You Asked and LaLa & Randall Answered - Love & Marriage and Co-parenting & Babies

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Speaker 1: Hello, sugar babies. It is La La Kent and this is Give Them La La with Randall. And here we are at sir, podcasting our asses off.

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Speaker 2: We haven't left here last week, we're at sir. This week we're at sir. I think I think you've moved me in.

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Speaker 3: It's sur for good.

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Speaker 4: It's a good joint. It's the mother ship.

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Speaker 3: It is the mother ship I know.

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Speaker 1: And for those of you who are listening and don't know that, you can call us at eight sixty six La La Pod eight sixty six La La Pod. We would love to hear from you and rand We also have an overwhelmingly overwhelmingly amount Is that right?

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Speaker 2: It's not right, voicemailed Jim Tim you want to correct her?

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Speaker 3: An overwhelming amount overwhelming leave the l y off off.

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Speaker 4: Yeah, that's where I was good English class. I swear I'd done good in English class. Okay, So we want to do it.

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Speaker 1: Yeah, we want to use today This podcast will be dedicated to listening to voicemails and just talking about, you know, everything you guys want to know.

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Speaker 3: But let's talk about why we did this. So we have a lineup of superstar guests after this week.

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Speaker 2: So we got so much demand for the question part of this and I did too, that we decided let's just I mean, now we're what five weeks in, five weeks in?

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Speaker 3: Right, we're five weeks in TIM six. This is this is episode six. Okay, see, we're six weeks in.

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Speaker 2: We felt that now we owe it to the listeners of the fans who have like been cool and rode with us and didn't kick me off the podcast, that we just want to answer their questions the entire episode.

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Speaker 3: And I just think that's going to be.

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Speaker 2: Something We're not going to do a lot, but we're going to try it out and see if it works.

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Speaker 4: It's fun, So let's get it popping. Let's listen to the first one.

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Speaker 5: All right, let's go, Hi, Lala and Randall.

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Speaker 6: I just want to say, like everybody else the podcast, I feel like I'm getting to know an entirely new side of both of you, and I can't get enough. And I love seeing you too as a couple. My question is we've been able to hear a little bit about other couples like Brittany and Jack and how they met and their love story, and I would love to hear more about you too. Besides hide and bagonist.

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Speaker 4: So can you tell us more.

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Speaker 6: About the first time we met, what your first date was like, and how you went on from there. Thank you again for everything and bless you both.

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Speaker 4: Oh I love her well.

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Speaker 1: We did in our podcast a couple episodes ago dive into how Jackson Brittany met, which was super interesting and fun.

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Speaker 3: They met in Vegas.

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Speaker 1: Yes, we did, not you and I. Our first time meeting was that, sir.

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Speaker 3: Yes, we first met at sir. I saw you.

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Speaker 2: I was It was during holiday time when we're having a holiday dinner here for the company, and I saw you.

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Speaker 3: Tim was here, right.

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Speaker 2: Tim, I was, And then I saw you and I was like, oh my god, that girl's so beautiful. And so I sent my guy over to get your number because I was intimidated and intimidator drunk I'm not sure, but drunk.

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Speaker 3: What do you think, Tim?

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Speaker 4: Maybe I think a little both.

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Speaker 3: Okay, so a little both. And then you dismissed him like he was a beneath you. This is Alex we're talking about.

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Speaker 2: Yeah, our other producer was on vacation and uh and that was it.

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Speaker 3: And so then we I.

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Speaker 4: Just want to say this. He sent his.

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Speaker 1: Business person Alex over to ask me if I was an actress, and I was like, he knows me from TV. He says, you know, I like to introduce you to Randall, he produces movies.

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Speaker 4: I was like, yes, call my manager and.

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Speaker 2: I called you then, and we took a meeting because there was a movie that we ended up making, the Row, which you were in, which it was a college fun horror film.

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Speaker 3: And we took a meeting with your manager.

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Speaker 2: And then during the meeting at the restaurant, we had this connection, which was very weird because I don't think either one.

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Speaker 4: Of us thought that I forgot my manager was even there.

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Speaker 2: Correct, And to be honest, you gave me your number during that meeting. Yes, you said take my number. Yes, and actually, but fast forward, because it was the first persons one in all this, I think.

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Speaker 4: They do want to hear all of this. That's why they asked the question.

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Speaker 3: Fast forward.

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Speaker 2: Fast forward. We talked for months and months, months and months. We never saw each other again.

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Speaker 4: I got a lot of gifts from you.

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Speaker 2: Fast forward and we went and we were in New York together at the same time. Yes, and you were on Cohen and after Anna Cohen, I said let's have dinner, like, let's have this.

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Speaker 3: Dinner that we've been talking about.

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Speaker 2: We went to dinner and I thought it was gonna be a romantic like first date dinner, and you have brought your makeup and hair.

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Speaker 3: Team with you. Yes, So I was pissed off. I was not happy you.

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Speaker 4: Now, well I remember it just a little bit.

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Speaker 3: Let me just finish my version. I'm not not doing this today.

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Speaker 2: I'm not doing this ship where you correct me and do I'm not doing it. I swear patients running tim this is my version, okay, and we're six days for getting married, So it's my version, and that's how it's going down.

