Talking with Lindsay Ell About Shut Downs, Being A Girl Guitar Player and the Grinder App
Tonight we talk with country music star Lindsay Ell about how she's dealt with concerts being shut down, being alone, being a "girl" guitar player and how she'd like to have a love in her life that didn't involve having 4 legs and fur. We talk about her new music and working with music producing legend Dan Huff. And Lindsay graces us with a bit of a song. We also learn that Keifer has no idea with the Grinder app is. Lindsay is an absolute gem and we just love her. We hope you enjoy this episode of Talking with Thompson Square.https://linktr.ee/thompsonsquareSee Privacy Policy at https://art19.com/privacy and California Privacy Notice at https://art19.com/privacy#do-not-sell-my-info.
2021-04-14
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<v Speaker 1>Hey, everybody, This is Keifer, and this is Shawna, and <v Speaker 1>this is Talking with Thompson's Square. It's a podcast. Tonight's <v Speaker 1>episode is brought to you by our friends at Wheeler's <v Speaker 1>Raid Distilling in Nolansville, Tennessee. Shawna, what is on the <v Speaker 1>menu for this evening? <v Speaker 2>You guys know that we love us some Wheeler's Raid. <v Speaker 2>We talk about it every episode, and tonight we are <v Speaker 2>talking about Sneaky Pucker. <v Speaker 1>What is that? <v Speaker 2>Sneaky Pucker is a twelve point five percent ABV ready <v Speaker 2>to drink cocktail? Compromised or comprised. I'm sorry, not compromised. <v Speaker 1>You drink too much of it and you get compromised. <v Speaker 1>You down with APV. <v Speaker 2>Yeah you know me, Yes for sure. Comprised of vodka, <v Speaker 2>lavender and lemon and light bubbles. It's very refreshing. But man, <v Speaker 2>you gotta watch out on those things. <v Speaker 1>It's not your as much as sneak you snak up <v Speaker 1>on you and your fucker some one later. I'll come <v Speaker 1>on all right, guys, thank you so much for listening <v Speaker 1>to Talking With Thompson Square, brought to you by Wheelers <v Speaker 1>Raid Distillery standing by. <v Speaker 3>You're just talking with Thompson Square. <v Speaker 1>It's a podcast. <v Speaker 4>Topic. <v Speaker 3>You always want what you can have. As soon as <v Speaker 3>I'm moved. <v Speaker 5>On, started missing me so bad, saying maybe we should <v Speaker 5>try again, try to get her right again, saying do <v Speaker 5>we have to be done? I don't know why sigabout then, <v Speaker 5>And honestly I get where you're coming. <v Speaker 1>From, cuz you. <v Speaker 3>I miss my kid. <v Speaker 1>Man, keeping you up my night, Sha. That sounds like <v Speaker 1>a big song. <v Speaker 2>It sounds amazing to hear another female singing. <v Speaker 1>To hear another female singing. <v Speaker 2>Yes, really it does. <v Speaker 1>Have you not heard have you not heard a whole <v Speaker 1>lot of females sing? <v Speaker 2>Not as of late? No, Well, I get sucked into <v Speaker 2>your rock and roll and your all that that jazz. <v Speaker 1>What do you mean sucked into my rock and roll? <v Speaker 1>What are you talking about? <v Speaker 2>The A c DC and the it's just good. <v Speaker 1>To hear girls. Well, you know our guest is probably <v Speaker 1>sing a few ac DC songs in her life. <v Speaker 3>This is very true. This is such a true. I <v Speaker 3>get both of. <v Speaker 1>You, y'all, please make it. Welcome our friend Lindsey Ell <v Speaker 1>to the podcast. Lindsay, how are you? <v Speaker 4>I'm so good. It's so good to see you both. <v Speaker 4>I feel like it's been forever. <v Speaker 2>I know. I was just thinking about the last time <v Speaker 2>that we were really able to like just chill and <v Speaker 2>hang out. Sorry, this's our dog barking. <v Speaker 1>You gotta hear some of that. <v Speaker 3>That's fine. Mine is probably going to bark at some <v Speaker 3>Amazon driver as well. <v Speaker 2>So and at some point I want to see him <v Speaker 2>or isn't him her or her? <v Speaker 4>I know it's a girl, but her name is Hendrix, <v Speaker 4>so a lot of people are like, I think it's. <v Speaker 1>Of course her name is Hendricks. <v Speaker 3>I'd been her before we get off. Yeah. <v Speaker 4>Yeah, I needed to name after my favorite guitar player. Guys, <v Speaker 4>it was just sort of something that needed to happen. <v Speaker 2>Yeah, it's perfect. So yeah, the last time that we <v Speaker 2>were able to really hang out and just chill has <v Speaker 2>been probably gosh, nine years ago or something ten years <v Speaker 2>ago when we were in the Bahamas. <v Speaker 3>That's so crazy. I can't believe it's been that long. <v Speaker 2>I know, right, I mean, we've seen each other in <v Speaker 2>passing and it shows and stuff, but not able to <v Speaker 2>just hang out and talk and and visit. So this <v Speaker 2>is awesome. <v Speaker 1>This is as close as we're going to get this year. <v Speaker 1>Probably it sucks. <v Speaker 3>That's a weird year, guys. <v Speaker 4>And at the same time, I mean, I feel like <v Speaker 4>twenty twenty has given us all such a gift of <v Speaker 4>perspect that as artists maybe we wouldn't have gotten because <v Speaker 4>we're all just so moving so fast all the time. <v Speaker 3>But yeah, it's definitely been it's definitely been a weird year. <v Speaker 1>What has been the most introspective thing that you've dealt with. <v Speaker 2>During our time off? <v Speaker 3>Probably you know. <v Speaker 4>I mean, you guys know this as well, Like you <v Speaker 4>are extremely hard workers, so I know I'm just preaching <v Speaker 4>to the choir. But like in twenty nineteen, we played <v Speaker 4>two hundred and thirty five shows and we're on the <v Speaker 4>road two hundred and eighty days, and so it was <v Speaker 4>just it was go, go, go, go, go, go go all <v Speaker 4>the time. And then to go from I mean, I <v Speaker 4>remember we were playing a show in Berlin and Amstam <v Speaker 4>got off the plane and then the world got locked <v Speaker 4>down and I was going eighty miles an hour down <v Speaker 4>to nothing, and I live alone and did not have <v Speaker 4>a dog at that time. And so to go from <v Speaker 4>like two hundred and eighty days on the road a <v Speaker 4>year to sitting in a house by myself in four <v Speaker 4>walls it was just like the two extremes. And and <v Speaker 4>yet I think, you know, last year, I've really got <v Speaker 4>to reassess my priorities. And although I love my job <v Speaker 4>so much and I am so grateful that, you know, <v Speaker 4>we get to wake up every morning and do what <v Speaker 4>we love for a living, and I will never take <v Speaker 4>that for granted. <v Speaker 1>You'll do that at some point, You'll take it for <v Speaker 1>grant again. <v Speaker 3>That's true. That's true. <v Speaker 4>That's that's your we It's it's always a process. But <v Speaker 4>I don't know, just moments of the past year. I'm like, man, <v Speaker 4>when all of these cool things have happened, not having <v Speaker 4>somebody to share it with is like has hit me <v Speaker 4>so hard pecifically in the past year, you know, And <v Speaker 4>probably it's just because, like I know, it's hashtag first <v Speaker 4>world problems and as like the frontline workers are working <v Speaker 4>twenty four to seven and people are losing loved ones <v Speaker 4>and I'm like. <v Speaker 3>Okay, guys, I'm all alone in a house. <v Speaker 4>But at the same time, everybody has their own things <v Speaker 4>that they're dealing with, and it really hit me hard. <v Speaker 4>And I'm like, man, I work so much that I <v Speaker 4>like shut everyone out, and even like at times when <v Speaker 4>I've been in relationships like my job has still been <v Speaker 4>my priority, right, and I think there's like always a <v Speaker 4>healthy work life balance. And you guys seem to manage <v Speaker 4>that amazingly. <v Speaker 1>And you don't have any ideas. <v Speaker 3>Teach me all your secrets. <v Speaker 1>Where you fight. The key is fighting continuously, got it, <v Speaker 1>And you have to be in a duo. So if <v Speaker 1>you break up, you know you're not gonna make any <v Speaker 1>more money. That's that's the key to a successful Thompson <v Speaker 1>Square common type of marriage. <v Speaker 2>Now. The thing that we found is we thought we <v Speaker 2>were prepared for something like this because we work together. <v Speaker 2>We're with each other twenty four to seven. But it <v Speaker 2>is a whole different dynamic when you're not working, when <v Speaker 2>you're not on a bus with twelve other people and <v Speaker 2>it's just down to me and him and that's it. <v Speaker 1>Well, we don't know how to be Honestly, it sounds weird, <v Speaker 1>but we don't know how to be just the two <v Speaker 1>of us very well. We're not great at that. I <v Speaker 1>think we're really good at that. For a certain amount <v Speaker 1>of time. <v Speaker 3>I don't believe you. <v Speaker 2>No. <v Speaker 3>I look at you, guys, and I'm like, you've been <v Speaker 3>married for a while. <v Speaker 4>You have a beautiful child, and like you have survived <v Speaker 4>a pandemic and have been in a duo this long. <v Speaker 3>Like I don't buy that one bit, but. <v Speaker 1>It is true to a certain extent. I mean I <v Speaker 1>don't want to. I mean I want to be transparent, <v Speaker 1>you know, because I don't want people think, oh, they've <v Speaker 1>got the perfect marriage. And I mean it's good, but <v Speaker 1>I mean, like here lately especially and I don't know <v Speaker 1>if it's just like. <v Speaker 6>Do you want to create professional graphics for your business <v Speaker 6>and social media without wasting time or overspending. 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And I don't know. <v Speaker 1>We just we've kind of been at each other here <v Speaker 1>lately and I don't know why. I don't really understand. <v Speaker 1>And I hate it, honestly. I absolutely hate fighting. I <v Speaker 1>hate it. I hate it. I hate it, and I <v Speaker 1>don't want to ever fight ever again. And then we <v Speaker 1>do it again. So it's just it's weird. So there's <v Speaker 1>there's both sides. <v Speaker 2>I think it's I think it's because we both need <v Speaker 2>our own space. Like I feel like when we've been <v Speaker 2>on the road, like you would be in guitar world, <v Speaker 2>like you'd go out sound check and you do set <v Speaker 2>your guitar up and stuff like that, and I would <v Speaker 2>do my thing, whatever that might be being with Cooper, <v Speaker 2>spending time with Cooper. I think because we're here and <v Speaker 2>we're stuck here, you know what. I think that's what <v Speaker 2>it is. Like I went and have my nails done <v Speaker 2>for the first time, and I don't know how. <v Speaker 3>Many compliment them. <v Speaker 2>They look amazing, thank you, But it was just nice <v Speaker 2>to just go do something that was not Cooper. Yeah, <v Speaker 2>and not music, not work, just something you know, just for. <v Speaker 3>You, just for me. <v Speaker 2>Yeah. <v Speaker 4>I think it's so selfish and healthy to hash out <v Speaker 4>that time, you know, and it's and I can I mean, <v Speaker 4>having a dog is enough of a schedule to keep it. <v Speaker 3>I can't even imagine having a mini human to take <v Speaker 3>care of with a schedule. <v Speaker 4>Like I'm like, I have to wake up and take <v Speaker 4>her for a walk and feed her. But I can still, <v Speaker 4>like put her in a crate for a few hours. <v Speaker 4>But you can't do that with the kids. <v Speaker 1>No, you can't. You can if it's a big enough <v Speaker 1>create you just put water in there. <v Speaker 3>Water and pray and the figure whatever. <v Speaker 1>So what so you said, you know, during the pandemic, <v Speaker 1>I say during the like it's already passed. It's like <v Speaker 1>twenty twenty point two. Now it's good. It's it's really <v Speaker 1>feels good that. I'm sure you're seeing shows start to <v Speaker 1>open up. I see your calendar, You're starting to post <v Speaker 1>some shows and everything on your on your social media. <v Speaker 1>What was it the one thing that you missed? It? <v Speaker 1>Was it having someone there with you? Was that the <v Speaker 1>worst part about it, like just being isolated? I mean, <v Speaker 1>were you dating anybody at all. During the time, she <v Speaker 1>was saying, no, I know, but just I didn't know <v Speaker 1>if you I didn't know if she was like dating someone. <v Speaker 1>But then they started dating and no, there's too scared <v Speaker 1>to come back together to get you know, COVID or whatever, <v Speaker 1>but just FaceTime or whatever. <v Speaker 3>I know, I know. <v Speaker 4>It's it's just like there's so much more that goes <v Speaker 4>all goes into it. Yeah, so at the beginning of <v Speaker 4>the pandemic, I wasn't dating anybody. I dated somebody briefly <v Speaker 4>for like five months last year. <v Speaker 1>What happened? <v Speaker 3>Oh my gosh, how long is this podcast? <v Speaker 1>As long as you want, girl? Okay, perfect, I got. <v Speaker 1>I got a big old, huge hard drive over here. <v Speaker 3>Just I love it. <v Speaker 1>I love it. <v Speaker 4>He was so sweet and honestly, it was like, it's crazy, <v Speaker 4>how I mean, I think I know your guys's faith, <v Speaker 4>but it's crazy, like sometimes the best answered prayers come <v Speaker 4>at the best times, and. <v Speaker 7>Well we're atheists, so which, okay, perfect, perfect, great, it's <v Speaker 7>all good. <v Speaker 4>Universe then calls in exactly what you need to hear <v Speaker 4>or your life when you're when you're needing it, and yeah, <v Speaker 4>he he came into my life at the absolute perfect <v Speaker 4>time and and opened my eyes to like, I don't know, <v Speaker 4>really slowing down and appreciating things and it. <v Speaker 3>And I was already. <v Speaker 4>Kind of feeling a lot of that. So it was <v Speaker 4>just really interesting how he came into my life. And <v Speaker 4>then ultimately, you know, he was traveling around and and <v Speaker 4>and I was. I was sort of stationed here and <v Speaker 4>it just turned out that we wanted different things. <v Speaker 3>So yeah, so we ended up breaking up. <v Speaker 4>But then I was definitely guilty of break up with <v Speaker 4>your boyfriend and get a dog. <v Speaker 3>Because really he actually. <v Speaker 4>Had his dog and brought it to Nashville, and I <v Speaker 4>just got used to having a dog around the house. <v Speaker 4>And I grew up with dogs all my life, and <v Speaker 4>I was like, man, I really miss having just life <v Speaker 4>when you wake up in the morning and that energy <v Speaker 4>running around. And so I always wanted to rescue one. <v Speaker 4>And so right before Christmas, I rescued this little palm <v Speaker 4>chee and yeah, I'll so I'll show her you guys, please. <v Speaker 3>Yeah, we're huge dog lovers. <v Speaker 2>We have three now, we gained one. <v Speaker 3>Oh my gosh, you were a three. <v Speaker 2>Yeah. Through the pandemic. <v Speaker 1>We Sean wanted a big dog and she's like, I <v Speaker 1>want a big dog. We had the two. Yeah, he's <v Speaker 1>going I kicked the amount. He was too he was <v Speaker 1>too yappy. But yeah, she wanted a big dog and <v Speaker 1>I was like, man, it's either another kid or another dog, <v Speaker 1>and so I took some measures and we got a dog. <v Speaker 8>Great. <v Speaker 3>Yeah, so decision. <v Speaker 1>Yeah, but he's awesome. But it's a lot, a lot. <v Speaker 1>It's a lot for three dogs and a kid. <v Speaker 2>We're definitely out there a lot. <v Speaker 1>Yeah, it's a lot. <v Speaker 3>That's a full full family there. <v Speaker 1>Yeah. <v Speaker 2>So you just had a show, right, you just played <v Speaker 2>it a Marathon Music Works. <v Speaker 4>Yeah, guys, we played Chad Nougat on Friday and then yeah, <v Speaker 4>Marathon Music Works. It was socially distanced, but was it <v Speaker 4>sold it out and it was amazing. <v Speaker 3>It felt so good. <v Speaker 4>I was like, guys, I don't even care if three <v Speaker 4>people show up. And I was booked for a solo <v Speaker 4>stick show and yet I called all my band and <v Speaker 4>I was like, hey, guys, if I throw you a <v Speaker 4>little bit of money, like a little bit of money, <v Speaker 4>because we're gonna pay that much, would you just want <v Speaker 4>to come down and play? And all of them are <v Speaker 4>like yell, and see, we'd pay to play a show, right, <v Speaker 4>now and. <v Speaker 3>So I had like a six piece band. It was <v Speaker 3>so fun. <v Speaker 4>We played my record front to back, and guys, I mean, <v Speaker 4>you know what this is like like, especially being artists <v Speaker 4>and not playing a real show in over a year. <v Speaker 8>There's like a. <v Speaker 3>Part of you that like feeds off. <v Speaker 4>Of that energy from that crowd and even that validation <v Speaker 4>as a human being that if you aren't fully healthy <v Speaker 4>and who really fully is in every area of your life, <v Speaker 4>like you just feel that void in a lot of ways. <v Speaker 4>And so it was amazing to just get to play <v Speaker 4>a show and get to see like the love from <v Speaker 4>fans only loving like the singles off this record, but <v Speaker 4>loving like track eight and track nine and singing along <v Speaker 4>and just happy to be there. <v Speaker 3>And it was a really good night. <v Speaker 1>That's awesome. So were they actually socially distanced though at <v Speaker 1>the show or is that just something I said we <v Speaker 1>do some shows. Was like, oh, it's going to be <v Speaker 1>socially distance. I know, I know what is happening. <v Speaker 4>Pictures in Florida, and it's like socially distanced. And then <v Speaker 4>it's like it looks normal, it. <v Speaker 3>Looks twenty nineteen. <v Speaker 4>I kind of like that they were totally socially distanced <v Speaker 4>actually like that the health department were there making sure <v Speaker 4>that everything was caculated, like. <v Speaker 3>Marathon doesn't mess around. <v Speaker 4>They were like groups of you could only buy groups <v Speaker 4>of like four tickets and then you know, if they <v Speaker 4>had been at a table, split them up, yeah, with <v Speaker 4>your own people. And so they had tables and then <v Speaker 4>they had like chairs too, but they were spaced out <v Speaker 4>like groups of four or like little groups of two. <v Speaker 3>And then there was this big orange line taped. <v Speaker 4>On stage and it was called the COVID line, and <v Speaker 4>I was not allowed to cross it. <v Speaker 3>And because they were like the. <v Speaker 4>Performers on stage need to be fifteen feet away from <v Speaker 4>the first row. <v Speaker 3>I guess that's just the rules and regular and so <v Speaker 3>I felt. <v Speaker 1>The projection of your spit, I guess. <v Speaker 3>So who knows. Or they were like you can't throw <v Speaker 3>guitar picks out and and so I just away from. <v Speaker 1>Someone's gonna catch it. <v Speaker 3>They don't care, right right, come on, yeah exactly. <v Speaker 4>But so apart from those few little rules, it was <v Speaker 4>it was kind of normal. <v Speaker 1>That's great, Yeah, I love it. Well, we've had a <v Speaker 1>few and the shows are starting to come in, you know, <v Speaker 1>and it's it is, it's it's kind of. It's kind <v Speaker 1>of weird because I'm not nervous, but I'm like, do <v Speaker 1>I remember how to do this? Because I mean it's <v Speaker 1>been like this. <v Speaker 2>Did you rehearse during your time off? <v Speaker 4>We know? <v Speaker 3>Of course, what are you rehearsing? <v Speaker 2>It's like, well, I will say this. I watched they <v Speaker 2>did something on Sunday morning about Tony Bennett and he's <v Speaker 2>just recently been diagnosed with dementia, and he said to <v Speaker 2>stay healthy as he can. He's been having his piano <v Speaker 2>player come over and they rehearse like two or three <v Speaker 2>times a week. <v Speaker 3>Amazing. <v Speaker 2>So yeah, I mean, I feel like we should be <v Speaker 2>rehearsing like in this time off, so we don't. <v Speaker 1>Do you have dementia? I don't know, So we don't forget. <v Speaker 2>It's like you gonna keep working that muscle, you know. <v Speaker 1>Well, you know we've had you know, well, writing has <v Speaker 1>been like on point like for the like last six fourteen, <v Speaker 1>thirteen months whatever, just because that's all that's all I <v Speaker 1>can do, you know. And And so we sit here <v Speaker 1>and and I've been trying to figure I'm trying to <v Speaker 1>get as you good as you at track and all <v Speaker 1>this other stuff, because I know you're I know you're <v Speaker 1>like a nerdy guy when it comes to like. <v Speaker 3>Gear, a nerdy guy. That's a very good way to <v Speaker 3>describe me. <v Speaker 1>I wonder if you get tired of hearing because I <v Speaker 1>know you hear it, because I hear it. I know <v Speaker 1>you get tired of hearing it. Well, she she plays <v Speaker 1>good for a girl, or she's a good girl guitar player. <v Speaker 1>How how pissed off does that make you? Because you're <v Speaker 1>not a good guitar You're not a good guitar girl <v Speaker 1>guitar player. You're just a great guitar player. So it's <v Speaker 1>got to be like son, And I know you can't <v Speaker 1>because it's like, oh yeah, thanks, But inside you're going look, <v Speaker 1>there's a huge middle finger just boiling up into your <v Speaker 1>chest and it's coming up your hands and you just <v Speaker 1>want to just big, huge Nashville predator's foam middle finger <v Speaker 1>to this. <v Speaker 4>You know, at the end of the day, when people <v Speaker 4>say that, I take it as a compliment, just that <v Speaker 4>they're recognizing that, oh, yes, she doesn't play guitar like <v Speaker 4>most other girls we. <v Speaker 1>See out there, and it's not all downstrokes. <v Speaker 4>The fact that they're I know, right, the fact that <v Speaker 4>they're recognizing that I'll take it, you know, yeah, I <v Speaker 4>definitely do hear that. But I mean it's just like <v Speaker 4>the problem with not enough girls being played. <v Speaker 3>On the radio. <v Speaker 4>It's just like a ratio thing. So there's they're just <v Speaker 4>not used to seeing girls play a lead instrument in <v Speaker 4>a band in an insulting way. <v Speaker 8>You know. <v Speaker 4>It's it's more just like, oh, wow, you're different, and <v Speaker 4>so I'm just like, thank you. <v Speaker 2>It's so weird to me. Why don't why don't we <v Speaker 2>see more girls? <v Speaker 1>I don't, Well, you guys, Lindsay could probably answer that. <v Speaker 1>I just don't think that's a natural progression for a <v Speaker 1>female to gravitate towards. And it's no, it's not not <v Speaker 1>being sexist. I'm just being real. It's like, I mean <v Speaker 1>all the like going up in high school and going <v Speaker 1>through college, like I knew a million guy guitar players, <v Speaker 1>not on one female. It's just not something that it's <v Speaker 1>really odd. <v Speaker 2>I will say this though, since social media has become <v Speaker 2>a thing, you do see more girls. <v Speaker 3>Yes, yes, you totally do. <v Speaker 1>Seem like, wow, is she so hot? And she plays <v Speaker 1>holy crack, oh she's thirteen. <v Speaker 4>Yeah, I mean you definitely like with TikTok and Instagram <v Speaker 4>and all the things. You definitely are seeing more girls <v Speaker 4>who are like, hey, yeah, I can have long hair <v Speaker 4>and put on makeup and play good guitar too. <v Speaker 1>It's weird, it's but it's an odd thing. I'll just <v Speaker 1>I just want to say, it's an odd thing to <v Speaker 1>see a girl play guitar on stage that doesn't know <v Speaker 1>what they're doing. It's very odd. <v Speaker 2>That's the reason why I don't try to play. But <v Speaker 2>on stage, I feel like I look slicks for it. <v Speaker 2>You look like one of those girls a guitar. Keifer <v Speaker 2>looks odd without a guitar and looks. <v Speaker 1>Odd without it. You know, she just looks odd. <v Speaker 4>Oh my god, I feel love. It's weird, though I <v Speaker 4>kind of look weird without a guitar. I'm like, what <v Speaker 4>do you do with your hands? Because I'm just so <v Speaker 4>used to I mean, ever been performing since I was <v Speaker 4>ten years. <v Speaker 3>Old with one. <v Speaker 1>You know, it's it's it's weird. Oh but