the process of junior high. Being more in a private school setting, it is very different. I mean in Utah literally, the people who were in private school, you'd be like, oh, they're in private school. That means they got many not only that, but it's like, okay, there's a lot of drugs happening. Oh yeah, that was you know, just right. They had because because they were rich, they had to act access to a lot of things. But public school, it wasn't even a conversation whether you were super wealthy or not. It was like, you go to public school because all the public schools are great. It's very different in LA and Los Angeles County. So I left, and I'm feeling a bit of pressure, especially when they talk about the family aspect. There was a woman who raised her hand and she was like, when I go into these interviews as a single mom, do I go by myself or do I bring my tribe? And they said, no, you definitely want to go by yourself, and she goes, okay, I just I would want to know what my mom thinks. And I'm like, are you me?

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Speaker 3: I'm on FaceTime with mine.

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Speaker 1: So there were like a lot of questions and then I I wanted to ask, but I didn't, so I asked one of the people at the school. I just said, like, do they google us? Apparently, like, if you're googleable, they do. That's bullshit, And well, whether it's bullshit or not. They do, and they also for people who are not googleable, they do background checks, they find out where you live. They do all of these things because also if you're choosing a private school, they're looking at you for donations, and you know, a lot of those donations go to events. I'm sure new technology and books and all the things so that the kids like.

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Speaker 2: Your donations went to the snow day, Right.

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Speaker 3: I can't give it.

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Speaker 1: I can't comment on what that goes to. I have no problem with donations to a school, especially because that money is also used for people who don't want financial aid but need financial aid. So if all of us kind of coming together to give a donation can help a family put their child in the school, and it's a grant, you do not owe it back, then by all means, whatever I can give, I'll give. But it was an intimidating process. Left, I called one of my friends who does not go to school with Ocean. Obviously she wouldn't, but her child. She's a bit back, and she she's kind of like me, like overly, she gets overly sensitive, she gets overwhelmed easily.

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Speaker 3: I'm waving at the Queen. She looks magnificent oh, she gave me a bath.

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Speaker 1: Is that my bathrobe?

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Speaker 3: Okay, I get yours.

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Speaker 1: I think the boundaries are getting a little unboundaried, but that's fine. Anyway, I called her. She made me feel better. We looked up the public school that was near me to see if it was a good school, just in case I do want to go that route until private school is like absolutely necessary. Who knows what we're gonna do. I just for anyone who's out there kind of going through the same process. I see you, I feel you, and let's just look at it as a hurdle race. Right.

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Speaker 2: Yeah, but I can see how that I am taking offense to them, saying, don't bring your.

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Speaker 3: Tribe different day and age guys. It isn't just a mom and pa anymore. There's Orca pods coming now.

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Speaker 1: Well then they said at meetings mom and dad, and I'm sitting here and I'm gonna I'm like, wow, I'm gonna throw up. I'm going to throw up right here. And now I'm so overwhelmed.

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Speaker 2: Right for how much you're paying, I feel like they should level up and not discriminate our family.

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Speaker 1: I know, I fully agree, but you know what, whoever accepts Ocean. We're so grateful. We're so grateful, and you have full family participation because that's what I do know that they want. Anyway, moving on, like I said, Ocean will be in Miami until tomorrow. Oh, very excited to have her back. I'm not going to allow you. Guys, it's been absolutely awesome having some free time. Like I love and adore.

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Speaker 3: My children, but you also, let me put it this way.

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Speaker 2: You you do a lot for them, and you like to make them happy so that you know when she wants to do things, you do things y So it was nice.

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Speaker 3: For you to do things that you wanted to do.

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Speaker 1: Finally, let me tell you what was the nice pace? Your brid as goes down at six fifteen, and then I had that time until I got in bed to not be mom. Yeah, and like I get it, you're always mom, but Ocean wakes up with me, goes to bed with me, like I have no time to just kind of be alone. Yes, like even when we're recording the podcast, she's popping in love it. But to say that I didn't enjoy this weekend in Palm Springs to.

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Speaker 3: Every other mother, you got to enjoy your time because.

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Speaker 2: You gotta be the best you and that comes from doing things you enjoy. Yeah, so you're doing that, and I like that's the thing you were saying. You were like, I'm excited to have a couple of days to just relax without ocean and do you know the bounty houses and this and that that you always take her to because you're an amazing mother.

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Speaker 1: Well thank you.

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Speaker 3: Of course. I don't even know where I was going with this because I was.

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Speaker 1: The downtime and being able to like be the best mom you can be with that downtime.

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Speaker 3: Yeah, Like that's the thing.

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Speaker 2: It's like you need to get away from your kids to enjoy because you were so excited in a sense that you had your downtime.

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Speaker 3: I remember what I was saying.

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Speaker 2: As the days went on, you would start to get a little slouch heer, and you're like, I just miss her exactly.

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Speaker 1: You need the day makes the heart girl fonder.

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Speaker 2: One day you were like, oh, this is the greatest night. I'm so glad I have an ocean free night. The next morning you were like, I kind of missed waking up to her, But the next night.

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Speaker 3: Was I kind of miss my bug in the back. I was like, you are falling apart at the scene.

