Be True to You | Golden Hour

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Speaker 1: We're back.

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Speaker 2: Welcome back to Bachelor Happy Hours Golden Hour with Kathy and I.

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Speaker 1: Thanks for joining us.

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Speaker 3: Okay, Susan, I gotta say, if people have not listened to our episode from Wednesday yet, they really need to check it out. I mean, we had Blake Moins on the podcast, and I don't know, I'm thinking about really going a whole lot younger. What about you?

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Speaker 1: Oh my gosh, he was so cute. He was so cute. What a great guy.

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Speaker 3: I mean, what he's doing to save the planet and his conservation efforts with endangered species is amazing. Guys, if you have not listened to this podcast, you really need to. He will really give you hope for the future.

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Speaker 1: And we were seriously flirting with this poor kid.

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Speaker 3: I don't know about you, but I was kind of seriously hoping he was interested in older women a lot.

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Speaker 2: And you know what I liked about him, Kathy, He he was true to his word and even when looking for a relationship, he tells them exactly what he's doing. He does want a family and children. At first, I was like, how are you going to get a relationship flying off the Africa to play with the animals or save the planet or the animals. But he said he was only gone for a few weeks at a time, so there is a chance, and hopefully he'll find somebody that's just as enthusiastic about.

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Speaker 3: What he is. You know what I liked about him all of that, not to mention his fabulous good looks, but you know what I really liked about him, his honesty and his patience. He's patiently waiting doing him. He's doing his life. He's living his best life right now, and he's not anxious or worried about finding this person. I really felt like he thinks, you know, she'll come when the time is right.

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Speaker 1: And I love back together.

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Speaker 3: You know what, it's good to have your shit together at any age.

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Speaker 2: So how about when I talked about going to Europe or Italy or you know, all the things that I do, and he what about what he said, I'm saving that because I'm sure my partner, my person is going to want to do those things. So he's doing what his love is and he's saving that to go experience these places with his partner.

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Speaker 3: So you know what, you know what I thought when I met him, I'm holding on to you can do whatever you want I'm going on a conservation mission with him. We're going. We're going. Seriously, folks, if you did not listen to this podcast, you need to because he is an amazing young man and he is doing things to save our planet, and our planet in case you haven't notice, needs a lot of saving right now.

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Speaker 1: And the animals he's like loving, like what he does.

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Speaker 3: He told me I couldn't patter giraffe.

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Speaker 1: Well that's okay, my bucket or something.

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Speaker 3: I don't know.

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Speaker 2: But we do have some great fan questions today, and I can't wait to get into these.

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Speaker 1: I mean, they get us sometimes.

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Speaker 3: Don't they.

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Speaker 2: Kathy, and don't forget. If you do have a question for Kathy and Me, send them in. Go to bachelornation dot com slash Golden Hour.

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Speaker 3: Please do that. But first, okay, Susan, we got to do it. We're going to start with our question of the day. Are you ready, boy? Yeah? All right, here we go. When you're in your golden years, whenever you get there, Susan, and you find someone you want to spend the rest of your life with, do you feel it's necessary to get married? Oh?

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Speaker 1: God, who cares?

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Speaker 2: As long as I find them? That marriage is a piece of paper. I think I don't know. At my age, I don't think that's as important. I mean, I would like to have the ring to say that I am taken, you know, But no, I don't think it's all that mess.

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Speaker 3: Sorry, Susan. Do you know how do you know how you always tell me that I'm long winded and I don't answer questions shortly. In short? Do I feel it's necessary to get married?

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Speaker 1: No, okay, I don't.

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Speaker 2: I mean, that's the fastest she's ever I repeat, the fastest she's ever.

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Speaker 3: But seriously, I mean, we've raised our kids, we've we've bought our homes, we've had our careers. I want you and I both want not the same guy, but we both want to find it. Well, yeah, either do. I don't.

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Speaker 1: I don't buy that, my house, my food.

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Speaker 3: But if I find a man, you're taking your dollies and going home, I promise you. I'm just saying it's it's not necessary to get married, you know, just find the guy that makes you happy and and and live your life right.

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Speaker 2: Also, Kathy, at this age, there's prenups you have to do, and for tax purposes it might be better.

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Speaker 3: But hey, can I just say the wait, can I let's be honest here for a second. This is a question that you know people have asked me. Let's be honest, folks. You know, whatever money I have when I go honestly and being serious now, I want that money to go to my children. What about you?