she plays, <v Speaker 1>but you play. She like you're not here, but you <v Speaker 1>play with your whole body. And that's how a guitar <v Speaker 1>player is supposed to. It's supposed to resonate throughout your <v Speaker 1>entire being. And and I think a lot of times <v Speaker 1>when a girl will have a guitar on, it's they're <v Speaker 1>very erect and it's very stiff, and it's just every <v Speaker 1>song has the same rhythmic pattern and it's just odd. <v Speaker 1>And I'm like, hon, just just put it down. Don't <v Speaker 1>do that, because it doesn't look natural and it looks <v Speaker 1>like you're not having fun, right you look like I mean, <v Speaker 1>I don't know, you're gonna have bad, bad problems with <v Speaker 1>your knees and you're back later on in life because <v Speaker 1>you're laying down I already do. <v Speaker 3>My back does not feel like my age. <v Speaker 4>But but yeah, I mean, my favorite guitar players are <v Speaker 4>like like, for instance, when you watch Keith play, it's <v Speaker 4>like he does this like shoulder thing and he just <v Speaker 4>makes it like like he's dancing with his guitar the <v Speaker 4>whole time, and I just I love watching Keith play. <v Speaker 4>I mean, one of my favorite guitar players is this <v Speaker 4>guy my name of Tommy Manuel, and he's like this <v Speaker 4>acousa guitar player from Australia and he like dances while <v Speaker 4>he plays. And when I was little, I would just <v Speaker 4>watch Tommy play guitar and I was like, that is <v Speaker 4>the coolest thing. <v Speaker 3>Ever, and so I'm with you. <v Speaker 4>It's like the guitar becomes like another appendage off your <v Speaker 4>body and you just sort of move with it. <v Speaker 1>It's weird. Did you said, Tommy Emmanuel, do you have. <v Speaker 3>Something that I love it? Wow? <v Speaker 4>Oh my gosh, that is the cutest thing ever. You <v Speaker 4>guys can't see. But okay, who is this Benson? <v Speaker 1>Everybody? I'll chop this piece of the video? Put it up. <v Speaker 3>He is, He's ready to play. <v Speaker 1>He's a puppy too. He's a puppy. <v Speaker 3>He's a puppy. How big is he going to get? <v Speaker 1>I don't know. He's already sixty. You don't he's sixty <v Speaker 1>pounds of a year. <v Speaker 2>Yeah, he just turned a year old. <v Speaker 3>So dang, that's that's a lot of growth. <v Speaker 1>Yeah, No, I was. I was saying about Tommy h <v Speaker 1>Of course I knew who he was, but we were <v Speaker 1>in Boston, and I'm this is kind of a weird story, <v Speaker 1>but I was a guitar stinger trying to find a <v Speaker 1>d I because I left mine at home and there <v Speaker 1>was this nice guy there and he's from Okay, I <v Speaker 1>don't I'm going to mess up as he's he's gonna <v Speaker 1>be so mad if he hears this. But he was <v Speaker 1>from like a small like European country. It was like <v Speaker 1>something stand you know, something, something saying okay okay, and <v Speaker 1>uh Nick, I hate that. But he was so nice <v Speaker 1>and gracious and he goes, he goes. He was just <v Speaker 1>he said, what are you looking for? What do well <v Speaker 1>I need to do? I was like, well, I have one. <v Speaker 1>I said, I'm playing tonight, you know, at this bar, <v Speaker 1>and you you know, He's like, bring it. And Tommy <v Speaker 1>I said all that because he was in a place <v Speaker 1>where you can't get out of and he was trying <v Speaker 1>to get in to school in Boston to play music <v Speaker 1>and all these things. And Tommy actually took it upon <v Speaker 1>himself to nominate this kid and got changed his life <v Speaker 1>and brought him over person. I am, yes, Art, thanks <v Speaker 1>for thanks for making me try. <v Speaker 2>To look stupid. No, I'm just making sure she's going <v Speaker 2>to google that right now. <v Speaker 3>I am quality check. <v Speaker 9>Yep. <v Speaker 3>That is so awesome. <v Speaker 1>Yeah, no, he's but he's amazing and and and so <v Speaker 1>is Nick. He's a he's a he's a freak of <v Speaker 1>nature guitar player. You know. <v Speaker 3>Yeah, yeah it is. <v Speaker 1>You are checking up on me, aren't you. <v Speaker 3>I love this fact checking system. See, this is why <v Speaker 3>you guys are so good for each other. <v Speaker 1>So you said something earlier, and I don't I don't <v Speaker 1>want to ask you questions that everyone else always ask you. <v Speaker 1>You know, and and uh, because I know, why did <v Speaker 1>you get start any all that stuff? I don't want <v Speaker 1>to do that. But like, so, when you said there's <v Speaker 1>not enough women being played on the radio and there's <v Speaker 1>not enough of this, and there's not enough of this, <v Speaker 1>and there's not enough of this, what do you do <v Speaker 1>you think that there are female artists right now that <v Speaker 1>aren't getting played that are amazing, that are good enough <v Speaker 1>because of what I and I say that I want <v Speaker 1>to preface that with with this. I want to make <v Speaker 1>sure that there's there's amazing girl artists out there, obviously, <v Speaker 1>but I don't want to hear a girl artist played <v Speaker 1>on the radio or a boy artist played on the <v Speaker 1>radio for the wrong reasons. They have to have great <v Speaker 1>music and they have to be a great artist. One <v Speaker 1>hundred do you do you see the overcorrection a little <v Speaker 1>bit in that in that world right now? You don't <v Speaker 1>have to name names, but is any is any of <v Speaker 1>that going on in your in your world that I <v Speaker 1>don't have. I'm not privy too. <v Speaker 4>I mean, I think there will always be a little <v Speaker 4>bit of overcorrection anytime a ratio is uneven, you know, <v Speaker 4>and that's just part of navigating through it. And you know, <v Speaker 4>I always do believe though, that the cream rises to <v Speaker 4>the top and regardless of you know, some some artists <v Speaker 4>and some people can get lucky breaks here and there. <v Speaker 4>But if you are really dedicated to this, you know, <v Speaker 4>like we have been in this business for so long, <v Speaker 4>and if you are passionate and dedicated to it, you're <v Speaker 4>you're gonna be the ones who survive. <v Speaker 3>You know, You're not always going to get the lucky breaks, <v Speaker 3>and so. <v Speaker 4>You're gonna be tested like how bad do you want this? <v Speaker 4>And I think that you know, some artists that we <v Speaker 4>see that is the cutest thing ever thence and for <v Speaker 4>those of you who do not see this video has <v Speaker 4>his pause on the back of keifer shoulder and it's <v Speaker 4>just like licking Shanna's face. You guys are like one <v Speaker 4>happy family. This should be like an ad. <v Speaker 1>This is my little studio in here, and like when <v Speaker 1>I'm riding or whatever else and doing zoom rights, he's <v Speaker 1>just he's hugging me from behind. Like, so I love it, <v Speaker 1>but he's like, as a dude, I have to work. <v Speaker 1>I have to work. <v Speaker 7>No. <v Speaker 1>I hope that didn't sound insensitive, But I know, as <v Speaker 1>an artist, as good as you are, you're a great writer, <v Speaker 1>you're a great player, you great at everything. And I'm <v Speaker 1>sure that you see and we all see certain people <v Speaker 1>maybe get the hat tipped in their favor or whatever else, <v Speaker 1>just for no other reason except for the ratio problem, yep. <v Speaker 1>And it drives me freaking crazy. Not for myself necessarily, <v Speaker 1>but I mean there's a lot of other great artists <v Speaker 1>out there that are awesome. And if you have a <v Speaker 1>great guy artist and you have a terrible female artist, <v Speaker 1>but we gotta put another female in there, and they <v Speaker 1>get that, that seems a little bit not justified to me. <v Speaker 4>Yeah, but you're going to see, like you know, injustice <v Speaker 4>on either side of it, you're also going to see like, <v Speaker 4>not that great of a dude artist, you a break. <v Speaker 1>For what I want her to burn the guys down, <v Speaker 1>let's go. <v Speaker 4>Well, I'm just saying like either side any industry or <v Speaker 4>not just the music industry, but you're gonna see like <v Speaker 4>people who don't deserve certain jobs get jobs and you're like, well, <v Speaker 4>wait a minute, I know I can do whatever that <v Speaker 4>job is ten times better than they did. <v Speaker 3>Why did they get that job? But I think that's <v Speaker 3>just part of life. <v Speaker 4>It's like people are good to get shots that they <v Speaker 4>don't necessarily deserve when you know that you can. <v Speaker 3>Do it better than them. But I think it's just <v Speaker 3>like survival of the fittest. <v Speaker 4>It's like Darwinism and it's finest and if anything, I'm like, <v Speaker 4>all right, I'll show you. <v Speaker 3>I will rise to the tide. <v Speaker 4>And and maybe it's just like I'm one like the <v Speaker 4>ultimate optimist, which drives me flipping crazy sometimes, but but <v Speaker 4>I just feel like, Okay, if I haven't learned enough <v Speaker 4>to get to this point or to have that like <v Speaker 4>big break, then all right, test me. What else do <v Speaker 4>I need to learn? What song do I need to <v Speaker 4>write next? What do I need to do? Like I'm <v Speaker 4>just constantly always asking that question, knowing that I'm just <v Speaker 4>going to be bettering myself and bettering my show and <v Speaker 4>getting the band tighter, and hopefully when the timing is right, <v Speaker 4>when all of the ducks do align, I'm going to <v Speaker 4>be better than I ever have been. <v Speaker 1>Right, did you learn that lesson? In last year how <v Speaker 1>to Yeah. <v Speaker 4>I mean last year that like really really clicked in <v Speaker 4>because I you know, I wrote a record that took <v Speaker 4>me the better part of three years, Like you guys <v Speaker 4>know records, especially when you really put like blood, sweat <v Speaker 4>and tears into certain projects. And so it was like <v Speaker 4>going to be the album, and we had all this <v Speaker 4>cool stuff planned around the release, and then COVID hit <v Speaker 4>and we were like, uh, okay, And thankfully we released <v Speaker 4>it in August, so it wasn't like one of the <v Speaker 4>really really early Quarantine projects, but it was still like <v Speaker 4>this is done, and so we couldn't do half of <v Speaker 4>the stuff that we had planned, but we still released it. <v Speaker 4>And it was so heartbreaking to like release something in <v Speaker 4>the middle of a global pandemic when you couldn't fly anywhere. <v Speaker 4>You know, you could still do press like we all <v Speaker 4>have been doing from our homes, but it's just not <v Speaker 4>exactly the same. And as an artist to not be <v Speaker 4>able to tour a record, it feels like we can't <v Speaker 4>bring it to life in the same way. And so <v Speaker 4>that was a huge lesson of like, Okay, this album <v Speaker 4>that I thought was going to be like this beautiful <v Speaker 4>moment in so many ways it felt so stifled, and <v Speaker 4>then it caused me to be like, Okay, now what <v Speaker 4>I know which which to fans, I mean, we're so <v Speaker 4>inside of our own world. Like to fans, I know that, <v Speaker 4>you know, they listen to things and listen to things <v Speaker 4>digitally now and and a lot of fans have just <v Speaker 4>been so sweet and endearing about this music. And like <v Speaker 4>I even saw at our show in Nashville on Saturday, <v Speaker 4>our Socially Distant show, I'll put. <v Speaker 3>Like, people loved it and they really did listen to <v Speaker 3>this record. <v Speaker 4>And so sometimes I think, at least I get in <v Speaker 4>my own head about that too much. <v Speaker 2>But topic it was, I feel like it was perfect <v Speaker 2>for the time that we were going through, you know <v Speaker 2>what I mean. It was like exactly what everybody needed <v Speaker 2>to hear. <v Speaker 4>It was definitely a record that I wrote like navigating <v Speaker 4>through heartbreak, but I wrote it to like help people <v Speaker 4>navigate through whatever they're navigating through, you know, whether it's <v Speaker 