and the Baby Mamas - Brittany Cartwright & Stassi Schroeder

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Speaker 1: What is up, Mommies and poppies. It is Lala Kent and today it is the Give Them La La with a Brittany and Stuffy podcast.

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Speaker 2: Oh yeah, oh my god, this feels good? Does it really does? I was having withdrawals.

00:00:28
Speaker 1: It's so weird. I feel like you've done this before, like you're so natural.

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Speaker 2: So dr cars?

00:00:37
Speaker 1: I thought, no, that shit's funny. I was actually going to open that way and I was like, I'm gonna ask, she'll do it. I didn't even have to drink cars, bitches. So last two weeks ago, the boys did their their podcast. Britt did you listen? Did you have a I'm not off?

00:00:56
Speaker 2: She totally didn't.

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Speaker 3: I can tell I didn't listen to the whole thing to inserts that you guys were posting that.

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Speaker 2: She listened to the one part where Bo and Randall said that our daughters wouldn't be able to date.

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Speaker 3: And my feeling.

00:01:08
Speaker 2: She got her feelings.

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Speaker 1: I knew it. I knew that was.

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Speaker 3: I am such an emotional wreck, and you guys know I already like get very emotional and I have like my feelings get hurt over the smallest little things.

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Speaker 1: I'm gonna let you know something with me. If your son is hot, my daughter can absolutely do That's right.

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Speaker 3: I'm like, all right, no, my baby, Oh my.

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Speaker 2: God, I tell you.

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Speaker 1: The second I heard that too, I was like, Randall, she is gonna hear that and be so hurt.

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Speaker 2: Now I feel bad that that didn't even register. I was like, this is a reflection on Jack's, not on your baby, I know, and I know that, like at first.

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Speaker 3: I did get upset though, and like Jackson was even like messaging Bo because yeah.

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Speaker 1: I know.

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Speaker 2: Bo came home and he was like Jack's gone, like Craig cray on me. And I was reading all these texts and.

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Speaker 3: I'm like, which I did not know about the text told me this last night. I would stopped it immediately.

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Speaker 2: This is how I describe it. And Kristin knows this, okay, christ It would be like if Kristin gave birth to a girl and I was having a boy and someone asked me, would you let your son date Kristen's daughter after Kristen's track record and her like crazy, no, no way.

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Speaker 3: I think it's just because I only heard that little clip and it was like so like hell no, like so against it.

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Speaker 2: I was like, oh my poor.

00:02:26
Speaker 1: Baby, Brittany. Just so you know, it's, like Stotsy said, one hundred percent, a reflection of like the past. Oh yeah, you know, like people are looking at my baby like that kid's gonna be so ratchet. Oh my god.

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Speaker 2: Yea. Honestly, I understand if no one wants to date my baby. It's like, oh my ex boyfriend so and.

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Speaker 3: Then I got over it very quick though, Like I got it set up first, and I wrote a comment under both picture and I said that's so mean. And then I went back and deleted it and I rewrote it, and I said my original message said that's so mean, but I deleted it because I thought people would think I'm really mad at you, because I'm not really mad obviously, you know, I get it. I actually go crazy and be like, oh, pretty mad atoles.

00:03:11
Speaker 1: Love to come out of their holes and and then my troll face it back into their hole. It's so annoying. But I when you had your gender Reville Brett, I wrote a comment that I thought was funny and that we all laughed at. At the time of the reveal, I was like, oh my gosh, your son is going to be so hot. He better stay the fuck away from my daughter, and then I deleted it instantly because I was like, I know, like, I know it's gonna come across away.

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Speaker 2: I'm sorry, everyone's gone soft.

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Speaker 1: Yeah.

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Speaker 3: Sorry, It's just because I've always been like that though, and I'm not really mad. You know, I got over it very quick, like I said, but for some reason, I just my mama bear instincts came out and I'm like, oh, hell no, they are not talking about my son.

00:03:57
Speaker 1: You know, your son's going to be a little other gentlemen, Britney Cartwright.

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Speaker 3: He's gonna be saying yes ma'am and no, ma'am, yes sir and everybody. I know, Light's gonna be like, where did this kid come from? That's gonna be my goal.

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Speaker 1: Of course. And you know what, Jackson is going to be a completely different human bo. You know, Bow's life wasn't filmed for the past eight years, so we don't quite know that's true. He was a dick or not that's true.

00:04:25
Speaker 2: He could have been a major fuck boy, and I just really don't know.

00:04:28
Speaker 3: I don't see it though. I know Jaxa has a past, and I always let people joke around and I don't take it serious. It just was that that little boy, he's got my heart wrapped around his finger.

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Speaker 1: So the boys were talking about by the way, Bo talking about how when Stossy touches. Since you didn't listen, Brittany, let me tell you what was said. This bitch doesn't even watch her show. So it's like, I'm not even shook that she didn't listen to the podcast.

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Speaker 3: Girl, I've been sicking non stop. I'm not sitting there.

00:05:04
Speaker 1: They're like a fucking rock star. But Bo says, he's like, I just love it because I watched Stacy touch her belly and she's like sending love through her hands to our baby. I was like, oh my gosh, it is so sweet. Like, how have your men changed since you got knocked up? Well, I guess you guys are both married, so you you're just like having a baby, like I have a baby daddy, and I got knocked up. You've been I'm proud of it.

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Speaker 3: It's like you've been you were being married already. But now if it wasn't for coke.

00:05:35
Speaker 1: Let's go with that. Yeah, of course, So how have these dudes changed?

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Speaker 3: Do you want to go first?

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Speaker 2: I just feel like everyone's gone really soft. But it's sweet.

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Speaker 1: It's so soft.

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Speaker 2: It's just really sweet to just like see your I think that's like probably my favorite part about being pregnant is seeing your significant other talk about the future, you know, and talk about what your baby's gonna be like, or how they're gonna want a pair and things like that. I can't imagine when like she actually gets here, like watching him with her.

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Speaker 3: This moments.

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Speaker 2: Oh yeah, I'm so fine your heart. Yeah, what about you, Brette.

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Speaker 3: Well, Jackson's just done amazing with the fact that I've been sick pretty much every single day and I'm I can't clean the house like normal, I can't like do a lot of things that I normally do. And he stepped up big time, like way more than I expected him. Today, he brings me breakfast in the mornings. I mean, he's just really like he's really really stepped up.

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Speaker 1: Just like Well, Jack's went with rand I think last weekend to Vegas and they were supposed to stay for the weekend. Yeah, Jackson was like itching to get home. He's like, you don't understand she's really sick, Like if she needs something, I need to be there. I'm like, who is this person?

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Speaker 3: Yeah, he's really stepped up in those.

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Speaker 1: Ways because he stepped up when you all got married. And now it's like, you know, I wish that I was sick so I could blame like I'm cooking, I'm not cooking and cleaning because I'm.

