The One About The Dust-Settling Stage & The Burn Book Dream

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Speaker 1: Hey, babe, it's a lala can't welcome back to the Give Them La La Podcast. We have a studio full of bros today, including my own and his two vffs from Salt Lake.

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Speaker 2: I know I'm more nervous with them here.

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Speaker 1: Now, do you feel like you have an audience? Yeah, this is good. It's gonna prep you for the live show in October two.

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Speaker 2: Live shows that it will shit. I forget about that.

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Speaker 3: You deal Sometimes I try to put it behind because if I don't, I'll have anxiety about.

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Speaker 2: It all day.

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Speaker 1: Oh and we still got a couple months, so m I don't want you to carry that anxiety.

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Speaker 2: For that long, right, So don't judge me over there.

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Speaker 1: I'm practicing, yes, and practice makes perfect. But then if you look at me, I completely put the kabash on that theory. Jessica, how are we this morning?

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Speaker 4: We are so good, we are thriving. How are you? I love the morning.

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Speaker 1: I feel excellent and here's why. Okay, guys, last week or I guess this week Stosse's episode is airing. We recorded it. I want it to come out. Everyone's been asking about it. But because we're recording this today, I have to travel, right, So this episode is going to be We're going to talk about all the things we usually talk about our lives, housewives and whatnot, but we will be a little bit behind because I'm going to be traveling for production VPR. We're going on our trip. It is the final week of filming, and then YEP and then yours truly is about to take a break. Jessica's gonna head out for a wedding. I'm going to celebrate turning thirty three. Apparently that's like the age. It's true.

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Speaker 5: One hundred thirty three, i've heard is like prime age. Okay, I don't want people listening to think, oh my god, thirty three was an awful year for me, so I missed it. No, everyone has their own prime age, but a higher percentage. I've heard thirty three is like the year like my dad was like, oh that was my year. My mom they were like, that was my thriving year. So you're in for a big year.

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Speaker 1: That's the hope. And I'm already noticing like a shift in how I feel, and I'm noticing that I'm kind of I love the word retreat. I'm retreating right like I used to be out in these streets having the best time of my life. And it's not that I'm not doing that anymore, but I've looked at like the bigger picture of what I want in life. What is the most important thing? Building an empire and having children? Right, So I'm noticing myself going if I go out into the world, if those things are not serving what I want for the overall, I'm not participating. I'm going to retreat. I'm going to isolate, and I don't know if it's a good or bad thing, but there we're gonna do. Uh, there's a lot of stuff that I still want to talk about. But do I feel like you're in that season too, Jess, I am.

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Speaker 4: In that season.

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Speaker 5: Yeah, I'm in the season of, like I think, figuring out balance, which is a different thing.

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Speaker 1: Ope.

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Speaker 5: I just kicked over our give them La La coasters that we've added.

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Speaker 1: We are gorgeous.

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Speaker 5: Yeah, it's just a it's an interesting season and just figuring out balance.

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Speaker 4: I hear you.

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Speaker 5: I don't necessarily think retreating is a negative or always a negative or always a positive.

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Speaker 4: I think it just depends on the situation.

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Speaker 5: There are many things I have retreated from or should have in a situation which would have been healthier for me. And there's some things where I've retreated and then it's like no, no, no, don't retreat and run away from.

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Speaker 4: That face a head on. So I think it just depends on the situation.

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Speaker 1: No, I think you're right. Yeah. I've noticed a lot of people though when I'm talking, they're saying the same thing that I'm saying, and I'm like, maybe it's something in the universe that's happening. But I felt this way even like when we started filming, I was like, what is wrong with me? Why? I was just feeling funky? And then the period came and I was like, oh, thank god, there's an explanation. And then the period goes and I'm like, we're still there. And then it comes back and now it's like, Okay, we've had like twelve periods, not really, and we're still feeling the same way, so that can't be it. And then I'm I think this season you'll see a different side of me that I didn't even know existed because I was dealing with so much over the past year and a half two years. And then you start thinking about, Okay, what do I want my life to look at it, look like if we if we keep heading down this road, are we going to end up in a place that we can't get out of? Now that's freaking terrifying. Yes, right, yes, that's the crossroads. It's kind of similar in a life this intense way, but similar to when I woke up and said I'm going to be sober, it was like, Okay, we're there. If we keep down, if we choose the other route, we're kind of fucked.

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Speaker 5: Right right, Just yeah, yeah, one hundred percent. I think dynamics too. I just I find out. I'm excited to see this next season play out because I don't know, Like I wasn't around you and your friends a lot of this season when cameras were up, but I just know that, Like, it's interesting how dynamics changed. Just talking about myself now just dynamics with people and sort of taking a beat and being like is this serving me?

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Speaker 4: What is this purpose?

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Speaker 5: And that sounds so selfish to be like, is this friendship or is this relationship serving me?

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Speaker 4: But I'm not trying to make it sound that way.

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Speaker 5: I'm just like, am I my best version of myself in this relationship or in this dynamic and if not.

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Speaker 4: Maybe I need to reevaluate.

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Speaker 5: And so when it comes to dynamics with your friends, I think it's gonna be interesting to watch a play out.

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Speaker 4: You say you see a softer side of you this season. I'm interested to see that and how other people take that.

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Speaker 1: I'm interested to see the entire season as well. And I you know, last year was an extreme high and then everything happened with scandaval and it was like even more heightened with adrenaline, like we were gonna have a great season regardless. But then the dust settles, and that's such a strange thing when that happens. But you know what, it happens with everything. Even when you look at like the passing of a parent, you're distraught, right, and then time just has a funny way of healing and placing something in the part of the brain where it's like, Okay, we're gonna place it here. You haven't forgotten. It definitely was something. It was a formative thing, but like you have to move on with your life and you have to practice certain things that feel a little unfamiliar. But in my mind it's like, Okay, God built me to deal with things right. Things that are gonna take me out. And if I feel like I don't know how to deal with it, I'm gonna reach out. I'm gonna get help. I'm gonna lean into my program whatever it may be. But that's the stage that I'm in, the dust settling stage. That's a good stage.

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Speaker 5: And also, can I remind you we're coming on twenty twenty four. And I know we've brought him up a million times, but Chris Medina told.

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Speaker 4: You that twenty twenty four was gonna be your year.

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Speaker 1: Yes he did. He said, girl, you are cut from a different cloth. I said, I sure am, So who knows?