4>going through global pandemic or losing loved ones or losing jobs. <v Speaker 4>And it was sort of like that that transformation. And <v Speaker 4>I wrote the record in order as a concept album <v Speaker 4>so people could listen to it top to bottom and <v Speaker 4>like hear my process going from like a place of <v Speaker 4>shock to a place of acceptance. Finally at the end <v Speaker 4>of it, well. <v Speaker 1>Did you so it took you three years to write <v Speaker 1>the record? When you go out and tour a record personally, <v Speaker 1>do you go out and do the album from talk <v Speaker 1>to bottom? Is that kind of what you're about to do? <v Speaker 1>Do you like to pepper in some of the other <v Speaker 1>songs are more familiar? How do you? How do you? Normally? <v Speaker 1>I mean, I know you probably want to just go <v Speaker 1>play and play the entire record all the way down, <v Speaker 1>But you know, fans don't listen to it like that. <v Speaker 3>Fans don't listen to it like that. <v Speaker 4>No funny you say that, because the shows we played <v Speaker 4>last weekend and we have two more club shows coming <v Speaker 4>up this weekend, we are playing the record friend to <v Speaker 4>back because I'm like. <v Speaker 3>These are our first shows back and there are no <v Speaker 3>rules and. <v Speaker 4>Our set is sort of undefined whatever we want, and <v Speaker 4>so I'm like, we're playing the record friend to back. <v Speaker 4>We're just making a thing of it, and fans are <v Speaker 4>buying tickets and to see like a once in a <v Speaker 4>time or shot show. But yeah, when we get back <v Speaker 4>into the click of things, we won't be playing the <v Speaker 4>record front to back because it just it doesn't make <v Speaker 4>sense to do that, and we'll have to cover in <v Speaker 4>different things. But but we probably will start our set <v Speaker 4>with the first song on the record and end our <v Speaker 4>set with the last song on the record, So it <v Speaker 4>will like symbolically like cross a little bit. <v Speaker 1>Yeah, yeah, I love that. I don't know, I just <v Speaker 1>you know, I can't wait to see our band again. <v Speaker 1>All we've done for two years is acoustics shows and <v Speaker 1>virtual shows, and we have a couple of things coming <v Speaker 1>up and I'm like, hey, you guys, are you guys available? <v Speaker 1>It's like, are you guys available to do these? And <v Speaker 1>they're like yes, yes, you know, I just can't. <v Speaker 2>Crazy because they've had to get other jobs, you know, <v Speaker 2>like Amazon, Uber driving. You know, it's been really sad. Construction. <v Speaker 4>My front of house started cleaning pools last summer. It's <v Speaker 4>really sad. And it's also kudos to each and every <v Speaker 4>one of them for just making things work, you know. <v Speaker 1>Yeah, because you know the lazy musician that everyone calls us, <v Speaker 1>you know, it's it's forced everybody to go, okay, what else? <v Speaker 1>This is not going to go away soon? So I've <v Speaker 1>got to go do something else because you know what <v Speaker 1>was funny is Seana was online and there was a <v Speaker 1>list of like the top five most essential jobs, least <v Speaker 1>essential jobs. Artist number one. Oh my god, artist was <v Speaker 1>number one. Yes, I am totally. <v Speaker 3>Serious that that was. <v Speaker 2>That's been the hardest thing for me through this whole pandemic, <v Speaker 2>is like it made me realize like how non essential <v Speaker 2>we are, and I feel like I need to do <v Speaker 2>something that means more. I don't know, It's just like <v Speaker 2>ke for the other day, he was like, why don't <v Speaker 2>we What was it? We were in the car driving <v Speaker 2>down the road and you were like, we should a <v Speaker 2>volunteer and like to join the Peace Corps. <v Speaker 1>Just did the freaking Peace Corps for a year. Let <v Speaker 1>me just disappear, go write a record in some third <v Speaker 1>world country, you know, in a mosquito in a mosquito net. <v Speaker 1>That might be kind of cool. <v Speaker 3>You want to go, guys, That is like a story <v Speaker 3>and a half. <v Speaker 1>My goodness, I really do want to do some stuff. No, <v Speaker 1>I get it. I get it well. But the thing <v Speaker 1>of it is that you're saying that you think there's <v Speaker 1>there's that much value to what we do. But that's <v Speaker 1>us talking because if We see it every day in <v Speaker 1>the comments on social media, the cameo request, all these <v Speaker 1>different things of how important our music is to people, <v Speaker 1>you know. So it's like, because not everybody can do this, <v Speaker 1>not everybody can sit. <v Speaker 4>There's like a healing power to music that is so <v Speaker 4>overlooked sometimes and we all don't realize how much we <v Speaker 4>truly lean into music when times get rough, I mean whenever. <v Speaker 3>I'm let's be honest. <v Speaker 6>If you've looked for business funding before, you've probably heard <v Speaker 6>fast approvals and lowest rates, and then you get a <v Speaker 6>call from someone who doesn't even know your business, or <v Speaker 6>a screen that says the client without ever hearing your story. <v Speaker 6>Here's the difference. At Bizlonlady dot com. You work directly <v Speaker 6>with Michelle Swinnick, a real person. Evening's weekend, straight answers, equipment, financing, <v Speaker 6>lines of credit, growth capital, no hype, no pressure, nobs. <v Speaker 6>Let's get a free small biz growth review uncovering must <v Speaker 6>have tools and resources most businesses don't even know exist. <v Speaker 6>Go to bisluonlady dot com. Funding should feel strategic, not stressful. <v Speaker 6>Apply now our book a call Bizloonlady dot com. <v Speaker 3>Navigating through anything, The first thing I do is like <v Speaker 3>put on a record that I really really love. <v Speaker 4>And it's like music is therapy, whether you're writing it, <v Speaker 4>whether you're listening to it, or you're singing it, it's <v Speaker 4>therapy to all of us. And it's like this universal <v Speaker 4>language that connects us together. And so, Shauna, I will <v Speaker 4>take that, and I will also say that what you <v Speaker 4>do is so incredibly important. <v Speaker 2>Thank you. <v Speaker 1>So what is your go to? Do you feel? Let <v Speaker 1>me ask you this first. I'm always I love talking <v Speaker 1>to artists because I want everyone to be as depressed. <v Speaker 3>As we're crazy. <v Speaker 1>Yeah, do you feel like you're one hundred percent who <v Speaker 1>you want to be? Before you answer that, do you <v Speaker 1>know one hundred percent of who you are and want <v Speaker 1>to be? <v Speaker 4>No? <v Speaker 3>And I think that suck. Well, I think that sucks. <v Speaker 4>Answer you never are fully going to be like, yes, <v Speaker 4>I know exactly who I am and exactly like I <v Speaker 4>think it's a constant discovery. <v Speaker 1>I think some people know that though I think Spruce <v Speaker 1>Springsteen knows exactly who the hell he is. <v Speaker 4>Well, yeah, maybe now at this level and still at <v Speaker 4>this level, I'm sure he's still asking himself. Okay, I <v Speaker 4>did that on the last two Like what could I do? <v Speaker 4>On this next tour, Like, I'm sure there are still <v Speaker 4>spaces of his brain where he is like trying to <v Speaker 4>figure out how he can maybe grow things or how <v Speaker 4>he can freshen up things. <v Speaker 1>Like No, and he evolves better than anybody than he evolves. <v Speaker 4>So and when you see somebody evolving, that means that <v Speaker 4>they're like constantly growing and they're constantly asking that question. So, yes, <v Speaker 4>I'm with you. It is so frustrating, Yeah, to not know, <v Speaker 4>And it's also just it means we're human, you know. <v Speaker 1>So you So what's your go to music? Like if <v Speaker 1>you have like a couple albums, because I go to <v Speaker 1>the same kind of things always, always, always, always, and <v Speaker 1>then I forget about the rest of the world of <v Speaker 1>music that I've I've been exposed to, and I just <v Speaker 1>keep on going back to the well what is your <v Speaker 1>go to music? Like last year was just like, man, <v Speaker 1>I'm just gonna listen to I could listen to this <v Speaker 1>every day. <v Speaker 3>Oh my goodness. <v Speaker 4>I mean, my my tastes are all over the I <v Speaker 4>like when I really go back to my roots, like <v Speaker 4>I'm listening to like songs in the Key of Life <v Speaker 4>Stevie Wonder, or I'm listening to Jimmy Hendrix. Who I'm <v Speaker 4>listening to, Aretha Franklin. I've been into anything like so <v Speaker 4>soul and motown music is like what really inspires me <v Speaker 4>as well as like I'm such a music nerd, and <v Speaker 4>so bands like Wolfpeck I don't know if you know <v Speaker 4>who they are, but they're like, they're so flipping talented <v Speaker 4>and and so I'm into that. I'm into like alternative. <v Speaker 4>I'm into like real pop stuff too. So I listen <v Speaker 4>to literally everything. <v Speaker 1>Which makes it even harder to know who you are. <v Speaker 1>I really believe that makes it harder because I like <v Speaker 1>everything from stone stone country to bluegrass to blues. I <v Speaker 1>think if I have my choice, like if I could <v Speaker 1>play like Stevie Rayvar and sing like Edda James and <v Speaker 1>right like Merle Haggard, That's who I would be, you know, <v Speaker 1>because I get off on this. <v Speaker 3>So different, so many different things. <v Speaker 1>It's two different I got. <v Speaker 4>The coolest part about that, though, is like, as an artist, <v Speaker 4>you get to figure out how to web those things <v Speaker 4>together in a unique package. Like I always say, my <v Speaker 4>favorite artists are not necessarily the best vocalists are not <v Speaker 4>necessarily the best musicians. But it's like the way they <v Speaker 4>put the package together. It's like the way Keith Urban sings, <v Speaker 4>the way John Mayer plays guitar, the way Aretha sings, <v Speaker 4>the way Joni Mitchell writes her songs. And when you <v Speaker 4>put as an artist, when you put the way that Keith, <v Speaker 4>that Keith sings and plays and performs and writes songs <v Speaker 4>and and put that puzzle piece together, it makes it <v Speaker 4>like so unique, so that nobody else is as good <v Speaker 4>as Keith. <v Speaker 3>As Keith is at what he does. <v Speaker 4>Right right, you know, he's arms like Tom Petty, Like <v Speaker 4>Tom Petty is not the best vocalist in the world, <v Speaker 4>but does anybody care about that? No, because his songs <v Speaker 4>are generationally life changing. <v Speaker 1>I heard him in an interview once and someone was like, man, <v Speaker 1>your songs just seem so simple. They're just so simple <v Speaker 1>to riot, and he goes try it. <v Speaker 7>Yeah, honestly, I mean, but that's but those are the <v Speaker 7>kind of artists that I'm talking about who I think <v Speaker 7>they know exactly who they are because they started out <v Speaker 7>a certain style and they stayed with it. <v Speaker 1>I think in the country music world especially, I think <v Speaker 1>people dabble in this a little bit, dabbling that Okay, well, <v Speaker 1>the loops are cool. Now we're all going to loop. Okay, <v Speaker 1>loops aren't cool. What fiddle's cool? This week we're all <v Speaker 1>gonna play the fiddle and oh, we've got a three <v Speaker 1>person band. We're all going to do that. And that, <v Speaker 1>I mean, we are. I really think that we are <v Speaker 1>so guilty. And I'm sure popping and hip hop is <v Speaker 1>really bad about that too, and especially now more than <v Speaker 1>back in the day. I mean, we've watched a hip <v Speaker 1>hop documentary recently and it was just it was it <v Speaker 1>was mind blowing about how awesome it was back in <v Speaker 1>the day, like in the eighties and nineties when all <v Speaker 1>that stuff kind of came into existence, that those were <v Speaker 1>the pioneers. Those are the people who discovered America, you know, <v Speaker 1>and it's you know, it's anymore. I think that we <v