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Speaker 3: Really I mean, he's had to do a lot of that stuff and he never cleaned and stuff before, so he's really picking up when it's like.

00:07:07
Speaker 1: No one can clean when you're around here, freaking energizer bunny with them off.

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Speaker 2: It's the craziest shit I've ever seen.

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Speaker 3: So it's weird. Whenever I can't do as much, I get it, or if I'm stuck in bed all day, he always just comes and checks on me a lot, and you know, every morning, kisses my belly and asks how he's doing that.

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Speaker 2: Yeah, I don't want to like say it. It's like as these words like leaving my mouth and I'm like when he sings songs to it and talks, I love it. I'm like, God, I'm like I'm walking Pinterest board. I hate it. True.

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Speaker 1: So can I tell you my most favorite thing. The three of us are in a group chat and we just like check in on each other, like what's going on? With your babe. Mine's chilling today, and Stacy and I are always like, you know, we're cynical bitches. We're like, fuck this shit, our friend's gonna be gone soon. Obviously we're joking. And then there's Brittany who's like, I'm sick again today, but it'll all be worth it.

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Speaker 3: That's what I say every time, because I just have to keep telling myself. And Jack Jackson is already like, Brittany, are you gonna want to go through this again? Because you know I want like three kids, right, And I'm like, hell, yes I do. And he just is like, I can't believe that I'm already saying I want to go through it again.

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Speaker 2: You are a trooper. I just really have to bow down to Brittany that she has been sick every goddamn day of her from morning tonight, vomiting all day long. I didn't get even like a twinge of nausea one time, I know.

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Speaker 3: And you know, I had all the quote unquote all old wives tales of a girl, like the morning sickness, the you know, the Chinese and my en calendar stuff and just all that other little stuff, and you guys actually have the girls and I feel like I've been sicker than both of y'all combined, Like I had all the opposite Oh my gosh, about all the opposite signs of a baby boy.

00:09:00
Speaker 2: Yeah, my most annoying what like pregnancy symptom is just like constipation.

00:09:05
Speaker 1: That was so much con though. Well, for a minute, you guys, I was like, I'm getting a bump, and then I finally dropped like the best deuce ever I know that, and then my stomach is flat. I was like, what the fu?

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Speaker 3: Yeah, you are like a machine.

00:09:22
Speaker 2: I don't know what it's not. I know that sometimes you get insecure about your bump and you start comparing them. But I just need to let you know you are what we were hoping what happened to.

00:09:35
Speaker 3: Us with you in any second.

00:09:37
Speaker 2: I was hoping that I would I didn't have this flat of a stomach that you have now pre taken exactly same.

00:09:44
Speaker 1: Tell me I'm gonna have you guys on every day.

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Speaker 2: Yeah.

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Speaker 3: No, I'm always like, oh my god, she'd do a week before me, and I'm like tripled just I know.

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Speaker 1: But before any of us got pregnant, do you remember, I was like, I hope I'm fucking Kim Kardashians thick pregnant, like I just want to be a house because I I just think that the female body when it's pregnant is like the cutest, sweetest, most beautiful thing in the world. So and I know that sounds so weird because everyone's like, why would you want that. I'm like, when you were just slurging out of your Chanel's stacy, I saw that was very sweet.

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Speaker 2: Oh god, that was the worst. Okay, I take back, constipation wasn't my worst symptom. It was swelling, like and I've actually gotten a hold of it, like I wear compression socks and like I elevate my legs so like now I don't really get swollen that easily. But those couple of weeks, and especially when I was around.

00:10:39
Speaker 3: You guys in Vegas walking around probably walking around that was so uncomfortable.

00:10:44
Speaker 2: I looked like Kim Kardashian when she was wearing those heels. It's disgusting, you know.

00:10:50
Speaker 1: It was so cute and I felt bad for your little sausage feet, Like I was like, you take the shoes off, like their chic we got it, your chek mom to be. But it was cute. I love it.

00:11:03
Speaker 2: You know what, Just thank your lucky stars that you are the way that you are.

00:11:06
Speaker 3: Oh yeah, because Instagram trolls would not give you a rest trust made.

00:11:10
Speaker 1: Oh honey, they tell me that I need to feed my baby and they ask who my surrogate is. I was like, me and my baby say fuck you, bump sham us.

00:11:20
Speaker 3: All right, I mean it's been bad, like we post you guys posted that video or that picture of us from the craft. I feel like people have been so made. I mean even this more, I'm just so emotional. I can't hardly handle it.

00:11:31
Speaker 1: People need to.

00:11:31
Speaker 3: Chill the hell out.

00:11:32
Speaker 2: No, I don't understand the awful the bump shaming is. It's I didn't realize it was like this epidemic. You don't realize it until you become pregnant and you're so aware, and as somebody who's going through pregnancy, you're so out of control of your own body. Even you, even though you have the smallest bump, I imagine that you still feel uncomfortable and weirded out just by like, okay, well my stomach isn't as flat as it used to be, Like I'm any weight in places that I'm not used to and I can't control that. Yes, And then to have people who don't know you or know you just comment directly where you can see it that you look awful or get a hold of yourself. It's like I am literally creating a fucking alien in my stomach right, sit the fuck down. Yeah, Like I can't even believe that. The shaming, it's.

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Speaker 3: It's awful, And like I've always waited for this moment. I've always wanted to be pregnant, and like I was so excited and even me like seeing my bump change and stuff. It's hard to say, like I'm so happy that I have it, and I feel so blessed that I'm you know, that I'm pregnant finally, but seeing my stomic change and like getting my first stretch mark, like I cried.

00:12:42
Speaker 2: Yeah.

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Speaker 3: And then so like people don't realize, like what you're saying, it really can hurt your feelings because you're going through it yourself. And these women don't understand. I guess, like don't. I just never thought so many women would act the way.

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Speaker 2: It's crazy, it's awful, it's insane.

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Speaker 1: It's one of those things where it's like we all talk like all in this zone of like female power and like I so badly want to rock hard with women, but my Instagram feed is full of women slamming me on a regular basis. How can I say I'm down for these women when they're the ones that are made Like I look in the mirror and I'm like, I don't even know myself and what like why am I feeling ashamed that my bump isn't big enough? Like this is my bump exactly, this is my baby, like back off, And you know what's so crazy is because I'm pregnant my bump is too small. But say I didn't say anything. Everyone be like you're skipping ap day, stop eating your stomach is oh yeah. It's like I can't imagine going on to someone's Instagram that I don't know and saying these things I want. I would love to like find women that have dragged stassy Britt myself and bring them in and interview them and be like, I went through your head. I don't know you decided to.

00:14:02
Speaker 2: Walk me through your thought process why I thought this was a good idea? Exactly?

00:14:06
Speaker 1: Yes, yes, And a lot of these women because when I see these comments, I go to their page because I'm like, maybe they're just like really miserable.

00:14:13
Speaker 3: These women have children, I know, I know.