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Speaker 1: And it was also nice because Ocean is such such a presence, Like at the very beginning when I was expecting Sosa, I'm like, Ocean is I need to make sure that she knows I am still her mom, I'm still here with her. I'm not going to neglect her. She's not being replaced. She did not feel that way at all. On top of she's such a presence that like I kind of feel like I sometimes neglect so sad. So it was like very nice to have one on one time with Sos and just like swim with her and not have someone hanging on me to the point where like Sosa made drown with Ocean hanging on my arms, Like it was just awesome. Back to you saying that I was falling a part of the scene. So you guys, we went to Balm Springs, not for coach or for stagecoach. We just went because we wanted to go to the desert. We end up one night or night day, Lord knows, I don't come alive in the nighttime. Anyone who's like I come alive in the nighttime, I'm like, we will not connect.

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Speaker 3: Alive in the morning.

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Speaker 1: Came yes, So there was one of the day Saturday. Landon came with us to Palm Springs and he was like, hey, my friends, your friend Easton is hosting a party. Jesse Murph is performing, who I love. I became familiar with her when she came out with this song what's it called with jelly Roll wild Ones, Yeah, and I was like, this girl, her voice is amazing. Then I looked her up. She has such a cool vibe. So we go out because Jesse Murph is performing at this event. It's sponsored by Sparkling Ice, and I have nothing in my closet in Palm Springs besides cozy's like there's pajamas and then like pajamas you can wear out and that's how I like. I have zero makeup there, only skincare. Usually when I'm there, I cake my hair with like castor oil and rosemary oil to like get it growing. It's just my time to like even more of a bum than I am right now. So we get invited and I'm like, all right, I have nothing to wear, and I'm funny about borrowing clothing because Erica Sheena's mom was like, you you went to that event and you're saying you had nothing to wear, you could you can always borrow from Shena And I'm like, I know that, and I never do. And I think it's because I'm just weird like taking other people.

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Speaker 3: Do you like when people borrow from you? No?

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Speaker 1: I hate it. That's why don't even ask me.

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Speaker 2: I am in the same boat. I will never ask people to borrow something because I do not want people asking me to borrow something.

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Speaker 1: Yeah, Like, for there was one friend of mine who like continue to ask if she could borrow jeans, and I kept putting it off, and finally I was like, the reason I'm putting it off is because I have to be honest. I do not share clothing.

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Speaker 2: If anything, I just go out and buy like another pair of jeans and be like, yeah, you can borrow.

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Speaker 1: Well, it's an album and by all means share if you want to. But it's like, I'm thirty five fucking years old, Like, please don't ask me to borrow my clothes. Please don't ask if you can come over and get ready with me, like I am a grown woman. We get ready separately. I will meet you at the place you wear your clothes. I will wear mine and if I need something, I will go out and buy it.

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Speaker 3: But that's me and you.

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Speaker 2: Yes, there's a lot of people that I do know that would be more than ecstatic to pack the bag that they're going to get ready in, throw everything in it, and then go and get ready with their friends. Thirty two thirty four, I'm in your boat. I like to watch my little TV show. I like to get ready alone. I like to do the things that I do just.

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Speaker 3: Alone while I'm getting ready, and once I'm ready, I'm good to be out. By the way, I want to get ready with anybody.

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Speaker 1: No. When we're on VAK, though, let's just say we're in a hotel room that's a siege. You have your room and I have mine. By all means, pop in energy is different, so different. But when we are all at home in Los Angeles, stay at your own house to get ready, stay there right, Sorry, So we go to this party, I am literally you guys, in gene shorts a bikini top. It was so windy and a little cold, so I wore like this Russian looking fur hat, and to be quite honest, I looked like one of the girls in the mauriceo Umanski photo where he's an Aspen and they're all in bikini tops oh boots. The only difference was I wasn't in the snow. I was in the desert. But either way awkward, like I'm in the desert with the snow bunny hat. That photo of Mo they were in bikinis, so like we both it was like the same photos.

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Speaker 3: In the middle.

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Speaker 1: I felt like, wow, I look like one of those girls right now, I will say, though no one else had one of my hats on.

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Speaker 3: No, yeah, they all had a cowboy hats. Cool.

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Speaker 2: Yeah, because the heat as well, how you weren't sweating down your back and down your forehead.

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Speaker 1: My head was fine. It was mostly the leather jacket that I was like, I have to get it, like I'm baking to death. I had the best time from there. Keep in mind, we left the house at one thirty, y'all we probably stay.

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Speaker 3: For so keep that in mind.

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Speaker 1: Right. So we got there like two two fifteen. We watch Jesse Murph kill It, hang out, drink some sparkling ice. There's one guy who I think is like pretty cute. I talk to him. He has this like little bottle in his hand. It almost like bottle, but no label on it, and I was me being like a nine year old woman. I was like, so tell me about this. You do you have allergies? So I was like, no, it's coke. Do you want some? And I was like, no, thanks, I'm fucking good and he was like, are you judging me? I go yeah, heavily, heavily. I look at Land and I was like, that guy was hot until I found out that he's on cocaine. And he goes, yeah, well that's life. I go, it ain't my life. I'm out in these streets doing the same thing this person is doing. Sober as it gets I literally I literally provide everything except cook and and this. These are my options. Like, I'm a fucking great.

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Speaker 2: A catch, to be honest, You're not gonna find your your.