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Speaker 4: Thirty three twenty twenty four.

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Speaker 1: We'll see, we'll see. I'm gonna work my ass off, I'm gonna hopefully procreate at some point, God willing, God willing it all works out. Okay, So I've been talking to this guy up all right, breaking breaking news. I've been talking to a guy and I had the strangest dream about him the other night, and I sent him a text and was like, hey, like, I had a dream about you, and before or you look at this text is like the lame, like head a dream about you last night? No, like you gotta hear it because it's freaking weird. So in the dream, this guy I'm talking to has a man hand deliver a letter to me, and it's one of those like serial killer letters where they like cut out letters in a magazine and then like spelled out the entire letter with it. Okay, it's like so creepy, burn book vibes, burn book vibes. I wanted to tell him it was burn book vibes, but I was like, I don't think he's gonna get that, so I said serial killer vibes instead, and I'm reading it and it's like la la. I wanted to let you know, like after our conversation, I actually do believe in true love and I would like to find it. So clearly I was thinking about something that I actually said to him, which was I'm anti relationship at this stage in the game. Like I was just laying it all out there, and we still talked after that. But this is what the note said. He said, I met a girl when I was at a wedding. When I was at this wedding in Thailand. He's currently Entailand in the dream, and we ended up getting married. He encloses a photo of he and his new wife and then tells me, I wish you all the best, okay, And I'm like upset about it. I'm like, oh, what a bummer. Weird but bummer. So I go to the beach to like take a load off. When I get there, the beach is crowded wall to wall people, okay. And I'm sitting on this like it's like the beach where everyone sits is very smoggy. And I'm sitting on like this rock jetty, you know. And I see this plank where they're like transporting circus elephants to a sailboat and I'm like, that's fucking weird. And then there's tugboats dragging dead whales into shore and I look at that, and then by the time I refocus on the elephants, the sailboat sunk and the elephants are drowning. What doesn't mean it's.

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Speaker 5: Not a funny dream because it sounds like a nightmare, But it's fascinating that that's chaos.

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Speaker 1: It's chaotic. G And I wasn't on a unison because I was and I wasn't. It was not unison dream. This was I'm sleepy time dreaming Okay, it's freaking weird. And my mom was like, well, do you think it's the universe letting you know that he may have a girlfriend. I was like, I think the universe is telling me he may be a serial killer. Actually, that's what I'm more concerned about the letter and how much time it probably took him to cut out all those tiny magazine letters.

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Speaker 4: You have had some wild dreams.

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Speaker 5: It'd be so cool to one day have a dream analyst, like, write down your top three dreams.

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Speaker 3: Man, I know a girl that's going to a sleep like like a camp. No, she's going to somebody who dissects her dreams.

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Speaker 4: Yeah, what do they can learn about them?

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Speaker 1: Do they put you up to like the little nodes or whatever?

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Speaker 2: The I go that far into it. I just said, Wow, that's really incredible.

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Speaker 1: You talk to this woman. You the notes app that we all have.

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Speaker 2: It was a.

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Speaker 1: Podcast on fire, But I guess I could have what do you mean you guess you could have that's epic content for the pod. And you just said, oh, that's cool. As if you don't have a job, it's called a job researching all the livelong day, and you didn't think that that was important to research.

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Speaker 3: I didn't think she wanted to help me out at that point, but it was at a bonfire.

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Speaker 2: There was we were amongst a bunch of people and.

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Speaker 4: I on fire in California.

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Speaker 2: We got shut down.

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Speaker 1: I had a feeling there it is.

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Speaker 2: We got shut down, someone rapped out, we got rated on.

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Speaker 3: But now speaking of it, I do want to talk to her more and I will come back to this podcast with what she's gone. And and maybe it's because you didn't take a unison that you had the crazy dreams.

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Speaker 1: Well, by the way, the unison gotta go. And I don't take it very often because I looked at you know, if it's like an okay thing to be taking, and after a certain point you shouldn't be taking it. So I'm looking for someone to slide in the DM and tell me what I can take that will help me sleep well. I'm under a tremendous amount of stress. Good night's sleeps are few and far between. I left out one little tiny thing about my dream as well. With the note that the serial killer sent to me and the photograph of he and his new wife, he sent me a box of t shirts with his face on them that were for someone who was large, very large, maybe five hundred pounds six six maybe six six hundred pounds, ginormous size of a blanket.

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Speaker 2: He wanted you to tie it up.

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Speaker 1: I didn't know what the point of the dream was. Maybe I was like, I like my face everywhere. There's so many things talk to this dream.

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Speaker 3: No, I'm gonna I'll talk to her and see who she speaks to, and maybe we can even reach out.

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Speaker 2: Who she's talking to and not a she's going to going to one.

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Speaker 3: So there's nothing that I could really that she could tell me, and she was she's going to one.

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Speaker 2: I think today, Yeah.

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Speaker 4: Is she also a hotty toddy?

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Speaker 5: Because I'm seeing you're getting a few messages that that say or comments that say if the biggest crush on.

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Speaker 1: They not like you. Everybody likes you.

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Speaker 2: I think she likes me.

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Speaker 1: Some people don't like him. Don't say that.

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Speaker 5: Are you open to dating? Just curious based off some of the comments.

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Speaker 2: You are I'm open to dating.

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Speaker 3: Well, I'm very picky though, and a lot of people don't. Don't tell this one over here, but what I had to I had to bring them home to these vultures.

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Speaker 1: Oh back in the day, No, you do now you are, Lisa. You don't have to bring them home to us. You got your own apartment, buddy. If you're going to date, yeah you got to bring him around. Okay, Well, but I just Easton. We're not vultures, but I've seen what is out there, and I just want to protect you. The other day we were driving home, just me and E, and he was like, you want to know what, I feel like I'd be down to find a partner, but like, I just don't see me finding anybody who's as dope as me. Like I'm dope as shit, and I'm like, I feel the same way.

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Speaker 3: I really just love who I am and I like being with myself.

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Speaker 1: Yeah, you're like, I want to kick it with someone, but feel like I'm not kicking it with anybody. That's it's so hard to find.

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Speaker 2: I know, people like talking.

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Speaker 1: I kind of had that with the Don.

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Speaker 2: People really like talking.

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Speaker 4: You kind of had that with the Don. I yeah, you were.

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Speaker 1: Yeah.

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Speaker 2: Did I ever meet the Down? I heard about it?