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Speaker 4: Okay.

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Speaker 3: The version was this.

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Speaker 2: We sat down at dinner at Towe Noah's restaurant. Mep' got a nice table right in the middle of the room. Do you remember that part.

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Speaker 1: I remember this part, okay, but you're missing a lot of the beginning, which was amazing because here's the thing.

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Speaker 4: I Randall was totally worked that.

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Speaker 3: I don't.

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Speaker 4: Randall was not my type.

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Speaker 3: I was not his type. What your type? Let's start there. Let's start because now now we're good. I knew that this.

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Speaker 2: I knew this was not going to go the way we thought it was going to go. Go tell everybody here, let's I mean, let's just get my story first.

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Speaker 4: And it's so romantic, guys, it is romantic.

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Speaker 3: Romantic.

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Speaker 4: No, it was actually it was very I just tell you real quick.

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Speaker 3: My partland last part.

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Speaker 2: So we're at how having a romantic dinner with your makeup and hair person. Yes, I had to wait till like eleven thirty to eat dinner with you because you were on the show. You get done with the show, you come over, you walk in the restaurant, you look stunning. I'm like, oh my god, beautiful. We sit down and I'm pissed. I'm like, I'm gonna get out of here within thirty minutes. Because who brings their hair and makeup person to dinner. So we're sitting there and then within like seven.

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Speaker 4: Minutes, one who's compensating them with dinner. That's who takes them to dinner again.

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Speaker 1: Again, I thought, I'm not paying you, but I will take you to dinner for figure jam.

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Speaker 2: It was awkward, but then we can talk about your relationship and how you met, so it'd be probably equally awkward.

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Speaker 3: So long story short, I am eating an eight minutes in you reach over true story, yes and grab my hand.

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Speaker 4: Correct.

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Speaker 2: At that point I felt that we had our connection back. Yeah, and I didn't even know the makeup and hair people there and within before the main course came.

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Speaker 3: Yes, and ultimately you were the main course. But before the main course, that was good. I had to go there. See that's a shit, that's prob.

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Speaker 4: That was the most amazing line ever, Jim.

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Speaker 2: I would have never said that ship for you going okay, And then you reached my hand, and then before dinner came, I went in for the kiss.

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Speaker 3: We kissed. Yes, We finished.

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Speaker 2: Dinner, We went next door to the club at tow Yep. We were just making out. It was nobody's business. And then, as you like to say, we consummated our relationship that night and we have been together ever since.

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Speaker 3: Yes, okay, can we leave it at that, please, I'm begging you. I'm begging.

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Speaker 1: I just want to say this one part, because this is important. This is important. Randall and I were texting a lot. We were not we were not in this zone of like the flirty text, but we were like calling each other pet names or whatever. And then I would get presents. Then you invite me to New York and I tell you, yes, listen because I want them to know that this universe was working for us. Oh, I say yes, and then I'm like, you know what, I need to keep this professional because at the end of the day, like I do want to be an actress.

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Speaker 4: That's why I came to LA.

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Speaker 1: And then all of the sudden, I get a phone call from Bravo that says Andy Cohen.

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Speaker 4: Would like you back on his watch. What happens? Like I was banned? I'm getting there.

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Speaker 1: I was banned from Andy Cohen because James and I got too drunk and we're cussing too much. They asked me back, and they want me to leave the same day that I'm supposed to leave with you. If that is not the universe trying to push us together, I don't know what is.

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Speaker 4: And I knew that I wanted to be with you forever.

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Speaker 1: When I took off all my makeup in front of you, I had the worst breakout. My extensions were horrible. And he said to me, you are the most beautiful person I've ever seen. And I knew physically you did not mean that you were seeing much more than just the outside.

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Speaker 3: Of course, and yes, I fell in love with you.

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Speaker 4: And then everyone was like, he's never going to marry you. And now we're engaged. We got engaged in Mexico.

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Speaker 2: Yeah, I just want to say something, How are we going to get through this episode? If we spend twenty minutes on each question?

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Speaker 4: That was a long question.

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Speaker 3: It's a big question now, you know. Okay, okay, all right, way to go. Just kiss her ass a little more?

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Speaker 2: Can I I'm mean, seriously, can we get any more kiss asses in the room?

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Speaker 3: Baby? I want to tell you something. I know I'm making mocking it and making fun of it.

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Speaker 2: You know how much I value how we met and how much I love you, and I am very, very grateful that it took a long time for us to get together. And yes, when we did get together, that connection that we thought was there was there.

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Speaker 3: And we've never been a part since then.

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Speaker 2: And yes, we've had a lot of bumps in the road, like a lot of relationships to you know, we both you know, just both of us were not perfect and in the relationship, but in the end, you know, we are getting married now, and it doesn't matter what the fuck anything anybody says or what anybody did because it's today now moving forward as your husband and.

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Speaker 3: You as my wife.

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Speaker 4: Were you nervous to propose?

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Speaker 3: Rand Oh, come on, you know I was hit just don't have.

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Speaker 4: To do that. So I want to know what that process was like.