00:14:16
Speaker 1: I'm like, I'm a school teacher.

00:14:18
Speaker 3: I'm like, what, I can't I don't understand where it comes from.

00:14:23
Speaker 1: Y'all are worried about Bander Pump Rules being on the air. I'm worried that you're out there teaching children, and I'm concerned about they're showing.

00:14:31
Speaker 3: All these kids bullying like that is okay, it's terrible. It is.

00:14:35
Speaker 1: And I saw there's like a fan account. I think it's like, sir Rules. I don't know if it's the underscore or whatever, but they show everybody that's ever been on the show an incredible amount of love. They're super positive, Like I love this account, and I don't remember bringing you if it was your bumper mine. But people were being unkind. I don't know that they were being unkind. I just assume by what this sir. The account replied, telling people like if you come to this page to bump shame these women who are creating human beings, like, get the fuck out of here. Yes, you know these are women. You're shaming their bodies and they're creating lives and I loved her for that. I commented, I was like, thank you, because it does hurt our feelings.

00:15:19
Speaker 3: Yeah, it really can't, especially with all the extra hormones we have. Like I might normally let some comments and stuff, but now it's like, if you see it, it catches it even harder than I did before.

00:15:29
Speaker 1: Don't come for our unborn, No, hell no, I'm already having to deal with my thighs chafing all of the sudden, and I don't need you to point it out. Yes, you're like, I'm well aware I look like a heffer these days, you asshole.

00:15:44
Speaker 3: How many times can people say you never know what somebody's going through, so you should always treat somebody kind and nobody does that anymore. It's sad I'm worried about I was just.

00:15:53
Speaker 2: About to say, you know.

00:15:55
Speaker 3: That makes me sad, like I hope our kids, like they're gonna have to grow up in this like social media world, and I worry about that all the time.

00:16:02
Speaker 1: How do you feel about that, because that scares me too.

00:16:04
Speaker 2: It's yeah, I feel like it's easier.

00:16:08
Speaker 1: Just shove him into sports.

00:16:10
Speaker 3: You know. Well, I hope i'll have a girl some point. So but I just it just is kind of worry. You know, no matter what, you're gonna worry about that because people are tell me not only are they bullied in school, now they go home and they're bullied online. Right, So it's like you can't get away from it anymore. Not like us When I have Facebook, when I was like a senior, that was like the big thing. People didn't do that back then.

00:16:32
Speaker 1: I I got Instagram when I signed on to vander Pump Rules same.

00:16:36
Speaker 2: I think it was like my second yeah, yeah, my second season. I was like, well, I guess I better have this, you know. Yeah, so I was like a grown woman. But I worry about that too, Like when do you get it.

00:16:49
Speaker 1: Gross? You should keep.

00:16:57
Speaker 2: The other day, literally we were going to sleep and he's like, I just want to let you know I heard you burp today, and I did. I'm like, is that that's the first time, the first time he's ever heard me burp. I didn't even I couldn't even like come up with like a reply, a response. I was just like, this is what, why and why bring it to my attention?

00:17:18
Speaker 1: That's the first I'm more shook that that's the first time he's ever heard you burn.

00:17:22
Speaker 2: I am very polite in front of my significant.

00:17:25
Speaker 1: Ho you farted in front of him?

00:17:26
Speaker 2: Absolutely not? Oh my god, no, absolutely, Brittany and I are like, no, I get all the stomach aches in the world holding it.

00:17:36
Speaker 3: Jack is not that type, like he just lets everything lower.

00:17:39
Speaker 1: So okay, I'm gonna get really grosser.

00:17:43
Speaker 2: Now do you tell me that you have shipped in front of Randall? I am walking out right now one hundred times. Are you joking?

00:17:51
Speaker 1: No, I'm not joking.

00:17:53
Speaker 3: The the door's always open in our house.

00:17:55
Speaker 2: You guys have pooped in front.

00:17:56
Speaker 3: Of well Jack, Sometimes you come in there and talk to me and I'm like, yet out, I'm pooping, and he wants to get I am.

00:18:03
Speaker 1: So I draw the line at wiping in front of him.

00:18:05
Speaker 2: I don't know, Oh my god, to what you just like you poop and then you like sit and be like, hey, I need to wipe. Can you leave now?

00:18:14
Speaker 1: Well?

00:18:14
Speaker 3: Jap In. Sometimes it's not like he's already and they're not coming there.

00:18:18
Speaker 1: It's in the bathroom. It's like he's in the bathtub and I'm on the toilet and I'm like talking about our day. He doesn't know I'm pooping I'm sure he will. Now, I'm just like, no, I'm trying to pee. I get lonely in.

00:18:31
Speaker 2: There, like like the other side of the house.

00:18:35
Speaker 3: Wow, oh my god, open up, girl, show What about when you're like nine years old? He's gonna wipe your ass.

00:18:43
Speaker 2: At that point, I'm not gonna be worried about like feeling sexy right in front of him.

00:18:48
Speaker 1: How did I know that Stotsy's such a fucking prude. I'm gonna save I'll tell you later. Bread I the other day, I want to hear. All right, I'll tell you after there were going to the break. We'll be right back. All right, y'all, We are back with my bad bitches, Mama de bees. We have Stacy and Brittany. Hey, oh hey girl.

00:19:14
Speaker 3: Hey, I have to say something when my name was said.

00:19:20
Speaker 1: You know you, guys, I'm the most awkward person whenever I do anything where they introduce me and I you know how you like wave to the camera not to have inslive or something, and I have like, all right, pace, all right, back to these babes. Brittany, when when is your projected do date?

00:19:40
Speaker 3: April thirteenth?

00:19:42
Speaker 1: So how many days?

00:19:43
Speaker 2: Eight days?

00:19:44
Speaker 3: We're eight days apart.

00:19:45
Speaker 1: You guind we were bumping peepees so close together.

00:19:50
Speaker 3: I was already pregnant when you told me and liked. I found out like the next couple of days after you told me, so magical, Like you guys could go into labor the same day. Oh yeah, we so could.

00:20:04
Speaker 2: You could be partners, like just right down the hall from each other. Like how fun would that value?

00:20:09
Speaker 1: We should be in the same room and we are legs should be facing each other.

00:20:18
Speaker 3: Oh my gosh.

00:20:19
Speaker 1: So a lot of people have because we're all pregnant at the same time. So naturally people would be like, what's going on? You know, everyone's like, where was there a pregnancy pact? And I mean there kind of was, yeah, kind of yes.

00:20:36
Speaker 2: I mean we didn't like draw blood and like shake hands, you know what I mean. We didn't do any spells.

00:20:41
Speaker 3: We we wanted to get said.

00:20:43
Speaker 2: Hey, that would be really cool. Let's take that seriously if we can one.

00:20:47
Speaker 1: Day and wow, I can't leave with you, Stacy, I have to draw blood to make it. That was real of a pact as I've ever had in my whole life.