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Speaker 1: Loved then.

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Speaker 4: He was just such a vibee.

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Speaker 1: He was so cool.

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Speaker 2: I saw pictures of him. He was he looked dope, he was dope.

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Speaker 1: I was thinking about my dream somewhere like as we're.

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Speaker 2: Talking her ripping the women I'll bring home.

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Speaker 1: No, I was involved. I was doing two things at once. All right, listening but thinking about something else.

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Speaker 2: I've seen how that goes on the so.

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Speaker 1: Maybe the whale thing or just like the water aspect of the dream. I was talking to Leo the other day, one of my husbands, and he was talking about the ocean, and he told me about this thing he saw on TikTok. This girl had like shaved her legs whatever nicked herself a tad, went to the beach, swam her leg. The little tiny nick on her leg got so infected from the water her leg ballooned up. Okay, she goes to the emergency room. They have to amputate the leg. What I swear? He told me that.

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Speaker 4: What where did she swim?

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Speaker 5: Because this is like psa bacteria in the water, some wild You don't know.

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Speaker 1: I asked him. And he's also like me where he only reads the headline.

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Speaker 4: Was it an ocean or a lake?

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Speaker 1: An ocean? It was the ocean. And then he went on to tell me that he saw another thing on TikTok. You know those like bougie places you go for manicures. It's like a vacation y type thing where you put your feet in and they have the little fish eat the dead skin. There are people that are like losing their feet because obviously you can't take those fish out and like clean their little mouths like you would with a tool. Right, So they're eating the dead skin of some person, and then you put your feet in and now they're eating your dead skin. They've eaten at least five hundred people's dead skin by the time they get to you, and people are like getting infections.

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Speaker 4: This is making me sick.

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Speaker 1: I'm going to pass out. Oh my god. Really discuss right, Like, obviously someone had something funky happen to their feet and this fish like it in their mouth and passed it to someone else.

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Speaker 2: Was in the Bahamas.

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Speaker 1: Where which one the leg or the fish the leg?

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Speaker 3: The girl who got her leg amputated? No, Jennifer Barlow, Georgia model.

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Speaker 1: I knew she was a model Georgia.

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Speaker 2: Yeah, she was.

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Speaker 3: Vacationing in the Bahamas and swam and with that little nick got a flesh eating bacteria.

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Speaker 4: That's heartbreaking. That's heartbreaking.

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Speaker 1: The fish last week I used to Yeah, it was recent last week.

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Speaker 2: Damn, she's pretty well.

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Speaker 1: Yeah, she's a model. Stillo told me she's a model.

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Speaker 5: If I live a terrible, evil life, I will come back as a fish who eats dead skin off people's feet.

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Speaker 4: Because thinking about that, feet or disgusting. I hate them so much.

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Speaker 1: I don't dig them either.

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Speaker 3: Do you guys remember when the Kardashians went and had their feet eaten by the fish.

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Speaker 2: Yeah?

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Speaker 1: Yeah, like that was old, old school Kardashian.

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Speaker 2: Do people still do that.

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Speaker 1: Yeah, it's still a thing.

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Speaker 2: That is disgusting. I don't want to fish eating other people's skinning.

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Speaker 4: In mind, that's what she was talking about.

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Speaker 1: Where have you been?

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Speaker 2: I was thinking of looking at I was Jennifer Barlow's leg. I was real worried. I just swam yesterday.

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Speaker 1: Well luckily you don't shake.

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Speaker 4: That's heartbreaking.

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Speaker 2: But I have a nick in my finger.

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Speaker 1: I know, don't go to the Bahamas hydrogen peroxide that shit immediately. And I'm not even joking.

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Speaker 2: No, I know, I'm going home. That's where I was because I was kind of nervous.

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Speaker 1: Speaking of the beach. Speaking of the beach, Oh, do you guys remember that one episode where I was telling my family that they have to disengage if they see arguments happening. Well, it lasted all of two weeks because we got into an altercation at the beach. Okay, now what we did, We sure did. So I'm sitting there on the beach, minding my own as she does, as I do unless I'm filming ven Or Pump rules. And I see this sweet woman with a clipboard and this guy fly up from his beach towel, screaming, screaming at her. Okay, he's got headphones in and he's recording. All right, please do not record me without my knowledge, you buffoon. Do you know the laws in the state of California? He's recording her. She does not speak English. He steals her clipboard from her, knocks all of the cards out of her hand, and I obviously am I'm close to it, but I want to make sure, like you know, I don't get involved prematurely. Maybe they can work it out. And then I'm realizing that there is a language barrier. I see her getting you know, she's getting upset. I run over to the lifeguards stand and I'm like, can you guys please do something? This man is like super combative, he's super aggressive. He must be on something. So then he sees me talking to the lifeguards, comes over to me. Of course I boss up on this motherfucker, and I'm looking at the clipboard and it's it's just like she's collecting signatures to like make a difference with something she cares about, right, And he's like, she's stelling ord for my shot. Don't come back to your house. And I was like, well, if they do, like let him know I don't cook, so like, can they put an order in?

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Speaker 5: Like?

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Speaker 1: Am I feeding you if you come to my house? Like we like Domino's over here? Do you prefer pizza? Hut? I'm like, she's not stealing your information. Don't sign the form and he's losing his mind and the lifeguard is like, sir, sir, he's now targeted on me. He follows me back to my little beach area where Easton is and his two friends screaming at me, now filming me. My mom then comes over, you know, she loves to get involved, and the lifeguard is like telling her because she's like, you gotta call somebody. Look at this guy. And the woman at this point is like fetal position, slouched over because all she knows is people are screaming at the top of their lungs and ocean is with us, and they the lifeguard says, this isn't our jurisdiction, ma'am. And my mom's like, it's the beach. We're on the beach. Something's happening on the beach. It's your jurisdiction. And they're like, no, we're here to like rescue people from the ocean. She's like, you don't rescue people from the beach that are on the beach, And so finally they just like gave up and called somebody. They called the police. Now I'm realizing this guy is not gonna do shit. And I see Ocean walk over to me and grab my leg. That's when I lose my mind. Easton stands up. I probably shouldn't have lost my mind, because my kid did roll up, But I'm like, okay, my my child is no longer over with my mom. She's with me. So I'm screaming at this guy. I got my fingers up like this.

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Speaker 2: Ready to pop. Pop.

