Episode 141: Accidental Over-Restriction, Coffee Types and the Clean Fast, and More
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Resources used in today’s episode: https://www.emdria.org/about-emdr-therapy/emdr-and-childhood-trauma/#step
For more information regarding one-on-one IF support visit: https://www.fastfeastrepeat.com/coaching.html
sheri@fastfeastrepeat.com
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https://crunchi.com/?als=SheriBullock
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Gin has a new YouTube Channel! Visit https://www.youtube.com/channel/UC_frGNiTEoJ88rZOwvuG2CA and subscribe today so you never miss an intermittent fasting tip, a support session, or an interview with a past IF Stories guest or expert.
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Go to fastfeastrepeat.com to see Gin’s and Sheri’s favorite things, and to shop with us. Every purchase you make through links on our website help to support this podcast so we can keep bringing you episodes each week.
Are you ready to take your intermittent fasting lifestyle to the next level? There’s nothing better than community to help with that. In the Delay, Don’t Deny community we all embrace the clean fast, and there’s just the right support for you as you live your intermittent fasting lifestyle.
Connect with both Gin and Sheri in the community, as well as thousands of other intermittent fasters who are there to support you along your journey. If you’re new to intermittent fasting or recommitting to the IF lifestyle, join the 28-Day FAST Start group. After your fast start, join us for support in The 1st Year group. Need tips for long term maintenance? We have a place for that! There are many more useful spaces beyond these, and you can interact in as many as you like.
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2026-03-11
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<v Speaker 1>Welcome the Fast Feast Repeat Intermittent Fasting for Life. I'm <v Speaker 1>Jen Stevens, author of the New York Times bestseller Fast Feast. <v Speaker 2>Repeat, and I'm Sherry Bullock, longtime intermittent faster and health <v Speaker 2>and wellness advocate. Please keep in mind that this podcast <v Speaker 2>is for educational and motivational purposes only, and is not <v Speaker 2>intended to provide medical or diagnostic advice. Jen and I <v Speaker 2>are not doctors, so make sure to check with your <v Speaker 2>trusted healthcare professionals before making changes, especially when it comes <v Speaker 2>to any medical treatments or medications. <v Speaker 1>Whether you're new to intermittent fasting or an experienced intermittent faster, <v Speaker 1>tune in each week to get inspired, to learn, and <v Speaker 1>to have some fun along the way. Hi, everybody, we <v Speaker 1>are so glad you're here today. Welcome to this week's <v Speaker 1>episode of the Fast Feast Repeat Intermittent Fasting for Life Podcast. <v Speaker 1>How are you doing today? <v Speaker 2>Sherry? I am doing great. How are you flemmy? You're flemy? <v Speaker 1>Yeah? <v Speaker 2>Are you caught? Are you sick? <v Speaker 1>Or? Did I mentioned last week when I'd gotten back <v Speaker 1>from Puerto Rico that I had like some congestion. <v Speaker 2>No, But now that you say that I remember you <v Speaker 2>saying that you had a cough or something in community. <v Speaker 1>Yeah, well, it's just so weird. Like it's been a <v Speaker 1>week now and I've had this congestion and I've had <v Speaker 1>like a little throat and a little cough that's been <v Speaker 1>settling in. I haven't had a cough in years. I <v Speaker 1>can't even think of the last time I've had a cough. <v Speaker 1>I've had no fever, i haven't needed a sleep extra <v Speaker 1>or stay in the bed. But I'm just coughing and <v Speaker 1>hacking and snorting. <v Speaker 2>That's no good. <v Speaker 1>Yeah, it's weird. <v Speaker 2>I can't think are you allergic to Puerto Rico. <v Speaker 1>I don't think it was that. <v Speaker 2>Or are you allergic to coming back home? <v Speaker 1>Maybe it doesn't feel like allergies at all. It's like <v Speaker 1>my body's fighting something off. But anyway, I guess I'm <v Speaker 1>at the very end of it. <v Speaker 2>Well yeah, so say, hopefully you've already been through the <v Speaker 2>worst of it. <v Speaker 1>I hope. So, yeah, that's what I'm hoping for. So anyway, <v Speaker 1>this week and the next one, y'all are gonna hear <v Speaker 1>me a little congested, so downy because we're recording two today. <v Speaker 2>So yeah, I do pick that up a little bit <v Speaker 2>on you. The other day. I started to lose my <v Speaker 2>voice really. <v Speaker 1>Oh me too. I lost my voice a little bit <v Speaker 1>on Friday. <v Speaker 2>I guess see. It was Friday for me, and Eric said, <v Speaker 2>why are you talking like that? And I'm like, I <v Speaker 2>don't know. My voice is just not my voice. But <v Speaker 2>I'd like been coaching all day. I had kind of <v Speaker 2>a long day of coaching, so I thought maybe I'd <v Speaker 2>just talked too much or something. But I felt really <v Speaker 2>run down. I went to bed early for a Friday night. <v Speaker 2>I normally stay up late because I work Saturday night overnight. <v Speaker 2>But I woke up Saturday it was fine. So the <v Speaker 2>weather's so weird though. I mean, it was seventy six <v Speaker 2>degrees last week and I woke up this morning and <v Speaker 2>it was twenty two degrees. So yeah, it's crazy. It's <v Speaker 2>like forty right now. <v Speaker 1>Chris and I we were in Winston Salem for baseball <v Speaker 1>for the weekend, and Friday night's baseball game it started, <v Speaker 1>it was seventy two degrees. By the time we left, <v Speaker 1>the wind was whipping. It was like low sixties. I <v Speaker 1>was chilly. Then Saturday's baseball game even chillier. Big Coke <v Speaker 1>gloves Sunday's baseball game was so cold that I was like, well, <v Speaker 1>I'm not going to that and it was sleeping. <v Speaker 2>Oh my gosh. <v Speaker 1>He know, Yeah, he went. They have a table that <v Speaker 1>they've been going for years. So another friend was there too, <v Speaker 1>and they made it for most of the game. But yeah, <v Speaker 1>it was not the best. But the ten run rule <v Speaker 1>went into effect, so that one ended early. <v Speaker 2>Well that's good. <v Speaker 1>Yeah. <v Speaker 2>So I know you've not formerly been a baseball fan. <v Speaker 2>Do you think you might become a baseball fan? <v Speaker 1>Well, I've been a wake Forest fan forever, and so <v Speaker 1>what's really fun is I do love rooting for wake Forest. <v Speaker 2>Say you like the energy of the game. <v Speaker 1>I do. I like being there. <v Speaker 2>Yeah, if you're invested in the team winning. <v Speaker 1>Yeah, I am enjoying baseball. I've now been to five <v Speaker 1>baseball games, the whole thing, five this season, Okay, and <v Speaker 1>I'm enjoying it. <v Speaker 2>Good. <v Speaker 1>Yeah, And I'm with super fans because Chris and a <v Speaker 1>couple other three people that have the table, they're super fans, <v Speaker 1>like been to the college World Series kind of super fans. <v Speaker 1>So that helps because they all know all the players <v Speaker 1>and they're helping me understand who the players are. But <v Speaker 1>I'm really enjoying it. And you saw me in a <v Speaker 1>baseball hat. <v Speaker 2>I know I did. You got a baseball hat? <v Speaker 1>Yeah, it was so windy. I was like, I'm not <v Speaker 1>wearing a baseball hat. Then it was so windy my <v Speaker 1>hair was like flying crazy all around. I'm like, i <v Speaker 1>gotta go buy a hat. Now. <v Speaker 2>See, I'm a huge baseball fan, but I've never ever <v Speaker 2>followed college baseball. <v Speaker 1>Yeah. <v Speaker 2>Ever, I'm a major league baseball girl right so, and <v Speaker 2>spring training is happening right now. But of course they're <v Speaker 2>not broadcasting in the game, so I've been super bummed <v Speaker 2>out about that. But I'm waiting, just waiting for the <v Speaker 2>games to start. <v Speaker 1>Well, I do really like going to the game. Did <v Speaker 1>I ever tell you that I was a batgirl for <v Speaker 1>the Wake Forest baseball team? <v Speaker 2>You did not? <v Speaker 1>For part of one inning. It was so funny. I <v Speaker 1>had two friends who were doing it, and they're like, <v