00:20:57
Speaker 2: Okay, well so then yes.

00:20:59
Speaker 1: And yes, and we did it in the most bougie way possible Paris, Right, No.

00:21:06
Speaker 2: I thought that we did so upset that you do.

00:21:09
Speaker 3: I think we just talked about it in Cabo, right, was it Cabo?

00:21:13
Speaker 1: All right, let me break it down for you.

00:21:14
Speaker 2: Yeah, please, God, it's all that xannex.

00:21:16
Speaker 1: That you still You guys were getting drunk, as you should have been. I was like two days sober, so I was already emotional as fuck, and this was like the most exciting thing that had happened to me since I entered my first day meeting. We are on the private jet to Cabo the first time. Yes, okay, to celebrate Jackson Brittany's engagement.

00:21:39
Speaker 2: Oh, this was the time I quit Adderall okay, correct, I remember this.

00:21:44
Speaker 3: Yep.

00:21:45
Speaker 1: When our babies are born, we're going to play this podcast for me. They're going to be so proud. And we were sitting in the back of the plane at the table, the little foursome, and we said that we all wanted to have babies together because it was like Katie was married, you had found your dude, you had found bo I finally wasn't hated by the group, and we made a pact that we were gonna have babies together.

00:22:10
Speaker 3: And crazy. I know it's crazy, it's really working.

00:22:13
Speaker 2: I really like that story that actually is coming back to me, and I was about right. I just couldn't remember when we actually like solidified it well, but Saucy sent me a clip Fromader Roles today and it was we had went to look for the place that we had my engagement party at that season.

00:22:30
Speaker 3: Yes, and it was something like I was like, let's all have babies together, and Saucy of course, was like I told her I want her to wait this gance pregnant first.

00:22:41
Speaker 2: Listen. Mine was kind of on accident.

00:22:45
Speaker 3: Okay, I'm so happy, Like on Easter.

00:22:49
Speaker 2: I thought it would be funny to be like, hey, actually come inside on Easter because if this really happened, that means that my baby's like blessed literally hashtag blessed. And it happened.

00:23:00
Speaker 1: WHOA.

00:23:01
Speaker 2: When I heard both telled like tell stories like on the last one, I was like, oh, my stories are better.

00:23:07
Speaker 1: Hold on, what is your what is your conceiving story?

00:23:11
Speaker 3: Well, Jackson and I had been trying for like six months without any luck. I was using all the you know, all the sticks and my apps and doing all that stuff. But whenever I actually got pregnant was whenever my mom was really sick and we were in Kentucky and I had rented a houseboat for his birthday. Okay, and obviously we weren't hooking up all the month at my mom's house because we were staying in the house with her. We literally had sex one time, and I got pregnant with my baby boy while while we were uh you know, had that airbnb and so we weren't at the house, did you I promise mom, it was not at your house.

00:23:49
Speaker 1: Yeah, sure, it wasn't at your house. But were you hollering at him being like I checked my float out, you gotta do it?

00:23:57
Speaker 3: Oh? Yes, because we didn't have much time because I was obviously helping my mom the whole time. So right, I was like, it's tied right now. And then we had to check out of our air Our airban bad today, I am. So I was like, come on, Jack's now. Like it was not romantic at all. It was literally like get the job done. And then I put my legs up in the air. And now I'm sixteen and a half weeks pregnant.

00:24:19
Speaker 1: I love how You're like, it was not your your house, mom, and I had my legs in the air, and then I got pregnant.

00:24:24
Speaker 2: Did you put your legs in the air like afterwards?

00:24:28
Speaker 1: Oh, afters after because I was like moving.

00:24:30
Speaker 3: I was like, come come on in, Yeah, come on in.

00:24:35
Speaker 1: Wel come home baby. Well, Randon, I had tried for like two months. The first month was when I took my IUD out, so I kind of already knew like.

00:24:44
Speaker 3: It might take a oh, it's just a practice run.

00:24:46
Speaker 1: Then the next month still didn't happen. But I will say for three months I was about to have lockjaw syndrome, because you know, my man's grown, so it takes a little bit of like liqu like sucky.

00:25:01
Speaker 3: Her mom is in the room. I love this.

00:25:04
Speaker 1: Hopefully this is like Lisa's heard. She's laughing her ass off. So even though it was like very much like I want something called a baby and I need your help to get that, it was like it was sexy, like I always made sure I had like the lingerie. I'd call the hotel room and be like, can you have chocolate and use the vibrator on the balls or whatever you know to make it fun so he doesn't feel like I'm just using and abusing it. I didn't have the one thing.

00:25:40
Speaker 3: The other months it was fine, but the one month actually got pregnant, it was like, get the job done.

00:25:44
Speaker 1: By the way, I'm not saying this because I'm judging you, because everyone knows you're a much bigger freak than I know. You know, I talk like I'm a freak. I'm not that big of a freak.

00:25:54
Speaker 3: She sounds like the freakiest girl on the planet. Like I just like to lay there.

00:26:00
Speaker 1: When people ask me my favorite position, I'm like dead fish. You ever heard of randle?

00:26:05
Speaker 2: Which is what.

00:26:06
Speaker 3: Cracks me up.

00:26:09
Speaker 1: But no, I was like putting in work because I was like, I cannot you know, I'm already like dead fish half the time. I at least needed him to remember, like, oh I remember when we conceived. Hell, yeah, you know.

00:26:21
Speaker 2: I like the effort that you put it.

00:26:22
Speaker 1: I did put an effort. However, we am about to spill. Some beans have not had sex since we conceived.

00:26:30
Speaker 2: Well, that's you.

00:26:32
Speaker 3: You had a raison.

00:26:33
Speaker 2: Yeah you had, That's true. I expected that, honestly, just because you had so many, you know issues that.

00:26:41
Speaker 3: But okay, me and Jacks have not near as much as before. I was pregnant, but I'm sick twenty four seven. The last thing I want is dingling in my face.

00:26:48
Speaker 2: Okay, well, let me tell you.

00:26:54
Speaker 1: For the best podcast I've ever done.

00:26:58
Speaker 2: If you try and have sex, I say this, it has become so painful for me. It feels like I'm a born again virgin, like for how pretty much the whole time right.

00:27:12
Speaker 1: Away it's just physicians, all positions.

00:27:15
Speaker 2: It takes me so long to ease myself into it, but I like still am like making an effort, like I do it like once or twice a week, but it is like that's good. We have to be very slow and gentle and loopy and just like making sure like it's the whole time. It's not like really hot anymore because he's like, are you sure it's okay?

00:27:35
Speaker 1: Is it?

00:27:35
Speaker 2: Are you sure? Does it hurt?

00:27:38
Speaker 1: Knocked up?

00:27:38
Speaker 2: With where he's like, it's not about worrying about the baby. I'm like, we're both like baby fine, being rug to sleep. It's the fact that like I feel like a virgin. I truly do.