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Speaker 3: I was freaking. I was freaking the fuck out.

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Speaker 2: So we went to Cabo and it was your birthday weekend, and that's what we said it was. And so you were like, oh my god, I never want to get married, I never want to get proposed to, and I have a birthday celebration. So we got on the plane and we got down there. I was like, dude, a loser, like somebody with no class or understanding of the world would ever propose on a birthday weekend. So I got just to manipulate you because I had to get you out of your head that you ever thought it was coming, because I thought for sure you smelled it a little bit. So I kept reiterating that all week and I was like, Babe, look you go, my nails aren't even done.

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Speaker 3: I go exactly, and I said.

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Speaker 4: I said, La, my nails aren't even done.

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Speaker 3: And I was like, Lala, get it out of your head right now.

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Speaker 2: You're not getting a ring this weekend because it's your birthday. I already planned it out when we're getting married. Fast forward to the night it was going down. When we got to the hotel and I had the whole birthday celebration set up.

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Speaker 3: That's when I started to fall apart.

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Speaker 2: And I had put the ring in a box inside my boxers, and yeah, it was rough him. And so we sat down at dinner, I would that's and we were talking about your dad, you know, he just passed, and we were talking about like the clouds, and I remember, and I was pretty calm. And as the sun started to set, because I knew that time was coming. We had just finished dinner, I was starting to fall apart and I was trying to keep it together. And once it got dark, we had ordered dessert and I was like I couldn't take it anywhere, Like I thought it was gonna have an anxiety attack.

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Speaker 3: So I was like, babe, we need to go for a walk, and you go, what do you mean? I go, let's just take a walk on the beach and then we'll come back.

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Speaker 1: Like it was like I want to see the scenery. I'm like, it's dark out, yeaide.

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Speaker 3: It was bitch black cout.

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Speaker 2: It was a bad line, but at that point I had checked out, like Elvis had left the building.

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Speaker 3: And then we started walking.

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Speaker 2: On the beach and then I had the big TV set up at screen and the couches and the small and we walked up to that. I was like, you bought into it, you go, what is this cycle? This is your birthday present? You love Friends? So we're gonna watch the first episode of Friends on the beach at Cabo.

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Speaker 4: Yeah, keep in mind, that's my dream birthday present, by the way.

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Speaker 3: And I knew you.

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Speaker 4: I was that thrilled about that.

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Speaker 3: And that's pretty good.

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Speaker 2: And that was a distract, right, that was a distraction. Right, So now I'm like melting down. But now okay, So we lay down on the couches and the episode starts, and you're happy you're laying there. I'm cuddling you. But now I'm trying why the episode's starting. I'm trying to reach into my jeans and grab the ring and it's stuck. It's stuck. I mean, it's stuck in not a good place and I can't and she's pressed up against me.

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Speaker 3: So there's no like, there's no like. And so I was.

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Speaker 2: Now I'm petrified, like it's all falling apart. Everything's falling apart. So I'm trying to think of what am I going to do? So in my head the episode starts, and then I remember I met and when it went to black right, and and I and I I put on this show, like I'd like to my assistant, dude, I can't believe you're ruining this birthday.

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Speaker 3: We're supposed to be watching friends.

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Speaker 2: But of course the video that I made for her of us and our relationship comes up. So as the video comes up with the Coldplay song, she's getting emotional, and now I know it's ending. Like within thirty seconds, let's say, you still can't get get the ring?

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Speaker 3: I still, I still can't get the ring. And now I'm like, this is all ruined.

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Speaker 2: Plus I got a guy up on a cliff about the light off ten thousand dollars worth.

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Speaker 3: Of firework, So this is all fucking disaster. And now I'm so mad. Why would I put it in my balls? Why would I put it in my jeans? I'm so okay. So here's the final part. I'm thinking, why wouldn't I just put it in my sock?

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Speaker 2: That's all I'm thinking, if I just put it in my sock, nobody, she's not gonna look at it inside my jean pants. So I am don't know what to do as it's ending. I decide right when it ends, I'm gonna fall off the couch because I'm so clumsy.

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Speaker 3: I fall off the couch into the sand.

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Speaker 4: I whip around and I'm like, are you okay?

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Speaker 2: Hurt like a mother, I mean it hurt. And I'm like, damn it because I'm old. I mean, I doesn't can't just fall off like a stunt man. So I fell off into the sand. And but at that point I yanked it out.

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Speaker 3: Of my jeans and she's like, are you okay? You know? She was like, could serve for me? And then I popped up and there was the ring, and then.

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Speaker 4: I did the read You read me the most beautiful.

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Speaker 3: Thing that you had written in about your dad.

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Speaker 1: About you asking my dad, which I had never heard that story before, and then you whip like I've been the real first.

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Speaker 2: Right before I even took the ring eye, I said I, I said, I just needed I want to tell you that, and I read the whole thing I'd written, and then I whipped the ring.

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Speaker 1: Out, and you guys, I didn't know that he was proposing until he like, no.

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Speaker 3: After the whole thing, the video, after the video, you didn't know.

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Speaker 4: I had no idea.

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Speaker 3: I didn't even know that.