Speaker 1>one of was like dating a baseball player. So they're like, <v Speaker 1>we're back girls. You travel with the team, you get <v Speaker 1>the swag, it's so much fun. You do it too. <v Speaker 1>I'm like, okay, these two are my sorority sisters. So <v Speaker 1>I went to one game and I realized at first <v Speaker 1>there was no training. They're like, you're a backgirl now, congratulations. Like, okay, <v Speaker 1>so you're supposed to just know what to do. And <v Speaker 1>I'm like, first of all, do I not know what <v Speaker 1>to do? I so much don't know what to do <v Speaker 1>that I'm probably going to like be somewhere. I'm not <v Speaker 1>supposed to be ruining the game. I cannot do this job. <v Speaker 2>That's funny, So it does. <v Speaker 1>Feel kind of fitting that I could be Like I <v Speaker 1>was a batgirl for the Wake Forest Baseball for part <v Speaker 1>of one inning in nineteen eighty eight or whatever it was. Anyhow, <v Speaker 1>I was the most failed batgirl ever. <v Speaker 2>Well, that's fun I just learned something new about you. Yeah, <v Speaker 2>it's true. <v Speaker 1>Not very many people knew that story. <v Speaker 2>My brother was born disabled. He had general heart and <v Speaker 2>lung abnormalodies, and so he couldn't play sports. But when <v Speaker 2>he was in college he was the baseball team manager. Okay, <v Speaker 2>and yeah, he. <v Speaker 1>Really enjoyed that. And did that help you love baseball? <v Speaker 2>I mean I played already from a very young age <v Speaker 2>up through high school. And yeah, we went to growing <v Speaker 2>up in Kansas City, we went to the Kinsy Royals games, <v Speaker 2>you know, as a family, and my dad was a <v Speaker 2>big baseball My dad never watched football until he retired, <v Speaker 2>and so we were a baseball family. My sister and <v Speaker 2>I both played softball, and my cousins all played softball. <v Speaker 2>So yeah, it's pretty common for me. Eric was less <v Speaker 2>of a baseball follower. He's football all the way, but <v Speaker 2>I've gotten him over the last several years. I've gotten <v Speaker 2>him into baseball and so. <v Speaker 1>Well, I definitely prefer college sports, yeah, to professional I'm <v Speaker 1>not like much into the professional. That's just a little <v Speaker 1>something right there. <v Speaker 2>But I don't know. They're making college sports more and <v Speaker 2>more like professional sport. <v Speaker 1>Well, that's true. Nobody likes that, Yeah, I don't believe <v Speaker 1>except maybe the players. I guess they like it, right, <v Speaker 1>they like the money that they're getting. But it feels <v Speaker 1>so weird. It really feels weird. Also, everybody who's listening, <v Speaker 1>I want to tell y'all we're working on the cruise. <v Speaker 1>We're still working on it, so you are. We are <v Speaker 1>met with someone today. Hopefully we get we're getting closer <v Speaker 1>to dates and a cruise line, and. <v Speaker 2>Yeah, keep listening, and when we have more information we <v Speaker 2>were talking about today, well, probably end up creating a <v Speaker 2>page on our website that will have more information where <v Speaker 2>you can sign up for more information. So once we <v Speaker 2>really firm stuff up and we're ready to move forward, <v Speaker 2>we will activate that website and then we'll let y'all know, <v Speaker 2>and then you can go in and sort of give <v Speaker 2>us some information. We kind of need to know how <v Speaker 2>many people really want to go right in order to <v Speaker 2>move forward and to really firm things up, So we'll <v Speaker 2>probably put out some information where you can let us <v Speaker 2>know if you're interested in coming and how many people, <v Speaker 2>and then we'll we'll know more. The more people we have, <v Speaker 2>the more fun it will be, that is true, and <v Speaker 2>the more perks we get. <v Speaker 1>As a group. That's right. That's right. So were the <v Speaker 1>end of July twenty twenty seven. Yes, what we're looking at, <v Speaker 1>So fingers crossed we get it all worked out because. <v Speaker 2>I'm so excited to do it again. Yeah, all right, Well, <v Speaker 2>we have a celebration this week from Olivia in Oregon, <v Speaker 2>she wrote, just a funny My hobby has been joining <v Speaker 2>me in the twenty eight day fast art following along <v Speaker 2>with your book, Jen, He's also been listening to the <v Speaker 2>Fast Fees Repeat audiobook. He was telling me about the <v Speaker 2>portion of the book, where Jin describes writing and fasting <v Speaker 2>and activating her superpower of burning fat and running on ketones. <v Speaker 2>He was about sixteen to seventeen hours into the fast <v Speaker 2>yesterday and he had a pretty strong hunger wave and <v Speaker 2>was getting a bit cranky, and he told me he <v Speaker 2>was trying to activate superpower, but instead he was turning <v Speaker 2>into a super villain. We laughed about this, but we <v Speaker 2>grabbed some planes sparkling water and we went to run <v Speaker 2>a few errands and we both made it to eighteen hours. <v Speaker 1>That's so funny, And look, we get it because that's <v Speaker 1>the hardest part when your body is adapting and it's <v Speaker 1>not going to be your superpower, when your body is <v Speaker 1>struggling to flip the switch. But once you get that switch, <v Speaker 1>flip to get so much eesier. Just today in the community, Shirre, <v Speaker 1>did you see the post somebody made about they had <v Speaker 1>an accidental down day Because she was busy and she <v Speaker 1>was running all around and then she was hungry and <v Speaker 1>she's like, I'll just grab a little snack and I'll <v Speaker 1>eat it, and the only things available she didn't want <v Speaker 1>to eat. She's like, well, I'm just gonna wait. Then <v Speaker 1>she kept fasting and then time kept going and then <v Speaker 1>she's like, I'm not even hungry. I don't even want <v Speaker 1>to eat now. So she decided to switch to a <v Speaker 1>full fast down day and just follow it with an <v Speaker 1>up day. You know, three meals, breakfast, lunch, dinner. But <v Speaker 1>as soon as that switch flips and you're running on <v Speaker 1>stored fuel, you may just lose all interest in food. <v Speaker 1>So but yeah, super Villain before Superpower later love that. Yeah, yeah. <v Speaker 1>So now we have a question from a listener. This <v Speaker 1>question is from Sally in Ontario and Canada. She said, Hello, <v Speaker 1>my darlings, that's how she spelled it. I like that. Today, <v Speaker 1>January twenty eighth is my first festiversary. This past year <v Speaker 1>has been an interesting journey. I'll be seventy years old <v Speaker 1>in five weeks. I'm five foot three and started my <v Speaker 1>fasting journey at one hundred and sixty two point five pounds. <v Speaker 1>Today i'm one hundred and thirty four pounds. My eyes <v Speaker 1>cannot believe the scale. I have not been this weight <v Speaker 1>since the early eighties. Like so many of us, my <v Speaker 1>body issues and weight issues have plagued me since I <v Speaker 1>was fifteen years old. My peak weight in my mid <v Speaker 1>twenties was one hundred and eighty pounds. I've always been <v Speaker 1>an active woman, and still i am. I do weights <v Speaker 1>three times a week, distance swimming once a week, golf <v Speaker 1>twice a week, pilates both teaching and participating once a week. <v Speaker 1>I also like to walk when my arthritic hips will <v Speaker 1>allow me. I am prove that you cannot exercise your <v Speaker 1>way out of a poor diet. I'm writing to encourage <v Speaker 1>anyone my age to know that they can successfully lose weight. <v Speaker 1>My protocol is a five hour window one thirty to <v Speaker 1>six thirty. I did a twenty four hour fast once <v Speaker 1>to see if I could do it. I eat healthy <v Speaker 1>and clean most of the time when food choices are <v Speaker 1>in my control. I also love a martini before dinner <v Speaker 1>and enjoy one five days a week. I lost twenty <v Speaker 1>four pounds and twenty four weeks. The other four and <v Speaker 1>a half pounds have taken six months ups and downs, life, holidays, <v Speaker 1>et cetera. Also, because I'm near my goal weight of <v Speaker 1>one hundred and thirty pounds, fat loss has slowed down. <v Speaker 1>I