288 | Making Sense of "Baby Talk" in a CCPT Playroom: What It Means and How to Respond
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In this episode, I answer a question from Kelli in Washington about how to respond when children use baby talk in the playroom. While it may seem like a small thing, baby talk always carries meaning in a session. I walk through three common reasons it shows up—regressive play, a bid for nurturance and safety, or a conditioned pattern—and explain how to stay attuned to what the child may be expressing through this behavior.
I also share how to reflect baby talk in a neutral, nonjudgmental way, why it's important not to correct or redirect it, and how to respond when it's difficult to understand what the child is saying. As always, our goal is to allow space for whatever needs to emerge, trusting that with time and the right conditions, these behaviors shift as the child grows through the process of CCPT.
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Common References: Cochran, N., Nordling, W., & Cochran, J. (2010). Child-Centered Play Therapy (1st ed.). Wiley. VanFleet, R., Sywulak, A. E., & Sniscak, C. C. (2010). Child-centered play therapy. Guilford Press. Landreth, G.L. (2023). Play Therapy: The Art of the Relationship (4th ed.). Routledge. Bratton, S. C., Landreth, G. L., Kellam, T., & Blackard, S. R. (2006). Child parent relationship therapy (CPRT) treatment manual: A 10-session filial therapy model for training parents. Routledge/Taylor & Francis Group. Benedict, Helen. Themes in Play Therapy. Used with permission to Heartland Play Therapy Institute.
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0 00:00:00,469 --> 00:00:04,309 You're listening to the Play Therapy Podcast with Dr. Brenna Hicks, 1 00:00:04,469 --> 00:00:08,210 your source for centered and focused play therapy coaching. 2 00:00:08,550 --> 00:00:08,670 Hi, 3 00:00:08,710 --> 00:00:09,710 I'm Dr. Brenna Hicks, 4 00:00:09,720 --> 00:00:10,430 The Kid Counselor. 5 00:00:10,550 --> 00:00:12,470 This is the Play Therapy Podcast where you get 6 00:00:12,470 --> 00:00:14,880 a master class in child-centered play therapy 7 00:00:14,880 --> 00:00:17,069 and practical support and application for your 8 00:00:17,069 --> 00:00:18,620 work with children and their families. 9 00:00:19,110 --> 00:00:19,940 In today's episode, 10 00:00:20,069 --> 00:00:23,360 I am answering a question from Kelli in Washington State. 11 00:00:24,049 --> 00:00:26,680 Just about as far away from me as you can possibly get, 12 00:00:26,690 --> 00:00:29,040 with the exception maybe of Hawaii or Alaska. 13 00:00:29,409 --> 00:00:29,920 So, 14 00:00:30,170 --> 00:00:33,069 hello to those of you on the northwest side of the states, 15 00:00:33,099 --> 00:00:35,159 as I am on the southeast side of the states. 16 00:00:36,090 --> 00:00:36,569 All right, 17 00:00:36,889 --> 00:00:40,360 so Kelli's question is about baby talk in sessions, 18 00:00:40,610 --> 00:00:43,639 and I think maybe we've kind of glossed over this a few times, 19 00:00:43,770 --> 00:00:47,680 but I don't know that we've actually done any kind of deep discussion about this. 20 00:00:48,159 --> 00:00:50,189 So looking forward to 21 00:00:50,560 --> 00:00:51,799 process that together 22 00:00:52,009 --> 00:00:52,759 as a, 23 00:00:52,849 --> 00:00:54,689 as a second question that 24 00:00:55,009 --> 00:00:57,279 was included in the email, 25 00:00:57,659 --> 00:01:00,169 Kelli is wondering if we have any more live calls 26 00:01:00,169 --> 00:01:02,729 coming up soon since she attended the last one. 27 00:01:03,299 --> 00:01:04,440 And yes, 28 00:01:04,569 --> 00:01:07,400 I am planning another live podcast soon, 29 00:01:07,610 --> 00:01:08,510 so stay tuned. 