Speaker 1>I'll say it just for me, but I think in <v Speaker 1>popular music, even even country, we are always looking to <v Speaker 1>assimilate some of what we do into the grand condition <v Speaker 1>of what's going on around. <v Speaker 2>Us, especially if you want to be commercial. <v Speaker 1>For sure, because I write alone, I'll sit in here <v Speaker 1>and have a glass of whiskey or whatever about two <v Speaker 1>o'clock in the morning. I'm writing stuff that ain't never <v Speaker 1>getting played on the radio. Yes, and that's the stuff <v Speaker 1>I get off on. Well, yeah, me too, but I'm like, <v Speaker 1>I am so good because I am so good now, <v Speaker 1>you know. <v Speaker 4>But I think there is a magic in leaning into <v Speaker 4>whatever that space is, like the spaces of our brains <v Speaker 4>as artists that were like this would never get played <v Speaker 4>on the radio. But those are the things that are <v Speaker 4>so unique to who we are. And when you can <v Speaker 4>really lean into those places and then kind of take <v Speaker 4>even some of those songs and then make them a <v Speaker 4>little bit more commercial or like produce them in the <v Speaker 4>way that's a little bit more commercial, that's I think <v Speaker 4>where the magic happens. That's where you see artists like <v Speaker 4>Casey for instance, who was just doing her thing in <v Speaker 4>her completely different way and granted it was a little <v Speaker 4>bit of an anomaly, but huge am but at the <v Speaker 4>same point, huge anomaly, but at the same point she. <v Speaker 3>Just stayed true to herself. <v Speaker 4>It's hard ended up becoming a commercial thing, which that <v Speaker 4>is so inspiring to me. <v Speaker 1>That's hard to do. <v Speaker 3>It's hard. <v Speaker 1>It's hard to be yourself. I say it all the time. <v Speaker 1>The hardest thing you'll ever do is be yourself. And <v Speaker 1>almost right behind that is figuring out who that is <v Speaker 1>and then being it. You know, it's just it's yeah, <v Speaker 1>I think the people who don't care. They I think <v Speaker 1>you have to truly not care about success. You truly <v Speaker 1>have to not worry if you have a dime or <v Speaker 1>a million. You truly just don't care. You just want <v Speaker 1>to create. You just want to do this. And I <v Speaker 1>think those are where those kind of people, those kind <v Speaker 1>of artists are the ones that stand in the test <v Speaker 1>of time. And that's your Tom Petty's, that's your Springsteen's <v Speaker 1>and stuff. You know, like Springsteen was like, oh, it's <v Speaker 1>a commercial hit. I hate it. I'm never playing it <v Speaker 1>on the show. I mean, who does that. It's like <v Speaker 1>you writing songs going oh god, they're gonna play this <v Speaker 1>on the radio. I'm not doing this, not doing it. <v Speaker 3>Can he can say that because he is Springsteen? <v Speaker 1>Well but yeah, but well it's like with Dave Grohl. <v Speaker 1>I mean I heard an interview with him. It's like, oh, <v Speaker 1>it's easier for you to say, what do you talking. <v Speaker 1>I mean we've played you know, we recorded these albums, <v Speaker 1>you know, in a garage and all this other stuff. <v Speaker 1>You know, He's he is so inspirational. By the way, <v Speaker 1>to listen to him talk about music and stuff, it <v Speaker 1>makes me want to just you know, it's weird to <v Speaker 1>keep the hunger even as you get older. They having <v Speaker 1>that drive and it just keeps on kind of drive. <v Speaker 1>And I love that, Seanna, I haven't lost that because <v Speaker 1>I see a lot of people losing, you know. <v Speaker 3>I love that you guys haven't lost it. And I <v Speaker 3>love that, you know, I'm so. <v Speaker 4>Excited for everything you guys are doing right now, and <v Speaker 4>and it's like it's it's so cool to just see <v Speaker 4>you guys like keep making it happen. <v Speaker 1>Well, speaking of music that you're never gonna hear the radio, <v Speaker 1>Shawna did a solo project. <v Speaker 4>I heard about all this you were telling me about <v Speaker 4>why can you send me it? <v Speaker 1>I can? I can't. You know. We just got it <v Speaker 1>back from a giant douchebag. And there's just when you <v Speaker 1>think they're all gone, here comes another one. You know. <v Speaker 1>But yeah, so we we we got the assets back, <v Speaker 1>which I'm so so thrilled with, you know, and it's <v Speaker 1>such a different product, it's such a different project. But <v Speaker 1>what do you what are you like working on right now? <v Speaker 1>I mean, in in between albums, do you just write <v Speaker 1>you try to get outside cuts. Do you just write <v Speaker 1>for yourself? Do you just write to keep the razor sharp? <v Speaker 1>What do you do? <v Speaker 4>Yeah, I'm writing for sure for like the next thing. <v Speaker 4>Like I love writing for the artists, and I will <v Speaker 4>do that at any point I can. But in terms <v Speaker 4>of like my own rights, I'm just trying to stay focused, <v Speaker 4>like trying to find those right songs that you know <v Speaker 4>will change the game. Right? <v Speaker 3>Who changed my life? <v Speaker 1>Who produced this last record? <v Speaker 3>Dan Huff. <v Speaker 2>I was working with Dan because we had a blast <v Speaker 2>working guys. <v Speaker 4>I have always wanted to work with Dan ever since <v Speaker 4>I moved to town, I mean a lot, so just <v Speaker 4>because he's such an incredible guitar player, and he's been <v Speaker 4>like a guitar playing idol of mine. Yeah, ever since <v Speaker 4>I was I was little, and ever since I moved <v Speaker 4>to town, I mean, I would watch hours and hours <v Speaker 4>and hours of Dan playing guitar on YouTube and just <v Speaker 4>like studying the way he would approach different notes and <v Speaker 4>so to be able to work with him. And then <v Speaker 4>my first guitar session with Dan, I was so nervous. <v Speaker 4>I was like sitting outside the studio in my car, <v Speaker 4>like my hands were shaking, and I'm like I have <v Speaker 4>to go in and play guitar in front of the <v Speaker 4>man who played guitar on Michael Jackson records and Madonna <v Speaker 4>records and pretend like I know what I'm. <v Speaker 3>Doing, Like what are you doing, Lindsey. <v Speaker 4>And yet, as you know, Dan Huff is like the <v Speaker 4>nicest human of the planet, most down to earth like, <v Speaker 4>not pretentious whatsoever, and he like lifted me up in <v Speaker 4>the most beautiful way as a producer's job is to do. <v Speaker 4>But like, I have so much respect for Dan because <v Speaker 4>he can work with an artist like Caine Brown, he <v Speaker 4>can work with us, he can work with Lady A, <v Speaker 4>he can work with Russell Dickerson, and each of their <v Speaker 4>records sound like them. Like it's a very hard thing <v Speaker 4>as a producer just to let an artist be an <v Speaker 4>artist and surround them with music and then and then <v Speaker 4>make it sound commercial. But but yeah, working with Dan <v Speaker 4>was like a dream come true. And I learned so <v Speaker 4>much much from him, and he became like my guitar coach. <v Speaker 4>Like I would sit in the studio and he wouldn't <v Speaker 4>tell me what to play. He would just be like, <v Speaker 4>all right, let's say go play, and then. <v Speaker 3>He'd be like Okay. <v Speaker 4>At the end of the solo, try maybe a different out, <v Speaker 4>like get out of it a different way, or maybe <v Speaker 4>he had a B note on that chord, like he <v Speaker 4>would just. <v Speaker 3>Like kind of guide me. <v Speaker 4>I kind of compare it to like a football coach, <v Speaker 4>like telling a quarterback, like how to navigate a play <v Speaker 4>or whatever. And it was so useful, Like I'm coming <v Speaker 4>out of this experience being like I feel like I'm <v Speaker 4>a different player and singer and artist because of working <v Speaker 4>with Dan Huff. <v Speaker 1>So did you go to his house? <v Speaker 3>Yeah? <v Speaker 1>Is that coffee you ever had in your life? Oh <v Speaker 1>my gosh, his coffee. <v Speaker 4>The coffee, it is so good every time, Like I <v Speaker 4>don't I don't even drink coffee every day, but every time <v Speaker 4>I went to dance, I was like, yep, I want I've. <v Speaker 1>Been real tempted, Like, if I'm over in that area, <v Speaker 1>just go, hey, Dan, can I swing by for a <v Speaker 1>cup of shoe? I'm sure he would. <v Speaker 2>What was the story with that? <v Speaker 1>When it didn't, Faith Tail bought it for him. It <v Speaker 1>was like a three thousand whatever it was. It was <v Speaker 1>worth every penny. Faith, thank you for doing that. <v Speaker 4>Thank you so much. Faith Artists around town are still thinking. <v Speaker 1>Yeah, so I had it So when we went to <v Speaker 1>Dan's house for some vocals, he was we got talking <v Speaker 1>about guitars. It's like, let me show you something. So <v Speaker 1>he comes, he leaves the room and he comes back <v Speaker 1>with this black strat and he puts it in my hand. <v Speaker 1>I go, oh, what's this. He goes, it's the nineties. <v Speaker 1>And I was like, oh my god, you played all <v Speaker 1>that stuff on that guitar. Just that's the one that <v Speaker 1>you know, just like, oh my gosh. You know. He <v Speaker 1>got mad at me though, because we did the session <v Speaker 1>and I was like, the guitar part has to be <v Speaker 1>like this, and the guy that did it in the <v Speaker 1>studio just didn't quite do it, you know, And I <v Speaker 1>kept I kept beating him, beating on him, beating on him. <v Speaker 1>I was like, man, it's just not right. It's just <v Speaker 1>not right. And we did a we had a radio <v Speaker 1>thing in Nashville and Dan calls me at like seven <v Speaker 1>am and he. <v Speaker 3>Goes, I just sit all hours of the day working. <v Speaker 1>He goes, I just sent you the files. Like what files? <v Speaker 1>He goes, I was up all night. I replaced every <v Speaker 1>guitar part on that record, and he goes, damn it, <v Speaker 1>you were right. He's like, sorry, bro, I just want <v Speaker 1>to I wanted Dan to be playing on the record, <v Speaker 1>you know what I mean, Like I want I wanted <v Speaker 1>his I wanted his chops on there. Every time he plays, <v Speaker 1>I hear thee solos, I'm just like, Oh, I'm just <v Speaker 1>nerd now. But this is so cool. <v Speaker 4>Man a great guitars sounds so good he is. <v Speaker 2>He is all that white snake stuff, Isn't he like <v Speaker 2>back in the. <v Speaker 3>Michael Jackson It's insane. He was in Giants. <v Speaker 1>I know. Have you come back and watched any of <v Speaker 1>those Giant videos on YouTube? Yes, it's hilarious to see <v Speaker 1>him in that capacity. <v Speaker 4>David's draft, his guitar tech through that whole time has <v Speaker 4>helped me out these last few shows. <v Speaker 3>He was actually teching for me on Saturday. <v Speaker 4>Another just gem of a human being and the stories <v Speaker 4>that guy has because he's been you know, around the <v Speaker 4>world with Dan and has been like through the gamut <v Speaker 4>with him, and yeah, they saw, they saw a lot <v Speaker 4>of life. <v Speaker 1>So I have a I have a question for you. <v Speaker 1>I like to ask people this because I do I <v Speaker 1>do a thing on Clubhouse. I have like a world <v Speaker 1>like I kind of open a writing room to global <v Speaker 1>to the to the masses or whatever, and so we <v Speaker 1>have people coming in from all over the world asking <v Speaker 1>questions or want advice and everything else. And I had <v Speaker 1>kind of an epiphany the other day. It's like, why <v Speaker 1>do we write songs? Why do you? Why do you <v Speaker 1>write songs? And what does it mean to be successful? <v Speaker 1>In your mind? What does it mean to be successful? <v Speaker 1>Because in my mind it used to be being the <v Speaker 1>biggest artist, and now it's not. I'm not the biggest artist. <v Speaker 1>Seawna is not the biggest artists in the world. So <v Speaker 1>how okay, how do you redefine kind of are you <v Speaker 1>telling yourself that this is what success is? Or do <v Speaker 1>you just get some age on you and some wisdom <v Speaker 1>and