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Speaker 1: Holy shit, I didn't know until you opened the ring and you were like, will you be my wife?

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Speaker 4: And I was shutting me so weird to god, you had put on this, didn't done this long speech.

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Speaker 1: I will never propose to you on your birthday, which in all fairness, he didn't my birthday September second, you propose propose on the birthday weekend, right, So I still once the ring was there, then I was like, oh my god.

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Speaker 4: I was like, is this real? Is this real? He goes, you need to answer within thirty seconds, and I was.

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Speaker 3: Like, guy about to pull the trigger.

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Speaker 4: I needed the fireworks.

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Speaker 3: To give the signal. No signal.

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Speaker 2: I had the assistant on the beach on a cell phone to the guy out on the cliff and the ocean, I mean, the whole ship was crazy, and and he couldn't hear like what I was saying because he's hiding behind the screen. So it was like a whole thing. We got it pretty much with him, like didn't the fireworks start, like right before he said yes, I said no.

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Speaker 4: The timing was so perfect, but I did say yeah. Second in the sky just lit up. I was like, oh, you are a movie producer, Like, how did you pull this off?

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Speaker 1: Because if you recall, we were supposed to go to the Bahamas, but the tropical depression happened?

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Speaker 3: How oh you No, I had to switch the whole shit. That's the other thing, tim.

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Speaker 2: I had the whole thing booked in the Bahamas on the beach. They were gonna they helped me coordinate it all, and there's a tropic depression.

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Speaker 3: I go, this is bullshit. That's so I gotta go ahead.

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Speaker 4: Coble switched it to Mexico.

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Speaker 3: It is like it was within twenty forty eight hours.

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Speaker 2: I had forty eight hours to pull together and I didn't even know if it was gonna work because it was so last minute. Mexico is not easy, I mean, and the Bahamas, like you know, they do a lot of this stuff, but like, I didn't know if I could pull it off.

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Speaker 3: But then the fireworks I saw. I said.

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Speaker 2: She didn't even say yes, I did it, and then she's like crying, and I go.

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Speaker 3: Listen, yes or no?

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Speaker 2: Really, it's really important right now, like yes or no, because the fireworks on the cliff are about to go off, and I was gonna be so pissed off if they went on. By the way, I think you thought they were for the hotel. I think you thought it at first they were for the hotel, didn't you know? Or am I making that up?

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Speaker 7: No?

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Speaker 1: Once I saw the giant ring, I just assumed like, yeah, he probably did. Yeah, the fireworks as well.

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Speaker 3: I'm glad this went on. Okay, story, let's listen and we have to take a break.

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Speaker 2: And no, no, wait, take a break. I think we should say good night for this episode.

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Speaker 3: Come back week. Okay, fine, one more question to break?

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Speaker 6: Okay, I like that.

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Speaker 5: Hi guys, this is Sierra from Columbus, Ohio.

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Speaker 8: I have a quick question.

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Speaker 9: So, Laala, I was wondering, what is your most favorite thing about Randall and your least favorite thing about Randall? And Randall's same goes for you too about Laala.

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Speaker 3: Lala, you go first.

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Speaker 1: The list would go on and on for what I love about you, and the list is short for for what I don't like.

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Speaker 4: What I love about you.

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Speaker 1: Is that you have accepted me exactly how I am. You haven't tried to change me one time, and I think there's a lot of things that I probably could change.

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Speaker 3: Yeah.

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Speaker 1: No, You've given me all the confidence in the world. And love you shed upon me on the day to day is freaking amazing. The thing that I could really do without is your messiness. He doesn't clean up any thing. It's a lot of work. That's the only thing is for you to be more.

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Speaker 3: I think we're in good ship. I think we're a good chip.

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Speaker 2: I'm not changing that because I just feel that a home is to be lived in. You feel a home as a museum. Correct, You would be fine with walking into a museum and saying this is your home. Yes, yes, I feel.

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Speaker 3: Like you should be able to live in it. That's just me. But anyway, okay. The thing I love most about you is everything. I love you.

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Speaker 2: I love the way you love me, the way you take care of me, the way you love my children, how you support my career and you always tell me how it is, whether I like it or not. I always love that about you. And you're not afraid to say what you feel. And your passion for life and your passion for a relationship.

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Speaker 10: Thank you.

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Speaker 4: What would you change about me?

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Speaker 2: Well, I'm gonna need an episode or two. I'm just kidding. Do we have two episodes? No, baby, No, there's nothing that least favorite. I really don't feel that way. Like I think that if I could put in a suggestion box, Okay, this is really you gotta be careful here, Sierra, you might have hot box.

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Speaker 3: Me here, screwed me up? No.

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Speaker 2: I think the only thing, babe, is that I think sometimes you have a hard time of letting things go okay, And I think you've worked on that a lot, like from when I met you. But I think the little things you have a hard time letting go little for days, but the big things you really deal with pretty well. But it's like little things.

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Speaker 4: Like like the popsicle stick left on the nightstand.

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Speaker 3: You're gonna let that go. Let it go, you and not only that, you bring it up.

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Speaker 1: I don't let it go because it happens on a day to day basis, So it's hard.