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Speaker 1: Man at a pre event to two pm?

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Speaker 3: No, what are they all getting ready to go? Do?

00:16:21
Speaker 1: Well? I was there.

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Speaker 3: I was there.

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Speaker 2: I know all of the people there, though, are going to now go to stagecoach A lot of those people.

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Speaker 1: I did all of that last year. I've done that multiple times, and I'm it's fun. Certainly not doing.

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Speaker 3: Drugs, well, they are, and most people are. I saw girls doing ecstasy at the fucking party.

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Speaker 1: Can I get your phone number? The jaw thing. I think it's very important to I am sober from alcohol because I never did drugs unless it was from the earth the mushrooms once and I smoked a little bit of weed, but like, yeah.

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Speaker 3: What is that one?

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Speaker 1: I think that's I think it's ecstasy or mall where you.

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Speaker 3: Thought that was like heroin or something?

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Speaker 1: Oh god, alright, let's get on this topic. Anyway, it was a buzzkill. And if you tell me that that's not where where does one meet someone? Then like, I'm not out here like trying to meet someone. When I go out, there's no intention of maybe I'll meet someone. But if it were to happen, it's like, truly, I just should get it out of my mind because if you go to.

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Speaker 3: A bar, well that's what I'm about to say.

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Speaker 2: Coachella and stage Coach is meeting a guy at a bar on steroids.

00:17:33
Speaker 1: Okay, I don't entirely get that.

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Speaker 3: Like I've never met anybody who was like.

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Speaker 1: Yeah, we met at stage Coach, we met at Coachella.

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Speaker 3: Name one one couple that you have ever.

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Speaker 1: Met brock at Shina met at a music festival.

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Speaker 3: Not Coachella.

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Speaker 1: They're all the same. I think they met at like EDC or something.

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Speaker 3: That's even crazier. Yeah, that's twenty times Coachella.

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Speaker 2: That is drug infested and who the fact that they even knew each other after they left hats off?

00:18:03
Speaker 1: Yeah, and literally six months later had a baby. Hats off and they're out in these streets still.

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Speaker 3: They were at Stage Coach this week, you guys.

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Speaker 1: She Erica came over and they were all three days. Last night or no, sorry, not on Saturday night or Sunday night.

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Speaker 3: No Saturday night.

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Speaker 1: No, well, yeah, Saturday night, she went to a party that started at eleven. She probably got there around midnight. She rolled in at four thirty am on Sunday, woke up with still a mom. Summer Moon goes with Erica back home. Shina goes to Backstreet Boys that starts at eleven Sunday night. They drove back at five am and still made it to that thing that I went to today to learn about applying for.

00:18:51
Speaker 3: Public and I need a nap just hearing the story.

00:18:54
Speaker 1: I go, are you exhausted? She goes yeah.

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Speaker 3: I was like, God, what is she going to go? Is she going to just go to sleep?

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Speaker 1: I said, I really hope that you guys didn't plan anything today so that you can like tomorrow, because by the way, that one thirty pickup for these kids, that comes real quick. So that's what they're gonna do. From the event that we went to, we went to the Crocs set up. We got ourselves crocs. I have never owned a pair. We got gig some te t got a new pair. These things are great a footwear. I'm addicted.

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Speaker 2: I was getting judged for my black crocs and you guys were like, you can't wear the crocs and it's like, you.

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Speaker 1: Know, because then you wear them everywhere. You try to wear them to like pull a lounge, and I'm like, you, the crocs gotta come off all right.

00:19:38
Speaker 3: Who doesn't want to have them breathing at the lounge?

00:19:42
Speaker 1: Which is so funny that you say that because you have socks on.

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Speaker 3: Yeah, but the wind still gets through the color.

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Speaker 1: That's true. But I like rolled up to the parent thing in my crocs and they're so chic and cue and I love the fact that they're going to be easy to wash. So that's what we did and we were home by five point thirty to make trusted salmon, rice and asparagus. Home in time to put my baby down, home in time to watch not one, but two twenty twenties. It was like the most perfect trip. The next day Sunday, we laid by the pool all day and it was like a fantastic trip. That's my type of vibe. I would have liked to get to the text of all.

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Speaker 3: I like a day club, Like it's a day event.

00:20:24
Speaker 1: I come alive in the daytime. Even when I was a drinker, I enjoyed the.

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Speaker 2: Day drinking, but I liked getting home and then eating and passing out.

00:20:33
Speaker 1: Yeah, pretty much excellent. And while I was watching twenty twenty getting home at five point thirty, this thing pops up on my phone and I don't do you know who Jack Doherty is?

00:20:45
Speaker 3: I mean, yeah, I know he's.

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Speaker 4: The biggest Yeah, some of the videos I've seen I not made me the biggest fan of him.

00:20:52
Speaker 1: He is such a little tool.

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Speaker 3: And what's sad is like the girl. I don't know if it's his girl very rich though.

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Speaker 2: Yeah, but his girlfriend or whomever she is, she's beautiful. It's Megan Fox's cousin that Wow, she's got like the blonde streaks right here. She's always in Jack Dorty's like videos. I don't know if they're dating.

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Speaker 3: Or if it's like, but she's hot.

00:21:12
Speaker 1: She's a battie.

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Speaker 3: Yes, hit me up, but.