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Speaker 1: I said to him, I have my child with me. Back the fuck off, there are kids here. You're insane. I start taping my mom I'm like, get your fucking fixed, dude, the calm down, a look good, fix yourself, and he was an insane person. They ended up taking him away because yes, he was on something. But this poor woman, this poor woman just out on this beach trying to make a difference in her community.

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Speaker 2: All it was was a signature, an email and your zip code and she that's all. That's all. But we were yeah, but she was stealing our information.

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Speaker 4: Number one.

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Speaker 5: The fact that it was you that started and not Lisa is not amazing. But like you kept saying, it was like, you know, a couple of weeks ago when we talked about it, You're like, Lisa's always getting in and I'm like, Lisa, you gotta calm down. But you came to this woman's defense, so I think, bravo. Do you regret it?

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Speaker 1: No. For a moment, I sat there and I was like, I wish I wouldn't have gotten that way in front of my child. That was not good. But then my mom tried to bring me down by saying, you know, I want Ocean to know that if she sees someone acting right, there is a way to get involved without putting yourself in harm's way. We went to the lifeguard stand. There were men that came over. They were fully aware someone was called. And it was so crazy because as it was happening, I was looking around the beach and I'm like, Okay, is anyone else because there were men, is anyone else seeing this? Is anyone gonna get involved? I then knew that it was my turn to get involved. Once I did and people started doing something, there were like incredible. It was all women, all women that ran to this woman's defense. They took her away because she was distraught, like sat her down, gave her water. It was just like a moment of Okay, if we choose to do something like it just takes one person before you can rally the troops. But it was so interesting that a man was going insane on this woman and then all the women on the beach were like ready to fuck shit up, and all the men were sitting there like eating their fucking funians. Yep.

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Speaker 4: And the second you got involved, then people started.

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Speaker 1: Well besides you Easton, you guys go involved. I'm not talking about this camp, I'm talking about everyone else on the beach.

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Speaker 5: Yeah, and really quick, that's about I told your mom about this. I just heard this on a podcast. That's a human phenomenon, I guess where it's. If something is happening and there's a bunch of people around, no one will react until one person does. And they did a study and they put one person in a room and smoke started coming underneath the door, and the person got up and they're like, well, what's going on.

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Speaker 4: They put like ten people in a room and smoke.

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Speaker 5: Started coming under the door and everyone just kind of like looked around and if no one reacted, they all just sat there as smoke was filling the room until someone reacted. Isn't it wild?

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Speaker 1: I always want to be the one that reacts.

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Speaker 2: That we are, but we tell everyone not to well.

00:24:44
Speaker 1: Because it is scary. I was in Hollywood last night and I was like, this is like a little freaky Hollywood.

00:24:51
Speaker 4: You were walking around Hollywood.

00:24:53
Speaker 1: Well, we went to Sheena's show.

00:24:54
Speaker 4: Oh got it.

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Speaker 1: She had a show that's a mouthful Shena She's show. Yeah, and I took Ocean. I had no idea that the beginning of the show was going to be like a heavy metal concert.

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Speaker 2: Is that what it was?

00:25:08
Speaker 1: It was like, Yes, it was amazing, absolutely amazing. The crowd was like insane. The show was freaking awesome. If she decides to go on tour, it was a really great show. So I just held Ocean's ears while they played that the opening song, and then Ocean wanted to be on stage the whole time. Summer Moon went up there, and I was like I wanted to be about Summer Moon, like, oh, can't go up there. And then she and his mom, Erica was like, just let her go on stage, and she did not want to get off. She kept talking about it even this morning, Mama, I want to be on stage. And then she keeps asking me. I brought up dance class one time. I told her, you know you're a great dance ro oh and a great performer. Do you want to do dance class? And now she asks me every day, So remind her to myself. I got a call today to make that happen.

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Speaker 4: Was this in front of people or after everyone left? They got stage? Full crowd and people who are cheering.

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Speaker 1: I vet, yeah, a couple to a few hundred people.

00:26:05
Speaker 2: No, I saw it. It looks packed.

00:26:07
Speaker 4: Were they singing in the micro just dancing around?

00:26:08
Speaker 1: They were just dancing, But my child, once I got her off the stage Becausehina was about to perform again. She performed Apples and Ocean was digging it. Because she gets off the stage, comes to her mama, grips the couch cushion and starts whipping her hips around. Fam bam bam. I was like, what where did you learn that? And then I think about when we're dancing in the room, I only know how to just kind of like move my hips back and forth. You know, there's not much happening in the back, so it's just left right, left right, And she she was freaking killing it. Man hands in the air.

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Speaker 4: H Oh, that's hilarious.

00:26:51
Speaker 5: So she has to do balet, hip hop, jazz, all of it, all of it.

00:26:54
Speaker 1: Okay, No, she's a real freaking star. Speaking of being a star though, I saw it. So Lisa comes out the other day and she's like, why did you hear that? Disneyland struggles when Taylor Swift is in town for a performance or a concert or her tour, because Taylor Swift and Disneyland have the same demographic. They notice a decline in ticket sales and obviously people going, which obviously ticket sales reflect how many people to show up. But they notice that it's not as hefty of a crowd when Taylor Swift is around.

00:27:34
Speaker 2: They said that this has been their slowest summer due to her.

00:27:38
Speaker 5: Her allegedly allegedly Taylor, congrats.

00:27:43
Speaker 4: That is you are a actual boss that's.

00:27:47
Speaker 2: Ripping from Walt Disney. You're doing something right.

00:27:50
Speaker 4: You're doing something right.

00:27:52
Speaker 1: It's fully insane, but it does make sense. Yes, yes, kids are going on a vocal ride, baby. I mean, that's how I feel about it. And I love the fact that Taylor Swift is like sitting here talking about like real life things. I'm down for Disney, down for Taylor Swift, especially when you think about the world we live in and the music that I listen to as like a child. By the way, if I'm looking over here during this video, it's because he since friends are over here, and I don't want them to feel left out. But like the music I was listening to a long time ago, it's like, probably not the healthiest of music to be listening to in your formative years.

00:28:29
Speaker 4: It's just not so slow motion juvenile.

00:28:33
Speaker 1: Yeah, it's exactly right. Nelly in his music video where he's literally swiping black cards through asses, assholes, I know that's that's a bucket for me. What it's a bucket, it's honestly that a black card in an ass bend over. Just do it to yourself.