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Speaker 2: Absolutely? And I'm sure he feels the same way, you know. I mean, that's just a no brainer.

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Speaker 1: I mean, I talk Kathy.

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Speaker 2: There are women out there that want to be taken care of and don't have a ness stagger or they want a man to I'm.

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Speaker 3: Not a millionaire. I'm not saying that now that you.

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Speaker 2: Can survive on your own, darling, Well only if you do my hair a lot, speaking of her hair grows like a week. Can I just can I just say we need to make a hair appointment here. I'll be flying to Philly soon. All right, we can say, all right, let's go the answer again. No, you don't have to get married. Okay, So this is from listener question number one. High ladies, this is Dan from Napperville.

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Speaker 3: Naperville. I'm not sure Illinois. My wife Jessica and I are big fans of yours Golden Bachelor and Bachelor Nation. Just a fun question for you both. Do you have a celebrity crush? I know yours is Susan, maybe an actor or musician or someone you wish you could go out with. Also a dream destination you've never been to that you wish you could travel to, sending love and hoping you stay happy and healthy, take care. Isn't that sweet?

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Speaker 1: He's so sweet?

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Speaker 3: Okay, Susan? Can I guess who are celebrity crushes? Oh? Go right ahead, Bradley Cooper.

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Speaker 2: Only because I met him this weekend and he reached out and said, I'm your biggest fan police.

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Speaker 1: He is so dreamy. How about those eyes?

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Speaker 3: I don't know. I want to I want to get in the shallows with him. I want to start. I'm singing move Over, Lady Gaga. I always wanted when they did that song together. That's all I wish for is them as a couple. Oh my god, seriously, but no, he gave.

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Speaker 2: He comes up to me and he was making cheese steaks in the truck and the food.

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Speaker 3: Trinak Philly cheese steaks.

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Speaker 2: Yes, And I was in Las Vegas and he comes up and he goes to get being a.

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Speaker 3: Hug and he goes, Oh you look beautiful. I'm all greasy.

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Speaker 1: I said, bring it in, you can hug me.

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Speaker 3: I don't care. Of course you did. It was probably Cooper. I don't you know what I don't. I don't really have a celebrity crush.

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Speaker 1: I like a lot of them.

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Speaker 3: I mean, you're gonna this okay, Ba's oor Nation. I'm aging myself here when I was younger. Do you want You're not even going to believe who my celebrity crush was?

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Speaker 1: Ready, Brad Pitt.

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Speaker 3: I just said, I'm old Alan Alda. Do you even know who that is? Seriously? From mash Oh my gosh, I love it. I could see that. Oh I loved him. I don't know.

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Speaker 1: I mean my memory is not that good. I can tell you a hundred people watch.

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Speaker 3: I mean, listen, I would go. It's not to me. It's not the celebrity. I mean if he's cool guy, he's a cool guy, whether it's a celebrity or not. And a dream destination, Yeah, where would that be?

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Speaker 1: Huh?

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Speaker 3: Are you serious? Anywhere where there's a beach or mountains. Don't care what about you? But I want to go to New Zealand. I want to go to Australia and New Zealand. That's where I want to go.

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Speaker 2: I'd love to see Australia, but that flight just that's a long That's why there's so many places in the world that I'd like to see. I have a bucket list that I've done a lot of checks, and I have seen some most magnificent places. There's still a part of Italy even though I've been five times. I haven't gone to Sicilies yet yet. Lake Como, way up north. I'd like to see the Do.

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Speaker 3: You want me to send you a postcard?

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Speaker 2: Want to go to Italy, the southern end of Spain and hop over to Portugal?

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Speaker 1: Like, yeah, there's a lot of places.

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Speaker 3: I mean I would. Honestly, this sounds like a Hallmark card again. But if I'm with the person I love will care about I don't care if it's you know, at Central Park in New York or or Greece, I don't care. I just want to be with them.

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Speaker 1: Don't laugh at this, and Kathy, I think you already know this. I have never been to Niagara Falls. Right here, I low a few hours away.

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Speaker 2: I need to go to Niagara Falls, and I'd love to do it with a man because I think it's romantic.

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Speaker 1: But Kathy, you'll do.