00:27:51
Speaker 3: I say that I can tell you're pregnant because of that, because like your starvix tightens up and stuff I've heard that before where people were like my husband I was before I did.

00:28:01
Speaker 2: Wow, that's so interesting.

00:28:02
Speaker 3: Yeah, so much sun google it.

00:28:06
Speaker 1: Oh my gosh, I'm gonna dress up because he can close his eyes and be like, I'm with a totally different chick right.

00:28:11
Speaker 3: Now, especially if you haven't it all since you were pregnant. I mean, it would probably.

00:28:15
Speaker 1: Feel like a different show about that. The first At first I had the blood clot so I was bleeding in the they said absolutely no sex. Then like two or three weeks ago, I go in and they say, by the way, still no sex because your placenta is very low. I don't mess around with stuff like that. That's fine, But for the first little while in my pregnancy, I was sick, not like you, Britt, but like you're feeling great, And had I been able to have sex, I could have been dead fish, sick, dead fish. Randall's like, well, you can still do blow jobs, and like I can't even.

00:28:57
Speaker 2: Oh my god, I prefer job now any day we're having sex. Are you kidding me?

00:29:03
Speaker 1: Do them before? No?

00:29:05
Speaker 2: I would never prefer them before. Way too lazy that. It's like no. Now, I'm just like, can I just give you a bow job? And said my.

00:29:13
Speaker 1: Dad, I'm gonna let you know break because you didn't listen to the Boys podcast. I'm gonna keep reminding you you didn't listen, all right. I will not thank you as one of my listeners.

00:29:26
Speaker 3: I'm just I support you a post about you.

00:29:29
Speaker 1: I'm chelsy sensitive.

00:29:34
Speaker 2: It's a joke.

00:29:34
Speaker 1: I'm not gonna I know I'm talking to you anymore. But this is very different than the Boys.

00:29:41
Speaker 3: Oh yeah, I'm talking about they didn't talk.

00:29:42
Speaker 1: About this corny cheesy. Look at producer Stacy.

00:29:46
Speaker 2: She's like, I know they were so corny. I rolled my eyes so many times. I'm like, Okay, did you guys literally write this out in a script?

00:29:55
Speaker 1: Like?

00:29:55
Speaker 2: How do we sound like we're gonna be the best odds in the world. I know it's getting real here.

00:30:01
Speaker 1: Leave it to the women, right, What are you most afraid of when you go into labor?

00:30:09
Speaker 3: I'm gonna poop on the table.

00:30:12
Speaker 2: I would love to because that would mean.

00:30:14
Speaker 1: Regular that's your biggest fear.

00:30:20
Speaker 3: I mean, I I'm not like you guys. I don't have that issue. So I'm just like, I know it's natural and it might happen, but.

00:30:26
Speaker 1: I think it's for sure gonna happen to you.

00:30:28
Speaker 3: Yeah, it's gonna.

00:30:29
Speaker 2: Happen to me.

00:30:29
Speaker 3: Yeah, but I guess, like more seriously, I just don't want to have to have a c section or something. I want to be able to have it naturally. I mean, I'm gonna get efidoal don't don't think I'm gonna be like, oh, just wheat or whatever you use.

00:30:41
Speaker 2: I don't know do people use weat.

00:30:44
Speaker 1: I have no idea.

00:30:46
Speaker 3: I want to have a natural birth, but like with an EFFI.

00:30:50
Speaker 2: I'm not imaginal bird imaginal birth right right, yes.

00:30:53
Speaker 1: And by the way, I know all of our biggest fears come into like the health, yes, of course, but I'm I'm talking about like the funny ship. Like you're most afraid poop on the table. You're not even gonna know if you poop on the table, probably not. I've had my friend's mom pooped with all four kids I don't know, and she was like, I had no idea until I was like home from the house.

00:31:16
Speaker 3: I think you feel like you're pooping anyway.

00:31:17
Speaker 1: Well, yeah, that's what I've heard.

00:31:20
Speaker 2: They say that, like nurses and your doctor like you to poop because that means you're doing it right.

00:31:24
Speaker 3: I don't know. You have to make me feel better. Maybe I won't worry.

00:31:27
Speaker 1: I don't want my baby coming out anywhere near a pile.

00:31:31
Speaker 3: Of ships exactly onto like a freaking pile of poop. When he comes out, how it works.

00:31:37
Speaker 2: He has just like free like just pop out and fall on the Floor's not a doctor there and get it.

00:31:43
Speaker 4: But I like you, he's right next to my but so like when you poop, the nurse and will quickly before you even notice, wipe it up, like oh god, oh my god.

00:31:55
Speaker 1: We really do turn into cows that day.

00:32:00
Speaker 2: What is your What are you scared of?

00:32:02
Speaker 1: I'm most afraid of the epidural, that is I am.

00:32:06
Speaker 2: I am kind of scared, so scared of people say that it hurts.

00:32:10
Speaker 1: It's a huge now in your spine. And by the way, every time I go to my doctor and they have to draw blood, I have to lay down flat on the table and they have to give me a lot of June you are.

00:32:21
Speaker 3: She started throwing up when Katie cut her finger and when we were at her gender reveal, she's bad with blood.

00:32:26
Speaker 1: Don't like it at all. If I did a natural birth, I would pass out.

00:32:30
Speaker 3: Oh I could not do a natural, natural birth. No, that's what I should say, a vaginal birch.

00:32:36
Speaker 2: Right.

00:32:37
Speaker 1: So the epidural is I mean, I.

00:32:38
Speaker 3: Praise the women who could do it natural without the any kind of medicine ornythinges.

00:32:44
Speaker 1: Where they like take a picture and in the background is like a giant pool just gonna give birth in. I'm like, oh my yeah.

00:32:51
Speaker 3: Superhero exactly. I just know so many of my family and friends that had epidural and their babies are perfectly safe, and they they got to, you know, enjoy the experience a little bit more and but don't be present and feel it. That's what I want.

00:33:03
Speaker 1: I don't need to feel it. I don't need to feel shit.

00:33:07
Speaker 3: Are you gonna what are your plans? Saucy?

00:33:09
Speaker 2: Yeah, I mean I'm just gonna. I've been really chill. Everyone keeps asking me, like, what is can what's your birth plan? Have you written your birth plan yet? And I'm like, no, you write it down. You literally a lot of people write it down and hand it to the nurses and the doctors, and I'm like, I've read now, like I feel like eleven books, listen to like every freaking podcast there is, and I'm like, nothing ever goes the way that it's planned, you plan anyway, So like, why am I going to write this whole list of things that I want that will not actually ever go that way? And then I'm just gonna be disappointed in the experience. So my birth plan is to have no birth plan and to go in there and be like making decisions on the fly.

00:33:49
Speaker 3: Yeah, I like that.

00:33:50
Speaker 2: Yeah. Biggest fear though you don't even have one. You guys are gonna be so annoyed with my answer. I like can't think of one.