you're able to actually see what success is, what <v Speaker 1>making it means in the eyes of you, You know <v Speaker 1>what I mean? <v Speaker 3>I think that. <v Speaker 4>I mean the first part why I write songs, Like <v Speaker 4>nothing makes me happier on this planet than writing songs <v Speaker 4>and getting to play them in front of people. And <v Speaker 4>as a little girl like I started writing songs when <v Speaker 4>I was ten years old, and my first few shows, <v Speaker 4>I was just like, man, this is a pretty good <v Speaker 4>way to go here. And I was a huge nerd, <v Speaker 4>like I graduated high school year early. I was valedictorian <v Speaker 4>and went right into college like I and then I <v Speaker 4>dropped out and was just like, I need to do <v Speaker 4>music because if I don't do it now, then I <v Speaker 4>won't ever have another shot again. And I can always <v Speaker 4>go back to school, right, And so I just knew <v Speaker 4>that nothing else made me as happy as writing songs <v Speaker 4>and playing them and performing them in front of people. <v Speaker 1>All right, let me ask you this. If you didn't <v Speaker 1>have a deal, if you weren't famous, if you had <v Speaker 1>no shot at getting on the radio, no one else <v Speaker 1>except for yourselves, and you're in the VFW and the <v Speaker 1>moose lodges that you're going to play on the weekends, <v Speaker 1>would you still write songs at the same frequency that <v Speaker 1>you do now and be as happy? <v Speaker 3>I think I would. I mean, you know it, Just. <v Speaker 2>Think if it's in your DNA, it's in your DNA, <v Speaker 2>right well, And that was and I. <v Speaker 4>Was just always been like, I mean, Sheryl Crow was <v Speaker 4>Michael Jackson's background singer for ten years before she had <v Speaker 4>her break, you know, And so I've just always been <v Speaker 4>under the the program of like, I'll just do whatever <v Speaker 4>I need to do to keep surviving, whether that's learning <v Speaker 4>pro tools, building tracks, doing this, learning this instrument. Like <v Speaker 4>I'll just tell me what I need to learn, and <v Speaker 4>I will learn it and I will probably learn it <v Speaker 4>pretty well. <v Speaker 3>And and I just always have had that mentality. <v Speaker 4>And yet music just makes me so happy and I <v Speaker 4>see like how it can make other people so happy, <v Speaker 4>and so yeah, I'd probably be doing music. <v Speaker 1>It's I think you write songs because you have to <v Speaker 1>write songs. Yeah, And like there was someone I think <v Speaker 1>they were in Germany or whatever. Well, I don't feel <v Speaker 1>like anyone's ever gonna you know, no one's ever gonna <v Speaker 1>cut my music or whatever. I said, Are you writing <v Speaker 1>songs to get cuts? Or you writing songs just because <v Speaker 1>you have to write songs, you know? And they were like, <v Speaker 1>oh my gosh, I didn't even think about that. I <v Speaker 1>was like, you write songs because you have to write songs, <v Speaker 1>and then if you suck at it, you keep on <v Speaker 1>writing songs until you don't suck, and then if you <v Speaker 1>just keep sucking, maybe you shouldn't write songs. <v Speaker 3>Yeah. <v Speaker 1>No, but but and there were some people on there <v Speaker 1>that were chiming in and doing some different things and <v Speaker 1>it had you know, I'll just be honest, horrible ideas <v Speaker 1>about a line and whatever else. And I can tell <v Speaker 1>that this person has never gotten with anybody who's better <v Speaker 1>than them. They've never they they dabble, you know what <v Speaker 1>I mean? And I think it is a professional song <v Speaker 1>where you can't if you if it's in your if <v Speaker 1>it's like she said, if it's in your DNA, you <v Speaker 1>don't dabble. I mean, you have to get in there <v Speaker 1>and you do it. I mean every day, every single <v Speaker 1>day the last twenty three years. <v Speaker 4>Writers like David Lee Murphy, for instance, a good friend <v Speaker 4>of both of ours, has written massive songs for you <v Speaker 4>slash so many incredible stars in country music. I mean, <v Speaker 4>not every day he writes the number one song, and <v Speaker 4>yet he wakes up almost every day and writes a song. <v Speaker 1>Because he knows that it could the next one he <v Speaker 1>writes it could be it. <v Speaker 4>Could, and he also knows that just by the law <v Speaker 4>of numbers, not every single day is going to be <v Speaker 4>that like striking goal, right, And so I mean that's <v Speaker 4>why I think, like what you're doing in Clubhouse is <v Speaker 4>really cool, and apps like club House are actually kind <v Speaker 4>of neat because it gives people an experience to just <v Speaker 4>like do that Rinse and repeat, like said, really try <v Speaker 4>and and. <v Speaker 3>See if they like it, and see if they. <v Speaker 4>You know, want to do it at the frequency that <v Speaker 4>it will take to get better at it. <v Speaker 1>It was cool because I went on the other day <v Speaker 1>and I just started the club that I think we <v Speaker 1>have about sixty well last time I checked the day <v Speaker 1>was like sixty one members. We haven't done at first <v Speaker 1>club yet, but it's it's called three minutes Away. So <v Speaker 1>I always heard your three minutes away from the rest <v Speaker 1>of your life, you know, And that's true. It's so true. <v Speaker 1>Kiss me or not change our life forever, yep. And <v Speaker 1>so it was. It was very interesting to see people <v Speaker 1>on there that was from There was every color, every <v Speaker 1>every ethnicity, female, male, the all over the globe, and <v Speaker 1>they were all so nice and interested and they there <v Speaker 1>was a rapper on there, and there was this person <v Speaker 1>on there. There was a business guy on there that dabbles, <v Speaker 1>and everyone had this you know, this great idea. There <v Speaker 1>was a woman I was like, well, okay, let's start <v Speaker 1>with a song. Let's write a song today. And everyone's like, <v Speaker 1>you guys want to write it? Like yeah, so who's <v Speaker 1>got an idea? And this woman said, well, you know, <v Speaker 1>my husband died recently, and I'm just I can't stop <v Speaker 1>wearing his T shirt. And I was like, that's it. <v Speaker 1>That's a great idea, you know, it's a great idea. <v Speaker 1>Tragedy is some of the best ideas, especially in country music, <v Speaker 1>because we kind of thrive on that, you know, on <v Speaker 1>the negative in the dark. And it was just a <v Speaker 1>really fun experience. But I don't know why I start <v Speaker 1>talking about that, but it's just it's just about songwriting. <v Speaker 1>It's like you just have to do it. If you <v Speaker 1>do it, you know. <v Speaker 3>Yeah, totally. <v Speaker 4>It's like the frequency of it is so important. And <v Speaker 4>then I mean to get back to your other question <v Speaker 4>about success. Yeah, I think that everybody has a different <v Speaker 4>definition of success, and that definition changes as you go <v Speaker 4>through life, and as you accomplish things, you know, the <v Speaker 4>goalpost keep on moving and keep on changing, and you <v Speaker 4>start to set your eyes on new prizes, you know, <v Speaker 4>even as you get older and have families and buy <v Speaker 4>three dogs and and you know, you just have different <v Speaker 4>priorities and success all of a sudden becomes a different <v Speaker 4>word that encompasses different things. <v Speaker 3>And that's not. <v Speaker 4>Positive or negative change, it's just a different change. And <v Speaker 4>then in a way, It's like a beautiful way to <v Speaker 4>be adaptive around that word, to know that, oh yeah, <v Speaker 4>this is now our definition. <v Speaker 1>Of It's a very malleable concept, and I think it <v Speaker 1>should be. And I think if you put it in concrete, <v Speaker 1>you're you're going to be very very disappointed in your life. <v Speaker 1>You know, you'd have to be able to do that. Well, listen, <v Speaker 1>I want to ask you, how do you have any <v Speaker 1>doing a lot of talking? <v Speaker 8>Now? <v Speaker 2>You're fine, you always do a lot of Well, I just. <v Speaker 1>Have a lot of I haven't seen her in a <v Speaker 1>long time, and I'm just curious about it. How do <v Speaker 1>you how do you date? Now? How does that work? Because? <v Speaker 1>My god, if I had to do what single people <v Speaker 1>are doing right now, I would buy fifteen dogs and <v Speaker 1>I would I couldn't do it. Man, are you on <v Speaker 1>the dating apps? I mean you guys, I don't want <v Speaker 1>to know. <v Speaker 4>He has helped me out with this, like, I mean, <v Speaker 4>I need some help. No, I'm not on the dating apps. <v Speaker 4>I was on one of them that was like for <v Speaker 4>verified Instagram pages or whatever, but it still just seemed <v Speaker 4>like kind of a hookup app and I'm not into that, <v Speaker 4>and so I honestly don't know how to date, Like, <v Speaker 4>I don't know how to meet people other than like <v Speaker 4>through friends. But Nashville's kind of a small community. It's <v Speaker 4>like most of my friends have either dated other people <v Speaker 4>I know, or it's just like a really small town. <v Speaker 3>And it's also hard to find somebody who's. <v Speaker 4>Truly cool with me traveling you know, two hundred and <v Speaker 4>fifty days a year, Like it's right. They can say <v Speaker 4>they're cool, but then you like kind of break it <v Speaker 4>down and you're like, yeah, but are you. <v Speaker 3>Really cool with it? <v Speaker 2>Because it's like it's a It definitely takes a special person, <v Speaker 2>for sure. <v Speaker 3>It takes a special person. <v Speaker 4>So if you have any ideas, you know, I'm I'm <v Speaker 4>all ears right now. It's it's it's my schedule's pretty open, <v Speaker 4>and in COVID it's like, I mean, I don't like <v Speaker 4>going out as is, Like I'm not the kind of <v Speaker 4>right out to the bar on the weekends, like I see. <v Speaker 1>Losers every weekend. <v Speaker 4>No, no, that's not my that's not my jam. And <v Speaker 4>so I don't know, I have no idea how to date. <v Speaker 4>I have debated maybe trying to go on the Bachelorette <v Speaker 4>or something. <v Speaker 3>I don't know. I don't know for. <v Speaker 4>Any you should do that, any ideas, I don't think <v Speaker 4>they would let me. I think in order to be <v Speaker 4>the bachelorette, you need to be on the Bachelor. <v Speaker 2>Maybe, oh that's right, they have like a rule. <v Speaker 3>I don't know. <v Speaker 1>Yeah, they maybe just stick to those strict rules for <v Speaker 1>the for the don't get me started. <v Speaker 3>I don't know. <v Speaker 4>I know. <v Speaker 1>Yeah, so you don't know how to date, I wouldn't <v Speaker 1>know how to do it. Like, if that's the only <v Speaker 1>reason why I'm staying together is I don't know how <v Speaker 1>to date, that's it. <v Speaker 3>Wow, that's the most romantic thing. <v Speaker 1>I've not romantic that died three years ago, twenty years <v Speaker 1>when the romance stops. <v Speaker 2>No, he witnessed on the bus like our crew guys, <v Speaker 2>they were all younger dudes, you know, and they're back <v Speaker 2>there and they're doing the whole swiping thing and. <v Speaker 1>On Grinder, and I'm like, are you guys seriously on Grinder? <v Speaker 1>You met someone, Like if you're going to meet someone <v Speaker 1>have kids and later on you're the you're at the altar. <v Speaker 1>I met her on Grinder, Well, I mean at the <v Speaker 1>at the my brother, my brother met his wife on <v Speaker 1>a dating app Grinder, So I think not Grinder. No, no, <v Speaker 1>no Grinder. <v Speaker 3>I think I was like on match or something, but <v Speaker 3>I like it works. It definitely works. <v Speaker 4>I just feel weird because sometimes, like I I haven't <v Speaker 4>I've only downloaded one of them, but sometimes like fans <v Speaker 4>would find me see made me feel weird. <v Speaker 1>I'm like, that's what I'm talking about. <v Speaker 2>It's got to be a tough thing to you. Can <v Speaker 2>you have a certain amount of fame trying to find something. <v