don't mind. This means I'm getting good at maintenance. <v Speaker 1>I have to confess I really struggled over Christmas for <v Speaker 1>a few weeks with all the goodies in the house. Yes, <v Speaker 1>you can eat frozen cookies. Life stress lately has causing <v Speaker 1>me to munch and widen my window. But I'm back <v Speaker 1>on track, evidenced by a new low weight today. I <v Speaker 1>do not want to get too light. To quote the <v Speaker 1>beautiful Catherine Denerve, sometimes you have to sacrifice the hips <v Speaker 1>to save the face. Too thin is not a good <v Speaker 1>look on an older woman. Also, hanging skin is a <v Speaker 1>bit of an issue, but mine is not too bad. <v Speaker 1>I am almost seventy. Hanging skin is inevitable. However, friends <v Speaker 1>that took the GLP one route have serious hanging skin <v Speaker 1>from rapid weight loss. I look good in my much <v Speaker 1>smaller clothes. All in all, I am thrilled with the <v Speaker 1>new meat. I knew I needed to lose some weight, <v Speaker 1>but I sure didn't think it was thirty five pounds. <v Speaker 1>I tended to be top heavy. I measured myself today <v Speaker 1>and here is my fat loss result. Bust three and <v Speaker 1>a half inches wasist five and a half inches, hips <v Speaker 1>two and a half inches, and two inches off each thigh. <v Speaker 1>I can kick myself for not doing more detailed measurements <v Speaker 1>as suggested. As the fat has come off everywhere. One <v Speaker 1>day I noticed I could see the bones in my wrists. <v Speaker 1>They used to be puffy. My knees are smaller, so <v Speaker 1>much backfat gone. My fast is one hundred percent clean <v Speaker 1>other than an allergy pill. And by the way, if <v Speaker 1>you have to take an alergiae pill, I think that's clean. <v Speaker 1>That's fine medication when we need it, not a big deal. <v Speaker 1>Sometimes I still get a little shaky about one PM. <v Speaker 1>This past year has also been a good time to <v Speaker 1>work on my microbiome as well. Three questions. I am <v Speaker 1>fat adapted, so why am I hungry? I feel like <v Speaker 1>I'm white knuckling it more than I should be at <v Speaker 1>this stage, even fast days after no alcohol as well? <v Speaker 1>Does my body want me to eat more and gain <v Speaker 1>the fat back? <v Speaker 2>When people ask this, it's hard for us to answer completely. <v Speaker 2>Should you be a fat adapted Absolutely yes, you've been <v Speaker 2>fasting for a year, You're maintaining a five hour eating window, <v Speaker 2>so yes, theoretically you should be fat adapted and you <v Speaker 2>should be shifting into ketosis every day. Now. I have <v Speaker 2>no idea, and I have no idea when people say <v Speaker 2>this is my window? Am I fat adapted? Am I <v Speaker 2>shifting into cosis? That you're gonna have to go based <v Speaker 2>off of how you feel, because we don't know how <v Speaker 2>your body uses energy. We don't know how much energy <v Speaker 2>you're putting into your body in the form of food. <v Speaker 2>We don't know how you eat. <v Speaker 1>She said, she's very active, so that's important, right. <v Speaker 2>So the fact that you are very active, you are <v Speaker 2>losing fat, and you're feeling great tells me that you <v Speaker 2>are fat adapted. So why are you hungry? Number One? <v Speaker 2>You did say you're taking an allergy pill, and allergy <v Speaker 2>pills do increase krillin the hunger hormone. So if you're <v Speaker 2>taking the allergy pill in the morning, I would suggest <v Speaker 2>taking most of them are a twenty four hour, once <v Speaker 2>a day pill, I would suggest taking it at night <v Speaker 2>and see if that helps. That's when I take mine <v Speaker 2>because then as you're getting deep into your fast, every <v Speaker 2>medication and has a half life, and so as you're <v Speaker 2>deeper into that twenty four hours, the amount of medication <v Speaker 2>in your system is decreasing. So in my mind, it <v Speaker 2>makes sense that my hunger is going to be less <v Speaker 2>later later in that twenty four hour period. So if <v Speaker 2>you're white knuckling it, either the food that you're eating <v Speaker 2>the day before is not benefiting you during the fast. <v Speaker 2>As far as I know, there are foods that make <v Speaker 2>me hungrier the next day. Too much sugar, too much alcohol, <v Speaker 2>too many simple carbs, not enough protein, or you're not <v Speaker 2>eating enough. And if you're really active, you may just <v Speaker 2>need to eat more in your window. <v Speaker 1>Yea and a lot of it. Also, is what do <v Speaker 1>you mean by white knuckling. Is it because you really <v Speaker 1>want to eat and you're becoming just thinking about eating, <v Speaker 1>or you really physically hungry? <v Speaker 2>Right? Is it mental hunger? <v Speaker 1>Right? <v Speaker 2>Emotional hunger? Is it physical? <v Speaker 1>Because you could be having mental hunger and emotional hunger <v Speaker 1>and be one hundred percent fat adapted and having mental <v Speaker 1>and emotional hunger because you want to eat, you know, <v Speaker 1>for your feelings or because of the emotional reasons. Boredom, Yeah, <v Speaker 1>bored I'm eating all clock hunger. It's really important to <v Speaker 1>figure out are you physically having hunger? If you're getting shaky, <v Speaker 1>that's physical you Also, I always say this to people <v Speaker 1>in the community, you know, double check that you're fast <v Speaker 1>is completely clean. And there was somebody in the community <v Speaker 1>this week whose husband is having a really hard time <v Speaker 1>and she's like, yeah, he's clean fasting and I said, <v Speaker 1>what's he having? And then she said instant coffee? Yes, <v Speaker 1>you remember that one. And I'm like, and I said, <v Speaker 1>try about the instant coffee because I'm always very suspicious <v Speaker 1>of the instant coffee and that might be what's causing <v Speaker 1>the problem. So they were convinced or he's just having <v Speaker 1>black coffee, but it was black instant coffee. So really <v Speaker 1>think about all of those things, and if something doesn't <v Speaker 1>feel right, there might be something going on that you're <v Speaker 1>not sure about. So does your body want you to <v Speaker 1>eat more and gain the fat back? I mean, if <v Speaker 1>your body thinks you're at a weight that's unhealthily low, <v Speaker 1>or if you're over restricting by accident, then increased hunger <v Speaker 1>is going to be your body saying help. So that <v Speaker 1>would be what you need to think about. If you're <v Speaker 1>under eating. And we can't tell you for sure, but <v Speaker 1>you know you mentioned you have a five hour window <v Speaker 1>one thirty to six thirty. In five hours. We can <v Speaker 1>under eat in five hours, we can eat just thriwte <v Speaker 1>them out. In five hours, we can overeat. We could <v Speaker 1>do it all within five hours, right, And there's so <v Speaker 1>much more to it than just how long your window is, <v Speaker 1>and even how many meals you're having. Somebody could have <v Speaker 1>two meals and they're tiny because you're just a restrained eater, <v Speaker 1>where someone else could have two meals and they're huge, <v Speaker 1>and now you're overeating so many factors. All right, So <v Speaker 1>another question. I know I'm almost seventy and we lose <v Speaker 1>girlish hair as we age, but I seem to have <v Speaker 1>lost hair on my arms and legs this year. I <v Speaker 1>don't mind, but is this age or fasting? Okay, what <v Speaker 1>do you know about that? <v Speaker 2>Share? So this question, paired with the other question, does <v Speaker 2>make me concern that you could potentially be undernourishing your body. <v Speaker 2>And here's why. There are some nutrient deficiencies that can <v Speaker 2>cause hair loss on the body. And then let's just <v Speaker 2>go on. Her third question was, I'm in Florida for <v Speaker 2>the winter. Why am I cold all the time? So <v Speaker 2>under nourishing, being underweight, having thyroid issues can make you <v Speaker 2>feel cold all the time. Having thyroid issues can also <v Speaker 2>cause you to lose body hair. Yeah, so the first <v Speaker 2>thing I'm going to tell you is to visit a doctor, <v Speaker 2>have a full thyroid panel run. And then on top <v Speaker 