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Speaker 3: But if you know what's going to happen on a dayDay basis, why don't you just let it go?

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Speaker 1: Because you would think that just being like, hey, babe, could you throw this in the garbage can.

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Speaker 4: You'd be like sure and you would do it.

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Speaker 3: And I know, but isn't a home supposed to be lived in?

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Speaker 1: Yes, let's let's wrap it up before we, you know, say things we don't mean.

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Speaker 3: I'm just kidding. Now, let's keep going. Thanks Sierrah, we really appreciate it.

00:20:13
Speaker 1: Hey guys, we are back and right now we are focused on just answering your questions that you've sent to us via voicemail. So let's let's get our next question pop in.

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Speaker 5: While on Randall, I just listened to your first episode and I love it.

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Speaker 11: I'm so excited.

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Speaker 5: Of course, follow you both on Instagram, and I just want to comment on what an awesome daddio I think Randall is and just like his ability to just let his girls just be themselves and he's always like laughing with them and having a good time with them. And I just wonder how you guys co parents and how that is working for you. So love the show, Excited to hear more, and love you both.

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Speaker 6: Okay, bye bye.

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Speaker 4: I love questions about co parenting.

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Speaker 1: I just think it's really important to co parent because my older brother my mom is his stepmother, so I've learned a lot from her. She would tell me, you know, how to kind of do things because it's really hard going into a situation and becoming a step mother.

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Speaker 3: Oh yeah, you know, I agree with that.

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Speaker 2: I think that first of all, thank you for acknowledging my.

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Speaker 3: My daddy O skills.

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Speaker 2: I work very, very very hard to be there for my kids and love them, and that's a highlight of my life. But moving on to that copaaring, I mean, I think we just try to figure it out. I don't think we had nobody had a roadmap in our in any of us, And I think we hit bumps in the road like anybody would. It happens. I think it happens. You hit bumps in the road at anytime you co parent. But I think that now we're in a pretty solid place where everybody is kind of working together. And I think my I've always preached and it didn't always work, but is if you put your kids first, everything else will work out.

00:22:10
Speaker 3: And I think we all got to that.

00:22:11
Speaker 2: Place where the kids interest and making sure they're happy and making sure they're safe and making sure they're loved, and I think everybody's on the same page and everybody's working together. And by the way, don't you agree, lod You can disagree, of course, because you would without.

00:22:26
Speaker 3: Me telling you that. With me, I mean, I think that.

00:22:29
Speaker 2: You having a relationship, you know, a good relationship. Now, the two of you, you and you and their mom. I think the kids are are better off, happier.

00:22:40
Speaker 4: I'll tell you one thing. They can't hustle the households.

00:22:43
Speaker 3: Anymore, because that's what they were doing.

00:22:44
Speaker 4: They were trying to hustle the households.

00:22:47
Speaker 1: They'd come to our house and say one thing, go to our house say another. And now I looked them dead in the face, and I'm like, guess what. I'm going to tell your mom everything that went down today, and she's going to do the same when you're over there. The best thing ever, I will say, though, if anybody's in a situation where the co parenting is difficult.

00:23:08
Speaker 4: Don't force it. It's it works itself out.

00:23:10
Speaker 1: I'm telling you, like, there was never a moment like we tried to force it to happen quickly, and you know it was a slow process.

00:23:19
Speaker 4: But I would say that because of that process, we are in a great place. Does that make sense?

00:23:25
Speaker 3: It does? I'm very happy with that.

00:23:27
Speaker 4: All right, get let's go to the next question.

00:23:29
Speaker 3: Next question.

00:23:30
Speaker 7: Hi guys, this is Kelly from Boston. First off, love the podcast. You guys had me peering up on my way to work when Randall was talking about how his kids drew a world's best dad, Oscar. I'm sure Randall's an amazing father. Laala's probably the world's best step mom. But that's the side of your lives we really don't get to see on the show. Just curious if that's the producer's choice or if you guys have made the conscious decision to keep the kids out of the public eye. Wondering just what your thoughts are on sharing that portion of your lives. Thanks so much.

00:24:04
Speaker 2: Hey Kelly from Boston. My sister lives in Boston, so very cool. And my best friend Mark Wahlberg is from Boston. Drop that's my best friend.

00:24:14
Speaker 4: I need to pick up the name.

00:24:15
Speaker 2: That said it's my best friend. That's my best friend. Okay, my best friend Mark is from Boston. No, that is a really good question. I've decided I made the decision to keep my children out of the spotlight as much as I can, and it's not just the show it's really not just the show, it's pretty much any aspect. I mean, they've been on movie sets where cameras have been there behind the scenes and all types stuff, and I've really fighting as hard as I can. They're they're ten and six years old, and I just want to keep them away from all that as much as long as I can. And I just want to protect them and try to keep their innocence as long as I can away from that stuff. They already know dad does movie stuff, and they see actors and they see they see me on TV, they see Lala TV. They know what's going on. But I think I just want to leave them that part of their life completely away from it.

00:25:07
Speaker 1: I think we would feel differently if we were in control of the content that goes different to the television, But because.

00:25:16
Speaker 3: It's not, and that's hard at anything.