30 00:01:08,610 --> 00:01:11,410 We are actively choosing dates and I'm doing 31 00:01:11,410 --> 00:01:13,279 a lot of training with Corwell right now, 32 00:01:13,550 --> 00:01:16,720 so that has occupied most of my free days during the week, 33 00:01:16,730 --> 00:01:17,300 but, 34 00:01:17,529 --> 00:01:19,220 and I've been speaking all over the country, 35 00:01:19,339 --> 00:01:21,760 so that's another occupying of my time, 36 00:01:22,050 --> 00:01:22,330 but. 37 00:01:22,480 --> 00:01:25,099 That's settling down probably by the end of 38 00:01:25,269 --> 00:01:25,910 this month, 39 00:01:25,989 --> 00:01:29,190 so we are hoping to get a date booked and 40 00:01:29,190 --> 00:01:34,410 you all can register an RSVP and we expanded our Zoom 41 00:01:34,949 --> 00:01:35,379 account 42 00:01:35,629 --> 00:01:39,209 so we can have more than 100 people on the call so we can really 43 00:01:39,430 --> 00:01:41,769 go big on the live calls now. 44 00:01:42,110 --> 00:01:42,699 So yes, 45 00:01:42,959 --> 00:01:43,849 another one is coming. 46 00:01:43,870 --> 00:01:44,580 Stay tuned. 47 00:01:44,830 --> 00:01:49,470 I'll be able to do Q&A and I'll record a podcast live on the call with y'all. 48 00:01:49,959 --> 00:01:53,250 And I'll get to put faces with names and hang out with my people, 49 00:01:53,410 --> 00:01:55,569 which is my absolute favorite thing to do. 50 00:01:56,099 --> 00:01:56,300 All right, 51 00:01:56,410 --> 00:01:59,059 so let's read parts of Kelli's question and then we'll dive in. 52 00:02:00,379 --> 00:02:02,629 I've wondered if you've ever done an episode on baby talk. 53 00:02:02,760 --> 00:02:07,430 I have a few kids of varying ages all the way from 1st grade through 4th grade, 54 00:02:08,119 --> 00:02:12,630 which that's typically in the 6 to 9 year old range just for reference, 55 00:02:13,119 --> 00:02:15,190 who will use baby talk in the playroom 56 00:02:15,720 --> 00:02:17,389 and sometimes act helpless. 57 00:02:17,720 --> 00:02:19,720 Just wondering the best way to reflect this with them, 58 00:02:19,880 --> 00:02:22,110 especially if it keeps happening over and over. 59 00:02:22,399 --> 00:02:22,600 Alrighty, 60 00:02:22,699 --> 00:02:25,630 so let's talk through the why first. 61 00:02:25,800 --> 00:02:27,350 The why matters as always. 62 00:02:27,800 --> 00:02:31,339 So we need to understand what is at the root 63 00:02:31,910 --> 00:02:34,669 of baby talk and there are several possibilities so we'll 64 00:02:34,669 --> 00:02:37,220 just kind of look at them one at a time, 65 00:02:37,630 --> 00:02:39,460 but there is always 66 00:02:39,990 --> 00:02:40,630 need 67 00:02:41,149 --> 00:02:44,139 if a child is speaking in baby voice, 68 00:02:44,270 --> 00:02:45,240 baby talk, 69 00:02:45,750 --> 00:02:46,899 saying baby sounds, 70 00:02:46,910 --> 00:02:50,320 whatever that looks or sounds like there is always a need 71 00:02:50,669 --> 00:02:53,179 that is part of the therapeutic process there. 