BIG FACTS FRIDAY- Licentious

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Speaker 1: By Big Bang. What it is? You don't be on nothing, I'll be on okay, So let me ask this bring you big Big Fact. Visit the new website today Big Facts, Paul dot Com live for Revolt Studio and the A T. L Is d J Screen, Big Bang, Baby, Jay, Shot Jones and Big Homey Kodak is officially time for a Big Facts Friday. What's up? What's up? What's your family? What's up? What's up? Everybody? Ship shot fresh? Everybody fresh? You don't be fresh man, be fresh? Thank always be on this fresh. He's black owned everything, black owned back. I've been trying to get up since you've been rocking them back? What it is? Oh? Country blanking too long socks? Yeah, cold, hud drap mus in Oh, I ain't got everybody good good? I am fan fucking tastic. What's the word? What's the word today that we talk about? Jas shoes right now? Oh? Yeah, before we start, we've gotta tough. It's gonna be one of them type. There's gonna be one of them type of snow. Yeah yeah, Niger Now it's just okay, so um, which one you want to do? I'm gonna let you pick the word. Today, let's do the sex ship. Why not, let's let's do a sex shoot. Okay so yeah, okay, no no, no, no, no no okay. So the word of the day, part our big homie um stepping out of the box screen is licentious and the textbook definition of licensious is promiscuous and unprincipled and sexual matters. An example is going only too far sexually, like nah, bitch, I ain't with those moments. I'm just reading what I'm told. Basically, I'm not with what is basically like just slu probably like a slud or horror or a really freaky man like would Christian grape from fifty Shades of Grape be licentious? What's the promiscuous an unprincipled and sexual matters? I think promiscuous means but unpossible means like nobody don't have no battery, Like are you willing to do anything? You'll be like, yeah, some freaky ship and difference. It's a huge cust my to me, being a freak is like okay, like you'll fucking you'll suck dick in the car and a drive through. You know what I'm saying. You'll like you'll take a finger off the ass, you know, something like that, but thing, but but being whatever. The other thing is that that's like bigger than the freak. And some ship like you're fucking like you'll do some ship like some some some either nigga do like you like like like any kind of anything somebody like fetishes are like above and beyond freezing. So somebody want to be pete on because we've heard, we've heard that fish too far, that ain't really that what you what you did do. It may not be it is going too far coming at you, but that's not a on your bitch in the shower, get a shot on your back and ear. He ain't got to do with say don't he get it tap you on the bad But I mean it happens. Is that you feel like, oh so promiscuous kind of is what it is. We could say promiscus just when you're just sucking doing shootings. So I'm ha, let me ask you this. So we're doing some like some ship like fucking u stars that have standards and they only do certain things. All points start, don't do some parts started just fucking that's it, and some of them don't that you. They only do certain lot sensitive if I'm in and and got I'm tired out to something my dog Like that's what I was just getting ready to say, like like having having having having sex with somebody other than a human like some animals ships complicated to But that's what I'm saying. That's that's that's like that Yeah, that's like centis because because some people what she said boundaries. Yeah, what you say about the other point, what uh what unprincipled. Unprincipled means you don't give a fuck at all, so so to you. So to me, like having sex with a dog or a horse or some ship might be like completely like out of control. But some people, to some people, that excites them even more because of the unboundaried principles from different from person. Yeah, that's what I would say, Yeah, different different person version, but the normal ship. I think if we go say normal sex ship, freak ship, everybody's But when they started saying, no, boundaries are unprinciple, I mean you're doing anything right, yea to some people that just have standard sex, like yeah, what's like if some people have standard sex, like having a three something will be considered licentious. Um, giving oral sex will be considered licentious because you have some people, but you got some women that you have people out there that don't suck. Yeah, you have some feel like that, and then you have some women that feel like if your man asked you to suck his penis, it's very degrading. That's what you got. What you got some niggers out there who'll be saying like, I hate WHENNI say this, and I'm probably gonna get some flat for this too, but neop like they don't their girls they did how their girl hasn't like to suck dick, like no sucking somebody dick? Yeah, because that's that's like, that's natural she is. It's like, how are you going to not do the things that come? O? My god? Like what y'all she trying like an me? Yeah, But it's some women like there there are there's some women that just go off of the standard sex like just stay on top of me, missionary and that don't don't turn like that though, but that they think that that's love making and they think that any guy that does um wild sex that's considered like huh, I probably wasn't like I probably likes just like, yeah, I'm extremely licenseous in comparison to what y'all talking about, because that's it right there is boring. But you have some people like that. You have some women that don't like talking. I mean, why are they like that because that's how they were raised or like it's just what they were talking. Like if you think about it, like some women thinking men do certain things during sex. He's slepting you out, so he has respect for you. But I mean, I thought that was the whole primes of having sex to get sled it out. No, not for everybody. Some people don't want to be sled out. They want to be love made. They want pick you to hug them, caressing them, take your time. They get more turned off turned on by the love caress. And if you try to pound them