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Speaker 3: Well. Susan, I've got a break the news to you. I have been to Niagara Falls, and remember from Canadian inside, I've been to the Horseshoe Falls, which is the Canadian side, and I'm gonna Americans do not lash out at me. The Horseshoe Canadian Falls are more beautiful than the American side Niagara Falls. But can I tell you what the most beautiful waterfalls are in the world? Isn't they call it? I don't know, the seventh eighth Wonder of the world. Who knows e Wassu Falls. It's yeah, I knew you're gonnask me. It's at the confluence of Brazil, and I don't.

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Speaker 2: Know I would have to go to Brazil when my butt was really firm.

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Speaker 3: No, no, no, no, no, we didn't go to the beach was Look it up. I can't spell it. Look up Wassu Falls. It is absolutely the most spectacular destination I've ever been to.

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Speaker 1: And going and it makes Niagara Falls.

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Speaker 3: Wait, can I just say it makes Niagara Falls look like a clean hoes And I'm not kidding?

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Speaker 2: What about like the miracles the nature like falls that just come out of nowhere and they're not a huge attraction and named, and you know, the Hawaii had some.

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Speaker 3: That I got to see.

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Speaker 2: And I see pictures on the internet and like, wow.

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Speaker 3: Don't you want to share it with someone?

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Speaker 1: Yes? I do, Pokay, who wants to go with me?

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Speaker 3: I don't get in line? The line forms behind me. I'm serious, Like that is what you and I keep talking about all these when people ask us where would you like to travel? What do you want to see? You and I could write list after list of what we'd like to see, but it's just not the same of you don't have someone.

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Speaker 2: Special, you know? And Dan, thank you? And Dan, I want to know what your dream destination was. Your celebrity is that you'd like to go on a date with. Okay, no, no, no, no no, wait, he's married to Jessica. He doesn't want to go on a date with anyone. Okay, he's married to Jessica. He has a fantasy. I'm sure you know whatever. Our next question is from Karen, Hi, Kathy, and Susan. I am almost sixty seven. Oh, she's my age and my boyfriend is the same age. I was married for thirty four years and have been divorced for twelve. I had a terrible divorce, but now I feel like I've found the guy I could spend the rest of my life with. There's hope, Kathy. We've been together for three years and see each other three nights a week.

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Speaker 1: We have a bless together. But being a.

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Speaker 2: Girl who loved the partnership and teamwork of a marriage, I want more. My boyfriend told me he will never marry again.

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Speaker 3: Oh boy, keep going? Do I just accept? And as you say, enjoy this chapter. I feel like the day will that this will come to a head. I love him and I know he loves me. PS love you too. Oh go Susan back, Oh we love it.

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Speaker 1: Okayack okay.

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Speaker 2: So, like we said on our last podcast, I believe it was, you don't have to be married.

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Speaker 1: We're sixty seven.

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Speaker 2: You're not going and raising kids again or having children for that matter. So if he's committed to you, why why worry?

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Speaker 3: I mean, I'm going to say something that's not that popular. And you and I've talked about this, Susan. I will never ever say never. But yeah, I think I just did. You never know. But here's the thing. To you and I've talked about this. It's ideal. I have my home, the guy has his home. We spend three days at his house, maybe a couple of days at my house, and then we both go back to our own homes. What's wrong with that? It's really finding the love that you want.

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Speaker 2: You definitely accept this chapter and enjoy the ride.

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Speaker 3: You know, do you know what's the most important thing? She said? I love him and I know he loves me. Wouldn't you look to hear those words? Wouldn't you look at.

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Speaker 1: Those Stop borring trouble.

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Speaker 3: Yes, to be down. Yeah, stop worrying about the marriage. And you know, is he going to buy me a ring in a house? If you love each other.

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Speaker 1: And you're having a good No, I misswearing.

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Speaker 3: The ring, but okay, I'll buy you once you can fake it. Go go buy one lot of a Crackerjack box. Are you serious? I'm just saying, enjoy what you guys have together. There are so many people who never find their person.

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Speaker 2: And also, we're not God. We can't predict the future. We don't know what's going to happen. So enjoy each minute right now while it's perfect. That's right, But thank you for writing in Yeah, Okay, this is listener question number three. Chloe sent us this. I have a one and a half year old son. He's my first child, so I still consider myself a new mother. Obviously, I love my son, but I struggle to find my identity now that I'm a mother.