00:25:18
Speaker 1: It's just our job to shelter them and keep them protective.

00:25:21
Speaker 3: Yeah, we're We're always.

00:25:22
Speaker 2: I'm always and Lawa supports us because we have that conversation, and their mother supports us. We all have agreed that the best thing for the children will be to always keep them out of the spotlight.

00:25:33
Speaker 1: However, we love to post them on the GRAM because their personalities are so damn cute.

00:25:38
Speaker 3: I just knowing her own show, I.

00:25:41
Speaker 4: Can't deprive the world of the cuteness.

00:25:45
Speaker 2: Riley and I talked this morning. This is the truth, Kelly. Riley and I talked this morning. We made a pact that we are launching her YouTube channel and the next month because she really she's obsessed, obsessed.

00:25:56
Speaker 4: Okay, all right, next voicemail.

00:25:59
Speaker 11: Hey guys from study in Florida. I was just calling to see if you guys were planning on having kids as your own. It sounds like you have really blended your family well. And while I was a great step mom, so just wondering what's your future hopes.

00:26:14
Speaker 1: I like people commenting on my sobriety. The only thing that is as equally as cool as that is when people are like, wow, you're doing a great job as a stepmother. So thank you for saying that. It seems like I'm a great step mom. I really try every day to.

00:26:34
Speaker 2: Make you do And not only that, you gave up your entire day today, my ten year old wanted you to cancel your day, which I know you run around and.

00:26:43
Speaker 3: Work and have priorities like everybody else.

00:26:45
Speaker 2: In the world and you wiped out your entire day for her to spend the whole first half of the day. So you are a rock star step mom. I give you a lot of props. And in terms of having kids, I have been told when I enter the relationship that is non negotiable that I will be delivering a child into your belly.

00:27:06
Speaker 7: Yeah.

00:27:08
Speaker 1: I mean I once Rand and I decided like we're having babies. I called Stacy, Katie and Brittany and said, y'all, we need to get on the same page. We need to start this pregnancy pact and have our kids within like a year two at the max of each other. Because I need my kids to have friends.

00:27:30
Speaker 4: You know, they don't.

00:27:30
Speaker 1: They won't have any cousins that live in the same area. So I need my friends to procreate and those will be my kid's cousins. So yeah, Rand says he wants one, but I think we're shooting for two.

00:27:43
Speaker 4: Are you good with two?

00:27:44
Speaker 3: No?

00:27:44
Speaker 4: I'm good with one, Okay, so two it is next nice.

00:27:49
Speaker 3: No, we're not moving on with this, Bay. I have an opinion. I have an opinion.

00:27:55
Speaker 2: I will be giving you one child to begin with, and then we will discuss child number two, which would end up being child number four for me.

00:28:05
Speaker 4: You know what all I'm saying is my body, my choice. Do not make me lucky? You about birth control?

00:28:12
Speaker 3: Do not how many? How many kids do you have? Are you gonna have any more? Probably not?

00:28:18
Speaker 2: Okay, moving on next question, deprivingly have two children?

00:28:22
Speaker 3: I didn't say that. I said I didn't say that. I said, we'll discuss it. What is wife?

00:28:28
Speaker 1: I just keep thinking about Christmas Day? Oh there we go, no listen, and you know we're having like family time, and then London and Riley are like, well, time to go to my mom's house.

00:28:41
Speaker 4: And then my kid is four.

00:28:44
Speaker 3: Day time, quiet time.

00:28:47
Speaker 4: We're having two children right now.

00:28:49
Speaker 2: Okay, I'm not doing this on this podcast. This is not for decision. What we should do is we should put it to a vote.

00:28:54
Speaker 3: Let's have all the listeners.

00:28:57
Speaker 4: I love this. Let's leave it to the listeners.

00:29:00
Speaker 2: Let's leave the listeners and if the listeners know anything, they will support Randal.

00:29:05
Speaker 3: What they're gonna do is a working man.

00:29:09
Speaker 1: Okay, listen, We're gonna leave it up to the listeners. Do we have one child or too? You're gonna call eight six' Six La la. Pod one of my podcast producers is going to listen and the next podcast next, week she's going to deliver to.

00:29:24
Speaker 3: Me what the we're really taking a vote.

00:29:27
Speaker 4: Of one kid or is that's how it's going?

00:29:30
Speaker 3: Down this is not, binding Because i'll tell you. Why it's not. Buying, okay it's.

00:29:33
Speaker 2: Rigged first of, all nine hundred thousand of these people are your.

00:29:37
Speaker 3: Fans about eleven are?

00:29:39
Speaker 2: Mind so to all my fans out, there all eleven of, you call in and you know which way to.

00:29:45
Speaker 4: Vote, Okay i'm so done with.

00:29:47
Speaker 1: You all, right let's take a short, break and in that, Break i'm gonna Convince randal to give me two children and we'll be right.

00:29:54
Speaker 3: Back wait before we do, THAT i just want to SAY i didn't say no to. TOO i said we'll discuss.

00:29:57
Speaker 4: It, okay off the, Break so you're telling me there's a chance off.

00:30:11
Speaker 1: We are back with our voicemail. Podcast that's the direction we're going.