00:21:15
Speaker 1: She's not gonna hit you up. She's with a short stack who's worth a lot of money. And sometimes they're like, you know what, I want him to be able to buy one hundred thousand dollars of jewelry for me, because he was robbed of three hundred k okay so in jewelry on Rodeo drive.

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Speaker 3: I get it, I see it. I don't believe it. I think it was staged. Yeah, look at his so.

00:21:37
Speaker 1: Yeah, there's not a mark on him.

00:21:38
Speaker 3: You guys got a mark on him. And look at his wrists.

00:21:41
Speaker 2: He has a five hundred thousand dollars watch and you're not gonna fucking take that piece.

00:21:46
Speaker 3: Get out of here.

00:21:46
Speaker 1: No, they said, they that they did take his watch.

00:21:49
Speaker 2: He had only his chains, and he even while he's talking to like the police, it's baby, it's all he said.

00:21:59
Speaker 1: They tried to take his watch and luckily he was able to fight them up. Not a mark on.

00:22:03
Speaker 3: Your chains, Get the fuck off of me.

00:22:05
Speaker 1: He said that he didn't know that they had them. How I fully agree with you.

00:22:10
Speaker 2: Now they know when somebody like touches my dreadlock that has no nerves, get the fuck out of here.

00:22:17
Speaker 1: No scratch the forward.

00:22:18
Speaker 3: Sorry no, Like that's the thing. That's why he's been kicked off of so many streaming things.

00:22:23
Speaker 1: He just that's why he started his own with another brand to also put out. And this is what they called it, very hateful content. Yeah, so these two started doing stuff called party or something, let's not even give it a fucking name. Wow, he's really upset. I think he's upset at Jack Dorty for banging a hot bitch right.

00:22:44
Speaker 3: No, No, I'm upset the way he just like treats people.

00:22:47
Speaker 2: His videos are always just like disrespectful, Like this is like another stunt he's trying to pull to get people to follow him. Look at us talking about him getting robbed for three hundred K when he probably had fake chains on, had people do it because he has security at all.

00:23:03
Speaker 1: Shirt off.

00:23:04
Speaker 3: They roped that too, probably.

00:23:06
Speaker 1: Because the first clips he had his shirt on and then his T shirt has suddenly gone. He's like walking around.

00:23:11
Speaker 2: With his five hundred thousand dollars watch on that they wouldn't have taken it all.

00:23:15
Speaker 1: Looking all petite but wanting to be look at all five six.

00:23:20
Speaker 3: What did they call it? Clip farming? Yeah, like it'd have been one of those instances.

00:23:24
Speaker 4: Yeah, I know that's what you're saying. But his security guard I saw because he put a video up with security guard kind of explaining what happened. And he goes, we get out of the car. I see the guys walk up, you know, I go, security guard goes up to him or so the guys trying to rob Jack, but then he sees him pull out the gun and then that's when he backs off and then they go and I guess did their thing and they should have been like they would have taken every would they would.

00:23:51
Speaker 1: Have taken everything they You would have lost.

00:23:54
Speaker 2: You lose, you lose, and I promise you that you Yeah.

00:24:00
Speaker 1: They is. And by the way, if someone yanks something off of your neck, they're going to be marks you're not getting.

00:24:08
Speaker 2: Well, a three hundred thousand dollars chain doesn't just rip those things clamp then have the pieces that do it.

00:24:14
Speaker 1: Like it doesn't make any sense.

00:24:15
Speaker 2: No, you can't just yank that off. And if you did, like you said he would have red marks. I think it was clickbait. He's trying to have people like we are right now speaking about him.

00:24:24
Speaker 1: Well, I thoroughly enjoy talking about the small douche. It's like literally my most.

00:24:28
Speaker 2: You know, he almost could sell himself at Walmart as a small douche.

00:24:31
Speaker 3: Every woman could use him.

00:24:34
Speaker 1: Get down there and do your job, little door, get down there. You He had like a and he has like that hair that you see in like small and this is nothing against small towns, but I lived in Utah, not a small town, but a smaller city, and they all have that haircut. Like the little jock who's like a running back on the football team. He like plays varsity and he's like so small, but he's got like big dick, big dick energy because his shoulder or he's in because he's in high school and like runs fast. But they all have that haircut where it's like, oh no, when you leave this school, reality is gonna smack you so hard. Thank god he got rich. Anyway, I don't believe it either.

00:25:16
Speaker 3: Yeah he's only twenty one. Yeah, no, good for him, babe. Yeah, I just couldn't. Like that's the thing.

00:25:22
Speaker 2: If you were to say, you could be Jack Doherty or Easton Birmingham. Yeah, I would pick me every day because I couldn't be hated like that. Man. The money is not worth going outside and people looking at you and going you're a fucking douche. Yeah, I get it, and even people like That's the other thing why he gets in so much trouble is because he's such a douche. Other people will see him out recording and they'll walk up on him and be like, hey, douchebag, and he's like, yeah, your attention, you give me some views, give my little f fi.

00:25:50
Speaker 3: Oh my god. Yeah, he's a douche.

00:25:52
Speaker 4: I will say though on this, if he really did get robbed, and if it was out in public, whoever has that security camp video.

00:25:58
Speaker 2: It's gonna make some money is you don't get robbed on Rodeo drive and it?