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Speaker 3: To start, I don't feel like a mom. My mom is a mom, not me. I also find that once you're a mom, society looks at you differently. For example, when my husband goes out with our son, people always approach him and tell him how cute our son is, how awesome it is that he is out with our son, etc. Whereas when I go out with our son, I feel invisible in a way I've never felt before. It's like my husband's social value has increased while mine has decreased dramatically. I am a criminal defense attorney, and I have lots of things I want to do in my career that have now become harder to do as I don't have the time I used to have to pursue my intellectual goals. I also rarely have alone time, and I miss it so much. What are your thoughts on this? Did you struggle with any of this in your transition to motherhood, advice on how to adjust and relish in my current phase of life. Looking forward to hearing from you.

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Speaker 2: Oh boy, well, with that education, there obviously is a nice salary. I'd have a nanny at least for part.

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Speaker 1: Of the time.

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Speaker 2: Everybody stops and says, what a beautiful child? Are you missing something? I mean, I think it's more internally, it's in her.

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Speaker 3: What do you think, well, I think, Chloe. First of all, my hat is off to you. You a criminal defense attorney is a tough profession, and you're a mom. And I will tell you I really wanted to go to law school, and I will tell you I made the hard decision not to go to law school because I didn't think I could give my all to raising a family and being a lawyer, and so I made the decision to stay at home with my family. So my hat really is off to you that you're doing both. Having said that, it bothers me that you feel invisible. I think that being a parent is a really important role. And I think, whether we like it or not, moms always in our society are or not always, but usually are the ones that you know, take take take it for the team. You know, we're the ones that take care of the sick kids and you're doing double duty. You're a successful attorney, and I think really what you have to do is accept that you're not going to do either thing perfectly. You're not going to be the best criminal defense attorney. You're not going to be the best mom. And you know what, that's okay. That's okay, Chloe, do the best you can with both. Your child will value you. As as your son grows up, he's going to say, Wow, my mom is someone to be respected and what more could you want? What do you think, Susan?

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Speaker 2: That was well said Kathy Well said, I think she's just got to adjust to.

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Speaker 1: Be a mom. I mean, we aren't the most important ones.

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Speaker 2: I remember feeling like that I didn't have enough time to do myself. I barely got my shower, my hair blown dry, had about makeup or.

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Speaker 1: Shopping or anything like that.

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Speaker 2: It was about my baby. But that was okay. Sometimes you know.

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Speaker 3: Sometimes and I will tell you, I, you know, we talk about regrets in life. I I would be lying. I regret sometimes that I didn't go to law school. I really wanted to be a family a family law attorney, and I didn't do it, and sometimes I think, you know, Kathy, you could have done it all. But I have three great children, and guess what. Guess what, Chloe, I wasn't a perfect parent, and that's what I chose to do with my life. So again, my hat is off to you. You're not going to do anything perfectly. You're doing the best you can, and let's celebrate that.

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Speaker 1: Good for you, good day at a time.

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Speaker 3: Good for you, Chloe.

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Speaker 2: Yep, thank you for writing us. And we have question number four, and this is from Jack from New York City, and he says, Hi, Susan, and Kathy. I'm a twenty eight year old gay man in New York City. I've done a lot of grinder hookups and have dated a few people, but nothing long term. I'm very focused on my career and fitness, which does not leave much time for relationships. Recently, I've been feeling very lonely, so I'm thinking about dating again. However, I'm worried that guys will think it's a red flag that I haven't been in a long term relationship. Do you think it's a red flag? If so, how do you suggest navigating this by the way love watching you ladies on the show and been so grateful for the energy that you bring on the podcast. Well thanks Jack, Jack, you're twenty eight. It's okay that you haven't had twenty serious relationships. You're supposed to be young and free and concentrate on yourself, because if you don't know who you are and comfortable with who you are, then how could you share in a relationship. I think, just get out there and start, and you're not going to have one until you meet.

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Speaker 1: The right person to have one with.

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Speaker 3: Right. Yeah, I agree with all that says An. You know, I have a gay son, and I don't really pretend to understand the gay dating scene. I do think it's different than a heterosexual dating scene. Having said that, I don't think that just because you've had hookups on Grinder and have focused on your career in fitness, I don't think that's a bad thing. I think, yay, you, you've been doing you. You've been focusing on what's important to you in the moment, and your career and fitness are two really important aspects or should be of anyone's life. So I think that it's not a red flag unless you make it a red flag.

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Speaker 1: Yeah, exact if you're thinking it.

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Speaker 3: Yeah, if you meet people and talk about what you've been doing with your life and your career, and you're excited about who you are and what you've been doing with your life, I think people are going to find that exciting and want to get to know you. So I would say, Jack, get out there, meet people and start enjoying your life and see if your relationships out there for.