2>of that, being low and iron can cause hair loss <v Speaker 2>on the body, and vitamin B twelve deficiency, for instance, <v Speaker 2>can make you feel cold all the time. And so <v Speaker 2>if you're under nourishing and you have any issues with <v Speaker 2>iron or BE twelve deficiency or zinc deficiency, that could <v Speaker 2>cause some of these other issues. Not eating enough protein <v Speaker 2>could affect your hair growth. Protein is thermogetic, so it <v Speaker 2>could also make you feel cold if you're not eating <v Speaker 2>enough protein. So all of your questions go together. Make <v Speaker 2>me really wonder if you're not eating enough in your <v Speaker 2>eating window, and if you can't eat more in your <v Speaker 2>five hour eating window and you are close to your <v Speaker 2>maintenance weight, which I ran your numbers, and you are <v Speaker 2>at a healthy weight right now, I wonder if you're <v Speaker 2>unnecessarily over restricting, over restricting undernourishing. When you couple with <v Speaker 2>that you are doing weight training and that you're active, <v Speaker 2>and if you just can't eat more in a five <v Speaker 2>hour eating window, perhaps have some days where you just <v Speaker 2>lengthen your eating window and eat a little bit more <v Speaker 2>and that may be all you need. But if it continues, <v Speaker 2>definitely get some lab work done. Definitely and check your <v Speaker 2>B twelve, check your vitamin D levels, check your thyroid hormones, <v Speaker 2>check your iron levels. <v Speaker 1>Yeah, and it just really like we said, you can <v Speaker 1>under nourish in five hours, you can also overeat in <v Speaker 1>five hours. So that's why this is so very much. <v Speaker 1>We say all the time, it's a study of one <v Speaker 1>and also we continue to say tweak it till it's easy, <v Speaker 1>because the way that you like to eat will determine <v Speaker 1>the window that works well for you. Someone might be <v Speaker 1>such a light eater that they cannot get by on <v Speaker 1>less than eight hours. They need to have an eight <v Speaker 1>hour window because otherwise they're going to accidentally over restrict, <v Speaker 1>whereas somebody else might eat so much in four hours <v Speaker 1>that it's too much. Just depending on what you're eating <v Speaker 1>and how calorie dentse it is and that sort of thing. <v Speaker 1>So I think we talked about this last week that <v Speaker 1>you know, we're not fans of calorie counting, and we <v Speaker 1>understand all the flaws in calorie counting, but if you <v Speaker 1>are ever suspicious that you are undernourishing your body, just <v Speaker 1>eat the way you normally do and at the end <v Speaker 1>of the window, go back and try to figure out <v Speaker 1>how many calories chay. <v Speaker 2>Yeah, yeah, and the fact that she lost twenty four <v Speaker 2>pounds in twenty four weeks. That is a lot rapid <v Speaker 2>rate of loss, kind of above and beyond what we <v Speaker 2>see as typical. And the fact that you have a <v Speaker 2>very long history of body issues weight issues. You said, <v Speaker 2>what can happen over time is that we become adapted <v Speaker 2>to dieting, right, And so if your body's already adapted <v Speaker 2>to quote dieting and eating in a way that has <v Speaker 2>resulted in weight loss over the years. And then you <v Speaker 2>start eating in an eating window and you are not <v Speaker 2>eating more in that five hours than you would, it <v Speaker 2>would make sense to me that you're under nourishing. So <v Speaker 2>I mean, that's where I'm leaning towards, is that you <v Speaker 2>just need to eat more. <v Speaker 1>Yeah, that could absolutely be it. <v Speaker 2>And then definitely try move in an allergy pill tonight <v Speaker 2>time instead of you know, during the day of that's <v Speaker 2>when you're taking it. Yeah. And then the part about <v Speaker 2>getting shaky at one o'clock, you says your window is <v Speaker 2>normally one thirty to six thirty. You shouldn't be getting shaky. No, <v Speaker 2>So that again, take a look at what you're ingesting <v Speaker 2>during your fast. Are you using some type of electrolytes, <v Speaker 2>are you drinking instant coffee. Are you drinking some sort <v Speaker 2>of bottled tea or coffee and take a look at <v Speaker 2>that and check the ingredients in what you're taking. <v Speaker 1>Yeah, those are all good points, all right. <v Speaker 2>So we have a question from Regina in Mackinaw, Illinois. <v Speaker 2>She said, Hi, Jenna Sherry, thank you for all you <v Speaker 2>do for the intermittent fasting community. I've learned so much <v Speaker 2>from from the podcast Engine's books. My question. I know <v Speaker 2>I'm technically always in fasting, but I've recently recommitted after <v Speaker 2>a couple of years of doing it my own way <v Speaker 2>unsuccessfully for the last couple months. At about the fourteen <v Speaker 2>hour mark, I get nauseous. It lasts about twenty minutes <v Speaker 2>and then magically goes away. I didn't experience this in <v Speaker 2>twenty twenty two when I fasted for about a year. <v Speaker 2>I clean fast just black coffee and water. Is this <v Speaker 2>a signal that I'm switching to fat burning or something else. <v Speaker 2>It doesn't happen every day, but I would say fifty <v Speaker 2>percent of the time. Thank you for your help. <v Speaker 1>All right, Regina, again, this is one of the things <v Speaker 1>I would have you really examine your fast just like <v Speaker 1>we said. You said, just black coffee and water. If <v Speaker 1>it is black coffee that you're brewing yourself, it's plain, unflavored, <v Speaker 1>just regular regular coffee, not like hazel nut or something, <v Speaker 1>just black coffee beans, nothing added. You brew it yourself. <v Speaker 1>That's one thing. But if you're drinking anything bottled an <v Speaker 1>instant coffee, move away from those and brew it yourself. <v Speaker 1>A lot of times people think they're having black coffee <v Speaker 1>when they're really having like the bottled products have like <v Speaker 1>I don't know, coffee extract or natural flavors and those <v Speaker 1>break of fast just I always dig down when people <v Speaker 1>tell me they're struggling and that they're having black coffee, <v Speaker 1>I'm like, tell me exactly what your coffee is. And <v Speaker 1>a lot of the time it's something like that person <v Speaker 1>in the community that's drinking the instant, or her husbands <v Speaker 1>drinking the instant, or someone all is using a well <v Speaker 1>known cold brew brand that has added flavor and natural <v Speaker 1>flavors and it's not like vanilla or hazelnut, but it's <v Speaker 1>just like in the ingredients list or citric acid in there. <v Speaker 1>So really really check your black coffee. Also, if you're <v Speaker 1>taking any supplements or medications, look at those because nausea <v Speaker 1>every day is not really what we expect from fasting. <v Speaker 2>Right, Yeah, And the fact that it's always happening at <v Speaker 2>the fourteen hour mark if you keep a consistent window, <v Speaker 2>like I don't know what fourteen hours is to you, <v Speaker 2>fourteen hours to me is around ten thirty in the morning. <v Speaker 2>So could it be that maybe your body's not handling <v Speaker 2>black coffee on an empty stomach well, and it's making <v Speaker 2>you a little queasy. Are you taking some sort of <v Speaker 2>vitamin that morning? Are you ingesting anything prior? So see <v Speaker 2>if you can keep tabs on what you're doing around <v Speaker 2>that mark that could be causing it. Could it be <v Speaker 2>stress related? Could it be you take a hot shower <v Speaker 2>at that time every morning, and you know a hot <v Speaker 2>shower can cause you to release It raises your blood <v Speaker 2>sugar up a little bit, and then your body spurts <v Speaker 2>out a little insulin to bring it back down. It <v Speaker 2>could be that you're sensitive to that and you're feeling it. <v Speaker 2>So a quick way is if you have this little <v Speaker 2>thing of nausea and maybe your body's just not effortlessly <v Speaker 2>flipping the switch. I've said this before, five to ten <v Speaker 2>minutes of some sort of brisk exercise, go run the stairs. <v Speaker 2>If you're at work, stand up at your desk, march <v Speaker 