00:26:03
Speaker 1: No, are you joking?

00:26:04
Speaker 3: Not at all? Not only that, think of every other person recording cars down it.

00:26:10
Speaker 2: Yeah, no, there's something they're gonna be like, oh my god, oh it should have been on videos.

00:26:14
Speaker 1: Are we talking about the the uh? This could be the cancelation of Doherty. Actually probably not, because it sounds like he was he crashed like the whole thing of him. The biggest thing that people were talking about was he crashed a McLaren on a live stream because he was distracted.

00:26:31
Speaker 3: Yeah, what an idiot.

00:26:33
Speaker 1: He just sounds like a nightmare. I'm almost positive his hot girlfriend has to be absolutely obliterated that.

00:26:40
Speaker 2: The one video that I will say that I truly hated him off of was he was at dinner with his mom and dad and I think like his sister or something, and somebody's filming him and they're like donating, and he goes, so I'm paying again.

00:26:54
Speaker 1: Uh yeah, you got three hundred thousand dollars. Watch on your wrist.

00:26:57
Speaker 2: Of course you're like, how's great to pay for your family who've done so much for you.

00:27:03
Speaker 1: EW hate him. Moving on, I read this, I chuckled. Young student gets suspended because he told the teacher her breath smells like shit. It's like a little kid, tiny, How do you have been like six?

00:27:20
Speaker 3: I mean, I can't. You can't expel for honesty.

00:27:24
Speaker 1: He was fully suspended. But this is where I go back. No, but this is where I got go back to. It's not what you say, it's how you say it. Like you're doing that teacher, like that is a productive thing to tell somebody that, like your breath does not smell good, you need to do something about this. I was thinking about this the other day, So, Ocean, all kids are like they have no filter. Right. For example, we were in uh, we were in Las Vegas and there was a larger man and Ocean said, look at how big that man is. That man is so big? Mom, and she like really sees men, let alone like big men. And I had to tell her, like, that's not okay to.

00:28:06
Speaker 3: Say you keep it to yourself.

00:28:08
Speaker 1: You keep that to yourself. Then there are situations where I feel like in the school dynamic, when kids are interacting with each other and they're not being nice, are we kind of perpetuating this whole learning how to talk behind someone's back type thing because we're telling our kids like, you cannot say that, but if they want to get it off their chest, they're just going to say it to someone else. So I'm trying to teach Ocean that it's all if you feel a certain way, you should say it to someone's face, but we have to learn how to say it in a productive way.

00:28:50
Speaker 3: Wow, you really just opened a huge door that's so true. I never even thought about it.

00:28:55
Speaker 2: If if you don't have something nice to say, don't say anything at all. And it's like, I get that, but sometimes there's some mean things that I need to tell you. That it's honesty, right, And if it's honesty, why is that looked at or frowned upon?

00:29:11
Speaker 3: Why do I look bad being honest and telling you something. It's like honesty has been put on a back burner and we don't care.

00:29:18
Speaker 1: About it, no, because usually honesty is very hurtful. And you know, I'm not too proud to say I talk behind people's backs all the time. I'm a gossiper.

00:29:28
Speaker 3: We all do.

00:29:28
Speaker 1: We all are.

00:29:29
Speaker 3: If you and if you say you don't.

00:29:31
Speaker 1: By the way, I do know people who don't, though, who literally keep their mouth shut their facial expressions has everything. But those aren't worth That's enough, No, And I'm like, wow, what an incredible characteristic to have of like not gossiping or talking behind someone's back. But as a mother, you always hope that your child does better than you will do. So I'm trying to figure out a way to implement that with Ocean. If so and so bugged you at school today, instead of like going to a friend and talking behind their back. I haven't had these conversations with her. She's four.

00:30:05
Speaker 3: Yeah, but reach out to them and tell them why, like, hey, I.

00:30:10
Speaker 1: Don't really want to play right now because I'm doing this, but maybe we can figure something else out later. Because Ocean is a truth teller. Yeah, I told you. The school called me, or actually I called the school and inquired about something I was concerned about, and they were like, Ocean is good. Like she's logical. There's a kid in school who thinks he's Batman and she lets him know you're not Batman. Your name is blank. And he's like, no, I'm Batman and she goes, no, you're pretending to be Batman, but you're not Batman.

00:30:42
Speaker 3: Very logical.

00:30:43
Speaker 1: Yeah, so I'm like, oh, bursting bubbles at the ripe old age of four. Love it.

00:30:49
Speaker 2: She's going to be a tornado of just putting you in your place.

00:30:56
Speaker 1: I would have said, thank you so much for telling me, but this is how you would say that in the future. A teacher, wow, eye opening, teach them whoa speaking of shit. Southwest Airlines passenger allegedly stripped naked and pooped on a seat as the plane landed.

00:31:17
Speaker 2: But why the plane landed, It doesn't matter.

00:31:23
Speaker 3: Who didn't get out of his seat to poop.

00:31:25
Speaker 1: I think it was a woman. She listen, she got naked before doing it, and she didn't poop her pants. She pooped on the seat trigger warning.

00:31:37
Speaker 3: To be next to her.