00:28:54
Speaker 2: No, it's got to be something prettier.

00:28:58
Speaker 1: But that's and I loved it and I still love it. But it's like the time, like the age in which you should be listening to those things. So when I see my daughter freaking out to like pink Taylor Swift, dig it, I want that to last forever. Because I had breaking news come through my phone that drug use and alcohol are at an all time high in the United States, and it made all the sense. It made all the sense because I went to a party. Yes, I left my house and guess what what? And it was during the day, like daytime vibes. What world do I live in where it's four o'clock and you guys are getting like ripped? What is this incessant need to like not be in reality? I'm like, God, we're gonna get bumped up. Probably. It's like really sad to me.

00:29:50
Speaker 5: I'm actually shocked it said an all time high because hello, the seventies, Like, was that not the all time high for drug use.

00:29:58
Speaker 1: At I don't know. How do you feel about that? Do you feel like they just like they didn't maybe make records the way they do now, they don't applord things as thoroughly, or do you think they're just trying to freak us out.

00:30:09
Speaker 4: I have no idea.

00:30:10
Speaker 5: Maybe it's like a different Maybe seventies was more like much like shrooms and wet I don't know, But to me, I think of the seventies and I'm like, that's when people, all day, all night, we're on drugs.

00:30:21
Speaker 4: I don't know. Maybe I'm wrong, Maybe I'm wrong. Obviously I'm wrong.

00:30:24
Speaker 1: I feel like it's a different type of thing. I feel like back then it was used as like true recreation. Obviously, addiction has existed forever. In my mind, it's like back then, you go out to a party, you're having good time. Now I feel like it's truly an escape. There's so much happening all the time. We are being fed information in seconds, something new. You can't even process what you just read because like that you're already having to process something else. On top of going through social media and seeing everyone live the dream, and it's a lot. You're like, I have to escae because I cannot process like as quickly as I'm getting the information.

00:31:04
Speaker 4: I think that's a great point, the escape and the.

00:31:08
Speaker 5: Quicker release of dopamine, because I did read recently that our dopamine receptors are becoming exhausted because everything on social media, the likes this and that triggers dopamine triggers, and they're it's getting triggered quicker and more often. That our dopamine receptors are becoming exhausted and we need more and more and more to be feel that happiness because that's what dopamine is.

00:31:31
Speaker 4: So I think that's a great point.

00:31:32
Speaker 5: It might be either the escape or literally just looking for your next like happiness.

00:31:38
Speaker 4: Yes, Hi, Yeah, it's just a weird world.

00:31:40
Speaker 1: So if Taylor Swift can keep Ocean in like this happy, little innocent bubble for as long as possible, I'm gonna be really thrilled about that. Because when I went to that party read what I had read about that breaking news about alcohol and drugs, I was like, Ocean is never leaving the house. No, she will not, story Bob. No, she also can't get in the ocean because I'm afraid she'll be eaten by a shark.

00:32:05
Speaker 4: Well this season.

00:32:07
Speaker 1: Yeah, it's terrifying. Anyway, did you guys watch Housewives at all? I know that this episode, y'all were going to be a little bit behind, but I still want to talk about it, and then at some point we will be like up and popping and in real time. Did you watch Ronnie?

00:32:25
Speaker 4: I did watch Ronnie.

00:32:26
Speaker 1: Tell me about Ronnie?

00:32:27
Speaker 4: Did you watch Ronnie? No?

00:32:28
Speaker 1: The last episode I watched was when they all went to the renewal, the vow renewal for Aaron and her husband.

00:32:36
Speaker 5: Right, So I watched Ronnie, and it's the episode after that that we're on or that I'm reviewing right now, and it was Aaron ended up confronting Brinn about I'm gonna say this without any emotion behind it, but about like flirting with her husband, which you know what, I know A lot of people were like, yes, that was inappropriate.

00:32:58
Speaker 1: Are people saying that?

00:32:59
Speaker 5: I saw a few comments like yeah, it's her anniversary. Her kids were there that were on Aaron's side, But it's like.

00:33:05
Speaker 1: She didn't say it to the kids. She didn't say, hey, kids, no, when daddy divorce is mom, you're gonna be calling me mom?

00:33:12
Speaker 5: And all of yes and all of the women too, were like, Aaron, what are you talking about?

00:33:16
Speaker 4: That's Brynn. She was being her briin self. It's just it was funny, relaxed, I was.

00:33:21
Speaker 1: It was hysterical because she was talking about the giant rock that he just gave Aaron. It was less about like I'm gonna come in and seal your man. She's like, I want the cool jewelry, so like, hit me up. It doesn't work out.

00:33:32
Speaker 5: It was funny, and we found out Jenna Lyons was her birth given name or whatever is Judith?

00:33:40
Speaker 4: Did you know that?

00:33:40
Speaker 1: No?

00:33:41
Speaker 5: So it's Judith and it's and she changed it in college because she never felt like a Judith.

00:33:47
Speaker 1: She doesn't look like a Judith.

00:33:48
Speaker 4: I'm teraphrasing.

00:33:49
Speaker 1: But by the way, anyone named Judith is expensive as a guest.

00:33:53
Speaker 5: No, that's why I was like, but apparently she in college her professor was like, does anyone have a nickname?

00:33:59
Speaker 4: And she was like, now's my chance.

00:34:00
Speaker 5: And all that came to her head was the fact that her brother used to tease her and call her Jenna Jenna Genitalia, and so she was like Jenna, which is like, good for her for being vulnerable and She's like telling this during a casting for her Lashes, and she's like being vulnerable in front of her friends on the cast, but also in front of this like new woman, and it was just a really sweet moment.

00:34:25
Speaker 4: I love that. I love her opening up. She talks a little bit about her breakup.

00:34:28
Speaker 5: Of course she isn't specific with who it is, but just she gets vulnerable and emotional and it was very nice, and that's really the main I'm sure I'm missing things.

00:34:37
Speaker 1: Has it changed your view on Aerin at all? I?

00:34:40
Speaker 5: Ah, I hate I love all the women, but I'm a little bit like Aaron, come on, because I light lighten up Aaron.

00:34:50
Speaker 4: Oh and the other thing.

00:34:52
Speaker 5: And this is just a me thing, but I want to know how you feel about now. They call her out again or the name is Lee my mind, you guys know. She gets called dead out again about not having enough food or not having enough options Erin at her anniversary part it was just pigs in a blanket who left early?