down the drain, they go, that's a waste of life. Though, Like to some women, that's what because they ain't never been pounded out though, so they don't know. Yeah, but what once they crossed all of that bridge, they they're not ever gonna want to come back, or they have. But the person didn't do it the right way. They just went in there and try to just pound them down the drain, and didn't you know, I don't know, man, I just I know, like I think it's all about what you do, because you have to think about it. Like the society has taught that cigarettes no cigarettes, and alcohol okay, but weed is bad. But now it's proven that weeds help. I disagree. I don't think it's not I don't think it's about what you're taught. I think it's about what you were able to experience because because like I wasn't taught to suck dick by my parents, but friends and ship thought, yeah, you know what I'm saying. He's saying, like, motherfucker that ain't never even did that, and they just don't know about it. All they're doing is going school, come back for and then they they never experienced it, your experience and you had all the friends coming, yes, Chea. I also think it's more about being in tune with your own body. A lot of people they experienced sex, but they're not in tune with their own body. They don't know what makes them tick. They don't know what they like and what they desire, so they just out here freely just doing ship, searching for a feeling that they're never gonna get. Doing everything sexually, you said you shouldn't let's see everything everything think of I'm just saying that the coun you can't do it. That's what I thought to me too. That's what lots of younger bug of audience. I only question, do y'all think that, especially being married me, do you feel like women should hold off on certain sexual things until she's married. I'm just asking because you gotta show me what I'm married. This trouts. But you have some people out there they're like they'll hold back on doing certain things because it's like you're not my husband, or they figure like I'm saving that I know to be your husband. Gotta comment. Okay, So just coming like answering your question from a woman's perspective, I feel like that could be extremely detrimental to the relationship if she waits to do certain things, Because what if you try said certain things and you like it, but your husband can't adjust to what it is that you're trying to do, and with this being your first time, you're trying to figure out how to get it, you know what I'm saying, done or whatever, and then that's gonna make you deviate from your current situation because he's not able to please you in the way that you like to be pleased trials do you think that? But if you have experience, you can teach him. You can teach him what to do and how to tweak his ship to make it to where you guys can both be pleasurable rised. M hmm. If that's a word, I don't feel I'm just talking about general people. If if if you keep okay, if a woman keep trying some shit out with everybody, then she gets labeled not trying out with everybody else that perfect. So where's so for women? Right? So when women that are worried about that ship, where their balance which they can't be sucking the same nigga didn't know everybody? That's what you're trying to suck the same circle. Yeah, if if how to hell, if I could tell my man like oh yeah, oh yeah, oh yeah, everybody, Oh yeah, the rule you're you're doing too much? Yeah, you know what I'm saying. You gotta go over here and test it out with butter and then you can't got but you gotta go for a truck driver or teach them. Everybody. You gotta don't work the social Yes, yes you do, because everybody ain't got slick bitch Broo too, Shli. Yeah, gotta for everything. You eat nigga, but neil done nigga, and they're all different kinds. Just gotta yeah, like you gotta spread out. You're trying to fund all the niggas in the music industry, and then when you come around, you gotta who all in there. I don't even want to come outside. Who lived up? You can't be here, you got I'm just circle with you. I'm only on the net circle with him. You get what I'm saying. And in the other names, I'm not even knowing that no circles with because I don't even take this nick outside. We just do what we do and then nobody even knows that. I know you went. Really don't get through all that. She's approached. She ready to be mad. Yeah, you tell the truth. That's the truth. Moved though, bro E be perfect without practice stuff. You want miles on your car. Look, I don't want to know about how many miles you want on your car. I don't want to know about the mile. But the thing about it either, I would rather a Marison. To my difference, I would rather put the miles on my ship. Myself. Of course I'll put the way and tell them. They mean, I'm gonna learn it. We're gonna learn it together. Take you over the year to prep you to be out. I want other girls. They escaping, So you don't know the mouths like they you know how you change the miles of the turn a bit you back said about it, I wouldn't rather if I wouldn't, if I wasn't, if I was this age. Mean, now I'm looking for a woman. I don't want no bitch. I gotta teach how to beat come come ready, come ready. So you want about Mike, Basically you're a school and you don't want to what I'm saying, like, I don't want to know. I'm not gonna look look at that. I don't care what that's like. That's not anybody's. The mile that I don't want is a popular mouth. Exactly have you've been slet it out and you what you're talking? Nigga yet though he thinks that that letter though, I can't come around like, well you got a good one, boy, that's a good ter got a thrown head on the shoulder. No, no, that's yeah, that's be cool with Miles. Just miles that I know, don't be driving down the roads. I know, what about my feet? Y'all care about mounds? I don't. I think at a certain age it's weird to ask somebody how many people they had sex with, Like that's some stuff you ask me, that's what that's what ever been to the world. Gonna say I can count on one hand. They're gonna say I'm many. I can count on one hand. They don't say how many times? Don't hand hunt on keep going? I