00:31:38
Speaker 1: Now, you know what, All the airlines are taking a beating right now, like every other day. It's like plane burst into flames, plane crashes, passenger poops on plane, it's like the plane. The amount of anxiety that I had putting Ocean on a plane, I called my ex. I was like, you must let me know the moment you are on the plane, if you have Wi Fi in the air, send me messages there letting me know everything's fine and when you land, because I need to know this because I'm terrified. But Southwest that our teams are reaching out to those on board to apologize for the situation and any delay to their travel plans. Nothing is more important to Southwest than the safety of our customers and employees, and we appreciate the professionalism of our flight crew. Let me tell you something. If I were sitting next to the person who stripped down and pooped next to me.

00:32:30
Speaker 3: I'm not kidding. You assaulted the seat, I'm assaulting you.

00:32:33
Speaker 2: Well, she kind of assaulted everybody, Yeah, I mean did she get charged with anything?

00:32:38
Speaker 3: I mean, the public nudity is going to be one and then that public urination or.

00:32:44
Speaker 1: Well they're probably going to have to register as a sex offender. You can't expose yourself.

00:32:48
Speaker 3: Like literally probably kids on that plane.

00:32:51
Speaker 1: I know that in some states, if you were to like pull off the side of the road and because you have to use the bathroom and a cop.

00:32:58
Speaker 3: Rolls up on you, you can give you a ticket.

00:33:00
Speaker 1: You will get a ticket, and there is a chance that, like it turns out that you now have to register a Saints when you were simply just like I have to wait. I wonder if that's the case, if anyone got caught doing that during Coachella, sitting outside in that line, or if they were like, we gotta let it slide. This is taking way too long, you know. Yeah, you know what you guys, recommendation the next time anyone goes to Coachella and is camping, maybe bring depends the amount of times the ocean has had to go to the bathroom on a flight, and she just chooses the most horrendous time to be Like, I got it to the bathroom and I have to put one of Sosa's diapers on her, Like you guys should do that as adults. I'm trying to figure out, well, Sonia Morgan recommend.

00:33:47
Speaker 2: Or how we can create a traveling toilet. Yeah, I think like literally, it just opens you just like on the side of the road, pooping it, bagging it gone.

00:33:58
Speaker 3: It's like a little I gotta look at it. You should have.

00:34:01
Speaker 1: Sounds like a million dollar idea. You can call it the toilet, the Coachella toilet. In uh sadder news, Dreet filed for divorce. How freakin' wildt about it? I know if you guys can hear her, they're making bubs and And it came one day after p K was seen kissing an amazing race contestant, her name Shanna Wall So they were in BH. To me, looking at the photo, it looked a little bit staged. I just think if you're trying to hide something you were not kissing in public, especially.

00:34:49
Speaker 3: For so long that they're like at this point, we don't care.

00:34:53
Speaker 1: The positioning seemed like they weren't. Yeah, to me, it seemed like something that was set up.

00:35:00
Speaker 3: A little Jack Doherty.

00:35:01
Speaker 1: It didn't seem like Mauricio at the airport in another country. It seemed to me like it was orchestrated and designed to possibly hurt and maybe get the ball moving again.

00:35:17
Speaker 3: We didn't want a file, so he put the ball in her court to make her file.

00:35:22
Speaker 1: Well. In the bonus episode, I've come up with like a few questions for you guys that I hope you all participated in because I want to hear your thoughts and will kind of deep dive into like that category of I mean again, they we don't know the conversations that they were having behind closed doors. But I and I've never been in a relationship for ten plus years. I've never signed on the dotted line that you and I are now partners and were married and the stakes are much higher. I don't know that I if things got rocky, and again I'm coming from a place of hypothetics. I feel if we're to the point where we both want to move out and entertain the idea of dating and seeing other people, even if we haven't, even if we haven't actually gone out and met other people. But someone asked, like Andy Cohen. Are you dating? No, but I'm open to it. Marriage is over, there needs to be no separation period. You've moved out of the house. We're clearly done. Like I'm gonna pull the trigger kind of girl. Yeah, I don't need to sit on anything. I know what I want, which has actually gotten me in a lot of hot water in the past where I'm like, I should not have done that. But what I think I would do if I were in a relationship for that many years and we had decided to kind of move on and there was just an open an openness to dating. We're done. You file all file. I don't really care, just like, let's move on with our lives. Let's make this quick. Yeah yeah, and I mean divorces. And this is for people who are just normal. Maybe they have the same amount of money. There's like nothing to be disputed, chopped up, divided. It takes a minimum of six months for someone for a judge to sign off and relieve you from the marriage. So let's get it going, don't you agree?

00:37:23
Speaker 3: I mean, yeah, she should have listened to what's her name? Who?

00:37:28
Speaker 1: She Erica? She probably did. I'm sure she did. I'm sure that she was.

00:37:32
Speaker 3: When they were at she had it, she goes lawyer up. I wonder after that done.

00:37:40
Speaker 1: I wonder if after that she did retain counsel. Because what's wild is custody. Strictly custody is always protected. You cannot deep dive into it. However, when you go in and there's disillusion of a marriage but there's kids involved, all of that kind of gets clumb into one and it's now public record, Like what they're asking for is far it like you have to be very, very particular, So that has not been spoken about. We do know that she put in reconcilable differences, which is just like we can't make it work. We can't figure it out. Nothing happened, but it is sad. I think at the beginning I thought Kyle and Mo would work it out. For some reason, I didn't feel like DEII and PK could work. No.