00:35:09
Speaker 4: Why is the name? It wasn't Si? Si leaves early. She's like, I was hungry.

00:35:14
Speaker 5: She gets called out again for it, and she was like, you had pigs in a blanket. I'm vegetarian, and I'm like, everyone's like relaxed, y, like you're good. Maybe you're an adult, you should have eaten something before you went to the event. But I'm like, no, if you're gonna have an event, have food there, like have food.

00:35:32
Speaker 4: There for everyone.

00:35:33
Speaker 5: And that is maybe just a me thing because I grew up in a family where it's like there was just food just like everywhere. Every Sunday, family and friends stopped over. Everyone was fed all the time, and that's how we socialized. So I get a little like, if you're gonna have an event, yes, like have food there. And so that was another thing that was turned me off, like arin you should have had more options.

00:35:57
Speaker 1: No, I think if it's around dinner time, you need to have a meal, and if it's later, you have to have like a plethora of snacks options. Pig's in a blanket, you could do like the little caviare on the pancake. You could do so many different things that are so easy, just like little finger foods, right, little chicken tenders like or whatever that say said she's vegetarian. There's plenty of vegetarian options that you have to take into consideration. I highly doubt that Si was the only person who was a vegetarian there, and she's definitely not the only one who's like, where's the food?

00:36:30
Speaker 4: Where's the food? And it's like a it wasn't a backyard cabin party.

00:36:34
Speaker 1: This was a luxurious No, it was glamorous.

00:36:37
Speaker 5: Have the food, Like, just spring for more food if it's not going to be sponsored or whatever. It's like most of the event that was like a joke, or.

00:36:45
Speaker 1: Like ask Cy because she's like the spaw con queen. She gets like all this stuff for free. It's like what she does for a living. Yes, she actually makes mad money off of it. What annoyed me is anyone trying to say that I leaving that event was anything like Jenna leaving the Hamptons. That was like an intimate gathering. The only thing Sy, oh Jenna was or Aaron was like, hey, by the way, snuck out, beautiful party. I love you talk tomorrow. I don't need to come find you. In a room full of hundreds of people very different situations and the sister rolling up on them being like, you guys need to stop talking. It's like, well, maybe don't have four hundred speeches. Let me be very clear. And this is gonna make me sound like I hate love, but I don't. But when you get married, I'm letting you know no one gives a shit but you. And when you get remarried, then people really don't give a shit except you. No one needs to hear your backstory and speeches given it's so boring, it's fun for you to hear. Have like a little night with everyone who just talks about you. Who wants to write speeches? Don't make an entire room. Have a cap for your wedding. Your people a part of the bridal party and groomsman party or whatever it's called. See, I don't even know what are they. Groomsmen rooms? Yeah, like a cap, you know, like no longer than a minute. And please don't have multiple people. The maid of honor and the fucking what's the guy? What's the main guy? The best man. They're the only two people that get to speak. Mom and dad can say a quick something, but not each of them. They write it together because no one cares.

00:38:34
Speaker 3: No man like I who wants to talk for more than thirty seconds. I'd have been like, I met this dumb ass X, Y and Z and he's ambastard.

00:38:43
Speaker 1: Yeah, I want to say. I want to say. They had five speakers and it was pages and bread made a comment or someone made a comment. Jenna, there's like pages upon pages. This one person has four pages. No one cares about your love story. I know, I know it's hard to hear.

00:39:03
Speaker 2: Instead of a page, it's a paragraph.

00:39:05
Speaker 1: Yes, get her done, Let people drink, let people talk. That's when they leave and they go, you know what, this couple's fucking awesome because they didn't make me suffer through their freaking love story.

00:39:16
Speaker 4: And then yes, the.

00:39:17
Speaker 2: Longer it is, it's like you're selling it on, like we are in love. Listen to how long?

00:39:21
Speaker 3: And why it's not selling anyone on this shit, sweetheart, Just get it done.

00:39:26
Speaker 5: And then her having to be like whoa wa, whoa everyone's talking quiet down back there.

00:39:29
Speaker 3: It's like, well read them cares, buddy.

00:39:33
Speaker 1: And also then then the sister's hair lit on fire.

00:39:38
Speaker 2: I think.

00:39:40
Speaker 1: It looks like the same person to me, full flamage. I was like, Karma is alive and well at this party.

00:39:51
Speaker 4: That was horrifying?

00:39:52
Speaker 2: Was it the one who told everybody the quiet down?

00:39:55
Speaker 1: It looks like it to me, but I keep looking here. I feel like my friends are in the room. They are give them a little something something, write in and tell me if it is the same, if it is Aaron's sister. Yeah, I forget.

00:40:06
Speaker 4: But I did see the That was a big flame too.

00:40:08
Speaker 1: It was huge. The fire department could have come.

00:40:12
Speaker 3: A lot of hairspray in it, just a lot of hair and product.

00:40:16
Speaker 5: But not as much as because if that were my hair, let me tell you something, I would look like.

00:40:20
Speaker 4: Hades from Hercules.

00:40:22
Speaker 1: Why do you have a lot of product?

00:40:23
Speaker 4: Not now?

00:40:24
Speaker 5: But if I had my hair done and curled hairspray, it would have gone up. My whole head would have been a flame. So I saw hers and I was like, oh my god. And then it went out.

00:40:33
Speaker 1: I just must have been oh my gosh.

00:40:35
Speaker 4: But it was great. I love Ronny smell.

00:40:38
Speaker 1: After that, and then they're like they come by, they're like burnt hair and would you like a pigs and blanket, like a toilet throw up? Please my god, dead animal and burnt hair.

00:40:52
Speaker 4: Oh I was ready to go.

00:40:55
Speaker 1: Well yeah, and they were all talking about and I was like, that's where I would go. Can they talk about Noboo and going there? Yeah?

00:41:02
Speaker 4: They yeah, to get food because they were hungry.

00:41:05
Speaker 1: Not catch the elevated version. Right, there's no Easton, there's no winning when it comes to being Erin. I feel she's got a loosen up. Love her so much, love all of them, but like I'm starting to see little sides. Bryn is a star.

00:41:23
Speaker 4: Brin's a star.

00:41:24
Speaker 5: And can I clarify I didn't say the sponsor thing to be shady.

00:41:27
Speaker 4: Wasn't that a joke on the show?