mean some people to add the motherfucker hey you around and seeing me post on my Instagram here, Yeah, yeah, yeah, you didn't know that, damn ship. Well, I don't know. I think that's a woman. You just don't want the man to mess with anybody like the same way like somebody anybody within reach of you, Yeah, anybody. I know, Like if you mess with any of my home girls, it's a good like I can't even so if you ever tell y'all women running up to the nigga, he I miss you and then doing that hands like I miss you. Ain't doing that, don't care you dial with a popular nigga, then that calls with hey, I miss you in my face we're sitting here. Hey man, it's hoping to get about to miss me though be out, but you know it ain't. But it's different type of missues miss you know the long I think you saw you look so you are you gonna be out with chantey? A bitch gonna come up, embrace you, hug you, pull you in tight and say hey, I miss you. Say she missed us. She can't just missed me by by right, That's what I say. But they's gonna do that. Yeah, hey I miss y'all. Yeah cause okay, then I think you gotta dress. But she still people still gonna be like, what's up somebody to miss you? But what's up? Who are you doing? That's not that? That's the same, that worse? How is that worse? Then? I miss you. I'll tell you ill miss you. When you man, he'll be looking like they miss what's your? What's going on? CHEV called ready in the building? Nah, but you get you stand No, you don't keep it rolling, man, keep it all this ship and I don't tell you nothing missing and the missing angie. But I need you real quick. We can go ahead for me. If you're in a relationship with somebody or not even if if you feel like you could just walk him to a man and hug him, no matter who he that's you. You feel like he yours. So you you know what's gonna come with that? You wish the person he went which try you? So like if I walk up to a man and I hug him and I'm doing the extra type ship, I'm already knowing like I could do this, and I wish this, Yeah, I wish yeah. Other than that, you're not gonna do that. It depending on how censious the activity was between the two people in public. We're not get big, Oh I'm slacking there man the whole player and audio rolling one kill three four, that's how lots lots lots censious the activity was betweting the people. If I see you are and I know I've touched a dick before, I'm not really gonna I'm not gonna be intentionally disrespectful to your company. I'm gonna acknowledge her too, but I'm gonna know, like how far I can take it with you, like for real forever? How would you want to do amen on that choking chickens up yaks. If I've seen you around and I know because if I know that, you know, like, so let's go, y'all feel y'all Like for men, are y'all the same as like women. Some women feel like if I had sex with you, you mind low key like no matter what your mind. So you're definitely a part of the collection, being part of collection to different things. What you mean because just because you know we had sex in the past, don't mean like you know I can come up and grab the aniga. No, not that. But at the same time, it's like, yeah, you want to feel like I can, I can suck up any time. I can always fun yes, every time, you're not every time, even if I only sucked you once, like I know, like if I want it again, I can have it, no problem like Joe, no, no thought about it or nothing. No person, I don't think. I don't think that. I don't think that just your pussy trash what damn damn. I'm just saying like, if you're confident when you are, I don't mean yeah, but if you're if you're confident, not even she can feel how she's suppsed to say, but guess what I feel like in the right predicament, you can suck in about it. Yeah, in the right prediculament. That person put themself in the right look, coner, they fucked. But if we could justify this and you get what I'm saying, that's just how it goes. You don't say so. Now you're late night playing scravel We got damned cold that y'all get shot shout shots shot like no, why do y'all want y'all don't don't call that like that. Y'all just playing? Whoa y'all laying shot? We take a shot to daily a week saying that we're playing playing. Don't know. I want to a lot of call somebody else to me at the house. And she says, grand one of you. Yeah, you don't like havin with no service, hurts hate, don't do it, don't do it. Don't very very very very very intune with my own body. I don't need yet or anybody else with worthy. I don't know what I'm saying is I'm saying, it's people a lot there, it will fun him. It's not signed up. Yeah, yeah, yeah, that's bad what I'm saying. Okay, well not yet. A stranger, a strange kind try and then she's trying to help attacking me, you're up stranger to something like time, go ahead, lette talk because we ain't talk over black. We gotta black. Yeah, go ahead, say what you gotta say, Go ahead, bring get out of it. Ain't no money in there, Get out of them. I'm saying, I'll say, y'all say, y'all rather a complete stranger then somebody you kind of made, no slip up or whatever, because the complete stranger, the complete stranger could be complete stranger could be some bullshit. When you say bullshit with you what I mean, claim advocates. When you fucking complete stranger, you're not even getting far enough to know whether or not there's some bullshit. But stranger you kind of got, even though I guess that's a yeah strange, say the big fact and the whole crew big, but y'all did in the next flight it to five days. Y'all got did this romantic as cabin for five days? You're saying code ain't gonna get no. No, that's cat that y'all trying much wounds and all the time. That's that's cat. Drugs. I don't do drugs, but y'all stuck what y'all can't get back? The last name I'm we might know besides likes. No, I ain't saying we're saying that what I No, that's your brother, continue lying because that's her brother. No, that was just saying she said, because that's her brother. I respect, I couldn't. But if you didn't know him, you know what you describe you know, was all it's all so so if if mind the camera, the big camera right here, get hit before yet. Oh man, I'm just saying. That's