Speaker 4>I know, I'm still like a new artist, so like <v Speaker 4>I will be humble and take a nice big slice <v Speaker 4>of humble pie with that. <v Speaker 3>But at the same time, I'm just like, you never <v Speaker 3>really know somebody's intentions on that. <v Speaker 4>So I'm like, I don't know, I can't do the <v Speaker 4>dating app. <v Speaker 1>Yeah, man, because somebody who really digs you, like a <v Speaker 1>crazy creepy fan could like totally pose it out and <v Speaker 1>take it all the way. I could take it all <v Speaker 1>the way. <v Speaker 4>I don't really know. <v Speaker 1>Next thing, you know, you wake up there's no guitars <v Speaker 1>in your house. <v Speaker 3>I know it's terrifying to me. <v Speaker 4>So yeah, I'm just single for a while. <v Speaker 1>I don't know until I can tell that you hate <v Speaker 1>that though kind of it looks like guys. <v Speaker 3>It gets kind of lonely. <v Speaker 4>I mean, I love my dog so flipping much, but yeah, <v Speaker 4>I like want to find that person. I mean I <v Speaker 4>think every single person does. <v Speaker 1>When I think and I think, people look at you <v Speaker 1>and go, oh my gosh, she's beautiful and she has <v Speaker 1>success and she's all you know. But at the end <v Speaker 1>of the day, all of us have baggage, all of us, <v Speaker 1>all of us have issues, all of us need things <v Speaker 1>that we're not getting all of us, you know, And man, <v Speaker 1>I really hope you find what was the last long <v Speaker 1>relationship that you had. <v Speaker 3>I mean long relationship was like a year three years ago. <v Speaker 1>Three years ago? <v Speaker 3>Yeah, wow, and that was three years long. <v Speaker 2>Mm hmm. <v Speaker 1>So wow. <v Speaker 4>Wait to bring the party down, keeper, Well, you know <v Speaker 4>we're getting real now. Listen, I have anybody's listening. <v Speaker 1>And if you don't know Lindsay l that's that's who <v Speaker 1>she wants to meet. <v Speaker 8>She is. <v Speaker 1>Yeah, yeah, just taking from us. Yeah, don't act like <v Speaker 1>she's famous. She's just a normal gal. He's looking for <v Speaker 1>a little smoochy, smooth you know what I'm saying. Oh, like. <v Speaker 4>I could probably maybe like if I can't get on <v Speaker 4>the Bachelorette, maybe I should start my own dating show <v Speaker 4>and just be like, all right, let's vet them. <v Speaker 2>Let's like, I think that's an amazing idea for like <v Speaker 2>CMT or something. <v Speaker 1>Dating that would be so awesome. Why not? <v Speaker 3>And that also sounds terrible, like. <v Speaker 1>It sounds, you know, I would watch it just as <v Speaker 1>I would just I would have to watch. <v Speaker 3>You would watch friends. <v Speaker 1>I would watch that over the Bachelor at I would wow. <v Speaker 1>There there you go. <v Speaker 3>I don't think that is a call fliment. Yeah. <v Speaker 1>Well, and it's gotta be tough and just just being <v Speaker 1>the girl on the band, you know, being being the <v Speaker 1>head haunt you and and and telling all these guys <v Speaker 1>what to do and where to go and and uh, <v Speaker 1>you know, because it's you know, it's not as you know, <v Speaker 1>it's not as frequent as as you know, most guys <v Speaker 1>are used to dealing with, you know. But like you're <v Speaker 1>do you have a lot of girlfriends in the music <v Speaker 1>business as far as artists. <v Speaker 4>Yeah, I'm lucky in Nashville. I mean, I think there <v Speaker 4>are a lot of like girls who are so cool <v Speaker 4>and just like really down to earth. And I mean <v Speaker 4>to find a group of girls who work together who <v Speaker 4>aren't colokie, that's rare in like any town, any business. <v Speaker 4>But but I do feel like there's like a core <v Speaker 4>group of female artists in Nashville who are just like <v Speaker 4>all awesome, and yet we all understand each other, Like <v Speaker 4>Carly Pearce and I have gotten really close over COVID, <v Speaker 4>Like Cassidy Pope's one of my best friends. I mean, <v Speaker 4>Laura and Alena, and we all understand what each other <v Speaker 4>go through, and so we have this like bonding of <v Speaker 4>you know, we know the stresses of radio, we know <v Speaker 4>how much we miss touring, we know, you know, all <v Speaker 4>of the craziness of award show week and stuff like that, <v Speaker 4>and so it's nice to have friends that understand exactly what. <v Speaker 3>You go through. <v Speaker 2>It's almost like a support group. <v Speaker 4>Yeah, it totally is on it. And being a girl <v Speaker 4>in this industry is like a different thing. Like you <v Speaker 4>have to wake up three hours earlier to get ready <v Speaker 4>for certain things and stuff like that, and so it's <v Speaker 4>kind of nice to have a group of friends that <v Speaker 4>like share in those things. <v Speaker 1>I'm glad you said that, because I am curious. You <v Speaker 1>look amazing all the time. Every freaking post, every post <v Speaker 1>you put up on Instagram. You're it's just totally dialed <v Speaker 1>in that's very hair makeup. How do you how do <v Speaker 1>you muster up the energy to look so good all <v Speaker 1>the damn time? It's like you're posing. It's like you <v Speaker 1>go to Starbucks. It's like. <v Speaker 3>Filters are beautiful things. I will just say. <v Speaker 1>That I love I do love your look though, I <v Speaker 1>love your clothes, and I love the whole vibe that <v Speaker 1>you have going on. How do how do you come <v Speaker 1>up with that? Because I know that Sean, and we're <v Speaker 1>always talking about like different things or whatever. It seems <v Speaker 1>like you have. It's almost like everything's custom made for you. <v Speaker 3>That is so not the case. <v Speaker 4>I am not a Kardashian yet and have the budget yet, <v Speaker 4>Please don't have that everything custom made. <v Speaker 3>But we'll get there, don't you worry. <v Speaker 1>I don't know. <v Speaker 3>I just kind of gravitate to what I like. <v Speaker 4>And you know, I've with the same stylust ever since <v Speaker 4>I've moved to town, and she just really gets me <v Speaker 4>and gets what I like. And yet, you know, I've <v Speaker 4>had meetings about the shoes I wear on stage, Like <v Speaker 4>I love sneakers, I love like really cool sneakers, And <v Speaker 4>there were meetings that we had about me not wearing <v Speaker 4>sneakers on stage. <v Speaker 2>I was gonna ask you about that because I've found <v Speaker 2>that on the big tours and stuff. Yeah, the staging, <v Speaker 2>the crew guys, they don't think about us in high heels. <v Speaker 1>The grids in the stage. <v Speaker 2>You're forced to wear boots, like I wore biker boots <v Speaker 2>most of the Luke Bryan tour because yeah, I wanted <v Speaker 2>to run around the stage and like have fun and <v Speaker 2>you can't. <v Speaker 7>Well that's the thing. <v Speaker 4>And Seana like, yes, it's not necessarily even the look, <v Speaker 4>Like I love wearing heels, and I think they do <v Speaker 4>make a girl look more attractive really, you know, like <v Speaker 4>it makes you stand differently or whatever. But if I'm <v Speaker 4>singing and I want to run around stage and I'm <v Speaker 4>playing guitar and playing like wah pedals and. <v Speaker 3>All this stuff, I cannot wear stilettos. <v Speaker 4>I can barely wear heeled boots and and put on <v Speaker 4>the same show. Like if I wear sneakers, I put <v Speaker 4>on so much better of a show just because. <v Speaker 2>I can't stand. I totally feel that the last couple <v Speaker 2>of years, I've been way into Adidas stuff yet obsessed <v Speaker 2>the Puma jacket. <v Speaker 4>I know, but I was gonna compliment you on your <v Speaker 4>Puma jacket that is dope. <v Speaker 2>It's been very athletic, like the look that I've been <v Speaker 2>going with because it works for me wanting to move <v Speaker 2>around stage and feel so like much more free. <v Speaker 1>Do you shop? Do you shop online? You do the <v Speaker 1>thrift store thing? <v Speaker 4>Do you have? Oh yeah, I'm like not pretentious at all. <v Speaker 4>I love Target, I love thrift stores. I love like <v Speaker 4>a random little hole in the wall stores on the road. <v Speaker 4>And you know, for award shows sometimes I spend way <v Speaker 4>too much money in address. <v Speaker 3>So there's like no rules. <v Speaker 4>No no hands off, any method. But but yeah, I <v Speaker 4>just I love things that make me feel good. And <v Speaker 4>like Seana said, like that you can move around with. <v Speaker 2>You know what do you miss most about being on <v Speaker 2>a tour bus? <v Speaker 3>Sleeping? <v Speaker 2>The sleep is the. <v Speaker 3>Best, right, sleeping on a bus. I miss that so much. <v Speaker 4>It's it's like it rocks you to sleep. That like <v Speaker 4>road noise, and and just like the camaraderie. I mean, <v Speaker 4>I love my band so much, and like those talks <v Speaker 4>we would have after a show, like when the bus <v Speaker 4>starts rolling and man, I'm really fortunate. <v Speaker 9>Just like. <v Speaker 4>But it's just like those that like that's my family, <v Speaker 4>you know, like my road family and we just really <v Speaker 4>support each other and have real conversation. <v Speaker 3>And so that's what I miss about the bus the <v Speaker 3>very much. <v Speaker 1>I bet you feel a lot less single when we're working. <v Speaker 4>Oh yeah, That's why it's hit me so hard this <v Speaker 4>past year, because when you're on the road, you guys, know, <v Speaker 4>your schedule is crazy. I mean you like, you get <v Speaker 4>to a venue, you're doing radio, you're doing interviews, like <v Speaker 4>you don't really. <v Speaker 3>Notice it as much. But at home, I. <v Speaker 4>Know, every single day, like I'm in my house by myself, <v Speaker 4>and I'm like, oh yeah. <v Speaker 1>Well, you know, if you're on the road and you <v Speaker 1>need a date, you can always go and Grinder and <v Speaker 1>you can scratch that Grinder girl that boy thing? Is there? <v Speaker 1>Is there one for the fun? <v Speaker 8>I know? <v Speaker 4>I think Grinder is actually, yeah, it's bumble is I <v Speaker 4>think the girl. <v Speaker 1>The bumble is a girl one where like. <v Speaker 3>The girl needs to approve it first. Grinder I think <v Speaker 3>is for is for gay? <v Speaker 1>Is that that what I go on? I came perfect <v Speaker 1>just for fun. <v Speaker 3>I'm so I'm so happy for you. <v Speaker 1>I hope I should tell you how out of the <v Speaker 1>loop I am with anything. The whole time I'm talking <v Speaker 1>about Grinder, I'm thinking it's just a guy hooking over <v Speaker 1>the girl app and there's nothing to do. <v Speaker 4>There's no booms involved at all. <v Speaker 1>What is wrong with me? <v Speaker 3>I don't even know. I don't even know. <v Speaker 4>All the best of luck to everybody out there on. <v Speaker 3>Whatever dating app you made for whatever reason. <v Speaker 1>It's so bad. Well we have well, yeah, I want <v Speaker 1>to stop. Yeah, I'm going to pull up. <v Speaker 9>You know. <v Speaker 1>I tend to just like say what I've just come <v Speaker 1>to the front of my mind, and sometimes I shouldn't <v Speaker 1>do that. Yeah, yeah, what's your what's your fitness routine? <v Speaker 1>Because obviously you're you're not fat? <v Speaker 3>Thanks. <v Speaker 4>Have you been working at since we have I definitely <v Speaker 4>feel like I am right now. <v Speaker 1>I'm so fat right now, it's ridiculous. <v Speaker 3>I've just been eating, not really working out. <v Speaker 1>If I stood up right now, you'd go, oh my god, <v Speaker 1>sit damn. I had the camera position just off of <v Speaker 1>my test right just off my Yeah. <v Speaker 3>I mean, I got a treadmill like before quarantine. It <v Speaker 3>was the. <v Speaker 4>Best, like foreseeing of the what I would need in <v Speaker 4>the future. <v Speaker 3>So that's been nice to have that. I can just <v Speaker 3>I've just been. <v Speaker 4>Working at home, working out at home a lot. I mean, <v Speaker 4>my trainer I've gone to work out with him a <v Speaker 4>little bit, but I still kind of feel weird going <v Speaker 4>to a gym to work out. <v Speaker 1>And she did the whole the