72 00:02:53,589 --> 00:02:56,779 And let me take a quick left turn as a related aside, 73 00:02:56,860 --> 00:02:57,820 but I promise it, 74 00:02:57,860 --> 00:02:59,330 it'll bring us back on track. 75 00:03:00,589 --> 00:03:05,369 It's really important to realize that everything that happens in a play session. 76 00:03:06,509 --> 00:03:08,619 Every word that is spoken, 77 00:03:08,869 --> 00:03:10,369 every story that's told, 78 00:03:10,869 --> 00:03:12,660 every emotion that's expressed, 79 00:03:12,919 --> 00:03:13,830 every behavior, 80 00:03:13,949 --> 00:03:14,779 every action, 81 00:03:14,949 --> 00:03:15,839 every attitude, 82 00:03:15,990 --> 00:03:16,940 every bit of it, 83 00:03:17,190 --> 00:03:18,179 there's meaning in it. 84 00:03:18,440 --> 00:03:19,940 Nothing is meaningless, 85 00:03:20,389 --> 00:03:20,750 nothing. 86 00:03:21,660 --> 00:03:24,759 And it's easy for us to just discard a story about. 87 00:03:25,699 --> 00:03:26,949 Lunch in the cafeteria. 88 00:03:27,240 --> 00:03:29,470 It's easy for us to just kind of blow off 89 00:03:29,720 --> 00:03:31,839 a scenario that they tell us about playing 90 00:03:31,839 --> 00:03:33,630 soccer with their brother in the backyard. 91 00:03:33,919 --> 00:03:39,240 It's easy to kind of gloss over something that they share about their new. 92 00:03:40,270 --> 00:03:42,380 Drumsticks that light up when they play. 93 00:03:43,589 --> 00:03:44,110 But 94 00:03:44,240 --> 00:03:46,669 we need to be really intentional 95 00:03:46,919 --> 00:03:48,350 and acutely aware 96 00:03:48,639 --> 00:03:51,589 that every single thing that happens in a play session 97 00:03:51,589 --> 00:03:53,949 has meaning we can't always make sense of it. 98 00:03:54,199 --> 00:03:55,509 There's sometimes no 99 00:03:55,759 --> 00:03:57,789 meaning to be made on our part, 100 00:03:58,199 --> 00:03:59,360 but there is meaning there. 101 00:04:00,110 --> 00:04:02,470 So when a child is speaking baby talk, 102 00:04:03,000 --> 00:04:04,759 there's something going on. 103 00:04:04,800 --> 00:04:06,429 It's either a means to an end, 104 00:04:06,679 --> 00:04:07,570 it's a need, 105 00:04:07,779 --> 00:04:08,350 it's 106 00:04:08,559 --> 00:04:10,160 an expression of something. 107 00:04:10,929 --> 00:04:13,119 There's always significance, 108 00:04:13,330 --> 00:04:17,928 so I wanna make sure that that is known before we kind of look at potential why. 109 00:04:18,760 --> 00:04:19,250 So 110 00:04:19,399 --> 00:04:22,029 when a child is speaking in baby talk. 111 00:04:22,809 --> 00:04:24,920 It can mean usually one of a few things. 112 00:04:25,290 --> 00:04:30,809 The first option is they are acting and or playing regressively. 113 00:04:31,940 --> 00:04:33,920 And we know that one of the phases, 114 00:04:34,489 --> 00:04:34,619 no, 115 00:04:34,690 --> 00:04:34,970 sorry, 116 00:04:35,089 --> 00:04:35,799 the stage. 117 00:04:36,890 --> 00:04:37,690 I say them wrong, 118 00:04:37,730 --> 00:04:39,140 but I know them in my head. 119 00:04:39,489 --> 00:04:40,880 One of the stages 120 00:04:41,170 --> 00:04:41,760 is 121 00:04:41,970 --> 00:04:43,690 regressive play. 122 00:04:44,559 --> 00:04:45,950 So it would make sense 123 00:04:46,200 --> 00:04:48,829 that we're going to see regressive behavior 124 00:04:49,320 --> 00:04:50,989 in the regressive stage. 