The Hidden “BS” Holding You Back at Work (And How to Break It)
In this episode, Kaila and Kyle are joined by Aiko Bethea, Founder of Rare Coaching, to talk about the hidden bullsh*t at work, how it’s holding you back, and what you can do about it. From holding yourself, your colleagues, and even bosses accountable, to freeing yourself of a scarcity mindset, this conversation is packed with practical advice for anyone feeling stuck in their career.
And don’t forget to pick up Aiko’s new book, Anchored, Aligned, Accountable: A Framework for Transcending Bullsh*t and Transforming Our Lives and Work.
00:00 Intro
02:04 What Aiko is referring to when she talks about bullsh*t
04:57 The Bullsh*t Asymmetry Principle
06:13 Using the anchored, aligned, accountable framework
11:37 How to figure out your values
17:42 Finding the motivation to get clear on your values
21:22 How to hold colleagues, peers, and higher-ups accountable
25:13 The important role of curiosity
28:00 How do you counteract a scarcity mindset?
33:07 How do you know when your identity is too tied up in your work?
38:45 The best first step towards getting anchored, aligned, and accountable
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