00:33:56
Speaker 3: I like, don't have any fear that I don't have my makeup on whenever she gets here.

00:34:04
Speaker 1: I've been testing, are you y?

00:34:07
Speaker 3: I'm a makeup on?

00:34:08
Speaker 2: I am going to I literally these bitches are correating make up, waterproof my scara. I've been testing all of it. Yes, Oh hell no.

00:34:18
Speaker 1: I am going with the most bomb moisturizer and vasiline caked all over my eyes because I feel like I'm gonna need to be moisturized that day because when it comes out, I'm gonna feel a little depleted and I can't be having eyes flaky mass scara.

00:34:34
Speaker 2: I will I might even pop some ball silas.

00:34:39
Speaker 3: So we have good Photos announcement. I don't want my baby boy thinking his mama's up.

00:34:47
Speaker 1: Yeah, Like, oh, my baby is just gonna know I'm really hot.

00:34:57
Speaker 2: It's a joke.

00:34:58
Speaker 3: I can't really hot without your man.

00:34:59
Speaker 1: Just so you're for me, I'm not upset about you getting ready. All right, We're going to a break. This is the best podcast I've ever done.

00:35:06
Speaker 2: For real.

00:35:06
Speaker 1: I don't even need brandall anymore. We're backed bitches. Dracoris car I asked Dosy's Schuldern Britain Cartwright couchy, Hey, you like going by couch he or is it more Taylor?

00:35:23
Speaker 3: Well, now that my son is gonna be couchy, I feel like I'm getting ready to put it in my bio because everybody's gonna be like, where the hell is cauchy from. I know, some like true Banner Pump Rules fans know that Jackson's bays name is really couchy. But a lot of people, I mean, I even got wedding gifts that said Taylor. You know a lot of people don't know. Even close people that know me didn't know his last thing was couchy. Yeah, so don't worry. His first thing it's gonna be cute.

00:35:50
Speaker 1: I don't want the last name Cauchy either.

00:35:52
Speaker 2: I don't know why.

00:35:52
Speaker 3: I mean I like it because you know, his dad is so important to him and no matter what, he wasn't gonna not have Coouchy and I would I would never do. I'm very traditional when it comes to that.

00:36:02
Speaker 2: So now they're definitely worst last name.

00:36:05
Speaker 3: Yeah.

00:36:05
Speaker 2: I mean, it's not like top five best ones, but like they I.

00:36:08
Speaker 3: Just like my last name. And where he goes by Taylor, it was just such a it was gonna be a weird transition because nobody goes by Couchie. But I got us a big sign in our house that says like Couchie Homestead. You know, I'm introducing, so we're.

00:36:21
Speaker 2: More used to it.

00:36:22
Speaker 1: And I get because didn't he take Taylor because that was his mom's maid name. Super cute. So Kent was my dad's first name that I took is my last name. But my real last name is Burningham.

00:36:36
Speaker 3: Yeah, I like.

00:36:39
Speaker 2: It, so it's like Cartwright. It sounds like bougie southern bie at ship, I.

00:36:48
Speaker 1: Had a British accent and I was like, my name is Lorne Burningham. It'll be like, oh from Buckingham Palace. But I don't from Utah, you know, so when people are like and I want to change it, but again it's like, oh.

00:37:04
Speaker 3: Dag yeah, respect here.

00:37:06
Speaker 1: Yeah, I can't be sucking that up.

00:37:08
Speaker 3: And when you get married, your glass name's gonna be in it, right, So cute.

00:37:12
Speaker 2: Yeah, and it's a cute. It is a really cute name. And Clark, right, Clark's great classic.

00:37:17
Speaker 3: It's yeah, you know, ketchy, especially now that I have my son's name picked out, like it goes perfectly together, and I like love it more and more aage day. It's just you know, it's not Taylor's.

00:37:30
Speaker 1: When you told us the name, because when we text, we can you know. Staus and I have the names already, yeah, and yours was always just like baby boy has baby boy doing Now they feel like real.

00:37:42
Speaker 3: People don't know that he's finally named for like a week, like not very long, right.

00:37:49
Speaker 1: It's brand new, brand new name. So Stas was saying that she's not much of a planner, but I call bullshit because I've seen your nursery.

00:37:59
Speaker 2: Oh no, I'm a planner, just not pregniced. Not my yeah, because come on, yes, my nursery's done.

00:38:08
Speaker 3: It's super cute. Brittany's I put together my crib yesterday.

00:38:12
Speaker 1: I can't you guys, I'm gonna be so honest with you right now. I when I watched Stacy's story, it doesn't send me into panic because granted you're due much sooner.

00:38:25
Speaker 2: Before you you have time, so much time.

00:38:27
Speaker 1: Oh really, I have time. It has to be built because not even I don't even have a room. But I don't even have a structure.

00:38:33
Speaker 3: But you're gonna get all this stuff you need for her no matter what.

00:38:36
Speaker 1: But walking into your baby's nursery, I went into panic. Oh no, I mean no, for real, Stacey, we walk I walk in racks, close, close close. Randall on the podcast was like, my girl spent she's online spending hundreds of dollars. I'm like, bitch, our baby has one drawer right now.

00:39:00
Speaker 2: Oh my god, I love it.

00:39:01
Speaker 3: He was lying.

00:39:04
Speaker 1: In his mind that that's crazy. Yeah, I have a drawer. I'm like, you need to go Brits because you will, don't.

00:39:12
Speaker 3: I'm thirteen nikes in one setting for my son.

00:39:16
Speaker 2: Thirteen.

00:39:17
Speaker 1: By the way, we're taking pictures when the babes come. Because two of the pair that you have, you got, I got Yeah, before I knew that my babe was a girl, and she's still gonna rock.

00:39:30
Speaker 2: I like the I'm.

00:39:31
Speaker 3: Gonna save these for the next kid, whether it's a girl or a boy. Of course, I know they grow fast.

00:39:35
Speaker 1: And by the way, how annoying is that?

00:39:38
Speaker 3: Oh it's like your baby girls fast. You shouldn't buy shoes. I'm like, he has to have shoes for his outfits. What are you talking about? Girls?

00:39:44
Speaker 2: Let me have fun.

00:39:45
Speaker 3: I know, I just love preparing. I'm like, I have all I've bought my snow already. I mean Stacy said she didn't yet. I already bought mine.

00:39:53
Speaker 1: I'm like, you haven't even bought your snow.

00:39:56
Speaker 3: I just mean like, I'm way too our lane.

00:40:00
Speaker 2: But you know, my least man too early. My least favorite comment on Instagram to get is like the moms who will write and be like, oh, first time mom issues, Like because we're buying all this stuff. Oh this is first time mom. Then you'll know better once you actually are mom of one. It's like, shut up.

00:40:18
Speaker 3: The first time mom. My good.

00:40:21
Speaker 2: I just want to put shoes on her so I can take photos. I know that I can be walking around like getting coffee exactly.