2>in place for five minutes real quick. That can help <v Speaker 2>your body flip the switch. It'll get your blood sugar <v Speaker 2>up if it's a blood sugar issue, and can potentially <v Speaker 2>make you feel better. <v Speaker 1>Yep. <v Speaker 2>We've had people write in saying that that tricks help <v Speaker 2>them a lot. <v Speaker 1>So now it's time for our segment called What's Your Why. <v Speaker 1>Most of us begin intermittent fasting with weight loss in mind, <v Speaker 1>which is a great reason to begin, but we know <v Speaker 1>there is so much more that intermittent fasting can do <v Speaker 1>for us beyond weight loss. I genuinely believe that when <v Speaker 1>your why is deeper than weight loss alone, you're more <v Speaker 1>likely to find long term success and view intermittent fasting <v Speaker 1>as a lifestyle. <v Speaker 2>So this week we have a why from Virginia from Australia, <v Speaker 2>and I have a feeling this is our Virginia from <v Speaker 2>the community. <v Speaker 1>Yep. <v Speaker 2>She said. Firstly, thank you Jenny Sherry for this podcast <v Speaker 2>and the community that you have created. I look forward <v Speaker 2>to each episode and the information and encouragement I know <v Speaker 2>I know I'll get as I listen each week. When <v Speaker 2>I first joined the community. My why was definitely to <v Speaker 2>lose some weight. Just more than a year ago, on <v Speaker 2>Christmas Day, at a family gathering, I was impressed at <v Speaker 2>how lean and fit my ex husband and my sister <v Speaker 2>in law were looking. They had both lost their weight <v Speaker 2>through fasting. My ex husband had lost about eight kilograms <v Speaker 2>and my sister in law about twenty kilograms. After questioning <v Speaker 2>them about their weight loss, they told me they had <v Speaker 2>discovered fasting and told me to look up doctor Jason <v Speaker 2>Fung on YouTube and his books, which I bought. This <v Speaker 2>led me to find Jin in the DDD community. I <v Speaker 2>have been a member for over a year and I've <v Speaker 2>lost about nine kilograms. I am now at my correct <v Speaker 2>weight for my height and age, and I am now <v Speaker 2>in maintenance. I still have squishy bits, especially around my tummy, <v Speaker 2>but at nearly seventy I'm just going to accept that <v Speaker 2>I'm never going to have a six pack. I've learned <v Speaker 2>how to dress to disguise my squishy bits and enhance <v Speaker 2>my good bits. <v Speaker 1>I love that me too. <v Speaker 2>We all have squishybits. Yeah, why I'm is It's became <v Speaker 2>clear to me a couple of weeks ago that my <v Speaker 2>why has changed. We've been helping my daughter get her <v Speaker 2>apartment ready to sell, and the day before it went <v Speaker 2>on to the market, we had a full day of <v Speaker 2>hard work. I usually start eating around two PM, but <v Speaker 2>because we were busy, we skipped lunch. By the time <v Speaker 2>we got to dinner at the Italian restaurant we often <v Speaker 2>go to, I was really hungry. The pizza and salad <v Speaker 2>was delicious, and we shared a bottle of red wine <v Speaker 2>and as usual, had a gelato as we walked back <v Speaker 2>to the car. As we drove home, I felt really happy. <v Speaker 2>I was happy because I realized that with my new <v Speaker 2>fasting lifestyle, I was able to fast easily until dinner time. <v Speaker 2>I was happy that because I waited, I was really <v Speaker 2>hungry and so the food was really delicious. And I <v Speaker 2>was happy that because I had fasted, there was no <v Speaker 2>guilt about the wine or gelato after. On the way home, <v Speaker 2>I was thinking about the following week that was to come. <v Speaker 2>At three day school reunion that I've just had, I <v Speaker 2>knew that there were going to be two dinners out <v Speaker 2>and a full day picnic of ea eating and grazing, <v Speaker 2>but I felt no worry about the food or guilt <v Speaker 2>as I would have in the past. I knew that <v Speaker 2>on the days with the dinners, I could do my <v Speaker 2>usual fast, which I did, and on the Sunday I <v Speaker 2>just sat and grazed and enjoyed myself without guilt. I <v Speaker 2>also knew that I would be doing a mealless Monday, <v Speaker 2>which I did, and I really enjoyed it after the <v Speaker 2>weekend full of food and drink. So after that long <v Speaker 2>winded tail, the moral of my story is that my <v Speaker 2>why now has changed from weight loss. As I head <v Speaker 2>to my seventieth birthday, my why is to maintain my weight, <v Speaker 2>to enjoy the fact that I can enjoy great food, <v Speaker 2>have indulgences every now and then without guilt, and know <v Speaker 2>that the fasting lifestyle is the right path for me. Well, <v Speaker 2>I love that, and I'm gonna be honest. I think <v Speaker 2>we all need to let go of food guilt. Yeah, <v Speaker 2>food is necessary for our bodies, and food is delicious, <v Speaker 2>not all food. Food should be delicious. If it's not delicious, <v Speaker 2>don't eat it, don't eat it. Find something that is delicious. <v Speaker 2>Life's too short to eat food that's not delicious. It's true, <v Speaker 2>and we should be able to eat enjoy food with <v Speaker 2>zero guilt. <v Speaker 1>It's pleasurable for a reason. You know, things that are <v Speaker 1>pleasurable for humans are pleasurable because we should be doing them. <v Speaker 1>We should be eating right, and we should enjoy. We <v Speaker 1>should feast. You know, every major religion has fasting but <v Speaker 1>also feasting. We're in the season of Lent right now <v Speaker 1>as we're recording this, and it's a season of fasting <v Speaker 1>and then there's a feast. But you know, we have <v Speaker 1>feasts on the holidays, and we're not meant to just <v Speaker 1>feel guilty about all of them, right, We're not supposed <v Speaker 1>to be perpetually feasting or perpetually fasting. It's the balance <v Speaker 1>that matters, all right. <v Speaker 2>So we have a question from Oh no, our coffee <v Speaker 2>might not be clean in Wisconsin. My coffee is from <v Speaker 2>the Black Rifle Coffee Company and the ingredients say one <v Speaker 2>hundred percent coffee. Yay. However, I kept reading the package <v Speaker 2>and they mentioned tasting notes that include cocoa and vanilla aroma, <v Speaker 2>bold tasting notes, and a smooth, buttery finish. Every single <v Speaker 2>ground coffee in the stores we shop have a description <v Speaker 2>mentioning notes of this and the aroma of that. Help. <v Speaker 2>Can you please refers to a brand or two that <v Speaker 2>for sure will not break the fast. If rifle isn't <v Speaker 2>what we hope it is, Google is not very helpful, <v Speaker 2>please and thank you. <v Speaker 1>All right, So let's talk about the most confusing thing <v Speaker 1>about coffee, and that is tasting notes. So you can <v Speaker 1>ignore tasting notes. That's a marketing strategy. And you know, <v Speaker 1>like cocoa and vanilla, bold tasting, smooth, buttery, finish. I <v Speaker 1>just taste coffee. When I drink black coffee, I don't <v Speaker 1>taste all that. And you know, is it possible there <v Speaker 1>could be a coffee that for some reason your taste <v Speaker 1>buds pick it up and its your fast causes a <v Speaker 1>cephalic phase insulin response. Yes, for me, that happens, and <v Speaker 1>I haven't had it in years because I know it <v Speaker 1>doesn't work for me. Starbucks, what is it? Nitro cold brew? <v Speaker 1>Their nitro cold brew should not break a fast. It <v Speaker 1>is just black coffee, and they put the nitro in <v Speaker 1>it to make it foamy. But when it first came out, <v Speaker 1>their slogan was creamy without cream sweet, without sweetener whatever, <v Speaker 1>So it's just the coffee, the nitro. But it was <v Speaker 1>just coffee. So I'm like, well, if regular coffee doesn't <v Speaker 1>break my fast, this should be fine. Well, I tried <v Speaker 1>the nitro cold brew more than once, and I clearly <v Speaker 1>had a hunger response because I was starving in a <v Speaker 1>different way. That means my fast had been broken. So <v Speaker 1>I can't drink that, even though technically I should be <v Speaker 1>able to. So is it possible you could end up <v Speaker 1>with some kind of coffee with tasting notes that your <v Speaker 1>brain does perceive