00:41:29
Speaker 5: Like they were joking they Aaron or Brynn said, did you see the invite?

00:41:33
Speaker 4: It looks like Coachella.

00:41:34
Speaker 5: Because it said did you remember that part? It was like party sponsored by? And it was like a whole Aaron's party and it was like a whole list.

00:41:43
Speaker 4: That's why I said the sponsored. I'm like, if people are gonna sponsor, get food.

00:41:47
Speaker 1: To sponsor, kind of love that so much, Right, where's the food sponsored? The most important thing? People who are well fed and drunk. You got an epic party, one hundred percent. Yeah, keep the drinks and the food coming you the game. No one's gonna look around and be like, but it wasn't a fabulous ballroom. No no one cares where they end up, all right, that ship sailed when people went to college exactly. That's what I think, which is why I care about the Boogie Ballroom because I never went to college. So there's that we're somewhat caught up again. Next time will be like in real time. Has anyone watched Atlanta?

00:42:25
Speaker 5: No, but I'm gonna add it to my list. I didn't know this was one we should we should watch them all.

00:42:30
Speaker 1: Well, here's the thing with Atlanta. Okay, I'm gonna let you guys in on a little sum sum Atlanta is one of my favorites of the franchise, but I become so addicted that I cannot watch them in real time because I can't wait another week. Atlanta is the only franchise that I wait and have it build up until I'm stacked with episodes because then I don't leave the better of the couch and I just cannot get enough. It's like my most yes. The rest of them is like I can wait until next week. Atlanta no go because every episode is freaking bomb. So the finale is about to air. I think it it will have aired by the time this comes out, and then we'll recap it because I'm assuming it'll be three parts. A lot has happened. We won't talk about storylines, but just like what I gathered from life and what was going on. So Marlowe, who's a boss bitch, is dating this guy right, and I'm noticing, like it seems like a healthy relationship. She's like, he's not my boyfriend, he's my friend boy whatever you're seeing everyone have like dysfunction in their relationships or healthy, happy relationships. Then cut to Druidora. She's dating this guy, Ralph who's a buffoon of a human. They've been together for seven years. He says really really fucked up things to her. Okay, and my mind started going wondering as I was thinking about jumping into dating again, and this again is like, Okay, this is why I'm gonna do bumble route, right. It just has to happen that way because then I can put in my bio the exact things I'm looking for. No other version woman runs the show. I'm the woman. I enjoy running the show. That feels so natural to me. And also I'm the one that gets to say like you can come into my circle and then they can start, you know, doing the whole What is it called when someone shrive chival risk, shival risk, right, shivel, shriveling, shriveling, whatever that word is. I can be the one that makes the move of like yeah, welcome into my circle. And then it's on you, buddy, you open the door. Yes, best of both worlds on bumble right. Safety first. Okay, So I'm thinking about it as I'm watching Drusidora and her clown of a husband, and I'm thinking, at what point when you're dating someone, do you go, this is a red flag? I should probably not be with this person. Or is it a one time thing or is it still like three strikes you're out? Like if you see something when you're first dating them, do you go, Okay, he's maybe having an off night or there maybe having an off night. Do you get what I'm saying.

00:45:15
Speaker 5: I would I would give them them maybe having an off night. Three strikes you're out because it's like, especially if they've been single for a while, like maybe not opening your door whatever you're expecting, red flag. It's like, okay, let me communicate that's not a vibe for me. And then by strike three, but I feel like, are you in a point where you're gonna start dating where it's like the first second you see a red flag, you're out.

00:45:39
Speaker 1: Well, that's why I'm holding off on dating right now, because I am going through the motion of a healing process right and right now my triggers have lessened, but they're still there where one one thing is said and I draw a parallel and I'm like, nope, we're not even doing this. Guard is up and I place them in a box. The box is either the one that's being taken to the trash or the box where it's like, when I have some free time, we can bump peeps. The box where it's like, let's just text you feel like when I'm bored, like that's the box you're in. I don't want to be like that forever. So once I go through my healing process and not everything is a trigger where it's like one wrong move and it's like you're fucking out. I'll do the I'll go the bumble route. It'll be like a very you know, it just feels like you're people are going there to actually date and then hopefully I'll be soft enough to go okay. I have off nights all the time, like I'd be really screwed if someone thought that. You know, one thing I did was a red flag.

00:46:42
Speaker 4: Right, and it depends on the red flag because they love vomb you. Then it's maybe like a.

00:46:45
Speaker 5: Whoa woa, whoa whoa whoa right, bigger red flag of like, uh, I'm out.

00:46:49
Speaker 1: I used to be so down with dudes giving me pet names right off the bat. The second a dude I first meet him and he calls me baby, I'm like, and we're done here. Goodbye? Really yeah, don't call me babe baby boo bite oh bye?

00:47:04
Speaker 5: Interesting those I can call them boo because I call everybody boo.

00:47:08
Speaker 4: What if that's their excuse, that's funny. What if they go I call everyone.

00:47:11
Speaker 1: No, you don't, you're a man, you move different than me. No, you don't. And if you do, you're a dog. And I knew it.

00:47:21
Speaker 4: That's funny.

00:47:22
Speaker 1: There's that. Okay, guys, I want to do the the relief of the week and the ache. Let's start with the ache. Who wants to start us off? Just occur me?

00:47:34
Speaker 5: Okay, Okay, So my relief of the week, which I based on when this is coming out, I will have gone home for my sister Catherine's wedding.

00:47:46
Speaker 1: Okay, and I'm just.

00:47:47
Speaker 4: Very excited about that I get to see the fam. She's getting married.

00:47:50
Speaker 5: I love my new brother in law, and so that's my relief. My ache is more of like an emotional ache that I've varians on Saturday with an elderly man and I was leaving the Alterations place and he was just it was so hot on Saturday. It was like, I think it hit like ninety seven and there was this man standing out there.

00:48:15
Speaker 4: He had like six bags.

00:48:16
Speaker 5: I'm talking elderly, elderly probably like late eighties, nineties, and.

00:48:21
Speaker 4: You could tell you couldn't see very well.

00:48:23
Speaker 5: And he's got a full jacket on, and he's sweating, pouring sweat, and I'm I'm kind of like looking and looking around and I'm like, do I leave?

00:48:30
Speaker 4: And he goes, excuse me, miss, is there a pharmacy around here? Somewhere?