how I'm just staying like a bunch of a strike. Y'all say we were staying, man, Yeah, we're stuck in a cabin. Like I said, I want sucking either, but I make sure he got something. I figured out how you're gonna choke off you go because you know that heavy bobbing. Yeah it does. But I would the time jack them out. But not. What I'm saying is it's like I would. I would call him. Yeah, I don't like I would have for you, Like how call that don't need no charity pushing? That's right exactly, call that call that go famish you I put all my home gimes with just brothers. Yeah, that's my brother. So what makes oh what you think? What you think what you think make people come on? What a lot of makes people? A lot of ship? It could be a b. Yeah, it could be like definitely prevented or sheltered when they were children and then they just explode with their sexuality when they're yeah, outside of their parents reach. Um, they could have been sexually abused. I know because like I said, I have male friends that were like I know this might sound like weird or whatever, but they were like touched on and all kinds of ships, like by their women, um, older people like in their family. I'm not laughing, but now like they have to go they have to have sex like at least three or four times a day, like they can't who they are you right? Not raped, but but but just sayings like if you'll teach, you gave you sup puss it That ain't right. Technically it is right. And if it happened to a woman, if it happened to a little girl, the girl straight up, that's not the same what I say right all the way one thousand, it's the same ship. It's sagittory right because it's some girls out here, because the men to have sex with whether or not you're a street child or you're a street nigger child or whatever, like, yeah, steam can graduate. Actually intend been on the state. So what's what's the age of of a nothing? We know you've been on the state. Take a sit. What if y'all teach you y'all know, like thirty not no old somebody fresh out of somebody fresh out of But as a teacher, you ain't supposed to be doing like that. But what cool? Yeah it's not up college, but in college, the college people will be because we are grown a college at that point, smashing, But we are grown at that. I mean, let niggas were grown but fourteen years old though, Yeah, but old nigga to go to school. But I just did you know, I try, I got my own. I'm grown like it's just a law. But nigga like that. But little country, there's no law against that ship. It's just a law. It's still statutory rate. Just because together don't mean that it's grown as to be out here fucking this ship. You gotta you know what I'm saying. Your girl dads ain't supposed to be attracted to no kids. But it's a lot of these niggas out here to fucking kids too. That brown supposed to be. Yeah, that's fucked up for real. Yeah, that's that ship out. But it's a lot of little girls I can't say, like no, I just I didn't know. Like when I was thirteen, fourteen, fifteen years old, I wasn't no kids in my mind, but a thirty year old woman was just still looking at him like a little bit badass boy. You don't know what I'm told, But that's what I'm saying. It's some people that lie about age because when I was, when I was a kid, iolized by my age all the time, Like yes, because I've never said that, I never said that, but it's still in the court. It's still statutory once you find out somebody age. I was always taught, so it's easy for me to lie and tell mecause I was seventeen eighteen when I was really fifteen years old, and then they never found out. I mean, grand I wasn't sexually active, but if I would have had sex with them and something would have happened, that would have put them in But it's a lot of girls out here, because we look older, we lie about our age. That is very common. Yeah, when I was, when I was six, I used to tell people I was twelve what I was talking to like, and I was big, so it was like I really looked like a teenager, like bro and I was like six or seven, like seven talking ship then. But I didn't know grown and la bardo. I don't know no grown girl, but I know some grown little boo the hell are they've been a special? Were growing on sixteen and ship you were grown? Yeah? Yeah, and you're not the whole famine. No, but look look at some of these ns just having money. And if he if he in high school, if you school teachers who really ain't making it. He showed her some ship that he not that she's not seeing she gon that. No that I'm not saying this right, I'm just saying that that's how that ship happened. M one of your little students show Now I didn't I know, no, Nope, nope, nope, But I just know man, like mm hmmm, say is right? You gotta you know this name going to the NBA and tweets. He got a teacher she three, he's seventeen, eighteen, she gonna it's but it's still yeah. Teachers that wait for these kids to get eighteen and they're start having relationships them afterwards, so they wait for them to lead to school and then they start having relationships at forward. But then you got a lot of people too. This is another thing that like a lot of people don't really like to talk about. But you got a lot of like male teachers, male family members, older males that are involved in like younger girls lives. They groom them all the way up until they're technically old enough, and then once they're old enough, then they pounced on them and take advantage if they haven't already done so prior to them being of age and themis anyway, I don't think um, like you know how people be trying to have like what do you call it, um? Role models and ship? I don't think men should be when uh girls role models and not role model? But what do you call it mentor ship? Yeah they do. Yeah, you're like you come pick up my daughter, take nah fun no funk away from him and he could have good intentions, but still no, because that's because you you you you do relationship. No not even over though you were, you were developing a relationship and what you develop a certain relationships that's when the vulnerability keeping and you're able to take advantage of a person, you know what that So you got the mother around you every