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Speaker 2: You and for all you know, there's other twenty eight year olds that also have not been in a serious relationship.

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Speaker 1: So take it easy on yourself. Yeah, and just go be.

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Speaker 3: You and and I'm with you. Tons of luck and I'm so glad you're enjoying the podcast. I hope you continue to follow us because we love getting these questions we do.

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Speaker 2: And if anybody out there does have a question for us, we want to hear it. Just go to Bachelornation dot com slash Golden Hour and you may even be featured on the podcast.

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Speaker 3: You know what, We have time for one more question, Susan, Okay, let's do it. I am currently in a long distance relationship. This comes from Shelley in Tulsa, Oklahoma. She's in a long distance relationship, and they've been together for almost a year. We met our freshman year of college and started dating immediately. In January, we found out he would have to do this semester from home for family reasons. It's been three months and I'm starting to get really anxious. He's been answering my text less and less. Before he would respond pretty quickly, Now it takes hours to get a reply. We still FaceTime pretty often, and I don't think anything has changed as far as what made him go home. So I'm not sure what's really been going on. I'm worried he's distancing himself. Should I ask him if everything is okay? He's pretty good at giving me reassurance. But I just could not sleep last night, and I hate this feeling. It's my first long distance relationship and I'm not sure i'll get to see him until fall. WHOA, I don't know what to say? What do you think? I want to tell you?

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Speaker 1: What I think?

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Speaker 3: What are you thinking?

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Speaker 1: Surprise guess who's here? Why just show up?

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Speaker 3: Yeah?

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Speaker 1: I'm not liking it. Really, Yeah, i'd surprise him.

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Speaker 3: You know they've been doing long Here's the thing. They've been together for almost a year. I think what the problem is. He's now moved home, he says. She says, he's moved home for family reasons. So, and it's only been three months. I'm thinking that he got a taste of what an in person relationship was like. Now he doesn't want to go back to long distance. So I'm thinking he's thinking, maybe I'll find somebody closer to home. Maybe he's realizing he's not going to be able to go back to school or whatever it is, and he's.

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Speaker 1: Thinking, what are the family issues?

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Speaker 3: Well, does it matter if he's not going to be able to go back to school, does it matter? That's what I'm thinking. He's starting to think, you know, I can't go back to school. I can't. I don't want to continue a long distance relationship. It's I hate to say that, Shelley, I'm worried.

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Speaker 1: I'm worried too.

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Speaker 2: I realize and once again communicate. But if he's not going to give you any I mean communication and tell the truth and show up.

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Speaker 3: Well, I mean, she said she's afraid she's not going to get to see him until fall. We're just coming into summer here, so that you know what at that age, at our age, what's three or four months? You know, it's like three or four pounds. Who cares? But but at her age, that's a long time, right, So Shelley, I'm thinking you need to, you know what, face the music and talk to him. Susan's right, communicate with him, tell them what you're thinking. And I unfortunately think you might have be prepared that it might be time to move along.

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Speaker 1: And slowing down. There's a reason.

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Speaker 2: Yeah, and some men will be honest and talk about it and it might hurt, but better to know now, and other men you might just have to figure it out or you you might get tired of.

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Speaker 1: It and you and you know, it's hard to say, because it is hard.

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Speaker 3: We've lived so long, but it's you know, we can sit here and say, Shelly, you're going to meet someone else, But heartbreak, especially if this is her first serious relationship, heartbreak is really hard.

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Speaker 1: Feel bad. That kind of bummed me out.

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Speaker 3: I'm sorry, I know. Do we have to end on that?

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Speaker 1: I mean, I wait, no, wait, we're going to play another round.

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Speaker 3: Okay, would you rather today?

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Speaker 2: Okay, They're going to read them and then we'll both pick which one we'd rather.

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Speaker 3: You got it? Got it?

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Speaker 2: Would you rather have a five minute conversation with your past self or your future self?

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Speaker 3: Are you going to guess? What?

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Speaker 2: Do you think I'd say my future self?

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Speaker 3: Right? You think I'd rather talk to my futureself?

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Speaker 2: Oh? Am, I supposed to guess what you're doing. I'm just saying what I would do.

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Speaker 3: You'd rather talk to your future self? You know what? Honestly, I would rather talk with my past self. And what I would tell myself is, Kathy, You're okay. Be who you are. You're going to be fine, build your confidence, go for your dreams. Not everything's going to work out for you, but just be you and live your life. You'd rather be future.