00:48:34
Speaker 5: People down there, Like I've walked twenty five minutes and they told me there was a pharmacy here and I just need a pharmacy and I was like, oh, yeah, there is, and it was closed and it was right next to the Alteration place.

00:48:45
Speaker 4: I'm like, I was right here.

00:48:47
Speaker 5: But it's closed, and he was like, oh no, and he looked so upset, and I was like, can it be any pharmacy? Is it one your doctor sent a prescription to? Because whatever there's a farm, there are other pharmacies. So I pulled up the there was one point two miles away, which was like a twelve minute walk and a two minute drive, and I tried to show him and he was confused, and you could tell you he couldn't see very well. So I was like, sir, I'll take you, and he was very I was like, let me just take you to the pharmacy, and he was very hesitant.

00:49:16
Speaker 4: He was like, no, no, I don't want to put you out. I'm like, let me take you.

00:49:18
Speaker 5: And I made up a story, but I'm going that way anyway, and I was like, my cars are here, let me take you.

00:49:23
Speaker 4: Very hesitant. I was like, please get in the car. Now that I'm saying this, I didn't kidnap this old man, but the story sounds like I'm mad because I was like, please get in the car.

00:49:35
Speaker 2: I was like candy.

00:49:36
Speaker 4: I was like, sir, get in the car. I have were there's originals.

00:49:39
Speaker 1: In the back anyway.

00:49:43
Speaker 4: So finally he gets in the car.

00:49:46
Speaker 5: In the back of the car and I put his bags in there, and I bring him to CBS and I drop him off and he couldn't see so bad that he dropped him off right in front of the door.

00:49:57
Speaker 4: And I took him out, and he looked around and started walking away.

00:50:01
Speaker 5: We were like five feet from the door and he's like, okay, okay, the pharmacy and I had to go and like and I was like where, Like what.

00:50:08
Speaker 1: Do I do?

00:50:09
Speaker 4: Where is like his I guess caretaker.

00:50:12
Speaker 5: Anyway, he made it into the pharmacy and he said thank you, and I made sure he made it back to the pharmacist and then I left because I was like, I don't, well.

00:50:19
Speaker 1: There was nothing else you could do. Join yeah, I did a lot.

00:50:22
Speaker 4: It was heartbreaking though, and I was like, where is this? I don't know, but that was my age. He made it to the pharmacy. But it was sad. That is it makes me sad.

00:50:31
Speaker 1: No, It is sad when people don't have no hat, you know, Yeah, like when.

00:50:34
Speaker 3: You see him eating alone and you're like, oh, I know, even though I enjoy eating alone most times, I.

00:50:39
Speaker 1: Know, but it is sad because when they're of that age, you know that like most likely most people have passed and then you think, like do they have kids? And it's another reason, like I want a lot of kids because at some point I'm going to most likely be alone and I need a gang of children exactly.

00:50:53
Speaker 5: And Kyle had called me during it and I texted him, I said, taking man to pharmacy, call you back and he was like.

00:50:58
Speaker 4: What what are you talking about?

00:51:00
Speaker 2: But yeah, only imagine being Kyle that one, you know.

00:51:03
Speaker 1: What gold star for you.

00:51:05
Speaker 5: No, I hate that because I've been doing the thing lately where it's like do something nice every day and tell no one.

00:51:11
Speaker 4: And I just told the podcast, but it was my ache of the week.

00:51:14
Speaker 1: You have you have a public forum where you can show people what you should go and do. And I just asked you what it was. You didn't have to share it, and I'm thankful that you did because that's an inspiring story and I'm proud of you. And you're taking the fucking gold star that I just gave you. Say thank you, thank you.

00:51:33
Speaker 3: Easton Mine or two and one again my homies coming into town.

00:51:38
Speaker 2: It was fun. We had a lot of fun.

00:51:39
Speaker 1: But that was my role.

00:51:40
Speaker 2: Well, yeah, because they're leaving. Oh okay, that's the acheu is, they're leaving. But we had fun. We went to the beach and stuff. It was like having Salt Lake come to me for a bitute.

00:51:49
Speaker 1: Oh that is so nice.

00:51:51
Speaker 2: I love that we had some fun.

00:51:53
Speaker 1: So you guys should postpone the leaving date. Trust me, I've been trying to all right, we'll I'll try to hustle. Wise, I'll show them one nipple. I'm just kidding. Shit, you know what. My My ache and relief are one and the same as well. I had a giant ZiT right there, huge honker, And I always feel that zits in that area are better than the cheeks because the cheeks are so fatty that they're really hard to pop. There's so much room for them to just like stay nice and snugged in there. The forehead bone gotta go somewhere easy to pop. This one I pushed on and then I was screwed. It was like, well, what's done is done. It's not coming coming out. It's gonna be just a bulbous yummy. I love the word a bulbous disgusting, all right. So I doctored it to the best of my ability to where it was then just flat and like a little scabby, right, my adorable daughter. So that was the the ache because we're filming and I'm like, great, I got unicorns. It going on lopsided unicorn. And the relief is that my daughter is in bed with me and says, you got a boo boo. I was like, I got a zi? What that is? And she was like, it looks like a boo boo. I was like, yeah, it is a booboo kind of you know, mommy picked and she goes, I gotta kiss it, yummy, So she Easton, it's horrible, there's nothing in it. It's cute when I kiss her boobies all the time. You shut your fussy ouse.

00:53:37
Speaker 2: Now I'm kissing. I'm kissing your zi.

00:53:39
Speaker 1: I'm gonna punch you in your dome.

00:53:42
Speaker 2: If I kitch you first.

00:53:43
Speaker 1: Okay, she kisses it. That's what we do. Sweet. She came out of my vagina. Easton, Oh God, all right, calm down.

00:53:52
Speaker 2: She kissed it so then.

00:53:54
Speaker 1: I said, oh, thank you, and she pulls me in by then I goes, it's gonna be okay, and I was like, I feel so seen. This won't take me out. I will be okay. I was like, had so much meaning and just that tiny little ZiT and the kiss combining, I was like life.

00:54:14
Speaker 4: She's already a big sister metaphor.

00:54:16
Speaker 1: For life and it will be okay, bitches all right? I love that. Wow, what a fun podcast today, wid you guys enjoy it from the back the cheap seats. We should have given them a camera because they're both gorgeous. Yes, thank you guys so much for listening to another episode of the Give Them All a Podcast. I can't wait to catch you guys next week