day you for the every need doing this ship everything that you're like all yours. It's called the predator right like you just you just on some predator ship like man keeping and all that. Step dad and ship here now, but you gotta be around long time for you become my key and step damn. Like how women should think like the real Like you got your daughter sitting in a nigga nu right, Oh that's I don't like that food. How do you know they look? Girl? They're fair? Right? Why would you even want her sitting on your lap? Like? How long you think women should take before they introduced their kids to like a new man? Long as time? What's that? You can't say that ship to you to you don't smell this nigga all the way out. You gotta thoroughly vet this nigga, you know what I'm saying? Like, Okay, you're goin to see what makes your cheek will make you do all this? So you take a year to year, sick month, three months, because especially like when you have like like teenage girl children and between like probably the ages of thirteen and eighteen or whatever. When you're dealing with men and you invite men into your home and you let nigga start living with you and all that kind of ship. That's how all the ship starts sucking up and all the ship starts happening like in and a lot of the the cases like that I've seen, Like it started off with the mom's boyfriend and her leaving him there she's working or whatever she's doing. The nigga really ain't ship, ain't got nothing going on, sitting around the house, and then the ship happens, and then everybody's looking crazy like they don't understand it. And then the mom is so in love with this nigga. She's trying to ignore it and act like she don't see it. But it's like, at the end of the day, this poor child is suffering because you're trying to hold onto this nigga. Sometimes they be then told. Sometimes they be the we don't make this up to the cold shift. Sometimes sometimes they be untold told their mama and she got them be mad at that, and yeah, yeah, how they go. She's probably more mad because she don't want to believe it. A lot of people get mad out of fear and out of regret. But a lot of homes be mad because they're trying to figure out if this is true. What does he see in her that he doesn't seeing me? Damn, that's fun. They're jealous of their own child. About that. We're talking about accomplished, were talking about. You do have a lot of women that's like that, though they do be jealous of their own child. That should be like that should be so wild like so then at that point, who more wrong, the mom or the person that actually did the act? But the mom, mom, The mom is more wrong because the mom has an obligation to the fucking ship. The person that they popped out of their ship. Ain't no more wrong both and no wrong? Both all both are wrong. The mom is more wrong. You more wrong with this child. That's more wrong like that because at the end of the day, you start the mama wrong morally, you're wrong because you're just creep. Yeah, creek, you just wrong for being But she's supposed she'd probably be ready to lay a light down for that. Yeah, like kill this nigga, like anything like Yeah, like that ain't always ship. You can't do that, man, That ship crazy or that ship fucked up out here too, like that, man, don't he kid? Man, we've been how old are you? You can't be around because you can't be around you you're grown a man, got kids around you don't know what you may not be on that? What the the other people could be on m damn how people heal from all that? I don't you just learned to deal with it, because yeah, like what you gotta what you gotta look at too, is that like, say you're in a situation where the other parents blamed you for the abuse. You gotta deal with the fact that you were abused, the fact that you still had to keep going through this ship, and you have to deal with, on top of the fact that you were being abused, the fact that the person, the one person in the world that you're supposed to be able to trust, turned against you for the abuser and didn't believe you and left you in a situation to keep getting abused. That's a lot that should be Like that's so I think that's just in general, like when we say the world sucked up, a certain people's fucked up, like we don't know, you know, you don't never know what nobody dealing with You know what I'm saying, what kind of trauma is some of that ship? I don't care how much you talk to a therapist, like that ship ain't gonna yeah yeah. But then on top of that, people might start thinking like damn, okay, well this ship is normal. So that's side of sac abuse will continue because they get around in the same situation they were like, oh well you should. They happened to me, so no, no problem, I'm gonna go ahead and do it. And you know, people that have gone through that ship and it's just like it funks up their whole mental like it's just about life, not even just about relationships or dealing with people, just about life period. And that should be like so funked up because they really be good people, but they just can't let go of that and it just it destroys their whole life. That's a move was something earlier if you asked about like how what's the word you have? Okay, See he was asking like how people get into that, like what makes them promiscuous? Like people that abused at an early age, they can't it works with them, like they can't. They have trouble coming up with meaningful relationships later on in life. So really that maybe the only way they find love or or get people to love them, that's only way they think people will love them. Yeah, they mix up what love truly is because you have a lot of people that see either love as abused, because that's like women that get beat up, you know what I'm saying. A lot of them. Sometimes they feel like if he hit me, he loved me. And then you have a lot of people that feel like, if we have a lot of sex, that's him showing me he loved me. So whatever he want to do sexually, I'm gonna do it be us. That's our form of love. That's the only way that they ever talked trauma bonding. We're not getting big what we're doing ja Um. So back to the initial definition. Um, we have to win