00:40:30
Speaker 1: My first time mom sting that's called you. You should have stopped at one, you know, because then their kids kind of got ratchet looking, you know, like shut the fuck up. My friend's from back home. By the way, my news resolution is to stop cussing so much. I know, I see my mom keep dropping that ford.

00:40:50
Speaker 2: So that's actually, guys, that's actually a really good point. And we all you don't curse that much.

00:40:54
Speaker 3: No, not that much. But if I'm on a rampage, I.

00:40:56
Speaker 2: Will I when I know you're mad, I need to stop too.

00:41:00
Speaker 1: I need to say too, We'll rock it till the wheels fall off and then January. You should start now, I should.

00:41:07
Speaker 2: I need to lean myself off.

00:41:09
Speaker 3: My mom always calls me out, even to this day. I'm thirty get maybe thirty two, and she still is like if I said ship or something, she looked at me like Brittany.

00:41:16
Speaker 2: It's awful.

00:41:17
Speaker 3: It's it's awful, Like sorry, mom. So that's why I kind of censor myself because because.

00:41:22
Speaker 1: Of her, you were so respectful of you.

00:41:25
Speaker 3: I love her.

00:41:26
Speaker 1: She's living like looking at me with a disapproving She's.

00:41:30
Speaker 3: Been her a lot. I just gotta shut up, mom.

00:41:32
Speaker 1: I'm just kidding, it's a jokey Where were we again?

00:41:39
Speaker 3: Pregnancy Brian out day.

00:41:45
Speaker 1: I will tangent for an hour to some person that maybe asked me one question who I don't even know, and I'm like, what was the point of me telling?

00:41:54
Speaker 3: I know, sitting here trying to answer your questions. I can't think of words fast enough.

00:41:58
Speaker 2: I know, I just got in my head. I'm like, have I actually spoken during this podcast? Like I feel like but like I can't think.

00:42:06
Speaker 3: She's that girl.

00:42:07
Speaker 1: Okay, So you conceived in La. You conceived in Kentucky maida, Kentucky may Baby. My baby was created in Puerto Rico, which, by the way, it was a boy. I still wanted him to be named Rico. How cute is that cute? Because Puerto Rico he would be like made in Puerto Rico. Yes, I was into that idea. So I'm bringing rand over to see your guys closets nurseries so that he can shut up about the one drawer that I cleaned out. I think he's mad because I cleaned out his drawer. Of course, you know, I was like, can you get rid of these things? Do you wear these? He's like, all my pickleball gear. Yeah, I wear that every day. I'm like, can you find like a bin for it?

00:42:54
Speaker 2: Maybe?

00:42:56
Speaker 3: Oh, by the way, I had two outfits and I forgot to bring him today for you.

00:42:59
Speaker 1: Don't worry because I had a gift for both your guys's babies. How fun is that? Though, Like now I don't even think about getting you guys gifts. I think about getting your babies.

00:43:08
Speaker 2: I know it is fun.

00:43:09
Speaker 1: That's so fun.

00:43:10
Speaker 3: We don't need anything. I'll take all the baby stuff I don't.

00:43:15
Speaker 1: And I want to do the thing you guys that we do pictures when they're like first born to go.

00:43:22
Speaker 3: Yeah, we're gonna recreate the one from gender reveal. Yes, that's our first baby picture. Ship.

00:43:29
Speaker 2: I am so here for I'm gonna be the.

00:43:33
Speaker 1: You will be whenever.

00:43:34
Speaker 3: Your kids comes over. I'm gonna have all the craft set out. You're on the table ready for them to play. It's gonna be great.

00:43:41
Speaker 1: You're gonna be can I tell you and this You're gonna be an awesome We're all gonna be We're all gonna be good obviously. But like I don't cook, I don't bake, I don't do arts and crafts, you know, like, we're going to Chanelle today and we're gonna get you your first boy bag.

00:44:00
Speaker 3: Well, you can my house and I will do it with her.

00:44:06
Speaker 1: Yes, I'm doing it, and we'll go shopping with you. This little girl and having no boy bag Chanel bag. It's all a big talker. Remember I'm the pretender stassy on your Instagram the other day. You're always eating baked goush every I know, every day eating cake.

00:44:24
Speaker 2: Guys, Before I got pregnant, I never liked sweets. I never liked desserts. You couldn't even like tempt me with like a piece of chocolate or sugar. Now I think about cake all fucking day long. I think about sugar, ice cream, chocolate, cinnamon rolls.

00:44:46
Speaker 1: So that's your craving is sweets, sugar? Yeah, Simpson, When when was that?

00:44:50
Speaker 2: Like, god, it's my first trimester. Really, oh my god.

00:44:54
Speaker 1: Because at your baby shower you wanted a waffle waffle.

00:44:58
Speaker 2: I was like, I need this woffle cake because waffles have been like, oh my god, right, yes.

00:45:04
Speaker 1: You were into that even at Lake Mead, which was yes, all you had just entered five months.

00:45:09
Speaker 2: I cannot wait to give birth to this baby and not crave sugar anymore. I'm so sick of thinking about it.

00:45:16
Speaker 3: I've always loved sugar.

00:45:20
Speaker 1: But you, on your Graham said, I'm learning to bake so that my mom my baby doesn't resent me for not being able to do mom stuff. You're really baking?

00:45:31
Speaker 2: Yeah, I bake all the time now.

00:45:33
Speaker 1: Guys, I need to step my game up, you know.

00:45:37
Speaker 2: Learn from Utah. I've had a lot of time on my hands.

00:45:41
Speaker 1: We all have. It's called coronavirus.

00:45:44
Speaker 2: I have learned how to bake.

00:45:48
Speaker 1: Like you already know how to do all that stuff. I'm like, not a housewife and clearly not the best, like you're gonna be the mom stuff.

00:45:58
Speaker 3: The thing is is you and Rayel a housewive. He's got like a chef and shit, So can I tell you no, you don't have to worry about that.

00:46:06
Speaker 1: When COVID hit right, we had to start cooking because everything closed down. The first time that we finally were able to order takeout, we sit down and he was like, gosh, I finally feel like a normal person. Like, I'm so happy, doesn't it isn't it so great that we can like have food from a restaurant. I was like, God, we're so mench to be You're so many. You know, most men would be like, finally, this bitch is cooking in the kitchen.

00:46:34
Speaker 2: That is funny.

00:46:36
Speaker 1: So we're coming to Brittany's for arts and crafts. You're gonna bake cookies. I'm not gonna do anything but so perrier, so I can't even drink.

00:46:45
Speaker 3: And we'll go on lavish vacations all together.

00:46:50
Speaker 1: Thing is, it's never going to be the same when we give birth, because I mean, obviously we'll have those moments where we travel adults. Yeah, I have a I know how I'm going to be, like, I'm not gonna want to leave my baby to come party with you bitches. I don't party.

00:47:05
Speaker 2: I think I should.