125 00:04:51,279 --> 00:04:54,420 So sometimes we will just watch kids 126 00:04:54,739 --> 00:04:56,029 as they go through 127 00:04:56,359 --> 00:04:58,790 some of that part of therapy. 128 00:04:59,429 --> 00:05:05,029 The regression actually is regressing back to infantile behavior, 129 00:05:05,359 --> 00:05:06,040 baby talk, 130 00:05:06,200 --> 00:05:07,630 baby mannerisms, 131 00:05:07,799 --> 00:05:09,230 sucking out of bottles, 132 00:05:09,320 --> 00:05:11,149 sucking on pacifiers, 133 00:05:11,559 --> 00:05:13,640 curling up and wanting to be rocked. 134 00:05:14,100 --> 00:05:16,239 That's not always what regressive play looks like, 135 00:05:16,399 --> 00:05:17,350 but often it is. 136 00:05:18,040 --> 00:05:21,859 So we just understand that this is often a standard part of 137 00:05:22,029 --> 00:05:23,429 sessions #1. 138 00:05:23,750 --> 00:05:25,619 2nd option is 139 00:05:25,899 --> 00:05:30,220 kids will often regress back to infantile behavior 140 00:05:30,910 --> 00:05:33,380 because it is their understanding and awareness 141 00:05:33,380 --> 00:05:35,980 of when they were at their most vulnerable 142 00:05:36,470 --> 00:05:40,269 and therefore needed the most safety and love and care and protection. 143 00:05:41,769 --> 00:05:43,369 So sometimes they will 144 00:05:43,559 --> 00:05:46,239 revert back to that infantile state. 145 00:05:47,119 --> 00:05:48,600 And we see 146 00:05:48,829 --> 00:05:51,660 that it's because that is when they either felt 147 00:05:51,660 --> 00:05:54,190 the most safe and nurtured and protected and loved 148 00:05:54,190 --> 00:05:57,910 and cared for or they're rewriting their narrative and 149 00:05:57,910 --> 00:06:00,600 they actually desperately need and want those things. 150 00:06:01,260 --> 00:06:04,140 So if they act baby like or infantile, 151 00:06:04,510 --> 00:06:06,299 someone will meet their needs. 152 00:06:06,829 --> 00:06:07,779 That's another option. 153 00:06:08,350 --> 00:06:09,220 Third option 154 00:06:09,429 --> 00:06:13,269 is this might be a pervasive trait not just in the playroom. 155 00:06:14,140 --> 00:06:18,869 Oftentimes if kids are speaking in a baby voice or using baby talk and play session, 156 00:06:19,010 --> 00:06:22,299 it's not the only place and not the only relationship in which they do it. 157 00:06:23,190 --> 00:06:25,209 So if this is a pattern of behavior, 158 00:06:25,500 --> 00:06:27,010 then it's likely conditioned. 159 00:06:27,459 --> 00:06:28,369 In other words, 160 00:06:28,459 --> 00:06:30,170 if they speak like a baby 161 00:06:30,420 --> 00:06:31,170 when they're tired, 162 00:06:31,260 --> 00:06:33,019 if they speak like a baby when they're bored, 163 00:06:33,089 --> 00:06:35,130 if they speak like a baby to get their way, 164 00:06:35,369 --> 00:06:40,630 if they speak like a baby with their parents with their teacher with their whomever, 165 00:06:41,339 --> 00:06:42,049 we know 166 00:06:42,260 --> 00:06:44,170 that they at one point 167 00:06:44,420 --> 00:06:45,809 they realized that 168 00:06:45,980 --> 00:06:48,980 they got a different reaction out of people when they spoke that way. 169 00:06:50,029 --> 00:06:54,089 And so now it has become a conditioned or habitual pattern of behavior, 170 00:06:54,380 --> 00:06:56,820 and they're not even really necessarily thinking 171 00:06:56,820 --> 00:06:58,089 about the fact that they're doing it. 172 00:06:58,260 --> 00:07:01,890 It's just something that's established and so it emerges 173 00:07:02,070 --> 00:07:03,679 just kind of almost as a default. 