the minutes for another word? What's this one? I've got to another word? Okay, So let's do since we're talking about unprincipled of not having boundaries, let's talk about being frivolous. Oh, frivolous means not having any serious purpose or value. Um. Without purpose in life, life is pointless. Have purpose and follow and talk about how people devalue themselves because they don't know their worth and elaborator frivolous pray. This means that to meet to me, that you move along in life without care, consideration or any real thought about how your actions might affect others, and and and purposeless as well. But without purpose you just blow with the wind. So isn't that like a depressed Like isn't that like the lowest living It could be. It could be a state of depression, or it could be a state of naivety, Like you could be depressed or you could be naive. Yeah, and green, but it's good to be free, Like I don't care about well care not. Yeah, I guess how people that can you guys, and people that didn't feel like I wake up and just blow it a way. That's that's that's the frivolous, right, yeah, because it's a frivolence like you spend You can spend money frivolously too. I just know the word frivl from like conversations when people bring me bullshit conversations. I mean like this is like a frivolous conversations, Like it doesn't mean anything, like we're just talking just to be talking. That's what I think frivolous, like like a description of things like person can be frivolous, yeah, or your life can be frivolous, or you can make frivolous decisions and moves. I think if you're a frivolous person, then you're what you just's not having any serious purpose or value. Damn, that's never heard nobody. Yeah, I don't think nobody want to be a frivoli person. People in your life, oh, in your life, like you can say they have no purpose? Yeah, yeah, yeah yeah. Some people just see that that that's done that or frivolous relationships like you know, like you just with somebody just so you won't be alone. Yeah, eliminated all my frivolous relationships. So I don't even deal with that bullshit no more, Like do you think people get enough for this relationships because they're insecure or just off of codependency. Codependency you might just happen, You might just happen. You can't just get the relationship. You might relationship or friendship you might be in being it and then realize how frivolous it is because you might be growing and they ain't growing. Person do you need. So do you need your your partner to grow with you for it to not be frivolous, Like they just can't be happy where they are. What if? What if where they are in life and they got at least respect where you're going or what you're trying to ye the respect their respect, You got to ask something, They gotta ask something. Yeah, because if if they're stagnant and you're steadily increasing and growing and going up, eventually there's gonna be friction there because you're eventually gonna like either try to pull them up and they're going to resist because they enjoy the stagnancy, or they're gonna resent you because they're gonna feel like you're trying to belittle or demean them because they're down here in Europe. They're not knowing that you're trying to help pull them up so that it won't be that friction. I feel like I can only be a situation to where if it's the man that is not moving anywhere, but his woman is up here, you feeling because he's gonna feel like as a as a mighty as well be providing he's not able to do that if he's stacked me in life. But ever, if you're a man and you got and your bitches down here and she's not going up or not trying to like come up with you, what does she want to be down there? What does she want to be? Like a house I'm trying to come down there and talk to you. Yeah, someone gotta add up, So like she gotta go back to being a person that I don't want to be in order to deal with you. That's why we're gonna never had no conversation, the saying just financially, don't look at it just that way. Yes, if you're spiritually, yeah, you gotta be able to talk to the person you're sleeping. Okay, they're talking about some bullshit that you don't care about. That's frivolous. Somebody in the high school we're still trying to talk about high school ship exactly, telling about that time you ran two touchdown and the end of the cord. That ain't about nothing, that's just that's frivolous. And a lot of times people in those situations that that would be the same They bring up the same ship every time you'all talk. But it's like it's like this, m if I gotta goddamn put myself on a on a level that I don't want to be on too. We can't talk, Yeah, we can't even talk. We can't even We could be cool, cordial, but if I gotta be a certain way for you to be a certain way, I mean to make you comfortable. Yeah I can't do that. No, yeah I can't. Got damn let your flaws hinder me when I'm trying to let my flaws hinto me. So I'm gonna be around mother, they flaws hinder me, and then I'm gonna be somewhere blaming the nickel. You know what I'm saying, because I know, like I loved you more than I loved me at the end of the day, I gave a funk about how you're gonna feel if I said fuck you more than I gave a funk about being successful. M Yeah, so you know what you motherfuck, But it ain't gotta be fuck you. It can be We're cool. But understand, bro, I got some other ship. Don't trying to do right quick? How do see? That's the only way, that's only way to work if the person that's at the lower level understands that you're trying to elevate and they cooled you. But they gotta be still trying. You can't got that. Oh we're just gonna be cool. I'm trying to relationship, relationship. If the mother ain't trying to grow with you, y'all gonna y'all gonna got them if polish. Because see the thing is, it's like, if they have real genuine love for you, even if they are comfortable where they're at, if they see that you're doing greater things, you're trying to move on and progress there, they should naturally want them try to elevate with you. It ain't even point of elevating it all the time though, because they ain't gotta grow to you. But they get what they can