00:47:06
Speaker 3: I think I should bring them on any of our trips everywhere.

00:47:10
Speaker 2: Do you know how worried I was when I was the only one pregnant that I was like, I had moments where I was like, I don't get fomo that often, but I got it because I was like, all my friends are still going to be having like barbecues, going on trips, like having fun, and they're not gonna want me around anymore because I'm gonna have a fucking baby.

00:47:28
Speaker 1: Wait, so you had to have known that once you got pregnant. We were all waiting for your wedding to happen so that we could start getting pregnant.

00:47:38
Speaker 2: Right, But it's not that easy, I say, yeah, like it takes. And I am honestly like kind of feel bad for any like viewers or fans or followers who are like paying attention to our story because it looks like it was so easy for all of us. Like, Okay, it might have been easy for me, easy for you, it wasn't easy for Brittany. It's clearly not easy for Katie.

00:48:02
Speaker 1: Like there would you say it wasn't easy for you, britt.

00:48:04
Speaker 3: I mean we tried for six months on the ovulation days with ovulation sticks, I mean, with tracking my apps and stuff for six whole months. I mean, if I didn't get pregnant that that month, I was going to the doctor as soon as I got.

00:48:14
Speaker 1: Back to LA because I when I went to the doctor, I asked her, like, if this doesn't happen, when when do you start thinking about other options? She said, usually people try for a year and then if it doesn't happen after a year, then it's like we need to see what's going on. Yeah, she said, if it doesn't happen within six months, come back in. Yeah, and I agree with you. I want to make that very clear that I have friends who have struggles four years.

00:48:43
Speaker 2: Yet yeah, and I'm not for five years. That's where they had a baby. I think that's why I get just never know about the pregnancy packed thing because it's like, oh, you're having a baby, like it's a handbag, let me go get one. Yeah, it's hard.

00:48:55
Speaker 3: It is not lucky that we got locked up being pregnant at the same time, right, because who knows that could not happened. I could have been pregnant six months ago before I before this, so I could have you know, but it didn't work out like that. And everything happens for a reason, Like it wouldn't be this baby if I did get pregnant when I very first started trying, right, so well, and you just got to keep trying. I agree, don't get up.

00:49:17
Speaker 1: And this podcast is I like to keep it lighthearted. I liked it to be fun and have our listeners be like, oh, this is so funny on a Monday while I'm going to work, like you enjoy that. Yeah, But You're absolutely right. Like we did sit down and talk about how fun it would be to have kids together. That's how I grew up. I grew up with my mom's friends having babies and we were all friends. But you know, I went into the doctor and was very nervous when taking my IUD out because, like I told Randall, you know, this may not happen very quickly, and I you know, I would like to start trying now because I don't believe it. I don't believe it's not easy to get pregnant. Yeah, I don't think it is.

00:49:57
Speaker 2: It's not.

00:49:58
Speaker 3: I mean, like you said, for some people's happens first time, or maybe even you still using the pull up method or still even using a condom, and then other people try for five six years. I mean, you just never know.

00:50:09
Speaker 1: And it's so interesting to me because all of the people that I know who have gone a couple of years and they're still trying to figure it out, like why they can't get pregnant. I'm like, like, that person deserves it the most.

00:50:22
Speaker 2: I know, I know, I like, I sometimes I feel guilty that it's still so easy, and I'm watching like these stories and hearing these stories from women who it's like they're trying and trying and trying, and it's like, fuck, it's like did I just did? I I'm so thankful that I have this, but it's like I don't deserve it. It's like it was too easy for me.

00:50:42
Speaker 3: Right, But everything is meant to be. I swear your baby's meant to be here.

00:50:45
Speaker 2: Ah.

00:50:46
Speaker 3: I love you for trying to put a positive span and everybody listening who is struggling. I mean, like I said, it took me six months, and you know, just keep tracking your periods, keep marking down all the times you have sex, take all vulation sticks. I mean, there's a lot of if you can do to try to put help and IVF and you know, all that stuff is great. Now. My my niece Presley is here because of IVF, and you know they could not get pregnant naturally, so there are there are ways.

00:51:11
Speaker 1: So see what that's the other thing is with me is those things are not cheap.

00:51:17
Speaker 3: No, My family had a whole like fundraiser thing to try to help, because that's how.

00:51:21
Speaker 1: Badly your your brother and his wife wanted a baby.

00:51:24
Speaker 3: And she's the cutest little girl I've ever seen in my.

00:51:26
Speaker 1: Life right Like you look at her and you're like, this is the biggest blessing, and exactly, I agree. And I know I don't seem like I'm a church going person because I'm not. But I do pray, and seriously, every single night I do my like regular prayer. But then I have to see a separate one because I'm like, this is crazy. I'm not gonna cry. It's strange when I'm sorry, I don't know why.

00:52:02
Speaker 2: It's hormone. It's fine, it's hormones.

00:52:06
Speaker 3: Girl, I was about to grow on their way here.

00:52:08
Speaker 2: I don't know why.

00:52:11
Speaker 1: When I lost my dad like that obviously shook my world. Yes, and now I have this amazing blessing. But when you have something like this happen, it just reminds me like life is moving, you know, and the fact that I'm going to have a baby that I know, and it sounds so corny, I think my dad had a huge to do with that. You know, I've been sober for two years. I have wanted to be a mom for a really long time. Yeah, And I just feel extremely blessed to also share it with you guys. I love you so thanks for being on the podcast.

00:52:53
Speaker 3: We're so you know, you should talk to jack because he feels the same way, Like his dad had a lot to do with him having a boy, and you know, just being a he wants to be like his dad was with him, right. You know, it does change your perspective on being a parent. I think when you've lost somebody so close to you.

00:53:11
Speaker 1: I've actually I haven't had an end depth conversation with Jack's about this, but at your reveal we talked about it. And there are certain things that Jackson and I just like little moments that we share where we're like, this is dad's work. Yeah, so sweet, that is special. Gosh, I'm sorry, I don't know. It was sweet.

00:53:32
Speaker 2: It was really sweet, and we're all so lucky. We are so lucky that it happened like this.

00:53:37
Speaker 3: Oh yeah, I mean we get to go through this together. We get to ask all kinds of questions, Saucy. You know, me and La La are basically like she's like a you know, eight days apart, but we're still right on the same track of pregnancy. So we really are going through like all these milestones together and we're very, very lucky that we get to do that, especially with like I don't have any family here, so like being able to have you guys and be able to talk to you all, and the fact that my baby's already gonna have best friends to grow up with without any of my family or anything being here is like truly amazing.

00:54:08
Speaker 1: I know it really is. It's amazing. Thank you, guys, emotions, such.

00:54:18
Speaker 3: Emotions.

00:54:19
Speaker 1: I love you guys so much. You're both gonna be awesome mine you too. Thank you guys for listening to give them La La with Stossy and Brittany podcast. We will catch you next week.