174 00:07:05,179 --> 00:07:06,799 So those are the typical reasons. 175 00:07:06,839 --> 00:07:07,480 There are more, 176 00:07:07,600 --> 00:07:10,109 but those are the three most standard reasons why 177 00:07:10,399 --> 00:07:13,760 you experience baby talk or baby voice in a playroom. 178 00:07:14,510 --> 00:07:15,359 So then, 179 00:07:15,869 --> 00:07:19,059 you said you're wondering the best way to reflect this with them. 180 00:07:19,309 --> 00:07:19,829 Well, 181 00:07:20,109 --> 00:07:22,250 we have to be really neutral in our response. 182 00:07:22,869 --> 00:07:24,059 So it's really important 183 00:07:24,190 --> 00:07:25,459 that we don't say. 184 00:07:26,619 --> 00:07:29,779 You're talking like a baby because that has a connotation. 185 00:07:30,779 --> 00:07:31,359 We don't say, 186 00:07:31,459 --> 00:07:31,690 oh, 187 00:07:31,779 --> 00:07:33,369 you're using baby talk. 188 00:07:33,660 --> 00:07:34,980 That has a connotation. 189 00:07:36,119 --> 00:07:38,100 You have to be really clear 190 00:07:38,350 --> 00:07:40,940 on the neutrality of your response. 191 00:07:41,470 --> 00:07:41,839 So, 192 00:07:42,070 --> 00:07:43,380 you changed your voice. 193 00:07:44,459 --> 00:07:45,209 Or oh, 194 00:07:45,279 --> 00:07:46,910 you're talking differently now. 195 00:07:48,040 --> 00:07:49,660 Or you said that different. 196 00:07:50,500 --> 00:07:53,220 It has to be factual and neutral 197 00:07:53,549 --> 00:07:54,339 in nature. 198 00:07:54,600 --> 00:07:55,019 Why? 199 00:07:55,399 --> 00:07:58,619 Because the child can't receive it as loaded 200 00:07:58,869 --> 00:08:00,679 or critical or judgmental. 201 00:08:02,589 --> 00:08:03,779 Because remember, 202 00:08:04,790 --> 00:08:06,609 everything in a play session is 203 00:08:06,829 --> 00:08:07,559 validated. 204 00:08:08,920 --> 00:08:11,570 It's meeting a need for the child in some way. 205 00:08:12,829 --> 00:08:14,160 So just like we wouldn't say, 206 00:08:14,279 --> 00:08:14,489 oh, 207 00:08:14,500 --> 00:08:16,029 you made a mess with those, 208 00:08:16,679 --> 00:08:18,720 even if that was good intentioned, 209 00:08:18,839 --> 00:08:20,950 even if it meant no harm. 210 00:08:21,369 --> 00:08:24,429 I think most of us would realize that it's not neutral to say, 211 00:08:24,519 --> 00:08:24,640 oh, 212 00:08:24,679 --> 00:08:26,149 you made a mess with the toys. 213 00:08:26,799 --> 00:08:28,029 There's a connotation there. 214 00:08:28,799 --> 00:08:29,859 And it's negative 215 00:08:30,309 --> 00:08:30,899 versus, 216 00:08:31,149 --> 00:08:31,299 oh, 217 00:08:31,470 --> 00:08:33,179 you put all of those on the floor. 218 00:08:33,919 --> 00:08:35,010 It's very different. 219 00:08:35,580 --> 00:08:36,219 Similarly, 220 00:08:36,369 --> 00:08:37,090 we wouldn't say, 221 00:08:37,260 --> 00:08:37,349 oh, 222 00:08:37,419 --> 00:08:38,659 you're talking like a baby. 223 00:08:39,679 --> 00:08:40,448 We would say 224 00:08:40,698 --> 00:08:42,207 you're using a different voice 225 00:08:42,539 --> 00:08:44,369 or you change the way you're talking. 226 00:08:44,658 --> 00:08:46,408 See how there's so much more neutrality there. 