00:30:17
Speaker 4: TODAY i love. IT i love it, Too so let's get them popping.

00:30:19
Speaker 3: AGAIN i get to talk. More it's the only Episode i'll ever get to.

00:30:22
Speaker 8: Talk, Hey lala And, randall my Name's erica AND i just listen to your, podcast And i'm.

00:30:29
Speaker 12: In love with it BECAUSE i refuse to pay for cable and SO i gleam onto anything REALITY tv THAT i can find in any other.

00:30:39
Speaker 2: Methods so it's really.

00:30:41
Speaker 5: Nice to Meet.

00:30:43
Speaker 8: Randall and WHAT i want to say is or Ask i'm, sorry is Does randall always talk so?

00:30:49
Speaker 12: Much because longa you can really get a word in, Edgewise even THOUGH i totally Agree randall has a really sexy.

00:30:59
Speaker 5: Voice congratulations on.

00:31:01
Speaker 12: That it's, Amazing BUT i didn't think he was going.

00:31:04
Speaker 11: To talk that.

00:31:04
Speaker 5: Much so that much really nice to get to know You. Randalls SO i like that And lala your.

00:31:11
Speaker 3: Gorge love you from the Midlest, okay.

00:31:15
Speaker 4: First of, all, Okay, erica you're. Amazing.

00:31:17
Speaker 3: Erica first of, all you talk as much AS i. Do that question was like a. Monologue but by the, Way.

00:31:21
Speaker 2: ERICA i talk a, lot you AND I you AND i would have a fun lunch.

00:31:25
Speaker 1: Together you guys would have the best. Lunch it would be about four. Hours and, Yes, erica actually he talks a. Lot like for, me it's crazy Because i'm the one on REALITY, tv but like the life that we live is for sure The Randall.

00:31:41
Speaker 4: Show do you. Agree, yes you think it's The Randall show as.

00:31:44
Speaker 2: Well, no it's not really The Randall. SHOW i would like to be The Randall, show but it's definitely The Laalas. Show but, Yeah i'm. Him that's a little.

00:31:52
Speaker 4: Bit you talk a, lot BUT i like.

00:31:55
Speaker 1: IT i, MEAN i encourage people to talk a, lot and it's a, podcast so if you're not going to, talk.

00:32:00
Speaker 4: Then we shouldn't be doing.

00:32:02
Speaker 3: This, okay let's answer the. Question. Though let me respond to.

00:32:05
Speaker 4: That What erica is, saying is you talk a? Lot do?

00:32:08
Speaker 3: You or was?

00:32:09
Speaker 4: It did that ding your ego so you don't.

00:32:10
Speaker 3: Want to talk? ANYMORE i think That, NO i think ding my little ego a little. Bit.

00:32:15
Speaker 2: No the reality IS i have a lot to say in my real life every. Day i'm just not used to being in the. Spotlight SO i think this is a platform for me to be able to be comfortable. Talking And i'm talking to, you and when we are, TOGETHER i probably do a lot of the.

00:32:29
Speaker 3: Talking But i'm not as. SCARED i, MEAN i THINK I i, THINK i, YEAH i probably.

00:32:35
Speaker 2: Talk if we were going to split up the, Percentages i'm probably eighty percent your twenty, Percent and THEN i get mad when you, talk BECAUSE i want to keep going like you're about to talk right, now But i'm trying to talk over.

00:32:44
Speaker 3: It.

00:32:44
Speaker 4: Yeah, no it's for Sure The Randall.

00:32:46
Speaker 3: Show, yeah BUT i like. IT i know you.

00:32:48
Speaker 4: Don't all, Right next next Voicemail.

00:32:50
Speaker 6: Hi while On.

00:32:51
Speaker 9: RANDALL i love your. Podcast it's such a great way to get to know both of you.

00:32:57
Speaker 11: Better and you.

00:32:59
Speaker 9: Guys are definitely doing. Amazing i'm totally looking forward to Every. Wednesday and my question is For. LAALA i just kind of wanted to know what was the process she took to start her cosmetic.

00:33:13
Speaker 5: Line, Thanks, uh the.

00:33:14
Speaker 4: Process So i'm gonna be completely.

00:33:17
Speaker 1: Honest, OBVIOUSLY i have a leg up when it comes to starting a brand BECAUSE i have a, platform which is Vander Pump. Rules so a company had reached out to me to do a. COLLABORATION i, Said i'm not interested in collaborating with, anybody But i'm interested in having, you you, know give me my own line called give Them La La, obviously so they committed to giving me my own. Line and WHEN i say, they it's a manufacturer who does all of these lipsticks and highlighters and. FOUNDATIONS i wanted to start with just. LIPS i came out with six lip colors AND i got to pick the. COLORS i got to choose the consistency and the texture of, everything and people were obsessed with. It thank you for everyone who has Purchased give Them Lalla.

00:34:08
Speaker 4: Beauty and we were at.

00:34:10
Speaker 1: Six lip glosses and ventured into over fifty products and now you guys have given me the means to expand the line even.

00:34:19
Speaker 4: More Which i'm so excited.