that coffee in a way that your <v Speaker 1>brain thinks is you're going to need some insulin. Yes, <v Speaker 1>but I've never had a regular black coffee do that <v Speaker 1>for me. Like you know, just based on the tasting notes, <v Speaker 1>that doesn't mean it couldn't happen. There might be some <v Speaker 1>brands that don't work for certain people, but if the <v Speaker 1>only ingredient is coffee, it should be fine. So again <v Speaker 1>we've touched on this through every question today so far. <v Speaker 1>When you look at instant coffee, that can break a <v Speaker 1>fast for some people, even if the only ingredients are <v Speaker 1>coffee and then you add water. So instant coffee can <v Speaker 1>be tricky. Bottled coffee products, bottled tea products. You want <v Speaker 1>the only ingredients to be coffee and water. Tea and water, <v Speaker 1>so if you're brewing it at home, you can ignore <v Speaker 1>tasting notes, don't get the flavored. If it says hazelnut coffee, <v Speaker 1>then obviously no vanilla coffee. But if it just has <v Speaker 1>tasting notes, you can ignore that unless you notice it <v Speaker 1>makes you feel different, in which case that particular one <v Speaker 1>might not work for you. There are some rare people <v Speaker 1>who can't drink coffee at all. Coffee makes some hungry, <v Speaker 1>very few people, but there are a few they just <v Speaker 1>can't do the coffee. And so this is where you <v Speaker 1>really need to experiment to figure it out, because I <v Speaker 1>can't say here's a universal brand that every person will <v Speaker 1>be able to drink and have no problem. Because that <v Speaker 1>person you can't drink coffee. That won't work for them. <v Speaker 1>Do you have anything to add to that. <v Speaker 2>The other one that has recently come to my notice <v Speaker 2>that a few people struggle with are espressos. Some espressos, <v Speaker 2>even if it's black. I believe it is the creamy <v Speaker 2>mouth feel, and I think that's what the nitro coldrew <v Speaker 2>does for you. Cap Probably it's that sort of creamy <v Speaker 2>mouth feel that if your brain loves creamy foods, and <v Speaker 2>we know Jen does. She likes her butter uh dow. <v Speaker 2>So if cream is something that makes your brain light <v Speaker 2>up that it's possible that, yeah, you could have an <v Speaker 2>insulin release from that. So, like a lady that's in <v Speaker 2>our community, she's one of my coaching clients, all of <v Speaker 2>a sudden, fasting got really hard. The only thing she changed, <v Speaker 2>and it took her months to figure it out, was <v Speaker 2>that she was switched to an espresso Is it an <v Speaker 2>espresso Yeah, yeah, the little like cartresso pods. Yes, they <v Speaker 2>were just black coffee. But when she went on a <v Speaker 2>vacation and she didn't have access to that and switched <v Speaker 2>to regular drip brewed black coffee, suddenly fasting was easy <v Speaker 2>again for her. So she went home and she tried <v Speaker 2>the espresso pods again, realized that she was starving during <v Speaker 2>her fast again, and so she has stopped drinking those <v Speaker 2>in her fast. And so that's one of those things <v Speaker 2>where if you think something is causing you a problem, <v Speaker 2>fast for several days without it and see if you <v Speaker 2>can tell a difference. <v Speaker 1>Yeah, that's a great idea. Coffee and tea. You wouldn't <v Speaker 1>think they'd be confusing, but they really are, all right. <v Speaker 1>The next question is from night eater in New York City, <v Speaker 1>who could really use the help of the two people <v Speaker 1>whose food advice I trust the most. I wrote this <v Speaker 1>whole thing out to you, and somehow I messed up <v Speaker 1>the Google doc and I got eraised some starting again, <v Speaker 1>because that's just what we intermittent fasters do, right, We <v Speaker 1>don't beat ourselves up, and we just start again. Anyway, <v Speaker 1>I'll skip some of the praises that I put in <v Speaker 1>my last email, but suffice to say I've listened to <v Speaker 1>every word either of you has uttered on every one <v Speaker 1>of your podcasts, at least once. I've also read every <v Speaker 1>single word Jen is written, even a fake Jen who <v Speaker 1>was briefly on Ansaws. Oh gosh, that's so funny. Yeah, <v Speaker 1>darn those crazy writers out there, those fake books. Anyway, <v Speaker 1>I won't drudge those up, but I'm sure they're not <v Speaker 1>particularly wonderful memories for you. In terms of Jen's books, <v Speaker 1>I also just wanted to say that I surprised myself <v Speaker 1>and that Cleanish was my favorite one so far. I <v Speaker 1>loved them all, and I go back and reread parts <v Speaker 1>of all of them, but that's the one I learned <v Speaker 1>the most from. There was so much incredible information in <v Speaker 1>there that I had never heard before, and all presented <v Speaker 1>in your wonderfully conversational ways that I could actually understand it. <v Speaker 1>I will also say how much I'm truly looking forward <v Speaker 1>to eating like a grown up. That even pertains to <v Speaker 1>my question for you today. I love and trust you <v Speaker 1>both so much, and I appreciate everything you do for <v Speaker 1>all of us. The background is that I've been intermittent <v Speaker 1>fasting for probably about seven years now, even though I <v Speaker 1>haven't kept dates on it. I met a healthy, very <v Speaker 1>stable weight and have great energy that comes from If <v Speaker 1>I'm struggling to maintain my five foot four inches as <v Speaker 1>I get older, I guess it means her height is <v Speaker 1>kind of shrinking a little bit yep. And my weight <v Speaker 1>ranges between about one hundred and ten and one hundred <v Speaker 1>and fifteen, but I'm very active and the weight is <v Speaker 1>never an issue, partly thanks to intermittent and fasting and <v Speaker 1>partly thanks to genetics. And I realize that weight is <v Speaker 1>on the lower side, and I sometimes make adjustments such <v Speaker 1>as adding in extra nut butters and more bread to <v Speaker 1>bring it back up a little bit. I'm sixty three <v Speaker 1>years old and generally follow a protocol of about nineteen five, <v Speaker 1>but sometimes it's more like twenty four, depending and part <v Speaker 1>of that depending is what I am about to ask you, <v Speaker 1>which is a problem that has been bothering me for many, <v Speaker 1>many years, even decades. Whenever you say that everyone fast <v Speaker 1>because we're all asleep for roughly eight hours and we're <v Speaker 1>fasting when we're asleep, that has not always been the <v Speaker 1>case for me. Unfortunately, I am one of those people <v Speaker 1>who gets up in the night to eat. This has <v Speaker 1>been going on for decades and is not attributed to fasting. <v Speaker 1>I thought fasting might correct my urge for this late <v Speaker 1>night eating, but it has only transferred a little bit <v Speaker 1>to where I'll keep myself up very late into the <v Speaker 1>night continuing to eat, rather than actually falling asleep and <v Speaker 1>getting up continually. I know that it is psychological, and <v Speaker 1>I do have trauma in my past sexual inappropriateness from <v Speaker 1>a family member. I'm so sorry to hear that. Oh gosh, <v Speaker 1>I know that's a hard one that I think ties <v Speaker 1>into why going to sleep for many years was very <v Speaker 1>difficult and scary for me. I totally get that makes sense. <v Speaker 1>I will just interject that at one point, again many <v Speaker 1>years ago, I was doing things like taking a box <v Speaker 1>of cereal to bed with me at night and continuing <v Speaker 1>to eat it until I fell asleep, usually waking up <v Speaker 1>with it. It was always something with carbs, and then <v Speaker 1>I got onto an antidepressant and that abated quite a bit, <v Speaker 1>but it never went away. I do open my window <v Speaker 1>very late, and part of the reason for that is <v Speaker 1>because I have a very easy time fasting all day <v Speaker 1>and I never ever have an urge to open my window. <v Speaker 1>So if I open it later, at least, I'll still <v Speaker 1>only be having a four or five hour window once <v Speaker 1>I'm done with my late night eating. But this is <v Speaker 1>clearly