227 00:08:46,739 --> 00:08:49,088 So that's the way we're going to acknowledge that now 228 00:08:49,818 --> 00:08:52,198 often what happens is when kids talk 229 00:08:52,419 --> 00:08:55,129 in that regressive or infantile type of speech, 230 00:08:55,299 --> 00:08:56,848 it can be hard to understand them. 231 00:08:57,599 --> 00:09:02,489 So the only time that we would address the fact that they're talking in that way 232 00:09:02,820 --> 00:09:04,609 is if we don't understand them. 233 00:09:04,650 --> 00:09:06,369 And what that would look like is, 234 00:09:06,859 --> 00:09:08,369 you're choosing to talk in that voice, 235 00:09:08,469 --> 00:09:11,179 but I don't understand what you're saying when you talk like that. 236 00:09:12,270 --> 00:09:15,739 And then they have a choice to either continue to talk in 237 00:09:15,739 --> 00:09:18,690 that voice and run the risk of you not understanding them, 238 00:09:19,179 --> 00:09:21,020 or they will go back to their regular 239 00:09:21,020 --> 00:09:23,460 speaking voice and then you'll better understand them and 240 00:09:23,460 --> 00:09:27,770 you'll say oh you chose to talk in the other voice and I understood you that time. 241 00:09:28,530 --> 00:09:32,539 It wasn't meant to be persuasive to get them to stop talking in a baby voice. 242 00:09:32,830 --> 00:09:35,559 It's just communicating that you don't understand them 243 00:09:36,030 --> 00:09:37,900 and then they decide which is more important. 244 00:09:38,309 --> 00:09:41,700 Sometimes they keep talking in a baby voice because that's more important to them. 245 00:09:42,710 --> 00:09:46,049 But the goal is never to dissuade them from speaking that way. 246 00:09:46,099 --> 00:09:49,369 The goal is never to persuade them to speak in a different way. 247 00:09:49,830 --> 00:09:51,530 The goal is always 248 00:09:51,940 --> 00:09:53,450 to have them 249 00:09:54,020 --> 00:09:56,289 play and say whatever they need to. 250 00:09:56,500 --> 00:09:58,250 There's always a reason behind it 251 00:09:58,580 --> 00:10:00,830 and baby talk never lasts forever. 252 00:10:01,760 --> 00:10:06,169 I have never once worked with a child who has gone through an entire round of CCPT 253 00:10:06,590 --> 00:10:10,789 that has continued to talk in a baby voice the entire time and 254 00:10:10,789 --> 00:10:13,710 actually it's almost always very important 255 00:10:13,710 --> 00:10:16,380 and significant and noteworthy in a session 256 00:10:16,669 --> 00:10:18,570 when they come in and you make a note, 257 00:10:18,669 --> 00:10:18,989 oh, 258 00:10:19,109 --> 00:10:20,789 they didn't talk like that the whole session. 259 00:10:21,489 --> 00:10:22,400 That's a big moment. 260 00:10:23,239 --> 00:10:27,260 And so we look for those marks and those shifts 261 00:10:27,549 --> 00:10:28,580 as we work with the child, 262 00:10:28,710 --> 00:10:30,179 they will inevitably come. 263 00:10:30,960 --> 00:10:35,049 But you have to keep in mind there's a lot of precursors they have to have 264 00:10:35,260 --> 00:10:37,260 higher levels of self-esteem they have to 265 00:10:37,260 --> 00:10:39,929 build self-confidence they have to build coping, 266 00:10:40,099 --> 00:10:42,130 they have to have an emotional vocabulary. 267 00:10:42,340 --> 00:10:43,849 They have to feel safe. 268 00:10:44,059 --> 00:10:46,289 They there's all kinds of prerequisites 269 00:10:46,739 --> 00:10:49,169 before a child will stop that pattern of behavior. 