00:38:31
Speaker 2: I feel like just watching p K, at least with Mauricio, there's like energy and still somewhat of a personality between him and Kyle, and with PK and Deured, I feel like PK.

00:38:46
Speaker 1: Is just like very He was a matter of fact, he was like, we're not going to talk as much as we normally do, and then it seemed like they just couldn't, for the life of them, get on the same page. Whereas Moe and Kyle, it felt like there's still so much love here, at least on her end, and he at least was giving her the time of day to release what she was feeling. But again, I don't feel like he gave much either. I feel like it was more done on his end.

00:39:12
Speaker 2: Than Yeah, I'm just saying from the looks of it, Mauricio gave a least a creak.

00:39:17
Speaker 3: Of a door open that something in her mind could.

00:39:21
Speaker 1: Happen right until he was seen with others.

00:39:24
Speaker 2: Yeah, like that's the thing. But with PK, he's pretty much just it's kind of an asshole.

00:39:29
Speaker 1: Now, PK, Yeah, he was really nice when I saw him that.

00:39:35
Speaker 2: At I'm just saying on the on the on the show, but how.

00:39:41
Speaker 3: You know, how done is he with it?

00:39:42
Speaker 2: You know you're not really getting that person on the show outside of the show, no, you know.

00:39:48
Speaker 1: I want to give a positive update. Teddy Mellencamp, there's an update on her stage four cancer. She said the cancer has shrunk or disape so I have sixsh more weeks of immunotherapy and doctors believe I will be healed if everything stays on course. Thank you to everyone who has sent their love, prayers and positivity. Honestly, the crying is already done. But I just finished with all of my scans and my tumors have significantly shrunk, which doctors believe means that this is this all will work and that I will be back to myself and feeling good. I'm thrilled I hear this.

00:40:29
Speaker 2: I mean for anybody. I mean, we all know somebody who has battled cancer. Everybody knows somebody, and for the stage she was at for her to come out of it, and I do believe it's the Bravo community and everybody.

00:40:44
Speaker 1: Else her feeling so supportive.

00:40:46
Speaker 2: Yeah, like that, It's crazy what your mental can do. Yeah, when you're feeling the support and love. And I do believe she got six more weeks and we're going to be behind her for sixty more years.

00:40:56
Speaker 1: I love that team.

00:40:58
Speaker 3: I'm very happy, amazing woman. And you know, I even said.

00:41:04
Speaker 1: Yeah, and people trolled her so hard, and I just always remember thinking, like it's so just crazy what the outside world takes in and decides not to like about someone that they literally don't even know at all, because she's always been like such an amazing She's always been so kind to me. She's always extended like when I had Ocean and you know, her little friend community was very small, she always extended invites to go places. And the way she tuned her very warm.

00:41:37
Speaker 2: The way she treated like everyone at Bravocon was enough for me, treated me like I was somebody, which you know, I'm just a brother, but like she made.

00:41:46
Speaker 1: Me ever say, I'm just the brother, hold down the second fort every single day, thank you.

00:41:52
Speaker 3: But no, like she made me feel very like comfortable.

00:41:55
Speaker 2: And not only me, there were like the people in security and she was asking them how.

00:42:00
Speaker 3: They are, how the event? Has there been problems?

00:42:02
Speaker 2: And just like that just says a lot about you because you're already dealing with I gotta go to this and talk. I gotta go to this, and you're thinking about everyone else. And I'm sorry to say, not anyone else that I really did see and brought like the Bravo did that. Yeah, she was very a couple, but like she really took the cake with me. And then also, uh, what's her name's mom?

00:42:28
Speaker 1: Uh, Margaret's March Senior.

00:42:32
Speaker 3: Yeah, she was the best as well.

00:42:34
Speaker 1: March Senior Tis Tis.

00:42:37
Speaker 3: In the car with her and she was a blast.

00:42:41
Speaker 2: They're all Marge also, they were those Yeah they're in the same boat.

00:42:46
Speaker 1: But yeah, we're going to stick to the Bravo community. Craig Conivore has a new girlfriend and I just learned this, and is Craig on Southern Craig's on Southern Charm. He was dating Page Disorbo, who's like a fashionista as she's a part of a podcast. She hosted the Red Carpet with her friend Vanity Fair. Very pretty. She's on Summer House. But I just wanted to take this opportunity to express my just jaw to the floor. It is so crazy to me, you guys, that the people who sit there and talk about how blindsided they were about their breakup and they're devastated and we were gonna get married and spend our life together, they move on so quickly. I'm like, how can anyone believe that you were devastated or had your heart involved when you moved on so fast?

00:43:41
Speaker 2: Well, then you also kind of fuck up the person that you broke up with or were just in a relationship. Because now if I was dating a girl, and she was in that boat, and then she was in a relationship. I would be thinking was she talking to people that whole time, because there's no way you could find this connection this quick without talking for this long.

00:44:02
Speaker 3: So were you cheating on me? And now I'm thinking what did I do? And now I'm fucked up on my next relationship.