disruptive to my sleep and getting to bed so late, <v Speaker 1>and it's not the way I want to be living. <v Speaker 1>I will also say that I'm one of those people <v Speaker 1>who cannot fall asleep on anything but a relatively full stomach. <v Speaker 1>It feels nearly impossible to fall asleep when hungry, though <v Speaker 1>I have been forced to do it at times when <v Speaker 1>there were no good food options around. I should also <v Speaker 1>say that there were times in my life when I <v Speaker 1>would wake up go to the kitchen and then I <v Speaker 1>didn't go as far as cooking a rose to eating <v Speaker 1>it or anything like that, but I was back and <v Speaker 1>forth in the kitchen all throughout the night. Now I'm <v Speaker 1>back and forth in the kitchen just into the wee hours, <v Speaker 1>and then I do finally go to sleep. I hope <v Speaker 1>I've articulated this well enough for you to help me. <v Speaker 1>If not, I'm happy to write out more details. I <v Speaker 1>truly believe that you two are the folks who can <v Speaker 1>best advise me on this, and I believe that my <v Speaker 1>intermittent fasting schedule could be helpful with this problem. I <v Speaker 1>am worried that if you say, just open the window earlier, <v Speaker 1>that I will just have a really long window, because <v Speaker 1>I've tried to do that a number of times, and <v Speaker 1>that's exactly what's happened. I simply can't close my window <v Speaker 1>at night, or I feel that I haven't always psychologically, <v Speaker 1>mostly so on the days that I have intentionally opened <v Speaker 1>it earlier, I end up with a window of eight <v Speaker 1>to ten hours, and I don't feel as good or <v Speaker 1>get the clarity benefits I get from a shorter window. <v Speaker 1>Thank you again for everything you do. I truly love <v Speaker 1>you both and feel that you're my friends. I don't <v Speaker 1>want to end without saying how much I absolutely love <v Speaker 1>the entire intermittent fasting lifestyle, and this is just one <v Speaker 1>particular glitch that seems to be pretty unique to me <v Speaker 1>and maybe a few others. My doctors can't believe my <v Speaker 1>numbers and always tell me that I have the blood <v Speaker 1>results of someone taking that foreman or other medications. I <v Speaker 1>don't take anything. They are always in awe of how <v Speaker 1>great my numbers are, and I feel great too, So <v Speaker 1>I don't want to take anything away from how much <v Speaker 1>I love fasting and the two of you. Thanks again. <v Speaker 2>Okay, Well, I did run your numbers through the smart <v Speaker 2>BMI calculator, and I just want you to know that <v Speaker 2>one fifteen is the absolute lowest weight that is considered <v Speaker 2>to be a healthy weight for you. Even at one twelve, <v Speaker 2>it has you in an underweight category, and I'm wondering <v Speaker 2>if that has anything to do with your sort of <v Speaker 2>drive to eat. You know, like you said, a lot <v Speaker 2>of this is psychological potentially, and that makes sense. You know, <v Speaker 2>if you did not have comfort in the night and <v Speaker 2>food became your comfort in the night, then I can <v Speaker 2>see how that is just a habit that's carried you <v Speaker 2>through life. And yeah, you're sixty three years old, but <v Speaker 2>I also don't think that you're ever too young to <v Speaker 2>try to overcome and heal some of those past traumas, <v Speaker 2>and so I don't know if you've ever spoke to <v Speaker 2>a therapist about this, but it certainly couldn't hurt in <v Speaker 2>an effort to try to resolve this trauma so that <v Speaker 2>you can move forward without it affecting your daily life <v Speaker 2>or your sleeping life. As far as you know, if <v Speaker 2>you like your late night eating and it's not bothering <v Speaker 2>you and you're healthy, then go for it. I really <v Speaker 2>wonder if the reason why you think the late night <v Speaker 2>eating is beneficial is because you just eat and then <v Speaker 2>you go to sleep and you don't know that you're <v Speaker 2>hungry and the fact that you're very thin. If you're <v Speaker 2>eating during the day and you close your window and <v Speaker 2>you have several hours before bed and then you get <v Speaker 2>hungry again, that really could be your body prompting you <v Speaker 2>to eat more. And so you're kind of overriding that <v Speaker 2>internal drive to eat more by just going to sleep <v Speaker 2>before it happens. You're kind of circumventing it with sleep. <v Speaker 2>It's not that easy for me to tell you what <v Speaker 2>the right answer is. If you had a lot of <v Speaker 2>weight to lose, then I would just suspect this was <v Speaker 2>all sort of a psychological component, but the fact that <v Speaker 2>you are very thin for your age and height does <v Speaker 2>lead me to believe that some of this could be <v Speaker 2>a physiological need to eat more. So you say sometimes <v Speaker 2>you do twenty four and that you generally do nineteen five. <v Speaker 2>I would just open your window earlier, make sure that <v Speaker 2>you are eating sufficiently and that you're not trying to <v Speaker 2>restrict your food, that you're eating in abundance, that you're <v Speaker 2>eating a well balanced diet. And then there's a lot <v Speaker 2>of like even online CBT type apps where you can <v Speaker 2>do sleep training and basically kind of reset your body <v Speaker 2>so that you can go to sleep easier without feeling <v Speaker 2>like you need to kind of lull yourself to sleep <v Speaker 2>with food. And I'm just gonna be honest, this is <v Speaker 2>one of these things, especially with your history, that I <v Speaker 2>feel like is really outside of our scope of really <v Speaker 2>being to help you with. I can help you with <v Speaker 2>the fasting, we can help you with the nutrition, we <v Speaker 2>can help you with strategy, But as far as like <v Speaker 2>the need to eat overnight, that is where I really <v Speaker 2>think that you could really benefit from a therapist, yeah, <v Speaker 2>who specializes in helping people heal trauma from sex abuse, right, Yeah, <v Speaker 2>but yeah, the overnight eating, it's a bad habit and <v Speaker 2>you can stop it. You can learn other coping mechanisms, <v Speaker 2>and I would encourage that for you. And we all <v Speaker 2>deserve to be at peace when we're sleeping. And I <v Speaker 2>speak from experience. I've had some bad things happen in <v Speaker 2>the male of the night and they did affect my <v Speaker 2>sleep and I have never slept as well as I <v Speaker 2>did before that happened. So it has taken work, and <v Speaker 2>it has taken some therapy and learning new tools to cope. <v Speaker 2>And I do believe you can do it and you're <v Speaker 2>worth it. And don't think, oh, I've been this way <v Speaker 2>my whole life. I can't change. You can. And you <v Speaker 2>potentially have twenty five thirty years left of your life. <v Speaker 1>So if not now when exactly I was going to <v Speaker 1>also suggest therapy that was going to be the main <v Speaker 1>thing to start with if you haven't done that already, <v Speaker 1>just because you may think that there's nothing they can <v Speaker 1>help you with, but you may be surprised when you <v Speaker 1>find the right therapist that's skilled in this sort of <v Speaker 1>a thing. And also this does go back to the <v Speaker 1>accidental overrestriction we were talking about before, because our bodies <v Speaker 1>want us to survive. Our bodies want us to be <v Speaker 1>at a healthy weight. And when your body perceives that <v Speaker 1>you are not where your body thinks you should be <v Speaker 1>and you are close to that underweight line, like Sherry said, <v Speaker 1>your body may be sending you the message eat eat <v Speaker 1>eat eat eat, and that is why you have the <v Speaker 1>drive to do it. So, even before fasting, were you <v Speaker 1>over restricting, were you dieting, were you're doing a low <v Speaker 1>calorie diet all throughout the day, and really think about that. <v Speaker 1>You know you've heard us say recently. If you think <v Speaker 1>you're accidentally over restricting, count up and just see, gosh, <v Speaker 1>I'm only eating you know, seven hundred calories a day <v Speaker 1>every day. Then you'd be like, oh my gosh, I <v Speaker 1>am over restricting. And that is when strategic updates can <v Speaker 1>be really, really important to let your body know that <v Speaker 1>you're fine. So that's just something to keep in mind <v Speaker 1>because accidental over restriction is probably more common than I've <v Speaker 1>even realized. As someone who eats a lot, you know, <v Speaker 1>it's not in my purviewed accidentally over restrict. But I <v Speaker 1>think a lot of women have been trained. I'm putting <v Speaker 1>them in quotation marks to be restrained eaters by society <v Speaker 1>and then may just accidentally be doing it. <v Speaker 2>Yeah, and then I wanted to say too. I looked <v Speaker 2>up something while Jen was talking that I was thinking <v Speaker 2>about earlier. I'm not sure if you've ever heard of <v Speaker 2>EMDR therapy. It is a form of therapy that is <v Speaker 2>really really beneficial for people with childhood trauma and PTSD, <v Speaker 2>and I have known several friends who have done EMDR <v Speaker 2>therapy and have found it very, very beneficial. It stands <v Speaker 2>for eye movement, desensitization and reprocessing and it's a very <v Speaker 2>fascinating practice. Back when Jinn and I did the Life <v Speaker 2>Lessons podcast, I was wanting to do an episode on <v Speaker 2>it and could not ever find a practitioner to come <v Speaker 2>on the podcast. So I've dropped a link about it <v Speaker 2>from the EMDR. It's an internal international association. They do credentialing, <v Speaker 2>and on that page is also a place where you <v Speaker 2>can find a practitioner in your area. So that might <v Speaker 2>be something that you want to take a look at. <v Speaker 2>And I went ahead and put a link in show <v Speaker 2>notes for you. Before we get to the tweak of <v Speaker 2>the week, I just want to talk to you about <v Speaker 2>the coaching. I'm doing with people. It has been very <v Speaker 2>fulfilling for me. Number One, I love helping people. It's <v Speaker 2>been my mission my whole life to help people. I'm <v Speaker 2>a helper at heart. But it is very rewarding to <v Speaker 2>me when people contact me for sessions and we meet, <v Speaker 2>especially my monthly people, because we form a relationship over <v Speaker 2>the course of the month, and I get to learn <v Speaker 2>a lot about you and your fasting practice and what's <v Speaker 2>going on in your life and help you kind of <v Speaker 2>make fasting something that not only do you enjoy, but <v Speaker 2>that you're seeing the benefit that you seek, whether it <v Speaker 2>is you just need to fine tune your pasting practice, <v Speaker 2>or it's just stories you tell yourself. Listen, I can't <v Speaker 2>tell you how many people come to me and tell <v Speaker 2>me I cannot clean fast, and I can tell you <v Speaker 2>I have a one hundred percent success rate at working <v Speaker 2>people through this and everything changes for them the minute <v Speaker 2>they start clean fasting. And I want to help you. <v Speaker 2>If it was up to me, I would get every <v Speaker 2>person in this world to become clean faster, and I <v Speaker 2>feel like we could change the world. So if you <v Speaker 2>need somebody to help guide you, if you need somebody <v Speaker 2>to encourage you, if you need somebody to help troubleshoo <v Speaker 2>with you, or just to check in with every day <v Speaker 2>and listen. I'm going to tell you the truth and <v Speaker 2>you may not want to hear it, but I speak <v Speaker 2>firmly and with love and conviction, and I can get <v Speaker 2>you where you need to be. Contact me There's a <v Speaker 2>link on our website Fastbeesrepeat dot com slash Coaching, or <v Speaker 2>you email me at Sherry at fast feusreepeat dot com. <v Speaker 2>Let's get you where you want to be, and let's <v Speaker 2>get you feeling good about yourself and your fasting lifestyle. <v Speaker 1>So now it's time for our tweak of the week. <v Speaker 1>This is from Mary. Mary says, I feel like I've <v Speaker 1>found my easy tweak. It's taken so long since December <v Speaker 1>of twenty four, but I found it. I'm doing uppish downish, <v Speaker 1>and I've taken ultra processed foods out of my diet <v Speaker 1>and I'm losing weight. The funny thing is, I've been <v Speaker 1>trying to take ultra processed foods out since December of <v Speaker 1>twenty twenty four, but I was largely unsuccessful. They seem <v Speaker 1>to creep into my mouth after every other day. It <v Speaker 1>seemed it was only after I did Keto for a <v Speaker 1>few months that I was able to say no to <v Speaker 1>ultraprocessed foods. I'm not doing Keto now. I've relaxed into <v Speaker 1>a more whole foods approach. I've found my discipline again, <v Speaker 1>and I'm thrilled. I wrote this in my journal today. <v Speaker 1>I lost three point four pounds this week. I've lost <v Speaker 1>weight like this before, but this feels different. This feels <v Speaker 1>achievable long term. This feels attainable. This feels easy. I <v Speaker 1>was so worried that when I stopped doing Keto, I'd <v Speaker 1>gain everything I lost back. I gained two pounds for <v Speaker 1>a couple of weeks, but I've since lost that in <v Speaker 1>three point four more pounds. With Keto, I had so <v Speaker 1>much more food noise and so many temptations. Now the <v Speaker 1>food noise is gone. Although I'll always be grateful for <v Speaker 1>how Keto helped me, I do wonder if the food <v Speaker 1>noise was my body telling me it needed more carbs. <v Speaker 1>Now that I'm listening to my body, I've been able <v Speaker 1>to have healthy carbs and I still avoid ultra processed <v Speaker 1>foods for the most part. I feel amazing. I'm so <v Speaker 1>glad I found something that feels attainable. I finally found <v Speaker 1>the tweak that works. <v Speaker 2>We'd love to leave you with inspirational motivational quotes or strategies, <v Speaker 2>and this week we have a motivational strategy from Carrie. <v Speaker 2>Carrie wrote, I like to stop and pause and remind <v Speaker 2>myself to talk to myself in a way that keeps <v Speaker 2>me moving forward. The strategy is think, feel, doue. Taking <v Speaker 2>anhelpful thought that comes to mind when things are not <v Speaker 2>going well or we have a slip up in our <v Speaker 2>intentions or plans. We eat something that doesn't serve us best, <v Speaker 2>the scale is up, we miss a workout, fast, doesn't <v Speaker 2>go as planned, et cetera. Think what is the unhelpful <v Speaker 2>thought you are telling yourself, such as I am a failure, <v Speaker 2>I can't do this, I'm lazy. Feel sit with it? <v Speaker 2>Is this thought even truth? Most times it's not. Do <v Speaker 2>Shift your thinking to a more helpful thought and how <v Speaker 2>you speak to yourself. I can get back on track. <v Speaker 2>I needed the rest. I can do this. I am worthy. <v Speaker 2>When we can catch an unhelpful thought and swap it <v Speaker 2>for one that actually supports us, we will see how <v Speaker 2>that shift changes our mood, our choices, and what we <v Speaker 2>do next. Our thoughts impact how we feel, which drives <v Speaker 2>what we do. When we shift unhelpful thoughts to more <v Speaker 2>helpful ones, it can help us act in ways that <v Speaker 2>are in line with our goals. <v Speaker 1>Thanks so much for listening today. We would love to <v Speaker 1>have you join us in the Delayed on Tonight community, <v Speaker 1>where you can interact with both me and Sherry, plus <v Speaker 1>the most supportive bunch of intermittent fasters you'll find anywhere. <v Speaker 1>Go to Jenstevens dot com slash community to join us. <v Speaker 3>Don't forget to subscribe to this podcast to your favorite <v Speaker 3>podcast app, and if you haven't already, please leave us <v Speaker 3>a five star review that helps new listeners find the <v Speaker 3>show and we really appreciate it. <v Speaker 1>We are a community driven podcast, so to submit your <v Speaker 1>success stories, your questions, your favorite tweak it till It's Easy, moments, <v Speaker 1>or anything else you want us to share on the podcast, <v Speaker 1>go to Fast Feast Repeat dot com slash submit and <v Speaker 1>then listen each week to see if we share your <v Speaker 1>submission or answer your question. <v Speaker 2>Until next week. 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