boxing thing, right, you <v Speaker 1>were into. <v Speaker 3>That for a while, and I still am. <v Speaker 4>I just like still have felt like a little weird <v Speaker 4>going to a gym being like around a bunch of people. <v Speaker 4>Especially now that I'm like booking shows here and there. <v Speaker 4>I'm just like, I can't get sick, so I'm just <v Speaker 4>going to work out at home, yea, And so so yeah, <v Speaker 4>I've just been doing like the home thing, which is <v Speaker 4>YouTube good as the gym thing, but it's better than nothing. <v Speaker 1>Do you think that that is it? Title fitness? Is <v Speaker 1>that is that where you go? <v Speaker 9>Yeah? <v Speaker 1>Do you think the title fitness has has armed you <v Speaker 1>with the ability to whip someone's butt? Like if you <v Speaker 1>really needed to? <v Speaker 3>Kind of? <v Speaker 1>Yeah, I like you feel jacked like someone messes with you. <v Speaker 1>I mean you just go back into into a class <v Speaker 1>and just whip their butt kind of. <v Speaker 4>I mean, my trainer is a badass, and like he's <v Speaker 4>like taught me some self defense stuff as well as like, <v Speaker 4>I mean, my boxing skills are not anything to call <v Speaker 4>home about. But but I definitely do feel like I <v Speaker 4>could keep my own Yeah, and and probably if I <v Speaker 4>were to box with my band, I probably could like. <v Speaker 3>To beat them. <v Speaker 1>They're musicians. <v Speaker 4>I love them, I love them dearly, but I'm so competitive. <v Speaker 1>I'm pretty sure that you could probably whip their ass <v Speaker 1>if he hadn't had any title boxing just no musicians. Watch. <v Speaker 3>They'll challenge me now to like a boxing fight. <v Speaker 1>And she did a big grudge match. What what person <v Speaker 1>do you hate so much that you can't stand in <v Speaker 1>country music? I'm just kid. Don't answer that. <v Speaker 9>Okay, cool, I'm just playing. <v Speaker 1>We were going to ask you to sing, But do <v Speaker 1>you feel like it? Or do you? <v Speaker 3>I mean I told you no question was off. Yeah <v Speaker 3>I can sing. <v Speaker 1>I would love I know we've been doing this a <v Speaker 1>little bit and everyone seems to really love it when <v Speaker 1>someone sings. You don't have to sing a whole song, <v Speaker 1>but I would love to hear something. <v Speaker 3>Yeah I can sing. <v Speaker 1>Just look at this. She just happens to have a <v Speaker 1>guitar right there. <v Speaker 3>I just happen to have a guitar by and everything. Well, <v Speaker 3>I'll play you the single right now. This is a <v Speaker 3>song I wrote with Kane Brown. <v Speaker 4>I mean, as we all know, as artists were like <v Speaker 4>on festivals and on all these shows, and we're always <v Speaker 4>backstage like. <v Speaker 3>We should write together, we should write. <v Speaker 4>Together, and it never happens because we're always like so <v Speaker 4>busy and we go off on our. <v Speaker 1>We've never written. And we've said that a million. <v Speaker 4>Times, ever written, and we said that a million times, <v Speaker 4>and we clearly need to make it happen. But for <v Speaker 4>whatever reason, Cain and I made it happen with Matt <v Speaker 4>McGinn and Lindsay rhymes and uh and yeah. <v Speaker 3>This song is all about. <v Speaker 4>Like standing in your own confidence and not losing sight <v Speaker 4>of that, because I think that, especially as a woman, <v Speaker 4>it's so easy to kind of lose out when you're <v Speaker 4>you know, going through breakups or or all the things <v Speaker 4>we need to navigate through. And so you know, just <v Speaker 4>remembering how awesome you are. <v Speaker 9>Sweet there you go, typical you always wanted, which you <v Speaker 9>can't help. <v Speaker 3>So news moved sudden, miss me. <v Speaker 8>So bad, saying maybe we should try against try to <v Speaker 8>get a right against san do we have to be done? <v Speaker 8>I don't know what I took about them And honest <v Speaker 8>sagay coming from cause it'll. <v Speaker 3>Awu miss my kiss and miss me keeping you up <v Speaker 3>one night. It'll owu. <v Speaker 4>I'm not they're losing me? <v Speaker 3>What make me lose my mind? You ain't gonna find nobody. <v Speaker 8>Might be the Indiana lad an imma's going to beat. <v Speaker 3>It's owu, it's a. <v Speaker 8>I want me back to. <v Speaker 1>Yeah. <v Speaker 3>I don't know how much of the song you want. <v Speaker 4>So good? <v Speaker 2>What kind of guitarist that it sounds amazing? <v Speaker 4>Oh, this is like a Martin. I love Martin acoustics. <v Speaker 4>This is like kind of like an O. <v Speaker 3>M twenty eight. I love Martin so much. <v Speaker 2>Sounds great. <v Speaker 1>I love that you can talk just guitars and gear <v Speaker 1>and all that stuff. I was born. We did a <v Speaker 1>show together a few years ago. It was an acoustic <v Speaker 1>show and I watched you build a track from scratch <v Speaker 1>with the with the stunt, with the blue pedals and whatever. <v Speaker 1>I was like, dang it, man. <v Speaker 2>That was probably one of the last shows that we <v Speaker 2>did with you. It's been so long ago. <v Speaker 1>That's it was. It was. There was hate, there was <v Speaker 1>hay Stacks involved. I remember. <v Speaker 2>It was an outdoor thing radio show. <v Speaker 4>All of the crazy shows we have played, like when <v Speaker 4>we think of like some of the radio shows we've <v Speaker 4>played at, some of the craziest, most random locations. <v Speaker 2>Right, What's what's the strangest place that you've you've played? <v Speaker 3>Oh, my gosh, I mean. <v Speaker 2>I have played. <v Speaker 4>Probably some of the weirdest ones. I mean you have <v Speaker 4>like all sorts of like tailgate situations, which are always <v Speaker 4>like kind of questionable, like all different sorts of affairs. <v Speaker 3>But I was. <v Speaker 4>Playing a radio show and it was at a hot <v Speaker 4>tub conference. <v Speaker 2>And so. <v Speaker 4>Had a booth in between all of these hot tubs stands, <v Speaker 4>and so you could hear like that I was going <v Speaker 4>with the dell on either side of me, and then <v Speaker 4>there was a little all me just standing there playing <v Speaker 4>in between some hot tubs, and they said I was <v Speaker 4>going to get a hot. <v Speaker 3>Tub out of the deal, and I never ended up <v Speaker 3>getting one. I did not. <v Speaker 4>I'm not the owner of a hot tubs, so I <v Speaker 4>missed out on that. But but yeah, it was definitely <v Speaker 4>one of the weirdest shows. <v Speaker 3>What about you guys. <v Speaker 2>The one that pops into my mind was it was <v Speaker 2>a Carrie Underwood show at at in the parking lot. <v Speaker 2>We're in the parking lot and right next to us, <v Speaker 2>literally maybe forty feet away, was a karaoke stage. <v Speaker 1>Oh yeah, amazing that close that was going amazing at <v Speaker 1>the same time, Yes, it was like are you going <v Speaker 1>to kid way, You get down the fiddle and you <v Speaker 1>get down the bow and you're singing over that crap, <v Speaker 1>and I'm like, what the hell was going on? <v Speaker 2>It was so it was so bad, Oh my god. <v Speaker 2>But then there was also there was a parking spot, <v Speaker 2>like in a outdoor shopping center. Yep, a parking spot <v Speaker 2>right in front of like a Hogy restaurant. <v Speaker 1>Or it's so demeaning. <v Speaker 4>I once played inside a Walmart, like in like right <v Speaker 4>beside terrible the bra section. <v Speaker 3>And then they like built a stage and then there. <v Speaker 4>Was like like I don't know, like jewelry or whatever. <v Speaker 4>And I was like playing inside a Walmart and I <v Speaker 4>was like, wow, I really hate it. <v Speaker 3>Mom, look at my that. <v Speaker 1>Just does that just make it what? It just a <v Speaker 1>was just like you know what, it's not worth it. <v Speaker 1>I'm not doing this crap. I'm going to go back <v Speaker 1>to school. <v Speaker 4>I mean, those are the days that it really like <v Speaker 4>takes the determination to be like okay, that's when you <v Speaker 4>know it. When I'm thanking the world for my four <v Speaker 4>Grammy Awards, I'm gonna be like, Okay, I remember that <v Speaker 4>day playing in the underwear section of. <v Speaker 1>Walmart because we've all done it. I played the Pumpkin <v Speaker 1>Patch one time and it was literally there was no <v Speaker 1>one there. It was just me before Shawna, it was <v Speaker 1>just me. I got hired to play the Pumpkin Patch <v Speaker 1>and it was just me and pumpkins. And it was <v Speaker 1>the most it was the most. I made one dollar <v Speaker 1>in tips. I'm not sure who felt bad for me. <v Speaker 1>It wasn't a pumpkin, but I did get a cook come. <v Speaker 1>I got to bring home a couple of pumpkins, so <v Speaker 1>that was kind of nice. <v Speaker 3>Well, that's good. <v Speaker 1>That was something you probably did them grow right? <v Speaker 2>Well maybe don't they say that singing the plants is Lindsey. <v Speaker 1>This has been so much fun and I don't want <v Speaker 1>to I don't want to take up any more time. <v Speaker 1>I can't believe we didnt going this long me either <v Speaker 1>that all the time, it. <v Speaker 3>Just feels like we're catching up. <v Speaker 4>I mean, I love Benny Brown is like all of <v Speaker 4>our grandfathers, and he's been a part of, you know, <v Speaker 4>our careers from the very beginning. And I just love <v Speaker 4>that you guys are getting to make music with him again. <v Speaker 4>And I'm just so excited. <v Speaker 1>It's so weird. It's like it's all coming full circle <v Speaker 1>after all these years. We had those hits there and <v Speaker 1>then we left, we asked out and he starts a <v Speaker 1>label and then we start talking again and all these <v Speaker 1>people come back. So we're really looking forward to it. <v Speaker 1>But I'm really really proud of you. I think I <v Speaker 1>think you're an amazing woman. I think you're an amazing <v Speaker 1>artist and a positive light in the world of just <v Speaker 1>all this crap that's going on. I never hear anything <v Speaker 1>bad about you, and it really really bothers me. <v Speaker 4>Hey, knock on wood, I mean, just stay off that grinder, <v Speaker 4>just not listen to the right corners. <v Speaker 1>But I have to, really I have to look up <v Speaker 1>some urban things just so I know what they are. <v Speaker 1>Urban Dictionary, what just to define what things are. I <v Speaker 1>don't know what things are. I just talk. <v Speaker 2>Yeah. <v Speaker 1>Anyway, y'all, please go check out just go check out <v Speaker 1>Lindsayel's music. It's available everywhere obviously, and follow her on <v Speaker 1>our social media and said, lindsay thank you so much <v Speaker 1>for doing this. We really appreciate. We miss you and <v Speaker 1>we love you, and hopefully we will get to write <v Speaker 1>one day. <v Speaker 3>I would absolutely love that. <v Speaker 4>I miss you and love you and cannot wait to <v Speaker 4>actually hang in person and see your giant puppy and <v Speaker 4>your other two dogs and your and Cooper. <v Speaker 1>Yeah, you need to come. Just make a trip and <v Speaker 1>come out here to the country where we're at now, <v Speaker 1>and we'll hunk her down and write for a while. <v Speaker 1>All right, thank you so much. <v Speaker 3>On all right, guys. <v Speaker 1>Bye, Well that was awesome. Yeah, she's awesome. <v Speaker 2>I know, I know. I love seeing her smiling face. <v Speaker 1>She always freaking. <v Speaker 2>She has an amazing energy. <v Speaker 1>She does, and she is good, She's really good. It <v Speaker 1>just you want her to have this big giant hit <v Speaker 1>you want to pull for her. Yep, we've known it <v Speaker 1>for a long time anyway, huge thanks to Lindsay l. <v Speaker 1>Thanks to Wheelers Ray Dissillary, who is our sponsor. <v Speaker 2>Yes, try that sneaky pucker. <v Speaker 1>Sneaky pucker to sneak up on you though. Y'all. Hey, <v Speaker 1>this is Keefer, this is Shawna. We're Thompson Square and <v Speaker 1>this is talking with Thompson Square. It's up podcast. Thank <v Speaker 1>you so much, everybody,
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