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Speaker 2: My future self is like, you've made it this far, sweetheart, just keep on going.

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Speaker 3: But you know what those are both good thoughts like this, all right? Would you rather? I know the answer to this one? Would you rather be a member of the Kardashian family or the Obama family? Duh, no brainer?

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Speaker 1: Hey, Chris, I'm coming over.

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Speaker 3: I mean since I mean, I'm Caitlin and you're Chris, so you know what the Kardashian I don't know. I could go either way. The Kardashians are Hollywood and the Obama family have been, you know, community activists. I don't know. I could go either direction.

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Speaker 1: Yeah, okay.

00:27:24
Speaker 2: Would you rather eat cold pizza or hot cereal for breakfast?

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Speaker 3: What do you think I would rather.

00:27:29
Speaker 1: Eat you hot cereal?

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Speaker 3: Absolutely? You old pizza? Yeah all right? Would Oh this was a no brainer too. Would you wait? I'm just gonna say. I'm going to answer this for both of us. Would you rather be too hot or too cold? There is no such thing as too cold for Susan. The girl could live in neither. Let me just tell you, guys, when it's seventy five and sunny and it's beautiful breeze, Susan is hiding out in her freezer.

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Speaker 1: I mean last seventy five, ninety five? Yeah, all right.

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Speaker 2: Would you rather always be too early or always be late?

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Speaker 3: What do you think I'm gonna.

00:28:10
Speaker 1: Say early both of us?

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Speaker 3: Yeah, exactly. It's rude. It is rude to be late.

00:28:15
Speaker 1: Yeah, but it happens sometimes.

00:28:17
Speaker 3: Yeah, shit happens. Would you rather have your heart broken or break someone else's heart? You're gonna when my heart's broken.

00:28:25
Speaker 1: His heart's really really bad.

00:28:27
Speaker 3: You know how.

00:28:28
Speaker 1: I don't like breaking heart either. I told you before it takes me a year to end the relationship.

00:28:32
Speaker 3: You know how you always say both, and I say you can't choose both? Okay, Kathy, there it is no I'm saying both. You know why?

00:28:40
Speaker 1: What?

00:28:41
Speaker 3: You learn important lessons from both? You learn important lessons from having your heart broken, and you learn important lessons from breaking someone else's heart.

00:28:49
Speaker 1: All right, Kathy?

00:28:50
Speaker 2: Would you rather have marry the person of your dreams or the career of your dreams?

00:28:58
Speaker 1: Well?

00:28:58
Speaker 3: I think for what do you think I'm gonna answer? Or you know the answer to that? I just told we already talked about.

00:29:04
Speaker 1: This podcast again. Both. I want both.

00:29:06
Speaker 3: I want it all, but I had to choose, and I chose the man of my dreams. I chose the man of my dreams.

00:29:12
Speaker 2: Would you rather live in a big city or a small town? What do you think I'd rather live in small town?

00:29:20
Speaker 3: You're absolutely right? In my younger days, big city now small town? What about you?

00:29:24
Speaker 1: It would depend on where? I don't know.

00:29:28
Speaker 3: How about city?

00:29:29
Speaker 1: How about Hudson?

00:29:30
Speaker 3: How about Hudson, Indiana?

00:29:33
Speaker 1: Okay? Next question?

00:29:35
Speaker 2: Would you rather vacation at the same beautiful place every year or a new, unknown place every year?

00:29:43
Speaker 3: I think you would rather go to an unknown place every year.

00:29:46
Speaker 1: I'd like to try new things.

00:29:48
Speaker 3: Yeap, I'm the same. Yeah, all right. Would you rather be with someone who hates your favorite food or hates your pet?

00:29:57
Speaker 1: Eh? I think he likes what I'm eat.

00:30:00
Speaker 3: I was gonna say, wait, so you would rather be with someone who hates your pet? No?

00:30:05
Speaker 1: Hate's my favorite food. I'm still going to get it regardless.

00:30:08
Speaker 3: Yes, yeah, me too. I don't want anyone. I've dated a guy who hated my two cats. You know where he is. He's not with you, He's in my rear view mirror, cho Bella. Okay, Well that does it for this episode. Thank you so much for joining us today. I'm Bachelor Happy Hours Golden Hour. We've had so much fun. We hope you have to.

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