do. They can got their water you or your planting. Suge, but suge me to this money man. You gotta be doing something. You can't just be stuck doing that and think you just gonna be that and I'm gonna be this. Yeah, and you nershing me to be the nigger. That's deal going with me? Yeah, because i mean you got them looking up. You see what I'm doing. I'm trying to work out of ship. I'm doing this, So you're looking at me diets. Yeah, yeah, you know what I'm saying. You find place stretched me. You're doing all this, you're assisted me to grow. But you're basically if that person is comfortable and if like say, y'all, boath is down here, y'all's eating unhealthy, not working out whatever, but you start eating healthy, working out, changing and diet. But they still they're still on the same ship. You can't even really be around them because they're going out, they eating fried chicken, and they're never working out. They say, hey, wake me up in the morning so I can go to the gym. They're not gonna wait you up early because they're not even do they want you to lay that with them. That's what I'm saying. That's not growing but that. But that's that's where y'all going. That's where the friction is gonna come because it's a different y'all. Y'all mindset. Don't got them clash because because they're comfortable doing that. It's kind of like me, like people that you grew up with, Like if if I got to if I got a homeboy, every day, we're kicking me the ship. But I'm trying to do this ship. But he's cool that this is comfort for him. This is the man right here. But I'm just trying to move up to to a different level. Everything that i'm, everything that it takes to be great. It's gonna conflict with him and everything that he has. Yes, yes, this ship is gonna irritate his spirit and eventually it's gonna cause it's gonna cause a terror between us. So before it gets to the point where you guys have that terror, yeah, you guys have to agree to disagree and understand that we're just gonna be cool. That's that's that, that's that child friendship mindset. You know what I'm saying. When you gotta when you gotta mindset, when you when when we were kids, it's different. It's like this my homeboy. Yeah, we didn't have no gout expectations for you kid. Yeah, we didn't have no um, we didn't have no bills, we didn't have families, we didn't have none of that. You know what I'm saying. We didn't have about that. So that's the way we talked to be friends, Like this is my buddy. You know what I'm saying. Okay, we're cool. We are all on the same level. We're all doing this ship, but now I'm trying to do something that's and I see I haven't been a dumb help forever. I see that, But this ship ain't work. That add up to nothing. And if a nigga can't see it with you, what you bother to do? You can't make them see it because that's the same thing with a female. We went in about with your kids, in about it, bro. I'm going to do this, bro, because if I don't, if I stay doing this with with with us what we're doing, we're gonna be sip. So I'm gonna do something I can see to help us. Huh. Jason's Leary. You can't save and don't want to be saved exactly exactly, so I gotta go. I can't let I can't put myself in a situation because of the way you think. And that's the best thing about not got them. I love my Knimes. I talked to my communicate with him. But when that that that little boy of little little boy, laru shit out the dough. I can't feel how you feel about ship, and that's how I feel how you feel. You know what I'm saying that call you my man, I can't feel like that about that. I don't feel like that. They don't. But that should have turned into an enemy for show. Who the fuck care if something like that that was already that was already brewing. It's not. But the thing about it is that ship came with growth and another another mother not go because you could be done. You could have thought that was cool a couple of years ago, like I was went that I was, I was ambassador of that bullshit. But now I see that that ain't cool. So there it's like you also fake nigger ship. You get what I'm saying. If you turn around, be like, bro, I ain't ain't ain't with that? You know what? Saying like that? There Jack Wood and then were jam cigarette. I don't smoke sig right now, stinking ain't you smoking my card at smoking a bitch around me? You brand new because your cigarette got them to your doctor. I'm told you, cluster all up. You don't even be supping to you, you know what I'm saying? Or whatever. Look, I don't trike. Look yeah, I don't hang out in clubes. And then we can pay for what I'm in the clubs. Week here he cool with it? He could be playing balling. I'm not going I don't do that. I'm I'm that to me. That's that's turns into something else. Yeah, because yeah, I don't do that. Ain't what I do. No more, bro, I'm gonna be fortified next year. I got about seeing what I don't seen everything in every club all around the world. Then we I like doing this kick back, my feet up talk ship with y'all smoke weed, you know what I'm saying. Interviews. I'm gonna come and take the game and we're gonna be the commentators of this ship. Other than that, man, I ain't trying to be a no club doing what look frivolous. I don't even have fun in the club. Ain't got to be up. Yeah I have funny clubrious ship. Oh, let's work. Let's works. But it's like people like I get it. Yeah, I'd rather be an R and B spot or you know what I'm saying, lounge or the show type of vibe. You know what I'm saying, I'm that type of nigga. I'm chill im. I got my legs up in the club smoking. I don't understand all that other ship Turtle club now, oh, yes, I understand. I understand it, and then sometimes I do be on that at freak nick, I was just on that. I was just on that a couple of weeks ago, freaking's using that motherfucker turned up. But yeah, just a regular deglar basic. Nah, it's frivolous. It's not progressive. So cast some ship that is frivolous, go the other way and become meaningful, like what like a relationship. Let's how you got sure and then you're like, all right, we gotta cut the ship off because but then you kind of run back into him and he's like, oh, you don't get on your ship. You're