00:44:08
Speaker 1: She doesn't seem to be that concerned. She said she's very happy for him. I think it is totally fair for her to say, I'm a different person than I was when I started dating him. Things that I thought I wanted I don't necessarily want right now. Like I talked about wanting X, Y and Z by the time I was this age. I'm now this age, and I've decided that I would rather focus on my career. And I'm having a really nice time, and you know, I'm going to cut you loose and go do the things you want. She's also said in the past that he's a liar, but no one, neither of them, have come out and said like this person cheated. There was always speculation of it. Again, she said she's happy that's friend.

00:44:51
Speaker 2: She may have not cheated on him, but like you're giving attention to other guys, and to me.

00:44:56
Speaker 3: That's cheating.

00:44:57
Speaker 1: But we don't know that she was giving attention to other guys.

00:44:59
Speaker 2: No, I'm saying for him, he was the one who broke up, right or oh, she's in a relationship.

00:45:04
Speaker 1: She broke up with him.

00:45:05
Speaker 3: He's in a relationship.

00:45:07
Speaker 1: He had bought a ring for her, he was ready to move to New York.

00:45:09
Speaker 3: So that's where I'm saying.

00:45:10
Speaker 1: And he has moved on and in.

00:45:12
Speaker 3: A relationship, so she all of that. That's where I'm saying.

00:45:16
Speaker 2: She sorry, she could be in the boat of like, was he talking to other women? Because the connection that they have is too it's too strong for the time that they've had. So you must have been talking to this girl. I don't even kiss her, cheat or.

00:45:32
Speaker 3: Do anything, but the attention that you gave you.

00:45:34
Speaker 2: Guys built a relationship that has now been strong enough that you guys are now dating this soon.

00:45:39
Speaker 1: I don't think she's even going there. I think she's so disconnected from it and okay that it's over that I think if she was thinking and putting herself into the situation at all, you know, maybe he was, wasn't I But that's what I'm saying get cheated on or have a breakup. It's the people most of the part who I see are like so angry about it and like I thought we were all good, like I bought a ring, or like I can't believe that they cheated. And then it's like you get a boyfriend, you know, a month later, or a girlfriend a month later. How can anyone sit here and be like, good for them, I'm glad they've moved on. From all I go into like how unhealthy is this person that you could be planning your life with someone and move on?

00:46:27
Speaker 3: So funny?

00:46:29
Speaker 2: Who are these people that are taking on somebody who just got out of a relationship. You'd be surprised if somebody was like I was just in a relationship four months ago. I'd be like, oh wait, yes, Like so I'm waiting. I'd be like, oh so you're waiting. No, I'm looking out. I'd be like, no, you should wait. I'm just I disconnect.

00:46:46
Speaker 3: Myself from her so quick because it's only going downhill.

00:46:50
Speaker 2: Wow, yeah, or I mean vice versa, you know, yeah, him or her, whatever boat you're in. Just I could never date somebody that is under a year of a relationship because you haven't even figured out who you are.

00:47:05
Speaker 3: And I know that.

00:47:06
Speaker 2: Because I hadn't figured out who I was.

00:47:10
Speaker 1: I just think society chooses to celebrate the strangest things on the planet.

00:47:16
Speaker 3: Yeah, clickbait. We all love clickbait.

00:47:17
Speaker 1: It's not even about it's not even about the clickbait. It's like the number one question when someone breaks up is, well, are you dating? I hope you're getting some and it's like and then when you say, like, no, I'm not dating or and it's not just with me. I've personally dealt with it, but I've seen it so much even before I was in the situation that I'm in where and now I just I have a little bit of a magnifying glass on it and take it a little bit personally because it's my experience now. But they almost look at you like they're bored, or they feel sad for you, like they're so pity.

00:47:54
Speaker 2: There's also everything that I've seen on so are you dating? They all answering you too.

00:48:00
Speaker 3: I'm not dating. You gotta go. Well, let me tell you this.

00:48:05
Speaker 2: I can't tell you how great it is to finally be alone and find myself For the next person I get to meet.

00:48:12
Speaker 1: You know what, that's actually really good.

00:48:13
Speaker 2: Everybody is getting set up and they're going, no, I'm not dating, and now right then you're kind of pushed against a wall, like if you can control that and say no instead of the note, let me tell you I'm alone, working on myself and I couldn't be happier and I can't wait to meet the next person I get to share this with.

00:48:32
Speaker 3: Boom done, you're not dating, You're still looking.

00:48:35
Speaker 1: You're so right.

00:48:36
Speaker 3: I'm going to approach it to.

00:48:37
Speaker 2: Because everybody, even on the watch What Happens Live everything that I always watch, are you dating?

00:48:41
Speaker 3: Everybody goes not dating?

00:48:43
Speaker 2: And now you're up against the ropes oh the conversation and say I'm not I don't want to date, right, That's why I'm.

00:48:50
Speaker 1: Not okay, So rephrase it and still get like, give a good answer while still getting for you dating.

00:48:57
Speaker 3: Let me tell you.

00:48:58
Speaker 1: I love that. Take Easton definitely look into pr It's like here, call me, We'll get you your flowers on top of getting you a good clickbait moment. I love leaving it on this because this is the perfect segue into what our bonus is focusing on. You guys, Thank you so much for listening to another episode of the Give Them Lama podcast. We will catch you on Monday for the bonus and again next week. Bye bye,