270 00:10:50,289 --> 00:10:51,640 So with work 271 00:10:51,869 --> 00:10:55,979 comes those changes and then you'll see that baby talk reduce and then eventually 272 00:10:56,190 --> 00:10:57,150 disappear altogether. 273 00:10:58,150 --> 00:10:58,349 All right, 274 00:10:58,510 --> 00:10:58,789 Kelli, 275 00:10:58,869 --> 00:10:59,960 thank you so much for the question. 276 00:11:00,030 --> 00:11:01,099 I hope that that was helpful. 277 00:11:01,270 --> 00:11:02,349 If y'all wanna reach out to me, 278 00:11:02,429 --> 00:11:03,349 I'd love to hear from you, 279 00:11:03,390 --> 00:11:05,460 brenna@thekidcounselor.com. 280 00:11:05,909 --> 00:11:07,559 You know how much I love hanging out with you. 281 00:11:07,570 --> 00:11:08,840 You know how much I love you. 282 00:11:09,190 --> 00:11:09,799 Please 283 00:11:10,140 --> 00:11:11,109 be so 284 00:11:11,700 --> 00:11:13,820 excited and passionate and proud 285 00:11:14,190 --> 00:11:15,219 about the work that you do. 286 00:11:16,080 --> 00:11:18,590 There is nothing like it in the whole world. 287 00:11:19,080 --> 00:11:22,190 Every day I'm grateful that this is my job. 288 00:11:22,719 --> 00:11:24,429 Every day I'm grateful 289 00:11:24,599 --> 00:11:26,150 that CCPT exists. 290 00:11:27,489 --> 00:11:28,659 Keep sight 291 00:11:28,909 --> 00:11:30,640 of your why 292 00:11:31,229 --> 00:11:35,380 keep sight of how much CCPT resonates with you. 293 00:11:35,669 --> 00:11:39,619 Keep sight in the trenches and in the ditches and in the throes 294 00:11:39,909 --> 00:11:40,299 of 295 00:11:40,510 --> 00:11:45,340 push back and resistance and argument and all the stuff that we deal with. 296 00:11:45,429 --> 00:11:45,719 I, 297 00:11:45,869 --> 00:11:48,270 I was asked on a Collective or a coaching call today. 298 00:11:48,880 --> 00:11:50,830 How many black eyes proverbial? 299 00:11:51,039 --> 00:11:53,880 How many black eyes have you received in the 20 300 00:11:53,880 --> 00:11:57,299 years of doing this when you advocate for CCPT? 301 00:11:57,809 --> 00:11:58,219 And I was like, 302 00:11:58,280 --> 00:11:58,750 oh boy, 303 00:11:58,960 --> 00:11:59,109 I, 304 00:11:59,200 --> 00:11:59,359 I, 305 00:11:59,440 --> 00:12:00,390 I lost count. 306 00:12:01,239 --> 00:12:01,559 This, 307 00:12:01,590 --> 00:12:04,789 this is not easy to be all in on this model, 308 00:12:05,119 --> 00:12:06,380 but it is worth it y'all, 309 00:12:06,960 --> 00:12:09,000 so don't lose sight of that be encouraged, 310 00:12:09,200 --> 00:12:10,039 know that you're loved, 311 00:12:10,200 --> 00:12:11,390 know that you can do this, 312 00:12:11,719 --> 00:12:13,950 and remember why you're doing this. 313 00:12:14,200 --> 00:12:15,599 That is the most important, 314 00:12:15,679 --> 00:12:16,679 the why matters, 315 00:12:16,739 --> 00:12:17,429 yes, 316 00:12:17,719 --> 00:12:18,359 hashtag it. 317 00:12:18,609 --> 00:12:18,840 All right, 318 00:12:19,000 --> 00:12:19,320 love y'all, 319 00:12:19,400 --> 00:12:20,229 we'll talk again soon. 320 00:12:20,359 --> 00:12:20,599 bye. 321 00:12:21,729 --> 00:12:24,489 Thank you for listening to the Play Therapy Podcast with Dr. 322 00:12:24,650 --> 00:12:25,570 Brenna Hicks. 323 00:12:25,729 --> 00:12:27,690 For more episodes and resources, 324 00:12:27,849 --> 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