doing some ship that I want to with you. But now then there gonna gonna feel like but I don't be on my did now you're not that ship? Go you You didn't precentill of a nigga who thought I would go be ships? Yeah, but get at I did? But what made him switch it up? Though? You cool with ship? Hey, that's all. I'm cool with that. I'm off, but I'm just glad that I can motivate you to be a better Yeah, because that's as you're doing. Well. I don't mean we gotta we gotta work. I can appreciate you doing well from distance, but just have been to me and a female or me and a dude. We fall out right, not even fall out, but we just went out of separate way. I'm still not do I'm still gonna even want to focus your foll each other on whatever. If I see you drop so hard she don't steal a post, yeah, and like it. I don't know. I'm not in my fears and to be a hater. Ship hard, but that ship wet. I'm not gonna say nothing ever, So if you fok around to get hard, like hard, you're hard, I'm gonna say you that ship hard or whatever it is that you're doing. If you got them buy nice color. I like. If I like something, I'm gonna like it regardless if we felt out, whatever, we will whatever whatever, I like it. I know I swear that I am. But if people be thinking I'd be being funny doing that ship. No, I really like that ship being petty. I'm not. I like it for real because I like the things about you. I just we had a misunderstanding. You feel saying ship ghost and his mother spooky sees. But sometimes some people like if you if they stop working with you and they see something and see you going doing good or whatever it is, they're still not gonna like that ship at all. Now they hell not gonna That is the definition. I think, what Hay, Though you can, you can, you can still not like them, but you can't. You ain't gotta congratulate. You ain't gota just don't see it. I think if you try to downplay a nigga some ship, you know you won't like nigga stupid here buying jin you're talking about that, But you got nigga to do that. But what about I feel like then you do ain't right? Like you know everybody won't be colo. You got Bredy the third one in America, got them me and got them Bill Gates. What the nigga want? Only to win the motherfucker better? Mother? Don't ride right? How you do like that cover? But is it hating if you see somebody that you once was cool with or like just Instagram, but you you see them doing good and you don't like it or anything like that. But if you like it, if you like it and don't like it, you hate it. What if it's just one of those don't we don't I do this like it's people that are like we I know, we don't we we fell out on some like some misunderstanding ship. But you know you still be kind of egoed out. But but I'll still go look on the Instagram to make sure they're still be doing good and I'll see them doing good that ye just listen, ya ain't hear me? I said, it's some people that I may have fell out with from misunderstanding. I don't want nothing bad to happen to them. I don't wish bad on them. I'll go look and check up on them to make sure, like, okay, they're still moving, they still got some motions. You look at the story, yea looking at you really like it? Yeah? If you're looking at somebody times if you ain't, no, yeah, I don't funk with or I don't like I'm not going to that page. I'm not what I'm saying. You're still liking it because they can see you. It's not no, listen, it's not hating because it's like, look, I genuinely don't want nothing bad. I'm not wishing bad for you. I just know that our little fallout was misunderstanding. Stay upstairs from hating, I don't tell you, but now things like even if I see you, even if I see you out, we don't speak, but it being on something like what's like we still Like what I'm saying is if I don't sunk with somebody, I don't want to be on that page. I'm not somebody. When it happens, I go mute. She basically saying, she just she basically saying to me, she's saying that we won'ta funte with each other. But I can't to miss because you search your mother, you miss you might be the reason to shout. Just misunderstanding, Yeah, like it just misunderstands, not like like like you have some people you don't funk with. You ain't looking on their page or none of Yeah, yeah you have people, but you have some people that it's like damn, like I wonder how so and so do well with you? Miss? But but if you but if you're looking at their story and they see you looking at the story, that's that's a form of communication. Yeah, that's like that that's somebody. Yeah no mom, no, mom saying that if you allow the motherucker see you watch their story from your page, you flirt with them like it just take a conversation. Yeah you don't period like whatever y'all have, Like this is like my my first gesture, my white flag, Like yeah, but I ain't. But I'm still standing on funk you but I'm but I'm still now not really you saw me see your story, so now on you own the ball in your court and see what I do the same thing, But I'm not. I'm not gonna do it from my page. And it's not to see if they're doing well and you hate you're still down bad. They don't need me thinking like that. No damn yeah, yeah, white man, that's what I feeling like, I'm not gonna I'm not gonna get you the benefit of the dot, but you're gonna gonna spine. I'm not gonna spine. It's not some every day ship might be like. But still like I'm gonna look, I'm gonna I'm gonna look at somebody's page, who I don't we just make sure they're still doing bad to faith page do for you? Bro' closing ain't gonna help you? How does how does that help me? Because that's really those those seconds that you use, those negative thoughts another thought to go towards big home and house in a big home, Joe doing big home and show you right. You could have been thinking of some but it does give me a little um. It's the race. It does boost my ego to none of my ots are doing weather life. Wow. If he does not have on an AP's not mine. Oh God, grant conversations. They don't Big Fact Friday. Make sure you check us out. Triple does not Big Facts pod dot com. Well that chicken out Big Fact Friday. Let that chicken out the street. It's big fast, don't cap Fitch