00:34:21
Speaker 1: About so that's kind of How Give Them La La beauty came to. Be IF i didn't have the platform THAT i do, Have i'm the type of person who will bang down every single door UNTIL.

00:34:36
Speaker 4: I get WHAT i. Want so that would be my advice to.

00:34:40
Speaker 2: YOU i think that people should take away from that that you are like even though you have a platform and you have it makes it a little easier for.

00:34:48
Speaker 3: You you fight for every dollar that you.

00:34:51
Speaker 1: Of, course BUT i also you, know it gets annoying when you see these like famous people out in these streets and they're, like.

00:34:57
Speaker 4: Oh i'm a billionaire because it worked really.

00:35:00
Speaker 1: Hard it's, like, no, Bitch, like, yeah you work damn, hard but like at the end of the, day you had.

00:35:06
Speaker 4: You were a few steps ahead of. Everybody So i'm owning that, right you, KNOW i don't want.

00:35:12
Speaker 2: People, yes you had a leg, up but, law there's a lot of people that started a lot of cosmetic lines that don't have the success you.

00:35:18
Speaker 3: Have so to credit to you all the. WAY i, SEE i see what you.

00:35:22
Speaker 2: Do you're testing, lipsticks you're coming up with, Names you're, On you're on endless amounts of conference calls With New york all the, time talking about your, launch talking about your, brands talking about your.

00:35:32
Speaker 3: Markups SO i give you a lot of.

00:35:34
Speaker 4: Credit thank, you, Baby.

00:35:36
Speaker 7: Hi lala And randall first of bla La.

00:35:38
Speaker 11: LA i love you and your unfiltered. Opinions love, it saw The.

00:35:44
Speaker 8: Irishman randall loved.

00:35:45
Speaker 6: It boo on people who don't like.

00:35:47
Speaker 9: It it's because they don't have any. Taste i'm just curious.

00:35:51
Speaker 5: What your favorite thing about filming is and your favorite thing about not filming?

00:35:57
Speaker 7: It thank you, bye that's a good.

00:36:00
Speaker 2: QUESTION i Loved Team, irishman and thank. YOU i wish you were An academy voter because maybe we would have. Won but, No look it sucked that we. Didn't you know that we went over. Ten that was a rough. One but you, know so my favorite thing about, filming you know. EVERYTHING i love walking on the. SET i love seeing all the. People you work really.

00:36:20
Speaker 3: Hard it's, okay we had a lot of noise around.

00:36:23
Speaker 2: This NO i love walking on the. SET i love seeing one hundred. People you know that you worked. Hard you started with a, script you hired a, director you cast the, movie and now everybody's a. Team and for, me that's the best part of the film is that it takes an army to make a, movie and that it's just such a high to be part of a big, machine, Right and it takes every single.

00:36:45
Speaker 3: Person you know that.

00:36:45
Speaker 2: LOT i, mean it takes every single person on a movie, set including all the behind the, scenes editor editorial and all that.

00:36:51
Speaker 1: STUFF i went to the set with you Of, irishman And i've never seen anything like. It marty was literally behind the, camera movie extras, around like even the extras are a huge part of the.

00:37:05
Speaker 3: Thousands he has thousands of.

00:37:06
Speaker 2: Thousands it was our budgets are budgets are like twenty one of. Them their budgets are like a. Thought, yeah and the worst part of, filming you know, WHAT i don't have a worst part BECAUSE i love every. Aspect the hardest THING i would say about making a movie would being away from. Home that that probably The that's probably the Only AND i don't want to even complain because you get to be part of something, amazing but being away from home is the shitty. Part but when YOU i don't think anybody has the right in our industry to complain because making a movie is a privilege and being part of a film is a.

00:37:39
Speaker 4: Privilege that was a great, Answer.

00:37:41
Speaker 1: RANDALL i love you're so passionate about your work AND i really love that about.

00:37:45
Speaker 3: You thank, You, Betch you're.

00:37:46
Speaker 1: Welcome thank you everybody for listening and calling, in and thank you Sir restaurant for hosting our podcast. Today if you can hear all that, noise you're.

00:37:56
Speaker 4: Welcome you're in.

00:37:56
Speaker 3: The room with. Sir thank You lisa Vander.

00:37:59
Speaker 1: Pomp and we look forward to sharing more goods with. You remember we air Every. Wednesday thank you so much for, listening and we will talk to you.

00:38:07
Speaker 4: Soon hey, guys my name Is.

00:38:10
Speaker 5: Free i'm a huge.

00:38:11
Speaker 10: FAN i just wanted to let you guys know That i'm a bartender AND i find myself now On wednesdays just getting super agitated when the last guests won't leave the, bar because the first THING i do when the last person's gone is throw on your podcast and listen to, it and it helps gud you through my. Clothes so keep doing what you guys are. DOING i you guys are super entertaining and just absolutely loving the podcast so far.

00:38:35
Speaker 1: Here thank you so, much my. Loves to everyone who has already called in to leave us, messages please keep them coming because we love hearing from.

00:38:43
Speaker 4: You call us anytime at eight sixty Six La La. Pod that is eight sixty Six La La. Pod i'm mother effing love you